Full transcript
0:00The only way to save yourself from a
0:01divorce is by simply allowing it to
0:02happen. You see, just let her hand over
0:04the papers. Let her go get a lawyer. Let
0:07her go figure all of it out. You just
0:08sit back, relax, enjoy being a man, show
0:11up to work, take care of your kids.
0:13That's it.
0:14And all you have to do is just do
0:17nothing. See, to optimize your chances
0:19of keeping this woman, you need to
0:21simply just let it go. Because you see,
0:23she's going to recalculate in her mind
0:25whether it's worth leaving you because
0:26she's going to say, "If he doesn't care
0:28to leave me, he must be able to replace
0:30me, right?" And if he must be able to
0:31replace me, he must be more valuable
0:33than I assumed. See, the thing is you've
0:34been feeding to all of her arguments.
0:35You've been giving her all this
0:36attention. Every single little thing she
0:38does gets under your skin, and this is
0:39exactly why she's going to take your
0:40kids away from you. If you don't proceed
0:42carefully, she's going to escalate
0:44because see, a woman's nature is to
0:46break you. And it's not because she's
0:47evil, and you need to stop blaming her
0:49for this. It's just simply because this
0:51is the only way she can test you as a
0:53man and see if you really are a man.
0:55See, the only way a woman can see if a
0:56man is actually a man is by saying, "I
0:58want loyalty. I want flowers. I want to
1:01go here, here, and here."
1:03And the guy who listens to her, the guy
1:04who runs over and gets those flowers
1:06first, is the guy that is lower value.
1:09And so, she doesn't actually want all
1:10those things. She just wants to test and
1:12make sure that you aren't a cuck, that
1:14you aren't a man that has no value. She
1:17measures your value based on how much
1:19you get laid cuz think about it, the
1:20more valuable a man is, the more he can
1:21get laid. So, all she has to do is
1:23reverse that.
1:25All she has to do is see if you can get
1:26laid, and then if you can't, she now
1:28knows you're not valuable. And if you
1:29can, she knows you're valuable. And if
1:31you could get laid, and you could easily
1:33replace this woman with a woman that's
1:34just as beautiful, just as valuable, you
1:36wouldn't care to proceed with the
1:37divorce. You would go right through with
1:38it. And this is the thing, you got to
1:40proceed carefully because she is going
1:41to continue breaking you and breaking
1:43you and breaking you and breaking you
1:44because the tests never end as long as
1:46you give her the opportunity to test
1:48you, and you give her the opportunity to
1:49test you by continuing to weaken
1:51yourself in her eyes.
1:53You have to relax. You have to let this
1:55go. And if she's already ready to file
1:57those papers, let her do it because that
1:59is going to increase your chances more
2:01than anything. Not caring to follow
2:03through with a divorce
2:04is going to be literally you optimizing
2:08your biggest chance of actually making
2:10it work and maybe getting this woman
2:12back. Any amount of you trying to save
2:13things is going to ruin everything. It's
2:16going to 100% solidify the fact that
2:18she's going to file those divorce
2:19papers. 100% going to solidify the fact
2:21that she's going to probably cheat on
2:22you with another another man and take
2:23your kids and take your money. You need
2:26to leave the situation respectfully. And
2:28if you do this a lot of the time, she's
2:30going to come back.
2:32This is what happens. Because she's
2:33going to reassess whether she's making
2:35the right decision. See, the only reason
2:36why she wants to leave you is because
2:37you failed all her tests. Every time you
2:39guys argue, you get super emotional, you
2:41always entertain it, you always are in
2:44the in the moment. You're in the game.
2:46You're in that that drama rather than
2:48staying above it because you don't
2:49understand why it's happening. You see,
2:51you think that your wife doing something
2:52bad or something disrespectful
2:55is her being evil or mean or rude, but
2:57it's not. It's just her female nature.
2:59And all you have to do is just ignore
3:00everything.
3:01And I don't mean ignore like ghost her
3:03for 6 days. I mean just
3:05shrug your shoulders and live and be a
3:07man. And if she wants to go through with
3:09something, fine. Let her do it. See, the
3:12problem that you have, the issue that
3:14you have, and the biggest mistake you
3:15made is getting married in the first
3:17place. Because once you get once you get
3:18married to the woman, you give her the
3:19leverage to screw you over.
3:21Why? Because if you get married to her,
3:23what does that tell her? You only get
3:24married to a woman if you think she's
3:25the best. And you think this woman is
3:27the best, which is why you got married
3:28to her. And she knows this.
3:30Cuz that's what love and marriage is all
3:31about nowadays. Even though love has
3:33nothing to do with all this.
3:35But this is what everyone's perception
3:36of it is.
3:37And so, oh, he got married because he
3:40loves me so much. And he cares about me
3:42so much and I'm the best girl he's ever
3:43been with. And what does that do? That
3:45gives her all the leverage because now
3:46she knows she can go out with other men.
3:49She can go out and do disrespectful
3:51things. And you're not going to do about
3:53it because you think she's the best and
3:54she knows that if she leaves you or that
3:55if you have to leave her because she's
3:57doing something disrespectful, you're
3:58not going to have the guts or the balls
3:59to do it because you've already told her
4:01she's the best and you can't replace her
4:02by marrying her. You've handed her all
4:04of the leverage and on top of that
4:05you've signed a piece of paper that
4:06entitles her to half of your life. She
4:08has all the leverage and you see now she
4:10can't submit to you and this is why a
4:11lot of women cheat after the man gets
4:14married to her.
