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0:00pie. I guess you're not up in Adam yet.

0:01[music] Um, this is me. They call me to

0:05get the message. All right. [music]

0:07Thanks. Bye.

0:10>> Skipping urgent message.

0:12>> Trying to get a line to call you. It's

0:14been like so problematic for some reason

0:18tonight. I can't get a dial phone to

0:20call you. So, this is like my fourth

0:22location. Um, and the phone this phone

0:25went through. I could have talked

0:27earlier because it was right there. So,

0:29if you haven't gone this week, call me

0:30back.

0:32I just wanted to say good night anyway.

0:35Sorry.

0:43>> Urgent message.

0:45>> Hi, I hate that your phone keeps

0:47rejecting me. You must have a really bad

0:49connection. Anyway, um I I don't know.

0:54It's It's 11:42. It's not even late. So,

0:57if you're not if you're not sleep, call

0:58me back. All right. Bye.

1:05>> Letting me have a couple of days to

1:07actually think [laughter]

1:09about what freaking happened [music]

1:12um the other night. Anyway, um it was so

1:15funny how I had my whole mind made up on

1:18like, let me leave your ass alone. I

1:19just felt like you was trouble. And it's

1:22so interesting how vibe is because I was

1:24right, [music] you know. Um, I ain't

1:26going to lie, I do have questions. I'm

1:28like, how do you do that? Like, you

1:30know, who taught you that? Like, are you

1:32a goddamn professional? Um, so on just

1:35on a real note, like that was amazing.

1:38It was totally like perfect. Like, if I

1:41were to vision what I want my man to be

1:44sexually, you would be that person.

1:46Like, hands down. Um, am I mad at you?

1:50Hell yeah. Because you know that you got

1:53those skills. So, for you to do that to

1:55me, that was nuts [laughter]

1:57at [music] all. Um, cuz I was getting to

2:00know you in a whole different way. And

2:02it was um it was cool, too. Like that

2:04other way was [music] um also nice, you

2:08know. So, um yeah, I don't know. Um

2:12[music]

2:13you know, it makes me more curious about

2:15like who you are and what you're really

2:17about. [music]

2:18Um, I won't lie, you know, but again, I

2:22keep feeling that vibe of like, how you

2:24gonna do me like that? That is not nice.

2:27So, you definitely, um, at some point

2:30will have to like give me that

2:32explanation cuz I'm just real curious.

2:34But, um, that's it. I'm not, you know,

2:37in any way, um,

2:40mean anything else. I think I'm okay.

2:43[laughter]

2:44I'm staying away from you. I'm still

2:46going to stick to that one. Um, but I

2:48definitely want to know. I'm like,

2:50"Dude, are you on TV?" Like,

2:55>> when I started listening to your show, I

2:57realize I don't need to be part of no no

2:59gang, you know. All I need to, all I

3:01need to do is, you know, you know, know

3:03what it is to be a man. You know,

3:05>> hey man, I just want you to know that

3:07your show done changed my life, man.

3:09Man, I am serious. I was that nice guy,

3:12but then I went out on the block, man.

3:14And I was like I just up my game and was

3:18like being more alpha and being more of

3:20a standup guy and just couldn't kill

3:23myself.

3:25>> I listen to your show and I was like,

3:26"What does it mean, you know?"

3:28>> Mhm.

3:28>> Until I bought your products, understand

3:30listen to all the disc you gave me. And

3:32yeah, that's what it is. You know, some

3:35people talk about it's like the 60 on

3:36the list,

3:37>> man. I'm going to tell you like this,

3:38man. I I just uh just when you called

3:40me, I was listening to it now and uh you

3:43get this uh natural high from it, you

3:45know. I mean uh he kind of sparks you

3:48up. He kind of gets you going and uh you

3:51know he gets you to uh you know feel

3:53good about yourself like you know it's

3:54about to be 16. You you take your

3:57characteristics

3:59uh that you know about yourself and you

4:02work on those and you improve those and

4:06you develop a belief system in yourself

4:09that nobody can tear down

4:12and that's basically you can uh I can

4:15apply it to every aspect of my life not

4:18just with women you can do it with your

4:21your employment you can do it with

4:23sports uh um basically anything you want

4:26to, you know, and it gives you a strong

4:29belief in yourself.

4:30>> Dude, if I had your information a few

4:32years back, man, I I would not have

4:33gotten a divorce. I promise you that.

4:36And I I even say this much with what I

4:39know now with the mind state I got now.

4:42Um, man, I've got textes from my ex

4:44talking about this. This is strange. And

4:46I didn't put these words in her mouth.

4:48She said, "You know, Ken, I really

4:50respect you." That's what she text me.

4:55This is Robert Frank and you're

4:57listening to the manmindset.com

5:01dating help for men with your host Steve

5:05the Dean Williams. [snorts] I'm Tyrone

5:09and you're listening to the [music]

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5:13datinghelp for men with your host Steve

5:16Dean [music] Williams. So get on board

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5:21[music] This is Debo Steve the Dean

5:25Williams. Give me your chain pump.

5:27[music]

5:28Yeah. See, put your lights on. I still

5:31got the bicycle.

5:33Much love, Steve. Do [music] what you

5:36do. God bless.

5:39Yo, cupcakes. This is CT Fletcher and

5:42you're listening to the man Mindset

5:44Dating Show for men with your host Steve

5:48the Dean Williams.

5:51The following program is rated M.

5:55It contains real game, learning your

5:58value as a man, original ways to have

6:00her face in the [music] pillow and her

6:02ass up in the air. I'm talking her knees

6:05pushed so far back. It's touching her

6:08shoulders. [music]

6:10Touching her without touching her.

6:12Having a woman respecting your every

6:14move. Buying you gifts. Cooking and

6:17cleaning with a smile. and knowing her

6:20place at the table. So for all you human

6:23males, [music] cupcakes, surface

6:25dwellers, and grass-eeding lions, your

6:28discretion is advised. Meaning, if you

6:31don't like the truth, go find a show

6:33that helps you cuddle, complain, [music]

6:35and cry about women. Just get the It is

6:39game

6:42time. [screaming]

6:46[music] You've been stressing and second

6:48guessing when it come to dating. Ain't

6:50no need to worry. This advice we giving

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6:59all my fellas till you got it together.

7:02Step it up for the better. That's what

7:04I'm [music] trying to tell you. There

7:05ain't no limit to what you can be or who

7:07you could get. Start pulling high value

7:09women because they know you legit. This

7:12is the man mindset. Hey, want [music] to

7:14welcome you to the man mindset. Yeah.

7:17Won't find any other advice like [music]

7:19this. On point, never miss. It's the man

7:22mindset. Yeah. Let's go.

7:27[music]

7:28>> Yo, Young.

7:35[music]

7:39I love

7:41[music]

7:46the way [music] you suck my dick, [ __ ]

7:49and lick my bones. [music]

7:53I know

7:57[music]

7:59there never be another one like you.

8:03Never at [music] all.

8:06Yeah.

8:07>> All right. What's going on everybody?

8:08It's your boy the D in class is in

8:10session. Gentlemen, um guys, y'all want

8:12to call in 8338598744

8:15is the number. Guy question, we got

8:17y'all. We're talking about women tra

8:19[music] will chase you endlessly

8:21once you know this. Also guys, uh we're

8:24pushing the school back one month cuz we

8:26adding some more stuff. [music]

8:28So the launch date is going to be

8:29October 1st. It's going to be October

8:321st. [music] But I appreciate all you

8:33young men in the building, man. This is

8:35the game. We always talk to you guys

8:36about uh yourself, your value, your

8:38self-worth, and we got a very good show

8:40for you guys today. So, I ask all you

8:41young men out there, if you have a

8:43question, please go ahead and put a Q

8:45[music] in the chat. Uh if you're

8:47texting a woman, you don't know what to

8:48do, go ahead and put a T. We got y'all

8:50covered, man. We got a lot to talk

8:52about, gentlemen. And we want to make

8:54sure that we give you every little

8:56detail possible. So, [music] you won't

8:58have any problems. It's a new It's a new

9:00month. You're getting a brand new batch

9:03of women. We've already talked about

9:05this. [music]

9:06You're getting women from all around.

9:08You're getting women who have no more

9:10inhibition. No more daddy running

9:12around. No more mommy. No more. Y'all

9:14are getting a bunch of new women in the

9:16Serengeti looking to do, you know, bad

9:18things like drugs, drinking, sex,

9:21kissing girls, kissing boys, kissing a

9:23lot of boys, and all of this stuff. So,

9:25we got to get you guys right. And that's

9:27what we're going to be talking about

9:28today. Getting yourselves right. So, if

9:29y'all got a question, go put a queue.

9:31Lines are open. Make sure the lines are

9:33locked in. Okay, we're good to go. So,

9:35let's go ahead and uh let's go ahead and

9:37talk about this, man. I appreciate.

9:38Don't forget real game, no theory. Uh

9:40tomorrow, Sunday, Sunday morning, we're

9:42going to be talking real game, no

9:43theory. So,

9:46let's get into uh the conversation,

9:48guys. And if and if if you got a

9:50question about what I'm talking about,

9:51please uh say something. But, but most

9:54of you guys don't understand about many

9:57of you guys because a lot of you guys, I

9:59get it. You go to YouTube, you look for

10:01videos to try to find women. Uh you look

10:05to videos to try to find how to talk to

10:07women, how to interact with women, how

10:10to approach women, how to text women,

10:12how to date women. You have all these

10:14things that you have. And it's okay to

10:16have those things. But the cheapest

10:18thing a man can give a woman, no matter

10:21what it is, is unlimited access to

10:24himself.

10:26And see, when you guys walk up and talk

10:28to these women and they recognize that

10:31you're going to be available, it

10:33actually turns them off.

10:35Okay? Your time is always available.

10:39Your forgiveness is always available.

10:42Your presence is always available.

10:46And she can pull away and you'll just

10:48run closer to her. She can disrespect

10:51you and you start explaining yourself.

10:53she can stop investing and what you'll

10:56do is double the investment because you

10:58think she is so special because

10:59somewhere inside of you I get it there

11:02is either a wound or somewhere inside of

11:04you that you're terrified that if you

11:06stop giving her anything that she's

11:08going to leave but that's not what we're

11:11talking about. Okay? And I keep trying

11:13to explain to you guys when you learn

11:15the game. A woman cannot fully

11:17experience the value of losing a man

11:21who's already showed her that he is

11:24willing to lose her. I want y'all to

11:27understand what we're talking about

11:28right here. See, the loop is already

11:30closed with a lot of women out here. She

11:33already has your ending. And like I tell

11:34you guys out here, all you're doing is

11:36presenting yourself by giving her a

11:39trailer of who you are and also the

11:41story behind that. And we've got to

11:43change how we see the things. Okay. No

11:45matter how far she moves, gentlemen.

11:47Okay. You're the one for some reason

11:50going back to her. No matter how little

11:53she gives you, you're the one standing

11:55there accepting it. No matter how

11:58emotional things become, guys, you're

12:01the one that is always sacrificing his

12:03standards just to keep her texting you,

12:06to keep her around, to keep you dating.

12:09And I need you to understand the

12:12difference between loving a woman, which

12:14you guys should never do,

12:17and loving yourself.

12:20There is a difference between loving a

12:22woman

12:24and giving yourself away to one. Please

12:27understand,

12:29love does not require you to become

12:32free. Commitment doesn't mean she

12:35receives unlimited access to you

12:37regardless of your behavior. And this is

12:39why you will always see relationships

12:41are always going to fail in the reality

12:44that you're in. See, the thing about a

12:46man, he loves himself. Okay? He loves

12:49himself so deeply that he allows a woman

12:52a door to either come in that door or

12:54leave that door. And he is not going to

12:57beg or barter. The door is not a threat.

13:00Okay? He's not pointing at the door at

13:03all times. He doesn't tell her every

13:06week that I can replace her. doesn't do

13:08that. He doesn't perform some fake

13:10indifference because he's worried that

13:13she's talking to somebody, texting

13:15somebody, or spending time with

13:16somebody. That's not how a man works.

13:18Not how a man operates.

13:21The thing is, a woman needs to feel that

13:24man. Feel what it is to lose that man,

13:28to lose his conversation, to lose the

13:30connection. That's what we're talking

13:32about today. And for many, many of you

13:34young men out here, this is where the

13:37open loop changes everything. Okay? A

13:41woman should never have to wonder

13:44whether you care about her or not. She

13:47should understand certain certain

13:49things, gentlemen. That

13:52caring for a woman when you're a man

13:55does not mean surrendering yourself.

13:58Surrendering who you are, your spine,

14:01your balls. Okay? She should know that

14:04the love that you have for yourself is

14:06so real that she has got to do

14:08everything she can to pull you away from

14:11yourself and closer to her. See, most of

14:14y'all guys don't know how to give that

14:16woman that emotional experience to want

14:18to have you around. But losing you is

14:21something women are not worried about.

14:23And the thing is, you losing a woman is

14:25something that you should not worry

14:27about because you never had her. See,

14:29the thing is, you don't get women when

14:32you run behind women.

14:35You don't get women when you run behind

14:37them. So, you never get her. She gets

14:40you. And when she gets you, that means

14:42your presence has no weight to it. Your

14:45commitment has a price. Okay? And the

14:49problem is, no matter how much money you

14:51give her, no matter how many gifts you

14:53give her, the price of the investment is

14:56so weak that she doesn't care who you

14:58are. Okay? I want you guys to understand

15:01this. She cannot arrive in your life and

15:04expect to receive the highest version of

15:06you when you have the game. It doesn't

15:08work that way.

15:10See, the thing that I'm trying to teach

15:11you guys out here is that being with a

15:14man will mean something because the man

15:18himself has decided that access to him

15:22means something. You don't give your

15:25yourself away to anybody. Just because a

15:28woman wants to talk to you, just because

15:30a woman wants to reach out, just because

15:32a woman wants to send you sex pictures

15:33and all the other stuff, doesn't mean

15:36she gets any of your time. And this is

15:38where so many of you guys go wrong

15:41because you think becoming expensive in

15:44her eyes requires being willing to lose

15:47something that you want. Okay? That

15:50woman may be good-looking. She may have

15:53a body. She may be beautiful, but you

15:56have, guess what? You may have history

15:59with her. Okay? I know a lot of you guys

16:02like to wake up beside a certain kind of

16:04woman. Okay? All right? You may love

16:07hearing her laugh, okay? You may imagine

16:09the years that you have with her, but

16:12I'm telling you, regardless of all that

16:14[ __ ] you saying, none of that changes

16:15the price. The price.

16:19The man does not become expensive

16:21because he feels nothing. He becomes

16:24expensive, gentlemen, because his

16:27feelings cannot be [ __ ]

16:29purchased.

16:31You can't buy me with your body. You

16:34can't buy me with little smiles and

16:36little trinkets and all that other

16:37stuff. And gentlemen, that's where the

16:39power is. See, when a man can actually

16:43do something that y'all guys don't

16:44understand, and that is look at himself

16:48to understand that you have got to learn

16:51how to want yourself. It's the one thing

16:52you guys do not want or do not

16:55understand. But I am never going to do

16:58anything to myself. That's why we always

17:01tell you guys, you have to learn how to

17:03be married to the game. Because if

17:06you're not married to the game, then

17:08you're gonna always run behind women.

17:12Look at your life. Look at your friend's

17:14life. Look at everybody that you're

17:16talking to and dealing with and look at

17:17them. Look, look how many women come

17:19into their lives and look how many women

17:22leave. And I'm always going to tell you

17:24guys, everybody who you know that gets

17:26in a relationship is on the timer for

17:29that thing to separate and implode

17:32because he doesn't know who he is. He

17:34knows who he is in the relationship, but

17:37he doesn't know who he is outside of the

17:39relationship. Now, the woman is not

17:41dealing with a man, okay, who is begging

17:44to be selected. She is always going to

17:47deal with a man who is always going to

17:48select himself. That's why you must be

17:51married to yourself and be willing to

17:54let that woman go at all times. Doesn't

17:56mean to be mean or anything like that.

17:58But see, the cheapest thing that you

18:00guys can do is always be available. Not

18:05broke, not ugly, not unknown, not short,

18:09not fat, not a no car or riding the bus.

18:13It's available.

18:15The man who can always be reached, okay?

18:18will always be pulled back in by that

18:21woman. Always be talked to by that

18:24woman. That's and I always tell you guys

18:26out here, you got to understand how

18:29women think. I I posted a video to show

18:31you how women manipulate

18:34the weak. And when I say manipulate, I

18:37don't want you guys getting mad at

18:40something a woman is doing, but a woman

18:43has the power to actually manipulate you

18:46when you don't have the game. gentlemen,

18:49she already knows every move that needs

18:51to be made. She already knows your

18:53thirst. She already knows your

18:55desperation. She already knows that you

18:57will be willing to do anything for her.

19:00And that's why a lot of women are going

19:02to leave a lot of you guys out here

19:06because the standard that you have is

19:07terrible. You're always available. Easy

19:11to be available.

19:14You are always bartering and marketing

19:17yourselves on a level and expect a woman

19:20to cherish you. A woman is going to

19:23cherish the man that can walk away. A

19:26man that doesn't care. Okay, I get it.

19:30You think you're providing her love, but

19:33how can you provide her love when you

19:34don't even love yourself? But a lot of

19:37you guys don't understand underneath

19:38everything, underneath all of that, what

19:41you guys don't realize, you are teaching

19:43her something dangerous

19:46and you don't even see it. You're

19:48teaching her that guess what? Access to

19:52you costs nothing.

19:55Okay? She doesn't have to protect the

19:58relationship to keep the relationship.

20:01She doesn't have to She doesn't have to

20:03protect the respect because you'll

20:06always be available. She doesn't have to

20:09ask. She doesn't have to pull. She

20:12doesn't have to disappear. She doesn't

20:14have to do anything because she knows

20:16she already has you. The majority of you

20:18guys out here. And that's why I'm

20:20telling you something that you guys

20:21don't want to hear.

20:23A woman can never ever feel the full

20:26weight of losing a man who has spent his

20:30whole relationship

20:32providing her and proving to her and

20:35begging her and borrowing to her that

20:37I'm never going to leave you. Do you

20:39understand? Women break up with you

20:40guys. Do you understand? The majority of

20:43people in this world are getting dumped

20:46by women. They they And again, I get it,

20:49guys. They always say, "Well, she

20:51promised me she'd love me. She promised

20:53me she'd care. She promised me that she

20:55would support. She promised me she would

20:57be there for me and do all these

20:59things." But there's nothing in the rule

21:01book for a woman to promise anything to

21:04a man that's giving himself away. Okay?

21:08She knows when she pulls away, you're

21:11going to start tricking your money.

21:12We'll have that on Sunday. She knows

21:14that. She knows that she can get a date

21:17out of you. She knows she can get more

21:19gifts from you. She knows that she can

21:22mess up, show up late, do lazy things,

21:25or do anything or excuse me, nothing at

21:27all. And she knows that you will give

21:29her more chances, more of you proving

21:32more of you. And every time she gives

21:35you less. And the less she gives you,

21:37the more you give back. And you don't

21:39wonder why you lose. Everybody that you

21:42know is going to have a failed

21:44relationship. They're doomed because

21:47they don't understand. They think that

21:48they're doomed from the beginning,

21:51gentlemen. That's not true. Most guys

21:53are doomed from the start. Okay?

21:58Think about what I'm saying because

22:00y'all have got it backwards.

22:03Listen, if a woman who has every right

22:07to give you less,

22:10the answer is not automatically giving

22:12her more.

22:14If the woman disrespects you, raises her

22:17voice, or tries to tell you what to do,

22:20you don't try to barter the respect by

22:23giving her more attention, more

22:25affection, and trying to make things

22:27right. You guys go wrong because no

22:29one's ever told you

22:32a woman

22:34is allowed to raise her voice.

22:38She's allowed to be disrespectful.

22:41She's allowed to use you. She's allowed

22:44to manipulate.

22:46She is allowed to do whatever her heart

22:50desires.

22:52But gentlemen, you have to understand

22:54women in your world to understand that

22:58this is a prerequisite.

23:01She knows that she's got you from the

23:04beginning. She knows that you're soft.

23:07She knows that you're weak. She knows

23:09you're affeminite. She knows she can get

23:11away. She knows you're not putting

23:13effort. She knows that she can do

23:16anything she wants to you because you

23:19are wide open and willing to accept her

23:22yelling, her screaming, her

23:25disrespecting you. Let me tell y'all

23:27something real quick. They don't do that

23:29to us.

23:31They I I I'm dead serious.

23:34They They can't come in our world

23:36thinking they can talk down to us like

23:38they do you.

23:40But all you guys out here, you abandon

23:43everything to try to please somebody

23:45that doesn't need you. She doesn't

23:47deserve you. Well, when you have game,

23:49she doesn't. She's got to earn.

23:53You guys don't get it. But let me grab

23:54this call real quick. Eric code 970.

23:56What's your name? What's your question,

23:58sir? I can help you.

24:01>> Hello.

24:01>> Yes, sir. I can help you, sir. What's

24:03up?

24:04>> Yeah. Hey. Hey, Steve. How you doing?

24:06>> Quick question. And um I was listening

24:08to uh one of your shows about um you

24:11were talking about like online like

24:13dating and stuff like that.

24:14>> Yeah. About the profiles and stuff like

24:15that. Yes.

24:16>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You just did it

24:18like a few days ago.

24:18>> Yes, sir.

24:19>> And uh I loved it. Uh but uh Okay. So I

24:22had a question because I know that we

24:24don't want to like do the documentary,

24:26right?

24:26>> Right. Like you were saying. Oh.

24:28>> Um, so, uh, am I just going to be

24:31putting pictures like, uh, and and then

24:34just kind of like tease like not tease,

24:37but like just give like a little

24:38snippet.

24:39>> One thing I'm going tell you, I'm going

24:40to tell you, do something crazy.

24:44>> I know this is crazy. No, diddy.

24:48But what you just need to do is tell

24:51your boys, like if we out just chilling,

24:55I just need you to take a few pictures.

24:58Don't even say anything. Just take the

25:00picture in the moment so you can see the

25:03authenticity because you guys don't

25:05understand. You guys try to pretend to

25:08be these things. So, I just want you to

25:10take a regular picture. See, the thing

25:12that's going to throw women off, and

25:14remember, it's not your photo. It's not

25:16what you say in the box. That has

25:18nothing to do with anything.

25:21>> It's when you start to interact with her

25:23has everything to do with it, if that

25:25makes any sense.

25:26>> Yeah.

25:28>> Okay.

25:29>> See what I'm saying?

25:29>> And then another Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

25:31And then another thing later on, um, you

25:34were talking about in that same show,

25:36uh, like the closet and then like

25:40Yes. the closet and

25:41>> Yes. Yes. Yes.

25:43>> Yeah. Okay. So, because whenever you're

25:45like with a woman, like say uh

25:47>> No, no, no, no. No, no, no. Change that.

25:50>> I'm not with a woman.

25:51>> Whenever she's Okay. Whenever she's with

25:53me.

25:53>> Thank you.

25:54>> She's Yeah. My bad. My bad. My bad. And

25:56I know better too. And I know better,

25:58too.

25:59>> My bad. My bad. My bad. So, when she's

26:01with me Yes.

26:03>> And um then I I can I I can just decide,

26:07you know, do I want to give her a pinch

26:09of this? Do I want to show her this?

26:11Because there's so many layers of me is

26:13what I'm finding out. Like the more that

26:15I study myself, I guess, if you will,

26:16you know?

26:17>> Right. Because because the thing is

26:19women only know closets. They don't know

26:22doors. Right.

26:24>> Right.

26:24>> So, she's the the the deeper the

26:27connection, the more doors she's going

26:29to want to open up.

26:30>> And that's Yes, I'm listening.

26:32>> Oh, okay. Okay. No, no. Cuz like the way

26:34I say, okay, let's just say like, let's

26:36just say, okay, we you meet her, one,

26:38two, three, blah, blah, blah, right? We

26:40set up a date, whatever. Then you're

26:42like, you show a little bit of funny, a

26:44little bit of seducing, a little tease,

26:46flirt, whatever. Later on, maybe if you,

26:49you know, you say you had a good date,

26:51uh, and then now you're on the phone and

26:53maybe you kind of get her into um, what

26:57do they call that? Uh, like, uh, you

26:59know, uh, uh, having phone sex, I guess.

27:02having her having her play with her

27:03[ __ ] like you know what I mean like you

27:04want to play that would be another door

27:06right no you can't do that see that's

27:09the problem

27:11>> okay

27:13the problem is is I get what you're

27:16saying but I got to be honest with you

27:18what you're saying is the problem

27:20because listen what you're saying

27:22getting her to have phone sex so you

27:24have an agenda which means everything

27:26you're doing is [ __ ] up I don't have

27:29an agenda I don't have a cuz I'm Hey,

27:32I'm playing with her [ __ ] while I'm

27:34talking to her. I'm undressing her the

27:36way I seduce her. So, I don't need to

27:38think about getting her to do anything.

27:41That's the problem. See, you're saying

27:43the right things, but you have an

27:45agenda, which means you're already

27:46you're already being caught up by the

27:49woman.

27:50>> See, you you're looking at the end

27:52result, but you're hiding your agenda.

27:54As a man, I don't have an agenda. You

27:56see what I'm saying? Now, hold on one

27:58second. Give me one second. Hold on.

27:59Time out. Time out. Give me a second.

28:00Just give me a second. Uh people,

28:02listen. I appreciate uh you guys being

28:04here, okay? And I appreciate Oh [ __ ]

28:07All right. I appreciate you guys being

28:09here, but gentlemen, please let me say

28:10something. Steve, please, with all due

28:12respect, if you ain't going to call in,

28:15with all due respect, [ __ ] shut the

28:17[ __ ] up. And I'm going to tell you why.

28:19With all due respect, you have no right

28:22to call anybody anything when you ain't

28:24[ __ ] calling in. So be be respectful

28:27of the person calling in because the

28:29person calling in is asking questions.

28:31Do not disrespect him and don't call

28:33him. That's what's wrong with you [ __ ]

28:35ass guys. You want to be the first one

28:37to talk about somebody from the

28:39sideline. This young man is calling in

28:41cuz he's asking questions. So respect

28:44the [ __ ] callers. If if you want to

28:46bring your marshmallow ass up here,

28:48bring it up here. But other than that,

28:49shut the [ __ ] up. With all due respect,

28:52I I I listen. I I'm here to help people,

28:56but I don't want no [ __ ] ass guys on

28:58the sideline trying to talk [ __ ] when

29:00you need help. I mean, look at your

29:01[ __ ] thumbnail. What [ __ ]

29:03thumbnail is this with a [ __ ] thing

29:05that you got, man? Come on, man. Let's

29:07get this game. And I'm not being mean to

29:09him, but this is what I'm talking about.

29:11Y'all want to be the first one to judge

29:12people, but you're not coming up and

29:14asking questions. All right, let me

29:15continue. I apologize. Let's continue.

29:17So, what I'm saying to you, big dog, is

29:18this.

29:19>> Where you're going wrong is that you

29:22have an agenda in your head.

29:24You're looking at trying to have phone

29:25sex with her. That's not how you're

29:27going to get the phone sex. The phone

29:30sex is going to come when she realizes

29:32that you ain't trying to [ __ ] her.

29:34You're not trying to get her in bed.

29:36You're not trying to address her. You're

29:37not trying to see her ass and her

29:39titties. That's when the phone sex is

29:41going to happen because she's going to

29:43start to flirt with you.

29:45>> You don't have to you don't you don't

29:47have to push uh phone sex with her.

29:50>> She's going to start to tell you how

29:51cute she is. She's going to start to

29:53tell you you have sexy lips, a sexy

29:54smile, dimples, eyes, skin, everything.

29:58She's going to start reaching out

29:59because you're breaking her algorithm.

30:03See, women know women know that the

30:06majority of guys have a have a agenda.

30:09>> Agenda,

30:10>> right? And and I I get what you're

30:12saying, but you're making it about the

30:14phone sex. I'm not making it about the

30:16phone sex cuz I'm already seducing her

30:20by who I am. and how she's gotta work

30:23and and [ __ ] with me.

30:25>> That right there is where the seduction

30:27is because at that point

30:28>> because you're not you don't have you

30:29don't have any agenda. You're just going

30:31there being yourself, having a good

30:33time, not giving a [ __ ] you know, what

30:36she believes or anything. You're cuz

30:37you're

30:38>> No, no, no, no, no, no. No, no, no, no.

30:40I'm never going to say I don't give a

30:42fuss. See, calm down. It's not about

30:44giving a [ __ ]

30:45>> Not in a negative way.

30:46>> No, but I I know. But words are very

30:48important. We got to watch what we say.

30:49So, it's not about me not giving a [ __ ]

30:52It's that I'm just not interested in the

30:55[ __ ] that y'all ask women about.

30:57>> I don't give a [ __ ] about her job and

31:01>> her aspirations and her dreams and all

31:04that [ __ ] That's irrelevant to me.

31:07>> What is relevant is action, effort,

31:11information. And she is always going to

31:13give me information without me having to

31:15ask. So, I I don't want to know that

31:17stuff that that's beneath me.

31:19Right. And you know, one thing uh man,

31:22see, this has been this is probably like

31:25the hardest thing that I've ever [ __ ]

31:26done is to like unlearn and learn the

31:30new stuff like that you're talking about

31:31and seeing the world cuz but but you

31:33know what happened like with that and

31:36and and I know guys are going to it's

31:38going to be hard for people to

31:39understand this, but like that I realize

31:40like how much of a [ __ ] I was.

31:42>> No, no, no, no. I'll take No, I got I

31:44got no stop. I'm not

31:47correct. Sir, shut the [ __ ] up. Sir,

31:49shut the [ __ ] up, please. And listen,

31:52>> that's the problem. You run your [ __ ]

31:53mouth. Please listen.

31:55>> Yes, sir.

31:56>> You're not a You You got to stop talking

31:58down to yourself. You're not a [ __ ]

32:01The problem is you're There's nothing

32:03wrong with you. It's you're operating a

32:06wrong program. That's it. Don't put

32:10yourself down like that. I'm not here. I

32:12don't want you sitting around saying

32:14you're a [ __ ] The problem is is that

32:17you just are operating on a wrong

32:20program. There's nothing wrong with you.

32:23>> Okay. So, I'll let you continue, but I

32:26got to give correction because I don't

32:28want people thinking that they're

32:29[ __ ] on this thing. All right.

32:31>> Okay. Okay. Okay.

32:32>> All right. I got to give correction,

32:33man. Come on. Let's get it. Go ahead.

32:35Please continue. You got Uh, but either

32:37way, it it's been [ __ ] hard cuz then

32:39I realized how much work I I realized

32:41how lazy I am. That's that just was

32:43[ __ ] crazy. You know what I mean? And

32:45when before when I first listened to you

32:47like, you know, yeah, I was mad and I

32:49was like, "Who the [ __ ] is this guy?"

32:50You know what I mean? But I kept

32:52listening to you because it's been a

32:53couple years. I kept listening to you

32:55because I knew

32:57>> that I one needed to hear, but I also

32:58knew you you got [ __ ] game. You know

33:00what I'm saying? Yes. Um, and this is

33:02this is what I [ __ ] needed. I needed

33:04I needed this guidance when I was a kid

33:05and [ __ ] you know what I mean? But I

33:07kept listening to it.

33:08>> But then like now cuz I'm doing a lot of

33:11stuff aside from just women, you know

33:13what I mean? I don't really care about

33:14that so much. But like cuz I'm bettering

33:16myself. I'm just doing things for me as

33:18well cuz it's a lot of work, you know? I

33:20haven't done [ __ ]

33:21>> I know. I've been lazy. I've been lazy.

33:23>> And No, no, no. You haven't been lazy.

33:25You chose to be lazy.

33:27>> But you lazy. But this is the this is

33:29the point that I'm trying to tell all

33:31you young men out there.

33:34Everything you're doing has nothing to

33:37do with what you need to know, big guy.

33:40Because all you're doing is talking

33:41about what you do

33:43versus who you are. That's the problem.

33:48Because all the things that you're

33:49saying that you're doing is still going

33:51to allow women access easily because

33:55you're doing everything and the moment a

33:57round ass or some big titties come in

34:01your view, you're going to forget who

34:03you are.

34:04>> That's what I'm saying.

34:05>> You're saying all these I do stuff. It

34:08doesn't matter because the thing is is a

34:11woman will come into your world and just

34:13topple everything that you're saying.

34:15Okay.

34:16>> Okay.

34:16>> I'm just because of the the the wrong

34:18operating system.

34:19>> Yes. The wrong system. Absolutely. Okay.

34:22She she she she these women are going to

34:25come in your lives and they're not going

34:27to treat you well. The most y'all guys

34:29know what I'm talking about. How many

34:31women have you met that had an attitude

34:34that beat around the bush, gave you one

34:36word answers, and you kept talking to a

34:37caller? How many?

34:39>> Well, well, yeah, but I It's because I

34:41allowed it.

34:41>> Right. Well, no, you No, it's not that

34:44you allowed it. you thought that was the

34:47right thing to do. It's not about

34:49allowing because you didn't allow you

34:51can't you can't allow when your thoughts

34:54are running the show. You can't allow

34:57when your mind is telling you what to

34:59do. So you didn't allow anything because

35:02you because wait you never okay you

35:05never allowed yourself to love yourself.

35:08You never allowed to draw you were never

35:11allowed to draw a a line in the stone

35:14and not the sand. In the stone,

35:15>> right? In the stone. So, it is not about

35:18allowing because you're not allowing

35:20anything because you're not even in

35:22control of your life right now. If that

35:24makes any sense.

35:25>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cuz even

35:28breaking it down like, okay, cuz this a

35:29standard, right? Like say with that

35:31example, you know, I mean, because

35:32obviously if somebody's talking bad or

35:34being, you know, not communicating well,

35:37uh being disruptive and stuff like that,

35:39like now after listening to you, right?

35:41like it's like I draw like it's not

35:43going to happen now but before Yes.

35:45because I didn't love myself. I didn't

35:46even have a [ __ ] standard for myself

35:48that I would let myself talk to that

35:49way.

35:50>> You still don't. You still don't. Okay.

35:52You still don't. So don't listen. The

35:54greatest trick is thinking you can be a

35:56doctor in a day. You don't. All right.

35:59So you're learning that. It's a learning

36:01process. You cannot just flip a switch

36:04and say I love me and I have a standard.

36:06>> Right. Right. Right. You have to when I

36:08say being married to the game, you've

36:10got to know you, date you, get in a

36:13relationship with you, live with you, be

36:15engaged to you, and marry the game. What

36:18I'm saying is you you guys don't know

36:20that. So, there's levels to this because

36:22you can, anybody can say anything. I get

36:25it. Anybody can listen to this say,

36:27"Yeah, you know what? Yeah, yeah, f

36:29these women and all this other stuff.

36:31next women to come and then you see this

36:32fine thick round ass and some perky

36:35titties, [clears throat] you gonna

36:36buckle, man. You're gonna buckle. And

36:38what I'm saying is is that I'm married

36:41to the game like you. I can recognize

36:44beauty in a woman. Okay. And that's

36:46cool. But after I recognize the beauty,

36:49I sit around and say, "So [ __ ] what?"

36:52And like, "Okay." And all right. So, you

36:56know what? So, watch this. I see her.

36:59Let's say you see a woman. Are you a

37:01breast man or ass man? What? What do you

37:03breast or ass?

37:05>> Man, I I guess I like I like the booty.

37:07>> You like the booty. You got both. It'd

37:08be nice.

37:09>> All right. So, let's say you got both.

37:10Okay. You see a woman. What are you

37:12thinking about after you after you

37:13notice her body in her shape? What do

37:15you say?

37:16>> What What comes next? What do you say?

37:19>> Well, I I guess I just uh I just think

37:22she's she's pretty.

37:22>> No, no, no. We don't Come on. Let's see

37:24what you're saying. You guess. You see,

37:26that's the problem.

37:28It's not I guessed. I know. I am. So I

37:32know. So if you're guessing, you've

37:34already failed. So what are you saying?

37:36What are you saying? Come on.

37:39>> Oh, she she she looks good.

37:41>> Right.

37:42>> I need to go say, "Well, I I Well, well,

37:44I I know she looks good, but it doesn't

37:46mean she is good. But she just

37:48>> That's the whole point. That's the whole

37:50point I'm trying to make.

37:52We don't know if she is until, you know,

37:54I have to go talk to her, introduce

37:55myself, we go on a date, then I then I

37:57can really see is this

37:59>> is she pretty? Is she really pretty? You

38:01know what I mean?

38:02>> No. No. That's absolutely that's why

38:04you're failing cuz look what you're

38:07saying. She she she sheamn.

38:13>> Your language exposes you.

38:14>> Right. Exactly my brother. what I'm

38:17saying

38:18>> I am going to invite her to be selected

38:24by me

38:24>> by me

38:25>> you that's it that's all I'm going to do

38:28I'm going to introduce I

38:30>> am going to introduce myself

38:33>> to her to be selected in my world

38:38>> right

38:39>> do you see that right there

38:41>> right

38:42>> what is she going to do to get access to

38:44the man that's going to flip her world

38:45upside [ __ ] down. And see, the thing

38:48is, young man, no, no, no. The thing is,

38:51because I know how to make her [ __ ]

38:52wet. I know how to turn her on. I know

38:55how to make her come with my words. I

38:57know how to pull things out of her. I

38:59know how to get her to use and smell my

39:01cologne and all the things. I know I do

39:03these all the things. So, what I'm

39:04saying, I'm not being narcissistic. See,

39:07a lot of people like, "Man, you that's

39:08some that's some real arrogant [ __ ] you

39:10saying." But that's the [ __ ] truth.

39:12Right. Right. That's what I'm saying.

39:14because I built myself. So, I know what

39:17the [ __ ] I'm gonna do. And and look, she

39:20has no idea who she's running into. But

39:23what she's got to know once she realize

39:25who she's running into, the question is,

39:28are you going to keep running off the

39:30program that you think your [ __ ] is

39:32special and you think I'm going to run

39:33behind you or are you going to take the

39:36knee and have difference and realize

39:39that you have got to earn everything

39:41with me because the benefit package ways

39:43outweighs uh anything else. But what say

39:45you, man?

39:47>> Yeah. And it's it's it's true. Uh

39:49because I know I I've talked to you

39:51before and and like I've never, you

39:53know, we've never I've never created

39:54myself. I didn't even know I didn't even

39:56know I was this powerful. I didn't even

39:58know I was this beautiful.

40:01>> It's so [ __ ] crazy.

40:02>> No, it's not crazy. It's not crazy. No,

40:04that's how the world that's

40:05>> when I first was listening. I was like,

40:07"What the [ __ ] is this [ __ ]

40:08talking about?" And then like the more

40:10and it is it is a process. It is uh it's

40:13it's a battle for sure. Uh but it's just

40:15Yeah, man. You're you're just so you're

40:17so wise, man. Thank you. Thank you for

40:19doing this [ __ ] show. And to tell you

40:20the truth, man, it it saved my life. And

40:22I'm not even nowhere near

40:24>> cuz I haven't done [ __ ] yet.

40:25>> No, no. No. When No. When the school

40:27opens,

40:27>> it opened my eyes. It open

40:30Yeah. When the school opens up, we have

40:31more to teach you. But I'm just saying

40:33real quick.

40:35>> I I She has to bring effort to me. Okay.

40:39She's not going to get any kind of

40:41treatment. I'm not Listen, this the I

40:43promise you it's going to [ __ ] her up. I

40:46I'm not gonna argue with her at all. I'm

40:49not gonna yell, not gonna scream, not

40:52gonna belittle, not gonna

40:54[clears throat] manipulate, not gonna

40:56beg, not going to walk on eggshells. I'm

40:59going to keep it cool as calm. Did you

41:01watch Hannibal? Did you watch any of the

41:03Hannibal I told you?

41:04>> I've se I've seen them in the past. I'm

41:05going to rewatch them though because you

41:07rewatch them, right?

41:08>> Because I don't I don't remember them in

41:09detail, but now I'm gonna because now

41:11I'm going to watch them from the lens

41:12that I got from listening to you. So,

41:14it's going to be different now. Right.

41:16So, what I'm saying is I'm not the kind

41:18of person to give a commitment to a

41:21woman who hasn't shown that she can hold

41:25commitment. You see what I'm saying?

41:27>> What What would that What would that say

41:28about you if you did? You know what I

41:30mean? Like, you don't know. You don't

41:31know that.

41:32>> I'm No, no, no, no. It says I'll be like

41:35you then. That's all. I would be you and

41:38I don't want to be you. I I don't I

41:41don't No disrespect. I don't I I I don't

41:44listen. I know that what goes up comes

41:49down. And I know every relationship that

41:52you guys get into, it's going to fail

41:55100% out of the time. It's go or 99.9%

41:58of the time unless she gives you [ __ ]

42:00mercy.

42:02But I know that I'm going to make more

42:04women run away from me because they

42:06can't handle a man like me. I'mma have

42:09more women wanting not to be because

42:11they they're going to lose who they are

42:14because she's going to lose who she is

42:15with me because who she is is a

42:17representation of them. So, she's going

42:19to lose who she is with me because she's

42:21going to learn how to do things my

42:22[ __ ] way. She's not going to cook for

42:24me. Like, if she was, let's say she saw

42:27you, then I ran into her, she ain't

42:28going to make my lunch the way she made

42:30your lunch. She ain't going to cook my

42:32breakfast the way she made your

42:34breakfast. She's not even going to dress

42:36for me the way she dresses for you

42:38because my standard is so high. She's

42:40going to do a lot of totally different

42:42things. She's got to learn the man. The

42:46problem is if she already knows you,

42:48that's it. She's done. Does that make

42:49sense?

42:51>> Yeah. And then in all this in in the

42:53university when it comes out, is it is

42:56this like a membership and then we go on

42:57there like school and then just watch

42:59videos?

42:59>> It's going to be a lot. I can't give it

43:01out. It's just it's a lot of things. We

43:02get it together. But yeah, we'll talk

43:03about it. But I'll throw you back in.

43:04Okay. But I appreciate the call.

43:06>> Okay, man. I appreciate it.

43:07>> Great call. Great. That was an awesome

43:08call, guys. Lines are open. Awesome

43:10call. Let me grab this call real quick.

43:12Eric code 361. Sir, what's your name?

43:14How can I help you? 361.

43:17>> Hey, how you doing, Steve?

43:19>> Can you please get off your speaker

43:20phone so I can hear you, sir, please?

43:22>> Yeah, I'm I'm off speaker phone now.

43:23>> Okay. Uh, how can I help you, sir?

43:25What's going on?

43:26>> Uh, I went out last night. mom tried to

43:29like work on my mouthpiece last night

43:31and um yeah, I just wanted you to like,

43:33you know, critique me or just tell me

43:35what I could do better or how I [ __ ]

43:37up when I was talking to women.

43:38>> All right, give me an example. What's

43:39going on?

43:40>> Okay. [clears throat]

43:42I think I only talked to like four women

43:44last night. So, the first one I went up

43:47to, um she was like small, uh

43:50light-kinned girl. So, I was like, "Hey,

43:52like excuse me, like you look really

43:54small."

43:55>> Okay. Okay, sir. Okay, sir. Sir. Okay,

43:57sir. Let me ask you a question.

43:59>> Yeah.

44:00>> How long have you been listening me for?

44:02>> Um, like 6 months.

44:04>> Okay.

44:05>> Do you have the PDF file? Yes or no?

44:09>> Uh, no.

44:10>> So,

44:11>> I I I listen to Lucario more. I I don't

44:14>> Okay, hanging the phone up cuz that

44:16you're wasting my [ __ ] time. Just

44:18hang the phone up. And you want me tell

44:20you why? Cuz you're on some [ __ ] boy

44:22[ __ ] You've been listening to me for

44:24six months. Do you see? Do you see

44:25what's on the [ __ ] screen? Yes or no?

44:27Look at the screen. What does it say on

44:30the screen? You tell me.

44:31>> I don't.

44:32>> Cuz you're a waste of [ __ ] time. This

44:33is why you have a loser mentality. Look

44:35at the [ __ ] screen. What do you see

44:37right there? What do you see right

44:39there? Look at the screen.

44:40>> I don't have

44:41>> It says It says, "Become a student of

44:43the game by getting your free PDF."

44:46>> And in the PDF, no, listen, fool. In the

44:49PDF, it shows you how to talk to a

44:51woman. Why the hell are you going to

44:53walk up to a woman like some weak [ __ ]

44:56talking about how she looks? Tell me,

44:57young man. Tell me. That's not the

44:59mouthpiece. Why would you do that?

45:01>> Tell I mean in my head.

45:03>> No, no, no. Wait, wait, wait. Let's look

45:05at it in your head real quick. I got

45:07you. Let's look at in your head. Weak,

45:09soft, emotional, affeminite. Okay. In

45:13your head. So, tell me about what's in

45:15your head. Go ahead. In your head. Go

45:17ahead.

45:19>> Oh, um, yeah. I was just uh basically

45:21saying like she's small. So I was

45:24>> Sir, who gives a [ __ ] how Sir, do you

45:26see what the [ __ ] is wrong with you?

45:29Listen to you. You're going up to a

45:32woman talking about how small she is.

45:33Who gives a [ __ ] how small she is?

45:36Why are you talking about how small she

45:38is?

45:39>> Well, because I was attaching the um

45:42what I was about to say to myself. I was

45:44going to say like she's small, so I want

45:46to throw her around all night.

45:48>> Okay. Sir. Sir, sir, how old are you?

45:51How old are you?

45:52>> I'm 24.

45:54>> Okay.

