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0:00If someone's menstrual cycle is

0:01irregular, should they be concerned?

0:03>> Yes.

0:03>> Yes. Yes. Yes. Your body is meant to

0:05work like clockwork.

0:06>> And our monthly cycle is so much more

0:09than getting ready to have a baby,

0:11especially when we're looking at

0:12exercise. And it's important to say if

0:14you don't have a period, it's very

0:17harmful to long-term health, brain

0:18health, mental health, low energy, mood,

0:20and libido. And I don't want the younger

0:23generations to have to go through the

0:24stuff that we've gone through. So, it's

0:26an important discussion that we need to

0:27have. We are joined by four leading

0:29female health experts from very

0:31different fields

0:32>> to have a crucial conversation about

0:33women's health. With over 80 years

0:35combined experience, they're sharing the

0:36truth about what every woman and every

0:38man needs to hear.

0:40>> We asked a thousand women to submit

0:41their questions ahead of this

0:42conversation. And I got so many

0:43questions around fertility,

0:45understanding hormones, PCOS, birth

0:47control pill, miscarriage.

0:48>> And I'll say this, Stephen, it's because

0:50we haven't had these discussions

0:51publicly. When we look at funding in

0:53women's health, it's horrible. like less

0:54than 1% is spent on women over 40.

0:57>> Women are living 20% more of our lives

1:00with chronic disease or mental health

1:01disorders. I mean 50% of patients with

1:03unexplained infertility have

1:05indometriosis. But yet it takes women 7

1:07to 10 years to get a diagnosis after

1:09symptoms start. But also there are

1:11things that we do that will inherently

1:12harm our fertility because we're not

1:14taught this and it predisposes you to

1:16many medical problems later in life.

1:18>> And patients will say but I have a

1:20really high pain tolerance like it's a

1:22badge. And so they gaslight themselves.

1:25And that's what we're all trying to

1:26fight here. But there are a lot of

1:27things we can do to deal with this.

1:29>> And then I want to talk about menopause.

1:31>> So in medical school, menopause just

1:33gets shoved into a tiny box. This is a

1:35scary statistic. So Oh my god,

1:38>> it's crazy.

1:38>> I just think it's insane. This is why we

1:40need to create change.

1:44This might be one of the most important

1:45conversations we ever have on the diio

1:47because women's health has long been a

1:50total mystery to so many people and so

1:52many people are struggling with all of

1:53the issues that we're going to talk

1:54about today with their menstrual cycles,

1:56PCOS, endometriosis, with diet, with

1:58understanding how to exercise as a

2:01woman. It's probably never going to be

2:02the case again that these four

2:04individuals that at the very top of

2:06women's health in their fields will be

2:09in the same place at the same time

2:11having this conversation. We structured

2:13this conversation into two parts. They

2:16cover completely different subjects, but

2:18they're fundamentally interlin. For me,

2:20the understanding that I got from this

2:22conversation at this table with these

2:23four women has fundamentally changed my

2:26life. It's going to change how I deal

2:27with my romantic partner, my sister, my

2:30team members that I work with every

2:32single day. And funnily enough, because

2:34it's a conversation I wouldn't have

2:36clicked as a man, it turned out to be

2:39the conversation that I needed the most.

2:40And I don't think I've ever said this

2:42before, but if there was ever an episode

2:44to share with a loved one, then this is

2:46that episode. Please share this episode

2:48with as many women as you can, but also

2:51with as many men as you can.

2:54[Music]

2:57Ladies, we should start with some

2:58introductions. Could you give me a brief

3:00introduction, Stacy, as it relates to

3:03your perspective and your experience and

3:04what your sort of bias is as it comes to

3:06this debate? When I say bias, I mean

3:08your your your experience and your your

3:11research that you're lending to this

3:12conversation today.

3:14>> I come from the exercise fizz and sports

3:16med background. Um, so I'm always

3:18looking through the lens of activity and

3:21nutrition and how that has a impact on

3:25our stress and our stress outcomes and

3:27how we can adapt to specific applied

3:30stressors especially when we're looking

3:32at improving health span, improving

3:34mood, improving body composition, all of

3:37those things. I've worked with and still

3:40work with uh the subset of active women.

3:43Um, I come from an endurance and a

3:44high-profile high performance sport

3:46background. So, that's where I've gotten

3:48my chops and then brought it over into

3:50the general recreational female athlete

3:53kind of perspective. Natalie,

3:56>> I'm a fertility doctor and every day I

3:58help patients with IVF get pregnant

4:00because I have an IVF clinic. But my big

4:02passion has always been natural

4:03fertility after I experienced my own

4:05pregnancy losses. trying to understand

4:08how we interact with the world and how

4:10that changes our hormones and help women

4:12understand what their hormones are, what

4:14natural fertility is, what happens as we

4:17age to our bodies, our eggs and our

4:19hormones, and let them be better

4:21stewards of their own fertility and

4:23their own health decisions.

4:25>> Mary,

4:26>> I have a background in general OBGYn, so

4:29I'm considered to be a women's health

4:31specialist. And it wasn't until I kind

4:33of went through my own menopause that I

4:36realized that there was significant gap

4:38in my training. You know, hearing

4:41watching Dr. Sims on um I think your

4:44podcast talking about how women are not

4:46little men really struck such a chord

4:49with me and made me realize I was

4:50siloing women's health to the

4:52reproductive organs, the breast, the

4:54uterus, the ovaries, the vagina and that

4:58if I really wanted to make a difference

5:00in a woman's whole health life, this

5:01last 30 years, 30, 40 years of her life,

5:04I needed to refocus

5:06what we were thinking about women's

5:08health for the long term. So I come from

5:11a background in academics. I was a

5:13professor for 20 years. I was a

5:15residency program director. Stepped away

5:17from that so I could focus on the lack

5:19of my own education and knowledge in

5:21menopause care. And now I want to step

5:23back into the academic world to bring

5:24everything I've learned and change the

5:26way we educate our providers. Vonda

We Need To Talk About Women's Health

5:30>> I am a orthopedic sports surgeon by

5:33training and I sit at the unique

5:34juxtaposition of orthopedics and

5:36performance having taken care of elite

5:39athletes most of my life aging and

5:41longevity most of my academic research I

5:44too as an academic is on subjects of

5:47muscularkeeletal aging but many years

5:49ago added a third circle of the whole

5:52health of a woman and so sitting in this

5:54place it fits directly into the mantra

5:57of my career which has always been I am

5:59going to change the way we age in this

6:01country and the world because the tool

6:04that I bring to the table is the fact

6:07that if I save your mobility I'm going

6:09to save you from the ravages of chronic

6:11disease and so the work that I do is not

6:15only educational it's uh research and

6:18it's now education of the world about

6:21these subjects

6:22>> explain this to me like I'm an idiot

6:24ladies why do we need to have a

6:26conversation about women's health and

6:27not just health broadly.

6:29>> I think the statistic that people don't

6:31realize on a day-to-day basis is that

6:33women are 51% of the population. We're

6:36actually not a minority. We're the

6:38majority and yet often our health, our

6:41healthc care access, the research treats

6:44us as if we're a niche product,

6:47>> but we are the majority product.

6:51We have to have this conversation

6:53because data show that

6:56of the $450 billion dollars spent on

7:00research in this country alone, less

7:01than 1% is spent on women over 40.

7:05>> And yet we are nearly 90 million people.

7:09And we make 80% of all the health care

7:11decisions in this country for ourselves

7:14and everyone we touch. And so even

7:17though when you look at the the

7:19long-term data, women are winning the

7:21longevity race here. We're living an

7:24average of 6 years longer than men. But

7:26as all of us talk about all the time,

7:29women suffer longer.

7:30>> Yeah.

7:31>> We're living 20% more of our lives

7:33versus our male counterparts in poor

7:35health with chronic disease or mental

7:38health disorders. And so McKenzie looked

7:40at the data and it was for the Gates

7:42Foundation and what they found was yes,

7:45we live longer. We've all known that.

7:47However, we have, you know, twice as

7:50high of mental health disorders. We're

7:53two times as more likely to end up in a

7:54nursing home. We are much more likely to

7:57lose our long-term independence from

7:59frailty or dementia, much more than our

8:01age matched male counterparts. And

8:03that's I think what we're all trying to

8:04fight here. And diseases that impact

8:07women specifically and only things like

8:09PCOS, endometriosis are extensively

8:13underfunded and not researched. It takes

8:15women 7 to 10 years to get a diagnosis

8:17of endometriosis after symptoms start.

8:20And we know this is a disease that

8:22impacts your entire body in addition to

8:25your fertility. But women are dismissed.

8:27They're not taken seriously. and there's

8:30not research guiding what we can do in a

8:33lot of these situations to try to help

8:35them the best.

8:36>> Why isn't the research there? Why why

8:38don't they research if women are the

8:41majority of the population? Why is all

8:43the funding going to researching men?

8:45>> You have to think about who was in the

8:46room when medicine and science first

8:48started. So if you think about back when

8:51the industrial revolution and the

8:53modernization of what we know is

8:55medicine, women were pushed out because

8:57they were believed to have smaller

8:59brains. thanks to Darwin and not thought

9:02to have a seat at the table. So when

9:04you're thinking about designing studies,

9:06it was pretty much designed on the male

9:08physiology on the male body and then

9:10women were an afterthought. So there

9:12wasn't any real in-depth look of well

9:15women are different from birth or in

9:17utero XX is different from XY. So all

9:21the research has just been generalized

9:23to women. Even things like aspirin for

9:25heart attacks and thinning blood

9:28>> inhibitors. Yeah, all of this all of

9:30this was done on men and then just

9:32generalized to women and now that we're

9:34having this global conversation on

9:36women's health, people are like, well,

9:38where is the information specific for

9:40women? And there's just a very small

9:42subset. So, we're looking and trying to

9:44expand that, but we have a lot of

9:46catching up to do. And that's primarily

9:49not only because of what you said, but

9:51the shocking statistic is that not until

9:531993

9:55were women required to be represented in

9:58studies. 1993,

10:00I mean, we were all far into our our

10:03lives in research by then.

10:05>> Isn't that a shocking?

10:06>> That's crazy.

10:07>> And there were still loopholes where

10:08people were finding ways to exclude

10:10women and then

10:11>> right, we're still not at 50%. No,

10:14>> we're harder to study. You have

10:15menstrual cycle, hormonal fluctuations,

10:18even menopause, pre even the animal

10:20models.

10:21>> It's not that we're harder to study. It

10:22just makes it presumed harder to study.

10:24There's more variables at play,

10:25>> right? It's more of a complexity to the

10:29research, but it's not more difficult.

10:31And this is where I bring it in. It's

10:32like if a woman had a seat at the table

10:33when all the study designs were started,

10:36it wouldn't be a question. It would just

10:38have been assimilated in. because we've

10:40been so drawn into we have a crossover,

10:43here's one week crossover, next week

10:45because of male physiology. When you add

10:47women's hormone fluctuations and people

10:49like, "Oh, it's too complex."

10:50>> Right? But it's not.

The Female Body Is Adapted for Endurance Exercise

10:51>> What is it that makes, and this is a

10:53super dumb question, but an important

10:54one. What is it that makes men and women

10:56different from a physiological

10:57standpoint? Because to understand why

11:00research would need to be done

11:01separately, we need to understand the

11:03differences.

11:04>> Yeah. Well, I mean, we can look from a

11:06morphological standpoint where men have

11:10more of our fast twitch fibers. Women

11:12are born with more endurance fibers,

11:14>> which is muscle, right?

11:15>> Uh when we're talking about muscle.

11:16Yeah. So, uh men have more of the

11:19ability to do power and and really fast

11:23energetic type activities or women are

11:25more attuned to endurance type

11:27activities. And this affects metabolism.

11:29It affects blood glucose homeostasis.

11:32And when we're looking at bone and bone

11:34density, men have stronger bones. Uh

11:37they can acquire more load. They hold on

11:39to it better than women do. We see

11:42smaller lungs, smaller heart, less

11:44hemoglobin in women than men. And that's

11:46an offshoot of what testosterone does.

11:49So there are just basic physiological

11:51differences between XX and XY that

11:55people don't really assimilate and

11:57understand. And the way I like to say it

11:59is you go into a shop and you have a

12:01men's section and a women's section and

12:02there are touch points on the external

12:05that really identify gender andor sex.

12:08But when you look intrinsically no one

12:10is identifying those touch points until

12:11now. Also when we look at how we disease

Why Women's Heart Attacks Are Considered 'Atypical'

12:15so in cardiovascular disease is is

12:17aththeroscerotic disease is the best

12:19example. Men tend to have their

12:22blockages. So aththeroscerotic disease

12:24is basically the plaques that build up

12:25in the coronary arteries around the

12:27heart. Men tend to develop their plaques

12:30very early right as those arteries exit

12:32the aorta and dive into the heart

12:33muscle. So we get what we call the

12:35widowmaker. Okay? It's called that for a

12:37reason because men die and they make a

12:39widow. And so that's the left anterior

12:41descending artery. Women by and large

12:44tend to not have these larger artery

12:47blockages, but their blockages are

12:48diffuse and microvascular deeper into

12:51the heart muscle, which is why we

12:53present with a heart attack much

12:55differently than a man does. And those

12:58we're not teaching our, you know, we're

12:59not educating our clinicians as to these

13:02differences. Women are considered to

13:03have atypical chest pain. Dr. Wright,

13:0651% of the population is female. Why are

13:08why is my heart attack atypical

13:10>> and a man's typical? But this happens

13:13not only at the organ level. It makes

13:16sense that if we have a population with

13:18XX chromosomes, a population with XY

13:21genetically and the way we express those

13:24genes are differently. But I think we

13:27miss the fact that down to a cellular

13:29level, every cell from an XX is

13:32expresses these tissue changes, tissue

13:36manifestations differently than an XY.

13:39Our lab used to study, we called them

13:41muscle derived stem cells so 20 years

13:43ago. Now they're called satellite cells.

13:45But when we harvested them and asked

13:47them to behave and in different

13:50environments,

13:51satellite cells from XX people and XX

13:55animals, women, females were better

13:59under the same circumstances

14:01experimentally

14:03at making cartilage and muscle. XY male

14:08were better under the same circumstances

14:10in making bone. So down to a cellular

14:14level, we express our genes differently.

14:16It should be no mystery to us or anybody

14:19else that there are differences. And yet

14:22there is the propensity just to lump us

14:24all in the same basket and almost say I

14:28almost sometimes feel as pjorative to

14:30say, oh the women are different. Of

14:32course they're different. Yeah,

14:34>> we're genetically different

14:35>> down to every cell in our body.

14:36>> Every cell. So, it should be no surprise

14:39to anybody, but it it seems to be a

14:40surprise.

14:41>> Seems to be a surprise all the time.

14:43Yeah. I get pushed back all the time.

14:44There's no difference. Yes, there is.

14:46There is. And it's not just bad. It's

14:49just is.

14:50>> Yeah. There's Yeah.

The Research Gap on Women's Health

14:51>> Because at one point that was quite a

14:52controversial thing to say, wasn't it?

14:54To point at the differences between men

14:55and women.

14:56>> Mhm. Outside of, you know, our different

14:58organs. Yeah. You know.

15:00>> Yeah. And because of this research gap

15:02and the bias in medicine, um, women have

15:05been misunderstood by their male

15:07counterparts in a number of ways. I

15:08remember I think it was you, Mary, that

15:09was telling me about this whiny women

15:11thing that you were exposed to.

15:13>> When I was in training and and you all

15:15may have similar stories and I just

15:17heard a new one the other day, my first

15:20patient in gynecology clinic, I'm an

15:21intern. I'm very excited. You know, we

15:23have our stacks of charts. That's how

15:24old I am. We had paper charts. I pick up

15:26the chart, open it up. It's a

15:2840-year-old woman with multiple vague

15:30complaints. She's gained some weight.

15:32She's a little bit depressed. Her libido

15:34is off. Her blood pressure is a little

15:36bit up. Her cholesterol is starting to

15:38rise. And she's seen family medicine.

15:39Like we're the third or fourth doctor at

15:41this point. And so my upper level who

15:43happened to be male this, you know, it

15:45could have been anyone. Walks down the

15:47hall in his cowboy boots cuz Texas. And

15:49um and he's like, "What you got?" And I

15:51said, "Well, I have Miss Smith,

15:53whomever, you know, she's a 40-year-old

15:54woman with." And I list the complaints.

15:56And he goes, "Did you check her thyroid?

15:57Family medicine did. Did you check this,

15:59you know, a few simple labs?" And he

16:01goes, "Hm,

16:03you got a WW."

16:05And I said, "What's I don't know this,

16:08you know." And he said, "Uh, don't write

16:10this in the chart, but we call that a

16:12whiny woman around here."

16:14>> Oh my gosh.

16:15>> And I said, "Okay." He said, "Listen,

16:18women just tend to go through this at

16:20this age, and we're not really going to

16:23be able to help her. pat her on the

16:25knee, tell her to have some wine, go on

16:27date night, you know, she'll get better,

16:29but we're not going to be able to help

16:30her. And that stayed with me. Now, I

16:33was, you know, a good girl. I did what I

16:35was told. You know, it took me 20 years

16:37of internalization to realize this, you

16:40know, I don't want to blame him. He's

16:42not a bad guy. This was taught to him.

16:44But this kind of thinking, I mean, I saw

16:47this in the ER. I saw this in the O. I

16:49saw this in every clinic. And so I've

16:51asked other clinicians around the

16:52country and I've heard whiny gyne status

16:55Hispanicus total TBD total body delore

16:58like in different regional areas there

17:00was a name for this kind of vague

17:03complaints from this middle-aged woman

17:05and we couldn't quite put our finger on

17:07it and I realized this was systemic bias

17:10built into the system where women and

17:12there's historical you know precedent

17:14for this the wandering uterus the

17:16hysteria you know these were real

17:18medical terms just until like not even a

17:21generation ago.

17:22>> Yeah. They used to put women into

17:24asylums.

17:24>> Yeah.

17:25>> Because of hysteria and it was hot

17:28flashes, all the things that that are

17:29now known with permenopause. They used

17:31to think it was some kind of insanity

17:34and put women into insane asylums to

17:36lock them down.

17:38>> But this is pervasive. Not just an OB.

17:40You're not the only guilty. It's every

17:42medical subsp specialty has some

17:47culture

17:48of for lack of better words blowing

17:50women off it right. We're not having the

17:54curiosity that defines medicine. We are

17:57supposed to be curious people. But yet

17:59when it comes to this, why do we stop at

18:03just seems to be something that happens

18:04to middle-aged women, right? it that

18:06that's written in the orthopedic

18:08literature seems to happen to

18:10middle-aged. Where's the curiosity?

18:13>> Where was it?

18:14>> Yeah. Well, in X-fist text, you always

18:16had the representative of him or they

18:18and the vuvius man and all the angles of

18:22the male body, but there was never

18:23representation of women. The only time

18:26you heard about a female athlete was all

18:28the pathophysiology. You know, the iron

18:30deficiency, the female athlete triad,

18:32which we now call um relative energy

18:35deficiency in sport.

18:36>> And when you're looking at the

18:38historical idea of sport, the only way

18:40women were actually included and

18:43accepted is when they were amenic

18:45because then they were quote more like

18:46men and then there wasn't a problem with

18:49training them and then they could work

18:50as hard. But we know that that's not

18:53appropriate. That's a sign of of illness

18:55and overtraining under recovery. So, it

18:58is pervasive everywhere. It's not just

19:00the medical, but it goes into when you

19:02think about what it means to be

19:03successful in sport. It's the power.

19:05It's the aggression. It's the

19:07unfallibility of being human. And a

19:09woman having a menstrual cycle was

19:11deemed a fallibility. So, they're trying

19:13to push it aside. This is so systemic

Why Women Downplay and Gaslight Themselves About Pain

19:15though that women downplay their own

19:18complaints. They gaslight themselves. It

19:21takes them a long time to seek care

19:23because they're afraid of the response.

19:26They are not always honest with what's

19:28going on in their body. I'll say, "Do

19:29you have pain?" "Oh, no more than

19:31regular." They downplay everything. You

19:33have to really ask. And it's almost the

19:36society, I don't want to be viewed as

19:38this way. I don't want to be not taken

19:41seriously. And it causes them an to have

19:44an even harder time to get to a

19:46diagnosis because they don't feel

19:47comfortable sharing some of these

19:49symptoms or they've downplayed them in

19:50their life so much. This is why they

19:52have to get so sick to often present to

19:55even try to get care. And they come to

19:58me almost to a woman after I'm talking

20:01about whatever muscularkeeletal thing

20:04they'll say even before they want to

20:06describe it to me. They'll say, "But you

20:09know, I have a really high pain

20:11tolerance." Yes. Mhm.

20:12>> Like it's a badge because we've been

20:14conditioned to not come for any pain.

20:17But I've suffered. I've tried. That's

20:19why your arm doesn't move anymore. I've

20:21got such a high pain tolerance, but I

20:23couldn't take it anymore. I didn't want

20:25to come. And I feel like why does it

20:28have to be that way?

20:30>> So, you train treating both males and

20:32females. I I was locked in a room with

20:34women for 25 years, you know, and so

20:37it's so fascinating to me to hear how

20:41men and women come in with the same

20:43complaint in your clinic, in your

20:44fellowship, all those years you spent

20:46training, and yet you were taught to

20:49treat them differently, you know, and

20:50the urologists say the same thing, you

20:52know, who

20:52>> I don't think I was aware of it.

20:54>> Yeah.

20:54>> There was just that's

20:57so much bias. Yeah.

20:59>> I didn't realize. I didn't either

21:00>> because like you, until I went through

21:02my own pmenopause,

21:05I might not have paid it attention to

21:07it.

21:08>> Yeah,

21:08>> I may have been less sensitive.

21:11>> I was a terrible menopause.

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21:30the trajectory it's on. So, please do

21:31double check if you've subscribed and uh

21:33thank you so much because it's strange

21:35where you are you're part of our history

21:37and you're on this journey with us and I

21:39appreciate you for that. So, yeah, thank

21:40you. Is that in part because we know

21:42very little about hormones as well. When

21:44I was speaking to our audience, we asked

21:46a thousand women to submit their

21:47questions ahead of this conversation.

21:48And one of the most asked questions, all

21:52the most asked questions sort of related

Why Don’t We Understand Hormones?

21:54to understanding hormones. I think the

21:57conversation around hormones is quite a

21:59new one in society and I actually think

22:01it's been driven a lot by a heightened

22:03understanding of menopause generally. I

22:05think the the conversation of hormones

22:07around outside of fertility and the

22:11general menstrual cycle. I can right now

22:12draw from memory the exactly what's

22:15going to happen in a normal menstrual

22:16cycle. We were taught that, you know,

22:19very very well. But when I saw maybe 3

22:22years ago an academic paper that showed

22:25all of the locations of the G-coupled

22:28estrogen receptors in the human body,

22:30>> what's that?

22:30>> I lost my mind. So basically, where are

22:33the estrogen receptors in the human

22:34body? And they're everywhere. The brain,

22:37the bones, the muscle, the gut, you

22:39know, the the every almost nothing. The

22:42the the endothelial, the lining of the

22:45individual blood vessels around our

22:46heart, you know, it's really radical to

22:49me to think about how all these sex

22:52hormones are the progesterone, estrogen,

22:54testosterone, hormones are everywhere.

22:57>> What is a hormone?

22:58>> They're not actually sex hormones.

22:59hormones are your body's communication

23:01system, right? So, it is really how your

23:03body is sending out messengers to

23:05communicate. So, a hormone is dictating

23:07an action and I think there's going to

23:09be a lot of great discussion. But one

23:11thing that I think is very important to

23:13your point, Stephen, is even things that

23:16we were readily taught about the

23:17menstrual cycle and estrogen,

23:19progesterone, testosterone, the public

23:21is now becoming aware of because we've

23:22not done a good job at public education

23:24that this is what's really happening in

23:26your body. this is what your menstrual

23:28cycle is. This is what happens when you

23:30go through menopause. This is what

23:32happens when you're trying to train for

23:34a sport. We haven't had these

23:36discussions publicly that we are seeing.

23:39And I think that is highlighting

23:41interest in all of this even if some of

23:43us were taught some of this. But when it

23:46comes to hormones there, everybody wants

23:49really easy fast. Draw my level. Tell me

23:51what to do. Give me a medicine. Fix it.

23:54And I think the most important thing to

23:55understand is that by definition, your

23:58hormones are dynamic. Your body is

24:01responding to the hormonal signal it

24:03sees and determining what next signal to

24:06send out. So constant fluctuation

24:09throughout the day in response to

24:11multiple stimuli. And that's how it's

24:13supposed to be. If we didn't do that,

24:15we'd all be dead.

24:16>> It's a symphony. But that makes it

24:17really hard for somebody to understand

24:19on the other end who's not in medicine

24:20who says, "Well, is it my hormones?"

24:24Because there's no one test that's going

24:25to give you one answer. You have to

24:27really interpret it in context of the

24:29full body. And it makes it really hard

24:31for practitioners who do not understand

24:33the hormones as well. And we see a lot

24:35of mismanagement of hormonal scenarios

24:37and situations right now that are

24:39actually detrimental to patients. So,

24:41I'm glad you're having this discussion

24:43because that's not a stupid question.

24:45What is a hormone? Many people don't

24:47really understand that.

24:48>> What is the I really want to make sure

24:50that if someone for both the men that

24:52probably have less understanding but

24:53also from our conversations I've

24:54realized and the feedback I've gotten a

24:56lot of women don't understand their own

24:58hormones and their own menstrual cycles.

25:00What is the most basic level that we

25:02have to start at to give people an

25:03understanding that we can then build on

25:06of what's going on here?

25:07>> I was say I want to get rid of this

25:09graph.

25:10>> Okay. So that leave it out. Leave it

25:13out. But it it shows just a textbook of

25:17what a menstrual cycle is is, but it

25:19doesn't show the daily perturbations of

25:22estrogen and the luteinizing hormone

25:24pulses and all the things that go as

25:26Natalie is saying to make it to make it

25:29work.

25:30>> You see two organs there, the ovary and

25:31the endometrial lining. You're not

25:33seeing the muscle, the bone, the brain.

25:36All of those organs are affected by

25:38these normal monthly fluctuations.

25:40>> Yeah. And the conversation that we're

25:41having now in research methodology is

25:45the fact that there is no real

25:47definition of normal cuz every woman's

25:49cycle is variable. So when we look at

25:52this, everyone thinks that this is

25:53normal but we don't actually know if

25:56that is for the fact that a woman's

25:59variation

26:00this can change cycle to cycle. This can

26:03change cycle to cycle. Sometimes we have

26:05an ovulatory cycles. So until a woman

26:08can identify what her own normal is, we

26:10can't rely on this graph to actually

26:12explain to them.

26:13>> How does a woman know what their normal

26:15is versus, you know, because a lot of

26:17women are on birth control pills since a

26:19very young age. So I think my partner

26:20Melanie, she's she was on birth control

26:22for about a decade. So she like didn't

26:24have her cycle and then it came back and

What a Normal Period Should Be Like

26:26it was every I don't know 60 90 days.

26:28>> Mhm.

26:29>> And then she changed her diet a little

26:30bit and it kind of went down to 30 days

26:32over time. But I don't think she knew

26:34what normal was. Is there such thing as

26:36normal?

26:37>> I mean there is what should be normal

26:38for you. So you should have a regular

26:41predictable period which means that you

26:43are having a menstrual bleed at a

26:45predictable interval. It can range

26:46person to person but for you really it

26:49should be within a couple days

26:50monthtomonth. I always tell patients I

26:52should be able to give you a calendar.

26:53You should be able to take your finger

26:54pick when your next period is coming and

26:56within a few days be accurate. Now

27:00usually that range is somewhere between

27:0225 and 35 days for the average person.

27:04when it starts to get shorter or longer,

27:06it can be a warning sign that something

27:08is going on. When it comes to the

27:11menstrual cycle, because I think we're

27:12going to talk about these hormones

27:14really well, and I talk about this every

27:16day, let's give a one minute

27:18explanation. If we think about to

27:20Stacy's point from the brain, the brain

27:22is sending out pulses of hormones, but

27:24FSH drives egg growth. It's called

27:26follicle stimulating hormone, and each

27:28egg is inside a follicle. So, you have a

27:30group of follicles inside the ovary. FSH

27:32comes from the brain, grabs one of them

27:34and gets it to grow and it makes

27:36estrogen and this estrogen from the

27:38ovary as the egg is growing is called

27:40estradiol and it's the primary type of

27:42estrogen in your body. So it is rising

27:45and when it gets to a peak level and the

27:47body is so fascinating because it's 200

27:49pogs for 50 hours is a very exact

27:52amount. Then the brain says we must have

27:54a mature egg and it kicks out a surge of

27:57luteinizing hormone or LH and that is

28:00going to allow the follicle to rupture

28:02the egg to be released and the follicle

28:04to reform and then become a corpus

28:06ludium and then the brain's going to

28:08send out pulses of LH giving you pulses

28:11of progesterone. So Stacy's point

28:13>> that's an average and those numbers on

28:15the little graph are nowhere near

28:16accurate because progesterone goes up

28:18and down the entire second half of the

28:20cycle known as the ludial phase. What's

28:22progesterone?

28:23>> Progesterone is also made from the

28:24ovary. So, the two main hormones when it

28:26comes to a premenopausal female are

28:29going to be estrogen and progesterone.

28:31Progesterone is the progesterational

28:33hormone or progreg. It is going to

What Is Progesterone?

28:36change the endometrial lining and it is

28:38essential to get pregnant. It opens and

28:40closes the implantation window within

28:42the uterus and it completely changes the

28:45physiology of your body. And we're going

28:47to talk a lot that is why in the ludal

28:48phase your body works differently when

28:51you have progesterone

28:52>> and the lutial phases

28:54>> after ovulation when you have a corpus

28:55ludium. So when LH is coming from the

28:58brain you have a corpus ludium it makes

29:00progesterone. This is the second half of

29:02the cycle known as the ludal phase. The

29:04first half when you have estrogen only

29:06is the follicular phase. So you have an

29:08estrogen dominant phase and then you

29:10have a phase where you have both

29:11estrogen and progesterone. And your body

29:13is made Yes. So we have our estrogen

29:16dominant phase, the follicular phase,

29:18and then we have we have both estrogen

29:19and progesterone here in the ludial

29:21phase. And your body is made to function

29:23differently in these because in the

29:24progesterone side, it's preparing you

29:27for a pregnancy. It thinks every month

29:28you might get pregnant and it starts to

29:30change how your body's going to work on

29:33a cellular level. But if you don't get

29:35pregnant, that progesterone level is

29:36going to drop and the cycle starts back

29:38over.

