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0:00If a woman is in her 40s and she is
0:02still single, the behavior that she
0:04typically notices from the men that
0:06she's wanting to date is the exact same
0:09type of behavior that she gave men when
0:12she was in her 20s. In her 20s, she
0:15would most likely routinely turn down
0:17dates. She would flake. She would show
0:21very low interest. She would constantly
0:22play hard to get. She would make guys
0:25chase and pursue all while never
0:27reciprocating interest. And slowly she
0:30starts to see that the tables turned.
0:32The tables turned because age catches up
0:34to everybody. And now all of a sudden
0:36those exact same men that she rejected
0:39in her 20s, these men are now in their
0:4230s and 40s. And these men all of a
0:43sudden look like a very viable option.
0:46However, it's too late. These men, since
0:49they've raised their income, they have
0:51now raised their status. They have most
0:53likely improved and done specific work
0:56on themselves that has made them a more
0:58masculine option. What happens is he now
1:01has options. And what does that mean?
1:04Despite that guy being in his 30s or
1:0640s, he is now able to date women in
1:09their 20s. Now, had that woman in her
1:1240s given that guy a chance, they could
1:14have grown old together. They could have
1:16had a wonderful relationship, but she
1:19didn't want him. I'm not here to tell
1:21you that this is a really good thing and
1:23I'm glad that things are like this. And
1:24I'm also not here to tell you that this
1:26is a really bad thing and I'm upset. I'm
1:28just here to show you what I'm
1:30observing. The advice that I have would
1:34be this. As a man, if you start to raise
1:38your status, you raise your earning
1:41potential, this in theory should give
1:44you the confidence to no longer have
1:46fear of loss. Not to mention, if you
1:48make yourself a more attractive option,
1:51you upgrade your style, you get leaner,
1:53you hit the gym, you look better, dating
1:56should be very easy for you if you
1:59commit, okay, to actually doing what is
2:02necessary to get there. Now, if you want
2:04an entire step-by-step process that I
2:06made, check out what I made for you.
2:08It's in my bio. I'm going to help you
2:09learn, understand, and master the
2:12language of women. How to cold approach
2:15any woman that you want to talk to, but
2:17you don't know what to say. Now, what
2:19I'm about to tell you, you can literally
2:22take line for line and you can just copy
2:25paste this to any woman that you have
2:27interest in. This is what you do. When
2:30you see the woman that you want to talk
2:31to, you say, "Oh, you look so good. I
2:33want to come talk to you." And what she
2:37is going to say is she's going to say,
2:39"Thank you."
2:40As soon as she says thank you, you say,
2:43"What's your name?" She's going to say,
2:45"Oh, my name's Kayla." Or, "Oh, my
2:47name's Amanda." And you're going to say,
2:48"Oh, my name's Casey."
2:51Okay? Once you say your name, "My name's
2:54Casey." You seeing anyone? That's all
2:57you're going to say. As soon as you say
3:00your name, you're going to say, "You
3:01seeing anyone?"
3:03The reason why you do this
3:06is because if she is not seeing anybody
3:10and she has interest in you and she
3:13thinks you're attractive, she will say
3:15no. If she is seeing somebody but she
3:18thinks you are more attractive than he
3:21is, she will also say no. However, if
3:24she is not interested in you, she
3:26instantly has an excuse and now she can
3:29exit the conversation. So that way you
3:32are not in an awkward position. And she
3:34is not in an awkward position. And she
3:37can say, "Oh yeah, I'm seeing someone.
3:38Oh yeah, I have a boyfriend. Oh yeah,
3:41uh, I'm married. Oh, I'm engaged." And
3:44you say, "Oh, congratulations. All
3:46right, I'll catch you later. Lucky man.
3:48I'll catch you later. See you later.
3:49Bye-bye." Oh, congratulations. That's
3:52it. That's what you say every single
3:53time. The reason why you do this is
3:55because when you're starting to approach
3:57new women that you want to talk to, you
3:59have to understand that you're probably
4:01going to have a bit of approach anxiety.
4:03So, the purpose of the first few
4:05approaches is not to have a great
4:07conversation. The purpose is to
4:09desensitize your fear. So, here's how it
4:12looks every single time. You say, "Oh, I
4:14thought you look so good. I want to come
4:16talk to you." She says, "Oh, thank you."
4:18You say, "What's your name?" She says,
4:19"Oh, I'm Amanda." You say, "Oh, my
4:21name's Casey. You seeing anyone?" That's
4:23it. The whole conversation can literally
4:26last like literally 20 to 30 seconds.
4:28And that right there is already going to
4:30start to give you the confidence to go
4:32into an approach with at least some type
4:36of framework so you don't feel like
4:37you're just sitting there stuck. And the
4:39better you get at doing this, the more
4:41confident you're going to naturally
4:42sound rep by rep. It's the same as bench
4:44pressing. The first time that you do two
4:46plates on incline, it sucks and you're a
4:47bit fearful. But then after, you know,
4:5018 months of doing it, it's a piece of
4:52cake. Same rules apply.
