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0:00Why Thai women date for?
0:01>> First of all, you cannot deny financial
0:04stable and also the the provider he is.
0:08But I have to remind that like not
0:10everybody is like a provider or like
0:12have a financial stable but foreigner
0:15most of foreigner they have responsible
0:17of themsel enough to step up and provide
0:22it. Who wouldn't like it if you can get
0:24treat like as a queen or princess,
0:27right?
0:28>> Yeah, that's right. Mhm.
0:29>> What about you? Do you like foreigner?
0:31>> Yeah, I do. I do. But I don't mind tie
0:34guy too. Foreigner is more like um they
0:37cute, nice and kind.
0:41They they respect me on what I want to
0:45do. If I wanted if I wanted to do 50/50,
0:48they they would ask why first, but then
0:50after they would understand that, okay,
0:53this is like I don't want to look like a
0:56girl that just comes into his life to
0:58take his money or his blah blah blah.
1:02>> I want this to be uh equal and happy and
1:05healthy. But I do understand sometimes
1:08like it has to be like you know
1:10sometimes I just wish that sometime if I
1:13have my 30 I wish that the guy could
1:17give me 70 or when I have 70 and he's
1:22have like 30 I willing to give my like
1:2570 to him but it's also depends on the
1:29relationship also. So now are you
1:31looking to date foreigner or no? You
1:33don't care.
1:34>> Me I would say um since my last
1:37relationship I think I might take a
1:40pause because like uh it it would be too
1:43soon to date someone new but let's say
1:46I'm unavailable. I'm not open to date
1:50anybody. Not not not because like oh men
1:53are bad, men are but I I wouldn't
1:56I wouldn't say that because people just
1:58people have good and bad.
2:01>> I would just say that I would love to
2:05take things as it goes. I am also scared
2:08that I might get heartbroken again. I
2:12have no room for that again. So I would
2:15try my best to look into things in the
2:19person like look deeply like do they
2:22have what I want and can they offer and
2:25willing to afford the same energy that I
2:28will give to them that's more I that's
2:31what I am more focused on look it's just
2:34a plus I don't I don't really care
2:37>> what do you think is the right time to
2:39move on from a relationship for some
2:42people it can take like weeks months
2:45years.
2:45>> I'm sorry, but I don't think I can give
2:48the answer to this because it it
2:49different each time. Sometimes that
2:52relationship get really toxic. I loved
2:55immediately without no tears, nothing
2:58because like I don't want to be with a
3:00loser because I'm not a loser. But if
3:03the relationship ends in a good ter in
3:06in a term that I still love love love
3:09him but I feel like I love myself a
3:13little less.
3:14>> I'm going to feel like what am I doing
3:16to myself? That that kind of feeling
3:19it's take more times to heal. I would
3:23say I don't know like I keep moving on
3:26every day but but I don't know when it's
3:29when is it going to be over. Maybe it's
3:32not going to be over. I will I might
3:34still like forever remember him, but in
3:39a better way in each day.
3:42>> That's good. What's the difference
3:44between Thai guy is a familiar guy? Like
3:46you have to say big points about it.
3:48Yeah.
3:49>> Confident. Confident in a good way. Not
3:52confident in in in a way like
3:56hey baby, you know, not not confident in
3:59that way. confident and like uh and
4:01respectable, respectful and a risk
4:04taker. The masculine vibes that they
4:07sent out, but not to be corky about it,
4:11>> not to be cocky about it. Corky was was
4:13[laughter] not to be corky to talk. I'm
4:16sorry. Anyway, yeah, not not show off
4:19about it, but naturally like gives like
4:23the masculine and risk taker. It's so
4:28it's so hot.
4:29>> [laughter]
4:30>> I would say I would say it's so sexy.
4:32>> I heard before some some Thai people
4:34they complain about not complain but
4:36they say some foreigners they think they
4:38lend down in Thailand and they are look
4:40like Brad Pit or Tom Clues. Do you think
4:43it's true? Because they are
4:44overconfident.
4:46>> Some of some of them I would say that
4:48okay no hate but me and my friend we we
4:51normally call a pat a white pata guy. Oh
4:56white pata guy. There's a certain types
4:59of men that we will never no matter how
5:04how good-looking you are or how how rich
5:07you are or like blah blah blah. Me and
5:10my friends will not land into that one
5:14>> because it it was just like it's it's
5:16something that maybe we think they have
5:18issue about insecurity.
