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0:00Okay, bum maxing, what is it? Why is it
0:02absolutely needed? Why is this a hidden
0:05cheat code when it comes to attracting
0:07women? And why does it basically magnify
0:11or amplify an aura that 99% of guys
0:14simply can't compete with? I'm going to
0:17explain everything in this video. Now,
0:20one thing that I want to tell you is
0:21that this element of your life needs to
0:23be like a staple and a focal point
0:25because you have to understand this on
0:27like a deep fundamental level.
0:29The bum does whatever he wants.
0:32Okay, what does a bum do? The answer is
0:34whatever he wants. Now, another thing
0:36that I can tell you is the bum not only
0:38does whatever he wants, but he does
0:40what's in his own best interest and he
0:41only cares about himself and he only
0:43worries about himself. You're going to
0:46notice this with a lot of men, okay, who
0:49don't get any action, who do not get
0:51laid. They're constantly focused on
0:53everybody else. They're focused on just
0:55mainstream that does not serve
0:57them. They're focused on things like
0:58politics or what the latest social media
1:00influencer's doing or they're focused on
1:02all this stuff that simply doesn't
1:04matter. But the one thing that you have
1:06to understand is in order to bum max,
1:08you need to actually understand that it
1:10is your job and your fundamental
1:11responsibility to say what you want and
1:13do what you want and live accordingly.
1:16So, I'm going to just give you some of
1:17the staples that it takes to actually
1:19get to that point so that way you can up
1:21level your own aura. Now, I'm going to
1:22tell you a story here.
1:25I was on a date about a year and a half
1:27ago. And I'm at this nice restaurant.
1:30And I drive up, I valet my car, we get
1:33out, we're having dinner, it's outside.
1:35I'm on this really, really nice um I'm
1:37at this really nice restaurant, I'm on
1:38this really nice date. And all of a
1:39sudden um outside on the balcony where
1:42everybody's eating, um you know,
1:45everybody's dressed up, everybody looks
1:46really nice. And all of a sudden there's
1:48this homeless dude.
1:50And he comes up and he starts like um
1:53he starts like getting reactive and he
1:55starts yelling at people. Um basically
1:57like uh demanding money like and this
2:00dude um you know, he was a thin dude,
2:03long beard, you know, clearly doesn't
2:05have uh doesn't have a place to live or
2:08a place to go. Like he was clearly
2:09homeless. I think he had a cowboy hat
2:11on. But his attitude was like the most
2:15self-centered, demanding I have ever
2:18seen. Like and this guy didn't come to
2:20my table,
2:21but he came to all these other people's
2:22tables. And he starts looking at the men
2:26and women sitting at all these tables
2:28and he starts demanding money or he
2:29starts demanding food. And then like if
2:31they don't say anything or they're
2:32silent, he starts uh you know, getting
2:36uh
2:36just saying a bunch of where he
2:39acts pissed and he acted super entitled.
2:42And not one dude, not one dude sitting
2:46there told him to get
2:48And they all sat there and they all were
2:49scared cuz they didn't know what he
2:51would do. And I could tell just by
2:52sitting there watching that all of the
2:54women there watched this homeless dude
2:56control this frame. And I could tell
2:58just by looking at the women that they
3:00were slightly aroused. I could tell that
3:02all the women had all the attention on
3:03this one guy and they couldn't believe
3:04that that guy was that self-serving and
3:06that demanding. So, the bum does
3:08whatever the bum wants. What I can tell
3:10you is this, I'm not telling you to go
3:12lose your job. I am not telling you to
3:14go slack in life and don't worry about
3:16your nutrition. What I am telling you is
3:18you need to adapt the same mindset as
3:22the bum because the bum puts himself
3:24first and the bum does what he wants. If
3:27that son of a doesn't feel like
3:28clocking into work that day, he doesn't.
3:31I'm not saying you have to go to that
3:34length, but what I'm saying is that when
3:35you live and operate your life every day
3:39for yourself and start doing what you
3:41want to do,
3:43that right there is alpha. And this is
3:47the attitude and the temperament that
3:48cannot be made up for. If I even show
3:50you why this works, here's my own
3:51personal text message. She goes, "I like
3:54that you think I look innocent. What are
3:55you doing this weekend?" I go, "Whatever
3:57I want like every weekend." She goes,
3:59"Yes, yes, I remember. What does what
4:01you want entail?" Right below that, I
4:03send a voice message that says, "So, are
4:04you always so curious with all the
4:06questions?" Even with that example,
4:09you're going to notice that I don't even
4:10answer anything head-on. Like one of the
4:12secrets of actually maintaining the
4:14right frame and the right polarity with
4:16women is you have to understand that it
4:17is not your job to even answer things
4:19head-on. As soon as you answer things
4:22head-on, you're essentially
4:23psychologically submitting to her frame.
