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0:00All right, so let's talk about three
0:01things you can do to get your girlfriend
0:02obsessed. This is for those of you who
0:03have a woman who is maybe losing
0:05attraction, maybe things are not working
0:06out, maybe things are going a little bit
0:07downhill. Right, a lot of you guys get
0:09to this point because you fall in love
0:10with her, and then you go weak, and then
0:12you become all emotional, and you're
0:14afraid to be yourself now, to be your
0:16authentic self and say what you want to
0:18say and do what you want to do because
0:19you're afraid of maybe you screw
0:20something up, you mess something up, you
0:21upset her, she's going to leave you, and
0:22you can't afford to lose her.
0:25So, look, for all you wussies,
0:26three things that you can do to get your
0:28girlfriend obsessed. Now, you have to
0:30understand, take balls.
0:32You can't just be the average Joe Schmo,
0:34you got to be a guy who's willing
0:36to put everything on the line, because
0:37that is exactly what raises attraction.
0:39Is you willing to put everything on the
0:41line to show that you don't care if it
0:42works out or it doesn't.
0:44But, see, here's a secret. If you do
0:46this the right way, if you execute this
0:48the right way, without care,
0:51you do this and you stand on it, you
0:52don't go backwards, you listen to what I
0:54tell you and you don't try to fix things
0:56in between. If you feel it slipping, you
0:58just let it slip, let it go.
0:59It'll come right back to you. It'll work
1:01out. The only way that this doesn't work
1:04is if you do it and you you go back on
1:06your word. So, do not go back on your
1:08word. I need you to execute this and I
1:10need you to stand on it. I don't care
1:12how long she doesn't text you back or
1:16she doesn't respond or she maybe she
1:18even looks she even seems like she's,
1:20you know, less attracted after you do
1:22this. It's all a bluff. All of it,
1:24because the things I'm about to tell
1:25you, it's impossible for them to be
1:27unattractive. They are only going to
1:29create more attraction. So,
1:32listen to me and listen closely.
1:35The first thing that I want you to do
1:37is I want you to stop communicating with
1:39her every single day.
1:42If you can stop communicating with her
1:43every single day, guess what? Now, she's
1:46going to have all these these thoughts
1:48in her head.
1:49Did he find someone else?
1:50Did he find someone better? Is he moving
1:52on? Is he losing attraction? And let me
1:54tell you what happens. You see, see of
1:55you guys, your girlfriend is losing
1:58attraction for you because she has
1:59reasons and she has the power to
2:01disrespect you. So, what happens is when
2:03you guys get into a relationship, what
2:04happens is you obsess over the woman and
2:06now you want to do
2:07everything right. Right? Whatever she
2:09tells you, you want to do it for her.
2:11You really don't want to upset her. So,
2:12she says, "Oh, I'm going to go out with
2:14some guy friends." Or "Oh, I'm going to
2:15go to the club." Or whatever it is. And
2:16you always either let her do it or
2:19because you care so much, you try to
2:20explain to her why she shouldn't do it
2:22because it's going to bother you or
2:23because it's wrong.
2:25And the problem with this
2:27is that it all shows how much you care.
2:30So, look,
2:32you guys do this all the time.
2:33You always communicate with her every
2:35single day.
2:36And this is the issue is it shows how
2:38much you care. Why is this a problem?
2:41Why is it a problem that when you obsess
2:44over or over a woman and you show how
2:45much you care, why does this ruin
2:48destroy attraction?
2:50Well, I'll tell you why.
2:52You're only showing up every day again
2:53for the same reason that I just said
2:54earlier. You are just trying to do
2:56everything right because you're afraid
2:57of losing her.
2:59You are afraid of doing something wrong.
3:01You do not actually want to show up
3:02every day.
3:03If I told you right now that showing up
3:05every day and texting her every day and
3:06communicating with her every day was
3:07unattractive, you wouldn't do it
3:09anymore.
3:10You're only doing it because you think
3:11she likes it.
3:12Because she probably even told you that
3:14she likes it. But see, here's the thing.
3:15Women are going to try to misguide you
3:16to see if they can break you to see and
3:18test if you are a capable, strong,
3:20emotionally stable man.
3:23They have to throw these tests at you
3:24and this is what she's doing and you're
3:26failing by giving her what she wants.
