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0:00Now, what I'm going to show you in
0:01today's video is going to be a brutal
0:02truth, but you can never expect a woman
0:05to take responsibility in a relationship
0:07because this is what you're going to
0:08find. Women will reserve the right to
0:11act like an adult, meaning I'm strong,
0:13I'm independent, I don't need a man, I
0:15don't need anybody to look after me, but
0:17then also
0:18when their emotions don't want to feel
0:20that way in that moment, you'll also
0:23notice that a woman reserves the right
0:25to essentially act like a child, meaning
0:27all of a sudden the narrative shifts to
0:29I'm just a girl. Don't expect too much
0:31from me. I'm just a girl. You'll You'll
0:33hear this all the time. You'll hear this
0:35on social media. You'll see just women
0:38say this in general, I'm just a girl.
0:39Okay, because of that this can cause a
0:41lot of confusion and frustration to men
0:45when you're in a relationship or when
0:47you're dating women. So, because of that
0:49I'm going to show you step-by-step what
0:51to do and how to act so that way you can
0:53get around some of these issues that
0:56you're going to face when it comes to
0:57female nature. This is going to stand
0:59true no matter if you're dating, in a
1:01relationship, or married, and it doesn't
1:03matter if you are 18 years old or 58
1:07years old, you're going to notice this
1:09same type of behavior from the women
1:10that you date because this is
1:12unanimously true when it comes to female
1:14nature. Because of that, stay tuned
1:16because this is going to be a great
1:17video. Okay, in this video I'm going to
1:19show you why to never expect a woman to
1:21take responsibility for anything in a
1:23relationship. Let's start over here,
1:24okay? These are words that women do not
1:26like or enjoy or even consider.
1:29Words would be self-reflection,
1:30constructive criticism, or
1:32responsibility. Okay, the reason being
1:34is because these words that I just
1:36described to you, these words right here
1:38require a logical commitment and a
1:40rational understanding to come to the
1:43conclusion that something needs to be
1:45improved on or something needs to be
1:47better. Now, in this example right here
1:49with these three words, it would happen
1:52to be their behavior.
1:54Now, this rational understanding, okay,
1:57of words like self-reflection,
1:58constructive criticism, or
2:00responsibility, this rational
2:02understanding, despite being true, okay,
2:06will not make her feel good. It's going
2:08to impact her emotions. So, despite it
2:11being true, despite it being the right
2:13thing, it's not going to make her feel
2:15good and her ears don't want to hear it.
2:17What you're going to find the more you
2:18date is women only optimize with what
2:21makes their ears feel good. So, the
2:23right words, the soft words, that's what
2:25they follow. They literally follow how
2:27they feel. Their entire reality changes
2:30based on how they feel, based on what
2:32they hear. Okay, so it could be
2:35something completely false, completely
2:37something not true, but because the
2:39vocal tonality shifted or impacted their
2:42words, they will literally just follow
2:44their own emotions. So, women oftentimes
2:47don't care about what's true, women care
2:49about how they feel and what makes them
2:51happy, and this is what they optimize
2:53for. So, this right here is how men are
2:56emasculated and manipulated in
2:58conversation without even realizing it.
3:01Okay, I'm going to show you. Now, as a
3:03man, you will expected to be smart,
3:06strong, competent, good at making
3:08decisions,
3:09knows what the correct thing to do at
3:11all times, like the guy has that
3:13capability, he knows what the correct
3:15thing to do or the correct decision
3:17would be. You will be expected to be all
3:19of these things when you're dating.
3:21Until, okay,
3:24stick with me, until the correct thing
3:26to do in a circumstance or a decision
3:29that you made, okay, wasn't the one that
3:32she wanted. You will expected to be all
3:35these things until, okay,
3:38it's not the decision that she wanted.
