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0:00The seven deadly sins of dating. Number
0:03one, thou shall not ever say I love you
0:07first before she does. There's a
0:10specific reason for this.
0:12First off, this is what you got to know.
0:14The person who says it first, okay, the
0:16person who says I love you first is now
0:18in the weaker position.
0:20And the reason why we as men do not do
0:23this first is because it is a risk. It's
0:27a risk, okay, because the other person,
0:31okay, that woman might not feel the same
0:33way. So, you do not say that first
0:36because when it comes to female nature,
0:38when it comes to satisfying hypergamy,
0:40you have to understand this. Women are
0:42not happy in the relationship unless
0:46they actually put themselves in the
0:48weaker position and she gives up that
0:51leverage to put it all out there and to
0:53tell that man that she loves him. The
0:55woman has to say it first or what you
0:58are going to find is that nine times out
1:01of 10,
1:02listen to me closely, her desire will
1:05start to decrease and then she pulls
1:07away from you and then it's completely
1:09over all because you just couldn't bite
1:11your tongue. You couldn't just wait. If
1:13you had more patience, you would stop
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1:27All right, the seven deadly sins of
1:28dating women. This is sin number two,
1:31all right? Thou shall not ever ask her
1:33to stay the night first. She needs to be
1:36the one to ask you to stay the night.
1:38Listen to me closely. If you two sleep
1:41together and you're at her house, okay,
1:44when it gets, you know, 9:00, 9:30, you
1:47say, "All right, I got to get going. I
1:48got work tomorrow." Doesn't matter if
1:50you do or if you don't, go do something
1:53else.
1:54Because if you're signaling that you now
1:56want to stay the night or you want her
1:58to come back to your place and stay the
1:59night, you're going to signal over
2:01attachment too quick. Now, let's say you
2:03two sleep together, but she's at your
2:05place, okay? Same rules apply. When it
2:09starts getting late, you know, 9:30,
2:1110:00 rolls around, you say, "Yeah, I
2:13got to wrap up for the night.
2:15I got work in the morning."
2:17And you make sure that you go to bed,
2:19okay? You do not start like
2:22hinting at staying the night or her
2:25staying the night at your place at all
2:27or anything like that until she brings
2:29it up first. So, what you're going to
2:30notice is that eventually her attachment
2:32level will go up, okay? And as her
2:34attachment level goes up, now she's
2:36going to want to start to spend more
2:38time with you. But you don't belong
2:40saying this stuff first, okay? The
2:42moment you start saying that stuff
2:44first, you as the man,
2:46you're now going to be tapping into your
2:47feminine energy, and she's going to feel
2:49that attachment. She feels that you're
2:51getting clingy. She feels that you
2:53really like her, and now she goes, "Oh,
2:55it looks like your SMV wasn't as high as
2:56I thought. Oh, it looks like your dating
2:58value wasn't as high as I thought it
2:59was." And now you're out. That's how
3:01fast this stuff goes downhill. Keep that
3:04in mind, especially in the early
3:05preliminary stages of dating when she's
3:07really building feelings for you month
3:09over month.
3:11Every move is like important because if
3:13you start signaling too much care or too
3:15much investment too quick, it's
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3:25The seven deadly sins of dating women,
3:28number three.
3:30Thou shall not ever position themselves
3:33to be a beta male provider. This is what
3:35I mean by that. If you go into that
3:37date, if you go into that interaction,
3:39you are never leading with money or
3:41resources or things that you can do for
3:44her. That woman, okay, who would have
3:47slept with you on, let's say, the the
3:50couple dates, and actually had high
3:52desire for you,
3:54and your actual internal personality,
3:58can be completely ruined. That entire
4:00vibe can be completely ruined simply by
4:03you leading with materialistic things.
4:05When you lead with materialistic things,
4:07here's what happens. She looks at you
4:09and she goes, "Huh.
4:10Now, I should probably test him more to
4:13figure out if there's insecurities,
4:15because this guy
4:17maybe feels like he has to provide
4:19certain things in order to make up for
4:22his lack of dating value. That is not
4:25what you want. You have to remember
4:26this. You as a man,
4:28you have natural, like, God-given, um,
4:32attraction mechanisms
4:34just by being there.
4:36Just the value that you have. It could
4:38be,
4:39um,
4:40the strength and security you give off
4:42with your personality, the confidence in
4:44your vibe and your demeanor. Whatever
4:45the case may be, you want her to like
4:47you for you internally. Okay? So, you
4:51want to like be her actual, like, um,
4:55you want to actually unlock her primal
4:56desire. So, she looks at you and she
4:59sees how you look, she hears your vocal
5:01tone, she sees your personality, you
5:03want her to be sold on you. Where it's
5:05like, "Oh, yeah, I actually like that
5:06dude." That's the vibe that you want.
5:08But, as soon as you start saying things
5:10like, "Hey, you know, we could uh travel
5:11the world together, and I want to show
5:13you my brand new sports car, and all
5:15this." You get put in the wrong
5:16category, you get put in the category
5:18that you do not want to be in. Number
5:20three, you do not lead with certain
5:23things that positions you as that
5:24provider. Okay?
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5:45wins in their dating life. Seven deadly
5:48sins of dating women, number four, thou
5:51shall not ever make promises of a
5:54future. This is what I mean. Listen
5:57close, when you make promises of a
5:59future, oh, I could really see this
6:01going somewhere. Oh, I could really see
6:03us having a great relationship. Oh, I
6:05could really see us, you know, going on
6:06vacation together. Oh, you know what
6:07would be great is if we did this next
6:09month. When you start doing that, okay,
6:11especially prematurely,
6:14in the beginning what this signals to
6:16the woman is that you have lower dating
6:18value than she does.
