Ep. 26. Started From the Bottom - feat. YourSexologistBestie Kash

0:11Welcome, welcome, welcome. It's your

0:12girl Cash, your sexologist Bestie. And

0:14this week, guys, on the business of

0:16pleasure, we're going to do things just

0:17a tiny bit differently. I realize I've

0:20been talking to y'all for a long time,

0:22but I ain't tell you nothing about me. A

0:25lot of you guys have been hearing from

0:26awesome guests, but I figured when would

0:29be better than in the merry month of

0:31masturbation for me to tell you a little

0:34bit about my journey here at Bedroom

0:36Candy. But I promise you it's going to

0:38be a roller coaster. So strap in, hold

0:40your seat, and get ready to be like cuz

0:43I promise you my story has so many

0:45twists and turns. Now before I even get

0:48to BK, I started in this industry about

0:5012 years ago now. Jesus Christ, 12

0:53years. 12 years. We getting old. Cash,

0:56we getting old. Now, 12 years ago, I

0:59went into the pleasure industry because

1:00I actually was looking for a way to kind

1:03of make money and do things for my

1:05household and be available at home

1:07because in that year, my son was

1:09diagnosed with autism. And it kind of

1:11turned my world upside down. Before

1:13that, I had been in politics and we was

1:14out there fighting the fight and

1:16fighting the power and well, I'm still

1:18in advocacy, but it didn't really

1:20accommodate the needs of my family. And

1:22so I asked myself, what other work could

1:24I do? And well, upon doing some

1:27research, I thought, well, this is the

1:29oldest profession, sex. But I ain't want

1:31to climb no poles. I don't even think my

1:33knees was trained for that at that

1:35point, honestly. But I wanted to make

1:38sure that I could still do something

1:39that felt fun because honestly, at that

1:41point in my life, I was stressed out.

1:42Anybody who has a child on the spectrum,

1:45especially in the newer part when you're

1:47first finding out things, there's so

1:49many things that you have to be prepared

1:50for. And me, I just wanted to find a way

1:53to do something that would generate an

1:54income, but would make me feel like I

1:57had some time outside of moming, right?

1:59It is my belief, and I say this very

2:02firmly, motherhood is an extension of

2:05womanhood. And sometimes we get that

2:07mixed up, but don't worry, we going to

2:09come back to that because that's going

2:10to show up in this story. So, I went

2:12into a company back in the days that no

2:14longer exists. And I started doing them

2:16home parties, putting them dildos on the

2:18table and telling people, you know, you

2:19bring the chips and dick. Well, I'll

2:21bring the, you know, y'all get the

2:23point. I'll bring the

2:25dick. And we would have so much fun at

2:27these parties, but also I was making

2:30really good money and I was able to work

2:31a Friday night and a Saturday night and

2:33be available to my son the rest of the

2:36week. And a lot of people wish for that

2:38kind of freedom. And somehow I have

2:40found my way into it. But on top of

2:42that, I was also raising my younger

2:43brother at the time and he was getting

2:45ready for those years before for college

2:48and going into high school. So, I had to

2:51really really prepare for the future for

2:53all of us. So, I did what I had to do.

2:57But I'll tell you guys, it was a little

2:59devastating a little later when that

3:00company ended up choosing to close its

3:03doors and I had to figure out what was

3:05going to be the next thing. For a while,

3:07I went with another company and I did

3:10what I had to do. But I'm gonna be

3:11honest with you guys. I was kind of

3:13losing my interest and my excitement for

3:15this business, for this industry,

3:16because something about that company's

3:18culture didn't really match me and my

3:20vibe. So, I wanted to know, well, I

3:23enjoy doing this work, but where could I

3:25go that's actually going to feel a

3:27little bit more like home to me? And

3:28that's when I discovered Bever Candy.

3:31Now, immediately after looking through

3:34it and kind of checking out things on

3:35social media and seeing so many people

3:37who had skin that looked like me. Well,

3:39theirs was a little bit more melanated.

3:42I'm a little more high yellow, but y'all

3:43get the point. I found a lot of people

3:45who looked like me and I said, "You know

3:47what? This seems like a community that I

3:49can get with." So, I decided to grab a

3:52kit and I bought the biggest kit because

3:53I wanted a little bit of everything.

3:55Plus, I had to see what I need a range.

3:57I need to see what it was about. And I

3:59was extremely impressed because by then

4:01I had enough years under my belt to be

4:03able to spot quality. So here's a po

4:05point where I'm going to kind of give

4:06y'all a little bit of tip. If you're

4:07ever shopping for adult toys and

4:09products, some of the things you want to

4:11look for is material. A lot of companies

4:13back then didn't put a lot of emphasis

4:15in it because they didn't realize that

4:17well the wrong materials will give you

4:20angry vagina and nobody want they you

4:22know I don't want my coochie mad at me.

4:24I don't know about y'all but I don't

4:25want my coochie mad at me. So, I didn't

4:27like those materials that felt a little

4:29bit too jelly in texture for internal

4:31toys because those are things that have

4:33what we call pores that trap bacteria

4:36and literally end up in your canal when

4:38you're using them for penetrative

4:40purposes. We don't need that. We don't

4:42want that. In addition to that, I

4:44learned a little bit more about

4:45silicones and what grades of silicone

4:47were best for our body's maintenance.

4:50And you want something that has a body

4:52safe silicone. Now, you can tell a body

4:55safe silicone, and I'll use one of our

4:56toys just to give you an example. If you

4:58look at the surface, it's very smooth.

5:00There's no squishy jelly parts. If

5:03something touches it, it doesn't stick

5:04to it easily. Like some of those more

5:06jelly like toys. Um because if you're

5:09using something that goes inside, pretty

5:11much that lint or just the fibers in the

5:14air end up inside you, which can lead to

5:15infections and things like that. So, you

5:17want to look for that sort of hard more

5:20firm smooth surface. What that is is

5:23easier to clean and it's not going to

5:25trap it. So, I saw that they had a whole

5:27lot of products that had a lot of that.

5:28But what really impressed me also was

5:30looking at the range of the other

5:32products that didn't have ingredients in

5:34it that didn't need to be in it. So, I

5:36decided we going with BK. I'll tell you

5:38this guys, when I got over there, I knew

5:42I was joining a business. What I did not

5:45know is that I was gaining a family. And

5:49I'll tell you this, more so than that, I

5:52was surrounded by people who looked like

5:54me, who was attaining success, and that

5:55was a huge motivator and something I

5:57needed. Plus, like I said y'all, my kid

5:59was driving me crazy. And I just wanted

6:01to be around adult women who could

6:02relate a little bit. And I found that.

6:05But things kind of took a little bit

6:07more of a pathway because listen y'all,

6:08I'm from New York, right? One thing I

6:11know I can do is sell you the socks that

6:13you wearing on your own feet, right? So

6:14I knew I could move these products. I

6:16knew I could do all of that kind of

6:17stuff. But what I did not know was how

6:20to help others or how to lead others.

6:22And none of the companies I had been

6:24with before did I ever have an interest

6:25in doing so. And then I got to BK and I

6:28realized it felt a little selfish not to

6:30because in the structure of the

6:32business, you get assigned a sponsor and

6:34somebody who's going to kind of help

6:35initiate you and get you started in your

6:37business. And I happened to hit the

6:39jackpot and luck up on a really great

6:41one. I mean, I think the first week in

6:43the business, she was calling me like,

6:44"What's up? You want to come do this

6:45event with me?" I hadn't even popped my

6:47cherry yet. You know what I'm saying?

6:49But she was like, "Let's go." And one

6:50thing about me, we gonna get in there.

6:52We gonna adapt. We gonna adjust. We'll

6:54figure it out. So, I was grateful

6:56because I had leaders above me who

6:59really, really took great interest in

7:01helping me grow. But even still, I'm

7:03going to be honest with you guys, taking

7:05on the responsibility of growing others

7:07still felt unnecessary and a little bit

7:10like extra. It felt like it was going to

7:12add to the plate. And like I said, my

7:13plate was already full.

7:15But you know, things have a way of

7:18deciding or or the universe has a way of

7:20showing you what's in path for you. I

7:22got an email one day and this email came

7:26from our Bever Candy corporate office. I

7:28had only been with the company for two

7:29months and this email said,

7:32"Congratulations, you've been invited to

7:34be one of our convention

7:39speakers." Me, what did I do? I hadn't

7:44understood that I just in the business

7:46of keeping my head down and doing what I

7:47got to do and grinding that I had been

7:49topping certain achievements in the

7:51company and that put me in the category

7:54of being what they call a rising star at

7:56Bedroom Candy because you came in hot

7:58and you keeping the momentum. So, I

8:00don't know about y'all but when

8:02opportunity knocks I'm coming through

8:04the door. Okay, kicking in the door

8:06waving for four kicking in the door. So,

8:09I decided that I had to figure out how

8:11to make it happen. But I wasn't prepared

8:13for convention. I didn't have a ticket.

8:15I didn't have a hotel place. I didn't

8:17have nothing to stay. I had to figure it

8:18out. And I was grateful because I had a

8:20family member who really believed in me

8:22and chose to give me a card on her line

8:24of credit and said, "Don't go over this

8:26amount." And gave me time to pay it

8:27back. So I got my behind on a plane and

8:29I went out to Atlanta and for the first

8:32time I stood before other consultants

8:34and had the opportunity of delivering a

8:37training for others. And it felt good.

8:40It felt good saying things, you know,

8:43letting them know um I was nervous and

8:46that I was ready to come in here and do

8:48this and I'mma record this because my

8:49mama want to see this and everybody

8:50being so welcoming and and loving of me.

