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0:00Always expect a woman to lie directly to

0:03your face.

0:04If you're dating, if you're in a

0:05relationship, if you're married, you

0:08have to understand this. She is looking

0:09out for her own best interest. She is

0:13looking out for her own well-being. So,

0:15I don't care how many months or years

0:17you've been together, I don't care how

0:19many kids you have together, I don't

0:21care how um

0:23you think about any of this stuff.

0:25You can always expect the woman that you

0:27love to lie directly to your face.

0:30You might be sitting there thinking,

0:31"Well, Casey, how does that make any

0:33sense? How is it that we can grow

0:35together, build a bond together, build a

0:37relationship together,

0:39be there for one another, but you're

0:40telling me that the person that I love

0:42the most is here to betray me?" Listen,

0:44this is what you have to know at all

0:45times. She is with you for her own best

0:49interest. She is with you for her own

0:52well-being. She is with you because you

0:54bring survival value to the table that

0:56she would not get access to if she would

0:58not be with you.

1:00That means she will say and do anything

1:02majority of the time by any means

1:04necessary to get what she wants, which

1:06is access to your safety, security,

1:08provisioning, and resources, and future

1:10resources, so that way she is taken care

1:13of. This is not about chemistry

1:15building, and this is not building This

1:16is not about building a bond.

1:19This is purely about what she wants out

1:20of the deal, what she wants out of the

1:22interaction, what she wants out of the

1:23transaction. And until you finally wake

1:26up and you realize this, you're in for a

1:28rude awakening every single relationship

1:30that you get into because you do not yet

1:32understand female nature. To help you

1:34learn, understand, and master the

1:35language of women, check out what I made

1:37for you. It's in my bio, it's in my

1:38description. You'll love it. Men who go

1:41against social norms have a way higher

1:43likelihood of getting laid. Listen, the

1:46older I get, you realize that there is

1:48no rules, there is only judgment and

1:50hate from other men who are too scared

1:52to actually conquer their own goals.

1:54Listen, whatever you want to do or

1:57whatever you want to say

1:59is completely fine despite what you

2:01think other people are thinking. This is

2:04what I mean. You will hear guys say,

2:06"Don't talk to her if she goes to the

2:07gym that you go to because then if she

2:10rejects you, it will be awkward." The

2:12guy who goes against the social norm

2:14says, "Hey, if I walk up to her and I

2:16say, 'Hey, saw you here quite a few

2:17times. Always thought you were pretty.

2:19Never went out with you yet. You want to

2:20go out sometime?'" The guy who doesn't

2:22care is going to be the guy that she

2:24sees is emotionally strong. This is the

2:27guy who is socially resilient. And if

2:29she says, "Oh, no, I have a boyfriend."

2:30He says, "Okay, congratulations. Take

2:32care. I'll see you later." And guess

2:33what? He could see her next Tuesday

2:35again at the gym and he don't care. See,

2:37that's the thing is you care about

2:38everything. If you're walking out of the

2:40shopping mall

2:42and you pass her out of that doorway

2:45you can say, "Hey, beautiful." You can

2:46say whatever you want. You can do things

2:49and you can say things in order to give

2:51yourself a winning advantage. But this

2:54is going to start by you scrapping all

2:56of these false beliefs that are put upon

2:58you by other men. You know, "Don't talk

3:00to her or don't say this because then it

3:02might make this awkward." It's like,

3:04"You know what else is awkward? It's

3:05pretty awkward being in your 20s, 30s,

3:07or 40s going to bed every single night

3:08single with no family or no one by your

3:10side." That's pretty awkward, too. Like,

3:13cut the

3:15Every single excuse that a guy just

3:17fills a head with is excuses to keep

3:19losing.

3:21When you start living by the method

3:23where you trust your own brain and your

3:25own intellect, like make this super

3:27super caveman simple. See cute girl,

3:30brain wants to talk to cute girl. Go

3:32talk to cute girl.

3:34That simple.

3:37You have an idea, you want to start a

3:38business, you want to do something, you

3:40want to sell something, brain sees idea,

3:42go and do idea. That's it. Monkey see,

3:45monkey do.

3:46When you start dumbing it down to that

3:48level, she goes, "Oh, wow, this guy

3:49actually just goes after what he wants."

3:52This guy isn't ashamed of his desires.

3:54This guy doesn't have all of this like

3:56repressed desire that he just keeps

3:58stuffing down. No.

