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0:00Okay, you need to make friends with
0:02other dudes when you go out. And the
0:06reason why I'm making this video is
0:07because if you watch a lot of dating
0:10content,
0:11despite you learning a lot about female
0:13nature or despite you having a better
0:15dating life, this can actually start to
0:17really negatively affect your social
0:20skills because you're too inwardly
0:22focused. Okay, so let me give you an
0:24example.
0:26What will typically happen when a guy
0:28starts to improve his dating life is he
0:30starts to be rewarded by being uh uh
0:33more nonchalant. He appears less
0:35interested. Um he's more focused on
0:38himself. Um more self-centered. And
0:41because of that, she responds positively
0:43to it. Okay?
0:45But the problem is that does not work in
0:47your day-to-day social life. So listen,
0:49this video is to help you avoid the
0:53pitfalls that come with discovering more
0:56and more about female nature. Because
0:58listen, if you are very deeply invested
1:00in this type of female nature um
1:02concepts and all these videos and then
1:05this type of manosphere type video,
1:07listen, the thing is these topics can
1:09shift how you view things. Okay? So
1:11listen closely.
1:13What will typically happen when a guy
1:15consumes a lot of like um female nature
1:18type videos, okay, here's what happens.
1:19His personality becomes more stoic, his
1:21personality becomes more hardened, and
1:23then all of a sudden he seems more
1:25disinterested with almost everything
1:26that he does in life. So, I would bet
1:28this. I would almost guarantee you that
1:30if you go out with a group of friends or
1:31you go out with a group of dudes, um if
1:34you know one or two of the dudes closely
1:36but not the rest of them, you might have
1:38this happen to you where the dudes that
1:40you know closely, they'll tell you the
1:42next day or the next week and they're
1:43like, "Yeah, so and so um is wondering
1:46uh why you don't engage uh with the
1:49conversation or so and so, you know,
1:51wonders why um if you like them or not."
1:53Right? And this is a huge problem. This
1:55is not only a problem for like a lot of
1:57guys watching specific videos, but this
2:00is what will happen the more time you
2:02spend um where most of your
2:04communication with anybody is digital
2:06instead of actually talking to another
2:08person. Okay, very important to
2:10understand this. So the first thing that
2:12you have to do, okay, you have to accept
2:14this one brutal truth. And the brutal
2:16truth you have to accept is this. Once
2:18you have discovered truths that impact
2:21and help your dating life, yes,
2:23understand and learn female nature. Yes.
2:26Um,
2:28leverage all of these tactics in your
2:30dating life to have smoother, better
2:32relationships with women. However,
2:35once you have adapted these new traits,
2:39it is your job to reintegrate back into
2:42your day-to-day social life
2:45as a man with advanced tools, but you
2:48have not completely just turned yourself
2:51into a totally different type of person
2:53where you behave completely different
2:54with everybody. Listen, if you neglect
2:57your social life, what's going to happen
3:00is you will slowly become socially
3:01isolated and you're not going to be the
3:03type of guy that people want to have fun
3:04with. You're not going to be the type of
3:05guy that people would look to as a
3:07friend. And as you get older, this is
3:09going to negatively affect how you do
3:13things in life. And this is negatively
3:15going to affect um how you feel
3:18dayto-day. In fact, I would even go as
3:20far as to say this. Despite having more
3:22dating success, you might actually have
3:24less social success. Which means you
3:26have to have the wisdom, the strength,
3:28and the capability. Okay. To be able to
3:31also engage with people, even if you
3:33don't necessarily care, make people feel
3:36good. Right? This is something I'm doing
3:38new for 2026 is I'm constantly
3:40upleveling. I'm constantly improving.
3:42I'm constantly self-reflecting. And I'm
3:44always going to say, "Hey, what can I do
3:45better? How can I make myself the best
3:46that I can be?" So, because of that,
3:48this is what I can tell you. Your growth
3:50only stops when you tell yourself you're
3:52at your end point. For me, there is no
3:54end point. I'm going to evolve into my
3:5730s, into my 40s, into my 50s, and
3:58that's that. And one of the things that
4:00I can tell you is this. When you are out
4:02with people, when you are out with a
4:04group of friends, I need you to actively
4:09make friends with every single dude
4:10that's there. Every single dude. And
4:12there's two reasons for it. Okay, this
4:14does two things. number one. Okay, this
4:17raises your social status within the
4:19group. So all the other dudes, they look
4:22at you as a dude who is friendly, maybe
4:24dependable, maybe a dude that they can
4:25talk to, maybe a dude that they would
4:26want to call up the next weekend and
4:28hang out with. As you get older, this is
4:30going to be more and more important,
4:32especially if you don't have a family.
