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0:00So, I want to explain something today
0:01that a lot of you are probably going to
0:03notice, and that would be the fact that
0:06manipulative women, when you're dating,
0:10do not respond very well to what I would
0:13call masculine leadership.
0:16Okay?
0:18Now, manipulative women, when you're
0:20dating them,
0:22will also make it a point
0:26to make sure that no matter what you say
0:29is wrong.
0:31Okay?
0:33So, let me give you an example.
0:37Let's say you try to make a suggestion
0:40and lead something.
0:41The woman might get mad
0:44or defensive
0:46and say something like,
0:49"Oh, uh everything always has to be your
0:52way. This is just not the type of energy
0:55that I'm looking for."
0:57Okay?
0:59Because you attempted to lead something.
1:01The woman might flat-out say something
1:03like,
1:05"You're too much. Everything always has
1:08to be your way." And it's all because
1:10you attempted to lead. You attempted to
1:12make a suggestion. That same woman, if
1:15you would have done the complete
1:16opposite,
1:17if she made a suggestion and you just
1:19went along with it and you said,
1:22"Okay, yeah, that's cool. That's fine.
1:24That works. I'm I'm good with that."
1:28That same woman,
1:3020 minutes later,
1:32might
1:34turn on that switch in her mind, where
1:36she now looks at you and goes,
1:38"Ugh, you're so passive.
1:40I wish I had a man that could lead.
1:44You never give any input. You're so
1:46passive.
1:47You're so passive. You just go with the
1:49flow. You're not even a man.
1:51You're not even a man. You stand for
1:53nothing. You're not even a man." And
1:55keep in mind, this is a reflection of
1:57her desire level towards you. Because
2:00she has low interest, because she has
2:02low desire,
2:03all of a sudden, everything that you say
2:06is wrong in her eyes. And you know, the
2:09attitude in the voice might be
2:10different, right? You know,
2:13she might appear like she's disgusted or
2:15she's nagging you or whatever.
2:17But that's the type of manipulative
2:19behavior you can expect from a
2:21manipulative woman.
2:24>> [sighs]
2:25>> What you have to understand is like
2:28a woman will probably always be better
2:30than you at seduction. A woman will
2:32probably always be better than you at
2:34charm. And a woman will probably always
2:36be more manipulative than you in the
2:38situation because your mind is probably
2:41going to be centered more in um
2:44just the day-to-day uh logic and
2:47rational thinking of what to do to keep
2:49the lights on and keep the bills paid
2:51and keep things going. That's going to
2:53be your rational male mind.
2:56Now, a manipulative woman is going to
2:58look for value extraction and resource
3:01extraction.
3:03And specifically, your mental bandwidth.
3:05She wants all of it.
3:07This is not going to be a woman who um
3:11wants what's best for you. This is
3:14a lot of times not even a woman that
3:15wants what's best for her. This is
3:18purely a woman that wants her emotions
3:21stimulated
3:24by feeling the thrill of conquering.
3:28She wants to feel the thrill of
3:30conquering by knowing what it's like to
3:32either, number one, emasculate the man
3:36or know what it's like
3:37to, number two would be, break the man's
3:40spirit to the point where he just can't
3:42even
3:44feel like he can do anything right. The
3:46reason why I'm telling you this
3:48is because there's a lot of women that
3:50you're going to meet or that you're
3:51going to date who desire that. They
3:54don't desire what's best for you. A lot
3:57of times they don't even desire what's
3:58best for themselves.
4:01They seek to conquer. They seek to
4:04conquer and they seek to um
4:08feel the emotional thrill of victory.
4:11And to them, a lot of times victory will
4:13only be the other person losing, the
4:15other person feeling heartbroken, the
4:17other person feeling destroyed. That's
4:20what you can probably expect from
4:22majority of women that you date. Okay?
4:25You will notice that
4:28it's like they're not even in their
4:29feminine energy, but they're not even in
4:31their masculine energy. It's like the
4:33energy that they're rooted in or the
4:35energy that they're centered in is like
4:37an evil conquering energy, like seeking
4:41to destroy.
4:43Okay?
4:45Now,
4:47I'm going to explain to you how you can
4:49spot this type of woman.
