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0:00Astrologists episode four , we are
0:02starting now . Nechama Alchananoff ,
0:04Batsheva Schuster , I'm here too . Let's
0:07begin , we have many topics today , Leo
0:09sign , we are going to talk about the
0:11Leos .
0:20Let's admire ourselves , yes .
0:22Obviously .
0:23They , they , they want to be here . Uh ,
0:25how is it ... what do you call humble ? Uh
0:27, what is it called ? Humility ? Modest ,
0:30that's more accurate . There are two ...
0:32there are two Leos here . They want to
0:34be modest , so they ... so we will get to
0:36the Leos soon , we'll talk about the
0:38Leos , we'll talk about the moon in fire
0:40signs , which are Leo , Sagittarius ,
0:42Aries . We'll talk about all this energy
0:45and understand it in depth . But before
0:47that , we wanted to start with something
0:49: we actually have a new game show . Uh ,
0:52I don't think I told you , but this is a
0:53surprise and they don't even know what
0:55I'm going to do to them . Uh , we ... well ,
0:58we have here 12 notes with the signs
1:00and we are going to pull out two signs ,
1:02and then we'll talk about whether they
1:04match or not . So we will pull two notes
1:07from here . I will let each one pull a
1:10note and then we will see if they match
1:12or not . Come on , Nechama , me . Or how
1:16they match as well .
1:17Or how they match ?
1:18However you want .
1:22Okay . Oh , obviously I took Aquarius , my
1:25husband is Aquarius .
1:27Aquarius .
1:28Wait , second , wait , wait , how did you
1:30close this ? What is this , Aries ?
1:32Hoopla . How fun it is together , I can
1:38say .
1:39If you want the perfect chaos .
1:40Yes .
1:41But .
1:43Yes , because they are looking for
1:45freedom somewhere , they'll be like on
1:47one side head to head , on the other
1:48side they love , I don't know , it's like
1:50I love the combination , it's
1:52interesting together .
1:54They really love each other here .
1:56Love heat , heat , and then boom ,
1:58explosions .
1:59Arguing .
2:00Both , but that's their love , right ? I
2:02see here two directions of , uh , of ,
2:04marriage . Let's say , marriage –
2:07speaking , okay ? So first of all :
2:09traveling , exploring countries , going
2:12here , going there , adventures , bungee ,
2:14jumping from a plane , having fun . On
2:17the other hand – what's the danger ?
2:19That no one really wants to commit .
2:22This could perhaps be , uh , a marriage
2:24that is a bit , uh , free , let's say .
2:27Depends , I don't know . Aries , I think
2:29that in the end , it wants – its inner
2:31self is water .
2:32But ultimately it will hurt , it will
2:34hurt because they don't want the
2:35commitment ; they want the freedom , but
2:37they also want that . The Aries really
2:41wants attention from the partner , and
2:43for Aquarius it's very hard to give
2:44attention , because they are like , let's
2:46give attention to the world , to , to
2:52protests , to activism , all kinds of
2:54things like that , and for Aries that
2:56will be hard . There could also be
3:00another scenario I see : that it will be
3:02a bit hard for them to look after the
3:03kids , they'll be maybe kids who are a
3:05bit ... it's kind of running around .
3:10Today Mercury is in retrograde . Look , I
3:13think that really , like , it's just that
3:15, again — of course we look at zodiac
3:18signs , we look at the whole picture ,
3:20like , not just the sign . We look at all
3:22the placements in a person's chart . So
3:24if you are married right now and you're
3:25Aquarius and Leo , and it works great
3:27for you — good for you ! But in my eyes ,
3:29it’s one of the most incompatible
3:31matches there is , because
3:33Because Aquarius
3:35Like , as , say , work colleagues — it
3:37could be amazing . But as a couple that
3:41needs passion , that needs romance , that
3:43needs emotions ? Like , Aquarius lives in
3:46a world of their own . Like , they're
3:48with their goals , with their own things
3:50. They can be very friendly , but they ,
3:52like , they sort of live in their own
3:54world . And the Aries — they also want
3:56to run and achieve their goals . It's
3:57like two in my eyes ... I see it as two
3:59very ambitious people who really want a
4:01lot and are full of drive . Like ,
4:03because even though Aquarius is air ,
4:05it's the fire of air .
4:08And this is the fire element , so the
4:10communication between them , I don't
4:11know , it seems like chaos to me .
4:14I think they are warm , I don't know , I
4:16feel like they are warm together . I
4:18feel like both of them are like , yes ,
4:20it's interesting . They need to learn
4:23how to communicate properly in the end ,
4:25but they are very independent . Yes ,
4:27Aries wants love , okay , so the Aquarius
4:29needs to learn how to give that love ,
4:31even in a way you don't expect , but in
4:33the end they are very independent , so
4:35they can achieve a lot as a couple and
4:37separately , and that can only lift them
4:39up . I don't know , I love fire and air
4:41in general , and Aries is interesting ,
4:43it's like the children , right ? And the
4:46Aquarius is also like a child , maybe
4:47that's why I like them together , I
4:49think , maybe .
