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0:00Hi everybody. So in today's video, I'm
0:01going to be showing you four tangible
0:04metrics, okay, that a masculine man
0:08wants to strive for in life or that a
0:10masculine man has to make
0:12um happen in his life to make life far
0:15easier. This also helps
0:19attract women and retain relationships
0:22far better because you show that you're
0:23actually competent and you know what
0:25you're doing.
0:27Okay? So, I'm going to go through all of
0:30the tangible success metrics that you
0:31have to strive for and then I invite you
0:34to join us inside of our community after
0:36today's video is over so that way you
0:38can learn, understand, and master the
0:39language of women. Now, the first thing
0:42that a man has to strive for, okay?
0:45You need to either save like you need to
0:48set this as a goal. You need to either
0:49save a hundred grand liquid in the bank,
0:52okay? You You either need to save up at
0:55least a hundred grand or twelve months
0:58of living expenses.
1:00Okay? Either or, but really strive to
1:03have that a hundred grand. Like if you
1:05look in your bank account and you see
1:07six figures liquid locked away in cash,
1:11okay?
1:12You're going to have a different sense
1:13of security and move with a different
1:15sense of comfort in life that most guys
1:18don't have. You're going to move through
1:20life with less anxiety while most guys
1:23live paycheck to paycheck. Now, women
1:25will be able to sense this when you go
1:27out on dates or when you have a
1:28girlfriend because she's going to see
1:30that you're not super stressed. And even
1:32if you are stressed, it's more so
1:34stressed over accomplishing your goals
1:36instead of being stressed over survival.
1:39There's a big difference, okay?
1:41The reason why you have to do this,
1:43okay, is because you're going to develop
1:46deeper levels of critical thinking,
1:49okay, to actually budget and to plan out
1:52your life. You're going to have to
1:53actually develop deeper levels of
1:55critical thinking.
1:57So, think about that. If you're not
1:59saving the amount of money that you want
2:00to save or if you don't have the cash
2:02reserves that you want, you're going to
2:04have to uplevel competency, you're going
2:06to have to find maybe ways to grow your
2:08money quicker, you're going to have to
2:09find different things that's going to
2:11actually cause you to be a more
2:12productive, stronger,
2:14um more resilient individual.
2:17So, it's really important to understand,
2:18okay?
2:20You'll move easier in life. Let me give
2:22you an example. Let's say you wake up,
2:24you lost your job that day or you got
2:26laid off. Uh you can still maybe go back
2:29to bed and breathe easy.
2:31You breathe easy knowing that
2:32everything's going to be okay. You go
2:34out on a date and let's say she really,
2:36really, really wants some cheesecake,
2:38but you really, really, really want
2:39chocolate cake. You say, "You know what?
2:42Uh let's get them both."
2:43Okay? That's why it's so important to
2:46save that because little things in life
2:49don't stress you out anymore. Little
2:50things in life don't make uh a big
2:53emotional impact on how you feel because
2:56you actually have your together.
2:58You just want to have enough money
3:00to help not only yourself but others if
3:03they are dependent on you for a very
3:05short circumstance. So, I can tell you
3:08this, too, okay?
3:10You don't have to do
3:13like the stupid stuff that the general
3:15population likes to do anymore. When you
3:17have enough money, you do not have to
3:20live like the gen pop anymore. I'll give
3:22you an example. You'll hear a lot of
3:23guys say, "Hey, man, should we split a
3:25room?"
3:27Right? Should we split a hotel? You
3:28travel, you hear this all the time.
3:30Yeah, we're splitting a hotel room to
3:32save money. Like all the stuff that gen
3:35pop does,
3:36you kind of get to escape that. Okay,
3:39you don't have to be sitting at a
3:40restaurant anymore and you're like
3:41budgeting if you can afford the
3:44appetizer or not for an extra thirteen
3:46dollars. Like instead of working harder,
3:49what I'm telling you to do is strive to
3:52save that a hundred grand which will
3:54probably make you work smarter so you
3:57learn different skills and uplevel your
3:59competency to grow your money quicker.
4:01That's number one. I think every man in
4:04life should strive to have a hundred
4:06thousand dollars locked away in the bank
4:08minimum. Okay? Number two, the second
4:11thing that you have to do,
4:13you need essentially a baseline style,
4:17okay, with clothing that embodies your
4:20core identity and who you are, okay, to
4:23craft a unique masculine archetype.
