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0:00So, she's going to call you back and a
0:01lot of guys mess this up because they
0:03don't understand what is going on. You
0:05see, she's supposed to do what she's
0:06doing. She's supposed to be ghosting
0:07right now. She's supposed to be leaving
0:09leaving you on delivered. She's supposed
0:10to be doing everything she's doing.
0:12She's just being a woman. What she's
0:13doing is she's trying to survive.
0:16She's trying to find a man that is going
0:18to allow her to survive. She's trying to
0:20find a man that she knows will be able
0:22to provide for her. And how does she do
0:23this? Well, she needs to filter out the
0:25weak men.
0:26How can a woman filter out weak men? She
0:29can't check her back bank balance. She
0:31can't look into the future and see if
0:32you're determined and focused and you're
0:34achieving your goals and dreams.
0:35She can't do all these things.
0:37She doesn't know.
0:38But, here's how she can filter out weak
0:41men.
0:42She'll test them.
0:43What is happening right now is this
0:45woman wants to see how weak are you? And
0:47your weakness is determined by how
0:49emotionally reactive you are. If you
0:50react emotionally right now,
0:53like you start saying, "Oh, what's going
0:55on? Is everything okay? Hey, haven't
0:58texted in a while. Is everything good?"
1:00You just got to leave it because when
1:02you do that, she goes, "Oh, look how
1:04emotional he is. Look how upset he is.
1:07Just because I didn't text him for a few
1:08days or just because I left him on
1:10delivered." And you see, she's doing
1:11this test test subconsciously.
1:14She's doing this test to see whether you
1:17are a man that's worth staying with.
1:20And the kind of man that she's going to
1:21stay with is the guy that just says
1:23absolutely nothing. See, the best thing
1:24you can do right now is absolutely
1:25nothing.
1:27Don't try to pursue. Don't try to figure
1:29out what's going on. Listen, she's fine.
1:31I promise you. She's okay. She's in bed
1:33right now watching her TV show.
1:34She ain't cheating on you. She's not
1:36with other guys. Or maybe she is.
1:37Nothing you can do about that.
1:39You pursuing, you trying to figure
1:41things out, you trying to understand why
1:43she hasn't texted you. "Oh my god, I'm
1:44going to lose her." That's exactly why
1:46you're going to lose her because that's
1:47the mindset that you're operating off
1:48of. You have to understand that this is
1:50just a test and if you pass this test,
1:51the reward is fantastic. The reward is
1:54you raise attraction.
1:56She will be more attracted to you if you
1:58pass this test.
1:59And you pass this test by doing
2:00absolutely nothing. Now, let me tell you
2:02why. Because you have to understand why
2:04the best thing to do is nothing.
2:07If you just don't respond right now,
2:08what's going to happen is she's going to
2:11look at you as a guy who is okay with
2:13being alone, a guy that is okay and
2:15abundant with himself. And in fact,
2:17forget about being alone.
2:18Actually, what she's going to think is
2:19she's going to look at you and she's
2:20going to go, "This guy must get laid so
2:22much.
2:24This dude must have so many girls on his
2:25roster. So many other women must want
2:28this guy that he doesn't even care if I
2:30don't text him for 3 days or 2 days. He
2:32doesn't even He doesn't get jittery. He
2:33doesn't panic. Nothing.
2:35Nothing. He does not care. I want him.
2:38Other girls want him. I want him." You
2:39know what women don't want? The guy that
2:40no woman wants.
2:42Women measure attraction with one simple
2:45metric. It's not the
2:47money you have. It's not the your looks.
2:49It's not your status. It's what all
2:51those things indicate that make those
2:52things attractive. So, what do those
2:54things indicate? Options. The more value
2:56you have on all those metrics, the more
2:58options you have. Like for example,
2:59girls don't like men who are
3:01disrespectful. Like when women say, "Oh,
3:03you know, when when people say, 'Oh,
3:04women like bad boys.'" They don't like
3:06men who are disrespectful. They don't
3:07like guys that are bad. That's not the
3:09point. The point
3:11is that what those things indicate,
3:13being disrespectful, not caring, not
3:15texting her all the time, not buying her
3:16flowers, indicate lack of care. And lack
3:19of care shows abundance. It shows that
3:21the guy already gets laid. It shows the
3:22guy already has options. What those
3:24things indicate is a high amount of
3:25options. The same way money, looks, and
3:27status indicates a high amount of
3:28options.