4:33You have to understand this. The older
4:35you get, every single year, more and
4:36more people pair off and have families,
4:39which means that there's fewer and few
4:40people for you to do anything with,
4:42which means it's harder to keep friends
4:44around. So, you do have to be that guy,
4:47okay, that has people in your corner
4:49that you like and they like you. And
4:51this is how a relationship or a
4:53friendship is built. You know, I think
4:54that since people spend so much time on
4:56the phone today or looking at the
4:58screen, a lot of times they use that as
5:00their form of social connection and they
5:02just completely get rid of all real life
5:04connection. But you can't do this. This
5:05is going to lead to social isolation. So
5:07listen, when you make friends with all
5:09of the other dudes and you actually take
5:10an active interest in their life, could
5:14be the small talk. Let it be the small
5:16talk. Let it be you asking meaningless
5:17questions. And even if you don't care
5:20what they have to say, act like you do
5:22for the first couple interactions. You
5:23will slowly notice that you become an
5:25individual who's overall more social.
5:28You'll notice that you start to just
5:29have a better vibe to you by doing this.
5:32But listen close. This does two things.
5:34Number one, okay, number one, here's
5:36what this does. It raises your social
5:39status in the group and the other women
5:40notice this. Okay?
5:44That way when you do talk to her or when
5:49you do talk to that woman, it looks like
5:50you're just talking to everyone. and it
5:53looks like you're talking to everyone an
5:54equal amount. So then it doesn't look
5:56like you're overtly flirting with her.
5:58See, this is the second reason why you
6:00have to do this is because if you
6:04have the mindset of like um if you have
6:06the mindset of like, you know, I only
6:08care about myself right now in this
6:10social setting. Here's the second thing
6:11that's going to happen. If you choose to
6:14not take interest in anybody else or
6:16care about anybody else, if you choose
6:18to do this and you choose to um, you
6:21know, appear so cool and laid-back and
6:23nonchalant, here's what's going to
6:24happen. When you do want to talk to her,
6:28everybody is instantly going to see your
6:30interest level and everybody can
6:31instantly tell that you're now flirting.
6:32And she's going to feel that, too,
6:34because now what's happened is you've
6:35chosen to talk to her when in reality,
6:38you didn't give anybody else the type of
6:39attention that you should have. So, the
6:41second tip that I want to give everybody
6:43is you have to make friends with all of
6:46the other dudes that are around you.
6:47Okay, a couple days ago, I made this
6:50video right here. Okay, I'll actually
6:52put a screenshot of it. I titled it
6:53unlock God level masculine aura to vibe
6:56with hot women easily. This one right
6:58here. Okay, the first thing that I told
7:00all of you that you have to do is you
7:02have to start off your day ahead of what
7:04most other people are doing. Most people
7:06are sitting behind the screen and all
7:07they're doing is they're basically
7:09sitting there in a passive state. I want
7:11you to get outside and I want you to get
7:12on a 15 20 minute walk right away in the
7:15morning. The second thing that I want
7:16you to do is I want you to start to make
7:18a conscious effort to make friends with
7:22all of the other dudes that you know,
7:23all of the other dudes that you meet
7:25when you're out. So that way you become
7:27that guy that is socially popular. Okay?
7:30If you look back at high school, who are
7:32the dudes who had more options with
7:34women? It was the dudes who were
7:36socially popular and all the other dudes
7:38thought that they were cool. If you look
7:39at um the dudes who attracted the most
7:42women in college, maybe it was the
7:43fraternity leaders. Maybe it was the
7:45athletes. What is that? That is a good
7:47social status or a good social standing
7:48with the other dudes. More and more men
7:51are neglecting male companionship and
7:55friendship because they think that it
7:57serves no purpose. When in actuality,
7:59what this is going to do is not only is
8:01this going to make you happier because
8:02you have more people to talk to, but now
8:04you're going to appear as if you
8:05actually have value to give to the
8:07social group, to the collective as a
8:09whole. And on top of that, it now
8:11actually raises your status in the eyes
8:13of the woman. So, let's say you're with
8:15a group of uh 10 people, and let's say
8:17uh there's four girls and there's uh you
8:19know uh six guys. Well, now all of a
8:22sudden, since you talk to everybody,
8:25when you do talk to her or maybe her
8:28friend or you ask her friend where she's
8:30from or you ask her what she likes to do
8:31in her free time, it doesn't look weird.
8:33It doesn't look socially unccalibrated.