4:51Maybe if they do fun activities , like ,
4:53say , riding bikes together or going to
4:56the beach or traveling the world .
4:59But , say , sitting together and opening
5:01up to each other — because the Aries is
5:03too sensitive all the time and just
5:05wants love all day , and the Aquarius , I
5:07don't know — so both need to learn how
5:09to do that .
5:12At the end of the day , even the Holy
5:14Ari says that even if all the signs
5:15match like a glove , if you don't do the
5:17spiritual work , then it won't help at
5:19all .
5:22And think about it , marriage is like a
5:24bowl of energy , right ?
5:26If everyone is just taking , I want , I
5:29take , I take , I take — in the end , the
5:31bowl is left with no energy , right ? So
5:35ultimately , it's about my giving in the
5:37relationship and not about what I can
5:38get from the other person . So you have
5:42to find balance , no matter which sign ,
5:44if I only want to take , it won't go
5:45anywhere . Totally .
5:48What score do you guys give this
5:49relationship ?
5:51Out of 10 ?
5:52Yes , I'm giving it a six .
5:54I'm an eight .
5:55I'm also going with eight , yes , yes ,
5:57this is a relationship , it , it has
5:59potential , this relationship , in my
6:01opinion .
6:02Totally , yes .
6:04I'll support it from the sidelines .
6:09Here , Aries signs , yes , so I always
6:11said in my life I would never marry an
6:13Aries , never , ever , ever , and I ended
6:15up having three children , two of them ,
6:18two of them are Aries and one is a Leo
6:20with a lot of Aries in his chart . So
6:24even though I didn't marry an Aries , I
6:26got it in the
6:28Wow . Wow .
6:29Big .
6:31And now we will move to the next part .
6:34We gave you the option to ask us
6:35questions or ask about things you'd
6:37like us to talk about , and we will
6:38obviously include that more and more in
6:40our episodes . You can always write to
6:43us when we open the questions . I open
6:45it on my Instagram , or on the Kabbalah
6:48Centre's Instagram , or on Nechama
6:49Bat-Sheva's Instagram , and which
6:51question — let's pick one question .
6:55The question is how exactly the sign
6:57influences and how the ascendant
6:58influences , it's a good question .
7:01Okay , so . Uh ... well , first of all , when
7:06we look at a chart , then everything
7:08influences , yes . The ascendant , for me ,
7:14I see the ascendant as the first breath
7:16a person took in their life and the
7:18vibration , the first frequency they
7:19received . There are many things ; there
7:25are people who tell you in a quarter of
7:26an hour as soon as they walk into the
7:28room . There are people who look like
7:31their ascendant , there are people who
7:32look like their sun , there are people
7:34who look like their moon . It varies ,
7:37but the ascendant is the first
7:39impression that the person received . In
7:43general , Kabbalists explain that until
7:45the age of three , right , we have almost
7:47no memories at all because we didn't
7:49have any defenses in the brain . There
7:54is a process called " Ilan " ( tree ) , which
7:55is the brain building the neural
7:57pathways , and you don't have that when
7:59you're born . And think , think , that all
8:03the nerves , everything is exposed , so
8:05it's just , it's like a sponge , that's
8:07how you receive . So that's how I look
8:11at the ascendant , at the person's first
8:12impression . I often like to describe it
8:16like I always see it , I always have a
8:18visual perspective , so I look at a
8:20person like a cake , let's say , okay ? So
8:24for example , the sun is how you see the
8:26cake from the outside , like how it
8:28looks , it looks beautiful , it looks ...
8:30the moon is the taste , it's its flavor ,
8:32and the ... the ascendant is the
8:34decorations , it's all the decorations ,
8:36it's all the frosting and all that .
8:41I loved that very much . Yes , you are
8:44also visual like me , it seems .
8:46Yes , yes , I am very visual . So yes . So
8:50the point is , and I often connect the
8:52ascendant to this place of our
8:53childhood . After all , in childhood ,
8:56psychologically , as we see the
8:57connection between psychology and
8:59astrology , we see that there are many ,
9:01many intersecting lines there . Now , and
9:03that is essentially what the ascendant
9:05is to me . It's like some kind of armor
9:08that is built for you from childhood ,
9:10and a bit from age 20 , but it's mainly
9:11from childhood . Because I , for example ,
9:14I am very Gemini , which is light , light
9:16, light , but my ascendant is Scorpio
9:18and my childhood was quite neglected ,
9:20okay ? So that armor of protecting
9:23myself and understanding that I am on
9:24my own was built for me in childhood .
9:27So , it’s like , a lot of the time ,
9:29this is like the topping they put on my
9:31Gemini cake .
9:32Scorpio black topping .
9:36Black , Libra flavor .
9:38I really loved it . Yes . I also always
9:41like to explain that , in the end , the
9:43Sun , the Ascendant , and the Moon are
9:45three sides of who we are , and each one
9:47brings a different side . The Sun is , of
9:51course , how we want people to see us .