45:55Do you have a handicap or mental

45:57disability?

45:59>> Um, no.

46:00>> Okay. I want to talk. I'm not I'm not

46:02trying to be mean to you. You couldn't

46:05get a piece of [ __ ] if it was throwing

46:06you away. What the [ __ ] are you talking

46:08about throwing her around? What the [ __ ]

46:10are you talking about? I mean, think

46:12about what you just said. Look how

46:14[ __ ] up you are in your head. You're

46:16already thinking about [ __ ] somebody

46:18that you haven't even talked to. So,

46:19what the [ __ ] are you talking about,

46:21man? What is What is wrong with you?

46:24There's something broken in you. Who do

46:27you think Why is it that just because

46:29you think you want to have sex, a woman

46:31wants to [ __ ] you? Can you please help

46:33me out? Please help me understand who

46:35the [ __ ] are you?

46:38>> Why should she [ __ ] me?

46:39>> Sir, think about what the [ __ ] you're

46:41saying.

46:43Do you know how pedophiles and weird

46:45guys think? Like you

46:48you looking at this woman thinking about

46:50tossing around. What has she even done

46:53to earn a [ __ ] phone call, fool? What

46:57has she done?

46:59>> Tell me.

47:00>> Uh nothing,

47:01>> right? So So she's done nothing. So why

47:04are you putting her on a pedestal? Why

47:07are you so damn desperate, thirsty,

47:10insecure, needy, creepy, and [ __ ]

47:13weird? Why?

47:16>> And then you you're just what?

47:18>> No, you're just what? You're just what?

47:20>> I would. No, I'm not like like um

47:24creeper.

47:24>> Sir, wait. No, no, no, wait, wait, wait,

47:26sir. Okay, wait. You say you're not

47:27creepy. Wait, watch this. Watch this.

47:29>> I see a w I see a woman and I'm thinking

47:32about tossing around in the bedroom. I

47:35haven't spoken to her, said nothing to

47:37her. You don't think that's weird and

47:38[ __ ] creepy?

47:41You don't think that's weird and creepy?

47:44>> I mean, me thinking about it or me

47:47saying it,

47:47>> sir. You're thinking about it. That's

47:49why you walked up and talked about how

47:50small she is, fool.

47:54>> Yes.

47:55>> What is I'm asking you what is wrong?

47:58There's something off in you. And I want

48:00to help you.

48:02>> What? What? Why are you looking at

48:06somebody and that you know nothing about

48:09and assuming that you get to sleep with

48:10her? What made what what did she say to

48:14you to give you the green light that you

48:16can sleep with her?

48:19>> Nothing.

48:19>> So then why are you thinking the [ __ ]

48:22up [ __ ] you thinking?

48:26>> I mean I thought if I express like

48:28sexual interest

48:29>> Okay sir. Okay sir. When you say hello

48:31to her, you're expressing sexual

48:32interest. But again, dog, with all due

48:35respect, you don't know how to [ __ ]

48:39You don't know how to turn a woman on.

48:42You don't know how to seduce her. Listen

48:44to what you're saying. Do you think a

48:46man that knows how to [ __ ] is thinking

48:47that?

48:51>> Um, no.

48:53>> Come on, dog.

48:55Why Why are you talking about you want

48:57to learn your mouthpiece? When have I

48:58ever [ __ ] told you to walk up to a

49:00woman and talk about how tall she is or

49:03talk about her hair, her makeup, like

49:05I'm her gay friend? When have I ever

49:07said that? When have I ever said that?

49:11>> You haven't.

49:11>> So, if I ever said that, then what the

49:13[ __ ] are you over here talking about

49:14that stupid [ __ ] over here for? We don't

49:16talk about that [ __ ] over here. So, what

49:18are you talking about?

49:21>> H I just I might have misunderstood you.

49:25Like on one of your other episodes, you

49:27were talking about talking about

49:28nothing. So I was like, "Okay."

49:29>> Okay. Sir, sir, I would never tell you

49:32young men to walk up to a woman and talk

49:34about how tiny she is. When have I ever

49:37said do that, man?

49:40Why don't you talk? Okay, sir. You're 24

49:42years old. 25, is it?

49:46>> Yeah, I'm 24.

49:47>> Okay. Why are you still stuck in high

49:50school?

49:53Why are you still talking to women like

49:54you're in high school?

49:56Why can't you go over to her like a

49:58grown [ __ ] man and just say, "Excuse

50:01me, this is my name. Get her name. This

50:04is why I came over here and call me."

50:06When is so hard with that? Tell me. Tell

50:08me what's so difficult about that.

50:11Um, it's it's not diff it's not

50:14difficult, but I'm just like um

50:18Yeah, that's not difficult, but I'm just

50:19trying to like sleep with

50:21>> Okay, young man. Okay. Okay. Listen to

50:24me. Please listen to me. Okay.

50:27>> Yeah,

50:28>> I understand

50:31that you want to sleep with women, okay?

50:35But you will sleep with anything that

50:37opens their [ __ ] legs, which means a

50:39woman ain't going to [ __ ] with you

50:40because you got thirst written all over

50:43yourself. Do you not see that?

50:46>> All you want to do is [ __ ] women, which

50:48is okay. I'm not knocking you because

50:50you want to [ __ ] women, but you will

50:52[ __ ] anything that will open her legs to

50:53you. Does that make sense?

50:56>> Yeah, that makes sense. But that's I

50:58mean, for me, that that one's not true.

51:00I don't just [ __ ] I

51:01>> No, no, of course you do. Because look

51:04how you talk to women.

51:06Look how you talk to them. You don't

51:08talk to them like grown a grown ass man.

51:10You're 24 years old and you're still

51:13talking to her like you're in high

51:14school.

51:17>> Okay.

51:18>> And then you expect her to what? Be

51:20interested in you. Why? You have no idea

51:24how to seduce a woman. You have no idea

51:26how to talk to a woman. You have no idea

51:28how to intrigue a woman. You have no

51:30idea how to turn a woman on. So, what

51:32the [ __ ] do you think you're gonna do?

51:37>> I don't. That's why I called in. Just

51:39>> But that's what I'm saying, young man.

51:41You've been listening to me for six

51:43[ __ ] months wasting your goddamn time

51:46doing nothing.

51:49Six months. In six months. When have I

51:51ever said, "Walk up to a woman and talk

51:54about her height." I've never said that.

51:58When in six months have I ever said, "Do

52:00we run behind pussy?"

52:02When do I ever say I'm running behind

52:04[ __ ] When?

52:07>> Never.

52:07>> Never. Never. When have I ever said I'm

52:10When have I said I'm trying to [ __ ] her?

52:13When have I ever said that?

52:15>> Never.

52:16>> Never. Didn't I always say they going to

52:19run behind this dick? Yes or no?

52:23>> Yes. Didn't I say they got to prove

52:24themselves to me to even get a [ __ ]

52:27message from me? Yes or no?

52:30>> Yes.

52:30>> So then what the [ __ ] are you talking

52:32about then?

52:36Why are you going up to a woman saying

52:38that silly [ __ ] What is it supposed to

52:40do?

52:43>> I thought like I thought she like would

52:48like think about it and be like, "Oh,

52:49okay. That sounds good."

52:50>> Okay, sir. Sir,

52:52>> what?

52:52>> Sir, what if I told you the three things

52:54men don't do? Assume,

52:57judge, and expect or have an expectation

53:01of a woman. Do you notice you are doing

53:04all three of those things? You're

53:06assuming [ __ ] of that woman. You're

53:08judging that woman and you have an

53:10expectation of that woman. I don't even

53:12talk about that. So, what are you doing?

53:13What are you talking about?

53:17>> Um, yeah, that's a good point. Yeah,

53:20>> it's okay. Listen. No, no, no. Listen,

53:21listen, listen to me. There's nothing

53:24wrong with looking at her body. There's

53:26nothing wrong with saying you want to

53:27have sex with her. That's nothing wrong.

53:30But you've got to stop assuming that

53:33because you want to have sex with her,

53:35she wants to [ __ ] you. That's not true.

53:37And you've got to stop judging her based

53:40off of your interpretation. And you've

53:42got to stop expecting her to give you

53:44something because you want it, man.

53:47That's not the game.

53:51Yeah.

53:52>> So why are you doing why are you going

53:54up to a woman doing all that stuff?

53:59>> I just I just want to smash and

54:01>> I Okay. Okay. Look. Look, young man.

54:06>> I get Listen. Listen. No. Listen. I get

54:08it. You want to smash. I get it. But

54:09let's get deeper. All right. No deep. No

54:11Diddy.

54:12>> Okay.

54:13>> Okay. You want to [ __ ] but you don't

54:17know how to [ __ ]

54:21That's why you're always trying to [ __ ]

54:23on anything, which is showing that women

54:25are not going to [ __ ] you because it's

54:27like you're disgusting.

54:31You want to [ __ ] but you don't know how

54:33to [ __ ]

54:35You think telling a woman that she's

54:37short is going to make her open her

54:38legs?

54:41>> No.

54:42>> No. So tell me, how are you going to get

54:44this woman to [ __ ] when you don't even

54:45know the first thing about [ __ ]

54:47Please explain that to me.

54:51Please.

54:51>> Um, I was just going to tell her like,

54:54>> tell her. Tell her what?

54:56>> Tell her what?

54:58>> I was trying to throw her around and

55:00then, you know,

55:01>> why would you say that to a

55:03>> Okay, please listen. Listen. Listen to

55:06me. Please. I don't want you to get

55:08kicked out of the club, guys. Please.

55:11Y'all guys, you guys there there's Look,

55:15I I am so close to telling you need

55:17therapy. I don't know what the [ __ ]

55:20you've been watching to make you think

55:21that you could tell a woman that you

55:23just [ __ ] met that you're going to

55:24toss around in the goddamn bedroom. Who

55:27the [ __ ] are you, man? What is wrong

55:29with you?

55:32Tell me what what's going on, man?

55:34Something What is wrong with you?

55:35Something's off. Because you think you

55:38think it's okay to just walk up to a

55:39random woman and tell her you're going

55:41to toss around the bedroom. Who the [ __ ]

55:43are you?

55:46Like what what what is wrong

55:50that that that that there's something

55:52off in you? I'm just asking what's

55:53wrong. What's going on with you?

55:56>> I think maybe I'm just like frustrated

55:59because I I women like

56:01>> No, you don't talk to women. You talk at

56:04women. You disrespect women. No, you

56:07>> have conversations with a sir and it

56:09goes nowhere. It's not like

56:11>> listen because you're doing one or two

56:14things. You're either worshiping the

56:16[ __ ] or you're looking at the [ __ ]

56:19like it's dirt under your shoe. That's

56:22why you're [ __ ] up. Do you not

56:24understand?

56:26Your problem is you are running behind

56:29[ __ ] like every other sucker who ain't

56:31getting [ __ ]

56:34>> Yeah. You gotta learn the game. I don't

56:36understand. Why aren't you learning the

56:38game, man? Why?

56:42>> I'm Yeah, I'm trying. I just sent a

56:44>> try. Okay, but sir, okay, you say you

56:46try. I understand you're saying try.

56:48What do you mean by try? Help me out.

56:50>> Help me understand. What does that mean,

56:52try? I just I just watch the videos,

56:54then I get on the Bad Boy membership,

56:56and then I just try to like go out there

56:58and implement it, but like it's just I

57:00get good results every now and then, but

57:02usually it's not it's not

57:04>> Okay, but help me. Okay, I'm just I'm

57:06just Okay, help me understand

57:09where you coming from. I don't

57:11understand. Just talk to me because I'm

57:14saying to you I'm saying to you, I get

57:16it. I know you want to have sex, but

57:19what I'm telling you is you're getting a

57:21new batch of women looking to [ __ ]

57:24looking to have threesomes, kiss women,

57:26drink, do drugs, and do everything under

57:29the sun. But they're not going to [ __ ]

57:30with you because you're the ones their

57:33parents warned them about. You're the

57:35you're the reason why they have pepper

57:36spray in their purses. You're the reason

57:39why they carry guns and knives because

57:41of people like you. Because you're not

57:43gaming it out. You're acting like women

57:46are like porn. Do you not understand

57:47that?

57:48>> No, I understand that. That's what I was

57:50thinking the same thing like the next

57:52day.

57:53>> What's that?

57:54>> I was thinking like kind of the same

57:56thing like Yeah, maybe I'm just being

57:58way too

57:59>> No, no, I'm just saying you Okay, the

58:02thing that I'm trying to explain to you,

58:03I got you covered. No, I got you, young

58:05man. I'm trying to help you and

58:07everybody at the same time. You're not

58:09gaming it out because you're not looking

58:12at your self-worth.

58:15You're placing your self-worth in a

58:17[ __ ] woman who hasn't earned anything

58:20yet. What the [ __ ] has she done to earn

58:24your time, your attention, and your

58:26dick? No. Diddy. Tell me what has she

58:29done? Tell me.

58:30>> She done absolutely nothing.

58:32>> Nothing. So, she's done nothing. And

58:35you're doing everything to a woman

58:37that's done nothing. Then what is she

58:39going to look at you as? A somebody or a

58:41nobody?

58:42>> A nobody.

58:43>> Right. So why do you want to be a nobody

58:45to a woman?

58:49>> Yeah. Um I don't.

58:51>> Right. But what I'm saying to you,

58:53listen, it's cool.

58:56I'm saying that this is why you got to

58:58listen to the show and actually follow

59:00through. Okay? This is not about making

59:04a woman suffer to get you. Okay? That's

59:07not what this is about. This is breaking

59:10her [ __ ] algorithm and her reality

59:13because people like you have gave her

59:15some wrong information and wrong program

59:18to make she think make her think that

59:20she's [ __ ] special.

59:23>> She thinks that she's special.

59:25>> She thinks she's running [ __ ] She

59:28thinks that she can decide and make the

59:30determination of what a [ __ ] can

59:32do and not do because of what you're

59:34doing. You're creating the program. What

59:37I am saying is you've got to break the

59:40programming by stop reinforcing what all

59:43these suckers are doing, kissing these

59:45women's asses and [ __ ] You see what I'm

59:48saying?

59:50>> Yeah, I see. Yeah, I see exactly what

59:52you're saying.

59:52>> That's what I'm saying. What I am saying

59:55to you young man is that I am never

59:58going to tell you to lie to a woman,

59:59manipulate, but I'm not gonna want I

1:00:02don't want you to try to beg a woman to

1:00:06be with you when you don't even know who

1:00:08you are.

1:00:12I am you're you as a man. I'm not a fake

1:00:14price. When I got game, I build one. I

1:00:19know how to again. I know how to make

1:00:20her wet. That's the price. The price

1:00:22goes up cuz I know how to make her wet.

1:00:24I know how to seduce her. The price goes

1:00:26up. Think about everything I'm going

1:00:29tell you. How my price goes up. I'm the

1:00:31only one who knows how to talk to her

1:00:32from land sea air in space. I'm the one

1:00:35that can turn her on in the

1:00:36[ __ ] shower with just my

1:00:37goddamn words. I'm the one that's going

1:00:39to send her ass to the goddamn mall or

1:00:41whatever to get my goddamn cologne. You

1:00:44see what I'm saying? My price goes up.

1:00:47I'm the one that's going to make her

1:00:49want to get with me because of what I

1:00:52bring. So, my price goes up, but you

1:00:55have nothing in your cupboard. You don't

1:00:57know how to [ __ ] the woman. You're

1:00:59running behind women and begging and

1:01:01bartering and pleading. So, what what

1:01:03benefit is a woman going to get from a

1:01:05guy like you? Because here's the

1:01:08problem. If she gives you [ __ ] how is

1:01:10she going to get rid of you? You It's

1:01:12like giving a straight cat milk. You

1:01:14ain't going to just [ __ ] her one time

1:01:15and go. You want a relationship with her

1:01:18or you're going to start following her

1:01:19around. You're going to pop up at her

1:01:21job. She's got to put a restraining

1:01:22order on you. She might have to change

1:01:24her number, move to another state.

1:01:26That's what she thinks when she meets

1:01:27people like you. Why would she want to

1:01:29put herself through all that [ __ ] when

1:01:31she can [ __ ] a guy like me and and learn

1:01:33some [ __ ]

1:01:37>> Yeah.

1:01:38>> Does that make sense? See, the thing is,

1:01:41the thing is is that your life has to

1:01:44have direction, and it doesn't, young

1:01:46man. Your time has to belong to

1:01:49something, and it's you. And your

1:01:51standards existed before she arrived,

1:01:53but you don't have a standard. Your

1:01:55standard is what can I say to get some

1:01:57[ __ ] That's your standard. And that's

1:01:59why when a woman, that's why you're

1:02:02always entering her life, doing things

1:02:04that she wants you to do, kissing her

1:02:07ass, taking her out to eat, buying her

1:02:09flowers, and doing everything you can to

1:02:12beg for something you can get for

1:02:13[ __ ] free. Why do that? For what?

1:02:16What benefit is that?

1:02:18>> Okay,

1:02:20>> that's Yeah, that's a good point. I

1:02:22should require more than just

1:02:24>> Yes.

1:02:24>> I should require more than just like

1:02:26>> Well, I want you Okay, I get you,

1:02:28brother. I want you to require more of

1:02:30yourself, not these women.

1:02:34>> The more you require of yourself and

1:02:37become consistently consistent in who

1:02:38you are. The intimacy grows with your

1:02:42character. It grows with your

1:02:45authenticity. It grows with your

1:02:47decisiveness. It grows when you say you

1:02:50can't have me like everybody else. You

1:02:53got to work to get me because you ain't

1:02:55worthy of me because you are a nothing

1:02:58and a nobody. You're just a perk until I

1:03:01decide you're [ __ ] special. I'm going

1:03:04to decide what you are. I'm not going to

1:03:07put you on a pedestal and I'm not going

1:03:09to tear you down. I'm not going to

1:03:11[clears throat] talk down to you and I'm

1:03:12not going to raise you up. I don't know

1:03:14you at all. So, I'm not gonna give

1:03:16somebody something who hasn't earned

1:03:18anything. Does that make sense?

1:03:22>> Yeah, that that that actually does make

1:03:24sense.

1:03:24>> That's what I'm talking about. I'm never

1:03:26going to I don't need to talk down to a

1:03:28woman. You know how I'm going to hurt

1:03:30her? Stop talking to her. She loses She

1:03:33loses my messages. That's what's going

1:03:35to hurt her. My voice message. She loses

1:03:37the voice messages. She loses the

1:03:39videos. She loses the seduction, the

1:03:41romance, the sensual, the fun, the

1:03:43flirty, the exciting, the laughs, the

1:03:46smiles. She loses all that [ __ ] And I

1:03:49sleep like a goddamn baby cuz I don't

1:03:51give a [ __ ] See how that works, young

1:03:53man?

1:03:55>> Yes. Yes. Yes. That's a That's Yeah,

1:03:57it's a

1:03:59um I think that's a very important

1:04:01mindset shift I need to make online.

1:04:03>> It's not a mindset shift you got to make

1:04:05because you can't make the mindset

1:04:07shift. You've got to learn a game so you

1:04:10can make the shift. This is where she

1:04:13experiences you differently because

1:04:16you're a closet young man. You're not a

1:04:19door behind doors. She needs to know

1:04:23when she meets you that she is just

1:04:25meeting the beginning of you, not all of

1:04:28you. And you're throwing all of yourself

1:04:31on a woman like she's [ __ ] special.

1:04:34She's just a woman. And that's not

1:04:36tearing her down. I'mma repeat it. She's

1:04:39just a woman. Not good, not bad. A

1:04:45woman. Nothing special at all. Nothing.

1:04:49She's just a woman who's got to earn a

1:04:51[ __ ] who knows himself, loves

1:04:53himself, appreciates himself, respects

1:04:56himself, honors himself, rolls with the

1:04:58game. You see the difference right

1:05:00there?

1:05:01>> Yeah, I see the difference.

1:05:02>> Okay. And the worst part about it that

1:05:04you got, you don't understand, young

1:05:06man, is that because y'all don't have

1:05:08the game, y'all are seeping to the level

1:05:11of a woman who has low self-esteem, low

1:05:14self-worth, insecurities. One little

1:05:17white hair, her world is shattered. One

1:05:19little bump in her face, she feels like

1:05:21she's ugly. One little bit of cellulite,

1:05:24she thinks she's 400 lb. A woman that's

1:05:26got to use chocolate cake and donuts and

1:05:28[ __ ] to make herself [ __ ] feel

1:05:30better. a woman that drinks wine and

1:05:32sometimes cries herself to [ __ ] sleep

1:05:34and [ __ ] like that. Why are you bringing

1:05:36yourself down to that? Please explain to

1:05:38me why bring yourself down to that. And

1:05:41that's not tearing women up. That's the

1:05:42[ __ ] truth. Why would I run behind

1:05:45her? What the [ __ ] am I going to learn

1:05:48from somebody? Oh, how to cry more, how

1:05:50to paint my [ __ ] nails. I mean, where

1:05:53how how up my panties I should slam my

1:05:56tan packs? What what are you going to

1:05:58learn? A woman can't teach you anything

1:06:00as a man. That doesn't say she's not

1:06:02educated, but she can't teach you

1:06:05anything. What can she teach you?

1:06:08>> Nothing,

1:06:09>> right? But you But what can you teach

1:06:11her? You can't teach her anything

1:06:14because you're running behind her [ __ ]

1:06:16because you think she's special. So,

1:06:18you're already got You see what I'm

1:06:19saying?

1:06:22>> Yeah. I see. Yeah. Yeah. That's a that's

1:06:25a that's a valid point of like just just

1:06:28just grunt like throw myself on her and

1:06:32like she did.

1:06:33>> Don't throw yourself on her.

1:06:36Give her opportunity to be selected.

1:06:40That's what makes women that's what

1:06:42changes the algorithm.

1:06:45She needs to invest because the thing is

1:06:49there's something behind the next door

1:06:53>> that is so intriguing. If I don't adjust

1:06:57who the [ __ ] I am, I won't be able to

1:07:00get through that next door. Do you see

1:07:03what I'm saying? But if you're a broom

1:07:06closet, they won't give a [ __ ] because

1:07:08they already

1:07:09>> she already had you before you even open

1:07:12your mouth. So why would she want you

1:07:14when she can get you like every other

1:07:17sucker out there willing to give they

1:07:19[ __ ] money and all that other [ __ ]

1:07:21up? Do you see what I'm saying?

1:07:23>> Yeah. That's actually pretty fire. Yeah.

1:07:25When you say give her a chance to be

1:07:27selected. Yeah.

1:07:28>> Yeah. Yeah. I'm I'm Listen. Listen. What

1:07:31I am saying is that by me revealing

1:07:36myself without the sex, without the

1:07:39lies, without the manipulation,

1:07:42I'm automatically going to [ __ ] up her

1:07:44algorithm and her reality cuz I'm going

1:07:47to shatter what she thinks is real. She

1:07:50thinks that she is special. She thinks

1:07:53her pussy's on a pedestal. She thinks

1:07:55she's a goddess to everybody, not a real

1:07:57[ __ ] man. And that's again, remember

1:08:00this is not me tearing her down or me

1:08:02uplifting her. She is but a woman.

1:08:04That's it. That's it. Nothing nothing to

1:08:07nothing to be impressed about. It's like

1:08:10y'all y'all guys act like y it's like

1:08:12impressive to talk to a [ __ ] woman.

1:08:15It's just a woman called Have you ever

1:08:18cut any grass before?

1:08:19>> Yeah.

1:08:20>> Are you impressed by cutting the grass?

1:08:22>> No.

1:08:23>> Or is it just grass? You know you got to

1:08:25go out there. Yeah. You know, you just

1:08:26got to cut that [ __ ] right?

1:08:29>> And that's what I'm saying. Listen,

1:08:31>> I am not tearing women down,

1:08:34>> okay? I'm just trying to tear you down

1:08:38to break your interpretation of a woman

1:08:40that just knows how to wear makeup

1:08:42really well, who knows how to find the

1:08:45perfect push-up bra, who knows how to

1:08:47wear the tightest spandex or the right

1:08:50pair of jeans to get you, [ __ ]

1:08:53You got to force her to be more than

1:08:55what she presents herself to be or

1:08:58you're not going to be that guy. Does

1:08:59that make any sense?

1:09:01>> No, it makes Yeah, it makes it that

1:09:02makes a lot of sense actually.

1:09:04>> Okay. So, don't rush, okay? Because

1:09:07you're too busy rushing, too busy

1:09:09overgiving, too busy oversharing, too

1:09:12busy over promising. That's why I tell

1:09:15you guys, you got to change your [ __ ]

1:09:16profiles. It's like you're giving her

1:09:18everything all up in the front. You're

1:09:21making you're making a woman the center

1:09:23of your [ __ ] universe and she hasn't

1:09:26even earned a place in it yet. The [ __ ]

1:09:28is that about?

1:09:30>> What is so special about her that you've

1:09:34known yourself for 24 years? Yes. Yes.

1:09:38>> Yes.

1:09:39>> So, you have known yourself for 24 years

1:09:42and yet you want to water yourself down

1:09:44to a woman you just [ __ ] met.

1:09:48>> Think about that.

1:09:5024 years of you and you've only seen her

1:09:53for less than 10 seconds and you're

1:09:55ready to take the knee.

1:09:57>> You're ready to apologize. Buy her [ __ ]

1:10:00What are we doing?

1:10:02What are you doing?

1:10:06>> She's a woman that even gives you 10%.

1:10:10>> Okay. When you told that woman you'll

1:10:11pick her up and toss her around, what

1:10:13did she say?

1:10:15>> She said uh she said, "I I like your

1:10:18shirt.

1:10:19I was like,

1:10:20>> "Right." She said, "I like your shirt."

1:10:21What' you do?

1:10:24>> I don't even want to say what I said.

1:10:26>> Dog, I'm gonna ask you one time to hang

1:10:27this [ __ ] phone up. I'm not going

1:10:29You're not a goddamn kid.

1:10:30>> What the [ __ ] did you,

1:10:32>> sir? I didn't ask. Okay, stop. I was

1:10:33wearing Spider-Man shirt,

1:10:36>> sir.

1:10:37>> I didn't [ __ ] ask what kind of shirt

1:10:40you were wearing.

1:10:41>> I asked you what did you say when she

1:10:44said, "I like your shirt." I told her

1:10:47that. Uh, okay. I'm I'm trying to shoe

1:10:49webs on you.

1:10:51>> You said what?

1:10:54>> I I told her I'm trying to shoe webs on

1:10:56you.

1:10:58>> Who told you to say some [ __ ] like that?

1:11:02>> Oh, no.

1:11:04>> You said So, you're telling a woman that

1:11:06you want to shoot some webs on a [ __ ]

1:11:08woman?

1:11:08>> Oh my god. Oh, man.

1:11:13So, you're walking up to a woman telling

1:11:15her you want to shoot webs on her?

1:11:18>> Yeah, cuz I was wearing

1:11:22>> Sir, if I rolled up on that woman and I

1:11:26had a Spider-Man shirt on, which I don't

1:11:28[ __ ] have one. Okay,

1:11:31let me tell you something. I'mma put the

1:11:33music on what I'mma say to her real

1:11:34quick.

1:11:36I'mma tell her first off, I'm just

1:11:39wearing a Spider-Man shirt. I can't

1:11:41represent Spider-Man.

1:11:43Cuz if you really look at Spider-Man,

1:11:45Spider-Man was a weird, creepy pedophile

1:11:48that was stalking MJ at every turn. And

1:11:51I'm not going to do that with you.

1:11:54>> I'm not going to do that with you. You

1:11:56like this shirt? No, you don't need to

1:11:58like the shirt. You need to learn the

1:11:59man that's wearing the shirt. Because if

1:12:01you think I'm anything like Spider-Man,

1:12:03I'm not going to have a letter folded up

1:12:05in some coffee cup trying to hide it

1:12:08from you. I'm not that guy.

1:12:11when I and I'm not going to shoot my

1:12:12slinging my webs on you or anything like

1:12:15that. I don't even know if you can even

1:12:17get on my web. I know nothing about you.

1:12:20But I appreciate you liking the shirt,

1:12:22but this is not about the shirt. I'mma

1:12:24go ahead and give you my number. You

1:12:26call me later on and we'll continue this

1:12:28discussion. But look at look at what you

1:12:30doing and [ __ ] dog.

1:12:32>> Spiderman. Spiderman. Just like a spider

1:12:35can spins a web anytime. Catch a thief.

1:12:39Blah blah blah. Look out. Here comes

1:12:41Spiderman.

1:12:43>> The [ __ ] are you doing?

1:12:46Talking about shooting a web, dog. Come

1:12:48on, man.

1:12:53>> Yeah.

1:12:53>> And I'll give you I'll answer this in

1:12:55one question in a second.

1:12:59>> All right, man. I'll throw you back in.

1:13:00Call back, dude. Cuz you're just you're

1:13:02killing my vibe. You're killing my vibe.

1:13:05But I appreciate you, brother. Thank

1:13:06you. Guys, let's get this game. Uh let

1:13:08me let me read this question. This

1:13:10person said you said on the podcast that

1:13:12a homeless man could be have high value.

1:13:14Yes. So my question to you is how can a

1:13:16homeless man be high value? Because

1:13:18unlike your [ __ ] ass who has been didd

1:13:22by the red pill, a homeless man is not

1:13:25defined by his money, fool. He's not

1:13:27defined by his clothes, you dumb [ __ ]

1:13:31See, the thing about a homeless man,

1:13:32which makes him more high value than

1:13:34you, is that he doesn't give a [ __ ] what

1:13:36the world thinks about him. He is fine

1:13:38in waking up on the street. He is fine

1:13:41digging in a trash can. And he is fine

1:13:43with his life. The problem with you,

1:13:45young man, is that everything you do is

1:13:47for a piece of [ __ ] So you ain't [ __ ]

1:13:50compared to a homeless man because

1:13:52everything you do is about [ __ ] And

1:13:54see, your mind can't even articulate

1:13:57what I'm saying what I'm telling you

1:13:59right now. See, you you think that your

1:14:03clothes give you value, you [ __ ]

1:14:06idiot. You got to be [ __ ] kidding me.

1:14:08Y'all have got to wake up and stop

1:14:10allowing these people to diddle you and

1:14:12touch you like Father Ali.

1:14:15Your clothes doesn't make you high

1:14:17value. It is your mindset where you're

1:14:20saying I am I am proud of who I am. This

1:14:24is who I am and this is what I am. And I

1:14:26don't care if you look down on me. I

1:14:28don't care if you throw me a few

1:14:29pennies. I'm going to live my life my

1:14:32way and I don't give a [ __ ] what people

1:14:34think. That's what makes him high value.

1:14:38What makes you What makes you feminine,

1:14:41sir, is because you can't even see it.

1:14:44Because in your [ __ ] up world, someone

1:14:46told you on the internet, high value is

1:14:48wearing clothes. High value is all your

1:14:50[ __ ] [ __ ] ass status. That's not it.

1:14:54A homeless man that has high value is

1:14:58someone that appreciates his life.

1:15:01someone that says, "Listen, this is the

1:15:04life I chose to have." Some some don't

1:15:07choose it, but some accept it and they

1:15:10say, "You know what? I'm not going to be

1:15:12defined by what the world or YouTube or

1:15:16f or Instagram or Tik Tok tries to tell

1:15:19me to be, idiot. This is what's so crazy

1:15:22about you guys. See, in your reality,

1:15:26you've been diddled so much by the world

1:15:28that you think because you wear a nice

1:15:30suit, put you up against a homeless man,

1:15:33that man has more value because your

1:15:35femininity, young man, your thirst for a

1:15:39woman's appreciation and all other [ __ ]

1:15:41makes you more of a [ __ ] than the

1:15:42homeless guy. The homeless guy is fine

1:15:45sleeping on the corner, sleeping under a

1:15:48bridge. He's fine eating light things

1:15:50and but he's fine with his life. But you

1:15:53are not fine with yourself because you

1:15:56feel see your thing is and I appreciate

1:15:58your question but this isn't about high

1:16:00value. This is why I can't get some

1:16:02[ __ ] This is why this is not about the

1:16:05homeless man. This is about you not

1:16:08having the game dog.

1:16:10So it doesn't matter. Gentlemen, I am

1:16:13telling you guys

1:16:16I didn't I had a car.

1:16:19Do you hear what I'm saying? uh 4755.

1:16:22I took two buses to go to work.

1:16:26I I I was making $4.35 or some [ __ ]

1:16:31hour.

1:16:33I I didn't have anything. I had me.

1:16:36That's what made me that [ __ ]

1:16:38Let me get this call 347. What's your

1:16:40name, sir? How can I help you, sir?

1:16:42What's up?

1:16:43>> Yo, what's good, coach? It's Limous.

1:16:45>> What's going on, brother? How can I help

1:16:46you?

1:16:48All right. So, I finished watching the

1:16:51second episode of Hannibal earlier.

1:16:53>> All right, my boy. All right. All right.

1:16:56So, now you see what I was talking about

1:16:58with Hannibal?

1:17:00>> Yeah. I have a question about the first

1:17:02episode, though.

1:17:02>> Yes. Yes.

1:17:03>> Because is it's not they're not really

1:17:05focusing on Hannibal right now. They're

1:17:07focusing on that Will Graham dude. Well,

1:17:09yeah, they they're focusing on they're

1:17:11focusing on Hannibal right now, but um

1:17:14but what's happening is is that they're

1:17:16they're introducing they got to the

1:17:18beautiful thing about the series is

1:17:20they're introducing you to all the

1:17:21characters before they run into

1:17:23Hannibal. So, they're kind of giving you

1:17:25an introduction to everybody because

1:17:28Hannibal is going to have an effect in

1:17:30everybody's life. So, you just got to

1:17:32So, they're introducing everybody.

1:17:34That's why they didn't bring Hannibal in

1:17:36at first. They wanted you to get to

1:17:38learn Will Graham, uh, his ball, you

1:17:40know, Lawrence Fishburn, the doctors,

1:17:42and everybody, all the players because

1:17:46all of those [ __ ] are really

1:17:47the pieces on the chessboard.

1:17:49>> They're all pieces. Hannibal is going to

1:17:51move all the [ __ ] the way he

1:17:54wants to move them and be so cold about

1:17:56it.

1:17:58>> That's kind of a question I got because

1:17:59when he first met Will Graham,

1:18:02>> Yes. He he was at the end of their

1:18:05conversation, Will Grim got mad because

1:18:08he he he saw that Hannibal was psycho

1:18:11analyzed him. Yes. Yes.

1:18:14>> So he was he he noticed something but he

1:18:18he um he was observing how Will Graham

1:18:21was moving and then he he said like he

1:18:25um what's the word I'm looking for? He

1:18:26um he basically said it. So he was like

1:18:29he noticed that he wasn't doing eye

1:18:31contact. So he he stated that. That's

1:18:33what it stated.

1:18:34>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I noticed that you

1:18:36don't like to do eye contact.

1:18:37>> Right. Right. Right. Because Right. Go

1:18:38ahead. Go ahead.

1:18:39>> Graham started giving him information.

1:18:42>> Right. So Right. But see, you know, what

1:18:44did he say? I noticed. He said, "I

1:18:47noticed." Right.

1:18:47>> Yeah. He didn't ask it. He didn't ask

1:18:50it. He inquired. Okay.

1:18:52>> Exactly. That's what opens up That's

1:18:54what opens up the loop with a woman.

1:18:57>> Okay. cuz I noticed that I was like he

1:19:00he he stated something but it like I

1:19:04just watched it all the way through. I'm

1:19:05like

1:19:06>> he stated something that he observed and

1:19:09then he just let him give him the

1:19:10information.

1:19:11>> He he opened up the door to Will in the

1:19:15closet

1:19:16>> for Will to open up the next door and

1:19:19explain himself to Hannibal.

1:19:21>> Yeah. Hannibal just Hamilton didn't ask

1:19:23he put himself in a prime position but

1:19:25he wasn't trying to force Will to answer

1:19:28anything. He put Will in a a comfortable

1:19:31situation to open himself up more

1:19:34>> and Will

1:19:35>> I think it was he made it made him

1:19:37uncomfortable though because he didn't

1:19:39like he noticed what he was doing but it

1:19:41was like I think he didn't he didn't

1:19:44realize that he was given I think he was

1:19:46given more information than he thought

1:19:48he did.

1:19:49>> Well, okay. Remember the thing about

1:19:50women and Will, what you'll learn about

1:19:52Hannibal is that women will try to

1:19:55withhold information, right? They want

1:19:57to they want to keep things back, right?

1:19:59>> Yeah.

1:20:00>> But what you've noticed when Will was

1:20:01talking to Hannibal

1:20:03>> was Hannibal. Hey, Hannibal was like

1:20:05cooler than the other side of Pillar,

1:20:07wasn't he?

1:20:08>> He was just, hey, J, he laid back. He

1:20:11was he wasn't forceful. He wasn't trying

1:20:13to push prod. M

1:20:16>> he just put Will in a different reality

1:20:19to let Will's hair down when the time

1:20:21came to it.

1:20:23>> Hannibal knew from the moment he started

1:20:25talking to him that ask that he asked

1:20:27about his eye contact.

1:20:29>> He knew that when they first met cuz he

1:20:31knew Will wasn't looking at him and

1:20:32stuff.

1:20:33>> He saved it for the right moment because

1:20:36you don't want to tell somebody that in

1:20:37the beginning cuz then they'll get

1:20:38offensive.

1:20:40He he opened Will up to kind of explain

1:20:43and continue the conversation which

1:20:46which made Will start. This is like with

1:20:48a woman. A woman's going to be like,

1:20:49"Damn, he's noticing things about me

1:20:51other than my ass and my titties."

1:20:53That's the thing Hannibal's doing. H I'm

1:20:55not saying not Hannibal looking at Will,

1:20:56but when you're talking to a woman,

1:20:58>> what's going to make them notice you

1:21:00more is when you're not not focused on

1:21:02their ass and their titties. You're just

1:21:04watching how they move around you

1:21:07>> to go ahead and then notice something

1:21:09about her like he did with Will

1:21:12>> to then it's opening up to Luke to say,

1:21:14"Well, damn.

1:21:15>> I never had a guy even talk to me this

1:21:17way before." Because most guys don't

1:21:19even do that. They ask a bunch of

1:21:21questions. That make any sense?

1:21:22>> Yeah. Cuz cuz I have the the um eye

1:21:25contact um thing that you got.

1:21:28>> So it's like he also knows what eye

1:21:31contact means. So when he noticed that,

1:21:34oh, you're not giving me eye contact.

1:21:36You're giving me more information than

1:21:38you think you are. Yes. But at the

1:21:40moment, I'm gonna let you say stuff and

1:21:42then I'm gonna state it so you could

1:21:44give me the missing information that I

1:21:45don't have.

1:21:46>> Right. That's the open loop. He's he

1:21:47Okay. He's opening the loop. He's a

1:21:50closed loop. He's opening up the loop

1:21:52because what he's doing is again

1:21:55remember the first one they're

1:21:56introducing most of the characters but

1:21:59you'll notice everyone Hannibal is

1:22:01talking to they're all pieces on his

1:22:04chess board and he's moving everybody

1:22:07exactly where they want to go and they

1:22:10are willing to go without any kind of

1:22:12manipulation because he's looking beyond

1:22:16what the average person is looking at

1:22:18and the way he's moving I mean if you

1:22:20look at Do you see do do you notice any

1:22:22fear?

1:22:24>> No. That actually goes into my next

1:22:26question cuz you just said he's moving

1:22:28them in the way they already want to go.

1:22:29Yes.

1:22:30>> So in the second Was it the first

1:22:32episode or No, it was the first episode

1:22:35when he killed the elk dude.

1:22:37>> Yes.

1:22:38>> And

1:22:40um Lord

1:22:40>> No, no, no. No, he didn't kill the elk

1:22:42dude. I'm saying Hannibal was so cold.

1:22:45What did Hannibal do?

1:22:46>> He told him to run, but he didn't run.

1:22:48>> But no, no, no. Listen, but no. Listen

1:22:50what I'm saying. See, you don't even see

1:22:52the pieces.

1:22:54He picked up the phone and told the

1:22:55killer to run

1:22:58>> because he knew he was playing Will.

1:23:00See, he was already working Will. He was

1:23:03already working Will.

1:23:05>> He's so co he's so cold. He was he he

1:23:09was working the police and he's helping

1:23:11out the murderers as well.

1:23:15He was doing everything is lay. You'll

1:23:18see as it goes on, you'll see how cold

1:23:20he is because a lot of

1:23:22>> Okay, so that's why he said we may never

1:23:25meet. He didn't mean that physically. He

1:23:27meant like not super physically, but he

1:23:30already know like okay, I'm going to

1:23:32when I'm going to say this, he's going

1:23:33to is going to put him in a corner to do

1:23:35what I know he's going to do. Then Will

1:23:37is going to go in there and kill him.

1:23:38>> Oh yeah, because guess what? He's either

1:23:40going to run and get killed. That's it.

1:23:43That's one of the other. But he knew.

1:23:45But see, but what Hannibal's doing, he's

1:23:48moving the pieces on the board because

1:23:51he's the board.

1:23:53>> Yeah, cuz he already know the steps.

1:23:55He's like, once I take this step, I

1:23:56already know there's there's like four

1:23:59four different things that could happen,

1:24:00>> right? Because Okay, let's look at

1:24:02Hannibal, though. Hannibal on the side

1:24:05of being a therapist can do the

1:24:07analyzing, right?

1:24:09>> Yeah. Yeah.

1:24:10>> Hannibal as a killer knows how killers

1:24:12think.

1:24:14>> Yeah. Yeah.

1:24:14>> So, he's got both worlds. It's like

1:24:16that's with the game. Not as a killer,

1:24:18but you're a man that knows how to

1:24:20seduce women. You're a man that knows

1:24:22how to dominate women. You're a man that

1:24:24knows that you can control a woman easy.

1:24:26You're a man that know, okay, it's easy

1:24:29to get [ __ ] from a woman when you have

1:24:31game. But why? You remember I always

1:24:33tell you, why do I want it for free? I

1:24:36mean, what fun is it like with Hannibal?

1:24:38What fun is it just to go over and kill

1:24:39the guy? Why don't we have a little fun

1:24:41with it? Let me pick the phone up and

1:24:43[ __ ] with him a little bit and see what

1:24:44he's going to do. See, hey, let the

1:24:46mouse let the mouse out the trap and see

1:24:48where he goes. That's how that

1:24:50Hannibal's [ __ ] with everybody. He's

1:24:52in total control of everything.

1:24:55>> Everything.

1:24:55>> Cuz I noticed a a whole bunch of stuff

1:24:57that he was doing.

1:24:58>> Yes. like when he um when he realized

1:25:02that uh Will figured it out, he started

1:25:06they started taking out the the u

1:25:07paperwork from the um from the building

1:25:10that they were in and he handed it he

1:25:12was handing it to the lady and then he

1:25:14tilted it up a little bit so all the

1:25:16papers could fall that's not something

1:25:19that happened I was like that is not

1:25:20something that he would do on accident

1:25:23like something

1:25:24>> that's like a man with game when you get

1:25:27around I know he did that on purpose.

1:25:29>> Right. Remember? Okay. Remember with

1:25:32Hannibal's end result was to knock the

1:25:34woman out, right? Remember?

1:25:36>> No. No. No. No. No. They had to make the

1:25:38phone call. He had to make the phone

1:25:39call. Sorry. Okay. So, he he knew Wait.

1:25:42He knew he had to call the guy. So, he's

1:25:45already five moves ahead. So, he's

1:25:51>> way I can do that is slow Will down. So,

1:25:54let me go ahead and drop the papers.

1:25:56Will's going to say, "Oh, don't worry. I

1:25:57got it." Okay. Okay, I'll be right back.

1:25:59Let me go ahead and grab the phone, call

1:26:00him, tell him to run, hang the phone up.

1:26:02I'm done. So, that's what I'm saying.

1:26:04That's why when when you learn a game,

1:26:07what's going to [ __ ] the woman up is

1:26:09that her her thought of thinking that

1:26:12you're an average guy is going to [ __ ]

1:26:13her over because she's going to be

1:26:15playing off of the wrong program.

1:26:18Hannibal already knew what to do and he

1:26:21already thought about the moves. He

1:26:23thought about every move possible. Like

1:26:24I said before, if you notice, every

1:26:27character that he comes in contact with,

1:26:29he's playing each and everyone exactly

1:26:32how he chooses to play him.

1:26:34>> Cuz now now that I'm thinking about it,

1:26:36he whether if he didn't call them, they

1:26:39would have still went to the house. Yes.

1:26:41But the situation would have ended up

1:26:43different. So he called the dude to make

1:26:45the dude feel, "Okay, I'm cornered. So I

1:26:49have to do something which is going to

1:26:51put Will in a in a situation to make him

1:26:53kill him." Yes. So now after all of that

1:26:56happened

1:26:57>> because Wait, wait, watch this. Because

1:27:00he knew Will didn't have it in him.

1:27:04>> See, remember remember he already knew

1:27:06Will. Do you think Will killed before?

1:27:09>> No.

1:27:09>> Uh, no. No. No.

1:27:10>> Exactly. So that was the beginning.

1:27:13There's a longer play in this. So,

1:27:15you're only watching the first domino of

1:27:17a million moves that Hannibal is about

1:27:19to make. So,

1:27:20>> so he put Will in a position to do

1:27:23something he's never done before.

1:27:25>> But he also put the killer in a position

1:27:27to either run

1:27:29>> or stay.

