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0:00Just be a man, and she's going to be
0:01head over heels in love with you. It's
0:02so simple. You know what being a man is?
0:03It's not caring to open a car door for
0:05her. It's not caring to buy her flowers.
0:07It's not caring to take her out. It's
0:08not caring to text her good morning and
0:10good night. You do all those things, now
0:12you're a woman. See, being a man is you
0:14being narcissistic. And the thing is, a
0:16lot of guys are like, "Well, that's
0:17toxic." No, it's not. No, it's not.
0:18Because all she's doing when she's
0:20looking for a man is somebody who can
0:21provide for her and her offspring. She
0:23is wired
0:24wired to look for this. And feminism has
0:27enabled women the ability to go out
0:29there and provide for themselves. But
0:30guess what? Those women aren't women.
0:32They turn into men. Because if a woman
0:35doesn't need a man, she can't be a
0:36woman. The feminine is the submission to
0:38a man. That is the feminine. So, be
0:41somebody she can submit to. All you got
0:43to do is focus on yourself, become so
0:44powerful, have so much leverage in
0:46everything you do in life,
0:48relationships, friendships, business.
0:50Now, you become a man. It's so simple.
0:52And the thing is, you win twice. When
0:54you focus on yourself, what happens is
0:56that selfishness allows you to, in turn,
0:58be selfish in the future. Cuz this is
1:00the thing. You're born without any
1:01value. And if you have no value, you
1:03can't give anyone anything.
1:05Nothing.
1:06Therefore, you can't be selfless. The
1:08only way you can be selfless is through
1:10being selfish, right? Put your mask on
1:12before you help others. So, do this.
1:14Because what happens then is, not only
1:16do you become attractive to women, but
1:17you also get to retire parents, achieve
1:19your goals and dreams, and do whatever
1:20the hell you want in life.
1:22Okay? This is what you need to
1:24internalize. This is how you become
1:26free.
1:27See, there's two types of freedom.
1:28There's feminine freedom and there's
1:30masculine freedom. Feminine freedom is
1:33the freedom from things. The freedom
1:35from having to work. The freedom from
1:37having to stress. The freedom from
1:39things. But the thing is, with this
1:40freedom, there's no power. The masculine
1:43freedom is the freedom to do whatever
1:45you want. The freedom to make this
1:47business decision. The freedom to get
1:49rid of this girl and replace her with
1:50another one. The freedom to go buy that
1:52car that you want to buy. That is the
1:54masculine freedom. And that is the
1:55freedom that you must acquire to be
1:57fulfilled as a man.
1:59And this is done
2:01through focusing on yourself 100% of the
2:03time. The funny part about this is you
2:04win twice. You get the woman and you get
2:06to live the life you want to live. So,
2:09why would you not do this?
2:10See, you're afraid.
2:12You're afraid
2:14of focusing on yourself. You're afraid
2:15of saying no to her. But, this is the
2:17thing. The most attractive guy is the
2:18guy that says no. The most attractive
2:20guy, the guy that she wants, is the guy
2:21that says, "No, we're not going out. No,
2:23I got to do this. No, I can't go out
2:24today. I got to go to the gym. No, no,
2:26no." The guy that's not afraid to say no
2:28is the guy that she ends up going
2:30spending her entire life with because
2:32that's the one guy that she deems is
2:34more valuable than every other guy.
2:36Think about it. If you were the most
2:37valuable guy,
2:39what you would have in turn is more
2:40options than every other guy. You could
2:42date more women than every other guy.
2:43And if you could date more women than
2:45every other guy, you wouldn't be afraid
2:47to disappoint a woman.
2:48You wouldn't be afraid to disappoint
2:50this girl because you could just replace
2:51her.
2:52And you see, every time she sees you
2:54cancel your plans for her, every time
2:56she sees you conform to her, every time
2:57she sees you pedestalize her, she looks
2:59at you and she goes, "You're afraid to
3:00lose me." Which must mean you can't
3:02replace me. Which must mean you're not
3:04valuable or at least you're not valuable
3:06enough to have an option as good as me,
3:07if not better. And now, she has all the
3:09control and all the leverage. And now,
3:11she can she can't submit, which means
3:13she can't be feminine.
