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0:00Her body count absolutely matters, but
0:01not for the reason you think. You see,
0:03you guys don't know how to measure a
0:04woman's value. Let me tell you, a woman
0:07with a body count of 50 might be more
0:10valuable than a woman with a body count
0:11of 20, because it's not about body
0:13count, it's about innocence. You see, a
0:15woman's value comes from how beautiful
0:16she is and how innocent she is.
0:18Everything else you can change. How
0:19respectful she is, whether she has guy
0:20friends, all that stuff. She'll get rid
0:22of all that disrespectful stuff for you
0:24if you're a man that's worthy of that
0:25sacrifice. If you're a man that is
0:27attractive enough, right? So, you got to
0:29understand,
0:30if she's been with an ex
0:32that has cheated on her or he didn't
0:34care to make the relationship work, and
0:36this guy was more valuable than you,
0:37guess what?
0:39I don't care how nice you are, how sweet
0:40you are, you are not going to be able to
0:42make her fall in love with you, because
0:44she's been with somebody more valuable.
0:45So, she feels like she deserves someone
0:46more valuable, because she's had someone
0:48more valuable in the past. And this is
0:50why a woman with a lower body count is
0:52more preferable. Why? Because if she's
0:54had nobody in her past, it's easier to
0:56get her to fall in love with you,
0:58because she hadn't hasn't had a standard
1:00set. Now, there's a nuance here, because
1:02it's not about the number of bodies
1:03she's had, it's about her innocence. Let
1:06me tell you, a woman with 50 bodies,
1:08those 50 bodies were one-night stands,
1:10that doesn't mean anything. Those guys
1:11obviously couldn't keep her in the long
1:12term, they didn't see her twice. It was
1:14a one-night stand, they couldn't do much
1:16with her, they couldn't retain her.
1:17Obviously, those guys were geeks. It's
1:19going to be easy to put yourself above
1:20those guys. Versus, if she has two
1:23boyfriends, but she's had those two
1:25boyfriends, one was 5 years, the other
1:26one was 10 years, these guys have done
1:28everything you can think of with her,
1:30and she was obsessed with these guys
1:31enough to stay with them for that amount
1:33of time. You got to understand, to be
1:35able to beat that guy, you have to be
1:37more valuable than that guy. And if that
1:38guy stayed with her for that long, if
1:40that that woman was that obsessed with
1:41that guy, like she stayed with him for
1:4210 years, you bet your ass that is going
1:45to be some competition.
1:47And so, this is the difference, right?
1:48The lower the body count, the easier it
1:50is to get the woman to fall in love with
1:51you. The the less headache it is for
1:53you. The easier it is for you to retain
1:55her, right? That's what it is. So, think
1:58about it like this. The more beautiful
1:59she is, the harder she is to attract,
2:01which is a good thing because you don't
2:02want every guy to be able to get at her.
2:05Right? The more beautiful she is,
2:07that means any guy that might even have
2:10a chance with her has to have all his
2:12stats maxed out. This is great because
2:13if you've already done all the all the
2:14heavy lifting and you're a guy that's
2:16maxed out, you get access to that woman.
2:18Now, once you get access to that woman,
2:19you don't want to do any more work
2:20because you've already worked for so
2:22many years of your life to become the
2:23man you've become. You just want to have
2:26what you what you deserve, right? And
2:28so, this is the thing. If this woman has
2:30been through a lot with other men,
2:32it's going to be very difficult to
2:33retain her. Why? Because you are going
2:35to have to play all these games. You are
2:38going to have to position yourself above
2:39that man and it's going to be a lot more
2:41difficult for you to position yourself
2:43above a guy who didn't care about her.
2:45And if they're like this is the thing.
2:47Think about it like this. Remember, I
2:48told you for her to fall in love with
2:49you, you have to be her best option out
2:51of all the guys she's ever been with
2:52before and all the guys that she can be
2:53with right now. What are the chances
2:55you're the best guy if she's only been
2:57with one guy before? Versus if she's
2:59been with 50. A lot a lot lower. If
3:02she's been with 50 guys, it's going to
3:03be a lot lower chances
3:05that you are going to be the best out of
3:06those 50 dudes. And so, this is the
3:08thing. This is the golden rule of thumb.
3:11If she's been cheated on before,
3:13you cheat on her double however many
3:15times that other guy cheated on her.
3:17Why? Because you got to understand what
3:19attraction is based off of. You need to
3:22be the guy that she is the most
3:23attracted to.
3:25This is the only way to get her to fall
3:26in love with you, right? Because love
3:29is serotonin oxytocin release. It's a
3:31chemical release in her brain that
3:32rewards her for choosing her best
3:34option.
3:36Her best option isn't calculated based
3:39on how nice the guy is or how much, you
3:41know, he does for the woman. In fact,
3:43it's usually the opposite. It's based on
3:45how resourceful
3:47that man is.
3:49Right? Because attraction is built for
3:51her survival. So, she can only fall in
3:53love with a man that ensures the
3:54survival of her and her offspring.
