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0:00What I'm going to do right now is show
0:01you my most um I guess powerful dating
0:05app profile. So, me myself, I have been
0:09on um dating apps since I was about 18
0:13or 19 years old. That's when like Tinder
0:15came out um for me or at least when I
0:18had access to it. I turned about 18, 19
0:21years old and that's when I first got
0:22Tinder. And over the years, I've had
0:25numerous dating app profiles. And what I
0:28want to do today um is show you the
0:31winning dating app profile that I found
0:34was best for me and why this worked. Um
0:38and this was my winning profile of last
0:40year. The reason why this dating app
0:42profile that I'm about to show you was
0:44so good, okay,
0:47is because it crafted a unique masculine
0:51archetype. So this is what I'm going to
0:53tell you. What I have found to be the
0:55most important driving factor when it
0:59comes to dating apps is not only looks,
1:02okay, and physique and overall style and
1:04sex appeal, but it goes even a step
1:07beyond that. In my opinion, what it
1:09comes down to is crafting and honing a
1:12unique masculine archetype. And if you
1:14can craft that unique masculine
1:15archetype, what's going to happen is
1:17that it adds to the leanness of your
1:22physique. It adds to the aesthetics and
1:25the sex appeal of, let's say, your body
1:27or your physique from being in the gym.
1:29It does all these things to create
1:31congruence and harmony across the
1:33profile. So, she looks at you and she
1:35can identify you as someone or
1:37something. Now, me being from North
1:40Dakota, the image or the angle or the
1:43archetype that I took um with my entire
1:46dating app profile was like um this
1:48North Dakota dude um cowboy hat um kind
1:52of like Midwestern look. Um I'm also
1:54into archery and shooting bow. So,
1:57because of that, I have um a bow photo
1:59in here that I'm going to show you. And
2:01we're just going to go through each of
2:02these one by one. And I'm going to
2:03explain with every single photo in
2:05sequential order why this dating app
2:07profile was so powerful. I would be um
2:11laying in bed or I would just wake up
2:13and I would have dozens of matches per
2:15day. Um it was super easy. And because
2:19of that, I want to share each of these
2:22um pictures with you because if you can
2:25get really good at online dating, it's
2:27almost like a cheat code. Like you damn
2:28near don't even need to leave your house
2:30ever. And I know that that sounds really
2:32lazy or really boring, but you can
2:33literally sit there, keep your same
2:35rolodex of 5, six, seven, eight photos
2:37to choose from and generate enough um
2:40sex appeal through the cell phone that
2:42you don't even really have to go out or
2:43meet anybody. Now, I know that for some
2:45people who you're like, "Oh, you know,
2:46that's too antisocial for me." I get it.
2:48But listen, if you do want to be lazy
2:50with it, um, and you want to put all of
2:52your time and energy into your
2:54aesthetics, your sex appeal, crafting
2:56your body in the gym, dieting, looking
2:58really lean, listen, majority of women
3:00today are drawn to status. Majority of
3:03women today are so used to pictures and
3:05images on social media that
3:09like me and my friend were talking about
3:11this yesterday. It was like, you know,
3:14the days of like where guys would talk
3:16about like pickup or cold approach and
3:18you're like in a bar or something, you
3:19know, and you hit on a girl and she
3:21really likes you and you two go home
3:22together or something like that. That
3:25may happen, that might happen. That
3:26probably still does happen. Okay? But
3:29keep in mind, the first thing she's
3:31going to do when she meets you, when
3:33you're out at that bar or whatever, nine
3:35times out of 10, here's what's going to
3:36happen. She's going to say, "Oh, hey,
3:38what's your name?" She's going to think
3:40you're cute or whatever. And then she's
3:42going to talk to all of her friends. And
3:43then her and her friends are going to
3:44say, "We'll be right back. We're going
3:45to go to the bathroom." And then they're
3:47all going to go to the bathroom
3:48together. And then when they're sitting