8:52But really what felt great was that

8:55people in that room came to me and told

8:56me that things that I said helped them

8:58navigate a problem that they might have

9:00been dealing with for a while. Go

9:01figure. But that wasn't the changing

9:04moment for me at Bever Candy. It was

9:06going to our annual recognition

9:08ceremony. Now, in that ceremony, that's

9:10what we call walking the stage. And

9:12walking the stage is essentially what

9:14happens when you hit certain

9:15achievements annually. We celebrate it

9:18every year at our annual convention. And

9:20well, I'm looking left and I'm looking

9:22right. And every single person crossing

9:24that stage, for the most part, was a

9:26black woman. Now, again, something I'm

9:31not used to seeing that many black women

9:34celebrated it at the same time. who,

9:37what, where, when, how, never. Right?

9:40So, that was something that was a huge

9:42inspiration to me. I wanted to figure

9:44out how to be like those women and how

9:46to get up there and cross that stage

9:48come the next year. And so, naturally, I

9:50ran down on the same coach that was

9:52working with them. And uh, you know,

9:54quite fr and I say ran down, let me give

9:56y'all, she was on the elevator. I was

9:58like, I don't know if I'm going to be

9:59able to get in this woman's air because

10:00people kept crowding her, surrounded

10:02her. But I found that one window and I

10:03slid in that elevator. I had seven

10:05floors and them Hilton elevators is a

10:06little too fast. Okay, I'm just want to

10:08give y'all that heads up because I

10:09needed a little bit more time. But I did

10:11say to her, "Listen, I see that

10:13everybody that's successful is working

10:14with you. What do I got to do to work

10:16with you?" She looked at me and she

10:19said, "You just did." And so I began

10:24coaching with this woman oneon-one and

10:27she was also a mentor who was leading a

10:29coaching group for our community that

10:31works with some of the top performers

10:33monthly. I didn't feel like I was going

10:35to get in that group soon enough to kind

10:38of get the support that I needed. But

10:39this is be the first time, guys, that I

10:42counted myself out when I probably

10:44shouldn't have because the next day I

10:46got an email that congratulated me on

10:48having earned my way into that group.

10:50So, I said, "It's okay. It's okay,

10:52Casha. We got to learn how to stop

10:54thinking we can't do." And I started to

10:57do personal coaching and I started to do

10:59group coaching and I started to see my

11:01business change within 30 days. I was

11:03the top seller in the company that

11:05month. But what was more important and

11:08this is what I want to give to you

11:10guys. I realized in life that I don't

11:14really fail at anything. I

11:17stopped. And I hadn't been good at that

11:20point in my life in determining which

11:22things I needed to stop and which things

11:25I couldn't afford to stop. I had to

11:28learn that my success and my dreams were

11:30not optional. And I had to stop treating

11:32it like that. And I had to stop treating

11:35myself like I wasn't capable of

11:36everything that I was because, you know,

11:39just young black girl in the hood. What

11:41what why would I ever think that I can't

11:44do? Why do I ever feel like I need to

11:46overachieve? Go figure. It's a thing for

11:48us, right? Because everywhere I existed

11:51prior to this, I could be three times

11:53better than the person next to me, but

11:55because of a different uh a

11:57differentiated in

11:59skin, I had to work harder to get less

12:03than that person may have. So, it taught

12:06me at that point that I had to really

12:08hone in and ask myself, Cash, what do

12:11you want to do with this? And at that

12:14point, I had to learn how to break down

12:17my success goals into smaller attainable

12:20goals so that I gave myself more reasons

12:22to feel successful instead of more

12:24reasons to feel like a failure. Because

12:27sometimes we set a big goal and until we

12:30hit that big goal, we don't feel like we

12:32did anything. And that right there is

12:34going to be the first thing that

12:36literally takes you off your beaten path

12:37to success. I can tell you that first,

12:39second, third hand. I had to learn that

12:42when I break it down into small bites,

12:45it helped me see the vision, but not

12:46just with my goals, but with the things

12:49that I wanted. I used to say things

12:50like, "I'm doing this so that I can take

12:52my babies on a vacation." And then my

12:54coach said to me, "Well, where y'all

12:56going?" And I realized that part we

12:59hadn't figured out. She said, "Well, how

13:00you going to know how much you need to

13:02make if you don't know where you going?"

13:04That was my first lesson. and why being

13:07specific and being detailed and the

13:09goals that you're setting for yourself

13:11matter because at the end of the day, a

13:14trip to Paris ain't the same as a trip

13:16to Jersey. So, I had to get more

13:19specific about what I wanted. I had to

13:22ask myself what that house look like.

13:24What size is the bathtub? How many

13:26ranges are on the stove? How many

13:28bedrooms? How many bathrooms? How big is

13:30the yard? Do we have a pool in it? Is

13:31there a hot tub? Are we putting a TV in

13:34the bathroom? Are there jets on the tub?

13:35Because a regular tub and a jetted tub

13:37don't cost the same. And when I started

13:39to get real specific about the things

13:41that I want, I learned how to shape my

13:43goals around attaining the things that I

13:45said that I want. I can't be sitting out

13:47here with canned tuna, you know, uh,

13:49income trying to have lobster dreams.

13:51Boo. So, I was grateful for that kind of

13:54lesson right there. And just pause right

13:56here. A lot of y'all be doing that.

13:58Okay? You gota y got to stop selling

14:00yourself short. All right? And and I'mma

14:02say this to my BK family specifically,

14:04my consultants out there. A lot of y'all

14:06don't get out here and try to sell these

14:08products that might have a higher price

14:09point. Listen, baby. Everything we got

14:11at Bedroom Candy is great. Period. I

14:14stand 10 toes down in that. However,

14:16it's not about whether one product is

14:18better than another. It's about what

14:19product is better for you or better for

14:21that client or better for that customer.

14:23So, I had to learn how to value my dream

14:27and not tell myself that the dream was

14:29too big. Because the more I started

14:32focusing on that, the more I started

14:34hitting it and knocking it down and

14:36asking myself, baby, what we doing next?

14:38It was that same year that I got

14:40introduced to the institute in which I

14:42became board certified as a clinical

14:44sexologist. And that's where the next

14:45phase turned. But it was also that year

14:48that I got knocked up cuz maybe I was

14:51getting high off my own supply. Just a

14:54little bit a little bit of here and a

14:56little bit of there, you know, and a

14:58little y'all get the point. Y'all know

15:00how y'all know how I feel about that

15:02thing, right? So, you

15:04know, that was me. But except, you know

15:06what I'm saying? I ended up in a

15:08situation where I wasn't expecting

15:11pregnancy if I'm honest at that moment.

15:13But I had just come off of my birth

15:15control and I had just celebrated losing

15:17120 lbs and out here living my best life

15:20and well I found myself in that

15:22situation asking myself how do I get

15:24ready for it? And then later I found out

15:26it was twins. Go figure. Yes, twins. So

15:31at that point I continued to work my

15:34business because I knew I had to tuck

15:36some coins away. I was working hard. I

15:37was doing any and everything I could

15:39until the moment I was going to have to

15:40sit down. But this is when I got my next

15:43lesson. Okay, my next lesson came in

15:46realizing that you got to have balance

15:48some way, shape or form. And that's what

15:50that one right there is really hard

15:52because I think all of us as people are

15:54constantly always trying to work at that

15:56work life balance and then family and

15:58then friends and then partners and

16:00lovers and then the things that you love

16:02and before you know it, the 24 hours in

16:04that day after you done slept six of

16:05those hours feel like nothing. And I had

16:08been going relentlessly, relentlessly.

16:11And honestly, we was making some waves,

16:14y'all. We was we was going coast to

16:15coast. We was in at the dungeon tour. We

16:18was in three different four different

16:19cities. And our name was growing. But my

16:23health wasn't my health was going the

16:25opposite direction. I wasn't listening

16:27to my body. Or better yet, if I'm being

16:28honest with you guys, cuz I'll never BS

16:30y'all. I didn't know how I didn't know

16:33how to listen to my body. I had lived a

16:35life of ignoring every bit of my body

16:38signals because I have always had to do

16:40it. We just got to get it done. We just

16:42got to get it done. We just have to get

16:44it

16:45done. And then life sat me

16:48down. I want to insert a trigger warning

16:50right now because this one could be a

16:52little bit traumatizing for anyone who's

16:54experienced reproductive trauma, but I

16:57lost those twins at 19 weeks gestation.

17:01And I had to deal with the trauma of

17:04holding my

17:05unborn, no longer viable

17:09fetuses. And in that moment, I realized

17:12that all of the things that I have been

17:14working to do simply wasn't that

17:16important or as important as that

17:19moment. But I'll tell you guys, this was

17:21a week before that convention the next

17:22year. And I didn't want to be home and I

17:25didn't want to be alone. So I decided to

17:28go to Atlanta. I know it sounds crazy,

17:31but I thought if there was ever a place

17:33that I should be right now, it's in a

17:35room full of people who literally have

17:37made it their lives purpose to help

17:38other people be empowered, feel good,

17:41love themselves. So, of course, I knew

17:43that was going to be a room full of a

17:45lot of love. And I felt, you know, if

17:47you sit at home, girl, what you going to

17:48do? Sit there and cry. But I'll tell you

17:51the reason why I knew that this was the

17:52right place to be. because that sponsor,

17:54that leader of mine was on the phone

17:56with me the entire time that I was in

17:58the hospital 2:00 in the morning as I

18:00endured a really traumatic

18:03experience. Now, I got to be honest,

18:05y'all. I'm about to mess your head

18:07up. So, I want you to sit back and try

18:10to process. But on the same day that I

18:13lost those two angels was the same day I

18:15learned I was still

18:21pregnant. Yeah. still pregnant. How,

18:24Cash? How's that even possible, Cash?

