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0:00A lot of men are starting to wake up to
0:02the fact that their mothers not only
0:04wanted to control them, but their
0:06mothers wanted them to slowly become a
0:09sexually unattractive beta male. Your
0:12mom's entire agenda was not only to
0:16control and to emasculate, but she
0:18wanted you to become a beta male who
0:20essentially worships women because this
0:22is the guy that she assumed she wanted.
0:25this is the guy that she assumed she
0:27would have wanted in her younger years
0:28or during her failed relationship if
0:31only she would have had this specific
0:33guy. So what majority of mothers try to
0:36do is they try to turn their sons into
0:39that guy that she thinks would have
0:42served her better in her younger years.
0:44So like I'm home for the holidays and
0:45I'm going through [ __ ] like this. Like
0:47this is me as a kid like my mom in my
0:50elementary school days. Like this is me
0:51playing dress up. Like what the [ __ ] is
0:54this? Like this is damn near child
0:55abuse. Like look at me. She's turning me
0:57into a dork. Women don't necessarily
1:00believe in saving money the way that you
1:02do because they literally view life
1:04through all of their experiences and all
1:05of their emotions and not survival. The
1:08reason why she wants to spend so much
1:10and the reason why she constantly buys
1:12frivolous things or experiences that you
1:15look at and say, "Wow, that has no
1:17value." is because you are wired for
1:19survival and she's wired for fun and to
1:21chase feelings and her emotions. And
1:22that right there is the complimentary
1:24nature between the masculine and the
1:26feminine.
1:27>> Men have been taught their whole life to
1:29always respect women where women have
1:31been taught their whole life to always
1:33make sure that they put themselves
1:34first. Because of this, I promise you,
1:37no matter what you do, no matter how
1:39good your game is, she doesn't care.
1:41[music]
1:42If a woman wants to leave you in a
1:44relationship
1:46and your mindset is anything other than,
1:48okay, that's fine. What you're going to
1:51notice is you'll always be left. Okay?
1:54So, if a woman ever leaves you or wants
1:56to leave you, you have to just say,
1:58"Okay." But if your subconscious mind,
2:01if your subconscious communication
2:04communicates anything differently, such
2:07as like, "Oh, no, why?" or "Why can't we
2:08make it work?" or whatever, you've
2:10already lost because that's why she's
2:14leaving you in the first place. You have
2:16to have the mindset at all times that if
2:18she wants to leave you or she doesn't
2:19want to talk to you, you literally just
2:21sit on your ass and do absolutely
2:22nothing.
2:24And that's the way it has to be. The
2:25second you lose that mindset where you
2:28need to say anything other than, "Okay,
2:30okay, sounds good. That's fine. All
2:32right, no problem. Okay, door's right
2:34there. Well, you're screwed anyways."
2:37The common narrative is that kids today
2:38are not growing up with strong fathers.
2:40But this couldn't be further from the
2:42truth. The truth is that children,
2:44especially young boys, young men, are
2:46growing up without seeing a father who
2:48puts himself first. You see, what has
2:52happened is there's been entire
2:54generations of men that have been
2:56conditioned to constantly put the woman
2:59before themselves. Which means what all
3:01the children today saw was a man who
3:04essentially just kisses women's ass
3:08or to not get nagged at. So, what you're
3:11going to notice is not only does the
3:12husband constantly just comply to the
3:14wife, but the entire agenda, the entire
3:16relationship is ran on her terms. And
3:19because of that, a young boy's mindset
3:22is submit to the mother, constantly say
3:24yes to the mother, please the mother.