9:54How we bring ourselves into a room , to
9:56people , how we actually show ourselves ,
9:58how we are experienced .
10:00Yes . And the Ascendant is — I don't
10:03know how to say it in Hebrew — it's
10:05self-expression , it's the ...
10:07Self-expression .
10:08Self-expression , of course , it opens
10:10the first house . It’s like you said ,
10:13it’s like childhood , how we came into
10:15this world , all the belief systems ,
10:17like you said , all those things .
10:21Totally , and that is the first house ,
10:23which is really who we are , what we are
10:26, what we put more into action , and
10:28also . Ibn Ezra talks about it a lot ,
10:31that it’s also exactly how you look ;
10:33if you are in a certain degree , in a
10:35certain sign , you have a big father . I
10:37mean , Ibn Ezra really goes into these
10:39details , but he writes about it as if
10:40it’s really related to the Ascendant .
10:43It’s also the character — sorry ,
10:45switching between English and Hebrew , I
10:47just have these personal words — it’s
10:49like the other part of our [ self ] ,
10:50that’s how I see it .
10:53By the way , we once did some kind of ,
10:55right , a lecture or something , and
10:57there was someone who was a Leo , and I
10:59said he was ...
11:00Definitely a Scorpio , and then he
11:02approached me and told me : I am a Leo ,
11:04but you should know my Ascendant is
11:06Scorpio , because he really looks like a
11:08Scorpio . Okay , well , as we said , we
11:11will open a box for you again , so write
11:13us questions and we will be happy to
11:15answer ; it’s fun for us , of course .
11:20Uh , okay , so now it’s time to let the
11:22Sun rise for the Leos , to give the Leos
11:24their place , and we will talk about Leo
11:26.
11:31I wanted to see who pops up — yesterday
11:33, when I went up in the elevator , there
11:35was a Leo and she says to me , " My month
11:38has arrived , we celebrate the whole ...
11:40first of all , the whole month , my
11:41husband knows this , he had to learn it ,
11:43everyone , it’s the whole month , not
11:45just a day or two . "
11:48So , two funny stories about Leos : one ,
11:50I did a chart for a Leo a while ago ,
11:52and he tells me , " Wow , I am so excited
11:55before the month of Av when I know my
11:57birthday is coming , " he tells me , "
11:59I’m already excited from the month of
12:01Tammuz . " And that’s one thing .
12:03Secondly , I always have a joke about
12:05the , about the matter , about myself .
12:07Yes , because I was born on Tu B'Av . On
12:09Tu B'Av there are always parties , there
12:11is always something , and so I always
12:12say as a Leo that there are parties in
12:14my honor . Now , if there is a Pisces who
12:17was born , for example , on Purim , he
12:19would say , " They always ignore my
12:21birthday . " Because there’s Purim ,
12:24right ? Yes , because there’s Purim .
12:26There are Purim parties . So like , being
12:28ignored by me , that’s the difference ,
12:30because a Leo thinks the whole world
12:32was created just for them . There’s
12:34also a joke about Leos that I’m sure
12:36many people know , about how zodiac
12:38signs change a lightbulb . Do you know
12:40what they say about a Leo ? That they
12:43just stand there holding the bulb while
12:44the whole world revolves around them .
12:48But you know , it’s really funny that
12:50you made that comparison , because in
12:52school , July and August here in Israel
12:54— and actually everywhere — are
12:55usually summer vacation months . So you
12:59don’t celebrate birthdays with all
13:00the kids in class , with all your
13:02friends , right ?
13:03And somehow , I always see the kids who
13:05are , let's say , Cancers — they just get
13:08forgotten . Then the school year starts
13:10in September , or the Leo parents manage
13:12to organize something during the break ,
13:14or right when you get back to school ,
13:16it’s a Leo’s birthday . But the
13:18Cancers ? It’s like nobody .
13:21Oh boy , well , in my daughter's
13:22kindergarten — she’s actually a Leo
13:24too , of course , it always comes in …
13:26it’s never just one person in the
13:28family , it’s like in tribes .
13:30So the preschool teacher actually said
13:32before she went on vacation , " Let’s
13:33do her birthday early , before the
13:35vacation starts . " My daughter was
13:37obviously happy ; she knows it’s a big
13:39birthday thing .
13:41And she didn't just do it for her , she
13:43already did it for everyone .
13:47Look , it’s funny you say that ,
13:48because let's say with Leos , if you
13:50ignore their birthday , you’ll
13:51definitely know about it . But with
13:56Cancers , if you ignore their birthday ,
13:58you won't necessarily know it , but
14:00their psychologist will definitely hear
14:01about it .
14:03Or they’ll pull out some kind of
14:05grudge list on you , a real
14:06score-settling list .
14:07You’ll say , " Look , here’s a huge
14:09trauma . "
14:11You weren’t there . I have a memory
14:13from when I was three — I already said
14:15half my chart is Cancer . I have a
14:17memory from age three that my parents
14:19... yes , a memory that my parents left .