3:49in that bar or that restaurant or that
3:51club or whatever, they're going to go
3:52and look you up on Instagram. They're
3:54going to go and look you up on Instagram
3:55or they're going to look you up online
3:57and see what you're about and how much
3:58status you have and how much popularity
4:00and who follows you and does that girl
4:02follow you or does that girl follow you
4:03or does that girl follow you? And that's
4:04what it is. That's what women are drawn
4:06to. The psychological perceived status a
4:08lot of times of the cell phone holds a
4:10lot of weight. So because of that, you
4:12better take the time to dial in your
4:14photos. You better take the time to dial
4:16in all of this stuff because this is
4:18what's going to make it easier for you
4:20to keep attracting because listen,
4:23the status game of digital popularity
4:25today is real. That's not going
4:27anywhere. I was born in 96, which is the
4:30last year of millennials. Every year
4:32that I'm alive, this just keeps getting
4:33worse. It keeps getting worse and worse
4:35and worse. were like, I can finally see
4:36now for myself. Dating has fundamentally
4:39changed. Dating has fundamentally
4:41changed because if you look at how
4:43things were 2018, 2019, 2020, things are
4:46just way different. Instagram is way
4:48different. Social media and dating apps
4:50are way different. Um, the world is
4:52different. Even the energy between
4:53communication is different. Like,
4:55everybody can feel this. So, if you
4:57could actually start to learn how to
4:59understand attraction on like a primal
5:01level, which is what I'm going to be
5:03showing you today, is how to trigger
5:04that attraction on a primal level to
5:06unlock her primal desire. If you can
5:08start to do this, you will start to win.
5:10Stick with me. We're going to go through
5:12each one of these one by one. Okay.
5:14Prerequisite, you have to be lean. You
5:16have to be in good shape. Um, the
5:18physique that you're seeing in my
5:19photos, you're looking at over a decade
5:21of tracked progressive overload in the
5:23gym. I started as a bodybuilder even um
5:26before I started building this channel
5:29with so many topics regarding dating
5:31like I wanted to be a fitness influencer
5:33like as a kid growing up that's what I
5:35wanted to be was a fitness influencer.
5:37So like I can't ignore the fact that I
5:39put over a decade into building muscle
5:42mass, muscle maturity and looking the
5:44way that I do. So if you don't have
5:46that, you can't do this. So get in the
5:49gym. Okay, let's start with photo number
5:51one. This was my lead photo. This was my
5:55winning photo. So, out of all the photos
5:57that I did, this was my winning photo.
5:59Now, the archetype that I leaned into
6:02was like the dude from North Dakota
6:03backwards camouflage hat. A hunting
6:06vibe. Um, so many women would comment
6:09and say, "Um, oh, I've never shot a bow
6:12before. I've never done archery before.
6:13Is that a crossbow?" Um, for everybody
6:16wondering, this is the Matthews Lyft X.
6:18That's the bow that I shoot. Um,
6:20anyways, this was my winning photo.
6:23Black cargo pants, a flat black t-shirt.
6:26Um, and I want to highlight a couple of
6:29the reasons why this photo does so good.
6:31Number one, um, beard is like rugged and
6:37not too nicely groomed. U, but at the
6:40same time, like it's faded a little bit.
6:42Okay, I let it grow out just a little
6:43bit. Jawline looks good. Um, a good
6:46shoulder to waist ratio. Also, you can
6:48see a slight vtaper here. My shoulders
6:50look broad based on the angle I was
6:52turning. Um, you can see vein coming
6:55through um the bicep as I'm holding the
6:58bow. Um, the black cargo pants with the
7:01black shirt just looks really sleek. It
7:04looks stealth. Now, on top of that, um,
7:09you'll notice how nonchalant this photo
7:11is. I'm looking off to the side. It's
7:12like I just got done shooting an arrow.
7:14Because of that, it does not look very
7:16tryhard. It doesn't look like I'm
7:18posing. It looks like this was captured
7:20effortlessly. So, here's what I can tell
7:23you. Um, with this photo, I knew that
7:26this photo would do very good because
7:28this signals masculine protection. Okay?