3:26And if you don't please the mother, then
3:28all hell is going to break loose. But
3:31this is actually total [ __ ] You
3:34watching professional sports with your
3:35girlfriend or wife is equivalent to her
3:37taking you to the strip club. You're
3:39sitting there as a passive bystander,
3:42staring at a screen which is nothing
3:43more than staring at a wall. You're
3:45sitting there cheering on another grown
3:47man who's bigger than you, stronger than
3:49you, more ripped than you, making more
3:51money than you. Not to mention, now you
3:53have his jersey and his last name on
3:56your back. What you're signaling to your
3:58girlfriend or your wife 24/7 is, "Hey
4:00baby, you should be banging him, not
4:02me." And then guys wonder, "Why does she
4:05have contempt for me?" This is how your
4:07life is slowly destroyed. This right
4:09here is me at 22 years old. And most men
4:11are never taught to actually go out and
4:13reach their genetic potential. You have
4:16to understand that there is what women
4:17say and then there's what women actually
4:19do. Women will tell you that they want a
4:21guy who's nice to them or that they want
4:23a guy who, you know, has this type of
4:24personality or whatever. But if you
4:27actually look at the type of guys that
4:28they're banging, more often than not,
4:30it's dudes who are athletes, dudes who
4:32are ripped, dudes who are in really good
4:34shape, dudes who are good-looking, dudes
4:37who have a six-pack. Like, most men are
4:38not taught that if you build the body
4:41and the physique, women naturally lust
4:44after you in a way that you've probably
4:46never experienced before. Men are
4:48constantly taught that if you just wait
4:50long enough and meet the right woman,
4:52all of a sudden, she'll just come into
4:53your life. when this couldn't be further
4:55from the truth. Instead, what they
4:57should be told is to maximize the amount
4:58of muscle mass that you can build. Make
5:00sure that you are in a calorie deficit
5:02so that way you stay lean and build a
5:04vtaper physique with a narrow waist so
5:06that way you look strong and aesthetic.
5:08When I finally took the time to get into
5:10really good shape, women would all of a
5:12sudden want to make out with me first at
5:14bars. Women would constantly approach me
5:16first, direct message me first, add me
5:18on different apps first so that way they
5:20could start messaging. Like this is the
5:23lengths that women will go to when they
5:25actually find you desirable. Instead of
5:28constantly trying to meet the right
5:30woman, instead focus on leveling up your
5:32attraction and then all of a sudden
5:34everything actually is way easier. This
5:36right here is my winning dating app
5:38profile that got me the most amount of
5:40matches with really hot women. Up first,
5:42we have the archery photo. This right
5:43here just crafts a unique masculine
5:46archetype. Um, I'm looking off to the
5:48side. It's very candid. It's very
5:49natural. It's very elegant. This was
5:52definitely my winning photo. Second
5:54photo leading into the cowboy archetype.
5:56You can see the beard. You can see
5:57muscle mass. And then I add just a few
5:59elements or layers of sex appeal. You
6:01have the cowboy hat with the Ray-B band
6:03aviators with the one tattoo with the
6:07chain necklace, whatever you want to
6:08call it. This overall was my second best
6:11photo. So many matches. Third picture is
6:14me in the gym. Just a candid physique
6:16shot, but not too tryhard. Next up, we
6:19have the candid cigar shot. I would
6:21actually consider this shot more so male
6:23gaze over female gaze, but nevertheless,
6:26I really like the photo, so I used it.
6:28Anyways, it's leading with physique,
6:30obviously. Next up is me eating food.
6:32It's all mine. Don't touch it. I said
6:34so. And then last up is a photo of me
6:37filming content. Um, this was for one of
6:39the programs that I was building at the
6:41time, and this is just a candid photo
6:43highlighting elements of career. Use all
6:46of these for inspiration to build your
6:48own unique masculine archetype. The
6:51biggest lie that women will tell you is
6:52that they don't want a man who's too
6:54into himself or they don't care about
6:56how a guy looks. This picture right here
6:58is me at 22 years old. And what I can
7:00tell you is this. The only form, the
7:02purest form of raw genuine desire,
7:05almost primal desire, is when she finds
7:07you hot or when she finds you attractive
7:10on like a genetic level. If you have
7:12never gotten into crazy shape before,
7:14just insane shape with razor sharp abs,
7:17a six-pack, things like that, that means
7:19that you have never experienced true
7:21female lust in the bedroom when it comes
7:23to her viewing you as an attractive
7:25option on like a primal level. What most
7:29men do is they try to use lifestyle,
7:31they try to use money, they try to use a
7:32bunch of external attraction triggers to
7:36make up for their lack of sex appeal or
7:37their lack of attraction. And this is a
7:39big no no. She'll happily settle down
7:42with or marry a rich guy with little to
7:44no sex appeal. But when it comes to who
7:46she actually wants on an intimate level
7:47during ovulation, different story. I
7:50sold my Ferrari 488 for multiple
7:52reasons, but what you're going to find
7:54is that modern men were completely lied
7:56to. What I can tell you from firstirhand
7:58experience is that nobody gives a [ __ ]
7:59if you're broke, but also nobody gives a
8:01[ __ ] if you're rich. If you do think
8:02that a car or some type of material
8:04possession is going to help you attract
8:06women in your dating life if you're a
8:08man, you're also in for a rude
8:09awakening. And here's why. Owning nice
8:11things actually makes it harder to have
8:13a good dating life because now you're
8:15put in the category of husband material.
