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0:00Hi everyone. So in today's video, this
0:02is going to be 10 lies that women will
0:04tell you. Um this is 10 lies that modern
0:07women will tell you regarding dating. Um
0:11the guys they actually want to sleep
0:13with, how they think, how they operate.
0:15Um and what I'm even going to do in
0:17today's video is I'm going to show you
0:20how and why, okay? And specifically how
0:24women have convinced you over the course
0:27of your life to believe these things.
0:30This is going to be a very impactful
0:31video. So, let me preface the whole
0:34video with these two things, okay?
0:37Because there's two false beliefs that
0:39you've been told essentially your whole
0:41life. This could be just what you've
0:44heard um in magazines and on TV. This
0:47could be what your mom told you. This
0:48could be just, you know, little sayings
0:50or quotes or affirmations you've heard.
0:53The first thing that you've probably
0:55heard your whole life is a woman's
0:58intuition is always correct. You're
1:00going to hear this. You're going to hear
1:02this um just throughout uh you know
1:05growing up or whatever. Always trust a
1:08woman's intuition. Okay? You might even
1:10see um women post quotes like that or
1:13affirmations like that on their social
1:15media or whatever. Always trust a
1:17woman's intuition. A woman's intuition
1:19is never wrong. And the reason why this
1:22is promoted is because it does one
1:24thing. It undermines male intellect.
1:30It undermines male intellect. So this is
1:33what you have to understand, okay? Is
1:36this is a form of deception. And here's
1:37why. A woman's intuition, just like in
1:40the Bible, okay, the Bible lays this out
1:43very clearly in the book of Genesis. A
1:45woman's intuition typically follows the
1:47serpent.
1:49That's what a woman's intuition
1:50naturally is drawn to. Essentially being
1:54manipulated and falling to temptation.
1:56Okay. So, what you need to do is you
1:59need to scrap that belief and you need
2:01to start using better language. The
2:04first way you do this is by importing a
2:07new sentence into your mouth. And that
2:08would be always trust a man's intuition.
2:11A man's intuition
2:13is correct for you. Whatever you want to
2:15say, that's the first thing you need to
2:17do. Always trust a man's intuition.
2:20Okay, that's the first false belief that
2:22most men have been sold. Okay, now the
2:25second false belief that you've probably
2:26been told is this. Women mature faster
2:28than men. Okay, so they know what's
2:32best. This is what you probably been
2:33told. You'd hear this all the time. Even
2:35me, I heard this growing up in school.
2:36Oh, you know, um, your mind isn't as
2:39developed yet. Women mature way faster
2:41than men. Okay,
2:44what you'll see is this is often times
2:46completely false. Women spend all of
2:48their 20s, okay, a lot of times making
2:51decisions that they regret in their 30s
2:53and 40s. Women spend essentially all of
2:56their 20s most of the time with the
2:58wrong men and then they often times only
3:01choose to mature when they either get
3:03old, okay? Or they have kids, so they
3:06start to understand what life is
3:08actually like, okay? Or on top of that,
3:11their looks just start to decline. So
3:13now they have to now they have to
3:15mature, okay? So, this is what you're
3:17going to find. You're going to hear this
3:19belief constantly curated or talked
3:22about. Women mature faster than men, so
3:24they know what's best. Okay? Listen to
3:26me very closely.
3:28I don't think there is really any proof
3:30to that. So, you know what? You have
3:33good, strong, rational, masculine male
3:36intellect. Trust your own judgment. And
3:39you have to understand how to make your
3:40own decisions. So, as a man, this is
3:42what I want you to know going into this
3:44video. God gave you rational male
3:47intellect, so you need to start to use
3:48it. You know when something is complete
3:51and when it's not. Step into
3:54that. Don't be ashamed of that. That's
3:57your internal radar saying, "Hey, I
3:59don't think that this is true. Hey, I
4:01think that there's a better way to do
4:02this. Hey, I think I know what's best.
4:04Hey, I have enough confidence to trust
4:06my own judgment." That's how we're going
4:08to start this video. Now that we got
4:10that out of the way, now we can actually
4:12talk about the 10 lies that women have
4:14told you or have attempted to convince
4:16you of or whatever. Whatever you want to
4:18call it, I don't really care. These are
4:19going to be the 10 things that you're
4:21going to find. So, the first lie or the
4:24first essentially like lie or false
4:26belief you were probably told, okay,
4:29would be that her past, okay, and the
4:32guys that she dated in the past or her
4:34potential body count doesn't matter.