3:57And this type of man is the most
3:59resourceful man. And not only the most
4:01resourceful man, but the most
4:02resourceful man that can sustain those
4:04resources for as long as possible. And
4:06so this is why, right, the length, the
4:08duration is important because you could
4:10be a guy with looks, money, and status
4:11and be valuable on paper, but if you're
4:13a guy that falls weak to her and you're
4:15emotionally weak and she sees she can
4:16manipulate you, she goes, "Well, you
4:18might have all these things right now,
4:19but are you going to have them in the
4:20long run? What if there's a market crash
4:21tomorrow?" Obviously, she doesn't think
4:23about all this, but her brain makes the
4:25calculation that if you are emotional
4:26about her, you must be emotional about
4:28everything else. And this is why all the
4:30looks, money, and status, it gets
4:31trumped.
4:32And it she goes blind to it.
4:34And so what do you do? I'll tell you.
4:36Along with the looks, money, and status,
4:37you need to couple a lack of care for
4:38the relationship to work out or not.
4:41The nuance here is a lack of care for
4:43the relationship to work out. It's not
4:44that you don't care about her. It's not
4:45that you hate her and you're
4:46disrespectful to her and you you tell
4:48her to screw off. No.
4:50It's a lack of care to make things work.
4:51This means you don't do anything extra
4:53on the date. You don't do anything extra
4:55for her. You don't buy her anything, go
4:57out of your way and do things for her
4:58that you want to you don't want to do.
4:58You don't get married just because she
5:00wants to get married. This is what it
5:01is.
5:02And this is how you get her to fall in
5:04love with you more than the other guy.
5:05You see, a guy that cheats is a guy that
5:06doesn't care to make things work. He
5:08doesn't care if she gets upset or not,
5:09if the relationship fades, he doesn't
5:11care.
5:12And she falls in love with that guy. You
5:13know why?
5:14Because his perceived value is inflated
5:17through his lack of care. And I'll
5:18explain why.
5:21For her to fall in love with you, you
5:22need to be the most valuable guy. How do
5:24you establish yourself as the most
5:25valuable guy?
5:27There's many ways that you can do this.
5:28You can become the most attractive guy,
5:30right?
5:31By by, you know, just your looks, your
5:33appearance. You can be in shape. You
5:35could be a good-looking guy.
5:36Money, status, confidence, all these
5:39things that raise your value.
5:41But there's a secret weapon here.
5:44And And weapon is a lack of care. Why?
5:47Because think about this.
5:49The more you increase your looks, money,
5:50and status, what goes up? Your options
5:52in the dating market. You can date more
5:54women the more valuable you become. Now,
5:55flip it around. The more options you
5:57seem to have, the more valuable she's
6:00going to think you are. How do you
6:01inflate your options? You can literally
6:03do it by cheating. You can do it by
6:05being with multiple women. You can do it
6:07by never giving her monogamy and making
6:09sure that she knows she can be replaced
6:11at any point in time.
6:13Or you can do another thing,
6:15which is just have a lack of care.
6:17Because you know what kind of guy
6:18wouldn't care to make the relationship
6:19work? Is a guy that can replace her with
6:20a girl just as pretty, just as valuable,
6:23just as innocent.
6:25And so that lack of care, when she has
6:27drama or she has an issue with something
6:28and you just don't care,
6:30you just tell her, "Listen, you got an
6:31issue with something? No problem. We
6:32don't have to be together, right?" That
6:34right there, that lack of care, that
6:36willingness to let her go, makes her
6:37make the calculation that you are
6:39valuable because you must be able to
6:41replace her. The only kind of guy that
6:42would be willing to let her go is a guy
6:44that can replace her with a girl just as
6:46valuable. And so all you got to do is
6:48have a lack of care of making the
6:50relationship work.
6:52That's it.
6:53And so this is why
6:55it is totally two different stories
6:57when a woman has a innocent past versus
7:02a detrimental past, right? A past full
7:05of all kinds of dudes. Why? Because if
7:07there's a guy in the past that has cared
7:09less than you, it is going to be
7:11impossible for you to establish yourself
7:12as more valuable than that guy.
7:14This is why body count matters. As a
7:16man, you're supposed to focus on your
7:18future, your goals, your dreams, your
7:20ambitions. You're supposed to follow
7:22God. You're supposed to focus on
7:23yourself. You can't focus on yourself if
7:25she is constantly doing all these things
7:27to test and see if you are better than
7:29her ex. And you see, the more
7:30competition you have be
7:32due to the past she's had, right? She's
7:34constantly going to compare you and see,
7:36"Well, look, well, I've had this guy
7:37before and he didn't care as much as
7:39me as you do." She's going to constantly
7:41test you. And you don't want to do these
7:43tests. You don't want to deal with these
7:44tests because you are focused on your
7:46journey, your path, your mission as a
7:48man.
7:49And this is why the more innocent she
7:50is, the less of a headache she is, the
7:51more valuable she is to your life
7:53because she's beautiful. You get all the
7:54benefits of a beautiful woman being by
7:56your side, and you get none of the
7:58headache that comes along with her being
8:01in a horrible past.
8:02And so, this is the thing. A woman with
8:04a body count of 50 can love the same as
8:07a woman who's a virgin. The difference
8:09is, it's going to be a lot harder for a
8:10woman with a body count of 50
8:13to find a man that she loves more than
8:16all the other guys that she's been with
8:18in the past. Because remember, for her
8:20to find that man,
8:22that man has to care less than all those
8:24guys in the past.
8:26And so, if she is a virgin, it's going
8:28to be very easy for you to beat the
8:29competition because there is no
8:31competition.