29:39>> And from um like a exercise and sports

29:42>> Yeah. point of view. When we get into

29:44this, the progesterone's job is to build

29:46this lush endometrial lining and it

29:50creates a lot of glycogen storage. So,

29:52we often hear about glycogen in the

29:54muscle and that's what we're using for

29:55fuel. It has a way of shuttling a lot of

29:59the carbohydrate away and storing it

30:01into the endometrial lining, which is

30:03why we see differences in intensity and

30:06the way that a woman can respond to

30:08exercise if she has ovulated. So is this

30:11in preparation of a potential baby?

30:14>> Yeah, correct. Yeah. In the second half

30:15of the cycle, your core body temperature

30:18increases, your resting heart rate is

30:20higher, your heart rate variability is

30:22lower, you have increase in fatigue, you

30:25have an increased appetite, your body is

30:27shifting function in case an embryo

30:29comes in so that it can start to divert

30:31energy and change what it is doing right

30:34down to your immune system changes.

30:35>> And that's roughly from day 14 roughly.

30:38>> Roughly. Yeah. Yeah. At ovulation, it's

30:40about 3 days after whatever day. If

30:41you'd like to be specific, it's about 3

30:43days after ovulation until when you get

30:45your next period.

30:46>> Yeah.

30:46>> You all talk about how our menstrual

30:49cycles can be a broader sign of whole

30:51body health.

30:52>> Mhm.

30:53>> And um so should if someone's menstrual

30:55cycle is irregular, should they be

30:57concerned?

30:57>> Yes.

30:58>> Yes.

30:59>> I thought you were going to say no.

31:02>> How irregular? What's like if I'm not

31:04getting my menstrual cycle?

31:05>> Absolutely not good. You should go see a

31:07doctor. Yeah, if your cycle is

31:09irregular, if the calendar trick, you're

31:11putting your finger and it's nowhere

31:13near when your cycle's coming. Or I have

31:15women who say, "Oh, there's no way I

31:16could predict it." Or, "I know it will

31:18come, but it'll come every 4 to 6

31:20weeks." Your body's meant to work like

31:23clockwork when it comes to your your

31:25hormones and your menstrual cycle. And

31:27yes, you can always have one abnormal

31:28month, always. But when you consistently

31:31are having irregularity, that is a sign

31:34that something else is going on. It's

31:35one of the biggest red flags that we

31:37have for early hormonal health or

31:39systemic problems. But to your earlier

31:41point, Stephen, we have a generation of

31:43women on contraceptive options who are

31:45not tracking their cycles. We have women

31:47who are not taught how to track their

31:48cycles. They don't know when ovulation

31:50occurs. They don't know how long their

31:52ludal phase is. If I say the first sign

31:55of ovulatory dysfunction or having a

31:57problem with your cycle is a short ludal

31:59phase, well, you only know that if

32:02you're tracking when ovulation occurs

32:03because otherwise you could still have a

32:05regular cycle, but you don't know that

32:08something's abnormal.

32:09>> And that lut your phase again is the

32:10last the last half of your your cycle.

32:13>> Exactly. But I think that the

32:15conversation that's happening now is so

32:18not just at this table but in society

32:20that our monthly cycle is so much more

32:24than getting ready to have a baby

32:26because I think that none of us knew

32:28this.

32:29>> No.

32:30>> Because at 17 I wasn't that interested

32:33in having a baby. So it didn't occur to

32:34me that I should care.

32:36>> Right.

32:36>> Right. And it's the only time if you're

32:40thinking about it in that way that

32:41you're worried about your period is if

32:43you don't have one and pregnancy, right?

32:46And so if we're shifting the

32:48conversation to this is physiology, this

32:52is has to do with every part of female

32:54physiology,

32:56maybe it will be easier for people to

32:59know,

33:00right?

33:01>> Yeah. I often put it with u my athletes

33:04that it's a marker of health that if you

33:05are able to take on the load of

33:07training, the load of travel and

33:09maintain your normal menstrual cycle,

33:12then you are robust enough to be able to

33:15progress. But if there becomes a misstep

33:18in your menstrual cycle, then we need to

33:20look at all the stressors that are and

33:22the allosic load and pull you back and

33:25see what do we need to address? Do you

33:27need to eat more? Do you need to recover

33:28more? what are the things that are

33:30missing to bring you back to normal?

33:32>> I was diagnosed with polycystic ovarian

33:34syndrome in medical school and so like

33:37every medical student of course it was

33:38like gloom and doom and I you know

33:40thought I had the most extreme case ever

33:42known to mankind. It was really just

33:44garden variety PCOS and I had very

The Underlying Cause of PCOS

33:47serious boyfriend quickly engaged you

33:49know looking forward to having a family

33:50with him starting a family with him and

33:53the terror around my infertility and

33:56what the impact was. What was never

33:58taught to me and what I didn't

34:00understand until much later was the

34:02metabolic impact. Like PCOS is a

34:05symptom. There's nothing wrong with my

34:06ovaries. They're just responding to this

34:08high insulin level I was born with. And

34:11no one really sat me down and talked to

34:13me about my first research project was

34:15women with irregular periods and the

34:16risk of developing gestational diabetes

34:18and and you know I didn't even know what

34:20insulin resistance was at the time. And

34:24now we're coming to understand that, you

34:26know, when these young women are coming,

34:28you know, I only do menopause now, but

34:30before I left that practice, you know,

34:32when women were coming with the regular

34:34cycles and we were making these

34:35diagnosis, immediately I was launching

34:36into the discussion about her metabolic

34:38health long term and what this, you

34:41know, it's a gift to know this. So now

34:43we can start making interventions,

34:44nutrition, diet, exercise to give you a

34:49better system to deal with this thing

34:50that you were born with and her

34:52fertility. Of course,

34:53>> a huge amount of women have PCOS and I

34:55think that's one of the leading one of

34:56the leading one of the top causes of

34:58having irregular menstrual cycles. You

35:01you mentioned insulin resistance and

35:04metabolic dysfunction there. And you

35:05said something like diabet gestational

35:08diabetes,

35:08>> diabetes in pregnancy. So someone who

35:10was non-diabetic before pregnancy and

35:14then develops diabetes. So her blood

Developing Diabetes During Pregnancy

35:16sugars have now reached a threshold

35:18where they are higher than normal and

35:20can cause you know problems for her

35:22pregnancy and herself long term. And up

35:25to 50% of those patients de who develop

35:27diabetes in pregnancy will develop type

35:312 diabetes within 10 to 15 years after

35:33that gestation after being pregnant. And

35:36so what we know now is like we have

35:38warning signs of this well before

35:40pregnancy where we can set these women

35:42up for success. Before it's just we wait

35:44till we make the diagnosis, everybody

35:46gets their glucose test and off you go.

35:48But now with this PCOS diagnosis, we are

35:52monitoring earlier. We're starting her

35:53on the nutrition. You know, we're

35:55treating her like a diabetic with

35:56nutrition and exercise recommendations

35:59rather than waiting till she she reaches

36:01the criteria. Stephen, having

36:03infertility, this is a scary statistic.

36:05It predisposes you to many medical

36:09problems later in life, including an 80%

36:12higher chance of having a heart attack,

36:1475% higher chance having metabolic

36:16syndrome, higher risk of cancer, and

36:17early death. Why infertility? Well, it's

36:20not exactly that infertility is causing

36:22this, but it's that for many women,

36:24we'll use Dr. Haver's example, you're

36:27healthy until you get this diagnosis.

36:29It's one of the first warning signs your

36:31body's giving you that there might be

36:33inflammation and insulin resistance or

36:35something impacting your hormones, your

36:38menstrual cycle, your ability to

36:39conceive that if it is not corrected now

36:43is setting you up for many problems down

36:45the road. PCOS is a example of this

36:48because in PCOS you have a lot of eggs

36:51inside the ovary. It's actually

36:53something that genetically runs in

36:56families. likely there's something that

36:58happens when you're a baby inside your

36:59mom that predisposes your ovary to not

37:02lose as many eggs as it should and it

37:04changes how they respond to insulin. So

37:06what happens is you end up having more

37:09eggs on an average. Your brain doesn't

37:12know this and sends out the average

37:13signals but that gets diluted amongst

37:16all the eggs and so you're not getting

37:18into these ovulatory stages of Stacy's

37:20favorite graph here. Well, what happens

37:22from there is that you're actually in a

37:24relatively lower in estrogen phase than

37:26you should be. You never see the

37:28progesterone. And what happens is you

37:30start to completely shift. The ovary

37:32itself actually becomes insulin

37:34resistant. And what this means is that

37:37throughout your entire body, you start

37:40to develop high glucose, which is the

37:42blood, right? That's your blood sugar.

37:44Your blood sugar is the fuel for all

37:46your cells. All your cells need glucose.

37:48Well, insulin is the hormone that helps

37:50that glucose go from the bloodstream

37:51into your cells. Well, in insulin

37:53resistance, when your body sees high

37:55glucose all the time, it starts to send

37:57out more insulin saying, "Hey, we need

37:59to get this into cells, but the cells

38:01start to, oh, I'm used to insulin being

38:03here, so I'm not going to respond." It's

38:06going to take a higher insulin signal to

38:08get the cell to open up the door and let

38:10glucose comes in. This becomes very

38:13problematic especially in we'll say PCOS

38:16because that insulin is very

38:17inflammatory causes you to get extra fat

38:20stored in different places. It also just

38:23completely changes how your body your

38:25metabolic health in general but also

38:27your hormonal health and in your brain

38:29because your brain sees this and says

38:30why are we keeping glucose in our in our

38:32bloodstream is what's going on heightens

38:35everything. And so this resistance to

38:37insulin actually shifts how your brain's

38:40going to respond to hormones, therefore

38:42the hormones it's sending out. And it's

38:43a self-perpetuating cycle. And a lot of

38:47when we talk about lifestyle mechanisms

38:49to improve hormonal health, which I know

38:51that we all will, a lot of that is

38:53targeting improving insulin resistance

38:56and combating inflammation because those

38:59two players, a lot of it is controlled

39:01by the world around us and what we do to

39:04some degree. And especially if you have

39:05an underlying diagnosis like PCOS,

39:08>> endometriosis, which is a chronic

39:10inflammatory disease, autoimmune

39:12disease, you're at even higher risk. I

39:14always say your scale is already tipped

39:16in a way that's going to be really hard

39:18for you. You have to make active steps

39:20to fight what is happening inside your

39:22body.

39:23>> We'll talk about some of the ways one

39:25can reverse their PCOS, if that's even a

39:27possibility. Um, but again on the causal

39:30factors, is it something So my

39:32girlfriend's got PCOS. She's been very

39:34public about that. Um, is it something

What Causes PCOS and How to Reduce It

39:36she did? Is it something she ate? Is it

39:39>> She was Is this the way she was born?

39:41So, she was born with a predisposition

39:43of having too many eggs. You lose most

39:45of the eggs inside your body when you're

39:46a baby inside your mother's womb. You

39:48lose the next biggest set before you

39:50ever have your first period. Now, if you

39:53don't lose them for some reason, you're

39:55born with more and it interferes with

39:57how your hormones are supposed to

39:58communicate leading to this metabolic

40:01issue and this insulin resistance. She

40:04did nothing to cause this. Nobody with

40:05PCOS caused it. However, what you said

40:07earlier, oh, she changed how she ate and

40:09her cycles got more regular.

40:12>> You can influence the severity of the

40:15symptoms that you experience with it. So

40:17even if you don't cause your disease cuz

40:19you did not,

40:20>> choices you make can make it absolutely

40:22can make it better or worse, just like

40:24any disease.

40:26>> And when you use the word insulin, I I

40:27think of or insulin resistance, I think

40:29of sugar.

40:30>> Mhm.

40:30>> Yeah. Because glucose is sugar

40:32essentially. And many people, and I'll

40:34have patients tell me this, I don't need

40:36to worry about insulin resistance

40:37because I don't have diabetes or it's

40:39not in my family. And we've so we've

40:42ingrained this word insulin resistance

40:44or talking about glucose or checking

40:46glucose with a diabetic or pre-diabetic

40:49state. But the world around us honestly

40:52promotes insulin resistance. It's it

40:55that's how our bodies we live in this

40:58obesogenic environment. I mean there's

41:00no doubt at least in the US you know and

41:03most industrialized nations our

41:05environment is what we call obesogenic

41:07insulin you know and insulin resistant

41:10so it you have to fight against kind of

41:13the systems that are in place now for

41:15most of us unless we have some genetic

41:17predisposition to just be you know

41:19magical um to because the way we process

41:23food the way food is delivered to

41:24communities the way you know our lack of

41:27exercise you know everyone's working

41:28from home now just just modern life is

41:31is really you have to fight against.

41:34>> One of the questions that came in from

41:35the audience was I would like to know

41:37how best to manage my PCOS.

41:39>> When it comes to managing your PCOS,

41:42targeting those two factors that we

41:43talked about earlier, insulin resistance

41:44and inflammation are really the key. And

41:47I'll let these two speak to a little bit

41:49of some of the exercise changes that we

41:51can try to impact. But what I'll say is

41:54that the best way to decrease

41:56inflammation in your body is going to be

41:58to start by focusing on your gut. Your

42:00gut health controls a lot of the

42:02inflammatory burden that your body sees.

42:04The foods you choose to eat, they can be

42:07both helpful if they have a lot of fiber

42:09in them. They can feed your gut

42:11microbiome, which is important in

42:13estrogen metabolism, but they can also

42:16be very harmful if they are

42:18ultrarocessed foods that are even

42:19causing more inflammation, not feeding

42:22your gut microbiome at all and

42:24worsening. So, I always say it's like a

42:25scale. If you think every little food I

42:28eat, it can make my insulin or it can

42:30make my inflammation better, it can make

42:32it worse. And so how we structure the

42:35food that we put in our body is one of

42:37the biggest changes the majority of

42:39people can make that is going to make a

42:41difference. And that's going to be a

42:43very plantforward diet. Doesn't mean

42:45it's plant only, but plants have fiber.

42:48Fruits and vegetables have fiber. So we

42:50have to make sure we're getting fiber as

42:53a big change. That's what we see. I see

42:55a lot of patients with PCOS specifically

42:57being told I shouldn't eat fruit. I

42:59shouldn't do this. I I need to avoid

43:02>> do the ketogenic. You need to do keto.

43:03Yes. So, we see people avoiding certain

43:06food groups. And I always say it's not a

43:07really sexy diet, but it's a it's a diet

43:09we all know.

43:10>> Lots of whole foods, fruits and

43:12vegetables, healthy fats, healthy

43:14sources of protein, avoiding the

43:16ultrarocessed foods. That's going to be

43:18probably the biggest change most people

43:19can make. In addition to foundational

43:22changes of your day, which is going to

43:23be sleep more, that is when your body

43:26fights inflammation, fights insulin

43:28resistance. work on decreasing chronic

43:32stress. To Stacy's point, you're not

43:34running from the bear. So, your body is

43:36not using that challenge, but you get a

43:39email. You get stressed and your body

43:42releases a lot of glucose so it can have

43:44sugar and fuel to run from a bear and

43:46there's no bear, right? And previous

43:48days that would happen and then you'd go

43:50run and that glucose would go into all

43:52of your muscles and your body would go

43:54back to normal. But now, we're

43:56chronically stressed. So, actively

43:58decreasing stress and then exercise,

44:01building and using skeletal muscle is

44:03one of the most effective ways to combat

44:05insulin resistance that exists. And

44:08since 80% of patients with PCOS have

44:10insulin resistance, a large portion of

44:13women with infertility, even without

44:15PCOS, have insulin resistance, that is a

44:18huge thing that people are missing,

44:21especially when it comes to the exercise

44:23discussion. And I know you guys probably

44:24have things to add on that one. No, but

44:27based on what you just I just took a

44:28phone call this morning from a patient

44:30when and it's just such a typical

44:33conversation. She doesn't like the way

44:36her body looks.

44:38>> Her solution is not to eat. It's this

44:41happens almost every day when I'm

44:43talking to people. It's we're having

44:45coffee for breakfast. We don't eat till

44:47midday when we do eat. So the the gut

44:51reaction because of the way many women

44:54are raised is that we're going to starve

44:56ourselves which is the opposite of good

44:58when it comes to physiologic wholeness

45:01and then you don't have the energy to do

45:03the kind of exercise you need or on the

45:06other side the response is I am going to

45:09work so hard every single day that you

45:13actually increase your stress there is

45:15over there is overtraining

45:18>> so you're just getting behind the

45:20eightball with starving yourself and

45:21overtraining. None of which are going to

45:23solve either the core problem due to

45:26PCOS or the core problem in any stage of

45:30a woman's life. Right.

45:31>> And this is where we look at the

45:32socioultural effect of what a woman is

45:34supposed to look like.

45:36>> Yeah.

45:36>> And that's the thing that I really

45:38pushing out. It's like we want to think

45:41about how strong we can be and how much

45:44muscle we can build because muscle is a

45:46massive metabolic help. Mhm.

45:49>> And as as well as bone, right? So, we

45:53talk about it and then when I get the

45:54push back of, oh, I'm going to do fasted

45:57training or I'm going to fast till noon.

45:58I'm like, wait a second. Not only were

46:00we going to interfere with our circadian

46:02rhythm and our hormone pulses, we're

46:04also acutely interfering with our

46:07appetite hormones because if we're

46:09looking at gerolin, which is our active

46:12form of of our appetite, makes us

46:14hungry. It's elevated with cortisol. And

46:16so if we're thinking about that

46:18elevation and we're not doing anything

46:19to drop it and tell our body we have

46:21food, then it goes in and directly

46:23affects our neuropeptides, which then

46:26affects our hormone, our hormone pulses.

46:28So when a woman's like, I'm just having

46:30coffee for breakfast and I'm going to

46:31hold my fast. It's like, okay, well,

46:33here we go. Cortisol is going up. As

46:35Gary, you're going to get hungrier. Then

46:36you're going to learn not to respond to

46:38that hunger. You're going to hold your

46:40fast. And we see from the research that

46:42women who do that end up craving more

46:44simple carbohydrates in the afternoon

46:46moving incidentally less and

46:48contributing to poor sleep because

46:50they've now phase shifted. So when we're

46:52talking about sleep and how important

46:54sleep is, we also have to think about

46:55the circadian rhythm and how it is

46:57affected by food intake, light,

47:00darkness, and all of the things. And we

47:02need women to understand we want to

47:03build muscle. We want to sleep well and

47:05that requires food. Well, and it this

47:08goes back this whole thing you just said

47:10goes back to very early in this

47:13conversation where I was talking about

47:17sometimes we like to focus on the bright

47:19shiny gadgets

47:20>> when we haven't taken our health from

47:23fine to optimize because everything you

47:27just talked about

47:29>> it isn't a gadget it's basic lifestyle

47:33>> in the medical model of PCOS when I'm

47:36talking about what we're taught and how

47:39we train our clinicians.

47:42We go into the, you know, we we aren't

47:44taught a lot about disease prevention or

47:46and I hate to use the term root cause

The Pill Is Not the Only Help for PCOS

47:48because I think it's been usurped by

47:49certain members of, you know, the

47:51wellness community.

47:52>> Take it back.

47:52>> Yeah, we're going to take it back. And

47:54so, especially for PCOS, I was taught to

47:57give a patient birth control pills or

47:58Clomid when she's ready to get pregnant.

48:00And so nothing nothing around nutrition,

48:05exercise, lowering inflammation and I

48:07was a program director until 2018 and

48:10there was nothing in the curriculum

48:12around this which affects at least 10%

48:15of women probably more this condition

48:18that how important lifestyle is. You

48:21know, she went on for 10 minutes about

48:23all the lifestyle change, which is

48:25amazing.

48:25>> Which is amazing.

48:26>> But but patients,

48:27>> but I'm sitting there thinking birth

48:28control pills, birth control pills. I

48:30mean, that was a knee-jerk reaction. I

48:31mean, I was treated for my own

48:33polycystic ovarian syndrome for 20 years

48:36with oral contraceptive agents. And I

48:39learned online through chat rooms about

48:42the nutrition end of it.

48:45>> Yeah. when I have athletes because we

48:47see a higher percentage of PCOS in

48:49successful female athletes.

48:51>> Why

48:51>> like what do I do? And it's looking at

48:54what kind of training they're doing. So,

48:56we're putting this more short, sharp,

48:58high intensity to get that post exercise

49:00response of anti-inflammatory,

49:03growth hormone response, all of these

49:05things that then bring down total body

49:07inflammation. And then we're very

49:09careful about food intake and when we're

49:11doing it and what kinds of food so that

49:14they don't have to go down the route of

49:16oral contraceptive pills because that to

49:19them has an effect on their performance.

49:20When we're talking about the top end and

49:22when we bring it back down into

49:24recreational female athletes, we can do

49:26the same thing. It's just we have to

49:27educate and say these are our lifestyle

49:29choices and then these are our medical

49:32choices and what's optimal for your life

49:34at this point. Mhm.

49:35>> It's important to say at this table, and

49:37we all talked about it last night, you

49:40need to have a period if you're not

49:41preventing a period with hormonal

49:43contraception and you're in your

49:44reproductive years. Because very often

49:47women with PCOS or hypothalamic

49:50amenorhea will say, I don't have a

49:52period, but I didn't really like that

49:54anyway, so it doesn't bother me, right?

49:56How many women have said, well, I didn't

49:57get my period for a year, but that was

49:59fine by me. But that's not fine by your

50:02body. That is hypoestrogenic time. It is

50:05low estrogen.

50:06>> Yeah. Very low estrogen. It's bad for

50:08your body on so many reasons to be low

50:11estrogen during these crucial bone

50:13building years. But for we're talking

50:15about how your hormones communicate

50:16back. It's very harmful to long-term

50:18health to have low estrogen

50:22at all.

50:22>> Brain health.

50:23>> But yeah, but especially in young years

50:26when you're still developing.

50:28>> Why would a woman say that she didn't

50:30want to have her period? I mean, this is

50:31a super naive question as a guy, but I

50:32understand it's painful.

50:33>> I mean, do you want to bleed from

50:34>> Do you want that?

50:35>> I mean, if it was a choice now,

50:37>> actually knowing now what I know now

50:41>> and for my own young daughters, I'm

50:42like, we have got to make sure you have

50:44a period. But when I was young, I was a

50:47dancer and an athlete. I had very low

50:50body fat and I wouldn't have periods for

50:526 to9 months. And I'm like, yes.

50:54>> Do you know what's interesting? I was

50:55thinking of Mel.

50:58She because of what she's been through

51:00and also because she's listened to the

51:02conversations I've had with all of you

51:04and she understands the value and

51:06importance of her period, she now

51:08celebrates it. It's like a celebration

51:10in our house when it arrives because

51:12>> because if you understand the importance

51:13that it has in sort of full body health

51:15and the role it's playing, then the

51:18pain, the downside

51:20>> is weighted against your understanding

51:22of the upside, which to her means she's

51:24healthy, she's fat,

51:25>> hormonal health is working, things are

51:26great. And that's the conversation shift

51:29that I'm hoping is gonna instead of

51:31being a detriment and a downer and

51:32talked about she must be on whatever

51:34derogatory yes derogatory things are

51:37said about us that oh my gosh she is so

51:40healthy.

51:41>> Yeah. I remember sitting in a high

51:44performance meeting just maybe three

51:46years ago and the leading athletics

51:48coach stood up and said I know when my

51:50athletes are ready to perform on the

51:52world stage when their periods stop. And

51:54all of us went what?

51:57It's like no, that's the time where like

52:00we have to really look at your athlete

52:02is getting ready to crack and be

52:03injured.

52:04>> And it's still this pervasive idea and

52:07it's still pervasive even in the fitness

52:09industry that losing your period is okay

52:12cuz that means you're training harder.

52:13>> They actually are very resistant to

52:15getting it back.

52:15>> Yes. Like it's a sign of failure of

52:18their sport or their athletic endeavor

52:20because this is is so pervasive. And I

52:22think that's why it's important to have

52:24these discussions. And I love hearing

52:26that Mel now says, "Yay, my period is

52:28here." Because that's a sign of hormonal

52:30health and things are working well

52:32because that is how we should feel. But

52:34I think the other part of it is for

52:36women who have mayoria or heavy bleeding

52:39and heavy cramping. They don't realize

52:41that they can get help with that as

52:43well. Mhm.

52:43>> And that's a conversation that isn't

52:45followed through when we're like, "Yes,

52:46get your period, but if you're someone

How Do We Know If It's a Normal Flow, Too Much, or Too Little?

52:48who suffers from really bad cramps, we

52:50also have to educate that there are

52:51things that we can do to help with that.

52:53>> Does the size of the bleed matter?"

52:56Because she turned around to me the

52:57other day and she said with her last

52:59cycle, she said that she didn't bleed

53:00much and she seemed slightly concerned.

53:02Obviously, I had no idea what to say to

53:04that.

53:04>> It depends.

53:05>> Congratulations. Well done. I'm so

53:06sorry. minora. So we have definitions

53:09and there are you know we don't walk

53:10around with measuring cups generally

53:12between our legs to measure how much

53:14blood's coming out each month. But

53:15>> but women know

53:16>> but women know your period should not

53:18cause you with modern you know period

53:22products your cycle shouldn't cause you

53:25any stress in your life. You should just

53:27roll with it, right? And so that's when

53:29I'm like when is it a problem?

53:30>> Shouldn't bleed through your clothes.

53:31>> You should be able to sleep through the

53:32night. You should be able to get through

53:34an athletic performance. You should be

53:35able to do X, Y, and Z. Now when we do

53:38start measuring and you should not be

53:40anemic. So I'm not waiting till anemia.

53:43I am anemia is low red blood cell count

53:46you know to the point where your

53:48performance is affected. Your ability to

53:50carry oxygen is effective. So the red

53:51blood cells are what carries oxygen in

53:56our bodies. And women who have heavy

53:59periods however that's defined can lead

54:02to anemia. But the first thing that we

54:04notice is their feritin is dropping.

54:06That's the first sign my do my daughter

54:08we just had some blood work done. She

54:09was feeling a little fatigued and her

54:11ferotin and iron saturations were really

54:13low and I was like talk to me about your

54:14period. Turns out she's not eating a lot

54:16of iron rich foods. So we're dealing

54:17with that. But you know we can get so

54:19far ahead of this and looking at these

54:22ferotin levels the transfer you know

54:24these iron studies before she's actually

54:26anemic which is like the last thing that

54:28happens when her red blood cell count

54:30drops or they become so small and what

54:32we call microitic. you know, we are we

54:35need to do a better job at recognizing

54:37these things. We're not going to walk

54:38around and measure how much blood's

54:40coming out because I could maybe squeak

54:42out 200 cc's, you know, a period and you

54:45could be 300 and we're both doing fine.

54:47You know, we both have great. So, I

54:48think it's really looking at, you know,

54:50how much bleeding is too much. Now, how

54:52little is too much? That that's probably

54:54better in your

54:55>> Yeah. Is any change from what you

54:57consider normal? We would all say this

54:58is a normal amount. So if it gets

54:59heavier than that or less than that and

55:02it stays that way, that is concerning.

55:04You can always have a one-off. Estrogen

55:06is the driver of growing the uterine

55:08lining. So if you have a lighter bleed

55:11one month, we are concerned that you did

55:13not grow as thick of a lining. Your body

55:15didn't see as much estrogen. Most the

55:17time you ovulated earlier that cycle,

55:19your cycle came a little bit sooner than

55:21you're used to it coming, and it's not

55:23quite a big deal. But this can be

55:26concerning if we see consistently light

55:28periods, especially if we have history

55:31of progesterone contraception, which

55:33progesterone thins out the lining and

55:35estrogen grows it. So progesterone

55:38actually stabilizes it, but for the sake

55:39of the discussion, we'll say estrogen

55:41grows it, progesterone thins it. When

55:44you only see progesterone, like a

55:45progesterone IUD, the progesterone shot,

55:48even continuous birth control pills,

55:50because they give you a type of

55:52synthetic estrogen and progesterone

55:54every day, your uterine lining gets

55:57thinner and thinner and thinner. And so

56:00we see it can take months to return to

56:02normal after coming off of hormonal

56:04contraception. You also can get damage

56:07to the endometrial lining. There's stem

56:09cells in the endometrium that regenerate

56:11every month after you bleed. They

56:14regenerate so that the next group can

56:16grow in response to estrogen. And this

56:18can get damaged from typically anything

56:21inside the uterus. So most commonly this

56:24is post birth, you know, a traumatic

56:26birth, a retained placenta, a DNC

56:29procedure, which is sometimes used after

56:31birth or in a miscarriage or even IUDs

56:34or intrauterine surgery. and it can form

56:36scar tissue in the uterus that can cause

56:38a light period. So if you said, "Oh, Mel

56:42had a miscarriage and had this procedure

56:44and now her periods are lighter." I'm

56:45highly concerned.

56:47>> Versus amen.

56:48>> Yeah. So that is concerning for scar

56:50tissue in the uterus.

56:51>> Okay.

56:52>> If you said, "Oh, she was on a birth

56:55control pill for a while and now it's a

56:57little bit lighter." I'm less concerned

56:58that's probably going to get better. or

57:00if this period came closer together

57:02>> or if you traveled around the world

57:04three times this last month or

57:06>> so one one off is no big deal but a

57:09change from your baseline can be

57:11concerning in addition we should say

57:12that that graph is beautiful but you

57:15know your thyroid your pituitary gland

57:17it makes prolactin prolactin also

57:19changes the endometrium so there's

57:21subtle signs of other hormonal issues

57:24that your menstrual cycle is the first

57:26warning sign that something is off

57:28>> what about pain She 2 months ago she had

57:31like excruciating pain that I've never

57:32seen before during her menstrual cycle.