14:22They didn't really leave , they just
14:23left me alone in the sandbox at
14:25kindergarten , but they didn't really
14:26leave at all . But it seems to me like
14:29they’re leaving , that’s the memory ,
14:31yes .
14:32Okay , so let’s talk about Leo . Leo is
14:35ruled by the Sun.
14:37You start .
14:39There are so many things , of course ,
14:41about the sign of Leo , our sign . But a
14:43few things : first of all , there’s no
14:45question , what is a lion in the end , in
14:47the jungle ? He is the king of the
14:49jungle , and that’s how Leos are . They
14:52want to feel that they are appreciated
14:53first , that they are seen ; they need
14:55that recognition . They know , they are
14:58amazing leaders because they know what
15:00they need to do , how to lead the
15:01animals . Usually , you also have very
15:03broad shoulders , like all the animals
15:05are on their shoulders . They don’t
15:07know how to ask for help , yeah , so
15:08everything is really on them .
15:10And like the lion : the lion knows what
15:11he needs to do , what his role is in the
15:13jungle , right ? And everyone comes and
15:15they are afraid of him ; they sort of
15:16give him the respect , and that’s
15:18really what a Leo is looking for . Now ,
15:20there is good in that , and there is
15:21less good , because there is a very
15:23great pride in Leos ; it’s all
15:25connected to recognition , of course . So
15:27we want to be careful about pride , but
15:29it is important to know who we are .
15:32They don't compromise , they don't
15:33listen ; if they believe in something ,
15:35they aren't about to listen to someone
15:37else and maybe waver in their thoughts .
15:39No , they know who they are and what
15:40they are . And what is very , very
15:43interesting about this month , the month
15:45of Av , is that there are two opposing
15:46dates within one month . We have Tisha
15:49B'Av , which is like a day of mourning ,
15:51it's a less favorable day ; we fast ,
15:53it's the day we don't — in the first
15:54nine days of the month , from the
15:56beginning of the month until Tisha B'Av
15:58, we don't do anything risky , don't eat
16:00meat , like so many rules because we ...
16:02there are many , many judgments in the
16:04air . And then , suddenly , we have Tu
16:06B'Av , which the Kabbalists say is the
16:08most important day of the year . Why
16:11specifically on Tu B'Av ? Because the
16:14sun rules Leo , and on Tu B'Av , on the
16:1615th of the month , that's when the moon
16:18is full , so we put the sun and the moon
16:20together as one . These are two actual
16:26opposites that we unite together ; we
16:28have this power for unity , we have this
16:30power , true love . It's not us saying it
16:34, it is written : Av is a day of love ,
16:36but it is all the love in the world .
16:38And we have Tisha B'Av , which on the
16:40surface looks like a bad day , but
16:41everyone talks about how the entire
16:43consciousness of the Messiah ,
16:44everything will arrive within this day ;
16:46we will understand what it is , what we
16:48are supposed to do here . So this month
16:51is like half appearing bad and half
16:52appearing good , and it is really
16:54fascinating in my opinion . It kind of
16:58shows the Leo ; it shows that it has two
17:00sides : it can be in giving like the sun
17:03, giving with all its heart , loving ,
17:05leading , getting things done ; but it
17:07can also be very selfish , showing what
17:09I have , what I bought , and being truly
17:11prideful , and no one can tell me what
17:13to do . There are these two opposites of
17:17the Leo and they are truly opposites ,
17:18it's as if they are not connected to
17:20each other , and that is why we want to
17:21connect more . That's how I feel it is ,
17:24that is really the Leo , the Leo .
17:27Because the sun , essentially , the sun
17:29is the center of the solar system . All
17:32the stars revolve around the sun and
17:33are measured in their rotation in
17:35relation to the sun . So naturally ,
17:38because the sun rules only the sign of
17:40Leo . Most of the planets rule over two
17:44months ; Mercury rules Gemini and Virgo .
17:48The sun rules only Leo and gives all of
17:50its power only to Leo . This can be very
17:54good on one hand , because the sun truly
17:56gives life . We know that in countries
17:59without sun the rate of depression is
18:01higher , but on the other hand , the sun
18:03also burns . So when a Leo acts with
18:05love , the Leo needs to act with the
18:07heart . If a Leo doesn't open their
18:08heart , then it doesn't matter what they
18:10do . It will not turn out well . If they
18:12don't do things with love , then they
18:14become self-righteous . You know , on
18:16Tisha B'Av , the destruction of the
18:18Temple , we learn from history . They say
18:21that two Jews stood and argued about
18:23who was right , and while they did , a
18:25Roman soldier came to kill them . They
18:28didn't care about that at all ; they
18:29only cared about proving they were
18:31right . That is a very strong trait for
18:33a Leo : showing that I am right . And on
18:36the other hand , it’s what finishes
18:38them off , because why do I want to be
18:40right ? I want people to know I'm smart ,
18:43and I want them to know I'm a great
18:44person , and these are things that bring
18:46a Leo down . So maybe you'll get a dose
18:49of energy like , " Yes , you're right , " or
18:51" Yes , you're smart , you're a great
18:53person , " but eventually , everyone will
18:55pull away because it will be like the
18:57scorching sun , that's just how it is .