5:21That's why they have to come here and
5:23and and find a girl and tell them that,
5:26"Oh, you're so good. You're so
5:30handsome." Laugh with them.
5:32>> Maybe that's what they they craving for.
5:35But we're we're not we're not going to
5:37lend into that.
5:38>> If we see that, we're going to be like,
5:40"Let's not
5:41>> Yeah,
5:41>> let's not. But but no judging. Okay. But
5:43no judging. Just stay away."
5:45>> Okay. Why do you think the Forign they
5:48like Thai girls? I think because they're
5:50sweet and beautiful. I would say like
5:53cannot deny that like uh first of first
5:55of all first of the thing would be looks
5:57would be how beautiful Thai women are
6:01and then like and then we're the land of
6:04compromise. That's why like uh it's a
6:08gesture that we always serve out to
6:10people like hi
6:14yes I'm doing great. What about you? you
6:17know, like smile and be kind and sweet.
6:22>> And it's uh, you know, people none of
6:25like none of the the guy loves attitude.
6:28Nobody loves toxic things. If you're
6:30addicted to toxic like you need to go to
6:33the therapist, okay? Like if if a
6:36healthy one would love something like
6:38very very sweet, heartwarming
6:41that support them in their hard times. I
6:47think that's what that's why they
6:49craving for
6:50>> people say Thailand is the land of
6:51smile.
6:52>> M
6:53>> you think it's true?
6:54>> It is. If your day is bad already, why
6:57you need to make it worse? Which is like
7:00well begins begins from yourself. Start
7:03from yourself like
7:05>> oh today I break up I broke up with my
7:08boyfriend but whatever smile [laughter]
7:12fake it until make it.
7:14>> So I have a a new question like in the
7:17last interview you say is like Latina of
7:21Thailand.
7:22>> I think it's kind of true but I wouldn't
7:25I it's just like my silly um funny you
7:28know comparison. Um I also think like um
7:32girls in the north, in the south, they
7:35also have like funny attitude and the
7:38vibes too. It depends on who you meet as
7:43a person. If you meet like a very good
7:45attitude and outgoing, you get that
7:48outgoing. But if you love shy people,
7:51you can just meet her anywhere. But uh
7:55Isan Isan Isan girl just have the
7:57reputation of like you know they love to
7:59eat spicy stuff and hot stuff and that's
8:03why maybe her temper is kind of like
8:05don't mess with me.
8:08>> And they are cute too right?
8:10>> Yeah I would say I would say all Thai
8:12girls cute but more than that the girls
8:16in this whole world as cuter I would
8:20just say.
8:21>> Okay. And do you think there is a
8:23difference between the global Thai women
8:26and the Isan women?
8:28>> I would just say like I adore those
8:32global girl about the boundaries that
8:35they set. Thai women they will be more
8:38like people pleaser. Sometimes they let
8:42they never know that somebody crossed
8:44their line until that person crossed the
8:47the line. But the foreigner girls, let's
8:51say, they have the mindset of like
8:53empowerment and like cheer up the girls.
8:56No hate for the girls. Like I I love
8:59that. I love like I went to the UK once,
9:02right? And then there was a girl come up
9:04to me and then say like, "Oh, your hair
9:06is so beautiful." And I was like,
9:08"That's my that's my good day. That's my
9:10good day." And they know like how to how
9:13to defend themsel from from a toxic
9:17toxicity. Yeah. The toxic trait or
9:20anything. Know how to set the
9:22boundaries. Knows what they want. That's
9:25what I do. Really adore. Then like I'm
9:29not going to let you do anything to me
9:32because I'm not whatever.
9:34>> You know, they give their energy to it.
9:37They know their worth, which is I do
9:39really adore. Because before this, when
9:42I was younger, I don't know like what is
9:44the boundaries.
9:46>> Do whatever you want. I'm okay with it.
9:47I'm fine with it. Until like the time
9:49pass, I need to get hurt first.
9:53Until I know that, oh, that's what they
9:56call manipulating. That's what they call
9:58love bombing. That's what they call it
10:00gaslighting.
10:02>> That's what they all call. You know, you
10:05need to get her to to know to learn it
10:07first.
10:08>> Yes. But the foreigner girls, they know
10:10it right away.
10:12>> So, I do really adore it. I want I wish
10:14I can have that energy, too. I'm
10:16learning process in process.