4:52So, this type of woman that you meet or
4:54that you come across, from the external,
4:57her external appearance,
5:00um she's going to appear
5:03um
5:05elegant, very well-dressed, very
5:08well-mannered.
5:11She's going to give off the illusion and
5:13the appearance of like, what would be in
5:16your mind, the perfect wife. Okay?
5:20The perfect girlfriend. This is what her
5:23outward appearance will look like.
5:26She won't appear very promiscuous. Maybe
5:29she doesn't have that active of a social
5:31media.
5:34And you're also going to notice that she
5:36gives off this illusion of elegance in a
5:39way that um
5:42will convince you that she is like the
5:45highest form of feminine. Soft-spoken,
5:48never raises her voice, never swears, um
5:53another thing that you might notice from
5:55this specific type of woman
5:57is
6:00you might notice like, okay, one of the
6:02things that I can tell you is this.
6:03Anytime you're with a woman
6:06and you notice that she claims, okay,
6:10you might notice this from time to time.
6:11You might come across a woman
6:13who claims that she wants a man who's a
6:16good leader or a man who's good at
6:19leading.
6:22And this, a lot of times, couldn't be
6:24further from the truth from how your
6:26rational, logical male brain interprets
6:29the word leadership.
6:32And I'm going to explain to you why and
6:34I'm going to explain to you what this
6:35means. What you're going to notice when
6:37a woman claims that she wants a good
6:39leader
6:40is you're going to notice that her
6:42actions follow the exact opposite.
6:46She claims that she wants a good leader,
6:48so you think rationally, here's what
6:49will happen. You think that she wants a
6:51guy who plans dates, sets things up,
6:54says, "Hey, I think this is where we
6:56should go and what we should do. This is
6:58the best way of doing things." And
7:00that's what you think she'll gravitate
7:02towards. I can tell you this from not
7:04only first-hand experience, but I can
7:06tell you this from just
7:08not only dating women over the past 11
7:11years of my own life, but also seeing
7:12numerous other dudes who either have
7:15been in my community or these are guys
7:17who I've just known on a personal level,
7:19women follow the exact opposite of what
7:21they claim they want. A lot of times,
7:24that same woman that claims she wants a
7:26good leader, she will follow passive men
7:29who never call and never make any plans.
7:32She follows men a lot of times who can't
7:34lead anything
7:36and don't even make a decision at all.
7:40She will gravitate towards men who never
7:42try to set up a plan or plan any date at
7:45all, and you'll notice that she will
7:47oftentimes chase these passive men who
7:51don't do anything
7:53or who maybe have a lot of times
7:55degenerate behavior, so he's not even in
7:57the rational mindset to lead anything.
7:59Like, his behavior is so not even
8:02centered on himself. He's just so lost
8:04that he's not even concerned about doing
8:07anything that she gravitates towards
8:09that guy hoping she can change him,
8:11hoping that with just a little bit of
8:13elbow grease and hard work and some
8:15convincing, he'll start to be the type
8:16of man that she wishes or claims she
8:18could have.
8:20These same women
8:22that will tell you that they want a good
8:24leader
8:25will typically follow men
8:28that have
8:30no leadership characteristics at all.
8:32Not only does he not lead himself, but
8:34he does not lead the relationship, and
8:37he sure as hell does not lead the dates
8:39or the interactions or plan anything.
8:41That type of man, okay?
8:46Because he sits and does absolutely
8:48nothing,
8:50to her, she actually starts to view him
8:52as stronger than the rest. She'll either
8:54think that he has more options than
8:56everybody else and he's so high of value
8:59that he doesn't need to lead anything.
9:02Or she will mistake his lack of
9:04leadership for disinterest, and her
9:06emotions will actually work in his
9:08favor, even though you would look at
9:11that dude and you think he's degenerate
9:13or he doesn't have anything going for
9:14himself or he's not a very masculine
9:16man.
9:19What you will see is what women claim
9:22that they want
9:24is completely opposite from what they
9:26respond to.
9:28But one of the biggest signs of a very
9:29manipulative woman that you're going to
9:31find is if she claims she wants a good
9:32leader. And here's why. Here's why this
9:34is absolute manipulation, and to the
9:37naked eye, most men wouldn't even be
9:39able to see what's actually going on in
9:41this circumstance or in this situation.