3:27What she actually wants you to do is she
3:29wants you to focus on your business. She
3:31wants you to focus on something
3:33external. She wants you to focus on
3:35something that is going to benefit your
3:37life and her life. You cuddling in bed
3:39with her, you sitting on FaceTime with
3:41her, you giving her all the time and
3:43attention in the world is not going to
3:44benefit her survival or yours and
3:46attraction is built for one thing and
3:47one thing only and it's the
3:49insurance.
3:51Right? Creation
3:54is all that attraction is about,
3:55recreation, reproduction.
3:58The creation of new life.
4:00Meaning she cannot be attracted to
4:01something that doesn't help her
4:04reproduce or help her take care of her
4:07offspring.
4:08Meaning if you are not every day of your
4:10life
4:11spending your time to make yourself more
4:12capable man, it is impossible for it to
4:14be attractive. You laying in bed with
4:16her and cuddling with her. You sitting
4:18on FaceTime with her is not productive.
4:20Therefore, it is impossible for it to
4:21create attraction because it doesn't add
4:23value to you as a man.
4:26Therefore, it cannot be attractive
4:27because it doesn't increase her survival
4:30rate, her chances of survival. It
4:32doesn't increase in any way, shape or
4:34form.
4:34So, this is the first thing I want you
4:35to do. Stop communicating because she
4:37looks to you and she goes, "Look how
4:38much you care." And when she sees how
4:40much you care, she goes,
4:42"Oh, this man
4:43this man
4:44he's spending all his time and energy
4:46with me because he's afraid to lose me
4:48because he has no other options. One, no
4:51woman wants a man with no other options.
4:53Two,
4:55if he's spending all his time with me,
4:56that means he's not spending his time
4:57with himself. He's not spending time
4:59building himself. He's not spending his
5:00time
5:01making himself more valuable and capable
5:03of taking care of me and our children
5:06or soon-to-be children or whatever it
5:08is. So, guess what? Every time you do
5:10this, every time you give her all this
5:12attention and time,
5:14attraction decreases.
5:15More and more and more and more.
5:18More and more every time you go weak for
5:20her, every time you decide, "I'm going
5:22to put off everything and I'm going to
5:23spend all the time with you."
5:25So, now what's the second thing?
5:27This is great thing.
5:29Listen.
5:30Keep other women around.
5:33Keep other women around.
5:34And if you really want to take it to an
5:35extreme, you can cheat.
5:37I'm serious. You can cheat on this girl.
5:39You cheat on this woman,
5:41she's going to feel like a three, right?
5:42You would never cheat on on a 10. Why?
5:44Because the 10 is the best, so you want
5:46to treat her the best.
5:47But here's the problem with treating a
5:49woman the best of the best. Now she
5:50looks at you and she goes, "If I'm the
5:51best, that means you can't do better."
5:52If she knows that you can't do better
5:54than her, she knows that she holds all
5:55the power. Because she knows you can't
5:57afford to lose her, because you can't do
5:59better. So now she can disrespect you.
6:01Now she can do whatever the hell she
6:03wants. Now she can act however she
6:04wants. It doesn't matter. Why?
6:07Why? Because she knows all of the things
6:09you say, "I'm going to leave you." She
6:11knows you ain't going to leave her cuz
6:12you have already told her you're not
6:13going to leave her cuz you think she's
6:14the best.
6:15By giving her all this commitment and
6:17loyalty. So you want this girl to become
6:19more obsessed with you?
6:21Listen, if the relationship is already
6:22fading, if it's already kind of
6:24tinkering out, you feel the attraction
6:25dropping, fastest way to get it back?
6:28Start talking to other women.
6:29And you don't have to explicitly tell
6:30her you're cheating on her. In fact, you
6:31shouldn't do this.
6:33You just talk to other women. And if she
6:34finds out about it, great, fantastic.
6:36All you got to do is make sure
6:38you never apologize and you never lie.
6:40The goal here is to demonstrate that you
6:42are a man that doesn't fear to lose her.
6:45What that establishes is that you must
6:46be able to do better than her. If you
6:47must be able to do better than her, you
6:48must be more valuable than her. If
6:50you're more valuable than her, you must
6:51be much more attractive than her. This
6:53is where attraction comes from is the
6:54discrepancy in value between
6:56you and her.
