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0:00Every girl's for sale. Man comes along
0:01with more resources than you and more
0:03value than you, she will leave you for
0:05him. I don't care how much history you
0:06guys have together. You have to
0:08understand, a woman constantly
0:09calculates in the back of her mind, this
0:11is a subconscious calculation, which man
0:13is my best option. This is why the girl
0:15you're with right now is constantly
0:16getting under your skin, doing petty
0:18things, testing you. Because you
0:20probably at face value aren't enough.
0:22And so she's trying to prove it to
0:24herself every day that you are enough.
0:25You think her testing you and doing all
0:27these annoying things is a bad thing?
0:29This is actually a good thing because
0:30most likely you're a mediocre man.
0:31You're not the kind of man that deserves
0:33not to be tested. And so she's giving
0:34you a chance.
0:35Seeing how you react to that text
0:36message.
0:38Seeing how do you react to her going out
0:39with her friends where there are other
0:41guys.
0:42You know the way you react to all this
0:43stuff? A lot of guys are going to think,
0:45"Oh, I got to set boundaries." Yeah, let
0:46me sit her down and talk to her and tell
0:49her why she should never do it again.
0:50And if she does it again, it's
0:51disrespectful and we can't be together.
0:54First of all, she knows you're bluffing.
0:56You know how she knows you're bluffing?
0:57She knows you're bluffing
0:59right there by you having that
1:00conversation.
1:02Because you're showing that you care.
1:04And so obviously you aren't going to
1:05leave her because you care. Care enough
1:07to sit her down and talk to her about
1:08this.
1:09Okay? So the way you fix this is by
1:11simply doing nothing. Let her go do it.
1:13And then what happens is she looks at
1:14you and she goes,
1:15"Why doesn't he care?
1:17Why doesn't he care that I'm going out
1:18with my friends where there are other
1:19guys? Every other guy I've ever been
1:21with in the past cared. Why doesn't he
1:23care?
1:24Is he going to replace me? Does he have
1:25other girls around? Is he cheating on
1:27me?"
1:28And then she goes, "I better stop going
1:31or else he's going to replace me." Cuz
1:32she knows it's wrong.
1:34She knows it's wrong. Every woman knows
1:35it's wrong.
1:36Okay, you don't have to sit her down and
1:37explain this to her cuz it's all a test.
1:39It's a subconscious test.
1:41She wants to see how you react. She
1:43doesn't actually care to go there. She
1:44doesn't care if you give her loyalty or
1:46not. She doesn't care if you give her
1:47flowers or not. She doesn't care if you
1:48take her to Italian if or not. She
1:50doesn't care.
1:51She just wants to see if you care enough
1:53to bend over and do it for her. That's
1:56it. She wants to see if you're so
1:58valueless and low on options
2:00that you're going to do whatever the
2:01hell she asks you for. The only way a
2:03woman can measure your value she goes,
2:05"I want this. I want that." She goes, "I
2:08want loyalty. I want flowers." And the
2:09guy that runs over gets it first is the
2:11guy that gets laid less.
2:13And now she can infer your value by how
2:15much you get laid, right? Because guess
2:16what? A valuable man can get laid
2:17whenever he wants.
2:19Only a man with no value can't get laid.
2:21And so this is how she calculates your
2:23value. And you have to understand this.
2:25So let me tell you, guy comes along and
2:27he cares less than you
2:28to make the relationship work. He
2:30doesn't text her as much as you. This is
2:31why you shouldn't be communicating with
2:32your girl at all over text message.
2:34Unless she reaches out first, you don't
2:36pursue any amount of contact. There's no
2:39reason for you to initiate contact cuz
2:40you don't even care what's going on in
2:41your life. You're just afraid that if
2:43you don't fill in those gaps she might
2:45leave you or she might lose interest.
2:46No, she's going to lose interest because
2:47you are filling in those gaps.
2:49If she texts you, fine, respond. If she
2:50calls you, fine, respond. No problem.
2:52Not saying you ghost her cuz that would
2:54also be reactive. That would also show
2:55that you care. You're trying so
2:57carefully not to text her for 3 days or
3:002 hours because she didn't text you for
3:012 hours. No.
3:03If she texts you, text her back. Don't
3:05play the game, right? That's the point.
3:06Stay above the game. But
3:08if she doesn't text you, that's fine.
3:10You don't initiate contact because guess
3:12what? There is a guy out there in her
3:14DMs or maybe her coworker that doesn't
3:17text her at all.
