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0:00It's her goal to break you. So, all you
0:01got to do is never give her an edge. If
0:03she doesn't have any leverage in the
0:04relationship, she can never break you.
0:05She can't even try to break you. It
0:07doesn't work. You see, a lot of guys,
0:09they want like this dream life, this
0:11so-called dream life that they've been
0:12taught. They've been fed this lie, "Oh,
0:14you want this woman that you can spend
0:16the rest of your life with." And they
0:17want to start a family with this woman.
0:18They want to have this like connection
0:21with this woman. And this is all a lie,
0:22and it doesn't exist. This is a fairy
0:23tale. It will never exist. I don't care
0:25if you think, "Oh, it's all about
0:26finding the right one." If that's not
0:27the way it is, then that just isn't the
0:28right person. No, that's not how it
0:29works. It's not how it works because
0:31I'll tell guys about this, and they'll
0:32go, "Well, that just means you haven't
0:33found the right one." No, that that's
0:35literally not how it works. There's no
0:36such thing as like, "Oh, you two are
0:37compatible. You two are just perfect for
0:39each other." It doesn't work like that.
0:41The way it works is there's a
0:42discrepancy in value, and the woman
0:44feels like she's winning being with that
0:46man. And then, therefore, she's
0:47attracted to that man. And that
0:48attraction creates the connection.
0:50Because now she really wants you, and
0:52you like that she really wants you, and
0:54now there's a connection. That's it. A
0:56man wants a woman who's obsessed with
0:57him, and a woman wants a man that she's
0:59obsessed with.
1:00And this has nothing to do with two
1:01people finding the right one. And like
1:03two people like they're like now they're
1:05so magical and it just makes sense. It
1:08has nothing to do with that. Because let
1:09me tell you, this lie that you've been
1:10taught about finding the right one, what
1:12makes it so dangerous is that the second
1:14[snorts] you think you found the right
1:16one, your behavior changes. You no
1:18longer act like the man you are.
1:20You get all soft and sweet and kind. And
1:22you get all scared and anxious when
1:24something does go doesn't go right. And
1:25this is exactly why the relationship is
1:27going to end. This idea that people are
1:28feeding into your head about finding the
1:29right one, all this does is it creates
1:32a sense of
1:34fear. It creates fear in your mind where
1:36you fear losing this person because you
1:37feel like it's so difficult to find the
1:39right right one, and you finally found
1:40the right one that if you lose this
1:41person, you'll never be able to find
1:42them again.
1:44And this is why guys will get married.
1:45They try to hold the woman down. Like
1:47they try to secure her. I finally found
1:48the one, so I'm going to marry her, and
1:49then she's mine. No, that's actually
1:51going to cause her to leave. You
1:53marrying her gives her leverage.
1:55And what happens when you give a woman
1:56leverage? Well, now when you give a
1:57woman leverage, what happens is she can
1:59disrespect you. She can do the things
2:02that she wants to do, whatever she wants
2:03to do them, because you have no power.
2:05She has the power.
2:07If she wants to do something and you
2:09have an issue with it, it doesn't matter
2:10because she can do it, and what are you
2:11going to do?
2:12Nothing. You can't leave. That is your
2:15power. That would be your power if you
2:17weren't married. Your power would be you
2:18can just disappear from her life, but
2:19you can't now because you are tied
2:21legally.
2:23You She could take half of your money
2:24away.
2:25She could take half of your life away
2:26from you. So, it's not the same anymore.
2:27You've given her the power. You've given
2:29her the leverage in the relationship,
2:30and now what happens is
2:32she can disrespect you. And women will
2:34naturally disrespect a man
2:36that is disrespectable.
2:39Do you understand what that means? If
2:41you give her the power and you show her
2:42that weakness, that you were so
2:43desperate to hold on to her that you are
2:45going to marry her, give her a ring,
2:46which is so unnatural, by the way.