7:31I have a bow. Um, I'm doing archery. I
7:34look strong. I look capable. This photo
7:37signals masculine protection. And like I
7:39said, that's congruent with the
7:40archetype that I have stepped into. Me
7:42being from North Dakota, even you can
7:44tell how I look right now. everything
7:46just worked. Okay, so this was
7:50um a really good photo. Now, the second
7:52photo that I'm going to show you, which
7:54was next in my lineup, is this photo
7:56right here. This was me out on Lake
7:58Pleasant. Um Lake Pleasant is a lake
8:02here in Arizona. And I'm going to
8:04explain to you why this photo worked
8:06really well as well. before I can
8:08explain to you why this photo did so
8:10well and actually this was my main photo
8:12for about 8 months to a year um prior to
8:15me having the archery photo. But
8:17nevertheless, the reason why this photo
8:20um is so good, the only way I can
8:22explain to you why this photo was so
8:24good on dating apps and why I kept it in
8:26my lineup um I have to first tell you
8:30why most guys in the gym don't have very
8:33good photography despite having a good
8:35physique. So you have to understand
8:37women are drawn to fantasy and illusion
8:40and the character. Women are not just
8:43drawn to um like the physical as much as
8:46like men are drawn to just beauty. Okay?
8:48Men are drawn to beauty. You see the
8:50physical, you get um very attracted.
8:53Women are not as physical. Okay? Yes,
8:56the physique, the muscle mass is
8:58important. But this is why so many gym
9:00bros don't have any options is because
9:03that's all they are. They're too
9:04one-dimensional. Women like complex.
9:08They like depth. Okay? Women are drawn
9:11to fantasy. Women are drawn to
9:13character. Women are drawn to imagery.
9:15Women are drawn to the idea of what he
9:17might be like. So, what I can tell you
9:19is in this photo, the reason why this
9:22worked was because I stacked attraction
9:24mechanisms or I stacked attraction
9:26triggers. So, this photo, okay,
9:30yes, the shoulder looks huge.
9:33We know that.
9:35Yes, it looks like I have a good amount
9:37of muscle. Now, to the naked eye, a guy
9:40would look at this photo and say, "Oh,
9:41you're jacked." Or he would say, "You
9:43have a lot of muscle. That's why this
9:44photo did so good." Not so fast. This
9:47photo did great because of the unique
9:49masculine archetype. So, number one, not
9:51only is the muscle there signals
9:53protection or signals a masculine
9:54physique, sure. Okay, I'm in relatively
9:57good shape. I'm not super shredded, but
9:59there's enough leanness where you can
10:01see muscle maturity and muscle mass
10:03through the chest, the shoulder, jawline
10:05is pretty good. Here's why this photo
10:08did so good. When you stack these
10:09attraction mechanisms, so first off, I'm
10:11on a boat. It looks like I'm having fun.
10:14There's a good nature environment or
10:16scenic view in the background. You have
10:18the mountain, okay? Or uh the lake in
10:23the background. I'm on a boat. But now
10:25look at all the little nuances. First
10:27you have the cowboy hat. The cowboy hat
10:29with the aviators, the sunglasses. This
10:32creates a good flow. I have the tapered
10:34beard. Then I have just the one tattoo.
10:37Okay. For me, I pick certain elements. I
10:41don't have like a forearm sleeve. I
10:42don't have a bunch of tattoos. I have
10:44just one. I have one specific tattoo.
10:47Then from there, I have the two uh
10:49necklaces or chains. And what this does
10:52is like it stacks attraction mechanisms.
10:54It stacks different layers of sex
10:56appeal. So it's like you have me on the
10:58boat plus the muscle mask plus the
11:00cowboy hat plus the aviators which is
11:03its own look. Now you add the one tattoo
11:05and you add the chains to it or the
11:08necklaces to it. Now you have synergy.
11:10You have harmony. You have congruence.
11:12You have a flow. This photo crushed.
