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0:00If someone's menstrual cycle is
0:01irregular, should they be concerned?
0:03>> Yes.
0:03>> Yes. Yes. Yes. Your body is meant to
0:05work like clockwork.
0:06>> And our monthly cycle is so much more
0:09than getting ready to have a baby,
0:11especially when we're looking at
0:12exercise. And it's important to say if
0:14you don't have a period, it's very
0:17harmful to long-term health, brain
0:18health, mental health, low energy, mood,
0:20and libido. And I don't want the younger
0:23generations to have to go through the
0:24stuff that we've gone through. So, it's
0:26an important discussion that we need to
0:27have. We are joined by four leading
0:29female health experts from very
0:31different fields
0:32>> to have a crucial conversation about
0:33women's health. With over 80 years
0:35combined experience, they're sharing the
0:36truth about what every woman and every
0:38man needs to hear.
0:40>> We asked a thousand women to submit
0:41their questions ahead of this
0:42conversation. And I got so many
0:43questions around fertility,
0:45understanding hormones, PCOS, birth
0:47control pill, miscarriage.
0:48>> And I'll say this, Stephen, it's because
0:50we haven't had these discussions
0:51publicly. When we look at funding in
0:53women's health, it's horrible. like less
0:54than 1% is spent on women over 40.
0:57>> Women are living 20% more of our lives
1:00with chronic disease or mental health
1:01disorders. I mean 50% of patients with
1:03unexplained infertility have
1:05indometriosis. But yet it takes women 7
1:07to 10 years to get a diagnosis after
1:09symptoms start. But also there are
1:11things that we do that will inherently
1:12harm our fertility because we're not
1:14taught this and it predisposes you to
1:16many medical problems later in life.
1:18>> And patients will say but I have a
1:20really high pain tolerance like it's a
1:22badge. And so they gaslight themselves.
1:25And that's what we're all trying to
1:26fight here. But there are a lot of
1:27things we can do to deal with this.
1:29>> And then I want to talk about menopause.
1:31>> So in medical school, menopause just
1:33gets shoved into a tiny box. This is a
1:35scary statistic. So Oh my god,
1:38>> it's crazy.
1:38>> I just think it's insane. This is why we
1:40need to create change.
1:44This might be one of the most important
1:45conversations we ever have on the diio
1:47because women's health has long been a
1:50total mystery to so many people and so
1:52many people are struggling with all of
1:53the issues that we're going to talk
1:54about today with their menstrual cycles,
1:56PCOS, endometriosis, with diet, with
1:58understanding how to exercise as a
2:01woman. It's probably never going to be
2:02the case again that these four
2:04individuals that at the very top of
2:06women's health in their fields will be
2:09in the same place at the same time
2:11having this conversation. We structured
2:13this conversation into two parts. They
2:16cover completely different subjects, but
2:18they're fundamentally interlin. For me,
2:20the understanding that I got from this
2:22conversation at this table with these
2:23four women has fundamentally changed my
2:26life. It's going to change how I deal
2:27with my romantic partner, my sister, my
2:30team members that I work with every
2:32single day. And funnily enough, because
2:34it's a conversation I wouldn't have
2:36clicked as a man, it turned out to be
2:39the conversation that I needed the most.
2:40And I don't think I've ever said this
2:42before, but if there was ever an episode
2:44to share with a loved one, then this is
2:46that episode. Please share this episode
2:48with as many women as you can, but also
2:51with as many men as you can.
2:54[Music]
2:57Ladies, we should start with some
2:58introductions. Could you give me a brief
3:00introduction, Stacy, as it relates to
3:03your perspective and your experience and
3:04what your sort of bias is as it comes to
3:06this debate? When I say bias, I mean
3:08your your your experience and your your
3:11research that you're lending to this
3:12conversation today.
3:14>> I come from the exercise fizz and sports
3:16med background. Um, so I'm always
3:18looking through the lens of activity and
3:21nutrition and how that has a impact on
3:25our stress and our stress outcomes and
3:27how we can adapt to specific applied
3:30stressors especially when we're looking
3:32at improving health span, improving
3:34mood, improving body composition, all of
3:37those things. I've worked with and still
3:40work with uh the subset of active women.
3:43Um, I come from an endurance and a
3:44high-profile high performance sport
3:46background. So, that's where I've gotten
3:48my chops and then brought it over into
3:50the general recreational female athlete
3:53kind of perspective. Natalie,
3:56>> I'm a fertility doctor and every day I
3:58help patients with IVF get pregnant
4:00because I have an IVF clinic. But my big
4:02passion has always been natural
4:03fertility after I experienced my own
4:05pregnancy losses. trying to understand
4:08how we interact with the world and how
4:10that changes our hormones and help women
4:12understand what their hormones are, what
4:14natural fertility is, what happens as we
4:17age to our bodies, our eggs and our
4:19hormones, and let them be better
4:21stewards of their own fertility and
4:23their own health decisions.
4:25>> Mary,
4:26>> I have a background in general OBGYn, so
4:29I'm considered to be a women's health
4:31specialist. And it wasn't until I kind
4:33of went through my own menopause that I
4:36realized that there was significant gap
4:38in my training. You know, hearing
4:41watching Dr. Sims on um I think your
4:44podcast talking about how women are not
4:46little men really struck such a chord
4:49with me and made me realize I was
4:50siloing women's health to the
4:52reproductive organs, the breast, the
4:54uterus, the ovaries, the vagina and that
4:58if I really wanted to make a difference
5:00in a woman's whole health life, this
5:01last 30 years, 30, 40 years of her life,
5:04I needed to refocus
5:06what we were thinking about women's
5:08health for the long term. So I come from
5:11a background in academics. I was a
5:13professor for 20 years. I was a
5:15residency program director. Stepped away
5:17from that so I could focus on the lack
5:19of my own education and knowledge in
5:21menopause care. And now I want to step
5:23back into the academic world to bring
5:24everything I've learned and change the
5:26way we educate our providers. Vonda
We Need To Talk About Women's Health
5:30>> I am a orthopedic sports surgeon by
5:33training and I sit at the unique
5:34juxtaposition of orthopedics and
5:36performance having taken care of elite
5:39athletes most of my life aging and
5:41longevity most of my academic research I
5:44too as an academic is on subjects of
5:47muscularkeeletal aging but many years
5:49ago added a third circle of the whole
5:52health of a woman and so sitting in this
5:54place it fits directly into the mantra
5:57of my career which has always been I am
5:59going to change the way we age in this
6:01country and the world because the tool
6:04that I bring to the table is the fact
6:07that if I save your mobility I'm going
6:09to save you from the ravages of chronic
6:11disease and so the work that I do is not
6:15only educational it's uh research and
6:18it's now education of the world about
6:21these subjects
6:22>> explain this to me like I'm an idiot
6:24ladies why do we need to have a
6:26conversation about women's health and
6:27not just health broadly.
6:29>> I think the statistic that people don't
6:31realize on a day-to-day basis is that
6:33women are 51% of the population. We're
6:36actually not a minority. We're the
6:38majority and yet often our health, our
6:41healthc care access, the research treats
6:44us as if we're a niche product,
6:47>> but we are the majority product.
6:51We have to have this conversation
6:53because data show that
6:56of the $450 billion dollars spent on
7:00research in this country alone, less
7:01than 1% is spent on women over 40.
7:05>> And yet we are nearly 90 million people.
7:09And we make 80% of all the health care
7:11decisions in this country for ourselves
7:14and everyone we touch. And so even
7:17though when you look at the the
7:19long-term data, women are winning the
7:21longevity race here. We're living an
7:24average of 6 years longer than men. But
7:26as all of us talk about all the time,
7:29women suffer longer.
7:30>> Yeah.
7:31>> We're living 20% more of our lives
7:33versus our male counterparts in poor
7:35health with chronic disease or mental
7:38health disorders. And so McKenzie looked
7:40at the data and it was for the Gates
7:42Foundation and what they found was yes,
7:45we live longer. We've all known that.
7:47However, we have, you know, twice as
7:50high of mental health disorders. We're
7:53two times as more likely to end up in a
7:54nursing home. We are much more likely to
7:57lose our long-term independence from
7:59frailty or dementia, much more than our
8:01age matched male counterparts. And
8:03that's I think what we're all trying to
8:04fight here. And diseases that impact
8:07women specifically and only things like
8:09PCOS, endometriosis are extensively
8:13underfunded and not researched. It takes
8:15women 7 to 10 years to get a diagnosis
8:17of endometriosis after symptoms start.
8:20And we know this is a disease that
8:22impacts your entire body in addition to
8:25your fertility. But women are dismissed.
8:27They're not taken seriously. and there's
8:30not research guiding what we can do in a
8:33lot of these situations to try to help
8:35them the best.
8:36>> Why isn't the research there? Why why
8:38don't they research if women are the
8:41majority of the population? Why is all
8:43the funding going to researching men?
8:45>> You have to think about who was in the
8:46room when medicine and science first
8:48started. So if you think about back when
8:51the industrial revolution and the
8:53modernization of what we know is
8:55medicine, women were pushed out because
8:57they were believed to have smaller
8:59brains. thanks to Darwin and not thought
9:02to have a seat at the table. So when
9:04you're thinking about designing studies,
9:06it was pretty much designed on the male
9:08physiology on the male body and then
9:10women were an afterthought. So there
9:12wasn't any real in-depth look of well
9:15women are different from birth or in
9:17utero XX is different from XY. So all
9:21the research has just been generalized
9:23to women. Even things like aspirin for
9:25heart attacks and thinning blood
9:28>> inhibitors. Yeah, all of this all of
9:30this was done on men and then just
9:32generalized to women and now that we're
9:34having this global conversation on
9:36women's health, people are like, well,
9:38where is the information specific for
9:40women? And there's just a very small
9:42subset. So, we're looking and trying to
9:44expand that, but we have a lot of
9:46catching up to do. And that's primarily
9:49not only because of what you said, but
9:51the shocking statistic is that not until
9:531993
9:55were women required to be represented in
9:58studies. 1993,
10:00I mean, we were all far into our our
10:03lives in research by then.
10:05>> Isn't that a shocking?
10:06>> That's crazy.
10:07>> And there were still loopholes where
10:08people were finding ways to exclude
10:10women and then
10:11>> right, we're still not at 50%. No,
10:14>> we're harder to study. You have
10:15menstrual cycle, hormonal fluctuations,
10:18even menopause, pre even the animal
10:20models.
10:21>> It's not that we're harder to study. It
10:22just makes it presumed harder to study.
10:24There's more variables at play,
10:25>> right? It's more of a complexity to the
10:29research, but it's not more difficult.
10:31And this is where I bring it in. It's
10:32like if a woman had a seat at the table
10:33when all the study designs were started,
10:36it wouldn't be a question. It would just
10:38have been assimilated in. because we've
10:40been so drawn into we have a crossover,
10:43here's one week crossover, next week
10:45because of male physiology. When you add
10:47women's hormone fluctuations and people
10:49like, "Oh, it's too complex."
10:50>> Right? But it's not.
The Female Body Is Adapted for Endurance Exercise
10:51>> What is it that makes, and this is a
10:53super dumb question, but an important
10:54one. What is it that makes men and women
10:56different from a physiological
10:57standpoint? Because to understand why
11:00research would need to be done
11:01separately, we need to understand the
11:03differences.
11:04>> Yeah. Well, I mean, we can look from a
11:06morphological standpoint where men have
11:10more of our fast twitch fibers. Women
11:12are born with more endurance fibers,
11:14>> which is muscle, right?
11:15>> Uh when we're talking about muscle.
11:16Yeah. So, uh men have more of the
11:19ability to do power and and really fast
11:23energetic type activities or women are
11:25more attuned to endurance type
11:27activities. And this affects metabolism.
11:29It affects blood glucose homeostasis.
11:32And when we're looking at bone and bone
11:34density, men have stronger bones. Uh
11:37they can acquire more load. They hold on
11:39to it better than women do. We see
11:42smaller lungs, smaller heart, less
11:44hemoglobin in women than men. And that's
11:46an offshoot of what testosterone does.
11:49So there are just basic physiological
11:51differences between XX and XY that
11:55people don't really assimilate and
11:57understand. And the way I like to say it
11:59is you go into a shop and you have a
12:01men's section and a women's section and
12:02there are touch points on the external
12:05that really identify gender andor sex.
12:08But when you look intrinsically no one
12:10is identifying those touch points until
12:11now. Also when we look at how we disease
Why Women's Heart Attacks Are Considered 'Atypical'
12:15so in cardiovascular disease is is
12:17aththeroscerotic disease is the best
12:19example. Men tend to have their
12:22blockages. So aththeroscerotic disease
12:24is basically the plaques that build up
12:25in the coronary arteries around the
12:27heart. Men tend to develop their plaques
12:30very early right as those arteries exit
12:32the aorta and dive into the heart
12:33muscle. So we get what we call the
12:35widowmaker. Okay? It's called that for a
12:37reason because men die and they make a
12:39widow. And so that's the left anterior
12:41descending artery. Women by and large
12:44tend to not have these larger artery
12:47blockages, but their blockages are
12:48diffuse and microvascular deeper into
12:51the heart muscle, which is why we
12:53present with a heart attack much
12:55differently than a man does. And those
12:58we're not teaching our, you know, we're
12:59not educating our clinicians as to these
13:02differences. Women are considered to
13:03have atypical chest pain. Dr. Wright,
13:0651% of the population is female. Why are
13:08why is my heart attack atypical
13:10>> and a man's typical? But this happens
13:13not only at the organ level. It makes
13:16sense that if we have a population with
13:18XX chromosomes, a population with XY
13:21genetically and the way we express those
13:24genes are differently. But I think we
13:27miss the fact that down to a cellular
13:29level, every cell from an XX is
13:32expresses these tissue changes, tissue
13:36manifestations differently than an XY.
13:39Our lab used to study, we called them
13:41muscle derived stem cells so 20 years
13:43ago. Now they're called satellite cells.
13:45But when we harvested them and asked
13:47them to behave and in different
13:50environments,
13:51satellite cells from XX people and XX
13:55animals, women, females were better
13:59under the same circumstances
14:01experimentally
14:03at making cartilage and muscle. XY male
14:08were better under the same circumstances
14:10in making bone. So down to a cellular
14:14level, we express our genes differently.
14:16It should be no mystery to us or anybody
14:19else that there are differences. And yet
14:22there is the propensity just to lump us
14:24all in the same basket and almost say I
14:28almost sometimes feel as pjorative to
14:30say, oh the women are different. Of
14:32course they're different. Yeah,
14:34>> we're genetically different
14:35>> down to every cell in our body.
14:36>> Every cell. So, it should be no surprise
14:39to anybody, but it it seems to be a
14:40surprise.
14:41>> Seems to be a surprise all the time.
14:43Yeah. I get pushed back all the time.
14:44There's no difference. Yes, there is.
14:46There is. And it's not just bad. It's
14:49just is.
14:50>> Yeah. There's Yeah.
The Research Gap on Women's Health
14:51>> Because at one point that was quite a
14:52controversial thing to say, wasn't it?
14:54To point at the differences between men
14:55and women.
14:56>> Mhm. Outside of, you know, our different
14:58organs. Yeah. You know.
15:00>> Yeah. And because of this research gap
15:02and the bias in medicine, um, women have
15:05been misunderstood by their male
15:07counterparts in a number of ways. I
15:08remember I think it was you, Mary, that
15:09was telling me about this whiny women
15:11thing that you were exposed to.
15:13>> When I was in training and and you all
15:15may have similar stories and I just
15:17heard a new one the other day, my first
15:20patient in gynecology clinic, I'm an
15:21intern. I'm very excited. You know, we
15:23have our stacks of charts. That's how
15:24old I am. We had paper charts. I pick up
15:26the chart, open it up. It's a
15:2840-year-old woman with multiple vague
15:30complaints. She's gained some weight.
15:32She's a little bit depressed. Her libido
15:34is off. Her blood pressure is a little
15:36bit up. Her cholesterol is starting to
15:38rise. And she's seen family medicine.
15:39Like we're the third or fourth doctor at
15:41this point. And so my upper level who
15:43happened to be male this, you know, it
15:45could have been anyone. Walks down the
15:47hall in his cowboy boots cuz Texas. And
15:49um and he's like, "What you got?" And I
15:51said, "Well, I have Miss Smith,
15:53whomever, you know, she's a 40-year-old
15:54woman with." And I list the complaints.
15:56And he goes, "Did you check her thyroid?
15:57Family medicine did. Did you check this,
15:59you know, a few simple labs?" And he
16:01goes, "Hm,
16:03you got a WW."
16:05And I said, "What's I don't know this,
16:08you know." And he said, "Uh, don't write
16:10this in the chart, but we call that a
16:12whiny woman around here."
16:14>> Oh my gosh.
16:15>> And I said, "Okay." He said, "Listen,
16:18women just tend to go through this at
16:20this age, and we're not really going to
16:23be able to help her. pat her on the
16:25knee, tell her to have some wine, go on
16:27date night, you know, she'll get better,
16:29but we're not going to be able to help
16:30her. And that stayed with me. Now, I
16:33was, you know, a good girl. I did what I
16:35was told. You know, it took me 20 years
16:37of internalization to realize this, you
16:40know, I don't want to blame him. He's
16:42not a bad guy. This was taught to him.
16:44But this kind of thinking, I mean, I saw
16:47this in the ER. I saw this in the O. I
16:49saw this in every clinic. And so I've
16:51asked other clinicians around the
16:52country and I've heard whiny gyne status
16:55Hispanicus total TBD total body delore
16:58like in different regional areas there
17:00was a name for this kind of vague
17:03complaints from this middle-aged woman
17:05and we couldn't quite put our finger on
17:07it and I realized this was systemic bias
17:10built into the system where women and
17:12there's historical you know precedent
17:14for this the wandering uterus the
17:16hysteria you know these were real
17:18medical terms just until like not even a
17:21generation ago.
17:22>> Yeah. They used to put women into
17:24asylums.
17:24>> Yeah.
17:25>> Because of hysteria and it was hot
17:28flashes, all the things that that are
17:29now known with permenopause. They used
17:31to think it was some kind of insanity
17:34and put women into insane asylums to
17:36lock them down.
17:38>> But this is pervasive. Not just an OB.
17:40You're not the only guilty. It's every
17:42medical subsp specialty has some
17:47culture
17:48of for lack of better words blowing
17:50women off it right. We're not having the
17:54curiosity that defines medicine. We are
17:57supposed to be curious people. But yet
17:59when it comes to this, why do we stop at
18:03just seems to be something that happens
18:04to middle-aged women, right? it that
18:06that's written in the orthopedic
18:08literature seems to happen to
18:10middle-aged. Where's the curiosity?
18:13>> Where was it?
18:14>> Yeah. Well, in X-fist text, you always
18:16had the representative of him or they
18:18and the vuvius man and all the angles of
18:22the male body, but there was never
18:23representation of women. The only time
18:26you heard about a female athlete was all
18:28the pathophysiology. You know, the iron
18:30deficiency, the female athlete triad,
18:32which we now call um relative energy
18:35deficiency in sport.
18:36>> And when you're looking at the
18:38historical idea of sport, the only way
18:40women were actually included and
18:43accepted is when they were amenic
18:45because then they were quote more like
18:46men and then there wasn't a problem with
18:49training them and then they could work
18:50as hard. But we know that that's not
18:53appropriate. That's a sign of of illness
18:55and overtraining under recovery. So, it
18:58is pervasive everywhere. It's not just
19:00the medical, but it goes into when you
19:02think about what it means to be
19:03successful in sport. It's the power.
19:05It's the aggression. It's the
19:07unfallibility of being human. And a
19:09woman having a menstrual cycle was
19:11deemed a fallibility. So, they're trying
19:13to push it aside. This is so systemic
Why Women Downplay and Gaslight Themselves About Pain
19:15though that women downplay their own
19:18complaints. They gaslight themselves. It
19:21takes them a long time to seek care
19:23because they're afraid of the response.
19:26They are not always honest with what's
19:28going on in their body. I'll say, "Do
19:29you have pain?" "Oh, no more than
19:31regular." They downplay everything. You
19:33have to really ask. And it's almost the
19:36society, I don't want to be viewed as
19:38this way. I don't want to be not taken
19:41seriously. And it causes them an to have
19:44an even harder time to get to a
19:46diagnosis because they don't feel
19:47comfortable sharing some of these
19:49symptoms or they've downplayed them in
19:50their life so much. This is why they
19:52have to get so sick to often present to
19:55even try to get care. And they come to
19:58me almost to a woman after I'm talking
20:01about whatever muscularkeeletal thing
20:04they'll say even before they want to
20:06describe it to me. They'll say, "But you
20:09know, I have a really high pain
20:11tolerance." Yes. Mhm.
20:12>> Like it's a badge because we've been
20:14conditioned to not come for any pain.
20:17But I've suffered. I've tried. That's
20:19why your arm doesn't move anymore. I've
20:21got such a high pain tolerance, but I
20:23couldn't take it anymore. I didn't want
20:25to come. And I feel like why does it
20:28have to be that way?
20:30>> So, you train treating both males and
20:32females. I I was locked in a room with
20:34women for 25 years, you know, and so
20:37it's so fascinating to me to hear how
20:41men and women come in with the same
20:43complaint in your clinic, in your
20:44fellowship, all those years you spent
20:46training, and yet you were taught to
20:49treat them differently, you know, and
20:50the urologists say the same thing, you
20:52know, who
20:52>> I don't think I was aware of it.
20:54>> Yeah.
20:54>> There was just that's
20:57so much bias. Yeah.
20:59>> I didn't realize. I didn't either
21:00>> because like you, until I went through
21:02my own pmenopause,
21:05I might not have paid it attention to
21:07it.
21:08>> Yeah,
21:08>> I may have been less sensitive.
21:11>> I was a terrible menopause.
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21:39appreciate you for that. So, yeah, thank
21:40you. Is that in part because we know
21:42very little about hormones as well. When
21:44I was speaking to our audience, we asked
21:46a thousand women to submit their
21:47questions ahead of this conversation.
21:48And one of the most asked questions, all
21:52the most asked questions sort of related
Why Don’t We Understand Hormones?
21:54to understanding hormones. I think the
21:57conversation around hormones is quite a
21:59new one in society and I actually think
22:01it's been driven a lot by a heightened
22:03understanding of menopause generally. I
22:05think the the conversation of hormones
22:07around outside of fertility and the
22:11general menstrual cycle. I can right now
22:12draw from memory the exactly what's
22:15going to happen in a normal menstrual
22:16cycle. We were taught that, you know,
22:19very very well. But when I saw maybe 3
22:22years ago an academic paper that showed
22:25all of the locations of the G-coupled
22:28estrogen receptors in the human body,
22:30>> what's that?
22:30>> I lost my mind. So basically, where are
22:33the estrogen receptors in the human
22:34body? And they're everywhere. The brain,
22:37the bones, the muscle, the gut, you
22:39know, the the every almost nothing. The
22:42the the endothelial, the lining of the
22:45individual blood vessels around our
22:46heart, you know, it's really radical to
22:49me to think about how all these sex
22:52hormones are the progesterone, estrogen,
22:54testosterone, hormones are everywhere.
22:57>> What is a hormone?
22:58>> They're not actually sex hormones.
22:59hormones are your body's communication
23:01system, right? So, it is really how your
23:03body is sending out messengers to
23:05communicate. So, a hormone is dictating
23:07an action and I think there's going to
23:09be a lot of great discussion. But one
23:11thing that I think is very important to
23:13your point, Stephen, is even things that
23:16we were readily taught about the
23:17menstrual cycle and estrogen,
23:19progesterone, testosterone, the public
23:21is now becoming aware of because we've
23:22not done a good job at public education
23:24that this is what's really happening in
23:26your body. this is what your menstrual
23:28cycle is. This is what happens when you
23:30go through menopause. This is what
23:32happens when you're trying to train for
23:34a sport. We haven't had these
23:36discussions publicly that we are seeing.
23:39And I think that is highlighting
23:41interest in all of this even if some of
23:43us were taught some of this. But when it
23:46comes to hormones there, everybody wants
23:49really easy fast. Draw my level. Tell me
23:51what to do. Give me a medicine. Fix it.
23:54And I think the most important thing to
23:55understand is that by definition, your
23:58hormones are dynamic. Your body is
24:01responding to the hormonal signal it
24:03sees and determining what next signal to
24:06send out. So constant fluctuation
24:09throughout the day in response to
24:11multiple stimuli. And that's how it's
24:13supposed to be. If we didn't do that,
24:15we'd all be dead.
24:16>> It's a symphony. But that makes it
24:17really hard for somebody to understand
24:19on the other end who's not in medicine
24:20who says, "Well, is it my hormones?"
24:24Because there's no one test that's going
24:25to give you one answer. You have to
24:27really interpret it in context of the
24:29full body. And it makes it really hard
24:31for practitioners who do not understand
24:33the hormones as well. And we see a lot
24:35of mismanagement of hormonal scenarios
24:37and situations right now that are
24:39actually detrimental to patients. So,
24:41I'm glad you're having this discussion
24:43because that's not a stupid question.
24:45What is a hormone? Many people don't
24:47really understand that.
24:48>> What is the I really want to make sure
24:50that if someone for both the men that
24:52probably have less understanding but
24:53also from our conversations I've
24:54realized and the feedback I've gotten a
24:56lot of women don't understand their own
24:58hormones and their own menstrual cycles.
25:00What is the most basic level that we
25:02have to start at to give people an
25:03understanding that we can then build on
25:06of what's going on here?
25:07>> I was say I want to get rid of this
25:09graph.
25:10>> Okay. So that leave it out. Leave it
25:13out. But it it shows just a textbook of
25:17what a menstrual cycle is is, but it
25:19doesn't show the daily perturbations of
25:22estrogen and the luteinizing hormone
25:24pulses and all the things that go as
25:26Natalie is saying to make it to make it
25:29work.
25:30>> You see two organs there, the ovary and
25:31the endometrial lining. You're not
25:33seeing the muscle, the bone, the brain.
25:36All of those organs are affected by
25:38these normal monthly fluctuations.
25:40>> Yeah. And the conversation that we're
25:41having now in research methodology is
25:45the fact that there is no real
25:47definition of normal cuz every woman's
25:49cycle is variable. So when we look at
25:52this, everyone thinks that this is
25:53normal but we don't actually know if
25:56that is for the fact that a woman's
25:59variation
26:00this can change cycle to cycle. This can
26:03change cycle to cycle. Sometimes we have
26:05an ovulatory cycles. So until a woman
26:08can identify what her own normal is, we
26:10can't rely on this graph to actually
26:12explain to them.
26:13>> How does a woman know what their normal
26:15is versus, you know, because a lot of
26:17women are on birth control pills since a
26:19very young age. So I think my partner
26:20Melanie, she's she was on birth control
26:22for about a decade. So she like didn't
26:24have her cycle and then it came back and
What a Normal Period Should Be Like
26:26it was every I don't know 60 90 days.
26:28>> Mhm.
26:29>> And then she changed her diet a little
26:30bit and it kind of went down to 30 days
26:32over time. But I don't think she knew
26:34what normal was. Is there such thing as
26:36normal?
26:37>> I mean there is what should be normal
26:38for you. So you should have a regular
26:41predictable period which means that you
26:43are having a menstrual bleed at a
26:45predictable interval. It can range
26:46person to person but for you really it
26:49should be within a couple days
26:50monthtomonth. I always tell patients I
26:52should be able to give you a calendar.
26:53You should be able to take your finger
26:54pick when your next period is coming and
26:56within a few days be accurate. Now
27:00usually that range is somewhere between
27:0225 and 35 days for the average person.
27:04when it starts to get shorter or longer,
27:06it can be a warning sign that something
27:08is going on. When it comes to the
27:11menstrual cycle, because I think we're
27:12going to talk about these hormones
27:14really well, and I talk about this every
27:16day, let's give a one minute
27:18explanation. If we think about to
27:20Stacy's point from the brain, the brain
27:22is sending out pulses of hormones, but
27:24FSH drives egg growth. It's called
27:26follicle stimulating hormone, and each
27:28egg is inside a follicle. So, you have a
27:30group of follicles inside the ovary. FSH
27:32comes from the brain, grabs one of them
27:34and gets it to grow and it makes
27:36estrogen and this estrogen from the
27:38ovary as the egg is growing is called
27:40estradiol and it's the primary type of
27:42estrogen in your body. So it is rising
27:45and when it gets to a peak level and the
27:47body is so fascinating because it's 200
27:49pogs for 50 hours is a very exact
27:52amount. Then the brain says we must have
27:54a mature egg and it kicks out a surge of
27:57luteinizing hormone or LH and that is
28:00going to allow the follicle to rupture
28:02the egg to be released and the follicle
28:04to reform and then become a corpus
28:06ludium and then the brain's going to
28:08send out pulses of LH giving you pulses
28:11of progesterone. So Stacy's point
28:13>> that's an average and those numbers on
28:15the little graph are nowhere near
28:16accurate because progesterone goes up
28:18and down the entire second half of the
28:20cycle known as the ludial phase. What's
28:22progesterone?
28:23>> Progesterone is also made from the
28:24ovary. So, the two main hormones when it
28:26comes to a premenopausal female are
28:29going to be estrogen and progesterone.
28:31Progesterone is the progesterational
28:33hormone or progreg. It is going to
What Is Progesterone?
28:36change the endometrial lining and it is
28:38essential to get pregnant. It opens and
28:40closes the implantation window within
28:42the uterus and it completely changes the
28:45physiology of your body. And we're going
28:47to talk a lot that is why in the ludal
28:48phase your body works differently when
28:51you have progesterone
28:52>> and the lutial phases
28:54>> after ovulation when you have a corpus
28:55ludium. So when LH is coming from the
28:58brain you have a corpus ludium it makes
29:00progesterone. This is the second half of
29:02the cycle known as the ludal phase. The
29:04first half when you have estrogen only
29:06is the follicular phase. So you have an
29:08estrogen dominant phase and then you
29:10have a phase where you have both
29:11estrogen and progesterone. And your body
29:13is made Yes. So we have our estrogen
29:16dominant phase, the follicular phase,
29:18and then we have we have both estrogen
29:19and progesterone here in the ludial
29:21phase. And your body is made to function
29:23differently in these because in the
29:24progesterone side, it's preparing you
29:27for a pregnancy. It thinks every month
29:28you might get pregnant and it starts to
29:30change how your body's going to work on
29:33a cellular level. But if you don't get
29:35pregnant, that progesterone level is
29:36going to drop and the cycle starts back
29:38over.
