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0:03Huh?
0:04Oh yeah, I'm fine. Don't worry.
0:06Let me just finish this and then I will
0:08look at food and we can order something.
0:19Okay, I'm done.
0:23Wait 1 second.
0:27No. No. No. No. No.
0:30Um
0:32So I may have accidentally sent
0:34a message to the wrong person.
0:38Uh
0:42Yeah, so my god, that was me.
0:45Please don't check it.
0:47Oh, don't worry. It's It's nothing It's
0:50nothing too bad. It's just something
0:52that might change
0:53the way you view me forever, but other
0:55than that, no, there's nothing too bad.
0:58>> [laughter]
1:01>> Well, it was meant to go to my friend
1:03who I tell everything to.
1:08Oh, don't look at me like that. I tell
1:09you everything, too. Almost. Apart from
1:12this one tiny, teeny thing that only she
1:14knows.
1:15Which is what I just sent you a message
1:18about accidentally.
1:22Well, usually her messages are just like
1:24always at the top of my list by default.
1:27So obviously when you text me earlier,
1:31>> [laughter]
1:31>> yours went straight to the top and I
1:32didn't think to check. I'm so stupid.
1:37Uh
1:38No, don't look at it. Actually,
1:40Uh do
1:42>> [sighs and gasps]
1:42>> Oh, just do it. Just rip the Band-Aid
1:44off. Just go for it. Read it. Whatever.
1:48No, it's fine. Really. It was probably
1:50going to happen eventually, so just just
1:52read it.
1:58Yeah.
2:01>> [sighs and gasps]
2:02>> Come on, just
2:03lay it down plain and simple.
2:06What are your first initial thoughts
2:08when you read that?
2:14>> [gasps]
2:15>> It's really not as bad as you thought.
2:17What were you thinking?
2:19Did you think I was going to
2:19accidentally send you my nudes or
2:21something?
2:22Okay, I'm not going to lie. I have
2:24nearly done that before.
2:28>> [laughter]
2:30>> Well,
2:30sometimes I go to send you a picture and
2:34then I'm like,
2:35"No, maybe I shouldn't." So, then I
2:38I tap X on the on the little photo, but
2:41it's already in the message bar ready to
2:43send. And sometimes I'm like, "Ooh,
2:45should I do it?" And then I end up not
2:48doing it because I
2:50I don't know. I don't know if
2:52if that's something you'd even want to
2:54see. Hey, I'm not saying that like I'm
2:56I'm not saying that I'm like trying to
2:58send you like full nudes. I'm just
3:00saying some of the
3:01photos that I do send are kind of sexy
3:03and usually I would try and hide it by
3:05saying like, "Which one should I post on
3:07my Instagram?" And then I'll send you a
3:09sexy picture, but then it's
3:11Why am I admitting all of this to you?
3:16>> [laughter]
3:18[gasps]
3:19>> I've gone down the rabbit hole and now I
3:21can't be stopped.
3:23I literally had no reason to admit any
3:25of that to you. I just did it to fill
3:27the awkward silence and now it's just
3:29made it 10 times more awkward.
3:32>> [gasps]
3:34[laughter]
3:37>> Oh, it's okay. You don't have to
3:39You don't have to lie. If you're If
3:41you're feeling awkward right now, that's
3:43okay. You can just tell me.
3:45And
3:46I don't know. You can You can leave. You
3:48can go home if you want to. We You skip
3:50the dinner and you can go and think
3:52about whether or not you want to
3:54continue this friendship.
3:57>> [snorts]
3:58[laughter]
4:01>> Yeah, what do you think?
4:06You still really want to eat with me
4:08after I just said all of that?
4:12Well, I don't know. Maybe I sound like a
4:14a crazy person.
4:18Well, I think I sound like a crazy
4:19person right now. I wouldn't want to be
4:21in the same room as me.
4:27Fine, [sighs]
4:28let's talk about it. Go go ahead. Ask me
4:32whatever questions you want and I will
4:34answer them as honestly as I can.
4:42I've well [clears throat]
4:43I don't know. I get too scared to tell
4:46you and then
4:48>> [laughter and gasps]
4:49>> I don't know.
4:50It's just I can never seem to find the
4:53words. Like the words are there and I'm
4:55about to say it and I'm about to tell
4:57you
4:58and then it's like I physically cannot.
5:01Like my body is trying to stop me
5:03because
5:04I don't know. Maybe maybe I'm just
5:07scared it'll ruin things or
5:10you'll you'll think of me differently or
5:14you might grow distant because I've just
5:17made it weird.
5:19I don't know.
5:24Do I have to?
5:26>> [sighs]
5:28>> I guess I can't not tell you now, huh?
5:33Well
5:35basically
5:37for for a while now,
5:40um
5:43Oh god, how do I
5:45do this.
5:48>> [sighs]
5:51>> Okay.
5:53I'm just going to I'm just going to tell
5:54you.
5:56I
5:58may have
5:59developed like some kind of
6:02feelings
6:04for you that are way more than best
6:07friends should ever feel.
6:10Like obviously obviously we should have
6:13strong feelings towards each other
6:14because you know we're best friends and
6:16we we do everything together. We tell
6:18everything to each other and we've it's
6:21been that way for years. So
6:23um
6:24obviously you know there's going to be
6:25something there but this
6:27but
6:28it's never
6:30I don't know what I'm trying to say. Oh.