4:01Meet who you want, you say what you

4:02want, and ask for the close. Would you

4:05want to go out sometime? You want to go

4:07grab a drink with me sometime? You want

4:08to go out to eat with me sometime? You

4:10want to hang out with me sometime? You

4:11want to go do something with me

4:12sometime? Ask. Just ask.

4:17Just ask.

4:19Watch how much better your life gets.

4:21A super easy way to attract women is to

4:24actually start saying what you think.

4:27Okay, this cuts all of the BS social

4:30interaction. You turn your brain off and

4:32you just say exactly what you think,

4:34whatever comes to your mind. Because

4:36what you say is correct by default for

4:38you.

4:39If you're walking down the street and

4:41you see a woman and you want to talk to

4:42her, I don't care if she's with one

4:44friend, two friends, five friends, by

4:45herself. If you want to say, "Hey,

4:47thought you were pretty. I want to take

4:48you out sometime." There you go.

4:50If it's a woman that goes to your gym

4:52all the time, okay?

4:54You say, "Hey, I've seen you here a few

4:55times. I always thought you were so

4:56pretty. Never went all the way before.

4:58You want to switch numbers? Maybe we can

4:59go out sometime." Listen, just say

5:01exactly what you want. There is no right

5:03or wrong. Every single nice guy is a

5:05liar. This is what you got to

5:06understand. Every single nice guy out

5:07there, what they're doing is they're

5:08masking their true intentions with

5:12artificial BS.

5:14Listen, every single nice guy out there,

5:16they're lying. Nice guys are liars

5:18because what they're doing is they're

5:19masking their true desires. They're

5:21masking their true intentions. They're

5:22masking what they actually want

5:25with fake conversation, trying to get to

5:28know her and her friends sitting there

5:29as if he cares, carrying on with this

5:3130-minute conversation where everybody's

5:34sitting there at the bar. He doesn't

5:35care about any of that. He knows he

5:37doesn't care about any of that. He wants

5:38the number and he wants to go take her

5:39out and that's that. And you know what?

5:41If you look at all the times in your

5:43life, man, that you've rejected

5:44yourself, all the times that you've

5:46walked past a pretty girl and you never

5:48said one damn thing. You rejected

5:49yourself and another day goes by,

5:51another month goes by, another year goes

5:52by. Guess what? You're probably more

5:53attractive than you even are or than you

5:56think you are and you don't even know it

5:57yet cuz you haven't even reached your

5:58true potential. Start actually speaking

6:01your mind, start actually saying what

6:02you want, and start actually being a

6:04dude who conquers his own goals and goes

6:06after what he wants because listen, any

6:08dude can tell you a million different

6:09things of just say this or do it like

6:11this. Dude, just start talking and

6:13saying exactly what you want and be

6:15proud of it and be okay with your

6:16desires and watch your entire life

6:18change. If you want to learn,

6:19understand, and master the language of

6:21women, check out what I made for you.

6:22It's in my bio, it's in my description.

6:24You'll love it. I have an end-to-end

6:25process to simplify your dating life and

6:27make everything way easier.

6:29You're going to see more and more women

6:31completely spazzing out because

6:33everybody's antisocial. So, what's

6:35happening is women are slowly realizing

6:37that their whole life, right? For

6:38example, every time they go to the gym,

6:40you just put your headphones in and you

6:41look down. That probably doesn't work

6:43month after month, year after year. When

6:45you don't reply to every single um

6:48direct message on the dating app month

6:51over month, year over year, that

6:52probably doesn't work out very well.

6:54When every single time a dude approached

6:56you and uh asked you out on a date,

6:59you rejected him

7:01just to humble him or do whatever social

7:03media told you to do. Women are slowly

7:04realizing that month by month, year by

7:06year, that probably doesn't work out.

7:08Okay, so what you're running into now is

7:10a generation of men who have essentially

7:12given up and a generation of women now

7:15that don't get nearly as much attention

7:16as they used to. Men literally quit

7:18giving attention because it was

7:19completely pointless. It's like I

7:21remember like 10 years ago on social

7:23media,

7:24right?

