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0:00Your mom did not want you to become an
0:02alpha male. Okay, this is what you got
0:04to understand
0:05is that you're going against the social
0:08conditioning and the social programming
0:09that you've had since you were a child.
0:12Your mom did not want you to be an alpha
0:15male. Okay, your mom raised you
0:18to be the exact opposite of every single
0:20guy that she has probably ever banged
0:22her entire life. This is what you're
0:24going to notice, okay?
0:25Mothers specifically
0:28will always attempt to make their sons
0:31quote-unquote better than the guys that
0:34they knew and the guys that they were
0:35with. But what they don't understand or
0:38what they failed to understand in the
0:39process is that all of those negative
0:42behaviors that that guy held, maybe
0:44being disagreeable, wasn't always
0:46polite, a non-conforming attitude, those
0:50are like the exact reasons that she was
0:51banging him in the first place. You
0:53might even hear this um
0:55you might even hear your mom say stuff
0:56like this. She might even say uh oh, try
0:58not to be so much like your dad. Okay,
1:01as if his traits are bad even though she
1:02was the one who wanted to reproduce him.
1:05Like this is what you have to understand
1:06is like your mom, okay, since day one
1:10raised you to be the exact opposite of
1:13every single trait that would leave you
1:16to become reproductively successful. So,
1:19if you were already polite, she wanted
1:21you to be extra polite. If you already
1:22had normal amount of manners, she made
1:25sure to tell you to say please and thank
1:26you every single time. And you're going
1:28to notice that this is how the control
1:31sets in at a very young age. The control
1:34sets in at a very young age by the mom
1:37specifically turning that kid over the
1:40gradual course of let's say, you know,
1:4210-15 years into a complete beta male.
1:45So, that way he um
1:47has a softer personality, um he is more
1:50compliant, more submissive. And then
1:52what happens is she thinks that she
1:54raised him to be a good man. In her
1:56mind, she uh raised that kid to be the
1:58type of guy who's going to make an
2:00excellent husband one day. But, what
2:02mothers fail to realize is that um
2:06in the process of her doing that, what
2:08actually happens is that kid now is
2:10socially anxious. That kid now no longer
2:13has any confidence a lot of times to
2:15talk to women the proper way in the
2:17first place. And then what happens is
2:19the guy is single, okay, for a large
2:20portion of um
2:22his 20s. And I've even seen this where
2:25a lot of these issues even go into his
2:2730s. So, keep that in mind. You're going
2:29to have to undo the conditioning. You're
2:32going to have to undo the social
2:34programming. And the social programming
2:36goes deep all the way back from when you
2:38were a kid. What I advise you to do is
2:40start to unlock a new way of thinking. I
2:43advise you to start to learn,
2:44understand, and master the language of
2:46women. You can check this out. It's in
2:48my bio. It's in my description. You'll
2:49love it. And it will actually give you
2:52step-by-step processes to make your
2:53dating life way better. Listen, looks
2:55maxing is not enough to get women. And
2:58here's why. What men are lacking today
3:01that truly touches her emotions would be
3:04something called masculine temperament.
3:07So, let me give you a couple examples.
3:09When your grandpa, if he's 75 years old,
3:11if he notices that all of a sudden at
3:13the diner he goes to, they raised the
3:16prices of the coffee from uh 67¢ a cup
3:20to 75¢ a cup, you're going to notice he
3:23gets that grumbly attitude. And he goes,
3:25"Oh,
3:27Oh, they raised the coffee 7¢?" Okay?
3:31That's called masculine temperament. So,
3:34let me give you an example. When you're
3:35talking to a woman, when you're
3:36approaching a woman, it comes down to
3:38vocal tone. I don't care what anybody
3:40tells you. I don't care what dude on the
3:42internet who's 20 or 22 years old wants
3:44to tell you with all his TikTok
3:45followers of women. These dudes don't
3:47have real-life experience as much as you
3:49think. Listen, when you communicate with
3:51a woman, she has to see and hear and
3:54feel that you have a masculine aura or a
3:57masculine temperament. So, let me give
3:59you a couple examples.