4:26Really important that you do this. You
4:28craft a unique masculine archetype. So,
4:31that way your personality congruence and
4:33who you are is also congruent with how
4:35you look and how you move and how you
4:36talk and how you operate.
4:38The reason why this is so important is
4:40because people in life will judge based
4:43on your style appearances. People will
4:45judge you based on your style
4:47appearances that you choose. So, you
4:49need to choose wisely. If I give you an
4:51example of three different uniforms, you
4:53could be a football player, you could be
4:56a pilot, or you could be a firefighter.
4:59These are three examples. Notice that
5:01the things they're wearing all embodies
5:03a core identity. Now, I understand that
5:05they're working at this point which is
5:07why they're wearing that, but same rules
5:08apply, okay? Whatever fashion and style
5:12that you choose, it has to actually
5:13embody you. It has to embody you and it
5:15has to embody who you are. So, the
5:17reason why you want to build a unique
5:19masculine archetype based on who you are
5:21and the style choices that you choose is
5:23because when you do this, this makes you
5:25a non-replicatable
5:27character.
5:28It's like she can find another guy, but
5:30she can't quite find another guy like
5:32you.
5:33Okay? And this is really important
5:35because this helps you stand out. So,
5:38here's the thing.
5:39It's harder for her to essentially
5:41replace you when you have done this
5:44because now you move with a different
5:45aura, you've kind of crafted how you
5:47look and how you act and how you operate
5:49with a congruent style for yourself. And
5:52now what happens, okay, is you have a
5:54style similar to your core identity or a
5:57style that matches your core identity.
6:00This is really important to do as well.
6:02So, number three, the third thing that
6:05you want to do or the third thing that
6:06you want to focus on, the third metric
6:08that a masculine man has to make life
6:10far easier, you need to develop a
6:13V-taper physique with visible ab
6:15definition.
6:16I'll put up a photo of myself right
6:18here.
6:19I've had a six-pack for probably around
6:22ten years.
6:24Okay? And I do this through extreme
6:26amounts of discipline.
6:28I track all my calories.
6:30I do all the things needed. I never skip
6:32workouts. Doesn't matter if I'm
6:34traveling, it doesn't matter. I always
6:35find a gym. So, you need to craft a
6:38V-taper physique with visible ab
6:40definition. You want your shoulders to
6:42be broad, you want to have a good amount
6:43of muscle mass, and you want to have
6:45your diet dialed in so you're lean and
6:48you have that slim waist which creates
6:50that V-taper look. So,
6:54here's what I can tell you. When you
6:55build your body, and for a lot of you
6:57this might take two, three, four years
6:59even, but it is well worth it. I would
7:00say that it is
7:02it is probably the most important metric
7:04that you can actually
7:07do or you can develop
7:10for virtually no money. Like it doesn't
7:12really cost a whole lot to get in shape
7:14besides the time investment.
7:16This is going to give you the biggest
7:18return.
7:19Because it doesn't matter if you're at
7:20the workplace, it doesn't matter if
7:22you're out in public, people can tell
7:23that you look strong. People can tell
7:25that you have good discipline habits.
7:27People can naturally tell that you carry
7:29yourself um with a sense of like
7:31importance and you put your well-being
7:32first. This is going to be attractive.
7:34So, instantly this helps you stand out
7:36from the crowd and on top of that,
7:39just like you probably get turned on by
7:41like, let's say, an hourglass figure,
7:44she gets turned on by a V-taper. So,
7:46it's important that you understand the
7:48polarity between the two, okay? When you
7:52build a physique, this shows discipline,
7:54this shows that you have appetite
7:55control, okay? You're not essentially
7:58just a slave to all of your cravings
8:00like, "Oh, I need sugar right now. I
8:01have to eat a thousand calories worth of
8:03sugar." You're not like that. It shows
8:05that you have commitment to building
8:07your body. And that's really important
8:09because you can tell a lot about a
8:11person by their choices, by their core
8:13choices that they actually have, and by
8:15their core choices that they follow. So,
8:17strength has a look.
8:20And people will respect you on a
8:21different level when you look strong.
8:23So, I really, really, really would
8:25advise you like
8:26to dial that part in on your life. Now,
8:30point number four, okay?
8:32You need your own place that you live
8:35with zero roommates.
8:37Okay?
