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0:05The hardest part in anything is to
0:07start.
0:07>> Kawaida ya maisha ni kwamba unavopanda
0:09juu kwenye ngazi changamoto na yako na
0:11zile shida za matajiri. Repetition
0:13estimat
0:16inabidi a bit uncomfortable. The most
0:18important thing ni kuwa na stress
0:20tolerance.
0:20>> Kuna mboa na hofu ya kufanikiwa.
0:2390% ya vitu ambavyo tunakia kuanza ni
0:25muhimu sana unakosea kitu na kwenda. If
0:28you must do it then do it exceptionally
0:30well king binadamu katika kitu pekee
0:32ambacho wanafansi wamekubaliana ndio
0:33namna ya kutrain binadamu.
0:35>> Kitu kimoja kizuri kuhusu mwili wa
0:36binadamu ni kwamba kitu kikiwa kibaya.
0:39>> Ukirepeat kukaa [kicheko] hapa hapa kwa
0:40muda mrefu akili yako inacreate vibanda
0:44vitatu pale biashara ya uvivu. It's a
0:47billion dollar industry.
0:48>> Moja ya changamoto kubwa ndio zile zile
0:50roho za za Newton a body rest
0:54motion [kicheko] at motion. Moja ya vitu
0:56ambavyo ni vya lazima kuvijua ni hivi
0:58unexpected event.
0:59>> Huku kuna meli inazama huku kuna kitu
1:01kinaanguka. Huku kuna hichi. Yaani usha
1:03kuona unatembea umeweka glasi ya maji
1:04hapa hapa hapa na kichwi. I'm not a
1:06believer of equality. I'm believer of
1:08equality. Being fair. Take the best
1:10person.
1:11>> If you are the best person you can
1:13always create opportunities. And and I'm
1:15competent. If you're really competent
1:17nothing should bother you kama kinaanzwa
1:19na neno competition. Kwenye kila mpango
1:21wako kuna meza ya mtu utaitisha.
1:24Tunashauri mtu uanze. Hatujakushauri
1:26uende kama kuna kichwa. Ahah. Kichwa
1:28kina umuhimu.
1:29>> Nakwambia biashara ni tatu Dar es
1:30Salaam. Uinga utapiri na udalali.
1:33[kicheko]
1:34>> Maisha isant alfu peaceful moments ni
1:37island.
1:44[muziki]
1:55Hello guys karibuni kwenye podcast yetu
1:57ya kwanza. Leo nipo na my very good
1:59friend and nina uhakika miaka mingi
2:03mbele tukija kuangalia nyuma tukaangalia
2:05hii podcast ya leo
2:08tutakuwa proud kwanza tulianza na wewe
2:10mtazamaji utakuwa umejifunza vitu vingi
2:12sana vingi sana vitabadilika kuelekea
2:15huko mbele. Kwa hiyo leo tunafanya hii
2:17podcast na tumeamua leo tuongelee tu how
2:20to start something lugha tutakayotumia
2:23tutajitahidi sana kutumia lugha ya
2:25Kiswahili na Kiingereza. kwa sababu one
2:28day we gna be international right
2:30[kicheko]
2:32kwa hiyo tension ni kubwa kama mnavyojua
2:34kuanza podcast ama kuanza kitu kipya
2:36kunakuanga na changamoto nyingi lakini
2:39ninajitahidi sana kuwashusha upepo watu
2:42wote mimi mwenyewe hapa nashusha upepo
2:45pressha ni kubwa sana lakini either ways
2:48kwanza kitu huanga sio rahisi na leo
2:50tutadiscuss na rafiki yangu hapa na
2:52nitamtambulisha
2:54stori tutapiga stori nyingi sana
2:56tutaongelea maisha stori stor za hapa na
2:57pale kama kijana wa kitanzania East
2:59Africa, Africa and as a global citizen
3:02anything that is going to be relevant in
3:04today's atmosphere we are going to touch
3:06several areas and of course we're going
3:08to be careful on those controversial
3:10topics but it goes without saying
3:13anything we say or anything we do in
3:14this podcast is simply
3:17our personal opinions and any guest's
3:20opinion is there completely you should
3:22not take this as as an influence kwako
3:25kwenda kufanya chochote.
3:27So I'll find up a better disclaimer but
3:29it goes without saying anything or
3:31anything you hear or see in this session
3:34ama anything ambacho say in this channel
3:36is just our views and how we see the
3:39world and everybody has a right to free
3:41expression and whatever you do with our
3:43information is entirely up to you. Thank
3:46you very much.
3:48Karibu nisikuweke sana nikukaribishe kwa
3:51my good friend nitampa ajitambulishe
3:53lakini he is an excellent type of person
3:56nimemjua kwa muda mfupi na Solomon labda
3:59tungeanza like kwa majina ni Solomon
4:02lakini isolomon Shadrck wa miaka 12 ni
4:06nani unaweza ukatuelezea na na nini
4:09umetokea kwenye familia ya kitanzania
4:11ama mwenzetu ni mchina ma mimi kama
4:13mwarabu hivi si unajua [kicheko]
4:16okay
4:16>> watu wanawaambia na back story yako
4:18kidogo alafu tutaendelea tu
4:20>> relax everything okay
4:21>> asante kwanza kwa majina naitwa somon
4:23shedrak kijana wa kitanzania kabisa mimi
4:27[kicheko]
4:27sina sina mbegu mchanganyiko wala nini
4:30>> sio chotara
4:31>> eh sio chotara bwana
4:32>> ila hivo nimezaliwa tanzania nimezaliwa
4:35mwanza makuzi yangu kwa asilimia kubwa
4:36yamekuwa Mwanza nimezaliwa Mwanza
4:38nimekuwa Mwanza kwa miaka nadhani kama
4:4020 karibu 20 takrib 20 baada ya hapo
4:44kuanzia kuanzia kuanzia kuanzia advance
4:47ndio nimekuja mitaa ya Pwani na Dar es
4:49Salaam ndio ukuaji wangu ulipoenda
4:51ukuaji na utafutaji kwa asilimia kubwa
4:53>> kwa ndio hivo zaidi ya hapo
4:56mimi na kakaangu hapa tumekutana
4:59tukiwa tukiwa shule high school kwa hiyo
5:04zaidi ya hapo ni mfanyashara pia hiyo
5:06kitu nitajipromote baadaye [kicheko]
5:09>> labda
5:11>> nitajipromote baadaye
5:12>> katika promotion yake ya baadaye ambayo
5:14tutaisensa kwenye podcast yetu
5:16Lakini kuna baadhi ya vitu unajua ni
5:19vizuri watu wakaviongelea kuhusu wewe.
5:20Mimi ninavyomfahamu Solomon ni kati ya
5:22vijana ambao kiukweli wan jitihada
5:25kwenye kitu wanachokifanya na katika
5:28kitu kirahisi kwake ni kwenye kuanza
5:30kufanya jambo. Umeona? Eh. Nilikutana na
5:32Solomon kipindi hicho tupo Marian Boys
5:35High School. Tulisoma pale shule ya kule
5:39Pwani kule kati ya sehemu ambako
5:41nilibahatika kukutana na watu wengi sana
5:42hivo haina tofauti ndio huko tulikutana
5:44na Solomon. Kwa hiyo katika vitu ambavyo
5:46mimi nimevipenda sana kwa my good friend
5:49here ni kwamba ikitokea swala la kuanza
5:51kufanya kitu huwaga yupo na mtizamo
5:54tofauti kwenye kuanza mambo. Ndio maana
5:55katika podcast yetu ya leo ambayo
5:57tunaongelea stori za hapa na pale lakini
5:59sasa podcast lazima ina title kwa hiyo
6:01title how to start anything. Ukiconsider
6:03na tunaanza podcast. So nikaona he is a
6:05good person kuongelea naye na nini na
6:07nini. He's a very accomplished brother.
6:09Tut toka tunakutana kaka ulikuwa
6:11unatupeleka sana hii level. [kicheko]
6:14Ah
6:14>> uko unatunyoosha sana kaka.
6:16>> Hongera sana
6:19>> kwenye swala la elimu kiukweli
6:20>> ah
6:21>> ambayo ilikuwa safi kabisa. ila kuhusu
6:23hiyo swala umeongea kuhusu how to start
6:26how do you start kitu kama hicho hapo
6:29kwa maisha yangu mpaka nafika hapa hivi
6:35unajua ni kwamba ukiwa ukiwa unapita kwa
6:37mfano kama hii hapa hii ni moja ya
6:39source of information unayoipata
6:41unavyozidi kukua unavozidi kwenda kuna
6:43ndugu jamaa rafiki kila mmoja anakuja na
6:45idea zake kila mmoja anakuja na kitu
6:47chake atakushauri kwamba ukiwa unaanza
6:49utaanza hivi ukiwa unataka kufanya hivi
6:50fanya hivi mfano Mfano mfano kwa kawaida
6:55maisha ya maisha ya Mtanzania ni kwamba
6:58ni unamaliza darasa la saba unaenda form
7:00F kutoka form F unaenda form 6 kutoka
7:02form 6 unaenda chuo kutoka chuo
7:03unatakiwa upate kazi baada ya kazi
7:05unaolewa sasa hiyo ni maisha perfect
7:08yaliyopo lakini sasa kwa kawaida
7:10binadamu kunakuwa na zile wanaita ups
7:12and downs au kuna wewe mwenyewe
7:14unavyoenda mwenyewe kwamba unapita wapi
7:15kwa hiyo sasa
7:17>> inakuja kwenye pointi kwamba kuna
7:20unatoka umiza form F mwingine anaenda
7:23chuo mwingine anaenda sijui anaenda
7:25anaacha anaachana swala la elimu anaenda
7:27kwenye swala la biashara wengine ndio
7:29hivy wanaenda kwenye maswala ya bishara
7:30za mitandaoni kama sijui forex mambo ya
7:32affiliations na nini nini kwa hiyo ndio
7:34hivy kwenye swala la kwanza kitu kikuu
7:37ambacho ningependa kuwaambia kuna njia
7:39kuu mbili njia ya kwanza ni ile kwamba
7:41mtu ambaye anaenda kwa sababu kuna watu
7:43wana shida mtu ambao ana shida ya
7:45kuprocoate mtu ambaye anapenda kujivuta
7:48>> anasubiri vitu vyote vitimie
7:50>> kama hiyo ni changamoto uliyoayo
7:52>> utakuwa na changamoto nyingine ambayo
7:54nadhani unaweza kuwa nayo ni kuoverthink
7:56mambo kwamba
7:57>> unakaa unawaza unasema mimi
8:00>> tuchukulie tuchukulie mfano hayo wa
8:02podcast maana naamini watu wengi
8:04wameshawahi kuwaza iko siku nitakuwa na
8:06podcast yangu pale na nini na nini na
8:07nini na nini kwa hebu tukiwa tunajaribu
8:09kwenda hivyo tuchukue tu mfano
8:11atajifunza mfano wa podcast nakumbuka
8:13okay hii ni kama na site na nini
8:15nilikuwa nawasikiliza kuna vijana kuna
8:16vijana sema sana wakenya watatu
8:19>> ambao kidogo huwa anajulikana lakini
8:21sasa hamna haja ya nini lakini sasa
8:23walikuwa walikuwa wenyewe walipokuwa ni
8:26ma content creators
8:27>> wenyewe walikuwa wanaomba simu ya mtu
8:29wanaenda kushooot sawa hiyo ni staili
8:31yao kwamba wenyewe kwamba walikuwa
8:33wanachukua hivy
8:35>> wewe sasa unakuja ni kwamba una ideas
8:37kwa sababu mwisho wa siku kwenye podcast
8:39kitu cha kwanza kikuu ni kwamba podcast
8:40ni kwamba wewe ni njia moja ya kutoa
8:42taarifa information spreading ideas
8:44unazo issue ya kamera issue ya nini vitu
8:46ambavyo mnaweza mkavisort taratibu ah
8:48>> yaani hapo
8:49>> na hapo una ukuaji hapo hapo labda mimi
8:51niongee tu from personal experience
8:52lakini pia nitakuuliza na swali hapo
8:53mwishoni utaniambia wewe mtamo wako
8:55>> ndio
8:56>> kiukweli mwanzoni mimi nilikuwa naamini
8:58ili uanze podcast inabidi kwanza uwe na
9:01kamera nzuri clean hivo hivo [kicheko]
9:03lakini baadaye nikaja kugundua watu
9:05wanaweza wakakusamehe video ikiwa chafu
9:07lakini soundi iwe nzur ni kweli
9:09>> kwa hiyo nikatoboka nikasema mimi
9:11nitanunuanga yaani enzi hizo
9:13nikanunuanga vimiki fulani hivi
9:15>> kwa ajili ya kurekod content lakini sasa
9:17mwanzoni nilikuwa naamini ukishakuwa na
9:18simu na hizo microphone umemaliza right
9:20m
9:21>> ndio
9:21>> nilikuwa natamani sana kukujaga kuwa na
9:23podcast ambayo tutakuwa tunashare value
9:25tunasaidiana kama jz unapush vijana hivo
9:27nini tunapiga stori hivo tunajifunza a
9:31very productive space sindio lakini sasa
9:34baada ya kuwa na kamera [kicheko]
9:35baada ya kuwa na mik ah
9:38sasa nahitaji guest nahitaji guest yaani
9:41>> guest akija tena unaona kama bado
9:43hujajiandaa vizuri kama unahitaji
9:44maswali tena
9:45>> unabidi uje pak it's like it never ends
9:47ama ama kwako wewe unaitazama vipi hiyo
9:50unaitazama vipi kwa hiyo unakuta kuna
9:51kama kuna kama ile unending loop ya mtu
9:55kudhani kwamba inabidi nikamilishe hichi
9:57inabidi nikamilishe hichi alafu mimi
9:58naonanga kama yaani baadaye nikaja
10:00kugundua ni kitu ambacho hakiwezi
10:01kutimia you will never have all of it
10:03figured out kwa ho nikasema labda au ni
10:06issue yangu mimi mwenyewe wewe unadili
10:07vipi na scenario kama hiyo kwa sababu
10:09kiukweli kuanza ukiwa hujajiandaa
10:11utaonekana mjenga wewe ni mtu mzima
10:12lazima ujipange lakini sasa pia
10:14kujipanga ni kama vile hakuna mwisho.
10:16Sasa how do you balance hiyo?
10:18>> Okay. Sawa wakati kwenye kujibu swala
10:20lako naomba niseme kitu kimoja hapo
10:22kwamba wakati nasema kuna wale watu
10:23ambao wanajivuta kwa hiyo watu kama hao
10:25ningewashauri watokea uanze kwa kitu
10:27ulichoacho
10:29>> alafu kuna wale ambao wanatokea
10:29kujipanga wanapenda kujipanga watu ambao
10:32wanakuwa nayo kwamba lazima wajipange
10:34wafuatilie taarifa zote na nini mfano
10:36mzuri kakangu na yeye unakuwa na hicho
10:38kitu sometimes kama ulivyoelezea hapo
10:40kwamba wewe ulijua kwamba ni kitu fulani
10:43fulani inabidi ujipange kwa watu kama
10:44hapo kitu cha kwanza ningependa
10:45kuwashauri ni kwamba moja ya vitu
10:48ambavyo ni vya lazima kuvijua ni hizi
10:52unexpected events kwamba utapanga vitu
10:56vyako vyote 100% utajua unatoka biashara
10:59kwenye biashara utapanga sijui mtaji
11:00unatoka hapa hapa unafanya hivi unafanya
11:02hivi utapiga hesabu zako zote lakini
11:04unexpected events ni vitu ambavidi
11:06uvijue kabisa kama vinatokea ped ni vitu
11:08ambavyo hujavipanga changamoto dharura
11:11huwa zinatokea kwa hicho ni kitu cha
11:13kwanza cha pili kwenye hiyo swala kwamba
11:16kwa nini nashauri mtu kwamba aanze
11:18kwenye kawaida ya maisha ni kwamba kila
11:20unavyozidi kupiga
11:22step moja kwenda step nyingine
11:24unavyopanda juu kwenye ngazi unakutana
11:26na changamoto mpya ndio kuna zile shida
11:27za matajiri matatizo ya changamoto za
11:29matajiri
11:29>> rich people problem rich people problem
11:31kwa hiyo ni kwamba ni ile kwamba
11:32unapopanda juu unakutana na changamoto
11:34yake na kwa sababu na changamoto ikiwa
11:36huko hivi na hu ndio uzuri ni kwamba
11:38unapokuwa unapojipa muda kwamba unaanza
11:40unafanya huku unapanda juu umenunua nani
11:43sound system nzuri sauti inatoka video
11:46ni mbovu ukarekebisha video kutoka video
11:48mwanga mwanga baada ya sijui advertising
11:51na nini vyote hivyo hizo changamoto
11:53ukisema kwamba ujikusanye zote alafu
11:54ujikusanye wakati mmoja utakuta ni
11:56maskini anakutana na hip problems ambao
11:58hutatob
11:59>> so basically ambacho mimi nimekuja
12:01kupata picha baada ya napendanga sana
12:03kuself reflect na ningemshauri pia mtu
12:05yeyote yaani kwenye maisha mimi
12:07napendanga tu kukaa na kujitafakari kwa
12:08mfano toka nimeamka asubuhi nimekutana
12:10na nani nimeongeaje naye je yule yule
12:13bolt ama yule mama pale hivo kwa hiyo
12:15ile self reflection inasaidia Kwa hiyo
12:17tukija kwenye hii issue ya kink
12:19naaminiki sana kwenye kujipanga. Naamini
12:21sana meesha twice cut once. Ni kweli
12:24>> ni muumini wa hicho kitu pia. Alafu pia
12:26imani yangu nyingine kubwa ni kwamba
12:28yaani kuna mtaalamu mmoja hivi msomi
12:30kweli dot magara anakuambia wasomi hai.
12:33[kicheko]
12:34Huyo jamaa alisemanga akipewa lisaa la
12:37kukata mti atatumia dakika 30 kusharpen
12:40ax. Ni
12:40>> kweli
12:41>> ukifuatilia mwanangu kuna quotes nyingi
12:42za kumfanya mtu abaki kwenye
12:44kuoverthink. Eh
12:45>> yaani zipo nyingi sana lakini inabidi
12:48sasa mtu uwe na ukae ujitathmini uje na
12:52mindset itakuwa kusaidia. Ndio mimi
12:53nilichokuja kugundua kwa sababu mwangu
12:55ukitafuta sababu za
12:58>> kusubiria kufanya kitu unaenda ndani ya
13:00saikolojia ule mtu unagundua mara nyingi
13:03mtu ambaye anajificha kwenye mwambuli wa
13:04mimi najipanga mim najikusanya
13:07>> mara nyingi yule mtu ni uoga. Sio kwamba
13:08kweli anajali kwenye ile hisabati. Ni
13:10>> kweli
13:11>> kwa sababu ukijali ile hisabati utawahi
13:13kuanza. kuna downside na kuna upside za
13:15kuanza kitu mapema sindio?
13:16>> Kwa hiyo unakuta mara nyingi sana mtu
13:18akiwa anasema labda kwenye kuanza
13:20podcast
13:21>> kuna hofu inakuja. Mfano mimi sikufithi
13:23mimi I'm so scared of the day ambayo hii
13:25podcast itakuja kuwa kubwa kiasi cha
13:27kwamba it is very influential. M
13:29>> yaani guest akitokea kwenye hii podcast
13:32kila mtu akimwangalia hivi yaani yaani
13:34kwamba yaani unafika ile set ambayo
13:36ukicheza vibaya you can be a threat
13:40yaani umeona and I do not want that
13:42umeona lakini ni problems of winning too
13:45good ukifanya vizuri sana watu wakapenda
13:48>> utajikuta tu hivo but hiyo nayo ina
13:50implication zake. Sasa ambacho mimi
13:52nimekuja kugundua mara nyingi wengi
13:54tunaojifanyanga labda tuna tunajipanga
13:57mwanangu huwanga ni kuogopa ile
13:59repercation ya kuanza ama kuogopa
14:02kuanguka kuogopa kufil the fear of
14:04failure. Pia ningependa kuongeza hapo
14:05kuna mboa ana hofu ya mafanikio kwa
14:08sababu ni ile pointi kwamba
14:10sababu ni ile kwamba mfano nikupe mfano
14:12umesema kama hiyo isia kwamba
14:14>> unahofia kwamba kuna siku utakuja kuwa
14:16mkubwa alafu podcast yako itakuja kuwa
14:19influen labda seme ni kwa Tanzania East
14:21Africa au globally
14:23>> kwa hiyo ni kwamba mtu anaangalia anaona
14:25kwamba okay kuna mtu fulani alifanya
14:26kitu fulani ah umeona kesi zake kesi zao
14:29ni moja mbili alikuwa anaangalia m bora
14:31mimi nibaki na hizi kesi zangu za mwenye
14:32nyumba za nini za nini kuliko hizo kes
14:34zapelekana mahakamani milioni 100
14:35milioni 200 kwa hiyo hiyo nao ni
14:36changamoto ambayo watu wengi wanayo
14:38kwamba
14:39>> kumbe kumbe mimi nilidhani ni fear of
14:41failure tu kumbe kuna hadi fear of
14:42success
14:42>> fear of success ipo na hao wengi nawakut
14:44>> I feel like you it's a rich problem
14:46>> yeah sa the funny thing is problem the
14:49funny thing is the funny thing is
14:50>> unakuta mtu hajaanza anachuta [kicheko]
14:53kama ni hajawahi hajawai kushinda yeye
14:56kaamua
14:57>> kwamba mimi bwana nikifanya hichi kitu
14:58nitafanikiwa alafu sitaki
15:00>> alfu mimi fanikiwa atanikerafanikiwa
15:01sitaki nitakasirika
15:02>> alafu itanikwaza kinamna fulani nikwa
15:04nini
15:05>> wacha nipewe na wanangu wa boda boda
15:06hapa [kicheko]
15:07wanangu wa Simba na Yanga ambao sio
15:08mbaya sio kwamba tunamsema mtu anapenda
15:10mpira kwa sababu mwenyewe ni mmoja
15:11shabiki mkubwa sana mpira lakini kwamba
15:13fanya kitu
15:15>> kama unaona unaweza kufanya vizuri
15:17kifany okay
15:18>> ukifanya watu watakulipa ukifanya watu
15:20watajifunza
15:21>> mimi ambavyo sasa nilitoka kwenye yule
15:24mtu ambaye anapenda sana kupiga hizo
15:26hisabati alafu anachelewa kwanza
15:28nilikuja kugundua mwanangu yaani leo hii
15:30bro ukitaka hata kufungua kampuni hata
15:32kutaka kufanya chochote yote mwangu
15:34unaweza ukaanza bila hata shilingi 100.
15:36Okay.
15:37>> Sitaki tu kugusia kwa mfano yaani kwenye
15:39mchakato wa kwanza hii podcast mume
15:40wangu hela imetoka
15:41>> of course
15:42>> yaani imekuwa niki yaani ni issue fulani
15:45nzito hivi kwa sababu vitu vingi
15:46nilikuwa nataka vikae kidogo katika
15:48standard ambazo zina match yaani ndio
15:50kuna kugrawow ila tutatokea hapa lakini
15:52nikaja kugundua 90% ya vitu ambavyo
15:55tunaogopanga kuanza you can start for
15:57free mwanangu watu wanaokuja kutatua
15:59hilo tatizo ni mawinga hivi unajua winga
16:02ni mtu ambaye
16:04ha winga wanadefine Lo zote mwanangu
16:07>> ndio inakuja kwenye hyo pointi kwamba
16:08[kicheko]
16:09>> yaani mtu hana duka hana wateja anakujua
16:12wewe una wateja anakujua wewe una duka
16:14sijui umeelewa unaweza ukadhani winga
16:15inabidi awe na wateja sindio [kicheko]
16:18>> inakuwa ni kwamba ni yeye kakaa akasema
16:21>> ameona kuna vitu anajua anajua una
16:23sehemu anajua watu wana shida
16:25>> eh
16:25>> anajua sehemu vitu vinauzwa kwa bei
16:27fulani
16:28>> unafanya hiyo kazi
16:29>> sasa sitaki kujiletea shida lakini
16:31uwinga ukikuwa winga mzuri kimataifa mtu
16:34anakuta ita Bujwa of course [kicheko]
16:37of course of course of course BJ Solomon
16:41Shadrak [kicheko] sa wewe ni winger pro
16:43max yaani wewe unagonga deals
16:45>> safi kabisa
16:46>> nzito nzito yaani deals fulani fulani
16:47hivi lakini basically mimi naonanga tu
16:50uwinga ni neno ambalo linatumikanga kama
16:52kuwa kuwashusha morali vijana ambao
16:55wanafanya yaani inadogosha kwa sababu m
16:57wangu ujue kila mtu winga
16:59>> kiuhalisia kiuhalisia ndio hiv sababu ni
17:02kwamba ni mtu anajua vinapouzwa kwa bei
17:03nzuri unakuja kununua yeye anakuwa
17:06katikati ni tunatofautiana tu digree za
17:07uwinga
17:08>> hata yule boss unayemuita bosi anaduka
17:09kako sindio
17:10>> naye ni winga anab
17:12>> winga anatoa china analeta of course
17:14>> wachina naye ni winga anatoa rasilimali
17:16ya afrika anachangana yaani lakini sasa
17:19mtu tu kukudogosha yule bwana winga
17:22alafu nikiongea hivo anasema jamaa winga
17:23anajitetea wadau sio kweli
17:25>> anakwambia anakwambia biashara ni tatu
17:27dar es salaam uinga utapiri na udarali
17:29[kicheko]
17:33hivi Utapeli sio uwinga.
17:35>> Ah hapanainga
17:37mawinga mawinga wamenyooka. Wanaoenda
17:40upande wa pili ambao hawajanyooka ndio
17:41tunaita mat
17:42>> kati ya kazi nzuri sana ni hiyo tusema
17:44sasa ukiuita winga utajikuta sasa kila
17:46mtu mfano le ukisema hii tunaweka kodi
17:47ya mawinga I feel like ni kama kila mtu
17:50ni winga sasa yaani winga yaani
17:52definition ya winga kuna namna haijakaa.
17:54But either way tumekuja kwenye topic ya
17:56winga kwa sababu tulikuwa tunaongelea
17:57issue moja kwamba vitu vingi tunadhani
17:59kwamba unahitaji labda frame unahitaji
18:01nini na nini. Sasa hapo ndio nilikuwa
18:03nataka tuingie kwenye
18:04>> section nyingine kwamba mwanzoni
18:06ulivyokuwa unaongea pale wakati
18:07unajitambulisha ukention kitu kama
18:09biashara za mitandao na vitu kama hivyo
18:10sindio?
