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0:00The wife doesn't listen to her husband .

0:02There are practically no videos on this

0:04topic online . Everyone is embarrassed

0:07to speak out about it . But I won't be

0:09embarrassed , because I have many

0:10acquaintances and friends whose

0:12girlfriends obeyed them unquestioningly

0:13during the first few years of their

0:15relationship . " Yes , honey , whatever you

0:17say , honey , and we'll do as you decide .

0:19" But as soon as the kids came along , a

0:21couple of years passed , and that's it .

0:24My friend Situparashi is eating cold

0:26cabbage soup . His opinion is the last

0:28thing anyone takes into account . Let me

0:30explain how it works . The beginning of

0:32a relationship is pure joy . Sex three

0:34times a night , relaxation , movies ,

0:35flirting , entertainment . At this point ,

0:38the man has real power because he holds

0:40in his hands what the girl wants . It's

0:42a dopamine rush . As soon as the girl

0:45starts getting impudent , the man

0:47distances himself , stops calling ,

0:49becomes cold , or says , " That's it ,

0:50we're breaking up . " Then what happens ?

0:53The girl panics . An hour later , there

0:55are already 47 missed calls . Text

0:57messages : " Darling , I'm sorry , I'm an

0:57idiot . " Let's meet and talk . Do you

0:59think it will always be like this ? It

1:01won't . She's still afraid of losing her

1:03high . She's literally starting to break

1:05down , because she won't see you

1:06tomorrow and there will be no attack .

1:08She apologizes , becomes silky . This is

1:10the kind of control a girl has that

1:12works flawlessly . If you misbehave , you

1:14lose access to the high . Period . And

1:16for each of us , this scheme worked for

1:19a time . Why ? Because you have a great

1:20time together . You generate tons of

1:22pleasant sensations , impressions , and

1:24she holds on to you with a death grip .

1:27All a man needs at this stage to take a

1:29strong position is to be ready to give

1:32up this high at any second . Well , if he

1:35has to . This is more than enough for a

1:37woman to respect and obey him . But as

1:39soon as a child appears , life turns

1:42into a dreadful slog . Lack of sleep ,

1:44runny poop in diapers , runny noses ,

1:46illness , fatigue . Many have had no sex

1:48for months . Zero romance . Instead of

1:52dates at the clinic , a woman no longer

1:54fears losing a man as a source of

1:56pleasure , because the pleasure is over ,

1:58it's gone . But she simply has nothing

2:01emotional to hold on to , understand .

2:03You usually solved the problem now .

2:05Your role has changed . Buy groceries ,

2:08carry bags , walk with the stroller , and

2:09that's it . So , if before your

2:11relationship consisted of 95 % pleasant

2:14leisure and pleasure , now 95 % of your

2:16relationship is everyday life , chores .

2:19Well , if you're really lucky , you'll

2:21get out to eat at the food court on the

2:23weekend or go to Tours once . What , is

2:24that a pleasure or something ? Hardly .

2:26If before , your departure meant a loss

2:29of dopamine and withdrawal for her , now

2:31it's just the loss of a working hand .

2:33Well , if you can't help , then your

2:34mother will help her . What's the

2:35problem ? What's the tragedy ? Let's

2:37imagine a situation where your wife has

2:38been mean to you , telling you in front

2:40of the child that you're such a stupid

2:41idiot . Before , you could ignore her ,

2:45but she'd come running right after you .