1:27:31>> But but the but the killer didn't have

1:27:33any choice. But Hannibal gave him two

1:27:35options

1:27:36>> because he he was playing he was playing

1:27:38both sides. That's what he's doing. He's

1:27:39playing both sides at the same time. I

1:27:41think he played the he I think Will was

1:27:44the bigger piece and the only reason he

1:27:46did that was to focus back on Will to

1:27:48see what he would do because either way

1:27:50he would have got caught. So he's like,

1:27:51"All right, they know who you are. So

1:27:53whatever happened to you happened to

1:27:54you. So I'm going to make this move to

1:27:56see what will do cuz you caught you

1:27:58caught already. It's over for you. So

1:28:00now I'm gonna just make put my put Will

1:28:03in a position to see what he do

1:28:05>> right now.

1:28:05>> But that's g but but that's gonna make

1:28:07Will keep coming back to Hannibal. It's

1:28:10the comeback. See, there's levels of

1:28:11this. Yeah.

1:28:12>> So, that's the comeback move. He's going

1:28:13to put Will in a position that he's

1:28:16never been in before. And then Will's

1:28:17going to start looking to Hannibal for

1:28:19the answers,

1:28:21>> which is going to make

1:28:22>> Yeah. Cuz he was he was saying, "You're

1:28:23supposed to be my paddle." He said that

1:28:24in the second episode,

1:28:25>> right? Exactly. And that's how he gets

1:28:27everybody to come to him because the way

1:28:30he's doing it as far as game goes, not

1:28:32being a killer with somebody weird is

1:28:34that you are the kind you are the

1:28:36centerpiece that everybody comes to.

1:28:39Women are going to want to be a part of

1:28:41you. That was the thing about my mentor.

1:28:43All the guy it was, okay, so uh back in

1:28:46the 70s and the 80s when we when I was a

1:28:48little when I was young a kid and [ __ ]

1:28:50there was always that one house called

1:28:52the hangout house, right? It was just

1:28:55that one house that had all the toys,

1:28:56all the video games, and you could just

1:28:58hang out at that house.

1:29:00>> And and and and that's what my mentor

1:29:03showed me. You want to be the hangout

1:29:06place. You want to be the thing that all

1:29:08the guys hang out at your place, you

1:29:10know, to drink, party, play video games,

1:29:12watch TV, and [ __ ] But you also want to

1:29:14be the place women come to to relax and

1:29:17give their body to you. So there's

1:29:19there's levels to this. Yes. But I'm

1:29:20listening to you.

1:29:22>> All right. So now it goes into the part

1:29:25where

1:29:27like when you when you say about chicks

1:29:29that they want to they want to reveal

1:29:31their dark side. So after he killed the

1:29:34dude, he started seeing Hannibal uh

1:29:37more. Well, he he went to Hannibal

1:29:39again.

1:29:40>> Hannibal forced his hand to come see him

1:29:42because that's the greater play.

1:29:44>> The great play. But hold on a second.

1:29:46Wait. This guy says, listen, watch this.

1:29:47Watch this. I'm read two birds, one

1:29:48stone.

1:29:50This guy says, "What is the one rule to

1:29:53make women chase endlessly?"

1:29:55>> What is the problem?

1:29:56>> Look for an answer. He trying to

1:29:57>> What is What is the problem? What is the

1:29:59problem?

1:30:01>> He trying to look for a one-word answer.

1:30:02>> But what else is the problem? What else

1:30:04is the problem?

1:30:06>> You read it again. What did he say?

1:30:08>> What What is the one rule to make women

1:30:11chase endlessly?

1:30:15>> Oh, he want women to chase him. Like he

1:30:18looking for validation. What? What is

1:30:19the problem?

1:30:21>> Yes, he's looking for validation. What

1:30:22else?

1:30:24>> Well, he not chasing himself. So,

1:30:25>> what else? That's two. What else?

1:30:27>> He's looking. [clears throat]

1:30:28>> Yes. Old boy said, Tango, right? The

1:30:32question is women centered.

1:30:34>> Yeah.

1:30:34>> What else is his problem? No

1:30:36self-awareness. He doesn't know how to

1:30:37communicate. No personality. He can't He

1:30:40doesn't know anything because he's

1:30:42basing everything off of a piece of

1:30:44[ __ ]

1:30:45See what I'm saying? On top of that,

1:30:47even if you tell him what it is, he

1:30:50>> doesn't it doesn't matter what I tell

1:30:53you cuz you're not the guy to do what

1:30:55I'mma tell you cuz you ain't got the

1:30:57game because Okay,

1:30:59>> why do you want a woman to chase you

1:31:01endlessly for what? What would be the

1:31:05Wait, am I a cruel person? Do I Do I Do

1:31:07I Do I continue to do that?

1:31:09>> That That That sounds like the wish bear

1:31:11made.

1:31:12>> Right. That There you go. Exactly.

1:31:14Exactly. Exactly. Right. Exactly.

1:31:17[laughter]

1:31:18All y'all guys are [ __ ] There you go.

1:31:21Exactly. Exactly. Looking at the woman

1:31:24is need. So you've already failed in

1:31:27your [ __ ] answer because you

1:31:29[ __ ] you've got to be the

1:31:31answer.

1:31:33See, instead of chasing or having women

1:31:36chase you endlessly, when have you ever

1:31:38started chasing the man in the mirror?

1:31:40That's his problem.

1:31:42>> But I'm continue. Go ahead. I got you.

1:31:44Continue.

1:31:46Now, when Will and Hannibal was in the

1:31:50room,

1:31:51Hannibal realized that he never like

1:31:54will he he he realized Will never killed

1:31:56nobody. And he was feeling bad about it

1:32:01or whatnot. And then he he it was like

1:32:05he was leading up to questions, but he

1:32:08already knew the question that he wanted

1:32:09to ask. And then the last question he

1:32:11asked, he was like, "Is the reason

1:32:13you're feeling so bad about it was

1:32:15because it felt so good."

1:32:17>> Yes.

1:32:17>> About killing the dude.

1:32:19>> And that's what you talk about making

1:32:21them feel comfortable about being

1:32:23>> being bad. They don't have to feel bad

1:32:25about

1:32:26>> being bad.

1:32:27>> No. Yeah. Exact. Okay. You You just

1:32:28nailed it. See that? See, when I get

1:32:31with a woman,

1:32:34>> I'm saying to her,

1:32:36>> it's okay to be a [ __ ] a [ __ ] freaky,

1:32:41dirty, nasty, and as disgusting as you

1:32:44want to be.

1:32:45>> Yeah. Cuz they thinking about it on

1:32:47social norms

1:32:48because he was feeling bad about it

1:32:51because he thought he was supposed to

1:32:52feel bad about it, but what he was

1:32:54feeling bad about it was because he

1:32:56wasn't just being him.

1:32:57>> Yes.

1:32:58>> Cuz it felt really good. But he was

1:33:00feeling bad about it because he was he

1:33:02was holding back how good it felt,

1:33:04>> right? And but but but okay, but see,

1:33:07here's the thing. Women are nasty as

1:33:10[ __ ]

1:33:11>> but they're always being held back by

1:33:13the thirsty male, the thirsty human.

1:33:17>> They're always the th most guys are

1:33:20holding back women's sexuality.

1:33:22>> Women being dirty and nasty and freaky

1:33:25and all the [ __ ] they want, they hold

1:33:27them back. But like Hannibal was doing

1:33:29with uh Will,

1:33:30>> he he was saying that it's okay. Your

1:33:34you feeling bad should feel good. Um

1:33:38because it's because he was looking at a

1:33:39judgment. Hannibal was telling him stop

1:33:41judging yourself.

1:33:43>> You got to free yourself of the

1:33:44judgment.

1:33:45>> That's that's what he told him. He was

1:33:46like those mirrors inside your head.

1:33:48There you go.

1:33:49>> Not just to see the reflection of bad

1:33:51people is to reflect the good in

1:33:53yourself.

1:33:53>> There you go. Yes. And as I'm saying, I

1:33:56want to reflect the mirror out of the

1:33:58woman who looks out of a window

1:34:01>> because when she looks out of a window,

1:34:02she sees a light version of herself,

1:34:04right? Because of her low insecurities,

1:34:06her low self-esteem and all the other

1:34:08[ __ ]

1:34:09>> but everybody

1:34:10>> sees her and he's trying to reveal it.

1:34:12>> No, no, he can't reveal that. No, but

1:34:13this is a confusing part. She knows that

1:34:16she has low self-esteem, low self-worth.

1:34:18She knows that she's insecure. She knows

1:34:20she has ups and downs. She knows she has

1:34:23uh issues with body weight or whatever.

1:34:25That's women [ __ ] But what doesn't make

1:34:27any sense is I know I'm [ __ ] up, but

1:34:30why do you keep raising me up? Why do

1:34:31you keep putting me on a pedestal? Why

1:34:33do you keep making Why do you keep

1:34:34telling me how beautiful and gorgeous

1:34:36and sexy I am? I got [ __ ] issues. Why

1:34:39are you telling me these lies? You see

1:34:41what I'm saying?

1:34:42>> Yeah.

1:34:44>> Okay.

1:34:44>> So,

1:34:45>> no. Wait, hold on. No, wait, wait. Wait,

1:34:46wait, wait, wait. Skinner. Skinner. See,

1:34:49that's your See, I want to read this to

1:34:51you. He said Hannibal was a weirdo, too.

1:34:54Of course, he was a weirdo, Skinner, cuz

1:34:56he had game and you don't. See, when

1:34:59people have game and you guys are

1:35:01losers, you'll be the first ones to call

1:35:04him a weirdo. I didn't say what he was

1:35:06doing with people. This is not about him

1:35:08eating the people.

1:35:09>> Yeah.

1:35:09>> Yeah. [laughter] This [ __ ]

1:35:10talking about he's a weirdo. There was

1:35:11nothing weird.

1:35:12>> That's the only thing he That's not even

1:35:15>> Yeah. That's not We're not talking about

1:35:16his cannibalism, man. We're not talking

1:35:18about that, fool. If you listen what the

1:35:19[ __ ] I'm saying. I'm saying look at

1:35:21Hannibal as a [ __ ] man, not what he

1:35:24was doing to people. Fool.

1:35:26>> His conviction and everything was

1:35:29absolute.

1:35:29>> Oh, man. Dude, did you Hey, and did you

1:35:32see how he made the dishes?

1:35:35>> Isn't that Wasn't that [ __ ] beautiful?

1:35:37>> Yeah.

1:35:38>> And he had Lawrence Fishburn and

1:35:39everybody eating them [ __ ] up. No,

1:35:41no, but I'm just saying how they enjoyed

1:35:43because No, how they enjoyed the the

1:35:47presentation.

1:35:49>> Everything was present. That's what a

1:35:51lot of you guys don't understand. They

1:35:53you've got to present an experience that

1:35:57goes beyond [ __ ] a woman in order to

1:36:00[ __ ] a woman the right way. That's why

1:36:03you have to present yourself in a way

1:36:06that shows a woman that I'm not trying

1:36:08to get between your legs. I'm just

1:36:11showing you why you should [ __ ] with me.

1:36:13Because that's all Hannibal was doing.

1:36:14Hannibal wasn't forcing himself on

1:36:16everybody. He was just moving the pieces

1:36:19to put himself in a prime position where

1:36:22everybody was going to [ __ ] get at

1:36:24him. Okay.

1:36:26>> So,

1:36:27>> no. Dexter No, Dexter and Hannibal are

1:36:30two different. Dexter was a killer.

1:36:32Dexter didn't eat people. Hannibal was a

1:36:35a cannibal. He Hannibal ate people.

1:36:38Dexter was a killer. But Dexter Dexter

1:36:41knew how to get out of situations. But

1:36:43Hannibal

1:36:44>> Yeah. He was taught like that. His

1:36:45father taught him.

1:36:46>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's hard.

1:36:47>> He didn't have a choice.

1:36:48>> Yeah. But I'm listen to you. What else

1:36:49you got? What's up?

1:36:51>> So the questions he was asking him?

1:36:53>> Yes.

1:36:54>> Before

1:36:56uh Will gave him the answer, did he

1:36:59already know the answer? He was only

1:37:01asking Will the questions to to make him

1:37:05think about it, to reveal it to himself.

1:37:07So, think about think about a woman real

1:37:09quick. Okay. All right.

1:37:11>> So, a woman already knows the answer to

1:37:16a lot of guys. It's just sometimes she

1:37:19just asks the question to get what she

1:37:20wants. Now, did you watch the did you

1:37:22watch the YouTube video I posted

1:37:25>> uh about the woman?

1:37:28>> Uh

1:37:28>> the last the last video. Hold on. I

1:37:30I'mma grab it and I want I'm going to

1:37:32let you I want you to listen to this,

1:37:34okay? While we while we're going. All

1:37:35right. I want you to hear this and I'll

1:37:37pause it. Uh, but I want you to hear

1:37:39this. Very important. All right, let me

1:37:42All right, listen. Listen to this. Okay,

1:37:43I'mma play this and I'll pause it. Check

1:37:44it out. Listen to this. Listen, listen.

1:37:46I'mma date you and learn everything that

1:37:49you desire me to be.

1:37:51>> I'm a manipulator. I'mma date you.

1:37:53>> I was listening to that earlier.

1:37:54>> Right. Right. Right. So, what I'm saying

1:37:56what I'm saying is is that you guys

1:37:59don't know your opponent. M

1:38:01>> see a woman has I keep telling has

1:38:04tripper 101 in them.

1:38:07The thing that women have and I do not

1:38:10like giving women credit [snorts]

1:38:12but I have to be honest about women.

1:38:15Okay?

1:38:17She knows you [ __ ] so well

1:38:21that not only does she know what you're

1:38:24going to be, she's going to decide the

1:38:27position and and and then be so cold

1:38:30with it like a Hannibal to make you want

1:38:33to do that thing

1:38:36and not give any [ __ ] up if she chooses

1:38:38not to.

1:38:40>> Okay. So every question was a level to

1:38:43see if you ready for the next question

1:38:45to see if you're ready to if he was

1:38:48ready to hear the last question which

1:38:50was are you only feeling so bad about

1:38:53killing him because it felt so good.

1:38:55>> Well every question before that was just

1:38:58a different level to

1:39:01already knew the answer.

1:39:02>> Right. Right. Right. So instead of

1:39:03asking him and see if he would have

1:39:05asked him early on

1:39:07>> he would have got defensive and shut

1:39:09down. Yeah,

1:39:10>> but he was making him think about it

1:39:12like damn like a Right. Opening the

1:39:14loop. See that?

1:39:16>> Yeah.

1:39:16>> Open the loop. Make him think about it.

1:39:19Put him in a position of comfort. And

1:39:21then the when when you put a woman in a

1:39:23position of comfort and you ask her a

1:39:25question.

1:39:26>> She's not going to get intimidated or or

1:39:29get turned off by the question. She's

1:39:31going to look and say, "Wow, we can have

1:39:33a conversation." Like you could say,

1:39:35>> it was a buildup. It wasn't just here it

1:39:38is.

1:39:38>> There you go. They're going to feel like

1:39:39they're in a corner. Okay.

1:39:41>> Right. That's why I keep telling you

1:39:42like Hannibal, you don't rush it, right?

1:39:45>> You want to put in a woman in a position

1:39:47to feel like that, you know what, I can

1:39:51actually talk to him. You see what I'm

1:39:53saying?

1:39:53>> Okay.

1:39:54>> And and anything that he ask me, I won't

1:39:56get offended by it. That's just a

1:39:59conversation piece to get to know me

1:40:01just a little bit better. But if you're

1:40:03asking her something early up front that

1:40:06she doesn't know you, she's going to

1:40:07take offense because it's like it's none

1:40:09of your [ __ ] business. But you notice

1:40:11Hannibal started opening having Will up

1:40:14open tiny doors to other doors.

1:40:17>> Yeah.

1:40:19Okay. So,

1:40:23how would you

1:40:25he like Hannibal like Hannibal already

1:40:28knows himself well enough to know cuz

1:40:31he's a he's a psychiatrist so he knows

1:40:33how to strategically ask questions and

1:40:36stuff like that.

1:40:37>> So, how would you know

1:40:41your question or the next question after

1:40:44that is not too much and it's giving

1:40:47them the room to open it up? It will

1:40:49never be too much for a woman because

1:40:53once the woman recognizes that you're

1:40:55not thirsty, that you're not desperate,

1:40:58that you're not needy, and you don't

1:41:01have a a an agenda to try to [ __ ] her.

1:41:04>> What's going to happen is she is going

1:41:06to let her hair down and open herself up

1:41:09more because her problem is she's going

1:41:12to want to know who the [ __ ] are you?

1:41:15>> Because you're not something's not

1:41:17making sense. Why aren't you Limitless

1:41:19running behind me? Why haven't you

1:41:22called me sexy? Why haven't you told me

1:41:24that all this [ __ ] that the average guy?

1:41:26Why haven't you done that yet,

1:41:27Limitless?

1:41:28>> So, I need to get to know you.

1:41:32>> And that's what's going to open the loop

1:41:33up because she the the moment a woman

1:41:36knows that the average guy is trying to

1:41:38[ __ ] but she meets you and you're not

1:41:41trying to [ __ ]

1:41:42>> she's going to be like, "Who the [ __ ]

1:41:44are you? Like, what what like how do you

1:41:45operate? How do you move? How do you

1:41:47think? And then she's going to start

1:41:49analyzing you, which is going to open

1:41:50the loop up.

1:41:53>> Okay. So, it's like

1:41:57that's why you have to know what you

1:41:59want. And when you're focused on what

1:42:01you want.

1:42:01>> No, no, no, no, no, no. You You don't

1:42:02have to know what you want. You already

1:42:05know what you want. And who is that?

1:42:09>> Yourself.

1:42:09>> There you go. So, you do not want for

1:42:11anything. And Amanda doesn't want for

1:42:13anything is going to open a loop because

1:42:15she expects you to want her.

1:42:17>> She's expect you to run behind her and

1:42:20kiss her ass. I want from nothing only

1:42:22for myself cuz I'm married to the game.

1:42:25She can be a perk in my life. She can

1:42:27come into my life. I can enjoy her in my

1:42:30life. But if she [ __ ] thinks that

1:42:32she's running [ __ ] she better get the

1:42:33[ __ ] on. Not with this one.

1:42:35>> You see? You see that?

1:42:37>> Yeah. So, okay. So, with the line of

1:42:40questioning Yes. that Hannibal had for

1:42:43Will.

1:42:43>> Yes.

1:42:44>> What would you say was the main subject

1:42:47and he was just lining them questions up

1:42:49to get to the end of that? What would

1:42:51you say was the was the point?

1:42:53>> Like, okay, this is my this is the

1:42:55subject I'm on right now and I'm going

1:42:57to ask you these questions and you're

1:42:59going to reveal it to me, but I'm

1:43:00focusing on

1:43:01>> No, no, no. I I don't I don't No, no.

1:43:03The reveal has to her feel

1:43:06that I can reveal things to him and he's

1:43:09not going to judge me, laugh at me,

1:43:13ridicule me, or use this information

1:43:15against me. Because what does what do

1:43:17women know? Every time I share something

1:43:19with a guy and we break up, what does he

1:43:21say? Oh, I'mma tell everybody.

1:43:23>> Oh, you did?

1:43:23>> Yeah. I'm I'mma show everybody how nasty

1:43:25you are and all other stuff. So, women

1:43:27are on on edge, right?

1:43:30So, when they meet me, that's what's

1:43:32going to open them up.

1:43:35All right, I'm going to give you an

1:43:36example of of um of a I'm I'mma pull

1:43:41something up and I'mma pull it up and

1:43:43show you what I'm talking about. How you

1:43:45open a woman up. Okay, I'm going give

1:43:47you a prime example for one of my

1:43:48clients that got a uh a text message

1:43:50from a woman. I'mma put it together

1:43:52right now and show you.

1:43:53>> The woman the woman sends him a text

1:43:56message, right?

1:43:58And I'm going to read it to you. I'm

1:44:00going show everybody. I'mma read it to

1:44:02you and I want you to tell me

1:44:06what you would do, which is going to

1:44:08show. And there's no wrong answer here.

1:44:10Okay, guys. Y'all, we all can interact

1:44:11in this.

1:44:12>> But let me pull this up.

1:44:15>> All right. I'm going to show you what

1:44:16she just said. I'm just going to pull up

1:44:18what she said. I'm going blow this

1:44:20[ __ ] up.

1:44:23Okay. I'm blow it up. Let me go ahead

1:44:25and take out her picture. Give me a

1:44:27second, my brother. And I'mma show you

1:44:29guys all you guys. I'mma show you this.

1:44:31Now, the woman is saying, "Hold on. Let

1:44:33me let me take out her name." All right.

1:44:36There we go. Bam. All right.

1:44:39Okay. Let me I'm I'mma download this and

1:44:41I'mma post this and I want you to tell

1:44:44me if a woman said this to any of you

1:44:47guys out here, what do is the move that

1:44:51you would make? Okay, all you guys

1:44:53listening because this is very

1:44:55important. All right, wait. Okay, and

1:44:59it's down. Let make sure it's

1:45:00downloaded. Okay, perfect. It

1:45:02downloaded. Okay, I'm about to I'm about

1:45:04to show you guys right now. Okay. All

1:45:05right, guys. I want y'all to see this.

1:45:07Okay, Limitless. I'm gonna read it to

1:45:08you.

1:45:09>> I know you're you're doing your thing.

1:45:10I'm going to read it to you,

1:45:11>> but I'm going to show all you guys and I

1:45:13want you guys to answer this in the chat

1:45:16room. It doesn't matter. There is no

1:45:17wrong answer. Okay? There is no wrong

1:45:19answer, but I want you to see if a woman

1:45:22said this to you, what are you saying?

1:45:24Okay, here we go. I'm posting it right

1:45:26now and I'mma read it. Okay, ready?

1:45:28>> Yeah.

1:45:29>> All right. The woman says,

1:45:32she says, "I can't tell if that Insta

1:45:35profile of yours is a vibe or an ick."

1:45:40What would you say to her? she went to

1:45:41your Instagram or whatever, said to you,

1:45:43I I can't tell if your Instagram profile

1:45:46is a vibe or an ick, what would you what

1:45:51would you say?

1:45:53All you guys,

1:45:54>> my Instagram photo is is is just a piece

1:45:56of me. It's not who I am. So, if you

1:45:58want to find out if I'm a vibe, you

1:46:00could call me tonight and then we'll

1:46:02vibe.

1:46:04>> All right, I I'll pass you because

1:46:05you're trying. Here's the problem. Now,

1:46:08here's the problem. I want y'all to

1:46:11think about something y'all guys do.

1:46:12Remember I told you about the profile?

1:46:14How people put everything in the front,

1:46:16right? Right.

1:46:19>> Think about women. Now watch this. Gonna

1:46:20be gang right here. A lot of guys vibe

1:46:24then turn out to be what? Icks. Right.

1:46:27You see what I'm saying?

1:46:28>> Yeah.

1:46:28>> Because they try to connect with the

1:46:30woman and put everything up first,

1:46:31right? And then get the ick.

1:46:34I would I told my client to tell her

1:46:38that I I my profile is an ick so we can

1:46:42vibe.

1:46:45My profile is an ick so we can vibe.

1:46:50Think about what I'm saying.

1:46:53>> The majority of guys out here, what do

1:46:55they do? They try to vibe, right, with

1:46:57women, right? Right.

1:46:59>> Yeah. And when the mask comes off, they

1:47:01eventually turn into a

1:47:04>> ick,

1:47:04>> right? I'm an ick that's going to create

1:47:08a vibe because I'm going against the

1:47:11algorithm. I'm going to be an ick

1:47:14because I'm not following her program.

1:47:17I'm going to be a ick because she can't

1:47:20get away with [ __ ] I'm going to be an

1:47:22ick because I'm not feeding her any

1:47:23dinner. Do you see what I'm saying? I

1:47:26you I want to be an ick

1:47:28>> because guess who am I trying to vibe

1:47:30with her or her

1:47:34>> emotions.

1:47:34>> There you go. So I'm going to be a ick

1:47:38to her. But who am I going to be a vibe

1:47:40to?

1:47:41>> Her emotions.

1:47:42>> There you go. So that's why I told him

1:47:44to tell that woman that I am an ick.

1:47:48Yes, I am an ick. But see, if you're a

1:47:51vibe, you're going to be like the

1:47:52average guy that turns into an ick. Does

1:47:54that make any sense?

1:47:56>> Yes.

1:47:58>> Because if you if you cuz you guys out

1:48:00here, this is why y'all break up with

1:48:02women because y'all try to vibe with

1:48:03them. You try to connect with them. You

1:48:06try to do all these things with them.

1:48:07So, you're whittling yourself down for

1:48:09the woman. That's why you end up being

1:48:12an ick. But I'm saying I'm an ick

1:48:15because I'm I'm going to be a ick to the

1:48:18to the rule that the average human gave

1:48:21you. What is the ick or what is her

1:48:23average thing? He's got to kiss my ass.

1:48:26He's got to bend over backwards,

1:48:28apologize, and do circus tricks, right?

1:48:32>> Well, I'm going to be an ick because I'm

1:48:34not doing any of that [ __ ] But I will

1:48:36always be a ick to her logic, but I'm

1:48:40not trying to [ __ ] am I trying to

1:48:41connect to her logic?

1:48:43>> No.

1:48:44>> No. I'm I'm trying to vibe with find out

1:48:47why you try to find out why [laughter]

1:48:50the hell he not doing what all these

1:48:51other [ __ ] be doing.

1:48:53>> Yeah. I'm trying to That's what I'm

1:48:54saying. So that's why I say you guys out

1:48:56there. See, the worst thing you can do

1:48:57is try to justify the woman by saying,

1:49:00"Oh, I'm a vibe. I'm trying to vibe with

1:49:02you. I'm trying to get Then you're going

1:49:04to turn into a ick." Does that make

1:49:05sense?

1:49:07>> Yeah.

1:49:07>> So, that's the game. But any other

1:49:08questions?

1:49:10>> No, that's it.

1:49:10>> All right, I'll throw you back in, man.

1:49:12We'll continue. Great call, brother.

1:49:13Call back. Great call, man. That was an

1:49:14awesome call.

1:49:15>> Let's continue this game, gentlemen. Got

1:49:17y'all covered.

1:49:18>> Let's get this game, guys. Got a

1:49:19question. Uh, put a Q. Let me grab this

1:49:21question right here. Hold on one second.

1:49:23Uh 970. How can I help you? What?

1:49:27970.

1:49:28>> Hello.

1:49:29>> Yes, sir. What's up?

1:49:31>> Hey. Uh it's Omar again, Steve. Uh real

1:49:33quick, I forgot to ask you. Uh so I'm

1:49:36creating my IG. Uh would I just uh

1:49:39besides doing like erotic poetry and

1:49:40stuff like that, what else would you

1:49:41recommend uh to do on it?

1:49:43>> Sir, just follow what I teach you and

1:49:45you're fine. You're overthinking it.

1:49:47Stop doing that [ __ ]

1:49:49>> Okay. Okay.

1:49:50>> Remember, that's what I'm saying. your

1:49:51mind. You want it, guys?

1:49:54>> Less is more with getting [ __ ] Okay.

1:49:58Less is more.

1:50:01You want to know why? Because

1:50:02everybody's doing more and not doing

1:50:04less.

1:50:06>> Okay.

1:50:06>> Okay. All right. I'll throw you back in.

1:50:08Let's get this game.

1:50:10>> All right. Let's get this game. All

1:50:11right, guys. Let's continue this

1:50:12conversation. Gentlemen, let me get this

1:50:14call real quick. Area code 61.

1:50:17What's going on?

1:50:1961.

1:50:2161. Hello. Hello,

1:50:24>> Steve. Good evening, Jay from Sydney.

1:50:26>> What's going on, Jay? What's going on,

1:50:27brother?

1:50:29>> Hey, Steve. I've got a question

1:50:31regarding Hannibal. I started watching

1:50:33that as well.

1:50:34>> Good, good, good, good.

1:50:37>> It's connected to noticing and

1:50:40observing,

1:50:42which I think it's connected to

1:50:43discovery. I I wanted to make sure that

1:50:45I'm on the right track in terms of

1:50:46understanding.

1:50:47>> There's something one big thing you're

1:50:48missing. It's the problem that What is

1:50:51the biggest What is the biggest problem

1:50:52I always get on you about?

1:50:55>> Me? This is why I'm asking.

1:50:56>> No. No. No. What is the No, I'm telling

1:50:58you, you missed it. What is the biggest

1:51:00problem I get on you about that you

1:51:02don't do that he does with perfection?

1:51:06Is what?

1:51:06>> Listening.

1:51:07>> God damn it. There you go. That is the

1:51:10biggest key because he pays attention to

1:51:15everything

1:51:16>> and you guys pay attention to nothing.

1:51:23>> Yeah, 100%. This is why I'm asking this

1:51:25question because you keep telling me

1:51:27you're not listening. You're not

1:51:28listening. Listening. Yes.

1:51:29>> This clicked to me when I was watching

1:51:30this show because this guy's meticulous

1:51:32in everything, right? I've only watched

1:51:34it two uh first two episodes.

1:51:36>> Um

1:51:37>> Yes. But I'm noticing that he's

1:51:38meticulous in everything.

1:51:40>> Yes.

1:51:40>> And he he notices everything. And the

1:51:43question I have is from observing and

1:51:45it's connected to what you talked about

1:51:47last week. Man, it was a beautiful show

1:51:49um that you did on Wednesday.

1:51:51>> Thank you.

1:51:52>> So

1:51:54you've been speaking about when you're

1:51:55not forcing by putting everything up

1:51:57front.

1:51:58>> Yes.

1:51:59>> You allow her emotions to react to who

1:52:00you are.

1:52:01>> Yes.

1:52:02>> So when you observe her reactions, Yes.

1:52:05You're starting to discover who she is

1:52:07below the surface, right? Because you're

1:52:09seeing her emotions,

1:52:10>> right? But but she's trying to hide

1:52:12something. I'm discovering.

1:52:15>> See, she's starting to feel a

1:52:18connection.

1:52:20And she doesn't realize that she's

1:52:22showing me she's feeling the connection.

1:52:26And the way they feel what what you'll

1:52:28notice about women is they will reveal

1:52:31their connection by how excited they are

1:52:34to talk to you. There's going to be a

1:52:37fluctuation in their voice.

1:52:40They're going to look away. They're

1:52:41going to shy off. They're going to do so

1:52:43many little things.

1:52:46That's where you got to listen because

1:52:49they're not just speaking with their

1:52:50words. They're speaking with their

1:52:53messages. They're speaking with their

1:52:55emojis. They're speaking with the the

1:52:58they they're they're not trying to be

1:53:00perfect around you. They're just trying

1:53:02to figure out who you are. Does that

1:53:04make any sense?

1:53:06>> Yeah, definitely. So, hang on. I've got

1:53:09a question on that as well. Are they

1:53:11trying to You said something about she's

1:53:14trying not to show that to you. Is she

1:53:17or

1:53:17>> Well, no, no, no, no, no. She doesn't

1:53:19know how. Okay, y'all. You have to

1:53:23understand women

1:53:26that all they know is I'm the subtotal

1:53:30of my ass, my titties, and my face. The

1:53:34end. That is all they know. That is all

1:53:38they're built on. That is all they

1:53:41understand because that's all they get.

1:53:44Does that make sense? And even the nice

1:53:47guys, the friendly guys and all those

1:53:49guys have the same agenda as the other

1:53:51guys that's trying to [ __ ] And it's the

1:53:53same thing until they meet a man that

1:53:56says you don't get access. You must earn

1:54:00that [ __ ] That [ __ ] everything because

1:54:03her mind her mind cannot process that.

1:54:07Like I was watching um you know I watch

1:54:08like sci-fi geeky [ __ ] right? like uh

1:54:11this one about the last house or

1:54:13something some you know like that alien

1:54:14[ __ ] where they can't get out of the

1:54:16house. Guys, I'm I'm a geeky guy, sci-fi

1:54:18[ __ ] But um the thing is is that the

1:54:23it's it's a story about like a alien

1:54:26taking over uh the the the world. You

1:54:28know, I like those alien type movies

1:54:30where they locked everybody in their

1:54:32house and and they all got locked in

1:54:34their house and they couldn't get out.

1:54:37But they couldn't understand why they

1:54:38couldn't get out. See, remember all all

1:54:41everybody's life all they do is they can

1:54:43open the door when they want to get out,

1:54:44right? When they want to get out, they

1:54:46can walk out. So that's what they train

1:54:48themselves all their lives, right? But

1:54:50once the aliens came down and locked

1:54:52their asses in the house,

1:54:55they they they couldn't understand why

1:54:58they didn't have that freedom. The

1:55:00freedom was taken away from them, but

1:55:02they didn't realize they were prisoners

1:55:04already. See, people think that they're

1:55:06people think that they're free, but

1:55:08they're prisoners. You are allowed to

1:55:10leave the jail cell, but you can go in

1:55:13the prison yard, which is outside. But

1:55:16I'm not talking about outside the world.

1:55:18I'm saying in your mind. Everybody is a

1:55:20is a prisoner of their thoughts. They're

1:55:23free to move around anywhere they want

1:55:25to go. Right? Does that make sense so

1:55:28far?

1:55:28>> Yeah. But they are a prisoner of where

1:55:31they go because when they look at a

1:55:34woman, they feel like she is going to be

1:55:37the person that's going to make me feel

1:55:39whole and [ __ ] Does that make sense?

1:55:42>> Yeah.

1:55:42>> But I'm listening to you. Go ahead.

1:55:45>> Yeah. Okay. Because they feel like

1:55:47they're missing something within

1:55:49themselves. So they're chasing.

1:55:50>> No, they don't feel like it. They feel

1:55:52they they know something. They feel not

1:55:54in feel, but they know like like I the

1:55:57the world teaches you you've got to find

1:56:00your person. You have to have something

1:56:02in common with somebody. Like if you go

1:56:05on to speed dating, right? Do you know

1:56:07how many women I used to [ __ ] doing that

1:56:09stupid [ __ ] I don't give a [ __ ] about

1:56:11what your favorite color is and what

1:56:12your favorite your hobbies. What the

1:56:14[ __ ] is that about? Not being me. I'm

1:56:15just saying. I'm just being honest with

1:56:16you guys. What? Okay. A woman tells you

1:56:20my favorite color is red. So [ __ ]

1:56:23what? And like so

1:56:26what does that got to do with anything?

1:56:28Wait wait wait because I don't have the

1:56:29same color. Okay. Okay. Listen, big dog

1:56:32Jay. What I'm saying to you is that I

1:56:36have dealt with women that were from all

1:56:39over the I've dealt with women in India,

1:56:42Pakistan, Afghanistan, Russia, all over

1:56:45different races, different religions,

1:56:47different lifestyles, right? And one

1:56:50thing they all had in common is they

1:56:52thought

1:56:53that the right person had to have

1:56:55something in common with them in order

1:56:57to be a perfect couple. [ __ ] no. You

1:57:00don't have to have anything in common

1:57:02with anybody.

1:57:03>> They need to have something in common

1:57:05with you. That's the thing that you

1:57:08don't see. Yeah,

1:57:10>> we are too busy trying to say, okay,

1:57:13well, I want to have something in common

1:57:15with her because if I have something in

1:57:17common with her, she might open her

1:57:19what?

1:57:21>> Nice.

1:57:22>> There you go. So then you force

1:57:24something in or you try to be something

1:57:26for her. I don't care if your color is

1:57:29red. That's fine. I don't I don't care.

1:57:32But that doesn't mean anything about you

1:57:34and I getting together and and and what

1:57:38you're looking for. I don't care because

1:57:41I know what you're looking for. I'm

1:57:43here. You see what I'm saying? That's

1:57:45where people go wrong. They're they're

1:57:47too busy trying to reveal themselves in

1:57:50a false way to try to earn a woman's

1:57:53trust. But they're not revealing trust.

1:57:56They're revealing lies. They think

1:57:58revealing myself is not trust, ladies.

1:58:01is how can I [ __ ] you? What can I reveal

1:58:04to you, lie to you, or have in common

1:58:08with you to make you feel that I'm the

1:58:10right person for you?

1:58:15>> Does that make sense?

1:58:17>> Yeah. Yeah, it makes sense.

1:58:18>> See? Yes. Go ahead. [clears throat]

1:58:24>> So, on the flip side of that,

1:58:26>> Yes, sir. what you're what you're saying

1:58:29there's something that struck me with

1:58:31what you're you you open my eyes to and

1:58:35it's really beautiful but I I I I just

1:58:37need to make sure I'm on the right

1:58:38track. So everything you do with a woman

1:58:42is observation

1:58:45and

1:58:47discovery

1:58:48of her like from the bid to seducing her

1:58:51with your words. Well, well, no, no, no.

1:58:54It's not everything I do with a woman.

1:58:58It's how I position myself to allow a

1:59:01woman to earn doing things with me.

1:59:04[laughter]

1:59:06She's got to earn it.

1:59:09She doesn't know. Okay, she is from a

1:59:13logical standpoint, gentlemen.

1:59:17She will say, "Fuck you, Steve. I ain't

1:59:20doing shit."

1:59:22Okay. Do you understand what I'm saying?

1:59:24From a logical standpoint, she gonna say

1:59:27[ __ ] you to me, right?

1:59:30>> Yeah. Yep.

1:59:31>> That's only if I'm trying to communicate

1:59:34to what

1:59:36>> her There you go. And what's her logic

1:59:39on the surface? Her ass and her

1:59:43>> titties.

1:59:43>> There you go. I, on the other hand, am

1:59:47trying to to to discover her because I'm

1:59:51not trying to discover her. I know

1:59:54behind that little sexy smile of hers,

1:59:57behind those eyes, behind that body

2:00:01is got cobwebs and dust on it. And if I

2:00:05can just tap into that [ __ ] source,

2:00:09I can give her the drug of me that's so

2:00:11[ __ ] crazy. She's going to be

2:00:12addicted to me. addicted to me.

2:00:17And see, a lot of guys don't see that

2:00:20because all they see is [ __ ] But I'm

2:00:22saying I'm never talking to her logic.

2:00:26If I talk to her logic, I fall into lump

2:00:29with everybody else by kissing her ass,

2:00:31by trying to be what she wants me to be.

2:00:34But I'm not trying to talk to her logic.

2:00:36I don't give a [ __ ] about her logic. Her

2:00:38logic has nothing. It's a waste of my

2:00:39time

2:00:41because I you does that make sense?

2:00:44>> Yeah, it makes sense. It makes sense

2:00:46from all the coaching

2:00:48>> and all the communication we've done

2:00:50with women. I I I'm really seeing it

2:00:53now, especially after yesterday's

2:00:54conversation that we had. The coaching

2:00:56that was awesome, dude.

2:00:58>> Um

2:00:59>> I've noticed that you are looking for an

2:01:01opening to tap into those that that

2:01:04>> No, no, not an opening. An invite. Not

2:01:06an open invite.

2:01:07>> An invite. I'm only I'm only looking for

2:01:10Right. Right. Because she's going to

2:01:12realize with me

2:01:14>> my time belongs to me.

2:01:18>> My dick belongs to me. My balls, my

2:01:22attention, my everything belongs to me.

2:01:26And you can't have it just because you

2:01:28got a fat ass and some sexy titties. my

2:01:32she's gonna realize with me not from a

2:01:35logical perspective but what I'm going

2:01:37to unearth behind the second door where

2:01:40you know the doors behind doors is that

2:01:43she's going to realize

2:01:45he for the first time I'm meeting a man

2:01:48whose standards existed before we met

2:01:53the average guy's standard is going to

2:01:55be what can I do to [ __ ] her so I've got

2:01:59to change and be what she wants me to

2:02:01be. You see what I'm saying? I'm not

2:02:03doing that. Access to me is going to

2:02:06grow with trust. Sex is growing with

2:02:09trust. Connection grows with trust.

2:02:11That's the truth. And commitment grows

2:02:14with consistency.

2:02:16Intimacy grows with character. And the

2:02:19deeper parts of me and her will be

2:02:23discovered. I'm not just going to dump

2:02:25everything on the [ __ ] table because

2:02:27she gave me [ __ ] butterflies. I ain't

2:02:30doing that [ __ ] Does that make sense?

2:02:33>> Yeah, it makes sense.

2:02:34>> You see what I'm saying? And what I'm

2:02:35saying is, and I'll touch on the logic

2:02:37again one second. What I'm saying is

2:02:39this is where she experiences you

2:02:41differently because she realizes that

2:02:44there are doors inside of this man that

2:02:47have not been opened yet. And there are

2:02:50levels to myself that have not been

2:02:52reached yet. And there are pieces of his

2:02:55time that I want to be about. There's

2:02:57part of his world, his world, his

2:02:59loyalty, his love. Man, she's thinking

2:03:02this, if this [ __ ] loves himself

2:03:04this much.

2:03:06What would happen if I got a percentage

2:03:10of the way he loves himself? Because a

2:03:12woman will never be loved the way she

2:03:14will be loved by a man who loves

2:03:18himself.

2:03:19That's why women have never been in love

2:03:22before. They've been in relationships,

2:03:25but they what comes up goes down.

2:03:28They'll come and go. Does that make

2:03:29sense?

2:03:31>> Because

2:03:32>> Makes sense. And

2:03:33>> right real quick, just real quick,

2:03:35because every I want to talk tackle two

2:03:37birds real quick. Just hold your thought

2:03:38because young man, if you listen to me,

2:03:41everything comes from logic. What I'm

2:03:45saying to you young men out here, women

2:03:48are not ignorant.

2:03:50They know how to read, write, and spell.

2:03:53I will always say, I'm not here to tear

2:03:55women down.

2:03:57But when it comes to our kind, they're

2:04:00ignorant as [ __ ]

2:04:02because they assume that when I'm

2:04:05talking to her, I'm talking to her ass

2:04:07and her titties.

2:04:09I'm talking to try to manipulate her,

2:04:11open her legs, and I I lose that way.

2:04:14So, I'm not talking to her logic.

2:04:17I'm trying to access

2:04:20her femininity, her sexuality, and the

2:04:23woman that's gonna [ __ ] submit to

2:04:25this goddamn dick. That's what I want.

2:04:30[ __ ] the puss. I don't give a [ __ ] about

2:04:31her [ __ ] I can get her [ __ ] anytime.

2:04:35Matter of fact, I The moment she tells

2:04:37me I had a dream about you, the moment

2:04:40she tells me that, I I I I know I got

2:04:43it. And and and all right, go ahead. Go

2:04:46ahead and ask your question. Let me see

2:04:47if I can pull something up for you guys.

2:04:48Show y'all something. I want to show

2:04:49y'all something.

2:04:52>> I want to show y'all guys something.

2:04:53Y'all think this Y'all think old boy is

2:04:55is [ __ ] around. Let me show y'all

2:04:57something. Give me a second. I'm listen

2:04:58to you, big dog. Go ahead. I'm listening

2:05:00while I I want to pull this up and I

2:05:01want to show y'all something. All you

2:05:03guys, I want to show y'all something.

2:05:04I'll copy and send it to you and let you

2:05:07see when you have the game and how they

2:05:11reach out to you and how they talk to

2:05:13you. Okay. Uh let me show you something.

2:05:16I want to I want to see if I can send it

2:05:17to you, but I'm listen to you, big dog.

2:05:18Go ahead and say it. I'm just trying to

2:05:20pull up

2:05:22um what the woman said. Uh

2:05:29so the the question I had was one of the

2:05:32previous callers, you said when they're

2:05:34in a relationship, what goes up 99% of

2:05:37the time comes back down, but it doesn't

2:05:40with you.

2:05:43Can you elaborate?

2:05:44>> Wait, wait. Say it again cuz I I want to

2:05:46I want to show you now. Again,

2:05:50I Hey, caller. I can get this [ __ ]

2:05:53easily with my eyes closed backwards,

2:05:56right? No, I'm I'm not I'm I'mma I'mma

2:05:59show you. Look, this is just someone

2:06:01that reached out just, you know, someone

2:06:04that enjoys the show reached out and

2:06:06wanted to talk to me, right? But I'mma

2:06:08show you.

2:06:10>> She's got tons of [ __ ] trying

2:06:12to tap her ass, but she can't have me. I

2:06:15I got to show I'm not I'm not trying to

2:06:17listen. I'm not trying to pump uh or or

2:06:21pop my collar, but I want to show you

2:06:24how a woman that you put her in her

2:06:27femininity,

2:06:29how they open up. When when a woman when

2:06:31a woman recognizes

2:06:33that she's got to do work to get that

2:06:36dick, she changes the conversation. Now,

2:06:38this is a woman that has a b Let me see

2:06:40here. Uh, let me see here. Uh, matter of

2:06:43fact, I'm going to try to show you how

2:06:45many fans she has. Uh, I can even try to

2:06:48pull up her fan. Let me see if I can

2:06:49pull up her fan club as well. But let me

2:06:52let me show you what she wrote. And

2:06:55guys, e Hey guys, e this could this

2:06:58could be an easy layup. Hold on. Let me

2:07:00just take a little bit of her out so

2:07:01y'all can see it's a little bit of her.

2:07:02So I don't want y'all to Hold on. Let me

2:07:04show y'all this. And and and this and

2:07:07look, this is her talking to me.

2:07:10I got to pick I don't blow this up,

2:07:11guys.

2:07:13I I didn't do nothing. I'm not Hey, hey,

2:07:15hey, young man. Jay, I'm never going to

2:07:18lie on my dick. I did not get the puss.

2:07:20I have not tried to get the [ __ ] I am

2:07:23not running behind her. But I'm going to

2:07:25show you how women talk to you when

2:07:26you're that guy. I'mma give you a little

2:07:28bit of her. Right. Just a little bit.