6:58And also the discrepancy in value
7:00between you and all the other guys that
7:01want to date her. All the other guys
7:03that want to date her want to be loyal
7:04to her. All the other guys that want to
7:05date her
7:06want to give her all the time want to
7:09give her all the [ __ ] time and
7:10attention in the world.
7:12Guess what?
7:13She looks at them and then she looks at
7:14you who's not willing to give them all
7:16the give her all the time and attention,
7:18and she goes, "You must be more
7:19valuable. You must be more valuable
7:21because you don't care to lose me,
7:23right? You would only do those things
7:24and you wouldn't care to be nice and
7:25loyal and sweet and kind because you're
7:27not afraid to lose her. I'm not telling
7:28you to go out of your way and tell her
7:29you're cheating on her. I'm just saying
7:30go do whatever you want to do. Be a free
7:32man. And if she finds out about it, all
7:34you got to do to maintain the attraction
7:35is not apologize or lie. Why? Because
7:37not apologizing shows that you're not
7:39afraid to
7:40When you're not afraid to lose her,
7:41shows what?
7:42That you must be able to easily replace
7:44her with a girl just as pretty, meaning
7:45your value is high.
7:47Your value is much higher than hers and
7:50every other guy that she can date
7:51because every other guy is willing to be
7:52loyal. Why? Because they don't want to
7:53lose her because they value her.
7:56You devalue her, okay? By making her
7:58feel like a three out of 10, by being
8:00with other women. Instantly, instantly
8:01raises attraction. Now, I know this
8:03might be too extreme for some of you
8:04guys.
8:05Okay? It might be too much. This for
8:08some of you guys are going to be like,
8:09"Well, what if I don't want to hurt
8:10her?" Whatever. You're not hurting her.
8:11This is the thing. You ain't hurting her
8:12by doing this. It cuz if it's
8:14attractive, it's impossible for it to
8:15hurt. The only reason it hurts is
8:16because society has told you your entire
8:18life that cheating is so bad. No, it
8:19ain't bad. A man is supposed to be with
8:21multiple women. It's natural. There's
8:23nothing wrong with it. And the only
8:24reason why women have a problem with it
8:25today is because society's told them
8:27that there's a problem with it. And the
8:29truth is, they don't actually have an
8:30issue with it. What what a woman will
8:32find herself feeling, okay, when a man
8:34cheats on her is more attraction as long
8:36as he doesn't apologize a lot. You
8:37apologize a lot, all the attraction goes
8:38out the window. Why? Because now you
8:39show that you're afraid to lose her,
8:40which is why you're apologizing cuz you
8:42don't want it to end or why you're lying
8:43to cover it up because you don't want
8:44her to find out the truth because you
8:45want it to end. That's it.
8:47You go out with other women. Maybe you
8:49don't even cheat. Maybe you're just
8:50hanging out with other women. Other
8:51girls who are pretty and beautiful and
8:52sweet and all that, you know, all that.
8:54Valuable, just as valuable as her. She
8:56looks at you and she goes, "He can
8:57replace me easily."
8:58And she goes, "I better not lose this
9:00man because there's very few other men,
9:02I'm telling you, that can do that."
9:04Now, the third and final thing, okay,
9:08how do you get this girl obsessed with
9:10you? I'll tell you, okay? How do you
9:12raise attraction again? Just disappear
9:14for a little bit.
9:15Simple.
9:17She asks you, "What's wrong?" Right?
9:18Because you're usually a simp who's
9:20always responding and texting her every
9:21day. So, she's going to confront you.
9:23She's going to say, "What's wrong? Why
9:24you been acting different?" She's going
9:25to do all of this.
9:26Because you haven't been implementing my
9:27system, okay? And you haven't been
9:29listening to me for all this time. So,
9:30of course she's going to catch the
9:32switch up. But, that's okay. All you got
9:33to do is you say, "I'm busy." And if she
9:35keeps digging for an answer, you just
9:37keep telling her you're busy.
9:39And the more she digs for an answer, you
9:41tell her tell her the truth. Say,
9:43"Listen, I've been I've been hanging out
9:44with other people." Oh, who are they? Uh
9:46you don't know them. Or go to the gym.
9:48Go make some money. And tell her the
9:49truth. Tell her that's what you've been
9:51doing.
