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0:00All right, so much to cover today
0:01because the game has changed. Times have
0:04changed. It's now 2026. Okay, this is
0:07what happens when you ignore women who
0:09like you.
0:11Um and this whole presentation is what
0:14modern men don't understand. So, let's
0:17just jump right into it. The
0:18[clears throat] game has changed now
0:21compared to 2018 through 2025,
0:25specifically because of the frequent use
0:27of dating apps and social media and I
0:30would even call it just like overall
0:31pattern recognition. The game has really
0:33changed, okay? Dating apps and social
0:36media back then, 2018 to 2025, this was
0:39a bit newer. Okay, so that means fewer
0:42men had the concept of frame and
0:45masculine to feminine polarity to begin
0:48with. Fewer men understood this. Fewer
0:51men even had the concept of like frame
0:53or masculine frame to begin with.
0:55Therefore, this is what I can tell you.
0:57Back in the day, okay, ignoring women,
1:01okay, or that man being flaky would
1:03typically cause that woman to further
1:06pursue.
1:08Okay, but
1:09as times change and as times evolve and
1:12as that becomes almost common practice
1:14because of the amount of dating content
1:16that guys have consumed, this is what
1:19happens, okay? Now,
1:21in today's day and age, she typically
1:24takes this as disinterest and moves on,
1:26which is not good. And this is what I
1:27can tell you. If you're a dude who is
1:30navigating your dating life with like a
1:32lot of red pill concepts, that type of
1:35guy carries himself
1:37um
1:38with a different attitude and demeanor.
1:41And a lot of times what happens is that
1:43woman interprets that as friction or
1:46he's emotionally closed off or he's
1:48guarded, okay? And because of that, she
1:51starts to feel different inconsistencies
1:53that he's not willing to um
1:55I guess invest, okay? Or he seems like
1:58he's just not that into her. For
2:00whatever reason, she gets a sense that
2:02he's pretty rigid, and it's because he
2:04is. So, this makes it hard to date from
2:07time to time. Okay, back then, these
2:09were like newer concepts. Today, the
2:11game has evolved, but since the game
2:13evolved, I'm going to show you how it
2:15evolved and how you can still win and
2:17how you can take all of your lessons and
2:19knowledge from red pill and female
2:20nature, apply it to your dating life
2:22today, but in a much smoother
2:24communication pattern, so that way you
2:26can navigate social settings and you can
2:28navigate dates and text messages with
2:30ease. Okay? So, back then, she typically
2:34would further pursue when a dude would
2:36be ignoring her. Okay, nowadays, she'll
2:39typically take that as disinterest
2:41and moves on because there's more guys
2:43just like him on um Hinge or Bumble or
2:46online dating or whatever. This is not
2:48good, okay? So, guys winning today, who
2:52are the dudes winning today? Who are the
2:53dudes winning today when it comes to
2:55dates? Who are the dudes winning today
2:57when it comes to experiences um
3:00and getting women to invest? Guys
3:02winning today are men who know how to
3:04combine assertive alpha traits with
3:08loving long-term traits at the same
3:10time. And this satisfies both sides of
3:12hypergamy best. Over here, you have that
3:15assertive, almost like alpha side. Over
3:18here, you have more of the long-term
3:19loving or what even some guys would call
3:21beta side. Together, this is the father.
3:25Okay? The father is strong, the father
3:28is assertive, the father is protective,
3:29but the father is also loving. You have
3:31to think of this as if it was family. At
3:33the end of the day, that's what
3:34reproduction is is it's family creation.
3:37So, when you have both sides of this,
3:39your dating life, you literally are
3:41playing on easy mode. Like
3:45it's some of the most powerful stuff
3:46because you really, really understand a
3:48woman's like mating preferences. So, she
3:51feels wanted, okay?
3:54When you communicate, when you're not
3:56ghosting, okay? We're not doing that.