29:39>> And from um like a exercise and sports
29:42>> Yeah. point of view. When we get into
29:44this, the progesterone's job is to build
29:46this lush endometrial lining and it
29:50creates a lot of glycogen storage. So,
29:52we often hear about glycogen in the
29:54muscle and that's what we're using for
29:55fuel. It has a way of shuttling a lot of
29:59the carbohydrate away and storing it
30:01into the endometrial lining, which is
30:03why we see differences in intensity and
30:06the way that a woman can respond to
30:08exercise if she has ovulated. So is this
30:11in preparation of a potential baby?
30:14>> Yeah, correct. Yeah. In the second half
30:15of the cycle, your core body temperature
30:18increases, your resting heart rate is
30:20higher, your heart rate variability is
30:22lower, you have increase in fatigue, you
30:25have an increased appetite, your body is
30:27shifting function in case an embryo
30:29comes in so that it can start to divert
30:31energy and change what it is doing right
30:34down to your immune system changes.
30:35>> And that's roughly from day 14 roughly.
30:38>> Roughly. Yeah. Yeah. At ovulation, it's
30:40about 3 days after whatever day. If
30:41you'd like to be specific, it's about 3
30:43days after ovulation until when you get
30:45your next period.
30:46>> Yeah.
30:46>> You all talk about how our menstrual
30:49cycles can be a broader sign of whole
30:51body health.
30:52>> Mhm.
30:53>> And um so should if someone's menstrual
30:55cycle is irregular, should they be
30:57concerned?
30:57>> Yes.
30:58>> Yes.
30:59>> I thought you were going to say no.
31:02>> How irregular? What's like if I'm not
31:04getting my menstrual cycle?
31:05>> Absolutely not good. You should go see a
31:07doctor. Yeah, if your cycle is
31:09irregular, if the calendar trick, you're
31:11putting your finger and it's nowhere
31:13near when your cycle's coming. Or I have
31:15women who say, "Oh, there's no way I
31:16could predict it." Or, "I know it will
31:18come, but it'll come every 4 to 6
31:20weeks." Your body's meant to work like
31:23clockwork when it comes to your your
31:25hormones and your menstrual cycle. And
31:27yes, you can always have one abnormal
31:28month, always. But when you consistently
31:31are having irregularity, that is a sign
31:34that something else is going on. It's
31:35one of the biggest red flags that we
31:37have for early hormonal health or
31:39systemic problems. But to your earlier
31:41point, Stephen, we have a generation of
31:43women on contraceptive options who are
31:45not tracking their cycles. We have women
31:47who are not taught how to track their
31:48cycles. They don't know when ovulation
31:50occurs. They don't know how long their
31:52ludal phase is. If I say the first sign
31:55of ovulatory dysfunction or having a
31:57problem with your cycle is a short ludal
31:59phase, well, you only know that if
32:02you're tracking when ovulation occurs
32:03because otherwise you could still have a
32:05regular cycle, but you don't know that
32:08something's abnormal.
32:09>> And that lut your phase again is the
32:10last the last half of your your cycle.
32:13>> Exactly. But I think that the
32:15conversation that's happening now is so
32:18not just at this table but in society
32:20that our monthly cycle is so much more
32:24than getting ready to have a baby
32:26because I think that none of us knew
32:28this.
32:29>> No.
32:30>> Because at 17 I wasn't that interested
32:33in having a baby. So it didn't occur to
32:34me that I should care.
32:36>> Right.
32:36>> Right. And it's the only time if you're
32:40thinking about it in that way that
32:41you're worried about your period is if
32:43you don't have one and pregnancy, right?
32:46And so if we're shifting the
32:48conversation to this is physiology, this
32:52is has to do with every part of female
32:54physiology,
32:56maybe it will be easier for people to
32:59know,
33:00right?
33:01>> Yeah. I often put it with u my athletes
33:04that it's a marker of health that if you
33:05are able to take on the load of
33:07training, the load of travel and
33:09maintain your normal menstrual cycle,
33:12then you are robust enough to be able to
33:15progress. But if there becomes a misstep
33:18in your menstrual cycle, then we need to
33:20look at all the stressors that are and
33:22the allosic load and pull you back and
33:25see what do we need to address? Do you
33:27need to eat more? Do you need to recover
33:28more? what are the things that are
33:30missing to bring you back to normal?
33:32>> I was diagnosed with polycystic ovarian
33:34syndrome in medical school and so like
33:37every medical student of course it was
33:38like gloom and doom and I you know
33:40thought I had the most extreme case ever
33:42known to mankind. It was really just
33:44garden variety PCOS and I had very
The Underlying Cause of PCOS
33:47serious boyfriend quickly engaged you
33:49know looking forward to having a family
33:50with him starting a family with him and
33:53the terror around my infertility and
33:56what the impact was. What was never
33:58taught to me and what I didn't
34:00understand until much later was the
34:02metabolic impact. Like PCOS is a
34:05symptom. There's nothing wrong with my
34:06ovaries. They're just responding to this
34:08high insulin level I was born with. And
34:11no one really sat me down and talked to
34:13me about my first research project was
34:15women with irregular periods and the
34:16risk of developing gestational diabetes
34:18and and you know I didn't even know what
34:20insulin resistance was at the time. And
34:24now we're coming to understand that, you
34:26know, when these young women are coming,
34:28you know, I only do menopause now, but
34:30before I left that practice, you know,
34:32when women were coming with the regular
34:34cycles and we were making these
34:35diagnosis, immediately I was launching
34:36into the discussion about her metabolic
34:38health long term and what this, you
34:41know, it's a gift to know this. So now
34:43we can start making interventions,
34:44nutrition, diet, exercise to give you a
34:49better system to deal with this thing
34:50that you were born with and her
34:52fertility. Of course,
34:53>> a huge amount of women have PCOS and I
34:55think that's one of the leading one of
34:56the leading one of the top causes of
34:58having irregular menstrual cycles. You
35:01you mentioned insulin resistance and
35:04metabolic dysfunction there. And you
35:05said something like diabet gestational
35:08diabetes,
35:08>> diabetes in pregnancy. So someone who
35:10was non-diabetic before pregnancy and
35:14then develops diabetes. So her blood
Developing Diabetes During Pregnancy
35:16sugars have now reached a threshold
35:18where they are higher than normal and
35:20can cause you know problems for her
35:22pregnancy and herself long term. And up
35:25to 50% of those patients de who develop
35:27diabetes in pregnancy will develop type
35:312 diabetes within 10 to 15 years after
35:33that gestation after being pregnant. And
35:36so what we know now is like we have
35:38warning signs of this well before
35:40pregnancy where we can set these women
35:42up for success. Before it's just we wait
35:44till we make the diagnosis, everybody
35:46gets their glucose test and off you go.
35:48But now with this PCOS diagnosis, we are
35:52monitoring earlier. We're starting her
35:53on the nutrition. You know, we're
35:55treating her like a diabetic with
35:56nutrition and exercise recommendations
35:59rather than waiting till she she reaches
36:01the criteria. Stephen, having
36:03infertility, this is a scary statistic.
36:05It predisposes you to many medical
36:09problems later in life, including an 80%
36:12higher chance of having a heart attack,
36:1475% higher chance having metabolic
36:16syndrome, higher risk of cancer, and
36:17early death. Why infertility? Well, it's
36:20not exactly that infertility is causing
36:22this, but it's that for many women,
36:24we'll use Dr. Haver's example, you're
36:27healthy until you get this diagnosis.
36:29It's one of the first warning signs your
36:31body's giving you that there might be
36:33inflammation and insulin resistance or
36:35something impacting your hormones, your
36:38menstrual cycle, your ability to
36:39conceive that if it is not corrected now
36:43is setting you up for many problems down
36:45the road. PCOS is a example of this
36:48because in PCOS you have a lot of eggs
36:51inside the ovary. It's actually
36:53something that genetically runs in
36:56families. likely there's something that
36:58happens when you're a baby inside your
36:59mom that predisposes your ovary to not
37:02lose as many eggs as it should and it
37:04changes how they respond to insulin. So
37:06what happens is you end up having more
37:09eggs on an average. Your brain doesn't
37:12know this and sends out the average
37:13signals but that gets diluted amongst
37:16all the eggs and so you're not getting
37:18into these ovulatory stages of Stacy's
37:20favorite graph here. Well, what happens
37:22from there is that you're actually in a
37:24relatively lower in estrogen phase than
37:26you should be. You never see the
37:28progesterone. And what happens is you
37:30start to completely shift. The ovary
37:32itself actually becomes insulin
37:34resistant. And what this means is that
37:37throughout your entire body, you start
37:40to develop high glucose, which is the
37:42blood, right? That's your blood sugar.
37:44Your blood sugar is the fuel for all
37:46your cells. All your cells need glucose.
37:48Well, insulin is the hormone that helps
37:50that glucose go from the bloodstream
37:51into your cells. Well, in insulin
37:53resistance, when your body sees high
37:55glucose all the time, it starts to send
37:57out more insulin saying, "Hey, we need
37:59to get this into cells, but the cells
38:01start to, oh, I'm used to insulin being
38:03here, so I'm not going to respond." It's
38:06going to take a higher insulin signal to
38:08get the cell to open up the door and let
38:10glucose comes in. This becomes very
38:13problematic especially in we'll say PCOS
38:16because that insulin is very
38:17inflammatory causes you to get extra fat
38:20stored in different places. It also just
38:23completely changes how your body your
38:25metabolic health in general but also
38:27your hormonal health and in your brain
38:29because your brain sees this and says
38:30why are we keeping glucose in our in our
38:32bloodstream is what's going on heightens
38:35everything. And so this resistance to
38:37insulin actually shifts how your brain's
38:40going to respond to hormones, therefore
38:42the hormones it's sending out. And it's
38:43a self-perpetuating cycle. And a lot of
38:47when we talk about lifestyle mechanisms
38:49to improve hormonal health, which I know
38:51that we all will, a lot of that is
38:53targeting improving insulin resistance
38:56and combating inflammation because those
38:59two players, a lot of it is controlled
39:01by the world around us and what we do to
39:04some degree. And especially if you have
39:05an underlying diagnosis like PCOS,
39:08>> endometriosis, which is a chronic
39:10inflammatory disease, autoimmune
39:12disease, you're at even higher risk. I
39:14always say your scale is already tipped
39:16in a way that's going to be really hard
39:18for you. You have to make active steps
39:20to fight what is happening inside your
39:22body.
39:23>> We'll talk about some of the ways one
39:25can reverse their PCOS, if that's even a
39:27possibility. Um, but again on the causal
39:30factors, is it something So my
39:32girlfriend's got PCOS. She's been very
39:34public about that. Um, is it something
What Causes PCOS and How to Reduce It
39:36she did? Is it something she ate? Is it
39:39>> She was Is this the way she was born?
39:41So, she was born with a predisposition
39:43of having too many eggs. You lose most
39:45of the eggs inside your body when you're
39:46a baby inside your mother's womb. You
39:48lose the next biggest set before you
39:50ever have your first period. Now, if you
39:53don't lose them for some reason, you're
39:55born with more and it interferes with
39:57how your hormones are supposed to
39:58communicate leading to this metabolic
40:01issue and this insulin resistance. She
40:04did nothing to cause this. Nobody with
40:05PCOS caused it. However, what you said
40:07earlier, oh, she changed how she ate and
40:09her cycles got more regular.
40:12>> You can influence the severity of the
40:15symptoms that you experience with it. So
40:17even if you don't cause your disease cuz
40:19you did not,
40:20>> choices you make can make it absolutely
40:22can make it better or worse, just like
40:24any disease.
40:26>> And when you use the word insulin, I I
40:27think of or insulin resistance, I think
40:29of sugar.
40:30>> Mhm.
40:30>> Yeah. Because glucose is sugar
40:32essentially. And many people, and I'll
40:34have patients tell me this, I don't need
40:36to worry about insulin resistance
40:37because I don't have diabetes or it's
40:39not in my family. And we've so we've
40:42ingrained this word insulin resistance
40:44or talking about glucose or checking
40:46glucose with a diabetic or pre-diabetic
40:49state. But the world around us honestly
40:52promotes insulin resistance. It's it
40:55that's how our bodies we live in this
40:58obesogenic environment. I mean there's
41:00no doubt at least in the US you know and
41:03most industrialized nations our
41:05environment is what we call obesogenic
41:07insulin you know and insulin resistant
41:10so it you have to fight against kind of
41:13the systems that are in place now for
41:15most of us unless we have some genetic
41:17predisposition to just be you know
41:19magical um to because the way we process
41:23food the way food is delivered to
41:24communities the way you know our lack of
41:27exercise you know everyone's working
41:28from home now just just modern life is
41:31is really you have to fight against.
41:34>> One of the questions that came in from
41:35the audience was I would like to know
41:37how best to manage my PCOS.
41:39>> When it comes to managing your PCOS,
41:42targeting those two factors that we
41:43talked about earlier, insulin resistance
41:44and inflammation are really the key. And
41:47I'll let these two speak to a little bit
41:49of some of the exercise changes that we
41:51can try to impact. But what I'll say is
41:54that the best way to decrease
41:56inflammation in your body is going to be
41:58to start by focusing on your gut. Your
42:00gut health controls a lot of the
42:02inflammatory burden that your body sees.
42:04The foods you choose to eat, they can be
42:07both helpful if they have a lot of fiber
42:09in them. They can feed your gut
42:11microbiome, which is important in
42:13estrogen metabolism, but they can also
42:16be very harmful if they are
42:18ultrarocessed foods that are even
42:19causing more inflammation, not feeding
42:22your gut microbiome at all and
42:24worsening. So, I always say it's like a
42:25scale. If you think every little food I
42:28eat, it can make my insulin or it can
42:30make my inflammation better, it can make
42:32it worse. And so how we structure the
42:35food that we put in our body is one of
42:37the biggest changes the majority of
42:39people can make that is going to make a
42:41difference. And that's going to be a
42:43very plantforward diet. Doesn't mean
42:45it's plant only, but plants have fiber.
42:48Fruits and vegetables have fiber. So we
42:50have to make sure we're getting fiber as
42:53a big change. That's what we see. I see
42:55a lot of patients with PCOS specifically
42:57being told I shouldn't eat fruit. I
42:59shouldn't do this. I I need to avoid
43:02>> do the ketogenic. You need to do keto.
43:03Yes. So, we see people avoiding certain
43:06food groups. And I always say it's not a
43:07really sexy diet, but it's a it's a diet
43:09we all know.
43:10>> Lots of whole foods, fruits and
43:12vegetables, healthy fats, healthy
43:14sources of protein, avoiding the
43:16ultrarocessed foods. That's going to be
43:18probably the biggest change most people
43:19can make. In addition to foundational
43:22changes of your day, which is going to
43:23be sleep more, that is when your body
43:26fights inflammation, fights insulin
43:28resistance. work on decreasing chronic
43:32stress. To Stacy's point, you're not
43:34running from the bear. So, your body is
43:36not using that challenge, but you get a
43:39email. You get stressed and your body
43:42releases a lot of glucose so it can have
43:44sugar and fuel to run from a bear and
43:46there's no bear, right? And previous
43:48days that would happen and then you'd go
43:50run and that glucose would go into all
43:52of your muscles and your body would go
43:54back to normal. But now, we're
43:56chronically stressed. So, actively
43:58decreasing stress and then exercise,
44:01building and using skeletal muscle is
44:03one of the most effective ways to combat
44:05insulin resistance that exists. And
44:08since 80% of patients with PCOS have
44:10insulin resistance, a large portion of
44:13women with infertility, even without
44:15PCOS, have insulin resistance, that is a
44:18huge thing that people are missing,
44:21especially when it comes to the exercise
44:23discussion. And I know you guys probably
44:24have things to add on that one. No, but
44:27based on what you just I just took a
44:28phone call this morning from a patient
44:30when and it's just such a typical
44:33conversation. She doesn't like the way
44:36her body looks.
44:38>> Her solution is not to eat. It's this
44:41happens almost every day when I'm
44:43talking to people. It's we're having
44:45coffee for breakfast. We don't eat till
44:47midday when we do eat. So the the gut
44:51reaction because of the way many women
44:54are raised is that we're going to starve
44:56ourselves which is the opposite of good
44:58when it comes to physiologic wholeness
45:01and then you don't have the energy to do
45:03the kind of exercise you need or on the
45:06other side the response is I am going to
45:09work so hard every single day that you
45:13actually increase your stress there is
45:15over there is overtraining
45:18>> so you're just getting behind the
45:20eightball with starving yourself and
45:21overtraining. None of which are going to
45:23solve either the core problem due to
45:26PCOS or the core problem in any stage of
45:30a woman's life. Right.
45:31>> And this is where we look at the
45:32socioultural effect of what a woman is
45:34supposed to look like.
45:36>> Yeah.
45:36>> And that's the thing that I really
45:38pushing out. It's like we want to think
45:41about how strong we can be and how much
45:44muscle we can build because muscle is a
45:46massive metabolic help. Mhm.
45:49>> And as as well as bone, right? So, we
45:53talk about it and then when I get the
45:54push back of, oh, I'm going to do fasted
45:57training or I'm going to fast till noon.
45:58I'm like, wait a second. Not only were
46:00we going to interfere with our circadian
46:02rhythm and our hormone pulses, we're
46:04also acutely interfering with our
46:07appetite hormones because if we're
46:09looking at gerolin, which is our active
46:12form of of our appetite, makes us
46:14hungry. It's elevated with cortisol. And
46:16so if we're thinking about that
46:18elevation and we're not doing anything
46:19to drop it and tell our body we have
46:21food, then it goes in and directly
46:23affects our neuropeptides, which then
46:26affects our hormone, our hormone pulses.
46:28So when a woman's like, I'm just having
46:30coffee for breakfast and I'm going to
46:31hold my fast. It's like, okay, well,
46:33here we go. Cortisol is going up. As
46:35Gary, you're going to get hungrier. Then
46:36you're going to learn not to respond to
46:38that hunger. You're going to hold your
46:40fast. And we see from the research that
46:42women who do that end up craving more
46:44simple carbohydrates in the afternoon
46:46moving incidentally less and
46:48contributing to poor sleep because
46:50they've now phase shifted. So when we're
46:52talking about sleep and how important
46:54sleep is, we also have to think about
46:55the circadian rhythm and how it is
46:57affected by food intake, light,
47:00darkness, and all of the things. And we
47:02need women to understand we want to
47:03build muscle. We want to sleep well and
47:05that requires food. Well, and it this
47:08goes back this whole thing you just said
47:10goes back to very early in this
47:13conversation where I was talking about
47:17sometimes we like to focus on the bright
47:19shiny gadgets
47:20>> when we haven't taken our health from
47:23fine to optimize because everything you
47:27just talked about
47:29>> it isn't a gadget it's basic lifestyle
47:33>> in the medical model of PCOS when I'm
47:36talking about what we're taught and how
47:39we train our clinicians.
47:42We go into the, you know, we we aren't
47:44taught a lot about disease prevention or
47:46and I hate to use the term root cause
The Pill Is Not the Only Help for PCOS
47:48because I think it's been usurped by
47:49certain members of, you know, the
47:51wellness community.
47:52>> Take it back.
47:52>> Yeah, we're going to take it back. And
47:54so, especially for PCOS, I was taught to
47:57give a patient birth control pills or
47:58Clomid when she's ready to get pregnant.
48:00And so nothing nothing around nutrition,
48:05exercise, lowering inflammation and I
48:07was a program director until 2018 and
48:10there was nothing in the curriculum
48:12around this which affects at least 10%
48:15of women probably more this condition
48:18that how important lifestyle is. You
48:21know, she went on for 10 minutes about
48:23all the lifestyle change, which is
48:25amazing.
48:25>> Which is amazing.
48:26>> But but patients,
48:27>> but I'm sitting there thinking birth
48:28control pills, birth control pills. I
48:30mean, that was a knee-jerk reaction. I
48:31mean, I was treated for my own
48:33polycystic ovarian syndrome for 20 years
48:36with oral contraceptive agents. And I
48:39learned online through chat rooms about
48:42the nutrition end of it.
48:45>> Yeah. when I have athletes because we
48:47see a higher percentage of PCOS in
48:49successful female athletes.
48:51>> Why
48:51>> like what do I do? And it's looking at
48:54what kind of training they're doing. So,
48:56we're putting this more short, sharp,
48:58high intensity to get that post exercise
49:00response of anti-inflammatory,
49:03growth hormone response, all of these
49:05things that then bring down total body
49:07inflammation. And then we're very
49:09careful about food intake and when we're
49:11doing it and what kinds of food so that
49:14they don't have to go down the route of
49:16oral contraceptive pills because that to
49:19them has an effect on their performance.
49:20When we're talking about the top end and
49:22when we bring it back down into
49:24recreational female athletes, we can do
49:26the same thing. It's just we have to
49:27educate and say these are our lifestyle
49:29choices and then these are our medical
49:32choices and what's optimal for your life
49:34at this point. Mhm.
49:35>> It's important to say at this table, and
49:37we all talked about it last night, you
49:40need to have a period if you're not
49:41preventing a period with hormonal
49:43contraception and you're in your
49:44reproductive years. Because very often
49:47women with PCOS or hypothalamic
49:50amenorhea will say, I don't have a
49:52period, but I didn't really like that
49:54anyway, so it doesn't bother me, right?
49:56How many women have said, well, I didn't
49:57get my period for a year, but that was
49:59fine by me. But that's not fine by your
50:02body. That is hypoestrogenic time. It is
50:05low estrogen.
50:06>> Yeah. Very low estrogen. It's bad for
50:08your body on so many reasons to be low
50:11estrogen during these crucial bone
50:13building years. But for we're talking
50:15about how your hormones communicate
50:16back. It's very harmful to long-term
50:18health to have low estrogen
50:22at all.
50:22>> Brain health.
50:23>> But yeah, but especially in young years
50:26when you're still developing.
50:28>> Why would a woman say that she didn't
50:30want to have her period? I mean, this is
50:31a super naive question as a guy, but I
50:32understand it's painful.
50:33>> I mean, do you want to bleed from
50:34>> Do you want that?
50:35>> I mean, if it was a choice now,
50:37>> actually knowing now what I know now
50:41>> and for my own young daughters, I'm
50:42like, we have got to make sure you have
50:44a period. But when I was young, I was a
50:47dancer and an athlete. I had very low
50:50body fat and I wouldn't have periods for
50:526 to9 months. And I'm like, yes.
50:54>> Do you know what's interesting? I was
50:55thinking of Mel.
50:58She because of what she's been through
51:00and also because she's listened to the
51:02conversations I've had with all of you
51:04and she understands the value and
51:06importance of her period, she now
51:08celebrates it. It's like a celebration
51:10in our house when it arrives because
51:12>> because if you understand the importance
51:13that it has in sort of full body health
51:15and the role it's playing, then the
51:18pain, the downside
51:20>> is weighted against your understanding
51:22of the upside, which to her means she's
51:24healthy, she's fat,
51:25>> hormonal health is working, things are
51:26great. And that's the conversation shift
51:29that I'm hoping is gonna instead of
51:31being a detriment and a downer and
51:32talked about she must be on whatever
51:34derogatory yes derogatory things are
51:37said about us that oh my gosh she is so
51:40healthy.
51:41>> Yeah. I remember sitting in a high
51:44performance meeting just maybe three
51:46years ago and the leading athletics
51:48coach stood up and said I know when my
51:50athletes are ready to perform on the
51:52world stage when their periods stop. And
51:54all of us went what?
51:57It's like no, that's the time where like
52:00we have to really look at your athlete
52:02is getting ready to crack and be
52:03injured.
52:04>> And it's still this pervasive idea and
52:07it's still pervasive even in the fitness
52:09industry that losing your period is okay
52:12cuz that means you're training harder.
52:13>> They actually are very resistant to
52:15getting it back.
52:15>> Yes. Like it's a sign of failure of
52:18their sport or their athletic endeavor
52:20because this is is so pervasive. And I
52:22think that's why it's important to have
52:24these discussions. And I love hearing
52:26that Mel now says, "Yay, my period is
52:28here." Because that's a sign of hormonal
52:30health and things are working well
52:32because that is how we should feel. But
52:34I think the other part of it is for
52:36women who have mayoria or heavy bleeding
52:39and heavy cramping. They don't realize
52:41that they can get help with that as
52:43well. Mhm.
52:43>> And that's a conversation that isn't
52:45followed through when we're like, "Yes,
52:46get your period, but if you're someone
How Do We Know If It's a Normal Flow, Too Much, or Too Little?
52:48who suffers from really bad cramps, we
52:50also have to educate that there are
52:51things that we can do to help with that.
52:53>> Does the size of the bleed matter?"
52:56Because she turned around to me the
52:57other day and she said with her last
52:59cycle, she said that she didn't bleed
53:00much and she seemed slightly concerned.
53:02Obviously, I had no idea what to say to
53:04that.
53:04>> It depends.
53:05>> Congratulations. Well done. I'm so
53:06sorry. minora. So we have definitions
53:09and there are you know we don't walk
53:10around with measuring cups generally
53:12between our legs to measure how much
53:14blood's coming out each month. But
53:15>> but women know
53:16>> but women know your period should not
53:18cause you with modern you know period
53:22products your cycle shouldn't cause you
53:25any stress in your life. You should just
53:27roll with it, right? And so that's when
53:29I'm like when is it a problem?
53:30>> Shouldn't bleed through your clothes.
53:31>> You should be able to sleep through the
53:32night. You should be able to get through
53:34an athletic performance. You should be
53:35able to do X, Y, and Z. Now when we do
53:38start measuring and you should not be
53:40anemic. So I'm not waiting till anemia.
53:43I am anemia is low red blood cell count
53:46you know to the point where your
53:48performance is affected. Your ability to
53:50carry oxygen is effective. So the red
53:51blood cells are what carries oxygen in
53:56our bodies. And women who have heavy
53:59periods however that's defined can lead
54:02to anemia. But the first thing that we
54:04notice is their feritin is dropping.
54:06That's the first sign my do my daughter
54:08we just had some blood work done. She
54:09was feeling a little fatigued and her
54:11ferotin and iron saturations were really
54:13low and I was like talk to me about your
54:14period. Turns out she's not eating a lot
54:16of iron rich foods. So we're dealing
54:17with that. But you know we can get so
54:19far ahead of this and looking at these
54:22ferotin levels the transfer you know
54:24these iron studies before she's actually
54:26anemic which is like the last thing that
54:28happens when her red blood cell count
54:30drops or they become so small and what
54:32we call microitic. you know, we are we
54:35need to do a better job at recognizing
54:37these things. We're not going to walk
54:38around and measure how much blood's
54:40coming out because I could maybe squeak
54:42out 200 cc's, you know, a period and you
54:45could be 300 and we're both doing fine.
54:47You know, we both have great. So, I
54:48think it's really looking at, you know,
54:50how much bleeding is too much. Now, how
54:52little is too much? That that's probably
54:54better in your
54:55>> Yeah. Is any change from what you
54:57consider normal? We would all say this
54:58is a normal amount. So if it gets
54:59heavier than that or less than that and
55:02it stays that way, that is concerning.
55:04You can always have a one-off. Estrogen
55:06is the driver of growing the uterine
55:08lining. So if you have a lighter bleed
55:11one month, we are concerned that you did
55:13not grow as thick of a lining. Your body
55:15didn't see as much estrogen. Most the
55:17time you ovulated earlier that cycle,
55:19your cycle came a little bit sooner than
55:21you're used to it coming, and it's not
55:23quite a big deal. But this can be
55:26concerning if we see consistently light
55:28periods, especially if we have history
55:31of progesterone contraception, which
55:33progesterone thins out the lining and
55:35estrogen grows it. So progesterone
55:38actually stabilizes it, but for the sake
55:39of the discussion, we'll say estrogen
55:41grows it, progesterone thins it. When
55:44you only see progesterone, like a
55:45progesterone IUD, the progesterone shot,
55:48even continuous birth control pills,
55:50because they give you a type of
55:52synthetic estrogen and progesterone
55:54every day, your uterine lining gets
55:57thinner and thinner and thinner. And so
56:00we see it can take months to return to
56:02normal after coming off of hormonal
56:04contraception. You also can get damage
56:07to the endometrial lining. There's stem
56:09cells in the endometrium that regenerate
56:11every month after you bleed. They
56:14regenerate so that the next group can
56:16grow in response to estrogen. And this
56:18can get damaged from typically anything
56:21inside the uterus. So most commonly this
56:24is post birth, you know, a traumatic
56:26birth, a retained placenta, a DNC
56:29procedure, which is sometimes used after
56:31birth or in a miscarriage or even IUDs
56:34or intrauterine surgery. and it can form
56:36scar tissue in the uterus that can cause
56:38a light period. So if you said, "Oh, Mel
56:42had a miscarriage and had this procedure
56:44and now her periods are lighter." I'm
56:45highly concerned.
56:47>> Versus amen.
56:48>> Yeah. So that is concerning for scar
56:50tissue in the uterus.
56:51>> Okay.
56:52>> If you said, "Oh, she was on a birth
56:55control pill for a while and now it's a
56:57little bit lighter." I'm less concerned
56:58that's probably going to get better. or
57:00if this period came closer together
57:02>> or if you traveled around the world
57:04three times this last month or
57:06>> so one one off is no big deal but a
57:09change from your baseline can be
57:11concerning in addition we should say
57:12that that graph is beautiful but you
57:15know your thyroid your pituitary gland
57:17it makes prolactin prolactin also
57:19changes the endometrium so there's
57:21subtle signs of other hormonal issues
57:24that your menstrual cycle is the first
57:26warning sign that something is off
57:28>> what about pain She 2 months ago she had
57:31like excruciating pain that I've never
57:32seen before during her menstrual cycle.
57:35>> Well, it's not pleasant to have your
57:37uterus contract and expel its contents
57:40in any form.