2:48But after the baby is born , you can go

2:49three days without talking to her , and

2:51she couldn't care less . She simply

2:52couldn't care less . Well , because it

2:54doesn't change her life at all . She

2:57still gets up at 6:00 a.m. , cooks

2:59porridge , washes the dishes , puts the

3:01screaming child to bed . For a tired

3:03woman , stressed out by the child and

3:04everyday life , your silence is a

3:06vacation , not a punishment . You don't

3:07show up , you don't ask for food , you

3:09don't try to get intimate . Now , if

3:11right now you were to run off to a

3:12friend's for three days , supposedly to

3:14teach her a lesson , to punish her ,

3:15instead of being sad , she'd open a

3:16bottle of champagne . If you yell at her

3:19, or try to overwhelm her with your

3:21authority , your wife will immediately

3:22play the victim . She'll start crying

3:24and calling her mom or friends . In the

3:26eyes of those around you , you'll appear

3:27as a domestic tyrant , yelling at the

3:29poor mother . But if you decide to play

3:31your trump card , and immediately

3:33threaten her with divorce , you'll be

3:34kicking yourself in the nuts . Well ,

3:37because in a divorce , she takes the

3:39child , stays in the same apartment , or

3:41you nag her in half , she gets child

3:43support , is freed from having to wash

3:45your underwear and socks , the burden on

3:47her is reduced , and she has more free

3:49time . Moreover , she gets the chance to

3:52meet someone new , with whom that

3:53chemistry you once had , the romance ,

3:55will start all over again . This is

3:57something that has been missing from

3:58you for a long time . So , threatening

4:00divorce in this situation is the utmost

4:02stupidity . From this we conclude that

4:04men don't have a single effective tool

4:06at their disposal to force a woman to

4:08respect them . If we approached 100

4:11random married women with children

4:12right now and said , " Imagine your

4:14husband leaves a wad of 150,000 rubles

4:16on the nightstand and disappears for 14

4:18days , " 90 % of them wouldn't even have

4:19time to put on a socially acceptable

4:21mask . You'd see that they really like

4:24this prospect . They'd breathe a sigh of

4:27relief because no one snores , no

4:29laundry , no kitchen chores , and three

4:30times fewer dirty dishes . They could go

4:33to bed early . No one would bother them

4:35with intimacy . Some would immediately

4:37text their friend , " My husband's gone

4:38on a business trip for two weeks . " And

4:39their friend would reply , " Great , at

4:40least you'll get some rest ; let's have

4:42a glass of wine . " And they both laugh ,

4:44and there's no : " How are you without

4:46him ? You probably miss him . " That's

4:48just adolescence , believe me . They

4:50wouldn't say that . And the most

4:51humiliating thing is when you come home

4:53from a business trip , and she just

4:55casually says : " Damn , two weeks flew by

4:57in a flash , I didn't even notice . " And

4:59you suddenly realize how

5:01wonderful she was without you . Remember

5:02, a woman is only controllable in one

5:04single case : when the breakup of the

5:06family for her is a total collapse , a

5:08catastrophe that she dreads the shaking

5:10. That is , this conviction must be

5:12installed in her head from childhood .

5:14Only in this case will she have brakes .

5:15But if she doesn't have this brake , if

5:17her mind is spinning , well , if we'll

5:18get a divorce , I'll find someone else .

5:20What's the tragedy ? You have no

5:23leverage . Your wife is completely

5:24uncontrollable . And any attempts to

5:25rein her in will simply be laughable .

5:27Just watch people carefully in cafes ,

5:30shopping malls , and gas stations . I've

5:33almost never seen a young woman

5:35brazenly bully her boyfriend . But I see

5:38a picture of a legal wife publicly

5:40hissing at her husband , growling ,

5:41snarling , humiliating , or downright

5:43insulting him in front of strangers . I

5:45see it regularly . And now you

5:47understand why an ordinary guy might be

5:49able to get away with it , but this poor

5:50guy doesn't have that option . He's been

5:53completely pressured . His wife has no

5:55fear of losing her family , which means

5:57he has no power to force her to shut up

5:59. Every viewer should clearly

6:02understand that a man's power in a

6:04relationship never grows . It can only

6:06decline . So , the peak of your power is

6:09the first year of the relationship ,

6:10when you can pack up and disappear .

6:12Every subsequent step is a drain on

6:14your power . So , if you move in together

6:16, you lose power . Well , for now , it's

6:17insignificant . If you get married , you

6:19lose even more power . For now , it's

6:20bearable . As soon as a child is born ,

6:22the power shift — in most cases , you

6:24can pump yourself up to the level of a

6:26gorilla , start earning three times as

6:28much , and buy Mercedes . It's all

6:30useless . It won't help you at all . Male

6:32power in a relationship is an

6:33irreversibly diminishing asset . You

6:35start with 100 % at the very beginning

6:37and can only go down . Only down , and

6:40nothing else . And the more resources

6:42you've poured into the family , the more

6:43committed you are to preserving the

6:45marriage . In other words , you become a

6:47hostage to your own investments . A

6:48problem woman instantly reads this . She

6:51thinks , " Well , he's not going to burn

6:53down the house he spent five years

6:55building . Power in a relationship

6:56always belongs to the one who finds it

6:57easier to leave . And in a marriage with

6:59children , leaving is a thousand times

7:00harder for a man emotionally ,

7:02financially , and reputationally . " Well ,

7:03if the man is reasonable , of course ;

