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0:00All right, I want you to stop being
0:01loyal. That's it. I want you to
0:02internalize the fact that loyalty was
0:03implemented by the system. By the
0:05system, when I say by the system, I mean
0:07by literally no other than the people in
0:09power to keep you weak. That's it. It's
0:11literally a part of the system that is
0:13designed to keep you at the bottom.
0:14Because once you're monogous and you're
0:15attached to one woman, that makes you
0:17weak. That loyalty makes you weak
0:18because all it takes for you to be
0:19broken is one woman to leave you. If you
0:20had a bunch of women, you would be very
0:22free because if one woman threatens to
0:24leave you, well, guess what? She has no
0:25leverage. She knows there are other
0:27girls you can replace her with. So she
0:28will never threaten to leave you.
0:29Meaning you never lose. And if you never
0:31lose, then guess what happens now?
0:34You're a danger. You're a danger to the
0:36people at the top, the people in power
0:37who created the system in the first
0:39place. Remember, society determines
0:40what's right and wrong. Society told you
0:42that loyalty is the right way and that
0:44cheating and infidelity is wrong. But
0:47nature says totally the opposite. Okay?
0:50So nature literally says nature, it's in
0:53your nature to want to reproduce with as
0:55many women as possible. Meaning, you
0:56were suppressing your own emotions and
0:58your own natural instinct when you were
1:00being too loyal to one woman. Why?
1:01Because somebody told you it's wrong if
1:02you aren't being loyal. Somebody told
1:04you it's wrong to cheat. That's it.
1:06That's the only reason you're being
1:07loyal. And then people are going to call
1:08you lustful. People are going to call me
1:10lustful. How the hell am I lustful?
1:13Self-control.
1:15You You think You think I need
1:16self-control? Seriously, self-control?
1:18I'll tell you what self-control is.
1:19Self-control is you deciding what you
1:20want to do.
1:22You think just because somebody else
1:23told you that loyalty is desired, that's
1:25not self-control. And you're being loyal
1:27now because somebody else told you,
1:28that's a self-control. That's somebody
1:29else controlling you, that's a system
1:30controlling you. That's your woman
1:31controlling you. You're so afraid that
1:32your woman is going to withdraw the
1:34bedroom from you, break up with you, and
1:36leave you. You're so desperate for her
1:37to stay with you that you're going to be
1:38loyal to her against your own instinct,
1:40against what you want to do. Like
1:41imagine if you said if somebody told
1:43you, you know what, it's wrong to have a
1:44lot of money and power because it's very
1:46you need to be very responsible. And if
1:47you have a lot of money and power, then
1:48somebody's going to feel bad that you
1:49have more money than them. So, you're
1:51not going to be powerful and rich just
1:53because somebody else told you that. You
1:55have a natural desire to be competitive
1:56and go out there and make a bunch of
1:57money. So, that's what you're going to
1:58do. That's the right thing to do because
1:59that that's the natural thing to do. But
2:01guess what? You're going to hurt
2:03somebody in the process of doing that
2:04because if you make money, somebody else
2:06is making less money or you're taking
2:08money from other people. So, guess what?
2:10I don't care. I want to win. That's it.
2:12I don't care about any of this. There's
2:13no right and wrong. Right and wrong is
2:15determined by society. I want to win.
2:17That's all I care about. And that's all
2:18you should care about as well as a man
2:19is winning. And let me tell you, loyalty
2:21does not allow you to win because it
2:22makes you a man that's tied. A man
2:24that's tied to anything but freedom. Now
2:26you have one woman. Why do they want you
2:28to believe this? Think about it. The
2:29people who decide what society spreads
2:32and what information is spread and what
2:36is popularized are the people at the
2:38top. The people at the top decide that.
2:41Okay. So why do they decide that? Well,
2:43and and how do they decide that? And why
2:45do they push it on you so hard? Like,
2:46why is it that every movie, TV show, and
2:48and everybody around you tells you you
2:50need to love a woman? They don't tell
2:52you you need to you need to love God.
2:55They don't tell you you need to love
2:57something bigger than life,
2:58spirituality. No, they tell you you need
3:00to love a woman. You need to have a
3:01family. You need to get married. Why are
3:03all these things so pushed? Marriage,
3:04love, loyalty. Why is it so pushed?