4:36Listen to me closely. You have to
4:38understand this on a deep level. Women
4:40are hypergamous, which means women only
4:43want the best. Okay? And women's
4:45emotions gravitate towards who is that
4:48best. And on top of that, she has real
4:50world and real life experience. So she
4:53can analyze for herself who was the
4:55best. So keep that in mind. Women are a
4:58hypergamist. So you need to think of it
5:00this way. Okay? Let's say you're dating
5:02a woman and she's 28. Okay? And let's
5:06say she lost her VC card or she had her
5:08first boyfriend at 18. Okay, that's 10
5:12years of men. 10 years. Okay,
5:1710 years of dating history. Now, this is
5:19what I can tell you. Out of those 10
5:21years of dating, if you're dating a
5:23woman who's 28
5:25and she has been dating since she was
5:2718, out of those 10 years of dating, she
5:30likes one guy the best. Out of all those
5:33guys, all the dudes who were trying to
5:35talk to her at the bar, all the dudes
5:37that she met on a dating app, all the
5:38dudes that she met um you know at the
5:41club, whatever, she likes one guy the
5:43best, just one. She likes one of those
5:46guys the best. The chances that it's
5:48actually you, listen, the chances that
5:51it's actually you is slim to none.
5:54Absolutely slim to none. And here's why.
5:56You will get into a long-term
5:58relationship with this type of woman or
6:00with one of these women that has a past
6:02where you're not her best and dating
6:05them or being in that relationship with
6:06them is going to be like a living hell.
6:09It is going to be like a living hell
6:10because you will constantly be compared
6:12to somebody who was better that she
6:14wasn't able to lock down for a long-term
6:16relationship. You will constantly be
6:18compared to what life could have been if
6:20she would have been with that guy. And
6:21she will always have contempt for you.
6:23She will always dislike you slightly.
6:25She will always be pissed off that she's
6:27even with you in the first place. Dating
6:29a woman, okay, who has had a better man
6:32than you in her past is a recipe for
6:35disaster because she will never look at
6:37you with true genuine desire like she
6:39did that guy because she knows what she
6:42can have. Okay? It's just like if you
6:44were to date, let's say, a really,
6:45really, really hot woman. Okay? and
6:48let's say things um things dissolved or
6:52things fell out um the relationship
6:54dissolved or whatever. Any woman that
6:57you meet that's not at or above that
6:59level of attractiveness, you're going to
7:01know what you could have had. Okay? So,
7:03keep that in mind. With women, this is
7:05even amplified more because of
7:07hypergamy. So, always keep that in mind.
7:10Okay? This is the very first lie that
7:11you're probably told. Number two, okay,
7:14the second lie that you're going to be
7:15told is this. you are the only guy I'm
7:18talking to or you are the only guy that
7:20I'm dating. You're going to hear women
7:22say this. Maybe you met a woman on a
7:23dating app. Maybe you met her um out and
7:25about, you know, wherever it was at a
7:27party or something. Women are truly
7:29never single because of the amount of
7:31options and the amount of attention that
7:32they get. The amount of options that
7:34they have and the amount of attention
7:35that they get will obviously dictate
7:38their dating capabilities. Well, if
7:39you're dating a woman or you're seeing a
7:41woman who is attractive, she has so many
7:44men, probably hundreds of men in that
7:46city who would love to date her. So,
7:48keep that in mind. If she says you're
7:49the only guy I'm talking to or dating,
7:51this is what you have to know and this
7:53is what you have to understand. If you
7:55are not in a relationship, meaning a
7:57committed long-term relationship where
7:59you two are officially a couple, and
8:02she's dating you the way that you're
8:05wanting, meaning that she is uh sweet to
8:07you, loyal to you, feminine to you,
8:09you're in a real long-term relationship.
8:10If you're not in a relationship, she's
8:13more than likely dating multiple men,
8:15and a lot of times sleeping with
8:16multiple men. This is what you have to
8:18know, and this is what you have to
8:19understand, and here's why. Let me show
8:20you how this goes. Let's say she's been
8:22dating a guy for 4 to 6 weeks. Okay?
8:25Let's say she's been seeing a guy for
8:26about 6 weeks. She's sleeping with him.
8:29And then let's say since she's not in a
8:31relationship or she's not committed to
8:33him, she's just seeing him. Okay? This
8:36is just a guy that she's seeing for the
8:38time being. Well, then what happens?