3:58We're not ghosting and stuff like that
4:00to cause um
4:02so much turmoil to the point that she
4:05is frantically trying to get your
4:06attention. No, no, no. Listen close. She
4:08feels wanted. We want her to feel
4:10wanted, but we don't want to get to the
4:12point where that guy is being won over
4:15too easy. It's a very fine line. It's a
4:17balance, okay? And I'm going to explain
4:19how to do this. This is an art. What I'm
4:21telling you is an art.
4:23Okay? The way I do it, I want you to
4:25take the principles
4:27and the methods that you know will work
4:28for you and apply them. But overall,
4:30this is an art.
4:32An artist gets better with time. Okay?
4:35This is what I want you to remember.
4:36Like an artist,
4:38picture number one is probably worse
4:41than picture 1,000 if he's a painter.
4:44Same goes for even me with my channel,
4:46okay? I'm guessing my first 50 videos
4:50probably
4:53Whatever the case may be, same rules
4:54apply. This is an art.
4:57You'll have to put in practice. You'll
4:58have to put in reps. You'll have to get
5:00good. So, you'll still need to ignore,
5:03if you want to call it that, okay?
5:04You'll still have to ignore, okay? Or
5:07not text that woman from time to time,
5:09but there's a way to do it.
5:11And the way to do it is through um
5:14what I would call time delays, but also
5:15validating what she said through a
5:17reaction um on that text message, and
5:20I'm going to show you what to mean. The
5:21reason why we're heavily focusing on the
5:23cell phone is because really in 2026,
5:26the cell phone is where you win or lose.
5:28Like the paragraph length and the time
5:30delay and the frequency of the
5:32communication a lot of times dictates
5:33and determines her further interest. And
5:36any guy telling you otherwise is
5:37completely wrong. Like a woman could
5:40meet a guy that's tall, charismatic,
5:42charming, makes a lot of money, and is
5:44like a 10 out of 10. And through that
5:46cell phone, he can totally destroy his
5:48dating value down to zero through not
5:50moving his fingertips the right way.
5:52What I'm telling you today is very high
5:53level stuff. This is an art. You'll have
5:55to get good at it through time. So,
5:57you'll still need to ignore or not text
5:59her from time to time, but there's a way
6:01to do it. Now, the cell phone will
6:03dictate most guys' success. You have to
6:05know this. The cell phone's going to
6:07dictate most of your success. Getting
6:09better at navigating the cell phone will
6:11categorize you in that um
6:13position of really being like her
6:15hypergamous best. So, if you are living
6:18by this method of you think just being a
6:21rude guy or being like an A-hole is
6:23going to get you the results, it's not
6:24going to. Okay, if you're doing stuff
6:27like that and being rude um and like
6:29ignoring women that you've been on dates
6:31with or stuff like that just in hopes
6:33and expectations that this is going to
6:34raise her desire so she wants to commit
6:36to you, that is not going to work. This
6:39is an art, and this is why a lot of
6:41dudes who have studied so much dating
6:43content and female nature their dating
6:45life actually begins to suffer because
6:47they need to restore balance
6:50to who they are as a man. This video is
6:52to help you do that. So, the first
6:54belief that we have to address is that
6:56we have to update is this right here.
6:58This is the first belief that we have to
7:00address that needs updated. You have to
7:02understand this. Women build essentially
7:06the entire relationship.
7:09This is the first belief we have to
7:11address, and we have to come to terms
7:13with this. Women essentially build the
7:16entire relationship. This is completely
7:19opposite to what I thought when I was
7:21young. When I was young, okay, when I
7:23was younger,
7:24I would hear these things like this. I
7:26would hear this. I'd say, "Men are
7:27masculine, and men need to be the
7:29leaders. So, to be a good man or to be a
7:31man that's attractive, you have to
7:32lead." And I would hear these things
7:34like women like leaders.
7:36Um so, men must lead the relationship
7:39and for example set plans. So, I'd hear
7:41this word lead. Let's focus on this
7:43lead. Well,
7:45what you come to find out the more you
7:47date is lead and a man's definition of
7:49leading is far different than how a
7:52woman feels about that word. Okay, so
7:55let me give you an example. What I would
7:56do when I was younger as I was actually
7:58trying to lead plans. I would try to
8:00lead communication and I would actually
8:02try to give effort into the
8:03communication because I didn't
8:05understand that women build the entire
8:07relationship. I didn't understand this.
