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0:01Uncle C back in the office. And in this
0:04video, I'm going to show you how to be
0:06the loser that women love. Okay, just
0:09let that sink in when I say that title.
0:11How to be the loser that women love.
0:14See, this video is going to be a total
0:16180 shift, a total mind reprogramming
0:19almost to see how to view the world
0:23through the lens of attraction and what
0:26women actually respond to versus what
0:28you've been socially programmed to think
0:31about the world. The things that you've
0:33been socially programmed to think about
0:35the world when it comes to get a good
0:37job and make a lot of money and now
0:38you're high status. You're slowly seeing
0:41that this is failing you. You're slowly
0:43seeing that you probably feel like
0:44you're tied to a job that doesn't serve
0:46you in the same boring routine. Okay?
0:48And even if you make good money, you
0:50feel unfulfilled and you feel like
0:51there's something missing. Most men feel
0:53that way. Majority of men feel this way.
0:56And I'm going to explain to you why. And
0:58a big majority of the reason is because
0:59majority of men don't fundamentally
1:01understand what triggers attraction.
1:03What you have to first learn about women
1:05is to women pretty much everything is
1:08opposite. Literally everything. So to
1:11them, okay, everything that you think is
1:15bad or a bad trait or a bad quality to
1:19have or to possess in a relationship,
1:22what you're going to find the more you
1:23date is they think that it's good. So,
1:26let me give you an example.
1:28This is a list of all the things that
1:32society deems as being a loser right
1:35here. Okay? all the things that society
1:38deems as being a loser.
1:41Selfish, self-centered, narcissistic,
1:45low in empathy, meaning you mainly put
1:47yourself first. You don't really care
1:49how others feel. You're mainly just
1:51going about your tasks to live the way
1:53that you would like in order to just get
1:56by or to do whatever. Okay? You don't
1:58necessarily fit the same social mold as
2:00everybody. Maybe you don't attend the
2:02birthday party. Maybe you don't attend
2:04the niece's aunt's piano recital,
2:07whatever. Okay.
2:10Um, always thinks that they're right.
2:13Low amount of focus or scatterbrain all
2:16over the place. Okay.
2:18Um,
2:20low amount of impulse control. Maybe
2:22that dude is always out at the bar or
2:24whatever. Maybe the guy really doesn't
2:26have a lot of care for other people's
2:27feelings or no direction in life. What
2:31you're going to find is all of these
2:32traits, okay, that you would say that
2:34they're bad. This is a guy that she's
2:35aroused by. This is a guy that she's
2:37turned on by. This is the guy that she
2:39actually gets wet for. This is what
2:40you're going to find the more you date.
2:42The more you date and the more you
2:44actually just open up your eyes and you
2:45pay attention to which dudes get the hot
2:48girls, which dudes actually have access
2:50to like the hot women at either the
2:51party or the bar or the club or
2:53whatever. It's going to be all the
2:55traits that were opposite of what your
2:57parents, your teachers, and everything
2:59told you. Okay? So keep that in mind. A
3:01lot of times you might even be in a
3:03situation where um you have a mom and a
3:05dad, okay? And maybe your mom even
3:07finessed your dad for a bunch of money
3:09and on top of that um maybe um your mom
3:12even had a promiscuous pass and your dad
3:14wasn't even her first pick. That could
3:16happen. I would say in majority of
3:18situations that does happen. So even the
3:21fundamental element in the household you
3:23might have grown up in where you see
3:25masculinity and femininity and both of
3:28them coming together into one family
3:30unit might not even be rooted in genuine
3:32desire in the first place. There's a
3:34very high probability or high chance
3:35that your dad wasn't even your mom's
3:38first pick. So let that sink in. as a
3:41child even maybe the original like um
3:46idea of a relationship that you saw was
3:48not rooted in actual desire. It was more
3:51so rooted on what she needed. There's a
3:53very high probability of that. What you
3:55have to do to slowly make this mindset
3:58shift is you have to detach from your
4:00old social programming. Okay, I'll say
4:03this one more time. You have to detach
4:05from your old social programming to
4:07understand how society is keeping you
4:10unattractive.
4:11Okay? How society is keeping you
4:14unattractive. So let me give you an
4:16example. You were told as a kid most
4:18likely that if you have focus um if you
4:21stay disciplined, you just work that
4:23same career and you uh go up in the
4:25corporate ladder and you make a bunch of
4:27money and you sit at your career for the
4:29next 20 years that that's all that
4:32matters. That's all that matters. And
4:34you know, the sky's is the limit for you
4:35and you're going to have access to
4:37beautiful women with an amazing wife by
4:39your side who um never starts any drama
4:41and just has amazing children with you
4:43and you two live happily ever after.
4:45Okay? And you were probably told that
4:46that's all that matters. So you went
4:48through all of that just to see that
4:50majority of women don't even get turned
4:52on by providers. So, you go through all
4:55this and then what you see, okay, is
4:58that a lot of times women get wet for or
5:00get turned on by what most people would
5:02consider trash. You see a dude who's
5:04constantly out partying. He usually has
5:06no shortage of options. You see a dude
5:09who uh let's say um you know, maybe he's
5:11a stoner or maybe he has a bunch of
5:13loser friends that he's always with.