18:11>> Ndio. Nadhani zamani ulikuwa unafungua
18:16frame kariak kwa sababu kuna watu wengi
18:18wanapita sindio mwana
18:19>> kweli ni kweli. Lakini mwangu siku hizi
18:21teknolojia imekuwa mwanangu. Unajua
18:22biashara biashara ukisema biashara za
18:24mtandaoni
18:26sio tu forex sio tu sijui betting sijui
18:28nini nini. Biashara ya mtandaoni hata
18:29nikiuza mapazia mtandaoni ni biashara
18:31mtandaoni umeona? Sasa naonanga kama pia
18:34watu wanazidogosha pia unaskia tu ah
18:36yule biashara biashara zake za mtandaoni
18:37si unajua tena. Eh
18:39>> lakini bro unaweka frame kari kwa sababu
18:41gani? Yaani turnover ya watu ni kubwa
18:44pale sindio? Yaani traffic
18:46>> watu wengi wataona mzigo bro ilipia ads
18:48mwanangu ukaweka hata product yako tu
18:51online watu wengi wana watu wengi
18:53wanaona yaani ukiwa unaweka status
18:55unapata viewers hata 100 na wewe ukaenda
18:57kuweka duka lako Sinza angalia nani
18:59anaingia watu wangapi wanaenda kuona
19:01mzigo wako huyu mwenye status 100 ama
19:03huyu ambaye anaduka pale labda sehemu
19:05fulani
19:06>> unajua changamoto changamoto kubwa
19:08ambayo kwa Tanzania kwa Tanzania sababu
19:11sio kwamba ni issue global sio kwamba ni
19:13issue global kwa sababu nchi nyingi
19:14zinatoka kwenye issue ya
19:16>> ya watu kwenda physical dukani watu
19:18wanaenda kwenye issue ya kwamba mtu
19:19ananunua online na anatumiwa kwa hiyo
19:20hamna haja ya kwenda dukan lakini kwa
19:22Tanzania watu wengi ni kwamba kitu
19:24chochote ambacho inahusiana na pesa hapo
19:25tunaongelea maswala yaani pesa alafu na
19:27mtandao tunaongelea forex tunaongelea
19:29crypto tunaongelea biashara yote ya
19:30mtandaoni watu wana ni utapeli hiyo ni
19:32hofu kubwa sana naelewa kwa nini ni kwa
19:34nini
19:34>> na ninaelewa kwa sababu kuelewa kwangu
19:36ni kwamba ni ile kwamba kuna ile kwamba
19:38mtu ashaibiwa kwa mtu ana trauma
19:39>> m
19:40>> anahisi kwamba mtu yeyote wa mtandaoni
19:42kwa hiyo ukasema kuna labda hata
19:43mwenyewe mawingi anaona wanapata
19:45>> lakini hapo labda ni kuchallenge
19:46tukisema kwamba ni mtu alishaibiwa mbona
19:48biashara za mtondi zimeanza hivi
19:49karibuni alafu watu wanaoziogopa sio
19:50kwamba zilikopi before wakaibiwa yaani
19:53hawajawai kuibiwa mtandaoni lakini bado
19:55ni wazito kufanya hizo biashara unadhani
19:56ni kwa nini
19:57>> kuna kuna huyo ambayo aliibiwa alafu
19:59kuna hawa ambao ni kwamba hawataki
20:00kubadilika moja ya changamoto kubwa ndio
20:03zile zile roho za za Newton Isaac Newton
20:06at
20:07na [kicheko] motion motion kwao ni
20:09kwamba unapotaka kwamba you have to na
20:12extra force kwamba inabidi force kwamba
20:13labda ndio serikali itoe tamko au watu
20:16wengi wanafanya ndio watahama huko
20:18lakini watu wengi ni ile kwamba
20:20>> ah si nipo hapa nipo comfortable
20:21>> sasa unadhani kwa nchi za wenzetu
20:23ilikuwaje pale mwanzoni wao wakaanza
20:25kupokea lakini kwetu ni kama kuna
20:27friction kubwa na hii friction ni kwa
20:29nini inatokea kwenye generation ya watu
20:31ambao sio gen kwa mfano kwa sisi
20:33jenzimwango kushuka chini
20:35>> ni kati ya generation ambayo okay kuna
20:37mtu kuna rafiki yangu mmoja hivi
20:38WhatsApp status anapendanga kuandika
20:40vitu vizuri sana
20:41>> anaitwa rapa
20:42>> sijawai kumuona sura sijui kama nitakuja
20:44kumuona disko na kukufa he is a very
20:46great brother
20:47>> jamaa anasemanga biashara ya uvivu ni
20:51biashara is a billion dollar industry of
20:53course
20:53>> jamaa ananiambia kwamba yaani hii
20:55generation yetu ni generation ambayo
20:57hata chips tunataka tumtume boda
20:59>> akuletee
20:59>> atuletee lakini ukiangalia age ya juu
21:01yetu bro hauna frame
21:05Kwa nini
21:06>> unataka ufanye naye nini? [kicheko]
21:08Yaani wewe mtoto kujiheshimu unataka
21:11kumuibia nani? Sasa unadhani ni kwa
21:13nini? Yaani ni kwa nini wote
21:14hatukuepogi? Maana hizi biashara hi
21:16yaani kufanya biashara mtandoni si ndio
21:17kumeanza sasa hivi?
21:18>> Lakini kwa nini kuna hii discrepancy?
21:21>> Hii edet yetu we are so to we love it
21:25lakini wale kule wanakuwa na friction
21:27nayo unadhani
21:28>> yaani let us try and think ni kwa nini
21:30hapo iko?
21:31>> Nahisi nahisi hii ni niko neno na
21:33mahesab hesabu yangu ni kwamba moja ya
21:35hesabu yangu kubwa sana nahisi ni ile
21:38hata kwa nje moja ya sababu kwa nini wao
21:40wamezoea ni
21:42>> kuzoea swala la cashess economy.
21:44>> Okay. Okay.
21:44>> Cash economy kuwa kwamba mtu sio lazima
21:46ashike pesa ili anunue kitu amkabidhi
21:48mtu mwingine pesa ni kwamba ni ile
21:50kwamba ni namba zimetoka kwako zimeenda
21:51kwa mwenzake na mwenzake amzipokea
21:53amekutumia mzigo wako.
21:54>> Hiyo ni kitu ambacho generation yetu
21:56sisi tumezoea kwa sababu ndio mpesa
21:59tunaongelea mpesa tunaongelea simu benki
22:00tunaongelea kila kitu kila mmoja
22:02anajitahidi kufanya.
22:03Okay. Okay. Nimeanza kukuelea.
22:05>> Kufanya iwe as smooth as possible
22:07kupunguza nini kupungua ambayo sio
22:10lazima ushike pesa. Ni kwamba wewe
22:12unaenda unaenda benki tuseme kama ni
22:14kazi au ni wapi wamekulipa.
22:16>> Unaenda supermarket unaswipe. Unaenda
22:18wapi unaswipenda wapi? Kila sehemu
22:20unapoenda wewe yaani mimi sijawai
22:22kufikiria hicho kitu.
22:24ni moja ya vitu ambavyo sasa kwa wengine
22:26ndugu zetu wa zamani kwamba wenyewe
22:28walikuwa walikuwa wanalipwa keshuka
22:30mshahara unaambiwa unavaa vibaya ili
22:32hata sijui [kicheko]
22:33>> ni bahasha ni bahasha kwa hiyo ni mtu
22:35ambaye amezoa kwamba ni kutembea na pesa
22:36mkononi sasa huyo mtu
22:38>> huyo mtu ambayo huyo mtu ambaye
22:39[kicheko]
22:40>> amezoea kushika sijui laki yake la
22:42milioni moja yake ameishika mkononi
22:43alafu unakuja kumpa sijui hesabu za
22:45kwamba eti atume kwanza kwanza alafu
22:47ndio apoke mz unamuonaje [kicheko]
22:49>> wewe
22:51>> ukikim
22:53Hapana hapana
22:54>> basi yaani ni kama zamani wale wazee
22:57ambao walikuwa ama wale kaka zetu wajua
22:59wakiwaita wazee
23:00>> of course
23:01>> zamani uzee ni heshima lakini siku hizi
23:03ni kama wanamtusi mtu bro [kicheko]
23:05>> hivo lakini yaani genes ile ya zamani
23:07walikuanga wanaweka jani hapa ukipita
23:10ukiona jani fulani unajua huyu mimi
23:12generation ya wazazi wangu ilikuwa hivo
23:14wananihadithia enzi hizo ilikopogi
23:16ukitaka kucommunicate na mtu unambia
23:17bana mimi nitapita sehemu fulani
23:19nikisogeza tu jiwe fulani
23:20>> ama Majani la mgomba nikikaa hivi utajua
23:22mimi
23:22>> nimepita
23:23>> tutakutana cha [kicheko]
23:25>> lakini baadaye walivyokuja kumigrate
23:27kwenye hizi moderns of communication
23:29waliingia kirahisi na nini na nini
23:30>> kwa hiyo nikaelewa jibu lako kwamba hawa
23:33jamaa
23:34>> hivi vitu vimekuja all over a sudden kwa
23:36hiyo ni ngumu sana wao wakaaccept change
23:38ila sisi tumekuwa kwenye ile mpesa mdogo
23:41mdogo unaweka hela kwenye simu unaekaa
23:43kwenye simu mtu yeyote siumia
23:46nini kwa sababu ndio utaratibu ambao
23:49tunaufanya kwa simu ya kub mambo
23:50yakienda vibaya tutapigia custom care
23:52ama tutarevala yaani kuna vizuri kabisa
23:55maisha yanaendelea
23:57>> kosa ndio hiyo watu kubadilika tu hapo
23:58ambapo napo napo naoshukuru ni kwamba
24:01watu wengi inawabidi waanze kubadilika
24:03maana haitakuwa kwamba tuseme kwa mfano
24:06unanunua mzigo wewe huku ni mkazi wa
24:07mwanza unanunua mzigo Dar es Salaam
24:09>> haitakuwa kwamba kila siku inabidi utoke
24:10uchukue basi au uchukue ndege ukimbizane
24:12nayo mpaka Dar es Salaam uje ukimbie
24:14kariakoo ukimbizane na watu tena ununue
24:15alafu baada ya hapo tena inabidi
24:18upumzike au kama si kupumzika urudi tena
24:20Yeah. na na ya mabadiliko ilivyo ni
24:22kwamba ukigoma kuyafuata brother
24:25anaadhibu vibaya mno kwa sababu unaona
24:26kama hivy utabidi uingie extra cost
24:29yaani ile laki [kicheko] yako
24:30>> inabidi sasa uingie hapo uweke l 3aki
24:32sijui
24:32>> itabidi upande wewe uende urudi un
24:34kurudi baada ya hapo kukaa sababu sio
24:37kwamba utakuja Dar es Salaam kama unaani
24:38utakaa na ndugu au kama utakutana na
24:40ndugu ndugu wengi hawakai kariakoo
24:41>> ni kweli
24:42>> watakuwa wanakaa bunji wanakaa tegeta
24:43>> alfu pia kuna namna kama hawa ndugu
24:45watahisi kama vile yaani kwamba eh yaani
24:48kwamba [kicheko] sisi ungeleta tu
24:49>> mtu ana nyumba yake ya vyumba vitatu
24:51watoto wamejaa alfu na unakuja
24:52>> kuna namna yaani kuna namna hatokuambia
24:55lakini kuna namna yaani inakuwa kama
24:57vile
24:57>> kwa unaweza ukaisort hivyo kwamba
24:58unapiga tu simu mhusika anakutumia picha
25:01unaconfirm naye unalipa anaconfirm mzigo
25:04unatumwa kama ni kago au ni nini kwenye
25:05basi treni ndivyo unakufikia smooth
25:08>> ujue ujue mimi wakati nafikiria nikawa
25:10nasema hii issue ya mabadiliko na
25:12changes kwenye hizi hii mifumo na vitu
25:14kama hivyo baadaye sisi
25:18>> tunaweza tukaja kuja kuonekana kama vile
25:19tumepitwa na wakati ni kitu gani
25:21kinachoweza kuja baadaye ambacho wewe
25:22unakipicture
25:23>> kitakachokuja kutufanya sisi tuone
25:25kwamba that is weird?
25:26>> Okay.
25:27>> M ambacho naacho kichwana lakini
25:28natamani sana kusikia yaani wewe
25:29unadhani kwa sisi tunavyoona wazazi
25:31maana ha wazazi wetu wao pia ni cool
25:34wakiangalia wazee wa nyuma wasema
25:36[kicheko]
25:37>> yaani nyinie mlikuwa mnaishi hivo kwa
25:39sababu unakuta kuna wazazi kuna wazee
25:42mpaka wanaanza kazi simu bado zilikuwa
25:44hazijaja. Simu zilikuwa hazijaja na zile
25:45simu za mkononi zile au simu sijui za
25:47barua za simu zile. Safi. Kwa hiyo
25:49>> simu ya maneno 10
25:50>> simu ya maneno 10 ile [kicheko]
25:52>> nakufa kesho 10,000 leo
25:55>> chap chap na hapo inabidi uweke nani
25:57uweke sijui barua
25:59sijui majina lazima wake yote moja ya
26:03vitu ambavyo nahisi vitawaacha watu sana
26:06>> ambao ni kwamba kuna ambao wanaadjust
26:08mojawapo ni issue ya AI wanaita sijui
26:11akili bandia
26:12>> humo humo na mimi ndio nilikuwa nak
26:13>> hiyo ni kitu ambacho inani kwa sababu
26:14ukiangalia ukiangalia tu historia
26:15inavyoenda kwamba
26:16>> m
26:17>> unakuja kwenye dunia dunia inakuja issue
26:19ya inakuja simakuja kuna watu bado
26:21walikuwa wabishi kwa sababu kuna ile
26:24kwamba kuna mtu anasikia maongezi yangu
26:26kuna mtu wa nini
26:27>> ikatoka kwenye internet ikaja hapa ikaja
26:28swala la internet ikaja kuwa big deal
26:30lakini watu wakaipzea kwa sababu kuna
26:32watu kiukweli watu internet imewakuta
26:34bado ni vijana mpaka leo sio sio wazuri
26:36kwenye internet wanajua vile basic
26:38staffs ambazo ni WhatsApp
26:39>> mtandao utakuharibu nakuambia [kicheko]
26:43>> kitu kama hicho hapo
26:44>> yule yule mtoto karibikia mtandaoni
26:45mafre maso
26:46>> of maf sijui nini Sasa ukitoka hapo
26:49inakuja sasa kwenye isha ya kilandia.
26:51Kilib bandia imetukuta sisi wakati alafu
26:52ndio mara nyingi inakuwa hivyo kwamba
26:54mkiwa vijana
26:55>> huu muda ambao mnakamatika mnatafuta
26:57sijui kwa sala familia kujitafuta mara
26:59sijui unamaliza chuo unafanya nini.
27:01>> Kwa hiyo huo muda sasa inakuja kwenye
27:03hiyo issue ya inakuja issue ya
27:04kilibandia kwamba kuna mtu atakuwa
27:05anatumia kuna ambao watatumia kwa sababu
27:08ni kama internet wazee wanapotumia
27:09>> wanatumia som hawatumii lakini hawatumii
27:11to the potential. Mimi nadhani kwa mfano
27:14baadaye inaweza ikaja kuwa challenge
27:15sana nilikaa siku moja nikawa na vision
27:18miaka ya mbele najaribu kufanya na
27:19tafiti zangu. Unajua itakuja kuwa ngumu
27:21sana kumpush mtoto akasome kwa bidi
27:23maana sisi bro tumekuwa kwenye unajua
27:25kwanza hata sisi kutumia calculator
27:27ilikuwanga ni mada kwa nini watoto
27:28watumia calculator shule yaani ilikuwepo
27:30wazazi wanasema wataharibika
27:32>> wajua [kicheko] unajua unajua kuna siku
27:34moja naongea na mdogo wangu akaniambia
27:36wanaruhusiwa kutumia calculator form
27:38>> nilishtuka personal nilishtuka maana
27:39mimi nimezoea nahangaika na kufiga namba
27:43zil kwa hiyo tunaweza tukawa tunaweza
27:45tukawa wepesi kuwajaja ha wazee wetu
27:48lakini kuna namna hizi changes
27:49zinakujanga generationally kwa mfano
27:51mpaka kwenye unajua kuna watu wana bif
27:53na tiktok hawataki kabisa kutumia tiktok
27:56>> wakwambia mimi mimi nitakuwa natumia
27:58[kicheko]
28:00mimi nitakuwa mimi nitakuwa tunatumia
28:03Instagram lakini bro katika mtandao
28:05ambao jenzia madogo machen alpha
28:07>> bro unaona kipindi watu wanatumia mi mi
28:10nilikuwanga na bifu na Facebook kill me
28:12yaani yaani
28:13>> lakini insta wazee wanakuambia Facebook
28:16ndio kuna kazi na wako serious
28:18>> na watu wazima hivi kwa mfano ukiwa
28:19unafanya deal unataka kuuza vitu vya
28:21watu wazima na nini na nini ads zilipia
28:23Facebook utapiga hela lakini ukiweka
28:25insta utakutana na madogo fulani ambao
28:27purchasing power iko chini kidogo vitu
28:29fulani fulani lakini watu wenye akili
28:31wanapiga miaka 10
28:34>> tiktok sasa baadaye madogo ha madogo
28:36yaani wameizoa tiktok cha kwamba huwezi
28:38kuja kukambia Instagram is cool how is
28:40Instagram cool how
28:42>> they don't see it umona kwa hiyo nikawa
28:44nawaza sisi hapa baadaye tutapata wakati
28:46mgumu sana mwanangu unajua kuja kuambia
28:47wadogo zetu issue za kusoma maana Dogo
28:49kama anaweza akatumia tu cha GPT
28:51akaingia yaani yaani unajua
28:53unavyomwambia mtoto soma kwa bidi
28:54ukirudi nyumbani fua socks nenda kasome
28:57kwanza kuna washing machine kwa nini
28:58akafue
28:59>> kwa nini akafue sasa inakuja
29:01>> unadhani baadaye itakuja kuwaje yaani
29:02sisi na maana miaka 10 mbele tutakaa nao
29:05tutakuwa tunaangalia nasema oh
29:08>> sasa inakuja hiyo pointi ya kwamba
29:10>> inakuja kwenye pointi ya kwamba kuna
29:11vitu kuna vitu viwili ambavyo ningependa
29:13kusisitiza hapo
29:14>> m
29:15>> kwamba kwa mfano mtu ambaye asome kwa
29:16sababu cha
29:17>> m
29:18>> mimi Mimi mimi my opinion ni kwamba kama
29:23una kama utakuwa umeinvest muda wako
29:25kwenye CHPT
29:26>> m
29:27>> yaani kwamba usikae alafu ukawa uko uwe
29:29wa kawaida yaani kwamba uwe tu bas yaani
29:31kama maswali yako ni ya kawaida au ni
29:33vitu vyako ni vitu vya kawaida yaani
29:34like wewe ni mtu ukichukuliwa wewe na
29:36mtu ambaye atakambiwa kwamba cha TPT ni
29:38hichi cha hapa au AI ni kitu fulani
29:40>> atakachokifanya kama ni wewe ni creator
29:42unatengeneza video mtu akifundishwa
29:44kutengeneza video leo
29:46>> alafuatengeneza [kicheko]
29:48kitu kikafanana inakuwa hamna umuhimu wa
29:50wewe kujua hicho kitu
29:51>> pointi ni kwamba kama kitu umeamua kama
29:53ni internet umeamua kuitumia jitahidi
29:55uim
29:55>> na hiyo ni kati ya sababu ya mimi kutaka
29:57kuweka podcast kwa sababu unajua hadi
29:59aje atokee avatar ambaye ni very
30:00interesting very creative very dynamic
30:02and fluid anaweza kukaa akacontemplate
30:05akajua aliishia wapi ah mwanangu
30:08>> sasa inakuja
30:10inakuja issue nyingine kwamba ai compi
30:14inapo inakuja ni kwamba ni kama internet
30:15ni kwamba ni kwa mfano internet unaumwa
30:18sisi mi nimesoma medical school kwa hiyo
30:21unaelewa kwamba unaandaa presentation ya
30:22ugonjwa
30:30[muziki]
30:40kuna kitu inaitwa punous patience
30:42information wewe ni daktari unaenda
30:43kugoogle pale mara sijui cancer sijui ni
30:45nini utapata base level informations
30:48>> utapata information za juu juu zaidi ya
30:50hapo ni kwamba labda utasoma article na
30:51zenyewe inabidi sasa ukae upitie na
30:53akili yako sa hii analiz utoke na
30:55conamoto
30:58>> kwa hyo mi nadhani labda issue kubwa ni
31:00kwamba unapendanga kuwa na msemo wako
31:02fulani kwamba if you must do it then do
31:04it exceptionally well kwamba yaani
31:07>> hamna pointi ya kwanza kufanya kitu
31:08ukifanya kimza mzani ukifanya kama utaki
31:11sijui nini unajua ni kwamba resources ni
31:13chache nini kidogo lakini umeamua kunywa
31:15maji
31:16Yaani kunywa hayo maji katika sta fulani
31:18ambayo
31:19>> inakuja alafu kitu kingine kuhusu AI. AI
31:21ni kwamba ni bado bado wanaitengeneza
31:24ipo kwenye matengenezo. mfano mfano
31:26mzuri ni mfano mzuri ambao ni changamoto
31:28jana jana nilikuwa na nilikuwa napitia
31:31cryptos
31:32>> nilikuwa naangalia crypto nilikuwa
31:33nimeweka chiti nikamhoji kuhusu
31:35portfolio kuhusu portfolio ya nani ya
31:38crypto nilimtajia coins kadhaa pale
31:40ambazo nazijua hivo sasa nikampa bajeti
31:42ya 1000 aandae portfolio yake ameandaa
31:46bajeti
31:47kapiga pale kapiga hesabu zake ilikuwa
31:49kama 1250 kwa hiyo mpaka hapo unaona si
31:52exact bado ina matengenezo ambayo sawa
31:54>> tunavozidi kwenda inazidi kub boresho
31:55kwa sababu ndio hivakuja na taarifa
31:56nyingi vizuri hivyo hivy kwa hiyo ndio
31:58hiv au mfano mwingine mfano mwingine kwa
32:00watu wampally ndio ikawa unasema kwamba
32:02ni muhimu mtu akiwa anaanza kufanya vitu
32:05aidha akifanya kwa bora sana kis cha
32:06kwamba hata mtu akitumia chvt
32:09>> asifeel left behind of course
32:11>> lakini hasa solo unajua zamani mimi
32:12wakati tunakuwa mimi mzee wangu
32:14alikapogea anapendanga sana kunifundisha
32:15nitumie komputa alikuwanga anaamini
32:17kwamba
32:17>> m
32:18>> miaka ya mbeleni hii ndio itakuwa deal
32:21>> of course
32:21>> kwa akawa anakubali yeye kidogo mpira
32:23ushaenda mbele kwa hiyo aka akawa
32:25anapiga pasi wekafunga
32:27>> we kafu umeona lakini sasa kipindi kile
32:29katika vitu ambavu ananifundisha sana
32:31alikuwanga ni kutangua kuna application
32:33fulani kuna cd fulani hivi type master
32:35>> jinsi ya kutype kwenye keyboard si
32:36unaweka hivi na hivi na hivi na hivi ehe
32:38lakini baadaye
32:40>> zikajika kuja hizi sehemu za quality
32:42quadard hizi smartphones na nini hivo
32:45kwa hiyo mwangu ikagapo yaani hamna
32:46point ya unakuta ushazikariri zile
32:49quality hapa iko hivi hapa iko hivi bila
32:50hata kwenda typing speed typing speed
32:52zamani masekretary
32:54>> ilikuwa
32:56>> [kicheko]
32:58>> umesema typing spe nikakumbuka mwenyewe
33:00nikiwa kama sijui
33:022010 sijui 11 hapo haya mwenyewe
33:04nilikuwa najinoa sana sababu ilikuwa
33:05ndio like unajifunza kwa ukiwa
33:08unaangalia kwenye
33:09[kicheko]
33:10>> unaambia kidole hichi na hichi kinagusa
33:12hapa na hapa hapa hapa hii sijui
33:13vinagusa space sijui nini [kicheko]
33:16>> tutakuwa ukae hivo lakini siku
33:18zilivokuja kwenda baadaye
33:19>> m
33:21>> brptza ukamwambia tu bana andika lile ni
33:24speech ya hivi na hivi na hivi. Kwa hiyo
33:26ukiwa unajua prompt engineering vizuri
33:28unakuta sasa you don't need to be as
33:30competent as the secretary. Yaani yaani
33:33hata kama sasa hivi zina madhaifu miaka
33:35inavyozidi kwenda
33:36>> zinakuwa better exceptionally better.
33:38Yaani
33:39>> sasa inakuja inakuja vitu vitu viwili.
33:41Cha kwanza
33:43>> you being better you being exceptional
33:44that at the fundamentals yao kitu
33:47inakufanya wewe ikija ikfika zikawa si
33:49kwa mfano saasa hivi kuna issue ya AI
33:50agents kuna nini. Kwa hiyo wewe
33:52>> unaadapt ki rahisi.
33:53>> Unaadapt kirahisi sana. Ni sawa na
33:55kusema kwamba eti kwamba tuchukue mtu wa
33:56mtaani umwelekeze sijui nini alafu aje.