8:40I'll tell you what happens. Let's say
8:41she goes out to the club with her
8:43friends or something that Friday and
8:45let's say she meets a dude and she
8:47really likes him and that night those
8:48two end up hooking up. Well, now she
8:52starts talking to him and maybe she
8:54talks to that guy that she met at the
8:55club for a couple weeks, a couple
8:57months. Regardless, maybe she wants to
8:59see him outside of that interaction.
9:02What you have to understand is it's just
9:03not true. The amount of options that
9:06women have, listen, the more she also
9:10has other options and in the past has
9:12slept with multiple options, this is
9:13what you have to remember. to her, it's
9:15almost like part of her is desensitized
9:17to where sleeping with a new dude for
9:19her doesn't really mean a whole lot of
9:22anything.
9:24So, that's what you have to remember.
9:25When she says you're the only guy that
9:27I'm talking to or that I'm dating, your
9:30best bet is just to not trust what was
9:32said at all. You can smile. You can say,
9:35"Oh, yeah, that's awesome. Oh, that's
9:37great. Oh, that's great. Yeah, good. Oh,
9:39cool. Oh, really? Wow."
9:43But internally, you know what's up.
9:45Internally, you know it's the right
9:46decision. Okay, that's number two.
9:48Number three. Okay, when she says
9:51something like, "Loyalty is the most
9:53important trait to me." This is a lot of
9:56times just a complete lie and here's
9:57why. See, this in real life is how this
10:01happens. Okay? If she says loyalty is
10:03the most important in real life, let me
10:06give you an example. Let's say you have
10:07a dude and he sleeps with this one
10:09specific woman or they're dating or
10:11they're in a relationship. Isn't it
10:13funny how all of a sudden all of her
10:15friends naturally have interest in you?
10:17Isn't it funny how
10:19the rest of the world, okay, or the
10:22women that see you with this woman would
10:24love to have the opportunity to be with
10:26you? This is just not true. When she
10:29says loyalty is the most important,
10:31here's what you'll notice. A lot of
10:33times when a woman sees that you can
10:35attract her or you can attract other
10:37women, other women want to start
10:39sleeping with you, which lets you know
10:41that this is just not true. Women's
10:43dating preferences are often times way
10:45more superficial than you are taught to
10:47believe. You're taught to believe that
10:48it's about being caring and being loyal
10:50and being nice. And what you're going to
10:52see in the real world play out is that
10:53it's typically attractive men or it is
10:56typically really good-looking men or it
10:58is typically men who have um personality
11:00traits that um you know on paper she
11:04would say this is not favorable or this
11:06is negative but this is the guy that
11:07she's sleeping with. Okay? It's going to
11:09be the guy who's typically self-centered
11:11or selfish or only cares about what he
11:14wants. This is going to be the guy that
11:15women tend to reward. So, if she tells
11:18you loyalty is the most important, what
11:20you're going to find is that women will
11:22happily share a dude when she sees him
11:25as high status or when she sees him as
11:27attractive. So, this is what you're
11:29going to find is she'll say like loyalty
11:31is the most important, but a lot of
11:32times it's just not her needs are most
11:34important or what she feels at that
11:36time. What she claims she wants a lot of
11:38times is completely opposite to where
11:40her actions go. So, this is the next lie
11:43that you are probably um fed or you are
11:45taught to believe. And what you have to
11:47do is you have to just be smarter than
11:48this. Okay, that's number three. What
11:51she says she wants in a relationship, a
11:53lot of times her actions go the complete
11:54opposite. Number four, the fourth lie
11:57that you have probably been told your
11:59whole life is that money doesn't matter.
12:01You might hear this. Oh, you know, I
12:03don't care um you know how much money my
12:06man makes. This is what you're going to
12:07hear women say. This is a complete lie.
12:09Listen to me closely. Does money matter
12:12to get your foot in the door for that
12:13first date? No. Does money matter to
12:15even get laid? No. Can you attract and
12:18even retain women in a relationship for
12:20probably a duration of time where she's
12:22giving you a specific run rate to prove
12:24yourself to show that over time you can
12:27make money? The answer is of course.
12:30You're going to see guys all the time
12:31who don't make a lot of money, still
12:32have a great dating life. But this is
12:34what you have to understand. When she
12:36says money doesn't matter, this is a
12:37complete lie. And here's how I can prove
12:39this to you. And here's how you can
12:40start to see this. Money absolutely
12:42matters because of this one specific
12:44reason.
12:45Let a few women catch on to the fact
12:48that let's say this guy over here is
12:49rich or this guy over here has a really
12:51flourishing business or this guy over
12:53here he's a great real estate investor
12:55and then all of a sudden he's perfect
12:57husband material. She catches wind of
13:00that financial situation. She catches
13:02wind that he's going somewhere in life.
