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0:00So, the more I've dated and coached
0:02other guys, um this is something that
0:04I've just noticed a lot. Women
0:07manipulate sentence structure length to
0:10get you to feel like they don't want to
0:12talk to you. I'll say that one more
0:14time. Women manipulate the sentence
0:17structure length to get you to feel like
0:21they don't want to talk to you. That's
0:23what you're going to notice. I don't
0:25care if you're 6'5. I don't care if
0:27you're 7 feet tall. I don't care if
0:28you're uh broke or balding. I don't care
0:31if you're a millionaire or you are, you
0:35know, uh
0:37getting paid, you know, 30 grand a year.
0:39I don't care. You're going to experience
0:41this. Okay,
0:45here's how I discovered this. If you
0:47look at how women, for example, like
0:50talk to their mom or their sisters or
0:53their girlfriends, women love to talk.
0:56This is what you're going to notice. And
0:59what you're going to find is like the
1:00cell phone, especially text messages,
1:04in my opinion, is like
1:07the tell all because that actually shows
1:10you what she's thinking in her mind.
1:12Like what her brain is thinking of, it
1:14translates to her fingertips on that
1:16cell phone when she's typing. Women love
1:18to talk. So, if you look at how women
1:21message their mom or their sisters or
1:23their girlfriends, you're just going to
1:25see line after line after line,
1:27paragraph after paragraph after
1:29paragraph. You're going to be seeing
1:30voice messages, sometimes 1 minute long,
1:33sometimes 2 minutes long, tons of
1:36investment, tons of communication. Women
1:39love to talk and women love attention
1:42and women love being recognized. This is
1:44what you're going to notice. Women love
1:46to talk. Women love attention and women
1:48love being recognized. Now, if a woman
1:51is deprived of attention, could be from
1:54her boyfriend, could be from the guy
1:55she's dating, could be from anybody,
1:57could even be from her friends. If women
2:00are deprived of attention, she will
2:02typically do anything she can to get
2:04that attention. So, that could be her
2:07getting mad, um, starting an argument,
2:10throwing a temper tantrum, um, or even
2:13taking like promiscuous pictures because
2:16she wants some attention. That's what
2:18you're going to find. Anything for some
2:21words. She will do anything to get some
2:23words directed her way. Please talk to
2:26me. Please validate me. Please give me
2:28that attention. Okay. Now her whole life
2:32she was lied to and told to withhold
2:35words and withhold attention towards
2:38men. This was the biggest lie that she
2:40was most likely sold her whole life was
2:43to withhold words and withhold attention
2:48towards the men that she has interest
2:49in. This is what she was taught. So, if
2:53you look at her sentence structure with
2:54her mom or her sisters or her
2:56girlfriend, her girlfriends, right,
2:59you're going to see just line after line
3:01after line after line and she wants to
3:02talk. And then, okay, this is how she
3:05text messages you even if she's
3:07interested and even if you're an
3:09attractive man, you're going to maybe
3:11get something like, "I'll let you know."
3:14So over here to her mom, her sisters,
3:16her girlfriends, she's willing to give
3:18paragraph after paragraph, dozens or
3:20even hundreds of words in that message.
3:23And then with you, you'll get 1 2 3 4 1
3:262 3 4. Yeah, you get four words. I'll
3:29let you know. That's what you get. You
3:32get four words. This is how she texts
3:35you. She purposely withholds. Her
3:38girlfriends get all this line by line by
3:41line. lol
3:43lol all these lines all these paragraphs
3:45but then you get this you're going to
3:46get I'll let you know. So when you see
3:49this when you experience this you need
3:51to know three things. The first thing
3:53you need to know is that this is
3:55manipulation. This is manipulation. And
3:58virtually I would even say that every
4:00woman you have ever met has attempted to
4:03manipulate you in some way through
4:06sentences. That's number one. Number two
4:09this is her withholding interest. That's
4:11the second thing that you have to know.
4:12She's doing this on purpose. The reason
4:14why I know that she's doing this on
4:15purpose is because women naturally like
4:18to communicate. Women are naturally
4:20communicative, which means she likes to
4:22send paragraphs. She likes to talk. The
4:25difference is she just doesn't like to
4:27talk to you. So, there's three things
4:29you need to know. Number one, this is
4:30manipulation. Number two, this is
4:32withholding interest. Number three, this
4:35is her getting you to over pursue to get
4:38you in the weaker position to emasculate
4:40you. What she's doing right here is
4:44she's attempting to get you to
4:45overpursue.