33:59>> Hiyo cha kwanza. Alfu cha pili ni kwamba
34:01basics mara nyingi sio kama vile huwa
34:03zinakufa hata kama with advancement na
34:05nini. Okay. Sawa zinachukua zitakufa
34:07lakini at times h zinachukua muda
34:08kupotea
34:09>> kwamba at times bado utahitajika utaipa
34:11haraka. Kuna times uta nini hivo vitu
34:13kama hivi hapo kuna muda bado
34:14vinahitajika. Na hata kama usakutumia
34:16hapo vinakufanya we mshap tu. Kwa sababu
34:17kuna other social skills other nini
34:19unazipata ushap na nini. au thinking kwa
34:22sababu unataipe haraka thinking faster
34:24good posture nini yaani kuna vitu kuna
34:25vitu vidogo ambo vinakuwa person the
34:28nilichokuelewa ni kwamba ukiwa ni mtu
34:29ambaye you can learn typing haraka na
34:32wewe ukaweza kusuced basi wewe ni mtu
34:34ambaye yaani advantage ulionao pale ni
34:36kule kujifunza na nadhani advantage
34:38tulionao sisi tunapoendanga shule maana
34:40nataka tuje kwenye issue za shule pia
34:43>> ni kwamba unakuwa ni mtu ambaye unaweza
34:44kujifunza
34:45>> yaani kudhani kwamba umeenda kusoma
34:47sijui daktari ni mtu ambaye anasifika
34:49kwa sababu sio kwa sababu eti ana elimu
34:50kubwa kubwa sana. No no no kwa sababu
34:52anasoma madude magumu. Kwa hiyo
34:53tunaamini [kicheko] akija kuambia sasa
34:55hivi eh hayo ndio deal inabidi sasa
34:57aingie mzigoni apige haraka haraka ila
34:58sio kwamba eti ndio alishamaliza. No
35:01>> yaani uweza wewe kuadapt. Kwa hiyo
35:03nadhani hicho ndio kitu ambacho kinaweza
35:05kikaja kutusaidia na sisi tusije tukaja
35:08ku ah wazee wa 2020. [kicheko]
35:12Eh wajua unajua hiyo unajitahidi
35:17>> lazima tujitahidi mimi saa ile
35:19tulivyokuwa tunaongea nikakuambia nahisi
35:20kuna kitu kimoja ambacho miaka ya mbele
35:23sisi tutakuja kuonekana ovyo ujue bro as
35:26much as tunaweza tukaadapt
35:29>> hivi unachukuliaje swala la teknolojia
35:32imekuwa kwa kasi sana
35:33>> this is the year 2050
35:35>> kuna ai digital nurses
35:38>> yaani kaka ukiugua hatuhitaji
35:41Nest
35:41>> tuna AI ambaye anaweza akakaa
35:43akakobserve emotions zako akajua
35:45unahitaji maji anaangalia body
35:46temperature anakuletea hichi
35:47anakubadilisha yaani kila kitu yaani
35:49yaani na mama anafurahi bibi mzee ambaye
35:52anahudumiwa na yule pale anafel at peace
35:54na kila kitu in fact anapenda mashine
35:57yake
35:58>> eh kwa sababu haikeri hana emotion ama
36:00ni mtoto kalazwa anakuambia I wanna play
36:03with my robot unakuta robot labda
36:05anaitwa robot eh
36:07>> sio [kicheko]
36:09kwaani sisi Sisi tuna as much as we are
36:12very open sidhani kama tutakuwa okay
36:15kuruhusu binadamu awe replaced hata ni
36:19emotional level na mashine hapo wewe
36:21unakuja kwenye hiyo point kwamba umeona
36:23wad walivyokuwa walivyokuwa wanazuia
36:26kuwa ribani wa issue za nani kwenye
36:30issue za internet na nini nini sio
36:32wenyewe itafika muda ambao a inataki
36:34kuja kureplace si wenyewe utakuja kwenye
36:35kwamba ah hapana
36:37>> eh sisi bwana siwezi kuongea na kompyuta
36:39alfu inipe majibu sahi Lakini kiuhalisia
36:41>> so far it's working ukiachana na
36:43mapungufu ambayo kwamba ni mapungufu
36:44madogo madogo lakini it's working very
36:46kwa sababu
36:46>> yaani bro tunakoelekea unakuta asent you
36:49have failed completely wewe sasa hivi
36:51umekaa zako you are not interesting you
36:53not hujawahi kufanya dangerous things
36:55ukaexperience hard lessons dogo anakaa
36:57na roboti lake la cha GPT analiita you
37:00know everything analiomba ushauri wa
37:01maisha anambia I'm passing through a lot
37:04I need your help in this and this siku
37:06hizi kaka kuna watu wakipitia breakup
37:08kuheal kumove
37:10I have I have a friend. I have a friend.
37:12[kicheko]
37:15I have a friend. Be
37:15>> a friend of Solomon.
37:18[kicheko]
37:20>> Yaani ni kwamba ni na JVTV
37:24ndio mentor
37:26>> ndio daktari
37:28>> yaani
37:28>> ndio therapist.
37:30Kwa hiyo pata picha wewe ukija kuwa
37:32mzazi alafu mtoto wako unajua raha ya
37:35wazazi saa nyingine pointi nzima ya kuwa
37:38na mtoto wako utatabishana wote hapa
37:40lakini hamna mzazi anayekuleta huku
37:42duniani ili ufanye vitu ambavyo yeye
37:43hapendelei. Yaani mzazi atarisk ataenda
37:46atapitia kila kitu lakini anataka wewe
37:49ufulfill mission ya kuprotect ile gasi
37:51yake. Mimi napenda sana jamii za
37:52kimasai. Kuna documentary moja niliona
37:54juzi wamefanya simulizi na sauti great
37:56wanafanya jamaa fulani jamaa anajituma
37:58sana anamkubali k iko siku tutakutana
38:00inshallah yule bro alienda umasaini kule
38:03akakutana na wamasai akawa anapiga nao
38:05stori wale jamaa wanajielezea
38:06wanakwambia sisi kuoa tuna wake wawili
38:10kuna mke mmoja ni mke wa rika yaani
38:12tuseme sisi rika moja kaka wewe ukioa
38:14mke wako mimi nimerudi sijala na na nini
38:16kwa hiyo utaratibu mzima wa maji ya
38:17kuoga na kula na chakula cha jioni
38:18nikisema chakula cha jioni unaelewa
38:19inamaanisha nini mke wa kwanza ni mke wa
38:22harika yaani wewe unanipisha kaka nakula
38:25>> chakula in fact after chakula kama sina
38:28pa kulala nalala lakini mke wa pili ni
38:31mke wa rikalak jamaa akawa anauliza yule
38:32jamaa nyie hamuoni hamuoni tatizo na
38:35hilo swala wakamwambia brother cheza na
38:38vitu vyetu vyote usigusewe ng'ombe zetu
38:41sijui unaelewa
38:42>> yaani jamaa anamwambiaje
38:44>> mimi nitakufa nikitetea ng'ombe zangu
38:47ananiambia brother sisi tunataka mimi
38:49nataka niwe na ng'ombe nyingi kama
38:50babangu yule mshikaji Mimi nilichokiona
38:53ndani yake jamaa anale for the greater
38:56fulfillment ya generation yake. Yaani
38:58anataka yeye akiondoka watoto wake ama
39:02anaacha kitu.
39:03>> Sasa ho hiyo ni changamoto ambayo
39:06tunapitia kwa watu kwa jamii kwa pande
39:09zote kwa watoto
39:10>> na kwa wazazi.
39:12>> Wazazi wana changamoto hii hapa kwamba
39:14unataka unataka na wewe upitie the hard
39:15part. Nakumbuka ilikuwa tulikuwa
39:17tunaongea na mtu kuhusu issue ya hawa
39:19watu kuhusu mambo ya volunteering, mambo
39:20ya.
39:22unakuta unaambiwa ufanye internship
39:24bure.
39:24>> Mh.
39:25>> Kwa sababu gani? Kwa sababu sio kwa
39:27sababu kwamba hospitali haina pesa au
39:28nini. Una taasisi ni kubwa
39:30>> lakini ni kwamba
39:31>> founders au sio founders walioko kwenye
39:34management kule juu wakati na wenyewe
39:36wakati wa kwenye umri wako kama huo huo
39:38walipiga bure
39:39>> y
39:40>> alafu baada ya kupiga bure [kicheko] kwa
39:41hiyo naona kama ni landing curve yako
39:43lakini
39:44>> ndio utakuwa better person.
39:45>> Lakini hiyo ni very selfish. Alafu
39:46inakuja na pointi ya kwamba na sisi sasa
39:48vijana tunakuja kwamba ile unataka
39:52unataka utafute hela ya wewe wa kwako
39:54pekee yako sio kwa ajili yako kwa ajili
39:56yanayofuata ah ya kwako kwa wewe
39:58mwenyewe kwa hiyo ndio ila mtu anakula
39:59anakuwa anti kaka hapo tunaweza
40:01tukafanya session hata ya saa nusu saa
40:03naweza nikaongea kwa hisia nzito katika
40:05kitu kinacho ni kwanza kwenye generation
40:06yetu watu wengi tumeuziwa selfishness
40:09love yourself wewe unakuta mtu
40:12anakuambia na coach nzuri you cannot
40:13call from an empty cup lakini bro you
40:15will never do anything dangerous ukiwa
40:17unajifikiria kama wewe. Hichi kitu mimi
40:19nimeongea kwa hisia muda mrefu
40:21nikielekeza watu kwamba
40:23>> hakuna jamii yoyote hakuna taasisi hata
40:26wazazi wetu kuna baadhi ya vitu
40:28hawafanyi kwa sababu wanafanya for the
40:30kids. That is the highest thing yaani
40:33that is the highest level of
40:34satisfaction utakayoipata if you do a
40:36selfless act. in
40:38>> watu wengi they are so selfcentered ki
40:40bro unajua ukiwa selfcentered kwanza
40:41kazi zote ambazo ni selfcentered
40:43hazilipi fuatilia kazi zote zinazohusu
40:45kugusa maisha ya watu wengi by default
40:47nature ndio itakulipa bro ukianzisha
40:49podcast unaelekeza watu for free kuna
40:51dogo alikuwa anaenda kukata tamaa
40:52atajiua ataangalia hii podcast
40:54atajifunza atasema mimi nilikuwa na
40:55business idea yangu nitaenda sindio
40:57>> hajakulipa chochote it is a free economy
41:00you give them for free sindio help a lot
41:02of people nobody is yaani hamna
41:04>> ila kuna wazee mwanangu kuliko akupe
41:07kodi za anaweza kufanikiwa anakuambia
41:08sasa hiyo
41:09>> anakaa an
41:10>> hiyo bado bado hu yaani yaani
41:12hawafunguki yaani hawakupi hakupi ile
41:15njia ya wewe kutoka sindio lakini kuna
41:17watu wana upendo na watu wengi wenye
41:19upendo bro ni watu ambao unakuta
41:21wanafanikiwa kwa hiyo nilikuwa naelezea
41:22kwamba sisi generation yetu we are so
41:24selfish ndio maana unakuta we see the
41:27way vitu vinarevolve kwetu lakini hiyo
41:29documentary walikuwa nakuambia wale
41:31wamasai wale jamaa alivyokuwa anaongea
41:32nao mwanangu those guys are very
41:34selfless yaani they would do anything
41:37for the Masai tribe unajua ha yaani hata
41:40nchi hata okay I don't know much lakini
41:42I believe hata usalama wa taifa wale
41:44washikaji hata wanajeshi wale ni watu
41:47ambao wanakula kiapo kufa kwa ajili ya
41:49nchi that is very selfless it is a very
41:51noble job si unanielewa of course
41:53>> yaani mtu anayerisk maisha kwamba
41:55ikitokea wewe unataka kutempa na amani
41:56ya nchi yupo radhi atangulie mbinguni
41:59utamkuta
41:59>> lakini anataka [kicheko]
42:01twende wote like hamna shida kama wewe
42:03si unadili unatam
42:04>> hebu fikiria generation yetu hii unaenda
42:06jeshini We si you love yourself love
42:08utaishi maisha gani [kicheko] yaani wewe
42:10utafanya nini yaani hiyo ni changamoto
42:13>> kwa hio hicho kitu kinakuja kutok
42:14kureflect kwamba baadhi ya vitu ambavyo
42:17wazazi wetu wanafanyanga ni very
42:18selfless wanaamini ukifanya hivi ndio
42:21utaendeleza generation
42:23>> kwa hiyo sasa wao wanachoeexpect kwetu
42:25ni ile wewe kukaa kwao kujifunza kwao
42:28watu wazima wengi ambao mimi nimekutana
42:30nao wanapenda sana kama wewe ni huna
42:33egoo huna nini wanakufundisha bro
42:35>> watakaa na wewe watakusikiliza
42:36watakufundisha watakuambia bana pita
42:38hivi pita vile hivyo na hivyo umkute tu
42:40kakaa kwenye mudi nzuri ni kweli
42:42>> sasa sisi baadaye bro ai mtoto wako
42:46anaenda kuomba consultation kwa ai maake
42:49ai anajua vitu vingi vya biashara kuliko
42:50wewe wewe muda wa biashara zungua
42:52unasema unajua biashara kodi tr kodi
42:55ulijaribu wewe jaribu kafanye baadaye
42:58ikibuma unambia mtoto wako da mimi bana
43:00kwenye biashara unaweza hata ukamwadhaia
43:02stori yako ya ulivyofeli atasema at
43:03least ulikuwa una gats za kujaribu
43:05umeona hivi
43:06mzee sasa mimi ndio naona kama baadaye
43:08mwanangu tutakuwa tunagombana na watu
43:10wote kwa sababu in level
43:14competent are you compared to ai kwa
43:16sababu kidogo anaenda consultation kwa
43:18AI kwa CHGT sasa unamwambia nini yaani
43:21>> hiyo hiyo
43:22>> unamshauri nini ambacho [kicheko]
43:24amambia so sasa kama mmegombana kwa hiyo
43:27unakuta makampuni yale ambayo
43:29yanacontrol zile issue za CHGPT ama nini
43:32na nini na ninavyosema CHGPT sianishi
43:34cha GPT of course for legal reasons I
43:35have to say that lakini
43:37those guys wana influence kubwa kwenye
43:40malezi ya watoto wako moja kwa moja.
43:41Yaani unakuta kuna watu wengine wapo
43:43responsible na kupass values na morals
43:46kwa mtoto wako wewe ambaye inabidi wewe
43:48akiumwa usiku utoke ukamtibu yaani
43:50akikoa inabidi ufe wewe ukiwa
43:52unampambania yeye. Every mother knows
43:54kwamba you have to be very selfless for
43:56your kid. Lazima yaani ujitoe beyond
43:59reasonable level kwa ajili ya mtoto
44:00wako.
44:01>> Sasa ukiwa [kicheko] ukiwa unafanya hivo
44:04alafu mama mtoto wako anakuambia you
44:05know mom it's not like I don't love you.
44:08It's just this knows more than you. I
44:10feel like hapo ndio tutakuja kuwa na
44:11mtanange mzito sana na aajua tunatokaje
44:15hapo
44:16>> kwangu mimi kwenye issue hii hapo kuna
44:18kwenye kujifunza kwenye kujifunza vitu
44:21>> kuna swala la experience. Sawa?
44:23Experience is a very good teacher hii
44:25hapo. Kwa hiyo inakuwa ni kwamba mfano
44:27mimi na mdogo wangu nitamwelekeza
44:30atafuata nitamwelekeza kitu anaweza
44:33asifanye at times afanye. Sio kwamba
44:34anaweza fanya times afanye
44:36>> ataenda atakutana na washauri wake.
44:38Unajua mwisho wa siku sio AI pekee yake
44:41>> kwa sababu na jamii nayo inawashauri
44:44watamshauri
44:45>> ataenda atafanya anaweza akafanikiwa.
44:48>> Yep.
44:49ni nzuri au ni mbaya ina mazuri yake na
44:51mabaya kwa sababu akifanikiwa kuna
44:52mabaya kwamba nini lakini at some time
44:54ni mzuri kwamba amefanikiwa
44:56>> lakini sasa kununa ile kwamba ameenda
44:57amefeli moja mimi ni mmoja waumini
45:00wakubwa kwamba nikikushauri y
45:02>> nakuacha sikulazimishi na ni ushauri sio
45:05shuruti ni ushauri kafanye ukikosea na
45:08uhakika next time nikiwa naongea maskio
45:10yatakuwepo kama sio hivyo
45:12>> ah dunia itakupanish itakupanish
45:14>> hapo babangu anapendanga kusema wewe ni
45:17muhimu sana ukakosea kitu mapema um kuna
45:20biashara moja nilikuwa natamani gi
45:21kuanza nikamshirikisha nikamwambia baba
45:24mtaji hapa ni milioni moja za kitanzania
45:26>> m
45:27>> lakini nikipata mbili itakuwa vizuri
45:30>> an eventu mabangu akaniangalia
45:33akaniambia ni biashara gani nikamweleze
45:34sasa mzee kidogo anakuwanga strict
45:36huendi tu kumwambia sijui biashara
45:38biashara yaani anataka ajiridhishe
45:40>> hamna namna yoyote hiyo biashara inaweza
45:42ikaanza bila hela yake alafu sasa ndio
45:44anakuja pale kama enjoy investor lakini
45:46unaweza ukadhani pamoja na mchakato wote
45:48huo
45:48>> m
45:49>> ikipotea hiyo hela itamuuma sindio?
45:52>> Sasa siku moja mwanangu nimekuja kuwa
45:53mkubwa akaniambia yaani mwanangu katika
45:54kitu mimi nafurahi ulivyopotezanga ile
45:56hela [kicheko]
45:58ndio akanifundisha kitu bwana akaniambia
46:00ni muhimu sana ukafanya makosa makubwa
46:03mwanzoni
46:04>> yaani unavyokosea mwanzoni kaka maanake
46:06wewe likelihood utakuja kurudia kosa
46:08baadaye ni ndogo. You be more wise. kwa
46:11nadani ulivyokuwa unasema kwamba yaani
46:13bora umpe mtu advice
46:16>> ili azingue akitokea hapo
46:19>> atakuwa
46:19>> kwa sababu mwisho wa siku huwezi
46:20kumshikilia huwezi ndio kwamba
46:21unamshikilia mtu anakuja kufanya makosa
46:23ya kitoto sana uzeeni
46:26>> ndio mtu anashika hela nyingi
46:28>> mara ya kwanza ukubwani hela za ada hela
46:31za nini
46:32>> anafanya kitu cha kipuzi huo ni yaani ni
46:34wewe kwamba ni ile pointi ya kwamba
46:36people should watu mhusika naye inabidi
46:38ajaribu
46:39>> yapi yapi yapi yapi
46:40>> wewe
46:42wako wengi sana kukomvince kwamba
46:44ukijaribu unachote ulichonacho
46:46>> lakini sa unafanya hiv ukiona unafanya
46:48hivy unasikiliza watu wenye uzoefu
46:52>> kitu chochote kiuhalisia
46:53kinakurahisishia kama ukiwa msikivu ai
46:56ipo kukupa best nani knowledge iliyopo
47:00yaani the best according to its own nani
47:03lakini ukienda kwa mtu ambaye anajua
47:05hicho kitu yeye kama yeye personally
47:07atakupa ile atakupa experience
47:09atakupaani ushauri kwa nani ana
47:10experience yake kwamba nimekuwa hapa na
47:11hapa. mfano mzuri mfano mzuri nikupe
47:13mfano mzuri
47:14>> ni watu wakati wakati na wakati nipo
47:172018 19 18 1919 hapo ndio niliposikia
47:21kuhusu mambo ya forex mara ya kwanza
47:23kabisa
47:25>> kutokea hapo kutokea hapo eh
47:27>> ni advance
47:29lakini kutokea hapo mpaka leo
47:31>> nimesoma kozi nyingi sana kozi nyingi
47:35sana ambazo kiuhalisia zilikuwa hazina
47:37pointi ya mimi kuzisoma y
47:39>> nimesoma takataka nimesoma mafundi
47:41nimesoma takataka nikachanganyia hapo
47:43nikasoma tena fundi mwingine nikasema
47:44kwa hiyo ndio hivyo unakuja sasa akija
47:46mtu ambaye anataka nimshauri kwamba
47:47asome wapi
47:49>> namrahisishia kazi kwamba sikia soma
47:52moja mbili tatu nne tanofuata
47:55lakini bwana mbona hiyo ndefu bwana mimi
47:57nataka lianze kesho mbona wewe bwana
47:58mbona wewe bwana anambia ah
47:59>> ehe okay sawa [kicheko] sasa inakuja
48:01sasa hi point kwamba mimi sijui nini
48:03nenda ukishapiga unarudi sasa tunaongea
48:06sasa masikio yanafanya kazi sababu ule
48:08muda maskio yamezi [kicheko] unajua
48:09unajua kuna kitu kuna kitu moja inaitwa
48:11confirmation bias kwamba mtu anakuja
48:14>> ashaandaa majibu yake anakuja
48:16kuyaconfirm wewe [kicheko]
48:19anakuja kuyak
48:19>> hapa sasa tunakuja kwenye mada nzuri
48:21anakuja mtu solo mambo mimi bwana kuna
48:25huyu mkaka tumekutana dada zetu hao
48:27>> of course
48:28>> of course yaani sasa ujue yaani mimi
48:31hapa sasa yaani juzi nikamuona yuko na
48:33mdada mwingine lakini mimi nikawa
48:34namwangalia nikamuuliza yule ni
48:36girlfriend wako akaniambia ahah lakini
48:38mimi najua yule ni girlfriend wake
48:39lakini mimi nataka niach nini nafanyaje
48:42>> huyo mtu anakuja hivyo kaka mtu analiz
48:45[kicheko]
48:46unakuja ni kwamba mtu anakuja anas
48:47anakuja kwamba anakuja
48:50>> anakuhadithia sababu zote za kwa nini
48:52huyo mtu anaweza kaa
48:53>> anaweza kwamba
48:54>> lakini sasa bado ana ile kama bado
48:56anaeka ile kwamba sijui love is blind
48:58ana kama upofu wake kwamba
49:00>> kuna kuna uwezekano anaweza akawa
49:02binadamu
49:03>> alisema alisema
49:04>> kuna uwezekano wa kitu fulani ambao
49:06>> sawa unakuja k kwamba wewe unaonaje
49:09sababu mi m
49:12moja ya njia ya kumshauri mtu
49:13>> yes view hii ni mbinu ya ya
49:15kiinternational ukiona mtu anakuja kwako
49:17ana ushauri ambao anataka umkomfamie
49:19unampiga na swali kama hilo hapa
49:20>> kwamba wewe unaonaje nataka nijue na
49:22upande wako
49:23>> eh wewe unaonaje
49:24>> ili nikijue kutokea upande wako
49:25>> eh
49:26>> sababu
49:26>> alikambia mimi ninavyoona yaani unajua
49:29>> anaanza kukupa stori ya walivyokutana
49:31how the guy is very nice unajua kabisa
49:33ah kwa hiyo unatakiwa nilale huko sio
49:35>> eh yaani [kicheko] unajua kabisa mayai
49:36ambayo si ya kukanyaga unajua kabisa
49:38hapa huku ni mayai
49:39huku ni udongo
49:40>> alafu akishaona anajisahau anakugonga na
49:42moja kwamba yaani lakini mimi I don't
49:44know wewe unaonaje
49:45>> unaonaje
49:46>> anapungua kidogo
49:47>> sasa ehe kuna ile kuna point sasa hapo
49:49inakuja sasa changamoto nyingine inakuja
49:50ni kwamba how close are you to the
49:51person
49:51>> y about
49:53>> if you really care about the person kuna
49:55hard truth inabidi umwambie kwamba sikia
49:58>> moja mbili tatu haikusaidii fanya kitu
50:00kingine
50:01>> hapo ili usonekane you don't care bro na
50:02nani unachomaanisha ni kwamba if you
50:04really care [kicheko]
50:06you have
50:06>> we do care about all our friends yes
50:08Kwa sababu mfano hii issue ya mahusiano
50:12mara nyingi sana unakuta unamshauri mtu
50:14>> m
50:15>> alafu siku mbili tatu wamerudiana yule
50:18mhusika unakuja kuonekana kwamba ni mtu
50:19mbaya sana hujali mafanikio ya wenzako
50:22kwa sababu wewe labda uko single
50:23>> unaonekana mchawi
50:25>> mambo kama haya hapo
50:26>> kwa hiyo ni kwamba ni ile swala ya you
50:28care you care you care at the same time
50:30>> jali amani yako maana ni kwamba ni
50:32unakuwa unaingiza tatizo la mtu kwenye
50:34maisha yako kwa h you have to choose
50:36your words in a very good unabidi uwe
50:38diplomat unajua unajua
50:40>> eh huo huo ndio muda huo ndio muda
50:41busara yako inatestiwa unaongea na mtu
50:44unamsikiliza anajua nini ni vizuri ni
50:47kwamba unakaa unamsikiliza unajua ni mtu
50:48wa aina gani anakuja unamuuliza anaonaje
50:51yeye kama hana mwangaza kabisa
50:54>> japo mimi siamini kwa sababu kama huna
50:56mwangaza kabisa huwezi ukaona tatizuwa
50:59tunapiga stori nikawa nakuambia sisi
51:01tulivyolelewa na mamangu na babangu
51:05>> sijui kama [kicheko]
51:06Anyway bro
51:09walikuwa wanatugonga sana yaani mimi
51:10mimi nimepigwa sana na nawashukuru mno.
51:13Sikuwahi kuamini ipo siku nitaongea hivi
51:15tena on camera kusema nawashukuru
51:16waliniweka. I can't imagine ningekuwa na
51:19wazazi incompetent ningeharibika maybe
51:22maybe hapa sa hivi labda nime right
51:24lakini how wor could I have been
51:26ningekuwa sijagongwa viboko watu wengi
51:28sa hivi wanaamini ukiwa na mtoto wako
51:29usimchape fimbo. Mimi I don't know.
51:32Watoto wakija kuangalia hii video miaka
51:3410 [kicheko]
51:37wakakuja.