6:34This is so hard.
6:39Uh
6:40okay yes I'm going I'm developing actual
6:44feelings feelings for you.
6:47And every time I see you and every time
6:49we hang out all I want to do is just
6:52I just want to
6:54tell you how I feel and I just want to
6:56grab you and
6:58and kiss you and do all of these things
7:01that I've always wanted to do with a
7:03partner but it obviously
7:06we've never even done these things or
7:08talked about these things just because
7:10we're friends and
7:12uh
7:13>> [sighs]
7:14>> uh
7:15I need to stop.
7:19Uh basically yeah that's all I just
7:22really wanted to tell you.
7:26Huh?
7:29Uh
7:30I don't know maybe for about
7:33the past six months ish.
7:38I know I know. I'm sorry I really should
7:41have told you sooner.
7:44I did try. Believe me, I tried.
7:50Yeah, it's just
7:53a way harder than you think it would be.
7:56It's not as easy.
7:59I can imagine it would be easy enough
8:00for you because I don't think any girl
8:04would be stupid enough to turn you down,
8:06but
8:08if it's
8:12>> [sighs and gasps]
8:13>> I don't know. I'm just going to stop
8:15talking now.
8:17So,
8:18what food are you in the mood for
8:19because I can take a look at Uber Eats
8:22or
8:23Just Eat or just anything else.
8:32I I'm sorry. I get nervous and then I
8:35start to panic and then I change the
8:37subject to avoid the difficult
8:39conversations.
8:41But, you're right. You're right.
8:43I'm going to put my phone down.
8:45Um
8:46and I'm just going to let you talk for a
8:48little bit. Tell me how you're feeling.
8:50How do you feel about everything that
8:52I've just
8:53told [sighs] you
8:54unwillingly.
9:01Yes, you can be 100% honest.
9:08Really?
9:12But,
9:13you were just
9:16So, you were just coming at me saying
9:19that I should have told you sooner,
9:21but you were doing the exact same thing
9:23that I was.
9:27You are such a hypocrite.
9:30If you liked me back, why didn't you
9:32tell me sooner?
9:34Or at all. Why did you wait for me?
9:39It was so difficult.
9:42Well,
9:43obviously I wish I could have told you
9:44under
9:45nicer circumstances, but
9:49I guess now that the cat's out of the
9:50bag,
9:52maybe we could actually
9:55like do something with these feelings.
10:01No, you honestly have no idea. It is it
10:04is such a relief to hear you say that.
10:07Because I've been feeling the exact same
10:09way for such a long time, and it was
10:11just so much internal
10:14pressure just built up that I
10:17just wanted to
10:19I just wanted to explode, honestly.
10:22>> [laughter]
10:23>> I know it might sound dramatic,
10:25but all of these feelings, they would
10:27all just come
10:28rushing back every time that I was with
10:31you. And and you know, we hang out a
10:33lot. So, you can only imagine.
10:39Yeah.
10:43So, how long have you
10:47felt that way about me?
10:52Really?
10:54Wait. So, if it's the same amount of
10:57time, does that mean your crush also
11:00started to develop that one time because
11:03that one thing happened?
11:08>> [laughter]
11:08>> You know exactly what I'm talking about.
11:12Yeah, well,
11:14that time we
11:16accidentally held hands for a second.
11:20And I [sighs and snorts] was like, wait,
11:22maybe I want to do this more often.
11:25It was the same for you?
11:27I knew it. I knew I felt a spark and it
11:30wasn't just me.
11:33Well, yeah, I didn't know it know it,
11:34but I had a feeling. I was like, maybe
11:37he does like me the same way because we
11:39got a little bit closer and a little bit
11:41flirtier after that.
11:44Yeah.
11:47It's just honestly such a relief and
11:51now if I'm being honest,
11:53I am kind of glad I sent that text to
11:55the wrong person because now
11:57it feels like a weight has been lifted
12:00off my shoulders and I feel so free.
12:05Isn't it nice?
12:08>> [laughter]
12:10>> So,
12:12now that
12:13now that that's out there,
12:16how do you
12:18how do you feel about
12:20maybe
12:22I don't know.
12:27Yeah, sure, you say it. You can ask.
12:30>> [gasps]
12:30>> It is easier for me, actually.
12:37>> [laughter]
12:39[crying]
12:40>> Yes.
12:41Yes, I would love to go out with you.
12:47>> [laughter]
12:48[gasps]
12:49>> Yes, that also means of course I will be
12:52your girlfriend.
12:54I would love
12:56nothing more
12:58actually.
12:59I can't My cheeks are going to start
13:01hurting. Stop.
13:03>> [laughter]
13:06>> Come here.
13:08Just come here.
13:19Oh my god.
13:22>> [laughter]
13:23[gasps]
13:23>> I'm so happy. I don't think you
13:25understand.
13:28Okay, well maybe you do a little bit,
13:30but not as much as me.
13:31>> [laughter]
13:32[gasps]
13:34>> Oh, just shut up and kiss me again.
13:36>> [laughter]
13:45>> I've been waiting so long for this.
13:49And also so long to be able to order
13:51food, so
13:53>> [laughter]
13:54>> shall we resume this after we've
13:55ordered?
13:59Okay, sounds good.