11:16Okay. This photo absolutely crushed. I
11:18would get direct messages first all the
11:20time. Um, I would actually get uh
11:23messages from a wide variety of women,
11:25too. Some of the women were in their
11:27younger 20s. Other times, this photo
11:29would even crush with women who are in
11:31their 30s and older. I saw this photo
11:34work on a wide array um of different age
11:38ranges, too. So, keep that in mind.
11:40That's photo number two. Now, photo
11:42number three. Um,
11:45this one I would say is more so male. um
11:49like the male lens of attraction instead
11:51of the female lens of attraction. Okay,
11:54but nevertheless, I thought it looked
11:55badass. I thought it looked super cool.
11:57Shoulder looks huge smoking a cigar. Um
12:01this photo was also candid. This photo
12:03was completely candid. I know that it
12:05looks staged. I know that it looks like
12:07I tried to pose. I actually didn't. And
12:09I think that's why it was captured
12:10perfectly. The dude who took this photo
12:12of me, um I was literally just standing
12:15in a pool. This photo is actually a
12:16couple years old. I was just standing in
12:18a pool and I happened to um to smoke the
12:22cigar right there as he captured that. I
12:24was looking down. I wasn't even focused
12:26on anybody around me. This is just how
12:28the photo was. I thought it looked super
12:29cool. Um and you can see the main
12:33driving factor that I lean into hardcore
12:36for my dating app uh pictures is
12:38physique. I definitely lean into the
12:40muscle mass physique look. I think that
12:43um driving factors that you can really
12:45demonstrate is going to either be facial
12:47aesthetics or it's going to be your
12:48physique. So, you have to get in the
12:50gym, you have to track your macros, you
12:51have to diet. Like I'm sorry, but it's
12:53like
12:55guys are starting to pick up and learn,
12:58okay, that like women desire hot men.
13:02Especially as like um a lot of times
13:04what you're even going to see too is a
13:06lot of times women um women a lot of
13:09times you'll even notice they're out
13:11earning a lot of the men um that they
13:14have dating options with. Um, a lot of
13:16times like women will even notice like
13:17maybe she has a college degree and the
13:19guy that is talking to her doesn't. A
13:22lot of the things, okay, like here's you
13:24got to understand. A lot of times women
13:26have their own jobs in their own houses
13:28making their own money, which means they
13:29don't need a lot of times the
13:31provisioning side of hypergamy that men
13:33tell themselves. So what are women
13:36optimizing for? Women are optimizing for
13:37what's missing. And what's missing is
13:39the hot guy.
13:41that's what she's looking for,
13:43especially on a dating app. All these
13:45other traits, you know, caring,
13:47protective, uh, provisioning, can
13:49provide, good job, dedicated, that's
13:51great. You don't even get to show those
13:53traits until you have your foot in the
13:54door, which is why you have to unlock
13:56primal desire. That's why you have to do
13:58this. So, what I'm showing you is how to
14:00unlock primal desire through this cell
14:02phone. Um, that's the third photo that I
14:04chose. Um, next photo. Um, this was in
14:09the gym. All black outfit, backwards
14:12hat, lighting looks really good,
14:13physique looks really good. Um, muscle
14:16mass, vtapers highlighted, beard is a
14:19pretty good length. Um, jawline's good.
14:21It was just a good photo.
14:24Now, the last two photos, okay,
14:28despite me telling you that a lot of
14:30times provisioning, providing these
14:31things don't matter as much, they're
14:33still a part of hypergamy. So even if a
14:35woman has every box checked from
14:37herself, even if a woman checks all of
14:39her own boxes, meaning maybe she's a
14:41doctor, she's a lawyer, whatever, she
14:42makes a million bucks a year, there's
14:44still that part of her that looks at
14:46masculinity from a standpoint of pro
14:49protecting and providing. And it's going
14:51to be very hard to get around this. So
14:53the next two photos that I show, it's
14:55going to be um career, and the next
14:57photo is going to show abundance. Okay.
