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0:00Good things happen in life when you're
0:02able to turn your brain off and just go.
0:06Like just turn your brain off and go.
0:08Let the chips fall where they may and
0:09just go. I'll say that again. You turn
0:11your brain off and you just go. [sighs]
0:15When you have that mindset, you unlock
0:18the aura. Okay, this is going to be more
0:21of like I would even say more like an
0:24esoteric type video. more so philosophy
0:28and just like training your subconscious
0:30mind to be an action taker. Good things
0:33happen when you turn your mind off and
0:35you just go. When you have that mindset,
0:38that guy right there, he could do the
0:40cold approach, he could do the warm
0:41approach, he could do the social circle
0:43approach, he could do the online dating
0:45approach, he could do the Instagram
0:46direct message approach, he could do the
0:48Instagram direct message voice memo
0:51approach, he could do a FaceTime call.
0:55Maybe he met her on an app. Maybe maybe
0:58he met her uh through friend of a
1:00friend. It doesn't matter. He is fluent
1:03in bro.
1:05He is fluent and competent in bro. I
1:08will say that again. He is fluent and he
1:10is competent in bro.
1:14See, there's a generation of men who
1:18attempted to be competent
1:21in areas that only led to materialistic
1:23high value success
1:26and it made them a square. You have a
1:28group of men right now. The language
1:30they use, the sentences that they use,
1:32the vocal tone, the mannerisms, it's
1:35like this watered down HR level
1:37corporate like talk. Everything is just
1:40watered down and sanitized.
1:44They are competent in the real world.
1:46They are not competent in bro. Good
1:49things happen when you let go and you
1:52allow yourself to be competent in bro.
1:57Okay, this is the aura. So many people
2:00wonder why why does why does that really
2:02hot women gravitate towards the dude
2:04who's completely just covered in tattoos
2:06and seems like he only completed the
2:08third grade? Why is that woman um you
2:12know attracted to him even though he
2:13sells um and has nothing going for
2:16himself? Why is that woman uh attracted
2:19to the jock in high school or in
2:22college? Um, and he seems like he's like
2:25borderline stupid and can hardly even
2:27form coherent sentences. This is what
2:29you have to understand, okay? Women bang
2:33stupid men. You have to understand this.
2:36Women bang stupid caveman
2:40almost Neanderthal type men.
2:43This is who they bang. You have to
2:46understand this. The guy that she's
2:47banging might not even be the man who
2:51she follows on Instagram.
2:55There is men, okay, listen closely.
2:58There's men that women like in private
3:02and there is men that women like in
3:03public. The men that women like in
3:07public, it's socially acceptable to like
3:10those men.
3:12He's dreamy. He's charming. He's so
3:16handsome. He's straight out of a fairy
3:18tale. Now, men that women like in
3:21private.
3:22These are the men that they like and
3:24it's not so socially acceptable to talk
3:27about them. These are the men that she
3:29loves getting her back blown out by
3:31secretly. These are the men
3:35who she sits there and gets wet for
3:38just by thinking about him.
3:42These are men that carry themselves with
3:44a different level of swag or aura that
3:48most guys don't have. These are the men
3:52that when all the husbands and all the
3:54boyfriends are around, the guy sits
3:56there and goes, "Oh, don't invite him to
3:58the party. I don't want him to wheel my
4:00woman. I don't want him to turn the
4:02wheels on and win. I don't want him to
4:06unlock her giggle. I don't want him
4:11around her.
4:14That is aura. You cannot get that
4:18through being high value. You cannot do
4:20that through improving your competency
4:23in your investment portfolio and now
4:25finally buying a brand new Corvette or a
4:27brand new Ferrari.
4:30Modern men have became emasculated like
4:35just mushballs. Just a ball of mush.
4:37Just soft. Everything is sanitized.
4:40Every sentence that they say is designed
4:41to appease women or to make sure that
4:43women like what they're saying.
4:47When you stop attempting to be competent
4:51in the real world and you start just
4:52allowing yourself to be competent and
4:54fluent in bro.
4:59Women are drawn to that and I can't
5:01control that. I understand that this
5:03video might piss some of you off because
5:05you don't have a step-by-step exact
5:08process to uplevel this part of your
5:11life.
5:13This is retraining your root
5:16subconscious mind to manifest better
5:19lessons and deeper level truths of
5:22female nature.
5:25This is how you train your subconscious
5:28mind
5:29to be okay with your congruent self and
5:32your congruent god-given [clears throat]
5:35identity.
