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0:00Stop texting her. Your entire
0:01relationship is falling apart because
0:02you don't understand how to manage text
0:04game. And the problem is that you guys
0:06play the game. You need to be above the
0:08game. So, I'm going to teach you how to
0:08be above the game. You need to stop
0:10texting her so much. You need to tone
0:14down the way you text. And you also have
0:16to train her to behave accordingly
0:19depending on the way she reacts and the
0:21way you react to how she reacts. So,
0:24look, I'm going to explain this to you,
0:25break it down so you understand exactly
0:26what to do. First of all, you should
0:28only be communicating with her on one
0:30platform. You guys have Snapchat and SMS
0:32and Instagram and all these different
0:34things. One platform and preferably SMS.
0:37That's it. Nowhere else. You're across
0:40all these other platforms. All she does
0:41is look at you and goes, "Look how much
0:42he cares to establish communication with
0:44me. Look how much he needs me. Look how
0:45important I am to him." She looks at
0:46you. She goes, "This man has nothing
0:48better to do with his life." She looks
0:49at you and goes, "This man is desperate
0:51for me. Whatever chance he gets to
0:53communicate with me, he does. He takes
0:55it. And this is where you're going
0:56wrong. See, a lot of you guys think
0:58that, "Oh, how do I text her? How do I
1:00get her to be in her emotions and her
1:01thoughts?" You guys got to understand,
1:02women
1:04fantasize.
1:05Let them fill the fantasies by not being
1:09present.
1:10She gains attraction for you, not with
1:13the time you spend with her, not the
1:15time you spend communicating with her,
1:16but the time you spend apart. So,
1:18increase the time that you guys spend
1:20apart. Because what that does, not only
1:22does it let her fulfill her own
1:23fantasies, because she is going to
1:25imagine the best situation, the best
1:26scenario of what you're doing while she
1:28isn't talking to you, but at the same
1:29time, it's going to put value on your
1:30time. So, what I say when she's going to
1:32fill in all these different blank spots
1:34and all these times that you don't
1:36communicate with her with her own
1:37fantasies, you know why women fantasize
1:39about men cheating on them? Because they
1:41like it. Because that right there is
1:43attractive to them. Women are attracted
1:45to men with options. You know what
1:46happens when you cheat when you're with
1:47another woman? You know why women always
1:49jump to this? Why? Why is he not texting
1:50me? Is he with another girl? They
1:51confront you. Are you talking to other
1:52girls?
1:54Because they like it. They like it. And
1:56you guys ruin this by saying, "No, I'm
1:58not. I'm not talking to anyone." Let her
2:00feel that space.
2:02The text message that you don't respond
2:05with, that is the superpower. Not what
2:08you say, it's what you don't say. So,
2:10what you have to understand is first of
2:11all, no amount of texting is going to be
2:13more attractive. The more you text, the
2:15less attractive it is. The more she
2:17finds out about you, the more she
2:18realizes you're not mysterious, most
2:19likely you aren't a very interesting
2:21guy. She's just going to lay all these
2:22things out and go, "This man isn't who I
2:24thought he was." Let her fill in the
2:26fantasies. Let her fill in the blanks.
2:28She's automatically going to assume that
2:30you're cheating on her. Automatically
2:31going to assume that you're with other
2:32women. This is a good thing, not a bad
2:34thing. Do not feel like you're going to
2:35lose her because this is what she's
2:37assuming through your lack of
2:38communication. You you want her to think
2:40this way. Now, how do you communicate?
