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0:00treat that woman according to
0:04understanding give her peace she will
0:06give you Joy give her trouble she will
0:09give you pieces they have a one in
0:13reciprocating whatever you give
0:22them first Peter
0:2437 likewise ye husbands dwell with them
0:29according to knowledge dwell with them
0:31according to
0:33knowledge giving honor unto the wife
0:36give honor unto the wife as unto the
0:40weaker vessel because they are weaker
0:43vessel whether they like it or not the
0:45Bible call women weaker vess and as
0:48being ased together of the grace of life
0:52that your prayers be not hindered so the
0:55Bible is telling us here treat your wife
0:58according to
1:01understanding so that your prayers will
1:04not be
1:07hindered hello hi that is why you see
1:11you see husband and wife every day
1:13problem problem problem problem they are
1:15fighting that family can never move
1:18forward it's not possible children will
1:20be affected emotionally psychologically
1:23all around business will be affected
1:26everything about that family will be
1:28affected where because there is no
1:33understanding so the Bible is telling
1:36you men today treat your wife according
1:40to understanding that is way women
1:44understand things women cannot
1:47understand things the way men understand
1:49it women don't normally have too much of
1:52high blood pressure but men have high
1:54blood pressure women are powerful that
1:57is why you a man when you want to marry
2:00number one thing you must look for God
2:02fearing one second thing you must look
2:05for is peace of mind peace of mind if
2:11you don't have peace of mind in your
2:13home as a man you will die early the
2:16worst thing that can happen to a man is
2:18after going to work in the morning you
2:20are coming back in the evening to meet
2:22another man you are out there this
2:24morning hustling working so hard then
2:29coming home
2:30expecting to see a flexible woman a
2:34woman that will run to carry your back
2:37Dal are you back a woman that will give
2:39you a peeg a woman that will even kiss
2:42you and carry your bag expecting to see
2:44somebody that will drop her head on your
2:48shoulder a woman expecting to see a
2:50woman say oh darling God bless you oh
2:53thank God you are here thank God you are
2:55saved and the the reverse is the case
2:58you are coming home home to see a woman
3:01that will not even bother to come and
3:03open door for you but send Med and when
3:06you come home you see a woman that cross
3:09her leg watching the world you come back
3:12home to see a woman that will say you oh
3:13hey good afternoon good after good
3:16evening good evening good evening but
3:17her eyes is on the Z world that man may
3:20not last many men have died because of
3:22this women are created differently the
3:25way we cre they see their monthly period
3:28we don't see there are different thing
3:30between us and them a a man needs to
3:34come back to have peace peace of mind
3:37that will make a man to have appetite to
3:39eat that will make a man to last long
3:41but a woman don't care women want peace
3:44of mind but they are not desperate about
3:46it a woman can no matter whatever she
3:49she's telling you what she's telling you
3:50I need to eat oh tomorrow my head no
3:52good oh my head no good I need Brazilian
3:54hair what you like and the man just come
3:56back the man is resting and she's
3:58nagging nagging where is my Brazilian
4:00hair my mother is crying the man will
4:03even say oh the man can leave the room
4:05and go to paror she will follow the man
4:07to the paror see why you run away from
4:09room for you not to hear what I'm
4:10telling you I tell you that the
4:12children's school fees need to be paid
4:13they have Port hey tell me how can that
4:16man last a man will just return back do
4:19you think that that man that he's happy
4:24that the children's school fees are not
4:25paid tell me a man that will be happy
4:28that the children's school fees are not
4:30no man but a good woman will will allow
4:34him to rest give him space he's just
4:37coming back from work you don't even
4:40know whether he sell or not you begin to
4:42push children's what kind of marriage is
4:44this our children even the way your face
4:47is the man will not be happy it will not
4:49Bel long the man will develop BP one day
4:52and die you become a widow before 3
4:56months another man will start sleeping
4:57with you for me to start Holy Ghost
5:00Court people attack me attack me why
5:03Holy Ghost C Holy Ghost C why are is he
5:06exposing
5:07families you don't understand what is
5:09happening in the marital World these
5:11days children are there it's better the
5:13children to hear what is good and right
5:15so that when they grow up they will not
5:16make such mistake then they are ignorant
5:19of it and tomorrow it will happen there
5:21is nothing like children of today any
5:23child children of today is more whiter
5:25than adults of yesterday so but the
5:28Bible says here men you treat your wife
5:31according to understanding that is a a
5:33way women most of women don't have what
5:36they call Pence they knag they push
