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Intro
0:01[Music]
0:08are you living your life based on
0:11fear or not fear is restricting you to
0:16discover you need to go into the
0:18uncertainty how can you approach this
0:21Spain and this empty space do you have
0:24patience do you have Discipline Do you
0:27have willpower we always want more and
0:30more I get what I want and I still want
0:33more that doesn't satisfy me your
0:36satisfaction about
0:38life is it based on a condition or not
0:42God is not putting you in this earth
0:44incomplete take care of the body refine
0:48the body and at the same time you refine
0:51the mind the more you think you're
0:52perfect the less you're going to change
0:55there is no progress there is no
0:57development without restriction just
0:59feel free without any type of
1:01restriction I don't think this is the
1:03way how a human in this world is
1:05learning to grow what is the shaoling
1:07approach to such young kids
Prezentarea temei si a invitatului
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2:26the inner mapping inside
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3:08credit bank master sir hello and thank
Inceputul formarii Shaolin
3:10you so much for coming here uh to this
3:20podcast that's surprise how do you did
3:23you did you learn Romanian now before
3:26coming not before coming but I spent
3:29some years I have a good connection
3:30actually to kch okay and in the past
3:34years I had some period where I also
3:37stayed in the city for a few years and
3:39there I just catched up let's say what
3:41was necessary so I understand a little
3:44bit okay that that's so great that's
3:46such a good news I have a lot of
3:48questions but I want to start with the
3:50beginning with your childhood when you
3:52were introduced to the sholing practices
3:55at the year uh at the age of four how
3:59was it for five uh for a
4:01four-year-old uh to be introduced to the
4:04Shing practices how did that change you
4:08well let's put it really straight away
4:11like this I grew up in an Asian family
4:14know my parents they came as refugees
4:16from Vietnam to Germany in
4:201979 and I also have like an older
4:23brother and so growing up in an Asian
4:25family is very clear that whatever my
4:28father is saying you just listen to yeah
4:31so which means that at the age of four
4:33when he
4:35decided um
4:37he's putting me into a Shaolin school so
4:40I had no choice in that sense I just
4:42followed the instructions of my father
4:44he said go there do the training and so
4:46I went there do the
4:48training so I wouldn't really say that
4:50in the beginning it was my choice for me
4:53it was just starting as a hobby starting
4:56just as an practice to use my body not
4:59to sit around too much using the body
5:02using the energy that as a child for
5:05example you just have this type of
5:07energy which means you know to Children
5:12there's not much talking necessary they
5:14are not using the energy to process with
5:16the mind this is what adults do with
5:19children they are processing energy by
5:21moving and so for me growing up with
5:24this type of Shaolin practices meaning
5:26Kung Fu practicing Kung Fu I just felt
5:29like it's good for me on the one side
5:31the body gets strong and on the other
5:33side I just felt that to some
5:36extent it's a big contribution to the
5:40state of balance that at a later point
5:42in time became more and more important
5:46what it means what is it that needs to
5:48actually be balanced out about yourself
Educatia Shaolin pt copii
5:51what is the sholing approach to uh such
5:54young kids isn't it's anyhow
5:58constricting you from from uh I don't
6:00know playing and doing what kids are
6:04doing no it's it really depends
6:08on how deep we are going to to answer
6:12that type of question yeah so on the one
6:14side of course there is the freedom that
6:16a child is supposed to
6:18have
6:21but that definition of freedom yeah to
6:24do what you want at any time that you
6:26want just feel free without any type of
6:28restriction I don't think this is the
6:31way how a human in this world is
6:33learning to grow so there is for example
6:36derived from the ancient teachings is
6:39saying that there is no progress there
6:42is no development without
6:45restriction and this means for example
6:48sometimes you need to have somebody
6:50telling you what you are supposed to do
6:53even if you feel like sleeping until
6:55like 10 11:00 well it's not good to do
6:58MH it's wake up do your discipline
7:00structure and then learn first of all to
7:04just do things which are not based on
7:06your
7:08own sense of comfort let's call like
7:10this but this sense of comfort is not
7:13helpful when it comes to developing
7:15yourself so and in a way now the
7:18shaoling practices especially when it
7:20comes to Children it is still a playful
7:23way yeah because you're using the body
7:26it's fun at some point it's still fun
7:29you like to do the the
7:31things but at the same time it's also a
7:34healthy way to also start to understand
7:38that this lifetime is not just about
7:42um is not just about roses and
7:46butterflies sometimes you are meeting
7:48situations that you just have to face
7:52and that you have to go through meaning
7:54you're going to meet Conflict at one or
7:56another Point you're going to meet the
7:59the feeling of having
8:01competition and the martial art the
8:04sholing practices for example I think is
8:06a very healthy way to already get used
8:09to if you fail at one competition it
8:12doesn't mean that you're a bad person it
8:15just means practice
8:17more so these are all things where now
Filosofia Shaolin si formarea caracterului
8:20when we talk about it already you see
8:23that it's not just the physicality that
8:26is so interesting about this tradition
8:29about this practices it is especially
8:32the question how does all this
8:35physicality all this practicing of using
8:38the
8:39body how does it eventually translate
8:42into your mindset translate into what
8:46type of character are you do you have
8:49patience do you have Discipline Do you
8:52have willpower this is the question
8:55because you know when we go to school
8:58for example example there are subjects
9:01that we are learning mathematics biology
9:04physics chemistry all of these things
9:06these are subjects that we are
9:08learning but every human being has
9:11something we have something inside of
9:14us some people you would say they have
9:17discipline other people they don't have
9:18it some people have gratefulness other
9:22people don't have it some people have a
9:24natural sense of respect other people
9:26don't have it so the question is is it
9:30coincidence that you are born with
9:32respect or that you are born with
9:34discipline or is these character traits
9:37something that actually need to be and
9:40can be developed inside the human
9:43being because if you're disciplined it
9:46doesn't matter what you do afterwards in
9:49your life if you are disciplined you're
9:51going to have this discipline because
9:52it's part of your character you're going
9:55to carry it on for whatever you are
9:57doing going to school going to
9:59University having your first job
10:02building up your your own company
10:04doesn't matter what it is so this is
10:07that interesting part which means what
10:10all of this Shaolin practices for me the
10:13way how I am sharing it since years what
10:16it is about it is about figuring
10:19out what is the core of you as a human
10:23being that you can develop and then
10:26afterwards what you are doing with this
10:28core really really doesn't
10:30matter some people make a professional
10:33life in sports other people make a
10:36profession by being a entrepreneur other
10:40people they stay
10:43employed other people build
10:45houses other people build cars it
10:48doesn't really matter the thing is that
10:50along the way of creating something in
10:53this
10:54lifetime there are some helpful human
10:58character traits or mindsets that I
11:01think they need
11:03development so and the question is now
Obiceiurile si schimbarea
11:06okay how to develop them can you still
11:10develop them when you're an adult and
11:14you realize you don't have discipline
11:16and you don't have these core um
11:19characteristics you talked
11:21about so from my observation and also
11:26like sensing into
11:28myself the more you're used or getting
11:30used to something the more habits
11:32actually you yourself are starting to
11:34develop so we humans
11:37are beings of
11:39habit so the question is if 20 years
11:42long you lived a type of life where
11:45there was not a lot of discipline
11:48involved you can still develop it of
11:50course with the 21st years and onwards
11:54but before that we have to somehow
11:57balance out these 20 years of your habit
12:01of being un
12:02undisciplined so what it means is the
12:05older you get the more habits you
12:07already have the more difficult it will
12:10become to change any of them so this is
12:13why starting as early as possible is the
12:16easiest way to actually program yourself
12:19condition yourself in the right
12:21direction of what type of habits what
12:24type of thinking patterns you would like
12:28to develop in yourself yeah but the
Cu mintea deschisa
12:32other truth is
12:34also it depends on the openness of the
12:37Mind eventually it is it depends
12:40everything on the openness of yourself
12:42so if somebody is 50 years old but he is
12:45still open to life open to life means
12:49you actually realize about yourself that
12:52you know nothing about this
12:54lifetime you have 50 years of human life
12:57yeah but 50 years is 50 years yeah so it
13:01really depends on how open are you
13:03staying throughout your journey in this
13:06lifetime if you always take care of
13:08staying open there is no limit in terms
13:12of how much and how much more are you
13:15able to uh develop
13:18yourself the more limited the more
13:20restricted the more close you are the
13:23more you think you are perfect the less
13:26you're going to change they call it my
13:29my point of view right you you change
13:32the range of the possibilities to single
13:35point of view in your life you mean we
Realitatea limitata
13:37don't need to be that sure that we know
13:39the answer and we know uh what we know
13:42and to be like to develop that Curiosity
13:45that kids have usually into learning and
13:48finding new stuff yes for example now
13:51when you are mentioning already like
13:54that child mindset yeah okay no
13:58sometimes where
13:59people are starting to study or starting
14:03to get involved into any type of ancient
14:06practices or ancient teachings for
14:08example like Buddhism like Daoism like
14:11confusion ISM just as an example you
14:15know these uh ancient philosophies were
14:19developed in a different culture it's
14:21not the Western culture where all of
14:23these things were developed so of course
14:25it means that the language the words the
14:29pictures that are being let's say
14:32transmitted are based on the culture for
14:35what it was developed for
14:38so and why I'm mentioning this is that
14:41here in the western very often you want
14:44proof and you want to have science as
14:47the one that is the truth yeah people
14:50believe numbers people believe the signs
14:52and all of this and therefore one very
14:54important thing if you believe in
14:56science then you maybe just listen right
14:58now what the scientists maybe say about
15:01their observations about this universe
15:03that we have right now which means that
15:06all the matter everything that we humans
15:09see see the planets the Stars the
15:13galaxies what we see is
15:150.1% of what is there yeah that's true
15:19okay so what does it mean it means 99.9%
15:22or let's say the majority of existence
15:25you don't see yeah so how can you as a
15:29human being say you know
15:31anything at least you can you know what
15:34what you know I mean I have this I have
15:37this kind of questions and conversations
15:39with myself because I'm a scientist and
15:42it's very hard for me to go beyond the
15:45evidence-based I mean the evidence-based
15:48is something I can't be sure about the
15:51rest for me is like a dark forest and
15:56I'm kind of afraid I don't know what
15:58what what I can find there and if what I
16:01find I can't interpret in the right way
16:04and uh it seems dangerous for me as a
16:08scientist
Etichetarea si limitarile
16:10okay there is a time when the child is
16:14born he has no words in his mind he
16:18doesn't know
16:20anything when the child looks at the
16:24tree looks at the
16:27tree now I set the word already but when
16:29the child looks
16:32at that yeah it's there it's obvious
16:38there is
16:40something but when does this something
16:43become a
16:46tree well well let's say that when your
16:52mind starts to develop this pattern and
16:55when this tree fits in the pattern of
16:58the Tree from where does he get the word
17:01tree okay how does he know this
17:05is well he learns it from his parents
17:09[Music]
17:10or before he get the information put in
17:13the mind of the child that this is a
17:15tree yeah the child still looks at the
17:19that whatever it is yeah it is only a
17:23tree because somebody is telling you it
17:25is a
17:26tree without somebody telling you a name
17:29for this it is still there it is out of
17:33doubt it is in existence it is not let's
17:37say an illusion it's real the difference
17:40right now is that everything that we
17:42start to like learn in this
17:44lifetime from somewhere we learn to
17:48label everything mhm
17:50labeling yeah and and this is the moment
17:53where the openness the Curiosity
17:56of whatever happen whatever it is it's
17:59just there it
18:00is but this labeling of giving
18:03everything a name this is the reason why
18:05things along the line get restricted
18:08because we start to think in categories
18:11this is good this is bad yeah yeah and
18:16it is useful let's say for communication
18:19amongst
18:20people but on the other side in another
18:24state of being in another perspective of
18:27looking at this life
18:29lifetime sometimes it's really not
18:31necessary to use
18:34words because the words any words never
18:38describe what it
18:41is it never describes what it
18:44is now the only reason we call this one
18:46right now table because it is commonly
18:49understood and defined as table if right
18:53from the beginning we would have said
18:54this is not called table it's called
18:56chair then today we would call this
18:58chair
18:59so it's not a table it's not a chair it
19:01is just something we label it as what is
19:03it in
19:07essence can you describe a situation
Existenta nu este separata.