4:25And if she's the one asking questions
4:27and you're the one replying to them, you
4:30are confirming that she is of higher
4:33value than you in her mind. The second
4:36you actually start answering questions
4:38as if this is like a real topic for you
4:40to have a real discussion, you're
4:42literally losing her. Now, I don't
4:44really care how that sounds either
4:45because these are just some of the
4:46lessons that you have to understand.
4:47What you have to know is women get
4:49turned on when you do whatever you want,
4:51you say whatever you want, and you have
4:52no fear of loss, and you have no fear of
4:54repercussion. What that subconsciously
4:57communicates is you could walk out and
4:58leave my ass and I don't give a
5:01You can walk out the door and I don't
5:02care. What you need to subconsciously
5:04communicate at all times is that you
5:06have no fear of loss and whatever you
5:07want to say and whatever you want to do
5:09is correct by default. That means in
5:11this situation, if I want to do a direct
5:13approach, I'll walk up to her and say
5:14hello. And it was correct by default for
5:16me cuz I said so. And if I want to do an
5:18indirect approach the next day, I'll do
5:20that and I'll also say that was correct
5:22for me by default. The truth is
5:24when you actually are operating from
5:26your own point of reference as if the
5:28things that you're saying and the things
5:30that you're doing are correct for you
5:31because you want to, that's when you
5:34actually become alpha. What is an alpha?
5:37An alpha is a guy who acts accordingly
5:39to how he wants.
5:41So, that means that that guy could have
5:4320 different guys say,
5:45"Do an indirect approach and this is far
5:46better."
5:47And if he feels like walking up directly
5:49and talking to her, he will. Okay,
5:51that's real aura.
5:53Like that's something that can't be like
5:55um
5:56it like almost demonstrates that you're
5:58not fearful of confrontation and you're
5:59also not fearful to step outside of the
6:01box and do what you would like to do
6:03instead of what everybody else wants you
6:04to do. Next thing that you're going to
6:06notice, the next thing that I do, and
6:07the next thing that the bum does is the
6:09bum lives hour for hour. I'm not focused
6:11on tomorrow, I'm not focused on next
6:12week. I'm literally focused on right
6:14here, right now, and making this one
6:15video.
6:17Men who end up in a beta frame or men
6:20who plan everything.
6:22You're even going to notice this with
6:24women. The most feminine women you ever
6:25meet are always going to be women that
6:26plan stuff.
6:28March 18th, I have my girls brunch. Uh
6:30July 21st, I'm flying here to meet this
6:32girlfriend. Uh this day, I have this uh
6:34friend's wedding. Women plan everything.
6:36Women plan things. If you're a man and
6:38you're planning a bunch of stuff,
6:40especially you're planning out your
6:41social life, you're going to notice that
6:43you're in a frame where you're fighting
6:45for control. It's like you try to
6:47control and micromanage every little
6:49detail. A masculine man lives in the
6:52moment. A masculine man lives in the
6:54moment and he's not worried about all
6:56these other things going on. He realizes
6:58that this time that he has right now is
7:00literally all that matters. So, that's
7:02the next thing. The bum lives hour for
7:04hour.
7:05Next thing, okay,
7:07I pay zero attention to politics,
7:09literally none. I don't give a
7:11because here's the one thing that you
7:12can control. You can only control your
7:14individual action and you can only
7:16control your individual outcomes through
7:17your own life and how you improve.
7:21Most people, you can put whoever you
7:23want in office,
7:24they're still going to be broke.
7:27And most people who have a rich mindset
7:29or a strong mindset or men that actually
7:31know what they're doing in life, you
7:32could also put um whoever in office and
7:34they're probably never going to be poor.
