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0:00You are not crazy for her, and she isn't
0:01special. You are just afraid to lose
0:03her. You have made the calculation. Your
0:05mind has made the calculation that you
0:06are not able to replace her. Think about
0:08it. You wouldn't have any of this
0:09anxiety. You wouldn't over pursue. You
0:11wouldn't double text if you knew you
0:13could easily replace this woman. And you
0:14see, the funny part about this is this
0:16is exactly how you lose her.
0:17Because you're operating from a mindset
0:19where you don't think you can do better.
0:21She looks at you and she goes, "I have
0:23all the power." She has all the power
0:25because she knows you can't do better.
0:26Therefore, you can't replace her replace
0:28her. Therefore, she can act however she
0:29wants to act. She can test you as much
0:31as she wants. She can disrespect you,
0:33hang out with guy friends, go out and be
0:35however she wants to be because she
0:36knows you have no other option. You
0:39cannot replace her. And so, this is the
0:41thing. You guys have to understand this.
0:42There is only one way that the
0:44relationship ends, okay? One way.
0:47And you guys think that there are all
0:48these different variables and oh, she
0:50lost interest. Oh, her mom died. Oh,
0:52this happened. Oh, that happened. Oh, it
0:54wasn't meant to be. Nope, there's one
0:56variable here, and it's whether she
0:58thinks you are her best option. That's
1:00it. If you are her best option, when I
1:02say best option, that doesn't mean the
1:03guy that makes her the happiest or the
1:05guy that takes her on the most dates. In
1:06fact, that's probably the guy she's
1:07going to leave. That's probably you.
1:09Most likely, that's you. All right,
1:10because you don't listen to me. You
1:11don't know what I talk about. You don't
1:13understand. You haven't been here
1:13before. If you haven't been here here
1:15before, you're too weak of a man to
1:16implement what I talk about. Let me tell
1:18you, that's you.
1:19And that's the kind of man that gets
1:20left. Why? Because that kind of man is
1:22dangerous. And I'll tell you why. See, a
1:24man that's safe is a man that's able to
1:25provide.
1:27A man that's able to put food on the
1:28table for her and her offspring.
1:31If you focus on woman, if you focus on
1:34external things, you are a man that will
1:36never increase his power or his
1:38influence or his resources. You are a
1:40man that never becomes more valuable
1:42because you aren't focusing on yourself.
1:43You see, being a narcissist, the reason
1:45why women love narcissists and bad boys
1:47and all this it's not because they don't
1:48like bad boys because they want to be
1:50disrespected. They like bad boys because
1:51bad boys only care about themselves.
1:54Meaning they always prioritize
1:55themselves. Meaning they will always put
1:57their survival over everyone else's,
2:00which makes them safe because she knows
2:02that guy is going to put food on the
2:04table because he is constantly
2:06optimizing for his own life.
2:09And this is the way you got to be. See,
2:10you look at these guys and this is the
2:11goal. This should be your goal. To
2:13become so valuable that even once in a
2:15while when you do give her those flowers
2:16or you do take her out, that decreases
2:18attraction every single time. I don't
2:19care how rich you are. I don't care if
2:21she likes you. She doesn't like It
2:22doesn't matter.
2:23If you give her flowers, if you take her
2:25out, if you do all these things, it's
2:26going to decrease attraction cuz it
2:27shows how much you care.
2:29But, your goal in life should be to
2:31become so valuable that it doesn't
2:33matter.
2:34Because even with you being the most
2:35attractive man and then doing a few
2:37unattractive things, your attraction
2:38comes down a little bit, you're still
2:40levels above everybody else.
2:42Nobody in her life even compares to you.
2:44And this is the thing, you don't have to
2:45be the Ronaldo of the world. You just
2:48have to be the Ronaldo of her life. The
2:50Ronaldo of her DMs. You need to be the
2:52best guy in her world, in her universe.
2:55Okay, and this is what Guys are like,
2:56"Well, if I have to be the best, then
2:58what's the point cuz I'll never be the
2:59best." First of all, you just don't
3:00believe in yourself cuz who knows? Maybe
3:02you're ugly. Maybe you're 5'5. Maybe
3:04you'll come up with something that
3:05changes the world and so it trumps all
3:07of that. You don't know, but your goal
3:08every day and every single man's goal
3:10should be becoming as incredible as
3:12possible of a man. A man that is
3:13irreplaceable. A man that is one of a
3:15kind. And this is the hard truth that
3:17you have to swallow because let me tell
3:19you, she will cheat on you if a better
3:21man comes along.
3:22Now, here's the thing, if you're dating
3:23a girl, most likely you're not dating a
3:24supermodel who's a 10. The guy who's
3:26better than you probably doesn't want
3:28her. So, you don't have to worry about
3:28it. You just have to be better than the
3:30guys that want that woman.
3:32That's it. So, if you're dating a seven,
3:34be an eight. Be the kind of guy that is
3:37above her. And so, all the other guys
3:38that want her, the guys that are making
3:40billions of dollars and have a uh uh
3:42totally different life than you, they
3:44don't want your girl. They don't want a
3:46seven. They want the 10. So, don't worry
3:47about your seven getting taken by Tom
3:48Brady or something. They They're They're
3:49not even looking at her. But, the point
3:51is, and you should want to have a 10 one
3:53day, you need to become the guy that is
3:55irreplaceable, that is even better than
3:57those guys as well. That's what it is.
3:59Now, you are playing a different game.
4:00You're playing a game against the guys
4:01in your school, you're playing a game
4:02against your the co-worker she has, all
4:05of this kind of stuff.