3:40Despite that decision being correct,
3:42it's not what she wanted. So, she feels
3:45as if her emotions, okay, are now
3:48impacted, and more than likely it will
3:51be your fault for not making her happy,
3:53or at least this will be the lens that
3:55she sees the world. Since you didn't
3:57make her happy in this moment, it's your
4:00fault, and you will either be not a good
4:02leader or not the man that she wants or
4:04that she claims she wants, or you'll be
4:06good in the beginning, but then all of a
4:07sudden you won't be. This is what you're
4:09probably going to experience. Now, here
4:12is why, okay, stick with me because
4:14there's light at the end of the tunnel.
4:16If this video sounds all doom and gloom,
4:18it's not, there's light at the end of
4:19the tunnel, just stick with me.
4:21Here is why you cannot win and you will
4:23never be able to escape this ever. If
4:25you are dating women, okay, and
4:27specifically modern women with 10 times
4:29the amount of options. This is what I'm
4:31trying to tell you is that she will most
4:32likely at all times have five to 10
4:35times the amount of options that you
4:36have. So, this is why you can't win.
4:38Just stick with me.
4:40Women reserve the right, okay, to
4:42abandon all responsibility and ownership
4:45when they're no longer happy. As soon as
4:48she's no longer happy with that man or
4:50with that relationship, she will abandon
4:52all of the things that she once said,
4:54and on top of that, you will notice that
4:56she'll abandon all responsibility and
4:58ownership simply because she wakes up
5:01and she's not happy. So, stick with me.
5:04What this column is right here is this
5:06column is adult level logic. Adult level
5:09logic would be I'm strong, I'm
5:12independent, I can make decisions, I
5:14make my own money, so therefore I'm
5:16self-sufficient, okay? I don't need a
5:18man or I don't need anybody, I'm happy
5:21alone. You're going to hear these
5:22things, okay? And you might hear these
5:24things from men or women, but just stick
5:26with me because when you're dating a
5:27woman, female nature interprets these
5:30topics completely different than how you
5:32assume.
5:33You might hear something like, I like to
5:35lead, I like to be in control, I like to
5:38know where I'm going. Okay, you'll hear
5:40all of these things, and this is what I
5:41would consider adult level logic
5:43followed by
5:45I'm just a girl.
5:47I'm just a girl.
5:48Don't expect too much from me. I'm just
5:50a girl. You're going to hear this all
5:52the time. And the funniest thing about
5:54this is it doesn't matter if you are 22
5:57or if the woman is 45 years old or
5:59whatever, you're going to notice and
6:01hear this type of behavior the longer
6:04you date. So, this is not like a
6:06specific circumstance with you or your
6:08specific relationship or who you are as
6:10a man, this is female nature as a whole.
6:13Okay, so
6:15when you hear these things, I'm just a
6:17girl, what did you expect? Don't expect
6:19too much from me. I'm just a girl. What
6:21this is is this is abandoning all
6:23responsibility and ownership when she's
6:25no longer happy or when she no longer
6:28wants that same level of responsibility
6:30decision-making process, and she wants
6:32it to now fall on you simply because
6:34you're the man. Now, this right here in
6:36this column is why women choose to sleep
6:38with the passive non-leader type, okay,
6:41when it comes to relationships, okay,
6:43and when it comes to specific outcomes.
