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0:00All right, female nature contradictions
0:02episode two. This is a whole series that
0:05I am doing and dedicating to teach you
0:07all of the things that women do. Okay.
0:11So, in this second episode, what I'm
0:14going to be doing is I'm going to be
0:16teaching you this one specific thing,
0:20and that would be from start to finish.
0:24Okay? From the start of the first
0:26interaction when she says hello and when
0:28you say hello to the end of the
0:30relationship,
0:32her entire goal subconsciously the
0:35entire time is to get the leverage and
0:38the power in the relationship.
0:41Now the word specifically that I want to
0:43focus on through this video is the word
0:46leverage. Okay, she wants the leverage.
0:50Now, what this looks like in real life
0:52is something as simple as, "Hey, take my
0:55number." Okay?
0:58When she says, "Hey, take my number."
1:01Or, "Hey, text me." What that really
1:03means is she wants you to pursue her.
1:07Okay? So, this is what you have to
1:10understand. You have been raised or you
1:13have been taught to believe that high
1:15value. Okay? And certain frames of
1:20social dominance
1:22is specifically shown through things
1:24like being high value or having high
1:26status or making a lot of money. But
1:28that could not be further from the
1:30truth. Let me give you an example. Let's
1:34say you have that multi-millionaire high
1:35status guy who listens to her words when
1:39she says, "Hey, take my number and text
1:43me." And he says, "Okay." Well, he's
1:44essentially just submitted to her frame.
1:47Now, let's reverse this. Let's take the
1:50dude who doesn't have anything going for
1:51him and is a complete bum and is a
1:53complete loser, but he's smart enough to
1:55understand that women date up. And he's
1:58smart enough to understand that
1:59hypergamy is an internal feeling that
2:01she has, not an external status metric.
2:04And this man understands how to show
2:06subtle frames of social dominance that
2:10shows that he actually is that guy. That
2:13he shows that he actually is that alpha
2:15that understands things. And he looks at
2:17her and he says, "Take my number and
2:18text me."
2:21The difference is now she's the one in
2:22pursuit. The difference is now she's the
2:24one initiating the interaction. Women
2:27only fall in love with men who
2:30understand how to get and how to obtain
2:33and how to reclaim in some situations or
2:36how to consistently have the
2:38psychological perceived leverage. It is
2:41the man who has the psychological
2:43perceived leverage is the one that wins
2:46over her heart. So what is the female
2:49nature contradiction today that I'm
2:51about to teach you? I'm about to teach
2:52you this one thing. Women will
2:55constantly tell you that they want a man
2:58to pursue them when in reality women do
3:01100% of the pursuing towards the men
3:04that they actually want. There is a lot
3:07of men out there attempting to learn
3:09better game and do all of these things
3:12and hopefully say the right string of
3:13sentences, but you have to understand
3:15this. If you don't have this one dynamic
3:18down from the get-go where she is the
3:22one pursuing you, you are not the one
3:24pursuing her. You have already lost
3:27because subconsciously you have just
3:29admitted that she has the leverage or
3:31she has the power in the relationship.
3:34I'm going to give you an example of just
3:36how deep this goes. So, this goes so
3:38deep. I've heard this with numerous
3:40women um and I've heard them say things
3:42like, "Oh, he's so hot. How do I get him
3:44to text me? This is what women will
3:46actually say to one another is they'll
3:48say, "How do I get him to text me?" I
3:51have heard them say this so many times.
3:55I have heard them say, "How do I get him
3:56to send me a Snapchat? How do I get him
3:59to DM me? How do I get him to text me?"
4:01Women will do absolutely anything,
4:04absolutely anything
4:06to not give the power away and to pursue
4:08you.