19:00The Rav , Rav Berg , founder of the
19:01Kabbalah Centre , Leo showed when the
19:03Rav entered a room — you couldn't
19:05ignore the Rav , you just couldn't . He
19:07would just walk in , and there was this
19:09magnetism that came with the Rav . But
19:13the Rav was a truly simple person ; he
19:15didn't keep tabs on people , and
19:16that’s how he expressed his true Leo
19:19self , the Leo of love . Because when I
19:24was with the Rav , the heart was just
19:26amazing . I often like to look at Leos .
19:31I always say there are two types of
19:33Leos : there is the leader Leo and the
19:35lounging Leo . The lounging Leo is the
19:39tired one , the one who sits like that ,
19:41you know , right ? If you've gone on a
19:43safari and seen those lions under a
19:45tree , they’re the ones who have no
19:47strength , who are just tired right now .
19:49And often , Leos come to me for meetings
19:51where I say : " You're a Leo , you're a
19:53Leo , but you're not a lion , you're a
19:55lounging Leo because you don't ... you
19:57don't recognize your own power right
19:59now . " And there is the leader Leo who
20:02arrives and knows : " I have it all , I
20:04have the stage , it's as if the Creator
20:06just wants me to come and share my
20:07light . " Now , another thing I always say
20:11about Leos , even for someone who has ,
20:13say , the Moon in Leo , Leo rising ,
20:15Midheaven in Leo , and is a Leo — they
20:17are born with this feeling . I think
20:20even Mars in Leo , anyone who has
20:21something dominant in Leo , walks around
20:23their whole life with this feeling of "
20:25I need to be somebody . " Like , I have to
20:28be something . I can't just pass through
20:30this lifetime unnoticed . Like , I can't
20:32just be — and sorry to all the
20:34accountants — but just an accountant
20:35for some small company ; and there are
20:37people for whom that is good and
20:39excellent .
20:39Virgos , for example , are very good at
20:41that .
20:42Yes . A certain lesson that , like , just
20:45let me finish this , my obligations . And
20:47a Leo , they can't , they just can't .
20:50Even if you put him to work in a
20:51company now , in some small role , he’s
20:53the one who will walk down the hallways
20:55and leave a loud presence so everyone
20:57knows he’s arrived , or that somehow
20:59they know he’s there , or that he is .
21:01My brother-in-law is a Leo and we
21:02usually always talk about how he
21:04isn’t a typical Leo ; and I say : on
21:06one hand , first of all , he’s a bit of
21:08a lounging lion , he doesn't have the
21:10energy to be a lion . On the other hand ,
21:12you see his lion come out when he’s
21:14asked for help , speaking of helping to
21:16fix things . He loves being the one who
21:18fixes things , like when you ask , " Come ,
21:20help us carry this here , help us fix
21:22this over there . " He loves it , and he
21:24loves being seen while he’s doing it .
21:27Ah , that he won't show it because he'll
21:28give it to you . So for someone who has ,
21:32for example , all sorts of places , a
21:34cluster of planets , or something strong
21:36in Leo — it could be the Midheaven ,
21:38which is basically the highest point in
21:40the chart that often represents our
21:42destiny or our profession — it will
21:44manifest there . Or the ascendant , as we
21:47talked about at the beginning of the
21:49episode ; the moon , which is our inner
21:51self ; Mars , which is the path , our
21:53passion , the way we achieve things .
21:57Like something dominant that activates
21:59us in the sign of Leo , so we will feel
22:01this need of " I need to be somebody . "
22:04Yes , you know , Mars in Leo , by the way ,
22:06gets hurt really easily , and that’s
22:08something important about Leo — that a
22:10Leo gets hurt really easily , it’s
22:11enough that
22:13they make a face at a Leo , and
22:15they’re already hurt by it . And Mars ,
22:18the planet of war , the planet that
22:20heats things up — yes , so when Mars is
22:22in Leo in a chart , people get hurt very
22:24, very easily , meaning you really have
22:26to be careful with them ; offending a
22:28Leo is not ...
22:31It’s the pride . It’s offending
22:32their dignity first and foremost , and
22:34also , yes , offending a Leo . What
22:36happens with Leos ? Either they , uh ,
22:39it’s like that's it — they’ll erase
22:40you , or they’ll really take it to
22:42heart and then it will affect their
22:44self-esteem , because it’s very
22:45ego-driven and they will feel like
22:46they’re losers , they’ll feel like
22:48they’re pathetic . And it’s the same
22:51thing — pride , right ? The Kabbalists
22:54explain that pride and low self-esteem
22:56are the same thing , because both are
22:58about preoccupation with the self . So
23:01you need to know that for a Leo , you
23:03can’t bring them down , but you can
23:05educate them through inspiration . Leo
23:08children — you also don’t go around
23:09telling them , " You’re pathetic . "
23:11Actually , you shouldn’t say those
23:13things to any children , but especially
23:15with fire signs , it’s always , " Wow ,
23:17you did that so amazingly , how
23:19beautiful . " Remember when I asked Yuda
23:23for something at the Kabbalah Centre in
23:25Brazil , the Leo , he had to lower
23:27himself a few notches to do it . He told
23:30me , " Mom , I don’t want to do that . " I
23:32told him , " But you do it so well . " And
23:34he immediately flew to do it . So , you
23:37need that positive reinforcement . No ,
23:39not flattery , that's not nice , that's
23:41not it , but you need the positive
23:43reinforcement to motivate them . If we
23:46want to motivate , and as I said about
23:48the issue of laziness , it's very strong
23:50, especially in men . Even in nature ,
23:53the male lions work less , the females
23:55do more .