8:36Okay? The reason why I'm telling you
8:38this is because the more videos that
8:39guys watch about female nature, you're
8:42going to um have this mindset that is
8:45essentially like hardened. uh you think
8:47that the more stoic, laid-back, and
8:49nonchalant that you don't care about
8:51anything, the more you're going to be
8:52rewarded. And you might find from time
8:54to time that's true in your dating life
8:56because that raises her emotional
8:58investment because she sees you have a
9:00take it or leave it attitude. But when
9:02it comes to your social life, okay, and
9:05when it comes to maybe attracting other
9:07women, okay, when it comes to attracting
9:10other women, see, this is why a lot of
9:12times like rich guys, for example, they
9:14might be slightly socially awkward or
9:15they might struggle socially. It's
9:17because they spent so much time being so
9:20inwardly focused on their own goals, so
9:22much time being so inwardly focused on
9:25only getting ahead for themselves that
9:27they forget
9:29that people communicate. They forget
9:31that humans have to communicate. Humans
9:34have companionship. They forget this. So
9:36then when they actually integrate into
9:37society, it's like there's something
9:38off. And then people can tell that, hey,
9:40this guy's not socially rewarded in a
9:42certain way. I want you to have the best
9:44life ever. I want you to be in shape. I
9:47want you to have women who love and
9:49admire you and want to stick by your
9:52side. I want you to have amazing
9:53friends. I want you to not feel awkward
9:57with yourself at any time. And I want
9:58you to be able to socialize because this
10:00is how you create well-rounded
10:02connections and you become the type of
10:04man that's so versatile. But this takes
10:07a lot of years and it takes a lot of
10:08self-reflection. There's a lot of guys,
10:10they never actually look um they never
10:14look to keep progressing in life. Like
10:17even me, I tell myself, look, there's so
10:19much more to learn and there's so much
10:20more wisdom to have. There's so much
10:21more wisdom to have. If I look at my
10:23life, like I feel like I've only touched
10:24the tip of the iceberg of what I could
10:26become, what I can develop into,
10:29you know? So, it's like I want to keep
10:31learning and keep growing and keep
10:32evolving. The second thing that you have
10:34to do, okay,
10:37is you have to be the type of guy that
10:38other men respect and admire and want to
10:40be friends with and want to talk to. I
10:43will give you another example. Let's say
10:44you're out and about at a party or
10:46something and there's a beautiful woman
10:47that you want to talk to, but you notice
10:48that she's in a group with a bunch of
10:50other dudes and a bunch of other women
10:51that she's with. there's a bunch of
10:52other girls with her and there's a bunch
10:53of other guys that you don't know of. If
10:55you walk up and you just talk to her,
10:57it's going to raise a bunch of social
10:58resistance because she's going to think
11:00that you're flirting with her. If you
11:01talk to two of the dudes first and you
11:03make good friends and now she sees that
11:04you're friends with them and then you
11:05slowly introduce yourself or she
11:07introduces herself to you organically.
11:09You say, "Hey, by the way, what's your
11:10name?" Well, all of a sudden, look what
11:12a smooth transition that is. There's a
11:14there's a few different types of people
11:15that I've noticed will struggle with
11:16this. Number one, the first type of guy
11:18who really needs to hear this is the
11:19dude that is very focused on business
11:21and making money and working a lot
11:23because you have been rewarded in your
11:25life most likely by doing your own thing
11:27and getting ahead. That's okay. But it's
11:30okay to learn this skill, too. The
11:32second type of guy that this is for is
11:33the gym bro. If you love your chicken
11:35and broccoli and you love your bench
11:37press, but you're still sitting there
11:38wondering why. Even though you have all
11:40these muscles and a vtaper and you look
11:42the part of the Chad, but you can't
11:44attract her, this is why. Okay, the next
11:47type of guy, right? Like maybe you have
11:49like uh maybe you uh have some type of
11:52like slight social anxiety or maybe
11:53you're like slightly autistic or
11:55something like that. So, it's harder for
11:56you to make social connections. Okay,
11:58maybe that's you. But there's a
11:59different type of guy not talked about.
12:01And I'm going to tell you something. I
12:03myself, I fall into this category. I
12:06fall into this category myself very
12:08rarely. Okay, when I teach video topics,
12:10a lot of times I don't even necessarily
12:12talk a whole lot about myself. And the
12:14reason being is because I don't think
12:15many people care. Like I understand that
12:18most people are self- serving. So you
12:19want to hear stuff that's going to
12:21benefit your life. You want to learn
12:22things. Cool. So I try to stay away from
12:25me personally. But I'll let you in on a
12:27little secret. I'll I'll tell you
12:28something, okay? I have no social
12:30anxiety at all, but I essentially have
12:32like no um let me give you an example.
