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Intro
0:00Here in our small world where we are
0:01bombarded with a constant stream of
0:03information and bad news to and fro,
0:05it's no surprise that people are
0:07thinking about digital minimalism.
0:09Finding a better relationship with our
0:10smart tools so that we can get the most
0:12of them without letting them get the
0:14most of us. Over the years as I've been
0:16interested in practicing digital
0:17minimalism, my thinking around it has
0:19changed quite a bit. When I began, it
0:21was much more about the tools I was
0:22using, whereas now I think a lot more
0:24about the actual life that I'm leading.
0:26Because honestly, folks, you can delete
0:28Instagram from your phone and still
0:29waste your time pretty well. People have
0:31wasted their time forever. Technology
0:33just makes it a little more
0:34frictionless. In this video, I'd like to
0:36talk about five systems which have
0:38helped me to be more intentional with my
0:39technology and more importantly to live
0:41the life that I actually want. If you
0:43don't know me, I'm Spencer and I like to
0:44talk about simple living, frugality, and
0:46you guessed it, digital minimalism.
0:48Let's get into it. So, right off the
Decentralize
0:50bat, I'm just going to get the tools out
0:51of the way. If you want to make your
0:52smartphone less important in your life,
0:54then the first thing you want to do is
0:56decentralize your tech. Now, I know that
0:58I said that my digital minimalism has
0:59evolved kind of past just being about
1:01the tools that I'm using, and as we get
1:03through the list of the different
1:04numbers, you're going to see how my
1:06thinking has changed. But, I want to
1:08start here with where it all began for
1:09me, and that was the tools I was using
1:11and decentralizing, making my smartphone
1:13less important in my tech stack.
1:16Nowadays, we think of the smartphone as
1:17that all-in-one Swiss Army type device.
1:19It's often the only piece of technology
1:21we're bringing with us when we're out
1:23and about. And while I will admit the
1:24smartphone is a very powerful tool that
1:26does a lot of things very well, it can
1:28also be very distracting. People talk
1:31about willpower and the idea that it's
1:33really on you for having an issue with
1:35your phone, and I don't really think
1:36it's that simple. The way that I think
1:38about the smartphone and the allure of
1:39it, all of the distractions within, is
1:41it's kind of like walking down a street
1:43that is completely lined with hustlers.
1:45These guys are all trying to get your
1:47attention, and they're calling out to
1:48you saying, "Hey, look over here. I got
1:50this camera app over here. Hey, over
1:52here. I got this notes app. I got some
1:54pretty fun games for you to check out
1:55over here. Or I'm Mr. Social Media, I
1:57can really get your FOMO going. Having
2:00all of these potentials in your pocket
2:01in the form of apps, it really can be
2:03alluring and it makes you want to pick
2:05up the phone every chance you have.
2:06Because for the average person, the
2:08smartphone has become that all-in-one
2:10solution. So, anytime you have a
2:11problem, it's the smartphone you're
2:13reaching for. One of the great things
2:14that I found to be a solution to that is
2:16what I have termed decentralizing your
2:18technology, or more specifically,
2:20decentralizing your smartphone. In the
2:22most extreme sense, this means taking
2:24that Swiss Army device of the smartphone
2:26that can do so many different things and
2:28outsourcing them to single-purpose
2:30devices which do those things very well.
2:32This could be things like a physical
2:33notepad and pen over the notes app,
2:35something like an MP3 player to replace
2:38Spotify on your device, or a standalone
2:40camera. It could also be things like a
2:42handheld gaming device, or even go so
2:44far as to have a standalone dumb phone.
2:46But, the important thing I want to note
2:48is it can be any of these things, but it
2:50doesn't have to be all of these things.
2:52Decentralizing your smartphone is very
2:54much a choose your own adventure type
2:56project. You pick the apps that you
2:58would go to your phone the most for, the
3:00thing that you'd most like to outsource,
3:01and focus on those. For me, as somebody
3:03who works in the film industry as a
3:05camera guy, cameras are not only my job,
3:07but also a hobby for me. So, I wanted to
3:09make sure I had a standalone camera, so
3:11I could focus more on the art of
3:13actually doing photography. And as is
3:15the case with many decentralized
3:17technologies, having a standalone device
3:19gives you a little bit of a better
3:20experience than you're going to get on
3:21something compromised like a smartphone.