4:00You need to lean into who you are and
4:03how you talk. So, if she's walking by
4:05and I see her and I go, "Oh you're
4:08so cute and tiny."
4:10Okay? That's how I sound. That's a way
4:12that I would do it. That might be
4:14something that I would say. I'm a dude
4:16from North Dakota. So, you need to
4:18emulate uh yourself based on where
4:21you're from. Okay? Don't try to emulate
4:23me. I'm from North Dakota. This is how I
4:25talk. For you, it might be a
4:27"Oh damn, you're looking good, right?"
4:29Like, I don't know what to tell you, but
4:30like you have to actually internalize
4:33that like um
4:34God, it's like that old man like here's
4:36what I found. Every single dude above
4:38the age of 48 usually has this attitude
4:41and has this temperament. Younger dudes
4:43don't have it for whatever reason. They
4:45watch too much TV, they watch too much
4:47social media, whatever the case may be.
4:49They don't have what I call front end
4:51game. If I could take a megaphone and
4:53yell this as loud as I could
4:56to the whole world for all the dudes to
4:58hear, I would because I genuinely
4:59believe in this that much. I believe
5:02that this method that I have inside of
5:03my program or my process called Language
5:06of Women. When I show you how to use
5:08front end game and demonstrate active
5:10masculinity, this is the turnkey
5:12process. This is the turnkey way that
5:15you start to unlock her giggle, you
5:17start to unlock her smile, and she
5:19starts to say, "Wait, wait, you're just
5:21going to leave without taking my name
5:22and number? Wait, wait, hold on. What
5:24was your name again? Am I ever going to
5:26get to see you?" If you actually want to
5:27do this the right way, just listen to
5:30me. Check out what I made for you. It's
5:31in my bio, it's in my description. I
5:33didn't spend all these years rambling on
5:35camera just for the hell of it. I did
5:36this and I built this because I know it
5:38works. Men should not be allowed to be
5:41in a thong shoe. Like, those are for the
5:44girls, for the girls only. Men should
5:47not be allowed to wear them.
5:49Toes are just so ugly. So, if you're a
5:51man and your dating life sucks ass and
5:53you hear something like that and you get
5:55triggered, you're the problem. Okay?
5:57Because that right there is the
5:58equivalent to like a dude saying, you
6:00know, it's a turn-off when she has, you
6:02know, a bunch of tattoos or way too many
6:03tattoos, but then what she does is she
6:05goes out and she gets, you know, a
6:07forearm sleeve anyways, but then she's
6:09mad and disappointed why she's not
6:10getting approached as much. It's the
6:12exact same thing. If you're even wearing
6:15something that's called a thong
6:17flip-flop in the first place. Like,
6:19look, just look at what the general
6:20population of men does. Look at Look at
6:22what the general population of men does
6:24and what the general population of men
6:25wears. The general population of men,
6:29okay, just wears stupid stuff. Stupid
6:33stuff that doesn't look good. Stupid
6:34stuff that doesn't look appealing. And
6:35then they'll constantly say, "Well, I
6:37don't care. I don't care about my
6:39clothing. I don't care if she likes what
6:40I wear or not. Um I don't care, you
6:43know, how I'm portrayed." Um but it's
6:45like he says he doesn't care, but if you
6:47actually look at his behaviors and his
6:49habits If you look at his behaviors and
6:51his habits, that left hand and that
6:52bottle of lotion is getting a workout
6:54seven nights a week. Right? So, because
6:56of that, like, he does care. Because of
6:58that, he's taking care of himself, but
7:00the problem is is it's like he doesn't
7:01have any women in his life. Listen, when
7:04you see things, when you hear things
7:06that you know make sense, do the
7:09self-reflection and just accept things
7:11as what it is. Listen, it's the same
7:14with female nature. You don't even need
7:15to understand female nature half the
7:17time, you just need to accept it. Right?