19:09where where this kind of uh thinking can
19:13help you or when describing by words
19:16some things we are limiting ourselves in
19:19understanding the
19:23world I try as good as I can to still
19:26that everybody like who also like listen
19:28right now can follow a little bit yes
19:30okay so I said in the moment we are
19:33labeling something labeling meaning you
19:36give something a
19:38word so if I say uh look at the
19:42glass we know where to look because this
19:46one we have named glass yeah but why do
19:50you know where to
19:53look it is because this glass at this
19:57very moment
19:59is something else than everything it's
20:01surrounded of so by using words what you
20:05are actually doing what we're doing is
20:07we're separating mhm we every word is
20:11defining a form it is defining a shape
20:15in the moment something has a form
20:17something has a shape there is something
20:19inside the form there is something
20:21outside the form you are separating mhm
20:25this existence is not separated mhm
20:29yeah okay now let me give you an example
20:32for example yeah we are right now here
20:33in
20:34Kapa I think like one 1 p.m. noon
20:38time
20:40um if you look out right
20:43now what do we
20:46have
20:49sunlight
20:51okay actually I made a mistake telling
20:54you that's 1: p.m. without the 1: p.m.
20:56if I ask you what do we have right now
21:00if we look outside the building we are
21:02in oh right now from your sense do we
21:04have day or night ah well if I if I
21:07would not know the time I would not
21:10could not tell if it's day or night yeah
21:12okay even if we look right now out and
21:15you say it's day yeah it is only day
21:18based on our perspective because we are
21:21right now here in Europe yeah but at
21:23exactly this point in time it's day and
21:27night at the same time
21:30on the on the perspective I'm talking
21:32about it's just that we it's day and
21:35night exist at the same
21:37time this part of the globe we have day
21:40other part of the world right now is
21:42night at the same point in time we have
21:44both mhm there is no chronology between
21:48now is day later is night mhm day and
21:52night exist coexist at the same
21:56time right now we can sit
21:59here we have we call this
22:03life we all wish that now we have life
22:06we hope this life is going to be 70 80
22:0990 maybe 100 years long and after this
22:12100 years then death can come
22:17yeah death and life is not a
22:22chronology who gives you the guarantee
22:25not right now no matter how healthy
22:27you're living you get a heart attack
22:28Tech right now where's the guarantee
22:31well I don't have one is one one of my
22:33fears yeah me I don't have it either I
22:37don't have the guarantee I don't know
22:40every morning if I wake up death is not
22:43coming
22:44later life and death simultaneously at
22:48the same time so using this type of
22:53perspective success and failure there is
22:56no successful person I know in in this
22:58world that I would regard as successful
23:01who does not at the same time has
23:04success on this side and can prove to me
23:07on the other side all of the failures
23:09that eventually led to his success true
23:12so what it means is to to live in a
23:17world where you think that we are living
23:20in a world which is about life it is
23:23about light it is about moving upwards
23:26it is about successful it is about
23:29beautiful it is about higher faster
23:34better this type of propaganda of making
23:37the human belief this life is one
23:39directional and that you can
23:42choose I think is a misconception and
23:45one
23:46day I feel the very
23:49hard reality is going to come and the
23:53reality is that this one and this one MH
23:57losing
23:59failure um letting go dying getting sick
24:05it is a part of every human being's
24:10lifetime but now just looking at the
24:12world what is it that is is propagated
24:15where is all the energy of the human
24:18being going it only goes in this
24:19direction because it feels
24:22comfortable
24:24security insecurity is nothing
24:26uncertainty is nothing that you feel
24:29comfortable with to deal it deal with it
24:31but what I'm saying is this and that
24:34they belong together there is no way out
24:37and the earlier you start to realize
24:41this the more
24:43real your view about this existence
24:46about your life
24:49becomes and and what it means is you
24:52start to appreciate way more what you
24:55have right now instead of running around
24:58starting to chase some things over and
25:01over again to afterwards realize you
25:04come alone you go alone very
25:08simple yeah and so these are all these
Mindset-ul, esenta practicilor Shaolin
25:10implications that again you see we talk
25:13a lot about mindset it's all about mind
25:16this is the essence of the shaoling
25:18practices not to forget this is the
25:21essence this is where all of the
25:24beautiful forms the hardening yeah the
25:27fighting aspect of it the combat aspect
25:30of it where at the end all of it boils
25:33down to the point how much have you
25:36understood about your life during this
25:41uh
25:43yeah this lifetime that you have
25:45available that is the core how can
Frica ne limiteaza dezvoltarea
25:48normal people that don't have the time
25:52to go to the Shaolin Temple and to
25:53practice a lot how can they start to
25:57integrate this this philosophy in their
26:00liveses because the truth is that we
26:03always want more and more let let me not
26:06talk about others I want more I want
26:09more money I want more uh knowledge I
26:13want more Sports I want more friends
26:16more holidays more
26:18success
26:20and I feel why I want more because I
26:24feel more
26:26um uh
26:30valuable this this way when I get more
26:33and when I get what I want I still want
26:37more and I know it's not the healthy pth
26:41yeah I know it's it's not going anywhere
26:44I get what I want and I still want more
26:47that doesn't satisfy me what can I
26:51do uh to find this harmony Because by
26:56the other side I'm afraid that if I I
26:58will not work more if I will not have
27:00more Vlogs and TV shows and stuff like
27:05that I feel that I I'm afraid that I'm
27:08going to lose stuff I'm going to miss
27:11stuff so I keep going that direction
27:14although I know it's not the healthy one
27:17what how can I bring back the harmony
27:21while still serving my um um let's say
27:26my purpose in life
27:30okay okay there are like a lot of things
27:32right
27:33now so number one that uh starting when
27:37we started the conversation that I hear
27:39is you mentioned the word fear yeah fear
27:43and also
27:44uncertainty
27:46yes these two things
27:50are the biggest challenges every human
27:53being is going to
27:56face the question is are you living your
27:59life based on
28:02fear or
28:05not and this fear let's let's put it
28:08like this is not
28:12helpful because it restricts you it
28:16restricts your ability to let's call it
28:19to expand the
28:20Mind fear is restricting you to discover
28:25because fear makes you to stay inside
28:27let's say
28:28the comfort zone but why do we call
28:31something the comfort zone it's because
28:33we have spent so many time already
28:36inside that zone that we know you know
28:39everything about it inside there already
28:41you have seen it you have experienced
28:43all of it that's why everything has
28:45become comfortable to you so as long as
28:48you're comfortable it means you're not
28:51leaving the things that you
28:54know this existence is too big it's 0.1%
28:59of knowing is 99% of not knowing mhm if
29:03you want to discover what is the
29:0799.9% it means you need to leave the
29:10space of knowing you need to leave the
29:13space of
29:14comfort you need to go into the
29:17uncertainty and this is that fearful
29:20part and people the more fearful you are
29:24the the more you're going to stay where
29:25you are
29:28the less fearful you are the more you're
29:30going to expand the more you're going to
29:32discover so now the question is how can
29:35I now
29:36learn to face your fear and to let's
29:42say yeah to face it and there again I
29:46think the shalling practices is one of
29:49these ways like I said in the beginning
29:52it starts with the fact of you have
29:54competition sometimes there when you're
29:56still young facing other ones in
29:59competition after all the Shaolin Kung
30:02Fu is still a martial art meaning you're
30:04also using the things together with
30:06another partner or do any type of
30:08spurring meaning you even if you have
30:11gloves on but you are standing there and
30:15are still willing to actually right now
30:17try out how good is the things that you
30:21have learned and how much pain can you
30:23take so facing pain is also something
Confruntarea cu durerea
30:28something that goes along the way of
30:29practicing the sh in martial
30:33arts now to just give you an
30:37example right now if I'm telling you
30:39okay let's make together I don't know 50
30:42push-ups maybe you can do 50 but 200 you
30:46cannot make right now so the question
30:49right now is how can you move up from
30:51making 50 push-ups up to
30:54200 it means that at the 50th push-up
30:58even if you're struggling even if it
31:00hurts even if the muscles are burning
31:03you need to learn to to unlock that last
31:07power that you have and push through the
31:10pain and make at least the 51
31:14push-up this is the way how skills how
31:18abilities start to grow inside of us and
31:22in the same way how the body is growing
31:25in the same way also I think it is in
31:27regards to the mind you don't have to
31:30jump right away into the darkness this
31:33is not many people can do this but
31:37realizing okay this is right now my
31:40comfort zone and tomorrow I'm already
31:43trying one thing that is just new to me
31:47yeah I feel oh it still feels
31:49uncomfortable to me but okay let's try
31:51just one step out next day another step
31:55out meaning in integrate the jump into
31:59the uncertainty into your lifetime until
32:03it becomes a
32:05habit yeah this is the one way that
32:08means how to develop that ability to go
32:12against the fear this is one
32:14thing and now the second part
Constientizarea sinelui. Conectarea cu corpul si mintea
32:17is uh and I think this is now very
32:20useful for for
32:24everyone if you have if you have the
32:27wrong image about yourself on this Earth
32:32if you are viewing yourself like from a
32:34wrong
32:36perspective then it just means you will
32:39never get into the understanding what
32:41type of potential you are actually
32:44possessing what do you mean you've uh
32:46you have a wrong image of yourself but
32:49can you give an example yes somebody who
32:51has never practice martial arts yeah if
32:54that person looks into the
32:56mirror he you would say this is
32:59me I have this black hair I have this
33:03eyes I have these lips I have this skin
33:06color this the very first
33:09view when you start practicing the
33:11martial arts it goes hand in hand at
