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0:00So, anytime in my life I've ever been
0:03humiliated by a woman,
0:05right? Like
0:07I got overly emotional or I got reactive
0:10or um I started saying and doing things
0:13that were unattractive,
0:16it was always because
0:20of text messages.
0:22Okay, the written word
0:24like does something to a woman's mind.
0:28The written word does something to a
0:31woman's mind where the more she sees
0:36you typing things,
0:39it does this weird thing to a woman's
0:41mind where she gains like absolute
0:43power, control, and leverage over the
0:45situation and over your emotions, and
0:48she will pull back and she'll just twist
0:50that knife and humiliate you.
0:52She'll cause so much pain to attempt to
0:54try to emotionally break you the more
0:57words you give her over the screen.
0:59I think that like
1:01you know, like here's the thing, man.
1:04Men
1:05like go to dirty websites, right? A lot
1:08of times for self-pleasure. Women read
1:10dirty romance novels. It's opposite,
1:13right? Men a lot of times are visual,
1:14for women it's the words.
1:16Right? So, the words do something to her
1:19mind. Okay, text messages like do
1:22something to her mind. The written word
1:24clearly does something to a woman's
1:26mind. And the only time
1:28or the only times in my life, plural
1:30because there's been a few of them,
1:32where I've been like completely
1:34humiliated, like where I'll go back a
1:36year later and I'll like look at what I
1:38said,
1:40and I just shake my head and I go, "God,
1:42Casey, like how were you so stupid? How
1:43were you so dumb? How couldn't you see
1:45how
1:46dumb you sounded and how uh
1:49how couldn't you see yourself losing um
1:53leverage, or look how attracted you were
1:55to her. You were willing to bend and say
1:57all these things and do all these
1:59things. And basically she makes a
2:02fool out of you.
2:03The only time I've ever been humiliated
2:05by a woman is through text message.
2:09The cell phone and the written word
2:12gives her the upper hand and the
2:13leverage to completely emasculate you
2:15and it starts slow.
2:17It starts slow with a simple time delay,
2:19right? But what you have to be aware of
2:21and what you have to notice and the
2:23thing that I've had to really adjust
2:25over the years is like what I notice is
2:26like
2:27when my attraction level would get
2:29higher to the girl,
2:33my text messages and the framing of my
2:35sentences seem to change without me even
2:38noticing.
2:40Right? So it's like
2:42I would be putting um
2:44uh additional exclamation marks when I
2:46don't need any, right? I'd be putting
2:48additional question marks when I don't
2:49need any.
2:51Um
2:53you know, I'd be saying 15 words to
2:55complete the sentence to make sure that
2:57I'm clear and she really knows what I'm
2:59talking about when seven or eight would
3:00have done the trick just fine.
3:03Right? The only time I've ever been
3:05humiliated by a woman
3:07and the only time her behavior has ever
3:09changed on me in real life
3:12is when I have mismanaged the cell phone
3:14and when I have mismanaged the digital
3:16communication of the words that she is
3:18reading. Women interpret words very
3:21differently, okay?
3:24A woman's attraction level can go up or
3:26down very drastically based on what she
3:28hears. And you know, like looking back
3:31man, like I've never had a really a
3:33problem of like losing so much like
3:35emotional leverage in person and in real
3:37life
3:38because it's kind of tough, right? Like
3:42I mean, not to like brag, but it would
3:44be kind of hard for a woman to like
3:46test me in a way that gets me
3:48emotionally reactive and really gets me
3:50to like bend or break, right?
3:53I'm fairly muscular. I'm slightly
3:55monotone. Naturally, I don't show like a
3:58whole lot of excitement, right? So, it's
4:00going to be pretty tough for her to like
4:02bring certain stuff out of me, right?
4:04But, over that cell phone, when you type
4:07things, when you do things, when you
4:08start using extra exclamation marks, you
4:11start using extra question marks, right?
4:13You start slipping in an emoji or saying
4:16"Haha" one too many times,
4:18you lose that seriousness or that
4:21masculine edge that you have to have to
4:23maintain that state of arousal or that
4:25state of desire. And once she starts
4:27reading things
4:29that signals low status, once she start
4:33once she starts reading things that gets
4:35her to like classify you or position you
4:37as a beta, and she reads it in her mind,
4:40she has like an identity shift of you or
4:43she has an identity perspective flip of
4:45you. And now, this is when you're going
4:47to notice that her behavior in real life
4:50now switches.
4:52Now, this is when she pulls back and she
4:53starts playing games, right?