57:41>> But what if it's like way above the
How to Know If You're Experiencing Abnormal Period Pain
57:43norm?
57:44>> One time way above the norm is probably
57:46situational based on other things that
57:48are contributing to inflammatory burden
57:51or response. your body is also healing
57:53from a the corpus ludium's a cyst on
57:55your ovary that can also feel painful
57:57and at the time of your period it is
57:59also healing so there's multiple things
58:01that can cause pain
58:04to Vonda's point so many people say I
58:06have a high pain tolerance this is okay
58:09because we don't talk about our own pain
58:11so I don't know if my pain is normal
58:13compared to somebody else's your pain
58:16should not keep you out of your
58:18activities of daily living you shouldn't
58:20call in sick to school call in sick to
58:22work, cancel dinner plans with friends
58:25consistently. Again, everybody can have
58:27a one-off month where something is off.
58:29But if this happens every month, oh,
58:31it's my period. I'm going to cancel
58:32that. That is a warning sign that
58:35something else could be going on.
58:36Endometriosis, adnomiiosis, and uterine
58:39fibroids.
58:39>> You mentioned the word iron a second
58:41ago, Dr. Mary. What is iron got to do
58:45with this? And what is iron? So iron is
58:47an element that is in our diets and we
58:50do tend to store quite a bit of iron in
58:52our bodies and it's an essential when we
58:54look at the structure of the red blood
58:55cell and of hemoglobin specifically. So
58:58hemoglobin is the actual molecule that
59:00is inside of the red blood cell that
59:02carries the oxygen. So iron is really
59:04critical to the formation of healthy you
59:08know iron carrying red blood cells and
59:10we we store iron in our bodies and so
59:13and a lot in the bone marrow and in and
59:16it's stored in this particular molecule
59:18called feritin. So when we're measuring
59:20ferotin levels in the blood that is you
59:24know the first sign that your iron
59:25stores are getting low is when we see
59:27these low feritin levels. Are women more
59:30iron deficient than one would think?
59:33Like is the general population iron
59:35deficient or what do you tend to see
59:37when you run lab tests?
59:39>> A menstruating woman. Yes.
59:40>> A menstruating woman is is often
59:43iron deficient.
59:44>> Yes. And I we I do see it in our post
59:46post-menopausal patients as well. That's
59:48usually nutritional and inflammation
59:51related. So ferotin is also something
59:54that will decrease in in times of
59:56chronic inflammation. And so you're not
59:57able to utilize the iron that's coming
59:59in and store it because this
1:00:00inflammatory state is kind of inhibiting
1:00:02that. So in a menstruating patient, I'm
1:00:05always thinking is she bleeding too much
1:00:07the first time, you know, and is that
1:00:08bleeding menstrual? Is it coming from
1:00:09her rectum? Is it coming from her
1:00:11gastrointestinal tract? You know, does
1:00:13she have gastritis or, you know, we have
1:00:14to go through the, you know, the
1:00:16algorithm of why that might happen. In a
1:00:18post-menopausal patient, we can remove
1:00:20vaginal bleeding from the issue, you
1:00:22know, uterine bleeding, a period, but
1:00:24then now I'm looking at nutrition. And
1:00:26I'm looking at exercise. I'm looking at
1:00:27inflammation as causitive factors.
1:00:29>> And the global pitch here is the World
1:00:30Health Organization estimates that
1:00:32roughly 30% of women aged 15 to 49
1:00:34worldwide are anemic with iron
1:00:36deficiency being the leading cause. And
1:00:38in some reason regions of South Asia and
1:00:40subsaharan Africa prevalence can be up
1:00:42to 50% of women are anemic with iron
Anemia in Women and the Issues With Lab Results
1:00:46deficiency being the leading cause. H
1:00:49>> you noticed the norms have changed.
1:00:52>> So it depends on who you read.
1:00:54>> Yeah. again, you know, when you're
1:00:55looking at male male normative curves
1:00:57versus what you know, we're we're tend
1:01:00to accept lower levels for a female. But
1:01:02now that we're looking at performance
1:01:04and, you know, looking at other factors
1:01:07besides just what is this feritin level,
1:01:10>> um there's a lot great new research
1:01:12coming out that we are looking at this
1:01:14differently and that that we're in our
1:01:16clinic, we are looking for 60 to 100 for
1:01:18a feritin level to be considered
1:01:20optimal. very different than, you know,
1:01:23the baseline for, you know, keeping you
1:01:27out of out of a hospital versus you
1:01:30functioning at your absolute best.
1:01:32>> Yeah. Because the norms that often get
1:01:34measured for us
1:01:37>> because they tripled, right? They were
1:01:3815 and then they went up to to 40.
1:01:40>> So now they're saying 20 and above is
1:01:43normal. And when I look at a lot of
1:01:45women who are sitting 20 to 30, they
1:01:48can't get help.
1:01:49>> They cannot get help. And it's like,
1:01:51whoa, it was maybe four or five years
1:01:53ago. If you were below 50, then we would
1:01:56look to get help. But now with the norms
1:01:58that have shifted with the sicker
1:02:00population,
1:02:02we can't get women help unless they are
1:02:04below 20. So when we say normal, I think
1:02:07this is important for everybody watching
1:02:09or listening. Normal in medicine means
1:02:12common,
1:02:14>> not non-pathological,
1:02:16>> okay?
1:02:16>> Not bad, you know, doesn't mean it's not
1:02:18bad. And so norms shifting meaning we're
1:02:21getting sicker as a population and we're
1:02:24willing to accept lower levels although
1:02:26they're not optimal for health. The lab
1:02:29reference range what they say when you
1:02:30get your blood work drawn and you see
1:02:31the reference range is based on
1:02:34population averages. And so if the
1:02:36population is more anemic this is going
1:02:39to accept a lower levels being normal
1:02:43even though they're by no means optimal.
1:02:45And I think that's one thing we all talk
1:02:48about is well how are you feeling your
1:02:50symptomology? What do we see? And you
1:02:52have to interpret blood work in context
1:02:54of the whole person and what is
1:02:56happening. And that is one issue we do
1:02:58see with getting your own blood work
1:03:00drawn or these online companies when
1:03:02nobody's interpreting it or helping you
1:03:04interpret it on the other end. You see
1:03:06something that is in a normal range but
1:03:09it's not at all optimal for you and it
1:03:11could be the reason why insurance. Yeah,
1:03:13exactly. I want to talk about
1:03:14endometriosis. I we have a team member
1:03:16who's been with the Davosio since the
1:03:18very beginning called Liv.
1:03:19>> Yes.
1:03:20>> Are you familiar with Liv?
1:03:21>> I am.
1:03:22>> So at age 13, she had her first period
1:03:24and she experienced agonizing pain with
1:03:25heavy bleeding.
1:03:27>> At age 14, she was put on the pill to
1:03:29manage the symptoms. Between age 15 and
1:03:3224, she continued to have severe stomach
1:03:34pain which resulted in multiple A&E
1:03:37visits. She was often dismissed as
1:03:40having gastriisitis.
1:03:42>> Mhm. And it led to having her appendix
1:03:44removed.
1:03:45>> Oh my god.
1:03:47>> Why'd you say oh my god
1:03:48>> can get surgery?
1:03:50>> But she had major surgery and
1:03:54>> um I' I've seen this course before and
1:03:57it's it's devastating cuz she's going
People Suffer Silently With Endometriosis for Years
1:03:59years and years and years now of
1:04:01>> Yeah. age 25 she came off the pill to
1:04:04see how she felt without it but her
1:04:06periods worsened and she fainted from
1:04:07the pain. So she went to accident and
1:04:09emergency. At age 26, she got an
1:04:11ultrasound which suggested
1:04:13endometriosis, but no NHS diagnosis was
1:04:16given.
1:04:18We ultimately had a conversation with
1:04:20you on the podcast, Natalie, and she
1:04:22felt very heard and she was actually
1:04:24there. And so afterwards, Jamaima in the
1:04:26team, who you you guys know, um told Liv
1:04:29to come and speak to me. And Liv told me
1:04:31after you left about um the symptoms,
1:04:34did she speak directly to you at that
1:04:36time? She did. Okay. So, she came and
1:04:37she spoke to us about her endometriosis,
1:04:39which is the first time I'd ever heard
1:04:40of it. Um, and then we offered to help
1:04:44support her privately so she could get
1:04:45private support with it. Um, and she got
1:04:49an MRI scan privately, which confirmed
1:04:50stage 4 infiltrating endometriosis.
1:04:53>> Oh gosh.
1:04:55>> Liv then pushed um on with her NHS
1:04:58appointments, the National Health
1:04:59Service in the UK, but the pain was so
1:05:01much that she took me up on my offer to
1:05:04pay for it privately. So, we paid for it
1:05:06privately. Uh, and the endometriosis by
1:05:08that point had spread to her bowels and
1:05:09pelvis. And I've got this picture of
1:05:11this four cm cyst. If you're all
1:05:14faint-hearted, I mean, I don't know
1:05:15where we'll put this on the screen, but
1:05:17this is from her operation.
1:05:18>> Yeah. It's called an endometrioma. It's
1:05:20huge.
1:05:21>> For anyone that can't see, it kind of
1:05:23looks like a tumor.
1:05:24>> Yeah.
1:05:25>> Um, next to her ovaries
1:05:28>> and it had spread at that point to her
1:05:30bow and pis pelvis. It had become about
1:05:324 cm big. Her ovaries were stuck
1:05:34together and attached to her womb and
1:05:36her bowels. She then needed to book an
1:05:38appointment for surgery. And before the
1:05:40surgery, because of the scale of her
1:05:41endometriosis, she had her eggs frozen
1:05:43to protect her future fertility, which I
1:05:45guess came from your advice. This
1:05:47process took her 7 years and she was in
1:05:50pain for 17 years because she did not
1:05:53get a diagnosis.
1:05:55>> Her story is unfortunately not uncommon.
1:05:58This is a very typical story for
1:06:01somebody who suffers from endometriosis.
1:06:04Endometriosis is an inflammatory
1:06:07condition. And the way I like to explain
1:06:09it is when your body responds abnormally
1:06:11to a normal process. You have immune
1:06:13dysfunction as well. So let's think of
1:06:14it as an autoimmune disease and a
1:06:16chronic inflammatory disease. When you
1:06:19have your period, you bleed out
1:06:20indometrial cells in your menstrual
1:06:22blood. We're used to that. In everybody,
1:06:24you also have some indometrial cells
1:06:26that will escape out the fallopian
1:06:27tubes. That's not a big deal. If you
1:06:28take out somebody's appendix while
1:06:30they're on their period, you'll actually
1:06:31see menstrual blood in their abdominal
1:06:33cavity. In the regular person without
1:06:35endo, your body says, "Oh, she's just on
1:06:39her period." In the person who has
1:06:40endometriosis, this creates a huge
1:06:43inflammatory response where your body
1:06:45starts to attack indometrial cells and
1:06:48you get these implants throughout the
1:06:50what's called the peritineal cavity or
1:06:51the abdominal cavity of indometriallike
1:06:54tissue that gets worse every time your
1:06:56body sees estrogen which because it's
1:06:59feeding the endometrium just like it
1:07:01would in the uterus and so it gets worse
1:07:04over time. The more ovulatory cycles you
1:07:06have the disease gets worse. It's so
1:07:09inflammatory that it's not uncommon to
1:07:11get extensive
1:07:13organ scarring. You get anatomical
1:07:16distortion. These are some of the
1:07:18toughest surgical cases in addition to
1:07:22managing lifelong health but also
1:07:24fertility as well.
1:07:25>> Just obliterate the anatomy like because
1:07:27the infiltration you'll these implants
1:07:29will start growing into other organs
1:07:31because they'll find new blood supply.
1:07:33They'll steal blood, you know, blood
1:07:35supply from from the bowel from because
1:07:37all of our pelvic organs are just
1:07:39sitting there on top of each other, the
1:07:40bladder, the bowel, the c, you know, and
1:07:43so
1:07:44>> it sounds like it's alive, like it's a
1:07:45cancer or something.
1:07:46>> Think of it like velcro is what I say
1:07:47almost these little patches of velcro
1:07:49and they just start sticking together.
1:07:50And that's what inflammation and
1:07:52scarring does throughout your whole
1:07:53body. And what happens here is that
1:07:57because the primary symptoms of
1:07:58endometriosis is pain. So again, back to
1:08:02women's pain being taken seriously.
1:08:05>> That's one of the issues and why the
1:08:07average time to diagnosis is 7 to 10
1:08:10years. Truly 17 years in this case from
1:08:12when she had pain.
1:08:14>> But the other symptoms do include
1:08:15sometimes also pain with intercourse.
1:08:18Typically though, that is very hard to
1:08:21ascertain from somebody, but it's
1:08:23usually with certain positions. Deep
1:08:25penetration tends to be what really
1:08:27stimulates pain. But you also see a lot
1:08:29of GI manifestations that we don't talk
1:08:31about. So if I have somebody who has
1:08:32painful periods and they say they have
1:08:34irritable bowel syndrome or a lot of
1:08:37vague GI complaints,
1:08:39that is a really big red flag to me
1:08:42because like you said, these little
1:08:44indometrial implants on the bowel, the
1:08:45intestine, this high inflammation that's
1:08:48happening irritates your intestine and
1:08:50you get this GI response as well. One of
1:08:53the hardest things about indometriosis
1:08:55is that it's a surgical diagnosis only.
1:08:58To be honest, we can means
1:09:00>> have to do surgery to fully see and
1:09:03diagnose that you have this.
1:09:04>> It's one of those no meat, no treat, you
1:09:06know, in in in medicine where you can't
1:09:08make the diagnosis until you have a
1:09:10tissue sample. So meat means you go and
1:09:12take a biopsy.
1:09:13>> Okay. See? Okay.
1:09:14>> So you can suspect it based on imaging.
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1:09:17We're not great at this. And Dr.
1:09:19Crawford, why don't we have a cure?
1:09:21>> Mhm. Well, because it hasn't been
1:09:23studied is one of is the primary answer.
1:09:26Uh the secondary answer is that often
1:09:29the the goals are tough with endo
1:09:31because if estrogen feeds it, we all are
1:09:34going to sit at this table and talk
1:09:35about how important estrogen is for your
1:09:37body. And a a lot of the treatments that
1:09:39exist for endometriosis take estrogen
1:09:42away to try to not feed these lesions.
1:09:44And that has a slew of other symptoms
1:09:47and long-term health implications as
1:09:48well. Truly, we don't even give women
1:09:54options to try to feel better. They are
1:09:57given birth control pills because, hey,
1:09:59I'm going to stop the ovulatory cycle.
1:10:01I'm going to you're going to have less
1:10:03what we call unopposed estrogen days.
1:10:04>> We do have symptomatic relief.
1:10:06>> Yeah. But we have and that's going to
1:10:07help hopefully with some of your
1:10:08symptoms. And it can for some women. It
1:10:11doesn't reverse disease. It doesn't cure
1:10:13it. It doesn't make anything better, but
1:10:15it can slow down the progression any of
1:10:18these treatments that do halt the
1:10:21ovulatory process, but it severely
1:10:23impacts I mean beyond so many layers of
1:10:26your your mental your emotional health,
1:10:28your relationships, but your fertility.
1:10:30Stage three or four disease, regardless
1:10:33of your age, you're going to have a less
1:10:34than a 20% chance of conceiving
1:10:36naturally over the course of your life
1:10:38if you have stage three or four disease.
1:10:40Every stage is impactful to your
1:10:41fertility because of the inflammation.
1:10:43Once you have anatomical distortion, an
1:10:45indometrium or cyst inside the ovary,
1:10:48removing that cyst is going to decrease
1:10:50your egg count. That that's going to
1:10:52have a major implication on your
1:10:54potential. That's why we froze eggs
1:10:57before we to cyst out so that we could
1:10:58get those eggs, at least some that we
1:11:00could out of the body before we went and
1:11:02did something that was going to destroy
1:11:04part of the ovarian tissue. What you
1:11:07said, Stephen, is it seems like
1:11:08indometriosis is alive. And that's a
1:11:10really great analogy because it does
1:11:12just feed into tissue and it's highly
1:11:15destructive and if it distorts the
1:11:18anatomy, we need a healthy floppy
1:11:21fallopian tube generally that can swing
1:11:23around and pick up this egg that's
1:11:25floating around our abdominal cavity for
1:11:27and then you need a place for the egg
1:11:29and sperm to meet which is generally a
1:11:31healthy non-inflamed fallopian tube. So
1:11:33they're also at increased risk for
1:11:35infertility but ectopic pregnancies.
1:11:37That's where I see them, you know, is
1:11:39when I was a hospitalist is in the O,
1:11:42you know, emerently from a ruptured
1:11:44fallopian tube from this, you know, and
1:11:46I go in and I'm making not only she's
1:11:48lost a wanted pregnancy now I and I'm
1:11:51making the diagnosis of indometriosis at
1:11:53the same time and they are just
1:11:54devastated. I just feel sitting here not
1:11:57being anywhere within this field
1:11:59thinking wait a minute because I was a
1:12:00cancer nurse first right before I did
1:12:02this wait a minute there's got to be a
1:12:05cell surface marker that's unique to the
1:12:07endometrium that we could make a
1:12:09monoconal antibbody against
1:12:11>> there's got to be a cell surface marker
1:12:13and I will say that there are people now
1:12:15doing lovely and wonderful research on a
1:12:17cellular level of indometriosis trying
1:12:20to look at the endometrium itself what
1:12:22cell markers are similar in indometrial
1:12:24implants
1:12:25Can you diagnose this on an endometrial
Could We Create a Cellular Marker for Endometriosis?
1:12:28biopsy in somebody?
1:12:30>> We haven't seen it get to the point
1:12:32where it needs to, but at least people
1:12:34are paying attention. So, I do think we
1:12:37might have emergent technology that will
1:12:39change the course of this for people.
1:12:41>> Right now, I think awareness is key. And
1:12:44one thing I always say is that
1:12:45especially as a teenager because women
1:12:48adjust. You accommodate to the world
1:12:51around you. That's one of the things
1:12:52that I think makes women so resilient. I
1:12:55mean, if you have pain every single
1:12:56month of your life, you are going to
1:12:58convince yourself this is normal for a
1:13:00degree of time because what other option
1:13:01do you have? Has to get so bad. But when
1:13:05you're a teenager, you don't know that.
1:13:07And so, if when you are a teen, you
1:13:09would stay home from school, you would
1:13:11not go to the football game or go out to
1:13:13dinner with friends, that to me has is a
1:13:17huge red flag. But it actually is a very
1:13:19high predictive marker that you do have
1:13:21indometriosis.
1:13:23So pain out of proportion to being able
1:13:25to complete your normal life as a
1:13:28teenager is a really big warning flag. I
1:13:30ask every patient about that when we
1:13:31talk about their periods because 50% of
1:13:34patients with unexplained infertility
1:13:36have indometriosis.
1:13:37It is so hard to diagnose and
1:13:39underdiagnosed yet impactful to our
1:13:42body.
1:13:43>> 26 years old. The advice given to her by
1:13:45the NHS was to go back on the pill to
1:13:49solve for the the pains that she was
1:13:51getting. We certainly have a lot of
1:13:53dismissive doctors and people who don't
1:13:55take pain seriously, but also a disease
1:13:57that is underfunded and not researched.
1:13:59We do have limited options for how you
1:14:02can help somebody. And I think we have
1:14:04to acknowledge that both things can be
1:14:05right. Now, getting to the root cause of
1:14:08your pain is always going to be really
1:14:10important versus just saying here's a
1:14:12birth control pill that should take care
1:14:14of it. Some women with endometriosis
1:14:16love being on the birth control pill.
1:14:18does highly improve their symptom
1:14:20profile and it's an important part of
1:14:22their treatment regimen. Other women do
1:14:24not find any benefit from it and it's
1:14:26really important to have the discussion
1:14:28especially with indometriosis in regards
1:14:30to your family planning goals. Do you
1:14:32want kids? When is that going to be?
1:14:35What might this look like? Because we
1:14:37know if you have a higher rate of
1:14:38infertility, a higher rate of needing
1:14:40IVF, do we need to intervene sooner? But
1:14:43that's going to impact some of the
1:14:44treatment options we're able to give you
1:14:46because some of them do delay ovulation
1:14:48from for a prolonged period of time.
1:14:50>> What I find in the patients, you know,
1:14:52when we made the diagnosis was they're
1:14:54forced into making these kind of
1:14:56life-changing decisions about around
1:14:58their fertility and ability to conceive
1:15:01before they were ever before their peers
1:15:04were even thinking about it. It's pretty
1:15:06devastating.
1:15:08>> It is. We have some pilot data looking
1:15:10at taking some of the nuances of
1:15:12recovery and looking at how to dampen
1:15:15inflammation. So we have some pilot data
1:15:18that's showing when women do cold
1:15:20exposure
1:15:21>> that it dampens inflammation and
How to Ease Pain Symptoms Before Your Period Naturally
1:15:23improves their symptomology. So I'm
1:15:26always thinking on the outside like what
1:15:27other things can we do to dampen
1:15:30inflammation in a positive way to
1:15:32improve symptomology.
1:15:34>> How does that work? So, if we're
1:15:36thinking about the responses to cold
1:15:39exposure, and we're not talking about
1:15:40ice, we're talking about cold water
1:15:42exposure. It creates a cascade of immune
1:15:46responses that kind of protects the
1:15:49body. So, we're reducing inflammation,
1:15:51we're improving parasympathetic, which
1:15:53reduces stress. Mhm.
1:15:54>> So, if we're timing it and they know
1:15:56when their period is and they can go,
1:15:59okay, well, for the next or the 10 to 14
1:16:02days before my period starts, I'm going
1:16:04to have 10 minutes of cold water
1:16:06exposure. And over the course of 3 to 4
1:16:09months, that immune response becomes
1:16:12learned. So, it reduces symptomology.
1:16:15So, it becomes one of the treatment
1:16:16options that we have for some of our
1:16:19athletes that have endo and interferes
1:16:21with their training. Mhm.
1:16:22>> So I mean the cold water exposure is
1:16:24available there. So that's how we
1:16:26started the pilot study.
1:16:28>> Um trying someone wanted to do this at
1:16:30home.
1:16:30>> 10° C. So what is that about
1:16:34>> 40? Yeah. It feels really cold but not
1:16:37an ice bath.
1:16:37>> Not an ice bath because ice is
1:16:39>> Ice is not good for
1:16:40>> Can you get that in the shower?
1:16:42>> You you need to
1:16:43>> This is like cold submersion.
1:16:45>> Can you do that at a home tub just with
1:16:46turning on the spigot?
1:16:48>> You could if you get really cold. Yeah.
1:16:49You might want to add a little bit of
1:16:51ice and let it melt. Okay.
1:16:52>> But um not ice baths that we see in all
1:16:55the popular media because that is way
1:16:57too cold for a woman's body. It does the
1:16:59opposite. It's a severe stress and
1:17:02causes a stress response rather than a
1:17:04parasympathetic calming response that we
1:17:06want.
1:17:07>> Okay. Like Stacy said, decreasing
1:17:09inflammation in an inflammatory disease
1:17:11is key to controlling the factors you
1:17:13can. And much like we talked about
1:17:15inflammation and PCOS, we heard the same
1:17:17word right here with endometriosis.
1:17:20Chronic inflammatory diseases are the
1:17:22number one thing that we see across the
1:17:23board impacting the population but
1:17:26especially women.
1:17:28>> And so these same strategies to work on
1:17:30decreasing your own inflammation
1:17:33>> and for endo it's a little different
1:17:35because you can target it for when you
1:17:38expect to have that high inflammatory
1:17:40burden. But that's really an important
1:17:42part that we don't talk about. I don't
1:17:43see that the NHS talked about an
1:17:45anti-inflammatory diet or getting more
1:17:48sleep or cold exposure.
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1:18:54Now, on this point of birth control, one
1:18:57of the questions that came in from the
1:18:58audience was, "How terrible is birth
1:19:00control to female hormones?"
1:19:03The birth control pill shuts off the
1:19:06brain's desire to send the signal to the
1:19:08ovary to make hormones. So, it is
1:19:10ethanol estradiol, a synthetic estrogen,
1:19:13and a type of a synthetic progesterine
1:19:15or progesterone. These work, the brain
1:19:18thinks that you have estrogen and
1:19:20progesterone present. As we said, that's
1:19:22the ludial phase. And so, your brain
1:19:25says we don't need an egg to grow.
1:19:26>> Ovulation starts in the brain. Y, right?
1:19:28>> So, no FSH comes out and you're not
1:19:31going to get ovulation. So they're very
1:19:32effective for prevention of ovulation
1:19:35which is makes it a very effective
1:19:37contraceptive option. But as far as hor
1:19:40hormonal shifts, yeah, your brain's not
1:19:42sending out FSH and LH. Your ovaries are
1:19:44not going to be making estradiol or
1:19:46progesterone
1:19:47>> or testosterone.
1:19:48>> True.
1:19:49>> And so that is how they are sometimes
1:19:51helpful if you have, you know, uh some
1:19:55women get hemorrhagic cysts with
1:19:56ovulation. every every time you ovulate,
1:19:58you when you rupture that cyst, you get
1:20:00a lot of bleeding. The birth control
1:20:02pill can prevent ovulation, therefore
1:20:04prevent some women from being in
1:20:05terrible pain. If you have PCOS, they're
1:20:08often handed out like candy. One reason
1:20:10is because it will regulate your cycle
1:20:12so that you don't have these prolonged
1:20:14irregular periods, but also will
1:20:17decrease testosterone levels, which is
1:20:19sometimes a good side effect of the pill
1:20:21for women who have PCOS,
1:20:23>> back to a normal level.
1:20:24>> Yeah. But if you don't have PCOS or the
1:20:27regular person, a lot of times your
1:20:29body's tissues are not responding to
1:20:31synthetic estrogen and progesterone the
1:20:33same way it does to natural. I think
1:20:34that's a very important point. So my
1:20:36niece who competes uh at a national
1:20:40level and she's 14 started suffering
1:20:43from as she was going through her
1:20:44adolescence her acne got outrageous and
1:20:47she's a 14-year-old girl 13. start at 12
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1:20:49and a half. And of course, you know, she
1:20:51goes to the dermatologist and they're
1:20:53trying some topicals. And then finally,
1:20:55as you go down the algorithm for how we
1:20:57treat acne, one of the off label uses is
1:21:00birth control pills will lower the
1:21:02testosterone. Their skin can clear up.
1:21:04So, her father, a little concern, comes
1:21:05to me. Um, her mom passed away. Her
1:21:08stepmom had passed away. So, he didn't
1:21:09have the mom in the house to, you know,
1:21:10the immediate mom to talk to. And for
1:21:14the first time, I immediately thought of
1:21:16her athletic performance. Thank you, Dr.
1:21:18Sims and I thought she wants to go to
1:21:20the Olympics. There's no way I'm going
1:21:23to let her testosterone levels drop.
1:21:24Like, we're going to throw everything
1:21:25topical at this. And we finally found
1:21:27the right combination. Her skin looks
1:21:28great and she's super happy. But like,
1:21:30the next logical thing was to put this
1:21:3214-year-old, you know, on a birth
1:21:34control pill to get her acne under
1:21:36control, which is the end result. But
1:21:38what no one's thinking of is her
1:21:40athletic performance. How is it going to
1:21:42affect her
1:21:44>> training years leading
1:21:45>> and her training years? Like, this is
1:21:46critical for her. 16 is when the next
1:21:48trials are up for her. So that's 2 years
1:21:50from now. So we were able to get her
1:21:52acne under control, avoid the birth
1:21:54control pill, but that was nothing I'd
1:21:56ever thought of before.
1:21:57>> Well, I'm sitting here from a
1:21:59muscularkeeletal standpoint thinking
1:22:02about the high percentage of women who
1:22:05have endometriosis and PCOS and the
1:22:08complete soundingly
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1:22:11imbalance of natural hormones. Plus,
1:22:16for a lot of reasons now, girls are not
1:22:20cycling normally.
1:22:21>> Mhm.
1:22:22>> And I'm sitting here terrified for their
1:22:25bones.
1:22:25>> Yep. 100%.
1:22:27>> Because we build bone from 15 to 25.
1:22:32And if we are so inflamed that we're
1:22:35producing all kinds of inflammatory
1:22:36cytoines IG interlucan 6 and uh C
1:22:41reactive protein and tumor necrosis
1:22:43factor which halt bone development we
1:22:46don't have enough estrogen for whatever
1:22:48reason we're going to shut off our
1:22:50testosterone because it makes us feel
1:22:52better
1:22:52>> and we're not exercising
1:22:53>> and we're sitting around.
1:22:56No wonder I have 20 and 30 year olds
1:22:59with no bone density that are then going
1:23:02to go into pmenopause which we will get
1:23:04to and lose another 20%.
1:23:08>> So I was pretty feeling pretty hopeful
1:23:11that the generation Xers are going to
1:23:14get to the millennials and get to the
1:23:16whatever they're called after that.
1:23:18>> It is
1:23:19>> we're gonna be you're gonna see it get
1:23:20worse before it gets better. Exactly.
1:23:22That's what I'm sitting here terrified
1:23:23like. Okay. I thought, okay, baby
1:23:26boomers, those women missed out. Xers,
1:23:30we're doing the best we can.
1:23:32Millennials, but no, cuz now you're
1:23:35telling me our 15 to 25 year olds are
1:23:39still in the same detriment with muscle
1:23:42and bone building.
1:23:44We are trying to change the narrative.
1:23:46That's the group we're trying to target
1:23:48right now. And I do think by educating
1:23:51across the lifespan, we're going to
1:23:53change how those of us who have 11 and
1:23:5612 year olds what we recommend. I I
1:23:59treat girls in their teen years when
1:24:01they come to me without their period
1:24:03much differently than a lot of other
1:24:06people do. But this is learned
1:24:07experience. Instead of just you don't
1:24:09have a period, here's a birth control
1:24:11pill. Say you're not making estrogen and
1:24:13this is a crucial time for you. Let's
1:24:15give you estrogen. Let's talk about why
1:24:17you're not. what can we do to change it?