4:54>> Here's why. Even if you're an attractive
4:56man, all women are trying to manipulate
4:59you and basically withhold their
5:01interest. And I can show you. Here's
5:02what I mean. If you see how a woman
5:05messages her girlfriend, she's extremely
5:07communicative. Like, she likes to
5:09communicate. Okay? So go over to your
5:12girlfriend or go over to your sister or
5:14your mom or whatever and say, "Hey, let
5:16me see uh your messages between you and
5:19your girlfriends." And once you do that,
5:21right, once you see her messages with
5:24her girlfriends, you will see paragraph
5:27after paragraph after paragraph of heavy
5:31investment and sentence after sentence.
5:34And what that means is it doesn't even
5:36matter if what her girlfriend said was a
5:39good text message or a bad text message.
5:42You have to understand this. Women just
5:43like to talk. The difference is is they
5:46don't want to talk or like to talk to
5:48you. Instead, what she's going to do is
5:50she's going to use game and withhold
5:52interest and she's going to give you
5:54very short sentences to make you feel
5:57unwanted. So, what that looks like is
5:59when you message something thoughtful or
6:01nice or you say something like, um, you
6:03know, hey, I will make plans for us on
6:06Saturday. Would you like to come with
6:07me? And even if you're an attractive
6:09man, even if your SMV is higher than
6:12hers, even if technically she is in your
6:15league, okay,
6:18she will still most likely say something
6:20to you like, "I'll let you know." Or,
6:21"We'll see." Or, "Maybe, it's going to
6:24be something very short." And she does
6:26this to crush your spirit. She does this
6:28to purposely crush your spirit because
6:30she's withholding interest and using
6:32game to essentially manipulate and
6:35emasculate. This is what you have to
6:37know is women actually like to talk.
6:39Women will talk and talk and talk and
6:40talk. They just don't talk to you. Now,
6:43the thing is is she thinks in her mind
6:45that this is good. She thinks in her
6:47mind that this is okay. And she thinks
6:49in her mind that this is how it's
6:50supposed to be because that's how you
6:52make him chase. And basically, you go
6:53girl, you make him work for it. only to
6:56keep listening to the advice that all of
6:57her girlfriends are giving her, which is
6:59leaving her perpetually single. And this
7:01is how she gets to be 37, 38, 39, 40
7:04years old, single, childless. And then
7:07all of a sudden, those wrinkles start to
7:09creep in. And all of a sudden, she's not
7:10getting any of the options that she got
7:12when she was 27, 28, 29, and she goes,
7:14"Oh no, I believed the wrong things. Oh,
7:17no. I kept listening to all of my
7:18girlfriends who actually just wanted to
7:20keep me single because my girlfriends
7:22actually didn't want to see me succeed
7:24because they were all in competition
7:26wanting the same men as well. Which is
7:28why women will perpetually just keep
7:30giving themselves false advice, but they
7:32will only listen to each other. So, if
7:34you get rejected as a man, don't take
7:36that very seriously. It doesn't even
7:38really matter. You have to understand
7:39that most of them today just believe the
7:42wrong things that keeps them single.
7:44Once you as a man hit the age and prime
7:46sexual market value to be able to bang
7:49women without committing to them, you
7:51will be demonized by every woman who
7:54lived that exact same lifestyle in her
7:5620s. So what I can tell you is this.
7:58That same woman who's going to demonize
8:00you and tell you, "Oh, mister, you
8:03should grow up. Oh, who hurt you? When
8:06are you going to grow up? You know, you
8:08should really think about settling down.
8:10You're getting a bit older. Oh, you're
8:12not a very good guy. you're going to
8:14hear all this stuff. Meanwhile, this is
8:16exactly what she was doing throughout
8:17all of her 20s. All those days and weeks
8:21traveling to Europe, her trips to Spain,
8:24her trips to France, um you know, her
8:28trips to Australia or wherever, you
8:31know, banging random dudes, having fun
8:33with no commitment, constantly flaking
8:35on dates, the tables turn as she gets
8:38older because beauty starts to decline.