9:44When women claim they want a good
9:47leader, like when she's sitting there
9:48and she claims she wants a good leader
9:50and she's telling you this,
9:53here's why this is one of the biggest
9:56manipulation tactics that most men will
9:59fall for.
10:00When she claims she wants a good leader,
10:04what she's actually getting him to do
10:07is she's getting him to reveal his
10:09interest level, so that way she can
10:11reject him.
10:12I will say that one more time. When
10:15most women claim they want a good
10:17leader, she is now getting that man to
10:20reveal his interest level. That way she
10:23has the ability to reject him. Think
10:26about it this way.
10:29If she tells that man, "I want a good
10:31leader. I want somebody who can plan
10:33things. I want somebody who can see the
10:35future and plan out where we're headed."
10:36All this stuff sounds great on paper.
10:38The man is going to sit back and think
10:40to himself, "Oh wow, look at me. I found
10:41such a feminine woman." And then watch
10:43the manipulation unfold. Once that man
10:46starts to lead something or plan
10:48something or set something up, what does
10:50he do? He raises his communication
10:51level. He assumes that leadership to
10:54that woman is going to look like him
10:57demonstrating action and attempting to
10:59demonstrate communication and effort.
11:02And what that really means is that he
11:03assumes that he'll be rewarded by taking
11:06initiative and actually planning things.
11:09So, as soon as he says, "Hey, planned
11:12out this great experience, planned out
11:14this great date. We'll do this and then
11:15we'll do this and afterwards we can
11:17finish off um
11:19you know, getting dessert or getting ice
11:20cream here."
11:22And he thinks he's such a good leader.
11:24He thinks he's planning everything.
11:26Watch her all of a sudden flake or claim
11:28that she's busy or claim that she's just
11:31not interested or claim that, "Well, you
11:33didn't lead quite the right way. You did
11:35it just a little bit wrong or you did it
11:38not the way I wanted you to."
11:41This is what you can experience, okay?
11:44That same woman will chase men who are
11:46very passive and don't attempt to lead
11:48anything. Now,
11:50what you're going to find is that
11:54women, okay, have their own agenda.
11:56Women have their own agenda and women
11:58have their own plans.
12:00They have their own agenda and they have
12:01their own plans. That's what you're
12:02going to find. Now, a lot of men might
12:05say, "Oh, you know, uh modern women just
12:08don't know how to respond to masculine
12:09men or you know, a lot of men might say
12:12um
12:13you know, modern women are just more
12:14masculine than they used to be."
12:16Whatever the case may be, it doesn't
12:17matter what label you want to put on it.
12:19This is what you're going to find to be
12:20true.
12:21Women have their own plan a lot of times
12:24and their own way of doing things and
12:26how they want to do it. How they want
12:28that interaction to go. Because she's
12:30basing everything based on how she
12:32feels. And the one thing that women will
12:35often times optimize for is her
12:37immediate needs or her immediate
12:39happiness right now in the moment. That
12:41is all that typically matters is
12:42satisfying that one specific second of
12:45that one specific minute of that one
12:47specific hour.
12:49And how she feels at that time.
12:51Well, any friction, any leadership,
12:55okay, if you want to call that, of the
12:56man demonstrating some type of
12:58leadership or of the man demonstrating
13:00some type of plan or process or routine
13:02for her to follow is going against the
13:04grain of what she wanted to do in that
13:07moment. Is going against the grain of
13:09what she wanted to do with how she
13:11assumed the day would unfold, with how
13:12she assumed the plan would go.
13:16Because of that,
13:18what you'll notice is that as soon as
13:20that man demonstrates any type of
13:22leadership,
13:24she takes it one of two ways. Either the
13:26first way that she'll take it is she'll
13:28take it as effort and him emphasizing
13:31communication. Therefore, now she has
13:32the ability or opportunity to reject
13:34you. This is what I've told you in
13:35numerous videos, especially with modern
13:38dating today, with social media and with
13:40dating apps, it's defense, it's not
13:42offense.
13:44You are punished for effort. You are
13:45punished for setting up plans. You are
13:47punished for even trying.
13:50Okay? Keep that in mind.
13:52So, this will go one of two ways.
