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0:00All right, boys. Listen, women are
0:02catching on to the fact that men give up
0:05a lot quicker. And what that means is
0:07men withdraw quicker because men are
0:09getting smarter and men are putting up
0:12with less BS. Okay, what that means is
0:15women are sensing that any friction
0:18before when they would do that the guy
0:21would just chase and chase and chase and
0:22chase and chase and chase and say sorry
0:25and you know, what can I do to make it
0:26up to you and all this BS. And all she
0:29had to do every single time was just
0:30pull back and then get the leverage. But
0:33what women are slowly realizing is that
0:35men don't play those games anymore
0:37because men are learning.
0:39Because of videos like mine, because
0:41[clears throat] of the thousands of
0:42other clips out there of men sharing the
0:44same or similar experiences, women are
0:47learning that they slowly have to bring
0:48more to the table.
0:50Okay, and that includes a good attitude.
0:52What I advise all of you to do is this.
0:55You guys all need to be raising your
0:58SMV. You need to be raising your
1:00attractiveness.
1:02So that way you have as close to as many
1:04options as she does. This is going to
1:07give you the ability
1:08to maintain that abundance mindset to
1:10walk away.
1:12Okay, the only leverage you have, the
1:14only power that you have in a
1:15relationship is your ability to walk
1:17away. And women are slowly realizing
1:19that men do this in a quick hurry all of
1:21a sudden when that attitude is not
1:22there.
1:24You need to raise your own
1:25attractiveness so you can behave this
1:28way. The only reason why I can say all
1:30this stuff and give you these types of
1:34tips and all this
1:36and I can still get laid is because I've
1:39made myself an option to do so.
1:42You have to do the same. You have to
1:43make yourself a scarce resource that she
1:46cannot replace. If you do this
1:49you're going to have a way better time
1:50than most dudes.
1:51Women only feel romantic desire towards
1:54these two types of men. So stick with me
1:56and I'll explain. The first type of guy
1:59is a guy that she thinks is hot. Okay,
2:02so this type of desire or this type of
2:04romantic desire, I should say, is rooted
2:06in arousal.
2:08He could be really good-looking, he
2:09could be muscular, maybe he has a good
2:11jawline, maybe he's tall, maybe he has
2:14good style, whatever the case may be.
2:15She could be attracted to just his
2:17presence and his energy based on how he
2:20looks and how he shows up in life. So,
2:23this is the first type of attraction or
2:25this is the first type of desire that a
2:27woman could experience that would lead
2:30to romantic interest, but there's a
2:32second type of desire that most men
2:34don't understand.
2:36The second type of guy that can generate
2:38romantic desire that a woman feels
2:40towards him
2:42would be a man that she respects. So,
2:45this is a completely different type of
2:47desire. Let me give you an example. One
2:49of the reasons why women, a lot of
2:51times, will fall in love with their
2:52boss, okay, or start to develop romantic
2:55interest towards their boss at work is
2:58because he is in a position of
3:00authority. So, a man who's in a position
3:02of authority might experience attraction
3:05from women as well, but this is a
3:06completely different type of desire.
3:09This type of desire is due to his status
3:12or his position in the world or because
3:14he is an authority figure in a specific
3:17field or a specific industry or maybe he
3:20manages groups of people at work. This
3:23is the type of man that she respects.
3:25These two types of men both receive
3:28romantic interest from women. These two
3:30types of men both experience attraction,
3:32but her reasoning for desiring each of
3:35these types of man is completely
3:37different.
3:39What I recommend you doing as a man is
3:41leveling up both if you can. Level up
3:44your attractiveness. Level up who you
3:47are. Level up your physique. Get in the
3:49best shape of your life. Do everything
3:51that you can to be as physically
3:52attractive as possible, but on top of
3:54that, you also want to become the type
3:56of man that a woman respects. So, if you
3:59can do both of these, this right here is
4:01the sweet spot.
4:02Now, to help you attract women with
4:05ease, so that way you have an actual
4:06process you can follow, check out what I
4:08made for you. It's in my bio, it's in my
4:10description. I'm going to help you
4:11learn, understand, and master the
4:13language of women. This video, I'm going
4:15to show you why you have to fraud
4:17interest in order to attract women. This
4:19will all make sense.