1:24:20And so this discussion is more than just
1:24:22disease state important like PCOS and
1:24:24endometriosis. It's truly important
1:24:27across the lifespan of a woman. The
1:24:29choices that are being made in her early
1:24:32reproductive timeline is going to impact
1:24:35her longevity.
1:24:36>> Can I ask all of you what you would have
1:24:38done differently
1:24:39>> for ourselves?
1:24:40>> Yeah, for yourselves. Obviously, I know
1:24:42several of you have daughters as well,
1:24:43but what would you have done? I wish
1:24:46everybody could see all of your faces.
1:24:49>> Oh yeah, I've talked about this before.
1:24:51I mean, I was amenoric until I was 20.
1:24:54>> What's amenoric?
1:24:55>> Didn't have periods.
1:24:56>> Okay.
1:24:57>> Because of high stress, high sport, you
1:24:59know, didn't care, didn't eat well in
1:25:02the whole um mindset of the, you know, '
1:25:0490s of calories in, calories out. If
1:25:07you're thinner, then you'll run better.
1:25:09If you're running better, then you're
1:25:11going to hit different metrics. cuz I
1:25:13was a runner in high school and then
1:25:15joined the crew team. Same thing. So, if
1:25:18I could go back and talk to my younger
1:25:19self, I would have been like, "You need
1:25:20to eat, you need to recover, you need to
1:25:22eat, you need to recover." Instead of
1:25:24the mantra of calories in, calories out,
1:25:26more cardio, lose weight, lose weight,
1:25:28lose weight. Because now I educate
1:25:30people is you want to take up space, you
1:25:32want to be strong, you want to look at
1:25:34um not the idea of losing something, but
1:25:36gaining something, gaining that power,
1:25:38gaining that strength, gaining that
1:25:40bone, gaining that muscle, gaining your
1:25:42period. Those are the things that I'm
1:25:44trying to educate the younger generation
1:25:46cuz that was not impressed upon me as a
1:25:49younger athlete, which then had a lot of
1:25:51repercussions later in life. Luckily, my
1:25:54bone density is fine.
1:25:56>> So,
1:25:56>> were you on the contraceptive pill? No,
1:25:58>> you might. Okay.
1:26:00>> I was um not an athlete, so mere mortal.
1:26:04And um
1:26:06uh but it's so you've you've you've been
1:26:08able to take that experience though and
1:26:10apply what you've learned in this this
1:26:11high int, you know, working with these
1:26:14intense athletes to the to the regular,
1:26:16you know, to people who don't exercise
1:26:18at that level. And
1:26:21you know, I completely fell under the
1:26:25the expectation of the aesthetics of it.
1:26:29>> When I did exercise, I exercised to look
1:26:31a certain way. And then in my 30s, I
1:26:34exercised for performance. I started
1:26:36running half marathons. I was doing baby
1:26:38triathlons, really short ones with my
1:26:40girlfriends. It was a social thing and
1:26:41it was super fun. You know, I was
1:26:43running for time. Now I'm exercising for
1:26:46my old lady body. Yep. You know, I'm
1:26:48exercising to be in a bigger body cuz I
1:26:50know my mother and my grandmother. So,
1:26:53my grandmother spent the last 10 years
1:26:54of her life in a bed incontinent with
1:26:57dementia and completely frail.
1:27:01And my mother is on the same course. My
1:27:02mother is 88, fell and broke her hip in
1:27:05January. She just now is walking on a
1:27:08walk or she's in assisted living
1:27:09facility for Alzheimer's.
1:27:11I want to change that legacy for my
1:27:13children. I don't want that to be my
1:27:15path and I don't want my children to
1:27:19have that to be an expectation.
1:27:21So all of the things I would have done
1:27:24differently was
1:27:26I wanted to be thin. Thin was healthy.
1:27:28That is what I learned in medical
1:27:30school. The thinner you were up to
1:27:31starvation, you know, up to you want the
1:27:34lowest body mass index possible without
1:27:38being a little bit too low, you know.
1:27:39And I kind of skirted that line because
1:27:41I stopped eating in medical school due
1:27:42to stress. I would have fed myself. I
1:27:44would have lifted weights. I would have
1:27:46stopped doing so much cardio because
1:27:48knowing I was chipping away at my bone
1:27:50density. I was chipping away. I was
1:27:53raising my inflammation levels. I was
1:27:54chipping away at my ability to resist
1:27:56the Alzheimer's, you know, and dementia
1:27:58that runs in my family. And that's what
1:28:01I'm trying to impress. My girls are 21
1:28:03and 25. What I'm trying trying to
1:28:06impress on them.
1:28:07>> But that's the mentality that we grew up
1:28:09in, right? When you're looking at the
1:28:11supermodels of the '9s and Kate Moss and
1:28:14it was all
1:28:15>> heroin chic.
1:28:15>> Yes, heroin chic, which is the worry now
1:28:17with the GLP1s coming back and the
1:28:21ballerina body and all the things that
1:28:23we're seeing come back again.
1:28:25>> And it's it is worrisome.
1:28:27You know, when I think about I mean,
1:28:29I've already told the world now about
1:28:32having low body fat, maybe being POS and
1:28:35not knowing it, not ever talking about
1:28:37that, having no periods, but then so
1:28:40there was that in my youth that that I
1:28:43would have done better, but that it
1:28:45didn't end in my youth. I mean, I went
1:28:48to college, same. I went to grad school,
1:28:52still same. I went to medical school and
1:28:55in medical school and
1:28:57four years of medical school, seven
1:28:59years of residency and fellowship. Still
1:29:02didn't eat, still wasn't having periods.
1:29:05I didn't sleep for about 11 years,
1:29:07whether between call every third night
1:29:09and then I had a baby and then I was
1:29:11awake for two years cuz she slept with
1:29:13me. That's another discussion. But I
1:29:16think of all these things that I wish I
1:29:18knew then that I know now. I have the
1:29:21same goal. I have four 30-year-old
1:29:24daughters and I have a 17-year-old and
1:29:28they are not going to be allowed to hit
1:29:30a wall like some of us may because we
1:29:33didn't know.
1:29:34>> And were you on the birth control pill?
1:29:37>> You know, intermittently. Uh probably
1:29:39totally in my life about 10 years, but
1:29:44um not continuously.
1:29:47>> And Mary, I forgot to ask, were you on
1:29:49the birth control? Yeah, you were off
1:29:50and on for 20 years.
1:29:53>> So, polycystic ovarian syndrome that was
1:29:55the treatment. I mean, I learned about
1:29:57nutrition kind of on the back end. But
1:30:00the life that I had set up for myself
1:30:02between, you know, medical school,
1:30:04residency, and then going into the field
1:30:07of OBGYn with limited sleep, you know,
1:30:10working 100hour weeks there. I didn't
1:30:13have a environment that would have been
1:30:16conducive to be able to manage that
1:30:17disease
1:30:19with lifestyle
1:30:21and I can look back and say that
1:30:23honestly now
1:30:24>> um
1:30:26with without using the crutch of the
1:30:28birth control pill to manage my
1:30:30symptoms.
1:30:32>> I was on the birth control pill for
1:30:33probably 15 years continuously. And you
1:30:36know, we have to give credit where
1:30:38credit's due because I was able to
1:30:40pursue medical training and not worry
1:30:43about what family building looked like
1:30:46for me, which was really important
1:30:48because I was not ready to have a child.
1:30:51So, anytime we frame a discussion around
1:30:53birth control, I always want to say it's
1:30:55not ever going to fit into one bucket of
1:30:56all good or all bad. It's going to be,
1:30:58you know, different stages of life,
1:30:59different things are important. I didn't
1:31:01stop it soon enough to learn to track my
1:31:03cycle. I didn't recognize cycle
1:31:05abnormalities when I had recurrent
1:31:07miscarriages. I had a really hard time
1:31:09knowing is this how my cycle's supposed
1:31:12to be or not because I never had the
1:31:14opportunity to just have periods and see
1:31:16what is my normal. I stopped it and
1:31:18started trying right away and got into a
1:31:22cycle of having a pregnancy and that
1:31:24would last for a while and then I would
1:31:26lose it. So I really lost the
1:31:28opportunity to say this is my baseline
1:31:30and oh there might be a problem here or
1:31:32to intervene. I wish id advocated more
1:31:34when I had my own pregnancy losses. I
1:31:37was told over and over, there's nothing
1:31:38you can do. This is nothing. Just keep
1:31:40trying. And even as somebody in the
1:31:42field, that felt very dismissive and is
1:31:44a fuel for a lot of what I do now. But
1:31:47on a personal level, you know, 10 years
1:31:48after having those pregnancy losses, I
1:31:51was diagnosed with celiac disease
1:31:54because I had osteopenia on a dexa scam.
1:31:57>> And so I had
1:31:58>> to explain what that is.
1:31:59>> Yeah. So celiac disease is essentially
1:32:01an allergic reaction to gluten. So when
1:32:03I was taking gluten, which is in most of
1:32:05your carbohydrates
1:32:07or the good stuff like breads and
1:32:08pastas, when I was eating those, it was
1:32:11causing an inflammatory reaction inside
1:32:14my body, making my gut unhealthy and
1:32:16kind of creating a baseline level of,
1:32:18let's say, chronic inflammation.
1:32:20>> And recurrent pregnancy loss can be one
1:32:22of the signs and symptoms of it in
1:32:24addition to just some other what feel
1:32:26like very generalized symptoms. fatigue,
1:32:30low energy, headaches, GI distress,
1:32:33>> WW.
1:32:34>> Yeah, I was a whiny woman. And when some
1:32:38of these symptoms finally got to a state
1:32:40where they were getting worse, probably
1:32:41with hormonal change with age, and my
1:32:44doctor ordered a bone scan, and it came
1:32:45back that I had osteopenia, which is
1:32:48very low density of my bones for my age
1:32:51>> and especially at the time, you know, no
1:32:54known medical problems. And so luckily
1:32:56had somebody who was very committed to
1:32:57not labeling me a WW and saying I think
1:33:00you're not absorbing something correctly
1:33:02to get on this pathway to figure out
1:33:04that because of this autoimmune disease
1:33:06celiac disease I wasn't my gut was
1:33:09inflamed. I wasn't be able to absorb the
1:33:10nutrients that I needed.
1:33:12>> But somebody had to be committed on the
1:33:14other end because these symptoms went on
1:33:15for so long. I just accepted them. I let
1:33:18them be. But I also am scared because
1:33:21those critical bone building years I was
1:33:23on the
1:33:23>> PEL
1:33:25>> and I used it continuously which means
1:33:27every single day all the time
1:33:29>> I you know I know I was chronically
1:33:31inflamed and so now I'm at a stage of my
1:33:34life at 43 saying I've got to try to
1:33:36catch up before it's too late and that
1:33:38is scary
1:33:39>> and can you catch up?
1:33:41>> Yes. Yes, you can build bone. Um
1:33:44>> because you know I see all these grass
1:33:46wonder that
1:33:47>> you know you kind of
1:33:49>> yes
1:33:49>> you go
1:33:50>> curve but yeah and then it goes down
1:33:52from your wherever you manage to get it
Yes, You Can Build Bone in Your 40s!
1:33:54up to. So I'm telling all my friends at
1:33:55the moment thanks to you I'm telling all
1:33:56of them to get their muscle and their
1:33:57bone as high as possible because it's
1:33:59probably going to fall with age
1:34:01naturally.
1:34:02>> Well everyone
1:34:03ages. Yeah. Age is the most natural
1:34:06thing we do from the minute of our
1:34:08birth. But men and women age at
1:34:11different rates, especially
1:34:13after pmenopause with the the lack of
1:34:17estrogen, we rate we age very
1:34:19differently from that point on. But your
1:34:22point being made is can we please
1:34:24maximize our bone density and our muscle
1:34:27mass and everything else frankly
1:34:30in our youth when we're probably not
1:34:32aware, right? When we're in college and
1:34:34doing all the things kids do, it's the
1:34:37last thing on our mind. And yet it's the
1:34:38most critical time because you want to
1:34:41start both your bone and your muscle
1:34:42from the highest possible level. Now,
1:34:46can you through lifestyle and hormones
1:34:49build bone again? Yes, actually you can.
1:34:52But wouldn't it have been better to
1:34:54start out with the maximum so that the
1:34:57natural decline doesn't take you into
1:34:59dangerous levels?
1:35:00>> Right.
1:35:01>> Mhm.
1:35:01>> On that point of birth control, what are
1:35:02you saying to your daughters that wasn't
1:35:04said to you? Are you Because Mel
1:35:06regrets, my girlfriend, she's very open.
1:35:08She regrets being on the birth control
1:35:09pill for 10 years because she had no
1:35:10idea what it what it was doing to her
1:35:12body. And then obviously when she came
Advice to Your Daughters
1:35:14off her cycle, I think she spent like
1:35:15you, Natalie, 2 years trying to figure
1:35:17out what was going on and she didn't
1:35:19have her period for an extended period
1:35:20of time after she came off. What are you
1:35:22saying to your daughters about the birth
1:35:23control pill that wasn't said to you?
1:35:26Are you recommending them to use it how
1:35:27you guys used it or
1:35:28>> I mean, we were started on it so young.
1:35:30I I do see a trend towards not starting
1:35:33it as young as it was started in our
1:35:36generation and I think that that is
1:35:38important. I see, you know, personally,
1:35:41my daughter is not quite at that stage
1:35:42yet. So, we haven't had to make these
1:35:45decisions as um they have had to, but I
1:35:48do think it's cycle awareness is one of
1:35:50the few early signs you have of your
1:35:52body's health as a young woman. And so,
1:35:55to purposefully never get to know what
1:35:57that is, is a detriment to saying, "I'm
1:36:00aware of what's healthy for me and I
1:36:02know what's happening in my body." But
1:36:03you guys have had these discussions at
1:36:05different time periods. For my youngest
1:36:07daughter,
1:36:10we I was worried about uh she was a
1:36:12dancer also. She was teeny tiny. So tiny
1:36:17even though she had great muscle mass,
1:36:18but she like me wasn't having periods.
1:36:20And so the advice was to put her on
1:36:23birth control to regulate periods. But I
1:36:26was always uncomfortable with that
1:36:28because she didn't to be a dancer. She
1:36:30didn't have to be quite as tiny as she
1:36:32was. And so what we have done now is
1:36:36I've encouraged her to gain a little
1:36:37weight and get a little bit more body
1:36:40fat because I took her off of that. She
1:36:43only had to gain 5 lbs. I think I said
1:36:45to you, maybe seven and it has more
1:36:48regulated her and she's having her own
1:36:51periods now. And so I don't know what
1:36:54she's going to decide. She's going to be
1:36:5518 soon. And but I think what we should
1:36:58be telling our daughters is all the
1:37:01information so that they can make an
1:37:03educated decision because I just did
1:37:07what I was told
1:37:09>> and I'm a doctor and I and but I'm not
1:37:11an OB so I don't understand the nuances
1:37:13of what the pill is that it's synthetic
1:37:17that this is how it works this is what
1:37:19it doesn't do. So I would want to give
1:37:22my daughters all the information so that
1:37:25they can make an educated decision.
1:37:27>> So my oldest, the first one coming
1:37:29through, uh wanted it for contraception.
1:37:33And so when we talk about contraception,
1:37:35it's not just most people automatically
1:37:37think the oral birth control pill, but I
1:37:39did go through all of the options with
Should You Wear a Coil or IUD?
1:37:41her and then sent her to a trusted
1:37:43friend um to let her go and make her own
1:37:46decision. and she decided to have an an
1:37:48IUD inserted, which I thought was a
1:37:50great choice for her cuz she had normal
1:37:51regular periods before we did this.
1:37:53There were no issues. And she had it
1:37:56inserted and then within a week she
1:37:59started having severe cramping, called
1:38:01me into the bathroom. And this is my
1:38:02daughter who has not let me see her
1:38:04unclothed since she was 7 years old.
1:38:06She's just very private and she's like
1:38:08writhing on the floor. Bless her little
1:38:10heart. And she had expelled the IUD on
1:38:13her own. She had cramped it out uterus
1:38:16pushed it out of her body and it was
1:38:18extraordinarily painful and so we
1:38:20basically delivered the IUD on her
1:38:22bathroom.
1:38:22>> So do you know what an IUD is?
1:38:24>> Is not the coil
1:38:26>> is
1:38:26>> that's one form of an IUD. She had a
1:38:28different form but she basically pushed
1:38:31out her own IUD her uterus
1:38:32>> uterine device. So it's birth control
1:38:34that is placed inside the uterus
1:38:36>> and it's shaped like a tea.
1:38:37>> It is shaped like a most is shaped like
1:38:39a tea. the UK they use the coil still
1:38:42quite a bit which is copper and so um
1:38:45there's different there's different
1:38:46options for the IUD some contain
1:38:48progesterine some contain just the
1:38:50copper and so the way an IUD works is
1:38:53that it creates an inflammatory response
1:38:55in the uterus so that um the cervical
1:38:58mucus thickens so that when we are
1:39:01fertile in our for fertility window
1:39:03midcycle and jump in if I mess this up
1:39:05the mucus of the cervix thins to the
1:39:07point where sperm can actually get
1:39:08through most of the month probably 85 to
1:39:1190% of the month the sperm cannot
1:39:12traverse the cervix you cannot you know
1:39:15so in our fertility window right at
1:39:18ovulation the cervical mucus thins and
1:39:20then the sperm can transmit so the you
1:39:22the the presence of the IUD creates an
1:39:25inflammatory environment that will
1:39:26basically is toxic to sperm and thickens
1:39:28the cervical mucus where it becomes a
1:39:30plug that's how it works works very very
1:39:32well Katherine within a week her uterus
1:39:35ejected it so she cramped so much that
1:39:37it pushed it through and so that wasn't
1:39:40an option for her. She wasn't willing to
1:39:43go through that again. So then at that
1:39:45point she had to go through the hormonal
1:39:46options for for that and she decided to
1:39:50have the implant. So it's progesterone
1:39:52only implanted in her arm. Quickly we
1:39:55realized she needed some estrogen. So we
1:39:56she supplements estrogen on top of that.
1:39:59Stephen, I think the contraceptive
1:40:00discussion we have to say that there are
1:40:03options that are highly effective at
1:40:04preventing pregnancy and at some times
1:40:06in your life that is the number one most
1:40:08important goal and we need to choose a
1:40:10highly effective option. However,
1:40:13certain some of those options included
1:40:15have downstream impacts that have not
1:40:17been discussed about. The typical
1:40:18contraceptive discussion says here are
1:40:20some side effects you may have. If you
1:40:23want to still proceed, let's go for it.
1:40:25We're not talking about long-term
1:40:26implications of these. We're just
1:40:28talking about how you're going to feel,
1:40:29not exactly what is happening in your
1:40:31body. A lot of these contraceptive
1:40:33options are progesterone only. And so,
1:40:36you know, by your new favorite graph
1:40:38that you don't see progesterone every
1:40:40single day. So, when you have
1:40:42progesterone only, it is shifting your
1:40:45hormonal profile. And a lot of women,
1:40:47this progesterone is so high that it
1:40:49works by also preventing ovulation.
1:40:51Makes it highly effective. But if you're
1:40:53not ovulating, you're not going to be
1:40:55making those high estrogen levels. And
1:40:57Dr. Haver and I have even talked about
1:40:58how we wish there was a contraceptive
1:41:00option that had estradiol in it so that
1:41:04your body could still have some estradi.
1:41:06>> Estradiol. So this ethanol estradiol is
1:41:09very different than plain estradiol.
1:41:11They've they've put this estester group
1:41:12on the end which makes it bind to the
1:41:15estrogen receptor in the brain 300 times
A New Form of Contraceptive Pill
1:41:19more
1:41:20>> powerful
1:41:21>> powerful than regular estradile.
1:41:23>> Yeah.
1:41:24>> Which is why it's so effective. you know
1:41:25why we do it in a micro dose versus
1:41:27estradiol is dosed in milligrams and
1:41:30ethanol estradile is dosed in micrograms
1:41:32because it is that much more potent. Um
1:41:36so very very different. Now in the UK
1:41:38and in other places in Europe there is a
1:41:40new form of contraception that has
1:41:42asteratrol which is the fetal estrogen.
1:41:45So we have four natural estrogens in the
1:41:46body. The ovary produces estradile.
1:41:49That's the one we all know. It it it's
1:41:51really the biggest bang for our buck.
1:41:52The placenta produces something called
1:41:54estriol. Our fat cells and in the
1:41:57peripheral tissues, the tissues outside
1:41:59of the ovaries can produce something
1:42:00called estrone. And then we have this
1:42:03fetal estrogen called eststeratrol, if
1:42:06I'm pronouncing it correctly. And so
1:42:08they've they've compounded they've been
1:42:09able to formulate that. Um, so it is one
1:42:12of the natural estrogens and they've put
1:42:14it in a birth control pill that is
1:42:15available in the UK.
1:42:16>> If you were 18, what choice would you
1:42:18make for contraception? No,
1:42:20>> studies have proven within a shadow of a
1:42:23doubt that relying on natural family
1:42:25planning at most ages is not a reliable
1:42:28form of contraception. So I would not
1:42:30recommend that and relying on condoms.
1:42:32>> What do you mean by natur relying on
1:42:34natural family?
1:42:34>> So you timing your intercourse.
1:42:36>> Oh okay.
1:42:37>> So cycle tracking we know that the
1:42:38fertile window is the 5 days before and
1:42:40the day of ovulation
1:42:42>> 5 days before
1:42:43>> 5 days before and then the day of. Sperm
1:42:44can live for 5 days in the female
1:42:46reproductive tract. The egg lives for 24
1:42:48hours. So on this graph, where is
1:42:50>> Yep. So the line right is ovulation and
1:42:53then the 5 days before.
1:42:54>> Yeah.
1:42:54>> Yeah. So in popular culture, you would
1:42:56call that natural family planning.
1:42:58>> Okay. Fine.
1:42:59>> Avoiding intercourse.
1:43:00>> Abstaining any time in that window.
1:43:03>> But but if I if I'm trying to get male
1:43:05pregnant, then I should really be
1:43:06aiming.
1:43:06>> Yeah. Those are your target days.
1:43:07>> Yeah.
1:43:08>> There apps for that you can track.
1:43:09>> Yeah.
1:43:10>> Oh, I've got the app. Yeah.
1:43:11>> Okay.
1:43:12>> Oh, he knows. Remember the variability.
1:43:15>> He's made download it nine times.
1:43:17There's a few different ways you can do
1:43:19natural family planning to hijack the
1:43:20discussion for a minute and they have
1:43:22different degrees of effectiveness, but
1:43:24one of the main issues is that they have
1:43:26very large abstinence windows. So, it's
1:43:28often not very sustainable to say,
1:43:30"Well, we're just not going to have
1:43:31intercourse for 18 days out of the month
The Best Contraceptive Method
1:43:33or some very long time period, depending
1:43:35on which one, because your cycle's never
1:43:38perfect. What if you did ovulate sooner?
1:43:41If this is all you're relying on for
1:43:43your prevention of pregnancy, you have
1:43:45to really assure that you know when that
1:43:47ovulation is happening, it can be an
1:43:50effective way to prevent pregnancy if
1:43:52your cycles are very regular. But in my
1:43:54brain, I wish that's what you stop the
1:43:57birth control pill at least 6 months
1:43:58before you want to get pregnant. And
1:44:00then you start learning how to track
1:44:01your cycles and you're using some
1:44:03natural family planning if you're not
1:44:04quite ready then because the margin of
1:44:07error, oopsies, it didn't work. the
1:44:09acceptance of well we were going to try
1:44:11to get pregnant soon is usually okay.
1:44:14It's not an effective contraception for
1:44:16most of the population. We have to
1:44:18factor in when we're looking at, you
1:44:20know, I was trained and taught to only
1:44:22look at birth control through the lens
1:44:24of contraception, right? We know that
1:44:26they might have some weird bleeding and
1:44:27maybe a few headaches. And for some a
1:44:29DVT, if they have, you know, deep venus
1:44:31thrombosis, you can have blood clots.
1:44:32It'll increase your risk, especially if
1:44:34you have a pre-genetic disposition to
1:44:36that. But what we didn't talk about were
1:44:38mental health, mood, and some of the
1:44:39long downstream libido effects. So,
1:44:43>> of of taking,
1:44:44>> right? And so then I'm looking at it
1:44:46through the lens of, you know, if I'm
1:44:48only looking at on the lens of she
1:44:50doesn't want to be pregnant
1:44:52younger patient. So you're talking about
1:44:5418 is less likely to remember to do
1:44:56something every day.
1:44:58>> Correct.
1:44:58>> Okay.
1:44:59>> So then to take the impetus of
1:45:01remembering to take a pill every day or
1:45:03change a patch once a week um for the
1:45:06patch option. Then we're looking at
1:45:08maybe a vaginal ring that she inserts
1:45:10for 3 weeks and removes for one for her
1:45:12period.
1:45:13>> Pick one. If I had to pick one right
1:45:15now, if I was if it was available in the
1:45:17US, I think I would go with the
1:45:20Asteratrol.
1:45:21>> What's that
1:45:22>> option? That's the one she's saying is
1:45:23in the UK, a newer option that we don't
1:45:25have. No, it's still a pill. It's still
1:45:26a pill. Yeah. And it's it's because it
1:45:29it more
1:45:31>> it looks like so far it's newer that it
1:45:34has less of the downstream effects. So
1:45:36you're not having that complete
1:45:38suppression, you know, that complete
1:45:40binding and it's it's, you know, may
1:45:43have and also probably has less risk of
1:45:46um DVT of blood.
1:45:49>> I'll jump on this. I do not love
1:45:51intrauterine device for a patient who is
1:45:5418 for a multitude of reasons. Now, I'm
1:45:56going to preface this to say it is an
1:45:59highly effective contraceptive choice.
1:46:01It's one of the most effective ones that
1:46:02we have. And so there are certainly
1:46:04circumstances where that is the right
1:46:06thing to do. We've had IUDs in practice
1:46:09for a really long time. For the majority
1:46:11of this, we were only placing them in
1:46:13women after they had given birth at
1:46:14least once because of their size and
1:46:17being able to pass them through the
1:46:18cervix. Now we have different options
1:46:20and we are offering them to women
1:46:21younger, which is wonderful. However,
1:46:25when we're putting IUDs in the uterus of
1:46:27women who are really young, sometimes
1:46:29the progesterone dose in them is so high
1:46:30that it is preventing ovulation. And we
1:46:33are seeing young women who are not
1:46:35ovulating and they are not making
1:46:36estrogen therefore and they don't even
1:46:39really realize it because
1:46:41that's not disclosed as one of the main
1:46:44mechanisms of a progesterone IUD because
1:46:46it doesn't happen in enough people to
1:46:48effectively prevent conception that way.
1:46:51It works through the inflammation, the
1:46:53cervical mucus changes.
1:46:54>> And why does that matter? Because if you
1:46:56are not ovulating and you're not making
1:46:58estrogen, you are going to have low
1:47:00libido, low energy, you're not going to
1:47:02build your bones during critical years.
1:47:04Let's say let's say the IUD lasts 5 to
1:47:07seven years. You're 18 to 25. These are
1:47:09some of the most critical years in your
1:47:12mental health, your bone health, your
1:47:13cardiac health. And being low estrogen
1:47:16during that time
1:47:17>> is going to set you up on a different
1:47:20risk trajectory for your entire life.
1:47:22And the worst thing here about the
1:47:24progesterone IUD is that because of the
1:47:27progesterone, which will thin the
1:47:29lining, many women just say, "I don't
1:47:31have my period because my lining is so
1:47:34thin." And that's a side effect of the
1:47:36IUD. If that same woman was not
1:47:39ovulating, and came to me and said, "I
1:47:41haven't had a period in 7 years, and I
1:47:44knew she was low estrogen and not
1:47:45ovulating." We're highly concerned about
1:47:48her health. But because she has an IUD,
1:47:50what happens? Well, that's a side effect
1:47:52of IUD. No big deal.
1:47:54>> So, we're missing the moment to
1:47:56understand where are some of these
1:47:58symptoms just side effect of the IUD or
1:48:01are they having a much bigger role in
1:48:05what's going to happen to that woman's
1:48:06long-term trajectory for being low
1:48:08estrogen during crucial years? And I'll
1:48:11say this, Stephen, I'm very biased,
1:48:12right? I'm a fertility doctor. I see
1:48:14patients who have trouble getting
1:48:16pregnant. That is a narrow subset. That
1:48:18is not the majority of women who have
1:48:20IUDs.
1:48:21>> So, what would you suggest if you had to
1:48:22pick one contraceptive?
1:48:24>> Vasectomy.
1:48:27>> Yeah,
1:48:27>> I would still do I would still do the
1:48:29pill right now. The pill or the vaginal
1:48:30ring? You know, I think they are both
1:48:32depending on somebody's personal
1:48:33preference. I just think that it's
1:48:36really important if you're using the
1:48:37birth control pill. I do think it's
1:48:39important to give your brain a break
1:48:41from the pill at times and even if
1:48:43you're cycling it monthly, you there's
1:48:44options now. I took the pill, an active
1:48:47pill. every single day for for years, a
1:48:52decade probably, meaning suppressed my
1:48:55brain completely for that long. Now,
1:48:59your brain sends out hormone signals
1:49:01that impact your entire body, right? So,
1:49:03we already talked about the hormones and
1:49:04how it's this beautifully conducted
1:49:06symphony. But if you even if you're
1:49:09going to take the pill at that young
1:49:10age, I would say take it so that you
1:49:13have the seven days of not t not taking
1:49:15a pill. let your brain have a moment of
1:49:17release from the suppression and then
1:49:19take it again. That's still a very
1:49:20effective way to use the pill. But
1:49:22because women don't love having periods,
1:49:24we've offered these other options which
1:49:26are not wrong, but they just have a
1:49:29bigger consequence downstream
1:49:33than we're talking about. But the pill
1:49:34is very short acting. It only has a
1:49:36halfife of 28 hours, meaning it is out
1:49:38of your body very quickly. So, you do
1:49:40want to stop the pill and see what is
1:49:42happening and track your cycles. That is
1:49:44something nice about it versus an
1:49:46implant or an IUD. That is
1:49:48>> fit and forget.
1:49:49>> The fit and forgets that people like
1:49:51>> set it and forget.