57:35>> Well, it's not pleasant to have your

57:37uterus contract and expel its contents

57:40in any form.

57:41>> But what if it's like way above the

How to Know If You're Experiencing Abnormal Period Pain

57:43norm?

57:44>> One time way above the norm is probably

57:46situational based on other things that

57:48are contributing to inflammatory burden

57:51or response. your body is also healing

57:53from a the corpus ludium's a cyst on

57:55your ovary that can also feel painful

57:57and at the time of your period it is

57:59also healing so there's multiple things

58:01that can cause pain

58:04to Vonda's point so many people say I

58:06have a high pain tolerance this is okay

58:09because we don't talk about our own pain

58:11so I don't know if my pain is normal

58:13compared to somebody else's your pain

58:16should not keep you out of your

58:18activities of daily living you shouldn't

58:20call in sick to school call in sick to

58:22work, cancel dinner plans with friends

58:25consistently. Again, everybody can have

58:27a one-off month where something is off.

58:29But if this happens every month, oh,

58:31it's my period. I'm going to cancel

58:32that. That is a warning sign that

58:35something else could be going on.

58:36Endometriosis, adnomiiosis, and uterine

58:39fibroids.

58:39>> You mentioned the word iron a second

58:41ago, Dr. Mary. What is iron got to do

58:45with this? And what is iron? So iron is

58:47an element that is in our diets and we

58:50do tend to store quite a bit of iron in

58:52our bodies and it's an essential when we

58:54look at the structure of the red blood

58:55cell and of hemoglobin specifically. So

58:58hemoglobin is the actual molecule that

59:00is inside of the red blood cell that

59:02carries the oxygen. So iron is really

59:04critical to the formation of healthy you

59:08know iron carrying red blood cells and

59:10we we store iron in our bodies and so

59:13and a lot in the bone marrow and in and

59:16it's stored in this particular molecule

59:18called feritin. So when we're measuring

59:20ferotin levels in the blood that is you

59:24know the first sign that your iron

59:25stores are getting low is when we see

59:27these low feritin levels. Are women more

59:30iron deficient than one would think?

59:33Like is the general population iron

59:35deficient or what do you tend to see

59:37when you run lab tests?

59:39>> A menstruating woman. Yes.

59:40>> A menstruating woman is is often

59:43iron deficient.

59:44>> Yes. And I we I do see it in our post

59:46post-menopausal patients as well. That's

59:48usually nutritional and inflammation

59:51related. So ferotin is also something

59:54that will decrease in in times of

59:56chronic inflammation. And so you're not

59:57able to utilize the iron that's coming

59:59in and store it because this

1:00:00inflammatory state is kind of inhibiting

1:00:02that. So in a menstruating patient, I'm

1:00:05always thinking is she bleeding too much

1:00:07the first time, you know, and is that

1:00:08bleeding menstrual? Is it coming from

1:00:09her rectum? Is it coming from her

1:00:11gastrointestinal tract? You know, does

1:00:13she have gastritis or, you know, we have

1:00:14to go through the, you know, the

1:00:16algorithm of why that might happen. In a

1:00:18post-menopausal patient, we can remove

1:00:20vaginal bleeding from the issue, you

1:00:22know, uterine bleeding, a period, but

1:00:24then now I'm looking at nutrition. And

1:00:26I'm looking at exercise. I'm looking at

1:00:27inflammation as causitive factors.

1:00:29>> And the global pitch here is the World

1:00:30Health Organization estimates that

1:00:32roughly 30% of women aged 15 to 49

1:00:34worldwide are anemic with iron

1:00:36deficiency being the leading cause. And

1:00:38in some reason regions of South Asia and

1:00:40subsaharan Africa prevalence can be up

1:00:42to 50% of women are anemic with iron

Anemia in Women and the Issues With Lab Results

1:00:46deficiency being the leading cause. H

1:00:49>> you noticed the norms have changed.

1:00:52>> So it depends on who you read.

1:00:54>> Yeah. again, you know, when you're

1:00:55looking at male male normative curves

1:00:57versus what you know, we're we're tend

1:01:00to accept lower levels for a female. But

1:01:02now that we're looking at performance

1:01:04and, you know, looking at other factors

1:01:07besides just what is this feritin level,

1:01:10>> um there's a lot great new research

1:01:12coming out that we are looking at this

1:01:14differently and that that we're in our

1:01:16clinic, we are looking for 60 to 100 for

1:01:18a feritin level to be considered

1:01:20optimal. very different than, you know,

1:01:23the baseline for, you know, keeping you

1:01:27out of out of a hospital versus you

1:01:30functioning at your absolute best.

1:01:32>> Yeah. Because the norms that often get

1:01:34measured for us

1:01:37>> because they tripled, right? They were

1:01:3815 and then they went up to to 40.

1:01:40>> So now they're saying 20 and above is

1:01:43normal. And when I look at a lot of

1:01:45women who are sitting 20 to 30, they

1:01:48can't get help.

1:01:49>> They cannot get help. And it's like,

1:01:51whoa, it was maybe four or five years

1:01:53ago. If you were below 50, then we would

1:01:56look to get help. But now with the norms

1:01:58that have shifted with the sicker

1:02:00population,

1:02:02we can't get women help unless they are

1:02:04below 20. So when we say normal, I think

1:02:07this is important for everybody watching

1:02:09or listening. Normal in medicine means

1:02:12common,

1:02:14>> not non-pathological,

1:02:16>> okay?

1:02:16>> Not bad, you know, doesn't mean it's not

1:02:18bad. And so norms shifting meaning we're

1:02:21getting sicker as a population and we're

1:02:24willing to accept lower levels although

1:02:26they're not optimal for health. The lab

1:02:29reference range what they say when you

1:02:30get your blood work drawn and you see

1:02:31the reference range is based on

1:02:34population averages. And so if the

1:02:36population is more anemic this is going

1:02:39to accept a lower levels being normal

1:02:43even though they're by no means optimal.

1:02:45And I think that's one thing we all talk

1:02:48about is well how are you feeling your

1:02:50symptomology? What do we see? And you

1:02:52have to interpret blood work in context

1:02:54of the whole person and what is

1:02:56happening. And that is one issue we do

1:02:58see with getting your own blood work

1:03:00drawn or these online companies when

1:03:02nobody's interpreting it or helping you

1:03:04interpret it on the other end. You see

1:03:06something that is in a normal range but

1:03:09it's not at all optimal for you and it

1:03:11could be the reason why insurance. Yeah,

1:03:13exactly. I want to talk about

1:03:14endometriosis. I we have a team member

1:03:16who's been with the Davosio since the

1:03:18very beginning called Liv.

1:03:19>> Yes.

1:03:20>> Are you familiar with Liv?

1:03:21>> I am.

1:03:22>> So at age 13, she had her first period

1:03:24and she experienced agonizing pain with

1:03:25heavy bleeding.

1:03:27>> At age 14, she was put on the pill to

1:03:29manage the symptoms. Between age 15 and

1:03:3224, she continued to have severe stomach

1:03:34pain which resulted in multiple A&E

1:03:37visits. She was often dismissed as

1:03:40having gastriisitis.

1:03:42>> Mhm. And it led to having her appendix

1:03:44removed.

1:03:45>> Oh my god.

1:03:47>> Why'd you say oh my god

1:03:48>> can get surgery?

1:03:50>> But she had major surgery and

1:03:54>> um I' I've seen this course before and

1:03:57it's it's devastating cuz she's going

People Suffer Silently With Endometriosis for Years

1:03:59years and years and years now of

1:04:01>> Yeah. age 25 she came off the pill to

1:04:04see how she felt without it but her

1:04:06periods worsened and she fainted from

1:04:07the pain. So she went to accident and

1:04:09emergency. At age 26, she got an

1:04:11ultrasound which suggested

1:04:13endometriosis, but no NHS diagnosis was

1:04:16given.

1:04:18We ultimately had a conversation with

1:04:20you on the podcast, Natalie, and she

1:04:22felt very heard and she was actually

1:04:24there. And so afterwards, Jamaima in the

1:04:26team, who you you guys know, um told Liv

1:04:29to come and speak to me. And Liv told me

1:04:31after you left about um the symptoms,

1:04:34did she speak directly to you at that

1:04:36time? She did. Okay. So, she came and

1:04:37she spoke to us about her endometriosis,

1:04:39which is the first time I'd ever heard

1:04:40of it. Um, and then we offered to help

1:04:44support her privately so she could get

1:04:45private support with it. Um, and she got

1:04:49an MRI scan privately, which confirmed

1:04:50stage 4 infiltrating endometriosis.

1:04:53>> Oh gosh.

1:04:55>> Liv then pushed um on with her NHS

1:04:58appointments, the National Health

1:04:59Service in the UK, but the pain was so

1:05:01much that she took me up on my offer to

1:05:04pay for it privately. So, we paid for it

1:05:06privately. Uh, and the endometriosis by

1:05:08that point had spread to her bowels and

1:05:09pelvis. And I've got this picture of

1:05:11this four cm cyst. If you're all

1:05:14faint-hearted, I mean, I don't know

1:05:15where we'll put this on the screen, but

1:05:17this is from her operation.

1:05:18>> Yeah. It's called an endometrioma. It's

1:05:20huge.

1:05:21>> For anyone that can't see, it kind of

1:05:23looks like a tumor.

1:05:24>> Yeah.

1:05:25>> Um, next to her ovaries

1:05:28>> and it had spread at that point to her

1:05:30bow and pis pelvis. It had become about

1:05:324 cm big. Her ovaries were stuck

1:05:34together and attached to her womb and

1:05:36her bowels. She then needed to book an

1:05:38appointment for surgery. And before the

1:05:40surgery, because of the scale of her

1:05:41endometriosis, she had her eggs frozen

1:05:43to protect her future fertility, which I

1:05:45guess came from your advice. This

1:05:47process took her 7 years and she was in

1:05:50pain for 17 years because she did not

1:05:53get a diagnosis.

1:05:55>> Her story is unfortunately not uncommon.

1:05:58This is a very typical story for

1:06:01somebody who suffers from endometriosis.

1:06:04Endometriosis is an inflammatory

1:06:07condition. And the way I like to explain

1:06:09it is when your body responds abnormally

1:06:11to a normal process. You have immune

1:06:13dysfunction as well. So let's think of

1:06:14it as an autoimmune disease and a

1:06:16chronic inflammatory disease. When you

1:06:19have your period, you bleed out

1:06:20indometrial cells in your menstrual

1:06:22blood. We're used to that. In everybody,

1:06:24you also have some indometrial cells

1:06:26that will escape out the fallopian

1:06:27tubes. That's not a big deal. If you

1:06:28take out somebody's appendix while

1:06:30they're on their period, you'll actually

1:06:31see menstrual blood in their abdominal

1:06:33cavity. In the regular person without

1:06:35endo, your body says, "Oh, she's just on

1:06:39her period." In the person who has

1:06:40endometriosis, this creates a huge

1:06:43inflammatory response where your body

1:06:45starts to attack indometrial cells and

1:06:48you get these implants throughout the

1:06:50what's called the peritineal cavity or

1:06:51the abdominal cavity of indometriallike

1:06:54tissue that gets worse every time your

1:06:56body sees estrogen which because it's

1:06:59feeding the endometrium just like it

1:07:01would in the uterus and so it gets worse

1:07:04over time. The more ovulatory cycles you

1:07:06have the disease gets worse. It's so

1:07:09inflammatory that it's not uncommon to

1:07:11get extensive

1:07:13organ scarring. You get anatomical

1:07:16distortion. These are some of the

1:07:18toughest surgical cases in addition to

1:07:22managing lifelong health but also

1:07:24fertility as well.

1:07:25>> Just obliterate the anatomy like because

1:07:27the infiltration you'll these implants

1:07:29will start growing into other organs

1:07:31because they'll find new blood supply.

1:07:33They'll steal blood, you know, blood

1:07:35supply from from the bowel from because

1:07:37all of our pelvic organs are just

1:07:39sitting there on top of each other, the

1:07:40bladder, the bowel, the c, you know, and

1:07:43so

1:07:44>> it sounds like it's alive, like it's a

1:07:45cancer or something.

1:07:46>> Think of it like velcro is what I say

1:07:47almost these little patches of velcro

1:07:49and they just start sticking together.

1:07:50And that's what inflammation and

1:07:52scarring does throughout your whole

1:07:53body. And what happens here is that

1:07:57because the primary symptoms of

1:07:58endometriosis is pain. So again, back to

1:08:02women's pain being taken seriously.

1:08:05>> That's one of the issues and why the

1:08:07average time to diagnosis is 7 to 10

1:08:10years. Truly 17 years in this case from

1:08:12when she had pain.

1:08:14>> But the other symptoms do include

1:08:15sometimes also pain with intercourse.

1:08:18Typically though, that is very hard to

1:08:21ascertain from somebody, but it's

1:08:23usually with certain positions. Deep

1:08:25penetration tends to be what really

1:08:27stimulates pain. But you also see a lot

1:08:29of GI manifestations that we don't talk

1:08:31about. So if I have somebody who has

1:08:32painful periods and they say they have

1:08:34irritable bowel syndrome or a lot of

1:08:37vague GI complaints,

1:08:39that is a really big red flag to me

1:08:42because like you said, these little

1:08:44indometrial implants on the bowel, the

1:08:45intestine, this high inflammation that's

1:08:48happening irritates your intestine and

1:08:50you get this GI response as well. One of

1:08:53the hardest things about indometriosis

1:08:55is that it's a surgical diagnosis only.

1:08:58To be honest, we can means

1:09:00>> have to do surgery to fully see and

1:09:03diagnose that you have this.

1:09:04>> It's one of those no meat, no treat, you

1:09:06know, in in in medicine where you can't

1:09:08make the diagnosis until you have a

1:09:10tissue sample. So meat means you go and

1:09:12take a biopsy.

1:09:13>> Okay. See? Okay.

1:09:14>> So you can suspect it based on imaging.

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1:09:17We're not great at this. And Dr.

1:09:19Crawford, why don't we have a cure?

1:09:21>> Mhm. Well, because it hasn't been

1:09:23studied is one of is the primary answer.

1:09:26Uh the secondary answer is that often

1:09:29the the goals are tough with endo

1:09:31because if estrogen feeds it, we all are

1:09:34going to sit at this table and talk

1:09:35about how important estrogen is for your

1:09:37body. And a a lot of the treatments that

1:09:39exist for endometriosis take estrogen

1:09:42away to try to not feed these lesions.

1:09:44And that has a slew of other symptoms

1:09:47and long-term health implications as

1:09:48well. Truly, we don't even give women

1:09:54options to try to feel better. They are

1:09:57given birth control pills because, hey,

1:09:59I'm going to stop the ovulatory cycle.

1:10:01I'm going to you're going to have less

1:10:03what we call unopposed estrogen days.

1:10:04>> We do have symptomatic relief.

1:10:06>> Yeah. But we have and that's going to

1:10:07help hopefully with some of your

1:10:08symptoms. And it can for some women. It

1:10:11doesn't reverse disease. It doesn't cure

1:10:13it. It doesn't make anything better, but

1:10:15it can slow down the progression any of

1:10:18these treatments that do halt the

1:10:21ovulatory process, but it severely

1:10:23impacts I mean beyond so many layers of

1:10:26your your mental your emotional health,

1:10:28your relationships, but your fertility.

1:10:30Stage three or four disease, regardless

1:10:33of your age, you're going to have a less

1:10:34than a 20% chance of conceiving

1:10:36naturally over the course of your life

1:10:38if you have stage three or four disease.

1:10:40Every stage is impactful to your

1:10:41fertility because of the inflammation.

1:10:43Once you have anatomical distortion, an

1:10:45indometrium or cyst inside the ovary,

1:10:48removing that cyst is going to decrease

1:10:50your egg count. That that's going to

1:10:52have a major implication on your

1:10:54potential. That's why we froze eggs

1:10:57before we to cyst out so that we could

1:10:58get those eggs, at least some that we

1:11:00could out of the body before we went and

1:11:02did something that was going to destroy

1:11:04part of the ovarian tissue. What you

1:11:07said, Stephen, is it seems like

1:11:08indometriosis is alive. And that's a

1:11:10really great analogy because it does

1:11:12just feed into tissue and it's highly

1:11:15destructive and if it distorts the

1:11:18anatomy, we need a healthy floppy

1:11:21fallopian tube generally that can swing

1:11:23around and pick up this egg that's

1:11:25floating around our abdominal cavity for

1:11:27and then you need a place for the egg

1:11:29and sperm to meet which is generally a

1:11:31healthy non-inflamed fallopian tube. So

1:11:33they're also at increased risk for

1:11:35infertility but ectopic pregnancies.

1:11:37That's where I see them, you know, is

1:11:39when I was a hospitalist is in the O,

1:11:42you know, emerently from a ruptured

1:11:44fallopian tube from this, you know, and

1:11:46I go in and I'm making not only she's

1:11:48lost a wanted pregnancy now I and I'm

1:11:51making the diagnosis of indometriosis at

1:11:53the same time and they are just

1:11:54devastated. I just feel sitting here not

1:11:57being anywhere within this field

1:11:59thinking wait a minute because I was a

1:12:00cancer nurse first right before I did

1:12:02this wait a minute there's got to be a

1:12:05cell surface marker that's unique to the

1:12:07endometrium that we could make a

1:12:09monoconal antibbody against

1:12:11>> there's got to be a cell surface marker

1:12:13and I will say that there are people now

1:12:15doing lovely and wonderful research on a

1:12:17cellular level of indometriosis trying

1:12:20to look at the endometrium itself what

1:12:22cell markers are similar in indometrial

1:12:24implants

1:12:25Can you diagnose this on an endometrial

Could We Create a Cellular Marker for Endometriosis?

1:12:28biopsy in somebody?

1:12:30>> We haven't seen it get to the point

1:12:32where it needs to, but at least people

1:12:34are paying attention. So, I do think we

1:12:37might have emergent technology that will

1:12:39change the course of this for people.

1:12:41>> Right now, I think awareness is key. And

1:12:44one thing I always say is that

1:12:45especially as a teenager because women

1:12:48adjust. You accommodate to the world

1:12:51around you. That's one of the things

1:12:52that I think makes women so resilient. I

1:12:55mean, if you have pain every single

1:12:56month of your life, you are going to

1:12:58convince yourself this is normal for a

1:13:00degree of time because what other option

1:13:01do you have? Has to get so bad. But when

1:13:05you're a teenager, you don't know that.

1:13:07And so, if when you are a teen, you

1:13:09would stay home from school, you would

1:13:11not go to the football game or go out to

1:13:13dinner with friends, that to me has is a

1:13:17huge red flag. But it actually is a very

1:13:19high predictive marker that you do have

1:13:21indometriosis.

1:13:23So pain out of proportion to being able

1:13:25to complete your normal life as a

1:13:28teenager is a really big warning flag. I

1:13:30ask every patient about that when we

1:13:31talk about their periods because 50% of

1:13:34patients with unexplained infertility

1:13:36have indometriosis.

1:13:37It is so hard to diagnose and

1:13:39underdiagnosed yet impactful to our

1:13:42body.

1:13:43>> 26 years old. The advice given to her by

1:13:45the NHS was to go back on the pill to

1:13:49solve for the the pains that she was

1:13:51getting. We certainly have a lot of

1:13:53dismissive doctors and people who don't

1:13:55take pain seriously, but also a disease

1:13:57that is underfunded and not researched.

1:13:59We do have limited options for how you

1:14:02can help somebody. And I think we have

1:14:04to acknowledge that both things can be

1:14:05right. Now, getting to the root cause of

1:14:08your pain is always going to be really

1:14:10important versus just saying here's a

1:14:12birth control pill that should take care

1:14:14of it. Some women with endometriosis

1:14:16love being on the birth control pill.

1:14:18does highly improve their symptom

1:14:20profile and it's an important part of

1:14:22their treatment regimen. Other women do

1:14:24not find any benefit from it and it's

1:14:26really important to have the discussion

1:14:28especially with indometriosis in regards

1:14:30to your family planning goals. Do you

1:14:32want kids? When is that going to be?

1:14:35What might this look like? Because we

1:14:37know if you have a higher rate of

1:14:38infertility, a higher rate of needing

1:14:40IVF, do we need to intervene sooner? But

1:14:43that's going to impact some of the

1:14:44treatment options we're able to give you

1:14:46because some of them do delay ovulation

1:14:48from for a prolonged period of time.

1:14:50>> What I find in the patients, you know,

1:14:52when we made the diagnosis was they're

1:14:54forced into making these kind of

1:14:56life-changing decisions about around

1:14:58their fertility and ability to conceive

1:15:01before they were ever before their peers

1:15:04were even thinking about it. It's pretty

1:15:06devastating.

1:15:08>> It is. We have some pilot data looking

1:15:10at taking some of the nuances of

1:15:12recovery and looking at how to dampen

1:15:15inflammation. So we have some pilot data

1:15:18that's showing when women do cold

1:15:20exposure

1:15:21>> that it dampens inflammation and

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1:15:23improves their symptomology. So I'm

1:15:26always thinking on the outside like what

1:15:27other things can we do to dampen

1:15:30inflammation in a positive way to

1:15:32improve symptomology.

1:15:34>> How does that work? So, if we're

1:15:36thinking about the responses to cold

1:15:39exposure, and we're not talking about

1:15:40ice, we're talking about cold water

1:15:42exposure. It creates a cascade of immune

1:15:46responses that kind of protects the

1:15:49body. So, we're reducing inflammation,

1:15:51we're improving parasympathetic, which

1:15:53reduces stress. Mhm.

1:15:54>> So, if we're timing it and they know

1:15:56when their period is and they can go,

1:15:59okay, well, for the next or the 10 to 14

1:16:02days before my period starts, I'm going

1:16:04to have 10 minutes of cold water

1:16:06exposure. And over the course of 3 to 4

1:16:09months, that immune response becomes

1:16:12learned. So, it reduces symptomology.

1:16:15So, it becomes one of the treatment

1:16:16options that we have for some of our

1:16:19athletes that have endo and interferes

1:16:21with their training. Mhm.

1:16:22>> So I mean the cold water exposure is

1:16:24available there. So that's how we

1:16:26started the pilot study.

1:16:28>> Um trying someone wanted to do this at

1:16:30home.

1:16:30>> 10° C. So what is that about

1:16:34>> 40? Yeah. It feels really cold but not

1:16:37an ice bath.

1:16:37>> Not an ice bath because ice is

1:16:39>> Ice is not good for

1:16:40>> Can you get that in the shower?

1:16:42>> You you need to

1:16:43>> This is like cold submersion.

1:16:45>> Can you do that at a home tub just with

1:16:46turning on the spigot?

1:16:48>> You could if you get really cold. Yeah.

1:16:49You might want to add a little bit of

1:16:51ice and let it melt. Okay.

1:16:52>> But um not ice baths that we see in all

1:16:55the popular media because that is way

1:16:57too cold for a woman's body. It does the

1:16:59opposite. It's a severe stress and

1:17:02causes a stress response rather than a

1:17:04parasympathetic calming response that we

1:17:06want.

1:17:07>> Okay. Like Stacy said, decreasing

1:17:09inflammation in an inflammatory disease

1:17:11is key to controlling the factors you

1:17:13can. And much like we talked about

1:17:15inflammation and PCOS, we heard the same

1:17:17word right here with endometriosis.

1:17:20Chronic inflammatory diseases are the

1:17:22number one thing that we see across the

1:17:23board impacting the population but

1:17:26especially women.

1:17:28>> And so these same strategies to work on

1:17:30decreasing your own inflammation

1:17:33>> and for endo it's a little different

1:17:35because you can target it for when you

1:17:38expect to have that high inflammatory

1:17:40burden. But that's really an important

1:17:42part that we don't talk about. I don't

1:17:43see that the NHS talked about an

1:17:45anti-inflammatory diet or getting more

1:17:48sleep or cold exposure.

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1:18:54Now, on this point of birth control, one

1:18:57of the questions that came in from the

1:18:58audience was, "How terrible is birth

1:19:00control to female hormones?"

1:19:03The birth control pill shuts off the

1:19:06brain's desire to send the signal to the

1:19:08ovary to make hormones. So, it is

1:19:10ethanol estradiol, a synthetic estrogen,

1:19:13and a type of a synthetic progesterine

1:19:15or progesterone. These work, the brain

1:19:18thinks that you have estrogen and

1:19:20progesterone present. As we said, that's

1:19:22the ludial phase. And so, your brain

1:19:25says we don't need an egg to grow.

1:19:26>> Ovulation starts in the brain. Y, right?

1:19:28>> So, no FSH comes out and you're not

1:19:31going to get ovulation. So they're very

1:19:32effective for prevention of ovulation

1:19:35which is makes it a very effective

1:19:37contraceptive option. But as far as hor

1:19:40hormonal shifts, yeah, your brain's not

1:19:42sending out FSH and LH. Your ovaries are

1:19:44not going to be making estradiol or

1:19:46progesterone

1:19:47>> or testosterone.

1:19:48>> True.

1:19:49>> And so that is how they are sometimes

1:19:51helpful if you have, you know, uh some

1:19:55women get hemorrhagic cysts with

1:19:56ovulation. every every time you ovulate,

1:19:58you when you rupture that cyst, you get

1:20:00a lot of bleeding. The birth control

1:20:02pill can prevent ovulation, therefore

1:20:04prevent some women from being in

1:20:05terrible pain. If you have PCOS, they're

1:20:08often handed out like candy. One reason

1:20:10is because it will regulate your cycle

1:20:12so that you don't have these prolonged

1:20:14irregular periods, but also will

1:20:17decrease testosterone levels, which is

1:20:19sometimes a good side effect of the pill

1:20:21for women who have PCOS,

1:20:23>> back to a normal level.

1:20:24>> Yeah. But if you don't have PCOS or the

1:20:27regular person, a lot of times your

1:20:29body's tissues are not responding to

1:20:31synthetic estrogen and progesterone the

1:20:33same way it does to natural. I think

1:20:34that's a very important point. So my

1:20:36niece who competes uh at a national

1:20:40level and she's 14 started suffering

1:20:43from as she was going through her

1:20:44adolescence her acne got outrageous and

1:20:47she's a 14-year-old girl 13. start at 12

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1:20:49and a half. And of course, you know, she

1:20:51goes to the dermatologist and they're

1:20:53trying some topicals. And then finally,

1:20:55as you go down the algorithm for how we

1:20:57treat acne, one of the off label uses is

1:21:00birth control pills will lower the

1:21:02testosterone. Their skin can clear up.

1:21:04So, her father, a little concern, comes

1:21:05to me. Um, her mom passed away. Her

1:21:08stepmom had passed away. So, he didn't

1:21:09have the mom in the house to, you know,

1:21:10the immediate mom to talk to. And for

1:21:14the first time, I immediately thought of

1:21:16her athletic performance. Thank you, Dr.

1:21:18Sims and I thought she wants to go to

1:21:20the Olympics. There's no way I'm going

1:21:23to let her testosterone levels drop.

1:21:24Like, we're going to throw everything

1:21:25topical at this. And we finally found

1:21:27the right combination. Her skin looks

1:21:28great and she's super happy. But like,

1:21:30the next logical thing was to put this

1:21:3214-year-old, you know, on a birth

1:21:34control pill to get her acne under

1:21:36control, which is the end result. But

1:21:38what no one's thinking of is her

1:21:40athletic performance. How is it going to

1:21:42affect her

1:21:44>> training years leading

1:21:45>> and her training years? Like, this is

1:21:46critical for her. 16 is when the next

1:21:48trials are up for her. So that's 2 years

1:21:50from now. So we were able to get her

1:21:52acne under control, avoid the birth

1:21:54control pill, but that was nothing I'd

1:21:56ever thought of before.

1:21:57>> Well, I'm sitting here from a

1:21:59muscularkeeletal standpoint thinking

1:22:02about the high percentage of women who

1:22:05have endometriosis and PCOS and the

1:22:08complete soundingly

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1:22:11imbalance of natural hormones. Plus,

1:22:16for a lot of reasons now, girls are not

1:22:20cycling normally.

1:22:21>> Mhm.

1:22:22>> And I'm sitting here terrified for their

1:22:25bones.

1:22:25>> Yep. 100%.

1:22:27>> Because we build bone from 15 to 25.

1:22:32And if we are so inflamed that we're

1:22:35producing all kinds of inflammatory

1:22:36cytoines IG interlucan 6 and uh C

1:22:41reactive protein and tumor necrosis

1:22:43factor which halt bone development we

1:22:46don't have enough estrogen for whatever

1:22:48reason we're going to shut off our

1:22:50testosterone because it makes us feel

1:22:52better

1:22:52>> and we're not exercising

1:22:53>> and we're sitting around.

1:22:56No wonder I have 20 and 30 year olds

1:22:59with no bone density that are then going

1:23:02to go into pmenopause which we will get

1:23:04to and lose another 20%.

1:23:08>> So I was pretty feeling pretty hopeful

1:23:11that the generation Xers are going to

1:23:14get to the millennials and get to the

1:23:16whatever they're called after that.

1:23:18>> It is

1:23:19>> we're gonna be you're gonna see it get

1:23:20worse before it gets better. Exactly.

1:23:22That's what I'm sitting here terrified

1:23:23like. Okay. I thought, okay, baby

1:23:26boomers, those women missed out. Xers,

1:23:30we're doing the best we can.

1:23:32Millennials, but no, cuz now you're

1:23:35telling me our 15 to 25 year olds are

1:23:39still in the same detriment with muscle

1:23:42and bone building.

1:23:44We are trying to change the narrative.

1:23:46That's the group we're trying to target

1:23:48right now. And I do think by educating

1:23:51across the lifespan, we're going to

1:23:53change how those of us who have 11 and

1:23:5612 year olds what we recommend. I I

1:23:59treat girls in their teen years when

1:24:01they come to me without their period

1:24:03much differently than a lot of other

1:24:06people do. But this is learned

1:24:07experience. Instead of just you don't

1:24:09have a period, here's a birth control

1:24:11pill. Say you're not making estrogen and

1:24:13this is a crucial time for you. Let's

1:24:15give you estrogen. Let's talk about why

1:24:17you're not. what can we do to change it?