4:21And yes, you heard that right. I just
4:22said fraud interest. So, if you're
4:24slightly autistic, or if you don't
4:27really have an interest in people, this
4:29is for you. Now, keep in mind, this is
4:31not for anybody with social anxiety
4:33because this is not about social
4:34anxiety. What this video is
4:37is this is for the dudes out there who
4:39like are at a five out of 10, pretty
4:41much no matter where they're at. So, I'm
4:43more like that. Right, you can put me in
4:44a nightclub, or you can put me in a
4:47in a grocery store,
4:49and my mood, my demeanor, I'm just at a
4:51five out of 10, no matter where I'm at.
4:52Like, I'm the exact same. So, this is
4:54how you fraud interest, and this is why
4:56it's a necessity. If you don't act
4:59interested in people at all,
5:01you're going to come off like
5:02intimidating, or you're going to come
5:04off like you just have bad social
5:06skills, or you're rude. This is
5:08especially true if you have
5:11a lot of muscle mass, or if you um
5:14like you look conventionally attractive.
5:17I don't care if you're talking to a guy
5:19or a girl, you just have to start asking
5:21more questions. So, me personally, I
5:23don't give a crap about the person's
5:24golden retriever, but I have to say,
5:26"Oh, no way. How long you had that dog
5:28for?"
5:29"Oh, no way. How long you had that
5:30golden retriever for? Oh, no way. My
5:31aunt has a golden retriever, too."
5:34I personally don't care about video
5:35games at all, but I have to look at that
5:36dude, and I have to say, "Oh, bro, no
5:38way. Have you checked out the new
5:39Madden? You play the new NHL?"
5:41"Oh, no way. You ever play that UFC
5:42game?" You don't have to care, but you
5:44have to fraud interest, or else people
5:46are going to think that something's
5:46wrong. Me personally, this is something
5:48I have had to learn and I'm here to help
5:50you so that way life gets way easier. If
5:52you were talking to her, ask her when
5:54the last time she's made banana bread.
5:56Tell her that your mom makes banana
5:58bread. Ask her if she puts chocolate
5:59chips in it. Then ask her if she ever
6:00puts uh pecans in it. And then ask her
6:03if she ever drizzles the top with
6:05caramel. See, like these are all the
6:06things if you just start asking
6:08meaningless stuff, you have to
6:09understand that since women live in the
6:10land of emotion, you have to start to
6:12play into that or else here's what's
6:14going to happen. Your mood, your
6:16demeanor, and everything will become
6:17flat. So, if you have the caveman
6:21persona like me, okay? Or if no matter
6:24where you're at, you're always at a five
6:26out of 10 interest, this is for you.
6:28To help you learn, understand, and
6:29master the language of women at an even
6:31deeper level, check out what I made for
6:32you. It's in my bio. It's in my
6:33description. I'm here to actually help
6:35you and show you what to do. That way
6:36you know what to do when you first meet
6:38the woman. That way you know what to do
6:40when you're on that first one to three
6:41dates. And that way you know what to do
6:44and how to manage that long-term
6:45relationship. So, that way the woman
6:46that you really, really love or the
6:47woman that you really, really have a
6:48crush on, she does not want to pull away
6:51from you. That's why I made all this. Go
6:52and check that out. It's in my bio.
6:54Look, most men are in a perpetual
6:55mindset of losing. And what I mean by
6:57that is this. If they go out to a uh
7:00social event, a cigar lounge, anything,
7:02and let's say there's a beautiful woman,
7:03and one of the dudes asks his four other
7:05friends, he says, "Oh dude, do you think
7:06I should go talk to her? She's so
7:08pretty. She's so gorgeous. She's so
7:09beautiful." Most of the friends will
7:11say, "No. No, man, it'll probably fail.
7:13No, bro, she's with two other friends.