3:18She's always texting him
3:20once in a while here and there. And the
3:22reason why she's texting him is because
3:24you're always texting her.
3:25So now she wants to find somebody more
3:27valuable cuz she's already deemed you as
3:28valueless cuz you're constantly chasing
3:31her.
3:32Do you think a man who's chasing a woman
3:33or invests in a woman is a valuable man?
3:35Do you think that's a safe man?
3:37A valuable man, a safe man is a man that
3:39focuses 100% on himself because that's
3:41the kind of man that attains power and
3:42resources. Right? How do you attain
3:44power and resources and how do you
3:45become the man you want to become? By
3:46focusing on a woman or by focusing on
3:47yourself? So that's all you got to tell
3:49yourself right there. That's all you got
3:50to know.
3:51What is attractive is safety. What is
3:53attractive is
3:54insurance for her survival and her
3:56offspring. You taking her to the movies,
3:58that ain't insurance.
4:00You telling her how much you love her
4:01and you calling her every night, you
4:02saying good morning, good afternoon,
4:04that's not insurance. That doesn't do
4:05anything
4:06but deter it just push her away. Because
4:08now she looks at you and she goes, "Look
4:09how much he cares.
4:11Look how weak he's gone for me and I'm
4:12just a woman."
4:13Right? And this is what it is. There's
4:15going to be a guy out there, your girl's
4:17for sale, I'm telling you. Uh your
4:19girl's for sale because you have put her
4:21for sale. You your actions have put your
4:23girl up for sale. You put her back on
4:25the market because you are insecure in
4:28yourself and you are afraid that she
4:30might leave you and this is exactly
4:32what's going to cause her to leave you.
4:34Let me tell you, you want your girl to
4:35think that she's that you're cheating on
4:36her. You want her to think this. You
4:38want her to think that you are sleeping
4:40with other women. You know why women
4:41instantly jump to the conclusion that
4:43you're with other women
4:44when you don't call them or text them
4:46for a little bit or like you stop
4:47initiating all of a sudden cuz a lot of
4:49you guys are going to implement this.
4:50And a lot of guys I coach
4:51all one-on-one, they implement this and
4:53because they didn't start off with this
4:55frame, later down the line they
4:57implement this and the girl starts
4:58questioning, "What's going on?"
5:00All this stuff.
5:02Let me tell you, this means it's working
5:03and this is a good thing. They get all
5:06"Oh my god, why she she's questioning
5:07these things. Oh my god, she's going to
5:08want to break up with me." No, no, no,
5:09no, no, no. This is the point. You got
5:10to stop paying attention to what she's
5:12saying
5:13and pay attention to the fact that she's
5:14saying it. If she's giving you
5:15attention, she likes you, that's it.
5:17Good, bad doesn't matter. Hate, love
5:18doesn't matter. If a woman really didn't
5:20want anything to do with you and she had
5:22no attraction to you, she would
5:22disappear from your life. You wouldn't
5:23even know that she's gone. She would
5:25just disappear one day. So, the fact
5:27that she's text text texting you, that
5:29is what you need to focus on. So,
5:30remember all those tests, that's
5:32attention that she's giving you. That's
5:33a good thing.
5:34Stop letting the tests and stop letting
5:36the actual content of it
5:38disrupt your life.
5:39And so, this is the thing. This is going
5:41to happen because you didn't start on
5:42the right footing and so therefore you
5:43were kind of
5:44working backwards to get her back to
5:46that point where she respects you enough
5:47to where she doesn't even want to play
5:49the game. She doesn't want to test you
5:50cuz a lot of guys are like, "Well,
5:52why do I have to play these games?" No,
5:53you have to play these games because you
5:54started off on the wrong foot. You get
5:57her to respect you at this level that I
5:58teach you guys, right? This level where
6:01the one-on-one guys
6:02internalize it and understand, these
6:04guys end up not being tested at all
6:05because then she gets to a point where
6:06she respects you so much she's afraid to
6:07test you because she's afraid to lose
6:09you. And so this is the thing, it's not
6:11a bad thing. Be used to these tests cuz
6:13they're going to come cuz you didn't
6:14start on the right foot.
6:15And this is a good thing. The fact that
6:16she thinks you're cheating, the fact
6:17that she's all crazy about what's going
6:19on, da da da da. If you're If you're not
6:21going to respond to me, then we're done.
6:22Perfect.