5:15These types of guys seem to always have
5:17the highest interest women because he
5:19doesn't necessarily give a what
5:21anybody thinks about him. So, this is
5:23what you have to understand, okay? These
5:24guys seem to never have a shortage of
5:26options. And here's why. So, what you're
5:29actually going to find about women the
5:31more you date is that the truth is that
5:32women only want a good guy, loyal,
5:34provider type when she's either ready to
5:37settle down, ready to have kids, or she
5:39finally wants somebody to pay for all
5:41the that she wants to buy. Okay,
5:43this is what you're going to find. All
5:44the stuff that she wants to buy, she
5:46wants to find a guy who will raise his
5:48hand and say, "Yeah, you can swipe my
5:50credit card." That's what she's looking
5:51for. So the loser in the lens or in the
5:56eyes of women is really the only man
5:59that they see as truly free. Okay? He's
6:03truly free. Like think about it this
6:06way. Let's say you have a guy who makes
6:08really good money, but he hates his life
6:10because he hates his job. He hates what
6:11he does. He hates having to sit in front
6:13of the desk or in front of the computer
6:15all day, but he does it anyways. And he
6:18makes really good money, but he does it
6:19anyways. meaning he does a bunch of crap
6:21that he doesn't want to do. That guy,
6:24okay, is almost like a slave or at least
6:26a slave in his mind because he's tied to
6:29doing all these things. Now, the loser
6:31in the eyes of women is really the only
6:33man who's truly free because he doesn't
6:36give a if anybody thinks he's a
6:37loser. He just does what he wants.
6:38Meaning, if he doesn't want to get a
6:40job, he doesn't. And you'll notice this
6:42too with these guys. They always seem to
6:44get by somehow,
6:46right? It's like they're never starving,
6:49okay? They usually don't appear like
6:51they ran out of food. They usually found
6:53a couch or somewhere to stay or with a
6:55friend or someone. And these guys
6:57typically don't have any shortage of
6:59women. Well, why would that be? It's
7:01because they are free from all of the
7:02social norms that keeps most guys stuck.
7:05They are free from social expectations.
7:08They are also free from the constraints
7:11of work life balance that everybody
7:13tells them that they have to follow. Oh,
7:15got to make enough time for work. Got to
7:17make enough time to follow your fantasy
7:19football team. Got to make enough time
7:20to go see your mom three days a week.
7:22Got to make enough time for your niece's
7:24aunt's uh great uncle's piano recital uh
7:27twice a month. Got to make enough time
7:29to go to the family reunion. Got to make
7:31enough time to go see Aunt Betty.
7:35Did you go to church on Sunday?
7:38Huh? Did you make sure that uh you watch
7:41football on Sunday with your dad? This
7:43is the list of stuff that everybody is
7:46going to try to put on to you through
7:48life. So if you actually look around,
7:51what you're going to find is that most
7:53people are focused on everybody else.
7:55Most people are focused on everybody
7:57else. And what's going to happen is
7:59society or people in your life will try
8:02to put emphasis on things that you
8:04should be doing with your time because
8:06they can't focus on themselves. That's
8:08what you're going to find. That's how
8:10most people spend their time is being
8:12outwardly focused on what everybody else
8:13is doing instead of what they're doing
8:15or what they want to do. Which
8:17ultimately, if you follow this type of
8:19stuff, you'll end up leading a life that
8:21you never even wanted in the first
8:23place. So, the dude who's a loser, he's
8:25free from bills or paying for
8:29because he doesn't even care if he owns
8:30anything. Think about that for a second.
8:33This type of guy is free from bills and
8:35work stress because he doesn't even care
8:37if he owns anything. Well, not only
8:39that, he's free in all the ways that
8:41most men wish they had the balls to step
8:44into.
8:46Most guys don't have the balls to do
8:48this. They go to college, they end up
8:50hating their life, they hate their
8:51career, they work at the same career
8:53their whole life. They did what they
8:54told would make them um a good guy, only
8:57to see that women don't care, and they
8:58go to bed alone every single night with
9:00zero options. That's most guys life. So
9:03you may call him, okay, from the outside
9:05looking in, everybody else may call this
9:07guy the rebel, the loser, the
9:10degenerate, the piece of the
9:12scumbag. But to her, here's what you
9:14have to understand.
9:16To her, he is literally like untamed
9:19masculinity. And this is why the
9:21character in any romance novel that
9:23women read, he typically has all these
9:25uh characteristics of what most people
9:27would consider negative characteristics,
9:30but this is who she's turned on by. So
9:32keep that in mind. Okay. Now this is
9:34what I can tell you. Your logical brain
9:37cannot see what she sees. Your logical
9:40brain can't see what she sees unless you
9:43start thinking this way that I'm
9:44teaching you. Your logical brain cannot
9:46see what she sees and it's destroying
9:49your attraction.
9:51This is what you have to understand.