8:18Now, for some of you, this might sound
8:19good on paper, but this is terrible. And
8:21here's why. What you're going to find is
8:23that women actually alter their
8:24personality and they will test you even
8:26more. They will test you even harder
8:28because they now assume that there's
8:30potential insecurity. Therefore, you
8:32have this for a reason. Now, this is
8:34probably not true. And in a lot of
8:36cases, this is not true. you just happen
8:38to be successful, but they don't view it
8:39that way. They end up testing your core
8:42identity way more because they assume
8:44that you own this because you're lacking
8:45something else. You're lacking
8:46personality or charm or something. Life
8:48is far better without this. 2026, I am
8:51fully embracing the bum lifestyle. There
8:53is a generation of men trying to buy
8:56cars and houses and look cool to impress
8:58women. This whole influencer status fake
9:02generation is completely over. It's
9:04completely over and it's completely
9:06overdone. Every single dude, we get it.
9:08You have a forearm sleeve. Every single
9:10dude, we get it. You rented or you own a
9:12Lambo. Every single dude, we get it. Um,
9:14you went to the cosmetic salon and got
9:16your teeth whitened. We understand you
9:18got the hair transplant. Nobody gives a
9:20[ __ ] This is a completely fake world.
9:23And all that's happened is more and more
9:25guys are chasing this superficial,
9:27materialistic, status driven success.
9:29It's completely fake. Women are catching
9:31on that all these guys are fake. This is
9:33completely over. I don't give a [ __ ]
9:35about any of this. And in 2026, I'm
9:38fully embracing the bum lifestyle.
9:40Whatever happens happens. Let the chips
9:43fall where they may. Every true player
9:45knows how important this notification
9:48is, especially after she bangs you for
9:50the first time. Let me explain. If you
9:52are not using this feature of turning
9:54your focus on on your text messages, you
9:57are at a severe disadvantage. I would
9:59say that you can damn near get that
10:01woman completely obsessed with you,
10:03constantly chasing your validation,
10:05double text messaging you all from this
10:07one notification. When you as a man
10:10start to understand that it is not your
10:11job to pursue a committed relationship,
10:14everything starts to change for the
10:15better. Most of the women that you'll be
10:18dating have already had numerous
10:20partners before you that have already
10:22had a psychological impact on her when
10:24it comes to how she actually views them.
10:26That means more often than not, you are
10:28not her first choice. To get her
10:30emotions to constantly work in your
10:32favor, you need to be doing these things
10:34so that way you create some mystery. You
10:37want her to wake up in the morning and
10:38say, "What is he doing? Who is he with?
10:40Why did this notification go on at 6:30
10:43p.m. last night? And what is he doing?"