33:13some point that you see hm okay but
33:16inside of that back of skin there's more
33:21you have a scal structure you have
33:23muscles you have tendons you have organs
33:26you have a whole system of of I don't
33:30know how you call it lymphatic system
33:32you have according to ancient tradition
33:34you have an energy system you can go
33:38even smaller into all of our organs are
33:41made out of molecules the molecules of
33:43atoms and the atoms of proton neutron
33:45electron the point is you becoming more
33:49and more
33:50fine more and
33:53more refined
33:56about there is much more about us
33:59because in the moment where you realize
34:01that back of skin has more on the inside
34:04it also increases right now your ability
34:07if you say health is important to me
34:10well then it's not enough to just like
34:12use cream on your skin that is taking
34:15care outside if you know there is more
34:18inside then it means whatever you eat
34:20whatever you do whatever you're drinking
34:23how does it affect what is inside of you
34:28so all these practices what does it do
34:32it makes you become more refined about
34:36yourself your layer of when you look at
34:39yourself when you sense into
34:42yourself you feel more what you are and
34:47still we're talking right now all about
34:49physicality yeah but at the same time
34:52just like in the psychosomatic uh
34:56relation your mind mind is
34:59unhealthy directed so the body can have
35:02an effect so shaoling tradition or this
35:06approach is exactly the other way around
35:08take care of the body refine the body
35:11and at the same time you refine the mind
35:14the more fine you become about the mind
35:17and why is the mind so important because
Mintea
35:20I think no it's not I think
35:22but it matters if you wake up in the
35:25morning what are you sinking when you
35:28wake up in the
35:30morning and if you already wake up with
35:34conflict in the
35:35mind wake up with with unsatisfaction
35:39Inside the Mind wake up with a feeling
35:41of lack of I wake up I have to do
35:44something quickly because I don't have
35:46it right now whatever it is so running
35:49after
35:50something this is where it is already so
35:53the point
35:55is why do
35:59we
36:00Chase why do you chase anything it is
36:04because you're in a state of lack
36:08something's
36:09missing if you would have it why would
36:12you chase
36:14it yeah and now the question is where
36:17does this lack come from and now come
Sensul vietii este existenta
36:20back to the
36:22child the
36:25child the incarnated soul the incarnated
36:28spirit when it comes to the Earth
36:31whoever made it possible for that child
36:33to
36:35come you can call it God you can call it
36:38the nature you can call it the universe
36:40no matter what this Force this power
36:44does not make
36:47mistakes God is not putting you in this
36:50earth
36:52incomplete why would he do
36:56that what he's on the earth is existence
37:00he's granting us existence yeah and
37:03afterwards it starts that we have
37:06Concepts we start thinking we start
37:10having ideas about how this life is
37:13supposed to be if you're not successful
37:16it's not the life if you don't have many
37:18cars it's not the life if you don't have
37:21many friends is not alive well no this
37:23is all human ideas you came to the Earth
37:27right from the beginning you have been
37:30complete this is the
37:33alternative and this is what um let's
37:36say at the moment I would say is just
37:40guiding to rethink so what is the next
37:43way of what can people do rethink your
37:46life look at how is your life looking at
37:50the
37:51moment how did you spend the last 5
37:55years 10 years and then also do you
37:58maybe see some patterns in your
Tiparul dorintelor
38:02life I tell you one pattern everybody
38:06has I have I had it too we all have it
38:09because it's normal there was a time we
38:12we didn't even have any mobile phone
38:14then like the first noas came out yeah
38:17in different type of shapes uh shapes
38:19and forms and okay eventually you even
38:22got one we're happy about it then the
38:24next generation of phones came out and
38:26this one was okay it's old already you
38:29want to the next one so then you got the
38:31iPhone then you got the iPad then you
38:33got the MacBook Pro then you got your
38:36high- station then you got the big TV
38:40screen then the first car you had was a
38:43Volkswagon then afterwards you had a BMW
38:46meanwhile you can afford like uh
38:49Mercedes a Porsche is also on top a
38:52Lamborghini is on top yeah a Bugatti is
38:54on top but there is a pattern behind
38:57there whenever you get what you want you
39:02will realize that's not it mhm and so
39:06the question is when do you start to
39:08realize the pattern that running after
39:13desires is not going to
39:16fulfill your desire I know that I feel
39:20that but I still run after desires I
39:23have like desires and I want to have a
39:26Porche I want to have a bigger
39:29house I know this won't fulfill me but I
39:33feel this world I live in is like
39:36screaming at us that's this is the only
39:41way um the world right now is so good on
39:46comparing us right I mean maybe 20 years
39:50ago we didn't have social media you you
39:52you don't know how many friends have
39:54each one now you can see you go social
39:57media you see how many followers you
39:58have like it is it becomes the
40:01competition that I feels is sucking all
40:04the energy from us and getting us apart
40:08from that uh um that human being that
40:12you become when when when you're born
40:14and when you're complete so how do I
Satisfactia vietii si conditionarile
40:17mean I feel like we are in a in a loop
40:20uh that is sucking uh this energy from
40:23us how can you get
40:25out without losing in your purpose in
40:29life let's
40:30say this is where it comes from what you
40:34need is
40:35realization what you need is wake
40:39up this is where all these terms are
40:41coming coming
40:43from and also really
40:45important followers are not friends
40:49followers are followers they follow you
40:52as long as the image that you
40:54represent fits to some way of thinking
40:58of the ones that follow you yeah I
41:01wouldn't give anything about
41:03followers there is a a circle of very
41:06very close friends of life and they
41:10don't care if there are ups and downs
41:13these are the ones who stay on their
41:15side so this is like the other truths so
41:19quantity itself determines nothing it
41:22only determines and is a proof maybe
41:24that at the moment the way of what you
41:27you are sharing with the world many
41:29people are resonating with it which is a
41:32good thing then at the same time also to
41:36take that misunderstanding away I grant
41:39you the Porsche I grant you a big house
41:42yeah it's all nice and I mean if you can
41:45afford it it's absolutely something I
41:47mean why not uh the German technology
41:50and possibilities that meanwhile is is
41:53able to do is like pretty awesome the
41:56only thing is
41:59ask yourself
42:02your satisfaction about
42:05life is it based on a condition or
42:09not because this is what now I I I would
42:12see right now everything that at the
42:15moment you want to have you say you know
42:19already but what I'm saying
42:22is always when you say I need this in
42:26order to feel compete complete I want
42:28this in order to Feel Complete then it
42:30means your life your satisfaction about
42:34life is based on conditions as long as I
42:38have many followers I'm happy as long as
42:41I have a family I'm happy as long as I
42:43have the car and the big house I'm
42:46happy the fact
42:48is you do not have a guarantee you do
42:53not have a security that at any point in
42:57time you're going to lose these
42:59things first of all latest when the body
43:03falls apart you're going to lose them
43:04anyway but even before that just look
43:08out in the world when we had for example
43:10the the restrictions coming because of
43:12the covid yeah what can you do as an
43:16individual if the government decides
43:19finished no more podcast no more going
43:23out no more meeting friends stay at home
43:26yeah and you had a lifestyle every day
43:29you go out meeting friends every day you
43:31drive around every day you are outside
43:33but now because of whatever you are
43:36forced to stay in that restriction what
43:38is going to happen to your life
43:42satisfaction the more you were con the
43:45more it was based on the condition of
43:49Life needs to look like this the more
43:52the more we will suffer that's probably
43:55one of the reasons why a lot of people
43:58develop depression right during the
44:02lockdown I think it goes both ways many
44:05developed depression and many started
44:07waking up
44:09realizing I cannot base my life on
44:14circumstances where I don't have
44:15influence on and this is exactly what
44:18this life is about don't base your life
44:24satisfaction on circumstances where you
44:27have no influence on if you have well
44:30then change them in the way that serve
44:32you but there are many things we don't
44:35have and to already right now like
44:38realizing I
44:41cannot as a small citizen I do have no
44:45influence on whatever the politicians
44:48are going to throw out there no
44:52way and then it starts that you are
Viata e in controlul tau
44:56realizing your life is in your
45:00hands your responsibility is make sure
45:03that
45:04inside you always fool or that you're
45:08feeling fool no matter what happens on
45:10the outside nobody can take something
45:12away from you because the gift that has
45:16been given to you is the existence is
45:18this lifetime in the first place we
45:21already have been given the greatest
45:23gift of everything
45:25existence now don't let anybody
45:28interfere trying to take that away from
45:32you so that means don't Outsource the
45:35power of having your hands uh of having
45:38your life in your own hands don't
45:40Outsource this
45:43to external
45:46circumstances don't Outsource it to the
45:49amount of messages you receive per day
45:51don't Outsource it to the number of
45:53followers don't Outsource it to
45:58yeah how big the apartment is how many
46:00cars you
46:02have if you can afford it do it just
46:05don't make that emotional and mental
46:08attachment this is the
46:10part it's not about how many cars you
46:14have you can have a whole garage full
46:16with all the luxury cars that's not a
46:18problem the problem is how much are you
46:21identified with your possessions the
46:26identification is the problem to have a
46:29garage full and just use them and enjoy
46:33them and when you drive and the weather
46:34is nice then is really nice but then you
46:37put it back into the garage you go eat
46:39your meal and while you eating the car
46:41is gone you're not thinking about a car
46:44anymore it's gone it's standing in the
46:46garage finished now you just enjoy the
46:49meal attachment is the problem
46:53mhm yeah so and this is all I would say