1:24:20And so this discussion is more than just

1:24:22disease state important like PCOS and

1:24:24endometriosis. It's truly important

1:24:27across the lifespan of a woman. The

1:24:29choices that are being made in her early

1:24:32reproductive timeline is going to impact

1:24:35her longevity.

1:24:36>> Can I ask all of you what you would have

1:24:38done differently

1:24:39>> for ourselves?

1:24:40>> Yeah, for yourselves. Obviously, I know

1:24:42several of you have daughters as well,

1:24:43but what would you have done? I wish

1:24:46everybody could see all of your faces.

1:24:49>> Oh yeah, I've talked about this before.

1:24:51I mean, I was amenoric until I was 20.

1:24:54>> What's amenoric?

1:24:55>> Didn't have periods.

1:24:56>> Okay.

1:24:57>> Because of high stress, high sport, you

1:24:59know, didn't care, didn't eat well in

1:25:02the whole um mindset of the, you know, '

1:25:0490s of calories in, calories out. If

1:25:07you're thinner, then you'll run better.

1:25:09If you're running better, then you're

1:25:11going to hit different metrics. cuz I

1:25:13was a runner in high school and then

1:25:15joined the crew team. Same thing. So, if

1:25:18I could go back and talk to my younger

1:25:19self, I would have been like, "You need

1:25:20to eat, you need to recover, you need to

1:25:22eat, you need to recover." Instead of

1:25:24the mantra of calories in, calories out,

1:25:26more cardio, lose weight, lose weight,

1:25:28lose weight. Because now I educate

1:25:30people is you want to take up space, you

1:25:32want to be strong, you want to look at

1:25:34um not the idea of losing something, but

1:25:36gaining something, gaining that power,

1:25:38gaining that strength, gaining that

1:25:40bone, gaining that muscle, gaining your

1:25:42period. Those are the things that I'm

1:25:44trying to educate the younger generation

1:25:46cuz that was not impressed upon me as a

1:25:49younger athlete, which then had a lot of

1:25:51repercussions later in life. Luckily, my

1:25:54bone density is fine.

1:25:56>> So,

1:25:56>> were you on the contraceptive pill? No,

1:25:58>> you might. Okay.

1:26:00>> I was um not an athlete, so mere mortal.

1:26:04And um

1:26:06uh but it's so you've you've you've been

1:26:08able to take that experience though and

1:26:10apply what you've learned in this this

1:26:11high int, you know, working with these

1:26:14intense athletes to the to the regular,

1:26:16you know, to people who don't exercise

1:26:18at that level. And

1:26:21you know, I completely fell under the

1:26:25the expectation of the aesthetics of it.

1:26:29>> When I did exercise, I exercised to look

1:26:31a certain way. And then in my 30s, I

1:26:34exercised for performance. I started

1:26:36running half marathons. I was doing baby

1:26:38triathlons, really short ones with my

1:26:40girlfriends. It was a social thing and

1:26:41it was super fun. You know, I was

1:26:43running for time. Now I'm exercising for

1:26:46my old lady body. Yep. You know, I'm

1:26:48exercising to be in a bigger body cuz I

1:26:50know my mother and my grandmother. So,

1:26:53my grandmother spent the last 10 years

1:26:54of her life in a bed incontinent with

1:26:57dementia and completely frail.

1:27:01And my mother is on the same course. My

1:27:02mother is 88, fell and broke her hip in

1:27:05January. She just now is walking on a

1:27:08walk or she's in assisted living

1:27:09facility for Alzheimer's.

1:27:11I want to change that legacy for my

1:27:13children. I don't want that to be my

1:27:15path and I don't want my children to

1:27:19have that to be an expectation.

1:27:21So all of the things I would have done

1:27:24differently was

1:27:26I wanted to be thin. Thin was healthy.

1:27:28That is what I learned in medical

1:27:30school. The thinner you were up to

1:27:31starvation, you know, up to you want the

1:27:34lowest body mass index possible without

1:27:38being a little bit too low, you know.

1:27:39And I kind of skirted that line because

1:27:41I stopped eating in medical school due

1:27:42to stress. I would have fed myself. I

1:27:44would have lifted weights. I would have

1:27:46stopped doing so much cardio because

1:27:48knowing I was chipping away at my bone

1:27:50density. I was chipping away. I was

1:27:53raising my inflammation levels. I was

1:27:54chipping away at my ability to resist

1:27:56the Alzheimer's, you know, and dementia

1:27:58that runs in my family. And that's what

1:28:01I'm trying to impress. My girls are 21

1:28:03and 25. What I'm trying trying to

1:28:06impress on them.

1:28:07>> But that's the mentality that we grew up

1:28:09in, right? When you're looking at the

1:28:11supermodels of the '9s and Kate Moss and

1:28:14it was all

1:28:15>> heroin chic.

1:28:15>> Yes, heroin chic, which is the worry now

1:28:17with the GLP1s coming back and the

1:28:21ballerina body and all the things that

1:28:23we're seeing come back again.

1:28:25>> And it's it is worrisome.

1:28:27You know, when I think about I mean,

1:28:29I've already told the world now about

1:28:32having low body fat, maybe being POS and

1:28:35not knowing it, not ever talking about

1:28:37that, having no periods, but then so

1:28:40there was that in my youth that that I

1:28:43would have done better, but that it

1:28:45didn't end in my youth. I mean, I went

1:28:48to college, same. I went to grad school,

1:28:52still same. I went to medical school and

1:28:55in medical school and

1:28:57four years of medical school, seven

1:28:59years of residency and fellowship. Still

1:29:02didn't eat, still wasn't having periods.

1:29:05I didn't sleep for about 11 years,

1:29:07whether between call every third night

1:29:09and then I had a baby and then I was

1:29:11awake for two years cuz she slept with

1:29:13me. That's another discussion. But I

1:29:16think of all these things that I wish I

1:29:18knew then that I know now. I have the

1:29:21same goal. I have four 30-year-old

1:29:24daughters and I have a 17-year-old and

1:29:28they are not going to be allowed to hit

1:29:30a wall like some of us may because we

1:29:33didn't know.

1:29:34>> And were you on the birth control pill?

1:29:37>> You know, intermittently. Uh probably

1:29:39totally in my life about 10 years, but

1:29:44um not continuously.

1:29:47>> And Mary, I forgot to ask, were you on

1:29:49the birth control? Yeah, you were off

1:29:50and on for 20 years.

1:29:53>> So, polycystic ovarian syndrome that was

1:29:55the treatment. I mean, I learned about

1:29:57nutrition kind of on the back end. But

1:30:00the life that I had set up for myself

1:30:02between, you know, medical school,

1:30:04residency, and then going into the field

1:30:07of OBGYn with limited sleep, you know,

1:30:10working 100hour weeks there. I didn't

1:30:13have a environment that would have been

1:30:16conducive to be able to manage that

1:30:17disease

1:30:19with lifestyle

1:30:21and I can look back and say that

1:30:23honestly now

1:30:24>> um

1:30:26with without using the crutch of the

1:30:28birth control pill to manage my

1:30:30symptoms.

1:30:32>> I was on the birth control pill for

1:30:33probably 15 years continuously. And you

1:30:36know, we have to give credit where

1:30:38credit's due because I was able to

1:30:40pursue medical training and not worry

1:30:43about what family building looked like

1:30:46for me, which was really important

1:30:48because I was not ready to have a child.

1:30:51So, anytime we frame a discussion around

1:30:53birth control, I always want to say it's

1:30:55not ever going to fit into one bucket of

1:30:56all good or all bad. It's going to be,

1:30:58you know, different stages of life,

1:30:59different things are important. I didn't

1:31:01stop it soon enough to learn to track my

1:31:03cycle. I didn't recognize cycle

1:31:05abnormalities when I had recurrent

1:31:07miscarriages. I had a really hard time

1:31:09knowing is this how my cycle's supposed

1:31:12to be or not because I never had the

1:31:14opportunity to just have periods and see

1:31:16what is my normal. I stopped it and

1:31:18started trying right away and got into a

1:31:22cycle of having a pregnancy and that

1:31:24would last for a while and then I would

1:31:26lose it. So I really lost the

1:31:28opportunity to say this is my baseline

1:31:30and oh there might be a problem here or

1:31:32to intervene. I wish id advocated more

1:31:34when I had my own pregnancy losses. I

1:31:37was told over and over, there's nothing

1:31:38you can do. This is nothing. Just keep

1:31:40trying. And even as somebody in the

1:31:42field, that felt very dismissive and is

1:31:44a fuel for a lot of what I do now. But

1:31:47on a personal level, you know, 10 years

1:31:48after having those pregnancy losses, I

1:31:51was diagnosed with celiac disease

1:31:54because I had osteopenia on a dexa scam.

1:31:57>> And so I had

1:31:58>> to explain what that is.

1:31:59>> Yeah. So celiac disease is essentially

1:32:01an allergic reaction to gluten. So when

1:32:03I was taking gluten, which is in most of

1:32:05your carbohydrates

1:32:07or the good stuff like breads and

1:32:08pastas, when I was eating those, it was

1:32:11causing an inflammatory reaction inside

1:32:14my body, making my gut unhealthy and

1:32:16kind of creating a baseline level of,

1:32:18let's say, chronic inflammation.

1:32:20>> And recurrent pregnancy loss can be one

1:32:22of the signs and symptoms of it in

1:32:24addition to just some other what feel

1:32:26like very generalized symptoms. fatigue,

1:32:30low energy, headaches, GI distress,

1:32:33>> WW.

1:32:34>> Yeah, I was a whiny woman. And when some

1:32:38of these symptoms finally got to a state

1:32:40where they were getting worse, probably

1:32:41with hormonal change with age, and my

1:32:44doctor ordered a bone scan, and it came

1:32:45back that I had osteopenia, which is

1:32:48very low density of my bones for my age

1:32:51>> and especially at the time, you know, no

1:32:54known medical problems. And so luckily

1:32:56had somebody who was very committed to

1:32:57not labeling me a WW and saying I think

1:33:00you're not absorbing something correctly

1:33:02to get on this pathway to figure out

1:33:04that because of this autoimmune disease

1:33:06celiac disease I wasn't my gut was

1:33:09inflamed. I wasn't be able to absorb the

1:33:10nutrients that I needed.

1:33:12>> But somebody had to be committed on the

1:33:14other end because these symptoms went on

1:33:15for so long. I just accepted them. I let

1:33:18them be. But I also am scared because

1:33:21those critical bone building years I was

1:33:23on the

1:33:23>> PEL

1:33:25>> and I used it continuously which means

1:33:27every single day all the time

1:33:29>> I you know I know I was chronically

1:33:31inflamed and so now I'm at a stage of my

1:33:34life at 43 saying I've got to try to

1:33:36catch up before it's too late and that

1:33:38is scary

1:33:39>> and can you catch up?

1:33:41>> Yes. Yes, you can build bone. Um

1:33:44>> because you know I see all these grass

1:33:46wonder that

1:33:47>> you know you kind of

1:33:49>> yes

1:33:49>> you go

1:33:50>> curve but yeah and then it goes down

1:33:52from your wherever you manage to get it

Yes, You Can Build Bone in Your 40s!

1:33:54up to. So I'm telling all my friends at

1:33:55the moment thanks to you I'm telling all

1:33:56of them to get their muscle and their

1:33:57bone as high as possible because it's

1:33:59probably going to fall with age

1:34:01naturally.

1:34:02>> Well everyone

1:34:03ages. Yeah. Age is the most natural

1:34:06thing we do from the minute of our

1:34:08birth. But men and women age at

1:34:11different rates, especially

1:34:13after pmenopause with the the lack of

1:34:17estrogen, we rate we age very

1:34:19differently from that point on. But your

1:34:22point being made is can we please

1:34:24maximize our bone density and our muscle

1:34:27mass and everything else frankly

1:34:30in our youth when we're probably not

1:34:32aware, right? When we're in college and

1:34:34doing all the things kids do, it's the

1:34:37last thing on our mind. And yet it's the

1:34:38most critical time because you want to

1:34:41start both your bone and your muscle

1:34:42from the highest possible level. Now,

1:34:46can you through lifestyle and hormones

1:34:49build bone again? Yes, actually you can.

1:34:52But wouldn't it have been better to

1:34:54start out with the maximum so that the

1:34:57natural decline doesn't take you into

1:34:59dangerous levels?

1:35:00>> Right.

1:35:01>> Mhm.

1:35:01>> On that point of birth control, what are

1:35:02you saying to your daughters that wasn't

1:35:04said to you? Are you Because Mel

1:35:06regrets, my girlfriend, she's very open.

1:35:08She regrets being on the birth control

1:35:09pill for 10 years because she had no

1:35:10idea what it what it was doing to her

1:35:12body. And then obviously when she came

Advice to Your Daughters

1:35:14off her cycle, I think she spent like

1:35:15you, Natalie, 2 years trying to figure

1:35:17out what was going on and she didn't

1:35:19have her period for an extended period

1:35:20of time after she came off. What are you

1:35:22saying to your daughters about the birth

1:35:23control pill that wasn't said to you?

1:35:26Are you recommending them to use it how

1:35:27you guys used it or

1:35:28>> I mean, we were started on it so young.

1:35:30I I do see a trend towards not starting

1:35:33it as young as it was started in our

1:35:36generation and I think that that is

1:35:38important. I see, you know, personally,

1:35:41my daughter is not quite at that stage

1:35:42yet. So, we haven't had to make these

1:35:45decisions as um they have had to, but I

1:35:48do think it's cycle awareness is one of

1:35:50the few early signs you have of your

1:35:52body's health as a young woman. And so,

1:35:55to purposefully never get to know what

1:35:57that is, is a detriment to saying, "I'm

1:36:00aware of what's healthy for me and I

1:36:02know what's happening in my body." But

1:36:03you guys have had these discussions at

1:36:05different time periods. For my youngest

1:36:07daughter,

1:36:10we I was worried about uh she was a

1:36:12dancer also. She was teeny tiny. So tiny

1:36:17even though she had great muscle mass,

1:36:18but she like me wasn't having periods.

1:36:20And so the advice was to put her on

1:36:23birth control to regulate periods. But I

1:36:26was always uncomfortable with that

1:36:28because she didn't to be a dancer. She

1:36:30didn't have to be quite as tiny as she

1:36:32was. And so what we have done now is

1:36:36I've encouraged her to gain a little

1:36:37weight and get a little bit more body

1:36:40fat because I took her off of that. She

1:36:43only had to gain 5 lbs. I think I said

1:36:45to you, maybe seven and it has more

1:36:48regulated her and she's having her own

1:36:51periods now. And so I don't know what

1:36:54she's going to decide. She's going to be

1:36:5518 soon. And but I think what we should

1:36:58be telling our daughters is all the

1:37:01information so that they can make an

1:37:03educated decision because I just did

1:37:07what I was told

1:37:09>> and I'm a doctor and I and but I'm not

1:37:11an OB so I don't understand the nuances

1:37:13of what the pill is that it's synthetic

1:37:17that this is how it works this is what

1:37:19it doesn't do. So I would want to give

1:37:22my daughters all the information so that

1:37:25they can make an educated decision.

1:37:27>> So my oldest, the first one coming

1:37:29through, uh wanted it for contraception.

1:37:33And so when we talk about contraception,

1:37:35it's not just most people automatically

1:37:37think the oral birth control pill, but I

1:37:39did go through all of the options with

Should You Wear a Coil or IUD?

1:37:41her and then sent her to a trusted

1:37:43friend um to let her go and make her own

1:37:46decision. and she decided to have an an

1:37:48IUD inserted, which I thought was a

1:37:50great choice for her cuz she had normal

1:37:51regular periods before we did this.

1:37:53There were no issues. And she had it

1:37:56inserted and then within a week she

1:37:59started having severe cramping, called

1:38:01me into the bathroom. And this is my

1:38:02daughter who has not let me see her

1:38:04unclothed since she was 7 years old.

1:38:06She's just very private and she's like

1:38:08writhing on the floor. Bless her little

1:38:10heart. And she had expelled the IUD on

1:38:13her own. She had cramped it out uterus

1:38:16pushed it out of her body and it was

1:38:18extraordinarily painful and so we

1:38:20basically delivered the IUD on her

1:38:22bathroom.

1:38:22>> So do you know what an IUD is?

1:38:24>> Is not the coil

1:38:26>> is

1:38:26>> that's one form of an IUD. She had a

1:38:28different form but she basically pushed

1:38:31out her own IUD her uterus

1:38:32>> uterine device. So it's birth control

1:38:34that is placed inside the uterus

1:38:36>> and it's shaped like a tea.

1:38:37>> It is shaped like a most is shaped like

1:38:39a tea. the UK they use the coil still

1:38:42quite a bit which is copper and so um

1:38:45there's different there's different

1:38:46options for the IUD some contain

1:38:48progesterine some contain just the

1:38:50copper and so the way an IUD works is

1:38:53that it creates an inflammatory response

1:38:55in the uterus so that um the cervical

1:38:58mucus thickens so that when we are

1:39:01fertile in our for fertility window

1:39:03midcycle and jump in if I mess this up

1:39:05the mucus of the cervix thins to the

1:39:07point where sperm can actually get

1:39:08through most of the month probably 85 to

1:39:1190% of the month the sperm cannot

1:39:12traverse the cervix you cannot you know

1:39:15so in our fertility window right at

1:39:18ovulation the cervical mucus thins and

1:39:20then the sperm can transmit so the you

1:39:22the the presence of the IUD creates an

1:39:25inflammatory environment that will

1:39:26basically is toxic to sperm and thickens

1:39:28the cervical mucus where it becomes a

1:39:30plug that's how it works works very very

1:39:32well Katherine within a week her uterus

1:39:35ejected it so she cramped so much that

1:39:37it pushed it through and so that wasn't

1:39:40an option for her. She wasn't willing to

1:39:43go through that again. So then at that

1:39:45point she had to go through the hormonal

1:39:46options for for that and she decided to

1:39:50have the implant. So it's progesterone

1:39:52only implanted in her arm. Quickly we

1:39:55realized she needed some estrogen. So we

1:39:56she supplements estrogen on top of that.

1:39:59Stephen, I think the contraceptive

1:40:00discussion we have to say that there are

1:40:03options that are highly effective at

1:40:04preventing pregnancy and at some times

1:40:06in your life that is the number one most

1:40:08important goal and we need to choose a

1:40:10highly effective option. However,

1:40:13certain some of those options included

1:40:15have downstream impacts that have not

1:40:17been discussed about. The typical

1:40:18contraceptive discussion says here are

1:40:20some side effects you may have. If you

1:40:23want to still proceed, let's go for it.

1:40:25We're not talking about long-term

1:40:26implications of these. We're just

1:40:28talking about how you're going to feel,

1:40:29not exactly what is happening in your

1:40:31body. A lot of these contraceptive

1:40:33options are progesterone only. And so,

1:40:36you know, by your new favorite graph

1:40:38that you don't see progesterone every

1:40:40single day. So, when you have

1:40:42progesterone only, it is shifting your

1:40:45hormonal profile. And a lot of women,

1:40:47this progesterone is so high that it

1:40:49works by also preventing ovulation.

1:40:51Makes it highly effective. But if you're

1:40:53not ovulating, you're not going to be

1:40:55making those high estrogen levels. And

1:40:57Dr. Haver and I have even talked about

1:40:58how we wish there was a contraceptive

1:41:00option that had estradiol in it so that

1:41:04your body could still have some estradi.

1:41:06>> Estradiol. So this ethanol estradiol is

1:41:09very different than plain estradiol.

1:41:11They've they've put this estester group

1:41:12on the end which makes it bind to the

1:41:15estrogen receptor in the brain 300 times

A New Form of Contraceptive Pill

1:41:19more

1:41:20>> powerful

1:41:21>> powerful than regular estradile.

1:41:23>> Yeah.

1:41:24>> Which is why it's so effective. you know

1:41:25why we do it in a micro dose versus

1:41:27estradiol is dosed in milligrams and

1:41:30ethanol estradile is dosed in micrograms

1:41:32because it is that much more potent. Um

1:41:36so very very different. Now in the UK

1:41:38and in other places in Europe there is a

1:41:40new form of contraception that has

1:41:42asteratrol which is the fetal estrogen.

1:41:45So we have four natural estrogens in the

1:41:46body. The ovary produces estradile.

1:41:49That's the one we all know. It it it's

1:41:51really the biggest bang for our buck.

1:41:52The placenta produces something called

1:41:54estriol. Our fat cells and in the

1:41:57peripheral tissues, the tissues outside

1:41:59of the ovaries can produce something

1:42:00called estrone. And then we have this

1:42:03fetal estrogen called eststeratrol, if

1:42:06I'm pronouncing it correctly. And so

1:42:08they've they've compounded they've been

1:42:09able to formulate that. Um, so it is one

1:42:12of the natural estrogens and they've put

1:42:14it in a birth control pill that is

1:42:15available in the UK.

1:42:16>> If you were 18, what choice would you

1:42:18make for contraception? No,

1:42:20>> studies have proven within a shadow of a

1:42:23doubt that relying on natural family

1:42:25planning at most ages is not a reliable

1:42:28form of contraception. So I would not

1:42:30recommend that and relying on condoms.

1:42:32>> What do you mean by natur relying on

1:42:34natural family?

1:42:34>> So you timing your intercourse.

1:42:36>> Oh okay.

1:42:37>> So cycle tracking we know that the

1:42:38fertile window is the 5 days before and

1:42:40the day of ovulation

1:42:42>> 5 days before

1:42:43>> 5 days before and then the day of. Sperm

1:42:44can live for 5 days in the female

1:42:46reproductive tract. The egg lives for 24

1:42:48hours. So on this graph, where is

1:42:50>> Yep. So the line right is ovulation and

1:42:53then the 5 days before.

1:42:54>> Yeah.

1:42:54>> Yeah. So in popular culture, you would

1:42:56call that natural family planning.

1:42:58>> Okay. Fine.

1:42:59>> Avoiding intercourse.

1:43:00>> Abstaining any time in that window.

1:43:03>> But but if I if I'm trying to get male

1:43:05pregnant, then I should really be

1:43:06aiming.

1:43:06>> Yeah. Those are your target days.

1:43:07>> Yeah.

1:43:08>> There apps for that you can track.

1:43:09>> Yeah.

1:43:10>> Oh, I've got the app. Yeah.

1:43:11>> Okay.

1:43:12>> Oh, he knows. Remember the variability.

1:43:15>> He's made download it nine times.

1:43:17There's a few different ways you can do

1:43:19natural family planning to hijack the

1:43:20discussion for a minute and they have

1:43:22different degrees of effectiveness, but

1:43:24one of the main issues is that they have

1:43:26very large abstinence windows. So, it's

1:43:28often not very sustainable to say,

1:43:30"Well, we're just not going to have

1:43:31intercourse for 18 days out of the month

The Best Contraceptive Method

1:43:33or some very long time period, depending

1:43:35on which one, because your cycle's never

1:43:38perfect. What if you did ovulate sooner?

1:43:41If this is all you're relying on for

1:43:43your prevention of pregnancy, you have

1:43:45to really assure that you know when that

1:43:47ovulation is happening, it can be an

1:43:50effective way to prevent pregnancy if

1:43:52your cycles are very regular. But in my

1:43:54brain, I wish that's what you stop the

1:43:57birth control pill at least 6 months

1:43:58before you want to get pregnant. And

1:44:00then you start learning how to track

1:44:01your cycles and you're using some

1:44:03natural family planning if you're not

1:44:04quite ready then because the margin of

1:44:07error, oopsies, it didn't work. the

1:44:09acceptance of well we were going to try

1:44:11to get pregnant soon is usually okay.

1:44:14It's not an effective contraception for

1:44:16most of the population. We have to

1:44:18factor in when we're looking at, you

1:44:20know, I was trained and taught to only

1:44:22look at birth control through the lens

1:44:24of contraception, right? We know that

1:44:26they might have some weird bleeding and

1:44:27maybe a few headaches. And for some a

1:44:29DVT, if they have, you know, deep venus

1:44:31thrombosis, you can have blood clots.

1:44:32It'll increase your risk, especially if

1:44:34you have a pre-genetic disposition to

1:44:36that. But what we didn't talk about were

1:44:38mental health, mood, and some of the

1:44:39long downstream libido effects. So,

1:44:43>> of of taking,

1:44:44>> right? And so then I'm looking at it

1:44:46through the lens of, you know, if I'm

1:44:48only looking at on the lens of she

1:44:50doesn't want to be pregnant

1:44:52younger patient. So you're talking about

1:44:5418 is less likely to remember to do

1:44:56something every day.

1:44:58>> Correct.

1:44:58>> Okay.

1:44:59>> So then to take the impetus of

1:45:01remembering to take a pill every day or

1:45:03change a patch once a week um for the

1:45:06patch option. Then we're looking at

1:45:08maybe a vaginal ring that she inserts

1:45:10for 3 weeks and removes for one for her

1:45:12period.

1:45:13>> Pick one. If I had to pick one right

1:45:15now, if I was if it was available in the

1:45:17US, I think I would go with the

1:45:20Asteratrol.

1:45:21>> What's that

1:45:22>> option? That's the one she's saying is

1:45:23in the UK, a newer option that we don't

1:45:25have. No, it's still a pill. It's still

1:45:26a pill. Yeah. And it's it's because it

1:45:29it more

1:45:31>> it looks like so far it's newer that it

1:45:34has less of the downstream effects. So

1:45:36you're not having that complete

1:45:38suppression, you know, that complete

1:45:40binding and it's it's, you know, may

1:45:43have and also probably has less risk of

1:45:46um DVT of blood.

1:45:49>> I'll jump on this. I do not love

1:45:51intrauterine device for a patient who is

1:45:5418 for a multitude of reasons. Now, I'm

1:45:56going to preface this to say it is an

1:45:59highly effective contraceptive choice.

1:46:01It's one of the most effective ones that

1:46:02we have. And so there are certainly

1:46:04circumstances where that is the right

1:46:06thing to do. We've had IUDs in practice

1:46:09for a really long time. For the majority

1:46:11of this, we were only placing them in

1:46:13women after they had given birth at

1:46:14least once because of their size and

1:46:17being able to pass them through the

1:46:18cervix. Now we have different options

1:46:20and we are offering them to women

1:46:21younger, which is wonderful. However,

1:46:25when we're putting IUDs in the uterus of

1:46:27women who are really young, sometimes

1:46:29the progesterone dose in them is so high

1:46:30that it is preventing ovulation. And we

1:46:33are seeing young women who are not

1:46:35ovulating and they are not making

1:46:36estrogen therefore and they don't even

1:46:39really realize it because

1:46:41that's not disclosed as one of the main

1:46:44mechanisms of a progesterone IUD because

1:46:46it doesn't happen in enough people to

1:46:48effectively prevent conception that way.

1:46:51It works through the inflammation, the

1:46:53cervical mucus changes.

1:46:54>> And why does that matter? Because if you

1:46:56are not ovulating and you're not making

1:46:58estrogen, you are going to have low

1:47:00libido, low energy, you're not going to

1:47:02build your bones during critical years.

1:47:04Let's say let's say the IUD lasts 5 to

1:47:07seven years. You're 18 to 25. These are

1:47:09some of the most critical years in your

1:47:12mental health, your bone health, your

1:47:13cardiac health. And being low estrogen

1:47:16during that time

1:47:17>> is going to set you up on a different

1:47:20risk trajectory for your entire life.

1:47:22And the worst thing here about the

1:47:24progesterone IUD is that because of the

1:47:27progesterone, which will thin the

1:47:29lining, many women just say, "I don't

1:47:31have my period because my lining is so

1:47:34thin." And that's a side effect of the

1:47:36IUD. If that same woman was not

1:47:39ovulating, and came to me and said, "I

1:47:41haven't had a period in 7 years, and I

1:47:44knew she was low estrogen and not

1:47:45ovulating." We're highly concerned about

1:47:48her health. But because she has an IUD,

1:47:50what happens? Well, that's a side effect

1:47:52of IUD. No big deal.

1:47:54>> So, we're missing the moment to

1:47:56understand where are some of these

1:47:58symptoms just side effect of the IUD or

1:48:01are they having a much bigger role in

1:48:05what's going to happen to that woman's

1:48:06long-term trajectory for being low

1:48:08estrogen during crucial years? And I'll

1:48:11say this, Stephen, I'm very biased,

1:48:12right? I'm a fertility doctor. I see

1:48:14patients who have trouble getting

1:48:16pregnant. That is a narrow subset. That

1:48:18is not the majority of women who have

1:48:20IUDs.

1:48:21>> So, what would you suggest if you had to

1:48:22pick one contraceptive?

1:48:24>> Vasectomy.

1:48:27>> Yeah,

1:48:27>> I would still do I would still do the

1:48:29pill right now. The pill or the vaginal

1:48:30ring? You know, I think they are both

1:48:32depending on somebody's personal

1:48:33preference. I just think that it's

1:48:36really important if you're using the

1:48:37birth control pill. I do think it's

1:48:39important to give your brain a break

1:48:41from the pill at times and even if

1:48:43you're cycling it monthly, you there's

1:48:44options now. I took the pill, an active

1:48:47pill. every single day for for years, a

1:48:52decade probably, meaning suppressed my

1:48:55brain completely for that long. Now,

1:48:59your brain sends out hormone signals

1:49:01that impact your entire body, right? So,

1:49:03we already talked about the hormones and

1:49:04how it's this beautifully conducted

1:49:06symphony. But if you even if you're

1:49:09going to take the pill at that young

1:49:10age, I would say take it so that you

1:49:13have the seven days of not t not taking

1:49:15a pill. let your brain have a moment of

1:49:17release from the suppression and then

1:49:19take it again. That's still a very

1:49:20effective way to use the pill. But

1:49:22because women don't love having periods,

1:49:24we've offered these other options which

1:49:26are not wrong, but they just have a

1:49:29bigger consequence downstream

1:49:33than we're talking about. But the pill

1:49:34is very short acting. It only has a

1:49:36halfife of 28 hours, meaning it is out

1:49:38of your body very quickly. So, you do

1:49:40want to stop the pill and see what is

1:49:42happening and track your cycles. That is

1:49:44something nice about it versus an

1:49:46implant or an IUD. That is

1:49:48>> fit and forget.