4:15Why? Because now every other guy has
4:18more leverage than you. Therefore, he's
4:20more attractive than you because she can
4:21submit to him fully because she has no
4:23power over him.
4:25And see the way she measures your value
4:27is by simply seeing how many options you
4:28have. You have no options. Because if
4:30she says she doesn't want you to go out
4:32with other women, you don't have a
4:33choice because she can threaten you with
4:35divorce papers.
4:37And so now you have no leverage.
4:39If you want to go do something, she can
4:40control you 100% because she could
4:42threaten you with divorce papers. And
4:44guys don't understand this, but every
4:45woman is like this. I don't care if she
4:46has a body count of 50 or one or if
4:48she's a virgin or if she was raised well
4:50or she was raised wrong or if you guys
4:51have good history together or if you
4:52guys have horrible history together, it
4:55does not matter because it is in a
4:57woman's nature to constantly test you to
4:58make sure that she is with a man that is
5:00capable of providing for her and her
5:01offspring. She is testing for her
5:03survival. That's all this is.
5:05It's not because she's evil, it's
5:06because she is weaker than you. You are
5:08the man, she is the woman. So she needs
5:09to constantly make sure that she's with
5:11somebody who's stable and the only way
5:12she can test that
5:14is by doing just that. Putting you forth
5:16with all these emotional tests and
5:18seeing if you fold.
5:20These divorce papers, the only reason
5:21they're being handed to you now is
5:22because most likely you're the kind of
5:23guy that would get involved in every
5:25argument. You're the kind of guy that
5:26would go weak for every little
5:27situation. You're the kind of guy that
5:29if she does something, like she talks to
5:31some guy or something or she goes
5:33somewhere to some birthday party, you
5:36always mention it. You always let it get
5:37under your skin. You see, the only way
5:38you can win in a marriage, even though
5:40it's a losing situation off the bat,
5:43the most at least you can optimize your
5:45situation
5:47by is just simply
5:49not caring. Let her do whatever she
5:50wants to do and let her feel that you
5:52don't care. And what that's going to
5:54establish is that you don't care to let
5:56her go one day, which establishes that
5:57you must have the option to replace her,
5:59which establishes the fact that you're a
6:00valuable man because only a valuable man
6:02has the option to replace a woman. And
6:04if you're valuable, you're attractive.
6:05See, right now attraction is decreasing.
6:07You fail each test, attraction decreases
6:09because she looks at you, she goes, "You
6:10don't have value because you must not
6:11have the option to replace me, which is
6:12why you're letting everything bother
6:14you."
6:15And so, all you have to do is just
6:16relax. Calm down.
6:18You don't want to lose your kids and you
6:19don't want to lose your house.
6:21And so, the best way you can proceed is
6:23to let everything go with respect.
6:26Right?
6:27She wants to get a divorce, stop
6:29arguing, stop doing everything. Let it
6:32go. You know what the funny part about
6:34this is the guys that I coach,
6:36a lot of them dig themselves into a hole
6:37where it's like it's almost impossible
6:38for them to get out of it because
6:39they've already been through the
6:40marriage and all this stuff and all this
6:42drama and all this But then when they
6:43listen to me and they they go through
6:45with that what I teach them,
6:47right? They get the one-on-one coaching
6:49and then they implement everything. What
6:50happens is they might actually pull
6:51through with the divorce, but the woman
6:52stays. She still comes around.
6:55Because his willingness to let her go so
6:57easily messes with her mind, messes with
6:59her idea of your value and it makes her
7:01reassess whether you really were a weak
7:03man or whether she just made a big
7:05mistake and so she keeps coming around.
7:06The kids, he's still got custody of
7:08them. The house, he's still got it
7:09because she didn't feel like she needed
7:11to disrespect him because you see, women
7:13don't really care about all these
7:14things. What they care about is spending
7:15their life with a man that they love for
7:17the rest of their life.
7:19And you just got to be this man by not
7:21caring. Because you see, you are
7:22instantly unsafe when you let everything
7:24get under your skin because now you're
7:25an emotional man. And an emotional man
7:27is a man that allows all these different
7:29factors in life to control him and that
7:31means that tomorrow something happens,
7:33he might not show up to work because he
7:34doesn't feel like it and that is not a
7:35safe man. The way you become a safe man,
7:38right? And the way you become an
7:38attractive man and the way you get this
7:40woman back into your arms where she's
7:42obsessed with you is by demonstrating
7:44that you only care about yourself. You
7:46only care about your job, your future,
7:48your life. Not her.
7:50Nothing else other than yourself.
7:53Because guess what? Ask yourself this
7:55very simple question. What kind of man,
7:57cuz remember attraction in a woman is
7:58all based on her survival. Like she's
8:01literally attracted to she can only be
8:02attracted to something that benefits her
8:04survival. That's what attraction is
8:05built for.
8:06For a woman to be attached to something
8:08that is going to ensure the survival of
8:09her and her offspring. And so what is
8:11going to be who is going to be a safer
8:13man for her? A man that focuses on her
8:15or a man that focuses on himself?
8:17The more you focus on yourself, the
8:19safer of a man you become because the
8:20more resources and power you attain
8:21throughout life.
8:23And the reason why this woman is losing
8:24attraction for you is because you simply
8:25became an unattractive man because you
8:27became a man who is unsafe through being
8:30emotionally manipulated by something as
8:32simple as a woman. And so this is what
8:34you do. You don't let any of this
8:35manipulate you anymore. You just let it
8:37go.
8:38Let it go.
8:39And watch, she's going to come right
8:41back to you.