Fiecare viata e o suma de alegeri personale
46:56it is a process it is of
46:59rewiring how have you lived your life
47:02until right now how much did it serve
47:05you the way of thinking until now and
47:08how much also did it limit
47:11you these are all things every
47:14individual has to ask for themsel and
47:18this is why now this is why also now for
47:21example whatever conference uh I go to I
47:25always say I have nothing to give to the
47:27people I'm not giving you anything right
47:31now I'm just saying something which is
47:34let's say my view and you have to ask
47:37yourself what is it from what you have
47:39heard until right now that in a way
47:41resonates with you you observe this
47:43pattern in your own life and ultimately
47:46the only person who can do something
47:49about it it's not
47:50me you make the decision your life is in
47:54your
47:55hands the old only thing that I'm doing
47:58is if at all I'm taking something away
48:02I'm taking away misconceptions and
48:05illusions that people might have in this
48:09lifetime if they haven't didn't have the
48:12possibility to hear other
48:14perspectives so and because the shaoling
48:17tradition or the way how I grow up is a
48:20very different way of life this is maybe
48:25why this
48:28understanding of okay you can use the
48:30body to get to the
48:32mind and then once you at the mind what
48:35is it that you can actually observe
48:37about yourself what type of questions
48:39can you ask yourself this is then where
48:42people realize oh okay so there is there
48:44are other people in this world they have
48:47grown up differently and they ask
48:49themselves different
48:52questions but we all live the same life
48:56so which which way is the right way the
48:58Western approach or the Eastern
49:00approach no listen to all of them and
49:04then individually choose what is working
49:07for you and what
49:11not yeah I have so many things to say um
49:15first of all this podcast is called bab
49:18de which means seeds of knowledge so you
49:21basically give us some seeds of
49:23knowledge they can grow in a fertile
49:25soil or they cannot but yeah you share
49:29the seeds of knowledge and thank you for
49:31doing so I love the way that having
49:34properties and being
49:36competitive does not uh uh necessarily
49:40negatively impact your fullness right
49:44but you need to be sure that this is not
49:47like uh you're not feeling your your
49:51gaps with these properties you first
49:54have to be full inside
49:57and
49:59uh where can we
50:01start let's say that somebody realizes
50:05that he is using these external
50:09conditions to to to feel good inside H
50:14how can you start because I think the
50:17more you're in that
50:19situation it becomes more painful to
50:22look inside and to see how empty you are
Promovare brunch Bun Bine
50:26for
Grija pentru corpul tau
51:26how can you approach this pain and this
51:29empty space where where do you have to
51:34start this is exactly the
51:38approach how you learn to face the pain
51:41use the body so what is the very first
51:45thing anybody in the world is supposed
51:47to do if you look at your life and
51:49realize that in the last seven days you
51:52are only sitting or
51:54lying it's not enough is unbalanced no
51:58matter what it
51:59is that person is going to be unbalanced
52:01for sure so this is why any type of
52:05physical activity doesn't need to be
52:06Shaolin Kung Fu any type of physicality
52:09needs to be inside the way of life of a
52:13normal human being you mean any sports
52:16like any sport so sport is already good
52:19ultimately meaning take care of the
52:21body because you know there is a nice
52:25saying
52:28um as long as your body is
52:32healthy you have thousands of
52:35problems yeah but in the moment your
52:37body gets sick you have one problem
52:40that's really true yeah that that yeah
52:42that's true okay so this is that's why I
52:45mean first of all before like tackling
52:48everything yeah so how to build up your
52:50life and how to whatever do make sure
52:52your body stays healthy if the body is
52:54not healthy you don't need to worry
52:55about anything else
52:58so respect take care and love your body
53:04nourish your body nourish yourself in
53:07such a way that you understand it's
53:09something right now very very precious
53:11to have okay this is number one okay
Artele martiale si conectarea cu corpul
53:16okay now of course there is a difference
53:20probably what type of sport you are
53:23doing but I can only talk about let's
53:26say the shaoling way the shaoling
53:28practices and what is so special about
53:31them is that they are not based only
53:35unlike external
53:37practices yeah in the Shing way
53:39sometimes you have just positions you're
53:42just standing body is not moving mhm but
53:45just because the body is not moving
53:48doesn't mean you're not training
53:50something doesn't mean you are not doing
53:52something it's just not visible on the
53:55outside yeah that's why we call it it's
53:58internal
54:00training internal training meaning for
54:03just as an example feeling how much
54:05tension do you carry inside of your body
54:09you know if somebody like stay like this
54:10you can see I have tension okay but then
54:13I relax the shoulder okay now looks
54:15better but that's just the outside layer
54:18the question is inside your organs
54:21everything inside how much tension do
54:23you carry there so this is also a away
54:27what is happening in all of these
54:28martial art practices meaning you become
54:32more fine than even about your body and
54:35the more fine you become about the body
54:38the more access you have to it and
54:41because you become so fine the Mind
54:43becomes so fine it becomes more subtle
54:46to the changes that are happening inside
54:49our
54:50lifetime and then what do you do with
54:53that ability of you sense like the s
54:56changes it is like you have a way better
55:00possibility right now to really fine
55:03tune your life mhm yeah you realize oh
55:06no that that that frequency doesn't
55:08sound right a now it's
Echilibrarea vietii prin rafinarea simturilor
55:12okay yeah so it has something to do with
55:15how fine are you to adjust your
55:18life yeah it's like you're a busy man
55:22you have a hobby you have a profession
55:24you have the podcast maybe you have a
55:26girl girlfriend maybe you have children
55:29the more you
55:30have the more aware you need to become
55:34how do all of these areas actually
55:37interfere to your
55:41overall
55:43feeling and if one of these things
55:46like is needs more attention you need to
55:49be able to sense this mhm if another is
55:52like too much then you need to take a
55:55little bit so it's always a type of
55:58balancing the more areas in life you
56:01have the more detailed the more fine you
56:04have to become to balance all of this
56:06out you spend too much with podcast and
56:09with work and uh
56:12with I don't know with with your hobbies
56:14well your relationship won't be happy
56:17it's just going to be like this but you
56:19give all energy only into the
56:21relationship well you're going to be
56:22unhappy because all the other things
56:24that are also important to you you don't
56:27have enough energy so it's a very fine
56:30line sometimes to really figure out how
56:33to adjust and that
56:35means to be able to really
56:39sense sometimes really sense the
56:41presence of the other person which means
56:44just because somebody talks to you and
56:46smiles in your face doesn't mean the
56:48energy is
56:49right yeah but exactly already with this
56:52word when I say energy yeah it's
56:54sometimes strange to people that they
56:56say oh it's esoteric so what what do you
56:58mean by energy but you know it's it's
57:01very
57:04simple people can laugh in your face but
57:07you feel is not real mhm people can just
57:11sit there and you can feel their
57:13suffering people can sit there and
57:15pretend to smile but you can feel they
57:18angry this is what what I in a in a
57:20simple way say beyond what we see
57:24obviously
57:26there is another area that gives you
57:29more and more real actually information
57:32than the obvious what you think you see
57:36smiling doesn't mean
57:37friendly what energy is behind there no
57:42and this also means the refinement of
57:45you sensing also
Importanta sportului si a disciplinei
57:47things and it comes with a healthy body
57:50it is the starting
57:52point healthy body first then you
57:56integrate the practices more into your
57:59daily life and this refinement like I
58:02said in the shaoling Arts also like in
58:05the taitron systems there you have a lot
58:09of this type of what I call refining the
58:12body yeah you refine the body
58:15automatically you are refining the
58:17mind yeah and this is where nowadays I
58:21think it's such a great help actually
58:24that it just looks like a martial art it
58:26just looks like you do sport yeah but
58:29with the right mindset in the
58:31combination of what you are doing and
58:33what mindset you have is a very very
58:37powerful tool to combine two things body
58:41and mind in the same practice in the
58:44same practice body and
58:46mind yes and translated into your inside
58:53world together with the outside world
58:55mhm so at the moment people are chasing
58:58chasing chasing which is not wrong yeah
59:01but now instead of having 100% of only
59:07chasing do 80% chasing and 20% look
59:12inside adjust what look if you cannot
59:15face yourself 100% face yourself
59:1920% okay when you are comfortable with
59:2220% looking
59:24inside move it up 50% you do internal
59:29work about yourself about your mindset
59:31about your feelings about your
59:33expectations about the perspectives how
59:35you're looking into the world at 50% you
59:38invest in building something up on the
59:40outside now we're already at 50/50 mhm
59:44and from there on your decision how you
59:46continue some people go 100% inside and
59:50outside do nothing
59:52anymore yeah but it's also for me um for
59:56me personally also not the way how I am
59:59at the moment uh working now this is the
1:00:03reason why I also like accept it in a
1:00:05way to to come to this podcast because I
1:00:08just think it is a very very good way to
1:00:11get this type of knowledge out so I
1:00:14regard this also as my contribution in a
1:00:16way yeah with all the practices that I
1:00:20had before to now I think there is
1:00:23something that can help people just by
1:00:25listening to it that's why I do
1:00:28it yeah but on the other side when
1:00:31podcast and all the events are finished
1:00:34then I'm by myself all alone I'm very
1:00:36happy to be alone I have no problem with
1:00:38that at all and then go into my internal
1:00:41practices refine myself and actually
1:00:44working on
1:00:45myself so working on yourself on the one
1:00:49side and then with everything that you
1:00:52have discovered give it out do something
1:00:56contribute to this globe contribute
1:00:59something in this Earth this is my
