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Girlfriend told me that her friends love men who bang them once a month but never call or text them

Casey Zander · 1,779 words · 9 min read

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0:00So yesterday, um, my girlfriend

0:02[clears throat] was telling me how she

0:04has these friends back home,

0:07um, who are in love with these guys who

0:10basically just like bang them once a

0:13month or like these are the guys who

0:15like the women are getting banged by.

0:20Um,

0:21and then he just like disappears. And

0:23maybe he will text her like once a month

0:26at like midnight when he's like bored or

0:30when like, you know, he probably just

0:32got home from the bar and he's drunk or

0:34whatever the case may be. Like this is

0:37the men that um the women are just head

0:40over heels in love with and can't stop

0:42talking about. And she told me this. She

0:44said that uh my friends fall in love

0:47with these guys who um they only see

0:50like once a month and the guy only texts

0:53them at like midnight

0:56on a Saturday. Okay. So, the funniest

1:00thing about this is like

1:05you've been taught your whole life just

1:07completely backwards. Cuz you'll notice

1:10like

1:12she didn't say or like uh you know, it's

1:14not like these women are falling in love

1:16with a super rich guy. It's not like the

1:21woman's falling in love with a super

1:23high status guy. It's not like she's

1:25falling in love with a dude who's this

1:27or that that you've been told your whole

1:28life.

1:30She's falling in love with a guy who

1:34basically bangs her and then he's gone

1:35for the whole month or he'll just text

1:37whenever it's convenient for him. And

1:40that's who she chases

1:42is the bum.

1:45You see, the bum doesn't give a [ __ ]

1:49The bum has one agenda.

1:52He basically drops off the dick when

1:54he's done dropping it off, pulls his

1:57pants up, and he says, "I'm out of here.

1:59See you later." And she sits there and

2:02thinks, "Well, when am I going to get to

2:03hear from him?"

2:05And the truth is, he's not even playing

2:07games. He doesn't even know when he's

2:08going to hear from her or when he's even

2:10going to check in because he just

2:11doesn't care.

2:13You see, your SMV

2:17is a direct correlation based on how

2:19much you care. And what we have right

2:21now is a generation of men

2:24who care about things

2:28that they were programmed to care about.

2:30And you'll see what I mean. So

2:32eventually like you're going to come to

2:34the realization phase or just like the

2:36acceptance phase or whatever where you

2:39just understand that women have lied to

2:42you their entire life. [snorts]

2:46If you ask a woman what she wants, okay,

2:50[snorts] she's going to tell you that

2:52she wants a guy who's honest and stable

2:54and loyal and hardworking

2:57um and has high status and makes a lot

2:59of money and is a great provider and

3:01will take care of her. And then you will

3:03realize that her actions will just do

3:07the exact [ __ ] opposite.

3:09Like the exact opposite.

3:12That's where her actions go.

3:15her actions will just go to the complete

3:17opposite.

3:19Because the only way that a woman can

3:22actually tell if a man is alpha

3:26is if he does what he wants.

3:30You see, a lot of this stems from

3:32childhood and how you were emasculated

3:36since you were a kid. Okay,

3:40let me give you an example. Well, if you

3:41take a guy and let's say he makes 20

3:44million bucks a year and he works this

3:45job, you know, and he has this corporate

3:48success and he has a Bugatti and he has

3:50a Lamborghini and he thinks he's cool or

3:52whatever the case may be. But

3:56women know that like every guy chasing

3:58that, that's not actually you.

4:02Women know that that's not you on a core

4:04level.

4:06Women know that you're not doing that

4:08because that's what you like. Women know

4:10that you're doing that because you think

4:13that that's what's what is going to get

4:15you most social recognition and be

4:17coolest and be most accepted,

4:21which ultimately makes you a slave. That

4:23ultimately makes you a beta.

4:26Because what you're essentially doing is

4:28you're saying, "Hey, the small amount of

4:30time that I have on this earth, let me

4:32just do exactly what everybody wants me

4:34to or what's the model of success.

4:37let me just spend all of my time

4:39essentially appeasing women so that way

4:42I'm the textbook great guy or perfect

4:43guy for her.

4:46You will notice that almost all of men's

4:48behavior or I would even say all of

4:50men's behavior is purely built on trying

4:54to gain the approval from women and

4:56trying to avoid the disapproval from

4:59women. That is what all of men's

5:01behavior is based on. From the house

5:04that they select to the car they drive

5:05to the clothes they wear.

5:08That ass is on that pedestal so high.

5:14The only way a woman can see who is

5:16purely alpha, who is truly alpha

5:21is a guy who doesn't conform and submit

5:24to what everybody else does or what

5:25everybody's model of success is. He

5:27purely lives how he wants.

5:31One of my best friends. He likes to

5:33smoke and he likes to go hunting.