12:34You could put me in a nightclub with
12:36loud music. You could put me in a
12:37grocery store. Doesn't matter. I feel
12:40the exact same. I'm the same guy. So,
12:43when people
12:46like if you are that type or you could
12:50be any of the other different types of
12:51personality that I just outlined in this
12:53video, you might be the type of guy
12:55where other people they ask their
12:57friends, they say, "Does he like us? Did
12:59we say something that offended him or
13:01made him mad? Why isn't he talking?" And
13:03the truth is, you maybe just don't have
13:05anything to say at that point. Or on top
13:07of that, you might just wait to speak
13:09until you want to. you might not have
13:11anything to say or you're just waiting.
13:13You know, another thing is like me
13:15personally, I don't drink. I don't drink
13:16at all. So, a lot of times like um
13:19even if I'm in a nightclub, like I don't
13:21drink. So, me personally, I've gotten
13:23real comfortable being who I am no
13:24matter where I'm at completely sober.
13:28Most people are not used to guys with
13:30that energy. Now, I will tell you this,
13:33too. Here's why you really need to make
13:36friends with all the other dudes. If you
13:38are not talking very much, okay, if
13:41you're not talking to people very much
13:42and you have an above average amount of
13:45muscle mass, like me, I have an above
13:46average amount of muscle mass. If you
13:48have an above average amount of muscle
13:50mass or you are conventionally
13:52attractive, like let's say um you're
13:54super good-looking or let's say um you
13:57know you uh let's say you have like
13:59great uh style and great hair or
14:02whatever and you don't talk to anybody,
14:03they're going to think that you're
14:04really arrogant or self-centered. Even
14:06if you're not, even if you just have the
14:09type of personality where you only talk
14:11when you feel it's necessary, people
14:13don't perceive it that way. And there's
14:15a very good chance that if you watch
14:17self-improvement videos or you watch
14:19videos on how to become better in your
14:21dating life, there is a very, very, very
14:23high probability that you have more
14:25confidence than the average person. And
14:27that's okay. But I'm here to tell you
14:29that even though you're like that, that
14:32can actually hinder from time to time
14:35your social experience. So, the reason
14:36why I made this video is because I'm
14:38making this little series. Okay, I'm
14:40going to make this series. Um, I can't
14:42remember exactly what I titled the
14:43playlist, but um maybe it will pull up
14:47even though my Wi-Fi isn't very good
14:49right now. Um, I titled this overcoming
14:52social anxiety. Okay, that's what I
14:56titled it. I titled it overcoming social
14:58anxiety. I'm making this video and this
15:01whole series because I just see a
15:03massive problem with dudes who watch a
15:05lot of like dating content or videos on
15:07female nature. Like it helped them maybe
15:10for a short time being, but longterm it
15:12might actually be negatively impacting
15:15how they're showing up socially. And we
15:18have to fix this. Like I totally see how
15:20like if you watch too much, it's just
15:22like if you watch uh you know too much
15:24sports or you play too much video games,
15:26like it's just too much. Okay, it's too
15:28much. Let me give you another example.
15:31There's guys who maybe you're seeing a
15:33woman, you know, she's attractive or
15:35she's really into you or you two haven't
15:36been seeing each other for a couple
15:37months or you're in a relationship and
15:38it's like it's Valentine's Day coming
15:40up. It's like, dude, it's going to look
15:41a lot more weird if you don't do
15:43something than if you do do something.
15:45And if the woman you're dating really
15:48wants to ghost you or dump you because
15:50you bought a box of chocolates and you
15:53have a balloon that's in the shape of a
15:55heart for Valentine's Day. If that was
15:57really the one thing that did it where
15:59she pulled back, bro, she did not like
16:01you to begin with. Like we have to take
16:04the tools.
16:06We have to take the tools we learned and
16:07we have to integrate them into our lives
16:09to uplevel. We do not have to
16:11essentially just say, "Hey, you know, no
16:13matter what, you know, if I engage with
16:15people socially, you know, or if I uh
16:17act like I have interest in people at
16:19all, you know, now I'm lowering my
16:21status or I'm lowering uh my perceived
16:23value or I'm wasting my time too
16:25interested in people." Like, you can't
16:27do that. It's going to negatively impact
16:30your day-to-day life. So, that's why I
16:32made this video. I hope you like it. I
16:33advise you to take this video even a
16:35step further um and join us inside the
16:38community that I built so I can help you
16:40learn, understand, and master the
16:42language of women. Join us inside of
16:44that community because I have a full
16:46process to show you, hey, just do this
16:47when you first meet the woman. Now, just
16:49do this on the first one to three dates.
16:51Now, this is how you act and how you
16:53behave to carry out a proper long-term
16:55relationship. I have everything step by
16:57step in a full sequence. So, just go and
16:59use what I already built. Go and use
17:01that. I invite you to join us inside of
17:03that. Hit the like button, comment, and
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17:06one.