7:25When I graduated like high school going

7:27into college, people would actually

7:28interact, right? Like when there was a

7:30post on social, if like a hot girl

7:33posted a picture, like guys would like

7:34comment and like say things and like

7:37attempt to like talk to her and that

7:38just like doesn't happen anymore. So,

7:40the attention is going away. Men have

7:43realized that it's completely pointless

7:44and and now everybody's anti-social. So,

7:46you even see complete um

7:49you see like uh

7:50places where people should be social,

7:52right? A bar, a club, a restaurant, even

7:54a gym for that matter. Like a gym, like

7:56everybody has a common interest and most

7:57of these people here are single. Nobody

7:59talks. Everybody just looks down. Well,

8:01here's the thing. If you're a man with

8:03some type of balls or fortitude, you

8:06don't care. So, that means you're the

8:08type of guy where you'll walk up to

8:09whoever you want to talk to because

8:11you're not ashamed of your desires. So,

8:14I'm here to let you in on a little

8:15secret. If you're a man in 2026 right

8:17now and you act like a man, you will be

8:19rewarded because there is women

8:21listen to me, there is women

8:23that are hot, that have not been

8:25approached in months or sometimes even

8:28years. You will find women where if you

8:30approach them, they will actually tell

8:31you, "Wow, it's been years since

8:33anybody's actually came up to me in

8:34public and had like desire to talk to

8:36me." So, here's the thing. Women are

8:39slowly realizing that they're going to

8:40have to either start pursuing first or

8:42make themselves more available and open

8:44for attention, conversation, and

8:45communication. And men, what you're

8:47going to realize is if you have any

8:48amount of internal will and fortitude to

8:50go after what you want, I genuinely

8:52believe that it is easier than ever.

8:54It's easier than ever to get a date if

8:56you just do what's required. If you want

8:59to learn, understand, and master the

9:00language of women, check out what I made

9:01for you. It's in my bio, it's in my

9:03description.

9:04I have an end-to-end process you can

9:05copy-paste into your dating life and

9:07start to win. You'll love it. When a

9:09woman sees that you have the balls to

9:11say what you want to say, that is far

9:14better game than saying what you think

9:17and what you believe will give you the

9:19best result.

9:20Okay, so what a woman sees, okay, if

9:23you're a dude saying and doing things

9:27in a way to hopefully get the best

9:30result, you essentially are putting her

9:32on a pedestal because subconsciously

9:34you're chasing your approval

9:36or you're chasing her approval hoping

9:38that

9:39um you give the right answers so you can

9:42get in return her desire.

9:44And see, this is like the classic

9:46mistake that every single guy makes is

9:48trying to be someone or be something

9:50that they are not. Trying to fit a

9:53specific mold or archetype when that guy

9:56fundamentally just is not that. Listen,

9:59she's going to see right through that.

10:00She's going to see the facade. She's

10:02going to see that it's not you. Okay,

10:04and she's going to see that you're

10:05saying and doing things in order to

10:07hopefully alter the outcome. And this

10:11never works long-term. Listen, guys,

10:13you maybe can get laid doing stuff like

10:15that, right? Maybe once or twice you two

10:17see each other and I mean or a few times

10:20even, but eventually the mask comes off.

10:23You're saying things to yield an

10:25outcome, you know, to hopefully make up

10:28for your lack of core identity.

10:30And it's just not good. Okay, it's not

10:33good at all. What you have to do is you

10:34have to figure out who you are.

10:37Your career, your hobbies, your

10:38interests, your purpose, your beliefs,

10:40that's an important thing, okay? Stop

10:42trying to be the bad boy, okay, if

10:44you're not a bad boy. You get what I'm

10:46saying? Like you have to know who you

10:48are deep down. And when you know who you

10:50are deep down,

10:52she's going to look at you and go, "Hmm,

10:54this guy doesn't put on a facade. This

10:57guy is okay with himself and this guy is

10:59okay with rejection if it comes to

11:02that."

11:02Because he's not necessarily fearful

11:05to get rejected because he's not trying

11:07to have a specific outcome. He is

11:09literally just existing. If you can get

11:11to that point, you're going to win. If

11:12you want to learn, understand, and

11:13master the language of women, check out

11:15what I made for you. It's in my bio.

11:16It's in my description. I have an

11:18end-to-end process you can start to use

11:19to make your dating life way better.

11:22More men need to embrace going bald. You

11:25don't need to run from it. Okay, all of

11:27the things that make you a masculine man

11:29need to be embraced, not looked down

11:32upon.