3:23By decentralizing of those key features,
3:26the things that make you pick up the
3:27smartphone the most, that means more
3:29time that you're not choosing to go down
3:31that alleyway full of hustlers, and
3:33you're not going to get pulled into any
3:34of their schemes. A standalone device
3:36like a dumb phone is the most extreme
3:38variation of this. And if you are
3:40looking to have a very stripped-down
3:41phone experience, that could be a good
3:43way to go. I've tested a lot of
3:45different devices like this on the
3:46channel, so if you check back into my
3:48videos, you'll surely find something.
3:50I've recently been testing the Light
3:52Phone 3, a device that I've wanted to
3:54try for a long time, and I will be
3:55sharing my thoughts on that in a video
3:57soon, so keep your eyes peeled for that.
Address your smartphone
3:59And now moving on to my second strategy,
4:00which has helped me be a lot more
4:02intentional with my tech, and that is
4:03addressing the smartphone directly.
4:05While decentralizing your technology is
4:07very helpful from getting you to pick up
4:09your phone for every single problem that
4:11you need solved, oftentimes we still
4:13need our smartphone to solve a lot of
4:15problems, and you find that you can't
4:16ditch that device completely. That's
4:18been the case for me. So, after getting
4:20into all these dumb devices, these
4:21single-purpose tools to help me use my
4:23smartphone less, I realized it was time
4:25to face my smartphone directly and
4:27actually strip it back to being a
4:29purpose-built tool that could do the
4:31things that I needed, but not distract
4:33me. Setting your phone to grayscale mode
4:35can be a great way to still access all
4:37of the features that you reach for that
4:38device for, but make it overall less
4:40colorful and less appealing. If social
4:42media is a problem for you, deleting
4:44those apps from your device entirely and
4:46then accessing them over the web, that
4:48is a great way to go, too. Fixing your
4:50smartphone to one space in a similar way
4:52that you would have experienced with a
4:53landline device. Plugging it in via its
4:56charger in a room like your kitchen, for
4:58example, that's what I do with mine, and
5:00I leave it in this room. And if I want
5:01to go and do some focused work, I'll
5:03have the smartphone here, and I'll be in
5:05the other room doing my work. And when I
5:07want to check it, I'll come here and
5:08I'll keep it on its cord, on its leash,
5:11and that's the only place where I can
5:12use it. Leaving your phone on do not
5:14disturb permanently is another great way
5:16to go to make sure that notifications,
5:17even calls and texts, aren't getting
5:19through to you at least on the first
5:21try. I've had my phone on do not disturb
5:22for like, I don't know, 3 to 5 years at
5:25this point, and I've had no problem with
5:27it. People eventually got used to the
5:29fact that it was on do not disturb, and
5:31if they really needed to reach me, they
5:32would just ring through twice and it
5:34would get to me. Putting time
5:35restrictions around when you use your
5:37smart devices is also a great way to go.
5:39For example, in my life, I try to not
5:41use my phone for the last hour when I'm
5:43going to bed, not use any screens
5:45whatsoever except for an e-reader. And
5:47in the morning when I'm getting up, I do
5:48the same for the first hour of the day.
5:50If you find you're really distracted by
5:52things like social media, and even with
5:53deleting apps, you find yourself
5:55downloading them again, you can try
5:56something like Scrollly, which is an app
5:58blocker. The folks at Scrollly were kind
6:00enough to partner with me on this video.