10:45These are the thoughts that have to
10:47enter into her mind or she does not even
10:51consider you as a long-term option. she
10:54considers you as just another guy she
10:56went out on a date with. In 2026, these
10:59types of things are going to become even
11:02more important to start to stand out
11:04because what you're going to find is
11:05that dating right now is more
11:07competitive than it ever has been. I was
11:09once on a date and a woman told me word
11:11for word that she doesn't believe in
11:13saving money. This is what she told me
11:15word for word. She says, "I don't
11:17believe in saving money." and her
11:19thought process or her reasoning for it
11:21was that she wants to spend her money on
11:23experiences. Um, she wants to feel good
11:25and she wants to make sure that in the
11:27moment she's not stressed. What that
11:29actually translates to, you have to
11:30always remember this in her mind,
11:33subconsciously in the woman's mind, what
11:36she thinks is that there's always going
11:37to be a guy at the finish line waiting
11:39for them or waiting for them to take
11:41care of them. The female subconscious is
11:45always hardwired for thoughts and
11:48feelings and emotions that leads towards
11:50a vibe as she's banking on you to be
11:53there with the real resources, the
11:54future planning, the provisioning and
11:57the protection for the future. No matter
11:59how this makes you feel, this is the
12:01hard wiring and this is female nature.
12:04And rest assured, more than just that
12:06one woman does think that way. This
12:08photo on the left right here is my
12:10brother and I when we were young. And
12:12then this photo down below is my brother
12:14and I just a few years later. Now, what
12:16I can tell you is that anybody can
12:17actually have a glow up. Majority of men
12:21don't actually put themselves first.
12:23Instead, what they're focused on is
12:24they're focused on pleasing everybody
12:26else. They're focused on pleasing their
12:27mom. They're focused on pleasing their
12:29parents. They're focused on pleasing
12:30their significant other or their
12:32siblings or their extended family. And
12:34they're showing up to every single
12:35birthday party and every single family
12:36reunion. and they're accepting dinner
12:38plans to everywhere whenever anybody
12:41asks them to do anything. And the
12:42problem is that you're just not inwardly
12:45focused enough. You have to take a
12:47period of 2 to 5 years and you need to
12:48say, "Listen, what I'm doing is I'm
12:50tracking my own nutrition. I'm dialing
12:53in my diet. I'm dialing in my own
12:55fitness. I don't care if I got invited
12:56to this birthday party where there's
12:58pizza and pasta. The only thing that I'm
12:59doing or focusing on right now is what
13:01I'm eating and going to the gym and
13:04getting fit and strong and healthy. And
13:05that is how you have the glow up needed
13:08eventually. This is how all of your
13:09dates have to start to look. And you'll
13:11see what I mean. If you are ever sitting
13:12there trying to have serious
13:13conversations with her, you are losing
13:15her. I'll say that one more time. If you
13:17are ever sitting there trying to
13:19actually get to know her, trying to
13:20actually have a real serious
13:22conversation with her. What's actually
13:23happening is you are losing her
13:24emotional investment by the second. Your
13:27dates need to be all fun and games. It
13:29could be thumb war. It could be sitting
13:31there playing Connect 4. It could be
13:32Monopoly. It could be going mini
13:34golfing. I don't know what you're doing,
13:35but you better start making sure that
13:37the vibe is actually there. Now, if the
13:40vibe is not there and she doesn't feel
13:42anything towards you, she might even
13:44gravitate towards a different dude who
13:47is shorter than you, who is less ripped
13:49or less jacked, who makes less money.
13:51Because all of those superficial,
13:54materialistic, status driven success
13:56markers mean absolutely nothing if she
13:58doesn't feel anything for you. I have a
14:01whole process to help you learn,
14:02understand, and master the language of
14:03women. It's in my bio. This right here
14:05was my face winter of 2023. And this
14:08right here was my face summer of 2025.
14:11What I can tell you is this. In 2026,
14:14going into 2026, facial aesthetics and
14:16facial attractiveness matters the most
14:19for online dating. If you are using
14:21dating apps as a man, okay, in order to
14:23attract women, have more options, and
14:25just make sure that you have a good
14:26abundant dating life. Right now,
14:29leveraging looks, aesthetics, and just
14:32overall facial attractiveness is going
14:34to be one of the biggest driving factors
14:36that you have in actually creating
14:37attraction. One of the things that most
14:39guys think is most guys think the bigger
14:41you get, the stronger you get, the more
14:43size and muscle you put on, this is
14:45going to be most attractive, right?