51:37>> But that is my point. If you really love
51:39a person you are very restrictive. You
51:42are very you care a lot. Yaani mwanangu
51:45unaweza ukawa yaani mama alikuwa
51:47ananichapa ananiambia mimi nakupenda
51:48sana mwanangu lakini [kicheko] chapa
51:50vibaya unamsemo
51:52kwamba love is hard love is hard true
51:54love is very hard kwamba inabidi kuna
51:56haya maswala sijui ya huruma kuna
51:58maswala ya kumuone kwa sababu jua mwisho
52:00wa siku kuna huruma ya sasa na huruma ya
52:01baadaye unamwonea mtu huruma kwenye kitu
52:03anachokifanya sasa hivi
52:04>> mfano mzuri ndio wewe isha mahusiano
52:06>> unamuonea mtu huruma akiwa anaanza
52:07kuleta zile signs ndogo ndogo alafu
52:09baadaye inakuja kwamba inaanza kuja kuwa
52:11ngumi yeah
52:13>> kwa hiyo ulitakiwa uintervene hapa
52:15mwanzo ukate chanason anasema usiache
52:17pale [kicheko] vituane
52:20wewe umekuja umeacha imeenda mpaka
52:22imfika ndio kama watu wanakuja wanapiga
52:24pasi hadi golini kwako wa alafu
52:26unalalamika mbunga
52:27>> biblia biblia imesema mtoto methali
52:30inasema sijui msamaki akunjwe na nini ni
52:32kwamba ni hiyo pointi ni kwamba ukiachia
52:35kitu kimoja ambacho nimejifunza
52:36>> m
52:37>> kwenye sana sana nilianza kujifunza
52:39kendana na investing
52:40>> ni issue ya compounding
52:41>> kwamba
52:43>> watu kwa nini matajiri wengi wakubwa
52:44sana yaani investment unakuta ni watu
52:46wenye umri mkubwa ni kwa sababu gani
52:49>> ni ile kwamba amekaa alianza alianza
52:51mapema ndio pointi ya kuanza mapema
52:52alianza kwa ile kwamba gross inakuja
52:54kuonekana
52:55>> m
52:56>> kwa hiyo nikupe mfano ni kwamba mtu
52:58anayepata faida 12% kwenye lak
53:00>> m
53:01>> ni mtu anapata faida 12 si y
53:03>> hiyo faida imeenda imeenda ifika miaka
53:05sijui kama 10 20 sa hivi huo ndio muda
53:06ambao kapit yake yaani mtaji wake
53:08umekuwa mpaka imefika milioni moja faida
53:1212
53:13ni laki
53:14>> m
53:15>> wote unapata faida sawa ni compounding
53:16sasa uzuri na ubaya wa compounding ni
53:18moja ni kwamba compounding ipo sidei
53:20zote mbili
53:21>> kwenye mazuri na mabaya
53:22>> kwa hiyo ni kwamba ni swala la uzembe
53:23ile kwamba ndio point procation
53:24inapoanzia kwamba ah ni kwa mfano tu
53:26mimi nilisema jana ah sitafanya mazoezi
53:30ngoja nipumzike kidogo kesho kesho
53:31nitaamka vizuri
53:33>> leo hata nimeamka nikasema m leo
53:35sijaamka vizuri tena kesho na kesho
53:37natamka nasema ah leo jumapili bwana
53:39>> y
53:40>> kesho ni jumamosi
53:42hapo naomba nikukatishe katika kitu
53:44nilichojifunza ni kwamba hasa ukiwa
53:45unafanya hizi good habits hizi routines
53:47na vitu kama hivyo sindio
53:49>> bro jitahidi sana usivunje ile track
53:51record
53:52>> yaani kama hata unafanya mazoezi ama
53:54kama unafanya diet sijui unavuka kitu
53:56fulani sijui
53:57>> kimbiza kimbiza yaani anza yaani yaani
53:59usiache the moment you slow down the
54:01momentum the hardest part in anything is
54:04to start ndio maana mtu anaweza
54:05akashangaa podcast yetu ya leo inaitwa
54:07how to start lakini tumegusa [kicheko]
54:08nyanja nyingi umeona kitu ambacho mimi
54:10kina inanisaidiaga kiukweli na hii
54:12nilikuwa nimeificha hii siri mpaka huku
54:14katikati
54:15>> ili mtu aondoke nayo.
54:16>> Bro toka mimi nasoma shule tulipokuwa
54:18tunapiga Marian pale
54:20>> unakuta mwanangu inafika muda labda bado
54:22siku chache tupige paper na mimi I do
54:25well under pressure. I cannot lie.
54:27>> Yaani hivi hivi no pressure I cannot
54:29zima moto.
54:29>> Yeah [kicheko] tulikuwa tuna jina zui.
54:31Eh zimamoto right. Kitu pekee ambacho
54:34kilikuwa kinanisaidia ni sheria hii
54:36moja. If it takes more nani if it takes
54:40less than 5 seconds to start do it. Do
54:43it
54:44>> bro kama natakawa niende gym kama
54:46natakiwa niende kuanza kufanya kazi
54:48labda natakiwa nianze kutraend natakiwa
54:49niende labda kufanya project fulani
54:50natakiwa niende kufuatilia registration
54:52ya kitu labda sehemu fulani natakuwa
54:53niende kumkutana na mwanasheria nataka
54:54kukutana na watu wa halmashauri fulani
54:57niende nikaelekezwe kitu fulani au
54:58nikafuatilie isho fulani. Swali langu
55:00linakuanga hili moja ya kwamba inachukua
55:02zaidi ya sekunde tano
55:04>> kuanza. Kwa hiyo unajua unavunja kila
55:06kitu kwenye hatua ndogo ili mimi nitoke
55:08hapa nianze kuanza kufanya hii podcast.
55:10Hatua ya kwanza ni kusimama kama
55:11nilikuwa nimelala sindio? Kwa hiyo
55:13kusimama inachukua sekunde ngapi? Chini
55:15ya tano right? Unasimama? Ukishasimama
55:17unasema sasa nishasimama.
55:19>> Hatua iliyokuwa inafuata hapa ni nini
55:21bro? Ni kwenda kuchukua daladala kwenda
55:23sehemu ya kurekodi ama kwenda sijui
55:25kuchukua kamera. Kwa hiyo you start.
55:27Yaani una yaani kwamba kikubwa ni
55:29ukishaanza momentum ina tabia ya kubuild
55:31on top on top on top. hiyo
55:33>> kwa hiyo unajikuta tu ukishaanza kufanya
55:34kitu by default yaani wewe you gone
55:37>> unaenda unaenda unaenda maisha yanak
55:40sasa kitu kimoja kizuri kuhusu mwili wa
55:42binadamu
55:43>> ni kwamba kitu kikiwa kibaya
55:45>> mwili utarespond kama mwili kama uko
55:47vibaya utapata mafua kwa sababu ni vumbi
55:49au ni nini
55:51>> kama ni nini kama ni homa mwili joto
55:53utapanda kama nini changamoto zozote
55:55ambazo utakazo utapitia mwili wako na
55:57kama ni kitu ambacho ni kibaya kwa your
55:59own
56:00>> mind sijui ni nini mwili wako utakushtua
56:02kabisa kabisa sikia akili yako
56:04itakuambia naachokifanya hivi haujawai
56:06kukaa chini ukajifikiria unafanya kitu
56:07umelala tu umepo umepoa tu hapo kijana
56:09umelala alafu mwili wako unambia lakini
56:11si utakiwa ufanye kitu fulani wewe
56:13>> mwili unajua [kicheko] ila sasa niele
56:15kwamba nielewa kwamba niele kwamba ah
56:16nitafanya baadaye nitafanya baadaye sisi
56:19watu wa kanisani tunatoa neno anasema
56:20mwili unataka ila roho ni roho [kicheko]
56:22inataka mwili ni dhaifu eh mungu hivo
56:27ndio hiyo kwamba
56:28>> roho [kicheko]
56:30>> unakomaa unakomaa sana jitahidi jitahidi
56:33katika moja ya changamoto kubwa
56:35>> sisi tulivyokuwanga olevo kule wakati
56:37tunasoma tulikuwa tuna head wetu wa
56:39shule okay seminary schools head wa
56:41shule anaitwa
56:43>> talenta seminarista [kicheko] talenta
56:44studio room sisi hapa wakati tunasoma
56:47olevo head wetu wa seminari anaitwa
56:50father rector rector kwa kiswahili
56:52gombera baba gombera okay
56:54>> kwa hiyo baba gombera ni kama head
56:55master wa shule
56:56>> okay
56:57>> jamaa alikuanga na msemo wake tulikuwa
56:58tuna kitu kinaitwa rector's conference
57:00kila alamisi jioni bro mwanangu katika
57:02sehemu ambako kuna ratiba strict ni zile
57:04shule za kasem kuna shule za kanisa
57:07>> shule za kanisa lakini kuna seminari
57:09najua huwa nasikia
57:11>> shule za kanisa mtafanya kazi ngumu kuna
57:14ratiba na nini na nini lakini kuna kuna
57:16limitations sisi bro
57:19yaani ratiba yetu iko very strict kwa
57:20hiyo alhamisi kunakuanga na kitu
57:22kinaitwa rector conference
57:24>> mimi katika rectors conference yangu
57:26pendwa na father re alikuwa anaitwa
57:28father gregory bahati
57:29>> kati ya mapadri wazuri sana. Anyway
57:33kimoja
57:34>> aliongea kwa kilatini anasema repetition
57:37estimat studio room. Yaani anasema
57:39repetition is
57:42>> yaani kwamba bro hichi kitu kinakata whs
57:44ndio kama ulivyokuwa unasema kwenye
57:46compounding m
57:48>> ukirepeat kitu kizuri mwanangu youl be
57:51surprised. Yaani utakuwa unafanya vitu
57:52effortlessly. Yaani iteat.
57:57Kwa hiyo ukiwa unawin repetitively
58:00winning becomes your second nature. You
58:02win effortlessly. Yaani kwako wewe
58:05unamuona Ronaldo ama unaonanga wale watu
58:07ambao wanaanzanga shule alafu anakuwa wa
58:08kwanza mwanzoni mwa pili na mara ya
58:10tatu. Yaani akishaongoza mara ya kwanza
58:12tatu
58:12>> akishakuwa tu comfortable anajua ah
58:14>> hadi nyie mnaamini huyu jamani inakuja
58:16kwamba [kicheko]
58:18inakuja swala kwamba ni kwamba imani
58:20inakuwepo kabisa kwamba
58:21>> kwamba haya
58:22>> sasa hicho ndio kitu ambacho inabidi
58:23upambane nacho
58:24>> kwa hiyo unakuta sasa ile repetition ile
58:27ikiwa ni kwenye kitu kizuri winning
58:28inakuwa inabigate winning kwa hiyo
58:30unakuta if you win in a small thing
58:32winning inakuwa compounded repetitively
58:35akili ya binadamu katika kitu pekee
58:37ambacho wanasayansi wamekubaliana ndio
58:38namna ya kutrain binadamu
58:40Hata hizi AI kidogo nimepiga piga za
58:43tech kaka kwa hoo katika njia za kutra
58:45ai repetition pia ni kati ya njia ambayo
58:47inatumikosha
58:50viwa lakini katika training ambayo ni
58:53effective na efficient over the entire
58:56history of the human creation ni
58:58repetition kwa mwanangu ukiwa ni
59:00mzinguaji
59:02>> yaani ukiona ukiona you are losing labda
59:04unapata hasara kwenye biashara yako
59:06anzia mwanzo ukarudia tena kupata hasara
59:08na ukarudia tena mara ya tatu tu mzee ah
59:10mzee [kicheko]
59:11>> kuna kitu unakosea kuna kitu unakosea
59:12sasa
59:13>> kwa hiyo jitahidi huwa ndio inakuja ile
59:14faida ya kufanya small improvement m
59:17>> yeah kwa hiyo ndio nilikuwa nataka tu
59:19kuemphasize hapo ulivyokuwa unasema
59:20compounding
59:22inamata sana hata kwenye winning na hata
59:25kwenye losses na kwenye vitu kama hivy
59:27yaani m it's it's a very good
59:30>> it's a very good thing ambacho ukikijua
59:32inabidi kweli kikumotivat mimi mwangu
59:34kweli kuna baadhi ya scenarios eh I'm
59:36not a perfect human but I really do my
59:38best nikiwa anaona kama anazingua kwenye
59:40issue. I do not like kubaki vile vile.
59:43Yaani kubaki at
59:45>> mh
59:47>> ukibaki pale ukarudia kitu kile kile
59:49pale pale sasa the worst thing is inaua
59:53chances zako za kuwa better baadaye.
59:54Ndio maana unaonanga hata matajiri bro
59:57ha yaani
59:59naogopa kuwataja kwa majina kwa sababu
1:00:00[kicheko] kwa sababu zizja uwezo wangu.
1:00:02Lakini katika matajiri ambao unaona hadi
1:00:04leo hii wanatajwa kwenye page za kina za
1:00:06Instagram huko wanatajwa sana na watu na
1:00:08nini katupiga sijui shilingi fulani
1:00:10lakini wale jamaa ni kati ya watu
1:00:11wanaofanya kazi vibaya mno. Unadhani
1:00:14ushaika ukawaza bilionea ni nini
1:00:16kinampusha endelee kufanya kazi? It is
1:00:18the thought kichwani kwao ya kwamba
1:00:21staying stagnant is bad. Yaani they do
1:00:24not want to live in a world ambayo they
1:00:25know they can never be better. And they
1:00:27know for fact kwa sababu gani ukirepeat
1:00:29kukaa hapa hapa kwa muda mrefu akili
1:00:31yako inacreate vibanda vitatu pale
1:00:41[muziki]
1:00:52nilikua nilikuwa nakuja kwye point
1:00:53ulikuwa uliokuwa unaongea nilikuwa
1:00:55nakuja kwenye isile kama yaani the main
1:00:58agenda leo ni kwamba how do you start
1:01:00how inakuja kwamba umeanza kitu alafu
1:01:03unafanya alafu ukaja upo comfortable
1:01:05kuna sehemu unachoma
1:01:07kuna kuna matatizo yaani kuna tatizo
1:01:09lipo background
1:01:10>> linajikuza ulijui linakuja
1:01:14>> yaani kwamba unafanya kitu kihuni
1:01:16huniuni
1:01:17>> alafu ukafanikiwa kihuni huni [kicheko]
1:01:19>> kuna namna tu utakamatika
1:01:21>> huaga mbele kuna trafic anakuepo
1:01:22>> trafic atakukamata
1:01:23>> brother
1:01:23>> polisi atakushika
1:01:25>> experience wapi Kwa hiyo kwamba with
1:01:27learning
1:01:28>> kwa kiasi chake
1:01:30mimi ninavyoamini kwamba tusema extent
1:01:32learning inabidi iwe a bit uncomfortable
1:01:34>> m
1:01:34>> naavyosema uncomfortable si eti mtu
1:01:36usome kwa usome haya mambo sijui unasoma
1:01:38gizani sijui nini sijui radi ikipiga
1:01:40radi sijui ikipiga ndio unaona mwanga
1:01:42unafanya homework ah hapana [kicheko]
1:01:44mambo
1:01:44>> alfu ghafla ndio unaenda unaenda unat
1:01:47lakini ile pointi ni kwamba ni kama ni
1:01:49kama unafanya uko jim zile mambo sijui
1:01:52no pain no again ni kwamba unaenda jim
1:01:53unafanya unatoka uko comfortable kabisa
1:01:55unatoka fanya zoezi eti upo comfortable
1:01:56unataka usije upungue mwili
1:01:58>> yaani chochote ambao inahitaji wewe
1:01:59ubadilike kikiwa bado comfortable ah
1:02:02hamna kitu do
1:02:03>> kwa hiyo namna pekee ambayo kwa mfano
1:02:05leo umeshazingua unafanya kitu alfu
1:02:07unazingua wewe ni mzembe wewe ni kuna
1:02:09kitu fulani ambacho unazingua the only
1:02:11way ya kutoka kwenye hiyo inabidi ufanye
1:02:12kitu ambacho ni uncomfortable kitu
1:02:14ambacho na
1:02:15>> na hapo mimi nataka niwe mkweli kwa sisi
1:02:17vijana tunaokuwa tunaoanza kujipambania
1:02:19utatafuta biashara utafanya
1:02:21>> bro biashara ni ngumu sana nataka niwe
1:02:23yaani hapa nataka niongee kwa hisia sana
1:02:25mtu anielewe vizuri lakini kama ni wewe
1:02:27unanitazama yaani I hope utaichukua hii
1:02:30message utaifanyia kazi kwamba biashara
1:02:32bro ni ngumu lakini it is the only way
1:02:34out it is the only way to escape sawa
1:02:37>> pamoja na ugumu wote wa biashara mimi
1:02:39kitu nilichojifunza na nasisitiza the
1:02:42most important thing ni kuwa na stress
1:02:43tolerance you have to yaani inabidi uwe
1:02:46na tolerance ya kuweza kuhimiri
1:02:49huku kuna meli inazama huku kuna kitu
1:02:51kinaanguka huku kuna hichi yaani usha
1:02:53kuona unatembea umeweka glasi ya maji
1:02:54hapa hapa hapa na kichwa na kijiko kim
1:02:56unatembea hivi usiangushe chochote that
1:02:59is the best way to be able to do things
1:03:02na mafanikio yote m ambayo nimeona like
1:03:04any life ambayo unaona mtu anafanya kitu
1:03:08anadevelop anapata vitu kama hivyo the
1:03:10best thing I can say ni kwamba wale watu
1:03:12wana stress tolerance ya hali ya juu I
1:03:15can I can talk a lot kwenye hichi kitu
1:03:18stress tolerance ni kitu cha muhim usiwe
1:03:20ni mtu unayekimbia stress kwa sababu
1:03:24change lazima inakuja na maumivu yaani
1:03:27unajua yaani kuna the beauty part ambayo
1:03:29we show right lakini
1:03:32>> mwangu pilika pilika za kwanza hii
1:03:34podcast ya leo niwape watu b the
1:03:36[kicheko] kwanza unakuja
1:03:38unabidi vitu fulani viwepo vitu fulani
1:03:40viwepo ile sehemu inakuja kufanyia pale
1:03:42kuna baadhi ya hichi light zipo hichi
1:03:44utaenda utapiga simu huyu anakuja huyu
1:03:46anakuja g atakupiga hivi hivi hivi hivi
1:03:48bado hujaenda kuedit bado hujaenda
1:03:50kupost bado huna jina bado huna graphics
1:03:52huna logo huna nini Sasa unaweza ukaamua
1:03:54upoteze hili saa kutafuta logo ya
1:03:57podcast. Upoteze hili saa kutafuta jina
1:03:59la podcast. Mimi katika kuna dada mmoja
1:04:03hivi niliona podcast yao YouTube they
1:04:04are doing very well. Kina watu people
1:04:06podcast. Okay.
1:04:07>> Yeah.
1:04:08>> Hawajatulipa though kuwapromote.
1:04:10[kicheko]
1:04:11>> Lakini they are doing well. Katika kitu
1:04:13ambacho kuna siku alikuwa anasema kwamba
1:04:14wao hadi wanamaliza hawakuwa wanajina
1:04:17podcast. Yaani wanakuja kueka baadaye
1:04:20you see the point is
1:04:21>> safi kabisa. You are never completely
1:04:23ready when you are starting. But hiyo
1:04:26yaani we are not selling your dream
1:04:27kwamba ukishaanza it's gonna be nice
1:04:29it's gna be fun. Inaenda kuwa sijui hivi
1:04:32na hivi. I try to say na na kama na ndio
1:04:35kama inakuja hiyo pointi kwamba unafanya
1:04:37kitu alafu kinakuwa chepesi chepesi tu
1:04:38hivi. M
1:04:39>> kuna mahali kuna kitu kinakuja kuna
1:04:40namna. kuna namna ni either labda
1:04:42walikunoa kabla una experience kabla
1:04:44kama huna chochote alafu na nini
1:04:47>> lazima uangalie uangalie
1:04:49>> ambao sio sio kwamba tunakufanya uamini
1:04:51kwamba kila muda ukiwa na amani kunakuwa
1:04:53mimi mimi mimi nina imani moja ambayo
1:04:55sio nzuri
1:04:56>> na imani moja ambayo sio nzur
1:04:58>> imani yangu ni kwamba
1:05:00>> nikipata pesa nyingi hiyo pesa ni ya mtu
1:05:03[kicheko]
1:05:03hiyo pesa ni ya mtu
1:05:04>> na ataijia
1:05:05>> na huyo mtu ataijia sasa ni wewe ukubali
1:05:07aidha utampa kamili au utampa na riba
1:05:09[kicheko] inabidi uchague
1:05:11Kwa hiyo kwamba napata pesa nyingi naona
1:05:12okay
1:05:13>> hii pesa inabidi ikae hapa hii nyingine
1:05:15ikae hapa kwa hiyo ile mtu ambaye kwamba
1:05:16nikipata nikipata mafanikio
1:05:18>> ndio hii isia mimi ni mkristo
1:05:21>> nimekulia familia ya kristo na nilikuwa
1:05:23nataka nitoe mfano wa ile mfano wa misri
1:05:27>> ile hadithi yaani ya yaani hadithi ya
1:05:29farao na yusufu kwamba miaka saba ya
1:05:31shibe miaka saba ya njaa mimi ni mmoja
1:05:33waamini hiyo kitu japo kuna watu
1:05:35wanakupa ile kwamba huamini kwamba ni
1:05:37lakini kwamba mimi naamini kwamba
1:05:38>> m
1:05:39>> ukiwa
1:05:40simaanishi kwamba tukiwa na mazuri
1:05:42kwamba mabaya yatakuja lazima aje
1:05:43>> sasa wewe unaremba lakini nadhani sisi
1:05:45tunafanana mindset [kicheko] kwenye
1:05:46swala mimi ni muumini wa kwamba maisha
1:05:49is constant havok it is constant pain
1:05:53alafu peaceful moments ni islands on the
1:05:55sea yaani unaona bahari bahari si ina
1:05:57maji kote alafu ina visiwa katikati
1:06:00>> kwa mimi naonanga yaani mambo yangu
1:06:01yakawa yanaenda fresh ile ni half time
1:06:03>> umepiga half time unapoa kidogo unarudi
1:06:05kwenye nini unapiga mbizi piga mbizi
1:06:07>> mwanangu podcast imepanda umeedit bado
1:06:09edit oh tumepigwa copyright oh tumeitwa
1:06:11mmejisajili
1:06:13inakuja is hiyo is nakumbuka nilikuwa
1:06:15namwambia mtu kwamba
1:06:17>> kwa nini sipendi maisha yawe smooth
1:06:18nikiwa tu pawe kusmoh
1:06:20>> mimi ni maiti
1:06:21>> kwa sababu ni kwamba i kwenye okay
1:06:25>> heart the heart inakuwa zile ups down
1:06:27zile zile web zile
1:06:28>> zile webs
1:06:29>> ikiwa flat
1:06:30>> you are dead
1:06:31>> lakini it amaz you kwa mimi nilikuwa
1:06:33naongea na watu kuna dogo mmoja nilikuwa
1:06:35naongea naye mwangu ni mdogo ndio
1:06:38amemaliza form 6 sa hivi
1:06:39yule jamaa anakwambia yeye maisha
1:06:41anayatamani akimaliza kusoma
1:06:42>> ndio
1:06:43>> awe this guy this kid ambaye
1:06:47>> ni wa kiume
1:06:48>> anafanya kazi anafanya kazi saa moja
1:06:50masaa mawili kwa wiki
1:06:51>> anapiga mazoezi anenda japiga snapodi
1:06:54anaj [kicheko]
1:06:56kama hizo siku he is living the dream
1:06:59>> huyo mtu kwanza ni irrelevant kwenye
1:07:02bloodline yake huyo ni mtu ambaye yaani
1:07:04sasa mtu kama huyo anakuja kuwa na
1:07:06mchango gani kwenye taifa
1:07:07>> inakuja inakuja isuka kuu mbili cha
1:07:09kwanza ni issue ya influencer
1:07:11influencers kutudanganya cha pili kuna
1:07:13watu kweli unakuta wanaishi hivo lakini
1:07:15kuishi kwao kuna watu wameteseka ni
1:07:17kwamba ni ile kwamba wewe
1:07:19>> but hata hawa watu wanaoishi hivo
1:07:20wanateseka
1:07:21>> yaani we nasema mfano mfano kwamba
1:07:23nileia kwamba wewe
1:07:24>> kuna watu i get your point kwamba yaani
1:07:27mtoto wangu mimi atakuja kuisha maisha
1:07:29wewe wewe mimi my belief ni kwamba as
1:07:33ukiwa unaishi maisha ya hivo you will
1:07:34suffer inside i believe kwamba sisi
1:07:37We always feel yaani hiyo happiness
1:07:40ambayo watu wanadhani ndio iko kwenye
1:07:41kupiga picha kwenye vioo sijui umepiga
1:07:42hili ferrari umelipaki nje it's not
1:07:44real. The real happiness is in creating
1:07:47things and touching people's lives in
1:07:49growing.
1:07:50>> Yaani sisi tunaenjoy kwenye ile process
1:07:53ya una msara alafu umeutatua.
