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0:00okay today I'm going to be showing you
0:01the number one mistake that men make on
0:03first dates so if you stick with me rest
0:06assured this will all make sense because
0:08I'm going to be giving you numerous
0:09breakdowns processes and analogies and
0:12I'm going to be showing you how you
0:13don't even notice that you're making
0:15this mistake and then on top of that
0:17once you make this mistake all of the
0:19leverage and psychological power goes
0:21into the woman's hands and now typically
0:23she will pull away from you all of this
0:25is going to be broken down from what has
0:27been ingrained into uh typical man's
0:31brain ever since they were very young so
0:34the number one mistake that men make on
0:36first dates is trying to make a move or
0:40telling yourself that you need to make a
0:42move or telling yourself that you need
0:44to show your intent so making a move
0:47could be anything this could be holding
0:49her hand this could be going for a kiss
0:52right this could be anything that
0:54involves you um escalating and making a
0:57move and basically showing your
1:00attraction and your intent now let me
1:03give you an exact step-by-step reason
1:04why this is terrible and this is why
1:06majority of your dates will go south so
1:09the false social programming right now
1:12that has been ingrained into most men's
1:14Brains is that the guy is supposed to
1:17show his intent right or it's the man's
1:20job to make the move and prove that um
1:23you know he has uh the social
1:25calibration and show he understands
1:28escalating this is complete and
1:30I will show you why as a kid what
1:32happens is you're told to do it all
1:35right so guys say oh oh my god did you
1:38make a move did you kiss her right did
1:40did you kiss uh Kayla did you kiss Katie
1:43did you did you kiss Beth did you make a
1:45move and if the guy says no everyone
1:47goes oh you're a pansy ass okay so what
1:50guys have been told is that on first
1:52dates if you don't make a move or if you
1:55don't show your intent that basically
1:58means like you're not man enough or in
2:00the woman's eye she's going to look at
2:01you as weak this couldn't be further
2:03from the truth anytime that you have
2:07that gut feeling in your head about what
2:09you should do just understand this if
2:12you trust your gut feeling when you're
2:14dealing with dates and operating with
2:17women you need to know that 90% of the
2:20time plus it is going to lead you astray
2:23in fact I would say this if you have a
2:25gut feeling do the exact opposite
2:28because majority of the time what your
2:30gut tells you that you should do what
2:31your head tells you you should do is the
2:33exact thing that's leading you astray
2:35and making it harder to actually form
2:37those solidified relationships and make
2:39sure that a woman loves and adors and
2:41respects you and I'm going to show you
2:43why so as a kid all the guys would say
2:45oh my god did you kiss her oh my gosh
2:47did you kiss her oh my god oh you're you
2:49got no balls okay this is what people
2:51say so if the guy doesn't the social
2:54conditioning has the guy feeling like
2:55he's weak now here's why step by step
2:58this is completely back backwards and
3:00this is not true at all keep in mind the
3:03advice that I'm giving you the processes
3:05that I'm giving you comes from myself
3:08after dating over the past 10 years that
3:12includes dozens and dozens and dozens
3:14and dozens of dates dozens of long-term
3:17or short-term relationships over the
3:18years here's what I can tell you this
3:20level of thinking and the processes that
3:22I've actually discovered on my own
3:24through real life trial and error here's
3:26what I can tell you this level of
3:28thinking that I'm showing you step by
3:30step on this video is going to require
3:33you being able to see things in the
3:36world as it is for yourself and going
3:39against the grain and countering some of
3:42these beliefs that are considered
3:43socially normal here's why making a move
3:46is bad this is very simple if you have
3:49an attractive woman in front of you
3:51here's what happens number one she
3:53overtly knows your interest level here's
3:57what women do to men who show their ENT
4:00and here's what women do to men who
4:02often times display their interest level
4:04women pull back from these types of men
4:07and women don't like them so the first
4:10reason why making a move is terrible is
4:12because now she overtly knows your
4:14interest level which brings me to point
4:16number two she now knows that you find
4:18her attractive enough to kiss her well
4:21what happens now she starts to doubt
4:23your sexual market value she sits there
4:25and looks at you and goes look at this
4:27guy invested in me look how much this
4:29guy wants to give me a kiss look how
4:31much this guy wants to hold my hand
4:33she's sitting there and she's going I'm
4:34so hot I'm so sexy I'm So Beautiful to
4:37this man look at him get invested into
4:40me look at him lust over me and then do
4:42you know what happens she sees that
4:44thirst she sees that high interest level
4:46she sees that intent and now she has the