7:19Part of growing as a man is accepting
7:21the reality of how things are. But
7:23here's the nice thing about that. Once
7:25you have the emotional discipline to
7:27just accept the reality of how things
7:28are, you can make strides to get ahead
7:30and move forward. You can actually do
7:32stuff to better your life. You can
7:33actually take the information you've
7:35been given and say, "Okay, I get how it
7:36is. I'm just going to now win because
7:38I've decided to." If If check out what I
7:40made for you, it's in my bio, it's in my
7:41description. I'm going to help you
7:42learn, understand, and master the
7:44language of women. I have an entire
7:45process to help your dating life get way
7:47better. Even if you're not the best
7:49looking, even if you're not the most
7:50tallest, even if you don't have millions
7:52of dollars, even if you don't have a
7:54really fast sports car, even if you
7:56don't have a bunch of followers on the
7:57internet, even if you're just a normal
7:59dude, I have a process that you can
8:01actually take and copy paste into your
8:02dating life and get way better results
8:04than you've probably ever had in your
8:05life. Because of that, go and check that
8:07out. I want to help you learn,
8:09understand, and master the language of
8:10women. Have you ever seen a man go
8:13[music] up the stairs on all fours?
8:18What the is that? Thank you. When
8:21When have you watched a dude crawl on
8:23all fours?
8:24>> Like I don't know. I feel like a D1
8:25athlete at like a party. But like
8:28>> [music]
8:29>> And that that [laughter] turned you off?
8:31Who? Yeah, I don't like
8:33What is that? Nuts. Absolutely. Listen,
8:35what she's saying here actually has a
8:37hidden meaning. There's more than meets
8:39the eye, and most men are simply not
8:41smart enough, not competent enough to
8:43decode this. So, let me share some
8:45wisdom.
8:47Listen, as soon as you as a man start
8:49attempting to draw excessive amounts of
8:52attention to yourself in a way that's
8:54weird, a way that is corny, a way that's
8:57just unconventional,
8:59this is going to come across as
9:00insecure. This is going to come across
9:03as the opposite of nonchalant. This is
9:05going to be coming across as the
9:06opposite of a guy who's sure of himself.
9:09When you're having to do different
9:10things, when you're having to put on an
9:12act, you can see this is what happens.
9:15Now, out of every single turn off
9:17possible that that woman could have
9:18thought of, that that woman could have
9:20remembered, why did that one thing stick
9:22out in her mind? Because it showed this
9:24one thing.
9:26It showed that this guy was willing to
9:27put on a performative act. Now, anytime
9:31you put on a performative act, you're
9:33going to be coming across as a clown.
9:35Okay? This is the opposite of being
9:37masculine. This is the opposite of being
9:39a masculine man. This is the opposite of
9:42confidence. This is you now being
9:43performative hoping to gain attention
9:46from somebody else. And you will see
9:48this type of stuff at parties and bars
9:50all the time. And these guys always, and
9:52I mean always, typically go home alone.
9:55Now, if you want to learn, understand,
9:57and master the language of women at an
9:58even deeper level so that way you don't
10:00make these same mistakes that most of
10:02these modern men do, that way you
10:03actually have a system, you actually
10:05have a process to attract women
10:07effortlessly, okay? I'm going to
10:09literally show you the entire process.
10:11Hey, this is what you do when you first
10:13meet the woman. This is how you apply
10:14front end game. Hey, this is what you do
10:16during the first one to three dates.
10:18This is how you start to use mid game or
10:20middle game. Hey, this is how you manage
10:23a successful long-term relationship.
10:24This is how you demonstrate back end
10:26game. I have a whole sequence. I already
10:28made the whole sequence. It's already
10:29done. You can just go and use it. That
10:31way you don't have to think about this
10:32stuff anymore. You can actually just
10:33have a system that you can use in your
10:36dating life and go.
10:38It's in my bio. It's in my description.
10:39Be sure to go and check that out. She
10:41hates dudes that are blackout drunk.
10:44>> Men should never be more drunk than the
10:46girl. Girls should never be having to be
10:47taking care of the guy. And guys who get
10:50blacked out are just so icky.
10:53Guys, listen. If you're showing up on
10:54these dates getting hammered, that is
10:56not a sign of confidence. Listen, as a
10:58man, you have to show that you have
11:00composure. As a man, you have to show
11:03that you're grounded. As a man, you have
11:05to show that you actually
11:08have composure, can keep composure, and
11:10know what you're doing. Just because
11:12you're having fun, because you're
11:14drinking, just because you have a
11:16feeling like this is fun, doesn't mean
11:19that she takes it that way. Okay? How
11:21she usually feels is this.