23:56The lioness does .
23:57So really , if you're raising a Leo
23:59child or have a Leo husband or
24:01something , you mustn't let them be lazy
24:03. Because as soon as they're lazy , they
24:07start to sink into laziness , and " I'm
24:09looking for myself , " and " maybe I'll be
24:11a chef , " and " maybe I'll study this , " "
24:12maybe I'll study that , " " maybe I'll do
24:14this , " and they don't really see
24:16anything through to the end because
24:18they have that option , so you really
24:20need to push .
24:22The truth is , someone was talking to me
24:24just a few days ago , asked me how you
24:26really get along with a Leo , how do you
24:28talk to them , how do you reach their
24:30heart ? I said one of the things is
24:33always to accept , like , because on one
24:35hand they love to be needed , and on the
24:37other hand , they are also too busy with
24:39themselves . So , like , you need to make
24:43this request in a polite and pleasant
24:45way , like , actually , Sagittarians are
24:47kind of the same , but ...
24:52Like , for example : instead of saying to
24:54him , " Oh , I can't stand that you leave
24:56the spoon on the counter , " or " You
24:58didn't take out the trash again , " it's
25:00" Wow , how great , I saw how you tidied
25:02up the room , " or " How nice , the way you
25:04, I don't know , filled the dishwasher . "
25:08Is there any chance you can help ? My
25:10back just hurts , can you take the trash
25:11out while you're at it ? Like , somehow
25:14turn it into a place where they feel
25:16like , " Wow . "
25:18You know why ? Because they want
25:19recognition , they want to be seen . The
25:21moment you see them and say , " Wow ,
25:23thank you for that , I saw it , " then
25:25they will do everything .
25:27Yes .
25:28It is ultimately the love language ,
25:30it's their language in general .
25:32They want to be the sun . Leo wants that
25:35— which is also the heart .
25:37They want to be the sun , they want to
25:38shine , and they also want their
25:40surroundings to shine . So if you are
25:43around a Leo , a Leo will go out of
25:45their way to help . Sometimes even
25:48without proper boundaries , but they
25:50will really go out of their way because
25:51they want everyone around them to look
25:53good , so there won't be any unhappy
25:55subjects in the kingdom , because then
25:56it sort of casts doubt on them .
25:58Yes . So , career and Leos : regarding
26:04career , I think the professions that I
26:06feel bring out the Leo most — of course
26:08, they can be anything , but let's say
26:10in standard jobs , they usually find it
26:12hard to be employees . But if they are
26:19employees , then usually it's best for
26:21them to be managers , or to have some
26:23influence over a group , or say if they
26:24go into a military career , then to be
26:26commanders ; they just can't have a
26:28small mindset . If they have a "
26:31small-minded " approach , they become the
26:32crouching lion . The crouching lion
26:34leads to depression , heaven forbid .
26:39Like , it's ... of course actors , there
26:41are so many actors , presenters ,
26:42influencers — any such thing that
26:44brings out the lion in them of " hear me
26:46, give me the stage , listen to my voice
26:49. " I also think they are very good with
26:55children , as children's entertainers or
26:57teachers .
26:59Very good teachers , lion teachers ; they
27:01are good teachers because they come
27:03from a place of inspiration , I think .
27:06That really , any place that gives them
27:08the room to express themselves , to
27:10bring out their ... their knowledge ,
27:12their information . By the way , they are
27:16... they are very smart people ; they
27:17love knowledge and information and
27:19learning and gaining education from
27:21everything . So , really , this area is ,
27:23in my opinion , the professions I think
27:26are best for them .
27:27Producers too , producers .
27:29Producers , because producers pull all
27:31the strings ; a lion would really love
27:33to be a producer .
27:34Yes , to be in charge .
27:35They need to be , in short , on top ,
27:37always , and that .
27:38Exactly , Napoleon was a Leo with a
27:40Scorpio ascendant , so control , control
27:42— a Leo wants to feel that he is in
27:44control , a Scorpio wants to control .
27:46Yes , absolutely . Ah , well ,
27:48relationships — we haven't talked about
27:50that .
27:50Relationships .
27:51Relationships .
27:53That without .