14:46Having that strong like masculine look,
14:49right? But what I can tell you is this,
14:51not only from personal experience, but
14:52after seeing numerous other guys have
14:54similar results or the same results that
14:57I have had after having a transformation
14:59like this, leaning down is going to be
15:01your best bet. Growing up, one of the
15:03things that my mom would constantly say
15:04to me is, don't be like your father. Oh,
15:07don't say that. Too much like your
15:09father. Uh, try to be better than your
15:11father. Don't get angry. Be better than
15:13your dad was. It's like, hm, how many
15:17women, how many moms out there would
15:20strategically plant seeds in their
15:22children's minds
15:24in order to get them to be the opposite
15:27of the men that they were banging. And
15:29keep in mind, my dad had four children
15:31with this woman. Four children. He was
15:34good enough to reproduce over four
15:35times. So, like looking at him, like,
15:39think of it this way. He was good enough
15:41for her to have four kids with, but you
15:44want me to be better than him with my
15:47behavior? You want me to alter it so I'm
15:49not like him? This is nothing but
15:52delusion.
15:54And I don't think not enough men are
15:55talking about this type of stuff. Baxing
15:582026 is absolutely needed to attract the
16:01women that you're wanting because what
16:02you're seeing is that modern women in
16:042026 optimize for sex appeal only. the
16:08things that you thought over the past 10
16:10years that mattered to become a quote
16:12unquote high value man, you're watching
16:15play out in real time be completely
16:19untrue. You're watching guys with status
16:22still have no options. You're watching
16:24guys who are rich still have no options.
16:27You're watching guys who have climbed
16:29the corporate success ladder and drive a
16:31Mercedes or a BMW M series still have no
16:34options. And the reason being is because
16:36as social media and dating apps becomes
16:38more and more prevalent, women are
16:40optimizing for sex appeal. What I can
16:42tell you is this. The more you have the
16:44mindset in 2026 that you don't care, you
16:47don't care about anything. This is me.
16:49Take me as I am. You work on just
16:51improving overall aesthetics, leanness,
16:54sex appeal. That right there is how to
16:55win in 2026. This is my physique at the
16:58age of 22 and dating was ridiculously
17:00easy. I would have women constantly text
17:02message me first, direct message me
17:03first. On top of that, I would even
17:05notice at a bar, like a lot of times
17:08women would just come up and start like
17:09making out with me first. What you have
17:11to remember is this. Most guys believe
17:13that women are hard to talk to. Women
17:15naturally don't want to communicate and
17:16women naturally don't want to text you
17:18back. But the truth is this. She just
17:20doesn't have high enough interest. Most
17:22guys don't realize that women actually
17:24put forth a lot of effort to communicate
17:26and talk to the men that they want to
17:28talk to. And most men don't understand
17:30the amount of effort that it actually
17:31takes to become an attractive, viable
17:33option. What you have to do is you have
17:35to get dialed in. You have to get dialed
17:37in so that way you can actually start to
17:39have more options. Because listen,
17:41because listen, once you start to get to
17:43the right shape and the right
17:44conditioning where you actually ace the
17:46female lens of attraction, your dating
17:48options go through the roof and all of a
17:50sudden she texts back every time. This
17:53right here is the physique, shape, and
17:54conditioning that it took for me to
17:56actually start to crush on dating apps.
17:59It went beyond just a decade of muscle
18:01maturity and being in the gym. You have
18:04to prioritize getting lean. You have to
18:06ace that 10 to 12% body fat roughly,
18:10okay? Physique or stature. So that way
18:13you have welldeveloped jawline, good
18:16facial feature, vtaper,
18:18like all of that creates just like
18:20overall aesthetics, facial harmony, and
18:23your physique starts to look good. It
18:25was not until I started to actually dial
18:28in the physique to that level, okay?
18:30Every single morning, fasted cardio
18:32every single day, tracking all of my
18:34lifts, tracking all of my nutrition,
18:36tracking all of my macros. This is what
18:38it takes. And this is what it's going to
18:40take to actually start to crush in 2026.