7:15No, man, it's not good timing. She'll
7:16probably reject you." It's like that
7:18dude is just in a constant state of
7:19losing. No matter what, he's in a
7:21constant state of losing because
7:22everybody around him is a complete
7:23loser. But then I realized this. How you
7:25do one thing is literally how you do
7:27everything, okay? How you do one thing
7:28is how you do everything. So, that means
7:30that exact same guy, when he asks the
7:31four other friends, that same dude, when
7:33he asks his four other friends, "Hey
7:34man, do you think I should start that
7:36business? Do you think I should try to
7:37level up in my career? If I start this
7:38business, do you think it'll work?"
7:40The dude's friends say the same thing.
7:41"No, man, sounds like a lot of hard
7:43work. Nah, man, sounds like it'll
7:44probably fail. Nah, bro, it sounds like
7:46that's a lot of competition already and
7:48it's too saturated. You'll probably lose
7:49that. Don't do it. Why even try anyways?
7:51Just keep working your same job. This is
7:52the type of guys that everybody has
7:54around them. Is literally dudes who just
7:56have the mindset of losing. So, then
7:58what happens is the dude is in a
8:00constant mindset of losing. So, then
8:01it's like anytime he does open his mouth
8:03and literally say anything, he just
8:05sounds stupid because his whole life
8:07he's in a state of passiveness. His
8:09whole life he's in a state of
8:10suppression. His whole life he doesn't
8:12say what he wants to do. His whole life
8:13he just goes along with everything and
8:15he thinks, "Oh, this is completely
8:16normal." It's like, "You need to be
8:18around winners. You need to be around
8:20dudes who push you in life to win. You
8:22need to be around dudes who give you the
8:24hell yes mentality, not the hell no
8:26mentality." If you are around five dudes
8:30and you say, "Hey, she's so beautiful.
8:31Do you think I should go say hi? Do you
8:32think I should go say hello?" If they
8:34give you any answer other than
8:36absolutely, if they give you any other
8:39answer other than, "Dude, you don't even
8:42need our permission in the first place.
8:43Of course, you should do what you want
8:44to do. Go say hi." If they give you any
8:47other answer other than, "Of course, you
8:49should go start that business and win."
8:51These people, despite them being a good
8:54friend, despite them maybe spotting you
8:56a few bucks
8:57if you forget your wallet, maybe they'll
9:00uh
9:01lend you a place to live if you fall on
9:03hard times for a month or something.
9:05It's great. I'm not saying don't talk to
9:07them. What I am saying is when you
9:09actually want to win in life, you need
9:11to be surrounded by dudes who have that
9:13same mindset. And if you don't, you are
9:15going to be a lone wolf for the rest of
9:17your life. That's why I created my
9:19community where I help men learn,
9:20understand, and master the language of
9:22women so that way you're surrounded by
9:23like-minded dudes who think this way.
9:25Check out what I made for you. It's in
9:27my bio. It's in my description. You will
9:28love it.
9:29If she tells you that you should not
9:31care about her past, you have to
9:33understand she is trying to manipulate
9:35you and here's why.
9:36Women reserve the right to get the ick
9:39from almost anything.
9:41He says one thing, gives her the ick,
9:43she's not feeling him. He did one thing,
9:46blah blah blah blah blah. You're going
9:47to hear this your whole life. Just a
9:49bunch of blah blah.
9:51Now, men get the ick, too. Okay? The ick
9:54comes when
9:55comes when there's been just a few too
9:57many hot dogs down that hallway, okay?
10:01However, you're not allowed to express
10:03that ick. You're not allowed to have
10:05that. Oh, no, no, Mr. Bad Man. You
10:07You're just a bad man, aren't you? As
10:09soon as you care about that, you're so
10:11controlling.
10:12You're so insecure. Oh, that's so toxic.
10:14You actually care, but that's not how I
10:16treated you in this relationship. But
10:18why should my past matter? It's not how
10:19I treat you. But me and you right now,
10:21the only thing that matters is how I am
10:23with you right now. Why can't you see
10:24that? See, it's it's men like you who
10:26just don't grow up. You're so focused on
10:27the past. See, it's a guy like you.
10:29You're so insecure. You can't even look
10:30to our future, okay? This is the type of
10:32sentences you're going to hear.
10:34The reason why this is so important,
10:37listen to me closely.
10:39It's because in her life, there is one
10:41man. Just one. Out of all the men that
10:44she's been with,
10:45might be a dozen, might be two dozen,
10:47might be a hundred. There is one guy
10:49that she liked more than all of them.