2:07:30All right. There you go. Just a little

2:07:31bit of it right there. Now, you ready to

2:07:33see this? Now, this is something. Now,

2:07:36remember, now guys, I'mma show you how

2:07:37it works. You guys think that you have

2:07:40to buy him dinners. You guys think you

2:07:42got to buy him drinks. You guys got to

2:07:44think and I can send you. Matter of

2:07:45fact, let me find the emoji. I'm going

2:07:46to show you the emojis I got, too. Hold

2:07:48on. Show you this stupid [ __ ] Women

2:07:50supposed to send you emojis and [ __ ]

2:07:52Let me show you all the emojis. Let me

2:07:53show you this [ __ ]

2:07:58All right. Uh, let me see here. Uh,

2:08:02okay. Let me [laughter]

2:08:04All right, let me show you this [ __ ] It

2:08:07It's just It was just a It was just a

2:08:09big heart. I don't I I can show you.

2:08:10It's just It's just She sent me a big

2:08:12heart and I didn't even ask for it. I

2:08:14didn't ask for it. But let me tell

2:08:16people Let me tell people she has on her

2:08:18how many people she has following. Okay,

2:08:20so she has a total of 500 5,3

2:08:2673 PE guys, not guy. I'm sure he has a

2:08:28few women. So, out of the 5,000, let's

2:08:31just say she's got 4,000 guys trying to

2:08:33tap her ass. Okay, let's just say that.

2:08:36I mean, most women mostly most women

2:08:38have more guys on their on their

2:08:39profiles than women. Okay. All right.

2:08:44Okay. So, let me show you. Okay. All

2:08:46right. So, let me pull it up.

2:08:49All right. You ready? Hold on, Jay. Hold

2:08:50your thoughts. I just want to show you.

2:08:53Now remember guys,

2:08:56this is a message I got. I I didn't I

2:08:59didn't I didn't try to uh pick her up

2:09:03and and I'm not going to lie on my dick.

2:09:04I didn't [ __ ] her. I didn't do anything.

2:09:07Guys, I am not I'm not lying. I did

2:09:09nothing. I'm telling you, when you got

2:09:10game, you don't have to do nothing. Why

2:09:12do someone already know I can look what

2:09:14she said right here? Let me take this

2:09:16off. This is her sending this [ __ ] to

2:09:18me. Oh, let me let me take that off the

2:09:20comments so y'all can see this [ __ ]

2:09:23She says, "I was I was listening to one

2:09:26of your YouTube episodes last night and

2:09:29your voice must have been too relaxing

2:09:32because I fell asleep with it." Okay.

2:09:35Playing playing.

2:09:38[clears throat]

2:09:38I didn't ask this question. She's just

2:09:40giving me the information and ended up

2:09:42having the funniest dream about you.

2:09:45See, she What do you think she's doing?

2:09:48She This is what I'm talking about. Lore

2:09:49me. She's already flirting. See what I'm

2:09:51saying, guys? Open loop right here. This

2:09:54is exactly what I'm showing you. And I

2:09:56didn't do anything. I I did nothing. I'm

2:09:58not going to lie. Did nothing. This is

2:10:00who the [ __ ] I am. You see what I'm

2:10:03saying, Jay? You see it right there?

2:10:06>> When a woman is when you are the guy,

2:10:09they are going to open up and flirt with

2:10:11you. I keep trying to tell you guys, I

2:10:14promise on all I am, I never flirted

2:10:17with her. I never said anything nasty or

2:10:21dirty, rude or naughty. I said nothing

2:10:24but thank you because she just said,

2:10:26"You know what? Wow, I saw one of your

2:10:28shows and it was very interesting or

2:10:29something like that." And I said, "Thank

2:10:31you." And then this is what I got the

2:10:34next day. That's what I got the next day

2:10:37right here. And what I'm telling you

2:10:40guys, when you're him, this is our life.

2:10:43So this isn't anything to me. But what

2:10:45is she telling me? What did she say?

2:10:49She's Look how much of a What did she

2:10:50say? I was listening one of your

2:10:52YouTubetubes, right? And now she's

2:10:54telling me about my voice. It's

2:10:56relaxing.

2:10:58Okay. She's with it playing, right? And

2:11:02she ended up having a dream about me.

2:11:05You see what I'm saying, big dog? I

2:11:07didn't force this [ __ ] but I'm not I So

2:11:09[ __ ] What? Do Do you think Hey, Jay.

2:11:14You think Do you think uh she gets me

2:11:16because she had a dream about me,

2:11:21>> Jay?

2:11:21>> Do I think Do I think she gets you?

2:11:23>> Yo, you think you think you think I do

2:11:25you think I'm going to go after her

2:11:26[ __ ] because she had a dream about me?

2:11:29>> Oh, right, right, right. No,

2:11:31>> she's already she's already showing me

2:11:33she wants to [ __ ] with me. I I I know

2:11:36that. So [ __ ] what?

2:11:39You want to know why? because she never

2:11:41heard a [ __ ] talk to her like

2:11:43I'm talking to her. She never heard a

2:11:44show the way I'm talking to these guys.

2:11:46See what I'm saying?

2:11:49>> Right.

2:11:50>> Okay. But I'm listening. What's your

2:11:51next question?

2:11:53>> Oh, it's a basic one, man. Um, but you

2:11:55said to one of the callers before

2:11:58that

2:12:01in a relationship what goes up 99% of

2:12:04the time comes back down, but with you

2:12:06it doesn't. Can you explain that please?

2:12:08>> Okay. You guys are built to fail in your

2:12:12relationships.

2:12:14So when you meet a woman and things work

2:12:17out, there is a timer that begins to do

2:12:20a countdown on the end of your

2:12:23relationship.

2:12:25And because you don't have a

2:12:27relationship with yourself,

2:12:30it is doomed to end.

2:12:33But for me, I am going to be [ __ ]

2:12:36forever because I know in the beginning

2:12:41it is going to end in a different way.

2:12:45So that's why I open up Steve Mart, get

2:12:48a piece of land, build that place where

2:12:51she has access to me unlike any other

2:12:53person she's ever met before. And it

2:12:55will never be because I'm going to be

2:12:57forever.

2:12:59Even when I'm not around, I'm around.

2:13:02You see what I'm saying?

2:13:05Does that make sense?

2:13:06>> Because is that because

2:13:10where else is she going to go?

2:13:12>> Well, okay. Okay. If I'm in her pillow,

2:13:16I'm in her skin. If she If she has my

2:13:18cologne,

2:13:20I I'm deeply woven in her.

2:13:24>> Yeah.

2:13:24>> She I I I it it's not, Gentlemen. I

2:13:28don't I'm not here to torture women.

2:13:30That's not what I'm trying to teach you

2:13:32guys.

2:13:33It's just,

2:13:35okay, with women, watch this. With the

2:13:38average person,

2:13:41a woman leaves with her emotions first.

2:13:46They always either going to be respect

2:13:49or emotions that's going to leave first

2:13:51and then the woman breaks up with you,

2:13:53one space, cheats on you, whatever.

2:13:55That's the That's how your

2:13:56relationship's going to go

2:13:58>> with me.

2:14:00She's [snorts] going to try to leave,

2:14:02but where the [ __ ] Okay, this is what I

2:14:05call quicksand.

2:14:08I am going to put her in the [ __ ]

2:14:10quicksand

2:14:12because what is the rule of quicksand?

2:14:15The more you wiggle, the more you try to

2:14:18run, the more you try to move, what

2:14:20happens?

2:14:22>> The deeper you get stuck.

2:14:24>> You [ __ ] right. Where the [ __ ]

2:14:26are you going? because I'm imprinting

2:14:29myself on her because of the land.

2:14:32Every woman that you meet has this vast

2:14:36world. It's a huge forest in her mind.

2:14:39It's just It's like you like discovering

2:14:41a brand new [ __ ] world. It's just

2:14:44nothing but forest and trees. That's it.

2:14:49Forest and trees. And that is called her

2:14:53femininity, her emotions, her sexuality.

2:14:56It is an untapped

2:14:58area.

2:15:00Only person that taps into that is her

2:15:02journal or diary or something like that.

2:15:04But most men don't even know about that,

2:15:07right?

2:15:09But let me explain what happens. When

2:15:12you meet a woman, she becomes a land

2:15:15owner. No, she becomes a squatter. Not a

2:15:18land owner, a squatter.

2:15:20You see what I'm saying?

2:15:22So, what I'm saying is

2:15:25I can appreci appreciate a beautiful

2:15:27woman, right?

2:15:30But the thing is, I'm not trying to [ __ ]

2:15:33you. I'm showing you why you should [ __ ]

2:15:36me. And the only way you're going to

2:15:38understand why you should [ __ ] me, call

2:15:40me, hey, hey, Jay, run behind me,

2:15:45is to realize the value.

2:15:49And the only way I can do that, I must

2:15:52bring out the other side of her that's

2:15:55gonna fight the war for me. And that's

2:15:58her emotions.

2:15:59Her logic is going to say, "Fuck him.

2:16:02Who the [ __ ] does he think he is? He's a

2:16:05[ __ ] He's a jerk. He's cocky. He's

2:16:08arrogant. He has other women. I ain't

2:16:11[ __ ] with him. I'm not gonna be a

2:16:12notch on his belt." That's from logic

2:16:14standpoint. Right.

2:16:16>> Correct. But the emotions,

2:16:19he sees me. He hears me. He understands

2:16:23me. He He appreciates. He pays

2:16:27attention. He He's not trying to

2:16:29manipulate me. He's not trying to

2:16:31deceive me. And when I think about him,

2:16:34I feel, I smile, I think, I react, I

2:16:38miss, I want that. Right.

2:16:42So yeah,

2:16:43>> her logic is she's so used to dumping

2:16:46guys, right? That's what you want. I

2:16:51want her to get rid of me. I want her to

2:16:55do that

2:16:57because how is she going to feel the

2:16:59impact of what it's like not having me

2:17:02around anymore?

2:17:04What happens when who who's going to

2:17:06send her the next a voice message? Who's

2:17:10going to send her the next video?

2:17:13Who's going to seduce her with the next

2:17:14group of his words?

2:17:17When's the next guy going to what is the

2:17:19next thing after you spray the cologne

2:17:20in your pillow and all that? What's

2:17:22next? But guess what? Once I walk away

2:17:26from him, I've got to go back down to

2:17:29what do you do for a living? When was

2:17:31your last birthday? Where are you going?

2:17:33Insecure, low selfworth.

2:17:38She's going to come back eventually or

2:17:41suffer the consequences of not. It's not

2:17:43on me. I told you. Hey Jay, I've always

2:17:45said I'mma hurt him. Did I not say that?

2:17:48>> Did I not say that? I' I've always said

2:17:50at least I'm honest. At least I'll be

2:17:52honest. I'm going to hurt you. Not in a

2:17:54mean way. See, I'm not talking about

2:17:55from your reality like hitting her. I'm

2:17:58going to hurt her because her emotions

2:18:02are going to be battling.

2:18:04Okay. her logic

2:18:07and emotions. When a woman misses you, I

2:18:11mean really misses you, there is a pain

2:18:14there that only you can fix. Do you see

2:18:19what I'm saying? I'm going to be the

2:18:21cause and the [ __ ] cure. That's it.

2:18:23Okay.

2:18:28Does that make sense?

2:18:29>> Yeah. Yeah, it makes sense.

2:18:30>> All right. What's your next question?

2:18:35Man, that was a that was about it. Um I

2:18:38I need to go back through some of the

2:18:40stuff you said and just pay more

2:18:42attention to it as well.

2:18:43>> Yeah. Yeah. Make sure you keep watching

2:18:44Hannibal. You're doing a good job. Keep

2:18:46watching because I and I asked Li this.

2:18:49Do you notice how cool and calm he was?

2:18:52>> Yes.

2:18:52>> Was he unbreakable? Did Did he look like

2:18:54he could break?

2:18:56>> No.

2:18:57>> That [ __ ] was

2:19:00nut the nuts dropping.

2:19:02That's what I'm saying. That's what when

2:19:05a woman can see that in you, not the not

2:19:08the crazy Hannibal side. I'm saying it's

2:19:11going to intrigue her to meet a person

2:19:15that's not [ __ ] impressed. Did Did

2:19:18Hannibal look impressed by anything?

2:19:22>> No.

2:19:22>> [ __ ] no. He was more impressed by his

2:19:25meals than he was the people, if you

2:19:28know what I mean. You see what I'm

2:19:28saying?

2:19:29>> Yeah. Yeah. What he created.

2:19:31>> All right. Thank you for the call. Great

2:19:32call. I'll throw you back in. Okay.

2:19:35>> Thank you for your time. Stop.

2:19:36>> Great call. All right. Let's keep going,

2:19:37guys. Uh let's get this game. Let's

2:19:39continue. Uh and I I'm explain to you

2:19:42guys the power that I'm trying to show

2:19:45you young men out here. It's there's

2:19:48nothing wrong when a woman comes back to

2:19:50you. There is always going to be a need

2:19:54that when she talks to you, it's going

2:19:56to feel so good hearing your voice. It's

2:19:59it's like Ratatouille. I guess the best

2:20:01I mean if you have kids or whatever.

2:20:03Yes. Yeah. You put a candle in the

2:20:05window. Absolutely young man. Guys, you

2:20:07got a question? Put a Q. We are

2:20:08continuing this ism. But let's continue

2:20:10this conversation. Very important

2:20:12conversation that we're having. What I'm

2:20:15saying to you guys out here, this is

2:20:16where she experiences you differently.

2:20:20Okay?

2:20:21Because with you, she realizes there are

2:20:25doors inside this man that I've never

2:20:28opened yet. There are levels of trust

2:20:31that she has not reached yet. There are

2:20:34still pieces of the man's time, your

2:20:37time, your loyalty, your sexual world

2:20:42that she has not tapped into. That's

2:20:45what's going to create the loop,

2:20:47gentlemen. No confusion,

2:20:50no anxiety, gentlemen. Just discovery.

2:20:54And when a woman decides to leave you,

2:20:57there is an emptiness there because when

2:21:00she's with you, she discovers. And when

2:21:03it cuts off, there is an emptiness.

2:21:05Okay, this guy said, "You saying so let

2:21:07her come back even if she Okay, sir.

2:21:10Sir, okay, listen to me.

2:21:14Did I ever [ __ ] say she can come back

2:21:18if she disrespect me?" Did I ever say

2:21:20anybody ever say that? When did I say

2:21:23she'd come back after district? Tell me.

2:21:25Tell me. When have I said that? 90210.

2:21:28Tell me. Tell me. When have I ever said

2:21:31ever to let a woman come back if she's

2:21:34disrespectful?

2:21:36Guys, let me help you instead of this

2:21:38ignorant ass person. Let me help guys.

2:21:40Excuse me. All you guys relax. Guys,

2:21:44y'all take a relax. Let me talk to this

2:21:45ignorant [ __ ] right here.

2:21:48Listen, fool.

2:21:50If you have the [ __ ] game, there is

2:21:52no disrespect, [ __ ] Because the moment

2:21:55she disrespects you, you check that

2:21:57[ __ ] behavior. So there is no

2:21:59disrespect, dumb [ __ ]

2:22:02There is no disrespect. Because unlike

2:22:04you, a man is going to check the

2:22:06behavior. And if it happens again, she's

2:22:09gone. That's what the [ __ ] you don't

2:22:11understand. You're talking about all

2:22:13this [ __ ]

2:22:15The reason she goes back is because when

2:22:18she gets with a real man, okay? Because

2:22:20a woman controls you, she can't control

2:22:24me. She loses control with me. She walks

2:22:27all over your punk ass. She can't walk

2:22:30all over me. So sometimes a woman is

2:22:33going to leave. They're going to leave

2:22:36when they feel they're losing control.

2:22:39When they feel, I want to [ __ ] this man,

2:22:41but I shouldn't be thinking about

2:22:42[ __ ] this man. when I'm talking to

2:22:44him in ways that I shouldn't be talking

2:22:46to him. When I feel like I'm losing not

2:22:49myself, but I'm losing control. I'm

2:22:52getting the [ __ ] out before. But let me

2:22:54show you how cold I am. Young man,

2:22:59you write this down. Not everybody

2:23:00else's. They know you don't see. Unlike

2:23:03you, I'm so [ __ ] cold. I tell women,

2:23:08"This is your chance to leave. I don't

2:23:11even know if you want to be here. This

2:23:13is your chance to go away. Because if

2:23:15you go past this point, there is no

2:23:18comeback. But let me explain why you

2:23:20make my job easy. Cuz [ __ ] like

2:23:23you always making these [ __ ] threats.

2:23:25Oh, I'm this guy. I'mma tear it up and

2:23:27I'mma do all this [ __ ] I make promises.

2:23:30I don't make threats. See, unlike you, I

2:23:32give them a chance to leave because I

2:23:35know that they're not used to a man like

2:23:37me. And I know they're not used to

2:23:38running behind dick. I know. See, you

2:23:40got to understand something. Women don't

2:23:43run behind [ __ ] I'm letting

2:23:45you know right now. They don't run

2:23:47behind [ __ ] They don't come

2:23:49back. Y'all run back after them. That's

2:23:52all they know. I want space. Take me

2:23:55back. Take me back. Take me back. I

2:23:57don't know if I want the relationship.

2:23:59Give me a chance. Give me a chance. Give

2:24:01me a chance. It's over and done. Can we

2:24:04talk? Can we talk? Can we talk? So, all

2:24:07they know is guys are going to run after

2:24:10her [ __ ] So, I know she's going to

2:24:12come after me. And that's not a bad

2:24:14thing. Eventually, her emotions will

2:24:17take over and she'll come back. Told you

2:24:20guys before. I told you guys before and

2:24:23I talked about the other day. I remember

2:24:25there's one from Poland, right? This

2:24:27joint from Poland. You know what she and

2:24:29tons of guys. I love this [ __ ] Lots of

2:24:32fan club. You know what she said to me?

2:24:34I want a relationship.

2:24:37I'm not going to give you a

2:24:38relationship. You know what she said?

2:24:40Well, if you don't have a relationship

2:24:43with me, then I I see no reason for us

2:24:45to talk anymore. Hey, well, listen. It

2:24:48was nice talking to you. Hope you find

2:24:50what you're looking for. Take care.

2:24:52Gone. She thought she had the power. But

2:24:56what happened with I failed to tell you

2:24:58was how I made her smile, laugh, blush,

2:25:02think, react, seduce, romance, and

2:25:06everything in between with just my

2:25:07[ __ ] words. So when I said take

2:25:10care, she thought I was you, she thought

2:25:14I was just saying some [ __ ] ass [ __ ] so

2:25:16I'll come back and run behind her. But

2:25:18after an hour, two hours, I think it was

2:25:20probably around five or six hours,

2:25:24she reaches back to me and say, "Can we

2:25:26talk?" You see what the difference is,

2:25:28brother? They will go because they think

2:25:31their [ __ ] has power. And when a woman

2:25:34thinks her [ __ ] has power, she thinks

2:25:36she can dangle that in front of a man

2:25:38and do whatever she wants. That's what

2:25:41I'm saying to you guys. They're going to

2:25:42come back when you're him. I'm not

2:25:45talking about you. You're not him. So,

2:25:47they're not going to come back to you

2:25:49because you don't have a you to come

2:25:51back to. But, let me continue. I

2:25:53appreciate what you're saying, guys.

2:25:54Let's continue this game, guys. Got a

2:25:56question. We got y'all covered. But I'm

2:25:59saying to you guys out here, there are

2:26:01pieces that her emotions want to fill in

2:26:05that she feels me missing. Okay? See,

2:26:09when a woman gets around a real man, she

2:26:11is learning who you are

2:26:14while she's learning who she is at the

2:26:16same time.

2:26:18She's actually investing in you while

2:26:22you are showing her how to invest in

2:26:24herself. One second. 929. What's your

2:26:27name, sir? And how can I help you?

2:26:31>> Oh, hello.

2:26:32>> Yes, sir. How can I help you?

2:26:33>> Yeah, this is Air. Uh my question is

2:26:36what do you do when a woman asks

2:26:38questions like uh do you travel? Does

2:26:41does your family like questions about

2:26:43your family and like stuff like that?

2:26:45Why you on the date?

2:26:47>> Well,

2:26:47>> is it the same way?

2:26:48>> Well, no, no, no. Cuz you cuz it's you.

2:26:53I I don't have I I've never had those

2:26:55kind of questions with a woman. I I'

2:26:58I've never I know that. But I'm just

2:27:00saying like if a woman's saying that,

2:27:02that's telling you that you're not

2:27:04>> I'm not interested.

2:27:05>> I'm not interested. I'm not you're not

2:27:06interesting, which means she won't be

2:27:09interested.

2:27:10>> So that doesn't mean you're a bad

2:27:12person. It just means that what you're

2:27:14revealing to her is that you don't even

2:27:16know yourself, believe in yourself, and

2:27:18you're not making her work to earn you,

2:27:20big guy.

2:27:22>> Yeah, I know that. But because that's

2:27:24that's like the to to deal with. Then

2:27:27like what do I do when they ask those

2:27:29questions? Like

2:27:31>> well you you either answer you either

2:27:33answer the question or you look her in

2:27:35her eyes and let her know this isn't

2:27:37about my family.

2:27:39I'm I'm not here to talk about my

2:27:40family. I'm here to talk about you and

2:27:43I.

2:27:45I'm not here to talk about that [ __ ]

2:27:47[ __ ] I'm not talking about that.

2:27:49>> Okay.

2:27:50>> Uh what do you say first live? Just send

2:27:52your email. Okay. I got you, man. Thank

2:27:53you, sir. I got you, big dog. Young man,

2:27:55I got you. me. I I'll do it. Uh we're on

2:27:58the show right now, so I got you. I

2:27:59appreciate you, young man. Thank you

2:28:00very much, brother. I appreciate you.

2:28:02Respect. Thank you, sir. Respect. But

2:28:05you see what I'm saying? What I'm saying

2:28:06to you all, right? What I'm saying to

2:28:08you guys out here is that she's got to

2:28:12earn me. But I'm not trying to earn me

2:28:15through my Okay. Give me something that

2:28:16she says to you. Give me something that

2:28:18she says to you.

2:28:21>> No. Okay. That's

2:28:22>> Give me Give me No. Wait. Wait. Wait.

2:28:23Okay. Wait. Wait. Does the does does my

2:28:25family does your family live in the

2:28:28area? Right. Right.

2:28:29>> Yeah.

2:28:30>> All right. She asked me, "Does the

2:28:31family live in the area?" Let me turn

2:28:32the music up.

2:28:34>> Here we go. This Let's start from the

2:28:36beginning. Let's get the music going.

2:28:38All right. This is my family live in the

2:28:39area, right?

2:28:41>> Yeah.

2:28:44>> Let me say Wait, can we say come here

2:28:45for a second? Let me tell you something.

2:28:49>> I'm going be perfectly honest with you.

2:28:52I didn't bring you here to ask about our

2:28:55family cuz I understand. I get it. You

2:28:58think that answering me about my family

2:29:00is going to really get to know me

2:29:01better, but it's not. [music] I'm not

2:29:03here to talk about my family. I'm not

2:29:05here to discuss anything. I'm here to

2:29:07discuss you and I and what I notice

2:29:10about you when I look at you. I notice

2:29:12your smile. I notice the way you blush.

2:29:14You know, I really like the perfume you

2:29:15have on you and I look forward to next

2:29:17time we have the date. I want you to

2:29:18probably wear the same thing again. I

2:29:20like your outfit. I like how you have

2:29:22what you have on. I'm going to tell you

2:29:24about what I'm noticing. But talking

2:29:27about my family is something I will not

2:29:29do. No disrespect, but to be honest with

2:29:32you, talking about my family would not

2:29:35get to know the woman behind the one

2:29:37that's asked me the questions. Talking

2:29:39about my family would not allow me to

2:29:41discover things in [music] you. So,

2:29:43let's not talk about our family anymore.

2:29:46Let's talk more about you and I in this

2:29:48moment that we're having right now.

2:29:50And I'm thinking about, you know what

2:29:51I'm thinking about the most? I think

2:29:53about I think when I get home, I'm going

2:29:54pat myself on the back because you know

2:29:56what? After getting to know you, hugging

2:29:58you, and eventually kissing you when all

2:30:00this is said and done, I'm going to say,

2:30:02"You know what? I think I really made

2:30:04the right decision by going over there

2:30:05and talking to you." You see what I'm

2:30:06saying right there? See how See how I

2:30:09move that See, I moved that [ __ ] I'm

2:30:11not talking about my family. I'm [ __ ]

2:30:13I'mma talk [ __ ]

2:30:15>> You see what I'm saying?

2:30:15>> I I got a question. Yeah. I question him

2:30:17on that. Even how you just said that

2:30:20right there. You know what to do.

2:30:22>> Yes.

2:30:22>> Oh, you said hold on.

2:30:23>> No, no, no. I was just saying hi. Go.

2:30:24What's up?

2:30:25>> Yeah. Yeah. So, so you you're actually

2:30:28able to say that because you know who

2:30:30you are and you know what to do after

2:30:31that.

2:30:31>> Yeah.

2:30:32>> Got to a situation where a woman asked

2:30:34me, "Okay." Um, she was asking about my

2:30:37family and my siblings and I said,

2:30:40>> "I don't I don't usually I don't really

2:30:42talk about that because my family aren't

2:30:44here right now and they're not, you

2:30:46know, in the situation that we're in."

2:30:47>> Okay. Okay. No, no, no. That right.

2:30:49>> No, no, no, no. Okay. I don't It's okay

2:30:52to say what you're saying, but you're

2:30:53not giving it a reason why. You're not

2:30:55smoothing over the edges.

2:30:58>> Okay. The reason I don't want to I

2:31:00listen, I don't mind talking about my

2:31:02family, but this is not the right place.

2:31:06You see what I'm saying? Because I'm I

2:31:09because to be honest with you, I'm here

2:31:11to seduce you. And talking to my family

2:31:14is not going to seduce you.

2:31:18I'm a family person. That's true. But

2:31:21that's something we can discuss later.

2:31:23Right now, I want to discuss you and me.

2:31:25I want to talk about us, not my family.

2:31:27Because my family isn't going to see

2:31:29what we are. Does that make sense?

2:31:32>> Yeah. Yeah. That makes sense.

2:31:34>> Okay. I'm listen to you. But I but I'm

2:31:36also saying that even when I say some

2:31:40even if I would were to say something

2:31:41like that,

2:31:43I like I can't even be in too much depth

2:31:46with even giving like a reason why cuz

2:31:48I'm not going to know what to do after.

2:31:50>> But that's why you got to learn the

2:31:51game. That's what I'm saying, man.

2:31:55>> Like if I because if I just take what

2:31:58you said and then of course it's going

2:32:01to sound because of course what you said

2:32:02is game. I'm not gonna be able to follow

2:32:04through with it because what what I'm

2:32:06going to say with after is not gonna

2:32:07it's not it's not not gonna have any

2:32:09game. It's gonna be gonna be like that's

2:32:12why I tell guys don't steal the [ __ ]

2:32:14that I'm putting out there but they'll

2:32:15do it anyway.

2:32:16>> But I'm just saying like Okay. So like

2:32:18Okay, watch watch this.

2:32:19>> The woman that showed Did you see the

2:32:21the woman that posted the clip that that

2:32:23sent that message to me?

2:32:26>> Uh no.

2:32:27>> Okay. So Okay. So woman messaged me on

2:32:31uh one of these apps, right? and said to

2:32:33me, "I was listening to YouTube last

2:32:35night. Your voice must have been too

2:32:38relaxing because I fell asleep with it

2:32:40playing and I ended up having the

2:32:41funniest dream about you and I'm still

2:32:43laughing about it."

2:32:45What do you think she What do you think

2:32:46the move is? What do What would you do

2:32:48if a woman said that to you?

2:32:53>> I don't even know.

2:32:54>> Come on, dog. You You know, come on.

2:32:56Stop [ __ ] around. You damn well know

2:32:59you're going to try to get some [ __ ]

2:33:01from her because hearing a woman say

2:33:03anything about dreaming about you makes

2:33:04you think that you're close to getting

2:33:06some [ __ ] Cuz you know women don't say

2:33:07that [ __ ] Come on, be honest. If a

2:33:10woman said she had a funniest dream

2:33:12about you and she was listening to your

2:33:14voice, what are you going to say to her?

2:33:18>> Yeah, I'll probably be like, "Oh, I must

2:33:21have been dreaming about um I don't

2:33:22know. I'm probably ask her what what she

2:33:24dreamed about."

2:33:25>> Okay. Why are you asking her what she

2:33:27dreamed about?

2:33:29>> Just out of out of curiosity and then

2:33:32based off what she said, I'll probably

2:33:34just think about something based off

2:33:35like that.

2:33:37>> Okay. So, let me ask you a question.

2:33:39Well, whatever it is.

2:33:42>> Why dream about me when you can

2:33:45experience me?

2:33:48>> See that? That's what I would say.

2:33:51>> Yeah.

2:33:52>> Why dream about me when you can

2:33:54experience me? No, I didn't say that.

2:33:56I'm just giving it to you. But I'm

2:33:57saying, see, you guys get caught up in

2:34:00the trap. What did I tell you about

2:34:02women in stripper 101? What did I tell

2:34:05you?

2:34:06>> They know how to make you feel

2:34:08comfortable.

2:34:08>> Ex. What do you think? What do you

2:34:09think? What do you think this message is

2:34:11saying? See, not to say

2:34:14>> you

2:34:15>> not to say it's true. Not to say it's

2:34:17not true, but a woman, how many ways he

2:34:20gonna put her ass in a pretzel? You see

2:34:22what I'm saying? And what did I tell you

2:34:24about words? Don't believe a woman's

2:34:27words

2:34:29because women know how to use their

2:34:31words. Look what she was doing. She

2:34:33tried to open it. Look, she tried. Look,

2:34:35look. She said, "I ended up having the

2:34:37funniest dream about you and I'm still

2:34:40laughing about it." And you know what

2:34:42she's waiting for me to say? Well, what

2:34:44did you dream about?

2:34:45>> What did you dream about? What did I do?

2:34:49Why were you laughing?

2:34:51Oh, you dreamed about me. Really? You

2:34:55was up all night listening to me?

2:34:57Really?

2:34:58>> You think I'm going to do that [ __ ]

2:35:01>> But the a but the average guy is going

2:35:04to be like, "Yes,

2:35:06yes. God, I'm I'm I'm so close. Maybe I

2:35:10should send her a dickpick or maybe it's

2:35:12ass her titties." You see that?

2:35:15>> Yes, I understand.

2:35:16>> You can't get caught up when women say

2:35:18[ __ ] like that, gentlemen.

2:35:21You can't feel like, "Okay, gentlemen,

2:35:23listen. I have not talked to her, so I

2:35:26don't know if it's real or fake. I just

2:35:28shown you what I got. Have not said [ __ ]

2:35:31about it. What I'm saying is whether it

2:35:34was real or it is fake. I don't give a

2:35:37[ __ ] because I'm not going to get lured

2:35:40in to mere words."

2:35:43Women say this to the average guy,

2:35:45they're going to feel like, "Damn, man.

2:35:47Man, I think she's my person." You see

2:35:49what I'm saying?

2:35:50Yeah, I feel what you're saying.

2:35:52>> That's why you have to pay attention to

2:35:55what a woman is saying and actually see

2:35:57what's behind what she's saying. Does

2:35:59that make sense?

2:36:00>> Yeah, that was that was actually my next

2:36:03question. You I know you talked about

2:36:05going to, you know, talking and getting

2:36:07behind the statement, you know, getting

2:36:09behind what the statement of what she's

2:36:12saying and getting to the person behind

2:36:14it.

2:36:14>> Yes. Cuz I find myself where we might be

2:36:17on a we might be talking about a basic

2:36:19like topic and then I might be like,

2:36:21"Oh, like you must you must have like a

2:36:23sentimental reason about like what that

2:36:25is." And then she might just be like,

2:36:27"Oh, nah, not not really." Or, you know,

2:36:31"Yeah, I do have like a sentimental

2:36:32reason."

2:36:34>> Wait, wait, wait. I want ask a question.

2:36:36Hey, hey, Jill. No, no, not to get your

2:36:38business,

2:36:40but what

2:36:42what when you dream about the above

2:36:46average guy, Jill,

2:36:48can you explain to everybody in the room

2:36:50what it is like to dream about the above

2:36:53average guy? Not not to give details of

2:36:57what you dreamed about, but what what is

2:37:00the processing that a woman will do if

2:37:03she dreams about an above average guy?

2:37:05But I'm I'm just we could keep talking.

2:37:07I want y'all guys to just hear a woman

2:37:09that's saying that we don't dream about

2:37:11the the average guy. So what is the

2:37:15process that a woman goes through or any

2:37:16woman wants to answer this question? Any

2:37:18woman that dreams about a guy? What is

2:37:20the process that you go through with Do

2:37:23you want to tell him or not? What is the

2:37:25process? Jill, if you can answer or any

2:37:27woman answers that question. Go ahead.

2:37:28I'm listen big dog. Go ahead.

2:37:31>> Yeah. So so so you say yeah like stuff

2:37:33like that. um like get behind the

2:37:35statement that that she said and getting

2:37:37to the woman behind it, I find myself

2:37:40stuck and I might say I might say a

2:37:43statement based like based off of it

2:37:45that like gives kind of like um like a b

2:37:48like a retrospective like how I think

2:37:50about it and then it just ends right

2:37:52there. Like it doesn't go deeper from

2:37:53there.

2:37:54>> Right. Well, that's that's what I'm

2:37:55saying. Okay. So, um what you got to

2:37:58look at is, uh when you um start to lock

2:38:05in

2:38:07is that the first real move is not

2:38:09getting her to chase you.

2:38:12The first move is ending your own chase

2:38:15after your approval.

2:38:18That's where it starts.

2:38:23I just And and look at that. This goes

2:38:25it's gonna go over his head. The

2:38:27[ __ ] said, "And what's the

2:38:28rule?" I just said it, [ __ ]

2:38:31I just said it. Uh, beautiful, if you

2:38:34can answer that question, too. I wanted

2:38:35to know if y'all women think the same.

2:38:37Beautiful. Have you if you've ever

2:38:39dreamed about a guy, dreamed about a

2:38:41guy, what would be the process without

2:38:44giving out any information that you went

2:38:46through? Now, I'm going to read what

2:38:47Jill's saying. Guys, I'm just going to

2:38:49read what women are saying about guys. I

2:38:51I'm just asking. So Jill says when she

2:38:55has a dream about another guy or has a

2:38:57dream about an above average guy, she

2:39:00says every night he wakes her up uh

2:39:03wakes her up wanting him. Okay, so it's

2:39:06something. Okay. Well, no. Okay. You say

2:39:09you never Okay. You never Okay. Have you

2:39:10ever had a fantasy or dream about a guy

2:39:14beautiful that that was so impactful? If

2:39:18not, that's cool. I'm just asking I'm

2:39:19just I'm just asking the women here. uh

2:39:22the ladies, but this young lady said

2:39:24right here is that when she dreams about

2:39:27him, see what I'm saying, that she wants

2:39:29the person. But like you say, the woman

2:39:32that the woman that said to me that she

2:39:35had a dream about me, did I do I should

2:39:38I take her at face value caller? Should

2:39:41I get excited because she had a dream

2:39:43about me? Should I take it and move it

2:39:45forward? What do you think I should do

2:39:46in that situation?

2:39:48Well, you shouldn't get excited because

2:39:50of course since you got game, that's

2:39:52already like expected.

2:39:54>> Yeah, expect. So, I'm not I'm not I'm

2:39:56not tripping over that. But,

2:39:58>> uh again, some women can say [ __ ] and

2:40:01women know how to lie and tell guys, I

2:40:04dreamed about you. I thought about you.

2:40:06I had a fantasy about you. But you can't

2:40:09get excited

2:40:11about what a woman is saying unless she

2:40:13ties a action to it. Now, if she said,

2:40:16"I had a dream about you," and started

2:40:18telling me about the dream, and then

2:40:20started throwing the action to it,

2:40:21saying, "Well, you know, I want this to

2:40:22be a reality or da da da." Okay. But

2:40:25just the mere words, man, y'all can't

2:40:27get caught up in that [ __ ] But I'm

2:40:28listen to you, big guy.

2:40:31>> Yeah, cuz like there was this one thing

2:40:32where um you know, we were talking about

2:40:36we were talking about school and

2:40:37experiences and she was saying how she

2:40:39thought that she missed out.

2:40:40>> But why are you why are you talk Okay.

2:40:42Are you going on out on a date?

2:40:45Is that a date?

2:40:48>> Yeah. This is

2:40:49>> Why do y'all think Why do y'all guys

2:40:51think dating

2:40:53is talking about a bunch of nothing?

2:40:56That doesn't make sense.

2:41:01What? What?

2:41:01>> I know it is.

2:41:02>> No, I'm just asking. What is the purpose

2:41:04of talking about a bunch of non [ __ ]

2:41:07just [ __ ] that doesn't matter?

2:41:11Why? Why?

2:41:12>> Well,

2:41:13>> why talk about that? That Listen, okay.

2:41:17I've I've never watched a episode of

2:41:20Friends. Have you ever heard of Friends?

2:41:24>> Yeah, I heard that.

2:41:25>> I've never watched an episode of

2:41:26Friends. So, if a woman tells me, "I

2:41:29like watching Friends." What do you

2:41:31think about it? I'm going to say I don't

2:41:32like that. I I I don't like Friends.

2:41:37I've never watched any episode. I've

2:41:39never watched or I've I would see them

2:41:41dancing in the [ __ ] water waterfall

2:41:44or something and I'd turn to [ __ ] I

2:41:46would never I would never ever watch

2:41:48friends. You want to know why?

2:41:51>> Wow.

2:41:52>> Because let me got you. All right. It's

2:41:54no good. 43. It's all good. So, the

2:41:56thing is this

2:41:58is that friends is the greatest lie to

2:42:01you [ __ ]

2:42:03It shouldn't be called friends. It

2:42:05should be called [ __ ] not friends. It

2:42:08should be [ __ ]

2:42:11it. It shouldn't be friends.

2:42:13But that's what I'm saying. Y'all, you

2:42:16guys watch these shows and y'all think

2:42:19that's how you're supposed to move.

2:42:22See, the thing is, okay,

2:42:24>> listen what I'm saying. The first move,

2:42:27gentlemen, listen to me,

2:42:29>> is is not getting her to chase after

2:42:32you. Okay? When you see a woman, there's

2:42:36nothing wrong with saying, "Look at her

2:42:37ass. Look at her dick sucking lips. Look

2:42:39at her titties. Man, I Hey, I won't mind

2:42:42[ __ ] her." That is okay. Right.

2:42:44Right.

2:42:46>> Yeah.

2:42:46>> That's where it has to end because

2:42:49anything after that, you're chasing

2:42:50behind that [ __ ] Right. Right.

2:42:53>> The first move is ending your chase

2:42:56after you have approved of that woman's

2:42:59body.

2:43:02See where you guys go wrong. If you need

2:43:04a woman to choose you in order to feel

2:43:07chosen,

2:43:08then who do you think owns the pricing

2:43:11pin?

2:43:13>> She does.

2:43:14>> She does. Right. If listen, if her

2:43:18leaving you destroys your identity, she

2:43:21owns the pen. If you can't say no

2:43:24because you're afraid that another man

2:43:26will say yes, she owns the pen. If you

2:43:29tolerate her disrespect or her telling

2:43:31you you got to buy her [ __ ] and feed

2:43:33her, guess what? She owns the pen. And

2:43:36listen, once a woman, listen your man,

2:43:40everybody, once a woman, okay, knows

2:43:43this one thing, you're [ __ ]

2:43:46Because if a woman controls your price,

2:43:50then you'll never be priceless. Does

2:43:53that make sense?

2:43:55>> Yeah, that makes sense.

2:43:56>> This is why.

2:43:58>> Yes. Go ahead. I'm listening.

2:44:00>> Yeah. So, like back to what I was saying

2:44:01like in terms of that like talking about

2:44:04like school uh like of course I don't

2:44:06know what topics to talk about. So I do

2:44:09>> you you you

2:44:12>> but I I don't know I don't know who I

2:44:14am. So I just talk about like stuff I do

2:44:16and then based off that I try to like

2:44:18get get into like why why she why she

2:44:21likes certain things to find out like

2:44:23>> why do you care why she wait? Tell me

2:44:25something certain that she likes

2:44:30>> Okay. Like one of them she she liked um

2:44:32like R&B music.

2:44:38>> And when she told you she like R&B

2:44:40music, what did you say?

2:44:44>> I was just talking about like artists I

2:44:46like and why I like certain things.

2:44:48>> Okay, I gota Okay, that's not a wrong

2:44:50answer.

2:44:51>> You talked about the artist you like and

2:44:54why you like it. Right. Right. Right.

2:44:57>> Yeah.

2:44:58>> Well, if you got Why y'all guys not

2:45:01taking the [ __ ] they give you?

2:45:05If a woman tells me she likes R&B music,

2:45:08okay,

2:45:10I'mma let her know if there's ever a

2:45:13chance you're lucky enough to come to my

2:45:14place

2:45:16and get past the kitchen,

2:45:19I'm going to DJ some R&B music that is

2:45:22so smooth, so tight, so connected. You

2:45:25are going to add that to your playlist

2:45:27after I get to have you in a nasty way.

2:45:30Do you see what you see the difference

2:45:31is?

2:45:32>> Yeah, I see what you're saying. No, but

2:45:34no. I I like New Edition. I like Jodicy.

2:45:39I like I'll be sure. Man, I really love

2:45:42Keith Sweat.

2:45:44>> Keith Sweat is really cool. I like Chris

2:45:47Brown. Oh my god. I like to listen to

2:45:50B2K.

2:45:52Wow. I really like R&B music.

2:45:55>> The [ __ ] are you talking about that [ __ ]

2:45:57for?

2:45:57>> That's exactly how it went over there.

2:45:59>> I know. You're supposed to You're not

2:46:01supposed to do that. music. It's deep.

2:46:04Yeah.

2:46:04>> No. And then I I would be like, "Oh,

2:46:07yeah. I'mma put you on it later." That's

2:46:09>> No, no, no, no, no. Or you could swing

2:46:11it this way. You can say, "You know

2:46:13what?

2:46:15I know you like R&B." All right,

2:46:17gentlemen. Have you Do you know

2:46:21that women

2:46:23create soundtracks for you? Did you guys

2:46:26know that? Did you know that?

2:46:29>> You talking like a playlist?

2:46:30>> A playlist? I mean, not a a playlist for

2:46:32you. Yes. A playlist. Yes.

2:46:35>> Yeah. I had a woman told me she was

2:46:36going to make one for me one time.

2:46:37>> Well, I'm saying so if you had a woman

2:46:40make a playlist for you and a woman's

2:46:42talking about R&B, why don't you put the

2:46:44chocolate and the peanut butter together

2:46:46like a You ever see the back in the day?

2:46:48I'm old. Back in the day, they used to

2:46:49have a Reese's Peanut Butter Cup

2:46:50commercial, right? He says, "I'm peanut

2:46:52butter." Now the guy says, "I'm

2:46:54chocolate." And they like tripping. You

2:46:56got your peanut butter and my chocolate.

2:46:58No, you put your chocolate in my peanut

2:47:00butter and they eat it, right? It's

2:47:02commercial. [ __ ] it. Anyway,

2:47:04>> if you already had a woman make a

2:47:06playlist for you

2:47:07>> and she brings up R&B, how can you tie

2:47:09that in?

2:47:12>> I you you basically talk about like what

2:47:15you're going to be doing and I guess the

2:47:16experience playing the music.

2:47:19>> No, you tell her, "Listen, I know. Okay,

2:47:21it's cool that you like R&B music, but

2:47:25you know it'll be cooler than having R&B

2:47:28music. What do you think is cooler than

2:47:30liking R&B music?

2:47:33>> Uh, making R&B music

2:47:35>> for

2:47:37>> her? I mean,

2:47:38>> me, [ __ ] [clears throat]

2:47:39>> Oh, yeah. Me. Okay. Me.

2:47:41>> Oh my god,

2:47:44dog. You You're missing it. She says, "I

2:47:48like R&B music."

2:47:50What you got to use the R&B music to

2:47:52say, "Okay, you know what? What's going

2:47:54to be really cool is when you have my

2:47:58own personal playlist

2:48:01and I'mma look her dead in the eyes and

2:48:03explain the playlist.

2:48:05When I piss you off, you'll have a

2:48:08playlist. When you miss me, you have a

2:48:11playlist. When you're horny, you'll have

2:48:13a playlist. When you're thinking about

2:48:15me, there'll be a playlist, right? I I

2:48:20look forward to being a part of your

2:48:22playlist. Not Oh my god, R&B music.

2:48:25That's so cool. You see how you go

2:48:28wrong?

2:48:29>> Yeah, I see how I go wrong.

2:48:32>> Now, even terms of like those topics,

2:48:35can I get like a list of topics that

2:48:37like just not talk about?

2:48:42>> You should talk about everything. We're

2:48:43going to have that. We're gonna have all

2:48:44that [ __ ]

2:48:45>> Like my thing is like I I'm not at that

2:48:47level to even talk about, you know, like

2:48:49me. So it's like what topics do I talk

2:48:51about to get on like like a non-service

2:48:54level if I'm even trying to do that?

2:48:56>> Okay. Okay. Wait, wait, wait, wait,

2:48:58wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Watch

2:48:59this. Watch watch this. Okay. Jill said

2:49:02Jill said, "I never made a playlist for

2:49:05myself or anyone." Okay. She says, "I

2:49:08listen to old stuff and I sleep to

2:49:10classical." Right. Right.