1:01:01balance that makes me feel very very
Solitudinea si introspectia
1:01:07comfortable what are you doing when
1:01:09you're
1:01:16alone so it's mainly training
1:01:19training or also
1:01:22really sensing inside where are the
1:01:27gaps so just really sitting there and
1:01:29asking
1:01:30myself what is the reason at the moment
1:01:34I don't enjoy this
1:01:36life what is
1:01:39missing yeah what what's the reason
1:01:42right now for you to be unhappy about
1:01:44this
1:01:45life simple question like this and
1:01:48really this is something that everyone
1:01:51can do right yeah not can do only
1:01:54probably should do because if you don't
1:01:57ask this question the answers uh most
1:02:00probably cannot
1:02:02come so you just sit and you ask
1:02:04yourself what what why don't you like
1:02:07what why don't you like your life right
1:02:10now what is the gap what is missing in
1:02:13my life yeah what do you think you still
1:02:17need does it really make sense imagining
1:02:20you would have already what you are
1:02:22wishing for how would it change you
1:02:24right now mhm now let's put it simple
1:02:27like this at outside I have at the
1:02:29moment maybe I have my Porsche standing
1:02:31now just imagine instead of the Porsche
1:02:33outside this time it's a Bugatti
1:02:35standing both of them y car how does it
1:02:37change you sitting
1:02:39here
1:02:42nothing
1:02:45nothing
1:02:46yeah only when you sit inside then there
1:02:50is a difference but for right now there
1:02:52are many things on the outside they
1:02:54don't matter what matters is how how do
1:02:56you feel right now this is what
1:02:59matters so there is something simple
Starea de prezenta
1:03:03about it you know the problem many times
1:03:06in in nowadays world
1:03:08is
1:03:10that you are not here you cannot just be
1:03:14alone with
1:03:16yourself either when you're alone with
1:03:19either you're drifting off into the past
1:03:22about what everything went wrong in the
1:03:24past or you drifting off into what you
1:03:27still want to see and have in the future
1:03:30so this projection either into the
1:03:32future or the memories into the
1:03:34past both of these things is What Makes
1:03:38You
1:03:40Suffer we can sit right now over here
1:03:43and think about what happened last week
1:03:45and then maybe it makes us angry or we
1:03:48can sit right now here and we look into
1:03:50next week oh no Financial Department's
1:03:53going to come yeah and also makes you
1:03:55suffer again
1:03:56but right now right now there is no
1:03:58reason to suffer I don't
1:04:02suffer Neuroscience calls that pred
1:04:05predictions so basically our brain is a
1:04:09predictions machine it predicts all the
1:04:12time even when you don't think about
1:04:14things it predicts things like what
1:04:17would happen if it's going to be an
1:04:19earthquake uh what what is the root out
1:04:22here even if you don't think about that
1:04:24so I think that like like this is and we
1:04:27analyze the past to learn from that so
1:04:30probably these are good tools but they
1:04:33are not good when we just do that right
1:04:36and because this brain this machine
1:04:39is it is made to analyze the past and to
1:04:44make predictions for the
1:04:45future it is so hard to stay in the
1:04:48present right so how can how can we stay
1:04:54in the present
1:04:59so I think we we
1:05:01can also say that the mind or what we
1:05:05refer as the mind is something very very
1:05:08powerful it's something very intelligent
1:05:10it is something very very
1:05:12powerful because it is so powerful it is
1:05:16also
1:05:18that element about you which can make
1:05:21you suffer a lot or which can make you
1:05:24flourish also a lot
1:05:27it's the same mind that created the atom
1:05:29bomb and it is the same mind that
1:05:31created all the technological
1:05:32developments that we have nowadays so we
1:05:35can create something with the mind or we
1:05:37can destroy something with the mind we
1:05:39can use the mind to really use it and
1:05:43benefit our well-being but we can also
1:05:45use the mind to destroy our well-being
1:05:48so the question is how do you use the
1:05:50mind in the proper way this is like one
1:05:53question so and how now to make better
1:05:58use of the mind or better use of the
1:06:02presence this is the point where now it
1:06:05comes to all different types of
1:06:08practices that are existing in this
1:06:10world
1:06:12like focus on the
1:06:14breath do your internal work focus on
1:06:19the movement focus on the sound
1:06:22everything that brings you into the
1:06:24presence
1:06:26yeah this one doesn't happen in the past
1:06:29mhm yeah there's nothing more real
1:06:33there's nothing more direct nothing more
1:06:35present than something like this and so
1:06:38to remind yourself also again to
1:06:42identify okay I'm thrifting off right
1:06:44now come
1:06:46back because also when you do breathing
1:06:50methods when I inhale and let's say I
1:06:53feel this stream of air that goes
1:07:00in also so in the moment where your mind
1:07:04is is locked on the breast so you follow
1:07:09the line as good as you can this can
1:07:12only happen in the p in in in the
1:07:14present you cannot feel the breath of
1:07:17the past there is no breath of the past
1:07:21there is no inhalation of the
1:07:23future whatever you sensing when you
1:07:27follow the stream of the breath it's the
1:07:30presentence the breath never happens in
1:07:33the past and it never happens in the
1:07:35future it's that direct experience so
1:07:38that means it doesn't matter eventually
1:07:42what is it that you are let's say
1:07:43locking your mind on as long as it is
1:07:46something that happens in the presence
1:07:49and this is where all this exercises are
1:07:53coming in when I talk you right now I
1:07:56know what I talk yeah when I'm
1:08:00eating I feel the sense of the food when
1:08:05I'm sleeping I'm really trying to enjoy
1:08:08the sense of body is resting mind is
1:08:12resting this is how sleep
1:08:14feels yeah when I'm at a
1:08:17concert listening to
1:08:21something these are all type of
1:08:24practices when I walk out in the street
1:08:26and the sun is shining on my face and
1:08:28the people are sitting there at the
1:08:30coffee and you hear they talking but I
1:08:32walk and I feel I sense this is the
1:08:34sunshine this is the people talking my
1:08:37feet are moving I'm here I know what I
1:08:39do I know what I'm
1:08:42surrounded uh with so being just very
1:08:47present being very aware because without
1:08:51this awareness it's
1:08:53like without this awareness you wouldn't
1:08:56even or people maybe wouldn't even make
1:08:57a difference yeah whether you sit in a
1:08:59Porsche or if you just like sit in um in
1:09:02a
1:09:05Corvette but if you're if you aware you
1:09:08feel very very
1:09:10clearly a car that drives like this can
1:09:13only be a
1:09:15portion yeah so awareness is key because
1:09:19without it there is no
1:09:21enjoyment yeah you don't make use of
1:09:24what you have
1:09:26awareness is what is like making it
1:09:29finally real for you you worked so hard
1:09:32for it now you have it enjoy it yeah but
1:09:35you can't enjoy it if all the time you
1:09:37think about like last week or if you
1:09:39think all the time about what happens in
1:09:41the future enjoying what you have is you
1:09:45arrive at exactly where you are right
1:09:49now with what you have that's it there
1:09:52is no wishing for something more of the
1:09:54future and there's not wishing for
1:09:56something that wouldn't have happened of
1:09:58the past no you in the present that's
1:10:01it and the more you realize this about
1:10:04yourself the more you integrate this
1:10:07just into your
1:10:08normal
1:10:10uh
1:10:12being then it starts to
1:10:15shift yeah just bring more
1:10:19presence
1:10:21into the present how often we have to do
Constientizarea prezentei
1:10:25do that I I mean are are you always
1:10:28present or what percent of the time you
1:10:31try to be present at the moment if I
1:10:33talk about myself if I observe myself
1:10:37the most of the time I would say I'm
1:10:39present and I'm realizing when I'm not
1:10:43so the amount of being absent is what I
1:10:48realize when I'm absent I realize it
1:10:51when I'm present it's my normal
1:10:53state for other people maybe it's the
1:10:55other way around but this really depends
1:10:58on your personal relation and how much
1:11:01you practice So eventually the thing is
1:11:05the truth is you're always present you
1:11:08just don't know about it you just over
1:11:12you you're over there's some layer on
1:11:15top of the presence which somehow makes
1:11:17you think you're not in the present but
1:11:19we're always in the present just the
1:11:22realization that you are is not there
1:11:25because it is
1:11:26overlaid by
1:11:29thoughts if you take the thoughts away
1:11:31you will realize oh there it is it's so
1:11:35nice because this is a much easier
1:11:38approach for me at least to understand
1:11:41that pres I mean I am present right now
1:11:44I just don't realize it's not something
1:11:46that presence is something I have to
1:11:49achieve by um big efforts no I'm just
1:11:54present so nice I'm present I just have
1:11:56to realize that and get get rid
1:11:59of of the noise so and this is exactly a
1:12:04very very nice point where now you
1:12:08see I call it only like this yes but the
1:12:11one approach that we have at the moment
Totul ce avem nevoie este in interior
1:12:13in this world is in order for us to be
1:12:17full to to feel full we need to attain
1:12:21something we need to do something M you
1:12:24need to have your diploma you need to
1:12:26have your job you need to have money you
1:12:28need to have the first car you need to
1:12:30have you so that means this approach is
1:12:32about you need it's about it's about
1:12:36doing yeah but the realization that I
1:12:40was just telling you right now that you
1:12:41have yourself is no it's not about doing
1:12:44it's there
1:12:46already it's there
1:12:49already it's just covered all the time
1:12:52so this time is not about adding
1:12:54something there it's about this year
1:12:58must
1:12:58go and that
1:13:00one must also Bo there it
1:13:03is nothing needs to be done it is
1:13:06something we have to
1:13:09undo this is the E
1:13:12approach yeah and I I love the way you
1:13:14combine them because you don't say you
1:13:16don't have to do anything I mean you can
1:13:18still have you can still
1:13:22do but you have to realize that you
1:13:24already have what what you need right
1:13:27it's the balance it's the balance so
1:13:30just right now I think it's really
1:13:32helpful yeah you know you don't have to
1:13:35throw away everything that you have
1:13:37learned until right now in in in that
1:13:39sense it's just that there are more
1:13:41perspectives that when you have access
1:13:44to both of these perspectives just find
1:13:47out for yourself sometimes this makes
1:13:49more sense sometimes this makes more
1:13:50sense well important part