8:40Then all of a sudden, when you as a man
8:42have options and access, her method or
8:45her strategy is to demonize you because
8:47now you're the bad guy for wanting to
8:49explore your options. Keep this in mind
8:52at all times. She is hardwired for
8:55manipulation, and that's just the way it
8:57goes. So, I'm watching the new Alex
8:59Hormosi and Tony Robbins podcast, and
9:01what I heard literally made me want to
9:03throw up. Tony said at 24 years old, he
9:06married a woman who was 12 years his
9:08senior. So, I'm guessing that that means
9:10she was 36. And he said that this woman
9:12was married two times before and had
9:15kids with both of the guys. If you don't
9:17believe me and you want to hear this for
9:19yourself, this part that I'm referring
9:20to starts at minute 26 and 15 seconds
9:24in. And this is why corporate success or
9:27corporate status or being a good guy on
9:29paper does not get you the type of women
9:31that you think it will. Tony Robbins on
9:33his mission, on his path at 24 years
9:35old. The woman that he settles down with
9:37was already impregnated by two different
9:39dudes and replicated those dudes
9:42genetics. And this is the woman that he
9:44chooses. And this right here is why a
9:46man has to learn, understand, and master
9:48the language of women because everything
9:50that you have been taught your entire
9:52life is completely wrong. For me, as
9:54soon as I heard that, a lot of like the
9:56credibility that he has in my mind was
9:58kind of thrown right out the window
9:59because to me it's like, okay, if you're
10:01going to make a decision like that and
10:03you're going to appear as if you're some
10:05like rational, really smart dude, but
10:07then when it comes to your dating and
10:09mating decisions, that's who you decide
10:11to settle down with. Come on. This right
10:13here is a perfect example of where the
10:15saying men are in love, okay, and women
10:18are in business comes from. Because
10:20here's Tony in love and she's looking at
10:23him as a fine piece of real estate to
10:24lock down and to settle down with
10:26because he looks like he probably has a
10:27real good stable financial future. What
10:30I'm telling you is this. Women do not
10:31love you. Women love the feelings that
10:34you give them. And she is not loyal to
10:37you. She is only loyal to her own
10:39emotions. As she gets older, her dating
10:41strategy changes because now she's
10:44dating with intent or she's dating with
10:46a purpose. So throughout all of her 20s,
10:49she probably had fun with all the bad
10:50boys and all the players, and now she's
10:52looking at you as a fine piece of real
10:53estate to settle down with. Do not make
10:56that bad decision. When you are on a
10:58first date, instead of telling her what
11:00you do for a living, talk about how
11:03you'd really love to build a brand new
11:04animal shelter. Okay? Instead of telling
11:08her all of your plans for the future,
11:11tell her that you went to go and visit
11:13your mom last Thursday. you guys made
11:16tea together and then she baked some
11:18banana bread and you had a slice and it
11:21was the best slice ever.
11:23Instead of all the things that you think
11:25holds value in your mind, which probably
11:28does, you have to remember that to
11:30attract women, you literally have to
11:32bring zero real world value to the
11:35table. In fact, if you can impact her
11:38emotions, that is the value. Like that
11:41literally is the value. A lot of times,
11:44um, when guys see women date like really
11:47toxic guys and they go, "Oh my god, how
11:51is she with him? How could she ever be
11:53with him? Oh my god, how does a loser
11:54like that get hurt? No way. How could
11:57she stay with that degenerate loser?"
12:00Like you have to understand like to her
12:02since she's literally led by her
12:04emotions like the emotional impact that
12:07he brings or the emotional turmoil that
12:09he brings literally is the value.
12:12Meanwhile, you're sitting there talking
12:13about your credit score and your brand
12:15new Lamborghini and all the stuff she
12:17doesn't care about. And meanwhile, she's
12:19sitting there complaining to her friends
12:22that the dude with no job just hasn't
12:24texted back in 18 hours and she just
12:26doesn't know what he's up to. This is
12:29not nearly as hard as you want to make
12:30it. The next influencer telling you to
12:33go buy more boats and more houses and
12:35more cars to keep up with the Joneses
12:37and now you're this highv value
12:38successful stud is nothing more than a
12:41complete lie. You have been lied to your
12:43whole life about women and about what
12:45women actually respond to. Check out
12:48what I made for you. It's in my bio.
12:49It's in my description. I'm going to
12:50help you learn, understand, and master
12:52the language of women at a deeper level
12:54so that way you do not run into these
12:56issues anymore. That's the key to help
12:59you attract the women that you really
13:00want to attract and then retain her
13:02interest level in that relationship so
13:04she does not pull away and leave you
13:06heartbroken. That's why I built this. Go
13:08and check that out. It's in my bio. It's
13:09in my description. I personally think
13:11that you'll love it. I have over 640,000
13:14subscribers on YouTube. I've done over
13:15200 million views and I've made videos
13:17since I was 20 years old and I'm about
13:19to be 30 this April. Here's the advice
13:21that I would give to anybody who wants
13:23to see the fruits of their labor pay off
13:26or any man who is younger and looking to
13:28find their path in life to figure out
13:29what to do. There is three things that
13:31you're going to learn in this video that
13:33will hopefully change your life for the
13:35better. The first thing that I want to
13:36teach you is this. You need patience and
13:38persistence. This is going to be a very
13:40opposite mindset compared to what
13:42everybody else teaches today. Most
13:44people look for trends and opportunities
13:46and switching from thing to thing is
13:48going to become even more popular as
13:50social media continues to grow. I advise
13:52you to do the exact opposite. I advise
13:53you to master one thing and do it better
13:55than anybody and stick to doing that one
13:58thing until you're better than everybody
14:00at it. And because of that, you almost
14:02automatically become the expert.