6:01Essentially, what you do with it is you
6:03download the Scrollly app, you select
6:05what apps are problem apps for you and
6:07that you want to block. Once you tap
6:08this to your phone, you're locked out of
6:10all of those apps until you tap it again
6:12to unlock it. It's a pretty neat little
6:14device. There's no subscriptions
6:15involved, and if you'd like to learn
6:16more, there's a link down below. The
Adding friction to entertainment
6:18third digital minimalist strategy that
6:19I've implemented over the years that I
6:21found really beneficial is adding
6:23friction into my entertainment. I think
6:25we can all acknowledge that having our
6:27life being as convenient as it is, as
6:29frictionless to access constant
6:31entertainment, it's changed our behavior
6:33quite dramatically. The fact that at any
6:35time you can reach into your pocket and
6:36pull out what is essentially a
6:38supercomputer and distract yourself
6:40infinitely, that's not the best. And
6:42while you can utilize the tips I
6:43mentioned earlier to make your
6:45smartphone less distracting, that
6:46doesn't address the rest of the devices
6:48in your home. Another big distraction
6:50and time waster for a lot of people are
6:51televisions. At least over the last 80
6:53years or so, TV has been that OG tech
6:56distraction, the thing that has had us
6:57glued to a screen for the longest. And
7:00today, our screens have become even
7:01bigger and even more distracting than
7:03they were back then. Over the years,
7:04I've never really had a flat-screen TV
7:06in my home. All I've really had has been
7:08a little tube TV with some rabbit ears
7:10on it. A few months ago, my dad lent me
7:12a 32-in Sony Bravia, a 15-year-old one
7:15that's a 720p TV, but it's still pretty
7:17big. And I was testing it out for doing
7:19some home labbing that I was doing for a
7:21video you'll see in the future, trying
7:23to set up my own home streaming service.
7:25And over the last couple of months, I
7:27didn't like the behavioral change that
7:29came from having a large TV in the
7:31living room, dominating the space and
7:33really pulling your attention toward it.
7:35Especially nowadays, when most people
7:37have smart TVs or something with
7:38streaming services readily available to
7:40access. I think there's just too little
7:42friction. It's just too easy to walk
7:44into a room after a long day when you're
7:46tired, sit down, flip on the TV, throw
7:49on something essentially as noise, and
7:51waste your time staring at a screen. I
7:53even found myself doing that, and rather
7:55than reading in the evenings, which is
7:57something that I much more enjoyed to do
7:58as a pastime, I was just kind of
8:00mindlessly consuming content because it
8:02was so easy to do. So, as a result, even
8:05though it was nice testing for my home
8:06theater home lab setup, I think I'm
8:09going back to my tube TV and my
8:10projector. If you watch some of my
8:12earlier videos talking about my
8:13projector, this was a trade that I made
8:15a few years ago. I had a 32-in TV
8:17before, and I opted to switch for just
8:19having a projector, and I liked it. What
8:21I like about the projector so much is
8:23that it's not always set up. It's an
8:24actual ritual to get that thing up, put
8:27it on a stand, pull down the screen over
8:29our window, turn off the lights, and
8:31watch something. I'm not typically doing
8:33that rigmarole just to watch Family Guy
8:35or American Dad. I'm pulling that down,
8:37and usually we're watching a Criterion
8:39movie or some sort of documentary,
8:41something that feels a little bit more
8:42like a meal to watch and not just junk
Cutting subscriptions for physical media
8:44food. So, with that, I'll talk about the
8:46fourth thing that I've done for my
8:47digital minimalism, and that is to stop
8:49optimizing for infinite content
8:50consumption. Now, I've said it before,
8:52but there are way too many subscriptions
8:54out there, and I just don't want any
8:55part of it, honestly. So, for the last
8:57few years, I pretty much have canceled
8:58all of my subscription services, and
9:00when I bring them on, I bring them on
9:02for a very short time, and I bring them
9:03on very intentionally. For example, I'll
9:05probably get Disney Plus just to watch
9:07the new King of the Hill season when it
9:09airs. But other than that, when I'm
9:11streaming content, I'm pretty much just
9:12doing it over a free service, something
9:14like YouTube, maybe Tubi or Pluto, or
9:17even using Kanopy, which is the
9:18streaming service offered for free by my
9:20library, which has a lot of highbrow
9:21content. Physical media has also been
9:23very valuable because of the fact that
9:25it's physical and that I actually own