11:23As the guy keeps drinking, she trusts
11:26his judgment less and less. Okay?
11:29Because here's what's actually
11:30happening. Not only is he probably
11:31drinking to make up for a lack of
11:33confidence, but then what also happens
11:35is this. He starts making poor
11:36decisions, or all of a sudden he starts
11:38over communicating, he starts saying
11:41things that he shouldn't, and then
11:42what's going to happen is her desire
11:44slowly drops.
11:45What you're going to see with a lot of
11:47dudes who party frequently, you're going
11:49to constantly notice this, right? They
11:51go out and maybe they can even get laid
11:53occasionally, right? Or maybe um you
11:56know, maybe they're reliant on drinking
11:57for that sense of confidence. And maybe
12:00they can attract women because at least
12:02they're doing that approach and they're
12:03confident because those drinks might
12:05have helped him loosen up and have less
12:07anxiety. But listen, once she sees that
12:09that you're falling into that state,
12:11what happens? Now she starts testing.
12:13She starts testing you more. She figures
12:15out why you're drinking, she figures out
12:17why um she just sees that you need a
12:19substance, right? She feels less safe
12:21when she's around you. Almost every
12:22single dude that I've met over the years
12:24that drinks excessively can never retain
12:27the woman that they're attracted to,
12:29okay? Maybe what happens is the
12:31girlfriend pulls away, um maybe what
12:33happens is, you know, the wife just gets
12:35like sick of it. Whatever the case may
12:37be, what happens is this, even if you're
12:38the fun guy, slowly but surely she
12:41trusts your judgment less. Okay? Because
12:44you're sitting there and you prove that
12:46you cannot keep composure. This is just
12:48a big red flag, you can't do this. If
12:50you do like to have a drink, limit it to
12:52one, maybe two at most if you go out on
12:54these days, but you cannot be going out
12:56just acting like a complete fool. This
12:58is going to make her trust your judgment
13:00far less.
13:01This is why you want to learn,
13:02understand, and master the language of
13:04women so that way you have a
13:05step-by-step process where you don't
13:07need any substances like drinks. You
13:09don't need a full sense of confidence.
13:11to show you exactly what to do and
13:12exactly how to act to demonstrate true
13:16active masculinity when you first meet
13:17the woman. Then I'm going to show you
13:19what to do on the first one to three
13:20dates. Then I'm going to show you
13:22exactly what to do to manage and
13:23maintain a successful long-term
13:25relationship. I already made this into
13:27an entire sequence. I already did the
13:29hard work for you. Just go check out
13:31what I made for you because you'll love
13:32it. There was a woman that I knew years
13:34ago and I asked her, I said, "What is it
13:36that all women want?" I just wanted to
13:38see her response. I said, "What is it
13:39that all women want, right?" Because
13:41women see a lot of stuff on social
13:42media.
13:43Do women want, you know, the perfect
13:45hourglass figure? Do women want the new
13:47designer bag? Do women want um the
13:49perfect, you know, butt in the gym? Uh
13:52what is it that women want?
13:55Is it that women want to travel, you
13:56know, whatever? And she sat there and
13:57she paused for
13:59a second
14:00and she said, "Huh, if I really think
14:02about it, if I think about what all my
14:04friends actually want, what all women
14:06want." She said, "This is
14:07actually her own words." She goes, "What
14:09all women want
14:11is to be independent of men."
14:15That was her reply. That was her answer.
14:17Women want to be independent of men,
14:20which means
14:21on a fundamental level
14:23she doesn't even want you.
14:26Like, you're trying to figure out how to
14:28be more attractive, how to do this, how
14:29to do that, how to attract someone who
14:33on a fundamental level wants to be
14:35independent of you, wants to be away
14:37from you.
14:40It's food for thought and you have to
14:41let this sink in because this is the
14:43conditioning that most men face is
14:46you want to do the right things to
14:48become more attractive.
14:50So, you tell yourself, "Hey, you know,
14:52I'm going to make more money and I'm
14:54going to level up in my career.