4:47She's specifically using game. She is
4:50using a form of game in order to get you
4:54to react and overpursue her. This is
4:57what you have to know. in order to
5:00weaken you, get you in the weaker
5:02position, and emasculate you. This is
5:06what she's doing. You might be
5:07wondering, well, why would she want to
5:08do this? How is she ever going to get a
5:10boyfriend? How is she ever going to get
5:11a husband? How is she ever going to get
5:12a family? She most likely won't. And
5:15women don't typically realize this or
5:16even experience this or notice this, how
5:19flawed this thinking was until they are
5:21between the ages of 29 to 32. More on
5:24that in just a little bit later. What
5:26you have to know is that women were lied
5:29to and told to do these things. Women
5:31were told to withhold interest and
5:33withhold words towards the men that they
5:35like. So, you have to know that she's
5:37doing this on purpose. She's attempting
5:39to use game. Okay? She does not realize
5:43that just because she was told all these
5:46things. See, this is what you have to
5:47understand. She was told her whole life
5:49things like, "Girl, if he wanted to, he
5:51would. Girl, he needs to invest. girl,
5:54don't talk to him too much. He should be
5:56the one trying to talk to you. She was
5:58told this her whole life. But the
6:01problem is then when she gets that type
6:02of behavior from the man, she goes,
6:04"He's clingy. He overpursues. I don't
6:07like him." And now she's turned off. And
6:08she doesn't even realize why half the
6:10time. So stick with me here. This will
6:12all make sense. This is how she blows
6:15every single option that she has or that
6:18she has ever had in her 20s and in her
6:20early 30s. right here. This is exactly
6:23what happened step by step. She was told
6:26to withhold interest by her friends or
6:29by, you know, the movies that she saw on
6:31TV or whatever. She was told to make him
6:34chase. Okay?
6:36And then what happens is he senses that
6:40something's wrong. Okay? He starts to
6:43feel like something's wrong. He assumes
6:45that something's wrong and he feels
6:47this. He's like, "Well, she's not
6:48texting me back. we've slept together or
6:51she seems really happy on these dates.
6:54Um, why is she not more responsive? So,
6:56he assumes that something is wrong. So,
6:58then what he does is he text messages
7:00her and he calls her more. All this does
7:03though is this proves that he's willing
7:05to pursue harder. And the reason why
7:08this is so bad, the reason why modern
7:10dating is so bad for almost every single
7:12man is because what this is doing is
7:14this is creating a frame where he is
7:17essentially validating bad behavior.
7:19She's not even necessarily being good to
7:22him or nice to him, but yet he is still
7:24so conditioned to try harder to validate
7:27that bad behavior. You have to
7:28understand how completely backwards this
7:30is. If you have a man and a woman, this
7:32is like uh two halves of a hole in that
7:35relationship that essentially are now
7:36together to form a relationship. Both
7:39people should treat each other very
7:40well.
7:42Like she should want to talk to him as
7:45much or more as the mom, the sisters,
7:48the girlfriends because this is a man
7:49that she could have a family with
7:51potentially. This is the man that could
7:53uh have a great life with her. But she
7:56doesn't look at it like that until she
7:58gets older. And I'm going to explain
7:59why. So, this is typically what happens.
8:02She was told to withhold interest and to
8:04make him chase. And all of her
8:06girlfriends give her that same advice.
8:07It says, "Uh, you go, girl. Make sure
8:09that um you don't talk to him very
8:11much." So, that way he puts in all the
8:13effort. Okay, cool. Now, he thinks
8:15something's wrong. So, he text messages
8:16more and he calls more and he pursues
8:18harder. Now, this is the spot right here
8:21I want you at. I have a few um I put a
8:24few stars by this line because this is
8:26important. You have to understand that
8:28she thinks that this is what she wants.
8:31She thinks that this is what she wants.
8:33She thinks in her mind that she wants
8:36this man to try harder. That's what she
8:38thinks she wants. She actually deep down
8:40most likely believes that this is what
8:42she wants. Okay? And this is all because
8:44her girlfriends and her mom and all the
8:46movies and all the reality TV shows that
8:48she watched all these years basically
8:50said this right here. Girl, if he wanted
8:52to, he would. He would talk to you and
8:54he would pursue you. So, she's expecting
8:57him to now chase. She's expecting him to
9:00now pursue because this is what she
9:01thinks that she wants only to be totally
9:04turned off once he does and then sit
9:06there wondering year after year why she
9:08still doesn't have a boyfriend, why she
9:10still can't maintain attraction with any
9:12of the men that she talks to. Why every
9:14single man that she talks to just all of
9:15a sudden happens to become weak.