7:36Now, is there certain things that can
7:38impact economy and stuff? Sure. But for
7:40the most part, your success in life,
7:41whether it be uh your dating options,
7:43whether it be your finances, whatever
7:45the case may be, is going to come from
7:47individual success and putting your time
7:49where you want to. The next thing that I
7:51can tell you is this, I do not worry
7:52about anybody but myself. So, here's
7:54what I mean by that. I understand where
7:56I have to put my time and my dedication
7:58and my own focus to get ahead in my own
8:00life. And what that means is I don't
8:02care what other obligations people have
8:05over me. Five other friends could say,
8:08"Hey, you got to be here for this
8:10bachelor brunch at this time" or
8:11whatever the case may be. Or like all
8:13you're going to notice people do these
8:14things to you. You're going to have
8:16outside influence from your family, your
8:17friends trying to get you to attend
8:19things and trying to get you to do
8:20things. If someone calls you, you feel
8:22like you have to answer right there. The
8:23bum doesn't answer. The bum picks up
8:25when he wants. You're going to have
8:26people try to get you to go and do
8:28things that you don't want to do. The
8:29alpha says, "No, I'm doing this instead
8:31cuz I want to." You have to internalize
8:34this concept. Let me give you a perfect
8:36example. I have two friends in town
8:38right now.
8:40They would happily see me.
8:42However,
8:44I have to finish making this video for
8:45the day and I have to go work out. So,
8:48for sure I'm doing that before I meet
8:50them. Like you have to always put
8:52yourself first. If you start
8:54internalizing this concept, your dating
8:56life starts to change for the better
8:58because you're finally putting yourself
9:00first in the areas that you need to. If
9:02you like this video, I advise you to
9:03take this one step further and join the
9:05community that I built to help you
9:06learn, understand, and master the
9:08language of women. I'm going to read one
9:10of the success stories that I had just
9:11the other day. This guy in my community
9:13goes, "The language of women, have not
9:15yet finished the language of women model
9:17at around 35% so far and progressing. I
9:21have already started noticing a
9:22significant change in myself. It's not
9:24really about the tactics to charm women
9:27on command. That's unsustainable. The
9:30genius of this model, the language of
9:32women, is to just become the right
9:34masculine archetype that is attractive
9:36enough that you become irresistible to
9:38most women
9:40as they are all wired with the female
9:42nature." He goes, "Effortless
9:44magnetism."
9:45By the end of this training,
9:47I can see myself change into a different
9:49human being so much that even if I make
9:52mistakes of my own
9:54and due to them, I fail to keep a woman.
9:58Sorry guys, I'm I'm also not the best at
10:00reading.
10:01Um
10:02if I make mistakes of my own and due to
10:05them, I fail to keep a woman, I won't
10:07mind at all because I know all the work
10:10that went into reshaping myself
10:13with the help of this model and I'd be
10:16enough on my own. I'm extremely grateful
10:18to have discovered this model. So, this
10:20is why
10:23we have had so many guys join this
10:24community. This is why I know I can help
10:27you get dating success is because I've
10:28spent the past 10 or 11 years mastering
10:31this one thing. And the more you carry
10:33yourself with the arrogant, assertive
10:35attitude that says, "You know what? I
10:36don't give a what you think.
10:39I don't care how you view me. I don't
10:41care what the right status thing to do
10:43is. I'm doing what I want to do and this
10:46is how I want to live and these are the
10:48rules and expectations that I set for
10:50myself. That right there is how you can
10:53finally dedicate enough time to put
10:55towards your SMB."
10:57Because listen to me closely, if you do
10:59what everybody else does, attend all
11:01these events, constantly reply to all
11:02these friends that you think you have
11:04even though they're just trying to
11:05extract something from you, constantly
11:06follow up with these people, constantly
11:08trying to be um doing all this stuff,
11:11constantly doing what maybe your mom
11:12wants you to do, your dad wants you to
11:14do, your brothers and sisters want you
11:15to do, constantly trying to appease
11:17everybody, that is the opposite of bomb
11:19maxing. The bomb lives for himself and
11:21that's why no matter what,
11:24he [snorts] at the end of the day
11:26is alpha in ways
11:28that the dude with all the money and the
11:30status in the world will never be
11:32because that guy is essentially a slave
11:34to all the things that he was told he
11:36should be over the years. And because of
11:38that, that right there is how you start
11:40to up-level your masculine attitude and
11:42persona to start thinking for yourself.
11:45To say, "Hey, I have a limited amount of
11:47time on this earth. This is where I want
11:49to put my time in. This is how it's
11:50going."
11:51End of discussion.