1:49:52>> Yeah.
1:49:52>> Yeah. The question that came in from the
1:49:5410,00 women we spoke to in the diarrhea
1:49:56audience was, is there any way to
1:49:58control hormonal mood swings during the
1:50:00luil phase of the menstrual cycle, which
1:50:02I now know is the second phase of the
1:50:05menstrual cycle.
1:50:05>> Stephen, you've learned so much. Yes,
1:50:07>> that's great. I love that. In the ludal
1:50:09phase, we do tend to see more mood
1:50:11changes and physical changes. And a lot
1:50:13of this is because we have an increase
1:50:16in estrogen and progesterone and then a
1:50:18decrease in both of these hormones. And
1:50:21what we find is that some women are
1:50:22simply more sensitive to these changes.
1:50:25They feel them quite profoundly. And
1:50:27there's even something called PMDD,
1:50:29premenstrual dysphoric disorder, which
1:50:30is when those hormones are dropping. You
1:50:33get these terrible mood swings, this
1:50:35terrible depression and anxiety in
1:50:36addition to physical changes with
1:50:38terrible fatigue. You just feel like you
1:50:41can't accomplish any of your tasks,
1:50:42insomnia, quite similar to a lot of the
1:50:45things that we talk about anytime we
1:50:46talk about a low estrogen state,
1:50:48>> right? Like po we see it in um
1:50:51postpartum depression. It's a very
1:50:53similar and in the permenopause
1:50:55transition, we have a 40% increase in
1:50:58mental health changes. And we know this
1:51:01>> because women tell us and we believe
1:51:03them. But what's happening is that our
1:51:05neurotransmitters, especially GABA,
1:51:07serotonin, and dopamine levels are
1:51:10highly tied to what our hormone levels
1:51:12are doing.
1:51:13>> Yeah. So is this
1:51:16>> is the mood swing or is the is the
1:51:20what's the right term to describe a mood
1:51:22when someone doesn't feel great?
1:51:24>> Dysphoria.
1:51:24>> Dysphoria
1:51:25>> is the deoria mood after the period or
1:51:28before it.
1:51:29>> It's often it's before. So the estrogen
1:51:31is dropping before and it stays low
1:51:33through. So what happens is about the
1:51:35week before your period and then the
1:51:37week we'll say of your period you are
1:51:39estrogen low. The rise of estrogen from
1:51:42that next egg being recruited is
1:51:43actually what stops you from bleeding
1:51:45and helps you start to feel better.
1:51:47Because of this, a lot of people will
1:51:48throw a birth control pill at this
1:51:50situation because they will say, "I will
1:51:52give you constant hormone levels every
1:51:54day and now you will not have these PMDD
1:51:57symptoms anymore." However, a lot of
1:51:59women don't want to be on the pill for a
1:52:01variety of the different reasons we've
1:52:02talked about. They just feel bad, let's
1:52:04say, this week or this 7 to 10 day
1:52:06interval. They don't want to suppress
1:52:08ovulation. I find that a lowd dose
1:52:10estrogen in the ludial phase can be very
1:52:12effective in targeting after ovulation.
1:52:15I'm going to take some estrogen helping
1:52:17alleviate these symptoms without
1:52:19interfering with ovulatory function. But
1:52:22I was trained to give them an SSRI for
1:52:24those 7 to 10 days.
1:52:25>> An anti-depressant pill.
1:52:26>> Yes, an anti-depressant only for those
1:52:28two weeks. Saraphim was that the brand
1:52:30name of it. And it does tend to help.
1:52:33But what no one taught me and what
1:52:35clinical experience has taught me and
1:52:37talking to all these other smart people
1:52:39is a lowd dose estrogen like
1:52:42>> treating the root cause
1:52:43>> treating the root cause. Just just give
1:52:45her estrogen back during that time
1:52:47period and she gets remarkably better.
1:52:49>> In some of the nutrition research
1:52:51finding that low iron and low vitamin D
1:52:54are huge contributors to it. So there's
1:52:57that research to investigate too, which
1:52:59is interesting because there are some
1:53:01women also who don't want to go on SSRI
1:53:04or
1:53:04>> estradile.
1:53:05>> So, you know, the endocrine society does
1:53:08not recommend routine testing of vitamin
1:53:10D.
1:53:10>> It's crazy. I I just think it's insane.
1:53:12>> Yeah.
1:53:12>> With my partner, I should anticipate
1:53:14that her mood might drop in the leadup
1:53:16to her having her period.
1:53:18>> Mhm. It's very common.
1:53:19>> And then after her period, it would
1:53:21might recover. And whether or not that
1:53:23becomes clinically significant, whether
1:53:25or not it's life disruptive for her
1:53:26rather than she just has a little bit of
1:53:28a low mood, most women can tolerate
1:53:29that. But for those who can't and that
1:53:32it is disrupting their day-to-day
1:53:34activities and how they feel about the
1:53:36world, we have options.
1:53:38>> Yeah.
1:53:39>> Cuz I'm trying to understand I want to
1:53:40understand her better. So I'm looking at
1:53:42this little graph here which says the
1:53:44brain during the menstrual cycle. So the
1:53:47menstrual cycle starts when her period
1:53:49starts
1:53:50>> by convention. Yes. That's what we say.
1:53:51Day one is the first day you start
1:53:52bleeding.
1:53:53>> Okay. And so what is she going to go
1:53:55through for the next 29 days? And how
1:53:57might I support her better through that
1:53:59journey?
1:54:00>> Like I want to understand what's going
1:54:01on in her brain.
1:54:02>> Her brain starts by s from a
1:54:05reproductive hormone level. The brain
1:54:06starts by sending out FSH, follical
1:54:08stimulating hormone, which is going to
1:54:10get her ovary to start growing an egg
1:54:13which lives inside a follicle and making
1:54:15estrogen. And that rise in estrogen as
1:54:17it's growing will stop her from
1:54:18bleeding. So the beginning that cycle
1:54:20day one, the bleeding that she's
1:54:22experiencing or her period is because
1:54:25she didn't get pregnant in the month
1:54:26before. So it's getting rid of that
1:54:28indometrial lining, cleaning the slate.
1:54:30She's estrogen and progesterone low
1:54:32during that time period. And then once
1:54:34her bleeding stops, it's because an egg
1:54:36has been chosen. Estrogen is then going
1:54:38to rise until it gets to that peak
1:54:40level. During that time, she's going to
1:54:42feel her best for most women.
1:54:44>> So is that the first 14 days? So the
1:54:46week by convention if you had a 28 day
1:54:48cycle which only about 13% of women
1:54:51actually do but all of these graphs if
1:54:53you look at usually use 28 days because
1:54:54it's easy to go week by week
1:54:57>> and that's the lunar calendar.
1:54:58>> Yeah 28 days.
1:55:00>> We see that but we have to acknowledge
1:55:01that most women don't have a 28 day
1:55:03cycle. So but it is roughly the first
1:55:06two weeks for most women to get up to
1:55:08that ovulatory time period. So the time
1:55:10from I have started bleeding until I am
1:55:13now ovulating, that is all considered
1:55:15the follicular phase.
1:55:17>> And on this little image that I have in
1:55:19front of me here, it says in those first
1:55:2014 days, she's going to have better
1:55:22spatial skills and be more anxious.
1:55:24>> So once you get to your estrogen
1:55:26dominant, so you have a lot of estrogen
1:55:29and you don't have progesterone, most
1:55:30women can are have increased
1:55:32concentration. They have more focus.
1:55:34They actually can sleep better. They
1:55:35have higher libido. you feel like your
1:55:38performance even for athletes
1:55:39performance tends to be improved
1:55:40aggression concentration more yeah
1:55:43>> during what we call the late follicular
1:55:44phase so that means the time period when
1:55:46you're really making that estrogen let's
1:55:48call it days 7 to 14 for ease so I'm now
1:55:52done bleeding a follicle is growing
1:55:54meaning an egg is making enough estrogen
1:55:56to stop that bleeding I've not yet
1:55:58ovulated and seen progesterone this is
1:56:00where we typically have our best
1:56:02performance overall from how our body is
1:56:04functioning
1:56:06>> and then From day 14 onwards,
1:56:09I'm she's going to be calmer.
1:56:11>> Well, progesterone slows your body's
1:56:13metabolism down. It It's preparing you
1:56:15for that pregnancy. Calmer is a nice way
1:56:18to put it, but essentially, your
1:56:20metabolic rate is going to change. Your
1:56:22body's going to shift how it functions.
1:56:23Many women actually have fatigue.
1:56:26They're hungry. Specifically in the
1:56:28brain, progesterone levels as they rise,
1:56:31we see an increase in GABA, which is a
1:56:33neurotransmitter, one of our brain
1:56:34hormone, one of our brain, you know,
1:56:36hormones that talks, you know, jumps
1:56:39between one one neuron to the other. And
1:56:41that is more of a calming hormone. So
1:56:43women tend to we see sleep changes more.
1:56:46You see deeper sleep, longer sleep in
1:56:48that ludial phase.
1:56:50>> She's and on this it says she's going to
1:56:52have she's going to be horny for day 14.
1:56:54I don't know how else to say it.
1:56:55>> Because she has an egg available
1:56:57>> because that's that peak estrogen. That
1:56:58estrogen level of 200 pograms is
1:57:01heightening everything. To have peak
1:57:03libido when an egg is released, the body
1:57:05is made that way on purpose.
1:57:06>> This is a bit off script, but my
1:57:09girlfriend always talks about her HRV
Wearables
1:57:12>> being very different. And so she she has
1:57:15really great HRV scores and then once
1:57:18every month for a period of time they're
1:57:21terrible and she can't explain it. So
1:57:23this is where wearables come into play.
1:57:25>> Yeah.
1:57:25>> So wearables are not designed to capture
1:57:28women's physiology. So what happens
1:57:30after ovulation is your respiratory rate
1:57:32goes up, your resting heart rate goes
1:57:34up, and your HRV plummets. So on the
1:57:37wearables, most women about 5 days
1:57:39before their periods start will never be
1:57:42in the clear, so to speak. They will
1:57:44never look recovered. They will never
1:57:47look like they can take on a lot of
1:57:48stress. They're not stress resilient
1:57:51because of the way the algorithms are
1:57:52reading this change that is natural that
1:57:55is produced by progesterone to alter our
1:57:58respiratory rate and our heart rate. It
1:58:01doesn't mean that she's not stress
1:58:02resilient is what the wearable is
1:58:04saying.
1:58:05>> Ah cuz she came downstairs and she said,
1:58:08"Oh god, my recovery is so bad." And
1:58:11then I think a couple of days later, a
1:58:14little while later, she had a period.
1:58:15I'm not sure. I can't remember the time
1:58:17frames, but she came downstairs and she
1:58:18was like shocked that she had done
1:58:19everything right,
1:58:20>> but her recovery on on her wearable said
1:58:22that she was in terrible state.
1:58:25>> This is why we do not let athletes use
1:58:27wearables leading up to a peak event
1:58:30because they feed into what the wearable
1:58:33respond or telling them and it's not
1:58:36true data with regards to how their body
1:58:39can actually perform. So wearables data
1:58:43masters then need to segate segregate
1:58:46populations and make new norms for women
1:58:50and maybe new norms for different
1:58:52fitness levels of women.
1:58:53>> Exactly. I've always been pushing for
1:58:55the past five or six years interacting
1:58:57with wearable companies is like if you
1:58:59want to capture it well then you need to
1:59:02be able to compare follicular to
1:59:03follicular and ludial to ludal.
1:59:06>> What does that mean? So comparing
1:59:08>> like we know your HIV is going to be
1:59:10different in your follicular phase.
1:59:13This is not a bad thing.
1:59:14>> People could could theoretically do that
1:59:15on their wearables and look at the
1:59:17previous month and see the the level
1:59:19you're at then theoretically. Obviously
1:59:20the wearable companies could do a lot
1:59:22more here to to
1:59:23>> definitely helpful but no you then it
1:59:25comes back again on the woman trying to
1:59:27understand and interpret the data
1:59:29herself which can be a little bit
1:59:32problematic because there's so many
1:59:34women out there like my wearable told me
1:59:36that I'm in the red I can't do anything
1:59:39today when in fact physically and
1:59:42psychologically they can do what they
1:59:44set out to do. It's just now they have
1:59:46this little seed saying that no, you
1:59:49can't do it because of an improper
1:59:52algorithm on their wearable.
1:59:55>> Probably a good time to disclose that
1:59:56I'm an investor in
2:00:00push.
2:00:00>> Okay.
2:00:00>> Yeah,
2:00:01>> I will send this to them.
2:00:02>> Please. Yeah.
2:00:03>> You wear Do you wear any devices to
2:00:05track your health data?
2:00:08>> I wear I wear a CGM and a Whoop.
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2:02:11close off on the subject of fertility
2:02:12because it was um heavily asked by our
2:02:15audience and I I guess I'm well placed
2:02:18to ask some of these questions because
2:02:19I'm in that journey myself of trying to
2:02:21have a child at the moment. Natalie, you
2:02:23have five fertility non-negotiables that
2:02:25you talk about.
2:02:26>> I do and I think it's really important
2:02:28to think about
2:02:31for too long we've been told, you know,
The 5 Fertility Non-Negotiables
2:02:33your fertility is luck. It's good luck
2:02:34if you get pregnant. It's bad luck if
2:02:36it's not. And that's this narrative that
2:02:38gets propagated. And fertility is
2:02:40certainly not fair. Meaning people will
2:02:42have infertility and do everything
2:02:44right. But there are things that we do
2:02:46that will inherently also harm our
2:02:48fertility and our hormonal health and
2:02:50make it harder to get pregnant. And
2:02:52that's even when we are doing
2:02:54treatments. So a lot of times people
2:02:56say, "I'm doing IVF so I don't need to
2:02:58worry about these non-negotiables." And
2:03:00that's also not true. meaning things
2:03:02that we need to do. We need to, as we've
2:03:05all said, get more sleep. That's going
2:03:06to be number one. We need to actively
2:03:09work to decrease stress. That is not a
2:03:12I'm just going to live a stress-free
2:03:13life. But all these things I'm going to
2:03:15not take call. I'm going to set some
2:03:16boundaries and not have late meetings.
2:03:18I'm going to see morning light. I'm
2:03:19going to take a walk outside. We live in
2:03:21a stressful world and chronic stress
2:03:23itself can impact your fertility, your
2:03:26natural fertility, and IVF success
2:03:28rates. We're going to work on exercise
2:03:30to build muscle and try to improve our
2:03:34muscular health since it's part of our
2:03:36metabolism. We're going to eat an
2:03:37anti-inflammatory diet. That's
2:03:39definitely key, high in fiber. And we're
2:03:41going to look at the world around us and
2:03:43work on pulling toxins out of our world
2:03:45that we know we haven't even entered the
2:03:47discussion about how environmental
2:03:49toxins is harming our body, our hormonal
2:03:51health, our fertility, our ovaries, our
2:03:53organs. And so these are all things that
2:03:55we make active choices on that we have
2:03:57to start paying attention to and kind of
2:03:59changing.
2:04:00>> We'll go into detail in the lifestyle
2:04:03factors and the environmental toxins um
2:04:05in our second episode together. I I've
2:04:07always been quite shocked by this graph
2:04:08because it's quite um
2:04:10>> quite significant. This is just showing
2:04:11the
2:04:12>> um egg count by age. Slide that into
2:04:16that direction. um what do men and women
2:04:19need to understand about egg counts in
2:04:21order to make better family planning and
Should I Freeze My Eggs?
2:04:23fertility decisions?
2:04:24>> Okay. Well, I've asked you this last
2:04:25time. So, Stephen, how many sperm do you
2:04:28make a second?
2:04:30>> Millions.
2:04:31>> You make 1500 a second. You mean you
2:04:33make millions every day? Is okay. But
2:04:36still, you still you make a ton of
2:04:37sperm. You make sperm every single day.
2:04:39You have germ cells that create sperm.
2:04:41Women are born with all the eggs you're
2:04:43ever going to have. And yes, my favorite
2:04:45vault analogy. So, I like to imagine
2:04:47that this is a vault inside your ovary
2:04:49that is storing all of your eggs. And
2:04:51so, we'll use this cup with all of the
2:04:53beads as that analogy. And every single
2:04:56month, since before you are born, eggs
2:04:58come out of this vault. And what happens
2:05:00is that when the vault is more full,
2:05:02more eggs come out every month. And as
2:05:04the vault starts to get emptier, fewer
2:05:06come out. And this means that we lose
2:05:09the majority of our eggs, you can see
2:05:10the line, well before our reproductive
2:05:13years even start. So you lose the most
2:05:15before you're born. So from being a
2:05:175-month baby to birth, your egg count
2:05:18goes from 6 to 7 million to 1 to 2
2:05:20million.
2:05:22>> Millions of eggs lost before you're even
2:05:23born. From birth to puberty, let's say
2:05:26you go from 1 to 2 million to half a
2:05:28million to simplify numbers. So, the
2:05:30second biggest drop before you're ever
2:05:32ovulating, before you ever have a chance
2:05:33to get pregnant, and then you only
2:05:35ovulate around 400 eggs over the course
2:05:37of your reproductive lifespan, as that
2:05:40egg count starts to drop over time, the
2:05:43other really, really big important
2:05:44factor is that our eggs have been in our
2:05:46body our whole life. Two different
2:05:48things are happening at the same time.
2:05:50One is that our chromosomes start to
2:05:52leave their perfect position. They
2:05:54absorb the wear and tear of years. So we
2:05:57see more chromosome abnormalities as we
2:05:59get older. It's why it's harder to get
2:06:01pregnant and why we see an increase in
2:06:02miscarriage as we age. But also
2:06:05concurrently our metabolic health is
2:06:07poor as we are older too. And
2:06:09mitochondrial function in eggs. The
2:06:11metabolic capacity becomes less capable.
2:06:14And so we see that it's harder to get
2:06:16pregnant not because women are running
2:06:17out of eggs but because the quality of
2:06:19the eggs declines. But everybody will
2:06:21run out of eggs. You'll have a period of
2:06:24time where you have a very low egg
2:06:25count. We call it diminished ovarian
2:06:27reserve in the fertility world. We call
2:06:28it perry menopause more globally. And
2:06:31this this is two words to describe the
2:06:33same thing. As your egg count starts to
2:06:35get very low, you start to have an
2:06:36unpredictable response to your ovary and
2:06:39your brain is trying to compensate for
2:06:41that. And so you see various hormone
2:06:44changes, but these start before you
2:06:46might recognize even menstrual cycle
2:06:48changes. But everybody will run out of
2:06:50eggs. Every woman will. your ovaries
2:06:52will go into what we call ovarian
2:06:54failure and no longer respond to
2:06:55hormonal signals from the brain or
2:06:57artificial signals that we give.
2:06:59Meaning, I will see older women come in
2:07:01and think that I have magic medicines
2:07:02with IVF that can still help them get
2:07:04pregnant, but I can only get the eggs
2:07:07outside the vault to grow in IVF. And
2:07:10>> so, shouldn't we then be freezing our
2:07:12eggs?
2:07:12>> You're right. As a society, if we are
2:07:14purposely delaying childbearing, we know
2:07:17that it gets harder to get pregnant with
2:07:18age. And if having kids is a life goal,
2:07:21putting eggs into the freezer earlier is
2:07:23a way to save that opportunity. It's not
2:07:26an insurance plan. It's not a guarantee,
2:07:29but it is a smart game plan, especially
2:07:32as we are waiting longer. Because even
2:07:35with IVF, we can't always overcome age
2:07:37related infertility if we have fewer
2:07:39eggs and more genetic abnormalities. The
2:07:42technology helps us identify healthy
2:07:44eggs, helps us have more eggs, able to
2:07:47grow in a certain month and take them
2:07:48out and test embryos in a lab, but I'm
2:07:51working with the eggs and sperm that
2:07:52you're giving me. Meaning, if there's
2:07:53not many of them, if there's a lot of
2:07:54chromosomeal damage, if there's a lot of
2:07:56mitochondrial dysfunction, if the sperm
2:07:59quality is not great, that doesn't mean
2:08:00we're going to be able to have success.
2:08:02So, what you're doing on a daily basis
2:08:04to impact egg and sperm quality is still
2:08:07crucial. But egg freezing has gotten a
2:08:10lot of bad rap. It's still a new
2:08:12technology. It's only been around about
2:08:1310 years off experimental purposes.
2:08:16Meaning that women who froze their egg
2:08:1810 years ago, you know, they have much
2:08:20poorer egg survival rates. They were
2:08:22older at the time. Their experience is
2:08:25very different than the modern woman who
2:08:27is freezing her eggs now, maybe in her
2:08:29upper 20s or early 30s.
2:08:30>> What is the optimal age? If you are want
2:08:32to have a child as a life goal and
2:08:34you're not ready to conceive by age 32,
2:08:36that is when there's a clear delineation
2:08:39that it makes smarter financial sense as
2:08:42well as likelihood sense. The short
2:08:45answer like my daughter will freeze her
2:08:47eggs in her 20s. The younger you are,
2:08:49the more eggs that you have. If she
2:08:50says, "I want to have kids as a life
2:08:52goal," then that will be something that
2:08:54we will do in order to help her keep
2:08:57that because there's so many other
2:08:59variables which impact your ability to
2:09:01get pregnant or your egg count.
2:09:03Endometriosis decreases your egg count,
2:09:05right? People will develop an ovarian
2:09:07cyst and they'll have
2:09:08>> surgery,
2:09:08>> surgery, they'll have a twisting of
2:09:10their ovary and maybe they'll lose an
2:09:11ovary,
2:09:12>> smoking, chemo, radiation,
2:09:14>> smoking, marijuana, any abdominal
2:09:15surgery. So many things can impact your
2:09:18your eggs because you only have this
2:09:19group. You're born with them. So we we
2:09:23plan for life goals differently. And
2:09:25we've never really talked about our
2:09:26fertility life goals until more
2:09:28recently. Meaning when we went
2:09:30professional career, right? We knew what
2:09:32we had to do to get into medical school,
2:09:33to get into residency, to get your PhD,
2:09:34you had this list of things and you set
2:09:36goals and you worked to achieve them.
2:09:38But I always wanted to be a mom. Yet, I
2:09:41already told you I took a birth control
2:09:42pill every single day and I didn't even
2:09:44think about it until that moment was in
2:09:46front of me. And that's the part of the
2:09:48discussion that we do have to start to
2:09:49have earlier is if this is a life goal
2:09:51for you, what do we need to do?
2:09:54Understand our body better, our
2:09:55fertility better, and maybe that does
2:09:57include freezing eggs because it does
2:09:59give many women an opportunity that time
2:10:02would eliminate.
2:10:04I had a conversation with you Natalie on
2:10:07the podcast but then many other women
2:10:08over the course of the last two to three
2:10:10years and one of the things that I
2:10:12learned from that was that we as you say
2:10:14we don't family plan and then we have to
2:10:16deal with the consequences of not family
2:10:17planning. So, as an interviewer, when I
2:10:19do life story episodes, I go through a
2:10:20woman's life story. And obviously, the
2:10:22women that's sitting in front of me are
2:10:23typically high performers, high
2:10:24achievers in some capacity. And then we
2:10:26arrive at the end of the conversation
2:10:27when we talk about family and kids and
2:10:31all those kinds of things. And there's
2:10:32often a lot of tears. And it was in
2:10:34those conversations sitting here with
2:10:36several women that were on the show.
2:10:38What was the straw that broke the
2:10:39camel's back? It was the UFC fighter
2:10:42Ronda Rousey. It just so happened that
2:10:45when I interviewed her, she had just
2:10:48found out that her seventh round of IVF
2:10:51had failed. And so she was very, very
2:10:53emotional. I left that interview and had
2:10:55a conversation with my girlfriend. I was
2:10:56like, "Listen, I've I've seen too many
2:10:58of um too many women over the age of 35,
2:11:02maybe sort of under the age of 50, but
2:11:04really under the age of 45 in tears in
2:11:07front of me. I think we should have a
2:11:09conversation about this. Should we
2:11:10freeze our eggs?" I mean, me and my
2:11:12partner are both 33 now. And um at first
2:11:18I don't know, maybe it was the way I
2:11:19worded it.
2:11:22>> She was offended.
2:11:23>> She was like, "You don't want to have a
2:11:24baby with me?"
2:11:25>> It was like Yeah. It was like, "You
2:11:26don't want to have sex with me?" Like I
2:11:29like didn't word it well. Like I didn't
2:11:30I didn't really think I didn't really
2:11:32think about the emotions surrounding it.
2:11:33I think that was really what it
2:11:34>> You were trying to make a pragmatic
2:11:35decision.
2:11:35>> Yeah. I was as men often do. Like I was
2:11:37just like we should free but I didn't
2:11:39think about what that meant. And there's
2:11:40this this prevailing narrative in
2:11:42society that if something's not quote
2:11:43unquote natural, then it's not good.
2:11:48>> And that IVF or egg freezing is not
2:11:50natural.
2:11:51>> And that like torments people's brains
2:11:53because they want to live a natural life
2:11:55even though they're in like [ __ ]
2:11:56planes and on on iPhones. We want this
2:11:58one area of our life to be
2:11:59>> natural. And after honestly five minutes
2:12:03of that conversation,
2:12:05I think the framing that m flipped her
2:12:08mood was that wouldn't we want to give
2:12:10ourselves the option,
2:12:11>> right?
2:12:11>> And it's actually about having options.
2:12:13But I wanted to throw that out there
2:12:14because, you know, I don't think people
2:12:16family plan. I think as you said, we
2:12:18focus on our careers, then we pop up at
2:12:2035, 36, 37 and assume that we can.
2:12:23>> Mhm.
2:12:23>> But that is not the case.
2:12:24>> Yeah. Especially if you live a healthy
2:12:25life, you you think, "Oh, this will be
2:12:27easy for me." or if you're a high
2:12:29achiever and you've achieved other
2:12:31things, many women are really taken
2:12:35aback by not being able to achieve this
2:12:38or not having control over infertility
2:12:41and what is a natural process to run out
2:12:44of eggs and to go into menopause. If you
2:12:47are lucky to live long enough, this is
2:12:49going to happen. I got my diagnosis of
2:12:52PCOS in medical school before I was
2:12:55ready to start, you know, family
2:12:57planning. And I knew I was probably
2:13:00going to struggle. And so it took us
2:13:03about 3 years to successfully conceive
2:13:06the first time. And
2:13:09you can't even though I'm working in the
2:13:11business, you know, I'm running between
2:13:13patients to go and have another
2:13:14ultrasound or go get a shot or go do all
2:13:17the things that it took, you know, you
2:13:19you can't remove the emotion from it.
2:13:21And I can't tell you how many times I
2:13:23cried. And of course, all of my
2:13:25co-residents, my four best friends, all
2:13:27got pregnant in succession, our poor
2:13:29chief residents, and with no trouble,
2:13:32you know, and even like crying to my
2:13:33mother about the struggles I was having,
2:13:36she's like, I just I got pregnant eight
2:13:38times with no trouble, you know, and
2:13:39then my first pregnancy resulted in a
2:13:41miscarriage and, you know, in the middle
2:13:44of work and all my friends were there
2:13:45and they were cheering. They were so
2:13:46excited I was finally pregnant and then
2:13:48we lost the baby and you know and having
2:13:51to like push through and work through
2:13:52it's like it was yesterday like you know
2:13:55I have two healthy kids thank God and
2:13:56you know we were never after those two
2:13:58we tried again we were never able to get
2:14:00pregnant again which you know I had two
2:14:01kids and put a bow on it and we're done
2:14:03but it is impossible to remove the
2:14:06emotion because
2:14:09you because in the mindset it's luck or
2:14:12it's something we did
2:14:14>> we caused this and it's I you know as a
2:14:19high performing you know someone who's
2:14:21like you check all the boxes and you
2:14:23make all the good grades and you do
2:14:24everything right and this is the one
2:14:25thing that suddenly you didn't think
2:14:27much about and then it becomes
2:14:29everything
2:14:31when that ch that that becomes hard or
2:14:33it's taken away from you but I think
2:14:35women assume that it's our burden
2:14:39>> because we assume that if we can't
2:14:41conceive it's just us or something But I
2:14:45think I heard you say this, the the it's
2:14:48a two-way street and and the issue is
2:14:50not always the woman. A high percentage
2:14:52of the time it's her partner. And so I
2:14:54don't think we absorb that information
2:14:57upfront either until we start
2:14:58investigating it. But I'm in awe of this
2:15:01story that four of your residents got
2:15:04pregnant immediately because in
2:15:05orthopedics that does not happen. Mhm.
2:15:08>> Every orthopedic surgeon in my
2:15:10generation that I know if we got
2:15:13pregnant we miscarried and maybe that
2:15:15was lifestyle and maybe that was not
2:15:17eating for 40 hours. Maybe it's all the
2:15:19radiation that we undertake. I think
2:15:22it's better now for the younger
2:15:23generation and we as the I'm not that
2:15:26old but I am older than the current
2:15:28residents. Um, we encourage all of them.
2:15:31If you are not partnered and wanting to
2:15:33have a child now, then please consider
2:15:35freezing your eggs if that's a goal
2:15:37because we can't predict our futures and
2:15:39our residencies extend into our 40s.
2:15:42>> Well, I love that you're helping
2:15:43facilitate that discussion because that
2:15:45certainly wasn't the culture back when
2:15:47we were in training. I am one of the
2:15:49ones who sat here and cried in front of
2:15:50Steven myself when talking about my own
2:15:53pregnancy loss journey just because you
IVF Has Helped 13 Million People
2:15:55know I see it every day you know and I
2:15:58tell patients every day news that they
2:16:00do not want to hear
2:16:03>> 50% of infertility is due to male factor
2:16:0550% is due to female factors one of the
2:16:08most important things I want to convey
2:16:10when we on this topic is that IVF is an
2:16:13amazing technology that has helped 13
2:16:16million babies be born. It has been
2:16:19life-changing and world changing. And
2:16:21things don't have to be natural.
2:16:23Sometimes the natural progression of
2:16:25disease is death. So we have technology
2:16:29and science that exists to optimize and
2:16:31improve life and to help life exist. And
2:16:34that's part of what IVF is. And I think
2:16:36that's important because we do see a
2:16:37narrative right now that IVF is
2:16:39inherently bad and natural fertility
2:16:42approaches are inherently good. And we
2:16:44truly need to say both things are good.