8:09I thought me leading was me taking
8:11active interest in communication and
8:13initiating these conversations and these
8:15dates and these meet-ups first. Only to
8:17find out that me doing that was lowering
8:19my dating value. So, here's an example
8:20of how this would look. I would type
8:22something like, "Hey, Tuesday, are you
8:24free? Let's go do this. Let's go grab
8:26tacos here. Let's go on a date here.
8:28Let's go grab food here." Or I would
8:30actually try to lead the conversation. I
8:31might say like, "Hey, how was your day
8:33today?" Thinking that me taking interest
8:35and leading would now generate me that
8:37result.
8:38Not knowing this, okay, or not knowing
8:40that to women when you do this and you
8:42initiate digital communication, a lot of
8:45times, especially after you two have
8:46seen each other for a few times or you
8:48two have maybe
8:49had intimacy, romance, you might have
8:51slept together. Not knowing that to
8:53women this comes across as low SMV. I
8:56didn't know this. I thought this was me
8:58leading because I'm setting the plan.
8:59I'm doing what I'm supposed to do. I'm
9:00making the date. I'm being on time. I'm
9:02doing everything that I'm supposed to
9:04do. Why wasn't I rewarded? Well, I come
9:07to find out
9:09it lowers that guy's dating value. Well,
9:12then I started to put two and two
9:13together. I'm like, "Okay, men lead
9:14themselves. What I'm doing all day is
9:17I'm leading me.
9:18Okay, I'm going this way, this path no
9:21matter what. Um I'm not available from
9:24this time to this time because I'm
9:25working or I'm doing this. My focus is
9:28over here because of that she will
9:29decide for herself if I'm the type of
9:31guy she wants to follow."
9:33A woman views a good leader as only a
9:35man who leads himself.
9:37Not a man who's spending time uh
9:39figuring out and trying to, you know,
9:40figure out and look at her schedule.
9:43Okay, so keep this in mind. With age,
9:45you realize that she decides for herself
9:47if she wants to follow. Now, I still
9:50have not yet addressed the point of what
9:51do you actually do and how do you
9:54message? We're going to get to that. But
9:55with age, you start to realize that she
9:57decides for herself if she would like to
9:59follow. Now, there ain't nothing that
10:02you can do about it, okay? Because
10:04mother nature will dictate and determine
10:06all the attraction. There ain't nothing
10:07that you can do about this. There's
10:09nothing you can try to say or
10:11do or message to hopefully like raise
10:14her interest and that now this specific
10:17date and the way you're framing this
10:19sentence is now going to be
10:21a display of high SMV. No, you reaching
10:24out in the first place hoping to get a
10:26slice of her time in the first place,
10:28especially after you two have already
10:29seen each other, starts to lower your
10:31dating value. That's just how it goes.
10:32The more women that you date, you're
10:33going to notice this. There's nothing
10:35you can do about that.
10:36So, men build themselves. Men lead
10:38themselves. And when you do this, what
10:41you're going to notice is women build
10:43the relationship. And that's what you
10:44guys want. You want that woman to
10:46invest,
10:48be loyal, desire to commit, all those
10:50things, okay? So, listen.
10:52When it comes to ignoring women, we
10:54don't ghost or we don't ignore. We do
10:56not do this because in 2026,
10:59this is going to come across as you not
11:01knowing what you're doing.
11:03You don't know that
11:05that fine balance, okay? Of the
11:08assertive side with that loving side.
11:10And it's a combination and that is
11:11hypergamy. Men build themselves and when
11:14you do, women build the relationship.
11:15So, we don't ghost, we don't ignore, we
11:17use strategic time delays. And now this
11:20is where I'm actually going to get into
11:21the step-by-step of the video. We use
11:23strategic time delays, okay? And simply
11:26acknowledge and validate her responses
11:29or her replies or her messages.
11:32Let's focus on those two words.
11:34Validate and acknowledge.