2:49:13>> Yeah. So, what do you think is deeper?

2:49:16Her having a playlist or her

2:49:18daydreaming?

2:49:21>> Daydreaming.

2:49:21>> You [ __ ] right. So, Jill, so

2:49:24you've already bypassed the playlist.

2:49:26Your daydreams have more impact than the

2:49:28playlist because you are going you are

2:49:32going into another realm when you are

2:49:34sleeping and that man is in that dream

2:49:36of yours, which has more impact than the

2:49:39playlist. which means is maybe you're

2:49:42thinking about that person while that

2:49:45[ __ ] is going on and you don't even

2:49:47realize it. But I continue. But all

2:49:49right, you got any other questions, big

2:49:50guy?

2:49:52Yeah, my other question is when I'm when

2:49:55I'm talking to a woman and you know she

2:49:58some sometimes I notice things like when

2:50:00she when she's thinking about something

2:50:02she might play with her hair a certain

2:50:03way or she might like pause and like her

2:50:06her her lips might move a certain way

2:50:08when she's about to when she's about to

2:50:10speak. And I'm like when you're like

2:50:11noticing like little stuff like that

2:50:13like is it you like bring that up or

2:50:16like what like like things that she

2:50:17actually does like physically? What what

2:50:19made it what made a troller hair?

2:50:23>> I was just talking about sometimes I'm

2:50:25just talking about something basic.

2:50:26>> See, stop. You're not

2:50:27>> He may do that after I like kiss her or

2:50:29some

2:50:31>> Listen,

2:50:34if you create a reaction out of her,

2:50:39shouldn't you pay attention to what the

2:50:40[ __ ] you're doing to see what you did to

2:50:43create the reaction?

2:50:46>> Yeah. Okay,

2:50:50wait a second. Wait, you said I never

2:50:52Okay, hold on a second, dog. Y'all got

2:50:54to get this game together. You gotta

2:50:55have a playlist, man. [ __ ] Come on,

2:50:58man. You know what I like to do? I love

2:51:00to I love to learn about your playlist

2:51:03because every playlist has an

2:51:04instrumental and I just want to be on

2:51:06that [ __ ] But anyway,

2:51:07>> all right. You just got to pay attention

2:51:08to her, man. Okay, I'm gonna throw you

2:51:10back in. But you have any other

2:51:11questions, let me know. Okay,

2:51:12>> I appreciate you.

2:51:13>> All right, guys. Get your crowns out. I

2:51:14need y'all to know this, guys. lines are

2:51:16open. Y'all need to get your crowns out.

2:51:19I got something to tell y'all.

2:51:22All right.

2:51:23One of the one of the most

2:51:26important things that you have got to do

2:51:31regardless of whoever you're with. Let's

2:51:34talk on it.

2:51:38In order to set a price, gentlemen,

2:51:41that's what we're talking about. Setting

2:51:43a price.

2:51:46The number one thing that you must do to

2:51:50set your price

2:51:54is learning

2:51:56the first no sets your price. And this

2:52:02is the part that a lot of you guys don't

2:52:03prepare for. You love the idea of being

2:52:07expensive until become becoming

2:52:10expensive is going to cost you

2:52:11something.

2:52:13You love talking about the standards

2:52:15until the standards might make that

2:52:17woman angry. You love talking about

2:52:19boundaries until your boundaries create

2:52:22distance. You love talking about being

2:52:24the bad guy until the woman looks at you

2:52:26differently when you finally say no.

2:52:29Think about what I'm saying, gentlemen.

2:52:32If you guys cannot tell a woman no

2:52:36and you can't say goodbye,

2:52:39then you can't ever set the price.

2:52:44Very important. Listen. See, the thing

2:52:46is a woman's not used to your first no

2:52:49may surprise her because she has been

2:52:52trained by old behavior.

2:52:57What guy is going to say no to some ass

2:53:00and titties that he's trying to smash?

2:53:02He's not.

2:53:04But the problem is it's not your first

2:53:06no. It's how when she cut you off, you

2:53:08ran behind her. How she said she's

2:53:11talking to another guy and you kept

2:53:13bugging her. Okay,

2:53:17maybe listen.

2:53:20Sometimes a woman and they're kind of

2:53:22messed up this way. Sometimes they just

2:53:24want to see what they can get away with

2:53:25with you guys. That's it sometimes.

2:53:29Okay.

2:53:31But what I'm saying to all you guys out

2:53:33here, all right, very Wait.

2:53:36Uh, saying no to woman just like you're

2:53:38saying no to a bad talk to Well, a lady

2:53:40of pain. I Lady of Pain. I don't want to

2:53:43necessarily

2:53:45uh I'm not I'm not calling women uh

2:53:48pieces of stock,

2:53:50but what I'm saying is is that sometimes

2:53:55a woman is going to do thing. Guys, I

2:53:58told you

2:54:00the hardest no that I had to make

2:54:04was when I had Guys, in my apartment, it

2:54:08was this simple rule. If I'm not coming,

2:54:11you ain't coming over. My boys can come

2:54:14over and watch video games and we could

2:54:16chill out.

2:54:17But if you think you coming to my house

2:54:19and I ain't coming, you ain't coming

2:54:21over. And I've had women attest that,

2:54:24guys. I told you I will not lie. I

2:54:28there. Hey, dog. I will tell you, come

2:54:31over. I'm about to hit it right before I

2:54:34slide it in. She says, "You know what?

2:54:36I'm not sure because I want a

2:54:38relationship from you and I've got to

2:54:41use my third leg to roll off that bed.

2:54:45[laughter]

2:54:45I'm serious.

2:54:48But get her clothes on and send her out

2:54:51the door.

2:54:53What I'm saying you guys out here, you

2:54:56have your standard

2:54:58must go beyond your thirst to want to

2:55:01smash that woman. Okay?

2:55:05All you guys do over and over again is

2:55:08keep allowing women to walk all over

2:55:10you.

2:55:13She shows up late, she cancels, and what

2:55:16are you doing? Begging for another date.

2:55:20She says, "I don't know." Or maybe,

2:55:22"What are you doing?" Begging her to

2:55:24make up her mind and trying to persuade

2:55:26her to say yes. That's crazy to me.

2:55:29That's not the game.

2:55:31Okay.

2:55:33Women don't like women who whose guys

2:55:36are y'all [ __ ] tight. Y'all gotta stop

2:55:39moving like tight [ __ ] What I'm saying

2:55:42guys, I'm not saying punish the woman.

2:55:46I'm not saying be cruel to the woman. I

2:55:48got to keep telling y'all because I'm

2:55:50not red pill or manosphere.

2:55:52I'm just understanding is that

2:55:56sure you might be disappointed, but you

2:55:58don't let her know you're disappointed.

2:56:01Okay?

2:56:03Just because you say no, all right, she

2:56:06will get disappointed because she

2:56:07doesn't hear no.

2:56:10She might get upset. She may have

2:56:12crocodile tears. She might have a a

2:56:14[ __ ] attitude. That's none of my

2:56:16business. But she better realize she

2:56:18can't act that way around me. You see

2:56:20what I'm saying, gentlemen?

2:56:23That's what I'm saying. You guys out

2:56:25here, listen,

2:56:27you don't owe her a 20 minute speech.

2:56:31You just have to show her some

2:56:32adjustment.

2:56:35Can I come see you? No. Why? What's

2:56:39wrong? What did I do? Baby, look. Check

2:56:43it. I'm busy. I've got company coming

2:56:46over, so I can't see you today. Right.

2:56:51And then they'll get mad and let me tell

2:56:53you how they do it. Oh [ __ ] They'll

2:56:56call you up and say, "Oh, I was just

2:56:57checking on you." Oh, but I want to let

2:56:59you know I I really can't talk long cuz

2:57:01I'm going on a date or I have company or

2:57:04some [ __ ] like that. You see, when you

2:57:05at a game, guys, I'll be on YouTube to

2:57:07tell you this,

2:57:10guys. When you're him

2:57:13and I know she's going on a dinner date,

2:57:16God bless that guy,

2:57:20man. I Hey, that's my guy. And if you're

2:57:23gonna go to a nice lobster dinner with

2:57:27some sucker that's tricking his money,

2:57:30by all means, let's go live on video and

2:57:32let's make sure you're dressed properly

2:57:34for the occasion. I just need to know if

2:57:36he's a ass man or titty man cuz I will

2:57:38tell you what to wear for them

2:57:40[ __ ] cuz you know you ain't

2:57:42[ __ ] him and you know you're just

2:57:43trying to throw it in my face to piss me

2:57:45off. But that doesn't work with me when

2:57:47you get this game. That's what I'm

2:57:50saying you guys out here. Okay, that's

2:57:52what I'm saying you guys.

2:57:55I'm saying that this is why you don't

2:57:57argue with women about your value. This

2:58:01is why I'm telling you to watch

2:58:02Hannibal.

2:58:04Because when you value yourself,

2:58:07this is how you talk to him.

2:58:11The only time you're allowed to scream

2:58:12is when you're about to bust that nut.

2:58:16You don't you don't have to talk to

2:58:18women in the old cotton. This is This

2:58:20should be guys. I tell y'all watch him.

2:58:22Watch how he interact with the women and

2:58:23[ __ ] Same way. You just got to be

2:58:26chill. I just got to be chill in the

2:58:28cut. That's it.

2:58:31I don't need Listen, gentlemen, please

2:58:34understand this. Women know this, but

2:58:37you don't. The more you have to convince

2:58:39somebody that you're valuable, the less

2:58:43valuable you actually look. Hey, look at

2:58:45my clothes. Look at my Armani suit. Hey,

2:58:48look at my muscles. Hey, look at my

2:58:50status. Hey, look at my height. Hey,

2:58:52look at my degree. You don't look

2:58:55valuable. Okay? You don't stand in front

2:58:58of a woman saying that you better

2:59:01appreciate me because I'm a high value

2:59:04man. That's not how men work. Uh, let me

2:59:07get this question. Okay. Uh, wait, let

2:59:11me help you. No, that's not true. You're

2:59:12the sociopath. Hold on. I got your

2:59:15question. Give me a second. See, let me

2:59:17explain something to you. You're saying

2:59:20men must protect themselves from That's

2:59:22not true. That's not true.

2:59:26See, this is your reality. This is why I

2:59:28keep trying to teach y'all guys about

2:59:32realities.

2:59:35And your reality,

2:59:37you believe in sociopath women, but you

2:59:40don't understand who creates the

2:59:42sociopath woman. It's the [ __ ] ass guy.

2:59:46A man doesn't have to protect himself

2:59:48from a sociopath. He's got to stop

2:59:50acting like one and training these women

2:59:52to be sociopaths, young lady. Because

2:59:56the [ __ ] up woman won't be that way to

2:59:58a man. I can promise you that much. So

3:00:00men don't know. They got to stop that.

3:00:02See, I want y'all listen. Don't do that

3:00:04[ __ ] ass [ __ ] by protecting yourselves.

3:00:07That's why y'all lose. See, the world

3:00:10wants you to think by protecting

3:00:11yourself, you're saying that where

3:00:16the big bad boogeyman woman

3:00:19is so [ __ ] dangerous that you got to

3:00:22protect yourself from her. See how they

3:00:24get y'all [ __ ] You don't have

3:00:25to protect yourself from a sociopath.

3:00:29You just got to smoke her ass out and

3:00:30let her know what it's going to be like

3:00:32to get on this dick.

3:00:34What do I keep telling you? I don't

3:00:36understand why. I don't understand why

3:00:38do y'all like say these like sayings and

3:00:40[ __ ] and don't think I'm gonna chinch

3:00:42checkck that [ __ ] bad behavior. This

3:00:44person said I dated a girl from a while

3:00:45back and it was a great connection but

3:00:48we No, it wasn't. It wasn't. That was a

3:00:50lie. Let me stop right there. I'mma

3:00:52finish this, but let me just read the

3:00:54piece by piece. See, gentlemen, do you

3:00:56see how women get you [ __ ]

3:00:59It's not a connection because she laughs

3:01:01at your jokes. It's not a connection

3:01:03because you have something in common.

3:01:05That's how they get you, [ __ ]

3:01:08There is no great connection because you

3:01:11don't have a great connection with

3:01:12yourself. You want to know why? And I'm

3:01:15not going to disrespect you, but look at

3:01:17your thumbnail.

3:01:19You rather have a picture of a man,

3:01:22another man's picture on your [ __ ]

3:01:25thumbnail than yourself. This is why you

3:01:28don't have a great connection because

3:01:30you're not connected to yourself.

3:01:33Okay?

3:01:35You see what I'm saying? How how [ __ ]

3:01:36up he is. And look at him. I'm

3:01:38undefeated. Now I'm starting to read the

3:01:40rest of this. How can I stop thinking

3:01:42this girl is rare? [ __ ] you

3:01:44ain't rare. That's why she's rare. Cuz

3:01:46you ain't rare, man.

3:01:49Dog. See, this is what I'm talking

3:01:52about.

3:01:55How can I stop thinking this girl is

3:01:57rare and that it won't be as good as

3:01:59what? Do you see how [ __ ] up? Y'all,

3:02:02ladies, ladies, y'all have to be careful

3:02:05out there. There is a lot of [ __ ] up

3:02:08ass people in this world. Be careful.

3:02:11Please, ladies, do background checks.

3:02:14This I don't do [ __ ] for women, but

3:02:16ladies, when you read [ __ ] like this,

3:02:18please do background checks because

3:02:21people like this are dangerous.

3:02:24This is danger. This is stranger danger

3:02:26right here.

3:02:28Please be careful

3:02:30because you don't have a great

3:02:31connection. Look at you. You got

3:02:33somebody else's face on there. This is

3:02:35You're a dog Oh, look. I'm not

3:02:40Why do you hate yourself so much?

3:02:43You hate yourself so bad that you went

3:02:46on the internet and looked at a bunch of

3:02:49men to define who the [ __ ] you are.

3:02:53[ __ ] [ __ ]

3:02:56Let's continue this game. Eric code 347,

3:02:59how can I help you? What's up? What's

3:03:01going on?

3:03:02>> Yo, what's good? Coach is Limitless.

3:03:03>> What's going on, brother?

3:03:06>> All right, so I got another question.

3:03:07You was with um you were just talking to

3:03:08a caller about um

3:03:11uh

3:03:13the chick said something and you told

3:03:16you basically said what you basically

3:03:18did was um focus it back on the path

3:03:20that you wanted it.

3:03:22>> Yes. Yes. Like you you you told him you

3:03:24basically told him to tell her it's not

3:03:26about this, it's about this.

3:03:28>> Of course. Cuz that's okay. You don't

3:03:30think Hannibal did that?

3:03:32>> Yeah. So you're you're So she's so used

3:03:38to being on a certain path, she's always

3:03:40going to just automatically go down that

3:03:42path.

3:03:43>> She's used to running [ __ ]

3:03:46>> Yeah. See, you remember most guys who

3:03:50are not valuebable

3:03:53>> because they don't value themselves are

3:03:56always begging women to find value in

3:03:59them.

3:04:02>> That's the problem. So women, all these

3:04:04women think they're special

3:04:08because they run a bunch of these

3:04:10suckers.

3:04:12And it's and and when they meet a man,

3:04:14it's not that we we're not mean to them,

3:04:17>> but we give them course correction. Yo,

3:04:20you [ __ ] right. That's all we

3:04:22can do because we're valuable.

3:04:25>> See, when you are valuable, you can give

3:04:28a woman push back. What do you do for a

3:04:30living? I don't talk about my job

3:04:32because it has nothing to do with what

3:04:33you're doing. That's Do you know what

3:04:34I'm saying?

3:04:34>> That's what I mean. cuz you know where

3:04:36that path leads and like we're not

3:04:38talking about that cuz that does not

3:04:40lead to anything that

3:04:42>> going to be dealing with how me and you

3:04:43are going to be associated with each

3:04:45other.

3:04:46>> This is the path that we're going to

3:04:47take cuz I know it's going to reveal me

3:04:49to you and you to me.

3:04:50>> Yes. Because I'm not trying to I'm not

3:04:52trying to be mean. I'm going to tell you

3:04:54why.

3:04:55>> Yeah.

3:04:55>> And and I will explain clarification.

3:04:57>> No, no, no, no, no. Education. Not

3:05:00Clara. Eda Eda. Not clarification.

3:05:03Education. Remember, women are always

3:05:06going to get educated by men

3:05:09>> because in order for her to understand,

3:05:11>> you got to unlearn the prior.

3:05:13>> Oh, that's my boy. That's my dog. Oh

3:05:16[ __ ] Wait. Wait. Hold on. Hold on. Hold

3:05:20on. Let me

3:05:20>> master. Master limit is left the

3:05:23plantation. Master. Master. Master. Li

3:05:27is left.

3:05:28>> Man, when are you leaving the

3:05:29plantation, man? Do you see what I'm

3:05:31saying? It's exactly what I'm saying.

3:05:34Okay. So, that's why you say they're

3:05:37just a reflection of all the things that

3:05:39they because all the other dudes,

3:05:42they're they haven't unlearned the

3:05:45>> what they've been taught since they was

3:05:46a little kid.

3:05:48>> She comes in your present. She's just

3:05:50reflecting them. And now you have to

3:05:52unlearn her so she can know.

3:05:54>> No, no, no, no, no. I'm not trying to

3:05:56unlearn anything about her. She's

3:05:58ignorant to learning me. I don't give a

3:06:01[ __ ] what she is.

3:06:03Like like you're teaching her. But she

3:06:05has

3:06:05>> No, I'm No, no, no. I'm not I'm not

3:06:07teaching. I'm training. Then I don't

3:06:10hate that word. You must train a woman

3:06:14because that's how they've been trained

3:06:16all their life. If a woman If a woman

3:06:19works at Burger King and goes to

3:06:20McDonald's, is she is she allowed to do

3:06:24is she allowed to treat the Big Mac like

3:06:25the Whopper?

3:06:27>> No. She can't order nothing on somebody

3:06:29from somebody,

3:06:30>> right? She's got to be trained.

3:06:31Gentlemen, please listen to me. It's not

3:06:33disrespectful, but if you think about

3:06:35women, are they not trained to the

3:06:39specifications of the job? Yes or no?

3:06:43>> Yeah.

3:06:43>> Right. So, when I say trained, it's not

3:06:45disrespectful, but I'm training her how

3:06:49to be with me.

3:06:53>> Yeah. That's like her going to

3:06:54McDonald's and trying to make a Whopper.

3:06:55That is not my sandwich.

3:06:56>> That's not my uh No, no. We we we a we

3:06:59ain't doing no Burger King over here.

3:07:00You better get your ass in there and be

3:07:01singing a song to all beef patties.

3:07:03Special sauce, lettuce, cheese,

3:07:04[laughter] pickles, and sesame seed bun.

3:07:06Number one. No, I'm serious. Yeah. Yeah.

3:07:08You better You better You better sing

3:07:10[laughter] some Hey, [ __ ] Burger King.

3:07:11You better sing some McDonald's on

3:07:13[ __ ] You ain't singing no You

3:07:14ain't coming over here singing no Burger

3:07:16King [ __ ] [ __ ] Burger King. We're

3:07:17McDonald's [ __ ] No, but I'm just

3:07:19saying women need to be trained because

3:07:24their ignorance thinks that because she

3:07:26has a [ __ ] that she thinks that she can

3:07:30run [ __ ] So, she's [clears throat]

3:07:32actually training you based off of what

3:07:35you think you going to get or do to get

3:07:37her [ __ ] And you ain't going to get

3:07:39that [ __ ] that way.

3:07:41>> Yeah.

3:07:41>> That's why the game

3:07:42>> that's why you can run it because you

3:07:44can't teach her something you don't

3:07:45know,

3:07:45>> right? I'm not trying to learn her.

3:07:48because I'm not trying to go after her.

3:07:51But if she's [ __ ] with me, if you

3:07:53want to keep me around, you better learn

3:07:55how to move the way I need you to move

3:07:57or there's the door. I'm not asking you

3:07:58to

3:07:59>> cuz they going they going to do it if

3:08:00they find it.

3:08:01>> Oh, and they love But they love But hey,

3:08:03but you know, they love to be trained.

3:08:05That's what y'all understand. They love

3:08:06that [ __ ] See? Okay, look. Okay, so

3:08:11we're looking at two realities. So y'all

3:08:13have to understand, okay?

3:08:16M

3:08:16>> the reality one that women are going

3:08:20through will hear the word train and

3:08:23become offended

3:08:26because in that reality

3:08:28>> it attacks their uh

3:08:29>> right it attacks their um selfworth

3:08:32>> right because they think their [ __ ]

3:08:34holds value and weight. So because they

3:08:37think their [ __ ] is special, they hear

3:08:39the word train, then they want to say,

3:08:41"Oh no, you ain't my daddy. You can't

3:08:43tell me what to do." [ __ ] out of here.

3:08:46>> Okay. Now,

3:08:48>> when you bypass her ass and titties and

3:08:51tap into her femininity and her

3:08:54emotions,

3:08:55she's going to be open to follow your

3:08:58lead. Thus, she's going to be open to

3:09:01you training her

3:09:04>> because she's going to get a benefit

3:09:06from following you versus someone uh

3:09:10leaving a wet spot on the [ __ ] sheets

3:09:13and leaving. Does that make any sense?

3:09:16>> Yeah. Cuz she's going to understand is

3:09:17the the training is not you looking down

3:09:20on her. It's just you teaching and

3:09:22educating her how to be with you.

3:09:24>> Right. Well, no, I'm not educating. I'm

3:09:26training her. The education is

3:09:28correction.

3:09:29Okay. Okay. Okay.

3:09:31>> Yeah. But they they even So they would

3:09:34they would have to earn that education

3:09:36though.

3:09:37>> No, no, no. They'll get the education.

3:09:39>> They'll always get the education because

3:09:40I'm educating her on me.

3:09:42>> She's got to she's got to learn me.

3:09:47>> Okay. So, [clears throat]

3:09:50if you like when you first start um

3:09:55like talking to a chick and she's

3:09:57dealing with you and stuff like that,

3:10:00don't they have to earn all of that?

3:10:02Like the education would be based off,

3:10:05okay, you did this and I'm going to give

3:10:09you this education so you wouldn't do it

3:10:12again. But what they what is it? What is

3:10:14it? What is it? this

3:10:17>> like okay

3:10:20I understand the education part like if

3:10:22she been messing with you for a minute

3:10:24so she earned that but I'm talking about

3:10:27like in the beginning

3:10:28>> what's that

3:10:30>> like if they like

3:10:35let me see like if they do something not

3:10:38disrespectful but

3:10:43like if they don't want to do something.

3:10:45>> No, no, no, no. Give me give me example.

3:10:47Give me example of what they don't want

3:10:48to do.

3:10:50>> Like um for example the um sending a

3:10:54picture thing.

3:10:56>> Okay. So, always remember, okay, when it

3:10:58comes to the picture or anything that

3:10:59you're asking, okay,

3:11:02>> I'm going to treat the relationship

3:11:05or whatever whatever we have going on

3:11:09as something I lead rather than

3:11:12something I [ __ ] negotiate from a

3:11:15position of equality, hope, or [ __ ]

3:11:19connection. [ __ ] you. I'm not doing that

3:11:21[ __ ] I'm not negotiating

3:11:23[clears throat]

3:11:24my worth. I'm no what? I'm ser I'm not

3:11:27[ __ ] no I'm not doing that [ __ ] I'm

3:11:30setting the tone. See

3:11:33>> game is all about controlling who you

3:11:37are.

3:11:38>> What is acceptable?

3:11:41>> What is rewarded? What gets ignored and

3:11:44what gets corrected. And if I don't

3:11:47actively shape how she behaves with me,

3:11:51communication, conflict resolution,

3:11:55sexual dynamics, time, respect for my

3:11:58priorities, then guess what? The default

3:12:01she's going to go to is the last

3:12:03[ __ ] that's was kissing her ass.

3:12:06See, remember her patterns. her

3:12:09patterns. She's the subtotal of other

3:12:11men, her friends, media, and everybody

3:12:15and everything that has never served her

3:12:17correctly. So, she's got to calibrate to

3:12:21me. She's got to adjust her behavior to

3:12:26the standards of me because if she

3:12:29doesn't, she doesn't get me because I'm

3:12:32the [ __ ] thing she's going after. But

3:12:35she doesn't know that yet because from

3:12:37her logical perspective, she thinks I'm

3:12:39running behind her [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] out

3:12:41of here. We ain't doing that.

3:12:44>> You see what I'm saying? We're not doing

3:12:45that.

3:12:45>> I remember um in I forgot which one it

3:12:49was, but in one of the courses you were

3:12:52saying that you had to let somebody go

3:12:55because you said you was going to let

3:12:56them go even though you didn't want to

3:12:58let them go.

3:12:59>> Oh yeah. If

3:12:59>> they did something again.

3:13:01>> Yeah. That's m that's a

3:13:02>> you said you said you like if this

3:13:04happened again I'm g have to let you go

3:13:06and then it happened again so you let

3:13:08them go. What I'm saying is

3:13:10>> you was already y'all was already she

3:13:12was already dealing with you for a

3:13:14period of time.

3:13:16>> Would that be the same? Would you give

3:13:18that her that person the same grace if y

3:13:22if it wasn't that amount of time? That's

3:13:24what I mean. And and hey, I keep showing

3:13:25you. I think it was uh season

3:13:28season two of of Versal's uh the king

3:13:33told the told the chick

3:13:36one of the greatest things of being a

3:13:37king is sacrifice.

3:13:39And my god,

3:13:42see game is going to teach you to have

3:13:44what we call your board of directors.

3:13:47Mhm.

3:13:48>> Because as a regular guy, man, you know,

3:13:51sometimes she got that ass, the titties,

3:13:53the dicks. She got everything right

3:13:55>> and she just got one little [ __ ] up

3:13:58thing about her. And

3:14:00>> if I didn't if I didn't have any game, I

3:14:02would accept that po. Like I say,

3:14:04remember I always tell guys, if I

3:14:05dropped up, you know, here's something

3:14:06to drink, but I put a drop of cyanide

3:14:08poison in that, would you drink it?

3:14:10>> He would say no. But I say it's only

3:14:12right. So

3:14:14if she can't course correct her

3:14:16behavior, she's telling me that the

3:14:20training that I'm giving her is not for

3:14:23her because the course correction is not

3:14:26intimid I'm not listen I'm just saying

3:14:29if you want to be with me

3:14:32this behavior cannot you can't do this.

3:14:35Okay.

3:14:37>> Yeah. And see the thing

3:14:38>> I was saying was would you have given

3:14:40her that same opportunity if it was if

3:14:43the the timeline wasn't as long as it

3:14:46was like

3:14:47>> all women all women are

3:14:48>> hurt for a month

3:14:49>> I don't give a [ __ ] if it's a day a

3:14:51month a week a year whatever I I'm gone

3:14:54uh if if [clears throat]

3:14:56it's just like the job dog it's the same

3:14:58thing you just you got to see that's why

3:15:00you got to put your heart in your

3:15:02pocket. Oh it's going to I ain't say it

3:15:04was going to sting. It's not going to

3:15:05sting. It is. I can tell you so many

3:15:07ones in high school and [ __ ] after

3:15:09high school that man [ __ ] be

3:15:11like, "Steve, I can't believe you let

3:15:12her go off that little shit." Oh yeah,

3:15:14you got to let the [ __ ] go off

3:15:15the little [ __ ] I can't believe you let

3:15:17her go. She was so fine. Yeah, yeah, she

3:15:19was fine, but had to let her go, right?

3:15:22Because see see

3:15:24people don't understand what training

3:15:27actually looks like.

3:15:30That's what people don't understand.

3:15:33See, and and and people when people hear

3:15:35train, it's going to sound disrespectful

3:15:38to the average person that doesn't have

3:15:40game because they think that this is

3:15:43like a dictatorship.

3:15:46Do you see? Does that make sense?

3:15:49>> Yeah. But it's just the way you move.

3:15:51And

3:15:52>> no, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,

3:15:54wait. This guy say, hold on. This guy

3:15:55says,

3:15:56>> "If she has a shitty attitude, I'll let

3:15:58her go. I won't deal with one with a bad

3:16:00attitude."

3:16:01Well, this is why you fail.

3:16:04See? See how he see why he's wrong?

3:16:09>> Okay. So, the

3:16:10>> He said if she has a He said he said he

3:16:12said if she has a shitty attitude, I'm

3:16:14going to let her go.

3:16:15>> I won't deal with a woman with a bad

3:16:17attitude. See, he he ain't got no game.

3:16:19>> He don't have no game.

3:16:22>> So, that would be a

3:16:24>> Okay,

3:16:24>> that would be a a a course correction

3:16:27then.

3:16:27>> Of course, everything's a course

3:16:28correction.

3:16:29>> Okay. Her shitty attitude her shitty

3:16:31attitude is because she's all [ __ ] up

3:16:34from the guys before you.

3:16:36>> Yeah, I know that. Right.

3:16:38>> So, would you cuz my question is about

3:16:42the timeline

3:16:44like would you always give them the

3:16:47opportunity

3:16:49to

3:16:51the first time is like, "All right, you

3:16:53ain't know cuz you used to all these

3:16:55other mother."

3:16:55>> All right, look. First shitty attitude.

3:16:57We gonna have a conversation. That's it.

3:16:59>> Yeah.

3:16:59>> You're never going to talk to me that

3:17:00way again.

3:17:01>> Within within within a week.

3:17:03>> No, no. [ __ ] Wait. No. No. No. No. No.

3:17:05Within that [ __ ] second. What the

3:17:07[ __ ] you mean a week? The [ __ ] you mean

3:17:09a week? Within that second?

3:17:09>> No. I'm talking about like if you if you

3:17:11met her that week and she got

3:17:12>> I don't give a [ __ ] Okay. Okay. Big

3:17:14dog. Big dog. Look, I don't think you

3:17:16understand what I'm saying. I don't give

3:17:19a [ __ ] what the time is.

3:17:23And I don't give a [ __ ]

3:17:24>> You I always give course correction.

3:17:26>> You [ __ ]

3:17:27>> Okay. Wait. Wait. All right. Cuz what my

3:17:29question is, would you just

3:17:30>> in in in that timeline, would you just

3:17:32let them go instead of giving him course

3:17:34correction? That's my question.

3:17:36>> Why would I let her go when she doesn't

3:17:38Okay. All right. Look.

3:17:39>> Okay. That's

3:17:40>> all right. Limitless. Let me

3:17:41>> That's why I asked if she correct.

3:17:44>> No,

3:17:45she's got to get course corrected

3:17:49because before she met me, she was

3:17:51course correcting everybody else.

3:17:54>> Okay. She thinks that she can treat me

3:17:58like I'm some human.

3:18:00>> She thinks cuz her [ __ ] is tight and

3:18:03looks good that she can do what the [ __ ]

3:18:04she want. No, I don't give a [ __ ]

3:18:10What I'm saying is is that I don't care

3:18:13when it is. We're going to have a

3:18:14conversation. That's it.

3:18:17>> You see what I'm saying?

3:18:19>> Yeah. I'm I'm saying that what y'all

3:18:22guys don't understand about women on an

3:18:24emotional and her femininity

3:18:28will feel safer because with me the

3:18:32rules are clear as [ __ ] Period.

3:18:37>> Okay, that's it.

3:18:38>> Yeah,

3:18:39>> that's it.

3:18:40>> So you you always giving them what you

3:18:41say the um mercy of a king basically.

3:18:44>> The merciful king. Exactly. And the

3:18:46mercenal king is g course correcting the

3:18:49behavior

3:18:51>> where she can say [ __ ] you I'm not do

3:18:54what okay let me give example okay look

3:18:55okay

3:18:56>> so I have one while while back okay give

3:18:58me another one so

3:19:00she thought

3:19:03that she could I don't know what the

3:19:04[ __ ] I don't remember technically what

3:19:06she said but I know it was crazy enough

3:19:08where I had to correct her right

3:19:12>> and I think it had to do with another

3:19:14chick she was like well why are you Like

3:19:16why are you seeing somebody? I don't

3:19:18know. I didn't course correct it. Right.

3:19:19Right.

3:19:20>> I mean even the why is

3:19:21>> No. No. And and you no in my course

3:19:25correction

3:19:26I said do you understand?

3:19:29>> She said what? I said do you understand

3:19:31me?

3:19:33>> What do you mean do I? Hey, do you

3:19:36understand? Yeah. Hey my daddy, you

3:19:38can't do

3:19:40right. Right. No. No. Watch. Watch.

3:19:42Watch.

3:19:44So women that know how to play them

3:19:47[ __ ] games,

3:19:49a woman is smart enough everybody to

3:19:53hold the [ __ ] out and say, "Okay, all

3:19:55right. You want to [ __ ] want to play

3:19:57some games? I can sit back and withhold

3:20:00the [ __ ] and not talk to him and he's

3:20:03going to miss me so much that I can pop

3:20:06back into his life after two weeks,

3:20:08three weeks or a month and he gonna be

3:20:10back to normal." So you know what she

3:20:11did? She called me a month later, right?

3:20:15>> Hey baby, I miss you. What do you think

3:20:18I said? Did I say You think I said I

3:20:20miss you too, pumpkin?

3:20:22>> I miss [clears throat] my I missed my

3:20:24snooky poo. No, [ __ ] I said, do

3:20:27you understand?

3:20:29[laughter] And she was like, she's like,

3:20:31"Why are you doing this?" I said, "No,

3:20:33we can't." Look, look no look no Look no

3:20:34Look no Look no Look no Look no look no

3:20:34Look no look no look we can't this

3:20:37[ __ ] again. [laughter]

3:20:41Yeah, Isaac.

3:20:41>> Cuz she thought she thought you going to

3:20:43catch amnesia.

3:20:45>> Oh, Snookie Pooky. I miss you, too. Did

3:20:49you miss me?

3:20:50>> She was trying to She was trying to get

3:20:51you into that emotional with those.

3:20:53>> No, no, no, no. I told her. We ain't

3:20:57moving forward until you understand

3:20:59[laughter] because

3:21:02you can never say I didn't know. See,

3:21:05women are smart enough to play dumb. I

3:21:07keep telling y'all, [ __ ] Y'all

3:21:08don't understand. Women W women know how

3:21:10to strategic month right there.

3:21:12>> Right. Let me let me show you play done

3:21:14with a woman. Let me show you play done

3:21:15with a woman. Hi Gloria, how you doing?

3:21:18Hey Gloria, let me buy you this. Hey

3:21:20Gloria, how's your day? Hey Gloria, let

3:21:22me take you to dinner. Hey Gloria,

3:21:23here's some flowers. Hey Gloria, happy

3:21:26Mary. Hey, merry Christmas Gloria.

3:21:27Here's some V. Hey Gloria, happy

3:21:29Valentine's Day. Did you receive my my

3:21:31chocolates, my flowers and balloons?

3:21:33Yes. Hey Gloria, you know what? I would

3:21:36love to have a relationship with you.

3:21:38Wait. Oh my god. What are you talking

3:21:41about? We're just friends. I had no idea

3:21:46you were interested in me. [laughter]

3:21:49>> You see the [ __ ] I'm talking about? They

3:21:52know how to play stupid. They know you

3:21:54trying to [ __ ] but they know how to

3:21:57play stupid. So, we ain't playing those

3:22:00games. You are going to say you

3:22:02understand me cuz I can take the dick

3:22:05off the table.

3:22:08I can take the Yeah. Hey, hey, hey, hey,

3:22:10hey, hey. Thank Thank you, Scary Perry.

3:22:12Thank you, Scary Perry. Guys, you ever

3:22:14hear me say Snooky Pooky, please call

3:22:16the police, [laughter]

3:22:22man. I'm never gonna say Snooky Pooky.

3:22:25[laughter]

3:22:29Holy [snorts] [ __ ] Okay. If Hey, I'll

3:22:32be 55 years in a few weeks from now.

3:22:35I've never seen Snookie Pooky. I've

3:22:37never seen a Snookie Pooky. Hey, a

3:22:39matter of fact, I think this first time

3:22:40I ever seen Snookie Pooky ever. Like

3:22:42like like really talking like [ __ ] All

3:22:46right. Anyway, Limus, I'm listen to you,

3:22:47man. Go ahead, man.

3:22:48>> To all the ladies out there.

3:22:50>> Limitless. All the ladies out there.

3:22:52>> Spooky pooky.

3:22:54>> I'm sorry. All right. So, yeah. So,

3:22:57that's how you got to do it, dog. You

3:22:58have to have a non-negotiable, man. You

3:23:01have to have a standard to a woman that

3:23:03says, "Look, we ain't doing things your

3:23:05way.

3:23:06>> You going to do it at the way of this

3:23:08dick, but you got to move off." And this

3:23:11is why women can start chasing men

3:23:13differently, limitless, because

3:23:16once she can understand that you are

3:23:18ruled by your [ __ ] name and standard

3:23:23versus ruled by her [ __ ] everything

3:23:26changes. Okay? And this is not because

3:23:29>> they have an understanding. They don't

3:23:30know what they don't know. So I got to

3:23:32give them course correction. They [ __ ]

3:23:34up.

3:23:34>> Right. Because Okay. Because this is not

3:23:37okay. Women. Okay. This is not about

3:23:38making women suffer. Okay. All you guys

3:23:40out here. Okay.

3:23:42>> Yeah. About elevating.

3:23:43>> Right. Right. I want to elevate. I want

3:23:46I The only way you're going to break the

3:23:48algorithm, you must take the power out

3:23:52of the thing that you put the power in.

3:23:55>> That [ __ ] You've got to take the power

3:23:58out of the [ __ ] Right? If you if you

3:24:00can't take look, if you can't take the

3:24:02power out of her [ __ ] she gonna use

3:24:04her [ __ ] to control power.

3:24:07>> You see what I'm saying?

3:24:09>> Yeah.

3:24:10>> So, yeah. So, that's what I'm saying.

3:24:11So, she just got to understand that I'm

3:24:14not This is not a dictatorship a

3:24:17dictatorship.

3:24:18I'm just saying that I got to train you

3:24:21to [ __ ] with me. And it's not [ __ ] with

3:24:24me my way, Limitless. I'm not saying

3:24:27>> do it my way. I'm saying to understand

3:24:31that you have a choice to do it a

3:24:33different way.

3:24:35>> They they've never been trained to Okay,

3:24:38they all y'all guys understand women

3:24:40they only they only take another man's

3:24:43[ __ ] ideas, dinner recipes, and

3:24:46everything and just bring it to your

3:24:48doorstep. Limitless, I told you. How you

3:24:50like your scrambled eggs, Limitless? How

3:24:52do you like your scrambled eggs?

3:24:54Well, when I did, I like them uh like

3:24:56scrambled, like fluffy with milk and

3:24:58[ __ ] like that.

3:24:59>> Yeah. Put a little milk in it. Yeah.

3:25:00Tomatoes, all types of [ __ ]

3:25:02>> Okay. Well, [ __ ] stop taking my

3:25:03[ __ ] But I'm just saying I'm just

3:25:06saying that she got to put some spinach

3:25:07in my [ __ ] [ __ ] She got to put some

3:25:09spinach in my [ __ ] uh eggs. She's got

3:25:12to put spinach and cheese in mine.

3:25:13>> But if she made my eggs without the

3:25:15spinach and cheese, we going to have a

3:25:16conversation.

3:25:17>> Cuz I I don't want I don't want her to

3:25:19cook my eggs like she cooked your eggs.

3:25:21That's disrespectful.

3:25:23Man.

3:25:25>> Yeah. All right.

3:25:26>> All right. Yeah, that was my question.

3:25:28I'mma I gota

3:25:29>> to be taken.

3:25:30>> All right. No doubt. Get these. Good

3:25:31job, Limitless. God damn it. That

3:25:33[ __ ] man. He getting it, dog.

3:25:35Let me get this call right here. Eric

3:25:36code 240 from the DMV, I think it is.

3:25:39240. How can I help you, sir? What's up?

3:25:42>> Yeah. Hello. My name is Omari.

3:25:45>> Yes, sir.

3:25:46>> Yes. So, I was just calling because I

3:25:48was listening to your conversation with

3:25:49the last caller and uh what you were

3:25:52saying reminded me of, you know, I

3:25:54started watching Hannibal.

3:25:55>> Yes, sir. Good. I'm glad. Good. Thank

3:25:57you, sir. Awesome. What did What did you

3:25:59real quick? What did you get from

3:26:01watching Hannibal so far?

3:26:05>> I just know that

3:26:09he pays attention to a lot and he

3:26:11doesn't do too much.

3:26:13That's what I

3:26:14>> Okay.

3:26:15>> That's what I get. Right. Okay. Hey, so

3:26:16what's your question? What's going on?

3:26:19>> It reminded me because um I seen that

3:26:20scene of uh when the lady uh went into

3:26:24his office with the tape recorder

3:26:26and he corrected her when she did that.

3:26:29>> Oh, hey. Course correction like a

3:26:31[ __ ]

3:26:32>> Yeah.

3:26:32>> Course correction like a [ __ ]

3:26:35>> Didn't think about it too deep into you

3:26:36know what you were just

3:26:37>> Yeah, that's that was Yeah. Yeah.

3:26:40Remember she was recording him?

3:26:42>> That mother was so smooth with Did Hey,

3:26:45look. Did he panic?

3:26:47>> No.

3:26:47>> Did he yell and scream?

3:26:50>> Nope.

3:26:50>> Cooler than the other side of the P. He

3:26:55when you were so cool with it, it [ __ ]

3:26:59them up because a lot of women are

3:27:01expecting the femininity to come out of

3:27:04the guy. See, women expect guys to get

3:27:08mad, yell, scream, get jealous, and beat

3:27:11their [ __ ] chest.

3:27:13But when you Yeah, that poise, brother.

3:27:15That poise. Yeah. When you lay back in

3:27:17the cut, man, they ain't g They gonna be

3:27:20like, "Damn,

3:27:21this [ __ ] doesn't need me as

3:27:23much as I think I need him." But I'm

3:27:26listen to you, you call it. What you

3:27:27got?

3:27:28>> Yeah. And she didn't have no choice but,

3:27:30you know, to respect it.

3:27:31>> Oh, exactly. She got to respect the man.

3:27:34Exactly.

3:27:35>> Because when she came into his office,

3:27:38>> she came into his world. So, she's got

3:27:41to play by his rules. And that's why I

3:27:42keep trying to tell you guys, don't ever

3:27:45go on her side and play by her rules.

3:27:48>> You she's got to play by your rules.

3:27:54>> And yeah, that's that's basically all I

3:27:57had. I'm just listening, trying to

3:27:58absorb, you know, the game.

3:27:59>> All right. No doubt. All right. If you

3:28:00got any other questions, call back,

3:28:01brother. I appreciate you, man. Okay.

3:28:03Respect.

3:28:04>> All right. Thank you.

3:28:04>> Great call. Great call. Let's continue

3:28:06this ism, guys. Get your crayons out.

3:28:07We're talking about

3:28:10the the the cost to be with you guys.

3:28:12Oh, let me get this get let me get this

3:28:13young man's question. Um, he asked the

3:28:16question. Excuse me one second, sir.

3:28:18Told you I get it. He said, "Steve, you

3:28:20said you let a woman go even if you

3:28:21don't want to." Meaning that if you

3:28:23check her, you know what? Oh, man. Dog,

3:28:25I I tell you what, hold on a second. Uh

3:28:27647, can you mute yourself real quick?

3:28:31647, mute yourself. Hello.

3:28:33>> Mute yourself real quick. Mute yourself

3:28:34real quick. All right, let me explain.

3:28:38Guys, in your life, man, you are going

3:28:41to run into women

3:28:44perfect ass, suck the dick, right, cook

3:28:48for you, do things for you,

3:28:52but they want to try to control the

3:28:55[ __ ] kingdom.

3:28:57They want to get an attitude. Like I had

3:28:59one that she knew, you know, when I'm

3:29:03[ __ ] when I have women that come over

3:29:06my apartment when I have my apartment

3:29:09that I didn't I don't answer the phone

3:29:10because it's disrespectful to the other

3:29:13woman. You know what I mean? I'm not

3:29:14answering the phone. And she she

3:29:17expected me to answer the [ __ ] phone

3:29:19when she calling. I ain't doing that

3:29:21[ __ ]

3:29:23And and she caught she cpped an

3:29:25attitude. Remember guys, remember I told

3:29:27you

3:29:29uh when I got done with the one woman, I

3:29:32got a little time. I scooped up the I

3:29:33went go scooped her up. No, I did not

3:29:36scoop this one up because guess what? I

3:29:38didn't use my car. She came by. I was in

3:29:42her car, but she had an attitude looking

3:29:45out of the window. And what do I do? I

3:29:47have a one light. If you still got the

3:29:49attitude, by the time we get to the next

3:29:51light, I'm turning this [ __ ]

3:29:52around. And I got out of the car and we

3:29:54were done. But the reason why I let her

3:29:57go, okay,

3:29:59it was because the g when you learn the

3:30:01game,

3:30:03you create a board of directors.

3:30:06And the board of directors, like a

3:30:08computer program, knows 2 plus two will

3:30:12always be four. There are no emotions in

3:30:15a computer. It just follows a program.

3:30:18And the program is this. If you're not

3:30:21following my leadership and my

3:30:22direction, I am not going to beg you to

3:30:26change who you are. I'm just gonna let

3:30:28your ass go and let you suffer by losing

3:30:31me. That's it. That's it. That's how it

3:30:34works. Okay. Uh Matthew, I think this is

3:30:36what's going on, brother. Did you watch

3:30:37Hannibal? Did you watch Hannibal?

3:30:40>> Yeah, I just started watching it, but

3:30:41like

3:30:42>> Okay, good. What'd you get from it?

