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0:00Important one today. One seduction skill
0:03men must master to deeply engage her
0:06feminine emotions when dating. This is
0:09one seduction skill you have to master.
0:13This is very important. Who's this going
0:15to help? This is for all the guys out
0:17there who struggle to tap into that vibe
0:21and that emotional state when talking or
0:23communicating to a woman. So, what that
0:25means is if you're a more logical or
0:27analytical minded dude, this one's for
0:30you. Okay, the one seduction skill men
0:33must master. Now, in my community where
0:35I teach guys the language of women, the
0:37beginning of that whole process is
0:39called front-end game. And this is where
0:42you're using and leveraging active
0:44masculinity to effectively communicate
0:46to her to gain that emotional spike. So
0:50the one seduction skill, okay, that a
0:53man must master or that a guy has to
0:56master would be what I would call
0:58running a tear. Okay, running a tear.
1:02This is a name that I made up. This is
1:05what I call it myself. Okay, when I hear
1:08this or when I tell myself this, just
1:10run a tear. That means you're just going
1:12to go on and on and on and you're going
1:14to just talk for the sake of talking. I
1:17call it this. If you want to call it
1:18something else, go call it something
1:20else. But what I call it is running a
1:21tear. And in this video, I'm going to
1:23explain what running a tear is and what
1:25it looks like. And on top of that, I am
1:27even going to show you how this is the
1:29one seduction skill that you have to
1:31master. Guys who can't do this, their
1:34conversation to every woman that they
1:36ever meet, if they talk to her or if
1:38they approach looks like this. Hey,
1:40what's your name? Uh, I thought you were
1:41really cute. I thought you were really
1:43attractive. Would you like to go out
1:44sometime? And she goes, no, I have a
1:46boyfriend. Oh, thanks. Oh, sorry. I'm
1:48actually working right now. Uh, maybe a
1:50different time if we cross paths. And he
1:52never ever ever gets to see her again.
1:55So, what I have spent over a decade
1:59learning and uncovering is what is the
2:02right string of sentences and how do
2:05those sentences need to sound
2:08in order to engage her feminine emotions
2:11properly so she wants to keep talking to
2:13you. Okay. The older I get, what I come
2:16to realize is that what men are
2:19attracted to is typically completely
2:20opposite to the things that women find
2:22attractive. And the more you understand
2:24what she finds attractive in general,
2:27the better off your dating life will be.
2:30So, this video will help all of the CEOs
2:32out there, the business owners, the
2:34executives, the doctors, the lawyers,
2:36the accountants, and the engineers, or
2:39anybody with a more logical and
2:41analytical mind that makes it hard to
2:44vibe with women. If you find it very
2:47hard to vibe with women, I'm going to
2:49show you how to properly run a tear. An
2:52example of one would be this. Check this
2:54out. This morning, what I did was I put
2:56on this sick white tank top and then I
2:58put on this sick cowboy hat and then I
3:01started making a YouTube video and I got
3:02this marker board and I just started
3:04sequencing stuff out like all this that
3:06I write down right here column by
3:08column. Check this out. This column we
3:11got this where I'm going to show you
3:12this and then that column I started
3:14doing this and then by the end of the
3:16what I did was I just created this
3:17insane masterpiece.
3:20What did I do there? I said a whole lot
3:22of nothing. That's what it looks like.
3:25Run-on sentence after run-on sentence.
3:27So, I'm going to show you what it looks
3:30like, which is what I just did. And
3:32that's how you demonstrate the
3:34confidence and the aura to women where
3:35they're like, "Wo, I'm not used to
3:37hearing a guy talk this way." What I'm
3:39pretty good at. Okay. Since I have more
3:41of that logical, like rational masculine
3:43mind as well, I'm going to do my damn
3:46best to give you the mechanics of how to
3:48start to do this and how to start to
3:50talk this way so she thinks you have
3:52some sway. So, learning how to run a
3:54tear in conversation is something that
3:56emulates the mechanics of a man with
3:59aura,
4:00okay? Emulates the mechanics of a man
4:04with aura. What's going to happen is
4:06you're going to emulate the mechanics of
4:08a man with aura until what you notice is
4:102 months later, 3 months later, 6 months
4:12later, 18 months later, you now become a
4:15man with aura. That's the difference.
4:17So, this is actually really easy to
4:19learn. I'm going to show you all the
4:21ways to do it and I'm going to show you
4:22all the ways that you can start to
4:24actually win in your dating life. So,
4:26how I learned this, okay, what I want to
4:28do is I want to kind of give you the
4:29backstory here. How I learned this.