1:49:49>> The fit and forgets that people like

1:49:51>> set it and forget.

1:49:52>> Yeah.

1:49:52>> Yeah. The question that came in from the

1:49:5410,00 women we spoke to in the diarrhea

1:49:56audience was, is there any way to

1:49:58control hormonal mood swings during the

1:50:00luil phase of the menstrual cycle, which

1:50:02I now know is the second phase of the

1:50:05menstrual cycle.

1:50:05>> Stephen, you've learned so much. Yes,

1:50:07>> that's great. I love that. In the ludal

1:50:09phase, we do tend to see more mood

1:50:11changes and physical changes. And a lot

1:50:13of this is because we have an increase

1:50:16in estrogen and progesterone and then a

1:50:18decrease in both of these hormones. And

1:50:21what we find is that some women are

1:50:22simply more sensitive to these changes.

1:50:25They feel them quite profoundly. And

1:50:27there's even something called PMDD,

1:50:29premenstrual dysphoric disorder, which

1:50:30is when those hormones are dropping. You

1:50:33get these terrible mood swings, this

1:50:35terrible depression and anxiety in

1:50:36addition to physical changes with

1:50:38terrible fatigue. You just feel like you

1:50:41can't accomplish any of your tasks,

1:50:42insomnia, quite similar to a lot of the

1:50:45things that we talk about anytime we

1:50:46talk about a low estrogen state,

1:50:48>> right? Like po we see it in um

1:50:51postpartum depression. It's a very

1:50:53similar and in the permenopause

1:50:55transition, we have a 40% increase in

1:50:58mental health changes. And we know this

1:51:01>> because women tell us and we believe

1:51:03them. But what's happening is that our

1:51:05neurotransmitters, especially GABA,

1:51:07serotonin, and dopamine levels are

1:51:10highly tied to what our hormone levels

1:51:12are doing.

1:51:13>> Yeah. So is this

1:51:16>> is the mood swing or is the is the

1:51:20what's the right term to describe a mood

1:51:22when someone doesn't feel great?

1:51:24>> Dysphoria.

1:51:24>> Dysphoria

1:51:25>> is the deoria mood after the period or

1:51:28before it.

1:51:29>> It's often it's before. So the estrogen

1:51:31is dropping before and it stays low

1:51:33through. So what happens is about the

1:51:35week before your period and then the

1:51:37week we'll say of your period you are

1:51:39estrogen low. The rise of estrogen from

1:51:42that next egg being recruited is

1:51:43actually what stops you from bleeding

1:51:45and helps you start to feel better.

1:51:47Because of this, a lot of people will

1:51:48throw a birth control pill at this

1:51:50situation because they will say, "I will

1:51:52give you constant hormone levels every

1:51:54day and now you will not have these PMDD

1:51:57symptoms anymore." However, a lot of

1:51:59women don't want to be on the pill for a

1:52:01variety of the different reasons we've

1:52:02talked about. They just feel bad, let's

1:52:04say, this week or this 7 to 10 day

1:52:06interval. They don't want to suppress

1:52:08ovulation. I find that a lowd dose

1:52:10estrogen in the ludial phase can be very

1:52:12effective in targeting after ovulation.

1:52:15I'm going to take some estrogen helping

1:52:17alleviate these symptoms without

1:52:19interfering with ovulatory function. But

1:52:22I was trained to give them an SSRI for

1:52:24those 7 to 10 days.

1:52:25>> An anti-depressant pill.

1:52:26>> Yes, an anti-depressant only for those

1:52:28two weeks. Saraphim was that the brand

1:52:30name of it. And it does tend to help.

1:52:33But what no one taught me and what

1:52:35clinical experience has taught me and

1:52:37talking to all these other smart people

1:52:39is a lowd dose estrogen like

1:52:42>> treating the root cause

1:52:43>> treating the root cause. Just just give

1:52:45her estrogen back during that time

1:52:47period and she gets remarkably better.

1:52:49>> In some of the nutrition research

1:52:51finding that low iron and low vitamin D

1:52:54are huge contributors to it. So there's

1:52:57that research to investigate too, which

1:52:59is interesting because there are some

1:53:01women also who don't want to go on SSRI

1:53:04or

1:53:04>> estradile.

1:53:05>> So, you know, the endocrine society does

1:53:08not recommend routine testing of vitamin

1:53:10D.

1:53:10>> It's crazy. I I just think it's insane.

1:53:12>> Yeah.

1:53:12>> With my partner, I should anticipate

1:53:14that her mood might drop in the leadup

1:53:16to her having her period.

1:53:18>> Mhm. It's very common.

1:53:19>> And then after her period, it would

1:53:21might recover. And whether or not that

1:53:23becomes clinically significant, whether

1:53:25or not it's life disruptive for her

1:53:26rather than she just has a little bit of

1:53:28a low mood, most women can tolerate

1:53:29that. But for those who can't and that

1:53:32it is disrupting their day-to-day

1:53:34activities and how they feel about the

1:53:36world, we have options.

1:53:38>> Yeah.

1:53:39>> Cuz I'm trying to understand I want to

1:53:40understand her better. So I'm looking at

1:53:42this little graph here which says the

1:53:44brain during the menstrual cycle. So the

1:53:47menstrual cycle starts when her period

1:53:49starts

1:53:50>> by convention. Yes. That's what we say.

1:53:51Day one is the first day you start

1:53:52bleeding.

1:53:53>> Okay. And so what is she going to go

1:53:55through for the next 29 days? And how

1:53:57might I support her better through that

1:53:59journey?

1:54:00>> Like I want to understand what's going

1:54:01on in her brain.

1:54:02>> Her brain starts by s from a

1:54:05reproductive hormone level. The brain

1:54:06starts by sending out FSH, follical

1:54:08stimulating hormone, which is going to

1:54:10get her ovary to start growing an egg

1:54:13which lives inside a follicle and making

1:54:15estrogen. And that rise in estrogen as

1:54:17it's growing will stop her from

1:54:18bleeding. So the beginning that cycle

1:54:20day one, the bleeding that she's

1:54:22experiencing or her period is because

1:54:25she didn't get pregnant in the month

1:54:26before. So it's getting rid of that

1:54:28indometrial lining, cleaning the slate.

1:54:30She's estrogen and progesterone low

1:54:32during that time period. And then once

1:54:34her bleeding stops, it's because an egg

1:54:36has been chosen. Estrogen is then going

1:54:38to rise until it gets to that peak

1:54:40level. During that time, she's going to

1:54:42feel her best for most women.

1:54:44>> So is that the first 14 days? So the

1:54:46week by convention if you had a 28 day

1:54:48cycle which only about 13% of women

1:54:51actually do but all of these graphs if

1:54:53you look at usually use 28 days because

1:54:54it's easy to go week by week

1:54:57>> and that's the lunar calendar.

1:54:58>> Yeah 28 days.

1:55:00>> We see that but we have to acknowledge

1:55:01that most women don't have a 28 day

1:55:03cycle. So but it is roughly the first

1:55:06two weeks for most women to get up to

1:55:08that ovulatory time period. So the time

1:55:10from I have started bleeding until I am

1:55:13now ovulating, that is all considered

1:55:15the follicular phase.

1:55:17>> And on this little image that I have in

1:55:19front of me here, it says in those first

1:55:2014 days, she's going to have better

1:55:22spatial skills and be more anxious.

1:55:24>> So once you get to your estrogen

1:55:26dominant, so you have a lot of estrogen

1:55:29and you don't have progesterone, most

1:55:30women can are have increased

1:55:32concentration. They have more focus.

1:55:34They actually can sleep better. They

1:55:35have higher libido. you feel like your

1:55:38performance even for athletes

1:55:39performance tends to be improved

1:55:40aggression concentration more yeah

1:55:43>> during what we call the late follicular

1:55:44phase so that means the time period when

1:55:46you're really making that estrogen let's

1:55:48call it days 7 to 14 for ease so I'm now

1:55:52done bleeding a follicle is growing

1:55:54meaning an egg is making enough estrogen

1:55:56to stop that bleeding I've not yet

1:55:58ovulated and seen progesterone this is

1:56:00where we typically have our best

1:56:02performance overall from how our body is

1:56:04functioning

1:56:06>> and then From day 14 onwards,

1:56:09I'm she's going to be calmer.

1:56:11>> Well, progesterone slows your body's

1:56:13metabolism down. It It's preparing you

1:56:15for that pregnancy. Calmer is a nice way

1:56:18to put it, but essentially, your

1:56:20metabolic rate is going to change. Your

1:56:22body's going to shift how it functions.

1:56:23Many women actually have fatigue.

1:56:26They're hungry. Specifically in the

1:56:28brain, progesterone levels as they rise,

1:56:31we see an increase in GABA, which is a

1:56:33neurotransmitter, one of our brain

1:56:34hormone, one of our brain, you know,

1:56:36hormones that talks, you know, jumps

1:56:39between one one neuron to the other. And

1:56:41that is more of a calming hormone. So

1:56:43women tend to we see sleep changes more.

1:56:46You see deeper sleep, longer sleep in

1:56:48that ludial phase.

1:56:50>> She's and on this it says she's going to

1:56:52have she's going to be horny for day 14.

1:56:54I don't know how else to say it.

1:56:55>> Because she has an egg available

1:56:57>> because that's that peak estrogen. That

1:56:58estrogen level of 200 pograms is

1:57:01heightening everything. To have peak

1:57:03libido when an egg is released, the body

1:57:05is made that way on purpose.

1:57:06>> This is a bit off script, but my

1:57:09girlfriend always talks about her HRV

Wearables

1:57:12>> being very different. And so she she has

1:57:15really great HRV scores and then once

1:57:18every month for a period of time they're

1:57:21terrible and she can't explain it. So

1:57:23this is where wearables come into play.

1:57:25>> Yeah.

1:57:25>> So wearables are not designed to capture

1:57:28women's physiology. So what happens

1:57:30after ovulation is your respiratory rate

1:57:32goes up, your resting heart rate goes

1:57:34up, and your HRV plummets. So on the

1:57:37wearables, most women about 5 days

1:57:39before their periods start will never be

1:57:42in the clear, so to speak. They will

1:57:44never look recovered. They will never

1:57:47look like they can take on a lot of

1:57:48stress. They're not stress resilient

1:57:51because of the way the algorithms are

1:57:52reading this change that is natural that

1:57:55is produced by progesterone to alter our

1:57:58respiratory rate and our heart rate. It

1:58:01doesn't mean that she's not stress

1:58:02resilient is what the wearable is

1:58:04saying.

1:58:05>> Ah cuz she came downstairs and she said,

1:58:08"Oh god, my recovery is so bad." And

1:58:11then I think a couple of days later, a

1:58:14little while later, she had a period.

1:58:15I'm not sure. I can't remember the time

1:58:17frames, but she came downstairs and she

1:58:18was like shocked that she had done

1:58:19everything right,

1:58:20>> but her recovery on on her wearable said

1:58:22that she was in terrible state.

1:58:25>> This is why we do not let athletes use

1:58:27wearables leading up to a peak event

1:58:30because they feed into what the wearable

1:58:33respond or telling them and it's not

1:58:36true data with regards to how their body

1:58:39can actually perform. So wearables data

1:58:43masters then need to segate segregate

1:58:46populations and make new norms for women

1:58:50and maybe new norms for different

1:58:52fitness levels of women.

1:58:53>> Exactly. I've always been pushing for

1:58:55the past five or six years interacting

1:58:57with wearable companies is like if you

1:58:59want to capture it well then you need to

1:59:02be able to compare follicular to

1:59:03follicular and ludial to ludal.

1:59:06>> What does that mean? So comparing

1:59:08>> like we know your HIV is going to be

1:59:10different in your follicular phase.

1:59:13This is not a bad thing.

1:59:14>> People could could theoretically do that

1:59:15on their wearables and look at the

1:59:17previous month and see the the level

1:59:19you're at then theoretically. Obviously

1:59:20the wearable companies could do a lot

1:59:22more here to to

1:59:23>> definitely helpful but no you then it

1:59:25comes back again on the woman trying to

1:59:27understand and interpret the data

1:59:29herself which can be a little bit

1:59:32problematic because there's so many

1:59:34women out there like my wearable told me

1:59:36that I'm in the red I can't do anything

1:59:39today when in fact physically and

1:59:42psychologically they can do what they

1:59:44set out to do. It's just now they have

1:59:46this little seed saying that no, you

1:59:49can't do it because of an improper

1:59:52algorithm on their wearable.

1:59:55>> Probably a good time to disclose that

1:59:56I'm an investor in

2:00:00push.

2:00:00>> Okay.

2:00:00>> Yeah,

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2:02:12because it was um heavily asked by our

2:02:15audience and I I guess I'm well placed

2:02:18to ask some of these questions because

2:02:19I'm in that journey myself of trying to

2:02:21have a child at the moment. Natalie, you

2:02:23have five fertility non-negotiables that

2:02:25you talk about.

2:02:26>> I do and I think it's really important

2:02:28to think about

2:02:31for too long we've been told, you know,

The 5 Fertility Non-Negotiables

2:02:33your fertility is luck. It's good luck

2:02:34if you get pregnant. It's bad luck if

2:02:36it's not. And that's this narrative that

2:02:38gets propagated. And fertility is

2:02:40certainly not fair. Meaning people will

2:02:42have infertility and do everything

2:02:44right. But there are things that we do

2:02:46that will inherently also harm our

2:02:48fertility and our hormonal health and

2:02:50make it harder to get pregnant. And

2:02:52that's even when we are doing

2:02:54treatments. So a lot of times people

2:02:56say, "I'm doing IVF so I don't need to

2:02:58worry about these non-negotiables." And

2:03:00that's also not true. meaning things

2:03:02that we need to do. We need to, as we've

2:03:05all said, get more sleep. That's going

2:03:06to be number one. We need to actively

2:03:09work to decrease stress. That is not a

2:03:12I'm just going to live a stress-free

2:03:13life. But all these things I'm going to

2:03:15not take call. I'm going to set some

2:03:16boundaries and not have late meetings.

2:03:18I'm going to see morning light. I'm

2:03:19going to take a walk outside. We live in

2:03:21a stressful world and chronic stress

2:03:23itself can impact your fertility, your

2:03:26natural fertility, and IVF success

2:03:28rates. We're going to work on exercise

2:03:30to build muscle and try to improve our

2:03:34muscular health since it's part of our

2:03:36metabolism. We're going to eat an

2:03:37anti-inflammatory diet. That's

2:03:39definitely key, high in fiber. And we're

2:03:41going to look at the world around us and

2:03:43work on pulling toxins out of our world

2:03:45that we know we haven't even entered the

2:03:47discussion about how environmental

2:03:49toxins is harming our body, our hormonal

2:03:51health, our fertility, our ovaries, our

2:03:53organs. And so these are all things that

2:03:55we make active choices on that we have

2:03:57to start paying attention to and kind of

2:03:59changing.

2:04:00>> We'll go into detail in the lifestyle

2:04:03factors and the environmental toxins um

2:04:05in our second episode together. I I've

2:04:07always been quite shocked by this graph

2:04:08because it's quite um

2:04:10>> quite significant. This is just showing

2:04:11the

2:04:12>> um egg count by age. Slide that into

2:04:16that direction. um what do men and women

2:04:19need to understand about egg counts in

2:04:21order to make better family planning and

Should I Freeze My Eggs?

2:04:23fertility decisions?

2:04:24>> Okay. Well, I've asked you this last

2:04:25time. So, Stephen, how many sperm do you

2:04:28make a second?

2:04:30>> Millions.

2:04:31>> You make 1500 a second. You mean you

2:04:33make millions every day? Is okay. But

2:04:36still, you still you make a ton of

2:04:37sperm. You make sperm every single day.

2:04:39You have germ cells that create sperm.

2:04:41Women are born with all the eggs you're

2:04:43ever going to have. And yes, my favorite

2:04:45vault analogy. So, I like to imagine

2:04:47that this is a vault inside your ovary

2:04:49that is storing all of your eggs. And

2:04:51so, we'll use this cup with all of the

2:04:53beads as that analogy. And every single

2:04:56month, since before you are born, eggs

2:04:58come out of this vault. And what happens

2:05:00is that when the vault is more full,

2:05:02more eggs come out every month. And as

2:05:04the vault starts to get emptier, fewer

2:05:06come out. And this means that we lose

2:05:09the majority of our eggs, you can see

2:05:10the line, well before our reproductive

2:05:13years even start. So you lose the most

2:05:15before you're born. So from being a

2:05:175-month baby to birth, your egg count

2:05:18goes from 6 to 7 million to 1 to 2

2:05:20million.

2:05:22>> Millions of eggs lost before you're even

2:05:23born. From birth to puberty, let's say

2:05:26you go from 1 to 2 million to half a

2:05:28million to simplify numbers. So, the

2:05:30second biggest drop before you're ever

2:05:32ovulating, before you ever have a chance

2:05:33to get pregnant, and then you only

2:05:35ovulate around 400 eggs over the course

2:05:37of your reproductive lifespan, as that

2:05:40egg count starts to drop over time, the

2:05:43other really, really big important

2:05:44factor is that our eggs have been in our

2:05:46body our whole life. Two different

2:05:48things are happening at the same time.

2:05:50One is that our chromosomes start to

2:05:52leave their perfect position. They

2:05:54absorb the wear and tear of years. So we

2:05:57see more chromosome abnormalities as we

2:05:59get older. It's why it's harder to get

2:06:01pregnant and why we see an increase in

2:06:02miscarriage as we age. But also

2:06:05concurrently our metabolic health is

2:06:07poor as we are older too. And

2:06:09mitochondrial function in eggs. The

2:06:11metabolic capacity becomes less capable.

2:06:14And so we see that it's harder to get

2:06:16pregnant not because women are running

2:06:17out of eggs but because the quality of

2:06:19the eggs declines. But everybody will

2:06:21run out of eggs. You'll have a period of

2:06:24time where you have a very low egg

2:06:25count. We call it diminished ovarian

2:06:27reserve in the fertility world. We call

2:06:28it perry menopause more globally. And

2:06:31this this is two words to describe the

2:06:33same thing. As your egg count starts to

2:06:35get very low, you start to have an

2:06:36unpredictable response to your ovary and

2:06:39your brain is trying to compensate for

2:06:41that. And so you see various hormone

2:06:44changes, but these start before you

2:06:46might recognize even menstrual cycle

2:06:48changes. But everybody will run out of

2:06:50eggs. Every woman will. your ovaries

2:06:52will go into what we call ovarian

2:06:54failure and no longer respond to

2:06:55hormonal signals from the brain or

2:06:57artificial signals that we give.

2:06:59Meaning, I will see older women come in

2:07:01and think that I have magic medicines

2:07:02with IVF that can still help them get

2:07:04pregnant, but I can only get the eggs

2:07:07outside the vault to grow in IVF. And

2:07:10>> so, shouldn't we then be freezing our

2:07:12eggs?

2:07:12>> You're right. As a society, if we are

2:07:14purposely delaying childbearing, we know

2:07:17that it gets harder to get pregnant with

2:07:18age. And if having kids is a life goal,

2:07:21putting eggs into the freezer earlier is

2:07:23a way to save that opportunity. It's not

2:07:26an insurance plan. It's not a guarantee,

2:07:29but it is a smart game plan, especially

2:07:32as we are waiting longer. Because even

2:07:35with IVF, we can't always overcome age

2:07:37related infertility if we have fewer

2:07:39eggs and more genetic abnormalities. The

2:07:42technology helps us identify healthy

2:07:44eggs, helps us have more eggs, able to

2:07:47grow in a certain month and take them

2:07:48out and test embryos in a lab, but I'm

2:07:51working with the eggs and sperm that

2:07:52you're giving me. Meaning, if there's

2:07:53not many of them, if there's a lot of

2:07:54chromosomeal damage, if there's a lot of

2:07:56mitochondrial dysfunction, if the sperm

2:07:59quality is not great, that doesn't mean

2:08:00we're going to be able to have success.

2:08:02So, what you're doing on a daily basis

2:08:04to impact egg and sperm quality is still

2:08:07crucial. But egg freezing has gotten a

2:08:10lot of bad rap. It's still a new

2:08:12technology. It's only been around about

2:08:1310 years off experimental purposes.

2:08:16Meaning that women who froze their egg

2:08:1810 years ago, you know, they have much

2:08:20poorer egg survival rates. They were

2:08:22older at the time. Their experience is

2:08:25very different than the modern woman who

2:08:27is freezing her eggs now, maybe in her

2:08:29upper 20s or early 30s.

2:08:30>> What is the optimal age? If you are want

2:08:32to have a child as a life goal and

2:08:34you're not ready to conceive by age 32,

2:08:36that is when there's a clear delineation

2:08:39that it makes smarter financial sense as

2:08:42well as likelihood sense. The short

2:08:45answer like my daughter will freeze her

2:08:47eggs in her 20s. The younger you are,

2:08:49the more eggs that you have. If she

2:08:50says, "I want to have kids as a life

2:08:52goal," then that will be something that

2:08:54we will do in order to help her keep

2:08:57that because there's so many other

2:08:59variables which impact your ability to

2:09:01get pregnant or your egg count.

2:09:03Endometriosis decreases your egg count,

2:09:05right? People will develop an ovarian

2:09:07cyst and they'll have

2:09:08>> surgery,

2:09:08>> surgery, they'll have a twisting of

2:09:10their ovary and maybe they'll lose an

2:09:11ovary,

2:09:12>> smoking, chemo, radiation,

2:09:14>> smoking, marijuana, any abdominal

2:09:15surgery. So many things can impact your

2:09:18your eggs because you only have this

2:09:19group. You're born with them. So we we

2:09:23plan for life goals differently. And

2:09:25we've never really talked about our

2:09:26fertility life goals until more

2:09:28recently. Meaning when we went

2:09:30professional career, right? We knew what

2:09:32we had to do to get into medical school,

2:09:33to get into residency, to get your PhD,

2:09:34you had this list of things and you set

2:09:36goals and you worked to achieve them.

2:09:38But I always wanted to be a mom. Yet, I

2:09:41already told you I took a birth control

2:09:42pill every single day and I didn't even

2:09:44think about it until that moment was in

2:09:46front of me. And that's the part of the

2:09:48discussion that we do have to start to

2:09:49have earlier is if this is a life goal

2:09:51for you, what do we need to do?

2:09:54Understand our body better, our

2:09:55fertility better, and maybe that does

2:09:57include freezing eggs because it does

2:09:59give many women an opportunity that time

2:10:02would eliminate.

2:10:04I had a conversation with you Natalie on

2:10:07the podcast but then many other women

2:10:08over the course of the last two to three

2:10:10years and one of the things that I

2:10:12learned from that was that we as you say

2:10:14we don't family plan and then we have to

2:10:16deal with the consequences of not family

2:10:17planning. So, as an interviewer, when I

2:10:19do life story episodes, I go through a

2:10:20woman's life story. And obviously, the

2:10:22women that's sitting in front of me are

2:10:23typically high performers, high

2:10:24achievers in some capacity. And then we

2:10:26arrive at the end of the conversation

2:10:27when we talk about family and kids and

2:10:31all those kinds of things. And there's

2:10:32often a lot of tears. And it was in

2:10:34those conversations sitting here with

2:10:36several women that were on the show.

2:10:38What was the straw that broke the

2:10:39camel's back? It was the UFC fighter

2:10:42Ronda Rousey. It just so happened that

2:10:45when I interviewed her, she had just

2:10:48found out that her seventh round of IVF

2:10:51had failed. And so she was very, very

2:10:53emotional. I left that interview and had

2:10:55a conversation with my girlfriend. I was

2:10:56like, "Listen, I've I've seen too many

2:10:58of um too many women over the age of 35,

2:11:02maybe sort of under the age of 50, but

2:11:04really under the age of 45 in tears in

2:11:07front of me. I think we should have a

2:11:09conversation about this. Should we

2:11:10freeze our eggs?" I mean, me and my

2:11:12partner are both 33 now. And um at first

2:11:18I don't know, maybe it was the way I

2:11:19worded it.

2:11:22>> She was offended.

2:11:23>> She was like, "You don't want to have a

2:11:24baby with me?"

2:11:25>> It was like Yeah. It was like, "You

2:11:26don't want to have sex with me?" Like I

2:11:29like didn't word it well. Like I didn't

2:11:30I didn't really think I didn't really

2:11:32think about the emotions surrounding it.

2:11:33I think that was really what it

2:11:34>> You were trying to make a pragmatic

2:11:35decision.

2:11:35>> Yeah. I was as men often do. Like I was

2:11:37just like we should free but I didn't

2:11:39think about what that meant. And there's

2:11:40this this prevailing narrative in

2:11:42society that if something's not quote

2:11:43unquote natural, then it's not good.

2:11:48>> And that IVF or egg freezing is not

2:11:50natural.

2:11:51>> And that like torments people's brains

2:11:53because they want to live a natural life

2:11:55even though they're in like [ __ ]

2:11:56planes and on on iPhones. We want this

2:11:58one area of our life to be

2:11:59>> natural. And after honestly five minutes

2:12:03of that conversation,

2:12:05I think the framing that m flipped her

2:12:08mood was that wouldn't we want to give

2:12:10ourselves the option,

2:12:11>> right?

2:12:11>> And it's actually about having options.

2:12:13But I wanted to throw that out there

2:12:14because, you know, I don't think people

2:12:16family plan. I think as you said, we

2:12:18focus on our careers, then we pop up at

2:12:2035, 36, 37 and assume that we can.

2:12:23>> Mhm.

2:12:23>> But that is not the case.

2:12:24>> Yeah. Especially if you live a healthy

2:12:25life, you you think, "Oh, this will be

2:12:27easy for me." or if you're a high

2:12:29achiever and you've achieved other

2:12:31things, many women are really taken

2:12:35aback by not being able to achieve this

2:12:38or not having control over infertility

2:12:41and what is a natural process to run out

2:12:44of eggs and to go into menopause. If you

2:12:47are lucky to live long enough, this is

2:12:49going to happen. I got my diagnosis of

2:12:52PCOS in medical school before I was

2:12:55ready to start, you know, family

2:12:57planning. And I knew I was probably

2:13:00going to struggle. And so it took us

2:13:03about 3 years to successfully conceive

2:13:06the first time. And

2:13:09you can't even though I'm working in the

2:13:11business, you know, I'm running between

2:13:13patients to go and have another

2:13:14ultrasound or go get a shot or go do all

2:13:17the things that it took, you know, you

2:13:19you can't remove the emotion from it.

2:13:21And I can't tell you how many times I

2:13:23cried. And of course, all of my

2:13:25co-residents, my four best friends, all

2:13:27got pregnant in succession, our poor

2:13:29chief residents, and with no trouble,

2:13:32you know, and even like crying to my

2:13:33mother about the struggles I was having,

2:13:36she's like, I just I got pregnant eight

2:13:38times with no trouble, you know, and

2:13:39then my first pregnancy resulted in a

2:13:41miscarriage and, you know, in the middle

2:13:44of work and all my friends were there

2:13:45and they were cheering. They were so

2:13:46excited I was finally pregnant and then

2:13:48we lost the baby and you know and having

2:13:51to like push through and work through

2:13:52it's like it was yesterday like you know

2:13:55I have two healthy kids thank God and

2:13:56you know we were never after those two

2:13:58we tried again we were never able to get

2:14:00pregnant again which you know I had two

2:14:01kids and put a bow on it and we're done

2:14:03but it is impossible to remove the

2:14:06emotion because

2:14:09you because in the mindset it's luck or

2:14:12it's something we did

2:14:14>> we caused this and it's I you know as a

2:14:19high performing you know someone who's

2:14:21like you check all the boxes and you

2:14:23make all the good grades and you do

2:14:24everything right and this is the one

2:14:25thing that suddenly you didn't think

2:14:27much about and then it becomes

2:14:29everything

2:14:31when that ch that that becomes hard or

2:14:33it's taken away from you but I think

2:14:35women assume that it's our burden

2:14:39>> because we assume that if we can't

2:14:41conceive it's just us or something But I

2:14:45think I heard you say this, the the it's

2:14:48a two-way street and and the issue is

2:14:50not always the woman. A high percentage

2:14:52of the time it's her partner. And so I

2:14:54don't think we absorb that information

2:14:57upfront either until we start

2:14:58investigating it. But I'm in awe of this

2:15:01story that four of your residents got

2:15:04pregnant immediately because in

2:15:05orthopedics that does not happen. Mhm.

2:15:08>> Every orthopedic surgeon in my

2:15:10generation that I know if we got

2:15:13pregnant we miscarried and maybe that

2:15:15was lifestyle and maybe that was not

2:15:17eating for 40 hours. Maybe it's all the

2:15:19radiation that we undertake. I think

2:15:22it's better now for the younger

2:15:23generation and we as the I'm not that

2:15:26old but I am older than the current

2:15:28residents. Um, we encourage all of them.

2:15:31If you are not partnered and wanting to

2:15:33have a child now, then please consider

2:15:35freezing your eggs if that's a goal

2:15:37because we can't predict our futures and

2:15:39our residencies extend into our 40s.

2:15:42>> Well, I love that you're helping

2:15:43facilitate that discussion because that

2:15:45certainly wasn't the culture back when

2:15:47we were in training. I am one of the

2:15:49ones who sat here and cried in front of

2:15:50Steven myself when talking about my own

2:15:53pregnancy loss journey just because you

IVF Has Helped 13 Million People

2:15:55know I see it every day you know and I

2:15:58tell patients every day news that they

2:16:00do not want to hear

2:16:03>> 50% of infertility is due to male factor

2:16:0550% is due to female factors one of the

2:16:08most important things I want to convey

2:16:10when we on this topic is that IVF is an

2:16:13amazing technology that has helped 13

2:16:16million babies be born. It has been

2:16:19life-changing and world changing. And

2:16:21things don't have to be natural.

2:16:23Sometimes the natural progression of

2:16:25disease is death. So we have technology

2:16:29and science that exists to optimize and

2:16:31improve life and to help life exist. And

2:16:34that's part of what IVF is. And I think

2:16:36that's important because we do see a

2:16:37narrative right now that IVF is

2:16:39inherently bad and natural fertility

2:16:42approaches are inherently good. And we

2:16:44truly need to say both things are good.

