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0:00All right, five things that gets women
0:02wildly attached in 2026.
0:05Um the reason why I'm making this is
0:08because
0:09in today's world, these things on this
0:12piece of paper
0:15um is very rarely found. Okay, like if a
0:18woman finds a man with this type of
0:21mindset, um this type of belief system,
0:25this is the way he looks at the world
0:27and kind of operates his own life,
0:30it's very, very hard for her to leave
0:32him, okay?
0:34Despite how it looks on the movies,
0:36okay?
0:37That's you have to understand. There's
0:40real world and then there's
0:43um
0:44you know, how people think things are.
0:46So, over the years people have asked me
0:48what keeps me doing this
0:51and it's seeing other dudes succeed. One
0:54of the dudes in my community goes, "In
0:55my dating life, I've been able to
0:57attract many women up front. Oftentimes,
0:59I was never able to keep these women
1:01around because I didn't understand the
1:03language of women. After studying this
1:05course, I've been able to get a girl
1:07absolutely down bad for me, practically
1:10begging me to be her boyfriend. This
1:13program not only has some of the most
1:15valuable information with women, but
1:17also has a great community of people
1:19reaching for similar goals."
1:22Okay, so that's the type of stuff that
1:24just like keeps me going because it
1:26feels amazing actually seeing dudes,
1:28right, like have that type of success.
1:30Now, point number one, okay, the first
1:32thing that gets women wildly attached in
1:342026
1:36would be a strong faith, okay, and
1:39spiritual leadership.
1:42Now, most men don't have this, okay?
1:44Most men wake up without a sense of
1:46purpose and they don't believe that
1:48they're here for a reason. When you have
1:49a strong sense of faith and spiritual
1:52leadership as a man, women are craving
1:55this because on a deep level she wants
1:57to be led.
1:59Okay, so you got to understand this. If
2:00you have an element of faith, it brings
2:02a strong sense of calm and a strong
2:05sense of security. Okay, not only for
2:07yourself, but for whoever's around you.
2:10So, this ties into good overall core
2:13leadership. Like if you want a woman
2:15attached, where she really wants to stay
2:17with you, this is such an important
2:19piece and most guys overlook this.
2:21Okay? So, this is why men have no
2:24confidence. Okay, the reason why men
2:26today don't have confidence is because
2:29they don't understand that their
2:31identity and who they are comes from
2:34above.
2:35Okay? That is your God-given identity.
2:39Okay?
2:40When you're born,
2:42like you have to dig deep and find that
2:44reason why why you're here and what
2:46you're supposed to do and that gives you
2:48a sense of purpose. This is something
2:50most men don't have, okay? So, since
2:52most men don't have this, okay, you're
2:54going to notice that women
2:55um
2:57things that sound good, okay,
3:00affirmations, quotes, all this type of
3:03stuff, like because there's no
3:06um
3:07spiritual leadership and strong sense of
3:09faith from the man, this is lacking.
3:12Okay?
3:13And that's why women are drawn to that
3:14stuff because the things that the man
3:17um
3:17should be demonstrating, he's not
3:19bringing to the table.
3:21Okay, number two. Okay, the second thing
3:23that gets women wildly attached would be
3:26lust control.
3:28Yes, you as a man having lust control,
3:30controlling your lust.
3:33Okay, now why is that? Okay?
3:35When you're in a lustful state and you
3:36just think she's so beautiful
3:39and, you know, all you're thinking about
3:40is you two sleeping together, the thing
3:42is is you treat her differently. You
3:44treat her differently and she trusts
3:46your judgment less.
3:48She trusts your judgment far less
3:50because she can see not disciplined.
3:53Okay, she can see that you are not
3:55disciplined. That your desires control
3:58you. Your desires is what's
4:00you know, at the forefront at all times.
4:02That's what she can tell and that's what
4:03she can feel. If you two sleep together,
4:06okay, and she doesn't talk to you
4:09afterwards or she's not trying to
4:11keep talking to you and attempting to
4:15um slowly get you into a relationship or
4:17lock you down for that relationship, if
4:20she's not doing this,
4:22then she thinks you're weak and she
4:23thinks you're lustful.
4:25So, even though you're an attractive man
4:27and even though she slept with you,
4:29here's what she starts to see. She
4:31starts to see that your pleasures
4:32control you. She starts to see that your
4:34desires control you.
4:36Okay, and she starts to think that
4:38you're weak and that you're lustful,
4:39okay? When you're in that lustful state,
4:41man,
4:42the problem is that
4:44you know, she sees that
4:46the way you're operating your day,
4:48you're pulled off center. You're
4:50constantly doing um things or
4:53acting a certain way in hopes of getting
4:55laid. And because of that, it just comes
4:57off as weak behavior. It comes off as a
4:59man who just leads with his pleasures.
5:02Okay, it looks like you have no
5:03discipline. So, that's really important.
5:05Like, if you You got to understand this.
5:07If you slept with a woman and you notice
5:10she's not actively attempting um to keep
5:14talking to you afterwards and being in a
5:15relationship, it's because on some
5:16level, despite you being attractive,
5:19she feels that those pleasures control
5:21you.
5:22Okay? So, lust control is so important,
5:24okay? The women that you really want to
5:26be with you end up treating them
5:27differently, slowly and subconsciously
5:30without even realizing it. Number three,
5:32okay, you stand up for yourself when
5:34something is wrong.