4:48leverage to potentially pull away so
4:50let's just kind of recap these number
4:52one she overtly knows your interest
4:54level number two she now knows that you
4:56find her attractive enough to kiss her
4:58and number three your thirst or your
5:01lust Now controls you this is very bad
5:04because now you look weak right you look
5:06weak to the woman's Beauty and now
5:08subconsciously in her head she sees that
5:10you're putting her beauty up on the
5:12pedestal and now as she doubts your
5:14sexual market value what happens to
5:16hypergamy she questions if she can do
5:18better I'm going to tell you this the
5:20more you show your intent to a woman the
5:23less she likes you so what happens next
5:27let's say you do all the wrong things
5:29that majority of men do because since
5:31childhood you were fed the wrong type of
5:33information what happens next now she
5:36has all of the leverage she doesn't just
5:38have some of the leverage she has all of
5:39the leverage she knows that you find her
5:42attractive she knows that you like her
5:44because in a woman's brain or how she's
5:46thinking she doesn't know if you like
5:47her because of her beauty she doesn't
5:49know if you like her because of her
5:50vocal tone and her personality she has
5:53no idea what she's doing right or wrong
5:54in that situation that's making you like
5:56her so she just assumes that you find
5:59her attractive what happens next is she
6:01now has all of the leverage and now she
6:03has the ability to pull back you have to
6:06understand a woman only has the ability
6:09to pull back and to pull away if you are
6:12the one who pulls up forward and you are
6:14the one showing your interest level and
6:16your intent that right there is what's
6:19ruining majority of your relationships
6:21because now the woman is doubting your
6:22sexual market value and where you stand
6:24and now she questions if she can do
6:26better so I'm going to tell you this
6:28when you show your interest level and
6:30when you show your love and
6:32admiration to a woman they start to
6:35doubt you and I'm going to tell you this
6:37the games never end you will assume
6:40these types of things because this is
6:42what I used to assume when I was younger
6:44I used to think man when I get older the
6:46games will just stop when I get to a
6:48certain point in life the games will
6:50stop or my absolute favorite when I
6:52climb the socioeconomical hierarchy and
6:55I'm looked at as a high value man oh boy
6:57now she's going to just respect me in
6:59the games are going to stop the games
7:02never end the games will never end you
7:05will constantly be tested the games
7:07never end because she is consistently
7:09gauging your interest level so here's my
7:12theory with this okay women are much
7:14better at being a seductress then men
7:17are much better at being seducers and
7:19here's why I know this women want to
7:22typically be the naughty ones women are
7:25typically the ones who are aroused by
7:28doing what they are not supposed to do
7:30women are typically the ones who
7:32fantasize and have certain imagery and
7:35who think often times what it would be
7:37like if they were a bit rebellious this
7:39is not typically a man's nature a man's
7:43nature is going to be the rational stoic
7:47right who's sitting there in his
7:48masculine frame and doing things how he
7:50should I believe this men are like the
7:52loyal golden retrievers truthfully the
7:55the men typically in their normal nature
7:58in who they are will always come back
8:00they like stability they like that peace
8:02right the woman often times enjoys being
8:05slightly devious and women often times
8:07like to be the naughty ones so here's
8:08what I can tell you if you hold out long
8:10enough because her natural nature is to
8:14do what she shouldn't be doing because
8:16her natural nature is to have
8:19imagination of what life would be like
8:21on the devious side if you hold out long
8:24enough that woman will end up seducing
8:26you I have had women often times just
8:30through conversation on a date me just
8:33sitting there talking and keeping my
8:35composure they will lean in and kiss you
8:37first especially if they're seeing that
8:39you're Gathering attention from other
8:41women and honestly I've mentioned this
8:44in other videos numerous times if you
8:47apply these principles here's what
8:48you're going to notice you go out on
8:50these dates you hold out long enough you
8:53raise her attraction and her arousal
8:55simply with your words and your
8:58personality why Watch What Happens watch
9:01how she gets invested into you as a
9:03human being watch how she gets invested
9:05into you as a man watch how she sees
9:08that you're lust doesn't control you and
9:10now she thinks that you're stronger than
9:11the rest watch how she sees that you're
9:14not thirsty watch how she sees that you
9:17have composure and masculine frame and
9:19even though she's attractive and even
9:21though she's feminine and even though
9:22she's sweet you have enough composure to
9:26let that anticipation build making a
9:28move is the number one biggest mistake
9:30that men make on dates and that right
9:32there is crushing your
9:53attraction