2:16:46Do women need to learn about their

2:16:48bodies earlier? Talk about cycle

2:16:49tracking, take better care of

2:16:51themselves, get an earlier investigation

2:16:53when things aren't going well?

2:16:55Absolutely true. But also, needing to

2:16:58have fertility treatments is not a

2:17:00failure. Needing to see a fertility

2:17:02doctor is not a failure. If you need

2:17:03IVF, that is okay. All the other stuff

2:17:06is still really important to the outcome

2:17:08of your journey. But this narrative of

2:17:11IVF isn't natural, so it's bad, or egg

2:17:13freezing isn't natural, so we shouldn't

2:17:15do it. That's harmful to society and to

2:17:19women who do carry the burden, whether

2:17:21they need to or not, women do carry the

2:17:22burden of family planning for the

2:17:25future.

2:17:26>> Hearing you talk about that is very

2:17:28interesting to me because in other parts

2:17:30of medicine, in my own medicine, right,

2:17:34we were talking outside about how I I

2:17:36now do knee surgery through needles.

2:17:38It's an advancement of technology. We

2:17:41celebrate that. We like better things

2:17:43for people. It's not natural. Live with

2:17:46your thing, right? But I'm capable of

2:17:48helping you live a better life.

2:17:50>> Right.

2:17:50>> So, it's interesting to me.

2:17:53>> It's the stigma of women's health and

2:17:55work.

2:17:56>> That's right. This has because this is

2:17:57women's health. We're going to control

2:17:59it. We're going to protect these gals.

2:18:01We're not going to apply the vast

2:18:03knowledge. I'm a little offended by it

2:18:05actually. If you want to know the truth,

2:18:07why can I be so encouraged and and be

2:18:11considered top of my field when I adopt

2:18:13new technologies?

2:18:16But in your field, 13 million parents or

2:18:2126 million parents

2:18:24would be told that technology is not

2:18:26okay.

2:18:28>> I agree. It's a terrible narrative that

2:18:30is happening right now in the political

2:18:31landscape. And I think it's important to

2:18:33say scientific advancement is good and

2:18:36it changes the lives for so many people.

2:18:39And I think it's just highlighting this

2:18:41idea about natural doesn't always mean

2:18:44better. I think as you know scientists

2:18:48and people in medicine there's also been

2:18:50a disservice to not trying to get to the

2:18:52root cause and not working on preventive

2:18:53medicine and so going towards treatments

2:18:56and technology which has made the lay

2:18:59person feel like half of the picture

2:19:01wasn't discovered or talked about

2:19:04>> and so we can do better on both ends of

2:19:05it and that comes to women's health more

2:19:07than anything because there is stigma

2:19:10when it comes to isolation there's in I

2:19:11mean when it comes to infertility

2:19:12there's isolation

2:19:14you know being left behind your peer

2:19:16group. Questioning a life goal will make

2:19:19you question who you are, your life

2:19:21meaning, your purpose. And that is an

2:19:24extremely stressful and challenging

2:19:26state for somebody to go through. And we

2:19:28should be giving more support to that.

2:19:29We should be saying freeze your eggs.

2:19:32You're at a stressful lifetime instead

2:19:33of the narrative that we are seeing

2:19:35right now. So would the message be to

2:19:38young men and women that want to have

2:19:40kids at some point in their life to

2:19:44freeze their eggs in their 20s? Is that

2:19:46what you would advise?

2:19:47>> You know, most people in their 20s maybe

2:19:50don't have good awareness of these

2:19:51goals, but certainly your, you know,

2:19:53later 20s, your early 30s are the prime

2:19:56opportunity where you still, for the

2:19:58average person, you're going to have a

2:20:00high number of eggs. You're still high

2:20:01on the graph and your egg quality is

2:20:03still going to be high. meaning it's

2:20:05going to be easier to get the outcome

2:20:06that you want. Certainly in your 20s

2:20:09would be ideal if you but it's

2:20:11expensive. A lot of people don't have

2:20:13the financial resources to freeze their

2:20:15eggs and their 20s they're in training

2:20:17or they're starting their career. So to

2:20:19have an extra $10,000 lying around isn't

2:20:22always realistic.

2:20:23>> And I think that's why people are often

2:20:25waiting because that feels, you know,

2:20:28elective, you know, like, oh, that's

2:20:30extra money. I don't know that I have

2:20:31that right now. when we see insurance

2:20:33that starts to cover egg freezing as an

2:20:36option, we see huge uptake in women

2:20:39going to freeze their eggs. So you will

2:20:41see at companies where almost less than

2:20:445% of women would freeze their eggs

2:20:46before age 35. And then they introduced

2:20:48a health plan that would cover egg

2:20:50freezing and up to 50% of them would. So

2:20:53you can see that both financially and

2:20:57access and awareness, they all go hand

2:20:58in hand. But that's a big player in

2:21:01being able to do that because it is an

2:21:03expensive process.

2:21:04>> So Dr. Crawford, I think what most

2:21:06people don't understand, what is the

2:21:07spontaneous fertility rate by age in

2:21:10general?

2:21:10>> Yeah. So if you are 30, your odds of

2:21:12getting pregnant monthly. We we use a

2:21:14monthly rate called fundability. It's

2:21:16going to be at best 20% per month. When

What Is the Spontaneous Fertility Rate by Age?

2:21:19you're in your 20s, it's a little bit

2:21:21higher. Can get up to 25% per month

2:21:23>> if you're having sex

2:21:25>> monthly and regular periods. So if

2:21:27you're having unprotected intercourse

2:21:29and you have regular cycles, your best

2:21:32odds in a given month are going to be

2:21:33about 20% at age 30.

2:21:35>> How much sex do you have to be having?

2:21:37>> Well, really just have to have it in

2:21:38that fertile window. The

2:21:39>> what? Just once or

2:21:40>> really just once? Yeah, sex solely on

2:21:43the day of ovulation would be the ideal

2:21:45time, but you just need to have at least

2:21:47intercourse at least once in that

2:21:49fertile window. But that number drops

2:21:51quite significantly to what Dr. Caver is

2:21:52saying. So, at age 35, if you're trying

2:21:55to get pregnant, it's going to be 10 to

2:21:5712% per month odds of getting pregnant.

2:22:00At age 38, it's going to be 5% per

2:22:03month. At age 40, it's going to be 3%.

2:22:06This if you're trying for the first

2:22:07time, they're a little bit higher if

2:22:08you've had a child already because

2:22:09there's some proven fertility factors.

2:22:12But if we look at that, you say, "I'm

2:22:14chasing these dreams. I'm going to try

2:22:15to have my first baby at age 38." You

2:22:18have a 5% chance per month. That's not

2:22:20zero, but that means the greatest

2:22:23probability is that by 6 months time

2:22:26frame, you won't be pregnant. And then

2:22:28you're going to start a pathway of

2:22:29trying to investigate why that is

2:22:31happening. And if you do need

2:22:33intervention, you're further down this

2:22:35graph, too. You're going to have less

2:22:36eggs to work with, and their quality is

2:22:38going to be less good. That's why those

2:22:41numbers drop rapidly. Natural fertility

2:22:43rates are not about being out of eggs

2:22:45because you ovulate just one egg at a

2:22:47time. It doesn't matter if you have 20

2:22:50eggs outside that vault or five eggs.

2:22:52You're ovulating one egg at a time. So

2:22:54natural fertility is all about egg and

2:22:56sperm quality. So the this huge drop we

2:22:59see from 20% to 5% is because of the

2:23:02change of our egg quality as we get

2:23:04older during our 30s which most of us

2:23:06feel like is really young.

2:23:07>> And what can I do to because I know

2:23:09weight has a role in egg quality right?

2:23:11If you're underweight or overweight, is

2:23:12there anything else that has a a really

2:23:14pertinent impact on the quality of my

2:23:17eggs?

2:23:18>> Yes. So, we have two factors. We'll say

2:23:20age, which you can't control to an

2:23:21extent, right? Chromosome damage is

2:23:23going to happen even if you are

2:23:24exceptionally healthy because tincture

2:23:26of time. They've been sitting inside

2:23:28your body. Chromosome damage builds up.

2:23:30But the variables that you can is

2:23:32everything that impacts cellular health.

2:23:34So chronic inflammation and insulin

2:23:35resistance are the two things that are

2:23:37going to most dramatically harm your

2:23:39eggs metabolic function. It's going to

2:23:41harm your mitochondria. You're going to

2:23:42get mitochondrial damage. We know that

2:23:45when we start looking at older women,

2:23:46they have more dysfunctional

2:23:48mitochondria. They're shaped abnormally.

2:23:50The products inside their follicular

2:23:52fluid show higher levels of inflammation

2:23:54just based on age that happens, but also

2:23:57if they start having infertility versus

2:23:59not having infertility. So we know that

2:24:01inflammation and insulin resistance are

2:24:03key players even in patients without

2:24:06known PCOS or endometriosis but they

2:24:09play a role in aging and specifically

2:24:11your egg health as you age. So if you

2:24:13say getting pregnant is a life goal. I'm

2:24:16tracking my cycles. I don't want to

2:24:19freeze my eggs right now, but what

2:24:20should I do? All these things that we

2:24:22talk about and we're going to talk more

2:24:24about to decrease inflammation inside

2:24:25our body. That's it. and from a young

2:24:28age because these changes build up over

2:24:30time.

2:24:31>> And if I have PCOS, how does that

2:24:33>> even more important because you're at a

2:24:35higher predisposition to have insulin

2:24:37resistance? Your cells are more

2:24:39sensitive to how they're going to

2:24:40respond.

2:24:41>> But do I have less eggs if I have PCOS?

2:24:43>> So, you're going to run out of eggs

2:24:43around the same time. You're born with a

PCOS and Infertility

2:24:46little bit more, but because you lose

2:24:47eggs based on how many you have,

2:24:49essentially, you're going to catch up.

2:24:51So during your reproductive years, you

2:24:53tend to have more eggs out of the vault,

2:24:55which interferes with normal hormonal

2:24:56signaling, making all of the hormonal

2:24:58metabolic changes worse. Very

2:25:01interesting thing, as women with PCOS

2:25:04tend to get older, and their egg count

2:25:06starts to drop, and they have fewer eggs

2:25:08coming out of the vault, they'll often

2:25:09start naturally ovulating, even if they

2:25:12didn't earlier. And so I'm always a

2:25:14little concerned when somebody said, "I

2:25:16used to never have periods, but now I

2:25:18do. Did I cure my PCOS?

2:25:21Maybe they did make some good lifestyle

2:25:22changes along the way, but honestly,

2:25:24that's a red flag for me that she's now

2:25:26more rapidly declining in her egg count,

2:25:29approaching what will be penmenopause

2:25:31for her because her egg count is low

2:25:34enough to then respond to the brain

2:25:35signals. Like nodding your head over

2:25:38here.

2:25:38>> And as a man, is there anything I can do

2:25:39to increase the odds that I'm going to

2:25:41impregnate? Mel,

2:25:42>> you can stop using um cannabis and

2:25:45smoking cigarettes, um drinking alcohol.

2:25:48We need to avoid heat. So the testicles

2:25:50are outside the body for a reason. They

2:25:51need to be at a lower body temperature

How to Increase Fertility for Men

2:25:53in order to adequately make normally

2:25:55functioning sperm. So hot tubs, saunas,

2:25:58those should be off limits if you're

2:25:59wanting to get pregnant. Same with

2:26:02highintensity exercise and compression

2:26:04of the testicles. So this is notably

2:26:06cycling for long periods of time. So an

2:26:09hour on the bike or more routinely can

2:26:11actually compress the testicles and

2:26:13increase their heat.

2:26:14>> What about sitting in a chair for 5

2:26:15hours? choose. She'll be fine. I want to

2:26:17Same thing. Sitting in a chair, boxers

2:26:19breathe, being in a room that's hot.

2:26:21Those things aren't quite enough to

2:26:22truly raise that core testicular

2:26:24temperature quite like some of these

2:26:26other things. We also see diet playing a

2:26:28big role. The great thing about men,

2:26:31you're making sperm every single second.

2:26:32The sperm lifespan is 90 days, 72 days

2:26:36to make a sperm, 18 days to get out the

2:26:38ejaculatory system. But that means you

2:26:40could make a singular change in your

2:26:42health and see a different outcome in

2:26:44your sperm. that is so rare that doesn't

2:26:46exist in women's health that one

2:26:48variable can move the needle so much.

2:26:50>> Marijuana is a huge one. Marijuana use

2:26:52works at the brain to prevent those FSH

2:26:55and LH signals which are crucial to tell

2:26:58your testicles to make sperm and they

2:27:00also impact inflammatory environment. So

2:27:02sperm are not as modal. They are not

2:27:05shaped as well. The DNA inside their

2:27:07heads is more fragmented. In fact, men

2:27:09who use marijuana, their partners have a

2:27:12higher rate of pregnancy loss, even if

2:27:14their partners are not around it at all.

2:27:16>> You're using the word pregnancy loss

2:27:17versus the word that we're aware of in

2:27:19the UK called miscarriage. Is that is

2:27:21that intentional?

2:27:22>> Miscarriage can mean, you know, a to a

2:27:25lot of different things to people and a

2:27:27pregnancy loss, an unsuccessful

2:27:29pregnancy depending on when you

2:27:30medically lose a pregnancy or if a

2:27:33pregnancy is in the fallopian tube and

2:27:34it's an ectopic pregnancy, that's still

2:27:37a pregnancy loss. meaning you had a

2:27:39positive pregnancy test that did not end

2:27:40up in a baby. So, it's a little more

2:27:42inclusive for a variety of different

2:27:45stages of when and how loss can occur.

2:27:47>> Miscarriage kind of infers when we say

2:27:48it, you know, on my end is that the

2:27:50pregnancy was in the uterus and now it's

2:27:52it's we we either have to evacuate it or

2:27:55it's it's self evacuating.

2:27:57>> And you were saying a second ago, Vonda,

2:27:58that it from your experience, pregnancy

2:28:01loss, miscarriage is much higher with

2:28:03women who have high stress careers and

2:28:06jobs. Well, I don't know the real

2:28:08statistics, but my I'm sure they exist.

2:28:11But in my experience as a high capacity,

2:28:14high stress, not sleeping for 11 or 22

2:28:17years,

2:28:20I have seen it a lot and it happened to

2:28:22me.

2:28:23>> Yeah, chronic stress is associated with

2:28:24a higher rate of pregnancy loss.

2:28:26>> Is there anything else that people

2:28:28misunderstand about pregnancy loss in

2:28:31miscarriage that is worth talking about?

2:28:34>> Well, it's not talked about, I think.

2:28:36>> Yeah. That's one of the things that

2:28:37people still think it's it's taboo and

2:28:40rare, but I think all of us around the

2:28:42table had pregnancy loss.

2:28:44>> Yep. Two, at least two.

2:28:45>> And when I had mine, I was in training

Why Is Pregnancy Loss Still a Taboo?

2:28:48and uh a I didn't want to call my

2:28:51attending and tell them cuz he was a

2:28:53man.

2:28:54>> And I didn't want to I didn't think I

2:28:56could take any time off.

2:28:58>> Same.

2:28:59>> I went back the next day. I would have

2:29:00gone back the same day, but I could

2:29:01barely move.

2:29:02>> I was running labor and delivery like at

2:29:04night.

2:29:04>> I got discharged. Ivy pulled out in my

2:29:06hand and went back on the war.

2:29:07>> Yeah. Like so I think hopefully part of

2:29:12this international conversation about

2:29:15women's health not just

2:29:18gynecological health but health in

2:29:20general will give women grace because

2:29:24there's no way that I should have been

2:29:26expected to go back to an orthopedic

2:29:29surgery residency the day after I lost a

2:29:31child

2:29:33or frankly I don't know what your

2:29:35experiences were but in my generation of

2:29:38doctors and I'm sure it happens

2:29:40everywhere. I went back to work less

2:29:43than five weeks after delivering a child

2:29:45and I think other European countries

2:29:47have it right.

2:29:48>> Oh yeah, New Zealand is a year time.

2:29:50>> I I

2:29:53weeks.

2:29:53>> Six weeks.

2:29:55>> I six weeks with one and three weeks

2:29:57with the other because if I wanted to

2:29:59>> leave my fellowship on time,

2:30:01>> that's right.

2:30:01>> I wanted to graduate on time, I couldn't

2:30:03exceed the total vacation. So these

2:30:05internships and fellowships and I'm I'm

2:30:08sure that built into these programs we

2:30:10sign up for, they were all developed for

2:30:11men

2:30:12>> who had had they had a family, had a

2:30:15wife, you had someone at home to like

2:30:16take care of that business.

2:30:18>> Yeah.

2:30:19>> And we're have, you know, we're all in

2:30:23supportive relationships and, you know,

2:30:25that wasn't the issue, but like I went

2:30:28back before my body was ready.

2:30:29>> Yeah. because I would

2:30:30>> before that baby was ready to to unlatch

2:30:33and my milk supply dropped immediately

2:30:35the minute why I went back to work

2:30:37>> and I tried to pump but you get called

2:30:39for a crash C-section or emergency

2:30:41surgery and you're like pulling the pump

2:30:43off the breast and I'm running down the

2:30:44hall hooking my nursing bra back on

2:30:46trying to get to the O and you know all

2:30:49that cortisol just my milk you know so I

2:30:51was able to breastfeed while I was home

2:30:52with the baby and but like once I went

2:30:55back to work my my milk production just

2:30:58shattered a picture of day in the

2:31:00hospital and it was a day after I gave

2:31:02birth. My laptop is open. I'm trying to

2:31:05breastfeed because we launched a company

2:31:08the month before I gave birth and

2:31:10instead of my male co-workers going,

2:31:13"Okay, we'll give you some grace." No, I

2:31:16had a week and then they were at my

2:31:17house having meetings. There's such a

2:31:19different discussion about miscarriage

2:31:21now than when I went through it. I told

2:31:23nobody. I didn't either.

2:31:24>> I mean, it was so secretive. I didn't

2:31:26feel like I could. And we are seeing a

2:31:29different generation where I do think

2:31:31talking about women's health and Stephen

2:31:33you having these discussions on a bigger

2:31:35stage are lessening the stigma for what

2:31:39is something that people go through. One

2:31:41out of four pregnancies will end in a

2:31:42pregnancy loss. That is not a low

2:31:44percentage of people. In the same

2:31:46breath, most people should not have two

2:31:48in a row. And if you do, you should go

2:31:50get an evaluation because there are

2:31:53medical things that can contribute to

2:31:55pregnancy loss that we would love to

2:31:57identify a lot earlier and see if

2:31:59there's something we can do to make that

2:32:01different. What do I need to understand

2:32:03about what a woman goes through either

2:32:05in the wake of pregnancy loss or in the

2:32:07wake of a pregnancy and uh a birth

2:32:13physiologically, psychologically as an

2:32:15employer to be able to create a better

2:32:18environment for the women that are going

2:32:19through either of those two things? Like

2:32:22what's what's going on inside the body?

2:32:23Cuz I I wouldn't know, right? So,

2:32:25>> one of the, you know, simplest things to

2:32:27say that's going on is that pregnancy is

2:32:30one of the most hormone robust times you

2:32:32have, even just momentarily pregnant. If

2:32:34you have a placenta starting to implant,

2:32:36you are now making levels of estrogen

2:32:38and progesterone that you will not ever

2:32:40make at any other time period of your

2:32:42life. When that doesn't when you lose

2:32:45that pregnancy or when you're

2:32:47postpartum, let's say you're having this

2:32:49huge hormone crash. Suddenly you go from

2:32:51this very high level of these hormones

2:32:53dropping off immediately. And in

2:32:56addition to all the physical changes,

2:32:57the emotional changes that has a huge

2:33:00impact, you've heard us talk a lot about

2:33:01low estrogen and how that feels. The

2:33:04very interesting thing most studies

2:33:05about estrogen show is that the hardest

2:33:07time for women is when estrogen is

2:33:09changing. So going from high to low is

2:33:13actually when your body is having

2:33:15>> your brain can't keep up.

2:33:16>> Can't keep up. Doesn't know what's

2:33:17happening. And the higher you were and

2:33:19the faster you come down, we'll use this

2:33:22analogy too. Even in IVF, when we go do

2:33:24an egg retrieval and somebody had many

2:33:26eggs, they have a much higher estrogen

2:33:28they naturally would. I go and put a

2:33:29needle in each one and drain the eggs

2:33:31out and destroy those cells and their

2:33:33estrogen plummets and they expect to go

2:33:35the next day and feel normal or they

2:33:38expect to feel worse during the

2:33:39stimulation process when they're using

2:33:41hormone shots. And I always say, you're

2:33:43actually going to feel worse when I'm

2:33:45done with you. It's going to be that

2:33:46week after the egg retrieval where your

2:33:48hormones go from the highest they've

2:33:49ever been very quickly down low. It's

2:33:52that delta, that change. And that

2:33:54happens anytime you have that. But

2:33:56pregnancy and loss and postpartum are

2:33:59some of the most profound times that you

2:34:01experience this.

2:34:02>> And one of the other things is the

2:34:04identity shift. So if you're working,

2:34:07you know, we are all very highly

2:34:08motivated and became parents. But it's

2:34:11that whole identity shift of now how do

2:34:13I interact in my life and how do I

2:34:15interact with my peers? I'm a mom. How

2:34:17am I being identified? What are the

2:34:19implications? So there's a complete

2:34:21identity shift that also isn't discussed

2:34:23>> and that can also perpetuate some of the

2:34:26postpartum that we see as well.

2:34:27>> Mhm.

2:34:28>> And anxiety and lack of control, right?

2:34:30Because you don't know what you're

2:34:31supposed to do, especially if you're a

2:34:33mother for the first time. that is can

2:34:35be very anxietyprovoking in addition to

2:34:38hormone changes and not getting sleep.

2:34:40But lack of control, you don't control

2:34:42your schedule. You don't control when

2:34:43you sleep. You don't control if your

2:34:45child gets sick.

2:34:46>> And so I would say from an employer

2:34:47standpoint,

2:34:49>> grace, support, and flexibility. You

2:34:51know, if I had had better support

2:34:53structures to say when your child is

2:34:56sick, it's not the end of the world if

2:34:58you are not here physically at the

2:35:00office. That didn't exist. meaning that

2:35:02my child getting sick became this

2:35:04extremely

2:35:06stressful situation.

2:35:07>> God,

2:35:09>> but for the average woman working a 9

2:35:10toive job, whether it's in medicine or

2:35:12other fields, if you could design their

2:35:15working month around their menstrual

2:35:19cycle around, I don't know, potentially

2:35:21a pregnancy, whatever. How would you

2:35:23design redesign their month? Because we

2:35:25we have inherited this sort of I think

2:35:26it's like from the industrial

2:35:27revolution, this like 9 to5 working

2:35:30hours. We don't work Saturday and

2:35:31Sunday. We do that four times across a

2:35:34month. What would you change? What

2:35:35should women change? Because I've heard

2:35:37some countries or systems are are trying

2:35:39to give women time off around certain

2:35:41parts of their cycle, for example. Would

2:35:43any of you change anything? Well, there

2:35:45are a couple of companies in New Zealand

2:35:46who are pretty flexible, especially

2:35:48after the pandemic, where they have

2:35:51allocated certain hours that are free to

2:35:54work at home. You just have to get the

2:35:56work done

2:35:57>> to the point where they have 4 day

2:35:58working weeks. And then they're also

2:36:01putting into the annual leave what they

2:36:04call menstrual leave or menopause leave.

2:36:07And it's you just say, you know, I can't

2:36:09come today. Some people are using it for

2:36:11child care. Some people are using it for

2:36:12really bad cramping days. Other people

2:36:14are using it for mental health days. But

2:36:16it's a it's there to be used for

2:36:18however. And you don't have to identify

2:36:20it as being menstrual cycle day or

2:36:22menopause. It's just extra leave. And

2:36:24people don't care as long as you get the

2:36:25work done. And I think that having that

2:36:28flexibility across, you know, if you

2:36:31have that ability to have more flex

2:36:33hours or shared time space or something

2:36:35like that greatly benefits productivity

2:36:39as well as the feeling of empowerment

2:36:42and inclusivity, which then feeds

2:36:44forward to better productivity.

2:36:45>> If I've got an extremely high stress

2:36:47job, is there any part of the cycle

2:36:49where I should theoretically be avoiding

2:36:51stress?

2:36:53>> Well, that's an individual thing. It's

2:36:55how because you know we hear all the

2:36:57stuff about cycle tracking and it's

Should You Take Time Off During Your Period?

2:36:59about understanding your own responses

2:37:01to your own hormone flux

2:37:03>> because Mel partner says to me that she

2:37:05needs to not do work. there's like a

2:37:08couple of days a month where she's like,

2:37:09I'm just gonna nest all those.

2:37:11>> That could be her her responses and

2:37:13she's like, I just don't have the stress

2:37:15tolerance to be able to do XYZ and

2:37:18understanding that in her own cycle is

2:37:20great because then she can allocate

2:37:23tasks that take more stress for other

2:37:25days. For most people, it's peak ludal.

2:37:27Also when your progesterone is the

2:37:28highest tends to be when people have a

2:37:31harder time focusing and concentrating

2:37:33or getting tasks done now

2:37:34>> which is where on

2:37:35>> which is going to be the middle of the

2:37:36ludal phase at the middle of this second

2:37:38half of the cycle when you have that

2:37:41oneish.

2:37:42>> So when you have that progesterone you

2:37:44know really high your body might be

2:37:46ready to implant an embryo if there was

2:37:48one that tends to be when people say

2:37:50they feel more fatigue and less energy

2:37:53and less focus and concentration. So if

2:37:56you are looking at your month and you

2:37:57might notice that it is and you have the

2:37:59flexibility to say okay I'm going to try

2:38:02to write this paper get this study done

2:38:05do these tasks that call these tasks

2:38:08that call for an increased focus in my

2:38:10follicular phase when I'm estrogen

2:38:12dominant have high estrogen and no

2:38:13progesterone for the average person that

2:38:16is typically when they're easier have an

2:38:19easier time achieving those tests

2:38:21>> which is the first 14

2:38:23>> yeah the first couple weeks the time

2:38:25period before ovulation, but there is an

2:38:27individual response and I definitely

2:38:28will see some people who they feel

2:38:31immensely better when progesterone's

2:38:33present and not so great the other time.

2:38:35So, I think we use generalizations just

2:38:38as a rule of thumb because that's what

2:38:39it is for most people, but hormones

2:38:42specifically, there's always an

2:38:43individualized response and learning to

2:38:45listen to your own body is key and

2:38:47knowing what you need to do. I want to

2:38:48close off on this point about just how

2:38:50employers and you know the way that we

2:38:52work can be better suited to a woman's

2:38:55health. Is there anything else we missed

2:38:57there?

2:38:57>> Flexibility. I think we mentioned before

2:39:00the ability to make a decision for

2:39:01yourself. This is a day that I can do

2:39:04these, you know, tasks. I think every

2:39:06woman wants to do a really good job and

2:39:10she is going to frontload those tasks on

2:39:12a time that she feels better and offload

2:39:16in a time where she's not feeling as

2:39:18well, but she's going to get it done

2:39:19>> for sure. And so giving her the

2:39:21flexibility is going to allow her to be

2:39:23her most productive rather than

2:39:24demanding she have x amount every single

2:39:27day. And I think support can come in a

2:39:30lot of ways, but the um financial burden

2:39:34to a large corporation of having a stop

2:39:37gap child care at work. So maybe if

2:39:40you're not going to offer full child

2:39:42care because you're getting a lot of

2:39:44productivity out of women if they know

2:39:46their children are on campus and can go

2:39:48at lunchtime. But if you're not willing

2:39:50to do that, if you have a stop gap where

2:39:53instead of calling your attending or one

2:39:55day my nanny didn't show up and I had to

2:39:58find some way

2:40:00just for those emergencies within the

2:40:02corporation that breeds loyalty that

2:40:05will increase productivity and so I

2:40:08think it's money well spent.

2:40:09>> Talk about having a competitive woman.

2:40:12>> She would probably want to work for you.

2:40:15>> Yeah. you know, and offering those

2:40:18things to make her mothering easier

2:40:20while she's trying to work. I think you

2:40:22would have the most competitive

2:40:24workforce.

2:40:24>> And what does that mean? So that would

2:40:25mean having a n is that having a nanny

2:40:27on site or is that

2:40:28>> take care on site? Take care on site. on

2:40:30site again,

2:40:30>> whether it's full-time, like bring your

2:40:32children full-time there, or

2:40:35>> that's a that's a big corporate, but but

2:40:37a a smaller corporate commitment would

2:40:41be this emergency child care so that

2:40:45your kids's not there all the time, but

2:40:47maybe they're sick or maybe somebody

2:40:49didn't show up and then you have days

2:40:53>> have a licensed childare provider

2:40:54available, you know, who could

2:40:56>> which is a fault of the US system

2:40:58because Yeah. What happens in New

2:41:00Zealand?

2:41:00>> You have 20 hours free daycare

2:41:03>> a week.

2:41:03>> A week?

2:41:04>> Yeah.

2:41:05>> So, it's um Yeah. 20 hours funded. Uh

2:41:08and then it's a very small nominal fee

2:41:10for hours over that for up to year five

2:41:13or when they're 5 years old cuz then

2:41:15they start school

2:41:16>> on the first day that they turn five.

People Need to Know When Perimenopause Starts

2:41:18It's like you turn five, happy birthday.

2:41:20But it does help significantly

2:41:24um kind of keep productivity and a

2:41:26little bit of the worry off. What am I

2:41:28going to do with my child?

2:41:30>> Amazing.

2:41:30>> Yeah.

2:41:31>> What does this um conversation around

2:41:34eggs and fertility dove tail into

2:41:37menopause and specifically permenopause?

2:41:40I guess that's the next

2:41:41>> you can't have one without the other,

2:41:42right? So per menopause is basically in

2:41:46this fertility decline area. Okay. So

2:41:49you don't fertility is not an issue. You

2:41:50don't want to ever have a baby. You're

2:41:51still going to go through pmenopause.