3:30:46>> Like I have I have like tons of

3:30:48questions.

3:30:48>> All right. What you got? What's up?

3:30:49What's up?

3:30:51with like um with like what you just

3:30:52said because I don't know what you just

3:30:54said. What was wrong with with the

3:30:56attitude? Like I'm missing I'm missing

3:30:59the

3:31:00>> Matthew. Matthew,

3:31:03>> there's no such thing as a [ __ ]

3:31:05attitude. That's what's wrong with

3:31:06attitude.

3:31:08When did the See, the world has

3:31:10indoctrinated you [ __ ] to think

3:31:14that it's okay for a woman to raise her

3:31:17voice at you. It is okay. The

3:31:20[ __ ] that Let me tell my dog

3:31:22right here. He always talks about

3:31:24difference. That is submission.

3:31:27Difference, right? Humble submission,

3:31:31right?

3:31:32>> There is no attitude with a

3:31:33[ __ ] man. For some reason, you

3:31:36guys have assumed that a woman is

3:31:39allowed to yell at you, [ __ ] poke her

3:31:42mouth out, dangling in the [ __ ] make

3:31:45you sleep on the couch. [ __ ] you.

3:31:49Hell no.

3:31:51Matthew, listen to me. There is no

3:31:55attitude, brother. Period.

3:31:59Period.

3:32:01I wish she would. I wish she would

3:32:03conjure I wish her heart would pump

3:32:05enough blood to go through her muscles

3:32:07to even think she can form one with me.

3:32:09She gone.

3:32:11Do you see what I'm saying?

3:32:14>> Okay. So cuz like I'm picturing like if

3:32:17I am to do it like I'm thinking I would

3:32:19come off as emotional. So like I'm

3:32:22wondering is there like

3:32:23>> because you don't value because remember

3:32:26uh young man

3:32:27>> you don't value yourself.

3:32:30Remember you're trying to you're trying

3:32:32to earn a woman. That's why you can't

3:32:35say [ __ ] to a woman when you guys run

3:32:37behind [ __ ]

3:32:39>> You can't tell her to stop talking to me

3:32:41that way. You can't tell her stop being

3:32:44mean, stop being late, stop talking

3:32:47about other guys and all that [ __ ]

3:32:49>> because you're running behind her [ __ ]

3:32:52which means whose rules do you have to

3:32:53follow?

3:32:55>> You [ __ ] right thinking,

3:32:57>> right? So that's right. Exactly. So you

3:33:00running behind her, you're going to be

3:33:01like, "Hey, uh, you know, I don't like

3:33:04the way you're talking to me." She going

3:33:06to hear

3:33:06>> well. I'm I'm sorry, but when you talk

3:33:10to me, you hurt my feelings and you

3:33:13really upset me and I don't want to lose

3:33:15you at all because you mean so much to

3:33:18me and I really really love you and you

3:33:20know I was told in a Hallmark card if

3:33:23you let it

3:33:24>> see all that stupid [ __ ] That's what

3:33:25you guys don't understand.

3:33:27>> I'm not running behind no [ __ ] But

3:33:29there is no look. The only attitude that

3:33:32this [ __ ] car Zag and I have

3:33:35What do you think attitude we have?

3:33:39>> You don't give a [ __ ]

3:33:40>> No, no, no, no, no. We have attitudes.

3:33:44>> Let me tell you, we have an attitude.

3:33:47When I'm playing my game, when I'm

3:33:48playing my Madden, playing my Call of

3:33:51Duty,

3:33:53and I get shot because a [ __ ]

3:33:54didn't carry over my six, I'mma have an

3:33:56attitude. But I'm never gonna have no

3:33:59attitude over a woman. Let my Dallas

3:34:00Cowboys lose a game. I will have an

3:34:02attitude, but not over but not over a

3:34:05piece of [ __ ]

3:34:07You see what I'm saying?

3:34:09>> Yeah. It all comes back to like you and

3:34:11like how you see yourself,

3:34:12>> right?

3:34:13>> So there So there is I'm just telling

3:34:15y'all there is no such thing as an

3:34:19attitude with a woman. That's Hallmark

3:34:21the Bears K Jewelers. Every kiss begins

3:34:25with K. But that's not manhood.

3:34:28A woman is not She has no [ __ ] right

3:34:32to raise her goddamn voice. Now, she can

3:34:35do it, but she ain't going to do it with

3:34:37a man. And you know what that man gonna

3:34:40do? Just like Hannibal.

3:34:43If you talk to me that way again, we're

3:34:45done. That's it.

3:34:49>> That's it.

3:34:49>> Like with with Hannibal. Yes. Like I

3:34:52don't like he seems so poised. Like

3:34:56>> he is. That's the po. That's the point.

3:34:58He's so poised. He's intimidating to a

3:35:01woman because women always get you guys

3:35:04out of order. Oh my god. Look at her

3:35:06ass. Look at her titties. I want to [ __ ]

3:35:08her so bad. Did I say the right thing?

3:35:10Did I do the right thing? Did I text the

3:35:11right thing? Did I take the right

3:35:12picture? Did I take the right profile

3:35:13picture? Did I take her to the right

3:35:15place to eat?

3:35:16>> Hannibal like Hannibal like you when you

3:35:18just bust a nut and you just lay back.

3:35:19You're like, "Yeah, yeah, yeah." You

3:35:22like you smoking a cigarette or some

3:35:23[ __ ] like that. Not that you smoke

3:35:24cigarettes after you [ __ ] but you just

3:35:26So, you see what I'm saying?

3:35:28>> Cuz I was thinking like, isn't that like

3:35:31being too onedimensional with the way

3:35:34you're carrying yourself? Like,

3:35:36>> wait, wait, wait. One, wait, wait.

3:35:38One-dimensional? You mean one thought,

3:35:40one mind, one way? Well, yes. Yes. You

3:35:45should be one. Okay. Listen, listen,

3:35:46listen.

3:35:48A woman has no right

3:35:52to raise her [ __ ] voice at you.

3:35:57Who the [ __ ] does she think she is?

3:36:00But but if you're running behind her

3:36:04[ __ ]

3:36:05she's got every right to do whatever the

3:36:08[ __ ] she wants to do. And you've got to

3:36:10accept the terms because you're running

3:36:13behind her. So, you can't ask her to

3:36:16stop yelling at me. You can't ask her to

3:36:18stop being mean. You've got to follow

3:36:20the program because the program is going

3:36:22to probably get you what? A hug. Maybe

3:36:25not so [ __ ] but

3:36:26>> we ain't doing it. Does that make sense?

3:36:28Keep going. Listen, I know you got a ton

3:36:29of questions. What's up?

3:36:30>> Yeah.

3:36:32>> Okay. Cuz I was So, it's not about like

3:36:35being like with Hannibal. Okay. It's not

3:36:37about like being um

3:36:40uh like exciting or like um

3:36:42>> No. Okay. Watch it. Okay. Let's take one

3:36:44thing. Okay. Okay.

3:36:47>> Gentlemen,

3:36:49when you've been there before, is there

3:36:50anything exciting about a woman that

3:36:52wants to give you some [ __ ] when you

3:36:53get a lot of [ __ ] No, it's not

3:36:55exciting.

3:36:58If you when you've been there before,

3:36:59you're not impressed

3:37:02by the little gestures they do.

3:37:05Unless it's the first time they're doing

3:37:08the gesture. That's impressive. But you

3:37:11know these women out here, they don't do

3:37:13they don't do any of these [ __ ] They

3:37:14don't they don't uh do that stuff,

3:37:16right?

3:37:17>> Yeah.

3:37:18>> It's the series, buddy. It's the series.

3:37:21It's the series. It's the series.

3:37:24Well, yeah. What I'm saying is

3:37:26>> is that, and I know you got questions,

3:37:28but I

3:37:29>> I I'm saying that

3:37:33the only thing that impresses me about a

3:37:35woman is when she follows direction.

3:37:39That's impressive because at that point,

3:37:42she's saying, "I really want to [ __ ]

3:37:43with you."

3:37:45>> Uh, no, we're talking about the series.

3:37:46The series. Uh, the series. The series.

3:37:49The series.

3:37:51>> Okay.

3:37:51>> And now we're talking the series. Yes.

3:37:53Right.

3:37:54>> But even if even if like every even if

3:37:57she's like following your directions and

3:37:58stuff, you're still going to have that

3:38:00kind of kind of like uh Hannibal kind of

3:38:04like oneness.

3:38:06>> No, you are always like Hannibal. That's

3:38:08what I'm trying to say. You're not I

3:38:09ain't say cutting people up.

3:38:11>> I'm saying I'm saying

3:38:13>> you're always going to be like Hannibal.

3:38:15Like you're high. Like you're just so

3:38:16laidback. You're like, "Hey, you know,

3:38:17Mr. Ziggy, you know, hey, don't argue.

3:38:21Don't fight." Yeah, it's cool.

3:38:24>> Like,

3:38:24>> okay.

3:38:25>> Be-c because it

3:38:27>> what [ __ ] right. It [ __ ] a woman up

3:38:30when she knows she can't move you like

3:38:33she could do every sucker before you.

3:38:37My price is too high.

3:38:40You cannot have me. You got to be

3:38:42something [ __ ] special to get me to

3:38:44[ __ ] with you. And I'm serious

3:38:47>> because Matthew, you saw what that woman

3:38:49sent me. You saw that photo, right? You

3:38:51saw, right? Right. Right. So, so

3:38:54Matthew, now if that if that was her

3:38:56really trying to flirt with me or

3:38:57whatever like that, that's easy [ __ ]

3:38:59Am I correct? Wouldn't that be easy for

3:39:01me to get that [ __ ]

3:39:02>> Yes.

3:39:03>> Right. So, but I don't give a [ __ ] about

3:39:06that [ __ ]

3:39:10I'm not impressed

3:39:12>> by a woman that says she's daydreaming

3:39:14about me. Cool. Because her words don't

3:39:16mean [ __ ] to me.

3:39:19the actions will mean something. And I'm

3:39:22glad you daydream about me if you

3:39:23daydream about me. Thank you.

3:39:28>> Okay. And um the last the last thing

3:39:29that I had was a texting thing from like

3:39:31the dating apps and stuff. So she the

3:39:34last thing that she said was, "Hi,

3:39:36Matthew. That's of you. Nice to meet

3:39:39you. What caught my eye about my

3:39:42profile?"

3:39:43Now,

3:39:45like in my mind, I'm like, I don't want

3:39:47to say what I want to say cuz

3:39:48>> Wait, what did she ask you? She said,

3:39:50"Nice to meet you." And said what?

3:39:52>> Oh, she said, "Hi, Matthew." That's

3:39:54sweet of you. Nice to meet you. What

3:39:57caught your eye about my profile?

3:40:00>> She said, "Hi, Matthew. It's nice to

3:40:01meet you." What do you mean when she put

3:40:03Wait, is this a woman talking to you or

3:40:04is this a profile question?

3:40:06>> No, no, this is this is like we matched

3:40:08on the dating app. I told I usually I

3:40:10send what you tell me to send about the

3:40:12way I met her. And then she said, "Hi,

3:40:15Matthew. That's sweet of you. Nice to

3:40:18meet you.

3:40:19>> What about my book? My eye."

3:40:22>> Listen with your eyes. Listen with your

3:40:24eyes and sing everything you see. This

3:40:27is my rainbow song used to sing in the

3:40:28second grade. You can sing a rainbow.

3:40:31Sing a rainbow. Sing a rainbow to

3:40:36You're not even [ __ ] listening. Read

3:40:38it again and listen to what you're

3:40:40saying. What did she say?

3:40:45>> Hi, Matthew. That's sweet of you. It's

3:40:48nice to meet you. What about my profile?

3:40:52Coach your eye.

3:40:54So, like to be honest, what what like

3:40:57caught my eye about her profile? She has

3:40:58a nice ass.

3:41:01But in my mind, I'm like I can't be

3:41:02saying that.

3:41:03>> No, you can't say that.

3:41:08Because you that's your truth,

3:41:10[ __ ]

3:41:12>> Yeah.

3:41:12>> Look, I'm going to be perfectly honest

3:41:14with you. You don't know me well enough

3:41:16to know what sweet is. But what caught

3:41:19my eye and be perfectly honest with you

3:41:22is when I saw your body, that caught my

3:41:25eye.

3:41:27But a man like me is not impressed by

3:41:30bodies, but that caught my eye. God,

3:41:32look.

3:41:34Why can't y'all be honest?

3:41:37What?

3:41:38>> No. No. No. No. Mine. Magic. No. No. Do

3:41:41this.

3:41:42>> No. No. Your personality

3:41:45caught my eye.

3:41:47>> Well, come on. Look.

3:41:51>> If her body caught your eye, then tell

3:41:55her, "Your body caught my eye." But

3:41:58educator.

3:42:00Yes. I'm not going to lie. Your body

3:42:04caught my eye. And if you don't

3:42:06understand what caught my eye, go in the

3:42:08bathroom, turn on a light, and do a 360,

3:42:11and come back and tell me why it

3:42:13wouldn't catch my eye.

3:42:16But

3:42:16>> okay,

3:42:17>> that's not everything to me. The reason

3:42:21why I'm reaching out is to see if you're

3:42:23more than your

3:42:27>> body.

3:42:28>> Thank you. Do you see why you can do

3:42:31that, guys? Do you see how that works?

3:42:35Yeah,

3:42:35>> you can tell them the truth. If if it's

3:42:38that ass or them titt, I don't give a

3:42:42[ __ ] what it is. That's your truth.

3:42:45>> But what did I do?

3:42:47>> I told her to go into the

3:42:49>> flirty,

3:42:50>> right? I told her to go in the bathroom

3:42:52and do a 360 and come back and tell me

3:42:54why you don't understand why I'm not

3:42:56reaching out. But

3:42:59>> the reason I'm also reaching out is to

3:43:01see is if you only a body.

3:43:05That's why I'm reaching out. That's the

3:43:07truth.

3:43:11>> That's why you don't have to lie to

3:43:12them. [laughter] I'm serious.

3:43:14>> Yeah. Cuz like in my mind, I was

3:43:16thinking like that would be like too too

3:43:18thirsty and like

3:43:19>> sir, okay. It's not it's thirsty when

3:43:22you lie to the [ __ ] woman. If her

3:43:25body caught your eye, tell her your body

3:43:28caught my eye.

3:43:30>> But you're gonna have to justify the

3:43:32statement by putting her in a

3:43:35>> action.

3:43:36>> Right. And what's the action? Go into

3:43:38the what? The bathroom. Do a 360 and

3:43:41come back and tell me if I'm wrong or

3:43:44not. But with that being said,

3:43:47>> the reason why I'm here is because I'm

3:43:50trying to find out if if you are more

3:43:52than just your body.

3:43:56That's the truth. There you go. She

3:43:58ain't she's never going to hear no man

3:44:00talk no [ __ ] to her like that, man.

3:44:04>> Yeah,

3:44:06>> right. You see what I'm saying?

3:44:07>> Thank Thanks again for that.

3:44:09>> And Jill says she wants to hear what you

3:44:11are generally thinking.

3:44:13Women want to know the truth. Even if

3:44:16it's disgusting, guys, y'all can still

3:44:18clean that [ __ ] up. I just gave you one.

3:44:20>> I don't care. Is her ass, her titties,

3:44:23or her body, gentlemen. Let her know.

3:44:26Hey, look. You put it on there. That's

3:44:28what caught my eye. That's the That's

3:44:29the truth.

3:44:31>> Yeah.

3:44:32>> And if you don't understand that your

3:44:34body is banging, then take your body in

3:44:36the bathroom, do a 360, and look in the

3:44:39mirror and see why your body caught my

3:44:42eye.

3:44:45Okay.

3:44:47>> Yes, sir.

3:44:47>> All right. Any other questions?

3:44:49>> No, that's it for now, man.

3:44:50>> All right. Let's get it. Thank you,

3:44:51Matthew. Thank you, brother. Guys, this

3:44:53is why the game is beautiful.

3:44:56>> This is why the game is beautiful. Eric

3:44:58code 50 or country code. Country code

3:45:0059. I don't know what country this is.

3:45:03Country 59. What's up?

3:45:07Country code 59. Hello.

3:45:11[clears throat]

3:45:11>> Hello. Yes. How can I help you, sir?

3:45:13What's up?

3:45:15>> What's up, dude? I've been watching your

3:45:16stream. Um,

3:45:17>> thank you.

3:45:18>> I have a couple of questions.

3:45:20>> Okay. And I've got a couple of answers.

3:45:23>> All right. So, the first one is like,

3:45:26how how can I tell if I'm in the wrong

3:45:29for doing

3:45:29>> Wait, wait. Okay. Okay. Wait. Are you

3:45:31Are you on your speaker phone? Because

3:45:32you sound muffled and far away.

3:45:35>> Yeah, I'm in my phone. My cell phone.

3:45:38>> Okay. All right. Are you sure you don't

3:45:39have your ear buds in? You just on the

3:45:41phone itself?

3:45:42>> No, I'm using my phone. I have an

3:45:44iPhone, too.

3:45:45>> Okay. So, what? You got to slow down

3:45:47because you kind I think you have you

3:45:49speaking broken English. So, what's your

3:45:50question?

3:45:52>> Okay. Okay. So, my first question is,

3:45:57how can I tell when I'm in the wrong?

3:46:00>> Because you're Okay. You're you are in

3:46:02the wrong. Because you're questioning

3:46:04yourself. You already are in the wrong.

3:46:05You're in the wrong.

3:46:06>> All right. All right.

3:46:08>> Does that make sense?

3:46:11Yeah. I mean, so,

3:46:12>> okay. Well, if you mean I'll back up,

3:46:14but I'm undefeating this. Go ahead.

3:46:16What's your question? How can you tell

3:46:17if you're in the wrong about what?

3:46:20>> For example, for example, if I don't

3:46:22know, for example,

3:46:26if I if I'm if I'm arguing with a girl,

3:46:29for example.

3:46:30>> Okay. What [ __ ] Okay, sir. Men don't

3:46:33argue. [ __ ] argue with [ __ ]

3:46:36So why why are you arguing like a

3:46:40[ __ ] woman for?

3:46:43>> Tell me. Let me ask a question. What do

3:46:45you think raising your voice to a woman

3:46:47is going to do? Change the way she looks

3:46:49at you? Why are you arguing? And what

3:46:51are you arguing about, sir?

3:46:54>> For example, if I check her about

3:46:56something I don't like.

3:46:57>> Okay. What don't you like? Tell me

3:46:59something you don't like. Give me an

3:47:00example.

3:47:02for I had this girl

3:47:05um I I called this girl, you know, where

3:47:10we have a relationship and [ __ ] so I

3:47:12call this girl and she didn't pick up,

3:47:14right?

3:47:15>> Oh my god.

3:47:17Oh man.

3:47:20>> How old are you, young man? How old are

3:47:22you? How old are you?

3:47:24>> I'm 23.

3:47:25>> Are you [ __ ] with me? And you're 23.

3:47:28So let me get it straight. You called

3:47:30you called her up and she didn't pick up

3:47:32the phone. So you're pissed cuz she

3:47:33didn't answer your phone call.

3:47:36>> Yeah.

3:47:42>> Call her.

3:47:45>> Who the [ __ ] do you think you are? Her

3:47:49father.

3:47:52Why does she need to pick her [ __ ]

3:47:53phone up for you? For what? Oh, because

3:47:57we we we've been fogging and [ __ ] like

3:47:59we

3:47:59>> No, no, you got a lot of [ __ ] in you.

3:48:01Why does she want to talk to a [ __ ]

3:48:04listening with you? She doesn't answer

3:48:07you. She doesn't answer your phone call

3:48:09and you want to argue with her?

3:48:12Are you serious?

3:48:15>> Sorry. Sorry. I'm in the room.

3:48:17>> Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. You

3:48:18think it's her fault?

3:48:21>> Young man. Yo, man, think about this.

3:48:26You're so insecure,

3:48:29so weak, so soft, so broken, and so

3:48:33affeminate.

3:48:35You want to argue with a grown ass woman

3:48:38because she didn't answer her [ __ ]

3:48:40phone?

3:48:43Her phone?

3:48:46Her phone? Are you want to argue with

3:48:50her?

3:48:53Well, I I I want to tell her like she

3:48:55she has to be like she has to have like

3:48:59uh how do you say she has to be uh she

3:49:03has to have a pension? How do you say

3:49:05it?

3:49:05>> No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

3:49:07no. Why the [ __ ] would she want to do

3:49:10anything for a person whose [ __ ] is

3:49:12tighter than hers?

3:49:14You got the tightest [ __ ] in the whole

3:49:16[ __ ] relationship. You're acting like

3:49:18the [ __ ]

3:49:21>> cuz [ __ ] [ __ ]

3:49:24and all you're doing is bitching because

3:49:26what? Okay, caller. How long have you

3:49:28been listening to me?

3:49:32>> Uh about like one hour [ __ ]

3:49:35>> Okay. It's your first It's your first

3:49:36hour. Well, I appreciate. And where you

3:49:38calling from?

3:49:40>> I'm calling from Parawai.

3:49:41>> Who?

3:49:43>> Parway. A country.

3:49:45>> Carowway.

3:49:47by a white pairway.

3:49:49>> Okay. Parway I think. Okay. Never mind.

3:49:51Okay. So, I appreciate this. But young

3:49:53man, young man, you can't get mad at a

3:49:58woman

3:49:59for not doing something you want her to

3:50:01do. She's got every right to do what the

3:50:04[ __ ] she wants to do. Okay.

3:50:07>> Okay.

3:50:08>> But it's not the woman that's the

3:50:10problem. Your in your insecurities are

3:50:12the problem.

3:50:15You don't Oh, paraguay. Okay. You don't

3:50:19understand. You don't understand

3:50:21the problem that you're making.

3:50:25You are going to become an abusive

3:50:27person if you keep doing this. Do you

3:50:29understand me, young man?

3:50:31>> Yeah, I understand.

3:50:32>> Why are you arguing with her for what?

3:50:35Why are you f I never understood

3:50:38why you guys want to argue with a

3:50:41[ __ ] woman? Why as a king and an

3:50:43emperor, why would you belittle

3:50:46yourself, water yourself down, and go

3:50:49into the mud with them? Why? For what?

3:50:54>> What is it? Tell me what is it? What is

3:50:56the benefit of yelling at a woman? Tell

3:50:58me. What does that do for you? Does that

3:50:59make you feel good? What does that make

3:51:01you feel? Arguing with a woman. I I'm

3:51:04curious. What is that supposed to make

3:51:06you feel like?

3:51:09Well, I guess it's inexperience because

3:51:12like I I won't say I yelled at at the

3:51:15woman, but I won't tell her like she's

3:51:17she's not right for that, right? But and

3:51:19I understand like

3:51:21>> Okay, it's okay. It's okay. It's okay.

3:51:24The problem is you have a wound and

3:51:27there is an insecurity

3:51:30that made you feel that when she didn't

3:51:33answer the phone that she was either

3:51:35talking to somebody else or doing

3:51:38something with somebody else and you

3:51:40started creating stories in your head

3:51:44about somebody was probably painting her

3:51:46[ __ ] toenails or taking a shower or

3:51:48some [ __ ] So why would you want to

3:51:51argue with them? I don't understand what

3:51:53does what does yelling at a person

3:51:55supposed to do? I I never understood

3:51:58that. Why argue with somebody for what?

3:52:02[clears throat]

3:52:05>> Why?

3:52:05>> So could you like would you say I [ __ ]

3:52:08up? Like

3:52:09>> Yes. Be Okay, sir. Sir, look. Okay.

3:52:11Look, with all due respect, and I I I I

3:52:16want women to be careful about guys like

3:52:18you.

3:52:20See, you're not the problem.

3:52:23It's your femininity that's the problem.

3:52:27Because the person that argues with the

3:52:30woman over something small like this is

3:52:34the person that's going to want to look

3:52:35at her phone. He's going to follow her

3:52:38around. He's going to stalk her and do a

3:52:41lot of [ __ ] up [ __ ] And young man,

3:52:44you've got to start to control that

3:52:46[ __ ] [ __ ] ass side of you or you're

3:52:49going to get in trouble, man.

3:52:52You have no right to yell at a woman for

3:52:55doing something she chooses to do or not

3:52:57to do? What gives What gives you the

3:53:00right to yell at a woman because she

3:53:03chooses not to answer the phone? What

3:53:04gives you the right to to yell at her?

3:53:07Why would you do that?

3:53:11>> No. Now home is not the answer. Why?

3:53:14What did she do to deserve you yelling

3:53:17at her? Because she didn't do things on

3:53:20your schedule.

3:53:23>> Yeah, basically.

3:53:25>> But what? But why is she okay? Do you

3:53:29own her? Is she your property?

3:53:32>> No, she's not.

3:53:33>> So, if she's not your property, why are

3:53:35you treating her like she's your [ __ ]

3:53:37property?

3:53:41>> Yeah, basically. Right.

3:53:43>> You don't listen listen. You call her

3:53:46up, she doesn't answer. You call the

3:53:49next one up if you choose to. You call

3:53:52her up, she doesn't answer. Grab your

3:53:54joystick. Go back and play your games.

3:53:57Go watch TV. Do something. Stop sweating

3:54:00these [ __ ] women, dude.

3:54:05>> All right.

3:54:06>> Does that make sense?

3:54:08>> Yeah, it does. I'm just saying, young

3:54:10man, look, I'm not trying to tear you

3:54:14down.

3:54:16You just don't understand

3:54:19that if you feel Okay, look,

3:54:23a lot of guys are not abusive. Okay. All

3:54:26right.

3:54:28But there are signs of an abuser

3:54:32early on. They're early signs.

3:54:35questioning where she's going, arguing

3:54:38with her over silly [ __ ] because abusers

3:54:43are always trying to control a woman by

3:54:46abusing their insecurity, sir.

3:54:51And and I know you're not an abuser, but

3:54:53what I'm saying is please be careful

3:54:57because you should never argue or yell

3:55:00at a [ __ ] woman because she has every

3:55:04right, young man. Listen, every right to

3:55:08do whatever she's doing. You are not her

3:55:11[ __ ] property. So if she doesn't

3:55:14want, if she wants to answer the phone

3:55:16or not, that's her right. if she wants

3:55:19to talk to you or not, that's her right.

3:55:24You have no right to get mad at somebody

3:55:27for doing something that you want them

3:55:30to do. You can't do that, man. That's

3:55:32not m That's not masculinity. Does that

3:55:34make sense?

3:55:36>> Yeah, it does. I I have another

3:55:37question.

3:55:37>> What's your other question? What's up,

3:55:38buddy?

3:55:39>> Um, so um imagine there's another small

3:55:44thing. How can I How can I know if if

3:55:46it's my insecurity or is I'm right for

3:55:49like for example being mad something.

3:55:51>> Okay. Do what now?

3:55:52>> It's not that small.

3:55:53>> How can what?

3:55:54>> So So for example, what if there is

3:55:57another small thing

3:55:59>> and

3:56:00>> Okay, sir.

3:56:02>> as a as a as a a as a man, there are no

3:56:06small things. Okay.

3:56:10I just know

3:56:12that a woman's allowed to do whatever

3:56:16the [ __ ] she wants to do.

3:56:21>> Mhm.

3:56:22>> I am not a pro. I'm not her master.

3:56:26This is not a This is not a prison.

3:56:30Okay.

3:56:32>> Okay. You have no right to tell somebody

3:56:36to do something

3:56:38because it's going to make you feel

3:56:40better about your insecurities. That's

3:56:42the problem.

3:56:44>> The problem is young man, you are the

3:56:47problem.

3:56:50And this is why you are going to become

3:56:52dangerous to people because you cannot

3:56:54manage your emotions.

3:56:59Well, excuse me. Not your emotions being

3:57:01emotional

3:57:03because you go emotions. There's no

3:57:05problem with your emotions,

3:57:07but because a woman wouldn't answer your

3:57:09phone call, you want to argue with her.

3:57:11Why? I I still What is the What point

3:57:14are you trying to get across? Like, what

3:57:17did you say to her? Why didn't you pick

3:57:18up your phone? Where were you at? I

3:57:20mean, like, what the [ __ ] did you say to

3:57:21her? I

3:57:23>> I just said like, "Next time, be be

3:57:25aware of like

3:57:26>> Who the [ __ ] who

3:57:31Please tell me who in the [ __ ] are you?

3:57:36>> Well, I was we were in a relationship.

3:57:38>> No, no, no, no. You're not in a

3:57:40relationship cuz you don't have one with

3:57:42yourself. That's what's wrong with you

3:57:44people.

3:57:45You think you're in a relationship,

3:57:49but you're not.

3:57:53A relationship

3:57:56is when you have with yourself

3:57:59and I call a woman up and she doesn't

3:58:01answer her phone.

3:58:04Oh [ __ ] well. Next.

3:58:07I'm not Listen, young man. This is why

3:58:10you need to watch Hannibal on Netflix

3:58:13because I'm trying to teach you. You've

3:58:16got to check the feminine side of you

3:58:20because the people that hurt women and

3:58:23hit women, punch women, stalk women, and

3:58:27do bad things, young man, starts with

3:58:30what you [ __ ] you're doing. You don't

3:58:32see it now. But you there's some rage in

3:58:35you or some pain in you that got so mad

3:58:40because she didn't answer your [ __ ]

3:58:41phone call. Dude, that's crazy. That's

3:58:43weird, man. You're not supposed to do

3:58:46that, man.

3:58:49>> Okay. Okay.

3:58:50>> Please don't. Please don't do that

3:58:52again. Okay.

3:58:54>> Just look. If you call her and she

3:58:56doesn't answer your phone, hey, look, do

3:58:59something weird. Leave her a message.

3:59:01That's it. That's it. Hey, it's Steve. I

3:59:05just Hey, I just calling you. When you

3:59:06get a free time, call me back. That's

3:59:08it.

3:59:08>> So, she she keeps texting me. Should I

3:59:11like tell her story and [ __ ] Should you

3:59:14say you're sorry or she saying I'm

3:59:16sorry?

3:59:17>> No. Should I say I'm sorry?

3:59:19>> What is she texting you? What is she

3:59:20saying in the text messages?

3:59:23Oh,

3:59:23>> she's like, "Uh,

3:59:26are we going to stop talking forever and

3:59:28[ __ ] because we argue?"

3:59:29>> Just tell her to say, "Listen to me."

3:59:30See, now you're [ __ ] with her

3:59:31insecurities, man. God damn you [ __ ]

3:59:34Hey, look. Okay, you're new. It's okay.

3:59:36Look, just say I don't want to do

3:59:40>> Sir, I got you. just say to her,

3:59:42"Listen,

3:59:43I was wrong for raising my voice at you,

3:59:48okay? I was wrong."

3:59:51Just tell her I You got to take

3:59:53accountability, man. Y'all can't Look,

3:59:55you're [ __ ] with this. I don't Don't

3:59:57[ __ ] with a woman this way. That's not

3:59:59cool, man.

4:00:01>> Just let her know

4:00:02>> I was wrong for raising my voice and it

4:00:05will not happen again. Let's move

4:00:08forward. That's it. because it's not her

4:00:11fault. You're you're making her feel

4:00:13guilty and you're [ __ ] with her.

4:00:15That's what's wrong with you

4:00:16[ __ ] weird people. You can't

4:00:18get mad at a woman who didn't answer the

4:00:21[ __ ] phone. Okay.

4:00:26>> Okay.

4:00:26>> All right. So, just apologize. You got

4:00:28to own that. That's on you, buddy.

4:00:30>> Just say I I was say listen, don't say

4:00:32I'm Say look

4:00:34>> say I was wrong for raising my voice at

4:00:36you and it will never happen again.

4:00:38That's how men handle [ __ ] That's it.

4:00:42>> Okay.

4:00:43>> And and next and the next time you rage

4:00:46and next time you get mad or angry, go

4:00:49jerk off or do something. Get that

4:00:50[ __ ] out that [ __ ] out of you because

4:00:52you because you're going to hold that.

4:00:53What happens with you guys? Y'all get so

4:00:55mad. There's levels. Okay, let let me

4:00:59let me use Jill that as example because

4:01:00she's the first woman up. All right. I I

4:01:03I call I call Jill. She didn't answer

4:01:05the phone. The [ __ ] is she at? [ __ ] is

4:01:08she doing? And you know what? I can't

4:01:10believe she's doing this. And all day

4:01:11I'm festering in that [ __ ]

4:01:13>> And I'm festering in the festering of

4:01:15that [ __ ] It's building up and

4:01:16building. For all I know, Jill her her

4:01:20phone wasn't even charged and she just

4:01:23had to charge it up. Or maybe she broke

4:01:25it. Whatever the [ __ ] in the case of the

4:01:27matter is, I'm not even thinking about

4:01:28asking anything. I'm just thinking about

4:01:30what I'm going to say to her. How I'mma

4:01:31break up with her. I'mma teach her a

4:01:33lesson that you don't do that.

4:01:36You don't do that. If a woman is [ __ ]

4:01:39with you, young man, they will call you

4:01:41back.

4:01:43>> Do you see that? They will call you

4:01:45back.

4:01:49>> All right. Any other questions?

4:01:52>> No, that's it, man. Thank you, Steve.

4:01:54>> I appreciate you. You listen, you're new

4:01:56here, so just remember men don't yell,

4:01:59dude. We

4:02:00>> look unless you unless you tapping that

4:02:02ass from the back, you about to bust a

4:02:04nut. Yell as much as you want,

4:02:07but never yell at a woman because if

4:02:09you're yelling, you're showing her your

4:02:12[ __ ] weakness.

4:02:14>> So guess what, caller? If you guys get

4:02:16in an argument, what do you think she

4:02:19can do to you to piss you off that much

4:02:21more,

4:02:25not answering the phone? You just gave

4:02:27her a weap. You just weaponized her ass

4:02:30by showing her your weakness. And women

4:02:34are smart enough to hold on to that

4:02:35[ __ ] So the moment you piss her off,

4:02:37the moment she gets mad, oh, she gonna

4:02:40get you cuz she know how to get you.

4:02:43>> Yeah.

4:02:44>> Stop giving women uh weapons and then

4:02:47they won't weaponize [ __ ] against you.

4:02:50And if you're mad, angry, bitter, or you

4:02:53want to cry, drive into the middle of

4:02:56the field and go cry your little [ __ ]

4:02:58eyes out and get back into the game.

4:03:00Okay.

4:03:02>> All right. All right.

4:03:02>> All right. You got this, man. So, go

4:03:04talk to her. You got this. Okay, buddy.

4:03:07>> Thank you, man.

4:03:07>> All right. Respect, man. Thank you for

4:03:09the call. Respect. Great call, sir.

4:03:10Thank you. That was a great call.

4:03:13>> Let me get this call right here. Eric

4:03:14code 786, sir. How can I help you, sir?

4:03:17What's up?

4:03:21>> 786. How can I help you, sir? What's up?

4:03:23>> Yes, sir. My name is Johnny. Johnny

4:03:25Ford. Um, I was calling because I have

4:03:28three questions.

4:03:29Johnny, how many times you keep calling

4:03:31us? I tell you this isn't for you. But

4:03:32I'll answer your questions. I keep I

4:03:34don't know. You've been here so many

4:03:36times, Johnny. And I've told you several

4:03:38times this isn't for you, but I'm here

4:03:40to answer your question. How can I help

4:03:41you, Mr. Ford? What's up?

4:03:44>> Yes, sir. My first question is, um, is

4:03:46this like a business? Is is the game

4:03:48like a business?

4:03:50>> Uh, what do you mean like a business?

4:03:52Yes, it is like a business.

4:03:54And you okay, you want to know what when

4:03:56I say it's like a business, you tell me

4:03:57what I mean

4:03:59>> by it's a business. Why do you think I

4:04:01say yes, but what is your

4:04:02interpretation? Cuz you might think of

4:04:04it. What do you mean by a business?

4:04:07>> Um, I really don't know. That's why.

4:04:09>> No, no, but no, no. You're asking, you

4:04:11say it as a game, like a business.

4:04:13Something made you want to ask that

4:04:15question. What made you think it's a

4:04:17business? A business of what, sir?

4:04:20a business of like uh like how you

4:04:23operate and how you um how you like deal

4:04:26with uh women

4:04:29or

4:04:29>> how do you get

4:04:29>> I don't I don't deal with women but the

4:04:32reason it is a business is because

4:04:37your life is yours to own and control

4:04:42like a business.

4:04:44Okay? You can either be the boss or

4:04:48you're going to be an employee. That's

4:04:50it. And you can choose to be the CEO,

4:04:54president or owner of your life or your

4:04:56company. And I am the owner of me. Do

4:05:00you see what I'm saying? Of me. And that

4:05:02means I must create peak performances in

4:05:05all my goddamn uh departments of my

4:05:08life. Do you see what I'm saying? It is

4:05:10it's it's about my values and my

4:05:13principles. Okay. And as my company, I'm

4:05:17in charge of my building, my brand, my

4:05:20product, this dick, the service offers,

4:05:24everything. My skills, my knowledge, my

4:05:27experience, and my environment. So, yes,

4:05:29it is like a business. I have mission

4:05:32statements, legacy statements, and

4:05:34everything in between. And if a woman

4:05:36doesn't want if a woman comes in and

4:05:37think she gonna run [ __ ] she gonna get

4:05:39fired. Bam. It is like a business, sir.

4:05:42>> I'm listen. What's your next question?

4:05:43Yes sir.

4:05:45>> My next question is um can you go on

4:05:48into more on the north star or your

4:05:50compass?

4:05:51>> Well, you got to be a student of the

4:05:52game for that. It's the thing about you.

4:05:55You can't because you don't have a

4:05:56compass at all. So, it's going to sound

4:05:58foreign to you.

4:06:00>> You have to be a student of the game to

4:06:02understand what a compass is

4:06:04>> because you don't understand what it

4:06:05means to walk away from a woman. Burn

4:06:08the bridge. Don't look back. Don't chase

4:06:11after her. Don't beg her back and charge

4:06:14her ass to the game. What's your next

4:06:16question?

4:06:17>> Yes, sir. And um I was going to say um

4:06:20I'm doing everything right. I'm I'm I'm

4:06:21calling the show and I'm intending to

4:06:23the show. I don't know why. I don't

4:06:26know. I don't I'm trying I need this

4:06:27actually. I'm be honest with you, sir.

4:06:29>> Johnny Johnny, when's the last time you

4:06:31called this show?

4:06:34>> Um the last time you was on

4:06:38>> Johnny?

4:06:41I do.

4:06:42>> What What can I help you with, Johnny?

4:06:46>> So, I'm gonna I'm gonna start purchasing

4:06:48the um the courses, but I got to I got

4:06:50to get I got to start getting income

4:06:52coming in.

4:06:52>> Johnny, how long have you been listen to

4:06:54me for?

4:06:56>> Uh about two years.

4:06:58>> Okay. You see what I'm saying?

4:06:59>> And I got all your courses. I got

4:07:01>> Johnny, what did you do? What did you

4:07:03do? What did you What did you What did

4:07:04you Friday?

4:07:07>> Friday.

4:07:09>> Yeah. That's uh that's was called. Yeah.

4:07:11Today is uh Saturday

4:07:14>> and the day before Saturday is Friday.

4:07:16What did you do on Friday?

4:07:19>> Um I was uh working.

4:07:22>> What time?

4:07:26>> Um from 8:00 a.m. till 5 5:00 p.m.

4:07:30>> Okay. What did you do after that,

4:07:32Johnny?

4:07:33>> Yes.

4:07:35Um I just got something to eat, but I

4:07:38didn't see you were live. I didn't see

4:07:39you went live.

4:07:40>> Johnny, this is the [ __ ] point. Why

4:07:43didn't you get your [ __ ] ass up and get

4:07:45to the [ __ ] club?

4:07:48Why didn't you go out? See, this is what

4:07:50I'm saying. No, no, no. This is why the

4:07:52game ain't for you.

4:07:54When have I ever told you to stay to

4:07:56[ __ ] Didn't I tell you? How old are

4:07:58you? How old are you?

4:08:01>> I'm 24.

4:08:02>> You've been listening to me for two

4:08:03years. Didn't I tell you when I was your

4:08:05age, [ __ ] I never went at home.

4:08:09Only time I went home was to rest my

4:08:11dick. And I was always out there. Why

4:08:14the [ __ ] are you staying at home like a

4:08:16loser?

4:08:19>> Right. Cammy, you ain't putting in the

4:08:20work. You don't want to be a student of

4:08:21the game. You showing you don't want to

4:08:23learn the game, dog.

4:08:27The [ __ ] are you? How in the

4:08:29>> No. How in the holy [ __ ] with all the

4:08:34new batch of ass and titties in your

4:08:37[ __ ] area, why in the [ __ ] would you

4:08:40be home on a Friday night? For what?

4:08:48>> I I I go to this bar over here.

4:08:50>> I didn't say a bar, [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ]

4:08:52boy. Did I say a bar or a club, fool?

4:08:58Oh, we only have a bar where I am.

4:09:00>> Johnny, where the [ __ ] are you at? Where

4:09:02you at? Johnny, what city are you in?

4:09:04>> I'm Phoenix City, Phoenix City, Alabama.

4:09:16And I don't have a car.

4:09:19>> Oh. Oh, you don't have a car? Oh, have

4:09:21you heard of [ __ ] Uber?

4:09:25>> Yes. So, what the [ __ ] is your excuse?

4:09:29>> Yes, sir. Yes, sir.

4:09:30>> No, no. Yes, sir. Me? What the [ __ ] is

4:09:32your excuse?

4:09:35>> Cuz I'm not trying to get kicked out. I

4:09:37I I really need this. I'm not going to

4:09:38lie to you,

4:09:39>> [ __ ] You ain't [ __ ] dog.

4:09:41There's the Uptown Trap. That's one.

4:09:43There's something called the Loft.

4:09:46That's uh in Columbus. How far are you

4:09:48from Columbus?

4:09:51>> I'm not that far from Columbus.

4:09:52>> All right. The Loft is in Columbus. Club

4:09:55uh Fetishes in Columbus, the Hooch in

4:09:58Columbus.

4:09:59>> Okay.

4:09:59>> M Martinis in Columbus. The 18th

4:10:03Amendment Club in Columbus.

4:10:06I'm looking at all these [ __ ] place.

4:10:07What the [ __ ] are you talking about?

4:10:11>> Yes, sir. Yes, sir.

4:10:12>> Dog, just hang up the phone. I want to

4:10:13talk. Hang up. I People like you disgust

4:10:16me, dog. You're full of [ __ ] Off my

4:10:18[ __ ] phone,

4:10:20guys. You can't tell me. Listen,

4:10:21gentlemen. I'm here for you guys out

4:10:23here. I want you to win. The

4:10:27[ __ ] been listening to me two

4:10:28years ain't doing [ __ ] about his life.

4:10:30And then has a nerve to tell me, "How

4:10:32did I rip off all these club names in

4:10:34his area? He he talking about he haven't

4:10:36found one." He doesn't want to learn a

4:10:38game. He's full of [ __ ] He's full of

4:10:40[ __ ] Uh let me tell you how he's full

4:10:42of [ __ ]

4:10:47The last time he called, he said he

4:10:49called the other day. Last time he

4:10:51called was July 29th and then July 15th.

4:10:56You see it guys? The last time he called

4:10:58was July 15th and July 29th. Full of

4:11:02[ __ ] Eric code 253 sir. How can I help

4:11:04you buddy? What's up?

4:11:06>> Oh hello. This is Alexander.

4:11:09>> I got you Alexander after the show. I

4:11:10got you after the show. But go ahead.

4:11:11What's up?

4:11:13>> Okay. Um, my question is,

4:11:17so when you don't evolve, is that what

4:11:20makes you like a male and like a man is

4:11:23always evolving? That's what makes him a

4:11:25man?

4:11:27>> Alexander, no, man. Stop worrying about

4:11:30what a man is.

4:11:33You're too busy thinking about what a

4:11:36man is, brother. Why do you keep

4:11:38thinking about that?

4:11:40>> Oh, why? Cuz you got stop worried about

4:11:43what a man is. All right.

4:11:45>> Okay.

4:11:46>> And you got to stop that. Okay.

4:11:48>> Okay.

4:11:48>> You got to learn the name not the name

4:11:51the game, man. All right.

4:11:53>> Okay. Okay.

4:11:55>> You got to wake up, right? You got to

4:11:57stop that [ __ ]

4:11:57>> Yeah. I got to do uh I got to do better.

4:12:00>> It's okay. No, no, no. It's not about

4:12:02doing better. It's you're too busy

4:12:04trying to come up with an idea of what a

4:12:06man is. And I'm just saying move like a

4:12:08man. That's all.

4:12:10>> All right. Okay, you you guys out here,

4:12:12man. Y'all a woman gives you a little

4:12:15piece of [ __ ] and y'all act up. She

4:12:18gives you a smile and you think you're

4:12:21mentally married to the woman. She tells

4:12:24you, "I never met anybody before." And

4:12:26now you're giving her every free hour of

4:12:27your damn time. She gives you a little

4:12:30bit of [ __ ] and now you're sharing your

4:12:32wounds, your plans, your passwords, your

4:12:35promises, and your dreams to the woman.

4:12:38That's not the game.

4:12:40Chemistry is not character.

4:12:44Desire is not proof that somebody knows

4:12:46that you know how to protect them. You

4:12:48got to open your eyes. Stop worrying

4:12:50about what a man is and just follow

4:12:54directions. Okay, my friend.

4:12:56>> Okay.

4:12:57>> All right. You got it, buddy. Thank you

4:12:58for the call.

4:13:00>> Okay.

4:13:00>> I respect respect. Respect.