18:27Well, I had experienced something

18:29extremely rare. We're talking about less

18:31than 1% of women in the world have

18:33experienced this. And I happen to be in

18:35the 1%. If only we could be in the 1% in

18:39our bank accounts, speaking that into

18:41existence for those that might be

18:43listening up above. But I was in the 1%.

18:46And I experienced something called

18:48superfetation. Now, super fatation

18:51essentially is the act of getting

18:53pregnant while pregnant because normally

18:55when you get pregnant, your body is

18:57supposed to tell the rest of you, okay,

19:00the shop is occupied. Nothing else

19:02should be going on. But me, of course,

19:04I'm so supernatural and special because

19:07nothing about my body and my ovaries

19:09decided to stop. No, baby, we were still

19:12ovulating during pregnancy with twins,

19:14nonetheless. And here's the catch.

19:17That embryo was only six weeks

19:20gestation. So it was far behind a little

19:23bit the others. And so in the same

19:27moment that I was processing loss was

19:29the same moment I was being told that

19:32something miraculous had occurred and I

19:33didn't know how to feel. So I went out

19:36to Atlanta and only a handful of people

19:38knew that part of the story. But the

19:40rest of my community had been informed

19:41about my loss and they started calling

19:44me and they said, "We know that you're

19:46still coming. Let us know how we could

19:48create space for you. We'll protect you

19:49if you don't want to be touched, if you

19:51don't want to be hugged, if you don't

19:52want to be this." I couldn't process

19:54these women who I only knew through

19:57business being a greater support network

19:59than some of the people I knew my whole

20:01life. But they were they were my family.

20:05And so I got to Atlanta and when I tell

20:07y'all, okay, one of our past guests, D,

20:10who was on here talking about how she

20:12like to make her hubby watch her play

20:14with herself when she mad at him, was

20:16also my bodyguard. And she said, "I got

20:18you. I'mma protect you." But she was

20:19seriously asking me as we was walking

20:20through like she was top flight security

20:22for real, for real, asking me, "Is it

20:24okay if she hug you? You're cleared."

20:26Literally. But I appreciated the way

20:30that they all surrounded me to ensure

20:32that I got through that weekend, you

20:34know, as as great or good as I could be.

20:36But also for those of them who knew that

20:38I was still carrying a child or with

20:40child, they wanted to ensure that I

20:42wasn't overwhelming myself either. And

20:45so I'll tell you this, people might be

20:48wondering, Cash, how can that even how

20:50can the child have lived? You have to

20:51know when it comes to a woman's

20:53reproductive organs, our womb is

20:55extremely magical. first and foremost,

20:57but it's very possible for uh a sack to

21:01be holding one children in a completely

21:03different sack and a whole another part

21:04of the uterus to be holding another

21:06embryo and be protected from the loss of

21:08the others. So, I kind of navigated that

21:11weekend. What I did not know, y'all, and

21:14I did not have any clue was that that

21:16was going to be the weekend that I was

21:17celebrated as Bever Candid's top seller

21:21nationwide.

21:25Who knew? Me number one like and I got

21:30to see that room stand up on their toes

21:32and clap for me like no tomorrow. I also

21:35led my first training uh for the entire

21:38company on the big stage and I just just

21:42one year within this company I have been

21:44in a very different position that I had

21:46ever been in any other part of my life.

21:48So, we went through the convention

21:50weekend and then we came home and we sat

21:52our binds down. Now, it was a good thing

21:54I worked real hard because I was able to

21:56tuck away enough money for me to be able

21:58to go through my presency in peace and

22:01quiet and not have to work and just live

22:03off my nest egg for the entire

22:05pregnancy. I couldn't believe that this

22:08business literally funded that for me

22:11because I had been working jobs before

22:13that with benefits and all that kind of

22:14stuff. and you got to wait three, four

22:16weeks before your money kick in, when

22:17you got to go out on disability and all

22:19this kind of other stuff. And me, it was

22:20just sitting in my bank account. I just

22:22got to pay the bills every month and sit

22:24back on my feet and put them up and eat

22:26and then throw up and then eat again and

22:28throw up. Y'all get the point. But

22:30essentially, again, this community

22:33showed me that they were going to

22:34support me. They were going to praise me

22:36and they were going to surround me. Now,

22:39here's where things got a little

22:40interesting, just to make sure that you

22:42guys know that there was a light at the

22:43end of that tunnel. When I gave birth

22:46next March to my son on the same day my

22:49sister went into labor with me and we

22:52both gave birth to our children on the

22:53same day, essentially giving birth to

22:55twin cousins two days before the world

22:58shut down for COVID. And we were able to

23:01go home and just kind of well, we

23:03weren't going outside anyway, so staying

23:04inside wasn't really a thing when you

23:06got a newborn baby. But I was able to

23:08actually still work my business because

23:09the world had went completely virtual

23:11and I didn't have to go outside. But

23:13just like men, my BK family held me

23:16again. We all got together on Zoom. We

23:18were doing virtual parties with each

23:20other. We was having late night

23:21kickbacks and people start podcast all

23:23kind of stuff. And somehow that year,

23:25even though I didn't work for nine

23:27months, I was able to in three months

23:29gener generate enough revenue to remain

23:31amongst the company's top leadership. So

23:33my story continued as that year I was

23:36awarded the highest individual month

23:38seller and again wowing myself with all

23:42the things that I never thought was

23:43possible. You see a lot of times we

23:47count ourselves out of things out of uh

23:49uh pretty much limiting beliefs. But

23:51what this company was doing for me was

23:53changing what where I saw the

23:55limitations. In fact they was getting

23:56rid of limitations period. Now, I want

23:59to take it a little bit deeper and help

24:01you understand how I ended up sitting

24:03here on this podcast before you today as

24:06this podcast host. And that's because I

24:08continued to remain at the top of the

24:10pile years on after. And then one day,

24:12an opportunity opened up for someone to

24:14go over to the corporate team. And I

24:16decided to put my hat in and then was

24:19eventually named the director of

24:22training and development at Bever Candy,

24:24responsible for training and educating

24:25consultants nationwide.

24:28me. The person who didn't want to have a

24:30team, the person who didn't think they

24:31could teach, the person who didn't think

24:32they could help anybody was now tasked

24:34with teaching everybody. Go figure. Yet

24:37another time where I had to

24:39learn, you got to stop counting yourself

24:42out of things, cash, you got to stop

24:43believing things can't happen, cash, I

24:45keep getting shown time and time. I want

24:48you guys to understand that through

24:51Bedroom Candy, I was able to build a

24:54successful business. I was able to build

24:56a successful brand. And this year I got

24:59to celebrate being named the number one

25:03sexyologist of the

25:06year. Like, and I'll be honest with you

25:09guys, I'm still digesting that. I'm

25:11still processing that. I was graced on

25:12the cover of Sexual Health magazine this

25:15year. I'm still processing that. I was

25:17featured inside Women's Insider

25:19magazine. I'm still processing that. But

25:22a couple years ago, I just got in this

25:24business to make some money to take care

25:25of my kids. And really, the moral of

25:27what I'm telling you in this pioneers of

25:29pleasure segment is that if you are

25:32someone who has a dream or a vision or a

25:35goal, you have to give yourself grace to

25:37be a perfect progression. My mantra is

25:40that I am a perfect progression. And as

25:42long as I'm progressing, I am always

25:43perfection. I tell myself always that I

25:46am my own GPS. And there has never been

25:48a time that GPS has ever told me, I'm

25:50sorry, you can't get there. it always

25:51just recalculates the route. So, if

25:53you're watching this right now and

25:55you're at a moment where you're

25:56questioning what is possible, I hope

25:57that hearing my story and how be bedroom

25:59candy plays such an intricate role helps

26:02you. But before I shift to adult

26:04edutainment, there's one other part of

26:06the story that I'm going to tell you

26:07right now. And that is how amazing our

26:11company founder Candy Burus is. because

26:13not only did I get access to all these

26:15amazing things in addition to going and

26:17vending at her dungeon shows, I have had

26:20the the the opportunity to be on

26:22national TV being featured on the Real

26:24Housewives of Atlanta demonstrating our

26:26products. I have had the opportunity to

26:28stand on the dungeon stage, teach

26:31another thought or give a little, you

26:32know what I'm saying, little 30,000 or

26:344,000. Well, well, me it's 10,000. You

26:37know what I'm saying? Put some tens on

26:39it.

26:40But essentially, I never thought that by

26:44joining this company, by making a small

26:47investment in my business, that I would

26:49have these kinds of doors open with me

26:51and that I would have the privilege to

26:53stand side by side with a

26:55multi-millionaire mogul celebrity who

26:58took her image and her brand and

27:00everything to kind of help create

27:02opportunities for people to get in on

27:04it. She doesn't treat us, nobody here is

27:06an employee of Bever Candy. were her

27:08business partners and I've enjoyed this

27:11partnership so far and so much that

27:14I'mma be right here up on the stage

27:16making sure y'all get to know all about

27:18the candy. You know what I'm saying? So,

27:20with that being said, I want to shift

27:23into the adult edertainment segment. And

27:26what we're going to talk about during

27:27this section is a little bit of the zip,

27:29the zap, the buzz, and things that might

27:32have you feeling nice and sweet and

27:33slipping and slotting and taking it to

27:35the house and down south and licking

27:39down south. Well, y'all get the point.

27:41So, I want to tell you guys from

27:42masturbation May what some of my

27:44favorite products are at BK or some of

27:46the ones that help me discover the most

27:48about my body, become aware of it, get

27:50in tune with it, and just come alive

27:52quite frankly because, you know, that's

27:54why I'm always in a good mood.

