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0:00See, this is the thing, guys. They're
0:01super insecure. They get super insecure.
0:03I'm sure you have told your girl what to
0:06wear. You've told her how to act. You
0:08can't do this because women are not
0:10logical. You can't try to reason with
0:11them. You can't try to explain it to
0:12them. You can't look at her and go, "You
0:14know, there's other guys out there. I'm
0:16not even insecure. Like, there's other
0:17dudes out there. I don't want them
0:18looking at you." You can't do any of
0:20this because all this does is signal to
0:22her, "Wow, this guy really cares and
0:23wow, this guy is super insecure." So,
0:25when they call you insecure, they're not
0:26trying to piss you off. That's literally
0:27what they feel when they see you doing
0:30that.
0:31This is how you actually get her to stop
0:33doing all this The only way to do
0:35this, to get her to stop doing all this,
0:37is to literally just make her respect
0:40you. Utter respect. Let me give you an
0:42example. Do you think if she was dating
0:43Justin Bieber, she would be doing any of
0:45this? Any of this You think
0:46she would test Justin Bieber to see if
0:49Justin Bieber would get upset of about
0:50her dressing provocatively to go
0:52somewhere or if Justin Bieber would be
0:54even,
0:55you know, stupid enough to tolerate her
0:57going to the club or doing any of that
0:59disrespectful stuff? Like, you have to
1:01understand this. If the guy is
1:02high-value enough, she's going to act
1:03right cuz she knows she's not supposed
1:04to be there.
1:06And the only reason she's there, she
1:07doesn't care about dancing. This is just
1:09another excuse. She's there
1:10because she wants attention. Women crave
1:12attention. Remember, they're emotional
1:13creatures. They want attention. So, she
1:15knows that what she's doing is wrong.
1:17She knows when she doesn't dress right,
1:18when she dresses like a she knows
1:20she's not supposed to be doing that.
1:21She knows that it's disrespectful. She
1:24can cover it up. She can say that's not
1:25why she's doing it. Whatever. She knows
1:27it's disrespectful. If the truth is, the
1:29hard honest truth, if she was dating
1:31Justin Bieber, if she was dating Brad
1:33Pitt, if she was dating Ronaldo, if she
1:35was dating anyone who was super
1:36high-value, she would never do this.
1:38Now, here's the good news for you. You
1:39don't have to be Ronaldo. I'm guessing
1:40you ain't Brad Pitt, you ain't Ronaldo,
1:42and you ain't Justin Bieber. So, the
1:43good news for you is that you can make
1:45yourself this high-value without having
1:46to do any of these things, without
1:48having to become Ronaldo, without having
1:49to become the best soccer player in the
1:51world, without having to become the best
1:53singer in the world.
1:54And the way you do this is very simple.
1:57You limit the time that you give her.
1:59So, what does this mean? This means you
2:01don't see a girl every day. You don't
2:03call her every day. You don't text her
2:05all the time. You don't let her know
2:06what you're doing 24/7. And this creates
2:09value. In fact, this will play place you
2:11significantly higher in the charts of
2:14value than a guy who might drive uh
2:16$5 million Bugatti and live in a $20
2:21million house, but he texts her every
2:23day, calls her every day because these
2:25traits
2:26texting all the time, calling all the
2:28time, these are not high-value traits.
2:29And even though the man is high-value on
2:31paper,
2:32she's emotional, right? She doesn't look
2:34at it logically. She doesn't look the
2:35guy the guy and go, "Oh, you know what?
2:37This guy has a really expensive car and
2:39he lives in an expensive house." She
2:41goes, "This guy's time is not valuable.
2:43He gives me all of his time. He texts me
2:45all the time, responds to me instantly,
2:48never ever leaves me on red, constantly
2:51reactive.
2:52So, he must not have anything better to
2:55do." She doesn't All the other things
2:56she becomes blind to it. She becomes
2:58blind to the fact that he has an
2:59expensive car or an expensive house. But
3:01you, you could be a bum sitting in your
3:02mom's basement smoking weed all day.
3:05And you just don't respond to her all
3:07the time, constantly, right on point.
3:09You don't text her 24/7. You don't need
3:11to know what she's doing. You don't call
3:12her all the time. You see her once a
3:13week, maybe. And in her eyes, she's
3:16going to have more attraction for you
3:17than the guy with all those attributes
3:19on paper.
3:20Okay? Because in her mind, your time is
3:24more valuable. Why? Because she doesn't
3:25get it as often. She doesn't receive
3:28your time as easily as she does from
3:30that other dude. So, this is the This is
3:32the This is the whole trick to all of
3:34this, and it's the secret, and it's why
3:36so many men are so miserable. They think
3:37they need to achieve all these great
3:39things. But guys, why do you think you
3:40see the most beautiful women with these
3:42drug addicts? With dudes that literally
3:44sit in their mom's basement and smoke
3:45weed all day. You've seen this before.