5:39their husband the children's C has not B
5:41today NEPA came here NEPA is coming here
5:44to cut up our life and this man is just
5:46coming back a good woman would have
5:48given him some space bring water for him
5:51to
5:51drink make him to become remove his shoe
5:55remove his shoe try to unbutton his
5:59clothes
6:00but you from the door as the man is
6:03coming the
6:06way the way you put your face how can
6:09the man eat tomorrow you will say h he
6:13doesn't eat how can he
6:15eat how can a man eat when there is no
6:18peace of mind they want everything to be
6:20done at the same time and then the one
6:23of Fe is is comparism every time you
6:26want to compare your husband with
6:28another man my my girl friend husband my
6:31friend husband my friend husband keep
6:33comparing you will push the man to ear
6:37grave so if you're the man when you want
6:38to marry check who will give you peace
6:42of
6:43mind number one when you seek the face
6:46of God and you have God's Direction seek
6:49who will give you so that you will not
6:51die if you die the same woman will sleep
6:55with another man before 2 months or 3
6:57months marriage of nowadays is not sense
7:00because men don't seek for peace of mind
7:03the attention is in a different thing
7:05she's a medical doctor I need a woman
7:09that will help me to manage my Hospital
7:13look at where your mind is going you are
7:15not seeking for God's Direction perfect
7:17will of God your mind is helping you oh
7:20let me see and you are pushing and
7:22pushing and you end up marrying a
7:23medical doctor you married her for
7:27mindset for her to help you that there
7:29is no companionship and that marriage
7:32will be messed up it will not Bel long
7:34divorce and within the few time you will
7:37be with her you will see hell because
7:39two of you are not compatible there is
7:41no understanding between two of you the
7:43two cannot work together except they
7:47agree the person you want to marry is
7:49there
7:51understanding the two of you have
7:53understanding that is why there are
7:55divorce
7:57everywhere the case of divorce is that
7:59people don't seek the perfect will of
8:01God they seek for bom
8:05bom
8:07microphone they seek for money the girl
8:10have money she is so independent she
8:14have money oh the girl is Rich and you
8:18push and push and marry her and she's
8:22the one bringing something on the table
8:24and you're bringing little respect will
8:26not be there brother you will not have
8:28pie of mind a time is coming when you
8:31will regret marrying her there is money
8:33but you don't have peace of mind what
8:36you need more for you to last in any
8:39marriage is peace of mind that you are
8:42coming back from as a man to meet a
8:45woman a flexible woman woman that will
8:47call you Daddy woman that will put his
8:49voice daddy Oh Daddy you look good today
8:51Oh Daddy Daddy Daddy thank you for
8:53coming oh carry the bag carry the bag
8:57smile with you but you are coming to
9:00meet
9:05Jezebel a woman that will will you will
9:08come you see her pressing her phone she
9:10know you are coming but she's pressing
9:12she don't even want to look at your face
9:14you want to marry money you want to
9:16marry someone already made she's
9:18pressing her phone the highest respect
9:20good afternoon she remove her face s how
9:23can that man last it will not Bel long
9:25the lungs will begin to have problem
9:27because it will not belong the kidney
9:29will begin to be affected
9:57because the same way Joy can heal peace
10:00can
10:02heal wickedness hatred lack of peace can
10:07cause sickness I tell you that most of
10:09men you see that are sick here they are
10:11not just sick their sickness is nothing
10:13like malaria what they need is a woman
10:15that will touch their brain some of men
10:18you see here you think they they are
10:20ugly if they have married a woman that
10:24understand you will see that they are
10:26more handsome than where you looking at
10:28them peace of mind can make a man
10:30handsome peace of mind can make a man
10:32healthy peace of mind can make a man
10:35richer peace of mind can help a man to
10:38last long but how many man today have
10:42peace of mind I know a family I normally
10:45settle their matter they have money what
10:47they will eat in the next eight months
10:50is in the freezer money is not the hous
10:53this but every two two weeks the woman
10:56the face will swallow up the man no
11:00sometimes bom bom will be will be coming
11:01out
11:03blood they fight every time they break
11:06bottle every time but there is money
11:09because the man did not marry peace of
11:12mind tell that man marry Peace of Mind
11:15Mar Peace of Mind men have a lot in
11:19their head peace of mind will make a man
11:23to concentrate many man are not
11:25concentrate because they don't have
11:28peace of mind how can you concentrate
11:32when a woman at home is not making you
11:34happy you can't concentrate the highest
11:37witcraft is when you have a woman that
11:39does not allow you to breathe a woman
11:42that compare you with other men all the
11:44time that man can never
11:49concentrate that man will be losing