2:16:46Do women need to learn about their
2:16:48bodies earlier? Talk about cycle
2:16:49tracking, take better care of
2:16:51themselves, get an earlier investigation
2:16:53when things aren't going well?
2:16:55Absolutely true. But also, needing to
2:16:58have fertility treatments is not a
2:17:00failure. Needing to see a fertility
2:17:02doctor is not a failure. If you need
2:17:03IVF, that is okay. All the other stuff
2:17:06is still really important to the outcome
2:17:08of your journey. But this narrative of
2:17:11IVF isn't natural, so it's bad, or egg
2:17:13freezing isn't natural, so we shouldn't
2:17:15do it. That's harmful to society and to
2:17:19women who do carry the burden, whether
2:17:21they need to or not, women do carry the
2:17:22burden of family planning for the
2:17:25future.
2:17:26>> Hearing you talk about that is very
2:17:28interesting to me because in other parts
2:17:30of medicine, in my own medicine, right,
2:17:34we were talking outside about how I I
2:17:36now do knee surgery through needles.
2:17:38It's an advancement of technology. We
2:17:41celebrate that. We like better things
2:17:43for people. It's not natural. Live with
2:17:46your thing, right? But I'm capable of
2:17:48helping you live a better life.
2:17:50>> Right.
2:17:50>> So, it's interesting to me.
2:17:53>> It's the stigma of women's health and
2:17:55work.
2:17:56>> That's right. This has because this is
2:17:57women's health. We're going to control
2:17:59it. We're going to protect these gals.
2:18:01We're not going to apply the vast
2:18:03knowledge. I'm a little offended by it
2:18:05actually. If you want to know the truth,
2:18:07why can I be so encouraged and and be
2:18:11considered top of my field when I adopt
2:18:13new technologies?
2:18:16But in your field, 13 million parents or
2:18:2126 million parents
2:18:24would be told that technology is not
2:18:26okay.
2:18:28>> I agree. It's a terrible narrative that
2:18:30is happening right now in the political
2:18:31landscape. And I think it's important to
2:18:33say scientific advancement is good and
2:18:36it changes the lives for so many people.
2:18:39And I think it's just highlighting this
2:18:41idea about natural doesn't always mean
2:18:44better. I think as you know scientists
2:18:48and people in medicine there's also been
2:18:50a disservice to not trying to get to the
2:18:52root cause and not working on preventive
2:18:53medicine and so going towards treatments
2:18:56and technology which has made the lay
2:18:59person feel like half of the picture
2:19:01wasn't discovered or talked about
2:19:04>> and so we can do better on both ends of
2:19:05it and that comes to women's health more
2:19:07than anything because there is stigma
2:19:10when it comes to isolation there's in I
2:19:11mean when it comes to infertility
2:19:12there's isolation
2:19:14you know being left behind your peer
2:19:16group. Questioning a life goal will make
2:19:19you question who you are, your life
2:19:21meaning, your purpose. And that is an
2:19:24extremely stressful and challenging
2:19:26state for somebody to go through. And we
2:19:28should be giving more support to that.
2:19:29We should be saying freeze your eggs.
2:19:32You're at a stressful lifetime instead
2:19:33of the narrative that we are seeing
2:19:35right now. So would the message be to
2:19:38young men and women that want to have
2:19:40kids at some point in their life to
2:19:44freeze their eggs in their 20s? Is that
2:19:46what you would advise?
2:19:47>> You know, most people in their 20s maybe
2:19:50don't have good awareness of these
2:19:51goals, but certainly your, you know,
2:19:53later 20s, your early 30s are the prime
2:19:56opportunity where you still, for the
2:19:58average person, you're going to have a
2:20:00high number of eggs. You're still high
2:20:01on the graph and your egg quality is
2:20:03still going to be high. meaning it's
2:20:05going to be easier to get the outcome
2:20:06that you want. Certainly in your 20s
2:20:09would be ideal if you but it's
2:20:11expensive. A lot of people don't have
2:20:13the financial resources to freeze their
2:20:15eggs and their 20s they're in training
2:20:17or they're starting their career. So to
2:20:19have an extra $10,000 lying around isn't
2:20:22always realistic.
2:20:23>> And I think that's why people are often
2:20:25waiting because that feels, you know,
2:20:28elective, you know, like, oh, that's
2:20:30extra money. I don't know that I have
2:20:31that right now. when we see insurance
2:20:33that starts to cover egg freezing as an
2:20:36option, we see huge uptake in women
2:20:39going to freeze their eggs. So you will
2:20:41see at companies where almost less than
2:20:445% of women would freeze their eggs
2:20:46before age 35. And then they introduced
2:20:48a health plan that would cover egg
2:20:50freezing and up to 50% of them would. So
2:20:53you can see that both financially and
2:20:57access and awareness, they all go hand
2:20:58in hand. But that's a big player in
2:21:01being able to do that because it is an
2:21:03expensive process.
2:21:04>> So Dr. Crawford, I think what most
2:21:06people don't understand, what is the
2:21:07spontaneous fertility rate by age in
2:21:10general?
2:21:10>> Yeah. So if you are 30, your odds of
2:21:12getting pregnant monthly. We we use a
2:21:14monthly rate called fundability. It's
2:21:16going to be at best 20% per month. When
What Is the Spontaneous Fertility Rate by Age?
2:21:19you're in your 20s, it's a little bit
2:21:21higher. Can get up to 25% per month
2:21:23>> if you're having sex
2:21:25>> monthly and regular periods. So if
2:21:27you're having unprotected intercourse
2:21:29and you have regular cycles, your best
2:21:32odds in a given month are going to be
2:21:33about 20% at age 30.
2:21:35>> How much sex do you have to be having?
2:21:37>> Well, really just have to have it in
2:21:38that fertile window. The
2:21:39>> what? Just once or
2:21:40>> really just once? Yeah, sex solely on
2:21:43the day of ovulation would be the ideal
2:21:45time, but you just need to have at least
2:21:47intercourse at least once in that
2:21:49fertile window. But that number drops
2:21:51quite significantly to what Dr. Caver is
2:21:52saying. So, at age 35, if you're trying
2:21:55to get pregnant, it's going to be 10 to
2:21:5712% per month odds of getting pregnant.
2:22:00At age 38, it's going to be 5% per
2:22:03month. At age 40, it's going to be 3%.
2:22:06This if you're trying for the first
2:22:07time, they're a little bit higher if
2:22:08you've had a child already because
2:22:09there's some proven fertility factors.
2:22:12But if we look at that, you say, "I'm
2:22:14chasing these dreams. I'm going to try
2:22:15to have my first baby at age 38." You
2:22:18have a 5% chance per month. That's not
2:22:20zero, but that means the greatest
2:22:23probability is that by 6 months time
2:22:26frame, you won't be pregnant. And then
2:22:28you're going to start a pathway of
2:22:29trying to investigate why that is
2:22:31happening. And if you do need
2:22:33intervention, you're further down this
2:22:35graph, too. You're going to have less
2:22:36eggs to work with, and their quality is
2:22:38going to be less good. That's why those
2:22:41numbers drop rapidly. Natural fertility
2:22:43rates are not about being out of eggs
2:22:45because you ovulate just one egg at a
2:22:47time. It doesn't matter if you have 20
2:22:50eggs outside that vault or five eggs.
2:22:52You're ovulating one egg at a time. So
2:22:54natural fertility is all about egg and
2:22:56sperm quality. So the this huge drop we
2:22:59see from 20% to 5% is because of the
2:23:02change of our egg quality as we get
2:23:04older during our 30s which most of us
2:23:06feel like is really young.
2:23:07>> And what can I do to because I know
2:23:09weight has a role in egg quality right?
2:23:11If you're underweight or overweight, is
2:23:12there anything else that has a a really
2:23:14pertinent impact on the quality of my
2:23:17eggs?
2:23:18>> Yes. So, we have two factors. We'll say
2:23:20age, which you can't control to an
2:23:21extent, right? Chromosome damage is
2:23:23going to happen even if you are
2:23:24exceptionally healthy because tincture
2:23:26of time. They've been sitting inside
2:23:28your body. Chromosome damage builds up.
2:23:30But the variables that you can is
2:23:32everything that impacts cellular health.
2:23:34So chronic inflammation and insulin
2:23:35resistance are the two things that are
2:23:37going to most dramatically harm your
2:23:39eggs metabolic function. It's going to
2:23:41harm your mitochondria. You're going to
2:23:42get mitochondrial damage. We know that
2:23:45when we start looking at older women,
2:23:46they have more dysfunctional
2:23:48mitochondria. They're shaped abnormally.
2:23:50The products inside their follicular
2:23:52fluid show higher levels of inflammation
2:23:54just based on age that happens, but also
2:23:57if they start having infertility versus
2:23:59not having infertility. So we know that
2:24:01inflammation and insulin resistance are
2:24:03key players even in patients without
2:24:06known PCOS or endometriosis but they
2:24:09play a role in aging and specifically
2:24:11your egg health as you age. So if you
2:24:13say getting pregnant is a life goal. I'm
2:24:16tracking my cycles. I don't want to
2:24:19freeze my eggs right now, but what
2:24:20should I do? All these things that we
2:24:22talk about and we're going to talk more
2:24:24about to decrease inflammation inside
2:24:25our body. That's it. and from a young
2:24:28age because these changes build up over
2:24:30time.
2:24:31>> And if I have PCOS, how does that
2:24:33>> even more important because you're at a
2:24:35higher predisposition to have insulin
2:24:37resistance? Your cells are more
2:24:39sensitive to how they're going to
2:24:40respond.
2:24:41>> But do I have less eggs if I have PCOS?
2:24:43>> So, you're going to run out of eggs
2:24:43around the same time. You're born with a
PCOS and Infertility
2:24:46little bit more, but because you lose
2:24:47eggs based on how many you have,
2:24:49essentially, you're going to catch up.
2:24:51So during your reproductive years, you
2:24:53tend to have more eggs out of the vault,
2:24:55which interferes with normal hormonal
2:24:56signaling, making all of the hormonal
2:24:58metabolic changes worse. Very
2:25:01interesting thing, as women with PCOS
2:25:04tend to get older, and their egg count
2:25:06starts to drop, and they have fewer eggs
2:25:08coming out of the vault, they'll often
2:25:09start naturally ovulating, even if they
2:25:12didn't earlier. And so I'm always a
2:25:14little concerned when somebody said, "I
2:25:16used to never have periods, but now I
2:25:18do. Did I cure my PCOS?
2:25:21Maybe they did make some good lifestyle
2:25:22changes along the way, but honestly,
2:25:24that's a red flag for me that she's now
2:25:26more rapidly declining in her egg count,
2:25:29approaching what will be penmenopause
2:25:31for her because her egg count is low
2:25:34enough to then respond to the brain
2:25:35signals. Like nodding your head over
2:25:38here.
2:25:38>> And as a man, is there anything I can do
2:25:39to increase the odds that I'm going to
2:25:41impregnate? Mel,
2:25:42>> you can stop using um cannabis and
2:25:45smoking cigarettes, um drinking alcohol.
2:25:48We need to avoid heat. So the testicles
2:25:50are outside the body for a reason. They
2:25:51need to be at a lower body temperature
How to Increase Fertility for Men
2:25:53in order to adequately make normally
2:25:55functioning sperm. So hot tubs, saunas,
2:25:58those should be off limits if you're
2:25:59wanting to get pregnant. Same with
2:26:02highintensity exercise and compression
2:26:04of the testicles. So this is notably
2:26:06cycling for long periods of time. So an
2:26:09hour on the bike or more routinely can
2:26:11actually compress the testicles and
2:26:13increase their heat.
2:26:14>> What about sitting in a chair for 5
2:26:15hours? choose. She'll be fine. I want to
2:26:17Same thing. Sitting in a chair, boxers
2:26:19breathe, being in a room that's hot.
2:26:21Those things aren't quite enough to
2:26:22truly raise that core testicular
2:26:24temperature quite like some of these
2:26:26other things. We also see diet playing a
2:26:28big role. The great thing about men,
2:26:31you're making sperm every single second.
2:26:32The sperm lifespan is 90 days, 72 days
2:26:36to make a sperm, 18 days to get out the
2:26:38ejaculatory system. But that means you
2:26:40could make a singular change in your
2:26:42health and see a different outcome in
2:26:44your sperm. that is so rare that doesn't
2:26:46exist in women's health that one
2:26:48variable can move the needle so much.
2:26:50>> Marijuana is a huge one. Marijuana use
2:26:52works at the brain to prevent those FSH
2:26:55and LH signals which are crucial to tell
2:26:58your testicles to make sperm and they
2:27:00also impact inflammatory environment. So
2:27:02sperm are not as modal. They are not
2:27:05shaped as well. The DNA inside their
2:27:07heads is more fragmented. In fact, men
2:27:09who use marijuana, their partners have a
2:27:12higher rate of pregnancy loss, even if
2:27:14their partners are not around it at all.
2:27:16>> You're using the word pregnancy loss
2:27:17versus the word that we're aware of in
2:27:19the UK called miscarriage. Is that is
2:27:21that intentional?
2:27:22>> Miscarriage can mean, you know, a to a
2:27:25lot of different things to people and a
2:27:27pregnancy loss, an unsuccessful
2:27:29pregnancy depending on when you
2:27:30medically lose a pregnancy or if a
2:27:33pregnancy is in the fallopian tube and
2:27:34it's an ectopic pregnancy, that's still
2:27:37a pregnancy loss. meaning you had a
2:27:39positive pregnancy test that did not end
2:27:40up in a baby. So, it's a little more
2:27:42inclusive for a variety of different
2:27:45stages of when and how loss can occur.
2:27:47>> Miscarriage kind of infers when we say
2:27:48it, you know, on my end is that the
2:27:50pregnancy was in the uterus and now it's
2:27:52it's we we either have to evacuate it or
2:27:55it's it's self evacuating.
2:27:57>> And you were saying a second ago, Vonda,
2:27:58that it from your experience, pregnancy
2:28:01loss, miscarriage is much higher with
2:28:03women who have high stress careers and
2:28:06jobs. Well, I don't know the real
2:28:08statistics, but my I'm sure they exist.
2:28:11But in my experience as a high capacity,
2:28:14high stress, not sleeping for 11 or 22
2:28:17years,
2:28:20I have seen it a lot and it happened to
2:28:22me.
2:28:23>> Yeah, chronic stress is associated with
2:28:24a higher rate of pregnancy loss.
2:28:26>> Is there anything else that people
2:28:28misunderstand about pregnancy loss in
2:28:31miscarriage that is worth talking about?
2:28:34>> Well, it's not talked about, I think.
2:28:36>> Yeah. That's one of the things that
2:28:37people still think it's it's taboo and
2:28:40rare, but I think all of us around the
2:28:42table had pregnancy loss.
2:28:44>> Yep. Two, at least two.
2:28:45>> And when I had mine, I was in training
Why Is Pregnancy Loss Still a Taboo?
2:28:48and uh a I didn't want to call my
2:28:51attending and tell them cuz he was a
2:28:53man.
2:28:54>> And I didn't want to I didn't think I
2:28:56could take any time off.
2:28:58>> Same.
2:28:59>> I went back the next day. I would have
2:29:00gone back the same day, but I could
2:29:01barely move.
2:29:02>> I was running labor and delivery like at
2:29:04night.
2:29:04>> I got discharged. Ivy pulled out in my
2:29:06hand and went back on the war.
2:29:07>> Yeah. Like so I think hopefully part of
2:29:12this international conversation about
2:29:15women's health not just
2:29:18gynecological health but health in
2:29:20general will give women grace because
2:29:24there's no way that I should have been
2:29:26expected to go back to an orthopedic
2:29:29surgery residency the day after I lost a
2:29:31child
2:29:33or frankly I don't know what your
2:29:35experiences were but in my generation of
2:29:38doctors and I'm sure it happens
2:29:40everywhere. I went back to work less
2:29:43than five weeks after delivering a child
2:29:45and I think other European countries
2:29:47have it right.
2:29:48>> Oh yeah, New Zealand is a year time.
2:29:50>> I I
2:29:53weeks.
2:29:53>> Six weeks.
2:29:55>> I six weeks with one and three weeks
2:29:57with the other because if I wanted to
2:29:59>> leave my fellowship on time,
2:30:01>> that's right.
2:30:01>> I wanted to graduate on time, I couldn't
2:30:03exceed the total vacation. So these
2:30:05internships and fellowships and I'm I'm
2:30:08sure that built into these programs we
2:30:10sign up for, they were all developed for
2:30:11men
2:30:12>> who had had they had a family, had a
2:30:15wife, you had someone at home to like
2:30:16take care of that business.
2:30:18>> Yeah.
2:30:19>> And we're have, you know, we're all in
2:30:23supportive relationships and, you know,
2:30:25that wasn't the issue, but like I went
2:30:28back before my body was ready.
2:30:29>> Yeah. because I would
2:30:30>> before that baby was ready to to unlatch
2:30:33and my milk supply dropped immediately
2:30:35the minute why I went back to work
2:30:37>> and I tried to pump but you get called
2:30:39for a crash C-section or emergency
2:30:41surgery and you're like pulling the pump
2:30:43off the breast and I'm running down the
2:30:44hall hooking my nursing bra back on
2:30:46trying to get to the O and you know all
2:30:49that cortisol just my milk you know so I
2:30:51was able to breastfeed while I was home
2:30:52with the baby and but like once I went
2:30:55back to work my my milk production just
2:30:58shattered a picture of day in the
2:31:00hospital and it was a day after I gave
2:31:02birth. My laptop is open. I'm trying to
2:31:05breastfeed because we launched a company
2:31:08the month before I gave birth and
2:31:10instead of my male co-workers going,
2:31:13"Okay, we'll give you some grace." No, I
2:31:16had a week and then they were at my
2:31:17house having meetings. There's such a
2:31:19different discussion about miscarriage
2:31:21now than when I went through it. I told
2:31:23nobody. I didn't either.
2:31:24>> I mean, it was so secretive. I didn't
2:31:26feel like I could. And we are seeing a
2:31:29different generation where I do think
2:31:31talking about women's health and Stephen
2:31:33you having these discussions on a bigger
2:31:35stage are lessening the stigma for what
2:31:39is something that people go through. One
2:31:41out of four pregnancies will end in a
2:31:42pregnancy loss. That is not a low
2:31:44percentage of people. In the same
2:31:46breath, most people should not have two
2:31:48in a row. And if you do, you should go
2:31:50get an evaluation because there are
2:31:53medical things that can contribute to
2:31:55pregnancy loss that we would love to
2:31:57identify a lot earlier and see if
2:31:59there's something we can do to make that
2:32:01different. What do I need to understand
2:32:03about what a woman goes through either
2:32:05in the wake of pregnancy loss or in the
2:32:07wake of a pregnancy and uh a birth
2:32:13physiologically, psychologically as an
2:32:15employer to be able to create a better
2:32:18environment for the women that are going
2:32:19through either of those two things? Like
2:32:22what's what's going on inside the body?
2:32:23Cuz I I wouldn't know, right? So,
2:32:25>> one of the, you know, simplest things to
2:32:27say that's going on is that pregnancy is
2:32:30one of the most hormone robust times you
2:32:32have, even just momentarily pregnant. If
2:32:34you have a placenta starting to implant,
2:32:36you are now making levels of estrogen
2:32:38and progesterone that you will not ever
2:32:40make at any other time period of your
2:32:42life. When that doesn't when you lose
2:32:45that pregnancy or when you're
2:32:47postpartum, let's say you're having this
2:32:49huge hormone crash. Suddenly you go from
2:32:51this very high level of these hormones
2:32:53dropping off immediately. And in
2:32:56addition to all the physical changes,
2:32:57the emotional changes that has a huge
2:33:00impact, you've heard us talk a lot about
2:33:01low estrogen and how that feels. The
2:33:04very interesting thing most studies
2:33:05about estrogen show is that the hardest
2:33:07time for women is when estrogen is
2:33:09changing. So going from high to low is
2:33:13actually when your body is having
2:33:15>> your brain can't keep up.
2:33:16>> Can't keep up. Doesn't know what's
2:33:17happening. And the higher you were and
2:33:19the faster you come down, we'll use this
2:33:22analogy too. Even in IVF, when we go do
2:33:24an egg retrieval and somebody had many
2:33:26eggs, they have a much higher estrogen
2:33:28they naturally would. I go and put a
2:33:29needle in each one and drain the eggs
2:33:31out and destroy those cells and their
2:33:33estrogen plummets and they expect to go
2:33:35the next day and feel normal or they
2:33:38expect to feel worse during the
2:33:39stimulation process when they're using
2:33:41hormone shots. And I always say, you're
2:33:43actually going to feel worse when I'm
2:33:45done with you. It's going to be that
2:33:46week after the egg retrieval where your
2:33:48hormones go from the highest they've
2:33:49ever been very quickly down low. It's
2:33:52that delta, that change. And that
2:33:54happens anytime you have that. But
2:33:56pregnancy and loss and postpartum are
2:33:59some of the most profound times that you
2:34:01experience this.
2:34:02>> And one of the other things is the
2:34:04identity shift. So if you're working,
2:34:07you know, we are all very highly
2:34:08motivated and became parents. But it's
2:34:11that whole identity shift of now how do
2:34:13I interact in my life and how do I
2:34:15interact with my peers? I'm a mom. How
2:34:17am I being identified? What are the
2:34:19implications? So there's a complete
2:34:21identity shift that also isn't discussed
2:34:23>> and that can also perpetuate some of the
2:34:26postpartum that we see as well.
2:34:27>> Mhm.
2:34:28>> And anxiety and lack of control, right?
2:34:30Because you don't know what you're
2:34:31supposed to do, especially if you're a
2:34:33mother for the first time. that is can
2:34:35be very anxietyprovoking in addition to
2:34:38hormone changes and not getting sleep.
2:34:40But lack of control, you don't control
2:34:42your schedule. You don't control when
2:34:43you sleep. You don't control if your
2:34:45child gets sick.
2:34:46>> And so I would say from an employer
2:34:47standpoint,
2:34:49>> grace, support, and flexibility. You
2:34:51know, if I had had better support
2:34:53structures to say when your child is
2:34:56sick, it's not the end of the world if
2:34:58you are not here physically at the
2:35:00office. That didn't exist. meaning that
2:35:02my child getting sick became this
2:35:04extremely
2:35:06stressful situation.
2:35:07>> God,
2:35:09>> but for the average woman working a 9
2:35:10toive job, whether it's in medicine or
2:35:12other fields, if you could design their
2:35:15working month around their menstrual
2:35:19cycle around, I don't know, potentially
2:35:21a pregnancy, whatever. How would you
2:35:23design redesign their month? Because we
2:35:25we have inherited this sort of I think
2:35:26it's like from the industrial
2:35:27revolution, this like 9 to5 working
2:35:30hours. We don't work Saturday and
2:35:31Sunday. We do that four times across a
2:35:34month. What would you change? What
2:35:35should women change? Because I've heard
2:35:37some countries or systems are are trying
2:35:39to give women time off around certain
2:35:41parts of their cycle, for example. Would
2:35:43any of you change anything? Well, there
2:35:45are a couple of companies in New Zealand
2:35:46who are pretty flexible, especially
2:35:48after the pandemic, where they have
2:35:51allocated certain hours that are free to
2:35:54work at home. You just have to get the
2:35:56work done
2:35:57>> to the point where they have 4 day
2:35:58working weeks. And then they're also
2:36:01putting into the annual leave what they
2:36:04call menstrual leave or menopause leave.
2:36:07And it's you just say, you know, I can't
2:36:09come today. Some people are using it for
2:36:11child care. Some people are using it for
2:36:12really bad cramping days. Other people
2:36:14are using it for mental health days. But
2:36:16it's a it's there to be used for
2:36:18however. And you don't have to identify
2:36:20it as being menstrual cycle day or
2:36:22menopause. It's just extra leave. And
2:36:24people don't care as long as you get the
2:36:25work done. And I think that having that
2:36:28flexibility across, you know, if you
2:36:31have that ability to have more flex
2:36:33hours or shared time space or something
2:36:35like that greatly benefits productivity
2:36:39as well as the feeling of empowerment
2:36:42and inclusivity, which then feeds
2:36:44forward to better productivity.
2:36:45>> If I've got an extremely high stress
2:36:47job, is there any part of the cycle
2:36:49where I should theoretically be avoiding
2:36:51stress?
2:36:53>> Well, that's an individual thing. It's
2:36:55how because you know we hear all the
2:36:57stuff about cycle tracking and it's
Should You Take Time Off During Your Period?
2:36:59about understanding your own responses
2:37:01to your own hormone flux
2:37:03>> because Mel partner says to me that she
2:37:05needs to not do work. there's like a
2:37:08couple of days a month where she's like,
2:37:09I'm just gonna nest all those.
2:37:11>> That could be her her responses and
2:37:13she's like, I just don't have the stress
2:37:15tolerance to be able to do XYZ and
2:37:18understanding that in her own cycle is
2:37:20great because then she can allocate
2:37:23tasks that take more stress for other
2:37:25days. For most people, it's peak ludal.
2:37:27Also when your progesterone is the
2:37:28highest tends to be when people have a
2:37:31harder time focusing and concentrating
2:37:33or getting tasks done now
2:37:34>> which is where on
2:37:35>> which is going to be the middle of the
2:37:36ludal phase at the middle of this second
2:37:38half of the cycle when you have that
2:37:41oneish.
2:37:42>> So when you have that progesterone you
2:37:44know really high your body might be
2:37:46ready to implant an embryo if there was
2:37:48one that tends to be when people say
2:37:50they feel more fatigue and less energy
2:37:53and less focus and concentration. So if
2:37:56you are looking at your month and you
2:37:57might notice that it is and you have the
2:37:59flexibility to say okay I'm going to try
2:38:02to write this paper get this study done
2:38:05do these tasks that call these tasks
2:38:08that call for an increased focus in my
2:38:10follicular phase when I'm estrogen
2:38:12dominant have high estrogen and no
2:38:13progesterone for the average person that
2:38:16is typically when they're easier have an
2:38:19easier time achieving those tests
2:38:21>> which is the first 14
2:38:23>> yeah the first couple weeks the time
2:38:25period before ovulation, but there is an
2:38:27individual response and I definitely
2:38:28will see some people who they feel
2:38:31immensely better when progesterone's
2:38:33present and not so great the other time.
2:38:35So, I think we use generalizations just
2:38:38as a rule of thumb because that's what
2:38:39it is for most people, but hormones
2:38:42specifically, there's always an
2:38:43individualized response and learning to
2:38:45listen to your own body is key and
2:38:47knowing what you need to do. I want to
2:38:48close off on this point about just how
2:38:50employers and you know the way that we
2:38:52work can be better suited to a woman's
2:38:55health. Is there anything else we missed
2:38:57there?
2:38:57>> Flexibility. I think we mentioned before
2:39:00the ability to make a decision for
2:39:01yourself. This is a day that I can do
2:39:04these, you know, tasks. I think every
2:39:06woman wants to do a really good job and
2:39:10she is going to frontload those tasks on
2:39:12a time that she feels better and offload
2:39:16in a time where she's not feeling as
2:39:18well, but she's going to get it done
2:39:19>> for sure. And so giving her the
2:39:21flexibility is going to allow her to be
2:39:23her most productive rather than
2:39:24demanding she have x amount every single
2:39:27day. And I think support can come in a
2:39:30lot of ways, but the um financial burden
2:39:34to a large corporation of having a stop
2:39:37gap child care at work. So maybe if
2:39:40you're not going to offer full child
2:39:42care because you're getting a lot of
2:39:44productivity out of women if they know
2:39:46their children are on campus and can go
2:39:48at lunchtime. But if you're not willing
2:39:50to do that, if you have a stop gap where
2:39:53instead of calling your attending or one
2:39:55day my nanny didn't show up and I had to
2:39:58find some way
2:40:00just for those emergencies within the
2:40:02corporation that breeds loyalty that
2:40:05will increase productivity and so I
2:40:08think it's money well spent.
2:40:09>> Talk about having a competitive woman.
2:40:12>> She would probably want to work for you.
2:40:15>> Yeah. you know, and offering those
2:40:18things to make her mothering easier
2:40:20while she's trying to work. I think you
2:40:22would have the most competitive
2:40:24workforce.
2:40:24>> And what does that mean? So that would
2:40:25mean having a n is that having a nanny
2:40:27on site or is that
2:40:28>> take care on site? Take care on site. on
2:40:30site again,
2:40:30>> whether it's full-time, like bring your
2:40:32children full-time there, or
2:40:35>> that's a that's a big corporate, but but
2:40:37a a smaller corporate commitment would
2:40:41be this emergency child care so that
2:40:45your kids's not there all the time, but
2:40:47maybe they're sick or maybe somebody
2:40:49didn't show up and then you have days
2:40:53>> have a licensed childare provider
2:40:54available, you know, who could
2:40:56>> which is a fault of the US system
2:40:58because Yeah. What happens in New
2:41:00Zealand?
2:41:00>> You have 20 hours free daycare
2:41:03>> a week.
2:41:03>> A week?
2:41:04>> Yeah.
2:41:05>> So, it's um Yeah. 20 hours funded. Uh
2:41:08and then it's a very small nominal fee
2:41:10for hours over that for up to year five
2:41:13or when they're 5 years old cuz then
2:41:15they start school
2:41:16>> on the first day that they turn five.
People Need to Know When Perimenopause Starts
2:41:18It's like you turn five, happy birthday.
2:41:20But it does help significantly
2:41:24um kind of keep productivity and a
2:41:26little bit of the worry off. What am I
2:41:28going to do with my child?
2:41:30>> Amazing.
2:41:30>> Yeah.
2:41:31>> What does this um conversation around
2:41:34eggs and fertility dove tail into
2:41:37menopause and specifically permenopause?
2:41:40I guess that's the next
2:41:41>> you can't have one without the other,
2:41:42right? So per menopause is basically in
2:41:46this fertility decline area. Okay. So
2:41:49you don't fertility is not an issue. You
2:41:50don't want to ever have a baby. You're
2:41:51still going to go through pmenopause.