2:41:54And so per menopause is defined

2:41:57medically in the worst way as the

2:41:59transition from normal menstrual cycles

2:42:01to no menstrual cycle ever again. Okay.

2:42:05So when we look at definitions,

2:42:07menopause is defined as one year after

2:42:09the final menstrual period. What it

2:42:11really means is ovarian failure. And

2:42:14that offends people, but that's actually

2:42:16medically what it is. You have run out

2:42:18of eggs and you run out of the ability

2:42:20of the ovary to produce hormones. And so

2:42:23per menopause begins

Menopause

2:42:26medically at the straw staging is the

2:42:29very complicated um methodology to

2:42:33define the stages of pmenopause and a

2:42:35lot of it is based on menstrual cycle

2:42:38irregularity but hormonally what's

2:42:41happening starts well before our periods

2:42:44become irregular. So as those egg levels

2:42:47decline and and the ability to respond

2:42:49to the stimulus coming from the brain,

2:42:51remember ovulation starts in the brain.

2:42:54So when estrogen levels normally get low

2:42:56during the cycle, the brain doesn't like

2:42:58it. The hypothalamus, so the gland in

2:42:59our brain starts looking for estrogen.

2:43:01It likes estrogen. And then when the

2:43:03estrogen levels are high, it's happy.

2:43:05And so when estrogen levels decline

2:43:07naturally in a cycle, it says, "Whoop,

2:43:08where's my where's my estrogen?" And it

2:43:10sends a signal to a second gland in the

2:43:12brain called the pituitary. And that

2:43:13makes the LH and the FSH.

2:43:15>> So I'm trying to figure out what causes

2:43:17menop per pmenopause. What causes

2:43:20menopause? Lack of eggs.

2:43:22>> So it's the loss of eggs and the loss of

2:43:24the the group of eggs to respond to

2:43:25these signals. So here we go. We're

2:43:28beginning pmenopause. We've reached a

2:43:29critical threshold level where our

2:43:32ovaries cannot respond. And that might

2:43:34be I don't know millionaire.

2:43:36>> So when you're not out of eggs but just

2:43:37the count is low, right? Let's if you're

2:43:39a jar. Yeah. Yeah. So if menopause is

2:43:41going to be for simplicity, the jar is

2:43:44empty. When the jar gets like this, so

2:43:46we'll say if you had full, the jar is

2:43:48not empty, but it's it's gotten lower.

2:43:50And what is happening is the ovary

2:43:52doesn't want to be out of eggs. So what

2:43:54Dr. Haver is saying is the brain is

2:43:56working harder to get an egg to grow

2:43:59because the ovary becomes more stubborn.

2:44:00It wants to hold on to them. It doesn't

2:44:02want to lose them. The brain has to send

2:44:03out stronger signals to get an egg to

2:44:05grow. Because there's not as many, we

2:44:07don't lose as many per month. So that's

2:44:09great, but that means we have years of

2:44:12being at this low unreliable ovary stage

2:44:15where the brain is working really hard.

2:44:17There's not as many eggs that are here.

2:44:20They will still ovulate, but it starts

2:44:22to happen at a less predictable rate.

2:44:24But

2:44:25>> so is that permenopause when there's

2:44:27>> Yes. And there's not a definition I

2:44:28think that which makes it the hardest of

2:44:30say your point what number of eggs

2:44:32equals per menopause. There is a unique

2:44:35response to each person at what level

2:44:36your ovary gets to where it will start

2:44:39to respond dysfunctionally. But what

2:44:41happens is that the hormone changes

2:44:43start shifting in the brain. The ovarian

2:44:45response starts shifting and before you

2:44:47have irregular cycles, you will first

2:44:50see a shortening of your cycles very

2:44:52predictably. The brain will send out a

2:44:54stronger signal. An egg will ovulate

2:44:56faster. You'll start to get shorter

2:44:57cycles. And then

2:44:58>> there's hormone fluctuations,

2:45:00>> but they're still regular. And so what

2:45:02will happen is a woman will start to

2:45:03feel these hormone shifts. It's less

2:45:05predictable. She is having some change,

2:45:08but it's still a regular cycle. And so

2:45:10she is often told, "Your hormones are

2:45:12fine. You have a regular cycle." So, and

2:45:15in the brain, as we talked about those

2:45:17neurotransmitters, there are not only is

2:45:20estrogen changing and the amount that

2:45:22we're producing, actually in

2:45:23permenopause, quite often we'll have

2:45:24much higher estradile levels than we did

2:45:27in our premenopausal years where we had

2:45:29that kind of predictable eb and flow of

2:45:32our our monthly monthly hormones.

2:45:34There's also independent FSH receptors

2:45:37outside of so these hormones that are

2:45:40pumping out to talk to the ovaries are

2:45:41also back talking to different parts of

2:45:44the brain. So the first symptoms that

2:45:47patients feel and they've done a great

2:45:50study on this is I don't feel like

2:45:51myself.

2:45:54I don't feel like myself. And they even

2:45:56call it IDFM. And so you can't put your

2:45:59finger on it. periods are regular, but

2:46:03your environment hasn't changed. Your

2:46:04normal stressors haven't changed. The

2:46:06life you built that you could manage,

2:46:08you're suddenly losing resilience.

2:46:10>> And that's because of a hormone

2:46:11fluctuation that is hard to

2:46:13>> So, we see sleep disruptions, mental

2:46:15health challenges increase, 40% increase

2:46:18across pmenopause transition and the

2:46:20cognitive changes and that is what

2:46:22really scares my patients the most. And

2:46:25they come in and most of them are, you

2:46:27know, we're all high functioning in some

2:46:28degree. Some of us in academia, some of

2:46:30us in the O, some of us, but you know,

2:46:32most women are high functioning because

2:46:33they're juggling so many jobs. So even

2:46:35if she didn't choose to go the routes

2:46:36that we've chosen, she is managing

2:46:39children, you know, school drop offs,

2:46:41you know, all the things that women tend

2:46:43to put on their plates. And suddenly

2:46:46she can't remember all the things she

2:46:48used to remember. Where are her keys?

2:46:50You know, word salad. you're you're

2:46:51struggling to find I can't tell you how

2:46:53many times I am like I I see people and

2:46:56like I cannot remember their names or I

2:46:58can't remember I get in the car and I

2:47:01can't remember where I'm going or what

2:47:03my purpose of getting in the vehicle

2:47:04was. You have to think for a second. And

2:47:06so all of that is related to the

2:47:09hormonal changes.

2:47:10>> At what age?

2:47:12>> Well, I think that there's a tendency in

2:47:14medicine to want to have definitions.

2:47:16>> Yes. So, I personally, and I know a lot

2:47:18of us who talk all the time, think that

2:47:21this random 366 days after your last

2:47:25period, that's your menopause day. I

2:47:27think that's pretty random. And I don't

2:47:29know who made that up, but when I have

2:47:32because I'm not an OB, but when I have

2:47:34patients come in to me for their

2:47:35muscularkeeletal things and they're of a

2:47:38certain age and I don't just focus on

2:47:41whatever the muscularkeeletal body part

2:47:42is, but we start talking about their

2:47:44whole health and they start talking

2:47:46about these things, I am often the first

2:47:48one to say to them, you know what, you

2:47:51are probably in pmenopause. And they're

2:47:54like, but my cycles are regular. I'm

2:47:56like, but you are beginning this

2:47:58transition which I call meolescence, but

2:48:01it's this right. I would propose that

2:48:05most people don't seek out a lot of help

2:48:07earlier.

2:48:08>> But they should just assume

2:48:10>> that they're permenopausal anytime after

2:48:1235 they don't feel like themselves and

2:48:15start down a road of learning or

2:48:17investigating or let's feel better and

2:48:20what do I need to do about it?

2:48:21>> You know, it's frustrating to us all of

2:48:24us. We talked a little bit about this

2:48:25last night is the people who kind of

2:48:27make the rules, the institutions that

2:48:29make the guidelines and and the academic

2:48:31kind of

2:48:33ivory tower, you know, they are like,

2:48:35whoa,

2:48:37back off, slow down. We shouldn't be

2:48:41blaming everything on menopause, you

2:48:43know, like. And I don't think that's

2:48:45what we're saying. We're not trying

2:48:48>> but completely dismissing the female

2:48:50experience and not at all like including

2:48:54this cataclysmic hormonal change

2:48:57>> is hurting women. So the average age of

2:48:59menopause is 51 to 52. And so let's say

2:49:02that is when your ovaries are in

2:49:03failure. They will no longer make eggs,

2:49:05make hormones or respond to brain

2:49:07signals.

2:49:07>> So all the eggs, all the little marbles

2:49:09are out

2:49:09>> all the way gone at 51 52. For most

Check Your Mum's Menopause Age to Know Yours

2:49:12women about 7 to 10 years before that

2:49:15they will start to enter into what we

2:49:17will call pmenopause or the

2:49:19unpredictable response of the ovary and

2:49:21the brain. I say their communication

2:49:23system their best friends who aren't

2:49:25communicating well. Their signals are

2:49:27getting interfered. They're not

2:49:29responding appropriately. The ovary is

2:49:31getting more stubborn. The brain is

2:49:32trying to work harder. You get these

2:49:34higher peaks, these lower troughs. And

2:49:37essentially that is the time period. So

2:49:39it is unique to an individual because

2:49:41everybody's born with a different

2:49:42number. They lose them at a different

2:49:44rate. Some factors that we control

2:49:47impact that rate, but some things that

2:49:48we do not. Your mom's age of menopause

2:49:51is a predictive factor. If you're had a

2:49:53first-degree relative go through

2:49:54menopause at 46 or sooner, you have a

2:49:58six times likelihood of going into early

2:50:00menopause.

2:50:02>> So knowing having this conversation,

2:50:04almost every patient I ask, what age did

2:50:06your mom go through menopause? They do

2:50:08not know the answer. because the moms

2:50:10haven't talked about it.

2:50:10>> Moms haven't talked about it. There's so

2:50:11much stigma about reproductive health.

2:50:13So, knowing that information is really

2:50:15important if you have mom or older

2:50:17sisters, what age is normal for your

2:50:19family so that you can be a little more

2:50:21in tune if there's some genetic

2:50:23predisposition for you? The general idea

2:50:25of what Dr. Haver is saying is that in

2:50:26these last 7 to 10 years of ovarian

2:50:29lifespan, it becomes more stubborn and

2:50:31less predictable and it does cause

2:50:33hormonal shifts that most women can't

2:50:35detect with their cycles. We do know

2:50:36that if you are actively tracking

2:50:39actually when ovulation's happening and

2:50:41looking at your follicular and ludial

2:50:43phase and you know what's normal for

2:50:45you, you will most likely be able to

2:50:47detect these hormone shifts in that time

2:50:49period. But that's not what women are

2:50:51taught. Their tracking is just that it's

2:50:53coming regular. And we do have a

2:50:56generation of women that were on

2:50:58contraception and then went through

2:51:00childbearing and then on contraception

2:51:02again until now they're suddenly

2:51:04entering this transitional period and

2:51:06they don't know what their own normal is

2:51:08making it even worse.

2:51:09>> Correct.

2:51:11>> So like she said the average age of

2:51:13menopause if we look at the math uh is

2:51:15is 51 but under that 90th percentile

2:51:18curve you know with 5% on each end it's

2:51:21about 45 to 55. That's menopause, right?

2:51:25>> That's full menopause. Now, now let's

2:51:27just do math and back it up 7 to 10

2:51:29years. So, we're looking at the mid to

2:51:31late 30s to 40. So, when I have a 46,

2:51:3447, 48y old patient come in who's still

2:51:36cycling, she has almost 100% chance of

2:51:39being in pmenopause just based on her

2:51:41age alone, knowing the statistics around

2:51:43that.

2:51:44>> Yep.

2:51:45>> Okay. So with my partner between the age

2:51:47of sort of 35 to 45 is when I can expect

2:51:50her to go through permenopause where

2:51:51there's very little marbles left in the

2:51:53jar. Um and her hormones might be

2:51:57disabled less predictable

2:51:59>> and one of the questions we had in from

2:52:01the audience was how can I manage the

2:52:03symptoms of permenopause and they use

2:52:06the word naturally

2:52:07>> well we don't have a single largecale

2:52:10study done on the treatment of per

2:52:14menopause. So, so let me break it down

2:52:15for you. When we look at funding in

2:52:17women's health, it's horrible. Okay? But

2:52:19if we, if I go into PubMed, which is

2:52:21the, you know, database that I go to

2:52:24look up metal medical journal articles,

2:52:26and I type in the word pregnancy, I will

2:52:28get today 1.2ish million articles for

2:52:31pregnancy. Amazing. So important. We

2:52:34need healthy pregnancies. If I type in

2:52:36the word menopause right now, I think

2:52:38it's about 99,000.

2:52:40So those numbers represent time, brain

2:52:44power, funding,

2:52:47what what what is important in women's

2:52:49health. Okay. If I type in the word

2:52:51perry menopause, we are about at 8,000.

2:52:55>> Yep. Very very very very small. Your

2:52:59name's on a couple of Thanks.

2:53:03So is the last third of my life from an

2:53:08academic standpoint, from funding, from

2:53:10brain power, from where we focus not as

2:53:13important

2:53:15than when I had the ability to be

2:53:17pregnant. More women will go through

2:53:18pmenopause than menopause because we're

2:53:20going to lose a few to accidents and

2:53:21cancers and, you know, early deaths.

2:53:24More women will go through pmenopause

2:53:26then get pregnant. Yet in my training,

2:53:29so in medical school, I got one hour one

2:53:32one-hour lecture on menopause, nothing

2:53:34on Perry. And in my OB/GYN training, and

2:53:37I'd love to hear what you have to say,

2:53:38as part of our reproductive

2:53:40endocrinology blocks, I had one block of

2:53:42that my second year. In those six weeks,

2:53:44I got one one-hour lecture each week. No

2:53:47clinics, no focus, nothing. And then as

2:53:51a program director where I was in charge

2:53:52of the education of residents of over

2:53:55100 residents over about 10 years, I

2:53:58knew exactly what the curriculum

2:53:59required and menopause just gets shoved

2:54:02into a tiny box.

2:54:04>> And then what happens when we run out of

2:54:05marbles in the the glass there?

2:54:10>> What's really interesting and one thing

2:54:11we've said a couple times is this

2:54:12happens. This is ovarian failure. you're

2:54:15going to go into a state of low estrogen

2:54:17because the ovaries no longer have the

2:54:19ability to make eggs. Therefore, they

2:54:21are not going to make estrogen or

2:54:23progesterone.

2:54:23>> And just to be clear there, the eggs

2:54:25were sending a signal up to the brain to

2:54:27make estrogen.

2:54:27>> And the eggs well the low the eggs in

2:54:30the brain communicate. Yes. When you

2:54:32didn't have an egg ovulating, your

2:54:34estrogen would be low and that typically

2:54:36is the brain signal to send out more

2:54:37FSH. That's still happening. Meaning

2:54:40estrogen is low, but the brain is

2:54:44sending out all the FSH it has. FSH is

2:54:46very high in menopause and the ovary

2:54:49cannot respond because there's no more

2:54:50eggs. There's nothing left to respond.

2:54:52>> I need to explain that that explained

2:54:54again. So, I'm trying to understand why

2:54:56estrogen drops when the eggs disappear.

2:54:58>> The estrogen is made from the cells that

2:54:59surround each egg. So, when there's no

2:55:01more eggs, there's no more cells that

2:55:03make estrogen. Follicle goes away, too.

2:55:05>> Okay. Okay. So, estrogen is made in

2:55:09>> the ovaries. So the estrogen is made in

2:55:10the ovaries and the primary type of

2:55:13estrogen that we're talking about and

2:55:14it's made from the cells that surround

2:55:15each follicle called the granulosa

2:55:17cells. And as the follicle gets bigger,

2:55:19as the egg matures, more of those cells

2:55:22become more active and you make more

2:55:23estrogen. So even when you have a little

2:55:26bit left

2:55:28when you're on your period, we'll say,

2:55:30but you're some eggs here, you're still

2:55:32making some estrogen. It's not as high

2:55:34as when you're ovulating, but these

2:55:36little eggs will each make a little bit.

2:55:37>> Do I make estrogen at times? You do,

2:55:39>> but I just make it somewhere else.

2:55:41>> Yeah. It gets converted over to

2:55:42testosterone.

2:55:44>> Okay.

2:55:44>> So, we have enzymes in our body that

2:55:46convert estrogen and testosterone back

2:55:48and forth.

2:55:48>> So, there's no more eggs. So, this is

2:55:51menopause.

2:55:52>> So, this is men. Well, in my world, yes,

2:55:54ov this is ovarian failure. And we're

2:55:56calling it ovarian failure on purpose

2:55:57because at this moment, you're not going

2:55:59to make estrogen. The brain is sending

2:56:01out all the signals it can. Very high

2:56:03FSH trying to get estrogen to be made.

2:56:05There's no eggs, so there is no

2:56:07estrogen. What Dr. Haver has said, which

2:56:09is correct, our our friends in the

2:56:12medical world do not define this moment

2:56:15as menopause. They make you sit here and

2:56:17be estrogen low for a year and have no

2:56:20period for a year before they will say

2:56:22you're in menopause. If they even decide

2:56:24to treat

2:56:25>> or offer treatment, you know, or even

2:56:27begin the discussion because of our

2:56:29training, you must thou shalt go without

2:56:32one year. So, we're absolutely sure that

2:56:34the ovaries have have moved on before we

2:56:38would even consider.

2:56:40>> But what is the point of that? We've

2:56:41made estrogen our entire lives.

2:56:43>> It's a fabulous question. That's a great

2:56:45question.

2:56:46>> Starving our brains, our hearts, our

2:56:47bones, our muscles.

2:56:48>> They didn't think they were doing that.

2:56:50I don't think that people, you know, the

2:56:52medical community has recognized

2:56:55estrogen's effects outside of

2:56:56reproduction until very recently. I

2:56:58think there's been isolated pockets, but

2:57:01there's no no one owns menopause. Like

2:57:03no one you think it would be OBGYn, but

2:57:06there's no one in charge of women's

2:57:08health after reproduction ends.

2:57:10>> Like there's there's no zar.

2:57:12>> So what's the harm of waiting a year

2:57:14before people take it seriously? What

2:57:16happens?

2:57:16>> Suicide, mental health changes, rapidly

2:57:19declining bone density. I mean, you can

2:57:21be healthy without estrogen.

2:57:23>> Wants estrogen.

2:57:24>> All vaginas need estrogen. So your

2:57:26brain, your bones, your heart, your

2:57:28blood vessels, your vagina,

2:57:30>> your body has estrogen receptors

The Dangers of the Year Before Menopause

2:57:32everywhere that we've already

2:57:33established. And suddenly you've lost

2:57:36the ability to make your primary source

2:57:38of estrogen. And what happens is that,

2:57:42you know, medicine has a lot of

2:57:43definitions that we use that are very

2:57:45antiquated. Even how we date

2:57:46pregnancies, right? When we talk about

2:57:48how far along you are in a pregnancy, we

2:57:50date back to the last period you had,

2:57:52which meant 2 weeks of pregnancy or

2:57:55before you ever ovulated an egg, before

2:57:58you 3 weeks before you ever implanted an

2:58:00embryo. Yet, we still use this pregnancy

2:58:03timeline based on when your last period

2:58:06was, even though we know two weeks of

2:58:08that you weren't in fact pregnant at

2:58:09all.

2:58:10>> Now, menopause, in my opinion, is the

2:58:12exact same way. We're using an

2:58:14antiquated definition saying you have to

2:58:16prove to me you're an ovarian failure by

2:58:19lack of your period for 12 months

2:58:20because it represents a time period

2:58:22where we didn't fully understand what

2:58:24was happening in the ovary or didn't

2:58:25have the ability to test and know what

2:58:27we know now. We are making women suffer

2:58:30to get that diagnosis. If I believe I

2:58:32shouldn't treat you until you have

2:58:34menopause, you have to prove that you're

2:58:37in it. I don't think it's where we're

2:58:39going. I don't think it's what's right

2:58:40for women. And that being this low

2:58:42estrogen is hugely impactful at your

2:58:45life at any age. The female body needs

2:58:48estrogen to function normally.

2:58:51>> I mean, I'm looking at this chart here

2:58:52about suicidation. Yeah. Suicide.

2:58:54>> So, the most likely time for a woman to

2:58:55commit suicide is between the ages of 45

2:58:59and 55.

2:59:01>> And do you is do you think that's linked

2:59:02to

Suicide Rates in Women

2:59:04>> 100% menopause?

2:59:06>> Right. So we know that mental health

2:59:10we have an increase in mental health

2:59:11disorders either pre-existing getting

2:59:14worse or new onset of about 40% across

2:59:17the transition. And we look at um SSRI

2:59:20prescriptions which are

2:59:20anti-depressants. They double across the

2:59:23menopause transition. Now there's a

2:59:24couple reasons for that. One is we

2:59:26weren't treating menopause with

2:59:28hormones. So they just SSRIs can

2:59:30actually help a hot flash. Uh certain

2:59:32types. So, you know, Paxel is one of the

2:59:34ones that has been proven to decrease

2:59:36hot flashes some. It's not great, but it

2:59:38works a little bit. And with all of the

2:59:40mental health changes, a lot of women

2:59:41are ending up on these anti-depressant

2:59:44medications.

2:59:46>> So, we don't want to go a year without

2:59:47estrogen. So, we know that some of the

2:59:50new data coming out when I was

2:59:51researching for the new pmenopause,

2:59:53there's a really great window of using

2:59:56hormones to treat mental health

2:59:58disorders um and seeing improvement in

3:00:01mood and also some in cognition by

3:00:03giving estrogen or estrogen plus the

3:00:05progesterine early in pmenopause before

3:00:08the periods actually stop ra and that

3:00:10actually works better than an SSRI. So,

3:00:13say she's on an on an SSRI and has done

3:00:15well. She's had a long history of

3:00:16depression. Suddenly, she's not

3:00:18controlled. Suddenly, her symptoms are

3:00:20back and she's on the same medication.

3:00:22Rather than doubling or adding a second

3:00:24agent,

3:00:25>> we really should be giving these women a

3:00:29hormonal therapy.

3:00:31>> Now, that doesn't hold postmenopause.

3:00:33So, this is really a pmenopausal kind of

3:00:36window of opportunity.

3:00:37>> In postmenopause, they aren't responding

3:00:40as well and probably because the

3:00:41estrogen labels have stabilized. So when

3:00:43we give a woman back

3:00:44>> adapts yeah you'll adapt. So

3:00:46postmenopause the menopause um that's

3:00:49why the suicide rates kind of peak in

3:00:51this key per menopause area and we think

3:00:54and so in postmenopause

3:00:57they the hormone levels stabilize so

3:00:59women tend to get better and so they do

3:01:02respond better to the SSRIs for for new

3:01:04onset anxiety and depression in those

3:01:05patients.

3:01:07>> And I want to do a randomized control

3:01:08trial where we add some creatine.

3:01:10>> Oh that would be amazing. 20 g of

3:01:14>> Well, no, it's 38 per kilogram of body

3:01:16gram. Yes.

3:01:17>> So, you're saying if I'm a 45year-old

3:01:19woman and I'm I've still got my

3:01:21menstrual cycle

3:01:22>> Mhm.

3:01:23>> at that time before I've hit menopause,

3:01:26>> I should be considering some type of

3:01:27hormonal therapy. So when we give

3:01:29someone menopausal dosed menopause

3:01:31hormone therapy in the form of estradile

3:01:33usually in a patch because you have that

3:01:34nice steady state it is enough to feed

3:01:37back to the hypo to that brain to calm

3:01:40down but not enough to suppress

3:01:41ovulation. So she's often giving

3:01:43estrogen support in very low doses and

3:01:46menopause hormone therapy is basically

3:01:47micro doing compared to what we do

3:01:49naturally. And so we're giving enough to

3:01:52calm the brain down and stabilize what's

3:01:54happening in the brain without

3:01:55suppressing her natural ovulation.

3:01:58giving enough what?

3:01:59>> To raise you back to maybe what that

3:02:01baseline would be.

3:02:02>> Giving enough estrogen. Correct. Giving

3:02:05enough estrogen to raise the baseline

3:02:07level so it's not as low. It's not so

3:02:10high that it's preventing ovulation, but

3:02:12it's going to alleviate some of these

3:02:14drastic highs and lows that you're

3:02:16having and it's going to create a more

3:02:17stable hormone environment.

3:02:19>> It's the delta that we were talking

3:02:20about post pregnancy. The delta

3:02:25chaos. The space is what bothers us, not

3:02:27the high nor the low eventually.

3:02:30>> So,

3:02:31I have uh I run out of eggs and then I'm

3:02:36by definition menopausal at this stage

3:02:39and

3:02:41my body adapts.

3:02:43So, there's going to be a drop and then

3:02:45there's going to be a

3:02:46>> We're specifically talking about mental

3:02:48health because you brought up the

3:02:49suicide chart. Uh and so postmenopause

3:02:53like once everything calms down and

3:02:55you're fully menopausal you're out of

3:02:56the zone of chaos. The hormones have

3:02:58just your bones continue to deteriorate

3:03:01a lot of other things are happening but

3:03:02our cognit our mental our brain tends to

3:03:05calm down and things get better in the

3:03:06brain.

3:03:07>> When do I become postmenopausal instead

3:03:08of menopausal?

3:03:10>> Oh go menopause is a day right medically

3:03:14menopause is one day in your life. one

3:03:16day exactly after your final menstrual

3:03:19period.

3:03:19>> That's the point of that random agree,

3:03:22right? Because what if what if it's leap

3:03:24year? Do we go 366 days? What if it's

3:03:26what if you've had an IUD? What if

3:03:27you've had all these things? It's like

3:03:29it's really a antiquated definition and

3:03:31we really need to modernize.

3:03:32>> So, it's really you're permenopausal,

3:03:34then you're postmenopausal.

3:03:35>> Correct.

3:03:35>> Right.

3:03:36>> Okay. And when I'm postmenopausal

3:03:38>> forever,

3:03:39>> forever.

3:03:40>> That's your new biological state.

3:03:41>> That's right. for now. I'm sure

3:03:43someone's working on something to change

3:03:45something.

3:03:46>> I do wonder that. I do wonder if they're

3:03:48they're going to figure out a way to

3:03:49>> extend fertility. I mean, they're

3:03:51trying.

3:03:52>> They're trying.

3:03:54>> But then I think about it as if you're a

3:03:5660-year-old woman, would you still want

3:03:58to be

3:03:58>> worried about

3:03:59>> worried about that?

3:04:00>> So, what they're doing is looking at is

3:04:02there a way to extend

3:04:03>> we'll say ovarian function. ovarian

3:04:05function with lowle baseline

3:04:08>> enough to keep you out of osteop you

3:04:09know enough to slow that down and heart

3:04:11disease protect your heart without

3:04:14pregnancy

3:04:14>> I'm now post menopausal lots of things

3:04:17change in my body I'm guessing because I

3:04:18I no longer have the same levels of

3:04:20estrogen

3:04:21>> did the levels of estrogen ever go up

3:04:23again naturally or do I then need to

3:04:25start considering

3:04:26>> outside of a tumor no I mean

3:04:28>> so do I need to consider hormone

3:04:29replacement therapies and things like

3:04:30that to

3:04:31>> you might

3:04:32>> and that will help me fend off what the

3:04:34sleep issues, the

3:04:36>> it'll slow the rate of change,

3:04:38>> okay?

3:04:38>> But it doesn't stop it. You still have

What Is Hormone Replacement Therapy Really For?

3:04:41to put in your lifestyle modifications

3:04:43to improve andor stop the circenia and

3:04:46the bone density loss and all the things

3:04:48that people associate with

3:04:50postmenopause.

3:04:50>> And did any of you have menopause

3:04:53hormone therapy?

3:04:54>> Yes.

3:04:55>> Yeah.

3:04:55>> Mhm.

3:04:56>> And what was the decision and what what

3:04:58impact has it had? So, I think what

3:04:59Stacy just said in framing where we're

3:05:02going with this conversation is so now

3:05:04we're permenopausal. It's a new

3:05:07physiology.

3:05:08What used to work for all of our

3:05:10exercising if we even did because we

3:05:12know it at least in this country that 60

3:05:15to 80% of people aren't intentional with

3:05:18their lifestyle. So to frame this next

3:05:21part of the conversation, I'm sure we're

3:05:23going to talk a lot about hormones, and

3:05:24I'll tell you my hormone decision-m, but

3:05:28uh I think it's important to all of us.

3:05:30It's only one of the building blocks to

3:05:35rebuilding a great life, right? It's

3:05:37interesting that the five steps of

3:05:39fertility that you went over are

3:05:41actually

3:05:41>> exactly the same.

3:05:43>> Curious, isn't it?

3:05:44>> It is. It's it's

3:05:46great protein and anti-inflammatory

3:05:49nutrition. It's a cardiovascular fitness

3:05:52life. It's a lifting life. It's a stress

3:05:54detox whether it's environmental or

3:05:57relational. And

3:05:58>> sleep,

3:05:59>> sleep,

3:06:00>> sleep.

3:06:00>> And then yes, hormones are really uh a

3:06:03critical building block. But as we enter

3:06:05the conversation,

3:06:07women are sentient beings and we get to

3:06:10decide

3:06:12and we get to make the changes because

3:06:14we have agency. So what we're going to

3:06:16describe is not a one-sizefits-all.

3:06:19>> It is

3:06:20>> it's all the tools on the tools.

3:06:21>> Put the tools on the table.

3:06:23>> So I choose if I'm going to work my

3:06:25proverbial rear end off to be the best I

3:06:28can be for the rest of my life. I choose

3:06:30to use all the tools. Not everybody does

3:06:33that. But to choose one tool and think

3:06:35that's going to be enough, it never is.

3:06:37>> Right. So when I decided to and I've

3:06:41been pretty public about my journey in

3:06:44this because you think I would have

3:06:46known after 22 years of formal education

3:06:49and all this and being an aging a

3:06:52muscularkeeletal aging researcher, you

3:06:54would have think thought I would have

3:06:55known. But I honestly looking back maybe

3:06:57thought I was never going to age because

3:06:59I was so healthy, right?

