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0:00You know, a lot of men think I'm joking
0:01when I say cheat. But this is not
0:03advice. This is literally a
0:04prescription. I want you to cheat for
0:05the rest of your life. And the thing is
0:07then it doesn't become cheating. It's
0:08just you being with multiple women and
0:09staying true to your nature. And this is
0:10a thing. Women want you to do this, too.
0:13The only reason why women say they want
0:14loyalty is because this is how they
0:16filter out weak men.
0:17I'll give you an example. Let's say a
0:19girl says, "I need a man who's going to
0:20buy me flowers. He's going to call me
0:22every afternoon, and he's going to
0:24FaceTime me at this time on this day."
0:26The only kind of man
0:28that would do all those things is a man
0:29that never gets laid. It's a man that
0:30has no purpose. It's a man that has
0:32nothing better to do. It's a man that
0:34isn't going to be successful. That's the
0:36only kind of man that's going to do
0:37this, and her subconscious knows this.
0:41But right here, she doesn't process it.
0:42She processes it this She processes this
0:44in the back of her mind. Subconsciously.
0:48And what she does is she filters these
0:50men out by saying she wants all these
0:52things. She goes, "Which man is going to
0:53give me all these things, and that way I
0:55can determine which man is weak?"
0:57Because guess what? That dude that's
0:58going to do all those things for her,
1:00he's weak. And she measures this by his
1:02desperation. The more desperate you are,
1:04the lower value you must be, right?
1:06Because here's the thing. Your value as
1:08a man is not on how nice you are, how
1:09loyal you are, how much money you make,
1:11what car you drive, none of those
1:12things.
1:13Your value comes down to one core
1:15reason, and it is determined by one core
1:18reason, and that core reason is
1:21the amount of options that you have. So,
1:23the amount of women that you can
1:24attract.
1:25Do you think you demonstrate that you
1:27can attract more women or less women by
1:29conforming to everything that she wants
1:30from you? If you could attract every
1:32girl in the world, and you could have
1:33any woman in the world, do you think you
1:35would conform at all? You would listen
1:36to her at all? No, you wouldn't.
1:39So, every time you don't listen, and the
1:40reason why girls always choose bad guys,
1:42it's not because they like guys that are
1:43mean to them. It's not because they like
1:44guys that are bad. It's not because they
1:45like to be disrespected. It's because
1:47they're attracted
1:49>> [snorts]
1:49>> to what those things indicate, which is
1:51high options.
1:53You would only not care what you say to
1:55a woman if you're really abundant, and
1:57you have a lot of options and this
1:59positions you as a very high value man.
2:02Cuz you just don't care.
2:03And this is the thing. Why? Why does
2:05that make you valuable? Well, why are
2:07you trying to increase your looks, your
2:09money, and your status? Because all
2:11those things drive your value up. But
2:13how do you determine that it's driving
2:14your value up? Well, because when you
2:16drive all those statistics up and you
2:18drive you you you become more you become
2:20more valuable. And then what happens is
2:21as you become more valuable, you now
2:23have more options. Every dollar you
2:25make, every dollar you add to your net
2:27worth, you have another option and
2:28another option. And when you get a
2:30little bit more jacked, you have another
2:31option. And then you're fitting more and
2:33more women's criteria and you're
2:35allowing yourself to have more of the
2:37market.
2:38So, what does that mean? That means that
2:40your value gives you more options and
2:43you can switch that.
2:44The more options you have, the more
2:45value you have. Because if the more
2:46value you have, the more options you
2:48have, well, that means that the more
2:48options you have, the more value you
2:50have. So, what you can do, especially if
2:51you're young, is you can fake this.
2:53You can fake how many options you have,
2:56which will inflate your perceived value
2:59and every young man should do this.
3:01Like act like you already have it all.
3:03If you have two girlfriends around,
3:04three girlfriends around, act like you
3:05have 10. Act like you have 20. Act like
3:07you have the whole world in the palm of
3:10your hands.
3:11It's like
3:13who gives a Why would you care?
3:15You shouldn't care. You should do
3:16whatever it takes to win and guess what?
3:18This is a great way to do it. You don't
3:20need to have a Ferrari. You don't need
3:22to be the tallest guy, the best looking
3:24guy. Just stop caring because
3:27not [snorts] caring demonstrates
3:29that you have a lot of options.
3:31Because it all comes down to listen, if
3:32you had a lot of options, you wouldn't
3:33care, right? You wouldn't care what you
3:34say, you wouldn't care what you do, you
3:36would just be whatever.
3:38And this is why you need to just focus
3:40on becoming a man
3:42that
3:43can put himself in the situation of not
3:46caring.
3:47Because that's what demonstrates that
3:49you have more options than every other
3:50guy. Remember, women choose
3:52the guy that has more options than every
3:53other guy because that guy is more
3:55valuable than every other guy if he has
3:56more options than every other guy. Women
3:58optimize for their best option. They
4:00want the best life that they can get and
4:03they optimize for that best life by
4:05finding the guy with the most amount of
4:06resources and the dude with the most
4:08amount of resources is the guy
4:10or at least the guy that she thinks has
4:12the most amount of resources is the guy
4:13that pulls the most amount of women.