2:48That That That need for commitment is so
2:51unnatural. It just comes from a place of
2:53fear. Because if you really knew that
2:55woman was yours, you would never put a
2:56ring on her. You wouldn't have to. So,
2:58you wouldn't have to go out of your way
2:59to do all this extra stuff. You would
3:00just exist, and she's yours, and that's
3:01it.
3:02The men that do this are insecure men.
3:04Or Or men who have been taught this lie,
3:06that you need to marry the woman that
3:08you care about to show her how much you
3:09care. But that's exactly why she's going
3:11to abuse that power. Because now she has
3:13the power, and now she can't submit to
3:15you 100%. And if she can't submit to you
3:17100%, she won't.
3:19Because you see, it's in her nature to
3:20find the strongest partner.
3:23Meaning it It's in her nature to try and
3:24break every man she's with. Every woman
3:27is wired this way. There is no woman out
3:29there that isn't wired this way. I don't
3:31care if she comes from a good family, a
3:33bad family. I don't care if she has a
3:34body count of 50 or one. It doesn't make
3:37a difference. Every woman is wired to
3:39destroy a man.
3:40And this is This doesn't make women
3:42evil. You guys misinterpret this and go,
3:43"Women are horrible. So, what's the
3:45point of all this? Well, why does love
3:46have to be so complicated?" It's not
3:48complicated. It's simple.
3:50And she's not evil. She's not horrible.
3:52she's just a woman. She is not as
3:55capable as you at surviving. Nowadays
3:57you got feminism, so sure that she can
3:59go work and she can do the same
4:00but the thing is she isn't built for
4:01that. And that's the truth. And you are.
4:04Okay, and this is how it's been since
4:05since since the beginning of time.
4:07So, it is in a woman's nature to break a
4:10man to see if he can be broken.
4:13She does this because imagine if you put
4:14two guys in front of her. And on paper
4:16they look the same.
4:18But deep down inside one of them is a
4:20lot less emotionally stable. And he's a
4:22lot less determined to achieve his goals
4:24and dreams. And he's a lot less abundant
4:26with life. Meaning he's emotional,
4:28meaning he can be unsafe at times
4:29because he might have a bad day and not
4:32show up to work. And not attain the
4:34resources he's supposed to attain to
4:36take care of her and the kids.
4:38And so how does she differentiate this
4:40these men without testing them? She
4:41can't. The only way she can
4:43differentiate them is by trying to break
4:44them to see if they can be broken.
4:47That's it. She tests them.
4:49She tests both of those guys. And you
4:51know which guy she she chooses? The guy
4:52that doesn't react to the test. She'll
4:54try to get under the first guy's skin.
4:55She'll try to get under the second guy's
4:56skin. She's not evil for this. She's
4:58trying to figure out which man is more
5:00capable. Which man is stronger. Which
5:01man is more of a man.
5:04That's what it is.
5:06And you need to allow women to test you.
5:08You don't tell them not to test you. She
5:09goes and does something disrespectful,
5:11you don't tell her not to do it again.
5:12You just disappear from her life.
5:14And you don't do it emotionally. You
5:16don't go, "Oh, you did this so I'm done.
5:17I'm done. We're not talking anymore."
5:19No, you just Okay, that's fine. No
5:21problem. I mean, you want to do that,
5:22that's okay. She let her go do that. You
5:23don't communicate anything. You just
5:24kind of pull back a little bit. Let her
5:26guess. Let her think what she did wrong
5:28cuz she knows what she did wrong. Cuz
5:29she knows that she's testing.
5:32Even though it's subconscious and she
5:33does those tests
5:35in a subconscious manner,
5:37she knows. Every woman knows what a man
5:39really wants.
5:41And so she knows that going to the club
5:42and she knows that all these things that
5:43she does,
5:44these are things that
5:46are don't make her more attractive.
5:48Meaning that she knows she shouldn't be
5:50doing it.
5:51Because it's not going to raise her
5:52chances of you liking her.