4:13:04Gentlemen, what I'm saying you guys out

4:13:06here, this is what separates the guys

4:13:09that get [ __ ] from the guys that talk

4:13:11about [ __ ]

4:13:14Look,

4:13:19a woman's going to behave the way she's

4:13:21going to behave, guys. I'm sorry. That's

4:13:23just what it is. All right.

4:13:28Anybody can sound, let me get this

4:13:30question right here. Eric 909, how can I

4:13:32help you, sir? What's up?

4:13:34Hey, how's it going, Steve? It's Jay.

4:13:36Yes, sir. What's up?

4:13:36>> Um, yeah, I just had a couple questions.

4:13:39Um, so this is in regards to uh um a

4:13:43date that I just went on. So,

4:13:45>> Oh,

4:13:46>> um, yeah. So, like in your last live, I

4:13:49called in about like the the girl that I

4:13:52had um essentially,

4:13:55long story short, like I missed her

4:13:57message and then like we end up going

4:13:58out on a date, setting up a date again.

4:14:00So, we ended up going out uh today.

4:14:04Um and then actually, let me rewind a

4:14:08little bit. So, uh before the date,

4:14:12right, like I we were talking over text

4:14:15and um I'm not sure if I messed up or

4:14:18not, but

4:14:18>> sir. Okay, stop right there. Read the

4:14:21text messages, dog. We can't read your

4:14:22mind. We don't know what the [ __ ] you

4:14:24said. Read the text messages, please.

4:14:27>> All right, bet. So, let me go back a

4:14:30bit.

4:14:32Um,

4:14:39all right.

4:14:43So,

4:14:44I said, um, remember when I said I had

4:14:48some things on my mind last night? Um,

4:14:50and I saying looking forward to

4:14:52exploring each other. Sorry. Wait, wait,

4:14:54wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

4:14:59Yes.

4:15:01>> Wait, maybe it's me. I I I could have

4:15:04swore you said that y'all never went on

4:15:08a date. Y'all just finally started

4:15:09talking to each other. Yes.

4:15:12So, we were Yeah, we were supposed to go

4:15:13on a date. Um, when I came back from my

4:15:16trip, she apparent she I thought she

4:15:19never replied to my text, but I just

4:15:21never got her message. And then her her

4:15:23long story short, her friend reached out

4:15:26to me like cuz she knows me in person.

4:15:28And then

4:15:29>> all right. So you're talking about

4:15:30exploring each other. What did she say?

4:15:33>> Yeah. She said, "I think I recall that.

4:15:34What about it?" And then

4:15:38um I said, "So I was going to put her

4:15:40into action." So I said, "Well, I mean

4:15:43what I say. Uh send me a quick selfie so

4:15:46I can give you a taste of exactly what

4:15:48that's like with me."

4:15:49>> What the [ __ ] do you mean? What? Wait,

4:15:51what does that mean, dog?

4:15:54What does that mean?

4:15:56>> So, she says she's okay to do what? What

4:15:59are you What are you gonna do? What What

4:16:00are you gonna give her? What are you

4:16:01going to give her a sample of?

4:16:04>> Uh, I was going to give her a sample of

4:16:06just like talking about the things that

4:16:08I see about her. Um,

4:16:12>> yeah.

4:16:16>> What did she say, dog?

4:16:18Um, she said, "Whoa, you're going to

4:16:21have to work for that. Use your

4:16:22imagination a little bit."

4:16:24>> And what did you say?

4:16:27>> Um, I said I said, "H, I think you give

4:16:30me too much credit and maybe not enough

4:16:32for yourself. I do remember your eyes

4:16:34though and how I was inviting your eyes

4:16:36to lock with mine and the photo dress

4:16:39you had on." Then I said, "I'm a

4:16:42believer that the time we spend and

4:16:44energy commute is the biggest signal."

4:16:47Um, that's why I'm inviting you to do

4:16:48this with me to show you who I am. I

4:16:51don't really think of it as work, but I

4:16:52think it could be something light work

4:16:53we both can enjoy.

4:16:58>> Why are you saying this stupid [ __ ]

4:17:01>> I was just trying to be honest off off

4:17:03of what was in my head.

4:17:05>> Why are you trying to be [ __ ] poetic

4:17:07and you're not? Why? Who told you to say

4:17:10that stupid [ __ ]

4:17:11>> That's lit. That's That's how I talk to

4:17:12you. Like,

4:17:14>> [ __ ] Explain what that stupid

4:17:16[ __ ] means. is I'mma show you full of

4:17:17[ __ ] What does that stupid [ __ ] mean?

4:17:20Explain it. What does it mean?

4:17:23>> Okay, so I'm I'm saying that like u I'm

4:17:27a believer that the energy we commute is

4:17:29the biggest signal what we value in

4:17:31others and also in ourselves. So I'm I'm

4:17:33just saying like

4:17:36me communicating what I think and what

4:17:39what how I look at her is an important

4:17:43signal about how I view the world.

4:17:46And I'm trying to tell her like I'm

4:17:48inviting her to to let me do that.

4:17:50That's why I said that's exactly why I'm

4:17:51saying

4:17:52>> to let you to let you do what?

4:17:54>> To show her how I see her.

4:17:57>> But the [ __ ] is saying no,

4:17:58[ __ ] Didn't you hear her?

4:18:02>> Yeah.

4:18:03>> So then why are you begging?

4:18:07>> I was trying to offer her clarity on

4:18:08what I meant.

4:18:09>> The [ __ ] you,

4:18:12>> sir? How clear do you have to be to

4:18:13somebody tell him to send me a [ __ ]

4:18:15photo?

4:18:17>> I thought that was Yeah, I guess that

4:18:18should have been clear enough.

4:18:20>> You don't think it was clear enough?

4:18:22>> Clear enough where she said no to your

4:18:24[ __ ] ass cuz she felt that because

4:18:27she felt that you don't deserve a photo.

4:18:31So, what is all this stupid [ __ ] you're

4:18:32saying to her? And after you said that,

4:18:34what did you say? What did you say after

4:18:35that?

4:18:37>> Uh, what did she say? She said, "Uh, I

4:18:40can get on board with that. All I'm

4:18:42saying as is I prefer to show a little

4:18:44face first."

4:18:47And then I said, "Wait, did you mean I

4:18:50meant a photo of more than your face?

4:18:52Uh, I'm not asking for that."

4:18:56And then she said, "Hey, what do I know?

4:18:59I just But no, I meant talk in person."

4:19:03So, and then I ended up bumping into her

4:19:07in person. Uh,

4:19:09>> wait. Time out. Now, let's rewind this.

4:19:11Let's rewind this.

4:19:13>> Yeah.

4:19:13>> What was the first thing you said? What

4:19:16was the first thing that you said?

4:19:18Explore her. Explore what?

4:19:21>> Um,

4:19:24when I said remember when I said I had

4:19:26some things in my mind and I saying

4:19:28looking forward to exploring each other

4:19:30and that was a question that I said to

4:19:31her.

4:19:31>> Okay. What does exploring each other

4:19:32mean?

4:19:34like exploring like for me it means like

4:19:38exploring her mind like exploring and

4:19:40>> will you stop stealing my [ __ ] [ __ ] you

4:19:43don't mean that [ __ ] boy stop stealing

4:19:46my [ __ ] and be honest man [ __ ]

4:19:50stop [ __ ] lying

4:19:52you ain't that guy

4:19:55so stop [ __ ] lying so what the [ __ ]

4:19:57do you mean by exploring

4:20:01because if wait if it's exp wait if is

4:20:04exploring her [ __ ] mind. What is her

4:20:06[ __ ] mind telling you then?

4:20:09>> What is her mind telling you? If you if

4:20:10you if you're quote unquote exploring

4:20:12her mind, what is her mind telling you?

4:20:16>> That she's not interested.

4:20:17>> Then what the [ __ ] are you talking to

4:20:19her for, fool? So much about exploring

4:20:22her mind, [ __ ] liar.

4:20:24Because if you're exploring her mind,

4:20:26she told you over and over and over that

4:20:30she doesn't [ __ ] like you. So, what

4:20:32the [ __ ] are you exploring? Explain. Cuz

4:20:35you weren't exploring her mind cuz she

4:20:37doesn't [ __ ] like you. So, what are

4:20:39you exploring, man? Why do you lie?

4:20:42You're not You want to [ __ ] her? Why

4:20:44don't you just be honest, man? Why are

4:20:46you lying?

4:20:48>> But I'm I'm trying to steal your [ __ ]

4:20:49Like, I'm You You telling me to steal

4:20:51your [ __ ] so I'm stealing your [ __ ]

4:20:52>> But you're stealing my [ __ ] but you're

4:20:54not using it the right way.

4:20:58You said I want to explore your mind.

4:21:00She tells you no. What should you add,

4:21:02said?

4:21:04>> Um, take care.

4:21:06>> Yeah, but what you get?

4:21:07>> Oh, the Oh, the the essence of your

4:21:10beauty. And I'm looking at the ways that

4:21:12you move and seeing the glitter and the

4:21:15rain fall over your face. Oh, it goes so

4:21:18softly.

4:21:19>> The [ __ ] are you doing?

4:21:22You should have told her take care. If

4:21:24you're doing it right, you should have

4:21:26cut her ass off when she said I don't

4:21:28know.

4:21:29>> Got it. So then what are you talking

4:21:31about, man?

4:21:35>> She said all that [ __ ] You don't say.

4:21:37You don't even know. See, this is what

4:21:38I'm saying. You're stealing my [ __ ] but

4:21:41yet you just said it's my stuff. This is

4:21:43what I want to do. See, why do you lie?

4:21:45There's no reason to lie.

4:21:49I I respect you more. Say, "Steve, I

4:21:51just stole your [ __ ] I'm cool with

4:21:52that." But you try to make it like it's

4:21:54yours. No, you came off and said you try

4:21:58to act like it was actually you. If you

4:22:00just would admitted that you was

4:22:02stealing my [ __ ] I'm cool with that.

4:22:03But don't act like you're that guy.

4:22:05You're not.

4:22:07>> All right. Yeah. No, I'm not.

4:22:09>> [ __ ] So then what? So then you go see

4:22:13her?

4:22:15>> Well, yeah. So, um

4:22:20Well, okay. Yeah. So, before all this,

4:22:21the date was already set up for

4:22:22Saturday, right? we were having this

4:22:24conversation over text and then um I

4:22:26bumped into her yesterday, Friday. Um

4:22:30and uh we just I I just pretty much told

4:22:34her like

4:22:35um

4:22:37the like more the details for for the

4:22:40day tomorrow.

4:22:41>> What are the what are the details for

4:22:42the day tomorrow?

4:22:44>> Yeah. So, it it was at this bar uh this

4:22:46bar is like

4:22:47>> Tell me specifically you walked up to

4:22:49her and what happened? Walk me through

4:22:50it. You saw her. What happened?

4:22:53Oh, yeah. So, I bumped into her. Yes.

4:22:55Um, and I was like, "Oh, hey." Like, and

4:22:57because she was like in a rush and I was

4:22:58like, and she's like, "Oh, she

4:22:59recognized me."

4:23:01>> And then I said, "Oh, like what a

4:23:02coincidence that we bumped into each

4:23:03other." Um, and I said

4:23:07I was actually on in the going toward

4:23:09the meeting and then but then my meeting

4:23:10got cancelled. And then um she asked me

4:23:13what I was doing and I said, "Well, it

4:23:15looks like I'm going to hang out with

4:23:16you for the next 30 minutes." Um, and we

4:23:19could talk. And then so we went um and

4:23:23then we sat in like a little courtyard.

4:23:26>> Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,

4:23:27wait, wait, wait.

4:23:29>> Yes.

4:23:30>> Isn't this the guy that talk about

4:23:32exploring? Where was the [ __ ] hug

4:23:34that you Where's your hug at?

4:23:37>> My hug?

4:23:40>> Like like did I hug her? Is that what

4:23:41you mean,

4:23:43>> sir?

4:23:45>> Yeah. Why in the [ __ ]

4:23:49didn't you tell her

4:23:52before we do and then come over here and

4:23:53give me my hug?

4:23:57>> I did not think they'd do that.

4:23:58>> It's never too early to teach him about

4:24:00losing.

4:24:01>> Facts.

4:24:06>> Yeah.

4:24:08>> All right. So, you chitchated with her

4:24:10for 30 minutes.

4:24:13>> Yeah. 25 minutes

4:24:14>> about what?

4:24:18>> Um, so she was like asking me about like

4:24:24um

4:24:25like just like [ __ ] interviewing

4:24:27questions essentially.

4:24:28>> What did she give me example what she

4:24:29asked you? What did she ask you?

4:24:32>> Um like like where are you from in

4:24:35California specifically?

4:24:36>> And what did you say?

4:24:39Um,

4:24:40I said like I just pulled up a map and

4:24:43pointed to a spot.

4:24:44>> All right. Now, what? Wait, wait, wait.

4:24:46I'mma show y'all something magical.

4:24:49I want you to go back

4:24:51and I want you to read that world poetic

4:24:54[ __ ] that you said there. Say it

4:24:56again. Read Go back and read that [ __ ]

4:24:57you put in the text message.

4:24:59>> All right.

4:25:00>> I I want y'all to hear how these women

4:25:04smoke you lying [ __ ] out. Go

4:25:06ahead and read the text message.

4:25:11>> Yeah. So, I'm a believer that the time

4:25:13we spend and the energy you commute is

4:25:15the biggest signal what we value and

4:25:17others and also ourselves. That's why

4:25:19I'm inviting you to do this with me to

4:25:21show you who I am. And I don't really

4:25:23think of it at think of it. I don't

4:25:25think of it as work, but it can be

4:25:27something like work we both can enjoy.

4:25:28>> All right. Okay. Okay. Okay. She asked

4:25:30you where you from and you're just like

4:25:32right here. Right here. I'm from this

4:25:36place. No, no, no.

4:25:38I pointed out the [ __ ]

4:25:39>> You see I'm saying you she smoked your

4:25:42[ __ ] ass out. You were all your words

4:25:45were [ __ ]

4:25:49>> She asked a question. She said right

4:25:51here. What was the other question she

4:25:52asked you?

4:25:54>> Um

4:25:58I'm trying to remember. It was like some

4:26:00[ __ ] like

4:26:01>> No. No. There's no But see, that's

4:26:02what's wrong.

4:26:04Why do y'all guys always say women are

4:26:07saying [ __ ] You're not paying

4:26:09attention. What did she ask you?

4:26:12>> It was about um Dang, I'm blank blank. I

4:26:16don't want to say it was about like u

4:26:19I want to say it was about

4:26:23uh like the pro the program that I'm in

4:26:27essentially like at at the school.

4:26:29>> Okay. When she asked you about your

4:26:30program, what' you say?

4:26:33Um,

4:26:35I just said I'm not going to give you

4:26:36like a full breakdown of everything I

4:26:38do, but it's like I just kind of told

4:26:41her like like the basic details like

4:26:43>> Well, now now help me understand this.

4:26:49Where was the person

4:26:52that said, wait, read what you said

4:26:54again? You had a dream about Wait, what

4:26:56was it? What was the first thing you

4:26:57said to her about exploring?

4:26:58>> I didn't say a dream. I said I said all

4:27:00I said was uh I'm a believer that the

4:27:03time we spend and the energy we commute

4:27:04>> No no no no go back to the first thing

4:27:06you said there about exploring each

4:27:07other. What did you say about exploring

4:27:08each other?

4:27:10>> Uh oh. Um remember when I said that I

4:27:15had some things on my mind last night

4:27:16and us looking forward to exploring each

4:27:18other.

4:27:18>> Right. Right. So, you had some things on

4:27:20your mind and instead of telling these

4:27:23things on your mind, fraud,

4:27:26you're talking about your job and are

4:27:28you letting her control the [ __ ]

4:27:30conversation?

4:27:33You see what I'm saying?

4:27:35>> I said, "See, you guys are fakes and

4:27:37frauds. Why do you do that [ __ ] Why do

4:27:40you pretend to be someone you're not?

4:27:42She's right in front of you asking about

4:27:44programs and [ __ ] What about this

4:27:46[ __ ] thought process that you had

4:27:49that was on your mind about exploring

4:27:50each other? Why did you have that

4:27:52conversation?

4:27:55>> Uh, I mean, quite frankly, because I'm

4:27:57not in the game.

4:27:59>> But you stole

4:28:05Why steal my stuff then?

4:28:08>> For what?

4:28:10>> Because that's all I had to go on at the

4:28:11time.

4:28:12>> But you're stealing it for

4:28:16This is what I'm saying, man. I don't

4:28:18understand you guys. How many times do I

4:28:21tell you that if you gonna use my [ __ ]

4:28:23you going to have to stick with my [ __ ]

4:28:26You talking all this big dick McGriff

4:28:28[ __ ] but you ain't talking about what

4:28:30you need to be talking about. I thought

4:28:32you said you wanted to explore her,

4:28:35didn't you?

4:28:36>> I did say this.

4:28:37>> So then why are we not talking about

4:28:38exploring each other?

4:28:42Um,

4:28:45>> yeah. I was going to say like quite

4:28:46frankly because I'm not in the game like

4:28:47I I wasn't prepared.

4:28:49>> So then why then why then why say what

4:28:52you're saying for what? What was the

4:28:54reason why you want to say? Tell me why

4:28:56did you say that then? For what?

4:28:58>> Well, I thought I was going to be able

4:28:59to prepare myself before the date on set

4:29:03like today.

4:29:04>> There is no prepare. Okay. Do you have

4:29:08to

4:29:10get ready if you are ready?

4:29:13>> No, you're already ready,

4:29:15>> right? So why would So then what

4:29:18happened?

4:29:20>> Um

4:29:22so I

4:29:24um

4:29:26yeah, we walked back inside like this

4:29:27this building that we were going that we

4:29:29were originally in. Um I I told her, you

4:29:32know, like I'll talk to you tomorrow.

4:29:33I'll pick you up at 5:30. Um, I had some

4:29:38other stuff to take care of. So, whoopsy

4:29:39whoop did that. And then, uh,

4:29:41>> no hug. No hug.

4:29:46>> Uh, when I when I said goodbye. No.

4:29:51[laughter]

4:29:59>> I wasn't I wasn't sure that I was.

4:30:01>> But wait, no, no, no, no.

4:30:03You talked about all this exploring

4:30:05[ __ ] did you not?

4:30:08>> I did.

4:30:08>> So, you didn't even explore her body by

4:30:11giving her a hug.

4:30:14>> I did not.

4:30:17>> So, then what, dog? What next? What?

4:30:19What happened next?

4:30:21>> Yeah. So, then um we met up today um or

4:30:25uh the date that we that I had planned.

4:30:28Um,

4:30:30so yeah, I picked her up. Um,

4:30:34it was kind of like, and I know you're

4:30:36going to ask if I hugged her again. No,

4:30:37because uh, it was like in the middle of

4:30:39traffic. It was like, yeah, it was

4:30:42>> What do you mean? Wait, wait. When did

4:30:43you pick her up?

4:30:45>> Like literally in in it was in the

4:30:46middle of traffic.

4:30:47>> When? What time?

4:30:50>> 5:30.

4:30:52>> Brother.

4:30:54>> Yes, sir.

4:30:58How many times

4:31:01have I told you guys?

4:31:04What time do you not set dates up with

4:31:08women? Between what time?

4:31:12>> I thought that was like a weekday.

4:31:13>> Between what time? [ __ ] boy. It's

4:31:16>> when Monday through what?

4:31:19>> I thought it was Monday through Friday.

4:31:22>> Isn't today Saturday? Right. Your date

4:31:24was yesterday, Friday, wasn't it not?

4:31:26>> No, no, no, sir. No, I'm I'm saying it

4:31:28was today. Like,

4:31:29>> so you picked her up You picked her up

4:31:31at five something today and it was

4:31:32traffic

4:31:33>> cuz Yeah. Well, what I'm saying it was a

4:31:35busy street. I'm not saying

4:31:36>> What the [ __ ] are you? Wait a second.

4:31:39>> Yes, that's what I'm saying.

4:31:41>> You picked her up on a busy street.

4:31:43Wait, I don't understand. I'm lost. I

4:31:45don't understand. What do you mean?

4:31:47>> Her apartment building is on a I didn't

4:31:49know this. All right. I never been to

4:31:50her apartment before. Her apartment's on

4:31:52a busy ass street. She tells me to pull

4:31:54up here. I'm like, "What the heck's

4:31:55going on?"

4:31:56>> So, did you pull up and get out the car

4:31:58or you just pulled up?

4:32:00>> I pulled up. I was about to park and

4:32:02then she runs over to the car and hops

4:32:04in the car.

4:32:07That's what I'm trying to say.

4:32:09>> So, then what happened?

4:32:12>> Then we uh Yeah. So, then I drove her I

4:32:14drove her and I to the uh to the bar.

4:32:16It's like an outdoor like patio

4:32:19situation. um like 20 minutes away. So,

4:32:23we drove there. Um

4:32:27and um once we get out um

4:32:32that's that's when I said like u I'm

4:32:34glad that um we decided to come out

4:32:36tonight. Um and then I offered her my

4:32:39hand. I opened her a door actually and

4:32:41then uh then after she got out, I

4:32:42offered her my hand. Uh, and then I spun

4:32:45her around and then

4:32:48um I gave her like a hug and she was

4:32:52like

4:32:54um I guess like surprised and like

4:32:56elated a bit from it. But um she's like,

4:32:59"Oh yeah, I'm not used to that." Blah

4:33:00blah blah. So I was like, "Oh, cool."

4:33:02Like I'm

4:33:03>> She said, "I'm not used to it." What did

4:33:05you say?

4:33:06>> I said, "Well, I'm happy to show you

4:33:07things like that."

4:33:09Um,

4:33:10>> why didn't you say to her from the

4:33:12moment I sent you the text message, I

4:33:15talked about exploring you, right? Why

4:33:18didn't you go back to the reference

4:33:19point of where you were at?

4:33:22>> Damn, I did not think.

4:33:24>> Jesus [ __ ] All right, so then what

4:33:26happened, buddy? What happened then?

4:33:28>> Uh, and then so we walk up to the little

4:33:32little patio area, you know, I open the

4:33:34door, we walk in. Um, and we're just

4:33:38kind of getting a vibe. We see like

4:33:39there's like some uh like little park

4:33:43area out in the distance. So, we decided

4:33:45to get some drinks. Um, and then we went

4:33:48and sat down

4:33:49>> and talked about what?

4:33:52>> Um, yeah. So, at the at the bench, um,

4:33:56we talked about Well, I brought up I

4:33:59brought up Well, okay. No, she she

4:34:01started asking me um

4:34:05like

4:34:06oh like so like you told me bit about

4:34:08yourself yesterday. I'm like yeah and

4:34:09you told me about yourself. Um and she

4:34:12said well like like what else can you

4:34:14tell like pretty much like oh what else

4:34:16what else you do? Um and then I told her

4:34:19like a few of the things and disclaimer

4:34:22this is me stealing your [ __ ] Steve. Um

4:34:24but

4:34:25>> it's okay. Listen listen I don't mind I

4:34:27know you're going to steal my [ __ ] I

4:34:29can't stop y'all from that. I'm just

4:34:30trying to see how you using it, dude.

4:34:32>> Okay.

4:34:33>> How Okay. What are you saying? What are

4:34:35you stealing? What are you stealing?

4:34:36Let's see if you use it right. What are

4:34:37you stealing from me?

4:34:39>> Okay. For the So, for the first thing I

4:34:40first thing I said, and this is true.

4:34:42So, like I said, I I went to um to talk

4:34:46uh to do a open mic um and uh give like

4:34:51some erotic poetry like talk like speak

4:34:53poetry at open mic, which is your [ __ ]

4:34:55that I stole, right? I didn't tell her

4:34:56that obviously, but like um I was like,

4:34:58"Yeah, I did did like some erotic poetry

4:35:00at Open Mic."

4:35:02Um and she's like, "Oh, wow." Like

4:35:04really? Like I was like, "Yeah, like you

4:35:05know." She's like, "Oh, I'm I'm really

4:35:07surprised. Um I never heard that

4:35:09before." And then I said, "Um

4:35:14yeah, something I really like to do like

4:35:16like to like uh I like to show people

4:35:19that side and let people explore that

4:35:21side of themselves." And she was like,

4:35:23"I can see that." Um, and she was like,

4:35:26"I'm really curious." And I'm like,

4:35:27"Well, what are you curious about?" And

4:35:29then she um pretty much was like asking

4:35:32me to like see the like the poetry,

4:35:34right? So, um, I have I have like a

4:35:38bunch of your poems, Steve, like like

4:35:40that you got from your Soundcloud. Like

4:35:41I have like the written version of those

4:35:43in a notepad app. Um, but I also have

4:35:46some stuff that I I written mixed in

4:35:47there, too. Just like a a big like fat

4:35:49note file, right? So, um

4:35:52uh I I showed her uh one of the first

4:35:56ones.

4:35:57>> What? Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,

4:35:58wait.

4:36:00>> Yeah.

4:36:02>> I'm with Let's say I'm you and I'm doing

4:36:05all this silly [ __ ] and have Lauren ask

4:36:08me about my poetry.

4:36:10>> Yeah.

4:36:12Why

4:36:14would you show her the poetry

4:36:18and not get in her [ __ ] ear and say

4:36:20the poetry in her ear? Buddy, why didn't

4:36:23you do that?

4:36:26>> Uh, I didn't I didn't think she was

4:36:28ready for that.

4:36:29>> The [ __ ] you mean she wasn't ready for

4:36:30that? Because

4:36:33>> that was that was my my bad. But like

4:36:35that that's what I that's what I

4:36:36thought. So, you showed her my poetry

4:36:38and then what? Did I [ __ ] her real good?

4:36:41Did she like what I was saying?

4:36:43>> She liked it, but she like she was like,

4:36:45"Yeah, I can see what you mean by like

4:36:49like showing that side of yourself and

4:36:50allowing other people to do."

4:36:51>> So, why didn't you show her that side of

4:36:53yourself in real time while she was in

4:36:55front of you?

4:36:59>> Um,

4:37:02I I wasn't quick enough on my my feed to

4:37:04be

4:37:04>> What the [ __ ] What?

4:37:08>> Go ahead, man.

4:37:11>> Um,

4:37:12so we walk like we finish our like a

4:37:15couple drinks and we walk down um to

4:37:18like some of the park area. Um,

4:37:21and you know, she's enjoying she said

4:37:23she's enjoying herself. You know, I

4:37:25offer her my hand and like we're she

4:37:28holds my hand. We're walking a bit.

4:37:30>> What do you mean? Wait, wait, wait,

4:37:32wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

4:37:34>> Yeah.

4:37:36H how old are you, buddy?

4:37:38>> 32.

4:37:39>> Okay.

4:37:42Why in the flying [ __ ] are you holding

4:37:45her hand?

4:37:47Like you're [ __ ] Jack and Gio going

4:37:49up the goddamn hill. The [ __ ] are you

4:37:51holding her hand for?

4:37:54>> The [ __ ] are you holding her hand for?

4:37:56For what, man? Hey, should you hold her

4:38:00>> Hey, how about Hell no.

4:38:03>> [laughter]

4:38:05>> Yeah, [ __ ] that to the max.

4:38:10>> [ __ ] hold her hand.

4:38:12Why are you holding her hand? You

4:38:14haven't even hugged her yet. What do you

4:38:16>> No, I did before I hugged her before we

4:38:19went into the

4:38:19>> Oh my god. So, you're holding her hand.

4:38:21Why are you [ __ ] holding her hand?

4:38:23All right. You're holding her hand. Then

4:38:25what?

4:38:26>> Um Yeah. And then we walk around a bit.

4:38:29Um, and then

4:38:31>> and what were you talking about?

4:38:34>> Yeah. So, I'm telling her like, uh,

4:38:37essentially like I like to or I would

4:38:41like to like see a side of her that she

4:38:45hasn't really expressed before.

4:38:47>> Okay. Oh, wait, wait. Will you please

4:38:48tell everybody disclaimer, please?

4:38:51>> Yes. Disclaimer. She's Steve [ __ ] Steve

4:38:52[ __ ] y'all.

4:38:53>> Thank you. Steve [ __ ] Steve [ __ ]

4:38:56So, you saying you say you want to see a

4:38:58side of her?

4:39:00>> Yeah.

4:39:00>> And what did she say?

4:39:03>> She said like that that's not something

4:39:05that she's used to. And

4:39:08>> Right. So then what did you do after

4:39:09that?

4:39:10>> She said that's not something she used

4:39:11to and she doesn't know if she can bring

4:39:13>> What did you do after that?

4:39:15>> I said that I'm not trying to force

4:39:17anything out of you. That's just what

4:39:19I'm inviting.

4:39:19>> Oh my god. You said I want to see a

4:39:22different sort of you. Did you not? Why

4:39:23didn't you kiss her right there?

4:39:28>> [laughter]

4:39:33[laughter]

4:39:38>> You're saying I want to see a different

4:39:40side. She says she's never experienced

4:39:42that before. Why didn't you pull her in

4:39:45and kiss her?

4:39:47>> Well, because she said she she doesn't

4:39:49know how fast she can bring that out is

4:39:51what she said.

4:39:51>> Bring what? How fast she can bring what

4:39:53out?

4:39:55like the sensual side of her.

4:39:57>> Wait, how did this even?

4:40:01I'm sorry. I must have missed it.

4:40:04What do you mean the central side? What

4:40:06the [ __ ] did you say to her? Where the

4:40:08central side? What are you talking

4:40:09about?

4:40:10>> Like like when I like back to before

4:40:12when we were talking about the erotic

4:40:14poetry and stuff like that. Like

4:40:16>> she said she don't know how the central

4:40:17side to come out.

4:40:18>> So why don't you grab her hand and bring

4:40:20her close to you and start talking [ __ ]

4:40:22in her [ __ ] ear?

4:40:26Yeah, I don't have a game like that.

4:40:27>> But then why say

4:40:30>> Okay, sir.

4:40:33>> Yes.

4:40:34>> Why

4:40:36say

4:40:38all of this [ __ ]

4:40:42and you're not backing it up with any

4:40:44kind of sexual move? Why are you Why are

4:40:47you What's the purpose? What is the

4:40:49reason of saying it if you're not trying

4:40:51to move towards a kiss or something more

4:40:54intimate? I don't understand.

4:40:58Um

4:41:03I I think I I did this wrong because I

4:41:06was

4:41:08um trying to understand from her if she

4:41:11was ready for that.

4:41:14>> But what happened next?

4:41:18Um

4:41:20yeah. So like we we pretty much we

4:41:22walked around went back to the to the

4:41:24bench and we talked about that uh some

4:41:27more. Like pretty much just talking

4:41:28about like she said that she appreciates

4:41:31that I'm like bold and direct and that

4:41:32she hasn't really experienced that um

4:41:36from like just men in general. Um

4:41:39>> so what did you say after that? Uh

4:41:41Steve, this is what I said. You know

4:41:43what? I'm open to direct. Well, you know

4:41:44what? Let me be open with you. says,

4:41:46"The moment I met you and looked at

4:41:48those sexy lips, I wanted to do this,

4:41:49lean in and kiss her." But you didn't do

4:41:51that, did you? What did you say to her?

4:41:53>> What did you say to her,

4:41:54>> [ __ ]

4:41:56>> No, I I I just said that um that like I

4:42:00think it's important to be like uh

4:42:02direct uh or at least bold. Um

4:42:05>> Wait a second. How can you say that and

4:42:07you didn't do anything direct and bold?

4:42:14Yeah.

4:42:19>> So then what? Mr. Bold and direct. What

4:42:22then?

4:42:24>> Um

4:42:26then we uh we went back inside. Uh and

4:42:29then like I got my stuff. Um and she s

4:42:34she suggested that like uh we could like

4:42:37keep uh talking at another spot. And I

4:42:40was like, "Well, maybe." uh but we're

4:42:41going to have to go back towards like

4:42:43towards town like where where where

4:42:45she's staying. She's like, "Yeah, okay."

4:42:47And then I said, "Well, how about we go

4:42:49uh get some ice cream?" Um

4:42:52>> why get some ice cream when?

4:42:56>> Uh like like after we get back to the to

4:42:58the town

4:42:59>> the same day.

4:43:01>> Yeah.

4:43:03>> What is Why would you go on two dates?

4:43:08Why?

4:43:11>> Uh

4:43:14I I guess Yeah. I didn't I didn't think

4:43:16I I thought that was cheat.

4:43:23>> So then what happened, man?

4:43:26>> So then we're getting the ice cream. Um

4:43:30>> [ __ ] And pretty much like

4:43:34she said she was like just saying like,

4:43:38"Oh, like uh you know, you're

4:43:41like really

4:43:43you're really interesting and like you

4:43:45have like a lot of like wisdom or

4:43:47whatever the fuck." I should say

4:43:48something like that. Um

4:43:51and then

4:43:53um as we're going back uh going back I'm

4:43:56I'm taking it back to her place. Um,

4:44:00she she said that

4:44:03I'm trying to figure out if

4:44:06uh

4:44:08if that's something that like I'm I'm

4:44:09I'm ready for. Like if if like being

4:44:11more open to my sensual side is

4:44:14something that I'm ready for. And I

4:44:16said, "Well, look, if you're not sure,

4:44:17like that's fine. Like I'm not trying to

4:44:19force anything out of you,

4:44:20>> sir." And then she

4:44:22>> What do I [ __ ] tell you about women

4:44:24who are unsure? [ __ ]

4:44:26>> Let them go. Then what the [ __ ] are you

4:44:28doing?

4:44:34>> Didn't I tell you when they say they're

4:44:36not sure, what the [ __ ] are you supposed

4:44:38to do?

4:44:41>> Let him go.

4:44:41>> Why didn't you do that?

4:44:44>> Yes. So I was dropping her back off at

4:44:46her house.

4:44:46>> No, I didn't. [ __ ] when y'all

4:44:49were driving, she said that. Yes.

4:44:51>> No, it was after we already stopped.

4:44:52like we already we already got back to

4:44:54her house and I'm like about to like

4:44:56like hug her and let her let her go to

4:44:58her her door

4:44:59>> and she said, "I don't know about this

4:45:00central stuff." Right.

4:45:03>> Yeah. She was

4:45:03>> And what did you say?

4:45:05>> Well, and then after that she also said

4:45:07like um like you're really interesting,

4:45:10but I'm trying to figure out if I'm um

4:45:12in into you is what she said.

4:45:14>> She's

4:45:14>> um

4:45:16Yeah,

4:45:17>> go ahead.

4:45:18And then and then and then I was like,

4:45:20"Well, look, like um like I said, like

4:45:23I'm not trying to um spend I'm trying

4:45:27I'm not trying to waste any more of your

4:45:29time or my time." Um but

4:45:31>> wait, wait, wait, wait. That's a lie.

4:45:32That's a lie. From the first moment you

4:45:35[ __ ] met her, all you did was waste

4:45:37[ __ ] time. So why are you trying to

4:45:38be Big Dick McGriff now? You're a

4:45:41[ __ ] fraud. You wasted all your

4:45:43[ __ ] time hanging out with her ass.

4:45:46So then what? Okay, then what? So,

4:45:48what'd she say after that [ __ ] you

4:45:49said?

4:45:51>> Um, and she was like, "I'd like to," she

4:45:54said, "I would like to go on another

4:45:55date." Um, and it's all like, "And I'll

4:45:58I'll pay for I'll pay for everything."

4:46:02Um,

4:46:03>> so you didn't say nothing. Is that what

4:46:05your question is?

4:46:06>> No, I said I said I'll think about it.

4:46:09>> You'll think

4:46:15what I told her. So now you want to know

4:46:16what to say?

4:46:18>> Yeah.

4:46:19>> You tell her we can go on any date you

4:46:22want as long as there are hugs and

4:46:24kisses in there. And if they're not, you

4:46:26take care of yourself. The [ __ ] end.

4:46:28Cuz you [ __ ] [ __ ] everything up. I

4:46:30don't see this. The problem, dog. You

4:46:33try to talk [ __ ] behind the phone. You

4:46:35got in front of her. You bitched up the

4:46:37whole [ __ ] time.

4:46:39>> Yeah.

4:46:40>> You're a fake, man. Why are you Why are

4:46:42you such a [ __ ] fake?

4:46:46Why?

4:46:48Why do you think stealing my [ __ ] is

4:46:50going to help you when you weak as [ __ ]

4:46:54>> Um, I mean, I I I obviously need

4:46:57coaching. Um,

4:46:58>> when's the last time? That's what I'm

4:46:59saying. Why'd you get [ __ ] coaching?

4:47:02>> So, that was my second question, Steve.

4:47:04Like, I I've been sending you emails

4:47:05about that situation. Um, I just need

4:47:09you to send me saying that so I can pay

4:47:10for the coaching, dog. Listen. Listen.

4:47:13>> Yes, sir.

4:47:15Just send her a message, right? Can you

4:47:17call her right now? You got her number,

4:47:18right?

4:47:19>> I have her number. Yeah, she send me a

4:47:21text also.

4:47:21>> I don't give a [ __ ] if she put that

4:47:23[ __ ] on a bird. Call her right now and

4:47:25tell her, "Listen,

4:47:26>> just say, "Listen, I thought about what

4:47:28you said."

4:47:29>> Yeah.

4:47:30>> I'll be happy

4:47:32to go out with you

4:47:35as long as it involves hugs and kisses.

4:47:39>> Got it.

4:47:39>> No, not got it. Click over and [ __ ]

4:47:41say that to her live on air. Let's go.

4:47:43>> All right. Bet. Bet.

4:47:45>> [ __ ] man. What the [ __ ] man? God.

4:47:48[clears throat]

4:47:51>> Oh, man.

4:47:53>> All right.

4:47:55Calling it.

4:47:55>> Y'all gonna get this. I'm only 55.

4:47:57Please don't give me a heart attack. I'm

4:47:59just too old for this [ __ ] man. [ __ ]

4:48:23record your message. When you have

4:48:25finished recording, you may hang up.

4:48:28>> Hey, how's it going, Marley? Um, yeah, I

4:48:30know. I thought about what you said and

4:48:32I'm happy to go on that date that we

4:48:34mentioned. Um, as long as it involves

4:48:37hugs and kisses and I'm sure that's

4:48:39something we could work out, you just

4:48:41let me know. Have a good night.

4:48:49Did I tell him to ask for permission?

4:48:52What is the rule of Jill Scott people?

4:48:54I'm sorry. 336. How can I help you, sir?

4:48:57I can help him ask

4:48:58>> 336. Go in once. 336. Hello. How can I

4:49:02help you, sir?

4:49:02>> Oh, yeah.

4:49:04Oh, guess.

4:49:05>> How can I help you, sir? What's up?

4:49:07>> Oh, yes. So, so basically last time we

4:49:11were on the phone, it was about you, you

4:49:14told me to go watch Eddie Murphy, you

4:49:16know, the a thousand words. You know,

4:49:18you said it was a shitty movie. You

4:49:19know,

4:49:19>> it is. It's [clears throat] quite

4:49:20shitty.

4:49:20>> And And you were telling me, okay, like

4:49:25that the moral of the story was don't

4:49:28waste words.

4:49:29>> Yes, sir.

4:49:29>> Right.

4:49:30>> Yeah. And don't waste time.

4:49:30>> And then

4:49:31>> Yes. and don't waste words and don't

4:49:33waste time. And one thing I noticed

4:49:35about him was it seemed like Eddie

4:49:38Murphy thought throughout like the

4:49:39beginning of the movie that he ran [ __ ]

4:49:41but it seemed like he didn't run

4:49:43anything but his mouth. But then once

4:49:45that got taken away, it was like before

4:49:47he thought he had influence, but then he

4:49:49started to see that he didn't have as

4:49:52much influence as he thought. the ones

4:49:54who have great influence. Again, if you

4:49:57watch Hannibal, which is the next thing

4:49:58you need to watch,

4:50:00>> is that Hannibal is very cold, smart,

4:50:04and calculated with his words. He does

4:50:07not waste words at all. Everything he

4:50:10says has a meaning and everything he

4:50:13says h is going somewhere.

4:50:16So, what is your question?

4:50:20Yeah, that that's what I was that's what

4:50:22I was asking like did I actually like

4:50:25did I read that right? Like well you

4:50:27kind of read it right. So now watch

4:50:29Hannibal and see how Hannibal talks and

4:50:31you will see he doesn't waste words

4:50:35ever. Ever.

4:50:39>> All right.

4:50:40>> All right.

4:50:41>> All right then.

4:50:42>> All right. We'll throw you back in.

4:50:43Thank you, sir. Respect.

4:50:44>> All right then. Of course.

4:50:45>> Respect. All right.

4:50:48I can't believe the guy calls the woman

4:50:50and said it's okay and uh and ooh and

4:50:53man, y'all [ __ ] man. I don't

4:50:56understand why.

4:50:58Let us continue, guys. I got y'all. We

4:50:59go a little bit more. Gentlemen, I

4:51:01always keep trying to tell you guys that

4:51:04y'all have to have the Hold on a second.

4:51:06Big dog, let me ask you a question. What

4:51:08is all that ooh ah and is it okay with

4:51:10you [ __ ] What can you explain? Did

4:51:14I tell you to say it's is it okay?

4:51:18Did I ask you is it okay? Did I say to

4:51:21ask her is it okay?

4:51:25>> Did I uh What did I say to do? What did

4:51:28I say?

4:51:30>> I'm happy to go on the date as long as

4:51:32it involves hugs and kisses.

4:51:33>> Okay. Why didn't you just say that?

4:51:35Since you steal everything else, why

4:51:37don't you just [ __ ] say

4:51:39>> No, I like it. Well, I mean, well, well,

4:51:42if it's okay. I mean, like, I mean, I

4:51:45mean, I mean, we can kind of talk about

4:51:48it and discuss it.

4:51:50>> Why didn't you just [ __ ] say what I

4:51:51told you to say?

4:51:54Why?

4:51:55>> [ __ ] man. All right, man. Any other

4:51:58question? I got I got any other

4:51:59questions?

4:52:00>> Oh, no. My only other question was just

4:52:02um

4:52:02>> All right. I I'm trying to figure that

4:52:04[ __ ] out, dog. I'm trying to figure it

4:52:05out. I'll let you. All right, man. Come

4:52:07on, man. Goddamn, dude. Come on, man. I

4:52:10I don't understand something. I told him

4:52:11to just [ __ ] tell her like a grown

4:52:13man. He put all that.

4:52:18This is why I tell you what makes a man

4:52:21win

4:52:22is because a man only talks

4:52:26from standards.

4:52:28Okay, that's it. Period.

4:52:31A man doesn't explain himself. He just

4:52:34keeps it a buck. That's what I keep

4:52:37trying to tell you guys out here.

4:52:42Let me grab this call.

4:52:45661.

4:52:48How can I help? What's going on? How can

4:52:49I help you, man?

4:52:51>> Yeah, it's Emmanuel. So, um, I have a

4:52:53question about that movie, A Thousand

4:52:55Words. Um, I watched it.

4:52:57>> Did you watch Hannibal?

4:53:00>> No, I need to watch that.

4:53:01>> Can you please [ __ ] move to Hannibal?

4:53:03Not the Thousand Words. What's your

4:53:04question, man? What's up?

4:53:06>> Okay. Um, you said he was a cannibal.

4:53:10That's That's crazy. But, um,

4:53:12>> wait, what? Wait, what did you say?

4:53:14>> You said Hannibal. Hannibal was He ate

4:53:17people, right?

4:53:18>> Yeah. So, what's so crazy?

4:53:21>> Like he's a cannibal. That's

4:53:22>> [ __ ] Did I Okay, fool. Listen

4:53:25to me.

4:53:28Did I say watch the series to watch him

4:53:32eat the people? Did I say that,

4:53:33[ __ ] Did I?

4:53:35>> No. You said pay pay attention to

4:53:36>> then what [clears throat] the [ __ ] are

4:53:37you talking about then man?

4:53:40Who gives a [ __ ] what he was doing? It's

4:53:41not a Guys, I swear I make this

4:53:45kindergarten. Can you not follow

4:53:47directions? Did I say worry about

4:53:49Hannibal the cannibal? Did I say that?

4:53:53>> No.

4:53:53>> So then what the [ __ ] are you talking

4:53:54about?

4:53:58What are you talking about?

4:54:00>> No, I was just saying like in general

4:54:01that's that's a crazy thing for someone

4:54:03to do. Sir, will you who gives a [ __ ]

4:54:09>> What's your question, man? What's your

4:54:11question?

4:54:12>> And it's not Hannibal the movie. It's a

4:54:14series, sir. It's a series. It's a TV

4:54:16series.

4:54:16>> What's your What's your question? What's

4:54:18up?

4:54:18>> Yeah. So, um with the thousand words,

4:54:20right? So, um anytime basically, uh what

4:54:25you're trying to get us to see is

4:54:26anytime we oversp speak or say too much

4:54:29or over talk, that's pretty much giving

4:54:31our power away, right?

4:54:33Yes. Yes.

4:54:37A woman can feel when you guys enter

4:54:39what is called auditioned

4:54:42reality.

4:54:44You don't have to say

4:54:45>> your behaviors are always going to show

4:54:47women

4:54:49>> that you don't value yourself cuz all

4:54:51you're trying to do is audition for some

4:54:53[ __ ]

4:54:55>> Yeah.

4:54:56>> So what's your question?

4:54:58So that's looking for validation through

4:55:02a woman's love.

4:55:04>> I don't [ __ ] want What do you mean

4:55:06her [ __ ] love? What are you talking

4:55:08about through a woman's love? What the

4:55:09[ __ ] are you talking about?