7:05we're not talking about idiots here . I

7:06know of countless cases where a man

7:08leaves for a mistress and ruins his

7:10family , but I don't know a single man

7:13who left his wife because she despised

7:15him and didn't respect him . I've seen

7:17countless such cases in my

7:18consultations . A man swallows in a

7:20marriage for 10 years . Ostensibly for

7:22the sake of the children . But as soon

7:24as a luscious twenty-five-year-old

7:25chick looms on the horizon — well , who

7:27just lets him hold her knee ? He

7:29immediately forgets about the children ,

7:31packs his suitcase , and runs away . This

7:33is the real reason he endured this

7:35humiliation . He was never truly

7:38faithful . Deep down , he always knew he

7:40was capable of betrayal , that he was an

7:43impostor . A potential traitor is always

7:45a coward . Aklo is incapable of slamming

7:47the door without principle , because

7:49principles require a willingness to

7:51lose everything . Only a truly faithful

7:53person is capable of walking away

7:55without principle . A man who knows that

7:57he gave his family everything , down to

7:59the last drop of blood , that he would

8:00never betray his wife . Only such a man

8:03feels a moral right to demand respect

8:05because his conscience is crystal clear

8:08. If a woman tries to devalue what he

8:11does , such a man will flare up with

8:13cold , uncompromising rage . He won't go

8:15to a woman , he'll retreat into the void

8:17to save his honor , because for him ,

8:19principle is more important than

8:20comfort . The algorithm for male

8:22self-sufficiency in relationships is

8:24extremely simple . Step one : initially

8:26choose a woman who is objectively

8:27suitable for a family . Step two : invest

8:30100 % . Do everything to ensure your

8:32family has everything they need , and

8:34that everyone in the family is happy .

8:36And then step three , the most important

8:38and crucial . You must forge within

8:41yourself a samurai-like readiness to

8:43take the most drastic measures at any

8:44second , any day , if your wife suddenly

8:46tries to devalue everything . It seems

8:50like a simple formula , but only a few

8:52are capable of it , because a man , well ,

8:54to pull it off requires the courage of

8:56a beast , the courage of a wolf caught

8:58in a trap , ready to bite off its own

9:00paw without hesitation . You have to be

9:02mentally prepared to lose half of

9:04everything you've built over the years .

9:06You have to be prepared to endure the

9:08nightmare of a trial , to lose daily

9:09contact with your children , and , at the

9:11same time , to listen to tons of garbage

9:12from those around you . You have to have

9:14absolute ruthlessness towards yourself ,

9:16a willingness to cut off the rotting

9:18part of your life without any

9:19anesthesia . Despite the monstrous

9:22imbalance of power , you must have the

9:24resolve to say , " Stop , you can't do

9:25this to me . You must possess the will

9:28of a titan . You must look a rebellious

9:30woman in the eye and say , " I'd rather

9:32let this ship , along with all my years

9:35of work , go down the drain , " and set

9:37sail , sail away in a lifeboat , than

9:39remain here as a slave at the helm .

9:41Your dignity must be worth more than

9:44any material or emotional loss , and you

9:47won't be able to play that role . Women

9:50are brilliant empaths . If you simply

9:52hit the boss and say , " I'm leaving , "

9:54but inside you're shaking in your boots

9:56with the thought , " What if she really

9:58does file for divorce and gather the

10:00kids ? " " She will feel it in that very

10:02millisecond . A woman should look into

10:04your eyes and see there not resentment ,

10:06not hysteria , but an icy determination

10:08to go all the way . You must understand

10:10one terrible thing . As soon as you

10:12muster up the courage to demand basic

10:14respect from your wife , it will not

10:16only be she who will turn against you .

10:18The whole of society will turn against

10:20you . Henpecked friends , mothers-in-law ,

10:22girlfriends , psychologists , the whole

10:24of modern pop culture . You will be

10:26immediately called a tyrant and accused

10:28of being the one , the one , the one who

10:30is destroying the family . Just think

10:32about it . Your wife is rude to you

10:34every day , devalues you , throws

10:36tantrums in your own place . But society

10:38does not think that she is destroying

10:40the family by doing so . Society will

10:42say that she is emotionally burned out ,

10:44tired on maternity leave , or needs a

10:45resource . Come , hug , caress , but as

10:48soon as you say , you won’t , you

10:49shouldn’t be with me , you You have no

10:52right to talk to me like that . That's

10:54it . You're immediately designated as

10:55the main destroyer . You're the

10:57aggressor . But if you try to find

10:59support from some family coach , he'll

11:01sweetly spout the most vomit-inducing

11:04mantra of our time . He'll say , " You see

11:07, a man is a gardener , and a woman is

11:10his garden . Hear her pain . " Buy her a

11:12spa trip , make her feel good . " Okay ,

11:13let's get down to business . Lie on your

11:15heels even harder . Repent for daring to

11:18be born . And maybe it's not certain yet

11:20, the master will change his anger to

11:22mercy and stop slapping you in the face

11:25. Averton's window is shifted so that

11:28if I say the words " female obedience "