14:05Patience and persistence only comes when
14:07you're willing to sit back and let time
14:09work in your favor. Number two, you need
14:11to not give up so easy. And what I mean
14:13by that is I remember being 22 years
14:15old, sitting in my apartment,
14:17working myself up into a tizzy every
14:19single day, wondering if I'm ever going
14:20to make it or if I'm ever going to uh
14:22figure this out or if my videos are good
14:24enough or if I'm ever going to be able
14:26to see success from this. I remember
14:27every single day in my early 20s, just
14:29being a total ball of anxiety, wondering
14:32what I'm going to do. I'm not very good
14:33at school. Um, I don't really want to go
14:34to college. I don't want to sit in these
14:36classrooms and learn all this stuff. How
14:37am I going to figure this out? Is there
14:38any god-given skill that I have that I
14:40can help other people with? All of those
14:42same questions went through my mind as
14:44well. The only difference is that I
14:45stuck it out and I lasted way longer
14:48than most people. And every day I kept
14:50just chipping away at what I wanted,
14:52which was to build a brand. And I told
14:54myself that no matter what, I'm going to
14:55stay the path. And point number three
14:58that I want to make is stop trying to
15:00like make it big quick. If you see my
15:03channel, it is an accumulation of 5,000
15:05videos. 5,000 videos. Okay? What I
15:09advise you to do is stay the path and
15:11just chip away at your goals every
15:12single day. Okay? When you stay the path
15:14and you're consistent and you give
15:16consistent effort, you will be rewarded.
15:19Now, most people do not have the mindset
15:22to be able to actually apply this advice
15:25that I'm giving you. Most people don't
15:27have that mindset. They want the success
15:30too quickly or they give up right away
15:32or they don't have the mind where they
15:34have built the resiliency yet to
15:36continue. You need to shift your
15:38character traits and who you are and how
15:41you view the world in order to have the
15:43success in the first place. Because if
15:44you don't do that, you have not built
15:46character foundation to do the things
15:49that I just taught you in this video. I
15:50do not want instant growth. I want to
15:53chip away at what I do year after year
15:56long enough so it's almost impossible
15:58for me not to be successful at that one
16:00thing. And that right there in my
16:01opinion is how you get ahead and how you
16:03have far more success than majority of
16:06the population. Hey, for any of you guys
16:08suffering from comparison on social
16:11media, you look at all these other dudes
16:13and you think, "Oh man, you know, I
16:15don't look like that." Or, you know, I
16:17don't have a flashy lifestyle like that.
16:19Or you look at all these hot girls on
16:21social media and you're like, "Man,
16:22there's just no way, you know, there's
16:24no way I'll ever, you know, have a life
16:26like this." And it just puts you in this
16:28constant state of comparison. Listen,
16:30you cannot fall to that type of
16:35You can't You can only focus on
16:37yourself. The only thing that you can do
16:38is you can only compare yourself to who
16:40you were yesterday.
16:42I know that this is easier said than
16:44done. I know that it looks like
16:46everybody has this amazing life and you
16:49don't. I know that it looks like
16:51everybody has, you know, this amazing
16:54dating life with all these hot girls and
16:57that, you know, everybody has these
16:59flashy lifestyles, constantly traveling
17:01with all these cars and all these
17:02houses. But you have to understand most
17:05of that stuff is completely fake.
17:09It's a highlight reel. It doesn't exist.
17:12It's perception.
17:16a few pictures and all of a sudden your
17:17perceptions change and you think, "Wow,
17:19look at that guy's life."
17:22You don't know nothing about them. You
17:24don't know nothing about that person.
17:25You don't know what's going on in their
17:26internal world. Their whole life could
17:28be a complete mess, just a disaster. Do
17:31not compare yourself to anybody. I can
17:34almost guarantee you, you're better off
17:35than most people. Stay strong.
17:39Turn off the phone for an hour or two if
17:41you need to. Go hit the gym, right? go
17:43do something productive. Like if you
17:46fall into this trap where you constantly
17:48think like, "Oh, you know, I can't talk
17:50to people. I'm not good enough. You
17:51know, my voice doesn't sound the right
17:53way or like I'm not uh charismatic
17:55enough." Well, then that's what you
17:56become. If you constantly tell yourself
17:58you're not good-looking enough, well,
18:00then that's what you think. If you
18:01constantly tell yourself that, you know,
18:04you're not smart enough or rich enough,
18:06um, or you're not smart enough to know
18:08how to make it in life, well, then
18:09that's what you become. You cannot focus
18:12on that type of stuff.
18:17>> If you actually observe modern men,
18:19there's just a massive passiveness where
18:21I think that a man nowadays has to take
18:24massive action now more than ever. Like
18:26if you look around, most of the men have
18:29no results. And it's like another day
18:30goes by, another week goes by, another
18:32month goes by, another year goes by.
18:34It's like every dude it's like he's
18:36still single, still doesn't have a
18:38family, still has no kids, um has no
18:40girlfriend, not a lot of stuff going for
18:43him. It's like listen, you need to start
18:44getting in the mindset of massive action
18:46because you never know how long you get
18:48on this earth. My dad, for example, he
18:51had a heart attack around 53 years old.
18:53Nobody knew that that was coming and
18:54luckily he survived, but like that did
18:56happen. Like you don't know how long
18:58you're going to get to live for. So it's
19:00like go out there and give yourself
19:01permission to go and get some results. I
19:03don't think a lot of guys support each
19:05other enough. Even like if you talk to
19:07most guys um and you say, "Hey, uh she's
19:10really cute. Should I go talk to her?"