5:36Now, all of these guys who communicate
5:39this way, there's one common thing. How
5:42they speak is correct by default, and
5:44they don't give a what you think
5:46about it.
5:49That's the difference.
5:52These types of men sometimes come across
5:54as disagreeable. They come across as
5:56assertive. They come come across as even
5:59slightly an from time to time.
6:01He doesn't care.
6:03So when you flip the switch from saying,
6:05"Hey, instead of being competent in all
6:09this stuff I was told to be competent
6:11in," and you start being competent in,
6:13"Bro,
6:15in being a man,
6:18this is independent from your bank
6:20balance." Which is why I'm telling you,
6:22good happens when you turn your
6:24brain off and you just do. You just do.
6:28I wake up and I just do. You don't need
6:31to think about this stuff. You need to
6:33just do. Now, how did we get here? How
6:35did we get here where we have a
6:37generation of men that are just flaccid
6:39and sanitized year round with everything
6:41that they say? How did we get to a point
6:44where the modern man has been basically
6:46just every word he says is just
6:48sanitized and weak, where there's no
6:50vigor or strength or assertiveness? I'll
6:52tell you how this happened. It came from
6:55a generation of men chasing and pursuing
6:59money instead of chasing and pursuing
7:03identity.
7:04Okay? In the Bible, listen, the highest
7:06form of identity in my opinion is I am.
7:09In the Bible, Jesus says I am. Okay?
7:13Like the deepest level self. I am. When
7:17you know yourself at the highest level,
7:20you make no apologies because you know
7:22who you are, what you're called to do,
7:24and you know your spot or your position
7:26in life. We do not have men today who
7:30have a core understanding of their
7:32position in life.
7:36We have men who have been chasing
7:39success to achieve the material or
7:42success to achieve XYZ dollars in the
7:45bank account which has made them a
7:47weaker man with no core understanding of
7:50self or no core understanding of
7:53identity. Everything in life starts to
7:55reward you when you pursue passion,
7:58purpose, and identity. And you know who
8:00you are and you make no apologies for
8:02that.
8:04And you pursue that relentlessly.
8:07He is the pilot.
8:10The pilot might make 100 grand a year,
8:12200 grand a year, 500 grand a year, 5
8:14million a year. Maybe he flies private.
8:17Doesn't matter. The money follows
8:18because he pursued identity. He knew his
8:21spot or his position in life. Michael
8:23Jordan, famous basketball player,
8:26understood identity and who he was and
8:28what he was good at. Tiger Woods, the
8:30golfer, understands identity, the
8:33position in life as a golfer that he
8:34played. You have to understand this. You
8:37have to master your craft and you have
8:38to understand identity. It is not until
8:41you understand identity and you start
8:43pursuing identity. The true I am
8:46statement. I am who I am. Regardless of
8:49what anybody else says, it is not until
8:51you pursue that that you have the dating
8:53success that you want. The reason why
8:54you can't communicate with women is
8:56because you cannot speak bro. And you
8:58cannot speak bro because you do not
9:00pursue identity. Which means you're
9:02altering your communication patterns and
9:03you're altering who you are to either
9:05chase the dollar or to get other
9:06people's approval or to fit in or to
9:09walk on eggshells and hopefully you just
9:10get by. And that is not the way to live.
9:13We have a generation of men that were
9:14essentially told if you don't have a
9:16specific dollar amount or a specific
9:18like lifestyle or something like that
9:19that you are essentially less than or
9:21you don't have as much social status.
9:23And what you're seeing happen is guys
9:25who have achieved all of the material on
9:28the external don't have any of the core
9:30identity on the internal. Despite having
9:33external success, that guy cannot show
9:36up in his dating life or with people the
9:38way that he wants. And it's because that
9:41man has pursued endeavors that led
9:44nowhere instead of pursuing identity and
9:47understanding who he is.
9:49This video,
9:52you have to understand this.
9:55When you are a man who's versatile,
9:58you understand yourself.
10:01Like that guy can do the cold approach,
10:03the warm approach, the online dating
10:05approach. Like it doesn't matter. He is
10:06a winner. He's adapted a winner's
10:08mindset. He has a winner's aura. He has
10:10an attractive aura. Women just like him.
10:13Focus all of your time on that. Focus
10:16your time on upleveling that aura and
10:19that swagger and that demeanor. And you
10:21will start to watch your entire dating
10:23life change. If you like this video, hit
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10:28that way I can help you learn,
10:29understand, and master the language of
10:31women. And we'll see you in the next
10:33one.