18:43If you want to have a good dating life,
18:45aesthetics and physique is only getting
18:47more important. And this is what happens
18:49because of online dating. This right
18:52here was my physique in 2018. This right
18:54here was my physique at the end of 2025.
18:56And what I can tell you is this.
18:57Nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing,
19:00makes up for real, raw, genuine primal
19:02desire that a woman has for you on like
19:05a primal level. You can try to go get a
19:07fancy sports car. You can try to go make
19:10a million bucks a year. You can go try
19:12to make 10 million bucks a year and get
19:13a private jet and a Rolex and all this
19:15stuff. Anything that you have to add to
19:18yourself that is superficial or
19:21external, okay? Or any type of external
19:24superficial attraction metric or
19:27attraction trigger or attraction
19:29mechanism. If you have to add it to
19:31yourself, you will never get the same
19:34type of desire that you would when you
19:37actually unlock her primal desire on
19:39like a real and raw level. And the
19:41reason is this, okay? Anytime you have
19:43to actually add something to yourself,
19:45you are now essentially negotiating
19:46desire. And she's never going to look at
19:48you the way that you actually want her
19:50to. Raise your hand to go to the
19:53bathroom.
19:54This is how the emasculation and the
19:56manipulation starts.
19:59As you're a young boy, you're in school
20:03and even to go to the bathroom, there
20:06will instantly be rules. Raise your
20:08hand. When I was in school, there was
20:10literally a signin sheet where it was
20:13only one person at a time. I remember
20:15this. I remember my female teachers
20:18setting these rules where there's a
20:21sign-in sheet where only one person can
20:23go to the bathroom at a time and you
20:26have to sign the sheet to go and then
20:28you have to sign the sheet with the time
20:29when you return and only then out of a
20:32class of 2025 does the next classmate
20:34get to go. So there I am having to take
20:36a [ __ ] or I have to piss and I'm sitting
20:39there having to hold it all for fear.
20:42Fear of going even to the bathroom. This
20:45is how the emasculation and the control
20:47starts. It starts in childhood.
20:51Most guys 12 to 18 months in a
20:53relationship, their face swells up like
20:55a goddamn balloon. Like they look
20:57nothing like the guy that they were the
20:59first day um when she met him. The guy
21:03starts drinking more. He just uh thinks
21:06he can have more comfort food like pizza
21:08and all this stuff all the time with his
21:10girlfriend or with his wife. Like look,
21:13just because you're in a relationship or
21:14like you're married or you got a
21:15girlfriend or something, that does not
21:17mean you can just let yourself go. Like
21:19most guys, if you actually take a
21:20sidebyside comparison photo, this is
21:23your face day one in the relationship.
21:26This is your face 18 months into the
21:27relationship, does not even look like
21:30the same guy. And he wants to tell
21:32himself like, oh, you know, I should be
21:33able to just kick back and eat [ __ ]
21:36fetuccini alfredo with my girlfriend all
21:38night and all this [ __ ] and she'll still
21:40love me. But like, as a one-way ticket
21:42to getting cheated on, it's a one-way
21:44ticket to just not being as attractive.
21:46Like, you're setting yourself up for
21:47failure. You have to stay dialed in. I
21:50was part of the generation of kids who
21:51was lied to and taught to try to become
21:53a high value man. Bumaxing all of 2026
21:57starts now. And this only happens when
21:58you finally start to realize that all of
22:00this was a lie and none of this matters.