5:36Okay? Most women don't see this. Most
5:39women do not see a guy actually stand up
5:41for himself. Could be anything, could be
5:43anywhere, could be any place. It could
5:44be even a family member sometimes. It
5:47could be a friend. No matter what, most
5:49men have this mindset of like, "Oh, you
5:51know, let's just keep the peace and I
5:53don't want to rock the boat."
5:55Well, the problem with that
5:57is even though
6:00it calms situations right there, okay?
6:04It makes that situation calm in the
6:06moment. There's unresolved underlying
6:09tension that she sees that you might
6:10have been nervous to address. She sees
6:14that you have backbone. Now, in the
6:16short term, right, this might cause an
6:17emotional spike, okay? But later, she's
6:19glad that you had that strength. So,
6:21that's what you have to remember, okay?
6:23Most men are constantly in a passive
6:25state, okay? So, they're scared to upset
6:27their boss. They're scared to upset
6:29their friends. They're scared to upset
6:31their family members. And because of
6:32that, your personality gets suppressed.
6:35Okay?
6:37So,
6:38when you have that strength and that
6:39courage specifically to stand up for
6:42yourself, okay?
6:43It's something that not a lot of men
6:45have. So, if you do have it, okay? It's
6:47typically admired because it's looked at
6:49as bold. Okay? So, you want to keep that
6:51in mind. Now, number four,
6:54um the fourth thing that gets women
6:55wildly attached would be sharing things.
6:59Small gestures. This one's so powerful.
7:02Sharing things. Do you have any idea?
7:06Like, okay. So, I know this to be true
7:08because like I've had nice cars. I've
7:11had boats. I've had jet skis, right? You
7:13think that showing how much you can
7:15provide
7:17or leading with materialistic things is
7:19what wins her over, but it's not.
7:22Okay? That dude
7:25um in the fast, you know, Lamborghini or
7:27whatever type of sports car,
7:29right, who wants to lead with
7:31materialism or lead with materialistic
7:33things,
7:35to the woman,
7:38when she starts testing, she goes,
7:39"Okay, what is this guy lacking?" Men
7:41don't understand that it's sharing
7:43things. It's small gestures that
7:46actually triggers that side of
7:47attraction the best when it comes to
7:49something like resources. An example
7:51would be
7:53one thing she'll tell her friends, okay,
7:55or something she'll remember is, "Hey,
7:57it was cold out when we went on that
7:59walk
8:00and I got to wear his sweatshirt.
8:03He let me borrow his sweatshirt.
8:06He looked out for me. He made sure that
8:08I was warm." Okay, that's like an
8:10example.
8:12Something like that
8:14wins over the woman on an emotional
8:16level.
8:18Both dudes provided something. The dude
8:20in the Lambo provided that expensive
8:22dinner and all that,
8:24but it was with the intentions, right?
8:27Probably of obtaining or satisfying his
8:30lustful desires.
8:32But on top of that,
8:34she senses that he's leading with
8:36things. The other dude over here
8:38understands that one word resources,
8:41okay?
8:42And she gets that good feeling, okay,
8:45that she'll feel that she'll call up and
8:47tell her mom about or her girlfriends
8:48about when she goes, "Oh, we shared an
8:50ice cream.
8:51Oh, he let me wear a sweatshirt cuz I
8:53was cold." Little things like that,
8:56sharing things, okay? When a woman's
8:58with you long-term, okay, because you
9:00have to remember the dad the dad
9:02archetype, father, okay? Because that is
9:06at the end of the day, right, what
9:08reproduction is. Reproduction is new
9:10life, okay? So, the man that father
9:13archetype, yes, the dad has to be
9:15strong, the dad has to be assertive, but
9:17the other side of it is the dad has to
9:19be loving. Okay, that's just really
9:21important to understand. So, kindness or
9:23being able to share, okay? This is why
9:25you don't have to be a It's not like you
9:27have to be loaded like some rich dude,
9:29right? But when she sees that you have
9:32that masculine internal trait,
9:35when she sees that she's taken care of
9:36on a level that it feels
9:39that right way emotionally, I hope this
9:41makes sense. That is what really starts
9:43to win her over, okay? Now, number five,
9:46another thing
9:47that truly will get her attached is you
9:51winning. You winning and making it known
9:54and being okay with that and being
9:55excited about your life. The thing is is
9:57if you can make any micro win,
10:00okay?
10:02And you say, uh
10:05"Hey, babe, last week I benched 220, but
10:07this week I finally got 225." She sees
10:10progression.
10:11If you say, "Babe, I finally got that
10:12raise at work." She sees progression.
10:15Right? Anything that comes down to a
10:17small daily micro wins and micro habits.
10:21Anytime you have that positive
10:23self-talk, listen, she wants to be with
10:24a winner, but how you start to win in
10:27life is it's facilitated through your
10:28words and how you start to paint your
10:30own reality. You paint a picture of your
10:32own reality first by what you say. In
10:34your mind, right? You want to have all
10:35positive talk. "Oh, this is going to be
10:37a great day.
10:39Oh, this is going to be awesome. Oh, I
10:40know that this is going to work. I know
10:42that she's going to like me. I know that
10:43I'm going to have a record month in my
10:45business. I know that everything's going
10:46to work amazing." Why? Because I'm
10:48following that purpose and following
10:49that passion, that identity. So
10:51important.