13:53Because you have now used effort to lead
13:56the situation or to set up plans or to
13:58attempt to be a good leader, she now has
14:01the opportunity to reject you. And say,
14:03"No, I'm not interested in doing it that
14:05way." Or number two, this is the second
14:07thing that will most likely happen.
14:09Because she already had an idea or a
14:12situation play out in her mind or in her
14:15um thought process of how that date or
14:17that um
14:18experience or that circumstance or that
14:21plan or that event should go,
14:24you'll notice that women constantly look
14:26to the future.
14:28Okay, because of that, she has an idea
14:30of how she thinks it will play out and
14:32the emotions associated with it. So,
14:33anytime, a lot of times, you attempt to
14:35lead or say anything that is
14:38counterintuitive or opposite or goes
14:40against how she thought that that plan
14:42would unfold, it doesn't serve her
14:44emotions in the moment and she feels
14:46like it's making her feel um
14:48not as happy or it makes her feel bad in
14:50the moment. And then a lot of times,
14:52you'll notice disinterest regardless.
14:54One of the things you guys have to have
14:56is you have to have some rock solid
14:58friends or at minimum you have to have a
15:00community around you.
15:02You have to be surrounded by guys who
15:04have like-minded interests. Like,
15:06listen,
15:07if you're around family members that
15:09either are not supportive or they don't
15:11see your vision or on top of that, they
15:13just don't see how the world has
15:14shifted. Maybe you have friends that are
15:17not on the same path as you or your
15:19friends aren't able to see past like,
15:22let's say, their 9:00 to 5:00 or just
15:24like getting by this month or they're
15:26not able to see how the world has
15:28shifted. If your friends aren't wanting
15:30to improve or get a girlfriend or have a
15:33family one day or like get better in
15:35their dating life or just get better in
15:37general, I don't see how it's going to
15:40be very possible for you to hit your
15:43goals and have fun along the way. So,
15:45the whole reason why I tell you that is
15:47because like, for example, here's a dude
15:49in my community and he goes, "Just being
15:51in the community here for 2 weeks, I
15:53have noticed some great changes in
15:55myself."
15:56Now, if you shift your attention
15:58downwards, he goes, "I feel a stronger
16:01connection with God, what my purpose is
16:03and I look forward to the next day and
16:07next challenge." See, I'm seeing posts
16:10like this, which is why after today's
16:12video, join us in the community I built,
16:15so that way I can help you learn,
16:16understand and master the language of
16:18women. So,
16:21what you're going to notice about
16:23majority of the modern women that you
16:25meet or that you date that demonstrate
16:28manipulative characteristics is that
16:31what they claim they want is going to be
16:33completely different than what they
16:34respond to. And what that really means
16:36at a deeper level is this. Anytime that
16:38you think you're rewarded for action and
16:41attempting to put forth effort and to
16:43plan things and to lead and to
16:45demonstrate masculinity, you are
16:47typically punished.
16:50And women a lot of times will gravitate
16:52towards men who do not plan anything.
16:57And the reason why she feels like that's
16:59actually more masculine is because she
17:01assumes that he's just leading his own
17:03life and he's not even interested and
17:04he's not even focused on her or the plan
17:07or the event. And naturally, her
17:10emotions work in his favor. So, keep
17:12that in mind. These are just some of the
17:14traits that you're going to notice from
17:17manipulative women in a relationship. If
17:19you notice um her saying things like um
17:24"You know, I'm looking for a good
17:25leader." or things like that. A lot of
17:27times, you have to remember that type of
17:29man has already been presented to her
17:33numerous times, maybe even dozens of
17:35times over the past 5 years in her
17:37dating life and she's rejected all of
17:39them.
17:40So, because of that,
17:43you have to become wise to these
17:46experiences and you have to start to
17:47learn, understand and master the
17:49language of women. I created a whole
17:50community to show you some of these
17:52step-by-step processes, to give you a
17:54step-by-step process that's probably
17:56better than you've ever had. Be sure to
17:58grab that and to check it out because
17:59this is what you're going to find.
18:01Inside of that community, these guys are
18:03having real discussion. Real discussion,
18:06watching events actually unfold in each
18:09other's lives and giving each other
18:10support. And that's why it's so
18:11important to have a rock solid community
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