15:00So the next photo that I'm going to show
15:01you is me um right here filming. I was
15:04working on um probably like a course or
15:06some type of video that I was making and
15:09this was actually captured candid. Um
15:11I'm drinking the pelro. Um I'm in here
15:14recording um once again all black outfit
15:17and just showing or highlighting career.
15:19So if a woman looks at this, she's going
15:21to see dedication, habits, stability,
15:23whatever. And then last but not least,
15:25okay, I like to show abundance of
15:28resources or abundance of calories. Some
15:30guys might laugh at this photo and you
15:32say, "Hey, that's not good. That doesn't
15:33work. I disagree. This shows a lot of
15:35personality. Some women would even
15:37message first and say, "Love a man who
15:39can eat." Okay, so there's a few reasons
15:41why I chose this photo. Number one,
15:43okay, if you look at primal, if you look
15:45at like primal essence or primal desire,
15:47hunter gatherer days, the man had to
15:49have resources. The man had to show that
15:51he could acquire resources and food. So,
15:54I don't care if all the food that you're
15:55holding is $10 from a fast food spot. I
15:58don't care if it's $500 worth of uh the
16:01best tomahawk steak. I don't care. What
16:03I'm showing here is I'm showing
16:05abundance. I'm showing abundance. Women
16:07like abundance. Here's what I mean by
16:09this. Even if you look at a woman, um,
16:11look at her on her birthday or for
16:12Christmas or if there's a holiday or
16:14something, if you get her one gift, even
16:16if that one gift is worth thousands of
16:18dollars, her mind sees it and goes,
16:20"It's one thing." Now, if you go to the
16:22store and you buy, let's say, 20
16:25different $5 things or 20 different $10
16:28things, in her mind, she sees abundance
16:31because now here's what registers. You
16:33get this, and you get this, and I got
16:35this for you, and you got this, and you
16:38got this, and you got this, and you got
16:40this, and she looks at it, she goes,
16:42"Wow, there's so much. Oh, I feel so
16:44good." That's what abundance does to
16:46women. If you even look at this, um,
16:49look at like maybe your mom or your
16:50grandma. I noticed this even in my
16:52family. You'll notice that women a lot
16:54of times they will like to acquire a lot
16:56of things, arts and crafts, um, you
17:00know, big bins of, uh, different
17:03decorations through the house. Now, to
17:05your mind, you might look at it and go,
17:07"Oh, look at all this clutter." But to
17:08her mind, she looks at it and she goes,
17:10"We need this. This is our stuff. This
17:11is our resources. This makes our house a
17:14home. All this stuff." Women like to see
17:16abundance. This photo crushed as well.
17:19The arm looks big. It's hairy. It's
17:22masculine. That's the look I lean into
17:24is the caveman or the North Dakota dude.
17:26Okay. Backwards hat, aviators, me
17:29smiling because I'm excited to eat.
17:31Shows a bit of personality. And also,
17:33one of the secrets that I always do is I
17:34always order a lot of food. I always
17:36signal abundance. A lot of times guys
17:38go, "Hey, I'm not going to open up my
17:40wallet and do that." Okay, I will. Okay,
17:43and here's why. I do it. because I want
17:45to signal that I have plenty. I have
17:47plenty and I have more. So every date
17:49that you go out on uh when he eats his
17:51kale salad or whatever and I order five
17:53steaks and I eat all of them right in
17:55front of you. A lot of times women will
17:56giggle. They'll think it's cute and they
17:58like to see it. So this is the last
18:00photo that I have. I signal abundance. I
18:02also signal selfishness. Selfishness is
18:04my food. I'm not sharing. So her mind
18:07hypergamy goes, "Oh, not only is he
18:09going to um make sure we have food, but
18:11then she also sees, hey, he's selfish
18:13enough to have it for ourselves. This
18:15man is someone who can acquire
18:16resources, obtain the resources, keep
18:18the resources." That's why I have this
18:20photo. And this was my winning dating
18:22app profile. I hope that I explained
18:24this. What I advise you to do is learn,
18:27understand, and master the language of
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