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0:00Women don't actually want to form a
0:01connection with you. They don't want you
0:02to connect with them. They don't want to
0:04know anything serious about you because
0:05you see every time you talk about
0:06something serious, where you want to go,
0:08what you want to do, the things you want
0:09to achieve in life, guess what? Her
0:11brain turns on, now the conversation is
0:13real, and now she loses interest because
0:16now everything is stressful. Women want
0:18to get away from real life. That's why
0:20they watch all those TV shows and all
0:22those dramas. They want to live their
0:24life through somebody else's suffering.
0:27They don't want to suffer, they want to
0:28live life through your own suffering.
0:30They want all the fruits of your labor.
0:32And every time you talk about what you
0:33want to do and how it took you so long
0:35to get to this and achieve this and how
0:37you're working so hard for this, she
0:38looks at you and she goes, "He doesn't
0:39just exist. He isn't just perfect. He
0:42has to try. He has to do all these
0:45things. He's so deep and philosophical
0:47and he's so
0:49so complicated and so real and so
0:52stressful and so anxious." And now you
0:55aren't just this this incredible man
0:56that she can fall in love with. Now
0:58you're just this ball of like mush of
1:00like I'm stressed and I'm anxious and I
1:02need to do this and this and this. Shut
1:04the hell up and just be a man. Relax,
1:06sit back, look at the sky, look at the
1:07trees, enjoy the weather. What are you
1:09trying to do right now? Connect with
1:11her. You just look like a man who never
1:13gets laid. The only guy that's desires
1:15that connection, that
1:17conversation of like pouring his guts
1:19out to a woman, is the guy that never
1:21gets laid. Because guess what? If you
1:22already had women that loved and
1:23respected you, you wouldn't feel the
1:25need for that extra connection. You
1:26would already feel seen. You would
1:28already understand that you were a man
1:29of value who has options. When you try
1:31to connect with her, she looks at you
1:32and she goes, "This man has no options.
1:34No other woman wants him. He's
1:35unattractive. He's deep and meaningful.
1:38He makes me anxious. He turns my brain
1:40on. He's not fun. I don't like him."