14:56And I'm going to have a family one day
14:57and I'm going to be that man and I'm
14:58going to support my family and I'm going
14:59to do this and I'm going to do that and
15:01I'm going to
15:02uh be this type of guy who is
15:03attractive." And you have to understand
15:05that like her emotions and who she is,
15:07like, she is like
15:09fleeting. She wants you away.
15:12Which is why the only thing that there's
15:14left to do is actually figure out what
15:16makes her like you.
15:18Because if you're dealing with somebody
15:19who fundamentally wants to be
15:21independent of you, how do you get that
15:23other person to like you? How do you get
15:25that woman to like you? It starts with
15:26actually understanding how to tap into
15:28her emotions. I'm sorry, but looksmaxing
15:30is not going to save you. I'm sorry, but
15:32more manosphere content isn't going to
15:34save you. The only thing that will start
15:36to finally fix this problem is learning,
15:38understanding, and mastering the
15:39language of women. Because what you
15:41actually need to do is you need to
15:44fundamentally tap into her emotions a
15:47different way compared to every other
15:49guy. So, that way when she goes home
15:51that day and she calls up her
15:53girlfriends, she goes, "I think this
15:54guy's different. There's something about
15:55him. I don't know why I feel this way,
15:57but I like him."
15:58If she wants to be independent of you
16:00and she fundamentally doesn't need you
16:02for survival or resources, you have to
16:05now do one thing
16:06deeper. You have to dig deeper. You have
16:08to find a new level of knowledge. You
16:10now have to figure out how to make her
16:12like you
16:13instead of getting her to need you.
16:15This is a shift that most men still
16:17can't figure out. Modern women in 2026
16:20would almost rather meet the guy that
16:22they're dating off of Instagram or meet
16:25the guy off of a dating app, and here's
16:26why. Listen to me closely. The
16:28preconceived notion that guys have had
16:30for like the past 5 years is that if
16:33they ignore all this technology crap and
16:35they still just approach women, that
16:37they can leverage their social skills
16:39and their personality in order to
16:40actually attract her. Now, while this
16:43might be true for a very small percent
16:45of guys with just insanely high
16:47charisma, listen, majority of women
16:50would rather meet the guy that they are
16:52dating, okay, or that they want to date.
16:55They would rather meet the guy online.
16:57Because listen, they can sit there
16:59behind the phone and they don't have to
17:01have pointless interactions with men
17:03that they're not interested in. And I
17:05know that this is a big mindset shift,
17:06but just hear me out. Women absolutely
17:08hate
17:10like having to have that guy that they
17:12have no interest in. They absolutely
17:14hate having that guy that they don't
17:16even think is attractive come up to them
17:18and they still have to smile and they
17:19still have to be polite and they still
17:21have to show that they're socially
17:22inviting. Okay, and now they have to
17:24have these meaningless, you know,
17:251-minute, 2-minute conversations with
17:27these guys who are attempting to take
17:29them out on a date that they have no
17:30interest in only so she can look at him
17:32and say, "Oh, sorry, I have a
17:33boyfriend." Listen, most women would
17:36rather just meet the guy that they're
17:37actually attracted to on the internet.
17:39And I know that that's a big mindset
17:40shift, that's a big mindset belief, but
17:41listen, then she can see which women
17:44follow you. She can actually see if
17:46you're attractive and then she can
17:47actually see if you have pre-selection.
17:49If other women are following you or if
17:51you have a large amount of social proof.
17:53The more social proof you have and the
17:54more fun and exciting your life is,
17:56obviously the higher status you are. So,
17:58like the only way that she can really
18:00gauge your status level is by looking at
18:02your online presence. So, for those of
18:04you who like love doing approaches, I
18:07understand.
18:08It's good to have both, right? It's good
18:11to work on your charisma and everything
18:13so that way you can talk and you can
18:14communicate properly. But listen, the
18:16first thing that she's going to do once
18:17you meet her, even if you exchange phone
18:19numbers, she's going to instantly go
18:20online, look at your social media
18:23profiles and then see how cool you are.