3:29They're not actually attracted to the
3:31dollar figure or the car you drive.
3:33They're attracted to the fact that you
3:35have something that they know
3:37shows resources. And resources is
3:39something that every woman wants. So,
3:40when she sees you with money, she knows
3:42that other women want what you have,
3:43which means other women are attracted to
3:45you in spite of what you have, which
3:46demonstrates options. That's what makes
3:47it attractive, that it demonstrates
3:48options. So, you got to understand your
3:50value and your strength as a man is
3:52demonstrated and it is measured by how
3:54many options you have.
3:56A man who has all the women in the
3:57world, a man who has any option he
3:58wants, like he he can have any girl he
4:00wants. You think that guy would sit
4:01there and text her frantically, "Where
4:03are you? What you've been up to? Is
4:04everything okay?"
4:06He wouldn't give a He could just
4:07replace her with another girl. He does
4:08not care. And this is the kind of guy
4:09you got to be. You got to come from this
4:11frame.
4:12Easy. All you got to do is do nothing.
4:14Be a man. Go to the gym. Take care of
4:15yourself. Focus on your business. This
4:17is fantastic. Hallelujah. She's not
4:18texting you.
4:20What do you want her to text you for?
4:21Half of
4:2399% of the time they text you about
4:25absolute crap that you don't even want
4:27to hear. You shouldn't even want to hear
4:29that. Like, what do you care? Go be a
4:31man. This is perfect opportunity.
4:32Hallelujah. You can go be a man. You can
4:33go to the gym. You can work on your
4:34business. You can see another girl.
4:36Fantastic. Great. So, don't text me. Why
4:40are you guys tripping? Stop tripping.
4:42You're going to lose the girl because of
4:44your reaction. You see, you're literally
4:45going to mess things up because of how
4:47you're going to react. You're going to
4:48get all jittery and reactive and
4:49emotional.
4:51Let me tell you why this is dangerous.
4:53>> [sighs]
4:53>> She looks at you and registers you as
4:56dangerous for her survival.
4:59Risky for her survival when you react
5:01emotionally because if you are a man
5:03that's controlled by her,
5:05right? By her. So, you're emotional
5:07towards her. Like, when she pulls away
5:09her attention and her love from you, you
5:11get all emotional and reactive. You are
5:13a man that's unstable. Because that
5:15means if one day she has an issue with
5:17something or one day she decides to
5:19nitpick at you,
5:20she can break you. She knows that you
5:22will emotionally fold. And you know what
5:24kind of man loses all of his money? You
5:26know what kind of man fails at business?
5:28The man that makes emotional decisions,
5:29emotional business deals. The man that
5:31when he needs to show up every day to
5:33make money, decides, "You know what? My
5:35back doesn't doesn't feel right. Oh, you
5:37know what? I'm sad about this or I'm sad
5:39about what happened with my girlfriend."
5:40Now, that's a man that's unsafe.
5:43That man that reacts emotionally is a
5:44man that is unsafe. You're are going to
5:46be able to provide.
5:47You are a man that is controlled by
5:49what's in between her legs, and she
5:50knows that when you react emotionally to
5:52anything that she does.
5:54That text message is supposed to just be
5:55left alone. Leave it alone.
5:57Why are you tripping out at all? You
5:59need to literally just let it go.
6:02And the second she sees you getting
6:03reactive, she gets turned off. So, this
6:06is the thing. You want a woman testing
6:08you. And women are going to test you
6:09more and more depending on how close
6:12they are to your value. This is the
6:13thing. If a woman tests you a lot, that
6:16means that she views you guys as fairly
6:18close in value. So, she's really trying
6:19to make sure that she can't do better
6:21than you. Because see, women are always
6:22looking for a reason to leave. They want
6:24to optimize for their best life.
6:27And they do this by finding a better
6:29man. So, 24/7 she's looking for a reason
6:32to leave you for a better man. If you
6:33don't give her a reason by constantly
6:35demonstrating that you have more options
6:36than all the other guys that she can
6:37talk to,
6:38she will stay with you. How do you
6:40demonstrate that you have more options
6:41than all the other guys that she's
6:43talking to or any other guys in her DMs
6:45or whatever? Maybe she's not even
6:46talking to other guys, but she knows she
6:48has options. How do you demonstrate that
6:49you have higher option more options than
6:52all those dudes? Well, you just care
6:53less than them.