9:27it, and the fact that it's finite. I
9:29think with a streaming service, the fact
9:30that you're paying for it every month,
9:32you almost feel like you need to utilize
9:34it because you're paying for it. Whereas
9:35with physical media, I'm just biting off
9:38whatever I can chew. When I want to
9:39watch a movie, I go and I buy a used
9:41copy of it at the thrift store, and I
9:43bring it home, and I watch it. But, I
9:45don't feel like I have to watch 20
9:47movies or more because I'm paying for a
9:49service with so many available. I even
9:51started doing this with my news content
9:53as well, reading a physical newspaper
9:55where the news feed actually ends rather
9:57than being an infinite scroll type
9:58thing. For me, taking control of your
10:00media consumption like that and not
10:02giving yourself that infinite amount of
10:04options, I think it just makes you more
10:06intentional with what you're actually
10:07going to watch. You don't just have a
10:09ton of things that you're choosing
10:11through, and you're actually spending so
10:12much of your time, especially on
10:13streaming services, sorting through it,
10:15trying to figure out exactly what it is
10:17you want to watch. You can actually
10:19pick, I want to watch this one movie,
10:21and you go out and you get it. And
Building a life you want to live
10:22finally, folks, the fifth digital
10:24minimalist tip that I have for you is to
10:26get a life. Build a life that you
10:28actually want to live. A lot of people
10:30look at digital minimalism in a very
10:31subtractive way. How much of my screen
10:33time can I cut down? What tech can I get
10:36rid of from my life? But, the part that
10:38they're missing is what actual life are
10:40you living? What good things are you
10:42doing with your time? I don't want to
10:43hear about the bad things that you're
10:45not wasting your time with. I want to
10:47hear about the good things that you're
10:48actually using your time for. In my
10:50digital minimalist travels, I've met
10:51people who were much more dogmatic than
10:53I, and they were striving to fully leave
10:56the internet, and many of them succeeded
10:58because they wanted that utmost digital
11:00minimalist experience. The problem is,
11:02these people were so fixated on getting
11:04rid of tools and getting rid of the
11:05internet completely, which I think could
11:07be detrimental. They weren't focusing,
11:09though, on what they were actually going
11:11to do with that time. So, the real
11:13question for me has become not what tech
11:15am I getting rid of, but it's what am I
11:17actually trying to move toward with this
11:20free time that I'm freeing up. This is
11:22where hobbies come in, music, art,
11:24filmmaking, spending time with friends.
11:26And also, another thing that many
11:28dogmatic people just obsessed with
11:29screen time can't really wrap their head
11:31around is that creative use of screen
11:34time is not the same as passive
11:36consumption on a screen. For example, if
11:38I spend a whole day making music,
11:40recording an album on GarageBand or
11:42Logic Pro or something like that, I
11:44might have 12 hours of screen time over
11:47that day, but I would not consider that
11:49a day wasted like if you were scrolling
11:51Instagram. But once you start to get too
11:53locked in on the optics of just cutting
11:54down your screen time, they all start to
11:56kind of blur together and all of these
11:58screen time things start to just look
12:00the same to you. So for me, it's become
12:02a lot less of obsessively minimizing my
12:04screen time just for the looks, just for
12:06the screenshots, so I can share it, and
12:08trying to make sure that I'm spending my
12:10time more meaningfully, whether that is
12:12off screen or on it. And while for sure
12:14the retro and analog tech aspect of
12:16digital minimalism, whether that's the
12:18dumb phone, the digicam, the iPod, or
12:20the typewriter, that can be really fun.
12:22It can be really sexy and aesthetic and
12:24gets you into the whole movement in
12:26general, but ultimately, you got to get
12:28to a point where you stop thinking about
12:30the phone itself and start thinking
12:32about the whole life around the phone.
12:34So I hope you enjoyed this video, folks.
12:35Just my thoughts on digital minimalism,
12:37the systems and strategies that I've
12:39implemented over the years that have
12:40helped me to be more intentional with my
12:42tech. Let me know in the comments what
12:44you thought of this video and how your
12:45digital minimalism strategies may have
12:47changed over the years for you. I hope
12:48you found it interesting. I appreciate
12:50you as always, and I'll see you in the
12:51next one.