11:33Right? Like, look at all of the things

11:35that comes with aging, right? Wisdom,

11:38competency,

11:40being smart, being emotionally grounded,

11:43um having a good head on your shoulders,

11:45right? All of these things are a sign of

11:48aging and strength and maturity and

11:50overall masculinity.

11:53I mean,

11:55these things like need to be embraced.

11:56Like,

11:58guys who fundamentally

12:01on like a deep down level

12:03that everything about themselves needs

12:05to look so perfect, you genuinely don't

12:09understand that attracting women or like

12:12a woman that you are into is about

12:14energy.

12:16Women follow energy,

12:19okay?

12:20When the energy is right, her emotions

12:23work in your favor.

12:25There is numerous dudes out there who

12:27are handsome or who have great hair,

12:30you know, but she gets to know him and

12:33there's personality traits or there's

12:35things he says or things that he does

12:37where she can feel insecurity or

12:39nervousness. Okay, the benefit that you

12:43have as man, honestly, man, like the

12:45benefit that you have is like

12:47she falls in love with you for reasons

12:50that are not about how you look.

12:53Right? Like, how awesome is that? Like,

12:55you literally have like

12:57this amazing almost superpower of having

13:01other things about you

13:04that are equally or more important than

13:06your hairline.

13:08Right? And like, if everything is about

13:10the perfect picture and the perfect

13:12like,

13:13um you know, whatever shaving routine or

13:16some

13:18whatever, right? Like,

13:21a lot of guys are just fundamentally

13:23missing the key traits that they

13:26actually need to be focusing on.

13:29Because how you show up

13:31and your presence,

13:33okay, that's something that goes deeper,

13:36okay, than just like surface level.

13:39If you're going bald, embrace it.

13:42Get in the gym, get jacked, get strong,

13:45get happy. Most importantly, right? Get

13:47happy. Get happy about your life. If

13:49you're happy about your life, that

13:51radiates.

13:52If you want to learn, understand, and

13:53master the language of women, check out

13:55what I made for you. It's in my bio.

13:56It's in my description. You'll love it.

13:58Some women that you meet will seek the

14:01relationship with you only to completely

14:04destroy you.

14:06This is what you have to understand is

14:07sometimes you'll run across somebody

14:10that you're dating

14:12and the entire objective that that

14:15person has is to completely destroy you.

14:19Okay?

14:20This is what you have to understand.

14:21Some women that you meet,

14:23what she wants to do from day one

14:26is see how many games she can play,

14:28if she can emasculate you, if she can

14:31get you to fall in love, and then if she

14:33can slowly pull away, or if she can get

14:36you to make a complete fool out of

14:37yourself. Now, you will meet some women

14:40that don't act that way to you. That's

14:42awesome. Those are the women that you

14:44want to date. But what you have to

14:46remember is this. Sometimes you will run

14:48across bad people in general. You will

14:51run across bad friends. You might run

14:54across bad family members. You might run

14:56across, um,

14:58a bad woman that you are dating. But

15:00listen,

15:02what you have to remember

15:04is that majority of the time that is a

15:07them problem. That's not always a you

15:10problem. Because a lot of times the same

15:12woman, okay, will take the exact same

15:15behavior that she did to you, and she

15:18will copy paste that same behavior in

15:21the next relationship, and the next

15:22relationship and the next relationship.

15:25You need to find people who are on your

15:28team. You need to find people who are on

15:31your side. And that goes for friends, it

15:33goes for family members, it goes for

15:35loved ones, and that definitely goes for

15:36the woman that you're dating. The woman

15:37that you're dating is one of the most

15:39important decisions that you ever make.

15:41You want to choose somebody who has your

15:42best interests at heart. You want to

15:44choose somebody who is there for you.

15:46You want to choose somebody who every

15:48single time you pick up the phone, they

15:50answer and they're happy to talk to you.

15:51You want to date somebody where every

15:53single time you text message, there is

15:56not a single doubt in your mind that you

15:58won't receive that text back. You want

16:00to date women who are genuinely nice to

16:03you.

16:04And doesn't that make the most sense?

16:06Like doesn't that make the most sense?

16:07You would want a friend in your life

16:09who's nice to you every single day.

16:11Okay? The most important thing is that

16:13the woman that you're dating is nice to

16:15you. And I know that that sounds overly

16:16simplified, but it's not. You want that

16:19woman to be able to easily say, "Hey,

16:21good morning. How was your day? Great to

16:23see you. I'm excited you called. I can't

16:26wait to get dinner with you." If she's

16:28not giving you that energy, what are you

16:30attempting to even date that woman for?