4:32How I learned this was the more women I
4:34would date or every long-term
4:36relationship that I ever had. Okay, I
4:38started to realize this one thing. I
4:40started to realize that women mainly
4:42only care about their own happiness when
4:45having a conversation. So, this is kind
4:47of what I noticed, right? Even when I
4:48would be in a long-term relationship, I
4:51would constantly hear women say things
4:52like, "Oh, you can tell me anything. I'm
4:54always here for open discussion and I'm
4:56really easy to talk to." But anytime the
4:59conversational topic was something that
5:01they didn't want to talk about, they
5:03would instantly disregard it and they
5:06would instantly try to say something
5:07like, "Oh, you should just learn to
5:09communicate better." Even though what I
5:11was doing was I was actually having the
5:12meaningful topic that needed to be
5:14addressed. And every single time that
5:16that ever happened, what I noticed is
5:18this one thing. If the woman ever didn't
5:20feel happy while she was saying it, it
5:23negatively impacted the relationship.
5:27So I started to realize this one thing.
5:28It does not matter what you're even
5:30saying as long as she feels happy. So
5:34how I learned this was I started to
5:35realize that women mainly only care
5:37about their own happiness when having a
5:39conversation. And that's why the guy
5:41that they're with might not even be
5:43providing any real world value. She'll
5:45just tell her girlfriends, "Oh, he makes
5:47me feel good." Well, that's pretty
5:49interesting to think about because
5:50that's polar opposite to all the high
5:53value type like uh guys out there
5:55wanting to just keep maximizing the car
5:57they're driving and the amount of money
5:59that they're making, but they realize
6:00that when they talk to women, they're
6:01not getting any more dates. This is what
6:03I really set out to solve. So, what do
6:06you do? What does the mechanics look
6:09like? How do you actually run the tear?
6:12It's three simple steps.
6:14Secret number one, all we have to do is
6:16we just have to turn our brain off. That
6:18is step number one. We're going to turn
6:19our brain off and we're going to stop
6:21thinking and we're going to start
6:23feeling the moment and saying what we
6:26want to say. That's a big secret here is
6:29saying what you want to say. Most men
6:32don't do this. They're looking for the
6:33perfect thing to say. I am saying always
6:36what I want to say. Okay, that's the
6:40difference. If you feel like going
6:42indirect at that time, then you go
6:44indirect. If you feel like doing a
6:46direct approach with your game, then
6:48you're going to go direct. Whatever it
6:50is, you're bringing the vibe and the
6:51aura that says, "This is what I want to
6:53say and I want to say it." And because
6:54of that, it's default correct for me.
6:57So, step one, we're turning our brain
6:58off. Okay. Step number two, no
7:02punctuation when talking. We are just
7:04throwing out run-on sentences. If she
7:08says, "How many drinks have you had?"
7:09and you've had zero. That means you're
7:11probably in the sweet spot because that
7:13shows you're really just openly free
7:15flowing talking. Okay? And then number
7:18three, we're going to just talk for the
7:20sake of talking. So, also what I learned
7:22about women is that since they mainly
7:24only prioritize their own happiness with
7:27the sentences that they're saying or
7:28with conversation, like that's what
7:30you'll notice if you ever watch a group
7:32of women talk, every sentence is like a
7:35vibe in and of itself to just make that
7:37woman feel good to talk for the sake of
7:39talking because now she feels good about
7:42the sentence. So, what you're going to
7:44notice about women is like the
7:45conversation typically has no start
7:47point and no end point and there's just
7:49sentences all over. Okay? So, we're
7:52going to emulate that same type of
7:53behavior. Number one, we're going to
7:54turn our brain off. Number two, we're
7:56going to start throwing out run-on
7:58sentences. And then secret number three,
8:00we're going to talk for the sake of
8:01talking. Now, openers and what to say,
8:05like when guys are looking for the right
8:07opener. Yes, I've made videos on that in
8:09the past, even a couple weeks ago, I
8:11think. um when it comes to just saying,
8:14you know, the same regimented sentences
8:16so you can desensitize yourself to
8:18either approach or talking to women in
8:19general. But what I want you to know is
8:21at a higher level, openers and what to
8:24say. Openers and whatnot don't matter a
8:27whole heck of a lot if you just know how
8:29to roll through it. Okay? Roll through
8:31it means on to the next sentence. Now,
8:34on to the next sentence. Now, on to the
8:36next topic. And we're just going. See,
8:39that is active masculinity is we're
8:40steamrolling that conversation. We're
8:42openly steamrolling some sentences here.