27:55on the worst day I'm good because at the

27:57end of the day

28:03I'm you know what I'm saying just a

28:05little bit of that and don't don't think

28:06that just cuz you got a person in your

28:08life if you happen to be in a

28:09relationship don't sleep baby because

28:11that's that's I tell you one thing about

28:13me and my man these toys is the tag team

28:15partners of a century we be like all

28:17right dog your arm tired tag you

28:21it like y got to realize a lot of people

28:24think these always a competition, but if

28:26you learn how to get creative, then we

28:28going to, you know, we going to get to a

28:29little something. So, I'm going to start

28:30with a little bit of the wilds and then

28:32I'm going to show you some of the mouth,

28:33some of the products that really helped

28:34me love on myself, especially during

28:36some of my deepest moments of traumas

28:38and things like that. And let's kick

28:40into gear with that. So, starting off,

28:42I'mma go straight to the OG's first

28:46because when I joined BK, some of the

28:47products we have today didn't even

28:49exist. That's the one thing I do love.

28:50Every year, they're wowing us with new

28:52things and new collections. And now I'm

28:54I'm on the side of things where I get to

28:55be a part of weighing in on the

28:57decisions of what kinds of products we

28:58carry over here. So you know I if you if

29:01a couple of these products you can thank

29:03me for later. But I want to tell you

29:06guys initially I wasn't the kind of girl

29:09that did use two things. One was lube

29:11and two was internal toys. I personally

29:14didn't get anything out of it um well at

29:16that point because I didn't really know

29:18what I didn't know at that point. But

29:20when I wanted to start easing myself

29:22into trying it, it actually came by

29:24force. Because after that same pregnancy

29:26and after delivering that child for a

29:28good 9 to 10 months, I wasn't having

29:31sex. It just wasn't happening. It was

29:33uncomfortable. It was painful. Anything

29:35going inside me, even the gynecologist

29:37just putting a finger in to check me, it

29:39hurt. So, at that point, I had to figure

29:42out how to make sex a lot more

29:44comfortable. And of course, making sure

29:45that I had a good

29:47lube was going to be essential to that

29:49because you want to make sure that

29:50things easing into that canal happen

29:52really easier. But one thing that a lot

29:54of people don't know about lube, and I

29:55want you guys to get this knowledge, is

29:57that lube doesn't just exist for the

30:00sake of getting everything moist and

30:02wet. Lube also exists to protect the

30:05vaginal inside of your bo your body. So

30:07along the vaginal lining in the walls,

30:09right, the friction of sex, especially

30:12if you got somebody who large and in

30:13charge, boo, is going to actually create

30:16a friction that creates these small

30:17little micro tears that are not really

30:19visible to the eye like a micros would

30:21have to see it. But the tears, these

30:23micro tears are large enough for

30:26different sorts of bacterias to seep

30:27through. That doesn't mean that you're

30:28not a clean person, but if you're having

30:30sex on the bed, there are fibers in the

30:31sheets. If you wipe yourself with a a

30:34tissue, there's fibers in a tissue, a

30:35towel or anything. you know, somebody

30:36got to go get the rag. You know what I'm

30:38saying? Right. But you can literally

30:40push those things inside you. And also

30:42the surface of something that might be

30:44penetrating you can equally as well. So

30:46those tears essentially can actually

30:49contribute to things like bacterial

30:51vaginosis, yeast infections, things that

30:53you don't want happening down there.

30:55Lube essentially goes in and lines that

30:57wall with a protective layer that allows

30:59the friction of sex to happen with ease.

31:02And it's not to say that you ain't wet,

31:04you ain't juicy. I don't know about

31:05y'all,

31:06but pause. Is it just me, but it's

31:10certain sex positions get me more lit

31:11than others. Like, there are times

31:13where, you know, you put me in a certain

31:15position where my legs is back. You

31:17know, I'm a flexible girl. I like that.

31:18I like that angling. I like that G-spot

31:20hitting little doggy. I like that. I

31:23love that little girl on top. I like

31:25that. 69, not so much. Sometimes,

31:27personally for me, it's not that

31:29comfortable. Well, I'm over here

31:31straddling you, trying not to put all of

31:33this anatomy on your chest cave. I got

31:36two shoulders over here, but then that

31:38don't really give me the access to

31:39really get up in the thing under there

31:41and get up under them bones like that

31:42while I'm right that while you also in

31:45the back over here and I'm trying to

31:47tolerate that, hold this, hold that. I

31:50got to put this wrist in the bed, my

31:51joint over there bent like that the

31:52whole time with all this weight on it.

31:54I'm over here fighting like, "Please

31:56just come, come, come, come." I don't

31:59love that. I'm not g I don't love

32:03that. Keeping it real. Oh, Tahoe. I know

32:05you hear the back. Come on.

32:08Like, have y'all ever really see what we

32:11look like during the

32:1569 even for the guy. All right, I got to

32:17ask this question because I'm not

32:19usually on the bottom of the 6ix9ine.

32:21Tahoe, how y'all be feeling under there?

32:24Like do do it do the body ever be on

32:26your chest to where it's like yo you you

32:28trying to lick but you can't breathe a

32:30little bit. Neck hurting, body hurt, you

32:33just trying to you just trying to

32:34achieve the goal but boy it is a lot. So

32:37I understand what you're saying. I feel

32:39like I feel like it's one of those

32:41things that sounds better than it is.

32:42One thing I will say though, if you use

32:44our love triangle pillow or we might

32:45have to insert a little quick little

32:47diagram right here for y'all, but the

32:48love triangle pillow has you as a way

32:50that you can create a a standing 69. I

32:53don't have the pillow in front of me,

32:54but I'm going to do my best to explain

32:55this. It's shaped like a triangle,

32:57right? So, you have a point of the

32:58pillow. It kind of goes on an angle like

33:00that. So, this is the bottom of the

33:01pillow and that's the top of pillow. I'm

33:03going try to try to get visual with me

33:05right now. Let me see if I can use a toy

33:06to help me out. Okay, let's see. We

33:08going to get creative. So, say the

33:10pillow's on an angle and you laid on a

33:12pillow with your head at the bottom and

33:14up here is your vagina or whatever

33:16anatomy at the top. If you put this

33:19pillow at the edge of the bed, the

33:20person who is essentially with you could

33:22just bend over this way and now their

33:24anatomy is neck and neck with your face

33:26while their face is neck and neck with

33:28here. But it brings this part of them up

33:30and they can just stand up and bend. You

33:33can switch it around, but I don't think

33:34a lot of guys like being the one on the

33:35pillow. But essentially, it gives you a

33:38lot of access to all that good stuff.

33:39I'm going to make sure y'all see what

33:40that look like right here. Okay.

33:43Now, I don't like that position. There's

33:46a lot of things that I didn't know about

33:48that when it came to using these

33:50internal toys. So, the first ones I'm

33:52going to show y'all that I actually

33:53ended up falling in love with were it's

33:55all, but I'm going to show you Cuddle as

33:57well cuz it's the alternative. This

33:58happens to be Candi's top five faves of

34:01our toys as well. But I'll give you the

34:03key differences in the two. Now, Cuddle

34:06is obviously naturally curved. It's

34:08meant to hit the angles of the G-spot.

34:10If you kind of see right there, it also

34:12has a little bit of a nub right here

34:13that kind of allows you to pass by

34:15friction-wise. So, that's going to give

34:17a nice sensation to the G-spot as it

34:19passes it as well. It's not one of those

34:21toys that is extremely big because it's

34:23meant to be the length to literally get

34:25up in and hit the G-spot. So, if this

34:27was the vaginal canal that we're going

34:28in, we're going straight upward, upward,

34:33upward. Y'all see that? Y'all see that?

34:35You see how it's passing my hand? That's

34:37a little visual visual MR or whatever

34:39they call it, you know, for you for my

34:41visual people. I wish I had some wet wet

34:43so you could really get into this. But

34:45y'all see what's happening here. So, as

34:47it's happening, it's going to naturally

34:48just curve up and hit it really well.

34:50This is a really firm shaft, but it's

34:53not too wide. So, it's going to mimic

34:55the feeling of maybe about two fingers

34:56inside you. You can see that there. Hold

34:58on. Let's put that in front. You see my

35:00two fingers literally cover the girth of

35:03this toy. So, it's kind of like a

35:04partner doing it, but instead of their

35:06finger, it can be this, which honestly

35:08could be a little more sanitary because

35:09sometimes y'all nails

35:12anyway. But for me, cuddle wasn't the

35:15go-to because again, I got all this

35:17anatomy. So, for my thick chicks, okay,

35:21with the big, you know what I'm saying?

35:23And the wide hips, that one going to

35:26work for me because I had a little bit

35:27more anatomy to work around. So, my

35:30personal preference became Allore. Now,

35:32if you look at Allure, it's curved as

35:34well. A lot more curved. But the

35:35difference in it is the flexibility of

35:37this neck. Y'all see that? It can go

35:40side to side, back and front, side to

35:46side. So, no matter what kind of anatomy

35:49you got going on, it's flexible enough

35:51to get up in there to make sure you

35:53still get the whole sensation going just

35:55fine. Right. What I love most about this

35:57one, particularly with Allore, is that

35:59if someone was giving oral play, they

36:02could essentially move that to the side,

36:04keep the sensation going inside you and

36:07still lick, right? So, we can kind of

36:10use this with a partner, not just solo

36:12play. You can use cuddle the same way,

36:14but again, the girls will need a little

36:16bit more flexibility. You might want to

36:18go with a lure. I'll tell you the thing

36:19is these two toys are at two different

36:21price points. But that's also because

36:23this right here with this beautiful

36:24crystal handle is a part of the Lux

36:26collection. That collection was

36:28literally designed by a French designer

36:30and it also has motors that are

36:32specific. These are handcrafted motors

36:34made for this toy to deliver high

36:36vibration, right? But literally in a way

36:39that you won't hear it. So that's the

36:41other great thing about this. Cuddle is

36:43also a a toy that's pretty silent, but

36:45it's not as silent as this one here. The

36:48difference between these two is this one

36:49is fully waterproof, meaning it can be

36:51submerged in water. But this one is more

36:53splashproof, meaning it can get water on

36:55it, but you don't want to submerge it in

36:57water because the charger port could

36:58become easily damaged and then next

37:00thing you know, your drink going to

37:02go and not come back up. Great thing

37:05about us is we do have a one-year

37:06warranty on our products and toys. But

37:08you want to always use toys in a way

37:09that you can best preserve them. So for

37:12someone who wants to kind of get started

37:14with penetration but don't want to go

37:16too too deep, those are perfect and

37:18those are the ones that I started with.