4:07And so, that's a game that's very easy
4:08to win. Because what is the average man
4:10doing? Smoking, drinking, clubbing,
4:13partying. This is what you guys don't
4:14understand. You guys watch my content,
4:15you think I promote degeneracy. Do not
4:17drink. Do not smoke. Do not go to the
4:18club. Do not have one-night stands.
4:21That's not what I promote. I do not tell
4:22you guys to do these things so that you
4:24can go get laid. I tell you guys to do
4:26these things so you can get a woman to
4:27love you and obsess over you. Because
4:29that is where the value comes from.
4:30Other men look at you and see a woman
4:31obsessed with you. It's something that
4:32most men can't do. They respect you. You
4:35gain more power, more leverage. You now
4:37have a woman that will take care of you
4:38when you're sick or when you don't feel
4:39good. That is what you want. A one-night
4:41stand that doesn't go anywhere is a
4:42waste of time. You could have spent that
4:44time building yourself, going to the
4:45gym, making more money. You could have
4:46increased your value, made your life
4:48easier, pulled yourself out of the rat
4:49race. This is what men don't understand.
4:51I understand sometimes in the way I
4:52speak and my tonality, it sounds like
4:54I'm saying vulgar things that are
4:56promoting degeneracy. I am not a
4:58degenerate. Never in my life have I ever
5:01told anyone to smoke, drink, go to the
5:03club, do cold approach, or do one-night
5:05stands. These things do not contribute
5:07at all positively to your life, ever.
5:10You should never do these things.
5:11Because let me tell you,
5:12that time that you're spending cold
5:13approaching, you could use that time
5:15instead of being a loser at the mall
5:16with your friends, you could use that
5:17time to get yourself out of the rat race
5:20so you never have to cold approach again
5:22and women come to you. This is the
5:23point. You need to attract women because
5:24the game that you win 100% of the time
5:27is the game that chooses you. She comes
5:30to you. She wants you. She pursues you.
5:32She follows you. She swipes up on your
5:34story. You guys have all the leverage in
5:37the world. You don't understand.
5:38Everybody thinks the dating world, the
5:40the the dating for everyone is screwed
5:42up. It's not. It's screwed up for the
5:43average person. But you know what that
5:44means? If it's getting worse for the
5:46average person, it's getting better for
5:48everybody at the top. So, all you got to
5:49do is accept the truth, accept that
5:50there's no reversing it, and become one
5:52of the men at the top. Because if
5:54everybody at the bottom is losing women,
5:55women aren't disappearing,
5:57right? They're going somewhere. You know
5:59where they're going? To the top 10%.
6:01Become the top 10%. Everything becomes
6:02easy with social media. If you live a
6:04top 10% life and you show it to
6:06everyone, you don't even have to go out
6:08to meet women these days. It's
6:09fantastic. Dating has never been better.
6:13You can just sit around, show everyone
6:15how incredible your life is,
6:17and then women come to you. Swipe up on
6:19your story. Slide into your DMs. You
6:21don't got to go anywhere. You can
6:22continue focusing on your mission. You
6:24can continue spending time with your
6:25buddies. You don't got to do nothing.
6:27And they come to you. And this is the
6:29kind of life that you need to work
6:31towards every single day of your life,
6:32or else that woman that you're with
6:35is going to be taken away from you by
6:37that man who has achieved that
6:39lifestyle.
6:40Who has that abundant life.
6:42Unless you're dating a five, of course,
6:44cuz I don't want your five, but if you
6:45got a 10, you bet your ass I'm taking it
6:46from you.
6:48And that's what it is.
6:49You are in a competition, a never-ending
6:51competition. And no matter how many
6:53hours you spend with this girl, no
6:55matter how many years of history you
6:56guys have together, no matter how many
6:58movies you've taken her out to, no
6:59matter how much you care, no matter how
7:01many good mornings and good afternoons
7:02and good nights and how many FaceTime
7:04calls you've been on, she will leave you
7:07if a better man comes along. I don't
7:09care how she was raised. I don't care if
7:10she's a virgin. I don't care if she has
7:11a body count of 50. It does not make a
7:13difference. Their biology isn't
7:15different because of the way their
7:17father raised them. Their biology isn't
7:19different because they slept with 10
7:21guys versus one. It is exactly the same.
7:24And if a better man comes along, I don't
7:25care how innocent or sweet or perfect
7:27she is or how many green flags you see,
7:29she will leave you for that man. And
7:31this is not evil. There's nothing wrong
7:33with her. This is the way she's wired.
7:35She is weaker than men. Women are weaker
7:37than men. They are wired to rely on a a
7:40for survival. And therefore, the second
7:42she finds a better man, she looks at
7:43that man
7:45and loses attraction for you because now
7:46you can no longer provide her with a
7:48life that she has access to with that
7:50guy.
7:51She looks at that life, says that's a
7:53better life, and this is all
7:54subconscious. You cannot blame women for
7:55this. Women are not evil for this. This
7:57is the way they are wired. Accept the
7:58truth, deal with the truth, be a man,
8:01and go out there, focus on yourself,
8:03pursue power, pursue the things you need
8:06to pursue. You know what those things
8:07are. Stop running from the truth. Stop
8:09running
8:10from these these
8:12these things that you have to accept,
8:13internalize them, accept them, become
8:15the 10% and enjoy. Because guess what?
8:18The rich just keep getting richer. So,
8:20get rich, get powerful, and do what you
8:23got to do.