1:07:55>> Safi kabisa. That is so joyful kuliko
1:07:58>> kuliko hiyo kwamba amekaa umepoa nini
1:08:01mimi nisij [kicheko]
1:08:03sasa kuna kuna watu unajua ni kwamba
1:08:06tunato si niseme tunatofautiana
1:08:08mshangaza how how can a person really
1:08:11yaani inakuwaje mtu anakuwa hivo yaani
1:08:14inakuwaje yaani
1:08:15>> inakuja sababu ni nyingi sana malezi
1:08:17ikiwa ni namba moja
1:08:20>> malezi hapo sasa mimi kwamba ni vitu
1:08:23vingi huwa ni msingi msingi ukishakuwa
1:08:26mbovu foundation ikishakuwa mbovu
1:08:28unapoenda kule kitu
1:08:29>> kwa mfano huyo dogo nilikuwa nakuambia
1:08:32>> bro ukiangalia dada zake na kaka zake ni
1:08:34watu wa maana ni watu wa sharp ni watu
1:08:36ambao they know the real life they need
1:08:38to work mama yao ni mtu aliyenyooka sana
1:08:40anamheshimu mno yaani si unanielewa
1:08:42lakini ni huyu dogo tu anaamini you know
1:08:45sasa mimi nikasema ni issue ya hawa
1:08:46wadogo zetu wa j nini yaani i don't know
1:08:48maana mimi wadogo zangu hawapo hivyo
1:08:50>> au kama wapo hivyo sisi hatujajua bado
1:08:52na na mimi
1:08:53>> lakini that's my point kwamba ukisema ni
1:08:55malezi mbona bado siblings wao the
1:09:00better maana siblings wao sij sisi hivi
1:09:03>> bro they know life is problems and if
1:09:06they get a moment to smile na kuny yaani
1:09:09they know this is of time and they are
1:09:11happy
1:09:11>> wanarudi kazini
1:09:12>> kwa sababu mimi naaminigi huku duniani
1:09:16Mungu ile siku ambayo tulimzingua kule
1:09:17Eden akasema sikia wazee
1:09:19>> shukeni
1:09:20>> mtateseka itakuwa hivi na hivi
1:09:22alivyoenda kuumba mbingu bro mimi siwezi
1:09:24nikaenda kuweka VIP kwenye klabu yangu
1:09:26alafu huku kawaida mkawa mna treatment
1:09:28kama za VIP. Sasa sasa huyo ni mimi
1:09:30>> sasa Mungu anayejenga [kicheko] mbingu
1:09:33>> wewe unatakaje ule bata hapa sasa
1:09:35mbinguni unataka kufanya nini
1:09:35>> hawezi kuishi bata se lakini okay kwa h
1:09:38kwa huyu hapo labda labda ni kwa sababu
1:09:40kwa ulivyomwelezea kwamba ni mdogo
1:09:42naweza nikachukua kwamba ni excuse
1:09:44kwamba labda ni umri akiingia how is the
1:09:46umri sisi tulivyokuwa okay sisi
1:09:48tulivyokuwa umri wake we were not like
1:09:50that I know inakuja factor vile cha
1:09:52kwanza ni umri kwamba saa hivi hana hana
1:09:55nini hana majukumu
1:09:57umri wake tulivyokuwa Nasema
1:10:00nasema nasema cha kwanza majukumu cha
1:10:02pili ni influencers influencers yaani
1:10:04influence ni ushawishi
1:10:06>> unaangalia watu mtandaoni mtu ameamka
1:10:09amebonyeza satan mbili tatu amepata
1:10:11amepata 5000
1:10:13>> amekaa amekula sijui nini mlo wa kwanza
1:10:15amekula mlo wa pili watatu wanne watatu
1:10:17hapo sijui ameenda jim amerudi amepiga
1:10:19tena sijui milo miwili
1:10:20>> amekaa
1:10:21>> lakini mbona mbona that takes a basic
1:10:23common sense kwa sababu unajua ukimuona
1:10:26mtu kama namheshimu kazi zake anazofanya
1:10:29Mwijaku ama mheshimiwa baba levo sawa eh
1:10:31anavyovua t-shirt yaani anafanya vitu
1:10:34ambavyo ni out of the normal ndio maana
1:10:36vinaenda viral kwa ukiona video ya mtu
1:10:39ananyuka anasep uso wake kwenye maji ya
1:10:42ice alafu inaenda viral what should that
1:10:44tell you it's not
1:10:47>> it's not common it's not really it's not
1:10:49normal sasa kwa nini hutaki kuwa hivyo
1:10:50yaani you get it kikienda viral it means
1:10:53kwamba
1:10:54>> oh okay this is new this is interesting
1:10:57tuone this
1:10:58Mfano sisi tukikaa hapa tukaanza kuongea
1:10:59vitu ambavyo ni uncommon bro podcast
1:11:02inalipuka within a day yaani tuna views
1:11:05kishenzi lakini tukiwa tunaongea vitu
1:11:06ambavyo ni it's the right thing to do
1:11:09huwezi ukashindana views na mtu anaenda
1:11:10kuongelea vitu vya h ambavyo we all know
1:11:13it's not common you get it eh ndio maana
1:11:15m nashangaa mtu kama huyo how how
1:11:17influence yaani mbona ni common common
1:11:19common sense
1:11:20>> sasa inakuja kwenye pointi ya common
1:11:22sense common sense is not common hicho
1:11:23ni cha kwanza kuna mrafiki yangu mmoja
1:11:25anasema hicho kitu kama common sense is
1:11:26not common kuna watu wanafanya vitu
1:11:27ambavyo unakawa unajiuliza hujawai
1:11:29kuwajiuliza kwamba kuna ile issue
1:11:30unakuta mmekaa darasani tuseme mfano
1:11:33darasani mmekaa mkatulia alafu kuna
1:11:35mmoja tuanza kupiga kelele
1:11:38>> alafu hana mapepo
1:11:39>> bila hana mapepo hana nini ameamua tu
1:11:41kwamba okay
1:11:42>> na ameshiba
1:11:43>> nimeshiba acha niwakere wenzangu na sio
1:11:46tu kwamba labda
1:11:46>> hakuangushwa alivyokuwa mdogo [kicheko]
1:11:49>> angeangushwa ubongo ulikuwa una
1:11:50changamoto ila ni mtu ni mzima kabisa
1:11:52>> maana mimi kuna muda nakaga kuna vitu
1:11:54watu wanafanya bro najiuliza sababu
1:11:55zinabakigi mbili
1:11:58Naam kuna watu Mungu aliwaumba kama
1:12:00ishara na mfano kama alama. [kicheko]
1:12:03>> Yaani ukiwaangalia eh sitaki kama yule.
1:12:07Yaani kuna m naamini hiyo ndio the only
1:12:09logical explanation kwenye baadhi ya
1:12:10vitu ambavyo mimi navionanga. Ni kweli
1:12:12>> ama
1:12:13>> sema hii nimeanza kuiona juzi ndio nika
1:12:16waliangushwa walivyokuwa watoto yaani
1:12:17yaani [kicheko]
1:12:19>> hamna. Un mtu anafanya kitu unasema huyu
1:12:21jamaa walimbeba vizuri kweli kuna kuna
1:12:24kuna namna ambayo
1:12:25>> yaani
1:12:27>> watu watu wanazoea wajua tunatofautiana
1:12:30sijui useme motisha sijui ndio drive m
1:12:32sijui yaani drive tofautiana
1:12:35>> kama taifa kama jzy eh kama generation
1:12:39unadhani maana ukiona kitu kinatokea kwa
1:12:41mtu mmoja then okay lakini unapake
1:12:45there's another force at work
1:12:47>> which is
1:12:49Yaani kwa sababu I don't believe in
1:12:50coincidence kwenye scale ya matatizo
1:12:52kama hayo. Unavyokuta vijana wa kiume wa
1:12:55level kama hiyo tena utawakuta wengi
1:12:57wataniattack watasema kwamba maisha sio
1:12:59mateso, maisha sio kuteseka. Yaani
1:13:02usiglorify mateso, usiglorify shida. As
1:13:04if I'm speaking about kuglorify shida.
1:13:06Right? Hamna.
1:13:07>> Na unagundua mtu mwenye mentality ya
1:13:09kwamba life should never be smooth. Ndio
1:13:11mtu ambaye ana chances kubwa za kuwin
1:13:13kwenye kitu chochote. Kwa sababu mimi
1:13:15najua biashara yaani ukiniambia biashara
1:13:16mwanangu zina miti kazi. Na mimi najua
1:13:18maisha ni mitikasi unadhani nitafanya
1:13:19nini? Biashara
1:13:21>> exactly
1:13:21>> I made peace kwamba this thing is gonna
1:13:23be like that. Nothing is gna be hard.
1:13:25Safi expect to be like that.
1:13:28>> We anayeamenigi kuna peace maisha
1:13:30yatakiwa yawe ni yeye kupiga snap kwenye
1:13:32kioo [kicheko] kupiga juis na mrija
1:13:35>> apige na ice akapige gym kidogo alfu
1:13:38akalale
1:13:39>> huyu mshikaji unataka kuniambia atakuja
1:13:41kupoteza maisha yake kwa ajili ya nchi.
1:13:42ni pub vijana wa kitanzania they won't
1:13:46do anything of significance they won't
1:13:48do anything of risk they will never have
1:13:51that inner sense of achievement how can
1:13:53these people be happy
1:13:55>> inakuja
1:13:55>> they will never be relevant respectable
1:13:58they are not yaani how don't they see
1:14:02that
1:14:03kwangu mimi nahisi cha kwanza cha kwanza
1:14:05sio swala lais cha kwanza tu un tunongea
1:14:07kuhusu swala la kutunza legacy ya mtu y
1:14:10>> legacy ya mtu unaitunza kwa wewe kuwa
1:14:12unself selfish
1:14:13>> changamoto kubwa
1:14:15>> I mean self sorry
1:14:16>> lakini changamoto kubwa ambayo tulionayo
1:14:19being selfish
1:14:21>> hiyo ndio changamoto ya kwanza kubwa
1:14:23sana kwa mimi mimi nafanyaje mimi
1:14:25natokaje
1:14:26>> ndio changamoto ya kwamba vijana wengi
1:14:29hawataki kuajiriwa sio kwa uzuri na sio
1:14:32kwa ubaya mtu hataki kuajiriwa hataki
1:14:33kufanya kazi sio kuajiriwa samani
1:14:35kuajiriwa ni kitu kingine na hataki
1:14:36kufanya kazi kwa sababu gani
1:14:39ili iweje au anakuwa addicted na anakuwa
1:14:42anakuwa alcoholic unajua kunakunywa
1:14:44pombe alafu kunakuwa alcoholic japo
1:14:45usadvertise chochote lakini kwamba ni
1:14:46mtu anatumia kwamba akienda kuspend pesa
1:14:48anaspend kwa sababu gani anajiangalia
1:14:50yeye
1:14:51>> m
1:14:51>> sio nyie sio baba sio mama kwa mfano
1:14:53mfano mzuri nchi hata jamii
1:14:55>> mfano mzuri mfano mzuri moja moja ya
1:14:57kitu ambacho kinakuzuia wewe f kufanya
1:14:59kichwa kipumbavu kamb mamako sijui
1:15:00alikuwa anakupiga alikuwa anakupiga
1:15:02akaacha kukupiga sasa hivi kukupiga ni
1:15:03ngumu kwa sababu mpo mbali lakini ile
1:15:05pointi kwamba unaangalia nitafanya hichi
1:15:06kitu ndugu yangu ataona au jirani ataona
1:15:09alafu huu ndio utakuwa ndio kwamba mama
1:15:11Mamangu ndio alinifundisha hivi
1:15:13>> m
1:15:13>> jamii za k
1:15:14>> the respect you have for your parents
1:15:16>> ni kwamba hujiangalii kwamba nitafurahi
1:15:18nikifanya hivi ah unaangalia kwamba
1:15:19>> basi sawa basi sawa hata wale waliokulea
1:15:22labda wanaweza na wenyewe moro ethics
1:15:24zao morpass zao zikaja zikayomba right
1:15:26people don't even care kwamba you are
1:15:28kids
1:15:29>> watoto wako watakuja watoto wako
1:15:31watakuja kutumika kama ni wewe jama look
1:15:34at
1:15:34>> babako
1:15:35>> unasema mzee
1:15:36>> mbona lalola zikaje mbona unakuwa
1:15:38hufanyi tunaona Twitter sijui business
1:15:40mzee mbona unataka kampuni
1:15:41>> sasa inakuja hiyo kitu kwa hiyo ndio
1:15:43hizo yaani vitu vidogo vitu vidogo
1:15:45vidogo vidogo vidogo vidogo vidogo
1:15:46ambavo
1:15:47>> and I feel like someone ukifuatilia kwa
1:15:49umakini unagundua kwamba the level of
1:15:51selfishness ambayo inaendelea kwa watu
1:15:55ni kama kuna a propaganda imefanya
1:15:58imefanyika ambayo imepush watu kwenye
1:16:00kuamini kwamba you should love yourself
1:16:02bro mi sikufich hii issue ya kulave
1:16:04yourself ni issue ambayo isitive kiasi
1:16:06cha kwamba watu wengi wanaweza wakaja
1:16:08kutugrill kinoma wakisema kwamba hamna
1:16:10mimi Mimi nakwambia if you don't love
1:16:12yourself you can't love anybody bro it's
1:16:14quite wrong if you cannot love everybody
1:16:17you will yaani you never even loved
1:16:18yourself how can you love yourself
1:16:22jipende lakini yaani kwamba
1:16:23>> hata Mungu anakuambiaje yaani zile amri
1:16:25zake alisumarize kwenye amri mbili tu
1:16:28mpende
1:16:28>> bwana Mungu wako
1:16:29>> hajaanza na wewe. Why? Why you get it?
1:16:32>> Auaj ampende jirani yako kama
1:16:35>> alfu mwishoni kabisa ndio anarudi kwako
1:16:37bwana kama [kicheko] yako lakini anza
1:16:40mwanzo anakuambia hii ndio amri iliyokuu
1:16:42kuliko zote bro tunaweza tukaague kwamba
1:16:45wewe sio mkristo wewe sio nani lakini
1:16:46tunakubaliana kwamba kwenye historia ya
1:16:48dunia
1:16:49>> Jesus was a great figure.
1:16:50>> Yaani kama unavyoona kina Albert
1:16:52Einstein sijui kina nani nani he was
1:16:53brilliant. M
1:16:54>> nchizi ndio mtu pekee aliw over water
1:16:57alidefy laws za resurrection na vitu
1:16:59kama hivyo. Yaani tusiangalie from a
1:17:01spiritual perspective. Tumwangalie tu
1:17:02kama mwamba.
1:17:03>> Kama mwamba tu.
1:17:04>> Yaani mdau fulani hivi yaani World
1:17:06Guinness Records nyingi anahold.
1:17:08[kicheko]
1:17:09>> Sasa yule jembe alitoa tu simplification
1:17:12bana kama mataka kuja kuwa watu wazuri
1:17:14>> na one day mfike mimi ninakoenda maana
1:17:17mshikaji ndio alikuja na yeye kuna
1:17:18mahali anaenda sindio?
1:17:20>> Protocol ni hizi mbili na kwenye zote
1:17:22bro hamna hata moja ambayo ni
1:17:24inayokujihusu wewe kujipenda. Kwa hiyo
1:17:26mimi nilichokuja kuconclude ukiangalia
1:17:29movie za Netflix nyingi ukiangalia na
1:17:30nini ambazo hizo zote ni biashara bro
1:17:33>> it is very easy to convince a person to
1:17:35love themselves rather than convincing
1:17:37them to love another person ni
1:17:39>> kweli
1:17:40>> ndio maana ukifuatia hata training ya
1:17:42jeshini ama training za wapi bro
1:17:44zinachukua muda mrefu kwa sababu inabidi
1:17:46zikufanye upende kitu kingine kuliko
1:17:48wewe. We nadhani kufundisha tu kupigia
1:17:50sasa utapewa bunduki sachukua muda mrefu
1:17:52ya nini? Umenisoma eh we have to be sure
1:17:55you really love your country ama you
1:17:58really love other people other bro ni
1:18:00mara ngapi unapiga stori na watu
1:18:02wanaamka anawaza hata future ya nchi
1:18:03yake yaani anaipenda tu nchi yake. sio
1:18:05politics yaani sio issue za yaani kwamba
1:18:08>> one day mimi nikija kujipata
1:18:09>> mwanangu nataka nieweke kitu fulani hapa
1:18:11nchini Tanzania kwenye ramani
1:18:13>> unamuona mtu kama Mondi na nini unaweza
1:18:15uka questions labda motivation zake na
1:18:18vitu vyake sindio lakini that guy kuna
1:18:20kwa level aliofikia kwa hela alionayo
1:18:21kuna vitu anafanya for the love of the
1:18:23country si unanielewa yaani kwamba I'm
1:18:25just proud to be a Tanzanian
1:18:28>> anaenda anaperusha bendera
1:18:29>> yaani that gives him pleasure kwa kuna
1:18:31mtu ile kujipenda yeye kwanza hii ile
1:18:34mwanangu imemkabia kwa sasa mimi kama
1:18:36mfany biashara nikija nikakuangalia
1:18:38nataka hela yako sindio
1:18:40>> lakini mshikaji unajikubali sana m
1:18:42nitakuambiaje brother achana na hii
1:18:44graph hii grph wananunua watu
1:18:45wanaojipenda
1:18:46>> m
1:18:47>> kama haujipendi hawezi nunua hii hii
1:18:50watu wote wenye hii glass self love
1:18:52brother nina saluni yangu nina
1:18:53restaurant yangu nitakuambia guys jitoe
1:18:55mara moja moja love yourself why it is
1:18:58easy i don't use a lot of budget kwenye
1:19:00advertising kukufanya wewe love yourself
1:19:03what did you say about easy things are
1:19:05bad things to do easy things na watu
1:19:08they tell you that kwa sababu not they
1:19:10love the money
1:19:11>> because they love their kids they are
1:19:13not bad people they love their kids very
1:19:16much kwa hiyo the only thing they can do
1:19:18to you kwa hiyo washaona kizuizi cha
1:19:20wewe kuingia mkono mfukoni na kutako
1:19:23kumpa yeye
1:19:25chukua
1:19:25>> wewe unajipenda sio shidi jipende kwanza
1:19:27>> brother jipende usipojipenda wei langu
1:19:31ni milioni tan [kicheko]
1:19:32>> wenote wanojipenda
1:19:34unajipenda hujipendi sasa nani anataka
1:19:36kuambichukia lakini kuna watu kuna mzazi
1:19:40mwanangu atapanda daladala ataenda
1:19:42atafanya kazi kwa bidii hatoenda kutomea
1:19:45hela yake kununua sijui kitu cha milioni
1:19:4610 asasema mimi hela namwekea mwanangu
1:19:48aende kusoma Harvard
1:19:50>> brother kaa na mi nimebahatika kuongea
1:19:53na baadhi ya marafiki zangu ambao
1:19:54wanasoma hizi international universities
1:19:57ambao wanasomeshwa kule na wazazi wao
1:19:59bro the thing ambacho it touched my
1:20:01heart wazazi wao They they willingly
1:20:04hawakulazimishwa unajua yaani unajua sio
1:20:06kwamba wamelazimishwa kuzaa from the
1:20:08bottom of their hearts waliamua bana
1:20:10it's fine sisi tutatembea hatuna
1:20:14hatahitaji gari dogo kasome
1:20:16>> kasome
1:20:17>> lakini unakutana na mimi nauza magari
1:20:18unadhani nitakuambiaje brother Mercedes
1:20:20self love self love kwa ho [kicheko]
1:20:23ukiwa ni mtu wa self love you cannot
1:20:25pour from an empty cup sijui jipende
1:20:27wewe kwanza kabla ya kwenda kumpenda mtu
1:20:29mwingine it works you can never love
1:20:32yourself and succeed in anything. kwenye
1:20:36kwenye hicho kitu ningependa kuongea
1:20:37kitu kwamba ubaya ubaya ubaya ubaya wa
1:20:41vitu vitu vingi watu wanafany kwamba
1:20:42kuna you right or wrong at times vitu
1:20:45vingine ni spectrum sio kwamba you are
1:20:47right or wrong kwamba kwenye kuna yaani
1:20:49unajua ubani kwamba watu wanachanganya
1:20:50kitu kimoja kuna sehemu ambapo inabidi
1:20:52nyeupe iwe nyeupe na nyeusi iwe nyeusi
1:20:55na kuna sehemu ambayo inabidi kuna
1:20:56nyeupe kwenda kijivu kuja kuwa nyeusi
1:20:59umeona kwa hiyo kuna spectrum na kuna
1:21:01numbers exactly
1:21:02>> pointi yangu ni hii hapa inakuja kwamba
1:21:04>> kwenye issue ya self Sawa kujipenda
1:21:07utakiwa ujipende hamna shida ila sasa
1:21:09inakuja hiyo pointi kwamba mimi ni
1:21:11extreme mimi ni moja kwa kujipenda
1:21:14>> kwenye hilo swala
1:21:16>> mimi nataka nibishane hapa
1:21:18>> siamini kwenye kuweka how right ama how
1:21:22wrong ama kwenye kuongeza hiyo spectrum
1:21:24kwa sababu hiyo inamfanya ha mtu aseme
1:21:25ukiwape watu makundi mawili watajieka
1:21:27kwenye lile zuri yaani yaani watasema
1:21:29okay mimi sasa hapa mimi najipenda
1:21:31lakini sijajipenda sana ile actually
1:21:34you either yaani the only way to love
1:21:36yourself is by loving other people
1:21:39>> brother mimi nikiwa napenda watoto wangu
1:21:41watakaokuja duniani baadaye they will
1:21:43need a competent father my future wife
1:21:46will need a competent
1:21:47>> husband
1:21:48>> why should I go and waste my maini kwa
1:21:50kwenda kupiga vitu ambavyo vitaharibu
1:21:51maini yangu i love them so much i have
1:21:54no option than to take care of my body
1:21:56right now
1:21:57>> sasa inakuja kwenye hiyo point kwamba
1:21:58watu wanakuja kujipenda the extremes
1:22:00ambazo sio
1:22:02>> i believe kwamba kujipenda yoyote yote
1:22:03ile ni mbaya. Ah mimi mimi mimi mimi
1:22:06mimi ni mwamini wa kwamba mimi ni
1:22:07muumini wa kitu kimoja kwamba
1:22:10>> inakuja kwenye hiyo point kwamba moja
1:22:12moja ya vitu unavyoamini ni kwamba
1:22:14kujipenda sio tatizo sema too much of
1:22:17everything is bad
1:22:20>> mimi i believe in binary options.
1:22:22>> Binary options
1:22:23>> one zero.
1:22:23>> One zero
1:22:24>> you love yourself or you love others.
1:22:25>> Okay. ukisema kujipenda too much is the
1:22:29what is the measurement
1:22:31>> how can we know that is very vague and
1:22:33humans are not very good at measuring
1:22:35especially when it is something
1:22:37concerning themselves. Da mi naamini the
1:22:40best way tusema labda unaenda gym sijui
1:22:42unataka kwenda kuenjoy maisha if you
1:22:45really loved yourself you would care
1:22:47about the future people yaani utajali
1:22:48watu wanaokutegemea wazazi wako
1:22:50waliokufikisha hapo marafiki zako ambao
1:22:52leo hii ukipata shida they would look
1:22:53upon you and take care of you sawa you
1:22:55would consider those people m
1:22:58>> utapenda nchi yako kwa ujumla maanake
1:23:00hata ukiona mtu anataka kukata mti
1:23:02sehemu ambako sio uthati you just yaani
1:23:06you are this person ambaye you care for
1:23:07the bigger picture right watu wa hivyo
1:23:09wako wachache sana
1:23:10>> okay inakuja kwa nini mimi huwa naani
1:23:13huwa napinga napinga opinioni yako kwa
1:23:15kiasi chake ni kwamba kwenye hiyo kwamba
1:23:18idea yako kwamba kuna hiyo kuna z binary
1:23:20part kwamba kuna hiyo kujipenda au
1:23:21kupenda nini kwangu mimi kwa nini nasema
1:23:23kwamba ni spectrum ni kwamba inategemea
1:23:26na situations mimi ni moja ya vitu
1:23:28ambayo inategeme kwamba si bado nipo
1:23:31kwenye pointi ya kwamba na na mimi
1:23:34nakomalia upande mkubwa kwamba watu
1:23:36wapende not self love self love kwamba
1:23:39being selfish ahah point ya kwamba
1:23:41initegemea na situations kuna sehemu
1:23:43ambazo you need to rest mimi my point it
1:23:46does not matter any situation you always
1:23:48have to put other peoples first
1:23:50>> honestly
1:23:51>> it's a very political answer in my kwa
1:23:53sababu gani sabu kwa sababu gani kwa
1:23:55sababu gani it's a human nature kwamba
1:23:57kufight for your own survival
1:23:59>> so human
1:24:00>> it's human nature to be lazy
1:24:01>> so human tunaongelea ni
1:24:03>> it's very human nature to be lazy to
1:24:05sleep to not work Sasa unakuja kwenye
1:24:07zile extreme end za kuwa selfish. Sasa
1:24:11pointi yangu ni hiyo kwamba mimi nipo
1:24:13kwenye ile kwamba ni spectrum. Sio
1:24:14kwamba ni issue kwamba eti unapenda au
1:24:16hupendi watu kwa sababu wewe unaona
1:24:17umeshikilia wewe ni itikadi kali
1:24:19umeshikilia kwamba you have to.
1:24:20>> Ni mrengo wa kulia.
1:24:21>> Ni mrengo wa kulia. [kicheko]
1:24:24Hio hiyo ni moja mimi nisidanganye hiyo
1:24:26idea kwamba imekuja kwamba kwa nini
1:24:27nasema kwamba watu wawe wanafia ina
1:24:29spectrum form. kuna unajua ndio hiyo
1:24:30nilikuwa natoa kwamba nani mazo yangu
1:24:32kwamba watu sehemu ambazo inabidi
1:24:34wafikirie kwa probabilities au na nini
1:24:37na scenario zilivyo situation ilivyo
1:24:39wanaweka kwamba you right or wrong
1:24:41>> nasema ambayo inabidi ufikirie kama
1:24:42right or wrong anaweka scenario
1:24:44>> mimi ndio huwa naona according to yaani
1:24:47generation yetu inavyokuwa pointi yangu
1:24:48ni hii hapa kuna mtu unakuja anielewa
1:24:50kwamba anafanya kitu useme kama ndio
1:24:53kwamba ndio kupumzika au starehe au
1:24:55kulala inatana na situation ilivyokuwepo
1:24:57sawa situation yake ndio inaamua
1:24:59ila sasa kuna wewe ambaye huna sababu ya
1:25:02kupumzika unapumzika kwa sababu umechoka
1:25:06sio umechoka kuchoka sawa inaweza lakini
1:25:08umeamua tu kwamba napumzika
1:25:10>> kila baada ya nusu saa mimi yangu nalala
1:25:13au ndio ile kwamba nataka nifanye kazi
1:25:15masaa masaa mawili kwa wiki masaa mawili
1:25:18kwa siku ambayo sio sio ukweli. Okay. So
1:25:21I get your point lakini mimi I feel like
1:25:23thinking in binary ways ni namna ambayo
1:25:25pia inamsaidia mtu kwenye how to start
1:25:27ama how to start. Exactly. Sasa ndio
1:25:29>> I actually believe kwamba yaani
1:25:32ukitengeneza loophols za bana mimi naona
1:25:35kwenye scenario hii iwe hivi kwenye
1:25:36scenario ile iwe hivi kidogo kuna namna
1:25:39>> yaani kuna namna tu utalag
1:25:43>> you will never be competent kuliko kwa
1:25:45mtu ambaye anaamini kwamba you always
1:25:48have to put other people first. nilikuwa
1:25:50hebu tell me how is this too far right
1:25:54yaani tell me how yaani why is this
1:25:56considered extreme from
1:26:00nilikuwa nakuja kwenye pointi yako
1:26:01>> kiuhalfia kwa mtu yote ambaye anaanza
1:26:03inakuja inawasumbua watoto wengi ametoka
1:26:06shule ambayo niseme yake seminari shule
1:26:07ya kanisa au shule nini ambayo anaamka
1:26:10kuanzia anapofumbua macho anaamshwa sawa
1:26:13nani
1:26:14>> kwa hiyo ratiba ipo kwamba ukitoka mimi
1:26:16ratiba yangu mpaka leo nakikumbuka ya
1:26:17olevo
1:26:18>> unaamka asubuhi unaenda jogging unaenda
1:26:19kuoga unaenda kanisani kutoka kanisani
1:26:21una darasani morning prep unaenda
1:26:22unaenda kufanya usafi kufanya usafi
1:26:24unaenda pared pared vipindi chakula
1:26:26vipindi chakula usafi hivo yaani tiba
1:26:30imepangwa kwa hiyo hata muda wa kuoga
1:26:31unajulikana kabisa unaoga muda huu
1:26:33usipooga huo muda muda umeenda unasubiri
1:26:35sasa unakuja kwenye hii dunia inakuja
1:26:37hamna msanii kuzuia mamako hayupo babako
1:26:39hayupo au nani yupo ah ni wewe tu
1:26:41unatoka kwa mtu ambaye anaanza for you
1:26:44to start
1:26:45>> mhm
1:26:45>> kwa sababu kihalisia tunakia kuhusu
1:26:47kwanza y
1:26:48>> i support I support your idea kwamba ile
1:26:50kwamba inabidi utengeneze your right and
1:26:52wrongs kwamba natoka hapa nataka nifanye
1:26:54hichi ni ipi na hivi na hivi na hivi
1:26:57hiyo ndio mindset ya kuadopt kwenye vitu
1:26:58vingi maishani inacut the bullshit
1:27:01>> inakut kwamba unajua kabisa kwamba na
1:27:03hiyo inakuja kwamba unakuja kufikiria
1:27:05kwamba ina spectrum ukendana na uzoefu
1:27:07wa hicho kitu ulicho unachokifanya
1:27:08>> sasa i do believe kwamba kuna baadhi ya
1:27:10scenarios ambazo kuna the greater good
1:27:12ama the greater nini the common good na
1:27:14nini the model dilemmas I'm quite versed
1:27:17on all those areas Lakini I believe
1:27:19kwamba for you to be extremely competent
1:27:21in today's world na kulingana na the
1:27:23future tunakoendelea you have to be the
1:27:24type of person ambaye
1:27:26>> you operate binarily. It gives you a
1:27:29greater age of winning. A greater age of
1:27:31winning doesn't mean you win all the
1:27:32time. But it's what? It's greater age
1:27:35yaani yaani unakuwa una chances nyingi
1:27:37za kusurvive on top kuliko mtu ambaye
1:27:39atasema m how bad is this? Is this too
1:27:41bad? [kicheko] No this is not too bad.