37:20But then when I realized how much

37:22clitoreral stem was more essential to my

37:24orgasm, I also started to use what's

37:26called the maze. Now you'll notice it

37:27has the same handle. So it's also part

37:29of the Luxe collection. Now it might

37:32look like it ain't much. And if you look

37:33at the the the let's do a comparison,

37:37right? Not that far off. They're pretty

37:40much similar. So, you're getting a

37:41similar um this one's a little thicker

37:43at the tip. You ever got those ones who

37:45get a little w, you know, wider at the

37:47top is giving that. Okay. Now, what I

37:51like about this is it might look like

37:52it's close, but this is also very

37:55flexible, similar to Allore's neck. And

37:57then also for those of us who have

37:59clitorises that are not the size of a

38:00little small little tiny iny waty pe

38:04saying, I'm talking about my habitual

38:07clitorises, okay? a little bit of uh

38:09larger ones. This is going to be shaped

38:11closer to a little bit bigger than a

38:13thumb. So, it gives you better coverage.

38:14And if you look at the inside features

38:16of this right here, it's shaped like a

38:18tongue. You see that little line going

38:20through. So, you add a little lube to

38:21that and it's going to pass by. And when

38:22it goes in, it literally bends back to

38:25rub past the [ __ ] each time. Whenever

38:28you're using stuff like this, you want

38:29to take a tiny bit of lube always

38:31because lube is going to make it feel

38:32more like mouth than toy. And so, that's

38:35important. So, I'll put a little at the

38:36tip right there. And then as you see, oh

38:39baby, you getting wet. Hold on. Be nice

38:41to me. Talk to me

38:44now. Don't

38:46laugh. You got to talk to your toys. You

38:49know what I'm saying? Just like you got

38:50to talk to your man if you got one. You

38:52know what I'm saying? Feed that ego.

38:53That's right, baby. You hitting that

38:55button. You hitting that bean. That

38:57magical bean. Look at these hands. All

38:58wet and juicy. That's the I only put a

39:01drop. I only put a little droplet. That

39:03thing going far, right? And the thing is

39:05it's waterbased. I'm just give it a

39:07little swish swish and you rub it in

39:09like a moisture moisturize my cheeks and

39:11stuff with

39:14it. Now, one thing about the lube that

39:17I'm using is it's delicious and counter.

39:19So, it's edible. And that means that you

39:20can go straight from this kind of play

39:22to partner play, oral play, all that

39:24kind of stuff. So, you have you, you

39:27know, if you want to get a little extra

39:28with it, grab one of the delicious

39:30encounter ones. This a bunch of flavors.

39:31And this one is tangerine peach. That's

39:33cherry vanilla. We got strawberry

39:34pomegranate. All kind of stuff. Um, but

39:36we also have lubes that don't have

39:38flavor. And just so you know, we don't

39:39put any sugars in any of our products.

39:41They are vegan lubes and we only use

39:44extracts of the flavor from plants and

39:46things like that to kind of get those

39:47flavors in there. As well as I believe

39:50it's pronounced aspartame uh sugar

39:52substitute, but it's such a small amount

39:54of it um that it's it's pretty much

39:57nearly untraceable. When you taste it,

39:59it doesn't taste a whole bunch of sweet.

40:00you get the essence of the flavor, but

40:02in a way that's safer down there. So,

40:05those are the ones that I would

40:06recommend for anyone who's trying to get

40:08comfortable with internal toys. But even

40:09if you ain't someone who's a newbie to

40:11it, if you want that good G-spot action,

40:13that's going to hit it. And honestly,

40:14Allure, because of the neck is so bendy,

40:16it has the ability to go a little bit

40:18beyond the G-spot into what's called the

40:20Aspot. Okay? And that's a little bit

40:23deeper, a little bit further. So, you

40:26just push a little bit more in. Um, but

40:28it'll do the thing. But later on, we had

40:31some additions added to the collection,

40:33and that's brought in our product called

40:36Queen. Now, Queen, the Royal Treatment

40:39Collection. It's purple. It was actually

40:41our first time we had like a bunch of

40:43toys added that weren't of the black and

40:44pink aesthetic and things that we

40:46normally went with. And we got started

40:47getting more colorful after, but it does

40:49have this nice sexy gold thing. Has a

40:51very royalesque kind of look. And what I

40:53love about

40:54Queen, well, she like a tongue. Okay, so

40:58I'm gonna turn this to the side. So when

40:59I power it on, you get a good good view.

41:03I'm paying attention to this. As soon as

41:04you turn it on, she kind of just like

41:06jumps at you. You see that? That little

41:07flick, but I'mma keep going. The

41:09vibration is so fast. Get into that.

41:11Jesus. Get into that, Lord. Get into

41:14that. Y'all see that? I'mma keep going.

41:17Y'all see that? Talking. You can

41:20literally see it flick like a tongue and

41:22vibrate. I'mma go up. We on level four,

41:24y'all. We on level five, y'all. Okay,

41:27that's on my Tyson, you know, vaginas.

41:29The ones that really, you got to knock

41:30that bad boy out to get something going.

41:32But look, look. Jesus

41:35Christ. Oh my

41:40god. Hold on. Hold

41:42on. Got a little faster. Got a little

41:45faster. Hold on. This is like the one

41:46when you got those guys who get a little

41:48variety on you. hand with

41:50the you know what I'm saying? That's the

41:52queen, bro. That's the queen. That's the

41:55queen. So, what I like about Queen is

41:57this is actually probably one of my

41:59number one product recommendations for

42:02you. Not number one. Top five. Top five

42:04for couples. I'm going to cut it off cuz

42:05you you wilding girl. You She gonna just

42:09Now, I got to leave here with that one.

42:11You see that today? Yeah. Yeah. No, I

42:13got you. I got you. Because let me tell

42:15you, when they inside penetrating, you

42:18could just lay that right over the top

42:19of the, you know, the fa area right by

42:21the, you know, pubes and let that just

42:22dangle down and do what it do on the

42:24click while the person is up in there

42:26giving you that. You know what I'm

42:27saying? If you are, and I like that it

42:29kind of cuffs and follows your hand. So,

42:30if we're upside down and doggy, we can

42:33hold that there and get a little hit

42:35hit. Y'all see

42:38that? Right. So, we got a lot of

42:40versatility. It also curves to my neck.

42:47Well, it's almost like it soothes the

42:49assault that I want in the back of my

42:51throat. Y'all hear my VBR

42:58now? Queen. Queen will change lives. It

43:02also really kind of cuffs under well for

43:04the boss. Now, I know y'all seeing that

43:05strong vibration might think, Jesus

43:07Christ. It goes from a range of five

43:10different intensities. So it starts low

43:11and it goes up to five and then it has

43:13five different patterns that it vibrates

43:15between. But the other part about it

43:17that's really really cool is that this

43:19right here is made with comfort

43:20technology. And so you see the material,

43:22you see that super bendy, right? I could

43:25literally manipulate queen a lot. Right?

43:29So this is soft and spongy. So even

43:31though it's intense because of this

43:33being so soft and the material of it

43:35being so comfortable, it's not hard and

43:38it doesn't hurt. It feels really

43:40sensational and it's waterproof. So for

43:43my splish splash girls. Now the last toy

43:46that I want to talk about is one of our

43:48newer additions. We added this uh last

43:51year actually and that's Petaler. Now

43:53Petaler is a finger vibe. Goes on just

43:56like that. Okay. It's designed. Now if

43:59you look at the surface of it, okay, the

44:01surface of this, let me bring it over

44:02here for y'all real quick. Y'all see

44:04that? Now when you look at that surface

44:05of it, it has like a flower pattern. It

44:07comes in a really sexy box. One thing I

44:09love about us is our packaging. You

44:10might notice it matches the rose in the

44:12back over there. Yeah. Yeah. This is

44:15because these are from the garden

44:16editions. Petal pleaser, right? So,

44:19flower bomb is the name of the one

44:21behind me. And that one has a little

44:23tongue action and a little G-spot one.

44:25You can check that out, too. But super

44:27cute box. Comes with a charger inside.

44:29So, when you open up your box, you're

44:31always going to get a product manual

44:32with it. Boom. And then you have a a

44:35satin privacy pouch that you can keep

44:37the toy in. But then the charger is also

44:38in there. It's a USB charger, magnetic.