6:24Perfect. That right there is a test. If
6:26you don't respond to me, then we're
6:27done. Okay, no problem.
6:29I I don't know what I'm I've been busy,
6:30but listen, fine. If you don't want to
6:32be together, no problem.
6:34That's a test. She wants to see if you
6:35care to make the relationship work. Just
6:36let it go. She's going to come right
6:37back every single time. Every single
6:40time.
6:41Every single time. I have a 100% success
6:42rate. None of my students fail. None of
6:45them. Not a single one. Do you
6:46understand? 100%. Nobody else can say
6:48that. There's nobody on the internet
6:49that can say that. Nobody knows what I
6:51know. And so this is the thing.
6:53She assumes that you're cheating. This
6:55is a fantastic thing because this is a
6:57compliment. It would be insulting if she
6:59thought you weren't cheating.
7:01Cuz you know what kind of man can't
7:02cheat? A man with no options. You know
7:03what kind of man has no options? A man
7:05with no value. You know what kind of man
7:06is unattractive? A man who has no value.
7:09So if she infers that you're cheating,
7:11this means she thinks you have options.
7:13If she thinks you have options, she
7:15thinks you're valuable.
7:17If she thinks you're valuable, that
7:18means she's attracted to you.
7:20You want her to think you're cheating.
7:22You want her to think you're with other
7:23women.
7:24Don't share your location. Don't tell
7:25her where you went. You don't have to do
7:27any of that.
7:28At all. Ever. You don't explain yourself
7:29to her. Let her come up with the
7:31conclusions. Let her fill those gaps.
7:33Let her
7:35fill in her own fantasy.
7:37Because guess what? She goes straight to
7:39you cheating because that establishes
7:42you as a safe man.
7:44Cuz only a man with value is safe, cuz
7:46he's got resources. And you know what
7:48man has options? A man with value and
7:51resources. And you know what kind of man
7:53doesn't care to make the relationship
7:54work and doesn't care to go out there
7:56and do whatever he wants to do and
7:57doesn't care to apologize or explain
7:58himself? It's a guy with options. And
8:00you know what kind of guy can cheat? A
8:01guy with options.
8:03Do you understand the correlation? Does
8:05it make sense?
8:07Why does everybody not understand this?
8:09Why is everyone not internalize this?
8:11I'll tell you why. Cuz everybody is too
8:13afraid of the truth.
8:15Everybody wants to continue believing in
8:16these Rapunzel
8:19BS
8:21fairy tale stories, this Disney crap.
8:23But let me tell you, you understand
8:25this, you internalize this.
8:27Take it a step further, go apply for
8:28one-on-one coaching if you really want
8:30to master this and you want to work with
8:31me, okay?
8:33Your life will never be the same.
8:35You'll make more money, you'll have more
8:37women, you'll be more confident in who
8:39you are as a man, you'll find your
8:40purpose. This is what it is. Guys, you
8:42know what I'm trying to build here? Let
8:43me tell you. My goal is to make sure
8:45everybody understands this, internalizes
8:47this. I'm tired of seeing men
8:49walking around
8:51being bums, being cucks. I'm tired of
8:53this. I don't want to see it anymore. My
8:55goal is to get all of you guys on board,
8:57so you all internalize this, so we can
8:59take over this
9:01So we can beat the system.
9:02So society has absolutely no power over
9:04us at all, not even a little bit. And
9:07you know how you get there? You get
9:07there with the truth.
9:09And you know how you embody the truth?
9:12By being
9:14being a man who's capable, being a man
9:16who's not afraid to embody the truth, to
9:18make it simple.
9:19Accept it. Let it flow deep. Let it
9:22Understand it. Internalize it.
9:25Try it, right? Don't take my word for
9:27it. Go try it. It's going to work every
9:28single time. There is no fallacy in what
9:30I say. Go try it. Go do it.
9:33Okay? Go do it. Watch. You You it once,
9:35you do it twice. I don't even need to
9:37sit here and tell you that it works.
9:38Just go do it. Go do it. And you'll see
9:40that it works. Your mind will be blown.
9:43You'll realize your entire life is a
9:44lie. So, let me tell you,
9:46every woman is up for sale. This is
9:47great news for you. You know why?
9:48Because this means that if you become
9:50the number one guy, if you become the
9:52best option, you can take anyone's girl.
9:56You can have any woman.
9:58Any woman.
9:59And this is the truth of life. Survival
10:02of the fittest.
10:03You become the best,
10:05you will have the best.