1:27:44By by the way kitu kingine hapo kwenye
1:27:45kuongezea point ya kwamba
1:27:48ukiw
1:27:51pat zako zipo strict kabisa kwamba hapa
1:27:53ni hivi hapa ni hivi ni rahisi kujua
1:27:55kama changamoto ikitokea.
1:27:56>> Okay. mapungufu yakitokea kwenye f yako
1:27:59unaweza ukatrack kwamba
1:28:00>> kuna shida iko sehemu fulani lakini ni
1:28:03kwamba ni mtu unatoka hapa unaenda hapa
1:28:04unaenda hapa unaenda hapa unaenda hapa
1:28:06kiasi kwamba sehemu umesahau sijui kitu
1:28:07fulani
1:28:09>> itabidi sasa kichwa ndio kianze
1:28:10kukuambia okay labda labda labda auenda
1:28:14sana pale ama ama shida ni logo
1:28:17>> sasa inaku
1:28:17>> watu hawajapenda logo
1:28:18>> inakuja sasa changamoto lakini sasa
1:28:20ukija na very ukiwa kiuhalisia anything
1:28:23mara nyingi ukianza
1:28:26jipung Jipunguzie jipunguzie changamoto
1:28:29how
1:28:29>> jipunguzie changamoto changamoto ni kufa
1:28:31mfano kwamba hiyo kwamba ukiwa una
1:28:33ratiba systematic au una kitu fulani
1:28:35systematic ikitokea changamoto unaweza
1:28:37kutrack back tatizo faults kama ni
1:28:40>> wewe mfano ukitaka kumtumia mtu ukitaka
1:28:42kumhudumia mteja
1:28:44>> amesha ameshaani amesha umeongea naye se
1:28:49inayofuata labda ndio mteja kulipa baada
1:28:50ya mteja kulipa sijui mwandike risiti
1:28:51baada ya kuandika risiti inabidi sijui
1:28:52atume procedure zako zote unazifuata
1:28:54kila siku sio hivyo kiasoma ikitokea
1:28:56shida yoyote hapo hivi unaweza ukatrack
1:28:58back kwamba okay ni nini ambacho
1:29:00kilirukwa kiliporukwa mnaangalia ndio
1:29:03sadi za hospitali
1:29:04>> mgonjwa akipata shida yoyote unaenda
1:29:06kutrack
1:29:07>> matibab kwa sababu watu wanajaza ripoti
1:29:08zake almost everyday kujua kwamba
1:29:11changamoto iko wapi sasa unavyokuwa
1:29:12unajipunguzia changamoto ni wewe kwamba
1:29:13ndio issue kwamba ah labda labda labda
1:29:17hapa nini hapa hivi na hivi na hivi
1:29:19mwisho wa siku unakuta ni una zile labda
1:29:20labda nyingi sasa unaanza kutafuta sasa
1:29:21labda ipi ambayo ndio changamoto kuu
1:29:23inakwenda kwanza
1:29:24>> sasa kwenye kwenye hili swala la kwanza
1:29:25mwanangu unak nataka niingie kwenye mada
1:29:26pendwa kwa vijana.
1:29:27>> Safi kabisa.
1:29:28>> Mtu anaanzaje mahusiano kaka?
1:29:37[muziki]
1:29:47>> Mahusiano mimi
1:29:49>> ya jinsia K tofauti [kicheko]
1:29:53>> hatusupporti. Hatusupporti.
1:29:54Hatusupporti. atusupporti [kicheko]
1:29:57>> mimi mimi hii huwa nawaambia marafiki
1:30:00zangu wengi sana marafiki zangu wengi na
1:30:03>> wengi najua inaanzia moja mbili marafiki
1:30:06eh marafiki yaani yaani mtu yeyote
1:30:08ambaye akija kwenye ya mahusiano
1:30:10>> m
1:30:10>> mimi huwa na naamini kwanza mtu kabla ya
1:30:14kumpenda namwamini kwanza
1:30:16>> trust inabidi iwe trust
1:30:18>> hapa tunaongelea kwenye swala la dada
1:30:20zetu atonge atongelei
1:30:23>> ationele general relationship
1:30:24tunaongelea specific na kuamini kwanza m
1:30:27>> baada ya hapo ndio unakuja masala sijui
1:30:29ya upendo that's how I see that's how I
1:30:31view nani my nini
1:30:33>> kwa nini uliadopt hiyo framework kwamba
1:30:35ni muhimu ukaanza na imani alafu baadaye
1:30:36ndio ukafuata
1:30:37>> kwa sababu kwa sababu gani mimi mtu
1:30:39yeyote ambaye nitaingia naye kwenye
1:30:40mahusiano ni kwamba
1:30:43anatakiwa aniwakilishe na mimi
1:30:45nimwakilishe sawa
1:30:47>> okay
1:30:47>> hauwezi kuniwakilisha kama sikuamini
1:30:49siwezi babako hawezi kukutuma wewe tu
1:30:52kwamba
1:30:52>> usije ukamwambia kazi nenda sehemu
1:30:54fulani kitu fulani hamna kama kicho
1:30:56chako ni kichwa kinaelea hivi
1:30:58>> m
1:30:58>> anakwambia sasa
1:31:00>> ni vitu gani ambavyo unadhani vinaweza
1:31:01vikaongeza imani imani yako kwa mtu wa
1:31:04jinsi tofauti yaani maana si ndio
1:31:06mwanzoni maana umesema kabla ya kumpenda
1:31:08ni lazima umwamini binti anayekutizama
1:31:10>> yupo curious yaani ni vitu gani
1:31:12vinavyoongeza imani kwa mkaka kwa sababu
1:31:15mtu anayekutazama sio kwamba anataka we
1:31:17yaani anaamini kwamba labda
1:31:18>> anajifunzanga na yeye kwani how does
1:31:20this thing start inaendaje ili aweze
1:31:22kuelewa how to do it right sindio kweli
1:31:24na in the correct way of course. Sasa
1:31:27how do you go about it kwamba ni vitu
1:31:30gani ambavyo unadhani vinaongeza imani
1:31:31ya mkaka kwa mdada ili sasa baadaye ndio
1:31:35yule mkaka anaona okay mimi naweza
1:31:37nikamwamini huyo na ninaenda kumpenda.
1:31:40ni vitu gani vinachochea imani ya mpaka
1:31:42chim kwangu mimi kuna okay sio cha
1:31:45kwanza navitaja tu sio kama ni order au
1:31:47ni
1:31:48>> cha kwanza ni marafiki zake
1:31:50>> okay
1:31:51>> marafiki zake ni mmoja ya njia nzuri
1:31:52sana kumjua mtu anafananaje kwa sababu
1:31:55you are what you are what you eat you
1:31:56are what you yaani ni kwamba what you
1:31:58eat what you live with watu unaoishi nao
1:32:00na watu kitu unachokula ndio kitu
1:32:02ambacho kinachokupresent wewe. marafiki
1:32:03zako asilimia kubwa wanaweza kudipect
1:32:05kitu ambacho ulicho naacho wewe
1:32:06>> lakini kuna kuna fake friends labda wale
1:32:08marafiki zake ambao ni wabaya yeye sio
1:32:09marafiki za kipas ni fake friends wake
1:32:13why should you person the friends lakini
1:32:15that is question for discussion
1:32:16>> unakuja support kwamba wewe ni mnafiki
1:32:18>> k maanake
1:32:19>> kama ni marafiki zako
1:32:20>> huwezi kumaini [kicheko] ni mnafiki
1:32:21>> wewe ni mnafiki nyingine sababu husema
1:32:24kwamba marafiki zako alfu ni fs nini
1:32:25especially hapa naongea marafiki ni
1:32:27kwamba marafiki kawaida lakini kwamba
1:32:29close friends wako unaweza ukamk mtu mh
1:32:32ndio inakuja is
1:32:33>> kwa maake kama kama marafiki zake wanach
1:32:35tu k no bra na
1:32:36>> inakuja sasa ndio hiyo point kwamba
1:32:38jitahidi sana
1:32:40>> marafiki zako wewe choose marafiki zako
1:32:42vizuri
1:32:43>> wasiwe na ch kwa sababu mwisho wa siku
1:32:44ati watoto wako wakiwa wanakua
1:32:46>> tenda kwa mama
1:32:46>> wataona
1:32:48>> bro hapo umenikumbusha kuna klipu moja
1:32:49niliona tiktok juzi mwanangu kuna scroll
1:32:51nimetoka kwenye harakati zangu hapa na
1:32:52pale pap dada mmoja akapost picha
1:32:55>> akawa anasema bana mimi juzi nimemuona
1:32:57rafiki yangu best friend wangu
1:32:58>> m
1:32:59>> kumbe alikuwa anach nimembrock Hoya watu
1:33:02wadada waliweka kikao mwanangu kwenye
1:33:04comment section. Wewe bado ni mdogo
1:33:06wanaume ni jau [kicheko] wanaume wanaume
1:33:09yule dada akawa anajibu innocent kwamba
1:33:11guys mimi
1:33:13>> I can't yaani kama wewe umemche yule how
1:33:16are you a good you are a traitor wadada
1:33:19hawaelewi wanamwambia wewe miaka 19 watu
1:33:22wamemletea noma so like okay so
1:33:26>> ho hiyo ni kitu cha kwanza marafiki zake
1:33:28tunakuja kwenye imani yake
1:33:30>> okay the things she believes the things
1:33:32she believes
1:33:33>> okay
1:33:33>> kwa sababu ni kwenye swala la imani
1:33:34nakuja tunaongele swala la nani la imani
1:33:37kama ni dini hizo hapo inaingia hapo
1:33:40hapo
1:33:40>> kwako hiyo inakuongezea namna ya
1:33:42kumwamini mtu kuakwa unajua ni rahisi ni
1:33:44rahisi sana kuw na mtu ambaye kufanya
1:33:47kufanya kazi na mtu ambaye mna misingi
1:33:48sawa
1:33:50>> okay
1:33:51nadhani ni knowledge na neno rahisi ama
1:33:53easy so but i get a point [kicheko]
1:33:56it's efficient
1:33:57>> okay sawa it's efficient efficient
1:33:59kufanya kazi mtu ambaye na misingi na
1:34:01misingi sawa kwamba like mnajua
1:34:03anachokiamini na unachokiamini Nini
1:34:05>> page moja
1:34:07>> inakurahisisha na kazi. Sawa?
1:34:09>> Inakuja ukiachana na swala la dini sio
1:34:12dini samahani naongelea imani
1:34:14anachoamini marafiki zake.
1:34:16>> Unadhani what is the greatest turnof ya
1:34:18kitu ambacho labda unaongea tu na mtu
1:34:19umeinteract naye umekutana naye
1:34:21mwanzoni? Okay. So sasa hivi yaani in
1:34:23the pasto. Like unakuta naongea na
1:34:25mtuasema there's no way we are gna have
1:34:27a relationship.
1:34:28>> Yaani imani gani unadhani imani gani mtu
1:34:31akizihold alafu ni binti kwako
1:34:32zinakutana kabisa. Yaani
1:34:34>> mimi nakuja inayofuata inayofuata
1:34:37inajitegemea ni issue ya financial part
1:34:40pesa. Kuna mtu unamsikia anaongea
1:34:43unasema
1:34:45mbona kama nitakuwa nalea mtoto sasa
1:34:47[kicheko]
1:34:48>> unabidi uanze
1:34:50>> inabidi nianze kufundisha sasa kwamba
1:34:52moja jumlisha moja ni mbili baada ya
1:34:54hapo ni sitaki kumkimbiza sitaki
1:34:55kfundisha vitu vigumu baadaye mfundishe
1:34:57taratibu kwamba hapo unakuja hapa hapa
1:34:59unakuja hapa hivi
1:35:00>> alfu bado tena kuna risk graduate hayo
1:35:02masomo kwa hiyo I get it
1:35:03>> hiyo inakuja sasa hiyo changamoto hii
1:35:04hapo alafu kwenye swala la imani mimi
1:35:06kwangu mimi mimi mtu ambaye anaamini
1:35:08kwamba starehe sana
1:35:11>> mh M
1:35:11>> hapa hapa naona unapiga mbapaso lakini
1:35:14anawashambulia sana dada zetu wa
1:35:15numerology [kicheko] ana astro mimi mimi
1:35:19mimi mimi
1:35:20>> kwa hiyo kaka
1:35:21>> kwenye swala la imani kwenye swala la
1:35:23imani mimi mimi nisale dada zetu
1:35:26>> watu wa sijui mimi vigo sijui nini sijui
1:35:28sagaritas sijui nini mimi sagitari mimi
1:35:31hapana sijui sagittari sijui prices
1:35:34sijui nini mimi
1:35:36ni kwamba kitu
1:35:39kimoja kitu kimoja ambacho unakuja
1:35:41kwenye kwamba ya kuwa selfish tunarudi
1:35:43kwenye pointi zile zile
1:35:44>> tunatafuta excuses za sisi kuwa wajinga
1:35:47>> tatafuta excuses kuwa arogant mimi bana
1:35:50i cannot work on being honest because i
1:35:52was born on November 12 are you stupid
1:35:54[kicheko]
1:35:55are you stupid
1:35:56>> kwa maanisha if you were born on
1:35:57february ungekuwa tofauti
1:36:01hapo hapo hapo iana insist kwamba mtu
1:36:02anavosema i was born at 12 ni kwamba
1:36:04siku ambayo dunia ilikuwa inazunguka jua
1:36:08ilivofika sikuanza kuzunguka jua Mimi
1:36:10nilipozaliwa pale I cannot upole.
1:36:13>> Ah siwezi ni mimi mpole [kicheko] wakati
1:36:15jua lilikuwa hapa.
1:36:17>> Hicho ni kitu ambacho wewe hukubaliana
1:36:19maana mimi vitu sijainunua.
1:36:20>> Mimi mimi hapana mimi nisidanganye
1:36:21[kicheko] mimi kiukweli mimi nikikutana
1:36:23na mtu ambaye ana hizo mambo ah ah
1:36:27hatutafika mbali. kwa hii hapo kwa h
1:36:29>> na msingi wa wewe kuamini hivy kama
1:36:31ulivyosema ni kwa sababu unaamini kwamba
1:36:33hamna logic ya kutosha kwenye hivyo vitu
1:36:36kiasi cha kwamba hata vitu vingine
1:36:38unaamini kwamba watakuwa wanatumia hiyo
1:36:40kama mwamvuli
1:36:42>> hata ukimwelewesha [kicheko] bana
1:36:45>> kama ni swala la kujishusha mimi ni
1:36:47sagitari mimi ni sagitari [kicheko]
1:36:49>> mimi mimi ni
1:36:51>> vyote nitafanya lakini hiana hapana
1:36:54hapana maisha maisha ingekuwa yanaenda
1:36:56hivo watu wengi wajua kwamba maisha
1:36:57ingekuwa alikuwa naenda watu wengine
1:36:58mambo ya sijui wanafanya [kicheko] maana
1:37:00ni swala mimi kuamua tu unajua mimi
1:37:02navyoona leo ni stibu wa wagonjwa kwa
1:37:03sababu gani
1:37:04>> mimi ni
1:37:05>> sipo kwenye kwa sababu mimi ni muda
1:37:07wangu wa kupoa muda wangu wa fanya
1:37:09>> kuna kunao balaa kakaitwa kancer mimi
1:37:12sijui kancer sijui [kicheko]
1:37:13>> mimi mimi mimi ki na leukemia
1:37:19>> mimi sio mimi sio mwamini hiyo vile
1:37:21yaani kwa hiyo mtu ambaye anaamini vitu
1:37:22kama hivyo tunakuja kwenye isa imani
1:37:24imani unajua ubaya ni kwamba mtu
1:37:25umwambia imani mtu anakimbia kwamba ni
1:37:26dini
1:37:27hata
1:37:28>> ila inarefle inakuja kwamba reflection
1:37:30ya kwamba
1:37:32unavyodescribe hiyo tu I'm trying to get
1:37:34a pattern kwamba it's more of the mind
1:37:36of this person the beliefs the hold
1:37:39reflects the way they think
1:37:41>> kwa ho inakuonyesha ni kazi gani unayo
1:37:43ya kwenda kuifanya ya
1:37:44>> kwenda kuishapamba naenda kuitoa yaani
1:37:45kwamba hapa naenda kuchonga kwa sababu
1:37:47hamna mtu unaenda ni kwamba ni kitu
1:37:48kimoja ushagona hautakuja hautakuja
1:37:52kuchukua mtu ambaye ni yeye 100%
1:37:55unayemtaka alafu akakufaa wewe
1:37:57>> akakufaa wewe
1:37:58>> kwa sababu wewe hufanani na watu wengine
1:38:00>> sabu ni aidha utampata mtu ambaye ana
1:38:01ficha zako zote 100% ila hakufai kabisa
1:38:04mpo mna yaani ile itikadi tofauti kabisa
1:38:08wewe unaamini kulia naamini kushoto
1:38:10unaendelea kwa hiyo mwisho wa siku ni
1:38:11kwamba inabidi uangalie hiyo ni kitu
1:38:12kingine ambacho we wanapenda kuangalia
1:38:13sio mimi hichi
1:38:14>> hapo nataka nikutoe kidogo kwenye red
1:38:16unaamini kwamba ni muhimu ukawa na mtu
1:38:18ambaye mnaelewana vitu vyote 100%
1:38:21>> hapana sio lazima unajua ndio inakuja
1:38:23kwenye hiyo point kwamba mimi mimi
1:38:25Naamini kwenye kuangalia mapungufu ya
1:38:27mtu.
1:38:28>> Okay.
1:38:29>> Kuangalia mapungufu yake alafu kama
1:38:30naweza nikayavumilia.
1:38:32>> M
1:38:32>> kila mtu ana mapungufu yake asim.
1:38:34>> Okay.
1:38:35>> Wewe pia una mapungufu yako mimi na
1:38:36mapungufu yangu. Kila mtu ana pungufu
1:38:38yake ndani
1:38:39>> lakini si anaangalia kama naweza
1:38:40nikavumilia kwa sababu mimi sijaoa sina
1:38:44uzoefu kwenye ndoa yoyote lakini unaweza
1:38:46ukawaona [kicheko] kuna muda mnafika
1:38:48wanaanza kila mtu kila mtu anaanza kuwa
1:38:50na ratiba zake ngu mmoja atasimamia
1:38:52msimamo fulani
1:38:54>> atapishana. ni pointi ya kuvumilia kama
1:38:56huo msimamo ulikuwa nao unaujua ni hiyo
1:39:00ni moja ya njia ya kupunguza sana
1:39:01>> mimi niweke tu kisoka soka unajitahidi
1:39:04sana kama kuna unacheza na timu ambayo
1:39:06unajua hii timu ipo vizuri hutaki
1:39:08kuwaruhusu wapige pasi huku kwenye boksi
1:39:10lako [kicheko] sindio yaani
1:39:12>> tumalize kule mzee ya uwanja
1:39:14mimi mimi
1:39:15>> hivi vitu vingine vya kukaba vije
1:39:17vitokee huku baadaye tukiwa lakini kama
1:39:19kuna vitu tunaweza tukaviua mapema
1:39:21>> vife ah yaani ni kutupunguza alafu alafu
1:39:24uki
1:39:25ukiangalia ukiangalia vyote hivyo
1:39:26unavyoangalia kwamba sijui mapungufu
1:39:28sijui nini nini sijui financially sijui
1:39:30nini unaangalia vyote kwa sababu kuu ni
1:39:33moja
1:39:35unahakikisha kwamba huyu ni mama wa kuja
1:39:37watoto wako au huyu ni mke wako ndio
1:39:39pointi ya kuwa mwakilishi
1:39:41>> yeye atakuwa ni mama atakaa na watoto
1:39:43wako kwa sababu sio kila muda utakaa nao
1:39:44wewe
1:39:45>> atakaa yeye.
1:39:46>> Kuna muda utasafiri kuna nini kuna
1:39:47sehemu ambayo atasimama kama mke.
1:39:49>> Yapo inabidi sasa uhakikishe kwamba ni
1:39:52mwakilishi wako. kuna kofia nyingi
1:39:54anazivaa
1:39:54>> akazivaa. Kwa hiyo sasa kama mwakilishi
1:39:56wako humwamini unajua kwamba ni kwamba
1:39:58unakaa na mtu anangalia yaani moja mimi
1:40:00mimi yaani ni rahisi sana nakaa
1:40:01namwangalia anasema huyu ah siwezi
1:40:03kusema kwamba ni mama sababu mimi mimi
1:40:05[kicheko]
1:40:05>> huyu kwenye mke anafit lakini kwenye
1:40:07mama natakia niangalie kwa sababu ndio
1:40:09wewe unaangalia kwamba wewe legacy yako
1:40:10unaipasa kwa nani kwa watoto wako
1:40:12>> you see that is an act of selflessness
1:40:14yaani hapo unaconsider msala wa watoto
1:40:15kwa sababu wewe haukuhusu kimsingi
1:40:17>> mimi nishakuwa nimeshapigwa fimbo zangu
1:40:19kaka
1:40:20>> nishapigwa fimbo zangu nimenyooka
1:40:21nimenyooka staili yangu
1:40:22>> yaani najaribu kusema kwamba wewe kama
1:40:23baba ukiwa ni mtu wa self M
1:40:25>> wewe hapo swala lako la msingi ni anafaa
1:40:27kuwa mke
1:40:28>> kuhusu anafaa kuwa mama bora hiyo ni nje
1:40:30yaani it's n of business ambapo ambapo
1:40:32ambapo ni purukushani ni purukushani
1:40:34kubwa sana lakini s ndio hivyo kila mtu
1:40:35kila mtu anakuja na misimamo yake
1:40:36atakuja na kushauri hivi na hivi lakini
1:40:38mimi kwangu mimi hiyo ni kitu serious
1:40:39sana kwamba
1:40:40>> je
1:40:41>> kwa hiyo baada ya hapo ile steji ya
1:40:42kwanza ya uaminifu inakuwa imeshakuwa
1:40:44established sasa tunaanza sasa
1:40:46kuconsider
1:40:46>> inakuja sasa inakuja sasa maswala ya
1:40:48upendo upendo unakuja ambako ugo sasa
1:40:52kidogo tunasema Eh reasoning inakuwa
1:40:56kidogo haina uwanja mkubwa wa kupiga
1:40:58pasi.
1:40:58>> Asante. Asante.
1:41:00>> Reasoning unaifanya kubwa hapa kwa
1:41:01khakikisha msingi uo vizuri. Foundation
1:41:03imesimama vizuri kabisa. Huku iningine
1:41:05sasa ndio love blind unaweza kufanya
1:41:07haya mapu yaani ha vitu vingine hiyo
1:41:09lakini sasa mwisho wa siku msingi.
