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0:00Good guys finish last, right? That's
0:01what they have you believe in. It's
0:02true, but not for the reason you think.
0:04You got to understand exactly why it
0:05works this way. You see, what you've
0:07been told is that women hate nice guys
0:09because nice guys are pushovers and nice
0:11guys are easy to boss around and because
0:13nice guys, they don't take initiative
0:15and control. It's not about any of that.
0:17It's not about none of that. It's not
0:18that women want to be disrespected
0:19either. It's not that they like bad guys
0:21because they want to be disrespected and
0:22degraded. It's none of that. It's what
0:25it indicates. It's not who the guy is.
0:28It's what him acting that particular way
0:30indicates. And you have to understand
0:32this. And it all start to make sense. If
0:34you listen, you're going to be like,
0:35"Holy everybody's lied to me my
0:37entire life." That makes so much sense.
0:39So listen, this is exactly why women
0:41like bad boys. Bad boys. And why? They
0:45never ever let the nice guys win.
0:49If you're a nice guy, right, let's say
0:51you're a guy that does everything for
0:52this woman. You want to take care of her
0:54and give her a great life and you
0:55promise her this fantastic future and
0:57you always open the car door and you're
0:58a gentleman. You're fantastic, right?
1:01Buy the book. There's a problem with
1:03this. What it does is establish yourself
1:06in her mind as low value. Crazy, right?
1:09What? Being the guy that gives her
1:11everything, being the guy that
1:14is respectful and kind and is a
1:16gentleman establishes you as low value.
1:18Isn't that what every woman wants? Nope.
1:20Stop listening to what every woman says
1:22she wants because all she's doing when
1:24she says she wants something is trying
1:26to eliminate you. She's trying to get
1:29rid of you. She's trying to qualify you.
1:31And if you don't pass the qualification,
1:33she gets rid of you. See, it's so
1:35simple, right?
1:37All you have to do, let's say you're a
1:39man and you want to figure out which
1:41business partner do I trust? I want to
1:44trust the man that is more capable. I
1:45want to trust the man with more
1:46experience. I want to trust the man that
1:47has more money, right? He's more
1:49wealthy. So, how do you figure out which
1:51man is more wealthy? You don't look into
1:53his bank account, right? You can't do
1:55that. Can't ask him for his bank
1:57credentials. Can't ask him to show you
2:00all his life successes, right? Can't ask
2:02him all this personal stuff that he's
2:04probably not going to give you the
2:05answers to. All you got to do is wave
2:07around a dollar. See if he bites. See if
2:10he takes the dollar. He doesn't take the
2:13dollar. You know that he has more than a
2:15dollar.
2:17Right? Only the broke man. Only the man
2:19that has no life experience, only the
2:21man that has no belief in himself. Only
2:22the man that doesn't have any resource
2:24qualification, doesn't have any value,
2:26is going to bite at the dollar bill.
2:30She says she wants flowers. She says she
2:32wants you to act a certain way. She says
2:34she wants loyalty. All she's doing is
2:35trying to see if you bite.
2:38Not bite at being a good man. Bite at
2:41giving her what she wants. Because this
2:43is how she can see how desperate you
2:45are. And ba based off of your
2:46desperation, she can test how valuable
2:48you are. All she has to do is say, "I
2:49want loyalty." And the guy that runs
2:50over and gives it to her first. I want
2:53flowers. I want to go watch a movie. The
2:54guy that runs over and gives it to her
2:55first is the guy that is low value. Cuz
2:58see, your value has nothing to do with
3:00how great of a guy you are or how much
3:01of a gentleman you are. It has
3:03everything to do with your resources and
3:06how many options you've had in the past
3:07and how many options you have right now.
3:10The only way you position yourself as a
3:12man better than this woman. The way you
3:14position yourself as a man with leverage
3:16and control in the relationship. And the
3:18way you qualify yourself is by not
3:20trying to qualify yourself. You don't
3:22play the game. You don't get her those
3:24flowers. You don't care to prove
3:26yourself. You don't care to take her to
3:28the movies. You don't care to give her
3:29loyalty. None of it matters. This is all
3:32a game. It's a test. You know how you
3:34win the game? You don't play the game.
3:37She asks for something, you don't give
3:38it to her. She wants you to do
3:40something, you don't do it. She wants
3:42loyalty.
3:44So what? And this is how you
3:46differentiate yourself from every other
3:48guy. It's very simple, straightforward.