11:30or " husband's authority " today , if I

11:32say it out loud , 99 % of people within a

11:34kilometer will turn red and start

11:36convulsing . When they say that a man

11:39should work hard , be faithful , and put

11:41all his efforts into the family , I'm

11:43all for it . But when , under the guise

11:44of preserving the marriage , they

11:46suggest that I accept outright meanness

11:48as the norm , this trick won't work .

11:49Didn't you guess right , guys ? And

11:51anyone who claims otherwise is a pest .

11:54My position is as follows : If a man

11:56fulfills his basic obligations to the

11:58family 100 % , but his wife allows

12:00herself to be rude , Shouting ,

12:02especially humiliation , a man has an

12:05absolute moral right to defend his

12:07dignity . And the algorithm of actions

12:09is as follows . Stage one . Distance . You

12:11stop initiating communication . Maintain

12:14basic politeness , but become cold . No

12:16shared dinners , watching movies ,

12:18heart-to-heart talks . You fulfill your

12:21duties , but you completely disconnect

12:24emotionally . This is already the first

12:26warning sign for your wife that

12:27something is wrong . Pay attention to

12:29this . Stage two is silence . That is , if

12:32the rudeness continues , you switch to

12:34ignoring mode , answering only questions

12:36about the children and everyday life .

12:38Monosyllables : yes , no . Good . No

12:41explanations , no excuses . You

12:43demonstratively show that dialogue is

12:45only possible with the person who

12:47respects you . She understands perfectly

12:49why you behave this way . She

12:50understands perfectly well . Well , the

12:52third stage is separation . You come to

12:54sleep in another room or another

12:55apartment . Well , you are already

12:57clearly demonstrating that the family

12:58is essentially It's already falling

12:59apart . And the fourth stage is

13:00preparing for divorce . You consult with

13:03a lawyer , look for housing , divide

13:05finances . And it's very important to

13:08understand now that at any of these

13:10stages , a woman can stop this process

13:12in 30 seconds . She only needs to send

13:14one message : " Forgive me for my

13:16rudeness . I was wrong . It will never

13:19happen again . " Well , you're not asking

13:21her to crawl on all fours . You're not

13:23forcing her to humiliate herself .

13:24You're asking for something basic : to

13:26acknowledge that rudeness is

13:27unacceptable . Well , if a wife watches

13:31for months as her man distances himself

13:33, packs his things , consults with

13:35lawyers , but stubbornly refuses to take

13:37this simple step , then she's choosing

13:40divorce . By her actions , or rather , by

13:43her inactions , she's saying : " I don't

13:45care about you or this family . " I'd

13:48rather destroy everything than admit I

13:50was wrong . But if a woman values family

13:52even a little , even just a little bit ,

13:54what's stopping her from apologizing ?

13:56Principles . And what principles justify

13:58rudeness ? If she puts her right to yell

14:00above preserving the marriage , then

14:02she's destroying the family . Yesterday

14:05I was at the supermarket , and right in

14:06front of me , my wife started putting

14:07her husband down , like , " Seryozha ,

14:08there you go again . " Come on , come on ,

14:11just a little bit , almost putting him

14:12down . I think at home , she probably

14:14even beats him . And you look at all

14:17this and think , " Man , how do you even

14:19put up with all this ? " And I'll explain

14:22how and why . There are only three

14:24reasons . Reason number one . He had a

14:26super-dominant mother . And he thinks

14:29that when a woman puts him down , that's

14:31how it should be ; he wouldn't have

14:33chosen another . For him to fall in love

14:35, you have to put him down . Like a

14:37schoolboy . Just grab him by the ear and

14:38lead him on . It's absolutely

14:41unacceptable to enter into a

14:42relationship until you've realized that

14:45your wife isn't your mother . They have

14:48nothing in common . Until you fix this

14:51bug in your head , don't get into a

14:53relationship . Reason number two : Your

14:55wife is rude to you , right in your face

14:57. I know someone like that — a real

15:00hardworking man , talented , able to joke

15:02, cheerful . And you can tell he's

15:04completely exhausted . He's tired , and

15:06he's still organizing some kind of

15:07leisure activity for the family . Then

15:09he comes home and forces a smile like

15:12the Joker , just so his wife doesn't put

15:14it out . He's aged 10 years in the last

15:17five years . I look at him and I realize

15:19that giving him advice is probably

15:21pointless . What advice are you going to

15:22give him ? Okay . You'll see him say , "