11:37I don't need to ask you a question back,
11:39but I will let you know that I saw it,
11:41and I'll give you a slice of my energy
11:43to validate that I saw it. You'll see
11:45what I mean in a second.
11:46So, now let's get into the actual
11:48step-by-step, okay? What this means is
11:50this means zero ghosting. We are not
11:52ignoring or doing anything to purposely
11:56make somebody else feel bad as if we
11:58don't want to talk to them to hopefully
12:00raise their interest. All that's going
12:02to do is create a situation where um
12:04you're probably going to attract people
12:05into your life with lower self-esteem
12:07that really need your validation, and
12:09that is not the type of dynamic you want
12:11to create. If you want to have long-term
12:14success with women
12:15to where she wants to invest in you and
12:17you want to invest in her, you don't
12:18want it to be base um in like a state of
12:22fear and so much uncertainty that the
12:24other person's going to leave. So, it's
12:26a fine balance, okay? Zero ghosting.
12:30You doing that right now in 2026 isn't
12:32going to get you the same results that
12:35it may have in 2022-ish,
12:38okay?
12:40Or, you know, between like 2018 to 2025.
12:43People today are used to the games of
12:45dating apps, and they're used to the
12:46games of back and forth social media.
12:48So, there's two rules we're going to
12:49focus on to help you navigate this in
12:512026. The first rule I'm going to talk
12:54about is two to one, and I'll show you
12:56what that means in a second, or 60/40.
12:59Two to one would be her two reach-outs
13:02first of initiating communication to
13:05your one. So, that means every time you
13:06notice, let's say she reaches out a
13:08couple times, okay? She reaches out a
13:09couple times and wants to see you or
13:10wants to talk to you, every time you see
13:12her do that a couple times, now I'll
13:14give her one back, okay? Same goes for
13:16this rule, 60/40. If she initiates about
13:1960% of the communication, we're going to
13:21essentially match her and maybe be like
13:23one step behind and and her 40%. 60/40.
13:26So, she invests just a little bit more
13:28in the communication, so hypergamy
13:30satisfied. Okay? Still still creating
13:34that discrepancy in SMV where she's
13:37looking up to you, she's respecting you,
13:39she wants to be with you, she's looking
13:40at you as that high status guy, but just
13:43a simple rule. Just remember this when
13:44you're messaging or communicating two to
13:46one or 60/40.
13:48Here's what it looks like, okay? When in
13:49regards to the communication, let me
13:52give you an example. Let's say you start
13:54seeing a woman, okay?
13:56And let's say after about 4 weeks of
13:59seeing her,
14:00let's say you guys have been on, you
14:01know, four or five dates.
14:03Um and let's say she starts saying good
14:06morning on text message. So, she sends
14:08you a text that says, "Good morning."
14:10with a smiley face.
14:11Okay? And let's say she uh
14:13starts doing this after about 4 weeks,
14:15okay?
14:16Well, let's say she says it again.
14:19Okay? So, she's now done it twice, okay?
14:22Remember the rule is two to one. So, she
14:24says it again the next day. Okay? Here's
14:28what you would do. Here's how you
14:29interject like a strategic time delay,
14:32and then you re-up communication or you
14:34re-initiate communication the next day.
14:37Okay? If she sends you a text message
14:40that day that says, "Good morning."
14:42okay? With a smiley face or something,
14:44let's say you and her back and forth are
14:46text messaging through the day. So, you
14:48text for the day and let's say 7:00 p.m.
14:50you get the last message from her. 7:00
14:53p.m. comes and she sends you a message.
14:56And what you do now is you stop. You
14:58stop communicating completely at 7:00
15:00p.m. That was the last message she sent.
15:02She's essentially left on read, okay?
15:04You've left her on read, and now here's
15:06what you do. You're going to reply the
15:08next morning.
15:10Because what this does is it gives that
15:11little bit of space, that little bit of
15:13tension, that little bit of mystery of
15:15wondering what you were doing, but
15:16you're still right there. So, here's
15:18what I would do. Here's what I would
15:19advise a guy to do.
15:217:00 p.m. comes, she sends that last
15:23text message.