44:41So that's what helps this toy right here

44:42be waterproof. You're always going to

44:43see the details about your product on

44:45the back telling you some of the key

44:46points to help you remember and how to

44:48care for it. All right. So with Pedal

44:51Pleaser, if you happen to be one of the

44:52girls that get the nails, I personally

44:54sometimes put my hand in this way,

44:57right? Because I can get it sideways or

44:59I'll put it in through the main hole,

45:01but then I'll tip my finger out through

45:03the side there. allows me to still have

45:05the range to

45:08still boom boom boom boom. Y'all see

45:13where I'm coming at? It's definitely

45:15giving Gucc definitely giving

45:16paranneeium. Definitely giving those

45:17testies and the surface has textured

45:20ridges on it. So, the ridges feel good,

45:22the vibration feel good and everything

45:24like that. Petaler is great for a person

45:26who wants to just like get to

45:28understanding their own clitoreral

45:29region. It's definitely good for a

45:31partner situation. And I like that

45:33because it's on my hand. I don't have to

45:34worry about holding it. So if I am using

45:37it on someone, similar to make me over

45:38like we talked about last week, but it's

45:40a little different. So I can still get

45:42up under that thing right there

45:47and you know what I'm saying? So I

45:49always say when you deal with something

45:50like this, because it's so small, it's

45:52not intimidating. And you have to

45:54realize that when you're introducing a

45:55man to toys, you don't want to come up

45:57in there with, you know, Big Derek. You

45:59want to come up in there with something

46:00like this that doesn't intimidate him,

46:02doesn't look like it's something that he

46:03got to worry about competing with too

46:05much or whatever, but it's going to feel

46:07good and he can experience pleasure just

46:08as much as you. I did once take this

46:11right here. You think go like that on

46:12the

46:13cheek as if you're about to exfoliate.

46:16But instead, you're about

46:18to I'mma shut up. Can y'all tell how

46:21much I really love slobbing a knob? I'm

46:24always looking for different ways to slo

46:25it. And I want to slob it in ways that

46:27he gets something that no one else has

46:29ever done and that he probably won't

46:30experience if he ever leaves me. So I

46:33look forward to the future,

46:35dear. Anyway, let's go forward. Now, I

46:38did say I was going to show y'all a

46:40couple of the softer products. And what

46:42I'm going to tell you is we are equal

46:43opportunity people. So, I'm always going

46:45to tell you how you can use these um

46:46products when you're if you potentially

46:48have a male partner or any partner at

46:49all. Obviously, when I explain it for

46:51female anatomy, you can see how two

46:53women might use it. If I explain it for

46:55couples use, you can see how a heterero

46:57couple might use it. But also the same

46:58way I talk about these things, if you're

47:00a gay couple, you can equally use it the

47:02same way on each other and these types

47:04of things. Queen can also be something

47:06that you use on each other. Queen is

47:07also, I meant to mention, it's good for

47:09the nips. Sometimes I slip right between

47:12it and then just let it vibrate um while

47:15I'm receiving other kind of pleasure.

47:16You can also do the same thing with

47:18pedal pleaser. Pedal pleaser is great

47:19for pleasure mapping. So, if I want to

47:21figure out my pleasure points, want to

47:23hear if you got a

47:27headache. I'm trying to tell y'all,

47:29I'mma get all of my dollars worth out of

47:31everything I got. So, this right here is

47:33$39. I have two of them. One for my

47:36pleasure, one for my headaches. And at

47:38the end of the day, relieving my my

47:40temple region is that. But I also use

47:42the flower petals with my face soap with

47:44the massager to kind of actually

47:47exfoliate and clean my face. So, just

47:49give me all that.

47:50Um, I just got an idea saying that

47:53though. I think I'm gonna have to try it

47:54tonight. But y'all know I don't gay

47:56keep. I got you. Imagine if you were in

47:59the shower, right, with your man. Okay,

48:02for those of us who got men, and as you

48:05guys were bathing each other and clean

48:07each other down, you exfoliated his

48:10balls. Hey, with Petal Pleaser in the

48:13shower. You like that, Ty? That sound

48:15good? Sound like a plan, right? Just

48:17imagine that type of care. That's like

48:19the royal penis's clean, sir. You know

48:22what I'm saying? That's definitely

48:23giving that right. And for that, we do

48:26have the fine scrub. Okay. Now, what I

48:29will say for the sake of this, I would

48:30actually go with velvet. And I'll show

48:32you the difference and why real quick,

48:34y'all. But, you know, take care of that

48:36king. If you got you a king, take care

48:38of that king. His bowls deserve to be

48:40treated well and exfoliated, too. And

48:42they'll be softer in your mouth. You

48:44know what I'm saying? It's two for one

48:45special. So when it comes down to it,

48:48the Aeros uh products are for men or

48:52masculine presenting individuals and it

48:54has a really really smell. Aeros being

48:57named after uh the son of Aphrodite and

49:00Cupid. So he's almost like you know uh

49:03the junior god of love. So um it is

49:06inspired name-wise by Greek mythology.

49:08But when you open up fine, you'll see

49:10that this is a more um refined scrub.

49:13It's a saltbased scrub that a man can

49:15use to exfoliate his skin and keep

49:17himself well. It's really important that

49:18men take care of themselves in that way

49:20and that you a lot of times a lot of

49:22guys who have don't have that usually

49:24have to get introduced to it by a woman.

49:25So maybe your mom might be telling you

49:27how to take care of that skin as your as

49:29you know his woman. You might say to

49:30him, "Baby, you know what? I noticed

49:32that you don't really get to put much

49:33into your skin. It could be a great

49:35quality time thing. Like I said, y'all

49:37take that shower together. Y'all wash

49:38each other down. You exfoliate his skin.

49:41You rinse them off. You come up for a

49:42kiss in between a little hug and tell

49:44him he's fine and feed him affirmations.

49:46Baby, you are everything. You are

49:48arrows. You my nasty freak in his

49:51sheets. You know what I'm saying? He's a

49:53gentleman by day but beast by night. You

49:55feel what I'm saying? And you feed that

49:58kind of thing to each other. And that

49:59really helps build up ego. It really

50:01helps build up confidence and make them,

50:03you know, into each day ready to take on

50:05the world. But equally, we need the same

50:07as well. and for the sake of that balls

50:10exfoliation because I wouldn't use fine

50:12on that area because it is a salt scrub

50:14and it's a little bit more refined. So,

50:16the balls are very sensitive that might

50:18be uncomfortable. But velvet on the

50:19other hand, now this right here is my

50:21number one favorite bed bath body

50:23product at Bever Candy, period. Nothing

50:25beats it for me. And that's just because

50:27at the same time that I was going

50:29through my pregnancy and all those types

50:30of things, I'm high yellow, y'all. So,

50:32I'm going be honest. For a long time in

50:34my life, I didn't think that

50:35moisturizing was necessary. until one

50:38day I took off my I took my sock off and

50:40it looked like the sock was still

50:41on. Looked like I still had on a white

50:44tube sock. That's how ashy these bad

50:45boys were. And that was the day that I

50:48learned that my light-skinnedness did

50:49not exempt me. So I also just didn't

50:53have a lot of time. I didn't have a lot

50:54of time to have brown sugar moments.

50:56India I'm in love with my skin moments.

50:58I wish I had 30 minutes. I wish I could

51:00find 30 minutes. But I did mention to

51:01y'all earlier I had a special needs

51:02child and I was still raising another

51:04one and then I had another one. Sorry,

51:07because a lot going on there. I don't

51:09often have time. I work a lot of

51:10businesses. I'm always working hard.

51:11This was the product that changed my

51:13ability to care for my skin. Many of you

51:16looking at me right now might not ever

51:17know that I have eczema. And I don't

51:20know the last time my skin has reacted

51:21or had any flare up or irritation or

51:23rashes in the sense that I'm like, Jesus

51:25Christ, my eczema is going crazy. And

51:26that's because of velvet. Now, reason

51:30why I love velvet is because this sugar

51:32scrub basically just added about two to

51:34three minutes to my already regular

51:35shower bath routine. And so I would go

51:37wash, do my thing, you know, get my girl

51:39right, use my balance soap bar, my pure

51:42soap bar. That's one of our great soap

51:44bar soap bars we have that has charcoal

51:45in it, which is really good for helping

51:47that even in skin complexion, especially

51:48for my thick girls with thick blas that

51:50don't always say bl cuz they be

51:52chafing. Y'all know what I'm talking

51:53about, right? So I use those things. But

51:57last, after before I get out the shower,

51:59I take the scrub and I'm going to show

52:00you what it looks like. Y'all can This

52:02is my

52:03jar. Y'all see it's dug up in there. You

52:05see the fingerprints? This is a newer

52:06one. I keep about 40 of these on deck at

52:08all times. But y'all see where my

52:09fingers was like up in there. So with

52:12velvet, I'm going to take a tiny bit

52:13because it's a very, very moisture

52:16richch product. And I'm going to just

52:18show you on my arm what it be for right

52:22here. So, if you look at this part of my

52:23my skin bey looking a little shiny

52:25already, so don't you know, but look at

52:28that. You can see it

52:29still. And I'm not ashy, but we're

52:33getting a really good exfoliation in.

52:36You can barely see it. And because it is

52:38made with an organic sugar and a part of

52:40our Given Tree collection, which

52:41basically means that it's laced with

52:43shea butters and cocoa butters and

52:44apricot kernel oils, safflower oils,

52:46sunflower oils, all these things are in

52:48the product that's going to help get a

52:49license. Look at that. Jesus Christ,

52:53girl. I'mma tell you, it looks really

52:56good under a blue light, too. It'll make

52:57you look like something like out of

52:58straight out of an erotic. I don't know.

53:01But it was definitely giving shea butter

53:03sister. Shea butter sister right here.

53:05It's definitely giving I spent $30 on my

53:07hair, my

53:08skincare per product. But anyway, with

53:12this one right here, as you're kind of

53:14rubbing it in in the water, the sugar

53:16melts down just like sugar would if you

53:18were using sugar in, you know, making

53:20Kool-Aid or whatever. People still make

53:23Kool-Aid. Do people still make Kool-Aid?