15:24Buddy , why are you putting up with this

15:25? " He'll say , " Oh , what can I do ? " If

15:27he raises his head , if he does what I

15:29tell him in this video , what will

15:31happen ? His wife will leave . She'll

15:33simply leave . So , if your wife's

15:35respect has deteriorated too much , then

15:38you can only regain at least a little

15:40of your authority , at least basic

15:42respect , if a divorce occurs . Many ,

15:45unfortunately , aren't ready for this .

15:47Why aren't they ready ? The question

15:48arises . Because he didn't have a

15:50positive relationship experience . He

15:53didn't have a model relationship where

15:55there was some warm , giving woman who

15:57cared , who cooked for him , who looked

15:59after him , who dressed up for him , who

16:01tried her best for him , who invested a

16:03lot in him , all while being attractive .

16:06She didn't have that experience . She

16:07has a feeling like , " If I leave , where

16:09will I go ? Who will I go to ? What if it

16:11turns out the same way there . " Before

16:13starting a family life , you need to

16:16spend at least some time on dating

16:18sites and just understand what you can

16:21expect , find at least a few options .

16:24Well , that's why I will never tolerate

16:27rudeness , let alone even a lowered

16:30level of care . I will not be lenient

16:33about this . For one simple reason . I

16:36know what I can expect . Tomorrow I will

16:39register on a dating site . And so , with

16:41the snap of my fingers , I will find a

16:42girl who will do everything for me . I

16:43am nothing to her . In a week , in a week

16:46, I will turn into a real relic . He

16:48will sit down like this and Sarm will

16:50say in a tone : " Maxim , I have never met

16:52anyone like you . Yes , Maxim , stop it , I

16:56just know it . I will get more from her

16:59than from a wife who , say , will be rude

17:02. " It's obvious . She has already been

17:04dragged around by abusers , right ? It

17:05happened . She has suffered enough . I'll

17:07be the best she could ever meet . She'll

17:10wake up in the morning and smile .

17:12She'll remember : " So , so , why am I in a

17:14good mood ? " Oh , right , I'm dating Maxim

17:17. What happiness , what joy . If I know I

17:20can have this , why should I put up with

17:22anything ? The question arises . Why all

17:24of a sudden ? I'll be great there . Well ,

17:28of course , yes , the kids stay with my

17:29wife , it's a drama , but we have to at

17:31least even out this balance of moral

17:33strength a little , if he doesn't

17:34respect you . Well , at least imagine .

17:37Well , and reason number three . A common

17:38situation is when a man comes to a

17:41consultation , his wife has cheated on

17:43him . He says : " Maxim , well , you need to

17:44forgive her and take her back . " I say : "

17:46What do you mean forgive her and take

17:47her back ? Why else would that be ? " Well

17:49, because five years ago I was hanging

17:51out there myself , cheating there . She

17:54forgave me . So , if a man has done

17:55something shitty himself , he simply

17:57won't be able to hold his wife

17:59responsible if she goes the wrong way ,

18:01if she starts spouting some nonsense .

18:03So you can show that kind of proper

18:05fatherly sternness towards your wife .

18:08For that , it's really important for you

18:11to act honestly in every situation . You

18:14know what upsets me most ? The woman is

18:16a jerk , and the husband puts up with it

18:17. And if they go to a psychologist ,

18:19their parents , their friends , or anyone

18:21else for advice , what will the guys

18:23tell them ? Guys , it's like Leopold the

18:26Cat : " Let's live in peace . " Okay , go

18:28ahead , hug her . Yeah , she doesn't want

18:30to . Okay , hug her , kiss her on the top

18:32of her head , her cheek . Okay , okay ,

18:33okay , that's it , you'll get along fine .

18:35No , no , no . We'll get along fine when

18:38she apologizes . Then we'll get along

18:40fine . Until then , we won't live well .