1:41:10>> Sasa unavyoona wewe kwa binti wa kike
1:41:13mim naonanga kama they it is very hard
1:41:15to be a lady kwa sababu how can you
1:41:18control the type of people ambao
1:41:19watakufuata wewe as a lady ama binti
1:41:21anayekutizama. yaani kwamba yaani
1:41:23anawezaje kucontrol mkaka atakayenifuata
1:41:26ni mkaka wa kariba hii ama wa kariba ile
1:41:28mwenye nature hii mwenye thinking
1:41:29capacity kwa sababu we kama mkaka unaona
1:41:32ulivyo na luxury kuweza kusema
1:41:34>> for a lady how can she have that power
1:41:37pia
1:41:37>> okay kwangu kwangu mimi sasa hapa ni
1:41:40kama nawasemea watu haij [kicheko]
1:41:41lakini
1:41:44>> kwangu mimi kwa kufikiria nadhani moja
1:41:47ya njia nyepesi sana ya kuhandle hiyo
1:41:48situation ni kwa wewe kudepict yaani
1:41:51kuonyesha hizo hizo ficha ambazo watu
1:41:53wanaini wanazitaka unaangalia unaangalia
1:41:56unaangalia unaangalia watu watu ambao ni
1:41:59watu ambao unawataka wewe
1:42:00>> okay like more of like unataka kuja kuwa
1:42:02mtu wa aina gani
1:42:03>> exactly unaangalia unataka kuja kuwa mtu
1:42:04wa gani kwa hiyo ni unaattract kitu
1:42:06ambacho ni kawaida ni rahisi sana ni
1:42:08rahisi sana
1:42:09>> kwa unajua ni kama kama amesha kuwautana
1:42:11na mdada mmoja unasikia mdada mtu wa
1:42:13dini
1:42:14>> sawa
1:42:14>> anapewa heshima hata mtu akija kuongea
1:42:16naye anaongea kwamba kwa namna kwamba ah
1:42:17huu ni fulani ni fulani dada umeona s
1:42:20kitu [kicheko] ni unaattractifanya
1:42:23>> unachokipresent kwa watu kwamba mimi
1:42:25niko moja mbili tatu nne tan
1:42:26>> kwa hiyo that's that's kwangu mimi na
1:42:28rahisi ndio ndio njia nia njia ya raisi
1:42:31au njia how lady umemaliza zako chuo upo
1:42:34zako saa hivi unafanya kazi mahali
1:42:36umejitolea ama unatafuta ajira unafanya
1:42:38zako kazi unaenda ofisini how do you
1:42:40control how people perceive you umepita
1:42:42zako kwenye daladala umaskini ya Mungu
1:42:43umependeza umejaliwa mwili mzuri kila
1:42:45mkaka
1:42:47>> how can you control that mim mimi ni
1:42:49>> hakufuata mkaka umeenda zako restaurant
1:42:51m
1:42:51>> kakufuata na umejitahidi kweli kutafuta
1:42:53res za bei nzuri
1:42:54>> lakini kuna mkaka kavunja kibubu mkaka
1:42:56ni misogistaya mno hayaelewi lakini
1:42:59yaani na mkaka hiyo hayo ndio maeneo
1:43:01yake ya kutafuta how can she know yaani
1:43:05>> can we say they have no any competitive
1:43:07advantage
1:43:08>> sasa inakuja ile point ya kwamba do your
1:43:11best inakuja pointi ya do your best how
1:43:14kwa sababu do your best ni kwamba do
1:43:16everything yaani fanya kile
1:43:17kinachotakiwafanya katika ubora sawa
1:43:21kama kusema ni issue ya mavazi kama ni
1:43:23issue ya unavyoongea
1:43:24>> m
1:43:25>> kama ni issue unavyojiweka mbele za watu
1:43:26>> m
1:43:27>> usijieke kama ni yaani kama ni mtu
1:43:29anaweza anaweza kuingia kivyepesi hivo
1:43:32unavofanya your best mtu anaweka
1:43:33jitihada vizuri
1:43:35>> baada ya hapo kuhusu what happens after
1:43:37that
1:43:38>> unaachia ulimwengu wa moja kwa sababu
1:43:40mtu anaweza mtu anaweza kukufuata wa
1:43:42hivo
1:43:42>> unaweza kwa sababu mwisho wa siku ndio
1:43:44hivyo kwamba
1:43:45>> pia unaweza kukataa sio kama sio kama
1:43:47vile upo kwenye nini yupo kwenye taifa
1:43:49ifa au sijui nini ambayo kwamba labda
1:43:51wewe utafanya hivi sio kile unachoambiwa
1:43:52kitafanya kazi kwako wewe.
1:43:55They could use that on you. Like hata
1:43:56hicho unachoniambia
1:43:57>> hamna shida. Hamna shida. Kitumie
1:43:59>> kitumie lakini doe
1:44:01mafanikio
1:44:03>> sio kije kukupe maisha mabaya.
1:44:05>> But living a life ambayo unamwambia
1:44:07binti kwamba they cannot do what they
1:44:09want. They have to care about how a man
1:44:11sees them and everything. Doesn't that
1:44:12sound so misogyistic? I mean what do you
1:44:15have to say about that?
1:44:17>> At the same time at the same time
1:44:18mwanaume ndio mnakaa mnampiga speech
1:44:20hapa kwamba brother self love is not
1:44:22anything. You have to do everything to
1:44:24support your family. You have to do
1:44:26everything to get the of your family.
1:44:28Kwa hiyo ndio hivo unakaa as a woman
1:44:30mnamfundisha self love. Yaani
1:44:32mnamfundisha unself. Yaani kuwa
1:44:34selfless.
1:44:35>> I believe all humans should be selfless.
1:44:37But I believe kwamba the idea ya kuenjoy
1:44:40maisha should exist only in women.
1:44:42[kicheko] I swear to God I believe only
1:44:45only women deserve the chance to say I
1:44:47just want a peaceful life. Kwa sababu I
1:44:49believe the entire existence is very
1:44:51difficult. Mimi naamini mwanangu I
1:44:54believe kwamba the entire issue ya
1:44:56kuanzia wao wanavyolea watoto the way
1:44:58they stay na mtoto kumfuatilia the
1:45:00details kumnyonyesha they go with the
1:45:02period thing their emotional
1:45:03fluctuations everything they deserve the
1:45:06chance ya kukaa na kula bata like they
1:45:09do a lot for humanity already m
1:45:11>> so I feel like they they deserve that
1:45:13parts yaani a lady can just give birth
1:45:16na atakuwa amefanya a lot of good in the
1:45:18society
1:45:19>> sema at the same time at the same time
1:45:21like It's it's never comparable. Sasa
1:45:25unajua baya ni kwamba
1:45:26>> m
1:45:27>> unaongea umeongea kitu sahihi sana.
1:45:30Wamama wanafanya kazi kubwa sana. Binti
1:45:32wanafanya kazi kubwa sana with what they
1:45:34do. Wanahakikisha population hivi wanani
1:45:37>> which is a very noble job. That's a very
1:45:39job kwa sababu wanakep customers wanakep
1:45:42population wanakip lab wanakep
1:45:43everything everything works every
1:45:45thinkers innovators wanaku
1:45:49>> sasa inakuja aspect ya kwamba at the
1:45:51same time wasioverdo yaani msi ni kwamba
1:45:55watu yaani ni kwamba dunia inakuwa
1:45:57tilted kwamba inawahi kwamba
1:45:59wao wasipopita hii inth mimi naamini
1:46:03kwamba this i what you said is correct
1:46:05lakini at the same time at times we
1:46:07overdo it How?
1:46:08>> By oppressing men.
1:46:10>> I actually believe there's nothing like
1:46:12oppressing men. How can you oppress a
1:46:13man?
1:46:13>> Unakumbuka unakumbuka ile issue ya iko
1:46:15opportunities?
1:46:17>> Mimi
1:46:19si point ni hii hapa. I'm not a believer
1:46:21of equality. I'm believer of equity
1:46:23being fair.
1:46:25>> Okay. So we gna go to a very different
1:46:27conversation from how do tunaama kabisa.
1:46:30Lakini turudi kud
1:46:33ni kwamba
1:46:34>> sehemu ambazo mtu anatakiwa apasana na
1:46:37credits au advantage au skills zake na
1:46:40ni nini hapiti kwa sababu kuna mtu
1:46:43anapita kwa sababu yaani which I
1:46:45understand very okay
1:46:47>> ndioasema I understand if it's about
1:46:49nani issue ya empowerment na nini
1:46:50naelewa lakini kuna sometime inakuwa
1:46:52inaku to be the bigger brother unaona
1:46:54watoto wanilia chocolate wasema you know
1:46:55what kids I'm gna do something
1:46:58unawaachia you go and do
1:47:01Mimi ni believer wa melitrocasy kwamba
1:47:03take the best person to the job to do
1:47:04the job.
1:47:04>> And may I believe kwamba if you the best
1:47:06person you can always create
1:47:08opportunities. Huwezi ukakaa chini
1:47:10unasema these people w think you are the
1:47:14mtu ambaye huwezi kuwa replaced kwenye
1:47:16task fulani you are exceptionally good
1:47:18>> hata wakimhaya mtu kwa sababu ajenda
1:47:20yake youl never find that person who is
1:47:21exceptionally good akienda kulalamika we
1:47:23oppressed you know we are very good at
1:47:25our jobs but they no longer high us
1:47:27anymore people like those youl never
1:47:29find them kwa watu wanaoendanga
1:47:30kulalamika we oppressed ni watu ni those
1:47:33type of mind ambao they want to seek the
1:47:35help yaani wanataka kutumia sa huo kama
1:47:37mimi [kicheko] sijatoboa kwa sababu gani
1:47:39kazi siku hizi wanatafuta nini?
1:47:41Wanatafuta mwamburi. Wanatafuta
1:47:42mwamburi.
1:47:42>> Wakishapata hicho kichaka hawahami.
1:47:45>> Yaani unajua kama sio washikaji wale
1:47:48pale kufanya hivi fulani so I believe
1:47:50kwamba ukiwa ni mtu ambaye unatafuta
1:47:51excuses. Mimi ni imani yangu though kila
1:47:53mtu ana imani yake right. Kwamba ukiwa
1:47:55ni mtu ambaye unaenda kutafuta excuses
1:47:56unatafuta mwamvuli wa kujifunikia usiwe
1:47:58accountable.
1:48:00>> It's it's very
1:48:02>> yaani it's very hard to be competent. M
1:48:04>> huwezi ukashindana na watu ambao they
1:48:06believe kwamba okay waachie like wale
1:48:08wanaot the high road kwamba okay mmesema
1:48:10sasa hivi mnachukua dada okay fine take
1:48:12them basi mimi nitaenda kufanya kilimo
1:48:14like it's way harder right and
1:48:17>> and I'm competent if you're really
1:48:18competent nothing should bother you kama
1:48:20kinaanzwa na neno competition in any
1:48:22competition you should never expect it
1:48:25to be fair if you want to stand even a
1:48:26slightest chance ya kuin
1:48:28>> lazima kuna watu wana added advantages
1:48:31of course
1:48:31>> lazima kwenye competition you have to
1:48:33kwamba kuna mtu anakuja na extra
1:48:35information dunia tulipo sasa hivi
1:48:37competition yote watu wanaingia na
1:48:40exceptional advantage. Hata wewe huwezi
1:48:41kuingia button na mtu kama humjui. Yaani
1:48:43hata kama unapigana na mtu utaka ujue
1:48:45jamaa anapiga juu jits karate m of
1:48:47course
1:48:47>> yaani you want to have an an added
1:48:49advantage.
1:48:50>> Kwa hiyo
1:48:52>> if you are a competitive person
1:48:54>> we should agree that is not a problem at
1:48:55all. Mimi ni kwamba
1:48:58usije ukasound kama kwamba sijui unamine
1:49:01uwezo wa watu kwamba lakini if you are
1:49:03good enough
1:49:04>> hataki kujali si ni jenda yako au ni
1:49:06nani you have to standani
1:49:09>> kwa hiyo mimi nakuja ile point kwamba
1:49:10you are good m
1:49:11>> baada ha zakuja fakta zingine kwamba
1:49:13okay una hichi una hichi una hichi una
1:49:14hichi una hichi basi
1:49:16>> okay very well so mimi nashukuru sana
1:49:18kwenye hii patuani tuliyofanya hapa
1:49:19nataka tuende kwenye mapumziko mafupi
1:49:22tutarejea tena tutamalizia session yetu
1:49:25vizuri kabisa
1:49:26kabisa. Okay. So, welcome back. Tulikuwa
1:49:30tunaongea mambo ya tunaanzaje? How do we
1:49:33start? How do you do
1:49:36una how do you start? Mambo ya mahusiano
1:49:39tumeongea vitu vingi sana kwa hiyo
1:49:40tunarudi kuendelea na tulipoishia.
1:49:43Kaka
1:49:45tumerudi. Ah sasa hivi na mimi naomba na
1:49:49mi dhambi yangu kuongea na wewe uko kama
1:49:52huko muda wa mimi kuulizwa maswali. Eh
1:49:55sawa.
1:49:56>> Okay. Tunakuja kwenye pointi ya
1:49:58starting.
1:50:00Umeniuliza maswali mengi na nini? Cha
1:50:03kwanza nipe nipe mtazamo wako au msimamo
1:50:06wako kwenye swala zima la how do you
1:50:07start wewe unavyofanya vitu vyako. How
1:50:10do you kwa sababu ni kawaida umeanza
1:50:12biashara umeanza nini. kuna kitu ambavo
1:50:14ulianza ni kitu kama hicho chapo. Tupe
1:50:15mfano tupe mfano ulianza kitu gani
1:50:17ulikafika wapi hivi
1:50:18>> mfano ambao unaona ni very relatable na
1:50:20ni vitu ambavyo ninaweza nikavidisclose
1:50:22ambavyo sio classified.
1:50:24>> Ndio
1:50:26>> ni hii podcast kwa mfano hii podcast
1:50:28tumeitengeneza mimi na timu yangu sio
1:50:31jit za mtu mmoja of course unajua yaani
1:50:33huwezi ukafanya kitu kikubwa hata siku
1:50:35moja ukakifanya chochote wewe mwenyewe.
1:50:37>> Changamoto nzito ilikuwepo kwenye
1:50:39kufanya planning. M napenda sana kuplan
1:50:41vitu vyangu vinyook lakini nilikuja
1:50:43kugundua ninaweza kuanza mapema zaidi
1:50:48kwa sababu kulingana na mipango hii
1:50:49ngoma ilikuwa haianze mwakani.
1:50:51>> Okay.
1:50:51>> Lakini nikaja kugundua mbona inaweza
1:50:53ikaanza tu kwa ubora kiwepesi kwa
1:50:54gharama nafuu ambazo kweli gharama ni
1:50:56nzito lakini kuna ninaweza nikagow from
1:51:00here.
1:51:01>> Kwa hiyo hata ukinotice
1:51:03>> changamoto nyingi zinakuwa zinapungua.
1:51:04ukikubali kwamba I don't have to create
1:51:07the best thing mwanzoni na mwanzo ni
1:51:09mwanzo utaanza tu utafanya then you will
1:51:12evolve from there kwa hiyo kutoa ule
1:51:15mzigo mzito wa kudhani kwamba inabidi
1:51:17upatie kila kitu inabidi uende hivi na
1:51:19hivi na kuwa tu mkweli kurelax kupiga tu
1:51:21story
1:51:22>> kwa hiyo nikaona tu ah ikiwa tu ni
1:51:24sehemu ya kupiga stori kuongea kama
1:51:26jenzi hivi kama vijana kupiga stori moja
1:51:28mbili tatu kujifunza ipo siku labda
1:51:30unaweza ukaja tukajifunza na watu hapa
1:51:32tukapiga stori tukabadilishana na mawazo
1:51:34moja pili tatu. So ikawa rahisi kwa cha
1:51:37kwanza ilikuwa tu ni planning kukubali
1:51:39kwamba you don't have to have all the
1:51:40answers. Hutakiwi kujua kila kitu
1:51:43kitakavyokuwa. Lakini pia plan alafu
1:51:45uanze tu. yaani take the first step
1:51:47mwanzo yaani ule mwanzo ndio unakuanga
1:51:49mgumu baada ya pale ukubali kwamba
1:51:52ukishaanza sio kwamba eti kwa sababu
1:51:53mwanzo ni mgumu huko mbele unapahis no
1:51:56kukubali kwamba nature ya maisha tuko
1:51:58duniani hatuko mbinguni
1:51:59>> kwa ho kutokutafuta mbingu ukiwa duniani
1:52:01kwa hiyo mimi nimemake peace najua tu
1:52:03hii ni kuongeza majukumu kwenye
1:52:05ninavyovifanya lakini i take a great
1:52:07sense of
1:52:09>> joy na and pride nikiamini kwamba
1:52:12itakujanga tu kuguza maisha ya mtu mmoja
1:52:14au wawili and is all that matters for
1:52:16me. Naamini tukija kufanya podcast
1:52:19nyingi mbele watu wengi watakujanga tu
1:52:21kuangalia hii podcast na maisha yanaweza
1:52:24yakabadilika wakapata mtazamo tofauti.
1:52:27>> Mimi pia naweza nikafundishwa na watu
1:52:28kwenye podcasti hii
1:52:30>> na naamini nitakuwa ya better person.
1:52:32The more nazidi kuinteract na watu
1:52:33kwenye hii podcast kujifunza.
1:52:35>> Kwa hiyo ni kama commitment fulani
1:52:37najitengenezea kwamba kila siku ya Mungu
1:52:39>> lazima niangalie leo tunakuja kufanya
1:52:41nini kwa ajili ya sport viewers. Okay.
1:52:43>> Familia yetu Pemba
1:52:46spoil them very bad ili wawe very
1:52:49spoiled. So yeah.
1:52:50>> Sasa kwenye kwenye kama nimekusikia
1:52:53vizuri kama nimekupata vizuri
1:52:54umesisitiza sana kwenye swala la
1:52:56planning planning planning. So unaweza
1:53:00unaweza ukatupa
1:53:02unaweza ukanipa kama raf
1:53:04>> m
1:53:05>> sio hesabu sijui kwambie vitu gani
1:53:06ambavyo unavizingatia kwenye plan kwamba
1:53:08kitu kama chckia kwamba hichi na hichi
1:53:10na hichi na hichi na hichi like kawaida
1:53:11general general hata kama si
1:53:13>> mwanzoni nilikuwanga na frameworks zangu
1:53:15ambazo zilikuwa zinanipa matokeo
1:53:16>> lakini nikakutana na kakangu mmoja
1:53:18napenda sana kujifunza kwa watu
1:53:20>> I like learning kuna kakangu mmoja
1:53:23anaitwa Raphael najua hapendi sportlight
1:53:25>> Rafa kaputaja mara mbili
1:53:27>> kuna kitu kimoja moja pia alinifundisha
1:53:28sawa eh akaaniambia ukiona kafanya
1:53:30mpango wako
1:53:31>> kitu hichi ni kama cardinal rule
1:53:33>> ask yourself who will up my plan
1:53:37>> yaani kwenye kila mpango wako kuna meza
1:53:39ya mtu utailingisha
1:53:42>> kwa hiyo lazima uangalie ni nani
1:53:44atasupport idea yako na ni nani ataruin
1:53:47idea yako
1:53:48>> kwa mwangu baada ya jamaa kuniambia
1:53:50hicho kitu ndio kili kilibadilisha namna
1:53:52ninavyotizama vitu vingi sana
1:53:54>> nikaja kuondoa hata zile hatua zangu za
1:53:56kufanya fulani
1:53:58>> basically jamaa ameziweka kwenye namna
1:54:00ambayo inakuwa more surgical. Nikisema
1:54:02surgical yaani maanake inakata pale pale
1:54:05yaani it is so precise. Lazima ujue nani
1:54:07atasupport idea yako na nani ataruin
1:54:10idea yako.
1:54:11>> Kwa hiyo ukijua atakayeisupport
1:54:12utaangalia ataisupport ukifanyaje na
1:54:14ukiangalia atakayeeruin utajua nani ana
1:54:16power ya kukuruin.
1:54:17>> So planning yako yoyote ili iwe
1:54:19effective
1:54:20>> vitu hivyo viwili lazima uvitick kwenye
1:54:22checklist yako. Ukishatick hivo the rest
1:54:24is very easy to do. Ndio maana unagundua
1:54:25kumbe planning haihitaji muda mrefu.
1:54:27>> Okay.
1:54:28>> Yep.
1:54:28>> Safi kabisa.
1:54:29>> Yeah. So that was one of the very
1:54:31important lessons
1:54:33>> m safi. Unajua ni kwamba watu kuna
1:54:36changamoto ambayo yaani kwamba tuseme
1:54:38changamoto tunayo wabongo au si wabongo
1:54:41au nini lakini kuna watu wengi wakuta ni
1:54:44anaanza.
1:54:46Tunashauri mtu uanze hatujakushauri
1:54:48uende kama huna kichwa. Ahah. Kichwa
1:54:50kina umuhimu kaa chini. kufikiria kwamba
1:54:53naanza moja mbili tatu nne tano
1:54:54nategemea nikifika hapa nifanye hivi
1:54:56nifanye hivi nifanye hivi nifanye hivi
1:54:58inakurahisishia maamuzi
1:55:01>> kwamba maamuzi hapa ni sahihi hapa ni
1:55:03mabaya kwa hiyo ndio hivyo sijui sijui
1:55:06sijui kwa nini lakini
1:55:08yaani ni kwa kufuatilia ni kwamba ni ni
1:55:11vijana sana sana swala la yaani sasa
1:55:14unajua kwamba mtu siku yako ikiwa ukiwa
1:55:18umeipanga katika ratiba nzuri vitu vyako
1:55:20umepanga vizuri ni jambo la kawaida sana
1:55:22wewe kufanikiwa. Sasa sielewii kwamba ni
1:55:25vijana huwa hatutaki hatupendi au
1:55:28endelee kuogopa mafanikio au kuogopa
1:55:29kufeli. Wewe unahisi kwa upande wako kwa
1:55:31sababu huwa nini?
1:55:32>> Okay. Basically mimi nimekuja kugundua
1:55:34mwanzoni nisema kuna kuna aina mbili za
1:55:36watu
1:55:37>> ambao ninaamini sababu za kutokufanikiwa
1:55:40aidha hujajua ama wewe ni mvivu.
1:55:45>> Hii sababu yangu nyingine inaweza
1:55:46kondeshwa lakini naamini kuna watu
1:55:47waliumbwa tu.
1:55:49B
1:55:50>> yaani kwamba usije ukawa kama fulani
1:55:53>> kwa sababu mtu yeyote ambaye hajui
1:55:56>> akiweka jitihada
1:55:57>> atajua siku hizi information zipo umeona
1:55:59eh kwa hiyo naamini kwamba kuna baadhi
1:56:01ya watu kiukweli honestly speaking
1:56:02hawajui lakini mtu kama wewe ni mtu
1:56:04ambaye akielekezwa akaambiwa bwana hivi
1:56:06vitu ni hivi na hivi na hivi kuna mtu
1:56:07hajawahi kuwa na mazingira ambayo ni
1:56:10kuna exposure labda ambayo inaweza
1:56:13ikamfanya yeye aweze kujua okay natakiwa
1:56:15nijue hichi kwa mfano mtu anaweza
1:56:18akakuuliza Leo pap umekutana na
1:56:19mheshimiwa rais
1:56:21>> kwenye room una nusu saa
1:56:23>> unanufaika vipi?
1:56:26>> Amwambia nini? Tutamwambia nini?
1:56:27[kicheko] Ndio ule mfana umeona papo
1:56:30naye kwa hiyo unajifunza mtu kama huyo,
1:56:32kijana kama huyo. Yaani hata wewe viwa
1:56:33wewe kajitafakari pap
1:56:35>> upo kwenye room na mheshimiwa rais
1:56:36dakika 30 maisha yako yatabaki hivo hivo
1:56:39hivo hivo alafu kuna mtu anataka tu
1:56:41apate picha tu na ra katoka
1:56:44>> udhibitisho
1:56:45>> picha tu
1:56:46>> lakini wewe kaa tu jiangalie hivi kweli
1:56:48leo yaani wewe pozi hivi iliyokaaje ju
1:56:50hiv jamaa anaongea ila ngoja kwanza mi
1:56:53niko na rais kwenye chumba dakika 30
1:56:55hivi kweli natoka hivo hivo
1:56:58>> umeona kwa hiyo naamini kuna watu kweli
1:56:59hawajui na ukishakubali kama hauna ego
1:57:03ama kiburi. Yaani ni ngumu sana
1:57:06kujifunza kwa mtu ukiamini wewe unajua
1:57:08kila kitu ama wewe ni bora na vitu kama
1:57:10hivyo. Kwa hiyo naamini watu wengi aidha
1:57:12hawajui aidha ni wavivu ama wana kiburi
1:57:16>> na kiburi nadhani ndio sababu kubwa. ile
1:57:18sababu yangu nyingine ile labda
1:57:19waliumbwa hivo hivo tu ili wawe alama na
1:57:21ishara naamini kama mtu huna kiburi sio
1:57:24mvivu unaweza tukajifunza kwa unakuta
1:57:27wengine ni vitu vinaeleza
1:57:29>> sabu mimi huwa naamini kitu kimoja kazi
1:57:33nyingi biashara nyingi mtu anafundishwa
1:57:36anaelewa kuna vitu vichache sana ambavyo
1:57:38mtu ababidi akae yaani kwamba usind
1:57:41kusoma kwenyewe kwa kunoe kiasi nini
1:57:43lakini ukikaa chini ukajifunza ukakubali
1:57:45kufundishwa Yeah.
1:57:47>> Unaiva
1:57:49>> ukakubali kufundishika.
1:57:50>> Ukakubali kufundishika. Yaani kwamba
1:57:51umekaa chini kijana. Sasa ndio hiyo
1:57:53unakuja kwamba unaambiwa kwamba waz
1:57:57unakuja kwamba sijui kwamba kuna watu
1:58:00wanakupa kuna watu ambao wanakupa mawiza
1:58:02wanakupa busara zao
1:58:04>> wao ndio wanakuja wanakupa wewe ili
1:58:06ujefundishe wao kwako wewe
1:58:08>> ni watu gani ambao wamekufund kwa sababu
1:58:10mpaka unafika muda kama huu hapa ni
1:58:12kwamba kuna watu ambao wamejenga wapi na
1:58:14wapi na wapi na wapi na wapi na watu
1:58:16gani ambao kwa kuwa ungeshauri mtu kama
1:58:18wewe usikilize na watu au kama ni vitabu
1:58:20au kama ni nini kwamba mtu apite wapi na
1:58:22sehemu gani ambapo
1:58:23Unaweza ukawakataza sehemu ambazo pia
1:58:24una mimi naamini kwamba
1:58:27>> huwezi ukaread your way out of success
1:58:30out [kicheko] to success. Yaani you
1:58:31cannot read your way out. You can only
1:58:33read so many books for you to be better.
1:58:36>> Yaani huwezi kuja kuniambia nimesoma
1:58:38kitabu cha how to be a resilient person
1:58:40>> alafu you resilient. Ah mim huwezi
1:58:42ukanifanyia every.
1:58:44>> Kwa hiyo pia alafu siamini sana kuna
1:58:45baadhi ya watu wanapendaanga kutumia ile
1:58:47authority kukupin down. Yaani kama
1:58:50>> m
1:58:50>> hataki kujifunza lakini wewe you have
1:58:53nothing to teach.
1:58:54>> You're not competent.
1:58:55>> Kwa ho mimi I believe kwenye kujifunza
1:58:57sana lakini kwa watu ambao ni sahihi
1:58:59huwezi kunifundisha biashara
1:59:02alafu hujafanya biashara. Sasa
1:59:03unaniambia nini?
1:59:05>> Nini kweli?
1:59:05>> Sio kwamba nina kiburi au nakuchukia.
1:59:08No. Lakini nataka nikijifunza kinanda
1:59:10najifunza kwa mtu ambaye anakicheza
1:59:12vizuri.
1:59:13>> Usiniambie mim natengenezanga hizo
1:59:14keyboard. Kwa hiyo jifunza mim sitaki
1:59:17kujua kutengeneza. M
1:59:18>> nataka kuja kukicheza unaweza kucheza.
