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0:00A lot of you guys get, you know, text
0:01messages from girls and they're tests
0:03and you don't realize that they're
0:04tests. So, like a lot of you guys will
0:05get a text message that like just pisses
0:07you off and it gets under your skin and
0:08it bothers you. And that's the point.
0:10And women are going to do this and women
0:12are going to do this often when they
0:13feel like you are not their best option.
0:16So, let's say you're dating a girl
0:17that's really beautiful. She's going to
0:19do all these tests and text you things
0:20that get under your skin more often than
0:23a girl that is less beautiful. Why?
0:25Because the closer a girl is to your
0:27value, like let's say you are a nine out
0:29of 10 on the value chart and she is a
0:31eight out of 10 on the value chart. She
0:34is going to test you a lot more than if
0:36she was a five out of 10. Why? Because a
0:39five out of 10 knows that you're way
0:40above her. She knows she can't do better
0:43than you because the difference, the
0:44discrepancy, the SMV discrepancy is so
0:46large. But, let's say this is a girl
0:49that is very close to you in SMV. Well,
0:52what happens now is she questions
0:54whether you are her best option. So,
0:55she's going to sit there and she's going
0:56to think, "Well, I think I can do
0:58better."
0:59Because you guys are so close, she can't
1:00really see that discrepancy, it almost
1:02becomes invisible. So, she's going to
1:03constantly test. She's going to do
1:05things that you don't like. She's going
1:06to go to the club. She's going to dress
1:07the way she's not supposed to dress. She
1:08wants to see
1:10does this man have more value than me?
1:13And the way you demonstrate you have
1:14more value than her is by not caring.
1:18Don't care about anything. She wants to
1:21go to the club, let her go to the club.
1:23She wants to go do something she's not
1:25supposed to go do, let her do it. You
1:27know, a lot of the time she's going to
1:28text you something like, "Hey, listen,
1:29you know, I want to go with my friend to
1:30this birthday party, but there's going
1:32to be guys over there and going to be
1:33drinking.
1:35Is it okay if I go?"
1:36She knows it's wrong.
1:39That's the key. That's why she asked
1:40you. So, let her go.
1:42Because she knows it's wrong.
1:44So, she knows if she wants to be a
1:46better woman,
1:48she can just not do that thing and she's
1:50now a better woman in your eyes. Cuz she
1:51knows it's wrong. So, if she doesn't do
1:52that one thing that's wrong, she knows
1:54she's going to be higher value in your
1:56eyes.
1:57So, she knows that what she's doing is
1:58dropping her value because she wants to
2:01see how do you react
2:03to a woman acting off
2:05off her game, acting the way she's not
2:07supposed to act. Are you going to get
2:09emotional? Are you going to get all
2:10jittery? Are you going to get insecure?
2:12Are you going to care? She wants to see
2:13how invested are you?
2:15And depending on how invested you are,
2:17you're going to show well, okay, you're
2:18she's either way above you in value or
2:20way below you in value.
2:23Think about it. If you had a bunch of
2:24options and you had a bunch of girls in
2:25your inbox, you wouldn't care that she's
2:26going to the club because it's just
2:27another girl. Okay, you lose her, big
2:28deal. There's another 10 out of 10
2:30waiting for you. But, if you're a man
2:31that's scarce and you have low options,
2:32well, you're going to really care.
2:34So, how do you get her to stop going to
2:36the club? How do you pass the test? You
2:38just don't care. She wants to go, all
2:41you got to do is say okay. You're not
2:42mad at her, you don't confront her, you
2:44don't try to negotiate with her, tell
2:45her, "Oh, yeah, there's going to be guys
2:47over there. It's not that I don't trust
2:48you, I don't trust the guys." No, I'll
2:50tell you who you don't trust. It's not
2:51that you don't trust those guys and it's
2:52not that you don't trust her. You don't
2:53trust yourself.
2:54You don't trust that you're the best
2:55option. You're insecure, you're afraid
2:57that she's going to be taken taken away
2:59from you or that she's going to leave
3:01you. That's it. The only person you
3:03would trust here is you. If you were
3:05the man, you wouldn't care because you
3:07know you're the man. What's she going to
3:09do? Replace you? She can't, impossible.
3:10And that's the way you got to approach
3:12it. So, all you got to do is say okay.