3:07Because it keeps you weak. What makes a
3:08homeless man dangerous? That he has
3:09nothing to lose. He has nothing to lose.
3:12Okay. Now imagine if you were a man had
3:14that had nothing to lose, but you also
3:15had money, power, freedom. Well, what
3:19would happen now? You'd be a threat to
3:20the people at the top. So, how do the
3:22people at the top keep you at the
3:24bottom? Well, they attach you to
3:25something so that you have something to
3:26lose. So that you don't take risks, so
3:27that you don't do crazy things or say
3:29crazy things or question the system. You
3:32conform because now you have something
3:33to lose. You're afraid to lose what you
3:35have. You're afraid to lose that one
3:36woman. And the thing is, you only have
3:37one woman. So, you're afraid to lose the
3:38only thing that you have. If you had 10
3:39girls around, guess what? you wouldn't
3:40be afraid to go and say some crazy stuff
3:42because big deal. You'll lose one or
3:44two. You got eight more. It doesn't
3:46matter. That's what it is. Monogamy is
3:48weakness. Loyalty is weakness. It's
3:49against your nature. It is lustful.
3:51That's all it is. And it is a turnoff
3:54for a woman. Because if it is not
3:55natural, that means that there's no way
3:58that a woman can actually feel attracted
4:00to that. A woman's attraction is
4:01biological. If it is not biologically
4:04natural for a man to be loyal, then that
4:07means it is impossible for loyalty to be
4:10attractive. I'll tell you what kind of
4:12loyalty. This is the thing. Loyalty
4:13needs to be separated. Sexual
4:15exclusivity is not loyalty. Loyalty is
4:18resources. Okay? Why is this important?
4:20This is actually biologically wired
4:21because the woman needs the man to
4:23provide so that she can take care of the
4:25young. But you being sexually exclusive
4:29to her does not make her feel more safe.
4:32It does not help you provide. It does
4:34not provide for the child in any way,
4:36shape, or form. For man, it's all about
4:38pleasure. It's a biological wiring for
4:40pleasure so that he can just reproduce
4:41as much as possible. That's it. Life
4:43life. That's what we're here for. So,
4:46it's not like it creates a threat. Cuz
4:48let me tell you, if that woman's going
4:49to be better than better to you than all
4:50the other girls, well, she shouldn't
4:51worry about you sleeping with another
4:52woman because it's all for pleasure and
4:54you're still going to come back home to
4:55her because why? She's, you know, she
4:57has your kids and she's the one that
5:00cooks and cleans and you already have a
5:01history with her. It's like you have
5:02history with her. No other woman can
5:04beat that history. So, she acts right
5:06and everything's great. So, why would
5:08you leave her? So, there's no there's no
5:09threat in you going out and and sleeping
5:13with other women. Meaning, it is
5:14impossible for her to be biologically
5:15turned off by this. In fact, it's
5:17actually attractive to her when you
5:18cheat or when you go sleep with other
5:20women. Why? [snorts]
5:21Because if you do that, it shows you
5:23have options. The more valuable a man,
5:24the more options he has. Meaning, the
5:25more options he has, the more valuable
5:26he is instantly. That's the way it
5:29works. That's how the world works. The
5:30reason why you're trying to attain all
5:31these things and why you're trying to
5:32become more powerful. And the reason why
5:34you want to have more money and have
5:35more freedom is because you want to do
5:37more of what you want to do. And the
5:39more of what you being able to do more
5:41of what you want to do means you can
5:42sleep with whoever you want to sleep
5:43with. That's what the value is. The
5:44value is the ability to sleep with
5:46whoever you want to sleep with. [sighs]
5:49That's it. That's what that's what the
5:51drive of the man is. Is to be able to do
5:53whatever he wants to do. And that
5:54includes sleeping with whoever he wants
5:55to sleep with. Let me tell you this. The
5:58only reason why women leave men who
6:00cheat is not because of the cheating.
6:02The cheating is attractive because
6:03remember, it shows options, right? It
6:05shows options. You know what shows a
6:06lack of options? You know what's
6:08actually unattractive? If you're loyal.
6:09Because you're only loyal because you
6:10can't replace her with anybody else and
6:12you can't do better than her. So, you're
6:12going to be loyal to her because you're
6:13afraid to lose her. That's a lack of
6:15options. A lack of options better than
6:16her. And she knows this subconsciously.