19:12Your friends might even tell you, "Oh,
19:14no. It's not the right time or it's not
19:15a good time." It's like, "Listen, the
19:16time is now. The time is now for
19:18everything." Like, go and just start
19:19actually getting results. Like, do the
19:21cold approach. Do the warm approach. Do
19:23the online dating approach. Do the
19:25direct message approach. I don't care
19:26what you got to do. I don't care how you
19:27got to meet people. I don't care what
19:29you have to do. Go and just figure stuff
19:31out. start taking massive action and
19:33start figuring stuff out. People admire
19:35bold people. People admire people who
19:38are action takers. People admire people
19:40who know how to actually go out in the
19:42world and win. Which means the sooner
19:43you just adapt the mindset that says, "I
19:45don't care what my friends think. I
19:47don't care what people think around me.
19:49I'm going to do what I want to do
19:50because I think it's best for me and I
19:52want to win." If 10 other guys say,
19:54"Hey, don't do a direct approach. You
19:56have to do indirect." Doesn't matter. or
19:58do whatever you think is best for you.
20:00Because at the end of the day, a man who
20:02is actually living life on his own
20:04terms, he's going to do what is in his
20:06own best interest. So, start giving
20:08yourself some actual confidence here to
20:10go out in the world and just get results
20:12regardless of what other people think.
20:14If you're dating a woman and she starts
20:16talking to a new guy, you need to
20:18understand that you've already lost.
20:21Don't confront her about it. Don't ask
20:23her why. Don't ask her to stop. Don't
20:27try to set any expectation and say, "Oh
20:29my gosh, how could you do this to me?
20:31You can't do this." Don't do any of
20:33that. Don't get reactive. If the woman
20:35that you're dating starts talking to a
20:38new guy, you have to just understand
20:41that you've already lost because
20:44something happened along the way where
20:45she doubts your value. Okay? She doubts
20:48your value. Your job is not to try and
20:51prove to her, okay, why you're the
20:55better option. Your job is also
20:58not to negotiate desire. You see, this
21:01is what most guys try to do is they try
21:02to negotiate desire at that point. She
21:05doesn't feel the same way anymore. And
21:08at some point, you just have to take the
21:10loss. You have to take the loss and you
21:11have to realize what you did wrong. You
21:13have to move on and you have to keep
21:14going forward. And this is something
21:16that most guys are going to have to do
21:18or all guys will have to do at some
21:20point in their life. But most guys never
21:22actually just humble themselves and
21:24learn from their past mistakes. If she
21:26started talking to a new guy, there's
21:27nothing you can do. All you can do is
21:29move on. Just quit talking to her. Quit
21:32talking to her. Quit texting her. Quit
21:34calling her. Just exit. Because it's
21:36going to be far easier on your mind and
21:40your mental well-being to just exit,
21:43okay? And find a different woman that
21:46actually has genuine desire for you.
21:49Attraction can't be negotiated. You have
21:51to always remember this. If the woman
21:54that you are banging is the hottest
21:56woman that you've ever been with, like
21:59stick with me. If the woman that you're
22:00sleeping with right now is the hottest
22:02woman that you've ever been with, you
22:04will never be able to retain her. You'll
22:06always lose her. The only way you will
22:11get a girlfriend, maintain that
22:12relationship
22:14is if she's not the best that you've
22:16been with. The only way
22:20that your mannerisms, your
22:22subcommunication, everything is on point
22:26is if you've been with hotter.
22:29But if you are currently seeing a woman
22:32and you are infatuated like, "Oh my
22:34gosh, she's amazing. This is the hottest
22:36girl I've ever been with. She's so hot.
22:38I'm going to marry this woman." If you
22:39ever, ever, ever catch yourself with
22:42those feelings or those thoughts, rest
22:44assured the countdown is on and you're
22:48about to lose her and you're about to go
22:50through a lot of pain. If you want to
22:52learn, understand, and master the
22:54language of women at an even deeper
22:55level, check out what I made for you.
22:57It's in my bio. It's in my description.
22:58I have a full process to help you
23:00prevent these situations literally
23:02forever because of that. Just go check
23:04it out. As soon as you meet a woman,
23:06she's attempting to get the
23:08psychological perceived leverage over
23:10you. So that way, you pursue her in the
23:12relationship instead of her pursuing
23:15you. Here's what this actually looks
23:16like. And you have to be very aware of
23:18this because women have been miles ahead
23:20of men for the past 30 to 50 years on
23:23this. And when I say miles ahead, I
23:24literally mean miles ahead. Women are
23:26far smarter at knowing how to curate
23:29attention, having more options. Women
23:32are just miles ahead on this. Let me
23:33give you a couple examples of what she's
23:35going to do. I don't care if you're on a
23:37dating app. I don't care if you're in
23:38person. What you're going to notice is
23:41that as soon as the interaction is
23:43coming to a close, women will say
23:45something along the lines of, "Here,
23:47take my number." You're even going to
23:50hear this um amongst other women. Let's
23:54say she's dating a guy, but they're not
23:56super serious or something happened or
23:58maybe she wants some backup options.
24:01You'll notice that what she does is she
24:03gives out her number to other men. Okay?
24:06But notice the psychological framing
24:08here. What she'll say is she'll say,
24:10"Take my number." If you're on a dating
24:12app, she says, "Here, text me." So
24:15instantly, the frame that was created is
24:17the man is the one pursuing her or the
24:19man is sending the text message to her.