3:07:01So I have a baby at 40. I breastfeed

3:07:05till almost 41 and a half, 42. And then

3:07:09I'm back at my very quickly 5 weeks, my

3:07:12high power, high capacity to career.

3:07:16But things were getting really different

3:07:18about 45 for me and I think I went right

3:07:21from postpartum

3:07:24to perry menopause with very little

3:07:27downtime. So chaotic hormones to almost

3:07:32and so

3:07:34I suffered for a while at 47. Uh I I

3:07:37talk about it like I I went from this

3:07:39really high capacity to thinking I was

3:07:41going to die not only because of night

3:07:44sweats, brain fog, the thing that lots

3:07:46of women have. But I started having

3:07:49heart palpitations. And I call my

3:07:52cardiology friend because I worked at a

3:07:54university. I'm like Ricky Ricky I think

3:07:55I'm dying. So he did put me on a stress

3:07:57test and my heart was perfect right at

3:08:00that point. And then I had arthralgia

3:08:04which is total body pain. It's part of

3:08:06the inflammatory response of not having

3:08:10estrogen. It's part of the

3:08:11muscularkeeletal syndrome of menopause

3:08:14uh assembly of symptoms. so much that I

3:08:17go from training

3:08:19to almost not being able to get out of

3:08:21bed and these my experience of not

3:08:24knowing what was coming and hitting a

3:08:27wall is not uncommon,

3:08:29>> right? And so I started educating myself

3:08:32and being an acquired expert. I read

3:08:36what I consider the world's data on

3:08:39safety of hormone optimization as I like

3:08:43to call it and I made the decision that

3:08:46I was going to do all the tools. I was

3:08:48going to learn to lift heavy again which

3:08:49I hadn't done since high school cuz I

3:08:51was a runner and I changed the way I do

3:08:54my cardio and I changed my diet and I am

3:08:57so committed to sleep. do not call me

3:08:59after 9:30 at night because I am going

3:09:01to be in bed and just the

3:09:04>> the quiet times of d-stress. But I also

3:09:06decided to um augment or to optimize my

3:09:11hormones with estradiol,

3:09:13with progesterone because I have a

3:09:15uterus and after I felt comfortable with

3:09:18those with very small doses of

3:09:21testosterone and that makes me feel like

3:09:25myself again, not just one because I

3:09:27think sometimes people think that you

3:09:29can just make a hormone decision and

3:09:31feel like yourself again. It takes

3:09:33lifestyle

3:09:35>> plus or minus this decision.

3:09:37>> Is there a stigma associated with that

3:09:39decision? Um

3:09:40>> taking hormones.

3:09:41>> Taking the hormones, but also I guess

3:09:42just more broadly with entering

3:09:45>> menopause. Yeah.

3:09:47>> Um I think there is there is absolutely

3:09:50I mean you can just look at popular

3:09:52media. You can look at their

3:09:53representation.

3:09:54>> Go right now and give me an image.

3:09:56>> It's decreasing because of you though.

3:09:58Like we have to acknowledge you are

3:09:59decreasing the stigma.

3:10:01>> True. and you're sitting at the table

3:10:02with us.

3:10:03>> I say that I think because there's a

3:10:04woman in my life who was telling me

3:10:06about her decision to start taking

3:10:07menopause hormone therapy and she

3:10:10described the moment with her husband

3:10:12when she was looking at the box.

3:10:13>> Mhm.

3:10:14>> And she was staring at the box and

3:10:16staring at the box and staring at the

3:10:18box and mulling it and there was clearly

3:10:20something emotional going on there that

3:10:21this decision to take this marks

3:10:24something

3:10:25>> which is interesting because no one

3:10:27really questions OC's.

3:10:29>> Exactly. Oral contraceptive birth

3:10:31control birth control

3:10:33>> and I treat both men and women and when

3:10:35a man comes into my clinic with low

3:10:37energy popping all the tendons all over

3:10:40his body everything hurts we very

3:10:42quickly test his testosterone and send

3:10:45him with no judgment because he's trying

3:10:47to be viral and I think it goes with the

3:10:50general composa conversation about aging

3:10:52women when men talk about living longer

3:10:57>> it's called longevity and we celebrate

3:10:59that and we take pictures of movie stars

3:11:02in the south of France very

3:11:03distinguished distinguished with their

3:11:05grain temples when women when we talk

3:11:07about women living longer

3:11:10>> until right now cuz we're all screaming

3:11:12about it it's under the guise of

3:11:15anti-aging

3:11:17>> a superficial like oh my god don't let

3:11:19her age so I think part of that is the

3:11:24stigma of menopause somehow because

3:11:26we're no longer able to have a

3:11:29there's not a value. We've aged out of

3:11:31the game,

3:11:32>> which hopefully we're pivoting this

3:11:35narrative because as I said earlier,

3:11:37women are winning the longevity battle.

3:11:39We already live longer, but it's how

3:11:42we're living that we're trying to course

3:11:44correct.

3:11:44>> Yeah. And it's not just humans that go

3:11:46through this. Like I like using the

3:11:48whale analogy cuz whales go through it

3:11:50and then the whales that are no longer

3:11:52reproductive become like

3:11:54>> the senior everyone all the other little

3:11:57whales listen to them. is like I want to

3:11:59be like a whale where you have this

3:12:01seniority and and respect the wisdom

3:12:05wisdom keepers.

3:12:06>> Yeah,

3:12:06>> exactly.

3:12:07>> I love this part of my life.

3:12:09>> You love this part of your life?

3:12:10>> Yes.

3:12:11>> Why?

3:12:12>> I have never felt like I've

3:12:17been in exactly where I'm supposed to

3:12:19be. In this moment, I feel like I'm

3:12:22helping more people. I have better

3:12:24relationships. I'm having better sex.

3:12:26I'm having better, you know, everything

3:12:29in my life pretty much is better. And I

3:12:33I don't know if like menopause and and

3:12:36life circumstances have just given me

3:12:39permission to like cut out the crap and

3:12:43focus on what's really important

3:12:45>> and, you know, don't sweat the small

3:12:48stuff,

3:12:49you know, it's like like something kind

3:12:51of switches in our brain.

3:12:52>> No filters. It's amazing. And I don't

3:12:55think I could have done this 10 years

3:12:57ago. I was too worried about what people

3:12:59thought. I was too worried about being a

3:13:00good girl and following the rules and

3:13:02checking the boxes and never stepping

3:13:04outside of the guidelines. But until I

3:13:06realized that I wasn't really serving

3:13:08the population that I trained for x

3:13:10amount of years to that, you know, and

3:13:13they were being left behind

3:13:15is really what allowed me to like be

3:13:18where I am today.

3:13:19>> I think most of us describe this as the

3:13:21most authentic. We're actually who we

3:13:24were made to be. And the confidence we

3:13:26feel comes from our memories of success.

3:13:30I think that's where confidence come

3:13:31from. We remember everything that we

Should You Treat Menopause Symptoms?

3:13:33have learned to fix over time. Probably

3:13:36we could figure anything out. And so

3:13:39that comes with experience and frankly

3:13:42it comes with aging. The price of aging

3:13:45or the pre the price of having wisdom

3:13:47and experience is aging, right? And so

3:13:50the the reps and so you get to this

3:13:52place and you're like, I'm going to

3:13:54figure this out. We're going to figure

3:13:56this out.

3:13:57>> And I don't want the younger generations

3:13:58to have to go through the stuff that

3:14:00we've gone through. So if I can share my

3:14:02experiences to help them navigate, then

3:14:05that is a good thing.

3:14:06>> Yeah, I'm in pmenopause, so I'm a

3:14:08slightly different stage. And I know

3:14:11this because my cycles are shorter, but

3:14:14they're still very regular. Used to be

3:14:1628 29 days. Now they're 25 26. I know

3:14:20that means I have less eggs coming out

3:14:22of my vault every month and that's why

3:14:24I'm ovulating sooner. But I can feel all

3:14:26the hormonal shifts much more profoundly

3:14:29than before. Now, as a reproductive

3:14:31endocrinologist, what we call a

3:14:33fertility doctor, most fertility doctors

3:14:35now do IVF day in and day out. And

3:14:37there's a lot of corporate reasons why

3:14:39that is. But we're also trained in

3:14:42puberty, premature ovarian failure, and

3:14:44hormones. So, I'm more of a cowboy and

3:14:46quite cavalier at giving estrogen. We

3:14:48even told these ladies last night, oh,

3:14:51>> because I see it. I see people who are

3:14:53low estrogen states and you know, every

3:14:56single day, how it impacts their life.

3:14:58So, I am on lowd dose estrogen right

3:15:01now, even though I'm still cycling. I'm

3:15:02still making my own progesterone, so I

3:15:05don't have to take a progesterone right

3:15:07now. But, it clearly makes a difference

3:15:10in my day-to-day function and how I

3:15:12feel. And most REI like I am will

3:15:16jokingly say like you'll put me in the

3:15:18ground on estrogen because it has such a

3:15:20profound impact on you're able how you

3:15:24can function and specifically if we're

3:15:27not forcing you to go through this empty

3:15:30glass period for years and years and

3:15:32years of your life

3:15:34>> there's more opportunity on how you can

3:15:37slow down part of the process that we

3:15:39all know is going to happen with aging

3:15:41but to live I think pond do is it you

3:15:43know healthier your health span how are

3:15:44you going to live healthy longer not

3:15:47just live longer

3:15:48>> well and I think your approach that I

3:15:51think it's part of the decision making

3:15:53is critical because

3:15:56>> uh

3:15:5835 to 45 and early pmenopause are prime

3:16:01times for prevention

3:16:03>> right it's to get our standards set

3:16:06>> you don't have to lose your bone like

3:16:08you're going to get

3:16:08>> but it's hard for women to get care and

3:16:10we also have to acknowledge that if you

3:16:12go into

3:16:13>> right if you what you're recommending

3:16:14and I also do the same thing for my

3:16:16patients

3:16:17>> very hard for somebody to get care for

3:16:18>> this is not happening in 99%

3:16:21>> of doctor's offices like there is no

3:16:24birth control pill or nothing which is

3:16:25all they were taught

3:16:26>> given that even in menopause only 4% of

3:16:29women have chosen or have been educated

3:16:32the pros and cons of hormone

3:16:34optimization

3:16:35and then to ex that's without that's an

3:16:37empty jar person

3:16:39>> so 4% Stephen

3:16:41>> is that How many women that have

3:16:43>> said 2023 they did a study in the US.

3:16:45I'm not sure in other countries and on

3:16:47FDA approved. So when we add in

3:16:49compounding it's maybe a little bit

3:16:50higher but when you look at FDA

3:16:53prescriptions only 4% of eligible women

3:16:56meaning no risk factors right age are

3:16:59are utilizing are going to get their

3:17:01prescriptions filled. Evidently this is

3:17:04going to change right with the education

3:17:06that you guys

3:17:07>> we hope at least they're being offered

3:17:09it and having a discussion so that each

3:17:11one

3:17:11>> they may choose not to the right and

3:17:13that's their right but

3:17:14>> side effects are there side effects

3:17:16worth noting I know a lot of people are

3:17:17quite scared of taking sen hormones

3:17:20>> so there's risks and then there's side

3:17:21effects so when we look at the side

3:17:23effect profile anytime we give a woman

3:17:25estrogen progesterone and we'll have to

3:17:28like look at them individually but

3:17:30estrogen you can have headaches you can

3:17:32have irregular bleeding about 50% of

3:17:34patients and more on the patch than on

3:17:36oral.

3:17:37>> There's a patch and there's oral. Vonda,

3:17:38you take the patch, right?

3:17:39>> I do.

3:17:40>> And that's on your stomach.

3:17:41>> Yeah, it's right here actually.

3:17:42>> And how often do you have to replace

3:17:43that?

3:17:44>> Twice a week.

3:17:45>> Okay, fine. And

3:17:47>> yeah. So, so when we look at menopause

3:17:48hormone therapy, we have estrogen, we

3:17:51have progesterrogens, and then we have

3:17:53testosterone basically. And there's

3:17:55different ways to get it into your body.

3:17:57There's oral and non-oral roughly. So,

3:17:59in oral it's pill, you take it. In

3:18:01non-oral, we're looking at through the

3:18:03skin or through the mucosa. So mucosa

3:18:06could be under the tongue. It could be

3:18:08in the vagina. So mucosa is like the

3:18:10gastrointestinal tract is lined with

3:18:12mucosa and it's a nice way to absorb and

3:18:14in the rectum to absorb medication. We

3:18:16don't have a rectal form of estrogen

3:18:18yet. And so um so and then there's also

3:18:21injectables so you can inject it

3:18:23straight into the muscle or subcutaneous

3:18:25tissues. So most commercially available

3:18:27like FDA approved. We're looking at a

3:18:29ring for the mucosa. We're looking at a

3:18:31patch for transdermal or we're looking

3:18:33at pills for oral.

3:18:34>> And what do you take?

3:18:35>> Yes. So, I am on a patch. Um, and I've

3:18:38just been I'm not a great absorber

3:18:41through my skin. Um, and I couldn't get

3:18:43my estradile levels high enough where

3:18:45studies are looking like the best bone

3:18:47protection is. So, I've added about a

3:18:49half milligram of oral estradile at

3:18:51night. I'm on oral micronized

3:18:53progesterone, which is probably the best

3:18:55way to get it into our system. And I

3:18:57tolerate progesterone very well. And

3:18:59testosterone. And I am on a gel that is

3:19:02FDA approved. We I'm borrowing the men's

3:19:04version because we don't have an FDA

3:19:06approved version

3:19:06>> for women

3:19:07>> in this country for women. So

3:19:09>> I don't think anywhere is

3:19:10>> borrow my husband.

3:19:11>> Australia.

3:19:12>> Australia.

3:19:13>> And I think the UK just has approved

3:19:16one. This is new

3:19:17>> some news like in the last month.

3:19:19>> Yeah.

3:19:20>> So okay. So um okay. So, so it's it's

3:19:23broadly advisable

3:19:26after doctor's consultation to take some

3:19:28form of hormone therapy.

3:19:30>> Definitely if you're symptomatic, if you

3:19:32have the classic visual motor symptoms,

3:19:33it's absolutely the gold standard.

3:19:36>> But can I comment on that?

3:19:37>> Women say to me all the time either, I

3:19:41don't have I don't feel that bad

3:19:45or they say I want to do this naturally.

3:19:48And those are the things that say okay

3:19:50fine, do it naturally. But

3:19:54brain fog, night sweats in the V and hot

3:19:56flashes are not the only thing going on.

3:19:58And so if you're making this decision

3:20:01fully informed, well, you're a sentient

3:20:04being. Make the incision. But you cannot

3:20:07feel your bones crumbling until they're

3:20:10broken. You cannot feel that. You cannot

3:20:12feel your muscle going away. You cannot

3:20:14feel your brain starving. You can't

3:20:17detect microvascular disease of your

3:20:19heart. So, you may think you're getting

3:20:21away with something and maybe you don't

3:20:23have night sweats, brain fog,

3:20:26but it doesn't mean you're not having a

3:20:28different physiology. And if you are

3:20:30fully aware of that and make a decision

3:20:33that you don't want to optimize your

3:20:35hormones, that's your decision. And I'm

3:20:36fine with that. But what I'm not fine

3:20:38with is people thinking they're getting

3:20:40away with something when they're not.

3:20:43>> True. I

3:20:44>> You're making the decision based on fear

3:20:45and not facts.

3:20:46>> Correct.

3:20:46>> My last question is about love and sex

3:20:48in and menopause. You said you're having

3:20:50the best ex of your life, Mary. And um

3:20:52I've also heard you talk about how

3:20:54several people in this season of life

3:20:56end up getting divorces. You said they

3:20:58throw the the trash out. So when I

3:21:02So when we talk about, you know,

3:21:05menopause can

3:21:07spur, you know, for some women it's it's

3:21:10this mo moment of empowerment. They

3:21:12realize they have to circle the wagons

3:21:13cuz the only way they're going to

3:21:14survive through this cataclysmic, you

3:21:16know, upheaval for so many women is to

3:21:20get rid of relationships that aren't

3:21:21working. Put up boundaries and sometimes

3:21:23that's going to be the end of a

3:21:24marriage. Other times it's going to

3:21:26strengthen a relationship because you're

3:21:28you're kind of cutting out things that

3:21:30were getting in the way of your so I see

3:21:32many marriages or many relationships

3:21:34really improve through the transition.

3:21:36But it it does take two. You know, sex

3:21:39is biocschosocial. So like when I I look

3:21:41at sex it's not I think of the entire

3:21:43experience you know and one as far as my

3:21:47desire for the frequency testosterone

3:21:50does seem to have given that an uptick.

3:21:53So it is approved you know we have lots

3:21:56of studies done on libido for women

3:21:58which is in medicine we say hypoactive

3:22:00sexual desire disorder and it has to

3:22:02bother you. So a lot of women are like I

3:22:04don't want to have sex ever again I

3:22:05don't care. There's nothing wrong with

3:22:07that, right? Unless it affects your

3:22:09relationship and it it bo it has to

3:22:10bother you. But I have a lot of patients

3:22:12who come in and say, "I love him. I used

3:22:16to want to do it. We used to have a

3:22:17really great frequency and everybody was

3:22:19happy about it. It was something I look

3:22:20forward to, enjoy it, and now there's

3:22:22nothing. I have nothing." And for those

3:22:25patients, testosterone can be helpful.

3:22:27Not for everyone, right? And so there's

3:22:30other emerging data on looking at the

3:22:33muscular skeletal system. I am naturally

3:22:35thin. I was not an athlete growing up.

3:22:36At best, I was a dancer, you know, and I

3:22:40didn't do anything to protect my muscles

3:22:41and bones as as I was coming up through

3:22:43the ranks. And so, here I am in my 50s

3:22:46just getting out of endurance, you know,

3:22:48you know, recreational endurance

3:22:50training and thinking, what have I done

3:22:52to my bones and muscles? I laid on that

3:22:53DEXA scan as nervous as I've ever been

3:22:56in my life, like getting my board

3:22:57scores, nervous, like, what have I done?

3:22:59And and it wasn't bad, okay? But I'm

3:23:02like, but I like to be perfect. So, I'm

3:23:05like, what can I do to, you know, I'm

3:23:08doing the I'm eating the protein, I'm

3:23:09lifting the weights, I'm starting to do

3:23:11all these things. And we know that women

3:23:12who have naturally higher testosterone

3:23:14levels from genetics or whatever, have

3:23:17less frailty as they age cuz that's my

3:23:19focus. If I run the cancer gauntlet,

3:23:21which probably 80% of my aunts and

3:23:23uncles have died of cancer. And so if I

3:23:26run that gauntlet and I'm doing

3:23:27everything lifestyle and preventative

3:23:28screening to do that and then the women

3:23:31end up with dementia frailty like my

3:23:32mother and grandmother. So I'm like,

3:23:36"Okay, I want to have as much bone and

3:23:38muscle strength as I can. So I'm going

3:23:39to add some testosterone and see what

3:23:41happens." I I at the time would not have

3:23:44said I had any sexual dysfunction. I did

3:23:46not qualify medically for HSDD.

3:23:51I go on testosterone and there's

3:23:53definitely an uptick in the area and

3:23:55everyone is happier like my interest has

3:23:57improved my initiation has improved and

3:24:00that had kind of waned time and stress

3:24:02and kids and whatever the other thing we

3:24:04were empty nesting at the same time so

3:24:05that probably no more kids busting in

3:24:07our door at 2 in the morning letting us

3:24:09know they're home from you know whatever

3:24:11experience and you guys will go through

3:24:12this later but also our communication is

3:24:15better you know my husband's retired

3:24:17from Chevron and we are building this

3:24:20this company together, you know, our

3:24:22menopause company. And so our

3:24:24relationship has actually improved

3:24:25through all of that. So all of the

3:24:26things that feed into

3:24:29what we know is female desire and has is

3:24:32just better all the way around and and I

3:24:34think testosterone had a little bit to

3:24:35do with it. My ability to like focus and

3:24:39my ability to prioritize and put up the

3:24:42right boundaries has really helped with

3:24:43that. And we're just having a lot of

3:24:45more fun with it. But I think that we

3:24:47would be remiss in this part of the

3:24:50conversation, and I'll say it. I'm the

3:24:51orthod, but I'm gonna say it anyway.

3:24:56Many men, I just talked to my husband

3:24:58publicly about this because we're trying

3:24:59to educate men, is that most men don't

How to Improve Your Sex Life and Lubrication

3:25:01realize that in pmenopause, as estrogen

3:25:04waines, it affects all tissues. And

3:25:07there is an entity called the genital

3:25:09urinary syndrome of menopause where the

3:25:11vagina will actually atrophy and all the

3:25:14external soft uh tissues that are

3:25:18usually used to engorging will become

3:25:20dry like a desert and Stephen sex can

3:25:24feel like razor blades

3:25:26>> and men don't know that and women are

3:25:28afraid to tell their partners. So the

3:25:30men feel rejected like why doesn't she

3:25:33love me or desire me anymore and it may

3:25:36be that but it's probably not that it's

3:25:38it hurts and I bleed

3:25:41>> and women don't know that this is normal

3:25:43when you're estrogen is in not that it's

3:25:46okay to

3:25:46>> it shouldn't be it shouldn't be normal

3:25:48but when you're in a low estrogen state

3:25:50regard menopause birth control pills can

3:25:53do it postpartum breastfeeding even you

3:25:57know progesterone IUD these can all

3:25:59cause time periods where your estrogen

3:26:03levels are low enough that the vaginal

3:26:05tissue is not having the right collagen

3:26:07and elasticity that it should.

3:26:08>> So, what's the solution?

3:26:11>> Not lubricant.

3:26:13>> Lubricant can sometimes aid, but that's

3:26:15not a root cause, right? It'll help with

3:26:18I I help with symptoms, right? But if

3:26:21your part of the problem is that the

3:26:22tissue can't respond as it should, that

3:26:25it's frail, that delay orgasm, then we

3:26:27really want to get to the root cause,

3:26:29which is estrogen is crucial for skin

3:26:31elasticity.

3:26:32>> It's like men going on testosterone,

3:26:34right? If he's not having an erection,

3:26:37there are 29 solutions for that right

3:26:39now,

3:26:40>> but primarily funded solutions as well.

3:26:42>> Solutions. But for women, it's not just

3:26:45desire, it's physiologic. And so

3:26:49>> vaginal estrogen put putting something

3:26:51up

3:26:51>> putting in your vagina

3:26:52>> and what you put in your vagina is

3:26:53>> so there's there's several options. We

3:26:55have creams, we have pills, there's a

3:26:57ring specifically designed just for

3:26:59that. So we have different methods of

3:27:01getting the vag you know estrogen into

3:27:03the vagina. There's also um uh something

3:27:06called prosterone which is DHEA

3:27:08basically which is a pre hormone that

3:27:11the vagina miraculously will convert to

3:27:13estrogen and testosterone. So but it's

3:27:16expensive. It tends to not be covered by

3:27:17insurance. But for our like our sex med

3:27:20friends, sexual medicine friends who

3:27:22specialize in this female sexual

3:27:24function, they love it because you're

3:27:26not only getting a boost of estrogen to

3:27:28the vagina, you're also getting

3:27:29testosterone and there are testosterone,

3:27:31you know, receptors in the vulva, you

3:27:33know, in the lower vagina and around the

3:27:36skin around the vagina as well.

3:27:38>> But here's the bonus.

3:27:40All of this plus vaginal estrogen will

3:27:44help prevent chronic UTI which kill old

3:27:48ladies and it will help support the

3:27:50pelvic floor and the uh uterus from

3:27:55prolapsing and so it has all these added

3:27:58benefits and here's another bonus it is

3:28:00such low dose

3:28:02>> it is not systemic so any risk that you

3:28:06could think of that you might not want

3:28:08to do systemic estrogen including breast

3:28:10cancer

3:28:11>> is unaffected by vaginal estrogen and so

3:28:14it is a huge solution. And there's no

3:28:16age that a woman can't go on it. She'll

3:28:19kill me. She'll never know this. But I

3:28:21put my 86-year-old mother on it so that

3:28:23we could prevent UTI and failure of

3:28:26tissue so she didn't get sores and

3:28:29infections, right? Isn't that a miracle?

3:28:33I know Stephen's like,

3:28:34>> "Yeah, and we should say that vaginal

3:28:36estrogen in preparations made for

3:28:38vaginal estrogen or lowd dose estrogen

3:28:40preparations. You can give oral

3:28:42estradiol vaginally and it will be

3:28:45systemically absorbed because the vagina

3:28:47is highly absorptive. So I don't want

3:28:48somebody to hear this and think that but

3:28:51just saying we often prescribe or

3:28:53recommend

3:28:54>> a local treatment of vaginal estrogen

3:28:56products which are in very low dose and

3:28:58they really impact the local tissues of

3:29:01we'll say the pelvic floor, the urinary

3:29:03system, the vulva, the vagina and they

3:29:05improve your well-being and your health

3:29:08without some of the risk that might come

3:29:10from systemic hormones in somebody who

3:29:12may not want to take them.

3:29:14>> I am all out of questions. So I wanted

3:29:16to conclude this segment just by asking

3:29:18you what the most important thing that I

3:29:20have missed on the subjects we've talked

3:29:22about menstrual cycles, menopause,

3:29:24everything in between. What is the most

3:29:27important subject you think we might

3:29:28have missed?

3:29:30>> I think we covered it but but to stay

3:29:33that you control a large part. We said

3:29:37over and over inflammation and insulin

3:29:40resistance. We we touched on different

3:29:43lifestyle factors that impact this

3:29:45because

3:29:46>> when your body is having hormone change,

3:29:48>> there's a lot of the external world

3:29:50around you or the choices you're making

3:29:51that can make some of that better or

3:29:53worse or influence what is happening.

3:29:56>> And I know we're going to go over more

3:29:57of this, but I think this idea that I

3:29:59have no control over what's happening to

3:30:01me isn't 100% true. I mean, you don't

3:30:04have control over when some of this

3:30:05stuff happens, but you can take control

3:30:08of a situation by understanding your

3:30:10body, knowing what's happening, knowing

3:30:13how to advocate for yourself, and making

3:30:15active decisions to live a healthier,

3:30:18better life.

3:30:19>> Yes, that's the goal is to empower women

3:30:21to understand, to ask the questions so

3:30:24they don't feel like something is

3:30:25happening to them and they don't have

3:30:27control or options,

3:30:29>> which is what our mother's generation

3:30:31had. They were always gas lit, told, you

3:30:34know, it's all in your head.

3:30:36>> There's nothing we can do.

3:30:37>> So, my mother was put on but it was

3:30:42called butol.

3:30:44Um, it's basically a sedative and it was

3:30:47mother's little helper. And I found an

3:30:49old magazine article where they if you

3:30:51look at the magazine articles from the

3:30:5450s and 60s on these medications, mostly

3:30:58sedatives that were given to women. It's

3:30:59like now she can do the laundry again.

3:31:02Now she she's flipping a pancake in the

3:31:04ad in the apron in the 1950s, you know,

3:31:07like get your mom back, get your wife

3:31:09back.

3:31:10>> And it was a combination of estrogen

3:31:12plus a seditive. And I was just

3:31:16absolutely floored. And I remember mom's

3:31:18little bottle and it was called butol

3:31:22and I it would sit on her counter and

3:31:25she would talk about it like it was her

3:31:27talisman like it was her and I always

3:31:29thought of it as mommy's little helper

3:31:31you know like oh I need my butol oh this

3:31:33happened where's my butol where's my

3:31:35butol and when I was researching and

3:31:37writing and reading about these

3:31:40sedatives that were given in women I was

3:31:41like wait mama I remember the bottle I

3:31:44remember what it was called cuz she

3:31:45talked about it all the time I went and

3:31:47looked it up and it's a derivative of

3:31:48pheninoarbatl.

3:31:50>> Oh my gosh.

3:31:50>> And it was heavily prescribed to women.

3:31:52So

3:31:53>> barbbituate. It's a a drug.

3:31:55>> It's a class of drug that is basically a

3:31:57sedative. We use it in surgery. We use

3:31:58it for seizures.

3:32:00>> And they were sedating my mother on the

3:32:03daily.

3:32:03>> Yep.

3:32:04>> Through her pmenopause.

3:32:06>> Mhm.

3:32:06>> Now she had eight kids. She was running

3:32:08a restaurant. You know, she was very

3:32:10high functioning. And I just refused for

3:32:12that to be that was her reality. Yeah.

3:32:14>> And here she lies in a bed with

3:32:17Alzheimer's and a fractured hip and she

3:32:20hasn't walked in 8 months. You know,

3:32:22she's she's just now getting on a walker

3:32:248 months after her hip fracture and from

3:32:27osteoporosis who's never had a bone

3:32:28density scan in her life. And like our

3:32:31our children deserve better. It's not

3:32:32going to be my future cuz I have the,

3:32:34you know, I have the means. I have

3:32:36access. But like I I want every young

3:32:38girl, all of our children to

3:32:41>> have a better future than what was

3:32:43offered to our mothers.

3:32:44>> Exactly.

3:32:45>> I think ending this, I would want every

3:32:48woman to approach her midlife

3:32:52life, her new life with the same vigor

3:32:55and the same curiosity and the same

3:32:57demanding of care that she would do for

3:33:00one of her children if her child is

3:33:02sick. She's not going to take no. She's

3:33:04not going to take being blown off. She's

3:33:06going to keep searching till the end of

3:33:08the earth until she finds an answer. And

3:33:10that's what that is the same kind of

3:33:13taking control that I want women to do

3:33:15about this time in their lives.

3:33:18>> Thank you so much. We're going to record

3:33:21we're going to continue this

3:33:22conversation for the viewers that are

3:33:23listening at home. Um, I've been through

3:33:25all of these wonderful books that I have

3:33:26in front of me and there's so many

3:33:29lifestyle, nutrition, exercise related

3:33:32solutions to many of the things we've

3:33:33talked about today to be an truly

3:33:35optimized um, hormone healthy menstrual

3:33:38cycle healthy woman, which I want to

3:33:40talk about in our part two of this

3:33:42conversation.

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