2:41:54And so per menopause is defined
2:41:57medically in the worst way as the
2:41:59transition from normal menstrual cycles
2:42:01to no menstrual cycle ever again. Okay.
2:42:05So when we look at definitions,
2:42:07menopause is defined as one year after
2:42:09the final menstrual period. What it
2:42:11really means is ovarian failure. And
2:42:14that offends people, but that's actually
2:42:16medically what it is. You have run out
2:42:18of eggs and you run out of the ability
2:42:20of the ovary to produce hormones. And so
2:42:23per menopause begins
Menopause
2:42:26medically at the straw staging is the
2:42:29very complicated um methodology to
2:42:33define the stages of pmenopause and a
2:42:35lot of it is based on menstrual cycle
2:42:38irregularity but hormonally what's
2:42:41happening starts well before our periods
2:42:44become irregular. So as those egg levels
2:42:47decline and and the ability to respond
2:42:49to the stimulus coming from the brain,
2:42:51remember ovulation starts in the brain.
2:42:54So when estrogen levels normally get low
2:42:56during the cycle, the brain doesn't like
2:42:58it. The hypothalamus, so the gland in
2:42:59our brain starts looking for estrogen.
2:43:01It likes estrogen. And then when the
2:43:03estrogen levels are high, it's happy.
2:43:05And so when estrogen levels decline
2:43:07naturally in a cycle, it says, "Whoop,
2:43:08where's my where's my estrogen?" And it
2:43:10sends a signal to a second gland in the
2:43:12brain called the pituitary. And that
2:43:13makes the LH and the FSH.
2:43:15>> So I'm trying to figure out what causes
2:43:17menop per pmenopause. What causes
2:43:20menopause? Lack of eggs.
2:43:22>> So it's the loss of eggs and the loss of
2:43:24the the group of eggs to respond to
2:43:25these signals. So here we go. We're
2:43:28beginning pmenopause. We've reached a
2:43:29critical threshold level where our
2:43:32ovaries cannot respond. And that might
2:43:34be I don't know millionaire.
2:43:36>> So when you're not out of eggs but just
2:43:37the count is low, right? Let's if you're
2:43:39a jar. Yeah. Yeah. So if menopause is
2:43:41going to be for simplicity, the jar is
2:43:44empty. When the jar gets like this, so
2:43:46we'll say if you had full, the jar is
2:43:48not empty, but it's it's gotten lower.
2:43:50And what is happening is the ovary
2:43:52doesn't want to be out of eggs. So what
2:43:54Dr. Haver is saying is the brain is
2:43:56working harder to get an egg to grow
2:43:59because the ovary becomes more stubborn.
2:44:00It wants to hold on to them. It doesn't
2:44:02want to lose them. The brain has to send
2:44:03out stronger signals to get an egg to
2:44:05grow. Because there's not as many, we
2:44:07don't lose as many per month. So that's
2:44:09great, but that means we have years of
2:44:12being at this low unreliable ovary stage
2:44:15where the brain is working really hard.
2:44:17There's not as many eggs that are here.
2:44:20They will still ovulate, but it starts
2:44:22to happen at a less predictable rate.
2:44:24But
2:44:25>> so is that permenopause when there's
2:44:27>> Yes. And there's not a definition I
2:44:28think that which makes it the hardest of
2:44:30say your point what number of eggs
2:44:32equals per menopause. There is a unique
2:44:35response to each person at what level
2:44:36your ovary gets to where it will start
2:44:39to respond dysfunctionally. But what
2:44:41happens is that the hormone changes
2:44:43start shifting in the brain. The ovarian
2:44:45response starts shifting and before you
2:44:47have irregular cycles, you will first
2:44:50see a shortening of your cycles very
2:44:52predictably. The brain will send out a
2:44:54stronger signal. An egg will ovulate
2:44:56faster. You'll start to get shorter
2:44:57cycles. And then
2:44:58>> there's hormone fluctuations,
2:45:00>> but they're still regular. And so what
2:45:02will happen is a woman will start to
2:45:03feel these hormone shifts. It's less
2:45:05predictable. She is having some change,
2:45:08but it's still a regular cycle. And so
2:45:10she is often told, "Your hormones are
2:45:12fine. You have a regular cycle." So, and
2:45:15in the brain, as we talked about those
2:45:17neurotransmitters, there are not only is
2:45:20estrogen changing and the amount that
2:45:22we're producing, actually in
2:45:23permenopause, quite often we'll have
2:45:24much higher estradile levels than we did
2:45:27in our premenopausal years where we had
2:45:29that kind of predictable eb and flow of
2:45:32our our monthly monthly hormones.
2:45:34There's also independent FSH receptors
2:45:37outside of so these hormones that are
2:45:40pumping out to talk to the ovaries are
2:45:41also back talking to different parts of
2:45:44the brain. So the first symptoms that
2:45:47patients feel and they've done a great
2:45:50study on this is I don't feel like
2:45:51myself.
2:45:54I don't feel like myself. And they even
2:45:56call it IDFM. And so you can't put your
2:45:59finger on it. periods are regular, but
2:46:03your environment hasn't changed. Your
2:46:04normal stressors haven't changed. The
2:46:06life you built that you could manage,
2:46:08you're suddenly losing resilience.
2:46:10>> And that's because of a hormone
2:46:11fluctuation that is hard to
2:46:13>> So, we see sleep disruptions, mental
2:46:15health challenges increase, 40% increase
2:46:18across pmenopause transition and the
2:46:20cognitive changes and that is what
2:46:22really scares my patients the most. And
2:46:25they come in and most of them are, you
2:46:27know, we're all high functioning in some
2:46:28degree. Some of us in academia, some of
2:46:30us in the O, some of us, but you know,
2:46:32most women are high functioning because
2:46:33they're juggling so many jobs. So even
2:46:35if she didn't choose to go the routes
2:46:36that we've chosen, she is managing
2:46:39children, you know, school drop offs,
2:46:41you know, all the things that women tend
2:46:43to put on their plates. And suddenly
2:46:46she can't remember all the things she
2:46:48used to remember. Where are her keys?
2:46:50You know, word salad. you're you're
2:46:51struggling to find I can't tell you how
2:46:53many times I am like I I see people and
2:46:56like I cannot remember their names or I
2:46:58can't remember I get in the car and I
2:47:01can't remember where I'm going or what
2:47:03my purpose of getting in the vehicle
2:47:04was. You have to think for a second. And
2:47:06so all of that is related to the
2:47:09hormonal changes.
2:47:10>> At what age?
2:47:12>> Well, I think that there's a tendency in
2:47:14medicine to want to have definitions.
2:47:16>> Yes. So, I personally, and I know a lot
2:47:18of us who talk all the time, think that
2:47:21this random 366 days after your last
2:47:25period, that's your menopause day. I
2:47:27think that's pretty random. And I don't
2:47:29know who made that up, but when I have
2:47:32because I'm not an OB, but when I have
2:47:34patients come in to me for their
2:47:35muscularkeeletal things and they're of a
2:47:38certain age and I don't just focus on
2:47:41whatever the muscularkeeletal body part
2:47:42is, but we start talking about their
2:47:44whole health and they start talking
2:47:46about these things, I am often the first
2:47:48one to say to them, you know what, you
2:47:51are probably in pmenopause. And they're
2:47:54like, but my cycles are regular. I'm
2:47:56like, but you are beginning this
2:47:58transition which I call meolescence, but
2:48:01it's this right. I would propose that
2:48:05most people don't seek out a lot of help
2:48:07earlier.
2:48:08>> But they should just assume
2:48:10>> that they're permenopausal anytime after
2:48:1235 they don't feel like themselves and
2:48:15start down a road of learning or
2:48:17investigating or let's feel better and
2:48:20what do I need to do about it?
2:48:21>> You know, it's frustrating to us all of
2:48:24us. We talked a little bit about this
2:48:25last night is the people who kind of
2:48:27make the rules, the institutions that
2:48:29make the guidelines and and the academic
2:48:31kind of
2:48:33ivory tower, you know, they are like,
2:48:35whoa,
2:48:37back off, slow down. We shouldn't be
2:48:41blaming everything on menopause, you
2:48:43know, like. And I don't think that's
2:48:45what we're saying. We're not trying
2:48:48>> but completely dismissing the female
2:48:50experience and not at all like including
2:48:54this cataclysmic hormonal change
2:48:57>> is hurting women. So the average age of
2:48:59menopause is 51 to 52. And so let's say
2:49:02that is when your ovaries are in
2:49:03failure. They will no longer make eggs,
2:49:05make hormones or respond to brain
2:49:07signals.
2:49:07>> So all the eggs, all the little marbles
2:49:09are out
2:49:09>> all the way gone at 51 52. For most
Check Your Mum's Menopause Age to Know Yours
2:49:12women about 7 to 10 years before that
2:49:15they will start to enter into what we
2:49:17will call pmenopause or the
2:49:19unpredictable response of the ovary and
2:49:21the brain. I say their communication
2:49:23system their best friends who aren't
2:49:25communicating well. Their signals are
2:49:27getting interfered. They're not
2:49:29responding appropriately. The ovary is
2:49:31getting more stubborn. The brain is
2:49:32trying to work harder. You get these
2:49:34higher peaks, these lower troughs. And
2:49:37essentially that is the time period. So
2:49:39it is unique to an individual because
2:49:41everybody's born with a different
2:49:42number. They lose them at a different
2:49:44rate. Some factors that we control
2:49:47impact that rate, but some things that
2:49:48we do not. Your mom's age of menopause
2:49:51is a predictive factor. If you're had a
2:49:53first-degree relative go through
2:49:54menopause at 46 or sooner, you have a
2:49:58six times likelihood of going into early
2:50:00menopause.
2:50:02>> So knowing having this conversation,
2:50:04almost every patient I ask, what age did
2:50:06your mom go through menopause? They do
2:50:08not know the answer. because the moms
2:50:10haven't talked about it.
2:50:10>> Moms haven't talked about it. There's so
2:50:11much stigma about reproductive health.
2:50:13So, knowing that information is really
2:50:15important if you have mom or older
2:50:17sisters, what age is normal for your
2:50:19family so that you can be a little more
2:50:21in tune if there's some genetic
2:50:23predisposition for you? The general idea
2:50:25of what Dr. Haver is saying is that in
2:50:26these last 7 to 10 years of ovarian
2:50:29lifespan, it becomes more stubborn and
2:50:31less predictable and it does cause
2:50:33hormonal shifts that most women can't
2:50:35detect with their cycles. We do know
2:50:36that if you are actively tracking
2:50:39actually when ovulation's happening and
2:50:41looking at your follicular and ludial
2:50:43phase and you know what's normal for
2:50:45you, you will most likely be able to
2:50:47detect these hormone shifts in that time
2:50:49period. But that's not what women are
2:50:51taught. Their tracking is just that it's
2:50:53coming regular. And we do have a
2:50:56generation of women that were on
2:50:58contraception and then went through
2:51:00childbearing and then on contraception
2:51:02again until now they're suddenly
2:51:04entering this transitional period and
2:51:06they don't know what their own normal is
2:51:08making it even worse.
2:51:09>> Correct.
2:51:11>> So like she said the average age of
2:51:13menopause if we look at the math uh is
2:51:15is 51 but under that 90th percentile
2:51:18curve you know with 5% on each end it's
2:51:21about 45 to 55. That's menopause, right?
2:51:25>> That's full menopause. Now, now let's
2:51:27just do math and back it up 7 to 10
2:51:29years. So, we're looking at the mid to
2:51:31late 30s to 40. So, when I have a 46,
2:51:3447, 48y old patient come in who's still
2:51:36cycling, she has almost 100% chance of
2:51:39being in pmenopause just based on her
2:51:41age alone, knowing the statistics around
2:51:43that.
2:51:44>> Yep.
2:51:45>> Okay. So with my partner between the age
2:51:47of sort of 35 to 45 is when I can expect
2:51:50her to go through permenopause where
2:51:51there's very little marbles left in the
2:51:53jar. Um and her hormones might be
2:51:57disabled less predictable
2:51:59>> and one of the questions we had in from
2:52:01the audience was how can I manage the
2:52:03symptoms of permenopause and they use
2:52:06the word naturally
2:52:07>> well we don't have a single largecale
2:52:10study done on the treatment of per
2:52:14menopause. So, so let me break it down
2:52:15for you. When we look at funding in
2:52:17women's health, it's horrible. Okay? But
2:52:19if we, if I go into PubMed, which is
2:52:21the, you know, database that I go to
2:52:24look up metal medical journal articles,
2:52:26and I type in the word pregnancy, I will
2:52:28get today 1.2ish million articles for
2:52:31pregnancy. Amazing. So important. We
2:52:34need healthy pregnancies. If I type in
2:52:36the word menopause right now, I think
2:52:38it's about 99,000.
2:52:40So those numbers represent time, brain
2:52:44power, funding,
2:52:47what what what is important in women's
2:52:49health. Okay. If I type in the word
2:52:51perry menopause, we are about at 8,000.
2:52:55>> Yep. Very very very very small. Your
2:52:59name's on a couple of Thanks.
2:53:03So is the last third of my life from an
2:53:08academic standpoint, from funding, from
2:53:10brain power, from where we focus not as
2:53:13important
2:53:15than when I had the ability to be
2:53:17pregnant. More women will go through
2:53:18pmenopause than menopause because we're
2:53:20going to lose a few to accidents and
2:53:21cancers and, you know, early deaths.
2:53:24More women will go through pmenopause
2:53:26then get pregnant. Yet in my training,
2:53:29so in medical school, I got one hour one
2:53:32one-hour lecture on menopause, nothing
2:53:34on Perry. And in my OB/GYN training, and
2:53:37I'd love to hear what you have to say,
2:53:38as part of our reproductive
2:53:40endocrinology blocks, I had one block of
2:53:42that my second year. In those six weeks,
2:53:44I got one one-hour lecture each week. No
2:53:47clinics, no focus, nothing. And then as
2:53:51a program director where I was in charge
2:53:52of the education of residents of over
2:53:55100 residents over about 10 years, I
2:53:58knew exactly what the curriculum
2:53:59required and menopause just gets shoved
2:54:02into a tiny box.
2:54:04>> And then what happens when we run out of
2:54:05marbles in the the glass there?
2:54:10>> What's really interesting and one thing
2:54:11we've said a couple times is this
2:54:12happens. This is ovarian failure. you're
2:54:15going to go into a state of low estrogen
2:54:17because the ovaries no longer have the
2:54:19ability to make eggs. Therefore, they
2:54:21are not going to make estrogen or
2:54:23progesterone.
2:54:23>> And just to be clear there, the eggs
2:54:25were sending a signal up to the brain to
2:54:27make estrogen.
2:54:27>> And the eggs well the low the eggs in
2:54:30the brain communicate. Yes. When you
2:54:32didn't have an egg ovulating, your
2:54:34estrogen would be low and that typically
2:54:36is the brain signal to send out more
2:54:37FSH. That's still happening. Meaning
2:54:40estrogen is low, but the brain is
2:54:44sending out all the FSH it has. FSH is
2:54:46very high in menopause and the ovary
2:54:49cannot respond because there's no more
2:54:50eggs. There's nothing left to respond.
2:54:52>> I need to explain that that explained
2:54:54again. So, I'm trying to understand why
2:54:56estrogen drops when the eggs disappear.
2:54:58>> The estrogen is made from the cells that
2:54:59surround each egg. So, when there's no
2:55:01more eggs, there's no more cells that
2:55:03make estrogen. Follicle goes away, too.
2:55:05>> Okay. Okay. So, estrogen is made in
2:55:09>> the ovaries. So the estrogen is made in
2:55:10the ovaries and the primary type of
2:55:13estrogen that we're talking about and
2:55:14it's made from the cells that surround
2:55:15each follicle called the granulosa
2:55:17cells. And as the follicle gets bigger,
2:55:19as the egg matures, more of those cells
2:55:22become more active and you make more
2:55:23estrogen. So even when you have a little
2:55:26bit left
2:55:28when you're on your period, we'll say,
2:55:30but you're some eggs here, you're still
2:55:32making some estrogen. It's not as high
2:55:34as when you're ovulating, but these
2:55:36little eggs will each make a little bit.
2:55:37>> Do I make estrogen at times? You do,
2:55:39>> but I just make it somewhere else.
2:55:41>> Yeah. It gets converted over to
2:55:42testosterone.
2:55:44>> Okay.
2:55:44>> So, we have enzymes in our body that
2:55:46convert estrogen and testosterone back
2:55:48and forth.
2:55:48>> So, there's no more eggs. So, this is
2:55:51menopause.
2:55:52>> So, this is men. Well, in my world, yes,
2:55:54ov this is ovarian failure. And we're
2:55:56calling it ovarian failure on purpose
2:55:57because at this moment, you're not going
2:55:59to make estrogen. The brain is sending
2:56:01out all the signals it can. Very high
2:56:03FSH trying to get estrogen to be made.
2:56:05There's no eggs, so there is no
2:56:07estrogen. What Dr. Haver has said, which
2:56:09is correct, our our friends in the
2:56:12medical world do not define this moment
2:56:15as menopause. They make you sit here and
2:56:17be estrogen low for a year and have no
2:56:20period for a year before they will say
2:56:22you're in menopause. If they even decide
2:56:24to treat
2:56:25>> or offer treatment, you know, or even
2:56:27begin the discussion because of our
2:56:29training, you must thou shalt go without
2:56:32one year. So, we're absolutely sure that
2:56:34the ovaries have have moved on before we
2:56:38would even consider.
2:56:40>> But what is the point of that? We've
2:56:41made estrogen our entire lives.
2:56:43>> It's a fabulous question. That's a great
2:56:45question.
2:56:46>> Starving our brains, our hearts, our
2:56:47bones, our muscles.
2:56:48>> They didn't think they were doing that.
2:56:50I don't think that people, you know, the
2:56:52medical community has recognized
2:56:55estrogen's effects outside of
2:56:56reproduction until very recently. I
2:56:58think there's been isolated pockets, but
2:57:01there's no no one owns menopause. Like
2:57:03no one you think it would be OBGYn, but
2:57:06there's no one in charge of women's
2:57:08health after reproduction ends.
2:57:10>> Like there's there's no zar.
2:57:12>> So what's the harm of waiting a year
2:57:14before people take it seriously? What
2:57:16happens?
2:57:16>> Suicide, mental health changes, rapidly
2:57:19declining bone density. I mean, you can
2:57:21be healthy without estrogen.
2:57:23>> Wants estrogen.
2:57:24>> All vaginas need estrogen. So your
2:57:26brain, your bones, your heart, your
2:57:28blood vessels, your vagina,
2:57:30>> your body has estrogen receptors
The Dangers of the Year Before Menopause
2:57:32everywhere that we've already
2:57:33established. And suddenly you've lost
2:57:36the ability to make your primary source
2:57:38of estrogen. And what happens is that,
2:57:42you know, medicine has a lot of
2:57:43definitions that we use that are very
2:57:45antiquated. Even how we date
2:57:46pregnancies, right? When we talk about
2:57:48how far along you are in a pregnancy, we
2:57:50date back to the last period you had,
2:57:52which meant 2 weeks of pregnancy or
2:57:55before you ever ovulated an egg, before
2:57:58you 3 weeks before you ever implanted an
2:58:00embryo. Yet, we still use this pregnancy
2:58:03timeline based on when your last period
2:58:06was, even though we know two weeks of
2:58:08that you weren't in fact pregnant at
2:58:09all.
2:58:10>> Now, menopause, in my opinion, is the
2:58:12exact same way. We're using an
2:58:14antiquated definition saying you have to
2:58:16prove to me you're an ovarian failure by
2:58:19lack of your period for 12 months
2:58:20because it represents a time period
2:58:22where we didn't fully understand what
2:58:24was happening in the ovary or didn't
2:58:25have the ability to test and know what
2:58:27we know now. We are making women suffer
2:58:30to get that diagnosis. If I believe I
2:58:32shouldn't treat you until you have
2:58:34menopause, you have to prove that you're
2:58:37in it. I don't think it's where we're
2:58:39going. I don't think it's what's right
2:58:40for women. And that being this low
2:58:42estrogen is hugely impactful at your
2:58:45life at any age. The female body needs
2:58:48estrogen to function normally.
2:58:51>> I mean, I'm looking at this chart here
2:58:52about suicidation. Yeah. Suicide.
2:58:54>> So, the most likely time for a woman to
2:58:55commit suicide is between the ages of 45
2:58:59and 55.
2:59:01>> And do you is do you think that's linked
2:59:02to
Suicide Rates in Women
2:59:04>> 100% menopause?
2:59:06>> Right. So we know that mental health
2:59:10we have an increase in mental health
2:59:11disorders either pre-existing getting
2:59:14worse or new onset of about 40% across
2:59:17the transition. And we look at um SSRI
2:59:20prescriptions which are
2:59:20anti-depressants. They double across the
2:59:23menopause transition. Now there's a
2:59:24couple reasons for that. One is we
2:59:26weren't treating menopause with
2:59:28hormones. So they just SSRIs can
2:59:30actually help a hot flash. Uh certain
2:59:32types. So, you know, Paxel is one of the
2:59:34ones that has been proven to decrease
2:59:36hot flashes some. It's not great, but it
2:59:38works a little bit. And with all of the
2:59:40mental health changes, a lot of women
2:59:41are ending up on these anti-depressant
2:59:44medications.
2:59:46>> So, we don't want to go a year without
2:59:47estrogen. So, we know that some of the
2:59:50new data coming out when I was
2:59:51researching for the new pmenopause,
2:59:53there's a really great window of using
2:59:56hormones to treat mental health
2:59:58disorders um and seeing improvement in
3:00:01mood and also some in cognition by
3:00:03giving estrogen or estrogen plus the
3:00:05progesterine early in pmenopause before
3:00:08the periods actually stop ra and that
3:00:10actually works better than an SSRI. So,
3:00:13say she's on an on an SSRI and has done
3:00:15well. She's had a long history of
3:00:16depression. Suddenly, she's not
3:00:18controlled. Suddenly, her symptoms are
3:00:20back and she's on the same medication.
3:00:22Rather than doubling or adding a second
3:00:24agent,
3:00:25>> we really should be giving these women a
3:00:29hormonal therapy.
3:00:31>> Now, that doesn't hold postmenopause.
3:00:33So, this is really a pmenopausal kind of
3:00:36window of opportunity.
3:00:37>> In postmenopause, they aren't responding
3:00:40as well and probably because the
3:00:41estrogen labels have stabilized. So when
3:00:43we give a woman back
3:00:44>> adapts yeah you'll adapt. So
3:00:46postmenopause the menopause um that's
3:00:49why the suicide rates kind of peak in
3:00:51this key per menopause area and we think
3:00:54and so in postmenopause
3:00:57they the hormone levels stabilize so
3:00:59women tend to get better and so they do
3:01:02respond better to the SSRIs for for new
3:01:04onset anxiety and depression in those
3:01:05patients.
3:01:07>> And I want to do a randomized control
3:01:08trial where we add some creatine.
3:01:10>> Oh that would be amazing. 20 g of
3:01:14>> Well, no, it's 38 per kilogram of body
3:01:16gram. Yes.
3:01:17>> So, you're saying if I'm a 45year-old
3:01:19woman and I'm I've still got my
3:01:21menstrual cycle
3:01:22>> Mhm.
3:01:23>> at that time before I've hit menopause,
3:01:26>> I should be considering some type of
3:01:27hormonal therapy. So when we give
3:01:29someone menopausal dosed menopause
3:01:31hormone therapy in the form of estradile
3:01:33usually in a patch because you have that
3:01:34nice steady state it is enough to feed
3:01:37back to the hypo to that brain to calm
3:01:40down but not enough to suppress
3:01:41ovulation. So she's often giving
3:01:43estrogen support in very low doses and
3:01:46menopause hormone therapy is basically
3:01:47micro doing compared to what we do
3:01:49naturally. And so we're giving enough to
3:01:52calm the brain down and stabilize what's
3:01:54happening in the brain without
3:01:55suppressing her natural ovulation.
3:01:58giving enough what?
3:01:59>> To raise you back to maybe what that
3:02:01baseline would be.
3:02:02>> Giving enough estrogen. Correct. Giving
3:02:05enough estrogen to raise the baseline
3:02:07level so it's not as low. It's not so
3:02:10high that it's preventing ovulation, but
3:02:12it's going to alleviate some of these
3:02:14drastic highs and lows that you're
3:02:16having and it's going to create a more
3:02:17stable hormone environment.
3:02:19>> It's the delta that we were talking
3:02:20about post pregnancy. The delta
3:02:25chaos. The space is what bothers us, not
3:02:27the high nor the low eventually.
3:02:30>> So,
3:02:31I have uh I run out of eggs and then I'm
3:02:36by definition menopausal at this stage
3:02:39and
3:02:41my body adapts.
3:02:43So, there's going to be a drop and then
3:02:45there's going to be a
3:02:46>> We're specifically talking about mental
3:02:48health because you brought up the
3:02:49suicide chart. Uh and so postmenopause
3:02:53like once everything calms down and
3:02:55you're fully menopausal you're out of
3:02:56the zone of chaos. The hormones have
3:02:58just your bones continue to deteriorate
3:03:01a lot of other things are happening but
3:03:02our cognit our mental our brain tends to
3:03:05calm down and things get better in the
3:03:06brain.
3:03:07>> When do I become postmenopausal instead
3:03:08of menopausal?
3:03:10>> Oh go menopause is a day right medically
3:03:14menopause is one day in your life. one
3:03:16day exactly after your final menstrual
3:03:19period.
3:03:19>> That's the point of that random agree,
3:03:22right? Because what if what if it's leap
3:03:24year? Do we go 366 days? What if it's
3:03:26what if you've had an IUD? What if
3:03:27you've had all these things? It's like
3:03:29it's really a antiquated definition and
3:03:31we really need to modernize.
3:03:32>> So, it's really you're permenopausal,
3:03:34then you're postmenopausal.
3:03:35>> Correct.
3:03:35>> Right.
3:03:36>> Okay. And when I'm postmenopausal
3:03:38>> forever,
3:03:39>> forever.
3:03:40>> That's your new biological state.
3:03:41>> That's right. for now. I'm sure
3:03:43someone's working on something to change
3:03:45something.
3:03:46>> I do wonder that. I do wonder if they're
3:03:48they're going to figure out a way to
3:03:49>> extend fertility. I mean, they're
3:03:51trying.
3:03:52>> They're trying.
3:03:54>> But then I think about it as if you're a
3:03:5660-year-old woman, would you still want
3:03:58to be
3:03:58>> worried about
3:03:59>> worried about that?
3:04:00>> So, what they're doing is looking at is
3:04:02there a way to extend
3:04:03>> we'll say ovarian function. ovarian
3:04:05function with lowle baseline
3:04:08>> enough to keep you out of osteop you
3:04:09know enough to slow that down and heart
3:04:11disease protect your heart without
3:04:14pregnancy
3:04:14>> I'm now post menopausal lots of things
3:04:17change in my body I'm guessing because I
3:04:18I no longer have the same levels of
3:04:20estrogen
3:04:21>> did the levels of estrogen ever go up
3:04:23again naturally or do I then need to
3:04:25start considering
3:04:26>> outside of a tumor no I mean
3:04:28>> so do I need to consider hormone
3:04:29replacement therapies and things like
3:04:30that to
3:04:31>> you might
3:04:32>> and that will help me fend off what the
3:04:34sleep issues, the
3:04:36>> it'll slow the rate of change,
3:04:38>> okay?
3:04:38>> But it doesn't stop it. You still have
What Is Hormone Replacement Therapy Really For?
3:04:41to put in your lifestyle modifications
3:04:43to improve andor stop the circenia and
3:04:46the bone density loss and all the things
3:04:48that people associate with
3:04:50postmenopause.
3:04:50>> And did any of you have menopause
3:04:53hormone therapy?
3:04:54>> Yes.
3:04:55>> Yeah.
3:04:55>> Mhm.
3:04:56>> And what was the decision and what what
3:04:58impact has it had? So, I think what
3:04:59Stacy just said in framing where we're
3:05:02going with this conversation is so now
3:05:04we're permenopausal. It's a new
3:05:07physiology.
3:05:08What used to work for all of our
3:05:10exercising if we even did because we
3:05:12know it at least in this country that 60
3:05:15to 80% of people aren't intentional with
3:05:18their lifestyle. So to frame this next
3:05:21part of the conversation, I'm sure we're
3:05:23going to talk a lot about hormones, and
3:05:24I'll tell you my hormone decision-m, but
3:05:28uh I think it's important to all of us.
3:05:30It's only one of the building blocks to
3:05:35rebuilding a great life, right? It's
3:05:37interesting that the five steps of
3:05:39fertility that you went over are
3:05:41actually
3:05:41>> exactly the same.
3:05:43>> Curious, isn't it?
3:05:44>> It is. It's it's
3:05:46great protein and anti-inflammatory
3:05:49nutrition. It's a cardiovascular fitness
3:05:52life. It's a lifting life. It's a stress
3:05:54detox whether it's environmental or
3:05:57relational. And
3:05:58>> sleep,
3:05:59>> sleep,
3:06:00>> sleep.
3:06:00>> And then yes, hormones are really uh a
3:06:03critical building block. But as we enter
3:06:05the conversation,
3:06:07women are sentient beings and we get to
3:06:10decide
3:06:12and we get to make the changes because
3:06:14we have agency. So what we're going to
3:06:16describe is not a one-sizefits-all.
3:06:19>> It is
3:06:20>> it's all the tools on the tools.
3:06:21>> Put the tools on the table.
3:06:23>> So I choose if I'm going to work my
3:06:25proverbial rear end off to be the best I
3:06:28can be for the rest of my life. I choose
3:06:30to use all the tools. Not everybody does
3:06:33that. But to choose one tool and think
3:06:35that's going to be enough, it never is.
3:06:37>> Right. So when I decided to and I've
3:06:41been pretty public about my journey in
3:06:44this because you think I would have
3:06:46known after 22 years of formal education
3:06:49and all this and being an aging a
3:06:52muscularkeeletal aging researcher, you
3:06:54would have think thought I would have
3:06:55known. But I honestly looking back maybe
3:06:57thought I was never going to age because
3:06:59I was so healthy, right?