4:10Women will do absolutely anything
4:12possible to be the one that is pursued
4:15because they want to hold all of the
4:17leverage because she is so scared to get
4:19heartbroken or she is so scared to fall
4:21in love with the guy that doesn't want
4:23her back. She is going to be indirect
4:25and she's going to do everything that
4:26she possibly can in order to get your
4:29attention. So, you're the one who
4:31initiates first. You have to understand
4:33that her entire dating strategy
4:34throughout the entire relationship from
4:36start to finish involves a degree of
4:39manipulation. The only thing that she
4:41can do then to have some leverage is to
4:45figure out how to get the power over you
4:46mentally. And she does this by playing
4:50hard to get and by making it seem like
4:52she doesn't have interest and by
4:53withholding interest and getting you to
4:55chase and you to pursue her all the way
4:57up until emasculation. So, this right
5:00here is how women have emasculated men
5:03at such a deep level over the past 50
5:05years is by constantly using um hidden
5:08covert manipulation, appearing as if
5:11they don't have interest, constantly
5:12being indirect with um all of the moves
5:15that they make. And then when that guy
5:16does pursue, a lot of times she'll make
5:18him jump through numerous hoops in order
5:20to even get that date in the first
5:22place. So, to bring this video back to
5:24the original base of what I said, the
5:26female nature contradiction that you're
5:28going to experience is that she will
5:30tell you, okay, this is a thing that
5:32you're going to experience. She will
5:34tell you, okay, that she wants a man to
5:36pursue her. This is what she's going to
5:38tell herself and this is what she's
5:40going to tell you. You cannot fall for
5:41this. In reality, women do all of the
5:44pursuing when they actually like the
5:47guy. Women do 100% of the pursuing. But
5:50this is what you have to know and this
5:51is what you have to understand. You have
5:53to have awareness
5:55to make sure that you do not give up
5:57that leverage. Let me give you an
5:58example. If you're talking to a woman,
6:00let's say it was a cold approach, let's
6:02say you met her at the gym, let's say
6:03you met her at the grocery store, let's
6:04say you met her. I don't care. I don't
6:06care. There's a lot of guys too where
6:07they try to make these excuses like,
6:09"Oh, you can only meet him in this
6:10situation." Dude, like if she thinks
6:12you're hot and she thinks you're
6:14attractive, you can meet her anywhere.
6:15Let's say you met a woman. At the end of
6:17the conversation, you have to have the
6:19balls and the arrogant, confident
6:20attitude to say, "Take my number here.
6:22Text me." Even if you're on an online
6:25dating app, I've had a lot of guys
6:27message me before um and say, "Um, you
6:30know, what do I say at this point?" Or,
6:32"I don't know what to say anymore. What
6:34do I keep talking about?" And I
6:35literally will just have them write
6:36their number and hit send. That shows a
6:39level of arrogance. That also shows a
6:41level of confidence. that also says,
6:43"Hey, if you don't text me, you're never
6:45going to hear from me, and I don't
6:46care." So, in order for you to make sure
6:50that you satisfy hypergamy, she has to
6:52be constantly looking up to you, or else
6:54she doesn't like you. The reason why I'm
6:56telling you this is because if you don't
6:59understand this psychological perceived
7:02game that she's playing of leverage,
7:04like this is how this is how deep the
7:06narcissism goes. I'm telling you, they
7:08will sit with their girlfriends and they
7:10will have discussions on how do I get
7:12him to text me? And she'll do a variety
7:14of things. She'll post stories. She'll
7:16do a bunch of stuff. Anything that she
7:18can possibly do to control the frame so
7:20that way she doesn't have to outreach
7:22you first because she knows that she
7:23just gave up leverage. This is what she
7:25is doing the entire time that she's
7:27dating you is not giving up leverage. So
7:30that way you're the one who falls in
7:31love with her and you're the one slowly
7:33emasculated. Even if you actually have
7:36more value and even if you have a higher
7:39SMV than her, this is the only game that
7:42she knows how to play. The only game
7:44that she knows how to play is gaining
7:46that leverage through being covert and
7:48getting you to pursue her. And most men
7:50are not smart enough to see through
7:51this. Which is why I have said numerous
7:53times, hypergamy is an internal feeling.
7:55It is not an external metric. You have
7:57to be able to
7:59be aware of this at all times. And one
8:02of the ways that most guys give this up
8:03is through the cell phone because he
8:06says, "Hey, what's your number? I'll
8:08text you." And now he's texting and he's
8:09instantly in pursuit. Attraction starts
8:11to drop. You have to constantly be the
8:14one to facilitate her reaching out to
8:16you.