10:51And you are constantly being compared to
10:52that one guy. And if you are not that
10:54one guy, your life is going to be a
10:56living hell.
10:57Here's exactly how women were lied to
11:00practically their entire life, and
11:01here's exactly how women blow through
11:03all of their options that they had in
11:05their 20s and their 30s only to find
11:08themselves completely single.
11:10What women were taught their entire life
11:12is that if he wanted to, he would. So,
11:15what they were taught is that a man is
11:16supposed to do all the pursuing, a man
11:18is supposed to basically, um, do all the
11:21pursuing and do all the chasing and do
11:23all of this to try to set dates and try
11:24to make plans. And if he doesn't, he
11:26doesn't love you. But here's what
11:27happens.
11:29As she pulls back and as she never shows
11:32any interest, what typically happens all
11:34through her 20s and all through her 30s
11:37is that the man now pursues more. So, he
11:40sends more text messages, and he sends
11:42more phone calls, and he tries to plan
11:44more dates.
11:46And she thinks logically in her mind
11:48that this is what she wants because this
11:50is how it's supposed to go because this
11:52is what all of the movies told her to
11:54believe, and this is what all of the
11:56whatever gossip that all of her friends
11:58had is that if he wanted to, he would,
12:00and he's supposed to put in more work,
12:02and girl, you got to make him work for
12:04it. Only
12:06to see or only to find out or only to
12:08start to realize that by her doing that
12:10and now him over pursuing, this leads to
12:13the road of emasculation. And now she
12:16has no desire for him. The exact things
12:19that she thinks she wants or that she
12:21was told to want is the exact things
12:24that turns her off. And this right here
12:27is how she blows every single
12:28relationship in all of her 20s and
12:31almost all of her 30s because nobody
12:33ever told her that this is wrong. Her
12:35dad never told her that this is not the
12:37right way to do it. Her mom never told
12:38her. And here's the other funniest thing
12:40about this.
12:41Women are all in competition with each
12:44other because they all want the exact
12:46same men.
12:47So, the advice that they give each other
12:50is only advice to ruin the other woman's
12:53opportunity of actually achieving a
12:55relationship with an amazing man.
12:57Women do not want to see each other
13:00succeed. However, the funniest thing
13:01about this is because they don't realize
13:04that they all have this exact same
13:05mindset. So, they all actually believe
13:08that deep down she has her best interest
13:10in her favor.
13:11They don't even realize that their
13:13friends are slowly sabotaging their
13:15relationships over and over and over.
13:18Not to mention what you're going to find
13:19is that women only listen to other
13:21women. Women only take advice from other
13:23women. So, what you're going to notice
13:25is that you as a man,
13:27you are going to really have to notice
13:29this one thing.
13:31The more you chase and the more you
13:32pursue and the more you do what women
13:34claim they want when it comes to the
13:36communication, this will just totally
13:38backfire and you will be single over and
13:41over and over.
13:42Check out what I made for you. It's in
13:43my bio, it's in my description. I'm
13:45going to help you learn, understand, and
13:46master the language of women.
13:48Okay, so if you have social anxiety, I'm
13:50going to help you and I think that
13:51everybody gives terrible advice to this.
13:53Like most people give BS advice. The
13:55advice that I even hear when I look at
13:57my social media when it comes to social
13:59anxiety to help other guys is it's like,
14:01"Oh, just vibe." It's like, what does
14:04that mean? Like, how do you actually
14:05give someone results? What I'm actually
14:06going to do is I'm going to give you
14:08some step-by-step processes to actually
14:10get results. Okay, so these are the
14:12three things that you should be doing
14:14every single day to help fix your social
14:16anxiety. Just stick with me.