11:51focus the man Shake him he will be
11:55wearing his stockings sometimes red and
11:58blue because of his his mind is is is is
12:00not at
12:02home check his dressing he's dressing of
12:04color because he's no longer
12:09concentrate but when God give you a
12:11woman that give you peace of mind you
12:13notice that the man will not be going to
12:14hospital because if you are sick you can
12:18go and take malaria drugs but most of
12:21men today are not suffering of sickness
12:24that need malaria what they need is love
12:27Laria
12:32tell that woman give your husband love
12:35ler drugs give your
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12:38husband when a man will come back home
12:41as he's coming back the wife has hugged
12:44him that you welcome you're welcome if
12:48the face is someh don't bring this face
12:50here even if he don't s don't am I not
12:53wor more than money for
12:55you am I not worth more than money so
12:59money is making you not to be happy
13:01where you are seeing me come on follow
13:03me Jo you set him
13:13down you you unbutton his clothes touch
13:17his heart touch the lungs you see I
13:20drink water drink water drink water you
13:23bring M well clean him that man go reach
13:26120 years
13:33am I communicating yes sir tell me why
13:37that I'm I'm talking about men I'm
13:39coming to a woman tell me why that man
13:42will not grow old tell me why the man
13:45will easily have stroke at the age of 50
13:49stroke at the age of 50 tell me
13:52why it's not possible most of men in the
13:55muary today is because of the woman they
13:58marry most of man today you see in the
14:00early grave is because of the person
14:02they marry your wife is the best
14:05doctor because she's one if she's close
14:08to you she will know when your BP is
14:09going higher she will know when you're
14:11supposed to eat what you're supposed to
14:13eat if she's close to you she will know
14:15when you have not eaten well and you see
14:17her crying D eat so when you see a woman
14:20like that the man can have because of
14:23some stress in the market there is no
14:24Market he's angry you see the woman
14:26begging him darling eat eat look at your
14:29children look at me look at if anything
14:32happen to you now how can I cope darling
14:35how can I hope darling look at your bab
14:37look at your
14:38kids don't don't don't don't remember I
14:41am incomplete without you you are the
14:43one that made me
14:45complete you made me complete I am
14:48incomplete without you you will see the
14:50man will be eating happy that man will
14:55grow
14:57old but this day say we marry
15:02Jezebel
15:05Thea a woman that will be telling the
15:11husband give
15:13me every latest shoe she wants to wear
15:18every latest cloth she wants to wear uh
15:22Brazilian hair Turkish hair AB
15:26hair she want to wear everything
15:30the worst of it is when a woman is now
15:32bigger than the
15:33husband is
15:36over don't pray for your wife to be
15:38richer than
15:39you that is not the way God structure
15:42but if she's richer than you appreciate
15:44her
15:47because am I communicating yes sir sir
15:50it's not advisable for your wife to be
15:52richer but eventually if you find out
15:55that she's richer cooperate with her
15:58because there is nothing you can do
16:04again walk with
16:06her by walking with her you can still
16:10gain your respect when you mellow down
16:13but if that time she's richer than you
16:15you still want to
16:16claim seniority it doesn't
16:21work power it take the grace of God to
16:25see a woman richer than the husband and
16:27very submissive it take the special
16:30grace of God to see a woman that make
16:33more money than the husband and she's
16:35still yes sir yes sir oh 99 over 100 no
16:41matter how she say yes sir that thing
16:43that make her to be seeing more dollars
16:45than you we come because women the way
16:47they structure they don't have respect
16:51until they you give the reason to
16:53respect you what will make your wife to
16:56respect you is not the way you look
16:58there are something you are doing she
16:59cannot do when it comes to that area she
17:03will respect you you may not understand
17:05me now what will make your wife to
17:08respect you as a man is when you there
17:12are things you are in the family that
17:14she can do when you get to that she will
17:18remember that she will be
17:19humble but when she's doing practically
17:23everything she pay the school fees she
17:26feed you she feed you she pay for rent
17:29pay for NE Bill water bill she pay for
17:33house
17:40rent but when you see a woman you see
17:44that there are things husband is doing
17:46that she cannot do H when it come to
17:48those area she must respect you she must
17:50know that you're a man not a man when it
17:53come to those things that make a man she
17:54will be
17:56suive it is a taboo that a woman
17:59provides Daily Bread it is a taboo that
18:03a woman pay for house rent it is a taboo
18:07that a woman feed the family what your
18:11wife supposed to be doing is to be
18:13helping a man can R the
18:18house unknowingly the woman can buy
18:21cotton and fish the man will come out
18:24and see new coton oh darling thank you