8:45Look at that steamroll mechanics going.
8:47You see the steamroll? That's what we're
8:48doing. Okay. So, let me give you an
8:51example. You turn the brain off. You
8:53start just saying stuff. Let's say
8:55you're sitting there and you see a a
8:57group of two women. You're with your
8:59friends. You say, "Oh, look at you cute
9:00lady sitting there with no one to talk
9:02to. Huh? How the hell that happened?"
9:05You're just saying something. You're
9:07putting it out there. Now, what you're
9:09also going to do here is you're going to
9:12show her or tell her different things
9:15about yourself directly or indirectly.
9:18One thing that I did literally a week
9:20ago, I sliced my finger open with a
9:23broadhead arrow. So, there was a
9:24broadhead attached to one of my arrows.
9:26I sliced my entire finger open. I could
9:28start talking about this gnarly scar
9:30that I have, right? I could ask them if
9:32they've ever shot a bow before. Okay? I
9:34could just start showing them stuff,
9:36right? Hey, check this out. I was
9:38shooting my bow. You ever shot a bow
9:39before? You ever done this before? Ah, I
9:41was just mountain biking 20 m last week
9:43in this city. Check this out. Right? You
9:45start just openly showing and
9:47demonstrating that you have a cool life,
9:49that you have stuff going on. So, for
9:51some of you, what I've noticed is the
9:54reason why guys can't do this, okay, is
9:56they don't have a whole lot of cool
9:58things to show or tell about themselves.
10:01And I'll explain why. So
10:04most men, okay, they want to be like
10:08high value, but they're doing this
10:10through the male lens. So a lot of times
10:13what I've noticed is most guys, right,
10:14they don't really do or have a lot of
10:17things to show besides like they work
10:19out or they try to keep making money,
10:22right? So it's like they're kind of
10:23boring, right? They sit on the computer
10:24and they try to make money or that's
10:26what they're doing with their career.
10:27And besides that, they hit the gym and
10:29they drink some coffee in the morning.
10:31And besides that, it's like she could
10:32copy paste and find that same experience
10:35with any dude who's doing the same
10:37stuff. So what you want to do, okay, is
10:40you want to essentially prioritize
10:43hobbies or interests that are non ROI,
10:47non return on investment. Okay? So let
10:50me give you example. If you take six
10:53hours to go and surf or skateboard,
10:55you're not really going to get a whole
10:56lot of return from that. Okay? It's not
10:59like that's going to make you any money.
11:00It's not like that's going to help you
11:01get ahead in your career or your future.
11:03But what's happening is since women see
11:07life through the lens of emotion, the
11:09non ROI, return on investment things in
11:11life, get them to feel something. So,
11:13let me give you an example. You want to
11:14have cool things on your phone ready,
11:17okay, to show. And you want to have
11:20hobbies and cool interests that are non
11:22ROI, non- returnturn on investment. This
11:25also helps demonstrate you or position
11:27you as a unique masculine archetype.
11:30Like for example, um if I start showing
11:33different things about my life, okay,
11:35and like a woman meets me and like
11:37here's this dude um with this like
11:39YouTube channel, right, who makes these
11:41videos, but like he also like shoots bow
11:44and he also is like really into archery
11:46and he also has like this cowboy hat on
11:48and he has all this different stuff he's
11:49all of a sudden talking about and
11:51showing, right?
11:53it's going to be such a different
11:55conversation than she's ever really
11:58heard before. So, like it's naturally
12:00going to probably peique curiosity and
12:02interest. And this helps create like a
12:05unique factor where it's like you're
12:06pretty hard to replace. You're actually
12:08crafting a unique masculine archetype.
12:10That's the key here is to create
12:12yourself into like a uh a character,
12:15right? As if you were in like a movie or
12:17a novel and she's like, "Whoa, I can't
12:19find another one of him." There's
12:21another dude here in this bar or in this
12:23restaurant with a polo on. Actually,
12:25there's five dudes with a polo on. Wait,
12:27there's seven dudes with a Rolex on.