14:18Number one, the very first thing that I
14:20want you to do every single day when you
14:21wake up is I want you to go on a
14:2320-minute walk. Okay, and here's why. If
14:27you go on a 20-minute walk every single
14:29day, you're going to get in the habit of
14:30doing fasted cardio. The goal is to dial
14:33in your diet so that way your face looks
14:35lean, you like how you look, you look
14:37attractive, you don't have a lot of
14:39facial bloat, and you look attractive
14:41and healthy. Okay, so this is important
14:43because regardless of what most people
14:45tell you, I don't care what most people
14:46tell you. Most people will not be
14:48confident if they don't like how they
14:49look. You have to understand this. Most
14:51people, if you have like if you're
14:53excessively overweight or you don't look
14:55the best, you're not going to be
14:56confident. Your voice isn't going to
14:58radiate the same when you look someone
14:59in the eyes, you're not going to feel um
15:01attractive or worthy. Like, you have to
15:03get in really good shape. And right now,
15:04this is more important than ever. So,
15:06number one, start every single morning
15:08with a 20-minute fasted walk. Grab your
15:11cup of black coffee and go on a walk. I
15:13do this every morning. 10 minutes out, I
15:15see the stopwatch, turn around, 10
15:17minutes back. That's number one.
15:19Number two, when you walk into a social
15:21event or a party or whatever, and let's
15:23say you know just one friend or two
15:24friends, you need to make it a point to
15:27meet and introduce yourself to every
15:29other man that is there. The reason
15:31being is because if you can gain the
15:33social approval and the social
15:34acceptance of the other men, naturally
15:36women will notice that because women
15:38will naturally see that other men
15:39respect you. Okay, so this is the second
15:42step. Before you can meet all the women,
15:44you have to actually meet all the men.
15:46And if you can raise your social status
15:48with the dudes, you're going to earn
15:49brownie points in any event or venue
15:51that you're in. Number three, if you are
15:53selfish or you are self-centered or you
15:55are slightly autistic even, you are not
15:58going to be remembering everybody's name
16:00because you don't really care about them
16:02deep down. You're just focused on
16:04yourself. So you need to get out of that
16:05mindset. Number three, what you have to
16:07do is you have to actually make it a
16:08point when you shake their hand to
16:10actually remember everybody's name. Hey,
16:13that is John. Hey, that is Frank. Hey,
16:15that is Henry. Hey, that's Amanda. Hey,
16:17that's Caleb. Okay, what's going to
16:19happen is you're going to show up
16:20socially a little bit better. You're
16:22going to actually be present in the
16:24moment and it's going to seem like you
16:25actually care. This is so important.
16:27Start doing these three habits [music]
16:29right now.
16:30Check out what I made for you. It's in
16:31my bio. It's in my description. I'll
16:33help you learn, understand, and master
16:35the language of women.
16:37Throughout your whole life as a man, the
16:38world is basically going to tell you to
16:40dim your own light.
16:42The world is going to try to crush your
16:44spirit. It could be that woman that
16:45you're dating. It could be just people
16:47around you. It could be your co-workers.
16:49It could be friends. Whatever the case
16:50may be, you are going to try to get you
16:53to think smaller. So you're constantly
16:56going to be told to tone it down. You're
16:58constantly going to be told to just be
17:00happy. You're constantly going to be
17:01told to can't you just be content?
17:03You're constantly going to be told uh do
17:05you ever stop working or do you ever
17:06stop thinking about your own future? Do
17:08you ever stop and smell the roses?
17:09Listen, these people are in love with
17:13pleasure. These people are in love with
17:16complacency. They want to do nothing
17:18more than just sit on the couch. They
17:20literally get turned on by just sitting
17:22on that couch. They just love it. They
17:24love sitting on the couch, watching TV,
17:26or watching the news, or watching some
17:27movie. And because you don't want to
17:29spend your time doing that, because you
17:30would rather do something productive, or
17:32do something active, or you would rather
17:34try to go out in the world and
17:35accomplish your goals, you will
17:36constantly be told to dim your own
17:38light. You're going to be told to be
17:40quieter. You're going to be told to not
17:42be so outspoken. You're going to be told
17:44to tone it down. And you have to resist
17:46the urge to give in. You have to be okay
17:48with being ambitious. You have to be
17:50okay with wanting to be active. You have
17:52to be okay with wanting
17:54to accomplish your own goals. You got to
17:56understand that's going to be a
17:57different mindset than most people.
18:00Okay? And that's okay. But you can't
18:01give in. You just can't give in. I get
18:03that it takes some courage to do things
18:05differently than most people.