3:15Now, she has the power. She has the
3:16leverage. She can disrespect you. She
3:18can go to the club. She can hang out
3:20with guy friends. Cuz what are you going
3:22to do? Replace her with someone better?
3:23You can't. And she knows you can't
3:25because you already told her this
3:26through your commitment, through your
3:28constant through your constant fear of
3:30saying no, your constant fear of
3:32disappointing her. Guys, just be a man.
3:34So easy. So easy. You know why? Because
3:37men don't know how to be men these days.
3:38So, therefore, all you have to do You
3:40don't even have to be 100% a man. Of
3:41course, that's the best. That's the
3:42optimal. That's what you should aim for.
3:44But, you don't even have to do that
3:46because [snorts] you're competing
3:47against men that aren't even 10% men.
3:50So, all you got to do is be 20% of a man
3:52and you're already winning cuz this is
3:54the thing. You just need to be her best
3:56option.
3:57Okay, you don't have to be Ronaldo. You
3:58just have to be the Ronaldo of your
3:59life. Chances are your girl is a six.
4:01Ronaldo doesn't want to date her. So,
4:03therefore, he's not even your
4:04competition. Your competition are the
4:06other guys in her DMs. You just got to
4:08be the Ronaldo of her DMs, the Ronaldo
4:10of her following list, the Ronaldo of
4:11all her other dating options. And this
4:13is not difficult if you're dating an
4:15average woman or even a seven out of 10
4:17because there is no competition. What is
4:19a guy What are these guys doing every
4:20day of their life?
4:22Everyone goes to college.
4:24Everyone works a 9-5. Nobody has any
4:26goals or ambitions or aspirations.
4:28Everyone goes in clubs and does drugs
4:29and smokes and drinks.
4:31You All you have to do is avoid all
4:33those things. Go to the gym every day
4:35and work on your business every day.
4:36That's it.
4:38So simple.
4:40So pure. So fun. So exciting. So
4:43interesting.
4:45Why would you want to do anything else
4:48but build your dream life with the
4:50people that you love, for the people
4:52that you love. There's nothing else.
4:55There's nothing else to do as a man. You
4:56are a builder and that's what's going to
4:58bring you fulfillment because what that
5:00comes with is power and influence,
5:03which is freedom to do whatever you
5:05want, right? But this is the thing. With
5:07great power comes great responsibility.
5:10Doesn't mean your life is going to be
5:11stress-free. It just means that you
5:13aren't going to be dealing with peasant
5:14issues and you aren't going to have to
5:16live like a peasant.
5:18Cuz remember, the feminine freedom
5:21is the freedom from the stress. The
5:23masculine freedom comes with all the
5:25stress.
5:27But I would say that freedom is better.
5:29And the thing is, for a man, that
5:30freedom is more fulfilling because it is
5:31masculine to have power and influence.
5:33It's not
5:34it's not feminine to have masculine
5:36influ- not it's to have power and
5:38influence. And so, therefore, a woman
5:40doesn't want that. A woman wants freedom
5:42from things. She wants the feminine
5:43freedom. You Your biology, your nature
5:46is going to be satisfied the day when
5:48you wake up and you are happy to wake up
5:50and do what you are supposed to do is
5:52the day
5:53that you actually free your soul. It's
5:57the day that you start enjoying the day
5:59regardless of whether it's a good day or
6:00a bad day.
6:02You start enjoying life to the fullest.
6:03You start embodying this idea of I get
6:06to do whatever I want to do because I
6:08have the power to do it and I have this
6:09mission and this goal and this bigger
6:10than life and all this other minuscule
6:12stuff like drama with a woman
6:15becomes so small and little that it
6:17makes it easy to avoid it. It makes it
6:19easy to not be manipulated by it. This
6:21is why you have to focus on yourself
6:2224/7.
6:2324/7. Not to become more rich, not to
6:27have more money so that you can throw it
6:29at the woman, flaunt and look how much
6:31money I have and she's going to date you
6:33because now you're rich. No, no, no, no,
6:34no.
6:35It's just it makes it easier not to care
6:37about her. That's what's attractive.