15:25What you're going to do now is you're
15:27going to reply the next morning. And I'm
15:29going to do two things.
15:31I'm going to validate and acknowledge
15:34her past message from the night before
15:36at 7:00 p.m. So, what I might do is I
15:38might hold down the reaction button on
15:40message and I might give it a heart.
15:42So, that way she feels like it's warmly
15:45received. Yes, I did read it.
15:47I don't necessarily have to reply to it.
15:50Okay? That's where you start to lose
15:52value a lot of times. She sees that
15:53you're wanting and needing and willing
15:55to reply to every little sentence. No,
15:57no, no. I'll just validate it and
15:59acknowledge it. So, I'll give that
16:00message a heart. I'll give her that
16:02heart.
16:03And then number two, now I will re-up
16:05communication and I will say good
16:06morning back.
16:08Okay? So, two to one. She did it twice.
16:11I'm using a bit of strategy here.
16:14When that last message comes through
16:16that day or that night at 6:00 or 7:00
16:18p.m., I'm going to leave her on red.
16:20Next morning, now I'll heart her above
16:22message, and then I'll give her a good
16:24morning back. So, two to one. Her two
16:26good mornings to my one. Okay? Another
16:28way you can look at it is 60/40. If
16:30she's investing about 60% of the
16:32communication and initiating the
16:33communication, you're going to
16:35essentially match her energy, but just
16:37be about one step behind, maybe two, and
16:39you're going to give about 40% back for
16:41who's initiating conversation and
16:42communication. If it's a woman who I've
16:44been seeing for a while,
16:46and she says good morning, let's say
16:48I've
16:49Let's say I've saw her for two to four
16:50months, and she says, you know,
16:52"Morning, babe." I might say, "Good
16:53morning, sweets."
16:55Good morning, you know, sweetie,
16:57whatever the case may be. Something like
16:58that.
17:00Two to one is essentially the rule that
17:01I follow. So, okay? Let's recap that.
17:05She sends the last message at 7:00 p.m.
17:08The next morning, when I wake up at 8:00
17:10or 9:00, I'm going to heart her message,
17:12and then I'm going to send a good
17:13morning
17:14for my one back. That's how you do it.
17:16That's how I would do it. This is how
17:18you use a bit of space and time delay to
17:20still create that
17:22that tension where she wants to see you,
17:24okay? So, you might be wondering, "Well,
17:26Casey, where does the ignoring part
17:28actually come in?" Okay, this is where
17:30the ignoring comes into play. What I
17:32would call it is like an intermittent
17:34time delay, okay, through text message.
17:36The reason why we're doing this, that
17:39that period of time, that leg period
17:40between 7:00 p.m. to the next morning,
17:43is because the reason why I'm waiting,
17:45okay, is because I understand that a
17:46woman's emotions work in that guy's
17:48favor when he doesn't appear like he's
17:50being won over too easy. So, by you
17:52giving time and separation and space in
17:54those messages, you now create a little
17:56bit of space, you create a little bit of
17:57mystery, and you create a little bit of
17:59excitement.
18:00When I do send that message back, I'm
18:02not asking more questions. Essentially,
18:05all I'm going to do is give her a
18:06statement, just a statement back, okay?
18:08"Good morning, sweets" is a statement,
18:10okay?
18:12This creates a little bit of space,
18:13mystery, and excitement for her, okay,
18:16to want that next message, to crave that
18:18next message, to be excited for it when
18:20she sees your name come through.
18:22Let all the other dudes who have no
18:24awareness of female nature rise to the
18:25top of her inbox and keep messaging her.
18:28We're going to kick back, cool as a
18:29cucumber, nice and nonchalant, and we're
18:31going to reply on our own terms because
18:33we're busy, we're living a life of
18:34abundance, we're working on our careers,
18:37our businesses, or what we're doing is
18:39we're just enjoying life. And we
18:41understand that, hey,
18:42this text message isn't my number one
18:44priority. So, here is the guys who fail.