2:43Let's say she asks you, "Hey, how was
2:45your day? If she asks you how was her,
2:47how was your day? All you do is say
2:49good. That's it. You don't say good. I
2:51went this and I did this and at this
2:52time I ate this food and then I I'm home
2:54now and I'm tired. None of that
2:56Good. That's it. And you know what's
2:58going to happen? And this is where guys
3:00get scared and they mess things up. You
3:01know what's going to happen is she's
3:02going to look at that good. She's going
3:04to be bothered by the fact that you
3:05don't care enough about her, which is a
3:07good thing because now she looks at you,
3:08she goes, I can't attain this man. I
3:10can't hold this man down. I can't get
3:12this man to commit. Why can't I get him
3:13to spend more time with me? Every other
3:14man fell weak to me. every other man
3:16gave me all this attention. This man, I
3:17can't get him. And now she's spending
3:20all this time and she's giving you all
3:21this attention. And she's giving you
3:22this attention by trying to show you
3:24that she's not giving attention. What
3:25she's going to do is she's going to pull
3:26back here. She's going to ignore the
3:28text because she wants you to double
3:30text because her goal is to get you
3:31invested. Her goal is to get you to
3:34start becoming weak for her. You don't
3:36do anything. You say good and she has an
3:38issue with it and so she doesn't respond
3:39and all you do is absolutely nothing. I
3:42promise you, she will text you back. If
3:43you double text, it's over. You ruined
3:45it. You ruined it. You decreased the
3:49traction because now you you you've
3:51shown her how much you care, how weak
3:52you are for her, how desperate you are
3:54for that that communication and that you
3:56were only saying good and keeping it
3:58short because you're afraid to take it
4:00deep. You're afraid to do more because
4:01you're afraid to lose her. See, if you
4:03just say good and you stand on that good
4:05by not double texting, you actually mean
4:08that all you feel is just good. Nothing
4:10else. You don't need that communication.
4:12But if you say good because I told you
4:14to say good and then you double text you
4:15ruin it because now she knows you didn't
4:17actually want to just say good. You you
4:18wanted to have that conversation. You
4:20want to have the communication but you
4:21were just afraid of losing her. So now
4:23you're playing a game. Don't play the
4:25game. Be above the game. You don't care
4:26to talk to her about how your day went.
4:28You're just doing all these things
4:29because society has told you that if you
4:30don't do these things, she's going to
4:31lose attraction and she's going to leave
4:32you. You're doing it out of fear. You're
4:34doing it because you're afraid that if
4:35you don't communicate with her, she's
4:36going to leave you. The truth is the
4:37more you communi communicate with her,
4:38the more of a reason she has to leave
4:40you. So what do you do? Perfect text
4:41game is not playing the game. Perfect
4:43text game is no game. When she gets to
4:45see you, that's when she gets to
4:46communicate with you over the phone. She
4:47doesn't need to do anything. Now,
4:49another thing, when she does something
4:51good, when she says something nice, when
4:52she tells you about her day and she says
4:54da da da da, and she goes, "I love you,"
4:55or she goes whatever it is. This is how
4:58you train her to do the good things and
5:00the bad things. When she does that,
5:01leave her a like. Heart the message. And
5:04when she says something stupid like,
5:06"Why are you like this? What are you
5:07doing? I don't like that you're busy."
5:09Dislike it. dislike it. You're going to
5:12train her mind to want that dopamine
5:14spike of the like and the heart. And the
5:16dislike is going to make her feel like
5:17and she's going to stop doing it.
5:19She's going to stop texting you, "What
5:20are you doing? Why don't you spend more
5:21time with me? Why aren't you responding?
5:22Why don't you respond to me more often?"
5:24Because you don't want her doing all
5:24that It's not a bad thing that
5:26she's doing that. That just means that
5:27she likes you. It means that she's
5:28invested and she's bothered by you not
5:30texting her more. That's a good thing.
5:31Don't react to it, but train her to stop
5:35being someone who's nagging you by just
5:37disliking it. That's it. You're not
5:39emotional. You're not mad. You're just
5:41disliking it in a playful manner, right?
5:43It's like you're just disliking. You're
5:44not explaining why you disliked it.
5:46Nothing. She's like, "Why did you
5:46dislike it?" Nothing. Just you don't
5:49even respond to something as stupid as
5:50that. You disliked it. Great. Or you
5:53could just not respond. She says
5:55something stupid, you just don't
5:56respond. Make her double text. Make her
5:58come back with something better to get
5:59your attention again. Then she realizes
6:01when I say something negative, I don't
6:03get his attention. When I say something
6:04positive, I get his attention. Now, she
6:06doesn't even test you. She doesn't do
6:07all that She doesn't tell tell
6:09you anything that's negative. She
6:10doesn't say anything that's nagging you.