12:29Wait, there's eight dudes here with a
12:31brand new Lamborghini, but whoa, whoa,
12:32whoa. Why do they all look and sound the
12:34exact same? And then she meets that one
12:36dude who might not have nothing going
12:38for himself, but he just is the vibe. He
12:41just is the aura. He just is
12:43demonstrating that these sentences are.
12:45And now she gets sucked into that
12:47environment. So most men want to be high
12:51value, but they don't really do anything
12:52other than work out and make money. So
12:54they're typically kind of boring. So you
12:57want to start investing your time into
12:59non ROI stuff. Okay? At least an hour or
13:02two a day. Um surfing, skateboarding,
13:06get a boat, learn how to go fishing,
13:09right? Learn how to do wakeboarding.
13:11Say, "Check this out. I got this sick uh
13:13I got this sick video of me jumping this
13:15huge wave wakeboarding. Check this out,
13:17ladies." Right? You show them this. You
13:19say, "Hey, what about you? You ever
13:20wakeboard before? Oh my god, we can't be
13:23friends. How the hell you tell me you
13:24ain't never wakeboard before? Oh my god,
13:26you're telling me you've lived 27 years
13:28on this earth. You ain't never been on a
13:30wakeboard now. What's wrong with you?"
13:31You start saying this stuff and she
13:33goes, "Wo, this is kind of fun. This is
13:35kind of exciting. Why is it that um why
13:38haven't I been on a wakeboard?"
13:40Right? And then by the end of you say,
13:42"Hey, you know what's going to happen?
13:43You and me, we're going to go
13:44wakeboarding. I'm going to teach you so
13:45much cool things." and she goes, "Whoa."
13:49So, you got to figure this stuff out.
13:51Surfing, skating, boating, wakeboarding,
13:55maybe you get into archery like me,
13:57skydiving, anything that involves
13:59movement. Okay? The man is the that
14:03physical strength, that active
14:04masculine, that movement. Okay? This
14:07gets her to feel something.
14:10So, what you want to do is you want to
14:12start going on about how cool it is. And
14:14then you want to show her or tell her
14:16how she can join. Okay, girlfriend that
14:19I have right now, I shoot bow. First
14:22thing she wanted to do is get a bow. Now
14:24we shoot bow together all the time.
14:26Okay, it's just like little things that
14:28start to like she wants to take on your
14:30hobbies and interests because now you're
14:33like the you're like the guy that like
14:35guides her and like leads her into how
14:38she can see the world through this new
14:40creative experience. Most women don't
14:42get to feel that creative experience led
14:44through a man, which is why they're
14:46constantly just watching movies about it
14:48or they're constantly like reading
14:49novels about it. So, this is more of
14:51like an advanced skill, but it's pretty
14:52easy if you just stick to the three
14:54things in the beginning. You turn that
14:55brain off, you start throwing out run-on
14:57sentences, you talk for the sake of
14:59talking,
15:01okay? You talk for the sake of talking.
15:03You're going to emote heavy on the front
15:05end. Now, this goes against some of the
15:07masculinity videos you might have heard,
15:10you know, over the past 5 years about
15:11how you can't ever show or demonstrate
15:13emotion. Listen, there's a big
15:14difference between being emotional and
15:17being at the cause of somebody's
15:18emotions. When you're at the cause of
15:20somebody's emotions, you're at the
15:22cause. You're the active initiator. You
15:24are not at the effect. This is actually
15:26masculine. So, you want to emote heavy
15:28on the front end to get her to feel
15:30something. This is active masculinity.
15:32If I start showing these cool things
15:34about myself or telling these cool
15:35things about myself, right? Showing and
15:37telling is better. That's why I want you
15:39to have pictures or videos on your phone
15:41of the cool stuff you're doing. Create a
15:43captivating reality. Well, this is
15:45active masculinity. By the end of it,
15:47you can say, "Ah, I really want you to
15:49join me." Right? And you want to show
15:51desire here. I'm going to write this
15:52desire. Right? You don't want to show as
15:56if you're just like so willing to just
15:58like give up on the conversation. You
16:01want to look through and you want to
16:02say, "A, I really want you to join me.
16:03Gosh, I want you to join me. We're going
16:05to have so much fun together. You really
16:07need to join me. I really want to show
16:08you how to do this. You know what? We're
16:09going to have so much fun."