22:02Work as hard as you want. Women don't
22:03care. What you're going to see happen is
22:05that women often times bang the worst
22:07men possible. Women choose to bang and
22:09sleep with the worst men possible. And
22:11on top of that, throughout all of their
22:1220s, they forego all of the good men
22:15just to find some dude in the club or
22:16some dude that they think is hot on an
22:18online dating app. You were taught that
22:19if you just work hard to level up your
22:21status and your career and your income
22:23that you'd have all of these options and
22:24you'd eventually meet the one and you'd
22:26have a white picket fence and two kids
22:28and a puppy dog and all of a sudden life
22:29would be amazing. But you're watching
22:31this play out. None of it went that way,
22:33did it? The truth is that you are
22:34conditioned by your mom and your
22:36teachers to constantly serve her to do
22:38what's best for everybody else and to
22:39never put yourself first. We are
22:41essentially a generation of men who were
22:43raised by women, taught to do what is
22:45best to serve women. Your dating life
22:47doesn't actually change until you put
22:49yourself first. The fact that I wasted
22:51my entire childhood in public school
22:53still to this day pisses me off. Like I
22:55don't know if anybody else feels this
22:57way, but the fact that I had to sit
22:59there as a kid and listen to these
23:00[ __ ] teachers think that they know
23:02something or listen to all this like
23:04curriculum and basically be
23:05institutionalized. I had to sit there
23:07every single year of my childhood and
23:09shut my brain off and not think for
23:10myself. I remember every single day
23:12staring at the clock. It would be this
23:14countdown clock like a normal just hand
23:16clock. And I would wait and wait and
23:18wait all day until that thing finally
23:20said 3:05 p.m. and then I'd finally like
23:23feel as if like I get to finally go home
23:25where it's like all the times when I'd
23:27be sitting there in the morning eating
23:30my cereal right before school and like
23:32I'm sitting there getting to watch like
23:34an episode of Spongebob Squarepants just
23:36holding on to every single minute for
23:38dear life until I have to go to that
23:39hell hole.
23:42You have to realize she doesn't give a
23:44[ __ ] about you once she categorizes you
23:46as a beta male. So what that means is as
23:48soon as you're a beta male, she's
23:50designed to basically weed your genes
23:53out of existence. Once she thinks you're
23:56weak and she thinks you're beta, does
23:57not matter if you spent a year with her,
23:5910 years with her, 20 years with her,
24:00doesn't matter. She now doesn't like
24:02you. She now thinks you're weak. She is
24:04now designed by God to basically say,
24:06"He is weak and I don't want him. And
24:07because of that, I don't care if I ever
24:09see him again. I don't care if he uh
24:11falls off the face of the earth. I don't
24:12care if he uh whatever. She don't like
24:14you and that's that.
24:16>> Fellas, you need to understand, okay?
24:18Single does not equal celibate.
24:21She can tell you that she's single. That
24:23does not mean that she's celibate.
24:26Those cheeks are getting clabbed
24:27somewhere. Another thing that you're
24:29going to hear is like, "Yeah, I went
24:31backpacking in Europe for a few months.
24:35I love to travel.
24:37I just spent a few years focusing on
24:39myself and I just decided to travel.
24:42I bet.
24:44But you traveled and backpacked real
24:46nicely, didn't you? This was me in my
24:48early 20s and I stopped drinking
24:49completely. The reason why I stopped
24:52drinking completely is because it's very
24:54hard to maintain an aesthetic physique
24:55and actually keep up on your fitness.
24:58Constantly, I would be weaker in the
24:59gym. Not only that, it would be harder
25:01to control my diet, harder to control my
25:03macronutrients. Overall, alcohol can
25:06start to make you look like complete
25:07[ __ ] It's harder to maintain a
25:09six-pack. It's harder to maintain your
25:10strength in the gym. Overall,
25:12attractiveness just goes way down.
25:14Throughout my 20s, I would go to
25:16numerous bars and clubs completely
25:18sober. The results and the things that I
25:20discovered was completely astounding.
25:22Majority of men will drink at these
25:24types of venues in order to establish
25:26some type of false confidence, but it
25:29goes even deeper. What I would also
25:31notice is that women would have just as
25:33much social anxiety oftentimes as the
25:35men. Just as much social anxiety, just
25:37as much approach anxiety, all of those
25:38same things were starting to become
25:41masked with alcohol. If you can
25:43establish good speaking skills and
25:45confidence without needing a substance,
25:47you will start to become miles ahead of
25:49everybody else. Truly, there's nothing
25:51more attractive than being able to meet
25:53women sober. Check out what I have in my
25:55bio for you. It's a full process to help
25:57you learn, understand, and master the
25:59language of women. Here's why I sold my
26:02Ferrari 488 and I will never own a
26:04supercar ever again. First off, any of
26:07you thinking that cars help you attract
26:09women, you are completely wrong. If
26:11anything, all this does is make it
26:14harder for you to actually unlock her
26:16genuine desire or her primal desire.
