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0:00Okay, so I'm going to show you what not
0:02to do when it comes to text messaging
0:04women.
0:05Um so this girl I know, she's in her
0:0730s, I think.
0:09She actually had a dude approach her
0:11when she was I don't even know where she
0:13was. She was either out and about um
0:15maybe at a shopping mall or something.
0:17And she was into him um and they
0:19exchanged numbers and he just completely
0:22fumbled. And I'm going to show you um
0:26I'll block out the number here for
0:28privacy, obviously, but she showed me
0:31this and sent this to me and I want to
0:33make a video on this because
0:35if you look at the timestamps on this,
0:38it just shows extreme urgency and also
0:41you have to understand how and why women
0:43get turned off. So you can see in the
0:46above message
0:47um
0:49he put what kind of food do you like?
0:52Um and I don't know what the message was
0:55above that, but she goes stop
0:56{exclamation mark} I love Scotland.
0:58That's so cool. When was that? So you
1:00can see the multiple {exclamation mark}
1:02you can see her asking follow-up
1:03questions. She clearly has interest.
1:06And then she gave another paragraph. So
1:09like you can see she's giving him heavy
1:11investment.
1:12Okay, super heavy investment. She goes I
1:15like all foods. Honestly, I don't love
1:17seafood, but I always try it. Haha. And
1:21some sushi I live
1:23and
1:25and some sushi I live in some I Oh, it
1:28meant to say love. And some sushi I love
1:31and some I just don't care for. It's a
1:32texture thing, I think. Lol. Do you have
1:35IG? {question mark}
1:37So let's just dissect this first and
1:39foremost.
1:42What you'll notice with a lot of women,
1:44if they have low interest, is they don't
1:45even answer your question head-on. So
1:48she's actually answering his questions,
1:50okay? And you can see that she gave him
1:52a full paragraph here.
1:58How that always happens. And you can see
2:00she gave him an entire paragraph here of
2:03answers.
2:05So, this is super high investment. At
2:06this point, all you have to do is
2:09back away for a few hours before you
2:11reply. And all you have to do is maybe
2:13leave some room and some space for some
2:15mystery because at this point,
2:17even though she is attracted to you, you
2:20can completely tank your value down to
2:22zero.
2:23And
2:25she was sitting at the table that night
2:27with all of us.
2:29And she was talking about how disgusted
2:31she was at his replies and how needy he
2:33was. Because then, if you see at the
2:36timestamps down below that I'm about to
2:37show you,
2:38he was double and even triple texting.
2:41And he could not wait for an answer. And
2:43he took um her slow reply as low
2:47interest, which isn't the case. The
2:49truth is a lot of times women want to
2:51just see how you react and how things
2:53play out. And she said verbally, she
2:55goes,
2:56"If you're going to double and triple
2:57text me that much and you're wanting to
3:00see me um that quick, like shouldn't you
3:02be working on something? Like shouldn't
3:03you be working on uh your business or
3:05have hobbies? Like why is this text
3:07message that high of a priority
3:08already?" She said something along those
3:10lines. And I'm going to read you word
3:13for word here.
3:15The next message he goes, "I don't have
3:16Instagram, but I have tons of pics if
3:19you want
3:20or if you wanted picture exchange." with
3:23a smiley face.
3:25That was in 2018 to 2020. "Sam, {comma}
3:28I love all foods as well."
3:31And then she didn't reply.
3:33Um
3:35and keep in mind,
3:38the above message here, okay, was still
3:41the same day. So, at 1:07 p.m. was the
3:44above message.
3:46And then later that night, he already
3:49double texted and put, "What are you
3:50doing?"
3:52Okay, so this is all within the same
3:53day. So it's not like she was even like
3:55trying to take a long time to reply.
3:57It's not like she was
3:59really even trying to delay a reply.
4:02Like there's a chance that between text
4:04messaging him and you know, her
4:06girlfriends or working or working out or
4:08taking care of her dog or whatever.
4:11There's a chance that she just didn't
4:12get to it yet.
4:14And then he puts what are you doing?
4:16Okay.
4:18Because clearly just that few hours of
4:20time delay on her end already was
4:22enough.
4:24That was already enough clearly to put
4:26self-doubt into this guy's mind. Guys,
4:29you cannot operate like that. There's
4:31not even really such thing as a bad text
4:33message if you just waited out long
4:34enough because this is what you have to
4:35understand. If she wants to talk to you
4:37and if she wants to hear from you and if
4:39she wants to see you, she will find a
4:41reply. If you look at how women text
4:43their girlfriends, they'll give
4:45paragraphs and paragraphs and voice
4:46messages after voice messages and they
4:48will talk all day, which means even if
4:50your text was bad, if she wants to talk
4:53to you or if she wants to see you, she
4:54will find a way to talk to you. Like
4:56she'll find a way. She'll think of
4:58something. Okay?