1:13:53is as long as you have it you can choose
1:13:56when to use it but if you don't even
1:13:58have it you can't use
1:14:00it so what does it mean whatever there
1:14:03is to learn in this world it's never
1:14:05wrong to learn it you never know if you
1:14:08will need it one day and then it's
1:14:11better to have than to need it is one
1:14:14way out of many that are existing I can
1:14:18only or I did talk only about this my
1:14:21whole life because I Walk This Way it
1:14:25doesn't mean it's the only way it's just
1:14:28because I walked it for so long it is my
1:14:31understanding of okay how do this these
1:14:34practices interfere or are connected
1:14:38with with building up a life that you
1:14:42think is worth living that's
1:14:44it what is the Shaolin practices doing
1:14:47for me help me build up a life a quality
1:14:50life that's it if you want to call like
1:14:53this this is one of of the main emphasis
1:14:56that I was putting in in always sharing
1:14:59these things out but there are many ways
1:15:02yeah so but
Disciplina, structura, directie
1:15:04ultimately it's the
1:15:06mind and yeah it's just you know but in
1:15:09the field of martial arts is just in a
1:15:12way also like pretty attractive in terms
1:15:16of you make your body
1:15:20strong you have let's say movements that
1:15:24on the one side also sometimes are quite
1:15:28aesthetic and it's so nice and
1:15:31whole for me so you there's everything
1:15:35involved there is Diet involved there is
1:15:38like structure involved like when would
1:15:40it be good to wake up when is it good to
1:15:42go to sleep and all of these things so
1:15:44it's a whole nice let's say culture
1:15:48tradition this is what I I find so nice
1:15:51about it that the Search is Over You
1:15:54Don't
1:15:55need to search for like so like here I
1:15:59take this yoga practice and then from
1:16:01here I take the breathing exercises from
1:16:03here and from here I take like the
1:16:05dancing moves and then you have like a a
1:16:08mixup yeah um yeah a mixup
1:16:12menu but mixup
1:16:15menu maybe gives you the feeling of you
1:16:19have some Freedom yeah yeah but
1:16:23structure gives you Direction
1:16:25and you find distruction in a show in
1:16:28school or Temple right yes also
1:16:30depending on who's teaching it to you
1:16:32but it's supposed to be like this
1:16:34yes um tell me about uh your temple uh
Practica intr-un Templu Shaolin
1:16:38it can anyone attend that do you need is
1:16:42there like an exam how do you if I want
1:16:44to come to your temple how what should I
1:16:46do so very
1:16:49simple um
1:16:55I started with this
1:16:57idea in 2011 2010 as you mentioned and
1:17:01already from the beginning it has always
1:17:04been my wish and also my the way of how
1:17:07I share the things to tell the people
1:17:10listen you do not need to live inside
1:17:14the monastery to develop
1:17:17everything that uh that I think is worth
1:17:22to be developed you don't need to stay
1:17:25inside the monastery but what is the
1:17:28special thing about the monastery it
1:17:30means if you come for example to
1:17:33visit from Monday till Saturday for one
1:17:36week everybody can come or sometimes we
1:17:38also have weekend programs during this
1:17:41time you don't need to worry about where
1:17:43you sleep what you eat and what you
1:17:46drink everything of this is is taken
1:17:49care of your job in this week is only
1:17:54sleep eat and
1:17:57train after you train you can rest when
1:18:01you rested enough you train again so the
1:18:03main focus about why a
1:18:06monastery it is in order to not waste
1:18:09your
1:18:10lifetime yeah if you come food is taken
1:18:13care of everything is taken care of your
1:18:15focus is dive into the
1:18:17teaching completely dive into the
1:18:20teaching for let's say in that week one
1:18:23week long and now just imagine somebody
1:18:26who spends there 1 year 2 years 3 years
1:18:304 years 10
1:18:32years 10 years of every day looking
1:18:36inside yourself sensing inside feeling
1:18:39inside refining yourself of course
1:18:41somebody like this when he then goes out
1:18:44has a complete other sensation and
1:18:47perception of this life than a normal
1:18:50person it is because of the time
1:18:53investment that that has went in to yeah
1:18:57to dive into these teachings so this is
1:19:00the reason for me why monasteries make
1:19:03sense mhm that you have a place that is
1:19:06going to take care of you and you can
1:19:09just focus
1:19:11on all of these theories how to put them
1:19:15into
1:19:16practice okay so and for all the world
1:19:19yes there is the possibility that they
1:19:23can come for one week and and just visit
1:19:25the temple and dive into for one week or
1:19:30a weekend throughout the whole year so
1:19:32we normally have a yearly program where
1:19:35you can just it's a PDF file with all
1:19:37the dates when you can
1:19:39come yes this is the way how we are set
1:19:42up in the
1:19:43monastery and what you also find there
Programul in Templul Shaolin
1:19:46for example is very strict and
1:19:49structured uh schedule okay so there are
1:19:53fixed eating time 8:00 breakfast 1 p.m.
1:19:57is lunch 6:00 p.m. is dinner there good
1:20:00times yeah for the health yeah these are
1:20:02good times for the health but in the
1:20:05beginning together with that amount of
1:20:08training what you also have sometimes
1:20:10it's also difficult yeah meaning yeah
1:20:14you eat at 8:00 then you have training
1:20:15from 9 until 11: so when you finish the
1:20:18training you're hungry already but you
1:20:20need to wait until 1:00 you cannot eat
1:20:23in between
1:20:25so what it means yeah is yeah but why
1:20:27can I not just go to the kitchen and eat
1:20:30when I'm hungry because this is your
1:20:33mind telling
1:20:35you but there's something about you
1:20:38which is let's say stronger than the
1:20:41mind the mind can be your friend and the
1:20:44mind can be your enemy and if I'm
1:20:46telling you there are three times per
1:20:48day eating that's
1:20:50it in the first weeks let's say when you
1:20:53would stay like still you're thinking
1:20:55about eating you're hungry all of this
1:20:57but at some
1:20:59point you will have accepted it that
1:21:03okay 8:00 1:00
1:21:056:00 you're okay and what does it mean
1:21:09now the real Freedom has come M now
1:21:14you're
1:21:15free because even if you're hungry and
1:21:18you say next food is at 6:00 is no
1:21:20problem I can wait it's good let's do
1:21:23something else yeah and you free not
1:21:26free
1:21:27is it's 2:00 I'm already
1:21:30hungry 4 more hours I need to eat
1:21:34something I I cannot wait until 6:00
1:21:37anymore this is not
1:21:40free see so this idea of what does
1:21:43freedom mean to you does it mean you can
1:21:45go to the kitchen anytime you want no
1:21:48that means your slave to the
1:21:51Mind mhm free is no matter what the mind
1:21:55tell
1:21:57you you can wait I can
Libertatea si disciplina
1:22:02wait so and this is where now you see
1:22:04that sometimes it's necessary to have
1:22:07this obvious structure and discipline on
1:22:12the one side but why because it's it's a
1:22:15helpful way to bring out that type of
1:22:18Freedom that we say from our tradition
1:22:21this is the
1:22:23freedom it's all also not the freedom in
1:22:25terms of yeah yeah especially yeah you
1:22:28walk through Clues yeah many beautiful
1:22:30women but at home you have like uh uh
1:22:33your own women sitting already now you
1:22:35could say well it's a free world we're
1:22:37all free so my wife is at home but
1:22:41actually I can still flirt around this
1:22:43is a way of where you say well this is
1:22:45freedom yeah but where does this type of
1:22:48Freedom lead to it's leading to
1:22:52suffering yeah you're causing suffering
1:22:54by behaving this type of
1:22:56free no if you have one wife you stay
1:22:59with that one wife that's
1:23:03it and you're free from suffering right
1:23:06if and you stay free from
1:23:08suffering but if you but if somebody is
1:23:11tempted too much if somebody cannot
1:23:14handle his
1:23:16temptation uh yeah he's not free no he's
1:23:20enslaved by
1:23:22Temptation and at some point this type
1:23:24of behavior is not just going to bring
1:23:26suffering to you it also brings
1:23:28suffering to everyone that you are
1:23:31involving in so this is where I say yeah
1:23:35what type of Freedom are you talking
1:23:37about yeah and the freedom that
1:23:40eventually is going to get onto the
1:23:42costs or is causing suffering to you and
1:23:45other ones this is not the freedom we
1:23:49want it's it's the type of Freedom that
1:23:52makes us be able to live live together
1:23:54in the community way better this is the
1:23:57way of
1:23:58Freedom yeah where I can let you live
1:24:00the life how you like to live it and you
1:24:03let me live my life how I like to live
1:24:05it I don't need to tell you your way is
1:24:07wrong you should live like I do no this
1:24:09is not free this is
1:24:11limited this is thinking you have the
1:24:13answers to to the questions of the
1:24:15universe well you don't just as like I
1:24:18don't have them the only thing I'm
1:24:20sharing right now is my observation I
1:24:23don't say it's right for anyone I just
1:24:26say until now everything we talked about
1:24:29it worked for
1:24:33me if something is useful from what we
1:24:36have talked about and somebody tries it
1:24:38out and then realize hm cool also works
1:24:40for me I'm really happy about it but if
1:24:43somebody says well this is not my way of
1:24:46living I don't share this opinion is not
1:24:48a
1:24:49problem
Accesarea metodelor Shaolin
1:24:51yeah well at least I would really love
1:24:55uh right now to visit your uh Shin
1:24:58Temple sometime but so is it you have
1:25:01programs that are are available to
1:25:03everyone right is there any test you
1:25:06make or you just subscribing you go
1:25:08there yeah you subscribe you go there
1:25:10and then starting from day one we're
1:25:12going to have a look at you physically
1:25:15and also like mentally where we where we
1:25:18sense that you are standing and based on
1:25:21that week then you will get answers okay
1:25:24and you can stay for a week or more well
1:25:28normally the guests or the majority of
1:25:30people that are visiting us it's a one
1:25:32week's day yeah sometimes now during
1:25:35summertime or when there's Easter it's
1:25:38possible to have like two weeks uh next
1:25:40to each other so two weeks uh
1:25:43consecutive yeah but then there is also
1:25:46a possibility and this is what we call
1:25:48in our place
1:25:51discipleship that means you start on the
1:25:531 of January and stay the whole
1:25:55year yeah more or less without leaving
1:25:58the monastery one year you stay there do
1:26:00you have a your phone there you can
1:26:02communicate with other people not at all
1:26:05times yeah there are there are spaces
1:26:09when of course you can communicate but
1:26:11the majority is really for one year
1:26:14you're dedicating your lifetime that