18:27thank you you have done you have save my
18:29cost
18:30more or sometimes a woman will use her
18:33money and change TV at home a woman is
18:37to help not to be Financial in
18:40charge some men are doing it as if they
18:43they even have their pocketing their
18:45own women are they will like this
18:51one when your wife is the one paying for
18:54children's school fees or you have lost
18:58your staff of
19:00authority you have lost something that
19:02is why I am praying here for every man
19:05that woman is feeding may God LIF you oh
19:09amen I cannot hear amen amen I used to
19:13cry when I see some of my people
19:17here you see some of them the want to
19:20intentionally marry a higher
19:24G you don't you don't believe in
19:26yourself
19:29work
19:30hard no time is
19:34late amen and amen amen so from today
19:39men treat your wife according
19:43to according to what understand
19:47understanding because they are weaker
19:50than so the way she will understand
19:53things it's not the way you will
19:54understand learn how to say oh baby or
19:57whatever you call
19:59you're fine you look good your hair is
20:02fine your mouth is fine your leg even if
20:05leg the most stretch leg in the world
20:09they want to hear those things am I
20:12communicating yes sir a woman came here
20:14and said D euka do you know that my
20:18husband is not romantic at all I will do
20:22a new hair I will purposely walk around
20:24him for him to say something I will even
20:27use my hand and do like this
20:29he will never said your hair is fine
20:32what kind of a human being do I
20:35marry so treat them according
20:40to understanding those things you know
20:42they like do it when you marry you are
20:45no longer AER of yourself you are
20:47working with somebody that is partner
20:49you have let her know when you are late
20:52on the road when there is goost slow you
20:54are coming back late G send message to
20:57her treat her her according to
21:01understanding as a bachelor you can come
21:03in go out whenever you like but now it's
21:06no longer possible because you have a p
21:08now send her message daring I am on go
21:11slow I am on hold up I am coming this
21:14thing will make you to have a peaceful
21:18home am I speaking to somebody yes sir
21:21as a man learn how to go out sometimes
21:26buy something for your wife Buy sh buy
21:30her
21:31underwear it may not be costly but it
21:34will make her happy treat her according
21:38to
21:40understanding you cannot be a good
21:42husband when you try to sideline your
21:46wife family when you think that you have
21:49married it's only my wife I know the mom
21:52is going through pain you cannot help
21:54your the brother of your wife is going
21:56through pain you cannot come in you have
21:59money but the sister is being asked to
22:01leave the school you cannot assist that
22:04woman will not give you 100%
22:06love am I speaking to men here yes sir
22:10but when the sister call her oh auntie
22:13auntie auntie help me he may even send
22:16something without telling your wife
22:17Auntie help me to thank your husband I
22:20saw 250,000 he sent to me oh my God this
22:24woman will come and carry her body carry
22:26you that day she will carry you and
22:28throw you you to
22:34bed am I speaking to somebody yes sir
22:37yes sir treat them according to
22:40understanding that you cannot marry and
22:42you want to sideline your husband family
22:47they are nothing there are no if your
22:50wife is aware that the sister is going
22:52through the mother is sick no money to
22:54take them to hospital you want her to
22:55begin to give you love when the mom is D
22:59if you're a man when you marri you have
23:01three families the family of your wife
23:03should be considered to be part of a
23:05family your father's family should be
23:07considered to be part of her family and
23:08your own family with your wife and
23:10children another family so any
23:12reasonable married man we see herself
23:14having three families treat that woman
23:18according to understanding give her
23:21peace she will give you Joy give her
23:23trouble she will give you pieces they
23:26have a one in reciprocating whatever you
23:30give
23:33them am I speaking to somebody yes tell
23:36them they
23:38beautiful surprise them with a new shoe
23:41sometimes take your wife out how can
23:44your wife feel two of you are going out
23:46one woman pass and your eyes
23:53turn where would I come to in a street
23:57why is speaking at
23:59us which speaking at
24:02us treat your wife according
24:07to understanding so that there will be
24:10peace in your home anytime you feel that
24:12oh my wife is nothing your business will
24:15collapse you must see her as a very
24:19important person you cannot joke for for
24:22peace to reain in your family for
24:24prosperity to re in your family you must
24:27carry your wife alone
24:28don't sideline her you can't talk to her
24:32on phone very well at home two of you
24:35are sitting at home but no discussion
24:38but you are busy shatting other ladies
24:41if she realize she will go to Native
24:44doctor for your head treat your wife
24:47according
24:49to understanding