5:00But you can see this dude right here
5:02just had no patience.
5:04So that couple hours of time delay was
5:07already enough to create self-doubt or
5:10to put self-doubt in this guy's mind
5:13to where he thinks he needs to double
5:14text already after just a few hours. And
5:17then he goes what are you doing?
5:18And after the what are you doing?
5:21Because he didn't get a reply within
5:24less than two hours even. 7:08 p.m. to
5:279:49 p.m. So
5:307:08
5:31to 8:08 to 9:08 to 10:08 would be 3
5:34hours. So even that's not that long.
5:37Because he didn't get a reply within 3
5:39hours,
5:40he already puts take care and you can
5:42see he's now butt hurt. Like he's
5:44literally be and he's butt hurt that
5:46this didn't go anywhere. So, you need to
5:49understand this. You need some patience.
5:52This guy
5:54right here went from having an option
5:58and completely blowing it within just
6:00like six or seven hours here all from
6:02text messages and not being patient.
6:05You should be able to send one text
6:07message in the beginning like that and
6:09be okay with not getting a reply for 12
6:11to 24 hours sometimes because you got to
6:14understand
6:16number one, you should already have an
6:18abundant dating life. You should already
6:19have an abundant social life. You should
6:21already have an abundant business life
6:23and be occupied where you don't care if
6:25you get a reply or not. That's number
6:26one.
6:27Okay.
6:28Number two,
6:30women have other things going on too and
6:32just because she thinks you're hot,
6:33you're not like a priority right away to
6:35start talking to a lot of times. And in
6:37my opinion, she already viewed him as
6:39somewhat of a priority in the beginning
6:41because look at the paragraph
6:42investment. Like that's a lot of
6:44investment. Like she had interest and
6:46this guy went from
6:50having an option, having a woman having
6:51high interest in him to completely
6:53tanking his value down to zero and
6:56having her not having any interest all
6:59because of
7:00not having good
7:02digital communication.
7:04Like this is terrible and see this is
7:06why I am such a believer in
7:07understanding how women perceive
7:09messages. I'm such a believer when it
7:11comes to understanding how women read
7:13and interpret text messages because you
7:16have to understand every single message
7:18you send is a display of value.
7:21And it's a display of how many options
7:23you already have. If this guy, okay,
7:27if this guy went into this interaction
7:28and didn't really care a whole hell of a
7:30lot if he got a reply today or not, he
7:32would be willing to just sit back and
7:33wait. And he'd say, you know, maybe
7:36she'll reply tomorrow or whatever. Maybe
7:39I'll go to the mall and I'll meet a new
7:40woman too within the next 20 minutes. If
7:42he carried himself like that and he
7:44showed that he wasn't needy, he showed
7:46that
7:47um
7:48he had more patience,
7:50he would still have this option and she
7:52would probably still be interested and
7:54she would probably be willing to go get
7:55sushi with him or something like that.
7:58Um
8:01but because
8:03there was just so little patience, it's
8:05like even the what are you doing to the
8:08take care less than 3 hours apart is
8:09like why do you need a reply right now?
8:11Why do you need to know what she's doing
8:13right now? Why do you care? It's Sunday
8:15night. Like get ready for your work day
8:16tomorrow. Like do something. And this is
8:18why, okay, as a man, you will display
8:21what your SMV is very quickly
8:25simply by revealing how you think and
8:28how you feel through that cell phone.
8:30And I see this with so many guys. I see
8:32this with so many guys apologizing on
8:34text messages. Oh, you know,
8:36uh
8:37I'm really sorry for acting out the
8:39other night. I wasn't my best self. I'm
8:41really hoping we can move forward. Blah,
8:43blah, blah. All this all this stuff.
8:46Just a bunch of BS.
8:48Apologizing over text messages, getting
8:51offended and butt hurt because you
8:52didn't get a reply about what are you
8:54doing within a few hours. It's like go
8:57do something else. And this is why
9:00you need to have
9:02all of your bases covered. Like sure, do
9:05the cold approach. Sure, do the warm
9:06approach. Do the social circle approach.
9:09Meet women um through your social
9:11circle. Meet women
9:12through direct messages if you want.
9:14Meet women through all the dating apps
9:16if you want. You need to have your bases
9:17covered. And by you displaying that you
9:20need a text message that damn bad,
9:23not only is it going to be embarrassing,
9:25like she was sitting there with me and
9:26all of her friends and everybody else
9:28who was there at the table laughing at
9:29this guy because she even said he was an
9:31attractive guy or she obviously had
9:33interest. Like women don't just send you
9:34a paragraph and be willing to put these
9:36exclamation marks and all that if she
9:38views you as not attractive at all. She
9:40would not have even given her number.