9:19Very rarely will she ever self-reflect
9:21and look at her own behavior. So, this
9:23is what you have to understand. She does
9:24this for virtually all of her 20s only
9:27to be totally turned off once that guy
9:29does exactly what she thought that she
9:31wanted. Okay? And now he's in the weaker
9:33position and she loses all desire. She
9:36loses all desire and she feels like he's
9:38emasculated and now hypergamy is not
9:40satisfied. So she deep down believes
9:42that she can do better, that she should
9:44do better. Glad we got that out of the
9:46way because this is what I need you to
9:47know next. She does this to crush your
9:49spirit. She actually wants your spirit
9:52crushed. The reason why I know this is
9:54because she would not treat her mom or
9:56her sisters or her girlfriends like
9:57this. She wants her mom and her sisters
9:59and her girlfriends to feel good. So,
10:02she gives them paragraph after paragraph
10:04of good positive talk and affirmations
10:06and reassurance and quotes, anything to
10:09make their lives better and easier. She
10:11will do anything to make your life
10:12worse. Very rarely will you ever find a
10:15companion that attempts to uplift you.
10:18In fact, what you're going to find with
10:19most women that you date is they will do
10:21absolutely nothing other than extract
10:23the value that you have, weaken your
10:25will, weaken your spirit, and then
10:27discard you. Okay, this is what you have
10:29to know. You have to know this stuff.
10:31She does this to crush your spirit. She
10:34will copy paste this process of pulling
10:36back and then making him chase and then
10:38emasculating him all the way up until
10:41ages about 29 to 32 when then she has a
10:43light bulb moment. And the light bulb
10:45moment where she goes, "Aha, something
10:47needs to change." This only happens when
10:49those wrinkles set in. That's you have
10:51to know. When those wrinkles set in,
10:53okay, and that makeup just ain't doing
10:56its job the way that it used to, okay?
11:00Then all of a sudden, she goes, "Oh
11:02crap, I have more wrinkles now. I'm not
11:04as hot as I was at 24. And now she's
11:07single with no family, scrambling,
11:09hoping to find a man, only to now
11:11finally believe in her 30s or mid-30s
11:14that something might have been off. And
11:16you know, her behavior from the past
11:17might not have been the way that it
11:19should have been. And now all of a
11:20sudden, okay, what she realizes is it's
11:23typically too late. It is typically too
11:26late. So this is what I want you to
11:28know. You might be saying, "Well, how is
11:29there any light at the end of the
11:30tunnel?" I'm going to show you what you
11:31have to know. First off, the first
11:33belief that I want you to have is this.
11:36You have to know that women love to
11:38talk. Women are naturally communicative.
11:42She just isn't communicative with you.
11:44And it's because she was told all the
11:46wrong things in life, just like you were
11:48told all the wrong things in life to
11:49work harder and try harder and pursue
11:51more and then one day she'll like you.
11:53Okay? She just isn't there yet with you.
11:56So guys think, "Oh, I need to be a Chad
12:00or I need to be more attractive and all
12:01this." But you got to realize this,
12:03those guys go through the same type of
12:05stuff as anybody because she does all
12:07that same stuff with them as well. She
12:10does all the same games with the guy
12:11with a great jawline or the guy who
12:13drives a Mercedes or the guy who is 6'4
12:15or whatever the case may be. Okay, there
12:18is only one specific way to get around
12:20this. You have to slowly adapt the
12:22belief that pursuing more will not do
12:26anything for you but decrease your
12:28value. And you have to learn how and
12:31when to sit silent and not do anything,
12:34to not get reactive,
12:37to hold yourself to a higher standard,
12:40to realize that you as a man deserve
12:43more selfrespect than how you allow
12:45people to treat you. And what I advise
12:47you to do is this. This is the part
12:49where you have to start to learn,
12:51understand, and master the language of
12:53women. One of the dudes in my community
12:55goes, "Since completing the language of
12:57women, my dating life has completely
12:59changed for the better. The course is so
13:01in-depth and accurate that after
13:03learning it, I feel like I'm cheating
13:05the game when it comes to understanding
13:07female nature. I now have attractive
13:10women who genuinely want to be a part of
13:14my life." exclamation mark. These are
13:16his words. So, this is one of the things
13:18that I'm going to show you once you step
13:20inside this community is how to make
13:23your attention more valuable than all of
13:26the other dudes. Things that you can do
13:29and things that you can say and ways to
13:31behave and ways to carry yourself. So,
13:33your attention actually carries more
13:36weight and holds more value than the
13:38other guy in her direct message inbox
13:40who might be taller than you, who might
13:43be richer than you, who might make more
13:45money than you, who might have more
13:46status than you. I can actually show you
13:48exact processes to make your attention
13:51more valuable than anybody else's. Which
13:53is why I advise you to learn this
13:55process, copy this process into your
13:56dating life, and just use it because I
13:58already made it. And since I know how
14:00well it works, I want you to see it as
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