18:25And whether you like how that sounds or
18:26not, that's just the way it is. Check
18:29out what I made for you, it's in my bio,
18:30it's in my description. I'm going to
18:31help you learn, understand, and master
18:33the language of women. Women would
18:35rather meet you off of a dating app than
18:38in real life. I don't care what anybody
18:39else told you, I'm going to say that one
18:41more time. Women would rather meet you
18:43off of a dating app than meet you in
18:45real life. The reason why is because the
18:47men that she's actually thirsting over
18:50are all already on social media. Okay?
18:53When she sees your social media, she
18:55sees how much social proof you have, how
18:57many other women follow you, and how
18:59cool of photos you have, which
19:01demonstrates lifestyle. So, that same
19:03guy who would have probably gotten
19:05rejected if he would have done an
19:06approach and she can't see anything
19:09about him when it comes to his digital
19:11presence. That exact same guy would have
19:14most likely been accepted through a
19:16direct message or through a dating app.
19:18When you ask women this, they are going
19:20to tell you, typically word for word,
19:23"Oh, I'm not like that. I'm more
19:26or I like how things were back in the
19:28day when people would just meet people
19:30organically, socially."
19:32And even though they say that, what
19:33you're going to find nine times out of
19:3510, most likely, is the dude that she
19:36actually wants she met off of a dating
19:38app, and she just thinks he's really
19:40hot. Okay? That's just how it goes.
19:42Listen, women would rather meet you off
19:45of a dating app, or they would rather
19:46meet you online first, or through social
19:49media, compared to in real life. And in
19:51real life, listen, she doesn't want to
19:53have to have all of these pointless
19:55interactions with all of these dudes
19:56that she's not interested in. In real
19:58life, she has to say hello and carry out
20:01these conversations with dudes who say,
20:03"Oh, excuse me, uh I just saw you there
20:05and blah blah blah." She doesn't want to
20:06deal with any of that. She doesn't want
20:08to talk to all of the men who want her,
20:11but she finds those guys unattractive.
20:13Once this point finally sinks in, you'll
20:15start to now actually combine a good
20:18profile and good dating app presence
20:21with good charisma and good social
20:22skills to give yourself the best of both
20:24worlds. Here's the sad truth about
20:26women. If you're an ugly man, listen to
20:28me closely. Even if you're super
20:30confident, your confidence is typically
20:32always challenged. You're going to
20:34notice that if you, overall, don't take
20:37care of yourself when it comes to how
20:39you look, don't present yourself good,
20:41don't actually look like the byproduct
20:43of a strong, physically capable,
20:45masculine man, okay? If you don't have
20:48those basic markers checked, even if
20:50you're the most confident, charismatic
20:51dude in the world, your confidence and
20:54your charisma is usually challenged. And
20:56what I mean by that is if you notice how
20:57women speak to dudes who fit that
21:00category, the tone of voice is not
21:02pleasing, a lot of times they're
21:04disagreeable.
21:05Meanwhile, if a dude was attractive,
21:08okay, or looked strong, capable, and
21:10masculine and had that same sentence
21:12that that other guy said or that same
21:13belief, you're going to notice that that
21:15influences that woman's um perception,
21:18perspective, and now all of a sudden, a
21:20lot of times you're going to notice that
21:21she's nicer. Here's what I can tell you.
21:23Every single dude teaching game, every
21:25single dude teaching like um
21:27you know, how to attract women over the
21:29past like 10, 15, 20 years, a lot of
21:31times told you to just be yourself and
21:33maximize your confidence and maximize
21:35your charisma. But listen, if you are a
21:37man who has not achieved a lot of status
21:39or you have not became someone who is
21:42influential or have achieved certain
21:45things in life where you're known and
21:46recognized, you are going to have to
21:49maximize your own attractiveness. You're
21:52going to have to look as attractive as
21:53possible. You want to be as lean as
21:55possible, as strong as possible, as
21:56powerful as possible, as
21:59as possible. You want to have a good low
22:02body fat with abs. All that stuff is
22:04important. So that when you say, "Oh,
22:05hey, how are you doing?"
22:07It's a lot better received.
22:09If you want to learn, understand, and
22:10master the language of women, check out
22:12what I made for you. It's in my bio.
22:13It's in my description. You will love
22:15it.