16:32She's not on your team.

16:34When you start to actually align with

16:36women who are on your team, you'll

16:38realize that life gets way better. If

16:40you want to learn, understand, and

16:41master the language of women, to see the

16:43process, the system that I built, so I

16:46can help you attract the women that you

16:47want into your dating life and then

16:49retain interest levels in relationships,

16:52then you have to go and check out what I

16:54made. It's in my bio, it's in my

16:55description. Go and see it.

16:57Any hot woman that you see that you want

16:59to talk to, you go up and you talk to

17:01her.

17:02You need to develop courage. A lot of

17:05men are using all of these lines like I

17:07don't give validation. I want to keep my

17:10peace. I just blah blah blah. But the

17:12fact is they don't have the internal

17:14fortitude. They don't have the balls to

17:18actually approach in the first place.

17:20You have to get to the ability. Okay,

17:22you have to get to the point in life

17:24where you realize that you're not going

17:26to live forever. And every single day

17:29you're getting older, which means if you

17:31don't have the family that you want, if

17:32you don't have the girlfriend that you

17:34want, the wife you want, what are you

17:36waiting for? Like how many times have

17:38you been walking down the street? How

17:40many times have you been walking or

17:42biking down the bike trail or whatever.

17:45How many hundreds of times in your life

17:46over the past 5 years have you seen that

17:48really hot girl? And every single time

17:50you just walk by.

17:52You don't say nothing.

17:54Man, if you want to keep using cope

17:56lines like, "Oh, you know, juice ain't

17:58worth the squeeze." Or if you want to

17:59keep saying stuff like, "Oh, you know,

18:00I'm not giving her validation." Well,

18:03what do you expect her to instantly

18:04start the conversation with you? You

18:07could even grow some courage to just

18:08say, "Damn, you look good."

18:11Or "Damn, didn't know I was going to

18:12meet this pretty woman today on the bike

18:14trail." You could say anything. And if

18:15you want to tell me that that's over

18:17validating, so what if she tells you she

18:18has a boyfriend or what? You lost 20

18:20seconds. And then you keep going on

18:22about your day. You ain't over

18:24validating.

18:26Go get what you want when it comes to

18:28your goals. Go and conquer. Listen,

18:31if you conquer your goals, and listen,

18:33if you're working towards building like

18:35an attractive

18:37body, you're in the gym, you're eating

18:38healthy, you look lean, fit, strong,

18:41powerful, why wouldn't that woman want

18:44to go out with you?

18:45In fact, you actually you actually

18:48having the courage to speak your mind

18:50without needing to use game, without

18:53needing to think that you need these

18:54advanced social skills, all this crap

18:57that you hear,

18:59she will know within a few seconds if

19:02she thinks you're hot or not. And if you

19:04have to do anything else other than

19:07being you to convince her, she ain't

19:10your type of woman anyways.

19:13There is some interactions I've had in

19:15my life where I've said nothing more

19:17than damn, you look real pretty today.

19:19What's your name? And she introduced

19:21herself and from there we exchanged

19:23numbers and then went out on a date. And

19:25that's all it took and that's all it

19:26should take.

19:28If you are complicating this, you got to

19:30realize you're getting older. As you're

19:32getting older, if you don't have the

19:33family that you want, the life that you

19:35want, what are you waiting for? Go and

19:38actually take action. Most men go their

19:40whole lives without taking any action

19:43and that's exactly why they fail.

19:45If you want to learn, understand and

19:46master the language of women, check out

19:48what I made for you. It's in my bio,

19:49it's in my description. You'll love it.

19:51You need to get some courage in your

19:54life.

19:55If you start asking a woman questions

19:57over text message, she will do

20:00absolutely everything to not give you a

20:02straight answer. She will do everything

20:04to not give you a direct answer. Because

20:06when you start asking her questions,

20:07there is something that goes off in her

20:09mind like the written word does

20:11something to women. I'll tell you this,

20:13anytime you're using the written word to

20:15communicate with women, a lot of times

20:17what you'll find is that her first

20:19instinct is usually potential

20:21manipulation. Okay.