5:54So, she knows she's not supposed to be
5:55doing these things. You need to
5:57understand this. Guys listen to what I
5:59say and they look at women they go,
6:00"This this This I hate when guys do this
6:02because it just tells me how stupid all
6:04of you are." You look at women and you
6:06go, "Oh, women are horrible." No,
6:07they're not. They're just women.
6:09You can't blame the dog for biting you.
6:12You blame the owner for not training the
6:13dog not to bite. You understand what I'm
6:15telling you? If the dog bites, it's not
6:17the dog's fault.
6:19If the child misbehaves, it's not the
6:20child's fault.
6:22If the woman cheats, it's not the
6:23woman's fault.
6:24You are the man.
6:26You are the essence of power.
6:28Every time you blame a woman, you take
6:30that power away from yourself. Every
6:31time you give a woman
6:33all of this this power and leverage over
6:35you by blaming her or giving her the
6:39ability to make all these decisions and
6:41all these choices and all the Guess
6:43what?
6:44You're bound to be broken. You're bound
6:46to be disrespected. You're bound to be
6:47divorced.
6:48You're bound. Bound for 100% guaranteed.
6:52And some people some people choose to
6:54neglect this. Some people choose to say,
6:56"No, it's a Disney movie and I'm going
6:58to live the Disney movie." The Disney
7:00movie doesn't exist. It's a movie and
7:01it's That's all it is. It's a fairy
7:02tale. You keep living your life this way
7:05uncalculated, you'll never achieve
7:06anything in life. You want to achieve
7:08things as a man, you become calculated.
7:10You're never going to achieve that love
7:11if you're not calculated. Love is not
7:13not complicated at all. It's very
7:14simple.
7:15Love is based on attraction. Attraction
7:17is based on value. If you're valuable
7:19and more valuable than all the other
7:20guys she can be with, she's going to be
7:22attracted to you. Therefore, she's going
7:23to love you.
7:25Because what love is is it's sacrifice.
7:27That's what it is.
7:29That's what love is. Love is sacrifice.
7:31You think of the two people you love the
7:32most in life and you think of the two
7:33people you would sacrifice the most for,
7:34it's the same two people. Love is
7:36sacrifice. Love is not sunshine and
7:37rainbows. Love is not happiness. Love is
7:39not all these things you've been lied to
7:40about that that that love is. It's not.
7:42It's none of those things. It has
7:43nothing to do with happiness and great
7:45times.
7:46Love Love is sacrifice. Love is painful.
7:50Love is you doing things
7:52for a certain person that you wouldn't
7:54do for anyone else.
7:56You can tell a homeless man you love
7:57him, but you don't really love him
7:58unless you jump in front of a bus for
7:59him.
8:00But you don't have to tell your mother
8:01you love her.
8:02But you still jump in front of a bus for
8:04her. That's love. Your dog Dogs are a
8:07perfect example. Your dog loves you.
8:10Your puppy loves you.
8:11And your dog cannot speak.
8:14It can't communicate. But you know that
8:16that dog loves you. You know that dog
8:17would bite that other piece of that
8:19attacks you. You You know your dog would
8:21would
8:22risk their their life for you.
8:25That's love.
8:26That is love. Love has no words.
8:29Love has none of that. It doesn't need
8:31to be communicated through words or
8:34through I love you or through No, none
8:36of that.
8:37Love is sacrifice. Your dog
8:40It'll bite somebody for you. It won't
8:42bite somebody for some random person.
8:44That is the love. That's how you know
8:46that it's love.
8:47And you guys need to apply this to
8:49everything.
8:50Everything.
8:52These people that are depressed. Why?
8:54Why are they depressed? Why are they
8:55unhappy in the relationship? They're not
8:57sacrificing anything for their woman.