18:47Let me explain to you the guys who fail
18:48over text message. Because a lot of
18:51times the guys who I see failing over
18:53text message is actually the dudes
18:56who watch female nature content, or they
18:59are so strict and rigid and stoic in
19:02their messaging, they're so scared to
19:05come off too feminine.
19:06>> [clears throat]
19:07>> These guys actually fail more a lot of
19:09times than guys who use emojis and are
19:11more free-flowing. Because at least that
19:13dude seems natural, like he's engaging
19:15in real conversation. This guy over here
19:17who's so worried about appearing too
19:20feminine is actually the guy that she
19:22can feel is slightly insecure. So, guys
19:24who are failing today that I see on text
19:26message, like I told you, some of you
19:28this might be a big belief change
19:29because you don't like to hear this
19:30because it goes against everything
19:32you've learned in 2018 to 2025. If
19:35that's you, I'm sorry, but I have to
19:36update some of this stuff because as
19:38times change, as social media is more
19:40popular, as dating apps are more
19:42popular,
19:43people get accustomed to different
19:44things.
19:46So, you have to update some of this. The
19:47guys who are actually failing right now
19:49with text messages are the ones using
19:51zero emojis,
19:52the ones um they never heart the
19:55message, they never give a reaction, uh
19:57zero exclamation marks, and every
19:59sentence it's just like a few words over
20:01text, and they just hit send. So, it
20:03reads so dull. It's just only words.
20:06Um I just got home from the gym. What
20:08are you doing? Just it's so very basic,
20:10and she reads it and feels nothing, and
20:12she can tell that it's based on a fear.
20:14Here's why she can feel like it's based
20:16on a fear.
20:17Because in real life, when she meets
20:19that guy, a lot of times he's not like
20:21that. He's expressive. He seems like
20:23he's taking genuine interest in her, but
20:25now it looks like he's playing a game or
20:27he's too scared. It looks like he has
20:29fear of loss.
20:31So, he's coming across like he's so uh
20:33robotic and masculine and stoic that it
20:35actually looks like he's actually scared
20:37that he's going to come across too
20:38feminine, so he never actually types um
20:42any sort of uh
20:44he doesn't type any enthusiasm or any
20:46kind of reaction that would cause an
20:48emotional spike in that text message,
20:49and this actually lowers his perceived
20:51dating value, and she can actually start
20:53to tell he's in scarcity. In real life,
20:55he's expressive. In real life, he seems
20:57like he likes her, but then over the
20:58phone it's like he's trying to use all
21:00these concepts that he has learned from
21:02probably 2018 to 2025.
21:04So, this is what I see with most
21:06corporate guys. Most corporate guys I
21:09have noticed actually struggle with this
21:11stuff the most. The texting is just a
21:13nightmare. And a lot of times they're
21:15coming off too rigid, too robotic, not
21:17free-flowing. But in real life, they're
21:19like super expressive or they have good
21:21social skills because they've been
21:22trained to do that at work. That's
21:24typically the archetype of the guy who I
21:26see struggle the most right now. And she
21:28thinks that he's fearful
21:30to essentially emote or essentially open
21:33up. She can feel that he's like bracing
21:36for that rejection he's about to get if
21:37he were to uh God forbid use one emoji
21:40or one heart reaction.
21:43And you have to understand that women's
21:44emotions are a bit more complex in that
21:46way. She's really looking for
21:47personality congruence. You have to be
21:50genuinely okay with yourself and you
21:51have to not have fear of loss at all.
21:54That means me, if I was sending a text
21:55message, right, and I use an emoji, if a
21:58woman looks at me and she sees
22:00everything that I am,
22:02everything that I'm about, my identity,
22:04my personality, how I look, how I walk,
22:06how I talk, how I look, how I act, how I
22:07carry myself, and if you're telling me
22:09that this one emoji is going to be the
22:11determining factor if I get ghosted, if
22:14it's a woman I've met and seen, get out
22:16of here.