13:04She catches wind that he's rich. She
13:06hears about this through the grapevine.
13:07She hears about this from her
13:09girlfriends or whatever. All of a
13:10sudden, he's the perfect husband
13:11material. All of a sudden, it doesn't
13:13matter that, you know, maybe he has a
13:14little bit of extra weight on him or
13:16that jawline isn't where it's supposed
13:17to be. All of a sudden, oh, she'd love
13:18to have a future with him. That nice big
13:20house that he has, oh, he's a he's just
13:23a great man to live with, isn't he? This
13:25is what you're going to find. So, money
13:27absolutely matters. Okay? All of a
13:28sudden, that guy's the perfect husband.
13:30And this is what you have to understand
13:31about women. Status driven hypergamy is
13:34real. Status driven hypergamy is real.
13:38when she's looking at her future life
13:40setup and if she was going to have kids
13:42with this guy as she gets older. Is she
13:44going to have a nice life? Is she going
13:46to take her two to three vacations per
13:48year on his dime or his paycheck and
13:50still be able to sleep soundly at night
13:52knowing that that mortgage is paid? Oh
13:54yeah, that sounds so appealing, doesn't
13:55it? That sounds so appealing. Knowing
13:57that her life setup is just on point.
13:59This is what you have to understand.
14:00Status driven hypergamy is real. Women,
14:03this is what you're going to find. Women
14:05will sleep with a man for a variety of
14:07reasons. Women will have sex for a
14:09variety of reasons. She slept with this
14:11guy because he's hot. She slept with
14:13this guy because he's tall. She slept
14:15with this guy because he has good charm
14:17or good charisma. She slept with this
14:19guy because uh he has a big house. She
14:21slept with this guy because uh she's not
14:23even really attracted to him, but she
14:25knows that two of her friends slept with
14:26him. So now all of a sudden he's her
14:28type. This is women's behavior. Okay?
14:32And this is what you're going to find.
14:33The more um the more attractive you make
14:36yourself as a man and the more dating
14:39options that you have access to, the
14:41more you're going to see that all of
14:42this plays out in the real world. So
14:44that's point number four. Point number
14:46five, when she says, "I'll always love
14:49you. I'll always love you. I love you no
14:51matter what. I'll always love you." This
14:53is a complete lie. And here's why. What
14:56this actually means is I'll love you if
14:58you keep performing the way that you
15:00currently are. I'll love you if you keep
15:02stimulating this exact feeling
15:05that you're making me feel right now. I
15:08love you based on how you make me feel
15:10right now in this moment. And if the
15:12current circumstances keep proving
15:14itself and you keep proving that you can
15:16perform, you keep proving that you are
15:18who you say you are. You keep performing
15:20that you're strong and capable and
15:22competent, then I'll keep loving you.
15:24I'll always love you until I don't is
15:27what this actually means. So, what
15:28you're going to find the more women that
15:30you date or the more dating experiences
15:32that you have is what she says, okay,
15:35she reserves the opportunity to change
15:38her mind at the drop of a dime when she
15:40wants. At the drop of a dime when she
15:42wants to change her mind and she now
15:44reserves the opportunity to say, "Hey,
15:46you know, I don't feel the same way
15:48anymore, so it's over." And you're
15:49sitting there going, "Oh, but you told
15:50me that you love me forever." Doesn't
15:52matter. It's a false belief. It's a lie
15:55about love that you believed. And what
15:57you're going to find is that the more
15:59you buy into these lies, the worse your
16:02life becomes because you start to
16:04actually mold your worldview and
16:06character identity based on things that
16:07are not true. That's point number five.
16:10Point number six, okay, is if a woman
16:12tells you, "I don't care how he performs
16:14in bed." This is also a complete lie.
16:17And here's why. This is to get you to
16:19drop your guard. This right here is
16:21completely to get you to drop your
16:23guard. And what you have to understand
16:25is who gave her that best experience in
16:27bed, she always thinks about and she
16:30always remembers. The guy who brings out
16:32real raw primal desire, she never
16:35forgets. This is what you have to
16:37understand. The guy that gave her all
16:39those feelings in the bedroom that she
16:41loves so much, she never forgets that.
16:42So if she ever says, "Hey, I don't care
16:44how you perform in bed." how you perform
16:46in bed and knowing what you're doing is
16:48even a direct representation and
16:50reflection of pre-selection because it
16:52shows that you've been with other women
16:54and you know what you're doing. So this
16:56is what you have to remember. Okay, what
16:58women value even though they won't
17:01necessarily tell you this is experience.