53:25People still make Kool-Aid. Okay, good.

53:27I don't say I ain't want I ain't want to

53:29be telling y'all how ghetto I

53:33am cuz I definitely like a little Hey,

53:36hey, hey. Uh, and a little bit of the,

53:38you know, the big Kool-Aid guy. We used

53:39to kick through. I'm still kicking

53:40through doing with some Kool-Aid. Now,

53:42it's just like the sugar. So, you get a

53:44little warm water. It's going to start

53:46to kind of melt off as the moisture

53:48elements remain on your skin. It smells

53:51amazing. And it comes in different

53:52fragrances. This one right here is

53:54grateful. But we also have Island Joy

53:56and um Timeless Grace. So, I found that

54:00just by taking this here, I'm going just

54:02scrub it off real quick. Real quick.

54:03Tahoe gonna kill me. But you know what?

54:05Tahoe is just going to melt off when you

54:06mop. Okay. It's so wet. It's so I love

54:10them a rose product. Yes, I'm telling

54:12you. You know, arrows is not It don't

54:14even stain, y'all. I'm telling you. I

54:15don't even stain. So, anyway, I'm just

54:18kind of obsessed with looking at my arm.

54:19Every time I see it in the frame, I'm

54:21like, "Jesus Christ, girl. I thought I

54:22was moisturized." But with this one

54:25right here, I realized that I could get

54:27that great lustrious skin without having

54:30to have a whole 30 minute process and

54:33layering 20 different products and

54:34whatever the case is. And when I came

54:36out my shower, I let myself air dry so

54:39that my body can absorb all that

54:40moisture. Just a fun tip, when it comes

54:43to skin care, especially with your face,

54:45you always want to put on your thickest

54:46moisturizers at night time for the most

54:48part because that's when your body is

54:50going to go into a sleep state and

54:52absorb the most of it and really,

54:53really, really kind of give that

54:55nutrition to your skin that it needs to

54:56not dry out. especially if you're

54:58someone who does have a skin condition

55:00like I do, that you want to make sure

55:02that you're actually not just coating

55:03the surface of your skin with moisture,

55:05but you're actually allowing the

55:06moisture to penetrate your skin and

55:08really get up in there. So, best at

55:10night. However, this is great before

55:12you're going to get into a pool because

55:14it'll help your skin not dry out. So, if

55:16you going on vacations, you going on

55:17trips, or you going to the ocean or

55:18whatever the case is, this will help

55:20protect your skin from that itchy

55:21irritationness that you can sometimes

55:23get when you get into chlorine or when

55:25you step into salt water. So, I love it

55:27for all those reasons. And naturally,

55:28just walking down the street and the sun

55:30hitting your skin, you going to be

55:31glistening. So, this is the the

55:33counterpart to fine. This is the one I

55:36would use while you're moisturizing

55:37those boil balls cuz they going to come

55:38out just as shiny as you know I'm saying

55:40this forearm right here. And what's not

55:42better than some shiny looking balls,

55:44you know? Now, I will tell you guys for

55:46the vulva region, we do have a vulva

55:49balm called Revitalize Me. I don't use

55:52this in my vagina area, but I do use it

55:55in the line, the lining of where you

55:57shave because it can actually that

55:58moisture can help with the irritation

56:00that sometimes come from shaving. But

56:02Revitalize Me is going to be the thing

56:03that helps that whole region stay nice

56:05and soft and supple and edible

56:08because I want to be

56:10eaten. I want to be devoured. Breakfast,

56:13lunch, and dinner. Snacks in

56:15between. You know what I'm saying? I'm a

56:17whole meal, you know? So, that's my

56:20favorite favorite favorite body product.

56:22The last two that I want to give you

56:24guys before we cut up out of here and I

56:26give you a few different things to

56:27understand about Bever Candy and if you

56:29want to come over here with us is one

56:31I'm going tell y'all at the tender age

56:33of 35, I am now per menopausal. And I've

56:37been talking about this product to my

56:38older girls who I knew who was going

56:40through the change. I didn't realize I

56:42was going to have to dig into this

56:43recently. This week, this right here, I

56:45didn't realize I was going to need it.

56:46But this right here is called Keep Your

56:48Cool. And because it's also warm weather

56:50in um the the regions that typically

56:52have four seasons and if you're in a

56:53region that's always warm, you won't

56:55want this too. This keep your cool

56:58essentially is a formula from our

57:00wellness collection that literally

57:01allows you to hit yourself just like

57:04that and it's their instant cool down.

57:07Like instant cool down. This is great

57:09for my gym people, okay? when you out

57:12there doing your thing or whatever the

57:13case is and you just had a good workout

57:15and you may not be going straight home

57:17to shower or you may not have time to do

57:18all the extra stuff. But even if you do,

57:20you just want an instant cool down from

57:21a nice workout. I will tell you after

57:23you do your workout and you about to do

57:25your stretch and your wind down, hit

57:27yourself with this. It's going to help

57:28you get a nice serenity and calm. It

57:30reminds me of a spa-like fragrance when

57:32you smell it. So, it's light, it's

57:34crisp, it's airy, and it feels fresh,

57:37right? So, this right here is not going

57:40to leave my fanny pack because I am now

57:42at the phase where I'm experiencing hot

57:44flashes. Go figure. But I am okay

57:47because Bedroom Candy had me together.

57:49So, I will keep you cool. I'll tell you

57:51this though before y'all go yelling at

57:53that man. You know what I'm saying? He

57:56got you

57:58hot. Could you imagine Tahoe if he was

58:01in an argument and a chick was like,

58:03"Yo, this she turn around and spray

58:05herself." I don't know, bro. You would

58:07you be scared? Nah. Yeah. Whatever you

58:08want to do, baby. My that that I ain't

58:11going to lie. Just going to spray

58:12yourself and be made argument. If a dude

58:15did that, I ain't gonna hold you. I

58:16would definitely be like, "Okay." He

58:19tried not to make this a relationship

58:20with violence domestically. All right.

58:23You know what, babe? I'm sorry. You got

58:25it. We will pick and choose the battle

58:27today. But literally, if you get hot or

58:29after you get

58:31busy, you know what I'm saying? Cuz if

58:33you did it right, you going to need to

58:34keep some cool. Well, need a key. So,

58:37cool. I

58:39actually, again, I like to I really like

58:42to take care of his balls, y'all. Just

58:44want you to know that. I really like to

58:45take care of his balls. So, I have to

58:47give it a little sloppy. You know what

58:48I'm saying? He came and I I told I I

58:51think I talked about this on your

58:52podcast once. I I do air dry his balls

58:54with my mouth and um as I am cleaning

58:57him off with the cloth or whatever, I'm

59:00with a nice cool breeze. But if you take

59:03that and you hit a little spritz on the

59:04balls,

59:06Y'all got to know that that area of

59:08their body is already always hot. You

59:10know what I'm saying? And it's a hot

59:12pocket down there. If you put your hand

59:14up under their balls at any time in the

59:15winter time, you're going to instantly

59:17warm up. But I I like to find ways to,

59:21you know, incorporate these products.

59:23And because it's natural, I know it's

59:25not going to be something that gets

59:26warm. So, that's that. And then lastly,

59:28but not least, and I'm not going to talk

59:30about it in depth because on my face, I

59:31have on very natural um makeup today. My

59:35makeup is BK. I use my BK makeup brushes

59:38for it, which really helped me because

59:40I'm not a makeup girl and I have, you

59:42know, I typically pay someone to do it.

59:43But as I've been learning and watching

59:45tutorials on how to do makeup and trying

59:46to remember which brush for what, our

59:48brushes actually have words on them.

59:51This one says glow up, right? This one

59:54right here, if you look at it, is going

59:56to say natural beauty. So, this lets me

59:58know this is my natural foundation

59:59brush. This one right here, if you look

1:00:02at it, it's going to say set your

1:00:04intentions. So, this is great for

1:00:06setting my setting powder, right? So, if

1:00:09you can't remember, it literally has

1:00:10things on it that tells you what to go

1:00:12ahead and do it. So, this one right

1:00:14here, throw some shade. Our um eyeshadow

1:00:18is called throwing shades. So, it's

1:00:20meant to help you understand that this

1:00:22is something that you can use for your

1:00:23eye makeup and so on and so forth. So,

1:00:25you'll kind of go through and you'll

1:00:27kind of play with every brush. This one

1:00:28here, don't blend in. So, this is a

1:00:30blender. Okay. On my eyes, I'm actually

1:00:33wearing one of our throwin shades

1:00:34natural palettes. Um, so if you're the

1:00:36kind of girl who doesn't want makeup to

1:00:38cake on and make you look like another

1:00:40person, you want something that still

1:00:41looks like you, but kind of takes up the

1:00:43look a little soft

1:00:45glam. You see me? I'm throwing

1:00:51shade. But these makeup brushes were

1:00:53also featured on Oprah's favorite

1:00:55things. We made Oprah's favorite things,

1:00:56and that's a list that's hard to make.

1:00:58The thing I love about this case is, as

1:01:00you see, I'm in it right here, but I can

1:01:01also unsnap. Boom. Boom. I take it right

1:01:05here. Now, the brushes have the the the

1:01:07plastic parts that you can slide up, but

1:01:08just for the sake of demonstration, I'm

1:01:09going to do this very quickly. You'll

1:01:11slide this down. You snap it, and it's

1:01:14instantly a carrying case, right? But

1:01:16you can leave it on your countertop in

1:01:18your in your bathrooms and stuff like

1:01:19that. Or you can separate it. And

1:01:21sometimes I use this cup to hold things

1:01:23like my mascara, my eye pencils or

1:01:25whatever. And then once I'm done, I put

1:01:27those back into the makeup bag. Put this

1:01:29back on top. And we on the go. It's

1:01:31sexy. It's rose gold. It's cute. It says

1:01:33candy coated. Just these brushes are

1:01:35definitely one of my my favorite

1:01:37essentials. I know many of times, many

1:01:39of times. But now I'm getting better

1:01:40because I did my own makeup today. I

1:01:42think I did good. Come in the comments.