6:12Nothing. That's how you train her. So,
6:15what have we established? First of all,
6:18you don't sit there and communicate on
6:19multiple platforms because it just shows
6:21how much you care. Attraction is built
6:24off of your value. Your value is
6:25directly correlated to how many options
6:27you have. A man with options doesn't
6:28care to communicate across four to five
6:30different platforms. Why? Because he has
6:32a bunch of girls hitting up his DMs.
6:33He's got a bunch of things to do. He
6:35doesn't care. Now to raise attraction,
6:38what do you do? You stop communicating
6:39across all those platforms. And to
6:41further raise attraction, you stop
6:43communicating entirely. I am not telling
6:45you to ghost the woman. If she responds
6:48to you, if she texts you, you text her
6:50back. But if she doesn't, so be it. What
6:53I'm telling you is not to pursue. Let
6:56her pursue. If she doesn't pursue, a lot
6:58of guys are going to be like, "Well, if
6:59I don't pursue, how is she going to
7:00pursue?" She just doesn't like you
7:01enough, buddy. That's it. That's it.
7:04When you spend time with her in person,
7:07that is the screen time. That is the
7:08time that she gets right there. That is
7:10the attention she gets. She wants that
7:12attention again, she's gonna have to
7:14pursue you. She's going to have to text
7:15you. She's going to have to keep
7:16contact. You are not the one who's
7:17supposed to do that. And if you're the
7:19one doing that and you think that that's
7:21going to actually make her more
7:22attracted because, oh, I'm going to
7:23pursue her and show her how much I care
7:24and now she's going to like me. No,
7:26she's going to like you less because
7:27she's going to see that desperation.
7:28She's going to see that you don't have
7:29anyone else to text. She's going to see
7:31that you don't have anything else to do.
7:32and she's going to go, "I don't like
7:33this man because he has a lack of
7:34value." Why? Because a man who texts a
7:36bunch and a man who needs that constant
7:38communication is a man who doesn't have
7:39a lot of options. He doesn't have a lot
7:40of women interested in him. That's why
7:41he needs that from that girl. And a guy
7:43who doesn't have a lot of options is a
7:44guy that doesn't have value. Because if
7:45you did have value, you would have
7:46options. If you don't have value, you
7:48don't have attraction. Attraction
7:49decreases. So, you can continue doing
7:51what you're doing. You can continue
7:52texting her. Let me tell you modern
7:55relationships
7:5710 out of 10 time almost almost 10 out
7:59of 10 10 times they end because men
8:02don't understand that the communication
8:04and having all of that communication is
8:06what kills it. It kills attraction. She
8:08knows what you're doing where you're
8:08doing it. You want her to think that
8:09you're cheating on her. I don't I don't
8:11think you you guys don't understand
8:12this. You want her to think that you're
8:14with other women. You want her to think
8:15that you don't care. You want her to
8:17think that you are cheating. This is
8:18great. And when she tells you when she
8:20asks you about this, are you cheating on
8:21me? Are you with other girls?
8:23You don't say no. You say yeah. You say
8:27yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'm with other women.
8:30Oh my god. I can't believe this. I'm
8:31leaving you. Okay. What's she going to
8:33do? Leave? No, she ain't. She ain't
8:34going to leave cuz you said okay. What
8:35did you do that was unattractive? You
8:37demonstrated that you have options
8:38through being able to hang out with
8:40other women. And then what you
8:41demonstrated is that you don't care if
8:42she leaves or she stays. A lack of care
8:44to keep her, which again shows that you
8:46have the option to replace her, right?
8:47You would only do that. You would only
8:48act that way if you had the option to
8:49replace her. Even if you don't have the
8:51option to replace her, if you come from
8:52that frame, she's going to think you
8:53have the option to replace her.