20:23What I have found,

20:25you know, over the years after just

20:27seeing all this play out over the past

20:2910 years, it does not matter how high

20:31status a guy is, it does not matter how

20:33good looking a guy is, it does not

20:34matter how tall a guy is, it does not

20:36matter if that guy um is a professional

20:39athlete. Anytime you start asking

20:42questions to a woman over text message,

20:44what you're going to find is that nine

20:46times out of 10, she starts to not

20:49answer what you asked, she starts to say

20:52different things in order to get you to

20:54keep conversation going or to get you to

20:56ask the question a second time or to get

20:58you to sit there and wonder, "Hmm, why

21:00didn't she just answer when I asked this

21:02directly?" Okay? This is what you're

21:04going to find. The written word does

21:06something to women, okay, when they're

21:09communicating back with you. So, what I

21:11advise you to do is use I am statements,

21:14okay, and just overall statements in

21:16general that do not require a response

21:18from her because when you do that, when

21:20you almost set up the text message in a

21:22way where you're hoping that she leaves

21:24you on red, she doesn't. If you want to

21:26learn and understand and master the

21:27language of women at an even deeper

21:29level, it's in my bio, it's in my

21:30description. I have an end-to-end

21:31process you can copy-paste into your

21:33dating life and start to use and go. How

21:35to give her that tingle in the spot that

21:38counts just by using your words.

21:41If you approach her, okay,

21:44and you confidently say, "Hey, excuse

21:46me.

21:48You look damn good in that dress. Hey,

21:49excuse me. I thought you looked damn

21:51good in those leggings. Excuse me. You

21:52look so good in those jeans. You look

21:54damn good in those jeans.

21:56You have a way higher chance,

22:00a way higher probability

22:03of getting her excited, especially in

22:06the spots that it counts,

22:08than you ever would

22:10running some type of social circle game

22:13or going in with the classic, "Hey,

22:15thought you're so pretty. Hey, thought

22:16you're so cute." That doesn't stick the

22:19same.

22:20If you want to approach women the right

22:22way,

22:23because listen,

22:25think about any time that you have had a

22:27girlfriend or something or you've had

22:29like romantic desire with a woman where

22:32you two are uh

22:34let's say you two are sleeping together.

22:35It's the words, right? The words, all

22:39those things you two say together,

22:41right? When you two are having that

22:43intimate act in the bedroom, right? All

22:44those words is what's getting her to

22:46actually feel some type of way. Look,

22:49if you are saying things

22:53that are too textbook nice,

22:56it's not going to have the right

22:58vocabulary where it sticks,

23:00okay?

23:01If you say the things that are edgy,

23:05now all of a sudden she looks at you and

23:07she goes, "Okay, damn. This guy knows

23:08how to act like a man." And this is what

23:11most men are missing. You could do this

23:14literally with five to 10 women that you

23:17meet on a weekend, even just on a

23:19Saturday by going out. Maybe you go to

23:21shopping mall. Maybe you go to the

23:22grocery store. You go down the walk

23:24trail. You go down anywhere.

23:27And guess what happens?

23:28You go to bed at night, you didn't over

23:30validate. All you wasted was maybe 10,

23:3220, 30 seconds of your life and from

23:34there you say, "You want to go out

23:34sometime?" And that's that. That's it.

23:36That's how easy this is. That's how easy

23:38this is to actually start being [music]

23:40a guy that actually gets what he wants

23:42and attracts. Now, keep in mind, you

23:44want to maintain the body, the physique,

23:47the shape, and the figure. I'm not

23:49saying you got to be the most jacked

23:50dude. I'm not saying you got to be the

23:52best looking.

23:53>> [music]

23:53>> But look, this works a hell of a lot

23:55better if she looks at you and she goes,

23:57"Damn. He looks like a man. He looks

23:59like a man who could protect. This is a

24:01dude who has appeal. This is a dude

24:03who's like very attractive." You spend

24:07all your time working on that so you're

24:08able

24:10to say the things you want to say.

24:12And you can speak your mind with truth

24:14and she gets turned on by it. And if she

24:16doesn't like you, if she says, "Oh,

24:17thank you. I'm flattered, but I got a

24:19boyfriend." You say, "Oh,

24:19congratulations." And you keep it

24:21moving. But if you're going to go

24:22through your whole life never talking to

24:24the women you want to talk to and you're

24:26going to keep telling yourself, "Oh, I'm

24:27not validating her just because." Then

24:29keep being single because you can't even

24:31help yourself.

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