1:59:21>> So I believe kwamba the best way to
1:59:23learn something njia ya kwanza ni
1:59:25kufanya
1:59:27>> you learn the hard way. It is very
1:59:29painful.
1:59:30>> It is very lonely. It is very sad. Na
1:59:33kama mtu anakupenda kweli hawezi
1:59:36kukusaidia kukupa msaada wa hela msaada
1:59:37wa nini the best way. Yaani anataka kama
1:59:39anakujali kweli anataka kweli ufanikiwe.
1:59:41Unajua kuna ile anataka tu abaki huyu
1:59:43mtu aendelee wewe unamtegemeza. M Lakini
1:59:46kama kweli unamjali mtu unataka mtu
1:59:47kweli afanikiwe. Kuna baadhi ya vitu
1:59:49hutakiwi kumsaidia. Maana kama ni hivy
1:59:52wazazi wangetubeba toka tukawa wadogo
1:59:53tusingekaa tukatambaa tukajishika na
1:59:55vitu tukatembea wenyewe hivo so the
1:59:57greatest teacher ni kufanya na kukubali
1:59:59kuanguka.
2:00:01>> Yaani ni kwenda kuanzisha kampuni yako
2:00:03umeingia umezingua TR amekugonga kodi
2:00:06fine za kutosha. Umeona eh kwa hiyo pale
2:00:08ndio unajifunza k ndio kichwa kinakaa
2:00:09vizuri. unapata misala unapewa kesi
2:00:12mahakamani unaenda unakutana na
2:00:13mwanasheria au unajua ah kumbe kuna
2:00:15wanasheria kumbe sio kila mtu anayepewa
2:00:17kesi ameua kumbe kumbe mahakamani atas
2:00:20level unaweza tu ukapelekwa
2:00:28[muziki]
2:00:39>> m ni kweli Na ukifika unafuata zile
2:00:41procedures na vitu kama hivyo. Unaanza
2:00:43kujifunza pia kunetwork na watu kwa
2:00:45sababu gani? Umekutana na msala
2:00:48unakutana na baadhi ya viongozi watu
2:00:51wengi mimi niliokuwa naongea nao baadhi
2:00:52ya wafanyabiashara ambao nilikuwa
2:00:54wananifundisha baadhi ya vitu wale jamaa
2:00:56network zao nyingi wanazipata kipindi
2:00:58cha mateso. Unakuta mtu ana msara labda
2:01:00wa kodi ndio anajuana na wale kf sasa
2:01:02wanamfundisha bwana kumbe bana ulikuwa
2:01:04unakosea bwana unatakiwa ufanye hivi
2:01:06hizi zinalipwa hivi wanakufundisha
2:01:07unaelewa
2:01:08>> unakuta umeover speed huko umepata
2:01:10busara na trafik unakuta una marafiki
2:01:12mapisi
2:01:13marafiki zako do [kicheko]
2:01:15ukikwepa ukiamini kwamba duniani ni
2:01:18sehemu ya peace utakwepa mateso
2:01:20>> lakini ukikubali kwamba
2:01:22>> it's constant havok m
2:01:24>> yaani yaani hayo mambo yapo na ukatake
2:01:27jo
2:01:28you will learn na utajifunza vizuri
2:01:30zaidi. Sasa mimi mimi kitu kitu kitu
2:01:32kitu kitu kitu kitu ambacho napenda
2:01:33kuongezea ni kwamba ukitaka kufanya kitu
2:01:36learn from the grades hata kama sio from
2:01:38kama unataka kuwa muuzaji mzuri unaweza
2:01:41kujifunza from the great unapoongelea
2:01:43the great simaanishi kwamba eti uende
2:01:44kwamba sijui unataka uuze sijui TV
2:01:47wabidi uangalie sijui labda kampuni
2:01:48kubwa kuliko zote. mfano anza kunana na
2:01:51wale watu wakubwa wanaokuzidi wa karibu
2:01:53yako kwa mfano mimi ah sijui matvui
2:01:56mafriji sijui manini si kwa mfano mimi
2:01:58mtaa wangu nauza hivi hapo najifunza
2:02:00kutoka kwa naangalia mtu pale karibu
2:02:02wangu wale naangalia ambao ni fundi
2:02:05>> ili nimfikie baada hapo nitafute tena ni
2:02:08kama ni kama milestones ninacover
2:02:09milestones zangu kwamba okay nimetoka
2:02:11hapa nimeshafika level hii hapa saasa
2:02:13hivi si kwa n nataka nijifunze mwisho wa
2:02:14siku ni people have hyponized
2:02:17competition yaani they look at
2:02:18competition
2:02:19Yaani mtu yuko radi aseme mimi I'm not
2:02:21competing I'm competing with myself with
2:02:23it's a lie be honestani there's nothing
2:02:26about lying to yourself there's nothing
2:02:28bad as that be honest life is constant
2:02:32competition competition imekuwa as if
2:02:34it's ugly ah you competing with me I'm
2:02:36not competing no competition we all have
2:02:39to win we all the truth of life is
2:02:42competition
2:02:44>> nchi hii inacompete na nchi hii
2:02:45ukijidanganya ni self competition you
2:02:48will Never go.
2:02:49>> If naomba nikuinterrupt kidogo hapo
2:02:53people
2:02:55competition na comparison
2:02:57>> mhm
2:02:58>> kwako ni sawa au zinatofautiana?
2:03:01>> For you to be competitive you have to
2:03:02compare ujue your enemies what are they
2:03:04doing inakuja hi point comparison
2:03:06element of comparison with the th of joy
2:03:08huo ni msemo wanautumia
2:03:10>> w kuna quotes nyingi [kicheko]
2:03:13hizi co sijui
2:03:16>> watu wanapanga maneno fulani fulani
2:03:18alafu alafu anaveka vinasound
2:03:20comparison of joy just focus on do you
2:03:24[kicheko]
2:03:25very poetic truth it's very poetic
2:03:28>> so okay kwa hiyo you unani unaemphasize
2:03:33watu wa compete point ni compete to be
2:03:36the best you have to be comp for the
2:03:37fittest you always have to be to be evil
2:03:40>> that is the only thing ambacho
2:03:41kitakufanya uevolve it will make you to
2:03:44keep moving umeona
2:03:46>> ukishafika point ambayo You are very
2:03:48competitive. Sasa utaniambia sasa what
2:03:50if you number one? Exactly. Kwa sababu
2:03:53wewe hujawahi kuwa number one. You think
2:03:54ushakuwa number one it ends there.
2:03:57Inafika point if you very competitive
2:03:58number one now you're starting to
2:04:00compete with history. Yaani unacompete
2:04:02na the future people who will come to do
2:04:04this thing kwa sababu kuna mtu atakuja
2:04:05kukuvunja.
2:04:06>> Kuna mtu atakuja. Sasa you want to put
2:04:08this record ambayo throughout history
2:04:11unacompete na mababu yaani na the greats
2:04:12waliopita na the future grates yaani you
2:04:15want to ukifa
2:04:16>> watu wakija kusema TV wanasema mzee
2:04:18utauza lakini huwezi kumfikia solo moja
2:04:21>> of course okay ukiachana na huko hiyo
2:04:24kuna kitu kimoja ambacho watu watu huwa
2:04:26wanavyoongelea siku hizi m
2:04:28>> kuna watu mara sijui siwezi kufanya kitu
2:04:29ambacho sio passion yangu kuna wengine
2:04:32mara sijui tutafute purpose yangu by the
2:04:33way how do you differentiate them
2:04:34capacity passion purpos Passion is for
2:04:37you,
2:04:38>> purpose is for others. Purpose is for
2:04:39others.
2:04:40>> So if anything is for you, self s
2:04:43passion to draw, patient to passion to
2:04:45cook. That is the simplest definition
2:04:47for me. Passion is the thing for you.
2:04:49Purpose is the thing for others.
2:04:51>> Okay.
2:04:52>> Huwezi kusema muziki ni passion yake.
2:04:54You know, it's his purpose. He does it
2:04:56for for the country. Yaani
2:04:59>> yaani anafanya anapenda kinoma. So
2:05:02purpose out leaves you.
2:05:03>> Okay.
2:05:04>> Unajua ni kwamba
2:05:04>> watu wote waliojenga yale majengo
2:05:06makubwa yale great buildings Taj mahal
2:05:09the pyramid that wasani that outlived
2:05:12them.
2:05:13>> So those people they do not do that for
2:05:16passion. They had a purpose to make a
2:05:18mark on history. Yaani kwenye kwenye the
2:05:21history ya dunia
2:05:24yaani ny wamekufa watu wengi lakini
2:05:26tunawakumbuka tu hao kina Hakim Medev
2:05:29>> kina Haristot kina nani they made a mark
2:05:32yaani acha watu watake kuwa competitive
2:05:34kwa sababu itama
2:05:38a lot of people desire to do great
2:05:40things for the same same country
2:05:42>> for the same same continent for the same
2:05:44same world kwa hiyo it is a noble thing
2:05:47according to me ninavyoona so I feel
2:05:49like the the the extremely exceptional
2:05:52people who succeeded in doing that film.
2:05:58That is the only thing I not I do not
2:05:59agree with them kwamba it is very
2:06:02important to encourage a lot of people
2:06:04to be able to want to achieve greatness
2:06:07because it also makes those people who
2:06:09are great even greater.
2:06:11>> It reminds them of the constant need to
2:06:14be competitive and that is good for the
2:06:16community. Kabisa. Sasa
2:06:20tumetoka kidogo maana tumehamaki sasa
2:06:22turudi kwenye mada kuu kama unavyoongea
2:06:25upo competitive sana mtu wa mshindani
2:06:28mtu unamshauri unamshauri vipi mtu
2:06:30ambaye anataka kwanza alafu anakutana na
2:06:34watu watu wenye ushindani. Yaani kwamba
2:06:35unajua kwamba kuna zile kama tulivyosema
2:06:38kwamba watu wana si demorize au nini
2:06:41kukatisha watu tamaa kwamba ile kuna
2:06:44ushindani kuna nini mtu ambaye anaanza
2:06:47>> demoralization
2:06:48how yeye anatakia
2:06:49>> anadeal vipi na demoralization sasa kwa
2:06:51demorization kwa swala la nini la
2:06:53ushindani
2:06:54>> na anamanage vipi ule ushindani pointi
2:06:56kuu ni kwamba kendana na uzoefu wako
2:06:59sasa people misunderstand
2:07:00competitiveness they feel like while
2:07:03competitiveness is is is is a good
2:07:05thing. Some people play it bad. Kwa hiyo
2:07:07mtu ili awe competitive against wewe
2:07:10will use all resources, all information
2:07:12they have against you. Yaani
2:07:15wakikuona wewe ni competition
2:07:18kuna msanii mmoja mimi nampendanga sana
2:07:19historia ya maisha y kwa sababu wote
2:07:21toka tunakuwa wadogo ni mtu ambaye
2:07:22tunamuona anafanya vizuri story yake na
2:07:25na nini hivo he's been a very hardwing
2:07:27person. Jamaa kuna kipindi anasema kuna
2:07:30media zilimzima kabisa wasifanye vitu
2:07:32vyake right the guy was very competitive
2:07:35akatafuta plan B you get it kwa being
2:07:39competitive means understanding kwamba
2:07:42since this is a competition you do not
2:07:44owe people anything and they can play
2:07:46directly okay
2:07:47>> so guess what you have to do you have to
2:07:49make peace with the competition and you
2:07:52have to know kwamba nothing is very
2:07:53personal yaani is personal it's all a
2:07:55competition Even the opposition to you,
2:07:59you would have done even worse.
2:08:01>> You see sasa wewe ni kuwa very creative
2:08:03yaani I know it pains. Unakuta labda
2:08:06ndio unaanza kitu unataka kujifunza kitu
2:08:07labda kwa huyu unakuta ni mtu yuko pale
2:08:10pale kazini anaona sabu dogo
2:08:11nikimfundisha kuedit akawa anapiga hizi
2:08:13kazi vizuri sasa mimi si watanitoa
2:08:14>> m
2:08:15>> kwa anaanza kuona that is competition
2:08:17and it is the nature of of the nani of
2:08:19the universe kwamba atakukazia. Sasa
2:08:21wewe usikate tamaa usiishie pale yaani
2:08:24elewa kwamba nothing is
2:08:26these people they think competition ni
2:08:29kumnyima mtu information kufanya hivyo
2:08:30na hivyo. Sasa ukishajua tatizo
2:08:33halipaswi kuwa tatizo tena you just have
2:08:35to go and find the opposite way. Kwa
2:08:37hiyo cha kwanza usipoaccept kama vile
2:08:39hii ndio leseni yangu ya kunyoosha miguu
2:08:41it's very competitive.
2:08:44That should be the reason ya wewe
2:08:45kutafuta another root and to solve the
2:08:47problem. Okay. Safi. Yaani ni kwamba
2:08:51watu hawajui ni kwamba changamoto
2:08:54changamoto ni nyingi. Ushindani nini?
2:08:58Usipokutana yaani usipokutana ndio kuna
2:09:01msemo mmoja kuna msemo mmoja anasema
2:09:03kwamba ukienda sehemu nchi za nje
2:09:05>> usipakuta Nigeria
2:09:07>> ujue hamna fursa ondoka
2:09:08>> alafu kwa Tanzania wanasemaje? [kicheko]
2:09:11>> Wachaga. Nilisema hivi wachaga kwamba
2:09:13usipakuta wachaga. hiyo sio fursa ndugu
2:09:16yangu hapo naenda kusema muda [kicheko]
2:09:18kwa sababu gani kwamba hawa watu wapo si
2:09:21ni wajinga
2:09:22>> ahah ni kwamba watu nia yao ni kutafuta
2:09:25hiyo pesa wewe unaenda kwenye industry
2:09:27yao au unaenda kwenye industry ambao
2:09:29utawakuta wapo jiandae kushindana niseme
2:09:32ya maisha alafu nambia keki ni kubwa
2:09:34sana kila mtu atakula lakini utakula
2:09:37kama unastahili kula hautakula kwa
2:09:39sababu eti wewe ni binadamu
2:09:40>> waswahili waliiweka vizuri kwamba mwenye
2:09:43kisu kikali pale
2:09:44>> of course
2:09:45>> ndio anayekula hiyo nyama siukiza nyama
2:09:47iko pale
2:09:48>> nyama ipo hamna
2:09:49>> eti mimi nina kijiko changu mbona nyama
2:09:51ishakata inabidi uwe hata kama una
2:09:53kijiko watu ule msemo watu hawaelewi
2:09:55unajua yaani kuna heshima ya kuwa na
2:09:58kisu kikali kwa sababu nyama si inakuwa
2:09:59ishapikwa iko pale lakini kisu kikali
2:10:01kikiwepo hapa
2:10:03>> hata kama unatumia kijiko watu hawawezi
2:10:05kucheza na wewe kwa sababu wanajua kuna
2:10:06nini so you have to be extremely
2:10:08competitive [kicheko]
2:10:10kwa hiyo for you to be able to stand a
2:10:11chance in competitions
2:10:13kwa kwa kwa kusikiliza
2:10:18mtu ambao nimejifunza kutoka kwako
2:10:19>> nimejifunza kutoka kwako sa kwanza mtu
2:10:21abidi ajishapen
2:10:24skills zake kwamba
2:10:27kwa yaani kwamba kuna mashindano yapo
2:10:29competition ipo kwa bidi uhakikishe
2:10:31kwamba unajinoa unajinoa unajinoa ili
2:10:34uweze kukutana na yako si niko sawa
2:10:37>> y na unafanya hiv kwa kufanya self
2:10:39reflection kwa kujianalyze tu hata kama
2:10:42leo unakuta mtoto umeamka umeshauli
2:10:44kuweka sijui funguo za mlango sijui
2:10:46umekaa umesahau hivi kesho leo ni tarehe
2:10:48ngapi vitu vidogo vidogo vidogo vidogo
2:10:50hivi unadhani toka tuko mdogo unafanya
2:10:52assignment alafu mwalimu anakuambia
2:10:54lazima uandike tarehe pale juu kulia
2:10:57haikuingizii hela yes but that's a mind
2:11:00training kukufanya kila siku ya mungu
2:11:01huwa unaweza kukep track of the daytim
2:11:04kwa hiyo self reflection kujua where are
2:11:07you slacking off yaani hata mimi mwisho
2:11:09wa siku mwisho wa wiki upo idol tu try
2:11:12to remember details and try to remember
2:11:14everything so that will will help you to
2:11:16get better and to sharpen your skill kwa
2:11:18sababu you can't sharpen area of your
2:11:20life ambayo hujui inafall short wapi.
2:11:23>> So that is a very good first thing
2:11:24ambayo umeisummarize. unaendelea
2:11:26>> nilikuwa nasema nilikuwa nakuja kwamba
2:11:27hii hapo kitu kingine ambacho
2:11:29nimejifunza kutoka kwako ni kwamba
2:11:30ukiachana na hiyo issue ya kushapen your
2:11:32skill you yaani kwamba sijui sijui ni
2:11:36frame vipi ambayo inani you have to be
2:11:39yaani kwamba ukiachana kwamba you have
2:11:40to shpen your skill you have to be ready
2:11:42kwa sababu uwanja wote unaoenda kuanza
2:11:45unaenda kuanza sababu point ni kuanza
2:11:46unapoenda kuanza kote kuna opponents
2:11:49>> maadui au washindani au sijui ni kitu
2:11:53ambacho unachofanya
2:11:55uji
2:11:55uwe tayari kukutana na changamoto. Yep.
2:11:58Hii ni kitu ambacho tulikuwa tunaongea
2:11:59tangia mwanzo kwamba wewe una uwezo wa
2:12:00kuvumilia changamoto sindio? Y
2:12:03>> zaidi ya hapo kuna kitu ambacho
2:12:04nimefahau labda cha ch cha muhimu kabisa
2:12:08ni kwamba of course hujasahau kitu
2:12:09umevisummarize vizuri conversation ya
2:12:12muda wote umesummarize in a very good
2:12:13way. [kicheko] Lakini labda tu cha
2:12:15kuongezea ni kwamba
2:12:16>> m
2:12:18>> ugumu upo kwenye kuanza alafu pia
2:12:20ukishaanza usidhani kwamba maisha yako
2:12:22hapa duniani sasa kwa vijana wengi wa
2:12:24kiume napenda kuangalia kwa hao kwamba
2:12:27maisha yako yanapaswa kuwa ya raha
2:12:29starehe ama yalonyooka sana
2:12:32>> 99% ya maisha yako wewe unatakiwa ufanye
2:12:34kazi kwa bidii kwa ajili ya kuwalinda
2:12:37watu wengine kuwahudumia yaani kujitoa
2:12:40kwa ajili ya watu wengine umeona
2:12:42>> kwa hiyo maisha kama hayo ni maisha
2:12:43ambayo yana na dhoruba na changamoto
2:12:45nyingi sana misala misala hapa pale hii
2:12:47hapa umenusurika fresh and that is very
2:12:49okay ukikubali hicho kitu na ukamake
2:12:52peace na maisha ya aina hiyo
2:12:55>> changamoto zote zitakazokutana na wewe
2:12:57sala ya hapa na pale haitakuwa yaani ni
2:13:00issue ya kukufanya wewe uhisi kama hivy
2:13:03kwa hiyo mindset unayokuwa nayo
2:13:04ukikubali kwamba kwenye bahari ya maisha
2:13:08zile vile visiwa ni zile moments za wewe
2:13:10kupumzika lakini 99% ni mawimbi sala
2:13:14nini na nini kwa ho hiyo hiyo hicho ni
2:13:17kitu cha muhimu sana kwa sababu
2:13:18kitabadilisha
2:13:20>> namna nzima ya wewe kutizama mambo mengi
2:13:22sana na wewe kuweza kuwa very
2:13:24competitive na wewe kuweza kuwa na
2:13:25ushindani kwenye fursa mbalimbali
2:13:28unazofanya na watu na kuelewa kwamba
2:13:31>> huyu naye ni mshindani yaani hamna kitu
2:13:33ambacho hakuchukii wewe.
2:13:35>> So that's another very important thing
2:13:36ambacho napenda kuongelea. Kuna hii
2:13:38issue ya love and hate m
2:13:41>> umeona eh kwamba asilimia kubwa ya kuna
2:13:43ule msemo anasema one man's freedom
2:13:46fighter is another man's terrorist.
2:13:48Yeah.
2:13:49>> One man's terrorist another freedom
2:13:50fighter. Ni
2:13:50>> kweli
2:13:51>> wewe unach unayemuona anakuchukia kwenye
2:13:54ushindano wa kitu unachokifanya yule mtu
2:13:56ni kwamba hakuchukii ila tu anapenda
2:13:58kitu kingine zaidi. You can pick
2:14:00anything. Unaweza ukawa unashindana na
2:14:02mtu unaona anakukazia kwenye fursa zake
2:14:04not that nataka kuendekeza watu
2:14:07wanaokunja ama nini i don't advocate for
2:14:09that to those people they have nothing
2:14:12against you they don't even hate the way
2:14:14you look ama nini but to them they they
2:14:17love the money they love other things
2:14:19more than the way they love you
2:14:22>> so it is just the the degree of love in
2:14:25what they are doing it's not personal
2:14:27>> that is why kuna watu they would rather
2:14:29steal or kill they do not hate other
2:14:32people that much our soldiers can kill
2:14:34anybody who messes with this country and
2:14:36its people you know why they do not hate
2:14:38all the people in the world but they
2:14:40just love their country and their people
2:14:41very much kasi cha kwamba ukitaka kumess
2:14:43with those people their order of love
2:14:45calls them to jud kwamba this goes first
2:14:48that second kwa hiyo hata wewe ukiwa ni
2:14:50mtu labda unaingia kwenye hizi
2:14:51competition unataka kufanya kitu you
2:14:53really have to love
2:14:56being successful you have to love being
2:14:59competitive inabidi upende kuwa
2:15:01mshindani yaani you have to love
2:15:04na waswahili wanaume sema kwamba
2:15:05asiyekubali kushindwa si mshindani
2:15:07>> so as
2:15:09competitive you also have to accept
2:15:11kwamba kuna moments utalos is fine
2:15:14nothing personal but inabidi you will
2:15:16have to love the competition kiasi cha
2:15:18kwamba you can be willing to go beyond
2:15:21ndio maana unaona kuna baadhi ya
2:15:24politicians they would rather risk their
2:15:25lives why why do you think so they would
2:15:28rather risk assassination.
2:15:31They love power so much they cannot see
2:15:34themselves without power. Yaani yaani
2:15:36they love it from their heart. There is
2:15:38no point of them living without that.
2:15:41You have to love being rich, being
2:15:44successful, being competitive
2:15:46so much to the extent kwamba nothing
2:15:50gets between you and that goal of yours.
2:15:53Yaani ndio maana nikawa nasema kuna ile
2:15:55documentary alifanya SNS yule jamaa
2:15:57nikasema
2:15:59>> ndugu zetu wa Masai ambao nawapenda sana
2:16:01right
2:16:02>> wale jamaa wanapenda ng'ombe zao kutoka
2:16:04moyo yaani they you will kill them first
2:16:07for you to take their cows wakikutana si
2:16:09na simba they have to die for you to
2:16:11take their nothing is personal just kill
2:16:14them first and go with their cows but if
2:16:17you cannot do that you you have to live
2:16:20>> or die so that is the attitude to being
2:16:23very competitive you really have to fall
2:16:25in love with your ukiwa ni mtu
2:16:27unayependa kweli kufanikiwa you cannot
2:16:28sit down and say but it's very
2:16:30competitive it's very hard
2:16:34yaani love is the greatest force that
2:16:37moves the world and it is very hard
2:16:41>> there's a lot there's a lot to talk
2:16:43about kwenye topic ya love and
2:16:44everything but ili nisigo in depth sana
2:16:48that is all I can say you just have to
2:16:50love the game. You have to have to
2:16:52accept the realities of life
2:16:54>> and make peace with the fact kwamba this
2:16:56is the world. It's not mbinguni and one
2:16:58day we are going to rest in heaven.
2:17:01>> Safi kabisa. Kitu chama kama kitu cha
2:17:05mwisho karibia na mwisho kwa sababu
2:17:06tunakaribia kufika mwisho. Tumeongea
2:17:08vitu vingi sana vitu vingi sana. Ushauri
2:17:12kwa sport viewers maana wewe kila siku
2:17:13unapata ushauri leo tunawapa nini?
2:17:15>> Sport viewers nawapenda sana sporters.
2:17:17[kicheko] Leo tunaomba atupe ushauri
2:17:19tuboreshe nini kwenye podcast yetu
2:17:21wanataka kuona nini
2:17:23>> tuwaletee wageni wa aina gani muwatag
2:17:25kwenye comment mtuambie mnataka mumuone
2:17:27nani tutawafuata tutawabembeleza
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2:17:46>> [kicheko]
2:17:47>> SP viewers wanaomba
2:17:48>> unataka kuongea na wewe
2:17:49>> nataka uje spoil
2:17:52>> excuse nzuri right yeah
2:17:54>> yeah so i think we have tumecover a lot
2:17:58of stuff
2:17:59>> yep yep and this has been a very great
2:18:01conversation
2:18:03we have touched a lot of and I can't
2:18:05wait kwenye session zinazofuata how it's
2:18:08gna be but thank you so much for your
2:18:09time wangu kukupata pia leo ilikuwaeka
2:18:11[kicheko]
2:18:12sana i am so grateful kukubali kuja
2:18:15kujoin h na viewers I look forward to
2:18:18meeting you again and again and again
2:18:20and again in the future and hopefully
2:18:22one day mwangu tutakuja kufanya another
2:18:24another session Mungu akituweka hai
2:18:26inshallah tutarudi tutakuja kufanya
2:18:29session fulani hivi tukireview labda
2:18:30hizi session and everything and looking
2:18:32back to
2:18:33>> the things we have been speaking about
2:18:35the future and everything and how things
2:18:37are going to be and I hope back then I
2:18:40hope I hope at at that time it will be
2:18:43very nice looking backward and seeing
2:18:47jinsi tulivyoanza and how we have been
2:18:48growing and hadi tutak kuja kufika huko.
2:18:51So leo tumetengeneza our very first
2:18:54podcast. Hatuna hata jina hatuna
2:18:57[kicheko] choote. But we really hope
2:18:59this is going to be a very good podcast.
2:19:02It's gna touch a lot of people's lives
2:19:04and we are not doing this for the looks
2:19:07ama for the for the immediate sijui nini
2:19:10nini zile za za kuonekana sijui we just
2:19:13hope alongside
2:19:16a larger time frame things are just gna
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