6:55This doesn't mean that when she texts
6:57you, you don't text her back.
6:59You if she initiates
7:01a word that could behavior. Don't punish
7:03her.
7:05But, if she hasn't texted you in a few
7:07days, why are you getting reactive at
7:09all? She doesn't deserve to get a text
7:11message from you. She doesn't You don't
7:13need to do any of that. In fact, it's
7:14just going to turn her off. She's going
7:16to look at you and she's going to go,
7:17"He cares so much. He can't even survive
7:1924 hours without texting me."
7:22You're grown ass man.
7:23What the hell you need to text her for?
7:25What do you need constant communication
7:26for? You shouldn't even be communicating
7:28over text.
7:29Like you should just be seeing her and
7:30that's it. That's when you guys talk.
7:32What What is this all this texting crap?
7:34You know another guy another thing that
7:35guys do all the time? You guys will have
7:37like a schedule where you guys FaceTime
7:40every single night till 2:00 in the
7:42morning.
7:43You think a woman looks at you as safe?
7:46You think a man who's going to change
7:48the world or, you know what, not even
7:49change the world. Let's say as simple as
7:51just having enough money to take care of
7:53children and provide for a family. You
7:55think that's that man that sits on
7:57FaceTime 24/7 is that kind of guy? You
7:59think she looks at you and she goes, "Oh
8:00yeah, you're going to be able to provide
8:01provide?"
8:03That time and attention you give her and
8:04that loyalty you give her doesn't ensure
8:06her survival. If you give her a man that
8:08gives her all the attention and all the
8:10loyalty in the world, but he has no
8:11resources, she will literally die.
8:14So, it is impossible for her to be
8:16attracted to that attention that you
8:17give her. It's impossible. Impossible
8:20for her to be attracted to loyalty
8:22because these things don't ensure her
8:23survival. She can only be attracted to
8:24what ensures her survival because that's
8:26what attraction is for, to ensure that
8:28the woman
8:30okay, chooses a man that is able to
8:32provide for her so that reproduction can
8:34happen.
8:37When you do all that pursuing and she
8:40sees how much you care,
8:42she just is absolutely turned off by you
8:45because all that stuff that you're
8:47doing, flowers,
8:49taking her out all the time, quitting
8:52going to the gym because she decided, "I
8:53want to go out tonight." All that stuff
8:56is emotional. If you had a bunch of
8:58options and you could replace her
8:58easily, you would never do any of these
9:00things. You wouldn't care. You would
9:01just do whatever the hell you wanted to
9:03do. And that's the kind of man that
9:04she's going to choose. You see all these
9:05things that women say they want,
9:06loyalty, flowers, FaceTime calls 24/7, a
9:09best friend in a man. They don't want
9:11any of those things and they end up with
9:12the guy that doesn't give them any of
9:13those things and then they go, "I don't
9:15know what's wrong with me. How did I end
9:16up with this guy? But I love him so
9:18much." And she's like obsessed with that
9:20dude. And that dude's probably cheating
9:21on her. Why? Cuz that guy cares less
9:24than the dude that's loyal. And the guy
9:25that cares less has more options. And
9:27the more options you have, the more
9:27value you have because the more value
9:29you have, the more options you have. So,
9:30it's the same goddamn thing.
9:32Make this
9:34something that you understand this.
9:36Internalize this.
9:38Don't text her back.
9:39Leave it alone. And this is the thing,
9:41if she's ghosted you and she's not going
9:43to text you back, you never had a chance
9:44in the first place.
9:47You There's nothing you can do here.
9:49Nothing.
9:50You just got to accept that because you
9:51pursuing her at all only pushes her away
9:54because you can only chase something
9:55that is above you and if you position
9:56her as above you by chasing her,
9:59that's not going to be it. That's not
9:59attractive.
10:01That's not attractive. That's you
10:02chasing her away.
10:04That's you pedestalizing her. It's
10:05anything but attractive. It's
10:06unattractive. So it makes it even worse.
10:08The best thing you can do is absolutely
10:10nothing.