24:22The man is essentially hoping for a
24:24reply from her. So notice the man is in
24:27pursuit. she is the one being pursued.
24:31This fundamentally is how women get the
24:34leverage instantly from the time that
24:36you first meet. If you can flip this
24:38dynamic and you can actually mimic some
24:41of women's behavior, I know that this is
24:42counterintuitive to everything that
24:44you've heard about being as masculine as
24:46possible, but listen, if you can
24:48actually mimic some of this behavior, so
24:51maybe you give her your number and you
24:54say, "Here, message me." What this does
24:56is this shows that you essentially have
24:58the strength to walk away. And it also
25:00says, "Hey, here's my number. If you
25:01don't text me, I'm obviously never going
25:03to hear from you ever again. And that's
25:04fine. I don't really care." See, most
25:06men don't have that type of attitude.
25:09So, as soon as you start doing some of
25:10this stuff, you now as the man are the
25:12one being pursued. And the reason why
25:14this is so important is because at any
25:16given time, she has 10 times the amount
25:19of options that you have or more. So, if
25:21you don't learn some of this stuff
25:22throughout 2026 going into 2027, you are
25:25screwed. Keep that in mind. A woman is
25:27always going to try to turn you into the
25:30guy that she's about to cheat on. And
25:31here's why. Let's say you take a car
25:34mechanic. He never looks at his
25:35girlfriend or his wife and he says, "Hey
25:37baby, next Saturday, do you want to come
25:39out with me and you can learn how to
25:40change the oil?" However, what you will
25:42find is you will find that woman attempt
25:45to basically make sure that that guy has
25:47all of her hobbies. So, she's going to
25:50say, "Hey, baby, do you want to watch
25:51Dancing with the Stars with me?" "Hey,
25:53baby, will you come to Pilates?" "Hey,
25:55baby, will you skip the gym and skip all
25:57those heavy deadlifts and just come to
25:59yoga class?" "Hey, uh I know your
26:02favorite color shirt is blue, but I
26:04think you look better in uh uh red, so I
26:07got you red." Listen, whatever you're
26:09doing, okay, that basically got her to
26:13bang you in the first place is what you
26:15need to keep doing. And the second that
26:17you stop doing all that, you now
26:18basically become like like
26:22not very good. So yeah, uh check out
26:26what I made for you. It's in my bio.
26:27I'll help you learn, understand, and
26:28master the language of women. So that
26:30way you don't have to go through any of
26:31this BS. This right here was me at age
26:3420, constantly drinking, face is just
26:37completely bloated, and my lifestyle was
26:39not good. You fast forward just 2 years
26:42later, and this was me at age of 22.
26:44Most men do not understand that your
26:46entire dating life and your social
26:48presence actually changes when you take
26:50your fitness and your health seriously.
26:52Not to mention, I would argue to say
26:54that you don't even know what your
26:55actual face looks like. And here's what
26:57I mean. When you commit to getting lean,
27:00you're going to notice that you have a
27:01better jaw structure, your face looks
27:03better, you look healthier, and all of a
27:05sudden, you will naturally get more
27:07choosing signals from women. What that
27:09means is that you have to do way less
27:11work, and all of a sudden, she just
27:12thinks you're hot. all of a sudden she
27:14probably starts the conversation with
27:15you first. She all of a sudden starts
27:17flirting with you first. A lot of times
27:19what you'll even notice is that women
27:20will find random ways to get access to
27:22you. What I experienced over the years
27:25throughout my entire fitness journey was
27:26that all of a sudden random women that
27:29lived in the same city as me would be
27:31adding me on Snapchat first. Um they
27:34would be routinely messaging me on
27:35Instagram first. If I was at a bar or a
27:38house party, they would be starting the
27:40conversation first. or a lot of times
27:42they'll even send a friend over and say,
27:44"Hey, my friend is into you." So, I show
27:46you all these photos because I'm not
27:48trying to boast or brag. The point that
27:50I'm trying to get across is you don't
27:51even know what your best self looks
27:53like. You don't even know what your best
27:55self looks like. And because of that,
27:57you might be right here in a situation
27:59like I was thinking that this is
28:01permanent when in actuality with
28:04different decisions, you get different
28:06results. And when you start to actually
28:08make these connections, you'll realize
28:10that there is no finish line. Life just
28:12keeps getting better and better and
28:14better and better. And it seems like you
28:16have to try less and less and less
28:17because it's more about who you actually
28:20became. I advise you to take this even a
28:23step further. Check out what I made for
28:24you. It's in my bio. It's in my
28:26description. I'm going to help you
28:27learn, understand, and master the
28:29language of women. So that way you can
28:31attract the women that you really want
28:32to attract and you know exactly what to
28:35do to maintain that relationship so she
28:38doesn't desire to pull away or leave you
28:40heartbroken or cause you a bunch of
28:42emotional pain because all of a sudden
28:44the woman that you really really want,
28:45you can feel her slipping away and
28:47that's the worst. That's why I made
28:49this. Go and check that out. It's in my
28:51bio. You'll love it. So every single hot
28:54girl has been through this at least once
28:56in her life. So, she's sleeping with a
28:58dude and she can tell that he can't even
29:01believe that he's banging her. She can
29:04literally start to tell this that the
29:06dude is shocked in the first place that
29:10he had the opportunity to not only go
29:11out on a date with her, but let alone go