6:39What's attractive is not the dollar
6:40figure. What's attractive is the fact
6:41that you still prioritize yourself and
6:43you don't care about her. You don't care
6:44to please her. You only care to please
6:45please yourself. What that makes you is
6:47a safe option for her survival because
6:49you see the safest man, think about
6:50this. What kind of man is going to have
6:52constant resources? What kind of man is
6:54going to be able to provide for her and
6:55her offspring the best? A man who
6:58focuses on a woman or a man that focuses
7:00on himself?
7:02Right? So simple. The man that focuses
7:03on himself because that means he's
7:04always becoming more powerful, more
7:07influential, more resourceful. And this
7:09is the way the world works.
7:12This is what it is. It's not about
7:13happiness. It's not about this red pill
7:14oh you just got to make her
7:15feel as many emotions as possible. No.
7:18It's about
7:19understanding how to make her make the
7:21calculation that you are the most
7:23valuable man to her survival and the
7:25survival of her offspring and she does
7:27this based on how little you care to
7:28make things work with her. How little
7:30you care to please her. How little you
7:31because she looks at you and she goes he
7:32has options. Right? You would only be
7:35afraid of losing this girl if you had no
7:36options. You would only want to please
7:37her 24/7. You would only be afraid to
7:39say no if you couldn't replace her.
7:42And so when you tell her no and you
7:44don't care to satisfy her and you don't
7:45care
7:47to do the things that she wants to do.
7:49She starts to leave you, fine, go. She
7:51ain't never going to leave, ever.
7:53Ever. Because she looks at you and she
7:54goes,
7:55"This man must have the option to
7:57replace me. That's why he doesn't care
7:58to satisfy me. If he has the option to
7:59replace me, he must be valuable. If he's
8:01valuable, guess what? If she If you are
8:03valuable, she makes this calculation
8:04that you are the most valuable man out
8:05of all the other guys she can date. You
8:07are not the most attractive guy.
8:08Attraction is built
8:10for one reason and one reason only.
8:13For her to attach herself
8:16to a man that is the most capable of
8:18providing her with the life
8:20that she is seeking, which is stability
8:22and resources, right? Resource
8:25stability, right?
8:27And so all you got to do is become the
8:29most resourceful guy and maintain those
8:31resources. Because this is the thing,
8:32looks, money, and status, fine.
8:33Resources
8:34are are visible up front. That's
8:36attraction, looks, money, and status.
8:38The long term
8:39is she makes this calculation based on
8:41how much you care about her because
8:43that's how she tests whether you go
8:44emotionally weak
8:45for things in life.
8:47All she has to do to see if you're going
8:48to be able to retain that looks, money,
8:50and status. Cuz remember, you might have
8:51that now, but the way she tests whether
8:52you're going to have it in the long run
8:53is by just seeing, are you going to go
8:54emotionally weak for her? If you go
8:55emotionally weak for her and you do
8:57whatever she wants you to do, what else
8:58are you going to go emotionally weak
8:59for? What about your business? What if
9:00tomorrow there's a stock market crash
9:01and you're afraid of oh, what if I make
9:03this decision or that decision and now
9:04you don't feel like showing up to work
9:05and you lose all your money. Now that
9:07looks, money, and status is out of the
9:08window. And so she needs to figure out,
9:09are you going to be able to show up no
9:11matter what still? And she does this by
9:13testing you
9:15to see how emotional you get when she
9:17does something and see if she can get
9:19under your skin.
9:21And that's all this is.
9:23That's the long term.
9:24Right? That's the retention. And she
9:26calculates that based on how little you
9:27care to impress her and how much you
9:29only care about yourself. And the more
9:30you care about yourself, the more
9:31narcissistic you are, the more she's
9:33going to choose you, the more she's
9:34going to be
9:35in love with you, the more she's going
9:36to be satisfied with you because now you
9:37are the safest option, not just
9:38short-term, but long-term.
9:41Long-term. And so now, she loves you.
9:44That's what love is. She's willing to
9:45sacrifice for you, because you are worth
9:46the sacrifice. Oxytocin, serotonin
9:49release in her brain, this chemical
9:50release in her brain, because she has
9:52made the calculation that you are the
9:53safest option for her future, and her
9:55chemical her brain releases these
9:57chemicals to make her attached to you,
10:00to make her crave you, because you are
10:01safe for her survival. And this is not
10:03done through making her feel all kinds
10:04of different emotions. This is solely
10:06done through you being the safest
10:08present
10:09option, and the safest long-term option.