6:45Just stick with me, this will make
6:47sense. Now, you have to understand this,
6:48when I say passive non-leader type when
6:51it comes to relationships, that does not
6:53mean that you are passive in your own
6:55life. Okay, his active masculine energy
6:58goes towards himself. When I say passive
7:01leadership, okay, passive non-leader
7:04nonchalant type leadership, listen to me
7:06closely, this is going to be the man
7:09that you will notice that women will
7:10routinely sleep with over and over and
7:12over while chasing his validation,
7:15pursuing him, even a lot of times being
7:17the one who sets up dates and future
7:18paces more outcomes. This is what you're
7:21going to find. This type of man right
7:23here, he doesn't care, okay? And on top
7:27of that, he appears as if he has no
7:29standard. So, while he's out and about
7:32or while he's with her, whatever happens
7:35happens, and there's literally no
7:36standard. A lot of times or oftentimes
7:39he will plan and lead absolutely nothing
7:43and is there while he sees her, but
7:45after he future paces no other plans and
7:48no other outcomes. So, what you're going
7:49to notice is that not only does he never
7:51call or text ever, okay, you will notice
7:54that this is routinely the man that she
7:57chases. And keep in mind, this is all
7:59going to be happening while she claims
8:01that she wants a good leader, while she
8:03claims that she wants you to be good at
8:06making decisions, all of this stuff,
8:08only to get you to reveal your interest
8:10level, and all of a sudden you're
8:11demonstrating and giving effort and
8:15masculinity. Now, all of a sudden as
8:17you've revealed your interest level, she
8:18has the ability to reject you because
8:20you've essentially shown how much you
8:22like her, and now what you're going to
8:24notice is that all it takes is one
8:26specific situation or sentence where she
8:29doesn't like the decision that you made
8:31for her to now claim that she's not
8:33happy. So, this is how deep the
8:36emasculation and or manipulation can
8:39actually go. And the reason being is
8:41because it's very hard for her to
8:43disqualify this type of guy. And what
8:45that means is since he appears strong,
8:47smart, capable, and competent, and good
8:49at making decisions while he is with
8:51her, he's demonstrating all the right
8:53masculinity traits that she is looking
8:55for, while simultaneously appearing like
8:58he doesn't necessarily care about any
9:00outcome. Therefore, however she feels in
9:03that moment is typically happy because
9:06her emotions are never impacted. So,
9:08stick with me because there's light at
9:09the end of the tunnel. What you have to
9:11do, okay, you have to really just stop
9:13trying completely. You have to stop
9:15trying completely, and I'm going to
9:17explain why.
9:18Do not desire a relationship at all. In
9:21fact, take this even a step deeper.
9:23Anything that you desire in life, like
9:25if you really desire it, it gets harder
9:28and harder and harder to achieve the
9:30harder you try. And you'll notice that
9:32this typically stands true in business,
9:35in your dating life, in your career,
9:37okay, making money, okay, the harder you
9:40try and the more outcome dependent you
9:42are at achieving something, typically
9:44the worst results you have. So, what I
9:46can tell you is this, any external
9:48stress or pressure makes it so hard. And
9:52this is why what you'll notice is that
9:54women oftentimes will continue to sleep
9:56with the passive almost non-leader type
9:59because he's not future pacing added
10:01plans. He's not desiring a specific
10:03outcome. When he sees her, he sees her
10:05and when he doesn't, he doesn't and
10:06that's that and what I can tell you is
10:08this. Because what you'll notice is that
10:11women a lot of times reserve the right
10:13to have the adult-like characteristics
10:15that they want meaning smart, strong,
10:16independent and they'll claim that this
10:18is who they are therefore they don't
10:20need a man. The second that their
10:21emotions are not optimized, you'll
10:23notice that the reverse is also true and
10:25all of a sudden she wants you to be a
10:27different type of man with different
10:29traits in that circumstance because that
10:31decision wasn't what she wanted. Because
10:34of that, if you can actually see this
10:35for what it is, you stop putting all of
10:37this focus on actually obtaining the
10:39relationship and all of a sudden when
10:41you don't necessarily
10:43have a specific standard or outcome
10:45dependency that you're looking at, now
10:47all of a sudden her emotions
10:48continuously work in your favor. If you
10:51like this video, I advise you take this
10:52even a step further, join us in the
10:54community that I built so that way I can
10:55help you learn, understand and master
10:57the language of women and I'm seeing so
10:59many guys get results but on top of
11:01that, now I'm going to tell you guys
11:02just a couple more really cool things,
11:05okay? Plus it's Christmas, the holidays
11:07are here. I absolutely love Christmas
11:09and I'm super super excited to see
11:12family very soon.