8:59They're not going out there and
8:59sacrificing their happiness. They're not
9:01sacrificing
9:03their time and energy achieving great
9:04things so they can provide for their
9:05woman and so that they can give her
9:06love. Because look, you need to
9:07sacrifice to give love. If you have
9:09nothing to sacrifice, you can't give
9:10love. The same way that if a woman looks
9:13at you and goes "You know what? This man
9:15is not worth my sacrifice." She can't
9:17love you. And the only way she will
9:19decide whether you are worth the
9:20sacrifice is if you're valuable. It's
9:21all transactional. It's all calculated.
9:23The mind calculates this.
9:26It's not a fairy tale. It's not
9:28accidental.
9:30At all. Not even a little bit.
9:32So you want a woman to love you, it's
9:33very simple. Be a man that is worthy of
9:35her sacrificing for. That's it. Be a man
9:38that she is willing to sacrifice
9:39everything for. And I mean to the extent
9:40where she will look at you getting with
9:43other women. She'll look at you doing
9:45whatever the hell you want in life,
9:46being free. You don't give her a ring.
9:47You never give her commitment. And she
9:49still sacrifices for you. She still
9:51loves you. She still wants to be by your
9:52side. She doesn't care. That's love.
9:55Who do you think loves a man more? A
9:56woman that stays with him after he
9:57cheats or a woman that doesn't?
10:01If a woman doesn't stay with you after
10:02you cheat on her, cheat, obviously you
10:05tell her the truth. You say, "Listen,
10:06I did what I did. You want to leave? No
10:07problem." You let her go.
10:10If after that, cuz you didn't do
10:11anything unattractive, if after that,
10:13she leaves, that means she was never
10:15attracted to you in the first place.
10:17She was just looking for a reason to
10:18leave where she didn't seem like the bad
10:20guy because women want to always, you
10:21know, they want to feel
10:22all right with themselves. But that's
10:24it.
10:25If a woman really loved you, she would
10:27look past everything, everything, all of
10:29it, because that's what love is.
10:31There are people in this world that you
10:32love so much, like my mother. She could
10:34do anything I was still love her. The
10:35worst of the worst, I would still love
10:37her.
10:39Cuz that's my mother.
10:40That's what it is. You guys don't
10:41understand this. You want a woman to
10:42love you? It's so simple. Love is not
10:44complicated. It's so simple. It's such a
10:46simple calculation. It's only
10:47complicated because society has over
10:49complicated it to use it to their
10:51advantage to make money off of you.
10:53They've taught you that going to the
10:54movies is love. They've taught you that
10:55that taking a girl on a date is love.
10:57They taught you that flowers is love.
10:58This is all money-oriented. This is all
11:00a business. This is all
11:02your life is about because when they can
11:04make you this emotional man who is
11:06centered around this falsehood that is
11:08called love, which it isn't love. It's
11:09validation, right? When you give someone
11:11all these things, it's validation. It's
11:12not love.
11:14Now you're a consumer. Now you're weak.
11:16Love's not complicated.
11:19You don't understand this. Don't give
11:20the woman power.
11:21Don't give her the leverage.
11:23Don't give her any of that. Because what
11:25that does is it dilutes your value. And
11:27when you dilute your value, you dilute
11:29your attraction. And when you dilute
11:30your attraction, the woman can't love
11:32you anymore.
11:33Because love is directly correlated to
11:35how attractive you are. Your attraction
11:37your attractiveness is directly
11:38correlated to how valuable you are. The
11:41more power and the more leverage you
11:44give her, the less powerful you are.
11:47That's it.
11:48Your value goes down.
11:50Your value decreases.
11:51So, understand that. You never get
11:53married, ever. I never want you to get
11:55married ever in your life.
11:57You want to have a main chick, fine.
11:59Never get married.
12:00Nothing that goes
12:02"I need you in my life. Please, here's
12:03this ring to signify how much I love
12:05you." You're a
12:08Be a man. Go chase some great Go
12:11do some real
12:12Go do things that other men are
12:15afraid of doing. That's what your life
12:17is about, not cuddling in bed with a
12:18woman.