1:26:15this is now the center of your activity
1:26:18it is your center of being so one year
1:26:20long dive into all of this how how do uh
1:26:25these people that go through this uh
1:26:26onee program how how their life changes
1:26:30they go back to community they well the
1:26:33one year is only the preparation year
1:26:36mostly they stay one year then after one
1:26:39year you can actually already decide is
1:26:41this a way of life for you yes or no
1:26:44yeah if you say Yes actually is really
1:26:45nice you extend a second year two years
1:26:49of discipleship if you have stayed
1:26:51already two years now
1:26:54afterwards you have the chance to extend
1:26:56another 3 years so we have 5 years
1:26:59already after these five years actually
1:27:02it's possible that you are starting to
1:27:04enter into let's say the the Inner
1:27:07Circle the inner circle of our community
1:27:11which means you're learning also things
1:27:14related to the martial arts and you just
1:27:16dive deeper because 5 years staying
1:27:19inside this mindset in inside this world
1:27:24you get some deps that you don't
1:27:25normally get when you just like from
1:27:28time to time get into these teachings
1:27:31yeah and this is our way this
1:27:33discipleship and then afterwards another
1:27:353 years of training
1:27:38people this is our way right now how to
1:27:42make sure that all of these teachings
1:27:44doesn't get lost yeah that's so
Programul de antrenament
1:27:48nice uh and for for the one week I'm
1:27:51just curious for the onee program what
1:27:53you told me yeah you it at 8 11 uh no 8
1:27:561 and 6 right and what other things are
1:28:00are uh people doing at what time you got
1:28:02to sleep normally the day ends around
1:28:06let's say 9:30 the day ends with the
1:28:09last final ceremony and it is possible
1:28:12at 10:00 to lay in the bed actually okay
1:28:15so yeah and besides that besides the
1:28:17lunch times there is quite intensive
1:28:19like 6 hours of training which are then
1:28:21still spread throughout the day which
1:28:23can means sometimes it's 2 hours in the
1:28:25morning 2 hours afternoon 2 hours
1:28:28evening sometimes depending on our
1:28:30teacher 3 hours session in the morning 3
1:28:34hours afternoon finished but so it's
1:28:37quite a lot of time like I said
1:28:41to try out all of this what we refer as
1:28:45the shaoling methods the shaoling Arts
1:28:48The Shaolin practices this physicality
1:28:51merge together with the internal
1:28:53practice
1:28:55to get to the Mind meditation practices
1:28:58sitting meditation walking meditation
1:29:01all of these things uh included
1:29:05yeah um can you just describe your day
Programul unui maestru Shaolin
1:29:08like in the temple what what are you
1:29:10doing what time you wake up what how you
1:29:12start your day what you thinking about
1:29:15well so the structure is normally 6:00
1:29:17is wake up time 7:00 is the sitting
1:29:20meditation 8:00 is breakfast 9:00 like I
1:29:24at 9: until 12:00 or sometimes 9: until
1:29:2711: is like the first training session
1:29:30at 12: um 12 noon is working time for 1
1:29:34hour so walking you walk working okay
1:29:37working so work yeah so if there's
1:29:40something to do inside the monastery
1:29:42cleaning the windows cleaning the
1:29:43toilets um helping outside in the garden
1:29:47sometimes we also then integrate the
1:29:48guests to help us with that 1:00 lunch
1:29:52after lunch short break 3:00 until 6:00
1:29:55or 3 until 5: training time again 6:00
1:29:59p.m. dinner then if it was only 2hour
1:30:03session 7 until 900 another training
1:30:06session yeah or sometimes classes
1:30:08philosophical classes open talks
1:30:11question and
1:30:12answers 11:00 uh 9:00 evening
1:30:16ceremony and that's it Monday till
1:30:20Friday that's a pretty strict uh
1:30:23structure that's a pretty straight
1:30:26structure which is happening every day
1:30:28in the monastery but depending on of
1:30:31course how the schedule also of the
1:30:33individual there is so meanwhile look
1:30:36right now like I'm traveling here to K
1:30:38so this is not my schedule right now
1:30:40obviously yeah tell me about the Sleep
Somnul. Importanta odihnei
1:30:43uh is there any anything special you're
1:30:45doing and or you just laying in the bed
1:30:47and in in the bed and fall
1:30:51asleep um
1:30:54so one thing I realize for myself is is
1:30:57not the amount of time how much I spent
1:31:00lying horizontally which matters it's
1:31:04not the fact of lying which matters it's
1:31:06the question of how much do you recover
1:31:09through during that during that state
1:31:12yeah so and that means recovery can only
1:31:15happen if there is
1:31:17no usage let's say of energy it's like
1:31:21you know when when we have our our
1:31:24phones or you have the iPad even if you
1:31:27plug it into
1:31:28electricity but you still have a lot of
1:31:31programs running there still can mean
1:31:33that 3 hours later nothing has changed
1:31:35in the amount of battery uh capacity
1:31:38yeah okay so that means being plugged in
1:31:42but then at the same time having as
1:31:45inactive as possible then it starts
1:31:48recovering yeah so and similar like this
1:31:50I think it refers to as humans as well
1:31:53so that means what is it in the evening
1:31:56that is sucking energy most probably
1:31:58well probably it's not
1:32:00moving because this is what the body is
1:32:03supposed not to do so staying
1:32:06still it's the mind it's the Mind
1:32:09activity very much which is sucking a
1:32:11lot of energy meaning like you go to bed
1:32:15you wake up in the morning but still
1:32:16feel like very tired and not
1:32:19recovered well it might be the reason
1:32:22that your brain
1:32:24your mind is still too active in the
1:32:26evening and this is again where it comes
1:32:29from to discover okay stop thinking too
1:32:32much of the past stop dreaming too much
1:32:35about the future practice yourself
1:32:38remain in the present so and this also
1:32:41then translates afterwards into your
1:32:43quality of sleep because when you sleep
1:32:46you
1:32:47sleep when you eat you eat when you talk
1:32:51you talk when you work you work
1:32:54but nowadays people work and they think
1:32:57about eating people eat and they think
1:33:00about sleeping people sleep and they
1:33:02think about walking so there's something
1:33:05not aligned mhm see so there is some
1:33:09there is no
1:33:11synchronicity you are here but actually
1:33:13something else is there and this is not
1:33:16how it's supposed to be being present
1:33:19means you sleep you sleep you talk you
1:33:21talk you eat you eat you walk you walk
1:33:24you drive you drive you listen you
1:33:27listen this is ultimately where all of
1:33:30this journey goes and then the amount of
1:33:33sleep is not so important but the
1:33:36recovery
1:33:38rate is very very different how much
1:33:41sleep do you need as hours when you're
1:33:45as you said you sleep you sleep when you
1:33:48rest properly well I'm happy if I have 7
1:33:52hours when I have 7 hours I'm happy yeah
1:33:56yeah 6 hours is quite limit so then six
1:34:00is really limit I can maintain even five
1:34:04or 6 hours but after like a few days I
1:34:08feel it's not good to continue like this
1:34:11because then you're starting to really
1:34:13burn um burn some energy which you
1:34:18cannot recover
1:34:19anymore and this is also very
Energia vitala
1:34:21interesting now when it comes to
1:34:24to that word energy on the one side and
1:34:26also how it is related
1:34:29to diet breathing Brea breathing and
1:34:35lifestyle so the quickest way of to
1:34:38let's say change something about the way
1:34:41how you feel during the day or about
1:34:44your energy state are these three
1:34:47things
1:34:48diet breast work and
1:34:52lifestyle if if you have good nutritious
1:34:55food if your breathing apparatus is
1:34:59working properly and if your lifestyle
1:35:02let's say waking up at a certain time
1:35:05going to bed early enough having enough
1:35:08sleep if you maintain all of these three
1:35:10things chances are very very good that
1:35:12your energy level is is is proper yeah
1:35:17if the diet is not good if your breast
1:35:21is not good if your lifestyle is not
1:35:23good still you alive somehow but the
1:35:27energy that is now being sucked out from
1:35:30you in order to make you still
1:35:32functioning it is coming from something
1:35:35that we let's say in the ancient
1:35:37tradition call it comes from your
1:35:40essence the essence that in traditional
1:35:42Chinese medicine we regard as being
1:35:45stored in the
1:35:46kidneys yeah
1:35:48so the kid which means ultimately to
1:35:52make it short no good lifestyle no good
1:35:55food no good breath life short you die
1:35:59early yeah that's very very simple yeah
1:36:03yeah so that's
1:36:06it yeah uh can you maybe can we go
Dieta asiatica
1:36:10through them uh in short terms about you
1:36:13said diet uh breeding and lifestyle what
1:36:18what diet do you practice uh and what do
1:36:20you recommend to people
1:36:22so I think it is an very individual
1:36:25Choice yeah yes inside our Monastery we
1:36:28mainly eat or primarily it's vegetarian
1:36:32not vegan it's vegetarian so you eat
1:36:34eggs for example eggs we eat milk
1:36:37products we also have cheese is also not
1:36:39a problem for us yes but a lot of
1:36:42vegetables a lot of
1:36:44fruits and let's put it like this in
1:36:48generally speaking not so much
1:36:54Deb
1:36:56products not just like animal debt but
1:36:59like
1:37:01bread bread is also in a way is De yeah
1:37:04you know
1:37:06so
1:37:09or yeah this is ultimately like if you
1:37:12want to look for your for the diet how
1:37:14to like adjust it maybe
1:37:18beans vegetables there you see it's
1:37:20still like it's a plant it's still alive
1:37:22it's still carries the energy of growth
1:37:25inside of it this is a little bit this
1:37:28idea yeah but at the end I really think
1:37:32it's a personal choice everybody has to
1:37:34make um that's why I normally never give
1:37:37any recommendation except for the one I
1:37:39just told you right now to really try
1:37:41try things
1:37:43out um anything that is in a way also
1:37:46artificially produced like sugar put
1:37:48into
1:37:49form you eat those sometimes but only if
1:37:53my mother gives it to me but besides
1:37:56that I normally like don't eat sugar
1:37:58also chocolate I am not a big chocolate
1:38:01friend okay yeah so what about the
Tehnicile de respiratie
1:38:05breath what how should we practice
1:38:08breath for health okay I think there is
1:38:12um breast work also known as chiong or a
1:38:17part of the so-called chiong practice
1:38:20Yeah chiong meaning energy work or
1:38:23sometimes also simply breast work
1:38:25because that word CH yeah energy the
1:38:29breast is a form of energy you stop the
1:38:32breast life's finished so therefore
1:38:35chiong also is involving different type
1:38:38of breast Works nowadays people already
1:38:40know yeah very famous very helpful uh