3:07:01So I have a baby at 40. I breastfeed
3:07:05till almost 41 and a half, 42. And then
3:07:09I'm back at my very quickly 5 weeks, my
3:07:12high power, high capacity to career.
3:07:16But things were getting really different
3:07:18about 45 for me and I think I went right
3:07:21from postpartum
3:07:24to perry menopause with very little
3:07:27downtime. So chaotic hormones to almost
3:07:32and so
3:07:34I suffered for a while at 47. Uh I I
3:07:37talk about it like I I went from this
3:07:39really high capacity to thinking I was
3:07:41going to die not only because of night
3:07:44sweats, brain fog, the thing that lots
3:07:46of women have. But I started having
3:07:49heart palpitations. And I call my
3:07:52cardiology friend because I worked at a
3:07:54university. I'm like Ricky Ricky I think
3:07:55I'm dying. So he did put me on a stress
3:07:57test and my heart was perfect right at
3:08:00that point. And then I had arthralgia
3:08:04which is total body pain. It's part of
3:08:06the inflammatory response of not having
3:08:10estrogen. It's part of the
3:08:11muscularkeeletal syndrome of menopause
3:08:14uh assembly of symptoms. so much that I
3:08:17go from training
3:08:19to almost not being able to get out of
3:08:21bed and these my experience of not
3:08:24knowing what was coming and hitting a
3:08:27wall is not uncommon,
3:08:29>> right? And so I started educating myself
3:08:32and being an acquired expert. I read
3:08:36what I consider the world's data on
3:08:39safety of hormone optimization as I like
3:08:43to call it and I made the decision that
3:08:46I was going to do all the tools. I was
3:08:48going to learn to lift heavy again which
3:08:49I hadn't done since high school cuz I
3:08:51was a runner and I changed the way I do
3:08:54my cardio and I changed my diet and I am
3:08:57so committed to sleep. do not call me
3:08:59after 9:30 at night because I am going
3:09:01to be in bed and just the
3:09:04>> the quiet times of d-stress. But I also
3:09:06decided to um augment or to optimize my
3:09:11hormones with estradiol,
3:09:13with progesterone because I have a
3:09:15uterus and after I felt comfortable with
3:09:18those with very small doses of
3:09:21testosterone and that makes me feel like
3:09:25myself again, not just one because I
3:09:27think sometimes people think that you
3:09:29can just make a hormone decision and
3:09:31feel like yourself again. It takes
3:09:33lifestyle
3:09:35>> plus or minus this decision.
3:09:37>> Is there a stigma associated with that
3:09:39decision? Um
3:09:40>> taking hormones.
3:09:41>> Taking the hormones, but also I guess
3:09:42just more broadly with entering
3:09:45>> menopause. Yeah.
3:09:47>> Um I think there is there is absolutely
3:09:50I mean you can just look at popular
3:09:52media. You can look at their
3:09:53representation.
3:09:54>> Go right now and give me an image.
3:09:56>> It's decreasing because of you though.
3:09:58Like we have to acknowledge you are
3:09:59decreasing the stigma.
3:10:01>> True. and you're sitting at the table
3:10:02with us.
3:10:03>> I say that I think because there's a
3:10:04woman in my life who was telling me
3:10:06about her decision to start taking
3:10:07menopause hormone therapy and she
3:10:10described the moment with her husband
3:10:12when she was looking at the box.
3:10:13>> Mhm.
3:10:14>> And she was staring at the box and
3:10:16staring at the box and staring at the
3:10:18box and mulling it and there was clearly
3:10:20something emotional going on there that
3:10:21this decision to take this marks
3:10:24something
3:10:25>> which is interesting because no one
3:10:27really questions OC's.
3:10:29>> Exactly. Oral contraceptive birth
3:10:31control birth control
3:10:33>> and I treat both men and women and when
3:10:35a man comes into my clinic with low
3:10:37energy popping all the tendons all over
3:10:40his body everything hurts we very
3:10:42quickly test his testosterone and send
3:10:45him with no judgment because he's trying
3:10:47to be viral and I think it goes with the
3:10:50general composa conversation about aging
3:10:52women when men talk about living longer
3:10:57>> it's called longevity and we celebrate
3:10:59that and we take pictures of movie stars
3:11:02in the south of France very
3:11:03distinguished distinguished with their
3:11:05grain temples when women when we talk
3:11:07about women living longer
3:11:10>> until right now cuz we're all screaming
3:11:12about it it's under the guise of
3:11:15anti-aging
3:11:17>> a superficial like oh my god don't let
3:11:19her age so I think part of that is the
3:11:24stigma of menopause somehow because
3:11:26we're no longer able to have a
3:11:29there's not a value. We've aged out of
3:11:31the game,
3:11:32>> which hopefully we're pivoting this
3:11:35narrative because as I said earlier,
3:11:37women are winning the longevity battle.
3:11:39We already live longer, but it's how
3:11:42we're living that we're trying to course
3:11:44correct.
3:11:44>> Yeah. And it's not just humans that go
3:11:46through this. Like I like using the
3:11:48whale analogy cuz whales go through it
3:11:50and then the whales that are no longer
3:11:52reproductive become like
3:11:54>> the senior everyone all the other little
3:11:57whales listen to them. is like I want to
3:11:59be like a whale where you have this
3:12:01seniority and and respect the wisdom
3:12:05wisdom keepers.
3:12:06>> Yeah,
3:12:06>> exactly.
3:12:07>> I love this part of my life.
3:12:09>> You love this part of your life?
3:12:10>> Yes.
3:12:11>> Why?
3:12:12>> I have never felt like I've
3:12:17been in exactly where I'm supposed to
3:12:19be. In this moment, I feel like I'm
3:12:22helping more people. I have better
3:12:24relationships. I'm having better sex.
3:12:26I'm having better, you know, everything
3:12:29in my life pretty much is better. And I
3:12:33I don't know if like menopause and and
3:12:36life circumstances have just given me
3:12:39permission to like cut out the crap and
3:12:43focus on what's really important
3:12:45>> and, you know, don't sweat the small
3:12:48stuff,
3:12:49you know, it's like like something kind
3:12:51of switches in our brain.
3:12:52>> No filters. It's amazing. And I don't
3:12:55think I could have done this 10 years
3:12:57ago. I was too worried about what people
3:12:59thought. I was too worried about being a
3:13:00good girl and following the rules and
3:13:02checking the boxes and never stepping
3:13:04outside of the guidelines. But until I
3:13:06realized that I wasn't really serving
3:13:08the population that I trained for x
3:13:10amount of years to that, you know, and
3:13:13they were being left behind
3:13:15is really what allowed me to like be
3:13:18where I am today.
3:13:19>> I think most of us describe this as the
3:13:21most authentic. We're actually who we
3:13:24were made to be. And the confidence we
3:13:26feel comes from our memories of success.
3:13:30I think that's where confidence come
3:13:31from. We remember everything that we
Should You Treat Menopause Symptoms?
3:13:33have learned to fix over time. Probably
3:13:36we could figure anything out. And so
3:13:39that comes with experience and frankly
3:13:42it comes with aging. The price of aging
3:13:45or the pre the price of having wisdom
3:13:47and experience is aging, right? And so
3:13:50the the reps and so you get to this
3:13:52place and you're like, I'm going to
3:13:54figure this out. We're going to figure
3:13:56this out.
3:13:57>> And I don't want the younger generations
3:13:58to have to go through the stuff that
3:14:00we've gone through. So if I can share my
3:14:02experiences to help them navigate, then
3:14:05that is a good thing.
3:14:06>> Yeah, I'm in pmenopause, so I'm a
3:14:08slightly different stage. And I know
3:14:11this because my cycles are shorter, but
3:14:14they're still very regular. Used to be
3:14:1628 29 days. Now they're 25 26. I know
3:14:20that means I have less eggs coming out
3:14:22of my vault every month and that's why
3:14:24I'm ovulating sooner. But I can feel all
3:14:26the hormonal shifts much more profoundly
3:14:29than before. Now, as a reproductive
3:14:31endocrinologist, what we call a
3:14:33fertility doctor, most fertility doctors
3:14:35now do IVF day in and day out. And
3:14:37there's a lot of corporate reasons why
3:14:39that is. But we're also trained in
3:14:42puberty, premature ovarian failure, and
3:14:44hormones. So, I'm more of a cowboy and
3:14:46quite cavalier at giving estrogen. We
3:14:48even told these ladies last night, oh,
3:14:51>> because I see it. I see people who are
3:14:53low estrogen states and you know, every
3:14:56single day, how it impacts their life.
3:14:58So, I am on lowd dose estrogen right
3:15:01now, even though I'm still cycling. I'm
3:15:02still making my own progesterone, so I
3:15:05don't have to take a progesterone right
3:15:07now. But, it clearly makes a difference
3:15:10in my day-to-day function and how I
3:15:12feel. And most REI like I am will
3:15:16jokingly say like you'll put me in the
3:15:18ground on estrogen because it has such a
3:15:20profound impact on you're able how you
3:15:24can function and specifically if we're
3:15:27not forcing you to go through this empty
3:15:30glass period for years and years and
3:15:32years of your life
3:15:34>> there's more opportunity on how you can
3:15:37slow down part of the process that we
3:15:39all know is going to happen with aging
3:15:41but to live I think pond do is it you
3:15:43know healthier your health span how are
3:15:44you going to live healthy longer not
3:15:47just live longer
3:15:48>> well and I think your approach that I
3:15:51think it's part of the decision making
3:15:53is critical because
3:15:56>> uh
3:15:5835 to 45 and early pmenopause are prime
3:16:01times for prevention
3:16:03>> right it's to get our standards set
3:16:06>> you don't have to lose your bone like
3:16:08you're going to get
3:16:08>> but it's hard for women to get care and
3:16:10we also have to acknowledge that if you
3:16:12go into
3:16:13>> right if you what you're recommending
3:16:14and I also do the same thing for my
3:16:16patients
3:16:17>> very hard for somebody to get care for
3:16:18>> this is not happening in 99%
3:16:21>> of doctor's offices like there is no
3:16:24birth control pill or nothing which is
3:16:25all they were taught
3:16:26>> given that even in menopause only 4% of
3:16:29women have chosen or have been educated
3:16:32the pros and cons of hormone
3:16:34optimization
3:16:35and then to ex that's without that's an
3:16:37empty jar person
3:16:39>> so 4% Stephen
3:16:41>> is that How many women that have
3:16:43>> said 2023 they did a study in the US.
3:16:45I'm not sure in other countries and on
3:16:47FDA approved. So when we add in
3:16:49compounding it's maybe a little bit
3:16:50higher but when you look at FDA
3:16:53prescriptions only 4% of eligible women
3:16:56meaning no risk factors right age are
3:16:59are utilizing are going to get their
3:17:01prescriptions filled. Evidently this is
3:17:04going to change right with the education
3:17:06that you guys
3:17:07>> we hope at least they're being offered
3:17:09it and having a discussion so that each
3:17:11one
3:17:11>> they may choose not to the right and
3:17:13that's their right but
3:17:14>> side effects are there side effects
3:17:16worth noting I know a lot of people are
3:17:17quite scared of taking sen hormones
3:17:20>> so there's risks and then there's side
3:17:21effects so when we look at the side
3:17:23effect profile anytime we give a woman
3:17:25estrogen progesterone and we'll have to
3:17:28like look at them individually but
3:17:30estrogen you can have headaches you can
3:17:32have irregular bleeding about 50% of
3:17:34patients and more on the patch than on
3:17:36oral.
3:17:37>> There's a patch and there's oral. Vonda,
3:17:38you take the patch, right?
3:17:39>> I do.
3:17:40>> And that's on your stomach.
3:17:41>> Yeah, it's right here actually.
3:17:42>> And how often do you have to replace
3:17:43that?
3:17:44>> Twice a week.
3:17:45>> Okay, fine. And
3:17:47>> yeah. So, so when we look at menopause
3:17:48hormone therapy, we have estrogen, we
3:17:51have progesterrogens, and then we have
3:17:53testosterone basically. And there's
3:17:55different ways to get it into your body.
3:17:57There's oral and non-oral roughly. So,
3:17:59in oral it's pill, you take it. In
3:18:01non-oral, we're looking at through the
3:18:03skin or through the mucosa. So mucosa
3:18:06could be under the tongue. It could be
3:18:08in the vagina. So mucosa is like the
3:18:10gastrointestinal tract is lined with
3:18:12mucosa and it's a nice way to absorb and
3:18:14in the rectum to absorb medication. We
3:18:16don't have a rectal form of estrogen
3:18:18yet. And so um so and then there's also
3:18:21injectables so you can inject it
3:18:23straight into the muscle or subcutaneous
3:18:25tissues. So most commercially available
3:18:27like FDA approved. We're looking at a
3:18:29ring for the mucosa. We're looking at a
3:18:31patch for transdermal or we're looking
3:18:33at pills for oral.
3:18:34>> And what do you take?
3:18:35>> Yes. So, I am on a patch. Um, and I've
3:18:38just been I'm not a great absorber
3:18:41through my skin. Um, and I couldn't get
3:18:43my estradile levels high enough where
3:18:45studies are looking like the best bone
3:18:47protection is. So, I've added about a
3:18:49half milligram of oral estradile at
3:18:51night. I'm on oral micronized
3:18:53progesterone, which is probably the best
3:18:55way to get it into our system. And I
3:18:57tolerate progesterone very well. And
3:18:59testosterone. And I am on a gel that is
3:19:02FDA approved. We I'm borrowing the men's
3:19:04version because we don't have an FDA
3:19:06approved version
3:19:06>> for women
3:19:07>> in this country for women. So
3:19:09>> I don't think anywhere is
3:19:10>> borrow my husband.
3:19:11>> Australia.
3:19:12>> Australia.
3:19:13>> And I think the UK just has approved
3:19:16one. This is new
3:19:17>> some news like in the last month.
3:19:19>> Yeah.
3:19:20>> So okay. So um okay. So, so it's it's
3:19:23broadly advisable
3:19:26after doctor's consultation to take some
3:19:28form of hormone therapy.
3:19:30>> Definitely if you're symptomatic, if you
3:19:32have the classic visual motor symptoms,
3:19:33it's absolutely the gold standard.
3:19:36>> But can I comment on that?
3:19:37>> Women say to me all the time either, I
3:19:41don't have I don't feel that bad
3:19:45or they say I want to do this naturally.
3:19:48And those are the things that say okay
3:19:50fine, do it naturally. But
3:19:54brain fog, night sweats in the V and hot
3:19:56flashes are not the only thing going on.
3:19:58And so if you're making this decision
3:20:01fully informed, well, you're a sentient
3:20:04being. Make the incision. But you cannot
3:20:07feel your bones crumbling until they're
3:20:10broken. You cannot feel that. You cannot
3:20:12feel your muscle going away. You cannot
3:20:14feel your brain starving. You can't
3:20:17detect microvascular disease of your
3:20:19heart. So, you may think you're getting
3:20:21away with something and maybe you don't
3:20:23have night sweats, brain fog,
3:20:26but it doesn't mean you're not having a
3:20:28different physiology. And if you are
3:20:30fully aware of that and make a decision
3:20:33that you don't want to optimize your
3:20:35hormones, that's your decision. And I'm
3:20:36fine with that. But what I'm not fine
3:20:38with is people thinking they're getting
3:20:40away with something when they're not.
3:20:43>> True. I
3:20:44>> You're making the decision based on fear
3:20:45and not facts.
3:20:46>> Correct.
3:20:46>> My last question is about love and sex
3:20:48in and menopause. You said you're having
3:20:50the best ex of your life, Mary. And um
3:20:52I've also heard you talk about how
3:20:54several people in this season of life
3:20:56end up getting divorces. You said they
3:20:58throw the the trash out. So when I
3:21:02So when we talk about, you know,
3:21:05menopause can
3:21:07spur, you know, for some women it's it's
3:21:10this mo moment of empowerment. They
3:21:12realize they have to circle the wagons
3:21:13cuz the only way they're going to
3:21:14survive through this cataclysmic, you
3:21:16know, upheaval for so many women is to
3:21:20get rid of relationships that aren't
3:21:21working. Put up boundaries and sometimes
3:21:23that's going to be the end of a
3:21:24marriage. Other times it's going to
3:21:26strengthen a relationship because you're
3:21:28you're kind of cutting out things that
3:21:30were getting in the way of your so I see
3:21:32many marriages or many relationships
3:21:34really improve through the transition.
3:21:36But it it does take two. You know, sex
3:21:39is biocschosocial. So like when I I look
3:21:41at sex it's not I think of the entire
3:21:43experience you know and one as far as my
3:21:47desire for the frequency testosterone
3:21:50does seem to have given that an uptick.
3:21:53So it is approved you know we have lots
3:21:56of studies done on libido for women
3:21:58which is in medicine we say hypoactive
3:22:00sexual desire disorder and it has to
3:22:02bother you. So a lot of women are like I
3:22:04don't want to have sex ever again I
3:22:05don't care. There's nothing wrong with
3:22:07that, right? Unless it affects your
3:22:09relationship and it it bo it has to
3:22:10bother you. But I have a lot of patients
3:22:12who come in and say, "I love him. I used
3:22:16to want to do it. We used to have a
3:22:17really great frequency and everybody was
3:22:19happy about it. It was something I look
3:22:20forward to, enjoy it, and now there's
3:22:22nothing. I have nothing." And for those
3:22:25patients, testosterone can be helpful.
3:22:27Not for everyone, right? And so there's
3:22:30other emerging data on looking at the
3:22:33muscular skeletal system. I am naturally
3:22:35thin. I was not an athlete growing up.
3:22:36At best, I was a dancer, you know, and I
3:22:40didn't do anything to protect my muscles
3:22:41and bones as as I was coming up through
3:22:43the ranks. And so, here I am in my 50s
3:22:46just getting out of endurance, you know,
3:22:48you know, recreational endurance
3:22:50training and thinking, what have I done
3:22:52to my bones and muscles? I laid on that
3:22:53DEXA scan as nervous as I've ever been
3:22:56in my life, like getting my board
3:22:57scores, nervous, like, what have I done?
3:22:59And and it wasn't bad, okay? But I'm
3:23:02like, but I like to be perfect. So, I'm
3:23:05like, what can I do to, you know, I'm
3:23:08doing the I'm eating the protein, I'm
3:23:09lifting the weights, I'm starting to do
3:23:11all these things. And we know that women
3:23:12who have naturally higher testosterone
3:23:14levels from genetics or whatever, have
3:23:17less frailty as they age cuz that's my
3:23:19focus. If I run the cancer gauntlet,
3:23:21which probably 80% of my aunts and
3:23:23uncles have died of cancer. And so if I
3:23:26run that gauntlet and I'm doing
3:23:27everything lifestyle and preventative
3:23:28screening to do that and then the women
3:23:31end up with dementia frailty like my
3:23:32mother and grandmother. So I'm like,
3:23:36"Okay, I want to have as much bone and
3:23:38muscle strength as I can. So I'm going
3:23:39to add some testosterone and see what
3:23:41happens." I I at the time would not have
3:23:44said I had any sexual dysfunction. I did
3:23:46not qualify medically for HSDD.
3:23:51I go on testosterone and there's
3:23:53definitely an uptick in the area and
3:23:55everyone is happier like my interest has
3:23:57improved my initiation has improved and
3:24:00that had kind of waned time and stress
3:24:02and kids and whatever the other thing we
3:24:04were empty nesting at the same time so
3:24:05that probably no more kids busting in
3:24:07our door at 2 in the morning letting us
3:24:09know they're home from you know whatever
3:24:11experience and you guys will go through
3:24:12this later but also our communication is
3:24:15better you know my husband's retired
3:24:17from Chevron and we are building this
3:24:20this company together, you know, our
3:24:22menopause company. And so our
3:24:24relationship has actually improved
3:24:25through all of that. So all of the
3:24:26things that feed into
3:24:29what we know is female desire and has is
3:24:32just better all the way around and and I
3:24:34think testosterone had a little bit to
3:24:35do with it. My ability to like focus and
3:24:39my ability to prioritize and put up the
3:24:42right boundaries has really helped with
3:24:43that. And we're just having a lot of
3:24:45more fun with it. But I think that we
3:24:47would be remiss in this part of the
3:24:50conversation, and I'll say it. I'm the
3:24:51orthod, but I'm gonna say it anyway.
3:24:56Many men, I just talked to my husband
3:24:58publicly about this because we're trying
3:24:59to educate men, is that most men don't
How to Improve Your Sex Life and Lubrication
3:25:01realize that in pmenopause, as estrogen
3:25:04waines, it affects all tissues. And
3:25:07there is an entity called the genital
3:25:09urinary syndrome of menopause where the
3:25:11vagina will actually atrophy and all the
3:25:14external soft uh tissues that are
3:25:18usually used to engorging will become
3:25:20dry like a desert and Stephen sex can
3:25:24feel like razor blades
3:25:26>> and men don't know that and women are
3:25:28afraid to tell their partners. So the
3:25:30men feel rejected like why doesn't she
3:25:33love me or desire me anymore and it may
3:25:36be that but it's probably not that it's
3:25:38it hurts and I bleed
3:25:41>> and women don't know that this is normal
3:25:43when you're estrogen is in not that it's
3:25:46okay to
3:25:46>> it shouldn't be it shouldn't be normal
3:25:48but when you're in a low estrogen state
3:25:50regard menopause birth control pills can
3:25:53do it postpartum breastfeeding even you
3:25:57know progesterone IUD these can all
3:25:59cause time periods where your estrogen
3:26:03levels are low enough that the vaginal
3:26:05tissue is not having the right collagen
3:26:07and elasticity that it should.
3:26:08>> So, what's the solution?
3:26:11>> Not lubricant.
3:26:13>> Lubricant can sometimes aid, but that's
3:26:15not a root cause, right? It'll help with
3:26:18I I help with symptoms, right? But if
3:26:21your part of the problem is that the
3:26:22tissue can't respond as it should, that
3:26:25it's frail, that delay orgasm, then we
3:26:27really want to get to the root cause,
3:26:29which is estrogen is crucial for skin
3:26:31elasticity.
3:26:32>> It's like men going on testosterone,
3:26:34right? If he's not having an erection,
3:26:37there are 29 solutions for that right
3:26:39now,
3:26:40>> but primarily funded solutions as well.
3:26:42>> Solutions. But for women, it's not just
3:26:45desire, it's physiologic. And so
3:26:49>> vaginal estrogen put putting something
3:26:51up
3:26:51>> putting in your vagina
3:26:52>> and what you put in your vagina is
3:26:53>> so there's there's several options. We
3:26:55have creams, we have pills, there's a
3:26:57ring specifically designed just for
3:26:59that. So we have different methods of
3:27:01getting the vag you know estrogen into
3:27:03the vagina. There's also um uh something
3:27:06called prosterone which is DHEA
3:27:08basically which is a pre hormone that
3:27:11the vagina miraculously will convert to
3:27:13estrogen and testosterone. So but it's
3:27:16expensive. It tends to not be covered by
3:27:17insurance. But for our like our sex med
3:27:20friends, sexual medicine friends who
3:27:22specialize in this female sexual
3:27:24function, they love it because you're
3:27:26not only getting a boost of estrogen to
3:27:28the vagina, you're also getting
3:27:29testosterone and there are testosterone,
3:27:31you know, receptors in the vulva, you
3:27:33know, in the lower vagina and around the
3:27:36skin around the vagina as well.
3:27:38>> But here's the bonus.
3:27:40All of this plus vaginal estrogen will
3:27:44help prevent chronic UTI which kill old
3:27:48ladies and it will help support the
3:27:50pelvic floor and the uh uterus from
3:27:55prolapsing and so it has all these added
3:27:58benefits and here's another bonus it is
3:28:00such low dose
3:28:02>> it is not systemic so any risk that you
3:28:06could think of that you might not want
3:28:08to do systemic estrogen including breast
3:28:10cancer
3:28:11>> is unaffected by vaginal estrogen and so
3:28:14it is a huge solution. And there's no
3:28:16age that a woman can't go on it. She'll
3:28:19kill me. She'll never know this. But I
3:28:21put my 86-year-old mother on it so that
3:28:23we could prevent UTI and failure of
3:28:26tissue so she didn't get sores and
3:28:29infections, right? Isn't that a miracle?
3:28:33I know Stephen's like,
3:28:34>> "Yeah, and we should say that vaginal
3:28:36estrogen in preparations made for
3:28:38vaginal estrogen or lowd dose estrogen
3:28:40preparations. You can give oral
3:28:42estradiol vaginally and it will be
3:28:45systemically absorbed because the vagina
3:28:47is highly absorptive. So I don't want
3:28:48somebody to hear this and think that but
3:28:51just saying we often prescribe or
3:28:53recommend
3:28:54>> a local treatment of vaginal estrogen
3:28:56products which are in very low dose and
3:28:58they really impact the local tissues of
3:29:01we'll say the pelvic floor, the urinary
3:29:03system, the vulva, the vagina and they
3:29:05improve your well-being and your health
3:29:08without some of the risk that might come
3:29:10from systemic hormones in somebody who
3:29:12may not want to take them.
3:29:14>> I am all out of questions. So I wanted
3:29:16to conclude this segment just by asking
3:29:18you what the most important thing that I
3:29:20have missed on the subjects we've talked
3:29:22about menstrual cycles, menopause,
3:29:24everything in between. What is the most
3:29:27important subject you think we might
3:29:28have missed?
3:29:30>> I think we covered it but but to stay
3:29:33that you control a large part. We said
3:29:37over and over inflammation and insulin
3:29:40resistance. We we touched on different
3:29:43lifestyle factors that impact this
3:29:45because
3:29:46>> when your body is having hormone change,
3:29:48>> there's a lot of the external world
3:29:50around you or the choices you're making
3:29:51that can make some of that better or
3:29:53worse or influence what is happening.
3:29:56>> And I know we're going to go over more
3:29:57of this, but I think this idea that I
3:29:59have no control over what's happening to
3:30:01me isn't 100% true. I mean, you don't
3:30:04have control over when some of this
3:30:05stuff happens, but you can take control
3:30:08of a situation by understanding your
3:30:10body, knowing what's happening, knowing
3:30:13how to advocate for yourself, and making
3:30:15active decisions to live a healthier,
3:30:18better life.
3:30:19>> Yes, that's the goal is to empower women
3:30:21to understand, to ask the questions so
3:30:24they don't feel like something is
3:30:25happening to them and they don't have
3:30:27control or options,
3:30:29>> which is what our mother's generation
3:30:31had. They were always gas lit, told, you
3:30:34know, it's all in your head.
3:30:36>> There's nothing we can do.
3:30:37>> So, my mother was put on but it was
3:30:42called butol.
3:30:44Um, it's basically a sedative and it was
3:30:47mother's little helper. And I found an
3:30:49old magazine article where they if you
3:30:51look at the magazine articles from the
3:30:5450s and 60s on these medications, mostly
3:30:58sedatives that were given to women. It's
3:30:59like now she can do the laundry again.
3:31:02Now she she's flipping a pancake in the
3:31:04ad in the apron in the 1950s, you know,
3:31:07like get your mom back, get your wife
3:31:09back.
3:31:10>> And it was a combination of estrogen
3:31:12plus a seditive. And I was just
3:31:16absolutely floored. And I remember mom's
3:31:18little bottle and it was called butol
3:31:22and I it would sit on her counter and
3:31:25she would talk about it like it was her
3:31:27talisman like it was her and I always
3:31:29thought of it as mommy's little helper
3:31:31you know like oh I need my butol oh this
3:31:33happened where's my butol where's my
3:31:35butol and when I was researching and
3:31:37writing and reading about these
3:31:40sedatives that were given in women I was
3:31:41like wait mama I remember the bottle I
3:31:44remember what it was called cuz she
3:31:45talked about it all the time I went and
3:31:47looked it up and it's a derivative of
3:31:48pheninoarbatl.
3:31:50>> Oh my gosh.
3:31:50>> And it was heavily prescribed to women.
3:31:52So
3:31:53>> barbbituate. It's a a drug.
3:31:55>> It's a class of drug that is basically a
3:31:57sedative. We use it in surgery. We use
3:31:58it for seizures.
3:32:00>> And they were sedating my mother on the
3:32:03daily.
3:32:03>> Yep.
3:32:04>> Through her pmenopause.
3:32:06>> Mhm.
3:32:06>> Now she had eight kids. She was running
3:32:08a restaurant. You know, she was very
3:32:10high functioning. And I just refused for
3:32:12that to be that was her reality. Yeah.
3:32:14>> And here she lies in a bed with
3:32:17Alzheimer's and a fractured hip and she
3:32:20hasn't walked in 8 months. You know,
3:32:22she's she's just now getting on a walker
3:32:248 months after her hip fracture and from
3:32:27osteoporosis who's never had a bone
3:32:28density scan in her life. And like our
3:32:31our children deserve better. It's not
3:32:32going to be my future cuz I have the,
3:32:34you know, I have the means. I have
3:32:36access. But like I I want every young
3:32:38girl, all of our children to
3:32:41>> have a better future than what was
3:32:43offered to our mothers.
3:32:44>> Exactly.
3:32:45>> I think ending this, I would want every
3:32:48woman to approach her midlife
3:32:52life, her new life with the same vigor
3:32:55and the same curiosity and the same
3:32:57demanding of care that she would do for
3:33:00one of her children if her child is
3:33:02sick. She's not going to take no. She's
3:33:04not going to take being blown off. She's
3:33:06going to keep searching till the end of
3:33:08the earth until she finds an answer. And
3:33:10that's what that is the same kind of
3:33:13taking control that I want women to do
3:33:15about this time in their lives.
3:33:18>> Thank you so much. We're going to record
3:33:21we're going to continue this
3:33:22conversation for the viewers that are
3:33:23listening at home. Um, I've been through
3:33:25all of these wonderful books that I have
3:33:26in front of me and there's so many
3:33:29lifestyle, nutrition, exercise related
3:33:32solutions to many of the things we've
3:33:33talked about today to be an truly
3:33:35optimized um, hormone healthy menstrual
3:33:38cycle healthy woman, which I want to
3:33:40talk about in our part two of this
3:33:42conversation.
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