6:20So, instantly subconsciously she goes,
6:22oh, I guess your dating value isn't as
6:23high as I thought it was.
6:25Because what is actually going on here
6:27is it seems as if you're wanting to lock
6:30down that relationship. And whenever she
6:33sees that you really, really like her,
6:36she stops really, really liking you.
6:38Okay, this is just natural female
6:40nature. When you start making promises
6:42of a future, okay, without her hinting
6:45at that. Here's the thing.
6:48What happens is a situation's now
6:50created where she actually desires to go
6:52and attempt to build a future or create
6:54a future with somebody else that isn't
6:56you. So, this is what you have to
6:57remember, when you're dealing with
6:59women, how you think that things should
7:01go, it's typically completely opposite.
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7:14deadly sins of dating women, this is
7:16number five. Thou shall not ever, and I
7:19mean ever, talk about your ex
7:21negatively. You can't do this. Okay,
7:24this is for all the guys out there who
7:26like you haven't put together, you're an
7:27attractive dude, maybe you got a little
7:30bit of money, or you got your life
7:31together, maybe you're an attractive
7:33guy, or you've been hitting the gym,
7:34right? You got that six-pack, you got
7:36the first date going good, you got the
7:38second date going good. You two sleep
7:40together, okay, all of a sudden you're a
7:42week, two weeks in, or you're a month
7:44in, and she starts asking you deeper
7:46level questions. And she says, "Oh, that
7:48last relationship that you told me that
7:50you had 8 months ago, why did that
7:51fail?"
7:52And what the dude does, nine times out
7:54of 10, especially
7:56if he believes in his heart of hearts
7:58that his ex-girlfriend did something to
8:00ruin the relationship, he starts talking
8:02all the negative. Oh, she did this, and
8:05then she wouldn't answer her phone, and
8:06then she'd go out with her girlfriends,
8:08and then uh she'd do this, and she
8:10wouldn't call me back, and she didn't
8:11treat me good, and blah blah blah blah
8:13blah. And then what happens is, since
8:16the woman that you're now talking to
8:18understands female nature, since she is
8:20a woman, she understands, okay, at a
8:23deep level, that women do things based
8:26on how that man is acting. So then she
8:29looks at that situation, and she thinks
8:31to herself, and she goes, "Hmm, sounds
8:33like the common denominator's you." All
8:36you have to do when she asks you why
8:38that relationship failed is you have to
8:40just give easy, simple answers, blanket
8:44statements, easy to understand answers
8:46that is just full of soft words. Oh, we
8:49grew apart. Oh, you know, things just
8:52didn't work out. Oh, you know, we were
8:54just on different paths. Oh, you know,
8:56we were just on different wavelengths.
8:58Oh, you know how things go, you know, a
9:00year, two years in, we just we grew
9:01apart.
9:03Now as a dude, you hear that, and you
9:04go, "Wow, that means absolutely nothing.
9:06Did I even answer the question?" That's
9:08how I felt when I first learned this
9:10stuff. I was like, "Whoa, that's really
9:11all it takes? I literally answer the
9:13question properly and correctly by not
9:16even answering it?" And then when she
9:18hears that that's the answer that you
9:20gave, she understands that you
9:22understand female nature, and she
9:24smiles, and she goes, "Hmm, makes
9:26sense."
9:27And then she keeps seeing you. That's
9:28how all this actually works. If you want
9:30to succeed in 2026, I hate to break it
9:32to you, but you're going to have to
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9:45seven deadly sins of dating, rule number
9:48six. Thou shall not ever call or text
9:52message first after you two have slept
9:55together, and here's why. What you have
9:58to remember is this, when you are dating
9:59a woman, that space and that tension
10:03apart where you two are not talking is
10:06where the highest level of her desire
10:09starts to unfold. By you having patience
10:13compared to all of the other men, all
10:15the other beta males who were like doing
10:17this like race to the top where they
10:18think if they text her first, they set
10:20up the next day, they reach out, and
10:21they call her first, that all of a
10:23sudden that that is going to be rewarded
10:25for their um
10:27you know, good guy traits of loyalty and
10:28being there and sending that follow-up
10:30text message. Let all of those other
10:32dudes rise to the top and send those
10:34messages and keep doing those phone
10:36calls. And what you're going to notice
10:37is this, her feminine intuition, her
10:40mind craves the one guy who isn't. She
10:42craves the one guy who isn't doing those
10:45things. And now what happens is you have
10:46actually positioned your attention at
10:48the higher value. Whether this sounds
10:50good or bad, it doesn't matter. Women
10:52are typically only satisfied in a
10:54relationship if she voluntarily
10:57puts herself in the weaker position
10:59emotionally. When she sends a text
11:02message first, when she gives that phone
11:03call first next after you two have slept
11:06together, what that does is it actually
11:08increases her desire that she wants to
11:11commit to you. The seven deadly sins of
11:14dating women, number seven. Listen
11:16close. Thou shall not ever attempt to
11:19win her back once you find out that she
11:22was talking to a different dude. Listen,
11:24natural selection is a real thing. Women
11:27are hypergamous, and that means they're
11:28only going to gravitate towards the best
11:30option. If you are not her best option,
11:32all you can do is walk away. The more
11:34time that you spend attempting to talk
11:36things out, to talk through things, to
11:38send a text message, to send that call,
11:40to try to say the right string of
11:42sentences to win her back or to win her
11:44over, listen, you are doing your own
11:46self a disservice and it's going to show
11:49that you have absolutely no
11:50self-respect. All you can do is walk
11:52away. Listen,
11:54you can't negotiate desire, you can't
11:55negotiate attraction. It's internal.
11:58She's going to gravitate towards who she
12:00wants and that's all you can do is you
12:02can only make yourself the best option
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12:06women, check out what I made for you.
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