9:52She's going to go, "Why is he
9:53prioritizing the gym over me? Why is he
9:56prioritizing the money over me? He cares
9:58about money and the gym more than me?"
10:01Now she goes, "Oh my god, this guy this
10:03is the guy. This is the one I want."
10:06"This guy will always always be able to
10:08provide for me. This guy will always
10:10have food on the table. And at the same
10:12time, what are you doing by ghosting
10:13her? By by disappearing for a little
10:15bit.
10:16And remember, you can only do this if
10:17she is being dry with you. You don't
10:19purposely ghost You can, but you
10:22shouldn't purposely ghost her if she's
10:24being, you know, if she's there for you.
10:25But you're watching this video because
10:27she isn't reciprocating. She's losing
10:29attraction.
10:30So this is why you can do this. Because
10:32if she's not reciprocating,
10:34you don't have to reciprocate. Go do
10:36your own thing. Go to the gym. Go do
10:37your own thing. Okay? And then if she
10:38texts you, you respond. You don't react.
10:41You don't get emotional. You don't tell
10:42her, "Oh, I haven't been responding to
10:43you because you've been all da da da."
10:44No, none of that cuz now you're just
10:46playing into the game. No, don't play
10:47the game.
10:48She's not She's not acting the way you
10:49want her to act. She's not being all,
10:51you know, cuddly and sweet with you.
10:53She's not pursuing you. She's not
10:54obsessing over you. Fine. Go do your own
10:56thing. Hang out with other women. Go to
10:58the gym. Focus on your money. Life as a
11:00man is great. All you got to do is focus
11:02on you. And then women focus on you.
11:05Women do not focus on you when you focus
11:06on them. Women focus on you when you
11:08focus on you. That's all. That's the
11:09secret. That's the truth. That's what
11:11you got to [ __ ] do every day of your
11:12life. And if you don't do that, guess
11:14what? The woman will never choose you.
11:17She will leave you. She will leave you
11:19for a man that is focused on himself
11:21every single day of his life.
11:23So all you got to do,
11:25take some time off. This time right now,
11:28this this this crap that she's giving
11:29you, wasting your time, wasting your
11:32energy, making you wonder why she's not
11:33texting you back, making you wonder why
11:34she's been a little bit disrespectful,
11:36why she's been doing things she
11:37shouldn't be doing, dressing the way she
11:38shouldn't be dressing, going out with
11:39friends she shouldn't be going out with,
11:41doing things she shouldn't be doing. Who
11:42cares? Great, fantastic. This is a
11:44blessing.
11:46You get to relax and be a man. I don't
11:48have to hear from her is fantastic. I
11:50can go to the gym. I don't have to text
11:52her. I don't have to go out. I get to
11:54work. I'm get to make some money.
11:57Uh perfect. Life is great. As a man, you
12:00don't lose. You never lose. Especially
12:02if you understand what I understand,
12:04there is no losing. It's a double
12:05positive.
12:06I don't have to hear from her. I'm
12:08raising attraction because I'm not
12:09pursuing her.
12:10And I get to work on myself. I get I get
12:13to build a business. I get to go to the
12:15gym, put on some more muscle. Everything
12:17is great, fantastic, fabulous. Life is a
12:21blessing. As a man, life is a goddamn
12:24blessing. Enjoy it. Enjoy it. Enjoy this
12:27time right now she's pulling back. Let
12:28her pull back. Don't pursue. You chase
12:31her, she's going to keep running. Just
12:32relax. Let it go. Everything's going to
12:35be just fine. So, these are three things
12:36you can do. If you guys want more advice
12:38on this, if you guys really don't know
12:40what the hell you're doing and you want
12:41to fix things fast, quick,
12:44right now I'm offering free
12:45consultations. Book a call. We're going
12:48to analyze your situation. We're going
12:49to break it down for you, make a plan
12:51for you, tell you exactly what you're
12:52supposed to do to get this woman,
12:55whoever she is, to be attracted to you
12:57to the level that you want her to be
12:58attracted to you, obsessed with you.
13:01Okay? And I'm going to personally be
13:04there guiding you through everything to
13:06get her to where you want her to be when
13:08it comes to attraction and obsession and
13:11how much she loves you. So, guys,
13:13listen, relax, take it easy,
13:16breathe,
13:17and go enjoy being a man.