8:39Zero roommates. You want to strive to
8:41have your own place.
8:43I don't care if it's your own apartment,
8:44I don't care if it's your own condo,
8:46your own twin home, I don't care if it's
8:47your own single family home. I don't
8:49care, but you need to have your own
8:50place.
8:51You have to show independence. Here's
8:53why.
8:54When you live by yourself, and this is
8:56something you should strive to do as
8:58fast as you can, okay?
9:00It shows a level of strength and
9:02independence and it shows that you have
9:03the ability to be alone.
9:06Okay? It shows that you are
9:08self-sufficient. And if you're
9:09self-sufficient, that's a pillar of
9:11strength.
9:12This will automatically make you a more
9:14masculine option. Now, men today rely on
9:17friends and their parents far too much.
9:20They rely on friends and parents far too
9:22much so that way they're not lonely or
9:24so that way they don't have to go that
9:25extra mile to put in the additional work
9:27that it takes to get to where they want
9:29to go. And that is not good. I've kind
9:32of had this mindset since I would say I
9:33was about like eighteen years old. I've
9:35always been really, really disciplined
9:36in these areas, but for some of the guys
9:38who maybe are new to the channel or you
9:40have not really looked at these concepts
9:42closely, this is going to help you out
9:44because you can now see tangible metrics
9:46to focus on.
9:47What you're going to find is that life
9:49is a snowball effect. Okay, so let's say
9:52you get in really good shape. Cool,
9:53that's awesome.
9:55You get in really good shape, but what
9:56you're going to notice since you're
9:57healthier, naturally mentally, okay, you
10:00maybe are thinking a little bit clearer.
10:02Well, if you're thinking a little bit
10:04clearer, you're going to have more
10:05competency. That means it's going to
10:07slowly be easier to make more money if
10:09you start to think outside the box and
10:11how you want to position yourself in
10:12your life and your career because you
10:14think differently. So, you see it's a
10:16snowball effect, okay? Now, you get to
10:18actually enjoy life and the point of
10:20doing all this, okay? So, you might be
10:22saying, "Well, how does this help me
10:23attract women?" Listen close. You need
10:26to be a solid man first before you can
10:32Like a lot of these things speak for
10:33itself, right?
10:35If you move easier in life because you
10:38have a good amount of savings, people
10:39notice that your energy is good because
10:41you have a sense of security. If you
10:42have good style and good fashion, not
10:44only can you afford it, but on top of
10:46that it shows that you know who you are.
10:48If you have a V-taper physique and
10:49you're in good shape, okay, it shows
10:52that you take care of your health and
10:53fitness. And if you live by yourself or
10:55if you have your own place, well, that's
10:56going to show us sense of independence.
10:59Cool. You have all the tangible metrics
11:01checked. Now, when you're with her, you
11:05can actually keep her emotions in a
11:06constant state of play and you two can
11:09have fun, which is what she's optimizing
11:11for. She's optimizing for fun. All of a
11:14sudden, nothing serious, it's all fun
11:16and games because you have all the
11:18tangible metrics of success that a
11:20masculine man has. Like she looks at you
11:23and she clearly can see that you're the
11:25byproduct of like success or you've
11:27chased success in your life in a lot of
11:29different areas. Well, simultaneously,
11:32you get to kick back and relax and you
11:34two can have the attitude that lets you
11:36feel forever young at heart. Because
11:38what you're going to notice is
11:40the more she can just engage her
11:42emotions in fantasy and play pretend and
11:45have fun, the happier she is when she's
11:48with you and the more you have the
11:49proper masculine and feminine dynamic
11:51and experience. So, your inner game
11:54matters just as much, but most guys, the
11:57reason why they don't have that rock
11:59solid inner game is because the actual
12:02metrics that they focus on in life never
12:04actually led them to success. Some guys
12:07are able just to have a good vibe like
12:09this naturally.
12:10But for a lot of guys,
12:13when you don't have these other pillars
12:15of your life established,
12:18a lot of times that will flow over into
12:20your confidence and it makes it harder
12:22to be who you really want to be because
12:24you have
12:25naturally more nervousness or
12:27anxiousness or anxiety maybe about your
12:29financial future. So, it's good to get
12:31all of these
12:32things in alignment
12:35so that way you have a rock solid sense
12:37of like strength within your own life
12:39and you know where you're headed. So, if
12:41you liked this video, I advise you to
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