22:17Absolutely not. Okay? So, she thinks
22:20he's fearful to open up. No. What women
22:23do to test your SMV, you have to know
22:25this. When you start seeing a woman, if
22:27you're an attractive guy or if you have
22:29some level of game or if you have some
22:31level of female awareness, here's what
22:33women are going to do. What women do to
22:35test your SMV, your dating value, and
22:38especially your attachment level, your
22:39interest level, a lot of times they're
22:41almost interest tests.
22:43At an advanced level, here's what they
22:45do. They mainly test your responsiveness
22:48and willingness to break your daily
22:50routine and workflow to give them a
22:52little bit of cell phone attention.
22:53Who's ever been there before? You met a
22:55woman, you're 3 weeks in, 4 weeks in,
22:57and all of a sudden she's sending you
22:59different videos that she's watched on
23:01some social media platform. She's
23:02sending you the text message link to it
23:04so you watch it and it's nothing more
23:06than a funny reaction video or a video
23:08about a dog or a cat or something like
23:10that. Okay, just something something
23:13funny or something silly. This is what
23:15they'll start to do is they'll start to
23:16send you stuff to test your reaction
23:19level and to test how much you're
23:21willing to react to these things.
23:23So, the guys who ignore those messages
23:25from women, especially women you're
23:27dating or women you're seeing or women
23:29that like if you two are like talking or
23:31you two are sleeping together, right?
23:33You cannot just ignore that stuff. She's
23:35going to be like, "Why isn't this guy
23:36communicating back? This is weird."
23:38Okay?
23:39The ignoring, okay, is just a simple
23:43time delay. So, here's what it looks
23:44like. That means the ignoring is just a
23:47simple time delay. Maybe you respond to
23:48it in a few hours or you give a reaction
23:50to that message in a few hours. You come
23:52back cool as a cucumber, laid-back and
23:53nonchalant. Let me give you an example.
23:56Guys who don't do this and only text
23:58message sentences come across as like
24:01either butt hurt, scared to invest,
24:04fearful of rejection, or you're coming
24:06across a lot of times passive-aggressive
24:08if you're just giving sentences back.
24:09You know, if she sends you a message of
24:12a video of like a cat or a dog doing
24:14something and you put that was funny, it
24:17just reads so flat. Okay, there's no
24:19like
24:20she can tell that you're worried to say
24:22the wrong thing. So, an example, let's
24:24say she sends you a funny video or a
24:26clip from social media, okay, or an
24:28update of what she had for lunch, let's
24:31say. She sends you that back-to-back.
24:33Maybe you just let three or four hours
24:35go by. What you do then is you hold down
24:37the reaction button on the text message
24:39and maybe you hit the haha button. You
24:41haha that video clip so she acknowledges
24:43or so that she feels acknowledged that
24:45you saw it. You validated that you saw
24:48it. You validated it was funny. She
24:50feels like it's a win. She feels like
24:52she's winning you over and that you're
24:53emotionally taking interest in the
24:55conversation. And then, number two, you
24:57would just reply to what she had for
24:59lunch. You might say, "Oh, yum. I love
25:01that place." She said she got a burrito
25:03somewhere. You don't have to necessarily
25:05ask a question back or even give an
25:06update of what you're doing. You simply
25:08make a statement. You just say, "Oh,
25:10yum. I love that place." So, the two
25:12things we're doing here, number one, we
25:14validated. Okay, we validated the video
25:16that she sent by holding down that haha
25:18button or that reaction button. And
25:20then, the second thing we did is we made
25:22a simple statement back.
25:24We invested and we engaged into the
25:25conversation, just like I told you over
25:27here, 60/40. Okay? We're right there.
25:29We're essentially matching her energy.
25:32And what this does is this makes it so
25:33the relationship is smooth. There's no
25:35ghosting. It's like I'm right here. Hey,
25:37you message me? I'm not going to ghost
25:39you.
25:40Not going to ignore you. I'm right
25:41there.
25:42I'm right there. I'm not necessarily
25:44reaching out every day and asking a
25:46bunch of questions and giving you
25:47updates and initiating conversation, but
25:49if you message me, I'm right there with
25:51you.
25:51Right there with you. And that's how
25:54women can continuously invest over the
25:56cell phone, and they end up building the
25:57relationship for you without you doing a
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