4:55And when you start over-communicating on
4:58text message, man, I have seen so much
5:00stuff over the years, right?
5:01I've seen um
5:06women will do things, right? Like you
5:08you maybe will
5:09send them a text message
5:12and just so that way um
5:14you know that she saw it, right? She'll
5:16go active on Facebook, but she won't
5:19reply to you. Maybe you'll send her a
5:21text message, right?
5:23And you don't hear from her for 6 hours,
5:25but you post a social media story and
5:27she makes sure that she's the first one
5:29to view it or the first one to see it
5:31within 30 seconds just so you feel
5:33ignored.
5:34This is what women do to men who
5:37I guess make mistakes
5:39is they are designed basically to punish
5:42you and to twist that knife on you
5:44emotionally to make it hurt as bad as
5:47possible.
5:48So,
5:49the only thing that I had to do really
5:52to switch this, so I didn't get this
5:54type of behavior, is I would just quit
5:57texting completely.
5:59Right? Like I really wouldn't say
6:00anything.
6:01Now, honestly, man, if you get to a
6:03point where you're almost walking on
6:05eggshells with the computer screen or
6:07with the keyboard of typing,
6:09and you like, you know, really um
6:13you don't uh how do I say this?
6:17You're to the point where like you
6:18really don't want to mismanage anything,
6:20so you just you don't really text a
6:21whole lot at all. That's when you start
6:23winning them over badly. And she really
6:25starts coming into your world then is
6:27trying to get you to say and do a bunch
6:29of things or she's really trying to win
6:31you over. Right? Like it would just like
6:33Here's what would happen when I started
6:35to get better at this, right? Like I
6:36would sleep with her. Like there would
6:38be a woman I'm seeing and like we would
6:39sleep together and then I just leave,
6:41right? Or she would leave. And then I
6:43just wouldn't talk ever. And until she
6:45messages me, then I guess I'll talk.
6:48Right? And most of times I would just
6:49like hold down the reaction button and
6:51just heart her message so she feels
6:53validated that I read it, but I wouldn't
6:55reply really. Or I would hold down the
6:57reaction button if she attempted to say
6:59something funny or she attempted to use
7:01humor, I would just hold down the
7:03reaction button and put a haha and then
7:04not really reply.
7:06And that's what I would do is I would
7:07just like
7:09I'd keep dropping it off good in the
7:10bedroom and then I'd go home. And then I
7:13would just hit the reaction button on
7:14the messages or I would send simple
7:16sentences back. "Whoa, that is wild.
7:19Ha."
7:20"Oh, wow. That's wild."
7:24"That's so cool." Send.
7:26Pretty hard to get rejected or pretty
7:27hard to fail interest tests when all
7:29you're doing is sending simple
7:31statements back.
7:32So, this is what like I found over the
7:34years is like whenever I would become
7:36completely emasculated by a woman or
7:38completely humiliated by a woman, where
7:41I would be saying and doing things that
7:43were just like completely out of
7:44character. It's always because I failed
7:46manipulation and interest tests over the
7:48cell phone. I failed time delays over
7:51the keyboard. I didn't understand why
7:53women do this and I've seen everything,
7:55man. I've watched
7:57You know, you have a girlfriend?
7:59This has happened to me numerous times
8:00when I was younger. I'd have a
8:01girlfriend.
8:02Um let's say she leaves, right? Um and
8:05instantly as soon as she leaves, right?
8:07The Snapchat score of her amount of
8:09snaps that she starts sending goes up by
8:1150. Right? There's 20 different dudes on
8:14speed dial that she's talking to. Right?
8:16And then meanwhile, if you ask her
8:17something about that or you send a text
8:19message about that, she just won't reply
8:21for the entire night until the next
8:23morning at 10:00 a.m. Just so that way
8:24you can go to bed and think about that
8:26all night.
8:27A lot of times when men get into a
8:28relationship with a woman, it's
8:30completely not worth it because women do
8:32absolutely everything and anything that
8:34they can just to emotionally break your
8:35spirit and then hurt you. Most of the
8:37women that you date are not going to
8:39bring you any added value to your life
8:41at all. If you look at the added value a
8:43woman could bring, right? Being a good
8:45helper, loving you, being nice to you,
8:47right? That's really the most important
8:50thing if you're going to date a woman
8:51long-term. Not to oversimplify this, but
8:53it really is that simple. The most
8:55important thing, man, if you are going
8:57to date a woman long-term is that she's
8:59nice to you. She's nice.
9:02You say, "Hey, I can't wait to see you
9:03when I get home." And she says, "Me,
9:05too."