18:42Why are you completely ignoring her

18:44responsibility ? There are causes , there

18:45are consequences . There is an aggressor

18:46, there is a victim . That is , if a thug

18:48takes your phone and causes physical

18:50and emotional harm , I also need to hug

18:53him to resolve the situation . I think

18:55there should be consequences . He should

18:57get what he deserves . Well , at the very

18:58least , right ? Well , justice should be

19:01restored if someone asks you to

19:05tolerate bullying , raised voices , and

19:08rudeness . It doesn't matter under what

19:11sauce , under what guise they do it , no

19:13matter what arguments they use , just

19:15spit in his face . Just say : " Do you

19:16want to tolerate this ? " Well , I guess

19:18you do , since you're asking . So go on

19:20tolerate it . And don't say anything to

19:22me . I will never tolerate this , under

19:25any circumstances , for anything in my

19:27life . I fully admit that my principled

19:31position is also justified by the fact

19:33that I never am rude to anyone without

19:35a reason ; these things don't happen .

19:38Perhaps this is one of the reasons why

19:40I am so sensitive to the situation when

19:43someone dares to do this to me . But the

19:45most important thing is that you

19:47shouldn't approach your wife and try to

19:49explain to her abstractly , to

19:51philosophize , like , " Well , you , we , you

19:53haven't really respected me for a long

19:55time . " This is pointless babbling . She

19:58will simply crush you with past

20:00grievances . You must act differently .

20:02Wait for the moment when she behaves

20:04rudely . Latch on to it . There is a

20:06precedent . Latch on to it , and this

20:08will be the starting point . That's it ,

20:10distance has begun . Will she try to

20:12explain to you that you offended her

20:14more deeply three years ago ? Will she

20:16try to say that you somehow led to this

20:18and that you are to blame ? Don't listen

20:20. There is no justification for

20:22rudeness . There are events , there is

20:24your reaction . Any discussion , any

20:26debate is possible only after she

20:28apologizes . Sorry , so we can discuss .

20:31Period . Where does female rudeness

20:33begin ? Female rudeness begins with some

20:36kind of excuse . I was rude to you

20:38because I'm sick , tired , feeling unwell

20:41, pregnant , on maternity leave , didn't

20:43sleep last night , and so on . And the

20:45man is naive , what does he do ? He

20:47swallows it , swallows it , yes , he

20:50believes it all . But how can I , how can

20:52I understand her situation ? I will

20:53understand her situation . I will

20:54definitely understand her situation . I

20:56didn't immediately throw her out the

20:57door with her things , I didn't throw

20:58her out into the cold . Well , I

20:59understood her situation . I gave her

21:02time to come to her senses . She didn't

21:04sleep last night , fine , get one night's

21:05sleep . So what happens next ? She came

21:08over and apologized . Okay , let's

21:10consider that we've settled this issue .

21:12But what if not ? Well , if not , then she

21:14thinks that's okay with her behavior .

21:15And I will act accordingly . A woman can

21:18be rude , rude , or show disdain towards

21:21you in very different ways . Through

21:23actions , words , deeds . And she can deny

21:25everything . You imagined it , no ,

21:27nothing like that happened , as you say .

21:29You made it all up , imagined it , and

21:31made it up . The worst thing a man can

21:34do is try to prove through discussion

21:36that right here , in this moment , it was

21:39not quite nice towards me . This should

21:41not happen . No evidence . You are only

21:43informing her of the consequences .

21:45Imagine , you have some bad guy walking

21:46towards you , a huge muscleman , and you

21:48know why he is approaching you . He is

21:50in a bad mood today . What do you do ?

21:52You take out pepper spray and say : " If

21:54you come within 2 meters of me , I will

21:56spray . " He comes closer , does not

21:57believe you , does not flinch . You say , "

21:58You repeat to him again for the second

22:00time : ' If you come near me , I'll spray .

22:01' " He still walks with a determined

22:02stride . With his wings spread like that

22:04. " Look , another meter and I'll spray .

22:06" Everything , everything , was in his

22:09mouth . It hurt . And whose fault is it ?

22:11Well , it's his fault . You warned him

22:12about the consequences . But after that ,

22:14it's his responsibility . It's the same

22:16with a woman who shows disrespect . Your

22:19job is to inform her what will happen

22:21if she doesn't improve . What will

22:23happen if she continues to behave this

22:24way , or what will happen if she doesn't

22:26apologize to you ? All this is all you

22:28have to do . In short , if you're

22:30currently in a difficult relationship ,

22:32watch my course , " Master of

22:33Relationships , " it's on the website , a

22:35closed lecture . If you don't have any

22:37problems , this information , this

22:39valuable information , these tools , yes ,

22:41you need to study them in advance , so

22:43as not to get into this mess . Link to

22:45closed lectures in the video

22:46description .