6:18She doesn't actually know it. She knows
6:19it. subconsciously. She calculates this
6:20subconsciously. This is why loyal women
6:22are disrespect or loyal. This is why
6:24women disrespect loyal men and they
6:26don't value the relationship because
6:27they know they can do better. Now, let's
6:29go back to what I was saying. So,
6:31loyalty is not a turnoff and cheating, I
6:35mean, lack of loyalty is not a turnoff
6:37and cheating is not a turnoff. So, why
6:39do women leave men who cheat? Well, it's
6:40not because of the cheating. It's
6:41because of one thing and one thing only.
6:43It's the way they are. It's the way they
6:45react to being confronted. So, if a
6:47woman comes up to you, she goes, "I
6:48can't believe you cheated." And you go,
6:49"I'm sorry." Or you go, "Well, no, that
6:51didn't happen." You try to lie or
6:53apologize about it. Or you try to like
6:54kind of wash it off as like, "Oh,
6:55whatever." No, it's not whatever. It's
6:58not lying. And it's not apologizing.
6:59It's just I did what I did. You got a
7:01problem with it, you can you can leave.
7:02I still love you. I care about you. But
7:04listen, if this is a dealbreaker, that's
7:06okay. We can move on. We can go our
7:07separate ways. Done. Finished. No
7:09explaining or trying to fix things. No
7:11apologizing, no lying, nothing. She
7:13looks at you and she goes, "Oh my god,
7:14this man doesn't care to lose me. He is
7:16so attractive. He's the best. He is the
7:20most valuable man I could ever be with.
7:23Look at him. He doesn't care to commit.
7:28You would only care to commit if you
7:29think you can't do better. If you think
7:32that you can't do better than her, and
7:34she knows you can't do better than her,
7:35she looks at you, she goes, "I got him.
7:37If he can't do better than me, that
7:39means that I have all the power because
7:40I'm the most valuable thing in his life.
7:42That means I can break him. If I leave
7:43him, I know I'm going to break him." And
7:44there's nothing feminine about that. Now
7:45she feels like the man. Now she's the
7:46boss of your life. Now she's not being
7:48led cuz she has the power. She has the
7:50power to break you. So it's unattractive
7:52when you give her that commitment. That
7:54loyalty is horrible. It turns her off.
7:57She looks at you and she goes, "Look at
7:59how desperate you are for me because I'm
8:01the best you could ever do." You give
8:03her that ring. You give her that
8:04marriage. She goes, "I'm the best you
8:05could ever do. I got all the power." And
8:07now she's completed you. Level 19 is
8:10finished. Let's go to level 20. That's
8:12her nature. She's optimizing for her
8:13best option. She's going to constantly
8:15look for someone better. The second she
8:16knows she got you, she's looking for
8:18someone better. That's it. So that means
8:21one thing and one thing only, that you
8:22can never ever make her feel like she
8:24fully has you. And then she will never
8:26leave. She will never cheat. Women are
8:27not loyal to loyal men. They're loyal to
8:29their emotions and they're loyal to the
8:30best option. Meaning, if you constantly
8:32show her that you're the best option and
8:34you constantly stimulate her emotions
8:36better than all the other guys by
8:37cheating. Because remember, the lower
8:38the lows, the higher the highs. If every
8:39day was a good day, it wouldn't be a
8:41good day. It would just be another day.
8:42The reason why a good day is a good day
8:44is because every other day is bad. It's
8:46because every other day it was a
8:47horrible day. Okay? So, if you cheat on
8:50her every other day and then the one day
8:51you actually get to see her, well, guess
8:52what? That's like the most blissful day
8:54in the world. So, you got to make her
8:55feel that negativity. Now, you're
8:56stimulating her emotions. You're showing
8:58options and you become the most
8:59attractive man in her life. Because if
9:02she couldn't get you to commit, one
9:03makes her think she can get someone
9:04better to commit. She doesn't. She
9:05thinks she can't do better. Even if you
9:07you're the guy that doesn't make the
9:08most amount of money, you're the guy
9:10that doesn't have everything going for
9:11him. You're not the tallest guy, not the
9:12best looking guy. It doesn't matter
9:14because you're the one dude out of all
9:15the other guys that never gave her the
9:16commitment. And now she looks at you and
9:17she goes, "This man doesn't care. And
9:19the less you care, the more she falls in