3:50It's not complicated. Love ain't
3:52complicated. Love is just sacrifice. All
3:54you got to do is be worthy of the
3:56sacrifice. And the way you become worthy
3:58of the sacrifice, right? The way you
4:00become a man that she is willing to
4:01sacrifice for, meaning give love to, is
4:03just be a man that is on paper
4:05resourcefully
4:06qualified. And the way you qualify is by
4:09not trying to qualify. You don't give
4:11her flowers. You don't do nothing. You
4:13existing is enough. This is the secret.
4:16This [snorts] is how you beat them every
4:17single time. This is how you win over
4:18any woman. This is how you retain
4:20relationships. This is how you have
4:21healthy relationships where the woman
4:22doesn't disrespect you because she's
4:24afraid to disrespect you because she's
4:25deemed you're so valuable. She is afraid
4:27to lose you because she doesn't think
4:29she can find someone better. You don't
4:31care. Every other guy cared so much to
4:33make things work. Every other guy bent
4:35his ass over. That's why she's not with
4:36him right now.
4:38she's going to come to you and she's
4:39going to do all this Yeah,
4:41I've been cheated on in the past. Or
4:42yeah, you know, I wasn't treated right
4:44in the past. I want to Or maybe even the
4:46opposite. Yeah, he didn't. He He treated
4:50me so well, but I All this is is a test.
4:52Are you going to treat me like the last
4:54guy? Cuz obviously she left him for
4:55something. Let me tell you, he cheated
4:56on her and she still left him. You know
4:58why? Not the cheating. He either
5:00apologized or lied, begged for her to
5:02stay, all this stuff. He treated her
5:04nice. Well, you already got your answer.
5:06He treated her nice. That's why she
5:08left, right? Because he bent his ass
5:10over right there. Don't get this wrong,
5:13you guys. A lot of you guys think that
5:14like implementing this the stuff that I
5:16tell you, let's say you you aren't loyal
5:18to this woman. There's a way to lose all
5:20your leverage even if you're not loyal,
5:22even if she knows you have other women
5:23around. Because if you have other women
5:25around, but then when she confronts you
5:27about it, you're all trying to make
5:29things work or you're trying to lie
5:30about it and cover it up. That right
5:32there defeats the whole point of having
5:33multiple women around. The point of
5:35having multiple women around. The point
5:36of not caring, the point of not giving
5:37her those flowers, the point of not
5:39taking her where she wants to go, is
5:40that you don't care to make things work.
5:42You don't care if she disappears
5:43tomorrow or not, it doesn't matter to
5:44you. Why? Because what this establishes
5:47you as as a man with options. The only
5:49kind of man that has options is a
5:50valuable man. The only kind of man that
5:52can be attractive is a man that's
5:53valuable. The more options you
5:55demonstrate, the more value you
5:56demonstrate. The more value goes up, the
5:58more attractive you become. And so,
6:01through you not caring, you establish
6:04all of this. But here's the thing. You
6:06can demonstrate all of that lack of
6:07care, by demonstrating options by being
6:10with multiple women, not giving her
6:11loyalty, but then she confronts you
6:12about it and she sees that, oh, you're
6:15trying to lie about it and cover it up.
6:16Or, oh, you're apologizing and saying,
6:17"Let's make things work. Don't worry
6:18about it. Those girls mean nothing to
6:19me." D all this,
6:22instead of just saying, "Listen, I did
6:24what I did. That's who I am. Got a
6:26problem with it? You can leave. No
6:27problem. We don't have to be together."
6:28Nice, calm, collected, no emotion.
6:31Instead of doing that, try to save
6:33things. try to make things work. Now,
6:35she looks at you. She might think you
6:37have options cuz you're with other
6:38women. And a man with options is the
6:40only kind of man that can cheat. But you
6:42know what she knows now? No matter how
6:44many options you got, none of them are
6:47better than her. Or at least that's what
6:48you feel. And now it doesn't matter that
6:51you have other options because now
6:52you've given her all the leverage and
6:53control by showing how much you want to
6:55make things work with her. Doesn't
6:56matter. All your options out the window
6:58because now she looks at you and she
6:59goes, "You might have options, but you
7:01don't have anyone better than me."
7:02Because if you had someone better than
7:03her, you wouldn't try to make things
7:04work. You would just let her go. You
7:06wouldn't buy her flowers, you just
7:07wouldn't care. You wouldn't take her
7:09out. You just wouldn't care. You don't
7:11have anyone better than her. That's why
7:12you go weak for her. That's why you want
7:13to make things work. That's why you want
7:14to be this perfect man. That's why you
7:16change your behavior. That's why every
7:17little thing bothers you. Every little
7:18thing is calculated. Every little thing
7:20you got to consult with your buddies,
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7:33man needs to know this. This is my
7:34mission. This is my goal to make sure
7:35every single one of you understand this.
7:37Nothing else is important to me in this
7:38life. Nothing. This is all that matters
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