26:19Because when she would have liked you
26:20purely from aesthetics or physique or a
26:23personality level, now what happens is
26:25it looks like you're compensating. Okay?
26:27Anytime that you're using cars or
26:29anytime that you even like have a car or
26:31you have a direct display of status, it
26:34could be a Ferrari, it could be a watch,
26:36whatever the case may be, this is the
26:38problem. Now, you're instantly going to
26:39be put into the category as long-term
26:42material or husband material. And what's
26:44going to happen is she's going to
26:46definitely change her personality and
26:48how she acts around you because she
26:50wants different behavior out of you for
26:52a future relationship. Last but not
26:55least, we have a generation of men
26:56chasing materialistic things and status.
26:59And this is completely unfulfilling. Men
27:01in 2026 are starting to realize that
27:03there's no point in being high value
27:04because women like to bang trash.
27:06Husbands, you're in for a rude awakening
27:08with this one as well. once a month and
27:10typically around the time that she's
27:12ovulating. You got to understand that
27:14she needs a hit of that trash. This is
27:16why women love banging dudes in the
27:18club. They love sleeping with just, you
27:20know, the random [ __ ] boy on uh
27:23Instagram or on online dating. They're
27:25going to tell you up and down that they
27:27don't like this type of guy. But what
27:29you can see is that good guys, stable
27:31guys, um you know, are just not as
27:34enticing for them as a sexual option.
27:36And what you're going to find is this.
27:38If you're stable, if you are
27:40predictable, if she knows what you're
27:41doing at all times, if she knows what
27:43you're thinking at all times, if she
27:44knows that you really love her at all
27:45times, chances are you will be cheated
27:47on. Doesn't matter how much you've
27:48provided for her. Doesn't matter what
27:50you can give her. Doesn't matter how
27:51much you do for her. At the end of the
27:53day, she gets turned on for trash.
27:55That's how it has always been and that's
27:57how it always will be. Nowadays, you
28:00literally have better chances attracting
28:01a woman if you have just a little bit of
28:03muscle mass, a dog, and maybe like a
28:05forearm sleeve. You don't even really
28:07have to have that good of employment.
28:09She just has to look at you and go, "Oh,
28:10he's funny or he's hot." See, this is
28:12how simple and how easy it is when you
28:15actually lean into the concept of bum
28:17maxing. I am bummaxing all of 20 26,
28:20which means I do not care about
28:22anything. I literally don't care.
28:24However, my life unfolds, good. I don't
28:26care. Let the chips fall where they may.
28:28Because what you're seeing is that you
28:30have a worse chance nowadays in 2026
28:32attracting women simply by attempting to
28:34be a millionaire, attempting to build a
28:36huge business, attempting to gain all of
28:38this status. What you're seeing play out
28:40in real time is that women don't care.
28:43And her mind goes, "Ooh, puppies. I love
28:45it. Ooh, new Louis Vuitton handbag. I
28:48love it. Ooh, this song has a good beat.
28:50It makes me feel good." That's how
28:52simple and how easy this is. You're over
28:53complicating it. They don't want high
28:55value men. They literally just want men
28:57that they think are attractive. If a
28:59woman ever tells you, "Oh, I'm taking a
29:01period of time and I'm just focusing on
29:04myself." That's code word for she's
29:06getting her back blown out. She's
29:08getting her back blown out repetitively
29:10a lot of times per week.
29:13She's probably getting banged hard.
29:16She's going to tell you that she needs
29:17space. She's going to tell you that uh
29:20she say, "Oh, I'm focusing on myself."
29:22Yeah,
29:24she's getting