16:12And you start you start showing that
16:14desire because like she wants to feel
16:17wanted. She might test you along the way
16:19and play a little bit hard to get, but
16:20you got to remember she wants to feel
16:22wanted because what she's looking at is
16:24she's looking at the emotional
16:26attachment she's hoping to gain from
16:27that man, which secures um his future
16:32resources and his love and his emotional
16:34investment to her. So, that's why women
16:37will play hard to get because it's like
16:39she's sitting there going, "Oh, well,
16:40prove to me that you want me a little
16:42bit, right? That way I know that this is
16:44legit and you're not just doing this to
16:46every woman or saying this stuff to
16:48every woman because you're hoping to get
16:50laid. That's what she's doing is she's
16:52saying, "Okay, let's make this real
16:53between you and me." That's the point of
16:56the test. That's how you pass the test
16:57on the front end. So, we show that heavy
17:00desire like, "I want you to come with
17:02me. I want to make that known." Okay.
17:05Now, another thing that you could do if
17:07this is more of a struggle for you when
17:10it comes to demonstrating yourself or
17:11showing your life, if you want to start
17:14to run a tear, if you want to call it
17:16that, just like I do, you can
17:18essentially do an environmental
17:20observation. Okay? You're going to
17:22observe the environment. If I'm around,
17:25you know, the woman, you know, I might
17:27say, "Hey, look at all these people on
17:28their phone. How pathetic is this? We go
17:30into this we go into this fancy
17:32restaurant, right? Got all this music
17:34playing. Look at this. There's all these
17:35people. Look at him over there. Look at
17:37that dude sit there, right? Look at him
17:39bored. He's got his mouth hanging open
17:40as he's going just like breathing down,
17:42looking at his phone. I go, "Look at all
17:44these people just sitting on their
17:45phone." I go, "How pathetic?" Okay, I'm
17:48going to just observe the environment. I
17:50might look at her. I might say, "Look
17:52how every single dude in here has the
17:53exact same polo on. Doesn't that just
17:56look weird?" Right? And a lot of times
17:58she'll giggle. Okay? If you can unlock
18:01that giggle, just observe the
18:03environment.
18:04You're going to notice that like, and
18:06the reason why I'm telling you all this
18:07is because I spent literally like 10
18:09years trying to like decipher and
18:11maneuver like not only how this looks
18:13and how this is acted out socially, but
18:16then what are the mechanics behind it so
18:18that way I can teach it to you. And when
18:20I put both those together, this is how
18:21you actually get a real framework that a
18:23guy can follow. So maybe you want to
18:25just sit back and observe the
18:27environment. Okay. Now, the reason why
18:29you have to learn how to do this stuff,
18:31okay, the real reason, right, is because
18:34you must push back a little bit against
18:36the common thought that men are
18:39unattractive to most women. There's this
18:42common thought today where, you know,
18:44majority of women are not interested in
18:46the majority of men and all this stuff.
18:48Okay? But here's the problem with that
18:50is the more guys keep believing that, it
18:53manifests through your thoughts,
18:54feelings, emotions, vocal tone. Well,
18:57here's what happens then. Through
18:58rejection, okay, and women through the
19:01years mainly um let's say acting
19:04uninterested. Well, what happens now is
19:07men walk, talk, and act in a passive
19:09state or in a suppressed state. So then
19:11when that guy does try to talk, since
19:13it's not free flowing like I'm speaking
19:15right now, since it looks real
19:17calculated, he looks like he doesn't
19:19have a lot of social confidence or he
19:22looks like um what happens is it's like
19:24this buildup of energy and like the
19:27woman can essentially tell that over the
19:28past however many years this guy has not
19:31been rewarded socially for the things
19:33that he has said. So then what happens
19:36is men collectively keep getting less
19:38and less confident. We have to switch
19:40that narrative so you become more
19:42confident. Okay? Men walk and talk and
19:45act in a passive or a suppressed state.
19:47So then what happens is essentially
19:49everything that comes out of that guy's
19:50mouth now sounds either dumb or it
19:53sounds unconfident. Okay? So this method
19:55that I'm explaining to you like running
19:57a tear, okay, bypasses all that. And
20:00then she can't really tell if you're
20:02confident or unconfident or not
20:04confident because you're essentially
20:06steamrolling the entire environment with
20:08aura. The entire venue, the entire
20:11environment, you're just steamrolling it
20:13with aura and it looks like you're free
20:14flowing and you are willing to openly
20:17express yourself because you've been
20:19rewarded for it socially. So this is
20:22what you have to do. I advise you to do
20:24one thing is learn, understand and
20:26master the language of women and go and
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20:29can learn this at the highest level. Um,
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