5:37He is alpha.

5:42You can

5:43tell him whatever you want. Anybody

5:46could tell anybody whatever they want.

5:48The whole social narrative could change

5:50and doesn't matter. He will do what he

5:52wants to do. He likes to smoke and he

5:55likes to go hunting and it doesn't

5:57matter what's on [ __ ] TV. It doesn't

5:58matter what's on the computer. It

6:00doesn't matter what that screen or that

6:01magazine says. That's what he's going to

6:03go do. That is alpha. Doesn't matter

6:05what girlfriend or wife says. That's

6:07what he'll do.

6:10That's that. That's me.

6:13The only way

6:16a woman can stick by your side is if she

6:18knows that it's actually you.

6:21So

6:23this is what you're going to see is just

6:25a generation of men who were completely

6:27emasculated

6:29just essentially just like became a

6:31[ __ ] to what society wanted them to

6:33become and cares about everything

6:36every little micro detail you know for a

6:39lot of you know and I'm actually going

6:42to make a video on this in the next

6:43couple days just the emasculation from

6:46your teachers and mothers

6:49it starts so small, but it just

6:51snowballs into the whole lifestyle of

6:54how you become a male adult. Like you

6:56you're a male and you become an adult

6:58and your entire reality is basically

7:00shaped on how well you can serve her

7:04till the day that you die, how well you

7:06can serve her. You see, it starts as a

7:09kid so small. It's like as a kid, it's

7:10like uh these are the clothes you got to

7:13wear and if you don't match, go back in

7:16your closet and change. This is what

7:18time dinner's at. this is what time once

7:20you get to your friend's house, you got

7:21to call me. And

7:24slowly,

7:27every micro detail of that kid's life is

7:29controlled. So that's what she told me.

7:31She told me that my friends back home

7:35are falling in love or are in love with

7:37these guys who only text them like once

7:40a month.

7:41That's who her heart pines for.

7:47The more you try to become what you

7:49think a woman wants, the less she likes

7:51you. You can go try to make all the

7:53[ __ ] money in the world. You can try

7:54to do all the fancy [ __ ] You see these

7:57guys on Instagram, too. The typical

8:00archetype, right? This is what men are.

8:03Men today have became not only corporate

8:06slaves, but just slaves to what they

8:08think women will want. And you'll notice

8:11that her feminine heart craves the exact

8:13opposite. And that's why the dude who

8:17doesn't have a job, right, who's banging

8:20her the right way that she wants to be

8:22banged is the one that she craves.

8:24That's why the dude who maybe, you know,

8:26smokes tons of pot or, you know, sells

8:30or whatever the case may be, that's the

8:32guy that she's constantly sleeping with.

8:35Meanwhile, she's cheating on her

8:36husband, you know. And it's funny too,

8:38like the narrative of the husbands, it

8:40just these husbands are just mind blown

8:43when they watch their wives cheat. Just

8:45mind blown because that guy is sitting

8:47there going, "Oh, you know, my mom

8:49raised me to be such a good guy. I was

8:51told to be nice and caring and

8:52compassionate and I got my four-year

8:54degree and I got my job and you know,

8:56I'm stable and I'm hardworking and that

8:58goddamn mortgage is paid every month.

9:00So, you know, I know that that woman's

9:02going to love me." And then you see that

9:04like she's just like banging, you know,

9:06some dude who like is on the street or

9:09something or in and out of jail or

9:11doesn't have a job. And like that's what

9:13you'll find. So you were lied to your

9:16whole life by women. And the reason why

9:19women will forever lie to you is because

9:22the only way that she can see who is

9:25actually alpha.

9:27The only way she can decide who she

9:30should actually reward is guys who stick

9:32true to their core nature and their core

9:34identity and don't change who they are

9:37or where they put their time just to

9:39serve other people or because it's what

9:41they think they should do.

9:45As I get older, I really don't give a

9:47[ __ ] about anything. I don't give a [ __ ]

9:50if I'm rich. I don't give a [ __ ] if I'm

9:52poor. I don't give a [ __ ] if whatever. I

9:55don't care. I don't care.

9:59And it's the most freeing thing when you

10:02look around and you say, "I don't need

10:03anything. I don't need that new TV.

10:07I don't need all this stuff. I don't

10:10need 10 different chairs in my house.

10:12I'd be happy with one chair,

10:14you know? I'd be happy with one blanket,

10:17one pillow for my whole life. I don't

10:19need 10 different hoodies, 10 different

10:20sweatshirts. I'd be happy with one

10:22hoodie. And when you actually look at

10:24your life and you say, "What do I care

10:27about versus what did women or my mother

10:30or teachers or society try to condition

10:33me to care about?" You will realize your

10:35masculine nature at your core doesn't

10:38give a [ __ ] about any of this.

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