9:07You say, "Good night, babe." And she
9:08says, "Good night, babe." Or she says it
9:10first.
9:13She's excited to make your day better.
9:16It's obviously a no-brainer. Pretty much
9:18common sense, right? Common sense isn't
9:20always common practice. Most women don't
9:22operate that way.
9:23What she's doing strategically going
9:25into it is she's most of the time going
9:27to say, "How can I make this guy's life
9:29as worse as possible
9:30to extract all the emotional energy out
9:32of him and then I'll just leave." This
9:34is what most women do. Now,
9:36what frustrates me most about this is
9:38that the common narrative over the past
9:40like 15 years is that men are just dogs,
9:43right? Men are these lying, cheating
9:45dogs that are just banging these women
9:48and going back out on the streets to
9:50find the next hot
9:52the next hot woman that, you know, is
9:54out hanging out and he just wants to go
9:56and talk to her then and then, you know,
9:58he wants to just sleep with the next one
9:59and he wants to just keep going from
10:01woman to woman and he's lying and he's
10:02cheating and he's just out running
10:04around doing all that and he leaves
10:06these relationships and he's just
10:07breaking these women's hearts and that's
10:09what's the common narrative over the
10:11past like 15, 20 years and that could
10:12not be further from the truth.
10:15Women leave men. Women leave
10:17relationships.
10:19Women leave.
10:20The second she's not happy, she's loyal
10:22to her own emotions, she's not loyal to
10:24you, and she leaves you. And you sit
10:26there and you go, "Well, I'm a human
10:28being. Why on earth would you want to
10:29just discard me like that?" And that's
10:30what she does.
10:33You know, with men, right? If you have a
10:35friend, right? The more emotional equity
10:38you build with him,
10:40you guys hang out together, you guys are
10:41friends for long term, you guys just
10:43keep hanging out, right? The longer
10:45you're together, you typically grow that
10:46bond where you wouldn't want to just cut
10:48off that relationship.
10:50Well, with women, it's completely
10:52opposite, right? The more they grow that
10:53bond a lot of times or the more that man
10:55grows that bond and that attachment to
10:57her, the more she wants to just discard
10:58him. So, it's like you're literally
11:01investing into someone that is designed
11:03to leave you.
11:05Right? And like the common narrative
11:07over the past 15 years of men are just
11:09like complete dogs, that's just like not
11:11true. The truth is most men are loyal.
11:13Most men want a girlfriend and most men
11:15would be loyal. If they had a
11:17girlfriend, they'd come home every
11:18single night at the same time and they
11:20would just hang out with her and they
11:21would build a family. Women don't want
11:23that. So, women are the ones who a lot
11:26of times have the backup options on the
11:27phone. Women leave men.
11:30But, women will continue a lot of times
11:31to keep spreading the message that these
11:33men are all cheating and it's like, you
11:34know, a lot of times it's because maybe
11:36she's just dealing with that small three
11:39to five percent of guys and those are
11:40the only guys that she finds attractive
11:42is the ones who cheat in the first
11:43place. So that's now her worldview and
11:45her perception.
11:46But the only time I've ever been
11:48humiliated is when I start to make
11:50mistakes over the cell phone. So I over
11:52the years quit messaging all together.
11:54Like I'll message a first couple times
11:56to set up that date, right? I'll start
11:59doing the active initiation to first set
12:00up that date.
12:02Once we sleep together a lot of times, I
12:04don't really initiate conversation first
12:06a whole lot ever. I'm not going to
12:07ghost, right? I'll still reply, but I'm
12:10not going to initiate.
12:12No point. There's no point. As a man,
12:14you learn your lessons.
12:16Right? So then it's like, you know, the
12:17mistake that women make too is it's like
12:22they don't get to have the value of the
12:24guy later on in his life anymore because
12:26they made the mistake of discarding him.
12:29Right? So there's women for sure in the
12:31past that have left me that I know 100%
12:33deep down know that they made a mistake
12:35because there's absolutely no way in
12:36hell that they can replace me. They
12:38can't replace my mind, they can't
12:39replace the way I communicate, they
12:41can't replace my attitude, they can't
12:42replace me. There's absolutely no way. I
12:44know that there's women for sure
12:47that most likely feel that way.
12:49But see, women only view you who you are
12:52in the current moment.
12:53Women a lot of times don't look to your
12:55future or bet on your future. They bet
12:56on themselves. And then, you know what
12:59happens is they get older and then a lot
13:00of times they can't command the same
13:02attention that they could when they were
13:03younger. So this is just food for
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13:06humiliated is when I've made mistakes
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