11:14So in a lot of my videos, I constantly
11:16talk about like Head Man Nation, the
11:18community that I built and then the
11:19language of women, the process that guys
11:22are following that they can copy paste
11:24into their dating life to get better
11:26dating success but like one of the
11:28things I haven't really told you about
11:30or showed you is all the other cool like
11:32behind the scenes stuff that I built.
11:35Like for example, I'm going to show you
11:37like a video that I made custom just for
11:40the guys inside of Head Man Nation
11:43yesterday. So this is a video on
11:45fitness, a video on nutrition. This was
11:47me last night at like probably like 8:00
11:49or 9:00 p.m. just sitting in my house
11:52actually talking about how I structure
11:54certain things in my diet that's helped
11:56me have a six-pack like year-round for
11:59so many years in a row. So I'll play
12:01that video right now
12:03and join us inside of that community
12:05seriously. Like I watch guys up level
12:07their personal life. They're up leveling
12:09a lot of times their business and their
12:11career mindset and their focus. I see
12:13guys in there like even just using the
12:15strong masculinity traits, concepts and
12:17principles to start to make more money.
12:19I've watched guys get dating success
12:20like
12:21we actually have real community and real
12:24brotherhood and I know just how powerful
12:26that is especially for those of you um
12:30you know, a lot of you right like you go
12:32to work, you maybe come home, you go to
12:34the gym and then you watch a few videos
12:36on the internet and then you go to bed
12:37and repeat and it maybe will feel like
12:40life just doesn't get any better that
12:42nobody can relate to you and that's why
12:44I built this community was to solve
12:45that. It's not just about dating
12:47success. It's like how can we as men
12:49come together to make sure that we
12:51have real conversation and can get ahead
12:53in life so we're happy, healthy and
12:54fulfilled and that's why I built this.
12:56So I'll play that video right now. Join
12:58us inside that community today or after
13:01this video is over.
13:03Okay, so one of the things you guys are
13:05going to have to do is you're going to
13:06have to prioritize how to get lean and
13:09how to stay lean. This is something that
13:11I've mastered for like probably the past
13:13like 10 years.
13:14Um I've pretty much had a six-pack
13:18year-round
13:19for like the past 10 years. So this
13:22comes really naturally to me and one of
13:24the things you have to start doing
13:27is you have to start looking at food as
13:28purely as a number instead of a meal.
13:32Okay, so a lot of guys they're in this
13:33habit of constantly needing a meal. You
13:36need it to taste good. You need the
13:37right seasonings and the right oils and
13:40all this stuff but the problem is it's
13:42hard to track. You don't actually know
13:44what you're consuming. You don't know
13:45how many calories you're eating and it's
13:47really hard to measure.
13:49So what you have to get used to doing or
13:51what I do to constantly stay lean and
13:53always be in good shape or always have
13:55visible ab definition
13:57is I'd like to just use what I would
13:58call like
13:59um
14:01whole food based macros or single
14:04serving whole food based macros. For
14:07example, what I will eat right now right
14:09before bed is I'm going to eat an entire
14:12pack of this oven roasted turkey. Okay,
14:14this oven roasted turkey when I say like
14:16single food or like single macro, the
14:19only thing I have to look at is protein.
14:21This is the only macronutrient in this.
14:23There's um
14:2512 * 3, there's 36 g of protein in this
14:28whole pack, zero carb, zero fat. Okay,
14:30perfect. This is easy to track. I know
14:32I'm going to take in exactly 150
14:34calories.
14:36Then I go online and I type in calories
14:39of one cup of grapes and I just eat my
14:41one cup of grapes. This has zero fat.
14:43This has zero protein. The only thing
14:45this has is carbohydrates. So now I have
14:48carbs to track only and I only have to
14:50worry about protein. This is how you
14:52start to stay lean year-round is instead
14:54of meals, you start to look at food as
14:56purely just food and when you start
14:58consuming whole food based things, it's
15:01easier to get dialed in. So I'm going to
15:03show you guys more really cool fitness
15:05stuff in this community um and I'm going
15:07to show you a bunch of little hacks that
15:09I use to stay lean.