3:14Now, what happens is
3:16you guys are like, "Well, well, if I say
3:18okay, then I'm accepting that behavior,
3:20well, isn't that also going to drop my
3:21value? Because if I accept that behavior
3:23No, here's what you do. You create
3:25distance and you go out with other
3:26girls. And now she sees you going out
3:28with other girls and she goes, "Why is
3:30he giving time to other women? Oh, wait
3:32a minute, I know what I did wrong. I
3:33went to the club. Oh, wait a minute, I
3:35know what I did wrong. I went I dressed
3:36that way." And now she needs to prove
3:37herself to get your time because
3:39otherwise you're going to spend it with
3:39other girls. This is why loyalty and all
3:41you guys in a relationship where you're
3:42just with one woman, it's never going to
3:43work out because now she has no
3:45competition. So, if she does something
3:46wrong and you accept it, well, it's just
3:48you accepting her doing something wrong
3:49and she's going to continue doing it
3:50because now you just look like a, you
3:51know, a pathetic loser who just lets her
3:53do whatever whatever she wants to do.
3:55But it's like if you have leverage where
3:56you can pull away and spend time with
3:57another girl, when she doesn't act
3:59right, she's going to see that and she's
4:00going to go, "I better act right or else
4:01he's going to leave me."
4:02He's going to leave me for this other
4:04woman. If there's no other woman, what's
4:05she going to be afraid of? Getting left?
4:07For who? There's nobody else. So, that's
4:09why you guys got to start dating
4:10multiple women.
4:11The way you win
4:13is you don't do this loyal crap that
4:15society has told you you really need to
4:16do. Women are actually turned on when
4:18you cheat. Women are actually turned on
4:20when you demonstrate you have other
4:21girls around because it demonstrates you
4:23have options. And a man with more
4:24options is a man who's more attractive.
4:25Remember, the more attractive you are
4:26the more options you have, meaning the
4:27more options you have the more
4:28attractive you are. So, it's impossible
4:29for cheating to be unattractive because
4:31it demonstrates that demonstrates that
4:32you have an option. All you got to do is
4:33when she confronts you, make sure you
4:35don't apologize and you don't lie.
4:36Right? Cuz you would only apologize and
4:38lie if you don't have options and you
4:39can't replace her and you're afraid to
4:40lose her. If you just say, "Listen, I
4:42did what I did. You want to leave me,
4:43that's fine."
4:44Well, you'll win twice because now
4:46cheating wasn't unattractive and now you
4:49showing her that you're willing to let
4:50her go is also not unattractive. It's
4:52also attractive. So, cheating was
4:53attractive and showing willingness to
4:55let her go is also attractive because it
4:57demonstrates you have options. Cheating
4:58demonstrates you have options and
5:00willingness to let her go also
5:01demonstrates that you have options and
5:02you can replace her easily which is
5:04exactly what
5:06leads to a woman being attracted to. So,
5:08this is all you have to do.
5:11You want this girl to start acting
5:12right. You want to pass every test. You
5:14want to build attraction. When she does
5:16something wrong, remember that she knows
5:18she's doing something wrong. Let her do
5:20it.
5:21And just chill.
5:23Let her do it. Say, "Okay." Say, "Sure."
5:26Let her go do it. Don't argue with her.
5:28Don't try to fix things. Don't explain
5:29to her how she's supposed to act. She
5:31knows how to act. That's why she's
5:32asking you. If she thought there was
5:34nothing wrong with it, she would have
5:35never asked you.
5:36She would have never texted you that
5:37she's trying to get under your skin, but
5:39you can't be mad at her for this
5:40because she's doing this subconsciously.
5:43She's trying to filter you. She's trying
5:45to see, remember, if she can do better.
5:46If you are truly the man that you say
5:48you are and you're truly the best
5:49option, it's her nature. You can't be
5:52mad at her for doing this. You can't
5:54react.
5:55Okay?
5:56And at the same time, you can't blame
5:57her for doing this because how else
5:59would a woman find a man that's capable
6:01and secure and strong, right?
6:03She's constantly filtering for a
6:05billionaire that doesn't care about her
6:08because that is the most valuable type
6:09of man.
6:11And you can't blame her for this. How
6:13else would she figure out which man is
6:15valuable, right? Let's say you have two
6:16guys and a woman walks up to them and
6:18she says, "I want flowers and loyalty."
6:20Which guy's more valuable? The guy that
6:22gives her the flowers and loyalty or the
6:24guy that doesn't care? The guy that
6:25doesn't care because the only reason why
6:27he wouldn't care is because he could
6:28just replace that girl or he has other
6:29girls prettier than her that don't care
6:32about those things and he doesn't have
6:33to do those things and waste his time on
6:35doing those things and he's going to
6:36choose them over her. That's the guy
6:37that doesn't care, the guy who's more
6:38valuable. You demonstrate that you're
6:40you you're more valuable than every
6:41other dude by caring less about
6:43everything.
6:44So, you want to pass her tests, you want
6:46to win, you want to build attraction,
6:48stop caring.
6:49Let it go. Don't get upset. And see
6:52other women so that now she has an
6:55incentive to act right.
6:57That's it.
6:59It's like magic.