18:07I get that you got to step outside the
18:09box. I get that it takes some courage,
18:11but it's okay. You don't have to have
18:14everybody's approval to do something.
18:15It's okay if you just rely on your own
18:17intuition, and you do it because because
18:21you want to. You'll even notice this
18:22with dudes, right? If there's a pretty
18:23woman right there, he'll ask all of his
18:25friends, "Oh, do you think I should go
18:26talk to her?" as if he needs their
18:28approval first before he's allowed to
18:29say hello. You need to stop doing stuff
18:31like this. You need to just go out in
18:33the world and start to accomplish what
18:35you want to accomplish. Now, if you want
18:38to be around a community of other
18:39like-minded men, and you want to start
18:41to learn, understand, and master the
18:43language of women so that way you can
18:44attract the women that you want, and on
18:46top of that retain the relationships
18:48that you've always wanted without her
18:50pulling away and leaving you
18:51heartbroken, check out what I made for
18:53you. It's in my bio. It's in my
18:54description. You'll love it.
18:56Here's a social tip not talked about,
18:58and it took me until I was almost 30
19:00years old now to understand this. The
19:03benefit and the power of making friends
19:05with all of the men anytime that you're
19:08out. So, here's the thing that I've
19:10realized, okay?
19:12Most people are looking for someone else
19:14to be the light. Okay, the light at the
19:16end of the tunnel. Like almost their
19:18social savior. Everybody sitting there
19:20hoping and praying um for somebody to
19:23talk to them or to initiate something.
19:26Okay, but the thing is is that's not how
19:28it goes most times. A lot of times you
19:30have to step up and you have to be that
19:32light. Okay?
19:34Even me, I've had all these these same
19:36thoughts and observations for all these
19:37years. Listen close. You have to make
19:39friends with all of the other men. You
19:41have to. It's one thing that I have to
19:43actually be conscious of. It's one thing
19:45you have to be conscious of and here's
19:46why. If you make friends with all of the
19:49men, naturally this will raise your
19:51status in the eyes of the women that are
19:53around. Okay, so stick with me. Another
19:55thing that this does
19:58is it makes it to where you appear as if
20:01you are part of the social group. So
20:04that way if you do talk to one of the
20:06women later on, it doesn't look like
20:08you're just directly hitting on her. It
20:09looks like you're just talking to
20:10everybody.
20:12Okay, this is a lot different from like
20:15if you don't talk to anybody and like
20:16let's say you think one of the women is
20:18really beautiful and you only talk to
20:19her. All the other dudes,
20:21right?
20:23What's going to happen? Number one, you
20:24don't know if she's seeing somebody.
20:26Number two, you don't know if like it's
20:27her boyfriend around or anything like
20:29that. What's going to actually happen
20:32is that it's going to raise social
20:34resistance. Okay, so you have to do
20:36this. You have to make friends with all
20:37of the dudes around you. I know that
20:38it's uncomfortable. I know that this
20:40might be something that uh you're not
20:42like used to doing.
20:44Over the years it definitely wasn't
20:45something that I was used to doing and
20:46uh
20:48the thing is is nowadays like
20:50with social media and if you can take
20:52good photos, like I've always been able
20:53to take really good photos for dating
20:55apps. I've always been able to have
20:57dating success a lot of times
20:59without even talking to anybody. Simply
21:00just through pictures. But the thing
21:02that you have to remember is for those
21:03of you out there where you want like a
21:05better um dating life and social life in
21:09person.
21:10Okay, you have to do this. If you make
21:12friends with the men, it raises your
21:14social status with the women.
21:16Okay, and what's going to happen is your
21:17dating life gets easier because your
21:19interactions actually happen
21:21organically. So, just start doing this.
21:23Ask the other dudes around you
21:24questions. Oh, hey, what are you up to?
21:26How's that business idea coming? Right?
21:28Oh, did you finally get that new car
21:29yet? Right, make it all about them. If
21:31you make it all about them,
21:33what's going to happen is naturally
21:35you're going to seem
21:37really socially calibrated. Okay, so
21:41just take this from me. Like I want you
21:42to take this to heart.