9:52Your logical brain cannot see what she
9:54sees and it's destroying your
9:56attraction. So let's look at some words
9:59that should be positive. Okay? because I
10:01told you in the beginning here that to
10:02women a lot of times everything uh is
10:05opposite. So the word loyal loyal okay
10:08would be a good word but to her this
10:10typically translates to no options. The
10:13word nice he's a nice guy. He's a nice
10:16person. You would think that this is
10:17good to her. She sits there and goes,
10:19"Oh well he probably has to be or he has
10:21to be nice so that way people are not
10:23mean to him because he's weak and he
10:25can't uh stand up for himself." Let's
10:27look at the word caring. Okay. Oh,
10:29you're caring. That should be a good uh
10:32word.
10:33What it actually translates to when it
10:35comes to attraction is she sits there
10:36and goes, "Okay, he doesn't prioritize
10:38himself and he can't say no." Which is
10:40why he has to be caring because he has
10:42no backbone. He's spineless. So this is
10:45what men run into. And now she sees that
10:48you also do not form your own goals or
10:51your own worldview. When you follow all
10:54of these traits that everybody told you
10:56to do, go to college, be a nice guy, be
10:58a good guy, get one loyal, stable job,
11:00do this, do that, keep doing this, keep
11:02doing that, you'll be rewarded only to
11:04find out that every single day you're
11:05not rewarded. Okay? And now she sees
11:07that you also do not form your own goals
11:10that you actually had for yourself or
11:12your own worldview. Your parents, your
11:14teachers, and Instagram did it for you.
11:17That's who formed your worldview and
11:19that's who formed your goals. Because of
11:21that, you need to step back and ask
11:23yourself, have you ever truly thought
11:24for yourself and ask yourself, what do I
11:26want? Okay, what do I actually want out
11:29of life?
11:32So, if you live this way, you will
11:35probably get here's what you have to
11:36know, okay? So, what I told you in the
11:38beginning of this video is how to be the
11:40loser, okay, that women love. How to be
11:43the loser that women love. If you live
11:44this way, you will probably get way more
11:47sex than you've ever had in your entire
11:49life.
11:50You will probably get laid more than the
11:53looks maxers. You'll get laid more than
11:56the dude who uh is the accounting bro or
11:58what do they call it these days? The
11:59finance bro, whatever you want to call
12:01it. However, this is what you have to
12:03understand. However, okay, eventually,
12:07this is what I want you to know.
12:09Eventually,
12:11everything has a run rate. If you live
12:14this way and you have no direction and
12:15no focus in your life, it probably will
12:17get old. Okay? you will get old.
12:21Meaning, every single month, every
12:22single year that goes by, you're going
12:23to run out of energy. If you look at how
12:26most guys move when they're 85 compared
12:29to how they moved at 25, they're a lot
12:31slower.
12:33It's harder to get around. Your body
12:34starts to deteriorate as you get older.
12:36Well, if you're going to get older, what
12:38does that mean? That means if you didn't
12:39do anything in your younger years to set
12:41yourself up for a better future, a
12:43better financial future, ability to take
12:45care of yourself and people around you,
12:47it's probably going to be a really hard
12:49survival as you get older. Not to
12:51mention, this is what I want you to
12:52know. Eventually, okay, with time, okay,
12:56this is what you have to know. However,
12:58with time when you're dating, hypergamy
13:00will start to kick in. Eventually, she
13:04might say, "Look, this guy's fun, but
13:06this is going nowhere." eventually.
13:08Here's what you have to understand. She
13:10may date this guy for 6 weeks. She may
13:12date this guy for 6 months. She might
13:14even occasionally date this guy here and
13:16there for the next 6 years. Doesn't
13:18matter. But everything that you're going
13:20to find, majority of the time has a run
13:22rate. And what that means is eventually,
13:24especially as she wants to settle down,
13:26as she gets older, she will start to
13:28want relationship stability. And even
13:30though he was fun, even though he's the
13:32one guy that her heart gravitated
13:33towards, as she gets older, where she's
13:35going to put her time is going to be
13:37with what seems stable. So, this is
13:39truly a balancing act. But this is
13:41exactly what you're going to notice
13:43women respond to, especially hot women,
13:45okay? Or women, let's say, in their 20s.
13:48This is the type of guy that women
13:49respond to. So, the thing is is we can't
13:52deny this or ignore this. And this isn't
13:55even necessarily my opinion. All you got
13:57to do is just go to a club for yourself.
13:59go downtown or go to a club or go to the
14:00bar or uh you know if you have a friend
14:04who's let's say like a hot girl, be
14:06like, "Hey, uh let me see uh let me see
14:08your your Hinge matches or your Bumble
14:11or your Tinder matches. What type of
14:12guys are you swiping on?" And then when
14:15she shows you, you're going to be in for
14:17a rude awakening because what you're
14:19going to notice is damn near everything
14:20in this video is probably pretty spot-on
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14:30the language of women. So, if this right
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14:34lot of concepts that make sense, but
14:37you're now looking for a step-by-step
14:39process to follow, like, here's what you
14:41do when you first meet the woman, just
14:43do this. Here's what you do on the first
14:45one to three dates, just go and do this.
14:47Here's what you do when it comes to a
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