8:17That includes leaving her on red from
8:19time to time. That includes just
8:20hearting a message and then not talking.
8:22That includes a lot of different things.
8:24But you are going to have to be the one
8:26that is the one who's hard to get.
8:28You're going to have to demonstrate so
8:30much pre-selection and so much status
8:32amongst other women. Notice this is not
8:36just corporate social status. I'm saying
8:37status amongst the women that shows that
8:40you have high perceived SMV. You're
8:42going to have to do these things or you
8:43will be left. So the next thing that you
8:46are going to experience from women, the
8:48reason why this is episode two is
8:50because the biggest contradiction that
8:52you're going to see that you're going to
8:53hear that I don't want you to fall for
8:55is you are going to hear women say, "I
8:59want him to pursue me." When in reality,
9:04she slides into the DMs of the guys that
9:07she likes. She's the one who sends those
9:09late night texts when she just got home
9:12from the bar and she's feeling lonely to
9:14that guy that she likes. It's happened
9:16to me numerous times. The woman will
9:19just pick up the phone and call. The
9:21woman will just send that text when she
9:22can't take it anymore. She can't take it
9:25anymore and she has to finally break
9:26that silence because he shows that he's
9:28strong enough to not need her. When you
9:30finally understand this, you'll just
9:32unfollow all of them.
9:35When you finally understand this,
9:39you will stop reaching out and you'll
9:40watch them reach out to you.
9:43When you finally understand this, you'll
9:45stop worrying about all the things that
9:46you say on your online dating app when
9:48it comes to the game that you're playing
9:50back and forth verbally to try to get
9:52her to pursue you. And you'll just
9:53literally type your number. There's been
9:56women who I've slept with where I just
9:57typed my number
10:01and she typed next she typed the next
10:03line and she goes, "That's it."
10:06I go, "Yep." Or I'll just heart the
10:08message. And she goes, "Cocky. I like
10:09it. I've seen this numerous times. The
10:12men that they like don't have to put in
10:14any effort, which is why I advise you to
10:17do one thing. You have to learn,
10:19understand, and master the language of
10:21women." And here's why. So, let me give
10:23you an example. Okay? I do to my
10:24community. He goes, "Since completing
10:27the language of women, my dating life
10:29has completely changed for the better.
10:32The course is so in-depth and accurate
10:35that after learning it, I feel like I'm
10:37cheating the game when it comes to
10:39understanding female nature. I now have
10:42attractive women who genuinely want to
10:44be a part of my life." exclamation mark.
10:47These are his words, not mine. That's
10:50what he said.
10:52So the thing that you have to understand
10:54is when I make these videos for you, the
10:58whole goal that I have in mind is to
11:00actually generate you results. Because
11:02listen, I wholeheartedly understand that
11:05majority of guys are not a famous social
11:07media celebrity, are not a famous
11:09celebrity, are not a famous actor, are
11:10not a famous musician, is not a
11:13professional athlete, does not make 20
11:15million bucks a year, does not have a
11:16private jet, does not have all these
11:18things, is not 7 feet tall. because of
11:20that, how does a dude who's just living
11:24dayto-day, how does that guy actually
11:26get results? That's how I made my
11:29process, that's how I made my program. I
11:31said, if I could give the guy all the
11:32tools that I know, if I could give a guy
11:34a specific process to just do this, hey,
11:37do this when you first meet the woman.
11:39Now, do this on the first one to three
11:40dates. Now, do this to maintain a
11:43long-term dynamic or a long-term
11:45relationship with the woman. Just follow
11:47this. That's how I made this. So that
11:50way you can just copy paste this into
11:52your dating life and go and use it.
11:54Check out what I made for you. Check out
11:56the community. Learn, understand, and
11:58master the language of women. Subscribe
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12:02the female nature contradictions with
12:04this episode series that I'm creating.
12:06And we'll see you in the next one.