27:54Wow , relationships . So , in
27:57relationships , since a Leo is the " I "
27:59— right ? It's " me " — a Leo needs to
28:03learn in a relationship to feel the
28:05other person , to feel the other . So
28:08true , Leo is " me , me , me , " but it's the
28:12same edge . It's an edge . It's two ends
28:16of the same stick . So , the Aquarius
28:19isn't sensitive to others because he's
28:21sensitive to the world . The Leo isn't
28:23sensitive to others because he is
28:25sensitive to himself . Now , there will
28:27always be those who tell me , " But I am
28:29so sensitive . " Yes , there are always
28:30those . But really , to learn to
28:32communicate with the environment in
28:34general , any star that is in the sign
28:36of Leo in the chart , I need to use this
28:38star along with sensitivity to the
28:40environment . So they are very romantic ,
28:43Leos are romantic and love to do things
28:45in a big way , and when they buy gifts ,
28:47they will never buy cheap gifts like
28:48that . I always have this argument with
28:53my husband because I always want to be
28:55in it and he is like , " Let it go , " they
28:56always want ... they want .
28:59You're married to a Gemini , right ?
29:01That's what you have to say —
29:02Leo-Gemini — and I'm married to an
29:04Aquarius , that's how you can know
29:05exactly how ...
29:06Yes , yes . I always , when I go to a
29:08store , somehow , let's say there's a
29:10sale , you see 70 % off the whole store ,
29:12you'll pick the one thing that
29:14accidentally isn't on sale . It always
29:17happens to me , because they always love
29:19to have that extravagance , so being
29:21with a Leo is very romantic , it's very
29:23encompassing , and it's genuine care .
29:26But the moment a Leo starts to become
29:28self-absorbed — in general , fire signs
29:30that feel they aren't fulfilling
29:32themselves — they become very bitter .
29:34Being with a bitter Leo is very
29:36difficult .
29:38It's constantly like a victim , and "
29:40look , " and " I said , " and " no one
29:42listened to me , " and that — yes , they
29:44can also be very angry , by the way .
29:48Very much fire , but it burns out
29:50quickly , yes , no , but when they can ,
29:52like , burn the air and then , like ...
29:55Then they've already moved past it .
29:56Fine , that's it , I've gotten over it ,
29:58but there is in the ... but there is .
30:00Of course there is an outcome , but for
30:02them , it's like two minutes of ...
30:03By the way , regarding Aquarius and Leo ,
30:05I think that can really be a good
30:07relationship . On the other hand , here
30:09too , you need that space . I told you ,
30:12I'm always looking for that place of
30:14where you are truly , where you are
30:16truly vulnerable , and where you truly
30:17enter into feelings and . And here it's
30:20also that , it's fire and air . Which , on
30:24the other hand , let's say , Leo and
30:25Gemini is a very good relationship
30:27because they are in that place of
30:29talking and ideas and growing and
30:30moving forward , but in that place of a
30:32moment to contain one another , they
30:34need to be , like , spiritual all the
30:36time , they always need the Creator in
30:38the middle , like the spiritual place in
30:40the middle . We always know that in
30:45Kabbalah we talk about the three lines ,
30:47so also in a relationship we always
30:49need spirituality to balance it ,
30:50because otherwise , if it's just air and
30:52fire , it eventually goes to ego and
30:54heaven forbid to bad places . That's why
30:58they need that space of : " Okay , where
31:00am I now working on my sensitivity , on
31:02my vulnerability , on the place to
31:03elevate this relationship a level . " And
31:05that's , say , Leos for example , I do
31:07like their relationship with ... can I
31:09say with ... oh , the sign slipped my mind
31:11, what about one ? Cancer ? With Cancer ,
31:15I think they can work well many times ,
31:17because they can , yes , it could work
31:19with Cancer , you could .
31:22Look , everything can work . Bottom line ,
31:25everything can work if we are spiritual
31:27like you say , if everything ... but
31:29Cancer and Leo , one is so sensitive ,
31:31the other is , like , what do you want ?
31:37Yes , but that's it , so I kind of agree
31:39with Yael that the only fire sign that
31:41Cancer can work with a bit is Leo
31:43because they are in the same season ,
31:45but it depends , because for example ,
31:47people who are Leos and Cancers
31:48obviously in their chart will also have
31:50the opposite signs , I see , I have a lot
31:52of Cancer , Cancer with a lot of Leo , I
31:54know many because ...
32:00But also Pisces , Pisces can also work
32:02with Leo for the simple reason that
32:04they contain the Leo with sensitivity ,
32:06they see him , and that's my opinion ,
32:08that the Leo needs to be seen .