1:38:44from Vim Hof MH yes so he's for example
1:38:48one Pioneer in this type of area for
1:38:50sure but also deriving many of the
1:38:54methods from tibetian Buddhism where you
1:38:57have this type of Tumo breathing the
1:38:59so-called fire breathing but it's just
1:39:02one area it just means there is so much
1:39:06that you can do with your
1:39:08breath your breath is not just about
1:39:10inhalation exhalation the question is
1:39:13how long can you inhale how long can you
1:39:17exhale you can inhale short you can
1:39:20inhale exhale short you can inhale short
1:39:24exhale fast you can inhale fast exhale
1:39:26short so that means there are many
1:39:28things that you can first of all adjust
1:39:31with the breathing and then it's also
1:39:33about capacity so I can just
1:39:36inhale normally
1:39:41like or you really start to to fill up
1:39:45the body I'm not sure if it's going to
1:39:46be uh hearable later but then it's like
1:39:49this
1:39:53[Laughter]
1:40:14no it's
1:40:16full and then you exhale yeah so that
1:40:18means also like the capacity that was so
1:40:21long the volume of breath is another
1:40:24area that goes into the field of breast
1:40:26work yeah so just learning different
1:40:29ways how can you use the breast to make
1:40:32it useful for you yeah and this is
1:40:35something also where you where we see in
1:40:39the field of martial
1:40:41arts there is no way to make proper
1:40:44martial arts if you cannot adjust your
1:40:47breath yeah because it means for example
1:40:50in the moment where in the martial arts
1:40:52we have any type of
1:40:56forceful
1:40:57movement yeah if you want to have a
1:40:59forceful movement you have to use the
1:41:02breath to support it m it's like when I
1:41:06I inhale fill my
1:41:10up yeah so I cannot
1:41:15make mhm something is not correct there
1:41:19is the movement and the breast
1:41:26yeah it the breath the way of how you
1:41:28move it is one expression of how are you
1:41:32using the energy of the body and this is
1:41:35where it also makes a lot of sense not
1:41:37just in the field of martial arts but on
1:41:40a daily
1:41:42basis now that is breath yeah and
1:41:45lifestyle of course is it's just what we
1:41:47mentioned before in terms of charging or
1:41:50discharging yeah if if the energy ener
1:41:54input is not able to recover your energy
1:41:57output well then it only means that at
1:42:00some point people run into what is
1:42:02called
1:42:05burnout so therefore what is it about
1:42:08the lifestyle don't waste more energy
1:42:10than you
1:42:12have what do you think about this kind
Device-urile de monitorizare a energiei
1:42:15of wearable devices because like I found
1:42:19about this energy my body has and how to
1:42:22how to waste it or how to use it like
1:42:26using a watch like this it's a watch
1:42:29that he he kind of tells me what what
1:42:34you you told us right now I think it's
1:42:37better to have your own sensors but it
1:42:40has a sensor that uh knows uh he feels
1:42:44how your body bits and uh based on that
1:42:48he can tell you how much you recover
1:42:50during the night so I can have 8 hours
1:42:52of sleep and have battery full of 40%
1:42:56it's like your body energy battery or I
1:42:59can have a really restful sleep when I
1:43:01meditate before the sleep I sleep in a
1:43:05cold environment and I sleep for eight
1:43:07hours and I wake up and I hi my energy
1:43:10at 80% 90% And also if I'm very stressed
1:43:14that day I can waste my energy as you
1:43:17said by let's say 5 6 p.m. and then I'm
1:43:22I'm on zero and I feel that that I use
1:43:25the energy that is not mine anymore I
1:43:27use that core energy that should not be
1:43:29used so how how do you think uh what do
1:43:33you think about these devices that we
1:43:36are wearing by one hand they are helping
1:43:38us is there a risk to lose your own
1:43:45senses I think the risk is there yeah of
1:43:49course the risk is there in the moment
1:43:51where you Outsource
1:43:54your own sensitivity to something where
1:43:58I say well if you train enough you also
1:44:00have that sense for yourself but of
1:44:03course it also means you need to be able
1:44:05to have this time to invest first of all
1:44:08to have this sensitivity therefore I
1:44:11also think that all these tools are very
1:44:13useful yeah on the one side to give you
1:44:17information that elsewise at the moment
1:44:19you wouldn't get at all yeah but to also
1:44:22understand
1:44:23that tool is going to give you
1:44:25information but now the question is what
1:44:28are you going to do with that
1:44:30information just possessing information
1:44:33changes
1:44:34nothing it's always about somebody gives
1:44:37you information you receive information
1:44:40and how do you translate this now into
1:44:42any type of action that changes
1:44:47something so meaning wearing um any tool
1:44:51every day getting information but for
1:44:54you or in general you just use it as
1:44:57okay nice 90 and 60 and 100 good and
1:45:01tomorrow you look at the numbers again
1:45:02and for you it's just like collecting
1:45:04numbers but nothing you do about it then
1:45:07it doesn't make
1:45:08sense yeah and it's so strange that
1:45:11studies actually show that people that
1:45:14are wearing this kind of devices are not
1:45:17actually taking any action after that I
1:45:20mean when they developed these devices
1:45:22they said hey when if you can what see
1:45:24how many steps you took into the day
1:45:27that will motivate you to take action
1:45:30and it helps me but it seems in in the
1:45:34studies that it doesn't help a lot of
1:45:36the people like the medium they they
1:45:38they don't take any
1:45:40action um balance is a key just like in
1:45:43anything else that I guess we were
1:45:45talking about I can tell you how it
1:45:47helps me like I understood that I have
1:45:50to go to bed at 9900 p.m. that helps me
1:45:53lot to sleep better and I understood
1:45:56that I have to leave any party about 2
1:45:59hours before I go to bed so that makes
1:46:01it 7 p.m. so therefore I go to no
1:46:04parties since I wear these
1:46:08devices tell me your your like this is
1:46:10my last questions what what what's your
Viziunea despre viata si viitor
1:46:13uh what's your feeling about the future
1:46:16about the about the direction which we
1:46:20we we are going with with the world with
1:46:23all this Tech with AI with social media
1:46:27that's isolating us what's the direction
1:46:29we going to is it optimistic is it um
1:46:33pessimistic I think in in
1:46:38all life cycles of every culture that
1:46:42ever lived on this
1:46:48planet
1:46:50now I have to mention uh probably people
1:46:53will misunderstand but doesn't matter I
1:46:56think this nature this planet everything
1:46:59about it can never be out of
1:47:02balance the universe is never out of
1:47:06balance because the universe is simply
1:47:08not
1:47:11separated yeah this is like the one
1:47:14statement so even nowadays if you have
1:47:17or if we sense oh something is Shifting
1:47:20something is bad there's too much
1:47:21technological development something is
1:47:24too is too much being outsourced that is
1:47:26the one thing but because things are
1:47:30being obviously so much Outsource there
1:47:32so fast
1:47:34technological advancement away from away
1:47:38from being human this is why the force
1:47:40of other ones in order to even more now
1:47:44push to the front again the realization
1:47:47of what you really are this is also
1:47:50growing at the same time
1:47:53so it is because of the technological
1:47:55advancement moving away from being a
1:47:59human this is the reason why it's also
1:48:02connected to the fact of so many people
1:48:04right now having all these wakeup
1:48:06calls so many people getting interested
1:48:09into this type of topics what can I do
1:48:12to not Outsource my life to all this
1:48:16technology so this comes up because of
1:48:19the
1:48:19technology the faster it grows on the
1:48:22one side the more and deeper the
1:48:24understanding also becomes to the inside
1:48:27and the question simply is on which side
1:48:30are you
1:48:32standing or maybe you don't even need a
1:48:35side to stand
1:48:37on
1:48:38because it's all
1:48:40connected so it's neither optimistic nor
1:48:44is it pessimistic in my view it is
1:48:47really just
1:48:49like it is a different experience that's
1:48:52going to come no matter in which way
1:48:56it's a new experience that is just going
1:48:58to
1:49:01expand expand the
1:49:03realization how much is possible in this
1:49:07world you can go to the Mars on the one
1:49:10side and on the other side you can go
1:49:12into the deepest deepest layers of what
1:49:16you find inside there inside yourself
1:49:20both of these methods are existing
1:49:21nowadays
1:49:24yeah this is such a calming uh answer
1:49:26and
1:49:27perspective yeah thank you for that what
Mesajul final
1:49:30would be your message to our audience on
1:49:33How to Build a Better more harmonious
1:49:36life that is in tune with who they are I
1:49:42think it's really helpful to exactly ask
1:49:47this
1:49:49question is it possible that the way how
1:49:52I am looking right now into this
1:49:55lifetime the challenges that I am facing
1:49:59at this point in
1:50:01time could it
1:50:03be first of
1:50:07all that I created them myself this is
1:50:11one
1:50:12question and second one is is it also
1:50:16maybe showing up like this right now
1:50:19everything because I was not skillful
1:50:23enough and haven't discovered yet what
1:50:27is my
1:50:30potential figuring out what is your
1:50:32potential MH and second one is see who
1:50:37is the one who created all of
1:50:40this who is the creator of all the
1:50:43suffering that you are having in your
1:50:46lifetime I can give you the answer
1:50:48already right now as long as you point
1:50:50out what's there
1:50:52is
1:50:55wrong I think this is a good starting
1:50:58point take your life in your own hands
1:51:01and from there it
1:51:04begins that's great thank you thank you
1:51:07so much for sharing all of these
1:51:10experiences I really want to visit and
1:51:13maybe say a week in uh um Shaolin
1:51:19Monastery I can't wait for this to
1:51:22happen you have to contact details
1:51:24anytime feel free to just contact us no
1:51:26problem thank you I'm going with your
1:51:28permission I'm going to leave a link if
1:51:30uh you can share uh uh and um in a copy
1:51:34of this U podcast So yeah thank you
1:51:37again so much for thaning your your time
1:51:39and to giving us the seeds of knowledge
1:51:43and I hope this all of this infos will
1:51:46help a lot of people to to go more
1:51:50inside to find the presence
1:51:53and to ask this uh these questions as as
1:51:58a starting point thanks again for the
Multumiri
1:52:00inner mapping inside event which which
1:52:04we attend right now for uh making this
1:52:08happen and yeah thank you
1:52:21again
1:52:51for for
Outro
1:53:34Bank thank you so much Master for all of
1:53:37this knowledge thank you very much
1:53:40you're welcome goodbye