4:55:10>> Like when when you say auditioning for

4:55:15uh when you enter audition mode, that

4:55:17that would basically be looking for

4:55:19validation. Like

4:55:21>> when do I tell you when have I ever told

4:55:23you to audition for a woman?

4:55:25>> Never. Do I talk about earning you?

4:55:31>> Uh, yeah. She She has to earn.

4:55:33>> Yeah. So, if I'm talking about earning

4:55:34you, what are you talking about then?

4:55:37>> Okay. So, I'm I'm I'm thinking of the

4:55:41entire opposite wrong thing to do. So,

4:55:43>> right.

4:55:44>> Pretty much. Yeah.

4:55:45>> Earning you does not mean she completes

4:55:48a checklist and receives a prize, sir.

4:55:51It means that every level of access has

4:55:54a matching level of trust and respect.

4:55:59She earns more of your time by

4:56:01respecting your time that she receives

4:56:04from you.

4:56:05>> She gets more access to you by how she

4:56:08manages herself, how she shows you

4:56:11difference, how she puts in action and

4:56:13effort. The more action, the more

4:56:15effort, the more time. That's it. She

4:56:18earns a priority when she proves that

4:56:21she's outdoing the other women who

4:56:23trying to get at the top. That's it.

4:56:26>> She earns a deeper investment because

4:56:28guess what? She begins to invest not

4:56:30only her body, but also her her credit

4:56:33card and everything, too.

4:56:35>> That's what I'm saying, man. I don't I

4:56:37don't understand, man. It's

4:56:40>> This is basic, dude.

4:56:42>> Her credit card works, too. Guys, there

4:56:46there's not a woman should spend money

4:56:49on you.

4:56:51If if she should fly you out or come fly

4:56:54to see you, get the hotel, set

4:56:56everything up, and come see you, spend

4:56:59time, buy you gifts, what why is it that

4:57:03why why

4:57:05and I don't understand this.

4:57:08Why are we Why do we

4:57:12stick in a reality

4:57:14that says only you're the one that has

4:57:17to buy her [ __ ]

4:57:20and never even question the [ __ ]

4:57:22people that made you even think about

4:57:23that stupid ass [ __ ]

4:57:26Why can't she buy you [ __ ] cook for

4:57:29you, set up hotel rooms, buy you plane

4:57:32tickets, and spend time? What in the

4:57:35[ __ ] world are we in to think that we

4:57:37are always the ones that got to buy

4:57:39them? Oh, I'm sorry. Because you're in a

4:57:42world of running behind [ __ ] Ah, silly

4:57:46me. I'm sorry. I don't run behind [ __ ]

4:57:49She's got to get this dick. And if she's

4:57:51not investing in this goddamn dick, she

4:57:54doesn't get the time. I didn't even say

4:57:55the dick. The time, the attention. What

4:57:58is she doing to show you that she's

4:58:01trying to get the dick?

4:58:04This doesn't make sense. Why do you feel

4:58:07that you've got to earn her? Does that

4:58:10make sense?

4:58:12>> Yeah, that's it's two completely

4:58:13different mindsets.

4:58:15>> But isn't there aren't there two sides

4:58:16of a coin?

4:58:18>> There is.

4:58:19>> So why aren't we looking at the other

4:58:20side?

4:58:22>> You want to know why? Because you've

4:58:23been taught to believe that there is no

4:58:25other side and it's the way the world

4:58:27is.

4:58:29>> Until until we meet the coach that's

4:58:32you,

4:58:32>> right? until you meet the person that

4:58:34shows you to become comfortable within

4:58:36the space. Okay.

4:58:38>> Yes, sir.

4:58:39>> You have to live in the space and in the

4:58:42silence and in the separation. You've

4:58:44got to live there because if you can't

4:58:46learn how to live there, you're going to

4:58:47run behind her.

4:58:50A man with options don't beg.

4:58:54And if you if you're always begging,

4:58:56then she realizes there's nothing about

4:58:59there's nothing about you to give.

4:59:03I'm not going to argue with a woman.

4:59:06Listen,

4:59:08I listen. I'm not going to ask anything

4:59:11of you. Okay? I'm not asking for a ass

4:59:15picture, a titty picture or something

4:59:16like that.

4:59:18>> Yeah.

4:59:19>> But if I have to ask, I will ask, but I

4:59:22will only ask one time.

4:59:25And if you don't do that, which is your

4:59:28right not to, I'm not wasting my [ __ ]

4:59:31time.

4:59:34Okay? I'm not afraid to lose a woman

4:59:37because I don't lose women. Cuz I don't

4:59:40go after women.

4:59:42You're afraid of losing. You guys are

4:59:44afraid of See, the reason why you do the

4:59:46things you do, young man, is because the

4:59:48world has set you up. You're afraid to

4:59:50lose your identity. Lose out on the

4:59:53[ __ ] lose the routine, lose your

4:59:56happiness, lose to the other guy, lose

5:00:00to the connection of all that silly [ __ ]

5:00:02that they indoctrinated you with. I'm

5:00:04not doing that. Look, this is not about

5:00:08talking about having a bunch of women,

5:00:10okay? I'm not I'm not saying that.

5:00:12Having real options means that your life

5:00:15does not collapse

5:00:16>> when one door [ __ ] closes, man.

5:00:20>> A woman is allowed to say no. and I'm

5:00:23allowed to say next. She's allowed to

5:00:26say I don't think about I'll think about

5:00:27and I'm allowed to say goodbye. I'm not

5:00:29[ __ ] wasting my time.

5:00:33Guys, if a woman wants to [ __ ] with you,

5:00:35she will. That's it, man. That that it's

5:00:37that simple. It's that simple. You see

5:00:39what I'm saying?

5:00:40>> Yeah.

5:00:41>> Yep.

5:00:42>> But see you guys, because you don't have

5:00:44any options, young man, in your world,

5:00:48you can't hold a boundary. Okay? Because

5:00:52deep deep inside that boundary has no

5:00:55[ __ ] foundation on it. So that means

5:00:58you're scared of being who you are

5:01:02because you will want to hold on to

5:01:03somebody that's giving you ass crumbs

5:01:06and not give you the [ __ ] cake. Does

5:01:08that make sense?

5:01:10>> Yeah. That's um uh basically wanting to

5:01:14hold on to a connection with a woman is

5:01:18>> but you can't hold on to a connection if

5:01:20you're not connected.

5:01:22That's why you lose connection.

5:01:24>> You okay? Right now you are built to

5:01:28break up.

5:01:29>> Every woman you meet, you're starting

5:01:32the clock on the end of you. When I meet

5:01:36her, I she's meeting the beginning of

5:01:39something that she will never [ __ ]

5:01:41understand because she can't understand

5:01:43her feelings because she never had those

5:01:45[ __ ] access before. How can she

5:01:48understand her feelings? How can she

5:01:50understand her feelings when she's never

5:01:52met anybody to tap into the source?

5:01:55>> She can't. And [clears throat]

5:01:56>> she can't. Right? And that's what

5:01:59separates

5:02:01emotional pain from emotional control.

5:02:07See [snorts] that?

5:02:09>> I'm not trying to control her.

5:02:12>> I'm going to hurt her. I told you that.

5:02:15>> When a woman say when you're sliding her

5:02:17panties down, what do they say? Don't

5:02:19hurt me. Then what do you do? You look

5:02:21up at him and say, "What? I'm not going

5:02:22to

5:02:24>> Oh, yeah. I'm not going to hurt you."

5:02:25>> Right? Because you like sliding a penny.

5:02:27I'm not going I'm not going to hurt you.

5:02:29Bama [ __ ]

5:02:30>> Yeah. I want a relationship.

5:02:32>> Right. I want a relationship with you. I

5:02:34want to give you everything you want.

5:02:36Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

5:02:39>> No, I'm going to hurt you. And I'm not

5:02:42going to hurt you the way you think. The

5:02:45pain is going to be thinking about me,

5:02:47missing me. The pain in playing and

5:02:50listening to my voice. Do you

5:02:52understand? It amplifies. Okay. When a

5:02:55woman is sad, she listens to sad music.

5:02:58Right.

5:03:00>> Right. But when a woman is sad and

5:03:02listens to me when she's sad, it's going

5:03:04to make the sadness even more because

5:03:06she's want to connect with me. It

5:03:09amplifies. This is when you got the

5:03:12game, man. I'm going to create the end

5:03:14in the beginning because I know she's

5:03:17not going to want to be there because

5:03:19she's losing control.

5:03:24>> Does that make sense?

5:03:26>> Yeah. And and you you just said when

5:03:29she's sad, she listens to you. So that

5:03:32means she's connected or the [ __ ] sad

5:03:35connect.

5:03:36>> That's how she is going to experience

5:03:38me.

5:03:40>> Yeah.

5:03:40>> You guys want to experience her [ __ ]

5:03:44That's crazy to me.

5:03:47You want to experience a whole

5:03:50but you're not a whole person. So that's

5:03:53why you just want a whole, right?

5:03:57So, it's her, it's me wanting to

5:03:59experience her body versus her getting

5:04:02to experience me.

5:04:04>> When she when you're worth the

5:04:06experience,

5:04:08a woman can feel fake. I'm telling you,

5:04:12but she can't understand me because she

5:04:16feels such a way that is an

5:04:18uncontrollable feeling that she can't

5:04:21[ __ ] turn off. She's Okay, here's the

5:04:24thing. There's Ronnie. I'mma use new

5:04:26edition. Ronnie, Bobby, Ricky, and Mike.

5:04:28If I love other girl cares, who you

5:04:29like, cool it now. Okay. So, she can cut

5:04:33off Ronnie, Bobby, Ricky, and Mike,

5:04:36right? And not give a [ __ ] about him.

5:04:38So, what does she think? She could cut

5:04:40me off. She cuts me off, but she's not

5:04:43cutting me off. She thinks she's cutting

5:04:46me off, but when she cuts me off, what

5:04:49do you think is going to mess with her

5:04:50like a [ __ ] like crack cocaine? Well,

5:04:53you you can't cut right, you withdraw.

5:04:56You can't cut a man off cold blood.

5:04:58That's the greatest thing. Cutting you.

5:04:59You can't cut this off.

5:05:01>> You can't run. Where the [ __ ] you gonna

5:05:02go? Oh, wait. Watch this. Watch this. I

5:05:05got done smoking the sticky icky yiki

5:05:08and I'm smoking some Snoop Line or Snoop

5:05:11Dog [ __ ] that's really high and [ __ ]

5:05:12like that. Oh, guess what? No, no, no.

5:05:14I'mma cut that [ __ ] off and go back to a

5:05:17hookah or a vape pen. [ __ ]

5:05:20>> No, that's not how it works. It's not

5:05:22how it works. It's never how it works

5:05:27because her but okay. She has built her

5:05:31mind up to cut you [ __ ] off.

5:05:35And that's the truth. That's the truth.

5:05:39But that is all she built up because she

5:05:42can't build up something that has never

5:05:44been accessed. [clears throat]

5:05:46And what's that?

5:05:49Uh

5:05:49>> her emotions.

5:05:50>> Right.

5:05:52It's there. That's what makes your

5:05:55presence heavier. And when you call, it

5:05:58means something. When you make time, it

5:06:02means something. When Look, listen.

5:06:07Okay. The guy that called before was

5:06:10talking about taking her out to eat at

5:06:12the bar, walking around, holding her

5:06:14hand, and getting ice cream. Right.

5:06:15Right.

5:06:16>> Right.

5:06:17>> What if I told you a woman would say,

5:06:19"Fuck all that. I just want to watch you

5:06:21play video games. I just want to watch

5:06:23you watch TV. Why don't you and I just

5:06:27spend maybe an hour watching a movie

5:06:30together where I can just stare at you

5:06:32and look at you. Do you see the impact?

5:06:35Do women won't understand that [ __ ]

5:06:37because they never met a man before.

5:06:38They they they were like, "No, fuck."

5:06:40Because that's from their logic. I'm

5:06:41talking about their emotion. It means

5:06:44something. When I open up to her, it

5:06:47means something. When I say what I say

5:06:50and stand on it, it will always mean

5:06:52something because underneath who I am is

5:06:56where she is [ __ ] feeling. That's it.

5:06:59That's it. She's always going to feel

5:07:02something. So when I go away, she stops

5:07:06feeling the thing that she felt that

5:07:08only I can give her. She can't give

5:07:11herself the [ __ ] [ __ ] I give her.

5:07:13That's going to be the torture. Do you

5:07:15see what I'm saying?

5:07:17>> Yeah.

5:07:18>> That's the beauty of it. I don't I'm

5:07:21never trying to control her. I'm just

5:07:23showing her what it's like to lose

5:07:25control and love losing control. Do you

5:07:29guys think women don't like losing

5:07:31control? Do you think when when they

5:07:33stick their finger down their pants or

5:07:35they grab that toy, do you think they're

5:07:37in control or do they like to lose

5:07:38control? What do you think?

5:07:41They like losing control because they

5:07:42know they're going to feel good,

5:07:44>> right? Because the more they lose

5:07:46control, the bigger the nut. The more

5:07:49they let themselves go, the bigger, the

5:07:52wetter, the nastier it's going to be.

5:07:54But you guys are trying to control

5:07:56someone who likes to lose control. And

5:07:58that [ __ ] doesn't [ __ ] make any

5:08:00sense.

5:08:02Why would you Why would you want to

5:08:04control her instead of freeing her? See,

5:08:08the guy that called the woman is telling

5:08:09all that [ __ ] talking about I never

5:08:10been seduced before. Now to grab their

5:08:12hands, said come here. You never been

5:08:13around with Let me show you what it's

5:08:14like. You see what I'm saying? You guys

5:08:17got to give women the experience. Does

5:08:20that make sense?

5:08:22>> Yeah. Yeah.

5:08:24>> But I'm listening to you.

5:08:26>> Yeah. Oh, that was my only question that

5:08:28that just But the the way you broke that

5:08:30down the the mentality of being the

5:08:33experience and not even

5:08:36>> I want No, no, no, no, no. Being the

5:08:38experience is not just the experience of

5:08:40her playing with her [ __ ] and

5:08:42masturbating.

5:08:44>> Yeah. It's when she gets into the

5:08:47[ __ ] bed and she tries to close her

5:08:51beautiful goddamn eyes and all she can

5:08:55think about is, "Is he thinking about

5:08:57me? Does he miss me?

5:09:01What does he want to do with me? Is he

5:09:04going to call me? Is he going to say

5:09:07when is he going to that's the [ __ ]

5:09:09experience

5:09:11to where she wakes up in the it's like

5:09:14in their head they want to hurry time up

5:09:18because they want to hurry up and go to

5:09:20sleep so they can grab their phone and

5:09:23see is that message him. Right. Right.

5:09:26>> Yeah.

5:09:27>> So watch how they torture themselves.

5:09:31They they they go away. Right. We don't

5:09:34work out. We go our separate ways, but

5:09:37I'm not going anywhere. The experience

5:09:39is always going to be there. But the

5:09:41torture is looking at her [ __ ] phone.

5:09:45Do you know when she look if it's if

5:09:47it's uh Tik Tok, uh Instagram, WhatsApp,

5:09:52Facebook, whatever it is, there's always

5:09:56going to be a message that lights up on

5:09:58her [ __ ] phone with a number on it of

5:10:00how many messages? Yes. Yes.

5:10:02>> Yeah.

5:10:03>> Right. So, do you know how much of a

5:10:05mind [ __ ] that is to see all these

5:10:08messages? Cuz women get tons of messages

5:10:10from men, right? To get all these

5:10:12messages and find out none of them are

5:10:14from him. [ __ ]

5:10:17>> Every damn day it's the same [ __ ]

5:10:19torture. 10 messages, 30 messages, 40

5:10:23messages, 15, 20. The messages going to

5:10:27change up, but you know what's going to

5:10:29remain the same? It ain't him.

5:10:32it ain't him.

5:10:33>> And and part of her just wishes it could

5:10:36be him to a point where her emotions

5:10:40say, "Bitch, look here. Stop [ __ ]

5:10:44around. Either we going to go and talk

5:10:46to this [ __ ] and get that cause

5:10:48and that cure or we are fucked." And

5:10:51she'll make a move. But that's on her.

5:10:54But that's what I'm saying to y'all guys

5:10:55out here, man. It's torture. It's it's

5:10:58it's what the the other guys are setting

5:11:00it up and setting me up. I'm telling

5:11:04you, women are getting Look, gentlemen,

5:11:07women have tons of fans. They have a fan

5:11:12club of guys

5:11:15that love them, care about them, talk to

5:11:19them, friend them, give them whatever

5:11:22they want, but they're just not me.

5:11:26there. They're just not me.

5:11:30Some women are going to walk away, young

5:11:32man. I told you. And when they realize

5:11:35that, guess what? Damn, I walked away

5:11:38from somebody that never [ __ ] with my

5:11:42emotions. He never treated me bad. When

5:11:47I was with him, he made me feel like I

5:11:50was the only woman in the world. He paid

5:11:53attention to me. We laughed. We joked

5:11:55and we had a great time. He never asked

5:11:58anything of me. And and sometimes when I

5:12:02wasn't ready, he was cool enough to

5:12:04wait. Do you see what I'm saying?

5:12:07>> This is why you can't build your value

5:12:09around keeping women interested.

5:12:12>> You're not supposed to fit every woman.

5:12:14I keep telling you that

5:12:16>> you're not supposed to be every woman's

5:12:18type. You're not supposed to blend until

5:12:21>> you lock in with a woman because a fool

5:12:24who makes himself acceptable to every

5:12:27woman eventually becomes interesting to

5:12:30nobody. You hear what I'm saying, young

5:12:32man? Including your [ __ ] self. That's

5:12:36why you have to have an edge to you.

5:12:39There's a pace to you. There are

5:12:41principles and rules to say that I am

5:12:43not going to waste my time with a nobody

5:12:47and a nothing until they show me they're

5:12:49worth my time. Cuz I don't need you as

5:12:52much as you need me. I've always felt

5:12:54that way. That's not being mean and rude

5:12:57cuz I know what I bring. Now remember,

5:12:59young man, I told you I can't [ __ ] like

5:13:00you. I you know I ain't going to lie. I

5:13:04You know how old are you? How old are

5:13:05you? Like 20 what?

5:13:06>> Uh 26.

5:13:07>> Yeah, 26. Yeah, I still can't [ __ ] like

5:13:09you at 26. I'm be 55 so I can't [ __ ]

5:13:11like you but I'm still good. I'm still

5:13:14good.

5:13:17>> I mean it's the the [ __ ] is in the

5:13:20mind though.

5:13:20>> I know that's you. [laughter]

5:13:23>> Yeah.

5:13:25>> They they'll accept my old they'll

5:13:27accept my old uh w my old wrinkly ass.

5:13:34>> Okay.

5:13:34>> Yeah. Cuz once once you hit that um that

5:13:37emotion, it's it's over.

5:13:40Right. But they don't understand that

5:13:42because they never met somebody like

5:13:44that.

5:13:46>> Yeah.

5:13:46>> That's what I'm saying.

5:13:49And the problem is

5:13:51is when you know or feel like she

5:13:54doesn't want you anymore

5:13:56rather than accept that she doesn't want

5:13:59you. Because if a woman doesn't Okay,

5:14:01look. Okay. Let me tell you something.

5:14:03This is what women don't share with you

5:14:06guys.

5:14:08I told you the clock is ticking.

5:14:13So, wherever you meet a woman and y'all

5:14:15start to date or she starts to have

5:14:17feelings, the clock is ticking. It goes

5:14:23down as far as interest. It goes down.

5:14:25It goes down. It goes down. It goes down

5:14:27until she's no longer interesting

5:14:29because you guys don't know how to

5:14:31either maintain what you have or build

5:14:34it up to a point between the buildup. So

5:14:37watch this. So think about this. So

5:14:40let's say let's go at 70%. Let's say you

5:14:42meet a woman at 70, right?

5:14:45>> Yeah.

5:14:45>> So eventually that [ __ ] 70 is going to

5:14:47just like a it's like a a a leak in a

5:14:50tire.

5:14:51It's going to start to go down. Does

5:14:53that make sense?

5:14:54>> Yeah.

5:14:55>> Okay.

5:14:57So let's say she's with me at 70%.

5:14:59Right.

5:15:01>> Yeah. But I add I add 50 of elevation.

5:15:06So what does that put me at? 120. Yes.

5:15:10>> Yeah.

5:15:10>> Okay. In her mind, it's still what

5:15:15though?

5:15:17>> It's still 70.

5:15:18>> Yes. So then

5:15:22sometimes a woman's interest is going to

5:15:24go away. Right.

5:15:28>> Right. And then when it gets to nothing,

5:15:30right?

5:15:32>> Or I recognize as it's going down, I'm

5:15:35wasting my time, I'm out. Right.

5:15:40>> Right.

5:15:40>> The average woman hears a guy saying

5:15:42that, they don't give a [ __ ] about the

5:15:43average guy. And guess what? She doesn't

5:15:45give a [ __ ] about me either.

5:15:48But what do you think gives a [ __ ]

5:15:51>> Oh, the emotion,

5:15:53>> right? Cuz that's that 50 that makes her

5:15:54want to [ __ ] come back.

5:15:57But she doesn't know it's there.

5:15:58>> She doesn't know it's there until it's

5:16:01gone and it's right.

5:16:03>> Exactly.

5:16:05From her 70s. Her logic.

5:16:08>> Because her logic has always controlled

5:16:10the narrative of her [ __ ] her ass, and

5:16:13her titties. That's where she thinks

5:16:14she's queen bee. Her logic. So when she

5:16:17gets rid of somebody, she's gone. It's

5:16:19over. I need my space. I don't want this

5:16:21anymore. I don't like this anymore. I

5:16:23just want to be friends with you. And

5:16:25then she cuts you off and throws you

5:16:27away like a tanax.

5:16:29She meets me at 70. I'm tapping into her

5:16:32emotions at 50 or 100 or 200. I'm going

5:16:37up and up and up and up and up because I

5:16:41know eventually she's going to think she

5:16:43can just go the [ __ ] away and it's going

5:16:47to start to blend down because she's

5:16:49going to start to get mad and angry. You

5:16:51know, I don't want to be in control. I

5:16:52feel like I I have no say so in a

5:16:54relationship. It seems like I got to do

5:16:56everything his way. I don't like that or

5:16:58whatever woman think. Yes. Yes.

5:17:01>> Yeah.

5:17:01>> Right. Okay. Yeah.

5:17:03>> Right.

5:17:04>> So, she goes away.

5:17:07She goes away from her ass and titties,

5:17:11but not from her femininity or emotions

5:17:13and who she is. I am going to be [ __ ]

5:17:17forever.

5:17:19I'm forever, [ __ ] But that's

5:17:21what you understand.

5:17:23There's nothing that she is going to say

5:17:25or do that's going to make her reminisce

5:17:27about me. And when she reminisces about

5:17:29me, she's going to think about not

5:17:30trying to reminisce about me, which is

5:17:31going to make her reminisce more about

5:17:33me. Do you see what I'm saying?

5:17:35>> Yeah.

5:17:35>> Is a constant [ __ ] closed loop. It

5:17:38will never [ __ ] open. That will

5:17:40close.

5:17:45>> And when you have that effect,

5:17:47>> I am the effect. I don't have it. I am

5:17:49the effect. I don't have it. I am.

5:17:52That's why I'm so cold. You just heard

5:17:54what I said earlier. A woman told me she

5:17:56had a a dream about me.

5:17:59>> She told me she had a dream about me. I

5:18:01don't give a [ __ ] So,

5:18:04>> no.

5:18:08Okay. And but see, if I was you, with

5:18:10all due respect, you'd be like, "Oh my

5:18:12god, can I get her ass or titties? Can I

5:18:14send her a dickpick? Man, can I give her

5:18:16some of this [ __ ] Can we go to connect?

5:18:18We can we sleep together?" Do you see

5:18:19what I'm saying? Two totally different

5:18:21things.

5:18:23I'm not impressed.

5:18:25I'm only impressed by action, effort,

5:18:29and the information. That's what

5:18:30impresses me. Does that make sense?

5:18:33>> Yeah.

5:18:36>> Okay.

5:18:37>> I don't believe in low effort. I'm

5:18:39telling you. Period.

5:18:41And low effort starts to happen when it

5:18:44starts to taper down. Okay?

5:18:47But here's the power of a woman. As they

5:18:50taper down, what are they trained to

5:18:52know? They're going to taper down to

5:18:54maybe 10%. That's that space. I need

5:18:57time. I need to find myself. I I'm not

5:19:00sure if this is going to work out. And

5:19:02what are the guys doing?

5:19:04Give me a chance.

5:19:07I'm sorry. Let's work this out. What did

5:19:10I do wrong? Let's go to therapy and all

5:19:12that stupid [ __ ]

5:19:15A therapist will never help a woman with

5:19:17a man like me. She go to all the [ __ ]

5:19:18therapist she want. It won't help. They

5:19:20can try. But what is a therapist going

5:19:23to say? Yes. How does it feel? Yes. How

5:19:26does that make you feel? How does that

5:19:28make you feel?

5:19:29>> Yeah.

5:19:29>> How does that make you feel? Oh, I

5:19:32forgot. How does that make you feel?

5:19:35That's what I'm saying, man.

5:19:38>> Yeah. That can't help her um suppress

5:19:42her emotions.

5:19:45What helps her with therapy

5:19:49is that the therapist and her connect

5:19:52from the rules of reality. What?

5:19:57>> Oh, number one.

5:19:58>> There you go. But she's trying to bring

5:20:02reality 2 information to a reality one

5:20:06therapist. How the [ __ ] is it going to

5:20:08help her on me?

5:20:10How the [ __ ] There's no folder on.

5:20:13>> There's no folder on me. So what the

5:20:16[ __ ] What the therapist going to tell

5:20:17her? You know that the gonna tell her

5:20:19like her father, stay away from him.

5:20:20He's no good. And how many women go

5:20:22away? I've heard that [ __ ] Stay away

5:20:25from him. He's bad. He's bad. He's bad.

5:20:27He's bad. He's no good. And they just

5:20:29can't get What do they say about uh

5:20:30Pringles chips? Once you have one, you

5:20:32can't stop eating that [ __ ]

5:20:35That's that

5:20:36>> I don't Yeah,

5:20:37>> that's that diamond dick, dog. That's

5:20:39that diamond dick, dog.

5:20:43>> But what I'm saying is is that

5:20:46the the biggest worry a woman will have.

5:20:52>> Yeah.

5:20:52>> Because it's a dark unknown.

5:20:58What if he's going to laugh at me? What

5:21:01if he doesn't reply back to me? What if

5:21:05he just ignores me? What if he I have

5:21:07all these whatifs?

5:21:09And you know that that could probably

5:21:11stop her as well. But that's another

5:21:13level of torture because she's creating

5:21:15Remember I told you you guys create the

5:21:17bubble of having sex in her mind first,

5:21:20right?

5:21:21>> Yeah.

5:21:22>> What do you think she's doing with me?

5:21:24She's building an image and a fantasy of

5:21:27what she thinks I am

5:21:29>> because she can't understand why did he

5:21:31just leave me? Why isn't he coming back?

5:21:33Why doesn't he call me? Why doesn't he

5:21:35message me? Why is this [ __ ] only

5:21:37message me when I reach out to him? I'm

5:21:40[ __ ] tired of reaching out to him.

5:21:42Why can't he reach out to me? [ __ ] no.

5:21:43We're not doing that [ __ ] Not doing

5:21:45that. Right.

5:21:47>> Yeah.

5:21:49>> Because I have a price. That's what I'm

5:21:53saying.

5:21:55I am not going to ruin myself by

5:21:57becoming addicted to chasing a woman.

5:21:59The goal is not to make her run behind

5:22:02you, okay? So that you can feel

5:22:03powerful. Okay? That's what I'm saying.

5:22:06>> Yeah.

5:22:06>> Look, if you need her to chase you to

5:22:09feel important, then you're cheap as

5:22:11[ __ ]

5:22:12>> I'm going say it again.

5:22:14>> This is not [ __ ] I'm not [ __ ] with

5:22:16her. I I'm not here to [ __ ] with her

5:22:19insecurities or low self-esteem

5:22:21because I'm not doing that's [ __ ]

5:22:23cheap. Okay,

5:22:26that's it. Okay, that's I'm not doing

5:22:28that. Okay, the goal is to become a man

5:22:32whose value doesn't change whether she's

5:22:36there or not.

5:22:38I'm never going to change the price. The

5:22:41price is you have to earn me. That's it.

5:22:46And if you feel that your [ __ ] is

5:22:48special enough and you don't want to

5:22:50earn me, pie, see you later.

5:22:53Oh my god. Do you know how bad Hey E, I

5:22:57know Ephraim. I know this is going

5:22:58Emanuel. Sorry, Emanuel. Emanuel, I know

5:23:01it's going to bother. I'm not trying to

5:23:02drudge up something bad, but I want you

5:23:03to think about it.

5:23:05>> How many times you thought about a woman

5:23:07and you think about all the other guys

5:23:09she's given those things to?

5:23:12>> Um Oh, yeah.

5:23:13>> And it [ __ ] with you. Right. Right.

5:23:16>> Yes. Yeah.

5:23:17>> Well, what happens when a woman starts

5:23:18thinking about you and thinking, man,

5:23:20what woman

5:23:23is getting that masturbation time with

5:23:25him when I can have that?

5:23:29>> What woman is watching him on video?

5:23:30What woman is talking to him? They It's

5:23:32so much cold game in this [ __ ] dog.

5:23:37I'm just saying that at the end of the

5:23:39day, she'll send a text or send

5:23:42something across just to see if there's

5:23:44a pulse because she's afraid of the

5:23:47rejection.

5:23:49She's never had to be afraid of

5:23:51rejection before because she controlled

5:23:54the narrative of rejection.

5:23:57But I'm not rejecting her. I'm training

5:24:00her that if she doesn't change her ways,

5:24:05I ain't [ __ ] with her. That's what

5:24:07I'm saying. I'm not rejecting a woman.

5:24:09I'm saying you got to work to change and

5:24:12make adjustments to get me. But if you

5:24:14can't make those adjustments, I will

5:24:17respect that and I'll leave you the [ __ ]

5:24:19alone.

5:24:21>> Yeah. You're you're not rejecting her.

5:24:23You're just accepting your own standard.

5:24:25>> See how easy that is when you got the

5:24:27game, brother?

5:24:28Yeah.

5:24:29>> All right. You got any other questions?

5:24:31Uh,

5:24:31>> no. That's it. I appreciate it, coach.

5:24:33>> All right. Respect to you, man. Respect.

5:24:35All right. Let's get this. All right,

5:24:36guys. Few more minutes, guys. We

5:24:37appreciate you guys soaking up this

5:24:39game. Don't forget, we will probably go

5:24:41on uh

5:24:43we might go Tik Tok. We might go on Tik

5:24:45Tok. Uh tomorrow night. We got a real

5:24:47game, no theory at uh 12 noon. I I do

5:24:51want to say you guys out there. No, no,

5:24:52don't get mad. Uh real quick, I'm grab a

5:24:54call. But don't forget uh the school is

5:24:56going to be October 1st cuz I got to add

5:24:59something that I forgot. So I got to add

5:25:02more to something. But it will be

5:25:04October 1st. Um 929. What's your name?

5:25:06What's your question? How can I help

5:25:07you, brother?

5:25:09>> This is a So I'm already on a date,

5:25:13right? I already set myself with an

5:25:14extra hug and a kiss. and she's letting

5:25:17me know that she's that she's still

5:25:19going to be late, but this is like 15

5:25:22minutes before the time that we meet.

5:25:24For example, we meet at 8:00 and she let

5:25:25me know 7:45 she going to be mad late

5:25:28and you know she has to do she has to do

5:25:30something. Do I just rock out in the

5:25:32spot or do I give some sort of like push

5:25:35back or correction and she basically

5:25:38kind of wasted my time even though she

5:25:39did let me know in advance.

5:25:42Well, I one thing I always ask you guys,

5:25:46why do y'all want to be so

5:25:47argumentative?

5:25:53Did she put It's effort, fool. Thank

5:25:56[ __ ] Did she put effort in by

5:25:59calling you?

5:26:03>> She did. But it's

5:26:05>> no butt, [ __ ] No butt, fool. Did she

5:26:08put an effort to call you and let you

5:26:11know she's going to be late? Yes or no?

5:26:14>> No, she texted.

5:26:16>> I don't give a [ __ ] if she put a note on

5:26:18a goddamn [ __ ] bird, fool.

5:26:21>> Effort is effort, is it not? So then why

5:26:24are you So then why are you being a

5:26:26[ __ ] about this and being so

5:26:27argumentative? She put effort in.

5:26:32>> I'm not being argumentative cuz I

5:26:34usually just rock. Oh, no. You're being

5:26:36argumentative cuz listen what your [ __ ]

5:26:37ass is saying. Should I let her go and

5:26:39all this other goofy [ __ ]

5:26:42>> No. No. I didn't let her go. I was

5:26:44talking about like, do I like do I just

5:26:46say something or do I just rock out in

5:26:47the spot and just

5:26:48>> Why do you need to say something?

5:26:50Somebody that is showing you effort. I

5:26:53don't understand what What is there?

5:26:56What is there left to be said? Help me

5:26:58understand.

5:27:00>> All right. That's all I need to know.

5:27:01>> No, you don't need to know that because

5:27:03you don't know. No, you don't need to

5:27:05know that. What you need to know is when

5:27:07you see her ass and you hug her, you

5:27:09whisper in the ear, I want to let you

5:27:11know you did one of the most sexiest

5:27:13[ __ ] things that you have done so

5:27:16[ __ ] far, fool.

5:27:19See that [ __ ] You got to reward her by

5:27:23telling her she did one of the sexiest

5:27:26things so far. And what the [ __ ] do you

5:27:29think that is?

5:27:32Um, respecting my my time by letting me

5:27:34know.

5:27:35>> Thank you. Not respecting your time,

5:27:37[ __ ] Is that letting you know

5:27:39she's going to show up late? Don't do

5:27:41that respecting my time [ __ ] You're not

5:27:43that guy. You need to let her know that

5:27:46her putting in the effort to let me know

5:27:48that she's going to show up late is what

5:27:50I find sexy about you. That's what you

5:27:54supposed to talk to her about, man.

5:27:58Jesus Christ. What is wrong with you,

5:28:00[ __ ]

5:28:00>> I did I did end up I did end up saying

5:28:03that one time, but I wanted to to make

5:28:04sure I was going about it the correct

5:28:06way. I wanted to make sure I wasn't

5:28:08missing anything.

5:28:09>> You're missing everything because you

5:28:11don't understand effort.

5:28:15>> Okay.

5:28:16>> God damn it. Do you understand a woman

5:28:18putting effort?

5:28:22>> No. Cuz I thought there was levels of

5:28:24effort where like for example, she texts

5:28:26you versus she calls you. Sir is okay.

5:28:29Wait, wait, wait.

5:28:30>> A text message and a call. Does that

5:28:35fall under the umbrella of communation?

5:28:41>> Yes, it does.

5:28:42>> Wait, wait, one more time.

5:28:44Communication.

5:28:49>> Yeah, it does.

5:28:50>> So, why are we expecting when do we

5:28:53expect anything from a woman, sir?

5:28:58We never expect.

5:28:59>> So then why are you You said I expected

5:29:02I expected. What did you expect her to

5:29:04do? What did you expect her to do?

5:29:08>> Wait, I don't remember saying I expected

5:29:09something

5:29:11if I

5:29:12>> You just said you expected more either

5:29:14something from a a a call versus a text.

5:29:19>> That must have been a Freudian slip. If

5:29:21anything, I I'm saying that there's like

5:29:24I thought there was like different

5:29:25levels of what do you call the

5:29:27communication which shows like um

5:29:31>> sir sir

5:29:33>> a phone call,

5:29:35>> a text message,

5:29:38a voice message,

5:29:40putting a a note on a dove or a smoke

5:29:45[ __ ] signal is what? Communa what?

5:29:48>> Communication. Okay. So then what are

5:29:51you saying? What what more does she need

5:29:53to do? Pull out her ass cheek? What more

5:29:55do you want from her?

5:29:57>> I mean, I don't want nothing from her. I

5:29:59just wanted to know if I was going about

5:30:00it the right way.

5:30:01>> But you're not going about the way cuz

5:30:02you don't understand communication.

5:30:06She's communicating. What do you want

5:30:08her to do? Cuz you you're calling me

5:30:10because you felt that she wasn't putting

5:30:12any effort in it. So what do you want

5:30:14her to do? What do you want to do? Her

5:30:16pull out a titty? What is it that you

5:30:18want her to do? No, I want I wanted just

5:30:20to make sure that I was just doing the

5:30:22right thing. Of course, I didn't I

5:30:24didn't understand what I didn't

5:30:27understand what that communication like

5:30:29was.

5:30:29>> Dog, let's slow it down again.

5:30:32>> If she put the note If she put the note

5:30:35on a paper

5:30:37airplane and threw that [ __ ]

5:30:40what is that?

5:30:42It's

5:30:42>> It's communication. So, yeah, I

5:30:44understand that.

5:30:45>> No, no, no. So now that you finally

5:30:47understand it, she's showing you effort

5:30:50by calling you. You're saying that you

5:30:52need to correct her for [ __ ] what?

5:30:55>> What do you need to correct her on

5:31:00>> in turn of

5:31:02like letting me know?

5:31:06>> Mother,

5:31:07>> no. Cuz like I'm I'm saying like if it's

5:31:09like 8:00 and she's letting me know like

5:31:125 minutes before and I'm already like

5:31:14I'm already on the way now I got to wait

5:31:16like 30 minutes for her to get there.

5:31:18>> Oh poo. Oh. Oh boohoo on you. Oh poo.

5:31:21You got to wait. The [ __ ] woman is

5:31:24okay. Do you not understand something

5:31:26fool? Women don't call you [ __ ] ass

5:31:28[ __ ] cuz they know you're going

5:31:29to be there regardless. They don't give

5:31:31a [ __ ] about you.

5:31:34She's communicating with you. So, what

5:31:35does it matter if it's f Okay. Hey,

5:31:38look. You said it was 15 minutes. She

5:31:41messaged you 15 minutes before the time

5:31:43you were supposed to meet. Yes. Yes.

5:31:46>> Yeah. It was one time 15. Another time

5:31:48was like five.

5:31:49>> So then, wait, was it five or 15,

5:31:51[ __ ] You tell me.

5:31:52>> No. No. Cuz this look cuz of course cuz

5:31:55like I'm not that guy. They they end up

5:31:57doing this like a a couple of minutes

5:31:59before we actually meet up. So one time

5:32:01was like 15, one time was like 5 minutes

5:32:03before. So it's like letting me know

5:32:05late.

5:32:06>> Okay.

5:32:10>> Late is late. Yes. Yes.

5:32:13>> Yes, it is. Late is late.

5:32:14>> And if somebody who knows they're going

5:32:17to be [ __ ] late communicates with you

5:32:20that they're going to be late, is that

5:32:22effort or not?

5:32:24>> Yes, it is.

5:32:25>> So then what the [ __ ] are we talking

5:32:26about? Because just like you said how

5:32:29like since she knows that I'm not that

5:32:32guy, she just know I'm going to be

5:32:33there. But what if I just want to leave

5:32:36cuz I'm I'm trying to go outside right

5:32:38after the date.

5:32:38>> Then take your

5:32:40>> I'm not going to wait there

5:32:41>> for for what, 5 minutes or 50, dude.

5:32:44Just take your Tan Pack's ass and go

5:32:47[ __ ] go get some nail polish, [ __ ]

5:32:49Cuz you acting like a girl. The [ __ ] are

5:32:51you talking about? I don't want to. No,

5:32:54I don't I don't want to wait an extra

5:32:56five minutes cuz I want to do this and

5:32:58that.

5:32:58>> What the [ __ ] are you talking about?

5:33:01What are you talking about? Explain it,

5:33:02man.

5:33:03>> All right. So, I'm talking about right

5:33:05I'm going on a date, right? After I go

5:33:07on a date, I'm going outside right after

5:33:09that to do other stuff. Okay. I'm not

5:33:11going to sit over there and wait.

5:33:13>> But what do you mean sit and wait? She

5:33:17>> Sir,

5:33:17>> no. cuz like let's let's so if I'm I'm

5:33:19not going to wait in the spot for 30

5:33:21minutes once I finish doing what I'm

5:33:23doing, you know, I'm I'm enjoying the

5:33:25ambiance or whatever. I get I get my

5:33:27little my little drink, whatever, and

5:33:29then I'm just going to leave the spot

5:33:30and then continue what I'm doing versus

5:33:33me just waiting in there.

5:33:34>> Well, sir,

5:33:35>> you feel You see what I'm saying?

5:33:37>> She You said 5 minutes and 15 minutes.

5:33:40Where are you getting the [ __ ] 30

5:33:42for?

5:33:43>> No, I'm saying she's letting me know.

5:33:45Let's say it's 8:00, right? She let me

5:33:47know at 7:45.

5:33:50Like one time it was like 7:45. She she

5:33:52thought the woman let me know. At

5:33:53another time it was like 7:55 that she

5:33:55let me know. But she ended up pulling up

5:33:58like 20 minutes like 20 minutes later

5:34:01like oh yeah it might be 20 minutes

5:34:03late.

5:34:03>> Don't you think as a man that if she

5:34:07doesn't give you a ETA that you're

5:34:11supposed to get one?

5:34:14>> Correct. But you didn't do that.

5:34:16>> I do get the I do get the ETA, but

5:34:19sometimes it's false.

5:34:20>> Okay, sir. Sir, take your panties off

5:34:24and say what's going on.

5:34:26>> And say to yourself that if the ETA

5:34:30doesn't fit your [ __ ] program, tell

5:34:32her to stay her ass home.

5:34:35>> I got you.

5:34:36>> No, you don't got me because you don't

5:34:37get it. You still don't [ __ ] get it.

5:34:39I don't understand.

5:34:42>> You're sitting out here. You're sitt No,

5:34:44let me say you're sitting around here

5:34:46saying, "Well, I don't want to wait 30

5:34:48minutes and I don't want to do that."

5:34:50>> What? You can't enjoy yourself and be by

5:34:52your [ __ ] self.

5:34:55>> No, I I can't do that.

5:34:57>> But you're complaining about that.

5:34:59>> Sometimes. No, but sometimes I'm at a

5:35:01certain spot where I'm only want to be

5:35:03cuz I like to move around sometimes. So

5:35:05certain spots I just want to move

5:35:06around. Let me ask you a question and go

5:35:08spot.

5:35:08>> Why would you be in a spot that you

5:35:10don't want to be in?

5:35:13No, I am in a spot I want to be at.

5:35:15>> You just said I don't want Wait,

5:35:17everyone listen. You just said I don't

5:35:19want to be a spot that I want to be in.

5:35:21You just said that, [ __ ] So why

5:35:24are you want to be in this?

5:35:25>> What?

5:35:26>> See, you so [ __ ] wishyw This is why I

5:35:28don't like talking to your [ __ ] ass.

5:35:29Every time I show you you a [ __ ]

5:35:31idiot, a fool, you're always moving the

5:35:33gold pearls. You just said I don't want

5:35:36to be in a spot I don't want to be in,

5:35:37fool. Did you not say that?

5:35:41Did you not say that?

5:35:42>> I thought I said I want to be in there

5:35:43for for like 30 minutes,

5:35:44>> [ __ ] It's

5:35:45>> I thought I want to be there for like

5:35:47>> But it's your spot, so why would you

5:35:49care?

5:35:52>> Because I like to move around,

5:35:53>> man. Hang up the phone. Hang up there.

5:35:56>> Hang up the phone. Just hang up. Hang

5:35:57up.

5:36:00Just I I I want to help you. I swear. I

5:36:04I swear

5:36:07you can't help a person that doesn't

5:36:09want to help.

5:36:13If I go to Lauren and Jill's ice cream

5:36:19place, I'm not going to say salty nuts.

5:36:21If I go to their ice cream parlor

5:36:23because that's my hangout spot

5:36:26and I know someone is going to end up

5:36:28late. I I I can enjoy me.

5:36:33But see the problem with this guy, he's

5:36:35a [ __ ] fraud because he's taking a

5:36:39woman somewhere to impress her cuz he

5:36:43doesn't go there. That's why he wants to

5:36:45leave the spot.

5:36:48Man, this is crazy, man. This is crazy.

5:36:52It's just effort, people. It's just a

5:36:54little bit of effort. Please understand.

5:36:56It's just a little bit of effort, man.

5:36:58That's all you got to do is put some

5:37:00effort in this [ __ ] All right.

5:37:03Put some effort in. You got it. Okay.

5:37:06All right. All right, guys. Real game no

5:37:09theory tomorrow, guys. Real game no

5:37:11theory tomorrow. I'm about to wrap this

5:37:12up. Roll this one out. Appreciate you

5:37:14guys. Appreciate yourselves, guys. Don't

5:37:16forget uh we we might do uh Tik Tok

5:37:19tomorrow night. Not sure, but we

5:37:21definitely will have a show at 12:00

5:37:22noon. Guys, I do appreciate you guys.

5:37:24Come on, get this game and learn your

5:37:26worth, guys. You got this. It it it I I

5:37:30I'm just prepare you guys. I'm telling

5:37:33you,

5:37:35these young ones that are coming in do

5:37:38not want to [ __ ] with you guys moving

5:37:41this way.

5:37:43They want leadership and dominance in a

5:37:46man that knows what he's doing. Every

5:37:48woman from 18 on up is going to come

5:37:49into your area and they're already here.

5:37:53What are you going to do about it, guys?

5:37:55Get at your boy. We will talk to you

5:37:58guys tomorrow, 12:00 noon. Real game, no

5:38:00theory.

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