3:47You have a friend that probably does
3:49this. You've looked at her friend and
3:50you go, "This guy's a loser, and he gets
3:52all the girls. Why?"
3:54I'll tell you why.
3:56Because the only thing he cares about is
3:57smoking weed all day. And he'll tell
3:59her, "I don't want to see you right now
4:00because I want to smoke weed alone in my
4:02basement."
4:03You understand the time is limited.
4:04Regardless of what he's doing, it
4:06doesn't matter what he's doing. It could
4:07be the most loser thing ever. But
4:09because he's not letting her see him, he
4:11instantly puts himself high on the chart
4:14of time, value, and how valuable he is
4:17to her. Because she can't get his time,
4:19so she's going to want it. She's going
4:20to crave it. And
4:21when she's with him, this is the thing,
4:22if you limit the time you spend with
4:23your woman,
4:25she's going to respect you.
4:27She's going to do everything right
4:28because she doesn't get to see you all
4:30the time. So, if a girl sees you every
4:32day, and if you text a girl every day,
4:34and if you call her every day, she can
4:36disrespect you today. She knows she's
4:38going to see you tomorrow, so it's fine.
4:39She'll, you know, mess around with you
4:41today. She'll disrespect you. Maybe
4:43she'll get in an argument with you. Cuz
4:45why not? She's going to see you
4:46tomorrow.
4:48It doesn't matter. She sees you all the
4:49time.
4:50But this is the thing, if she only gets
4:51to see you once a week, think about how
4:53careful she's going to be with with the
4:54things that she says, and what she does,
4:56and how she acts.
4:58Because she only gets to see you once a
4:59week. So, if she screws up that day,
5:03well, she doesn't get to see you for
5:04another week. So, she better make the
5:07best of that one day cuz she doesn't get
5:09that day or that time to hang out with
5:11you all the time. If a woman always has
5:12your time, she doesn't put any value on
5:15your time. She has no value for your
5:16time, so she's going to disrespect you.
5:17She's going to argue about petty things
5:19just to argue cuz she doesn't have
5:21respect for you cuz your time has no
5:22value.
5:24You don't need to be Justin Bieber. You
5:25don't need to have a nice car. You don't
5:27need to make a bunch of money. You just
5:28need to put value on your time, and you
5:30do this by limiting the time that you
5:31give her and the energy that you give
5:32her. You don't call her all the time.
5:33You don't text her all the time. You
5:35limit your interaction with her.
5:38And the best thing about this is that
5:40you get to win twice. This is why I'm
5:43telling you this. This is why I'm
5:44teaching you this because I want you to
5:45win twice.
5:47I life I want you to only win. What I
5:50mean by this is you get to keep the
5:52girl. She respects you. She acts right
5:55because you limit your time with her and
5:56you get to retain her longer than other
5:58all the other dudes that are getting,
5:59you know, giving their girl all their
6:01all their time and all their energy
6:03because again, you put value on your
6:05time and she's going to want to stick
6:06with you because you're more valuable in
6:08her eyes. But two,
6:10which is even better, you get to focus
6:13on what you want to do. You don't have
6:14to spend every day of your life talking
6:16to her. You don't have to spend every
6:18second of your life worrying about what
6:19you got to respond to her or calling her
6:21or any of this. You get to focus on your
6:22mission, your goals as a man. You get to
6:24go out there and make the money to go
6:26buy the Lambo, not to attract her, but
6:28to go have fun.
6:29And and get rich with your friends and
6:32make a bunch of money because why not?
6:34Because then you get to retire your
6:36parents and you get to travel the world
6:37and you get to see see things you never
6:38seen before and this allows you to win
6:40twice. Then you can meet even more women
6:43through the resources and the success
6:45that you've acquired because instead of
6:47spending every day with your woman, you
6:48decided to invest it into success and
6:51your future.
6:53And the funny part about this is you get
6:54to keep the woman this way because when
6:56she sees you doing this every day, she
6:58sees that you don't care to call her
6:59every day. You don't care to text her
7:00every day. You're sitting there and
7:01you're focused on your future and what
7:02you want to achieve, she's going to be
7:04even more attracted to you. Again,
7:05because your time is valuable and she
7:06sees that.
7:08And she doesn't get to see you all the
7:09time.
7:10So, you win twice. You get to work on
7:12your future, work on your success, work
7:15on your business, go to the gym, don't
7:17have to worry about her, don't have to
7:18argue with her, don't have to deal with
7:19her on a daily basis, just got to see
7:21her once a week and have the time of
7:22your life with her and then go back to
7:24focusing, go back to the grind and you
7:26get to keep her because you put value on
7:28your time
7:30and she will be extra respectful when
7:33she gets to see you because that's the
7:34one day out of the week that she gets to
7:36see you. So, if she screws it up, she
7:37doesn't get to see you for another week.
7:40You win twice.