29:13all the way and those two are sleeping
29:15together. She can tell that this guy has
29:18never been with a woman as hot as her
29:20before. Listen, when a woman experiences
29:22this or when she goes through this, when
29:25she sees that she is the hottest that
29:28you've ever been with, she is literally
29:31repulsed. Like, I can't spell it out for
29:34you anymore clearly. She literally gets
29:36repulsed because the energy that you're
29:39demonstrating, like she can literally
29:41feel on like an energy level. As soon as
29:43she senses this, as soon as she senses
29:46that I'm the best that he can do, for
29:49sure, she pulls completely back. You'll
29:53never see her ever again. Now, to help
29:55you get around all of this stuff,
29:57literally all of it, I created an entire
29:59process for you, and I call it the
30:02language of women. If you check out what
30:04I made for you, it's in my bio. It's in
30:06my description. I will help you learn,
30:07understand, and master the language of
30:09women. So that way, you have a rock
30:12solid dating life. Never ask a woman
30:14what her notch count is if you're dating
30:16her. Like, don't even try to ask her
30:18body count or figure out what it is. And
30:19here's why. If you ask her that, she's
30:22most likely only going to tell you
30:24long-term boyfriends, okay? She's going
30:27to exclude um, you know, the one
30:30nighters. She's going to exclude, you
30:32know, the dudes from online dating apps
30:34that um she was seeing in between when
30:36she was on a break with her boyfriend.
30:38She's going to um exclude the
30:40experiences when she had her girls trip
30:42to Cancun. She's going to basically
30:45exclude everything. Okay, that dude that
30:47she slept with at the house party, uh he
30:49doesn't count. He's irrelevant. Oh, that
30:51one doesn't count. Um the dude uh that
30:53she met at the bar, that one doesn't
30:55count. Um the dude from her gym, that
30:57one doesn't count. but she's had two
30:59long-term relationships, so it's two.
31:03She'll tell you that with a smile on her
31:05face. Don't even ask. It's pointless. Um
31:09nowadays, whether you're a millionaire
31:10or you're broke, um you get the same
31:13quality typically of women. Um whether
31:16you're 5t tall or 8t tall, you get the
31:19same quality. Um yeah, everybody's in
31:23the same boat. So because of that, stop
31:25even asking in the first place. To help
31:27you have dating success in the modern
31:29world, so you can actually attract the
31:30women that you want and then maintain
31:32the proper relationship so she actually
31:34keeps desiring you instead of somebody
31:36else. I made an end to-end process. It's
31:39called the language of women. Check out
31:41what I made for you. It's in my bio.
31:42It's in my description. I made this so
31:44that way you can actually learn,
31:45understand, and master the language of
31:47women. So go and check that out right
31:48now. There is a lot of guys out there
31:50who would like to do a cold approach
31:53because they would really like to start
31:55to talk to more beautiful women, but
31:59they constantly will tell themselves
32:02something like, um, oh, it wasn't the
32:05right time or it wasn't the right
32:07location or she was with friends or she
32:11had um she had headphones in.
32:15um you know or based on how she was
32:17looking
32:19um on her face, it looks like she didn't
32:22want to be bothered or talked to. So
32:26listen closely. None of this matters if
32:29she thinks that you're hot. Like for
32:31example, if I gave you a uh situation
32:34where let's say um let's say there was a
32:38famous swimsuit model, okay, or a
32:41famous, you know, runway supermodel and
32:43she was really into you.
32:46If you think that she's super hot, it
32:48doesn't matter if she's at the grocery
32:50store, it doesn't matter if she's at the
32:52gym, it doesn't matter if you met her
32:54through a social circle, you're still
32:56going to think that she's hot. So
32:58because of that, this is what you have
33:00to understand. Attraction, okay, is
33:04either there or it isn't. And this video
33:07is specifically for all of the men who
33:09are wanting to do cold approach. Now, is
33:12there better ways to meet women? Social
33:14circle, optimizing dating profiles, all
33:16that stuff. Sure. Absolutely. You know,
33:19and not to mention like women like to be
33:21social and they like to see social
33:22proof. So, if you do meet a woman more
33:24organically in a social atmosphere,
33:28far better because it seems to be
33:31smoother. But this is for all of the
33:32guys out there who want to do cold
33:35approach. If you are a guy out there and
33:37you want to approach more women, you
33:39have to understand that you don't want
33:40to really um go against those desires
33:43because it's like you're selling
33:44yourself short and you will just end up
33:47regretting um the decisions that you
33:49made in the long run. If you are
33:51attempting to date a Christian woman,
33:52you have to understand that that woman
33:54has most likely been ran through. The
33:56only reason that she is Christian right
33:57now is because she has been ran through
33:58and she's ready to confess all that
33:59sinning. Oh yeah, we're talking one
34:01pipe, two pipe, three pipe, four pipe,
34:03not your pipe. We are talking four or
34:04five dates just for you to even get a
34:06whiff of what that thing might even
34:07smell like. So you're sitting there
34:09going, "We prayed together. I'm such a
34:11good guy. I'm telling her that God is
34:14the way." Listen, she is only ready to
34:15do all that once that notch count has
34:17been at 50 plus. And then all of a
34:18sudden, she's looking at that really
34:19good guy saying, "hm, he looks like a
34:21good fit. Yeah, he looks like he can pay
34:23a mortgage. Oh yeah, he looks like he
34:25can pay a light bill. I'm sure there'll
34:27always be food on the table with him."