1:01:44Tell me, did I do a good job? Did I is

1:01:46she giving is she giving 90s beauty

1:01:48because that's what I was going for. I

1:01:49was going for that 90s good look. You

1:01:51know what I'm saying? With the thick

1:01:53natural kink. You know what I'm saying?

1:01:54So, this right here and and then I use

1:01:57our um lipsticks as well. As you can

1:01:59tell, this is my lipstick. Look at the

1:02:01tube. Look at the damn tube. It's about

1:02:04to break down at the top. I be in

1:02:06here. This right here is soft spoken.

1:02:10It's a natural peachy kind of

1:02:12color and gives a nice contrast for my

1:02:14brown lip line just to make my lips have

1:02:17a soft natural look. But the brown lip

1:02:19liner is going to help the the the

1:02:20definition of your lips pop. If you have

1:02:22thinner lips and you want to give more

1:02:24volume, use the lip liner on the outer

1:02:26line. But because I'm a juicy lip girl,

1:02:28I go on the inner line because I don't

1:02:29want my lips to look much bigger than

1:02:31they are. But these right here, guys,

1:02:33are my some of my favorites at BK. I'm

1:02:36not going to lie to you guys. I use a

1:02:38ton of our products, but if I pulled out

1:02:40the ones that I know I touch every week

1:02:42or every day to give to you guys today

1:02:45during this merry, merry, merry month of

1:02:47masturbation, May, because I want y'all

1:02:49to have the tools to get to it, whether

1:02:51you're doing it solo or together. My

1:02:53last tip that I want to leave you all

1:02:55with is that if you are not sure what

1:02:58brings you pleasure, you really want to

1:02:59take time to map your body and use

1:03:01different things, find different

1:03:02sensations. If you want to range it, you

1:03:04can always amplify it with different

1:03:06things. a warming lube, which actually

1:03:08goes on cool and warms up with friction.

1:03:10You can also add in things like our

1:03:12arousal bombs and things like that

1:03:14that's going to make things more

1:03:15sensitive. So, if you one of those

1:03:17girls, this is for my brothers. I got

1:03:20y'all for this one. If you know you take

1:03:2210 years to come, okay? You

1:03:26know, you know, you know, and he down

1:03:30there working relentlessly. Neck

1:03:32hurting, back aching, fingers is

1:03:34cramping inside you. You know what I'm

1:03:37saying? He's stroking, knees, Charlie's

1:03:39caught, all that stuff. Talk to him. You

1:03:41know that you're a little bit of a

1:03:43difficult one. Get you an arousal gel.

1:03:46Just rub it on your [ __ ] Jump start the

1:03:49coochie. How you rev it up? Jump start

1:03:52the coochie. Like in the winter time,

1:03:54sometimes you got to let the car warm

1:03:56up. Warm up the car so that by time he

1:03:59gets to it, it's already prepped. If you

1:04:02meal prepping your food, prep the

1:04:04coochie. Prep the coochie. I'm going

1:04:07make it a little easier for you, boo. I

1:04:08put a little bit of lube sometimes

1:04:10before we even start having sex. Nobody

1:04:11got time to

1:04:13be And it's not to say that I don't get

1:04:15wet on my own, but y'all know how this

1:04:16go. Sometimes we only got 10 minutes.

1:04:19Sometimes we only got 10

1:04:21minutes. I'm trying to get lit. And some

1:04:23of y'all only got 10

1:04:26minutes. I'mma leave that where I left

1:04:29that. W eat your fruits and vegetables,

1:04:31kids. Anyway, closing out. I'm shifting

1:04:34to our moneymaking Monday and I want to

1:04:36let you guys know, you guys can clearly

1:04:38tell that I get high on my own supply. A

1:04:40lot of times people are talking to you

1:04:42about products and they're selling stuff

1:04:43because they have something invested in

1:04:44it. There's not really much in it for

1:04:46me. If you get off, you know what I'm

1:04:49saying? I'm just happy you got some. But

1:04:51it is my power and my pleasure to always

1:04:54be out here changing lives one orgasm at

1:04:56a time. That's what I do as your

1:04:57sexologist bestie. I'm your Wonder Woman

1:04:59of pleasure. Coming with the lasso of

1:05:01realness and truth, boo. I'm never going

1:05:03to lie to you. There are equally

1:05:05products that I love, but there are

1:05:06products at Bever Candy that are not for

1:05:07me. Not that they're not good, but

1:05:09they're not for me. So, you have to hear

1:05:12how I'm talking about these products or

1:05:14any of the people who got to experience

1:05:15them or play with them on our show and

1:05:17say, "You know what? That sounds like

1:05:18what I need." Don't buy things because

1:05:20of the price alone. A lot of times

1:05:23people do that. Don't buy things because

1:05:24everybody you think is popular because a

1:05:26lot of y'all went out there and rushed

1:05:27to get that other flower thing or

1:05:29whatever the case is. And some of y'all

1:05:30clips is a

1:05:31little

1:05:34fried, fried

1:05:37rice, MSG on it, too. Cuz y'all ain't

1:05:40got no good soap bars from Bever Candy.

1:05:43You know what I'm saying? Don't have him

1:05:44going down there and tasting MSG when he

1:05:46go to lick that bean. And that goes for

1:05:48you guys too with your balls because it

1:05:50be, you know, tasting like a little bit

1:05:51of nacho cheese. Not cheese. Yeah. Yeah.

1:05:55I definitely You It smells like a Dorito

1:05:57and it tastes like a fried wing that

1:05:59been fried in the same oil in a Chinese

1:06:00restaurant a couple times when you

1:06:03don't. Anyway, comes out through your

1:06:06pores, y'all. Don't be putting that in

1:06:07my mouth. You know what I'm saying? I'm

1:06:09doing my mouth. I like a little bit of a

1:06:11hint of warn on it, but not to the point

1:06:13that it's like, "Yo, bro, you about to

1:06:14drive up my blood sugar.

1:06:17We got to look out for each other. So

1:06:20those are those. If you are interested

1:06:21in anything that I said, trying out the

1:06:23products, I always say the best way to

1:06:24do it is actually to join us. Right now,

1:06:27you can literally join us for free using

1:06:28the code word audacity. If you go to

1:06:31beverandy.com and join using the code

1:06:33word audacity, you can add one of our

1:06:35free $19 kits to the basket. It's going

1:06:37to literally take off those uh that cost

1:06:40with time you get to checkout. It will

1:06:42ask you for you to put your email and

1:06:44info and your card info in. Not because

1:06:46it's going to charge you now, but

1:06:47because every month we do have a monthly

1:06:49admin fee of $19 in order to keep your

1:06:52website up. That's a very small overhead

1:06:54for a business. It is very expensive to

1:06:56start a business. And for us, you can

1:06:58start one for free and you can do it

1:06:59with minimal overhead. I always tell you

1:07:02that if you you always want to work to

1:07:04sell something to make your investment

1:07:06back and really selling almost one

1:07:08product essentially pays your monthly

1:07:09fee. Everything else on top of that is

1:07:11profit, baby. But you can use your own

1:07:15discount. And at Beverroom Candy, that

1:07:17ranges from 30 to 55% takehome. There's

1:07:19not a lot of places you can go and take

1:07:22that much money home and pocket. At at

1:07:2455%, baby, you may get more than BK. You

1:07:27can literally profit that on a regular

1:07:29basis, but you can add products and use

1:07:30your own discount to get the products

1:07:32you may want to use a tribe. We always

1:07:34have gift sets going on. And let's just

1:07:35say this, if we discount a gift set for

1:07:3720%. You still going to get your

1:07:39discount on top of that. So, that's one

1:07:42way that you can enjoy some of the

1:07:44products. But also, if you're selling

1:07:45them or if you don't really want to go

1:07:46adamantly, just get a website link and

1:07:48hang it in your bio because you got a

1:07:50great social media, go on live, talk

1:07:53about the product you just tried, and

1:07:54you'd be surprised on who might want to

1:07:56buy. It doesn't have to be that

1:07:57complicated. But if you're really

1:07:58serious and you want to go hard in this

1:08:00business, you can do it by working and

1:08:02doing parties. You can do virtual

1:08:04parties. We give you the materials. many

1:08:07of the guide books that I've created

1:08:08literally to help you lead workshops

1:08:10with information from a board-certified

1:08:13clinical sexologist at your disposal.

1:08:15All of these resources you don't get

1:08:17anywhere else that you go to start up a

1:08:18business. You get access to training and

1:08:20you get to enjoy training with not just

1:08:22me but also our other master trainer

1:08:24Freda Hobs where we come on we help you

1:08:26get started and your sponsor just like

1:08:28my sponsors helped me and looked out for

1:08:30me will help look out for you. Either

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1:08:34join a family that's really about that

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1:08:37also come to the place where sexy meets

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1:08:45y'all. I know I know if you watch this

1:08:48episode, you open off of something. But

1:08:50for now, I'm hoping that you're enjoying

1:08:52your masturbation in May. And make sure

1:08:54y'all come back and check in on the

1:08:56Business of Pleasure podcast with your

1:08:58girl Cash. And I cannot wait cuz I plan

1:09:01to put some other individuals on this

1:09:02couch that's going to really help expand

1:09:04your relationship with pleasure, with

1:09:06wellness, and with yourself. Until then,

1:09:09bye y'all.