9:42Okay, so this is what I want you to take
9:44away from this video. And I'm not even
9:46going to dissect how I would have
9:48replied to all of this because like I
9:49don't know where they were at in the
9:51conversation. I don't know what the
9:52conversation was like when they first
9:54met. I don't know what the dynamic was
9:56like. Um I also can't see the above
9:58messages. So for me to guess what to say
10:00here,
10:01like he's a totally different person, a
10:03totally different individual than me.
10:06Okay, so keep in mind like she had
10:07interest, but you have to
10:10lay your cards the right way.
10:12And this is why you have to learn,
10:14understand, and master the language of
10:16women because what I can tell you is
10:17this, every single display of value
10:21is shown through what you say, what you
10:23do, and how you act.
10:25All of it. You could be the tallest,
10:26most good-looking, rich dude in the
10:28world,
10:29but the second that you start
10:31over-qualifying, over-communicating,
10:33asking too many questions, you are now
10:35entering her frame, and most guys don't
10:37get this. Most guys don't understand
10:39that every single digital form of
10:41communication and every single verbal
10:43form of communication of every single
10:45sentence spoken is a display of value,
10:48and it's a display of status, and it's a
10:50display if you know how to carry
10:52yourself versus how not to carry
10:53yourself. And actually, you know what,
10:55the more I look at this message, I will
10:56give you an example of what I would say
10:58here. So um
11:01the one thing that I wouldn't do is I
11:03wouldn't
11:04start answering a bunch of questions,
11:06and I wouldn't start answering stuff
11:07that she already said up top. I would
11:09just progress the conversation forward.
11:11So when she put I like all foods,
11:12honestly, I don't love seafood, but I
11:14always try it. When she sent that
11:16paragraph,
11:17um instead of the bottom message here
11:20where he goes, "Same, {comma} I love all
11:22foods as well." I would have just hold
11:24it down the button and gave a heart
11:26reaction to that message. So that way
11:29it's like, here it is, I acknowledged
11:30it, awesome. Okay, and then instead of
11:33all the other stuff right here, I would
11:34have just put I don't have IG.
11:36That's it. I wouldn't have suggested a
11:38picture exchange or anything like that
11:39because then it's like
11:41it's just too much in the dynamic of
11:43trying to sell yourself or trying to
11:45qualify yourself. You know, it's like
11:47you're offering up a secondary
11:49thing where it's like, "Hey, instead of
11:51this, we can send pictures um or a
11:53selfie or a contact profile." Like you
11:55don't have to do any of that. Like if
11:57you're a dude with enough social value
11:59and she likes you and you're a person
12:01who just doesn't like social media. If
12:03she thinks you're hot enough and
12:04attractive enough, you could just put I
12:06don't have Instagram and that's it and
12:08just leave it at that. But see, guys go
12:10down these rabbit holes of
12:12over-communicating, giving too many
12:14sentences. You don't leave any room for
12:16mystery. You don't have any patience and
12:18it's like obviously she can't be
12:19attracted to you then. She sees you have
12:21no options. Women want to be with a guy
12:24who appears as if he has options because
12:26most likely he does have options, which
12:28is why he knows how to appear that way
12:29in the first place. And this is why you
12:31have to learn, understand, and master
12:32the language of women because I don't
12:34really
12:35think guys understand this.
12:37I really don't think guys understand
12:38this. Like I really don't. I really
12:40think that so many guys think if they
12:41just like improve their looks and they
12:43improve this and they make more money,
12:45now they're going to have women and
12:46you're not because how you communicate
12:49and how you show up
12:51determines and dictates her perceived
12:54value of you. Let me give you an example
12:56of a dude in my program. This is like an
12:58actual testimonial of a dude and what he
13:01said last week. He goes, "I have
13:02purchased programs and coaching from
13:04other top dating experts in the past and
13:07Language of Women is by far the most
13:10accurate way to generate female
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13:20little effort. All it took was just a
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13:25chasing women, I am getting women who
13:27are my type chasing me. It cuts right to
13:31the core of how female attraction works,
13:33and I cannot believe the results that I
13:35am getting. I cannot recommend this
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13:39mine. These are his words, not mine.
13:42That's what he said. Since I spent so
13:45many hours building this stuff, I know I
13:48can help you because most guys don't see
13:50the total mistakes that they are making
13:53every day with their communication. So,
13:55join us inside that community that I
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