17:03They like to see that you know what
17:05you're doing. You're experienced in
17:06life. You're experienced in the bedroom.
17:08You're experienced in business. You're
17:10experienced with how the world works.
17:12And then the second you don't have that
17:14experience, they go and gravitate
17:16towards a more competent man. All while
17:18still simultaneously telling you that
17:20all those things don't matter and it's
17:22just about being a really nice, good
17:23guy. Okay, so keep that in mind. That's
17:25lie number six. Lie number seven. Okay,
17:27I don't text message anybody else but
17:29you. Listen to me closely. If you went
17:33in to that cell phone and you saw her
17:36messages, her screenshots between her
17:38friends, her direct messages that she's
17:40receiving, you probably would not be
17:42able to sleep for an entire week. You
17:44probably would not be able to sleep for
17:45an entire week. Majority of women that
17:47you're dating, especially if they are
17:49attractive,
17:51you have to understand just how many men
17:53they are occupying or entertaining small
17:56conversation with here and there to
17:58strategically optimize hypergamy. all
18:01while convincing all 10 or all 20 of
18:03those men that they're slowly texting or
18:05talking to back and forth on different
18:06dating apps and whatnot. All while she
18:08still simultaneously is attempting to
18:10convince you that you're the only guy
18:12that she talks to and you're the only
18:13guy she's seeing and you're the only guy
18:14that she cares about.
18:17This is how women optimize hypergamy to
18:19find the best fit for them in that exact
18:21moment. And the second she feels that
18:23you're not that best fit and she could
18:25go elsewhere and that other guy has a
18:27better opportunity for her for what
18:29she's wanting in that exact moment, her
18:31emotions work in his favor and not
18:33yours. Number eight, the eighth lie that
18:35you're going to hear is this. If you
18:37hear a woman say something like, "I
18:39don't care if I'm with a man because I'm
18:42independent and I make my own money."
18:44This once again is a complete lie. And
18:46it does not matter. It doesn't matter.
18:48And here's why. It doesn't matter if she
18:50says this. Because the truth is, she
18:52still wants a man. And I can show this
18:54to you. Let's say she is rich. Let's say
18:58this woman has $10 million. Deep down,
19:00she still wishes that she was with a man
19:02who had 11. She still wishes that she
19:04was with a man who had $11 million and
19:06satisfied hypergamy and just had a
19:09little bit more status or provisioning
19:11or protection or business acumen or
19:13something in this specific category that
19:15let her emotions work in his favor. So
19:18that way she could respect him. If she
19:20has $10 million, she wants a man who has
19:2211. Listen, hypergamy is a feeling. And
19:25she wants to feel provided for and taken
19:28care of. She is going to want to feel
19:30provided for. She's going to want to
19:32feel taken care of. And the second you
19:34don't do that, even if she's rich, even
19:36if she's independent, her emotions
19:38gravitate towards somebody else because
19:40she's still longing for that
19:41masculinity. Keep that in mind. That is
19:43point number eight. Point number nine,
19:46when she says, "Hey, you can open up and
19:47you can tell me anything. You can tell
19:50me anything. You can tell me anything.
19:52You can open up. You can be vulnerable.
19:53You can tell me anything." Listen, this
19:55is so you run your big mouth and you
19:57talk your way out of any interest that
19:59she originally had in you. Any interest
20:01that she initially had in you that you
20:04built. Now, you talk your way out of
20:06that because you've revealed too much.
20:08You didn't need to say that extra
20:10sentence. You don't need to tell her how
20:12you feel in this situation. You don't
20:13need to tell her what you were thinking.
20:15The sentences that you're saying, the
20:17things that you're showing, you didn't
20:18need to say any of that. It was extra
20:21fluff. It was extra filler. You didn't
20:23need to reveal all this extra stuff. But
20:25because you believed her, now all of a
20:26sudden she questions your value. That is
20:28point number nine. And point number 10,
20:30when she tells you, "He's just a
20:32friend." Oh, don't worry. I can text
20:34message him all day. He's just a friend.
20:36Don't worry, we talk on the phone from
20:37time to time. He's just a friend.
20:41Listen to me closely. At that point,
20:44you're better off just quit talking to
20:45her completely because what you have to
20:48understand about this situation is she
20:49has the internal strength and confidence
20:51to tell you that in the first place
20:53because she thinks you're low SMV. She
20:56thinks that you have low sexual market
20:57value and she feels like you could not
21:00replace her. So, she feels like you'll
21:02put up with anything. So, she's just
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