4:15So, what you got to do
4:17because a lot of you guys are going to
4:18say, "Well, I'm not very good-looking. I
4:19don't get attention from women
4:20naturally. And if you're telling me not
4:21to chase and pursue and you're telling
4:23me to just attract, but I don't
4:24attract."
4:26Well, so what that means is you
4:26shouldn't even be in the dating market.
4:28You shouldn't be doing anything other
4:30than improving yourself and your stats
4:33so that then women come to you. Instead
4:34of sitting for 6 hours at the mall with
4:36your loser friends trying to cold
4:38approach, what you should do
4:40is you should spend all of that time
4:42developing your character. Now, I'm not
4:44That's not saying don't cold approach.
4:45Cold approach, but don't cold approach
4:47going out of your way to cold approach.
4:48Cold approach if you went to go get some
4:49food and it's convenient you saw a girl,
4:51but not for the not to get her number.
4:54Right? Don't think about it as like I
4:55want to get her number because cold
4:56approaching is an instant disadvantage
4:58because it's you walking into her frame.
4:59It's you pursuing her. It's you chasing
5:00her. Think about it again. If you had a
5:02bunch of options and you already getting
5:03laid so much, you wouldn't care to cold
5:06approach. You wouldn't go out of your
5:07way to talk to a new one. You wouldn't
5:08care.
5:09Right? So, you cold approaching is
5:11already putting you at a
5:12at a place where you're chasing and you
5:14can only chase what's ahead of you. So,
5:15it makes her seem like she makes her
5:17feel like she's more valuable than you.
5:19Do it to grow your balls. That's it.
5:20Cold approach to become comfortable
5:22being uncomfortable. Do it to become a
5:24man. Okay? Just get experience talking
5:26to women. That's it. Don't go into it
5:28thinking, "Oh, if I get rejected or this
5:30or
5:31Get that all out of your head because
5:32you're not going to get rejected because
5:33you maybe maybe you are ugly, but
5:34listen, you might just get rejected just
5:36because maybe she has a better option or
5:37maybe because she looks at you and she
5:38goes, "Look at this desperate man
5:40approaching me.
5:41He must never get laid." That's what it
5:43is. So,
5:45you know, and
5:47it becomes much easier when you just go,
5:49"You know what? I don't want to do all
5:50this. I'm not going to focus on this.
5:52Every stupid dating coach is telling me
5:54all this What I'm going to do
5:55instead is I'm going to just focus all
5:57my time and energy onto myself, so I
5:59become a man that's top 1% and I just
6:01become a man that every woman wants."
6:04So, that's what you got to do. And if
6:07you're not doing that, you are just
6:08going to lose and
6:12that's just the way the game works.
6:14But, here's the thing.
6:16Here's a little secret. I said earlier,
6:17when I tell you guys the cheat, I'm
6:18telling you the truth. I'm not
6:20exaggerating. I'm not joking. I'm being
6:22dead serious.
6:24You don't need to be a good-looking guy.
6:26You don't need to have money, looks, and
6:27status to retain a woman. All you have
6:29to do is make her feel like you are her
6:31best option. And the way you can beat
6:32every other guy, cuz every other sucker
6:34is being loyal in today's day and age.
6:37All you got to do to beat them, you
6:38might not have the stats maxed out the
6:40way they do. All you got to do to keep
6:42that woman, if you already attracted
6:43her,
6:44is cheat on her.
6:45Because now she will feel like she can
6:47never be do better than you, because
6:48what is what do you think is going to
6:49make her
6:50What do you think is going to go through
6:51her mind? I couldn't get this guy to
6:52commit.
6:53What makes me think what She's going to
6:55go, "What makes me think that I can get
6:56this dude that has more money and more
6:57status to commit?" She doesn't even
6:59think about that. She stays with you
7:01because she didn't beat level 19, so she
7:02doesn't even think about going to level
7:0420. Level 20 is out of the picture.
7:07And so, that's it.
7:08Now, she looks at you as the one guy
7:09that she couldn't conquer and now for
7:11the rest of her life she's going to be
7:13obsessed with you unless you mess it up.
7:14You apologize. You lie. We all know how
7:16this goes. You apologize. You lie. It's
7:17low options.
7:19You don't apologize. You don't lie. You
7:20just tell her what it is.
7:22I did what I did, you know. I cheated. I
7:24slept with another girl. You got a
7:25problem with it, you can leave. She's
7:26not going to leave because that shows
7:28abundance. Shows options.
7:30Cuz you have willingness to just let her
7:32go.
7:33And only a man with options has
7:35willingness to let her go because he
7:36knows he can replace her.
7:38And the cheating was also attractive
7:40because cheating shows you that you have
7:41options.
7:42Right? If you have to have options to
7:44cheat.
7:45So, it's a prescription.
7:46Do it for the rest of your life
7:48and focus
7:50on things that are greater
7:52and bigger than life. So, you don't
7:54focus on women. That's how you get women
7:56is by focusing on things that are
7:57bigger, greater.
7:59Focus on God. Focus on purpose. Why are
8:01you here? Ask yourself that question. Do
8:03something great. And then women will
8:06gravitate towards you. But if you have a
8:07girl right now,
8:08I'm prescribing you.
8:10Okay?
8:11I'm prescribing you right now. This is a
8:12prescription. Start cheating.