32:12And then they can , where , let's say , it
32:14clashes with Cancer or , sorry , the
32:16Cancer and Pisces want something back ,
32:18like , " pay attention to me too , " and
32:20then , like , " what do you mean ? This
32:23isn't my session right now , this isn't
32:25my therapist's couch . "
32:29Yes , and that's why I think Leos and
32:31water , even though there's a bit of
32:33water in Leo , I think in general it
32:34won't work at all . Pisces too , in my
32:39opinion , because Pisces is truly
32:41passive , passive , they negate
32:43themselves , victim , victim , in the end
32:45it explodes . And Leo , like , give me ,
32:48take , it's fire , yes ? Giving , taking ,
32:51giving , but suddenly , wait , you need ,
32:53uh , you need that switch for a
32:55relationship . So it needs to be a very ,
32:57very , very sensitive Leo toward others ,
33:00not themselves , to succeed with Pisces .
33:03Yes , I would just say one last word of
33:05advice for everyone , for Leos and those
33:07dating Leos , it's very important to
33:09listen , they don't really know how to
33:11listen , even in
33:12Listening , listening , even in fire and
33:15water , sorry I didn't sit , you say
33:17listen , I'm not listening .
33:21Also air , no .
33:22That's what my husband and I learned ,
33:24especially with each other , because it
33:26was always us " yes , listen , " " I'm not
33:28listening . " So we are moving now to the
33:30Moon in fire signs . Let's start with
33:32the Moon in Aries . A woman with the
33:34Moon in Aries , let's say , that's a lot ,
33:36lot of fire , a lot of shouting , a lot
33:39of outbursts . There can be a very big
33:41desire : wanting everything , wanting all
33:43the attention on her , as if , not just
33:45her , as if anyone who has the Moon in
33:47Aries . Aries is the water of fire , like
33:51, also very emotional , uh , but just as
33:53it goes up , it goes down , and you need
33:55to help them , like , to stay , like
33:57pushing them to persevere in what they
33:59want . Say they can get really , really
34:02excited about something , so , like , to
34:04keep going with it too , because
34:05otherwise you can move on to another
34:07thing , the next thing , and then there's
34:08no perseverance , yes .
34:09Yes , the Moon in Leo , which they
34:11sometimes say is more " Leo " than the
34:14Sun in Leo ; it's the person's inner
34:16self . Ultimately the Moon , so in Leo ,
34:18uh , first of all , it's very important
34:21for them to succeed in life , it's very ,
34:23very , very important for them to
34:25succeed in life . They need to be in
34:27constant action , to be learning all the
34:29time . Knowledge will be very , very
34:31important to them , Moon in Leo . However
34:33, they must connect to their feelings .
34:35Not connecting to their feelings ? They
34:37might get annoyed , and then it passes ,
34:39and then they continue , and then they
34:41don't take a moment to connect more
34:43deeply to the inner self , to what is
34:45happening inside , sort of . And that is
34:47something I would completely suggest to
34:49Moon in Leo : listen for a second to the
34:51inside , to the feelings , to what is
34:53happening . That's what I would say , but
34:55they are very capable , very successful ,
34:57of course , that yes , like we talked
34:58about Aries just now .
34:59Yes , Sagittarians are adventurers . Moon
35:04in Sagittarius , so they'll want to go
35:06on cruises all day , discover the world ,
35:08want to be spiritual teachers , want
35:10meaning , want to have a vision . They
35:15have that thing about vision . In
35:17general , Sagittarians really want
35:19spirituality , but sometimes too much ,
35:21that they disconnect from the ground .
35:25And that's the thing that the Moon in
35:27Sagittarius is not so comfortable ,
35:29because the Moon wants the inner
35:30insights , the inner work , and the
35:32Sagittarius wants " come , let's travel
35:34and sail the world . " You simply need to
35:40understand that the Creator is actually
35:42within us and within the people around
35:44us , and my role is truly to commit ,
35:45because freedom , freedom is not whether
35:47I can travel all the time , but rather
35:49freedom is my inner journey . Okay , Moon
35:53in Aries . Moon in Aries , first of all ,
35:56it's the Moon , Aries is actually the
35:58fire , the water of the fire really , so
36:00everything is very , very emotional ,
36:02it’s like everything is very emotive ,
36:04very childish , very here and now , there
36:06is no delayed gratification , there is
36:08no patience for anything now . On the
36:11other hand , there are also a lot of
36:13ideas . They are very enthusiastic about
36:15everything , they want to start lots of
36:17new things , but just as they start , it
36:19also fades away . Everything is very
36:22emotional , and also , I have a daughter
36:24who has a Moon in Aries . So when the
36:28emotion rises , it's a tantrum , it's
36:30drama , it's slamming doors , it's big
36:32crying for no reason at all . But just
36:36as it rises , it also comes down . They
36:39really love attention . Laugh with me ,
36:42see me , be with me . That's it , they are
36:45very , very sociable with a Moon in
36:47Aries . You just need to let them calm
36:50down from the storm each time , let the
36:52storm pass , and then move on . Okay , in
36:56the next episode we will talk about
36:58Earth signs , about moons in Earth . So
37:00don't worry , everyone we haven't talked
37:02about yet , we will talk about in the
37:04next episode , and we will , of course ,
37:06do the relationship compatibility again
37:08. In short , it's going to be very
37:10interesting , and we will also give you
37:12tips for the school year with your
37:13children according to their signs , so
37:15wait , coming soon .