34:29And then you get to pay for her for
34:31the rest of your life.
34:32>> There is a lot of men right now wanting
34:34to get rich, trying to get rich,
34:36basically sold this narrative that every
34:39high value successful man is super rich.
34:43Okay, I do not think that they
34:45fundamentally understand what rich is or
34:48what rich feels like. So, let me paint
34:51you a very clear picture so that way you
34:53can actually understand and you're not
34:55so easily influenced by every dude in
34:58Miami with a Corvette, a Range Rover, or
35:00a G Wagon.
35:02Okay? Like I know the dude with another
35:05necklace and another forearm sleeve is
35:08really, you know, appealing to a lot of
35:10young men that are impressionable. But
35:12let me understand or let me explain to
35:15you what um rich is and what rich feels
35:19like. Okay, rich is when you sleep
35:22soundly at night because you actually
35:24have ownership. Okay, you feel rich when
35:27you own things. So, if you have a
35:31$500,000 house, let's say, but you own
35:33the whole damn thing, you are rich. If
35:37you make 10 grand a month, but you now
35:39have ownership, okay? Which means you
35:42own your assets in full, that means
35:45people don't own you, okay? And what I
35:48mean by that is the bank doesn't own
35:50you, okay? Or you're not tied to some
35:52loan. You have a sense of freedom
35:55because you own your assets. So, if you
35:57make 10 grand a month and you can live
35:59off of two grand a month, you have 8
36:02grand extra per month in profit, you are
36:05going to feel rich. Okay? Now, being
36:09rich is not about owning another Bugatti
36:11or another sports car or renting another
36:14expensive penthouse because at the end
36:17of the day, you still don't own
36:18anything. Okay? What that does is that
36:21creates unnecessary stress. So, if the
36:24guy is making 50 grand a month, but now
36:26let's say his expenses every month is 30
36:29grand a month because the penthouse is
36:3120 grand a month and then the car is
36:33five grand a month and then he's trying
36:35to uh keep up with the next uh you know
36:38influencer by going to the next fancy
36:40restaurant and now he's spending
36:41multiple thousands a month on food and
36:44taking pretty pictures at the cigar
36:45lounge. That dude is not going to feel
36:47very rich. That dude is going to feel
36:49like he has a crapload of stress and
36:52that dude is not going to sleep soundly
36:54at night. The way you feel rich is by
36:56setting up your life and optimizing your
36:58life to sleep soundly at night. Because
37:00you know if actually hits the fan,
37:02you're covered. That is how you carry
37:05yourself with the aura and the demeanor
37:07of a rich individual. Because a lot of
37:09these guys trying to appear or act rich,
37:11the insecurity starts to come through
37:13and people realize that they are chasing
37:17materialism.
37:18Okay, that is the opposite of being a
37:20masculine man. So, there's three things
37:23that a man has to have control over.
37:25Number one would be your money or your
37:27finances. If you do not get this figured
37:30out and you don't figure out how to live
37:31below your means, okay, so that way you
37:35can sleep soundly at night without
37:37anxiety, you're in for a world of
37:39trouble trying to keep up with the
37:41Joneses. That is number one. Okay,
37:43number two. The second thing that a man
37:45has to master is his own sense of
37:47self-belief. Now, I am of the belief
37:50that your confidence, your self-esteem,
37:52your faith that you have within yourself
37:54can only come from God. Okay? If you do
37:57not tap into who you were meant to be,
38:00okay, and who God has specifically
38:01called you to be, then it is virtually
38:04impossible to be the masculine man that
38:05you want to be. Because what you're
38:07going to do is you're going to be
38:09influenced by everybody. This new
38:12influencer says this thing and you go,
38:14"Oh, that's the way." 6 months later, a
38:16new guy pops up and you say, "Oh, that's
38:18the way." Another 12 months later,
38:21another guy pops up and you try to
38:22become that. It's not what you have to
38:24do. Okay. The third thing that you do is
38:27you have to actually master your dating
38:29life because this is one thing that I
38:31see guys neglect. They're not clear on
38:34what they want. Okay? And because of
38:37that, they don't know if they want um
38:41uh family. They don't know if they want
38:43more options. They don't know if they
38:44need to learn how to have more
38:46confidence to um talk to more people, to
38:48socialize. They're completely lost. Grab
38:51a pen and paper. Look at your strengths
38:53and weaknesses. Look at your deficits.
38:54and then fix that and get very clear on
38:56what you want and just commit to that.
38:59Cut out all the noise and the rest is
39:00BS. If you can live with this kind of
39:04mindset, with just focus, oh my gosh,
39:07you'll be miles ahead of everybody